20 Rules For Young Men
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#1 there are two types of women , and two types of men : virtuous, and non-virtuous . #2 there is no justice system. The “justice system “ was created to “level”the playing field (balance the scales) by insuring the wealthy wont have an unfair advantage. #3 there are 7 deadly sins , and the owners manual is right. . #4 for a man , your future happiness/success is directly proportional to your womans virtues #5 love is the most important thing on earth. #6 Seek knowledge and wisdom always, wisdom being greater #7 “the best way to pray is in private”. #8 a whorish woman will turn your children against you
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Giving wrong advice & running propaganda for money is not a good thing. Let people see what is real, don't brainwash them into looking at world in a particular way! Be a man, have some ethics, don't sell your children's to the devil! Be compassionate, allow people to be free, let them grow on their own, in their own way!!
20 rules:
1. Know the difference between love and lust.
2. It's OK to go to movies by yourself.
3. Hygiene is more important than you think.
4. Never date a friend's ex.
5. Stay informed on what's going on. Don't be a sheep.
6. Have sense of humor but don't joke about dreams and goals.
7. Study the type of people who upset you and why.
8. Stand up to bullies. You'll only have to do it once.
9. Don't bully people weaker than you.
10. Learn how to tell stories.
11. Don't lean on porn to be better in bed. Read the right books.
12. You never marry a girl. You marry her entire family.
13. Don't complain - you seem helpless. 80%/20%
14. Be impressed by the right things. Things that matter.
15. When coming across a successful person talk / impress less. Ask more
16. Have a memorable style.
17. Don't feel guilty for being ambitious.
18. Be mentally and emotionally ready to lose loved ones.
19. Always have some cash, condoms, and a power bank.
20. Be aware of your level of sensitivity.
21. Regardless of what you get paid per hour, give your best. Effort + Attitude matters.
# wrt 12.. visa versa . i only like him , not the family. what the hell i got myself stuck into. what was I thinking
Rules for young men .
#1 don't stick your finger in there
#2 never pull it out in public
#3 he who smelled it delt it
#4 finders keepers
#5 if it ain't broke dont fix it
#6 better late than never
#7 not illegal if you dont get caught
#8 beaten ain't cheaten
#9. Deny deny deny
#10 don't do today what you can put off till tomorrow.
#11 save the best for last
#12 always breakup before Valentine day
#13 work smart not hard
#14 tricks are for kids
#15 Homie don't play that
#16 if you ain't first your last
#17 never mix dark with clear liquor
#18 No Fat Chicks
#19 always Tip 15%
#20 promises are meant to be broken
@@nobodynone1297 Ricky Bobby would be proud!
Posts like these promote laziness and the short attention span that people have today.
👌🏼Thanks Potato!
This is the type of education we should have in schools
Schools are DESIGNED to breed workers not leaders
Totally agreeing with this!
They dont want everyone to be successful
I'm not sending my kid in that school, I'll rather read philosophers than listening to an MLM marketing guru, as all knows is how pay this employees less than minimum wage, he contributes nothing like there productive value to there business.
They werent made for that. They were made to produce obedient workers, or nowadays consumers.
22. Control your emotions and remain calm. If you must be angry, use it out of necessity rather than letting it use you. Controlling your emotions is a sign of strength.
23. Take a look at yourself first before blaming others. Take accountability and responsibilities for your own actions.
24. Be willing to walk away from from toxic people.
25. Have discipline. You are not your emotions. Your emotions are fickle but discipline can be your greatest weapon over it.
thanks
Thanks a lot bud
thanks bro
Cheers mate
I think it's important to distinguish between not letting anger control you and doing shit you regret and being ok with showing emotion. it should be ok to collapse on someone you need, it should be ok to get passionate about something you care about and it should be ok for a man to cry Infront of people. having the ability to express your emotions like that is the strongest thing a boy can do
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Adapt to a lifestyle, be thrifty, set a budget, save money and build more streams.
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*Every family has a person who breaks the chain of poverty. I hope you will be that person!!*
I’m gone be that person
My family is only one step ahead the poverty line. But I’ll take it a step further.
Idk why this comment made me tear up
I am that guy
Thanks so much!
Played this to my son. Now, he's the head of the family.
Bruh
💀
Is your son Roman Reigns?
"Life can suck at times, and suck in major ways" - You put it really well. 14:39
I've watched a lot of business guys, motivation self help stuff, but out of everybody in the genre that he is in Pat has always seemed like the most genuine and down to earth person on here. I'm 21 right now and I've been listening to you since I was in early high school, now I have an amazing business mentor that I work with and really feel good about my future. You're the man!
As a young man without a father figure, knowledge like this is extremely important. Thank you Pat for being a fantastic role model for many people including me.
Hey, watch Jordan Peterson, he’s helped me a lot
Listen to the comment below, Jordan Peterson is awesome
@@George-ps5 JP is dope
Don’t let it beat you down I’m 34 and I been under the same roof as my father and to be honest I never had the best relationship with him he had his own demons that he is still fighting today. The first thing to do is to erase the thought that he’s not there because of you because that’s not true. Parenting actually sucks in this world because their parents sucked to. Second thing is to use it as some type of motivation and strive to be better and make better decisions and model yourself as the type of man you would want your father to be. It’s easier said then done but if you don’t have kids, you’re already ahead because you have more time to focus on yourself don’t have a kid until you have enough money to put him or her through college twice, not saying college is for everyone but just have an abundance of money saved and building. Third understand that we all have our issues and some people just haven’t worked theirs out yet. I didn’t have a good relationship with my dad but I paid attention to what he shown. He went to work came home put food and clothes on our backs and when we were really young he did things with us, but then he got hurt and he is now disabled from working so hard. I carried around something in me blaming him blaming myself for things and I went out there working hard trying to show for something because I wanted to impress him and two years ago I swear to you the same thing happened to me I hurt my back and I could be potentially disabled from working as well. So I know that void can make you angry but if you apply these tips along with what was said in the video and you don’t have to be rude but you can’t let anyone take you for granted especially women because now that I’m older I see why my dad wasn’t the dad I wanted he went through a rough patch losing both of his parents by the age of 13 and he lost his brother and 3 sisters and my mom has helped him out and they’ve been married for 33 years but it’s not the best because the family on his side disapproved it but people do what they want to but now that I’m older and got to see things with my own eyes I see how one can be overwhelmed with life some people just give up. Im here to tell you don’t ever give up and always take care of your health mentally,physically, emotionally and spiritually and you will be fine! You’re never too old or too young to learn something keep learning young king
A young man with out father harder . I wish I laird this when I was 20
Bonus: 22. Always beat your prior best in everything you do.
23. Acting “as if” all the time will eventually require you to become who you’re acting like.
24. Work for a great leader to shadow and duplicate. The right leader matters more than the
right industry.
25. Don’t have too many rules. It’ll overwhelm you.
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The irony in rule 25
26. Imagine (picture) the success of the next moment you are reaching for.
I don’t understand 24
@@technicaldifficulties123 then you arent chosen
When you invest you're buying a day you don't have to work
Assets that can make you rich
Bitcoin
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@@jeremygood3246 you're right it's obvious a lot of people remain poor due to ignorance
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I advice everyone to start investing and never rely on just salary. No billionaire made it through salary
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"Be mentally and emotionally prepared to lose love ones" - this made me realize just how lucky I have been in terms of most of my loved ones still being here for so long, makes me appreciate them even more, thank you!
I would add to this, Get out of your comfort zone as much as you can. You will feel awkward, anxious, nervous, uncomfortable....But that's exactly what you should be feeling. Embrace that feeling until it is comfortable. I lived the first 25 year of my life in my small bubble and often wondered why shit wasn't happening. Exposure and repetition are key. You will fail a lot, but you will get better. This could be anything from Skydiving to asking that girl/boy you find very attractive. It's all the same feeling. If you build up that courage and make it a habit, your life will change in ways you can't ever imagine.
I needed to see this, thank you
Agreed^^ this is inspiring bro. Glad you’re on a better path
Woah this gave me chills.
I just moved out from my family home 2 months ago, I'm living completely alone in an other continent.
It's not easy but I enjoy my life, and I'll keep growing.
Thank you random internet stranger
I dumped a girl once for joking about my goals instantly realized we had totally different outlooks in life
Good for you....!
She was never worth you.
A girl that laughs at your goals, is still immature. That's good you realized it early, she wasn't the one.
You did the right thing. Let her keep joking once you've made it.
Same - I blocked a "friend"/long-time acquaintance for poking fun at my goals. I didn't bother ending the connection with him officially - I just cut him off without notice. People who joke about that yet expect you to take their goals seriously do not even deserve the courtesy of a "break-up," in my opinion.
@@vickilau716 👍
Being ready to lose a loved one is a very good lesson that's one of those unconfortable things people try to avoid talking about. I lost my mom unexpectedly at 21, and mentally it set me back years due to grief, denial, and the effect of feeling sorry for myself and making poor short sighted decisions for "relief" at the cost of my longer term goals.
Being grateful for time you had, and holding onto that perspective and positives is extremely important even when the negatives are hard to cope with.
Be the person your parents raised you to be in their honor. They are still watching and while their life may be over, yours is not. as Jordan Peterson said, be the strongest man at your father's funeral.
Much love for this man's content and lessons.
Appreciate the time you took to think, write and produce. I know about these things from past experiences but its always good to have a refresher or be able to make bullet points in my own conversations with friends or family. Great video!
The thing I respect the most about Pat is he wins in every aspect of life, not just entrepreneurship.
that can be VERY bad, did u see Pat snap on his workers when one tripped on the wire n he though the video was over. but i understood both ends of the plate, he screamed i hired 6 of u f*ckin guys and the #1 podcast in the world has one person that records and edits(speaking because his ego has him on the moon, cause Joe Rogan finally aired Pat's episode, and Jamie does all Joe's Podcast, but not live... someone tripped on a wire!! and whoever Zack is that works behind the scenes had it) now go look at some of his first videos, idk, he literally went crazy for a 30 second ⏸.... yoooooo @hello thats crazy right?
You know him personally and are intimately aware of his family life I presume
@@beatsbythekilo link?
@@beatsbythekilo what is the time stamp for this incident
I completely agree
Patrick is a mentor to so many young men, including me
and me im 39
i just started first year of engineering and pat has given me the lesson to go for what i want and not give up
Same
Broooo, I freaking love your videos man, I learned so much from you.
we are here
I have a father, we have never discussed almost half of the things in the list. Thanks Pat, for being transparent and setting an example for us
Dude the effort and attitude is so true. 4 years ago I was borderline homeless and couldn’t cope with my father passing and I had some drug problems. I decided to fully give myself to whoever offered me employment summers ago. In fact I had a job at earth fare stocking drinks, chic fil a taking orders, CVS as a cashier, and I worked at a mover company to make ends meet. I ended up getting 5 promotions with CVS and become a store manager then was offered corporate position for a big grocery store corporate position. One of the lady’s who worked with me while I was a store manager saw my work ethic and gave me a verbal offer for the job. None of this would have been possible if I just stayed the same old person who didn’t want a better life.
"Be mentally and emotionally prepared to lose love ones" - This hit home. I just lost a loved 2 days ago and it sucks really bad. Thank you so much for sharing Patrick. I wasn't ready but next time I'm gonna be.
How can you be mentally prepare for that?
I hope you’re doing well brother🫶🫶
Sorry bro be strong!
As a 25 year young man who’s dad isn’t around much I really needed this thanks pat your awesome man I hope I can meet you one day
#13 Hits so hard, and is so true. Most people don’t care about your problems. Not only that, they don’t care about your story, or what cool you got to do. It’s sad but true.
Learn to be someone who cares for others, and find people who also care
The most underrated video on the internet. Hands down. Every guy needs to watch this video.
I'm a 53yo Hispanic male, and I still found great value in the advice you've given. I'm pleased to say that I have shared this video with my two sons and pray that they too find it meaningful. Thank you for your insight and inspiration.
Imagine if people older than 25 had TH-cam growing up. Would have made a lot things easier...
You're a great dad, Keep it up king .
@@ALCRAN2010 grass is always greener my guy. there are negatives that come with it too
Why would ur age or u being hispanic affect the value u get from this or even be relevant?
Im hispanic and it didn't even cross my mind that it'd be a factor. These values are universal for all men
@@ALCRAN2010 I mean youtube came into my life when i was about in the 8th grade... so I definitely use it a lot. I know a lot of my older family members scoff at it and the internet in general. They prefer to go to stores and bother cashiers who have no idea what they're talking about. Actually pisses me off because I take the time to research shit and they mock me for it.
This is why I hate boomers and about half of Xers
A true channel to help and teach entrepreneurs. It's not just a successful businessman flexing his success and random advice. Patrick takes his time and goes so in depth with his lessons it's amazing. Thank you!!!!!
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this is the type of information we should be passing to our youth and younger men cause these newer generation of kids are growing up in a horrible world and have no respect for others. That’s why it’s important for us older men, I’m only 21 but always pass knowledge to kids younger than me who look up to me and they are truly grateful and actually respect me a lot of them grow up without a father figure and I’m glad I’m able to be like a older brother for a lot of these younger kids and teach them things that education won’t teach them in the outside world. Wonderful video man I’m grateful this came up on my recommended you got yourself a new subscriber my friend!
I have never seen a video showing specifically useful advice to us, the young men who are struggling to find our way. You are one of the wisest content creators that I have seen on TH-cam. In fact, you are talking to us like you could do with your sons.💪🙏
Number 18...I lost my mother this year at the age of 27. Thanks for this one. Much love. - Charles
my condolences for your brutal loss. You now have a guardian angel in your corner.
May she rest in peace
Pat still thinks 1999 was 11 years ago lol
Haha was about to say the same. 2010 still in his head
It’s true. Lol. PBD
It's an old vid
@@Trump-A-Bad-MF it's not 10 years old..
The older you get, the faster each year feels like it goes by. It hits when sometimes I'm talking with someone about an event that feels like it was a few years ago, and it turns out it was 8 years or 12 years or more 😆
awesome video Patrick, im 22 and I definitely learned a few things here, blessings.
This vid is mind blowing, I already know all this things, but he clears everything up and puts it in a list to note it down
Always feels like you gain 5 years worth of wisdom ahead each time I get to watch Sir Patrick’s content. I’m i am so grateful for your dedication and time. It’s so inspiring 🙏🏾
I love going to the movies alone, not sure why so many people are scared to do so. Even my friends are shocked when i tell them i go alone all the time. Sometimes its good to be alone and get away from everyone.
I never went to the movies alone , I always thought it was weird and I would feel like a creeper on a solo mission . But that’s just me being Insecure
You’re changing my life Patrick! Been watching you for a couple years now and I’ve taken all your advice pretty literal. I’m 22 and It’s doing many wonders for me. Thank you for all that you do man, much love 🤝🍻
This is fire! Thank you! Only wish you'd been around when I was raising my two sons as a single mom. But I pray your valuetainment will get into the hearts and hands of multiple millions! I will def be passing it on! Thank you God bless you
It's kind of bittersweet watching this video knowing I had to learn a lot of these lessons the hard way, but I'm so glad Pat's taking the time to do his duty to our younger brothers. I still have a long way to go and a lot of the lessons Pat describes for later in life sound very solid. I hope I can do the same when I'm older
Ppp
Lessons for life
A lot of the times the only way we can learn is by messing up and going through the situation ourselves; experience is the best teacher.
The best sets of advice I've heard all my life from a businessman.
My dad went thru the same thing when his dad, grandpa passed two years ago.. he was devastated but the good memories kept him up, and going!
I'm so happy to find your channel through this particular video.
I am a school teacher and often discuss these things (although very limited) whenever I can.
There should be a school subject specifically for this sort of thing.
Rule 21: Always be ready for change. Accept and process ALL the information that comes by your life and reject whatever does not make sense or resonate with YOU.
You hit the nail on the head Patrick. I would add "Keep it spotless!" Car, room. workplace, yard, laptop, etc
Content like this is gold these days
Some of this rules hit hard. I'm grateful to be here listening
You have been my mentor for 6 years now, and you never failed on it. Thank you
Watching this after a recent break up. I really resonated with the preparing yourself to lose people in your life. I told myself at times throughout our relationship that this may not actually work, but that's okay. We ended things amicably, we agreed we can't be just friends, but we wish the best for the other, and I won't say I'm not sad, but I'm alot more okay than I was after past break ups.
How do you meet women?
POWERFUL LESSON, Mr. Patrick!
This was great! Wish I had this when I was a kid. Shared with my little brother
Old school Patrick
Laying on the value
PBD excels at these lists
Power to you, Sir
Enjoyed you on the JRE show, you my friend are a wealth of information and very grounded opinions. By far one of my favorite podcasts this year. Keep up the good work.
THE G ! King Patrick
Respect you very much Pat. You define what it takes for young men to be successful.
This is exactly what I need to know. I was feeling very low about myself. Thank you for this video.
This might be the only valuetainment video that has made me feel good about myself... I'm already practicing most of these rules, but the other videos break me down for sure...
Very important video! This is coming from a father to a 12 yr old son that I raised from day one and I take my role very seriously.
Damn #14 felt like a call-out, I feel like until recently I've been looking at surface-level things. This video was so informative and helpful, and as a 17 year old getting ready to graduate my junior year, I so so truly appreciate this video. Thank you so much for this video!
What a great guy to take the time out to give some pointers to young men out there. Great advice!
Hey man. I just wanted to thank you for the motivation and the insights into being a leader and all of the tidbits that came along the way. I lost my business during Corona. My life became absolute crap and I was in a depressed state of mind for about a week. Then I came across your channel and you motivated me to be a man and accept that life will throw obstacles at you and you will have to overcome them. I did. 1 year later , I do my own high ticket sales network , I have 5 employees who generate more than 60k USD each (in the last 3 months) and I’m on my way towards achieving the most success I’ve ever had. Thanks for the value that you have added to my life. Ur like the dad I never had. And I am truly grateful. Lets freaking gooooo
being depressed for only a week? damn i'd kill for your brain
this is awesome bro this is something the new generation absolutely needs to see. straight up wisdom and knowledge.
This channel is gold, I already know I'm going to be learning a lot from you. Thank you in advance!
Thank you Pat I’m 23 and still have a lot to learn. I’m happy I follow a lot of these rules but still helpful to know I’m heading in a positive direction.
It’s my first time to focus on a program for over an hour. Tonight has just been about your lectures, thank you for the messages I’ve learnt a lots tonight. I know one day I’ll be on TV to talk my success story and today will be remembered.
This is actually very great advice for young men and even older men. Advice that is helpful and you seem like you truly care and want men to be better and feel better. Great vid!
Absolutely insightful! Patrick. Thanks Man!
PBD you’re the dad I never had and I’m in my mid 30’s and raising my children. I hope you reach many young men across the globe.
PBD hitting us with that knowledge! These are some really great tips.
It's all Bullshit!!!
@@JC_0007 If you don't have your life together, by the time you're 20, you'll be doomed too wander Earth aimlessly.
@@JC_0007 Talk to Ted Bundy's Mom, She'll tell you straight out, Mothering is Overrated!!
@Sam Farza Humans are Experts at pointing out flaws in Peoples lives. And Dismal at administering Solutions for those same individuals.
@@trentcruise3084 Whats wrong with you?
A lot of my questions have been answered! Great help . Thank You!
thank you for looking out. inspirational.
Love this. Having my son listen to it. Thanks
this is what needs to be taught in school, needed this and for the youngins . appreciate and understood every rule, thanks for the vid 🤟🏽💯
This is golden. I really love this video 🎉.
This is the kind of video which we should save and watch once in a while to keep us in track
This is Without a Doubt, "The Best Video" You Have Released thus far Patrick!!
Advice Solid as Gravity Itself 💯
Absolutely Perfect!!!
can't believe this is free, thanks PBD
Dude… thanks. This is really an amazing lecture. Keep up the good work!!
#19 is a funny one, but other than that a really amazing manual through life. I especially appreciate the message to deal internally w/ conflicting situations and explore your sensitivity instead of pointing fingers and running away. Beautiful job!!! 👍
I'd add only one thing: don't get stuck indoors lifting weights. A lot of it leads to vanity and it won't teach you much about life and practically. Instead, pick outdoor sports. It's healthier, at times risky and it demands your full focus and the engagement of your entire body. It is way more natural and you'll be stronger and will learn about the practicality of life.
Pat never disappoints🔥
Fax
ADDITIONAL RULE! Every young man should learn how to use a tape measure. The ability to measure the world around you will give you a level of confidence and give others the impression that you are a precise and measured man.
Lul
I mean it's not rocket science.... pretty self explanatory. Not sure this is a rule that needs to even be stated. If u know how to read and do very basic math u can use a tape measure.
Sorry to burst ur bubble.... it's just not the skill ur making it out to be.
A better one would be
"Take part in activities and projects that require measuring/applied mathematics"
I don't associate with grown men that use "ur" in conversation.
The “be mentally and emotionally ready to lose loved ones “ hit me hard. Im always thinking about this and it hurts me to the core. That thing is the most scariest shit to me and I don’t know how to deal with it when it comes to me. But thank u so much 🙏🙏 That’s a part of life and i have to accept this 🙏
One of the best video of personal development ! Thanks a lot !
Great advice Pat! I made some of these mistakes when I was younger. I wish I had someone to advise on this back then. I will most certainly share this to my younger peers and little brothers.
I respect this man sooo much, he’s been soo influential to me
Man how he’s so real.
I love these videos Pat, they are the reason I got hooked on the channel years ago!
This is exactly what I needed to hear today.
This is a really good video!
I’m 40 and struggle with #7, #13 and 20. I’m very sensitive sometimes to stupid stuff. I kind of oscillate between trying to ignore stuff that bothers me and trying to focus more on things that are important but sometimes I think it’s just ingrained into the type of person that I am so trying to deny that he’s a fool’s errand. One of the best tips I ever received from TH-cam on sensitivity was think of it like a horse, you want to take the energy of the horse and guide it in the right direction. Excellent video.
Good stuff Patrick! Keep it up brother!
I am a boxing coach for young teenagers and it's a challenge working with them. The reward is awesome when you see them walking along those teachings in life.
I totally agree with you. 👍
Thank you for making this video! I appreciate each rule you talked about
Why?
Unforgettable lessons sir ❤
you just give as a life-time experience in 20 minutes.
you're amazing guy. thank you so much!!
5 things to quit for all people:
1. Caring about what others think
2. Not believing in yourself
3. Not prioritizing your health
4. Wasting your precious time
5. Chasing meaningless relationships
For those who are in the rush of changing their lives :-)
I'm in my mid twenties and I'm kicking myself for not asking a certain girl out. It's an opportunity I'll never get back. Is this irrational thinking?
@@mr.brenman2132 yop it is. If the opportunity is gone, there's no reason to think about that all time, learn from it and move forward.
Not necessarily an irrational thought, if you shift your perspective on it being a lesson that caused you to reflect on it enough to wanna change it in future, by one of 3 ways than it was worth going through. 1: causes you to make an attempt at contacting her again if you can asking her out and see if both of you click to move things forward or not.
2. It inspired you to ask the right questions tht will create a hunger inside you to learn how to talkbto women better and date more and also learn the pyschology of dating sol. You wont make the mistake of missing out on anothef opportunity with adifferednt girl.
3. You can be free to focus on yourself your goals and life overall while only dating for casual experience in the joys of sex and human connection or interaction so tht when you feel ready for something serious... You will have a better version of yourself with an even better result or quality of woman, body mindn spirit.
Any of those three wouldnt have likely happened without having tbese thoughts u had and a self awareness for them to ask another person.
Hope thg helps. Sorry i wrote alot but im going through a rough p atch myself and most family i have no connectjon with due tontgeur betrayal but i still very much miss my neices and nephews 2 who are about to both be 21. I wish incould talk to them and be part ofbtgeir lives again but busy getting my life in order while helping take care of my folks. Good luck with everything lil homie. 👍👍
@@curiash I didn't see your comment earlier and I appreciate the response 👍
@@badado It was a first time interaction but I was sitting next to her for a considerable amount of time at a sporting event. I'll never see her again unfortunately. There was no reason for me not to ask for her number. I didn't have a sense of urgency or care at the time. I guess I hadn't hit rock bottom yet. It wasn't until about a month later when my lack of inaction started to bother me. I kind of had a mental health crisis that triggered these feelings of regret. I'm not a teenager anymore and I feel like I need to gain experience with women as quickly as I can. What bothers me the most about it is that it was a perfect opportunity for a shy person like me. She was close to my age. She wasn't there with a dude. She seemed very friendly. She was obviously someone I found attractive. I was also kind of in my element and in good spirits. Like I said, I had no sense of urgency or drive at the time. Maybe I have a hormonal problem, IDK. I kind of just have to move forward and learn from my past mistakes like you said. Easier said then done when you suffer from severe social anxiety. Exposure is the only way I'll get over that I guess. It's certainly motivation but I've been haunted by regret in the past. I appreciate the response. I hope you reconnect with your family. I would be completely and utterly alone without mine which tells you the spot I'm in. I need to progress as an adult in bad way.
You’re a a legend Pat
I just wish you were around when I was in my twenties
Bet is a Beast ,always killing it
David, I appreciate your output.
Great advice! Wish I saw this as a young man. I am hard headed and had to learn most lessons the hard way. Great that you take the time. Character.
I would honestly add "work on your willpower" to the list. If you can increase your willpower even a small amount it can make a big difference, it can impact your relationships, discipline, hygeine and a lot more.
Thanks for having it behind you, so if anyone wants just to know them before they have to decide if its worth to watch a video, they can.
Thanks for your work too!
Discovered this channel 20 min ago and let me say, I spent the most informative 20 min of my life.