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Im lazy because Im a college educted but refuse to work more than 40 hours a week. I dont make enough to save real money and everybody is lookin for a second job. I live a dumb in an American city. I should stop blamin capitalism and just be a slave like you. Vaxx on. Big dick Armenian boy got waxxed even though he is high net worth.
3:40 Some people have abusive family members and so would have been ok with all three of those scenarios. You can choose your friend, but not your family.
You got it on the nail. I watch all these people with their excuses. The reality is people only change when the pain of not changing exceeds the comfort of the excuses.
Not necessarily, not even that. Some people are so screwed you could physically threaten them and they won't budge. Because they don't believe in anything at all There were a bunch of young radicals who said they are going to kill themselves by the age of 25
How do you define and excuse? I had a suspected cardiac condition and therefore had to stop playing basketball. To the outside, the weight gain and apathy made me appear lazy because I did not want to put my medical problems out there. Sometimes an 'excuse' is a valid reason not to do something.
@@mediacenterman8583 Its all within reason my man/woman. Those people would never look at a cardiac condition as an excuse in your scenario, reasonable people would say "cardiac condition, I wouldn't be playing either!". I think OPs point is that nobody should feel victims of their circumstance, "excuses" definitely have their validity, if a hike isn't in the cards for your heart, then that is off the table. But don't let the feeling of being a victim of a cardiac condition to effect your relationship with mom, dad, daughter, son, girlfriend, boyfriend, wife, husband or general life outlook. You're valued and have a place in this world.
@@mediacenterman8583 while that may be true i feel like your situation is more of an exception to the “rule.” most individuals will not being going through a physical health issue. i’d say more would be going through a mental health issue if an issue at all. i hope you’re doing well & are healthy today
@mediacenter man, well here is what a NOT excuse is: I don’t have 2/3 of my digestive system, diagnosed with Lupus SER, chronic Crohn’s disease and extreme dump syndrome. Absolutely zero support from family, friends or government. Was homeless 8 years ago. Today, I live where I want, do what I want when I want. I love myself and accept the many pains that I experience every single hour of the day. Yet, I am a self sustaining individual that loves the fact that with only being able to actually work for 3 to 4 hours a day, I do more and earn more than many people with a head full of a self pity party. Shut up and do, there is absolutely a I can’t, that is on you.
"Laziness is a secret ingredient that goes into failure. But it's only kept a secret from the person who fails." - Robert Half Thank you for this message! ♥
Patric, you are my savior. I downloaded this video to watch it every morning before I start my day. I realized I still act like a child waiting to get everything the lazy way. Still need to grow up at the age of 62.
I'm sick of it Patrick, I've been very lazy and haven't been committed to my goals for this year. No more. I'm done. I can't not live with the idea of staying stuck in the same place, I'm choosing God's path (the hard path) over my comfort. Thanks for this video!
Friend give Jesus a chance, thing are getting ugly out there in the world for a reason. You already made the first step man, now do something about it if you don’t wanna be lazy.
I’m all for having an accountability partner to keep one on their toes and not be lazy, however you can’t expect to always have someone who can be there to call you out. You need to be able to call yourself out and be the voice of reason in your own mind first when you must face those harder days.
This is a great perspective that cpuld also mirror/explains why Tate does not believe in depression in a way the term is being abused, misconstrued, and manipulated to one's advantage or comfort zone. One could disregard the reality and sit in a comfy zone while labelling oneself as incapable/depressed, and answers to no one. But 10yrs, 20yrs, 30yrs down the road, one has to answer to one's own biological self.
being a stoic helped me. Had life throw so many hits, homelessness, toxic people, going broke, job to job, depression. Now when something happens i remain numb to it and stay positive.
I remember when Tim Grover said, "If you think the price of winning is too high, wait till you get the bill from regret." The yoga thing caught me off guard. LOL
+Patrick Bet David I have been everything but lazy. I have been doing everything that non- lazy people do. But, was discouraged by the lack of outcomes from the other end. Thankfully, I bumped into this channel and your content. I know now that I am in it for the long run. Thanks for affirmation +Valuetainment
Be encouraged…I understand where you’re coming from..going through it too; this message helped me see how I’ve been using life’s mishaps as an excuse and become lazy🤦🏾♀️.
Hang in there Jesse, you got this! There will be a time in the future you will be grateful for having gone through what youre going through now. Trust the plan!
I lost part of my heart my beautiful sister on December 21th 22 the pain is staying with me but I can’t stop thinking about what could i do better to make her happy. I just decided to show up and play hurt . I showed up in big event and I decided to make her soul happy and change my life Losing family member is the hardest
I haven’t seen the movie but that movie sounds like what happened to my father when he died in 2018. He died to liver failure since he was a heavy drinker. I love my dad and loved him a lot while he was here. I needed to get therapy to cope with the fact that I felt he gave up on his family and kids. Unfortunately he must’ve had demons that he just didn’t know how to defeat. And I miss and love him, yet, I am inspired by it. Because I choose to not be that father. I have been sober, I stopped drinking, I’m getting healthy, I’m choosing better relationships, I have a strong connection with my son, I’m present in his life and because I know what effect my dad dying at 44 years old had on me, so I made the choice to be the best example possible for my son. So I guess I learned “what not to do” from my father. He was a weak man that didn’t know how to defeat his demons. That won’t be me. So maybe this movie will inspire people to do the opposite.
Man this hit home I’m a artist who just had a kid bought a new house an installed a heat pump furnace myself. All that since June 22 my wife works out the house an wen she’s off I can work all day but 3 days was not enough. So wat I do? Bought a big ass can of coffee an sacrifice my sleep I stay up all night for a day then the next day stay up till 3 am an pray my son sleeps to 8 am. Still wasn’t enough to catch up on all my commissioned peices in a timely fashion. So I converted area of my shop to a kid friendly space. Stuff is still hard, but the easy stuff don’t stand out, pat an valuetainment crew you are a great example an huge inspiration
EVerytime I watch these videos, the camera TYPE and QUALITY changes. I seriously love the evolution........although 1% of us can notice these MINUTE things 🧐
In a mostly negative world, your videos are just what the doctor ordered! Being retired, I have to remind self every day to thank God for another day, regardless how it may turn out....
I’m joining the Air Force after college next year. I was fed up just like you said, I’ve been working out, changed my diet and dropped bad habits that were dragging me down. Sometimes it takes seeing someone in your family living such a horrible life because of certain choices they made to really wake you up to reality.
One of my mentors. Made an amazing statement. He said he was ambitiously lazy. He learned how create, buy and control assets. That works for him, while he sleeps. I learned how to do the same. It's great to be the type of lazy. People who work all the time miss out in life. Especially, with all this technology today. You can leverage it to be very lazy.
Recently I’ve joined a few groups and I can’t tell you how helpful it is to have individuals that hold you accountable. I’m buying the book now. You’re very appreciated Pat
The fact that this ‘Valuetainment’ nurtures my brain to a point I actually want to take action in my life, failing marriage, mid thirties, is truly inspiring
I have literally been the whale! From 2020 l was close to death! 19st diabetic and liver and kidneys failing! I have completely sorted my health and lost the weight! I’m 8st! I have hit a lazy spell! This is just what l needed to hear! Absolutely spot on! Im getting up off my butt right now! Thank u! 😊🙏🏻 xxx
Wow ...my first time on this platform... That chart from the book was an eye 👁️ opener... I'm 75 and I don't want to be lazy... Didn't know if I was being lazy... But those characteristics on the chart gave me a tool to evaluate myself... WHAT A RED-LETTER DAY FOR ME...and what a GOD BLESSED DAY FOR YOU ! So happy I subscribed...You helped another human being today, Friend...💋 THANK YOU 👍🙋🌹GA USA 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟
What some people perceive as laziness can really be just a person's contentedness. It can also be depression as well, and I would say that is the case more often than not. Breaking that state of mind as well requires a spark or reminder of one's purpose, and relearning thankfulness and gratitude.
I thoroughly enjoyed this, as a Venezuelan who left venezuela AT 9 years old and has not been able to go back in 24 years, I thank you for showing me around my country … THANK YOU!!!! Awesome content
Thanks for calling a spade a spade, appreciate the bluntness! I go from one extreme to the other constantly, all and then nothing, hoping another year of focus gets me on a more level steady consistent path. Apologizing in advance Pat, pretty sure no matter what happens down the road within a couple years, I'll be too busy to follow you and may lose touch, thanks so much for everything you've taught me! You have no idea how guilty I feel for having never paid for a dime of your efforts :/ Keep putting out that killer apparel, one of these days when I get more on my feet here soon I'll be placing an order so I have something to remember you by!
I need a friend to talk to me like this man. My biggest fear is being on my deathbed feeling regret. And I’m on that path for sure. This video isn’t going to turn a key to make me change but definitely gives me something to think about. Appreciate you sir.
“This video isn’t going to turn a key to make me change…” - So much content only for you to not fix up. You’re still on that path on your death bed, and clearly you don’t fear it enough. Behind every successful man on this Earth, is a unique source of motivation and drive to not give up and work.
@@AccountHolder007 You are right. I don't fear it enough. I say that that's my biggest fear all the time, yet I don't act. That makes me a hypocrite. Fear is a powerful thing that I don't know how to overcome. Thank you for the words.
what about someone like me who has accomplished every goal I ever aspired to but am poor and in anyone's eyes a total failure? I had pretty lofty goals too but they just didnt make money or leave much visible proof theyd been achieved.
I whole heartedly agree with you Patrick! No matter what damage we may have as individuals or struggles we go through the worst thing we can do is curl up in a ball and die. Sometimes we are not meant to have success in certain areas of life but we can certainly strive and do our best in the areas where we are gifted. #stayepic
Have to disagree. Imagine you are a psychopath and you struggle with the desire to hurt people. I think, in that case, its better to withdraw, curl up and die to prevent more misery. A lazy serial killer is better than an energetic one [unless they are Dexter]
@@mediacenterman8583 true however serial killers based on Hollywood movies or tv series don’t seem to be lazy by nature. Perhaps it would be good to keep them away from motivational speakers who use words like (just go take it and grab your opportunity) because they might take it too literally. That’s why I appreciate Patrick. He gives you step by step guidance on how to accomplish each step instead of throwing out words that haven’t been backed up by examples on how successfully complete a business related task.
You will stay where you are until the pain of staying is greater than the pain of moving on. Pain is a valuable asset if viewed in a way that propels you in a direction that is in the better interest of all parties concerned. Wallowing is never an ingredient to success and for many becomes a crutch that will limit opportunities and options. Your options are only limited by your perceptions. Roll through the pain and rocket towards the success that every one can grasp.
The Whale reminds me of the movie “The Wrestler”. The acting was incredible. Mickey Rourke won an Oscar for his portrayal of a aging, washed up wrestling showman who tries to repair his life and his relationship with his daughter, but ultimately relapses back into the solemn lifestyle that he was trying move away from. The ending is very similar, sad and leaving you feeling empty. If one can identify themselves with these characters, it will make you think about what you can do with your own life so that you don’t end up like them. It’s still a great movie.
No matter what, one has to figure out how to keep going forward and find solutions to deal with their circumstances.. not matter how terrible. Complaining is not going to change anything, you will just get more of the same. Feeling sorry for yourself and pointing fingers will not change your circumstances. So... got to keep coming up with creative solutions to deal with these unpleasant circumstances as they will keep happening till we die.
I really liked this video of yours. Grounding, realtalk, and something that I can get value from. I will read the book for context on the graph you showed.
"Create opportunities where you're being held accountable..." This is something I used to FORCE myself to do often, where I'd tell myself that the more ppl I tell I am going to do X,Y,Z the more people I will let down if I don't do it. Definitely a very solid tactic at forcing action and very happy you just reminded me of it! And I most certainly believe laziness is something you create/choose to do. No one's environment should be an excuse, pretty much for anything for that matter. Especially love that funnel graph! Solid video PBD, thank you!👊
I am the Whale, but the exact opposite, I have had weight-loss surgery, and I have built myself back to full-time active work after 9 years of disability. I have lost over 200 lbs, and my daughter has graduated with a Bachelors in Psychology and an Associates in Science, she is working on her Masters now. I struggle daily to remember that I am the master of my destiny, and It is my job to support and love my family.
It really comes down to the fact that he loved food more than his own daughter. Undisciplined people think and believe they are helpless in their situation, when in reality, they are the only ones in control of it.
I like that chart, man. There is a lot of complexity to ambition and motivation. Some scientists even say that gut bacteria and overall health affect the mind for motivation.
Your right... one of the things my grandmother always taught me ..someone else always has it worse...my parents died when I was 12 I never went to foster instead raised myself to be a successful entrepreneur in the construction industry
I appreciate your message. This will inspire a lot of people who are stuck in psychological limbo. The only thing I am critical about what you say is how you view people with mental illness. Your system will work with the majority don’t get me wrong. It’s just the minority need a different viewpoint to see what you’re trying to say. Still, I think you have a good heart. Keep doin what your doin.
Hardest things I dealt with in 2022 and partially still continuing in 2023: 1: Adjusting to being a 1st time mom. Particularly learning to truly put someone else before myself and that the child trumps my wants and even my needs at times. I lived a pretty selfish life before I had a baby so it has been a big adjustment. 2. Having to prioritize important things over "relaxing" by watching mindless entertainment. For example if my baby is napping for 2 hours should I scroll through Instagram the whole time? Or should I clean up the house, go through my e-mails, exercise or do some other productive task? 3. Restarting our lives in another country. A few curve balls were thrown at us in this international move. Now we're trying to figure out how to stabilize our careers and finances over here. Objectively nothing on my list of 3 was that difficult if you compare it to the story in the video. Of course the worse thing that's ever happened to you is the worst thing that's ever happened to you. However, it is important to step back sometimes to gain some perspective and gratitude. The graphic was very useful. I think I'm definitely at the acceptance stage. And for some of these issues at the reason stage. I hope to resolve these issues and reach my goals this year!
wow this video really hit home for me, loved the delivery man its so solid big respect. I will admit it im one of the Lazy people for sure and I felt it in my gut after watching this.
Agree, I once read a Readers Digest article about goal setting and a former head coach of Notre Dame had a lot of input. That book really helped me to get where I am at. I still have times of laziness that can span months or years. Real change is difficult no matter the time always Stand back up when you fall down and move forward. I never thought that my food choices were also life choices. If you have fallen down, no reason not to choose today to Stand Back up and move forward!!!!
Very motivational videos! That's why people want to work for you, they want to be inspired. You have an inspirational story along with some very good habits.
Inspiring..... I struggle between feeling lazy and working within my limitations because of mental health issues and physical health issues (non of my own making) and it's HARD when there's no medical help available these days for what I deal with, but I know that there will be a better day and for me it's the fight to just not give up on life. But still good stuff to dwell on, thx.
I struggle with chronic pain and physical limits after a bad car crash so I can relate. I’m quite lucky to be alive and I try to remember that when the pain gets bad. My limitations allow me to do a lot, but I have to pace myself. I take more breaks than work time. I’ll work half an hour, rest half an hour, which inevitably turns into an hour. It’s so hard to get up every damn time! I haven’t worked in 23 years. My husband supports our family. There’s no pressure for me to do anything. Which is the problem. I know I have to push myself to be as active as possible. Use it or lose it. The decline sets in so quickly! I find that I’m my worst critic - maybe my only critic. My family, close friends, they say things like; You do too much, You’re so brave. My adult son has said I inspire him. To be clear, I do not do a lot. I am not brave, just muddling through. If I did nothing for three days, which absolutely has happened, my family accepts it. I’m having too much pain. There’s no criticism at all. Whether I’m in too much pain to work is irrelevant to my point. I’m my only critic so it’s difficult to shut me up is my point. It is a fight to “not give up” as you said and just stay in bed. So how do you motivate yourself to keep going? I would definitely say I’m lazy; limitations have developed into laziness over two decades. Maybe you might have some advice for me. Our situations seem similar. Why do you think PBD is saying “good stuff to dwell on”? I hear nothing in this particular video that helps our situation. What did you hear that I missed? If nothing else, I hope you can take a bit of solace knowing you’re not alone in your struggles. I will continue to fight the demon called lazy. I’ll continue to thank God for the many blessings in my life. I hope you can do the same!
One person's laziness is another person simply taking an alternative perspective. I exercised as if my life depended on it; Consequently, my body broke down. I also nearly died [equipment failure] by doing exercise . My Father was 'lazy' as hell in relation to physical fitness, but he did not have the physical problems that I now have. Sometimes, its good to be lazy.
@@mediacenterman8583 very silly argument- the answer isn't laziness, its to change your approach to exercise - our bodies were made for movement - your father might not have the problems you have but that isnt to say that his lack of physical movement won't cause him other dire issues.
I agree with Pat. But there are people out there that want to change but just can't. They aren't lazy, they always come to work on time and are the hardest workers on the job site. But they lack prudence and guidance and therefore continuously fail in life over and over again. All of their goals and their dreams never come to fruition. And at the end of the day, they tried really hard...but nothing materialized for them.
It's perfect that The Whale DOESN'T have a storybook ending, a nice happy outcome where he drops the weight and walks off into the sunset with his reconciled daughter. That's the point! He wasn't willing to change, his life ended and his daughter was devastated. Those things right there can be major motivators to get viewers to turn their lives around because you're gonna be screwed if you don't! It's the gut-punch, the bucket of ice water in the face. THAT'S the major takeaway from that ending.
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Pat, take a look at the Emotional Tone Scale. It is down to a true depiction of ALL emotional Tones in their finite form.
Masterworks seems like a complete scam.
Im lazy because Im a college educted but refuse to work more than 40 hours a week. I dont make enough to save real money and everybody is lookin for a second job. I live a dumb in an American city. I should stop blamin capitalism and just be a slave like you. Vaxx on. Big dick Armenian boy got waxxed even though he is high net worth.
3:40 Some people have abusive family members and so would have been ok with all three of those scenarios. You can choose your friend, but not your family.
Khoona..that part you talk about the movie just killed it and made me laugh hard ...love it
You got it on the nail. I watch all these people with their excuses. The reality is people only change when the pain of not changing exceeds the comfort of the excuses.
Not necessarily, not even that. Some people are so screwed you could physically threaten them and they won't budge. Because they don't believe in anything at all
There were a bunch of young radicals who said they are going to kill themselves by the age of 25
How do you define and excuse? I had a suspected cardiac condition and therefore had to stop playing basketball. To the outside, the weight gain and apathy made me appear lazy because I did not want to put my medical problems out there. Sometimes an 'excuse' is a valid reason not to do something.
@@mediacenterman8583 Its all within reason my man/woman. Those people would never look at a cardiac condition as an excuse in your scenario, reasonable people would say "cardiac condition, I wouldn't be playing either!". I think OPs point is that nobody should feel victims of their circumstance, "excuses" definitely have their validity, if a hike isn't in the cards for your heart, then that is off the table. But don't let the feeling of being a victim of a cardiac condition to effect your relationship with mom, dad, daughter, son, girlfriend, boyfriend, wife, husband or general life outlook. You're valued and have a place in this world.
@@mediacenterman8583 while that may be true i feel like your situation is more of an exception to the “rule.” most individuals will not being going through a physical health issue. i’d say more would be going through a mental health issue if an issue at all. i hope you’re doing well & are healthy today
@mediacenter man, well here is what a NOT excuse is:
I don’t have 2/3 of my digestive system, diagnosed with Lupus SER, chronic Crohn’s disease and extreme dump syndrome. Absolutely zero support from family, friends or government. Was homeless 8 years ago. Today, I live where I want, do what I want when I want. I love myself and accept the many pains that I experience every single hour of the day. Yet, I am a self sustaining individual that loves the fact that with only being able to actually work for 3 to 4 hours a day, I do more and earn more than many people with a head full of a self pity party. Shut up and do, there is absolutely a I can’t, that is on you.
"Laziness is a secret ingredient that goes into failure. But it's only kept a secret from the person who fails." - Robert Half Thank you for this message! ♥
but laziness is also the mother of invention.
Patric, you are my savior. I downloaded this video to watch it every morning before I start my day. I realized I still act like a child waiting to get everything the lazy way. Still need to grow up at the age of 62.
Wow.
PBD is that dope uncle that's always pushing us ❤️
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I'm sick of it Patrick, I've been very lazy and haven't been committed to my goals for this year. No more. I'm done. I can't not live with the idea of staying stuck in the same place, I'm choosing God's path (the hard path) over my comfort. Thanks for this video!
Same fuck this shit imma grind my ass off thanks patrick
So, how's the progress
Friend give Jesus a chance, thing are getting ugly out there in the world for a reason. You already made the first step man, now do something about it if you don’t wanna be lazy.
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I’m all for having an accountability partner to keep one on their toes and not be lazy, however you can’t expect to always have someone who can be there to call you out. You need to be able to call yourself out and be the voice of reason in your own mind first when you must face those harder days.
Love it !!!!!!!
My dad always used to tell me . “ it’s your fault .You put yourself there .” Jack LaLanne
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This is a great perspective that cpuld also mirror/explains why Tate does not believe in depression in a way the term is being abused, misconstrued, and manipulated to one's advantage or comfort zone.
One could disregard the reality and sit in a comfy zone while labelling oneself as incapable/depressed, and answers to no one. But 10yrs, 20yrs, 30yrs down the road, one has to answer to one's own biological self.
being a stoic helped me. Had life throw so many hits, homelessness, toxic people, going broke, job to job, depression. Now when something happens i remain numb to it and stay positive.
Brother, I get value from everything you put out. Thank you so much!
I remember when Tim Grover said, "If you think the price of winning is too high, wait till you get the bill from regret."
The yoga thing caught me off guard. LOL
+Patrick Bet David I have been everything but lazy. I have been doing everything that non- lazy people do. But, was discouraged by the lack of outcomes from the other end. Thankfully, I bumped into this channel and your content. I know now that I am in it for the long run. Thanks for affirmation +Valuetainment
Brother you have hit it rite on the nail for the past 3 weeks . Inspired!!! Thank you
Thank you Patrick. Going through a divorce currently and your content has been helping me grow through it. Keep up the good fight 💪
Be encouraged…I understand where you’re coming from..going through it too; this message helped me see how I’ve been using life’s mishaps as an excuse and become lazy🤦🏾♀️.
I hope you all get through this successfully and safely
Praying for you brother. I can’t imagine what you’re growing through. You definitely sound like you’re growing through it though.
Hang in there Jesse, you got this! There will be a time in the future you will be grateful for having gone through what youre going through now. Trust the plan!
God bless you Jesse
This dude is the alternative father figure we all need. Thanks man.
He’s not my daddy but maybe he is yours
Well put... has alot of knowledge and accolades for mid 40s
Thanks Pat, I needed to hear this. Even though I understand the concepts it's easy to fall back into old habits if we're not vigilant.
You got this homie
@@roryhennessey1983 thanks brotha! 💪😎
I lost part of my heart my beautiful sister on December 21th 22 the pain is staying with me but I can’t stop thinking about what could i do better to make her happy.
I just decided to show up and play hurt . I showed up in big event and I decided to make her soul happy and change my life
Losing family member is the hardest
This man has been on the opposite side of freedom. It gives him such a valuable perspective.
Awesome lecture Pat. We all need ppl like this in our lives to kick our butts when we are in standby mode
I haven’t seen the movie but that movie sounds like what happened to my father when he died in 2018. He died to liver failure since he was a heavy drinker. I love my dad and loved him a lot while he was here. I needed to get therapy to cope with the fact that I felt he gave up on his family and kids. Unfortunately he must’ve had demons that he just didn’t know how to defeat. And I miss and love him, yet, I am inspired by it. Because I choose to not be that father. I have been sober, I stopped drinking, I’m getting healthy, I’m choosing better relationships, I have a strong connection with my son, I’m present in his life and because I know what effect my dad dying at 44 years old had on me, so I made the choice to be the best example possible for my son. So I guess I learned “what not to do” from my father. He was a weak man that didn’t know how to defeat his demons. That won’t be me. So maybe this movie will inspire people to do the opposite.
We all need to get our acts together and make 2023 a truly transformative year. Great video Patrick!
Yes we cannot overthink just act
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Man this hit home I’m a artist who just had a kid bought a new house an installed a heat pump furnace myself. All that since June 22 my wife works out the house an wen she’s off I can work all day but 3 days was not enough. So wat I do? Bought a big ass can of coffee an sacrifice my sleep I stay up all night for a day then the next day stay up till 3 am an pray my son sleeps to 8 am. Still wasn’t enough to catch up on all my commissioned peices in a timely fashion. So I converted area of my shop to a kid friendly space. Stuff is still hard, but the easy stuff don’t stand out, pat an valuetainment crew you are a great example an huge inspiration
Truth! Tough love is to see reality for what it is. Live is hard, be harder
Thank you Pat. Honestly, my past problems were not as catastrophic as I project them to be. Thank you so much.
The content here was always top notch but recently it’s just out of this world. Please keep it up!
EVerytime I watch these videos, the camera TYPE and QUALITY changes.
I seriously love the evolution........although 1% of us can notice these MINUTE things 🧐
In a mostly negative world, your videos are just what the doctor ordered! Being retired, I have to remind self every day to thank God for another day, regardless how it may turn out....
I'm older than dirt, lost everything, yet still want more. Appreciate your energy making this video to inspire me to COMPLETE one task a day.
you inspire so many people. please keep up the good work.
I’m joining the Air Force after college next year. I was fed up just like you said, I’ve been working out, changed my diet and dropped bad habits that were dragging me down. Sometimes it takes seeing someone in your family living such a horrible life because of certain choices they made to really wake you up to reality.
Join the Marines, they're less screwed up. And have better traditions.
One of my mentors. Made an amazing statement. He said he was ambitiously lazy. He learned how create, buy and control assets. That works for him, while he sleeps. I learned how to do the same. It's great to be the type of lazy. People who work all the time miss out in life. Especially, with all this technology today. You can leverage it to be very lazy.
Recently I’ve joined a few groups and I can’t tell you how helpful it is to have individuals that hold you accountable. I’m buying the book now. You’re very appreciated Pat
You kept it real, and you kept it honest. God bless you and all the subscribers too 🙏
The fact that this ‘Valuetainment’ nurtures my brain to a point I actually want to take action in my life, failing marriage, mid thirties, is truly inspiring
I have literally been the whale! From 2020 l was close to death! 19st diabetic and liver and kidneys failing! I have completely sorted my health and lost the weight! I’m 8st! I have hit a lazy spell! This is just what l needed to hear! Absolutely spot on! Im getting up off my butt right now! Thank u! 😊🙏🏻 xxx
Wow ...my first time on this platform... That chart from the book was an eye 👁️ opener... I'm 75 and I don't want to be lazy... Didn't know if I was being lazy... But those characteristics on the chart gave me a tool to evaluate myself... WHAT A RED-LETTER DAY FOR ME...and what a GOD BLESSED DAY FOR YOU ! So happy I subscribed...You helped another human being today, Friend...💋
THANK YOU 👍🙋🌹GA USA 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟
These are the type of PBD video's that got me to love your channel. More please!
the problem is that its like being lazy is an addiction, you know its bad, you're trying to stop but you keep going back.
Desire should unquestionably be way way higher. Everything starts with desire. It shouldn’t be near negative terms at all.
What some people perceive as laziness can really be just a person's contentedness. It can also be depression as well, and I would say that is the case more often than not. Breaking that state of mind as well requires a spark or reminder of one's purpose, and relearning thankfulness and gratitude.
I thoroughly enjoyed this, as a Venezuelan who left venezuela AT 9 years old and has not been able to go back in 24 years, I thank you for showing me around my country … THANK YOU!!!! Awesome content
Been watching Pat walk the talk for awhile now and he’s right
Great teachings as usual!! Great job Pat!!
Thanks for calling a spade a spade, appreciate the bluntness! I go from one extreme to the other constantly, all and then nothing, hoping another year of focus gets me on a more level steady consistent path.
Apologizing in advance Pat, pretty sure no matter what happens down the road within a couple years, I'll be too busy to follow you and may lose touch, thanks so much for everything you've taught me!
You have no idea how guilty I feel for having never paid for a dime of your efforts :/ Keep putting out that killer apparel, one of these days when I get more on my feet here soon I'll be placing an order so I have something to remember you by!
Just like time… just keep moving forward no matter what the situation is!
I need a friend to talk to me like this man. My biggest fear is being on my deathbed feeling regret. And I’m on that path for sure. This video isn’t going to turn a key to make me change but definitely gives me something to think about. Appreciate you sir.
Your like me, you are your worst enemy
“This video isn’t going to turn a key to make me change…” - So much content only for you to not fix up. You’re still on that path on your death bed, and clearly you don’t fear it enough. Behind every successful man on this Earth, is a unique source of motivation and drive to not give up and work.
@@AccountHolder007 You are right. I don't fear it enough. I say that that's my biggest fear all the time, yet I don't act. That makes me a hypocrite. Fear is a powerful thing that I don't know how to overcome. Thank you for the words.
@@requiem-ph5xx But how do we stop being that?
what about someone like me who has accomplished every goal I ever aspired to but am poor and in anyone's eyes a total failure? I had pretty lofty goals too but they just didnt make money or leave much visible proof theyd been achieved.
I whole heartedly agree with you Patrick! No matter what damage we may have as individuals or struggles we go through the worst thing we can do is curl up in a ball and die. Sometimes we are not meant to have success in certain areas of life but we can certainly strive and do our best in the areas where we are gifted. #stayepic
Have to disagree. Imagine you are a psychopath and you struggle with the desire to hurt people. I think, in that case, its better to withdraw, curl up and die to prevent more misery. A lazy serial killer is better than an energetic one [unless they are Dexter]
@@mediacenterman8583 true however serial killers based on Hollywood movies or tv series don’t seem to be lazy by nature. Perhaps it would be good to keep them away from motivational speakers who use words like (just go take it and grab your opportunity) because they might take it too literally. That’s why I appreciate Patrick. He gives you step by step guidance on how to accomplish each step instead of throwing out words that haven’t been backed up by examples on how successfully complete a business related task.
You will stay where you are until the pain of staying is greater than the pain of moving on. Pain is a valuable asset if viewed in a way that propels you in a direction that is in the better interest of all parties concerned. Wallowing is never an ingredient to success and for many becomes a crutch that will limit opportunities and options. Your options are only limited by your perceptions. Roll through the pain and rocket towards the success that every one can grasp.
The Whale reminds me of the movie “The Wrestler”. The acting was incredible. Mickey Rourke won an Oscar for his portrayal of a aging, washed up wrestling showman who tries to repair his life and his relationship with his daughter, but ultimately relapses back into the solemn lifestyle that he was trying move away from. The ending is very similar, sad and leaving you feeling empty. If one can identify themselves with these characters, it will make you think about what you can do with your own life so that you don’t end up like them. It’s still a great movie.
I like that in your videos you mention interesting books you have read. I immediately want to read them too. Thank you
No matter what, one has to figure out how to keep going forward and find solutions to deal with their circumstances.. not matter how terrible. Complaining is not going to change anything, you will just get more of the same. Feeling sorry for yourself and pointing fingers will not change your circumstances. So... got to keep coming up with creative solutions to deal with these unpleasant circumstances as they will keep happening till we die.
I really liked this video of yours. Grounding, realtalk, and something that I can get value from. I will read the book for context on the graph you showed.
"Create opportunities where you're being held accountable..." This is something I used to FORCE myself to do often, where I'd tell myself that the more ppl I tell I am going to do X,Y,Z the more people I will let down if I don't do it. Definitely a very solid tactic at forcing action and very happy you just reminded me of it!
And I most certainly believe laziness is something you create/choose to do. No one's environment should be an excuse, pretty much for anything for that matter. Especially love that funnel graph! Solid video PBD, thank you!👊
No I think is all about our ego , and we are our decisions! Not really laziness but stubbornness
This video just made me realize and accept I’m just being lazy.
I am the Whale, but the exact opposite, I have had weight-loss surgery, and I have built myself back to full-time active work after 9 years of disability. I have lost over 200 lbs, and my daughter has graduated with a Bachelors in Psychology and an Associates in Science, she is working on her Masters now. I struggle daily to remember that I am the master of my destiny, and It is my job to support and love my family.
I agree with the teaching but its something difficult to stop to be crazy about challenges we are facing in our daily lives.
I think most won't change as long as they are getting by. Getting by is a win for most people.
It really comes down to the fact that he loved food more than his own daughter. Undisciplined people think and believe they are helpless in their situation, when in reality, they are the only ones in control of it.
"You either live facing your fears or die tasting your tears"
-Tijuana Jackson
This is exactly what I needed to hear today. Thanks Pat.
I really appreciate your passion and inspiration, intelligents,thank you
I like that chart, man. There is a lot of complexity to ambition and motivation. Some scientists even say that gut bacteria and overall health affect the mind for motivation.
Your right... one of the things my grandmother always taught me ..someone else always has it worse...my parents died when I was 12 I never went to foster instead raised myself to be a successful entrepreneur in the construction industry
I now have a routine, I watch 2 to 4 PBD every morning before i start the day. Very inspirational.
This video came just on time! I needed to hear this.
Great message Pat
I appreciate your message. This will inspire a lot of people who are stuck in psychological limbo. The only thing I am critical about what you say is how you view people with mental illness. Your system will work with the majority don’t get me wrong. It’s just the minority need a different viewpoint to see what you’re trying to say.
Still, I think you have a good heart. Keep doin what your doin.
This is the best TH-cam channel!!! Love you pat!
Hardest things I dealt with in 2022 and partially still continuing in 2023:
1: Adjusting to being a 1st time mom. Particularly learning to truly put someone else before myself and that the child trumps my wants and even my needs at times. I lived a pretty selfish life before I had a baby so it has been a big adjustment.
2. Having to prioritize important things over "relaxing" by watching mindless entertainment. For example if my baby is napping for 2 hours should I scroll through Instagram the whole time? Or should I clean up the house, go through my e-mails, exercise or do some other productive task?
3. Restarting our lives in another country. A few curve balls were thrown at us in this international move. Now we're trying to figure out how to stabilize our careers and finances over here.
Objectively nothing on my list of 3 was that difficult if you compare it to the story in the video. Of course the worse thing that's ever happened to you is the worst thing that's ever happened to you. However, it is important to step back sometimes to gain some perspective and gratitude. The graphic was very useful. I think I'm definitely at the acceptance stage. And for some of these issues at the reason stage. I hope to resolve these issues and reach my goals this year!
wow this video really hit home for me, loved the delivery man its so solid big respect. I will admit it im one of the Lazy people for sure and I felt it in my gut after watching this.
Thank you for this!
Thank you Patrick
He's got you on an up and down emotional rollercoaster.
I choose to change! Thanks for sharing the value packed advice Pat 💪🏾❤
Pat is the real deal! Thank you!
I think it's made to be provocative. And there is good in that.
Agree, I once read a Readers Digest article about goal setting and a former head coach of Notre Dame had a lot of input. That book really helped me to get where I am at. I still have times of laziness that can span months or years. Real change is difficult no matter the time always Stand back up when you fall down and move forward. I never thought that my food choices were also life choices. If you have fallen down, no reason not to choose today to Stand Back up and move forward!!!!
Very motivational videos! That's why people want to work for you, they want to be inspired. You have an inspirational story along with some very good habits.
patrick is the dad we never knew we needed
Great content for lazy people and definitly touching parts of my lazy life. Great explenation of consciousness and it's levels.
Mr Pat Bet-David this is spot on…thank you!💡
Thank you, The plain things are the main things and the Main things are the plain things.
I needed this. Thank you!
My neighbor is just like the man in
"The Whale". My heart breaks knowing he's been suffering for years and that I don't know how to help him. 💔
Inspiring..... I struggle between feeling lazy and working within my limitations because of mental health issues and physical health issues (non of my own making) and it's HARD when there's no medical help available these days for what I deal with, but I know that there will be a better day and for me it's the fight to just not give up on life. But still good stuff to dwell on, thx.
I struggle with chronic pain and physical limits after a bad car crash so I can relate. I’m quite lucky to be alive and I try to remember that when the pain gets bad.
My limitations allow me to do a lot, but I have to pace myself. I take more breaks than work time. I’ll work half an hour, rest half an hour, which inevitably turns into an hour. It’s so hard to get up every damn time!
I haven’t worked in 23 years. My husband supports our family. There’s no pressure for me to do anything. Which is the problem. I know I have to push myself to be as active as possible. Use it or lose it. The decline sets in so quickly!
I find that I’m my worst critic - maybe my only critic. My family, close friends, they say things like; You do too much, You’re so brave. My adult son has said I inspire him. To be clear, I do not do a lot. I am not brave, just muddling through.
If I did nothing for three days, which absolutely has happened, my family accepts it. I’m having too much pain. There’s no criticism at all.
Whether I’m in too much pain to work is irrelevant to my point. I’m my only critic so it’s difficult to shut me up is my point.
It is a fight to “not give up” as you said and just stay in bed. So how do you motivate yourself to keep going? I would definitely say I’m lazy; limitations have developed into laziness over two decades.
Maybe you might have some advice for me. Our situations seem similar. Why do you think PBD is saying “good stuff to dwell on”? I hear nothing in this particular video that helps our situation. What did you hear that I missed?
If nothing else, I hope you can take a bit of solace knowing you’re not alone in your struggles. I will continue to fight the demon called lazy. I’ll continue to thank God for the many blessings in my life. I hope you can do the same!
Must be nice
One person's laziness is another person simply taking an alternative perspective. I exercised as if my life depended on it; Consequently, my body broke down. I also nearly died [equipment failure] by doing exercise . My Father was 'lazy' as hell in relation to physical fitness, but he did not have the physical problems that I now have. Sometimes, its good to be lazy.
@@mediacenterman8583 very silly argument- the answer isn't laziness, its to change your approach to exercise - our bodies were made for movement - your father might not have the problems you have but that isnt to say that his lack of physical movement won't cause him other dire issues.
I love you, man! Thanks for the message!
I love this man. He oozes masculinity that I would love to have. Such a manly man.
Amazing video ... this video deserves one million views
Monday morning starts off well with a PBD video
"As if 2023's not gonna come with it's own sets of problems" says it all! "4 years now your script's been the same."
Thank you!
Thank you Sir. This is what I needed
I'll come back to this video once I watch the movie !
I agree with Pat. But there are people out there that want to change but just can't. They aren't lazy, they always come to work on time and are the hardest workers on the job site. But they lack prudence and guidance and therefore continuously fail in life over and over again. All of their goals and their dreams never come to fruition. And at the end of the day, they tried really hard...but nothing materialized for them.
i love you pat, thank you
It's perfect that The Whale DOESN'T have a storybook ending, a nice happy outcome where he drops the weight and walks off into the sunset with his reconciled daughter. That's the point! He wasn't willing to change, his life ended and his daughter was devastated. Those things right there can be major motivators to get viewers to turn their lives around because you're gonna be screwed if you don't! It's the gut-punch, the bucket of ice water in the face. THAT'S the major takeaway from that ending.
Sincerely one of the best pieces I’ve seen, Pat. - Captivating!!
Such a powerful message Pat, thank you very much. Awesome
Incredible video! Thanks a lot
Well said