20 Rules for Women - How To Attract A High Value Man
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 31 ม.ค. 2023
- Ladies, do you want a high-value man? In this episode, Patrick Bet-David breaks down 20 rules for young women to attract a high-value man.
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As a woman 64 yrs old. A high value man is that man that will work in the fields or the factory who is a true man. He loves his wife loves his kids. Respects others. He does not need to be a millionaire.
Virtuous & responsible is more fitting to this whole high value title.
The problem is that , the market decided , what a high value man is , they can be good men , but high value is high value , just based on the market
I was married to a soldier military pay is not that great. A soldier is a soldier 24/7 even on leave. So his life is worth $1.25 an hr. A combat infantry soldier life expectancy is 2.50 seconds. Those are not the specialty trained rangers airborne the like. The more training the less your odds are. Bur married soldiers will volunteer for deployment if they know it will benefit their family. That is a high value man.
@@Standardbredwoman04 that’s a good man. Not high value man. Important to spot differences. Most high value man appreciate good hard working man’s. But man’s that work hard and love his kid is not automatically high value. Is just a good onset hard worker. Witch is grate. Most time not high value man have problem or disrespect that good guys. But women dose for sure 😂
High value man go and take big risk. They don’t want to by on top. They had to by or at least fight to by on top. Sorry working as a factory worker or simple foot solider is not it. It’s still probably good man. But not high value. High value man will feel need of having his own factory or becoming general in army. Feel that he need to be on top 😉
@user-qs8em6kg5i I believe that high value means something different to people as a woman my vew of a high value is not about money. It is about the good man TCB honering his parents and respecting his wife and loving that same wife and children. Men with money do not impress me. Maybe in my youth. Even then as long as I had what I needed / wanted there was nothing else I did not want a rich boyfriend. I just wanted what I could afford. If I could not afford it I did not get it I am not going to say I did not save up for it
A high value man is not one that is rich; it is one who is kind, shares with those in need, treats others right, works hard, and does no harm, and, if married, loves, provides for, and is faithful to his wife, loves his children, provides for them and teaches them right from wrong, unselfishness, and how to get along well in life.
Well said….
This kind of man is rich! What are you saying?
@@maryrankin9869 their point was not 'rich' in the sense of monetary value but rich with life knowledge and skill.
100% agree
Totally 💯 agree!
“If you see men as the enemy - you won’t find a high value man” - preach that like a prophet!
So true
@@mr.anonymous520 Why is it that "men" See women as the enemies?? OK, I get it, what is Allowed to men, is Not Allowed to women, yeah, the 5,000 Year Old tradition, isn't it??
Well, in my Case, I didn't have to See men as the Enemies, they just proved that They ARE the enemies. ha, ha, ha.
@@valentinalicheli1928 You should have your eyes examined.
@@spartanares4345; many men See women as their enemy, just the same way many women See men as their enemy; Capeech?
I love that he mentioned the fourth model where a woman is independent and successful but wants to have the male leadership, strength and stability in her life. I'm happily serving the role of a co-pilot and i highly recommend it to any woman. It's absolutely the best and most sustainable dynamic in a relationship
No one cares.
@@fuckucatchme1000rr
Sounds like youre intimidated
Absolutely. As the CEO of a rather successful business, I’d be thrilled to have by my side a man that leads.
@@fuckucatchme1000rr clearly you do lmao
@@fuckucatchme1000rr stf incel
“You’re mine, I’m yours. Let’s roll” this mindset could solve half of all people’s relationship trouble. Spot on!
This is terrible advice, but go off!
@@therealkoolaidandkale 😂
@@therealkoolaidandkaleyou know nothing or atleast don't speak for others.
I’ve been married to a high value man 38 years and it’s brilliant to build a life together knowing what he needs to be successful and I’m part of this team. I told my newest daughter in law that the Webb men aren’t easy but so worth it! By the way, I taught my boys to cherish their wives like they have seen their father cherish me.
I’m personally praying for this ❤️
I used to be an extremely independent and success driven women, who did not prioritise relationships.
I love this ❤️ thank you for sharing 👏🏻
Why’re you watching this video then 🤔
I am so glad that positive stories of families exist❤️❤️❤️Thank you for contributing to this world!
I want to learn from you
Some traits of a high value guy were left out; intelligent, strong moral compass, self-disciplined, independent, generous, kind, loyal, respectful, and responsible.
Those values are not a thing for these soulless corporate cretin
Yes yes yes
I met a high value man recently. So refreshing!
He said those…. High value - is intelligent, no only fans - is strong moral compass, he goes to the gym/takes care of his body- that’s self discipline, he’s ambitious at his goals/ not home at 5 every night - independence , he said he takes responsibility and improves- that’s respectful
They are all generous, kind, loyal…. 😅😢
@@SanctifiedLady that's what I thought lol
My husband is a mechanic, can fix anything in the home etc, plus he studies relentlessly investments. We are retiring early( I’m a teacher). I think he is a wonderful high value man. Love him so much. We are perfect together.
Your husband sounds like a great guy. God bless you union🤎
Just Some Random Girl: I am GLAD you mentioned Your husband. Not All High-Valued Men have to be Top Executives or Wealthy. Just Smart Man.
That's not a high value man. A great guy, sure. High value? Nope.
@@Jason-mr2do EXCUSE ME; How DARE YOU tell a Woman who has a GEM at Home that is a Solid Rock in her life as her husband that He is not High Value!! He Surpassed HIGH VALUE already; in fact He is Above and Beyond the Stupidity of this world's "value" which has nothing to do with Real Worth and Human Value and more to do with Sick-Egos and shallowness that does nothing for You when you are in a hospital bed, or in pain, or in a car accident, or in serious trouble in life; those "high-value" men that you have in mind; many have committed Suicide when they lose All their money and businesses and they have No Character inside of them Strong Enough to Support his circumstances.
@@Jason-mr2do Let me See......Robin Williams was Considered a VERY High-VALUE Man, BUT he committed Suicide - All his Wealth, Fame, Fortune, and Fans couldn't take him Out of that Dark Place in his Mind. Charlie Sheen was considered a High-Value Man at one point, but he ruined his life by Sleeping Around and you know what happened. Tom Cruise is and has always been Considered a VERY HIGH VALUED MAN, Attractive, Successful, intelligent, Mega Star, Money-Maker, Enterprising, and how all his relationships end?? Leonardo DiCaprio has girls issues; Sleeping with girls that could be his daughters; Ah; there goes the "value" ha, ha, ha. Michael Jackson, according to You, was considered a High-Valued Man, and look how he ended up!! Bill Clinton was considered a High-Valued Man and look at the Scandals he has created. Magic Johnson was and probably will always be considered a High-Valued Man, and look at what happened to him - his Wife is the REAL HIGH VALUE there.
Even though i am 67 yrs old I still enjoyed this video very much. Why? Because good old fashioned values still matter. I am so glad to hear this. Basically just learn how to be a classy woman no matter what generation it is.
Good to hear that, nowdays people are messed up with confused so called "influencers" with no experince in life!
Pat just gave guys _”20 women to avoid”_ but made it look like _Self help for ladies_ clever 🧐😂
@@discerningthetruth01
If you're over 35 it's basically too late for you as a high value man goes for a younger partner. A 50 yr old with good income can still get one and a 45 yr old woman can't compete.
@@snowbird6855 - It all depends on how you define high value. He is defining "high value " based on a man's looks and wealth. After 40, it's all about integrity, morals, spiritual values. Yes, if they are successful that is great. Real wealth and value comes from within. Also, I have a cousin who is 53, (she looks 33), just remarried last year to a very successful man, and he is 64!. Age is just a number.
@@snowbird6855 Men are not the prize lol some views in this video are outdated! Sure some might go for younger ones (and I know many of them), but there are ones that would go for the older women too because they want the maturity that comes with it.
It’s not just about men choosing women, it’s about both people choosing each other.
I’ve been Married to a high-value man for 14yrs. This vid is 💯 correct. It takes a high-value woman to keep up with a man of this caliber. It requires similar core-values, self-awareness, humility, understanding and confidence. A man, who is out negotiating $30M deals on a daily basis needs different support than a man earning $30K a year. Also, men earning this kind of money also experience losses in business equally as big; also requires a woman who can stomach that. That’s not to say it’s a 1-way street, my husband is an amazing partner and father; who has made a commitment to be at home for dinner bc we have two young kids. He’s the CEO outside of our home and I’m the CEO in our home. We respect and VALUE our roles…It’s a give and take, divide and conquer type of mentality.
I live a quality life most women can only dream of and it has NOTHING to do with our net-worth.
@User Blessing give me your email and I’ll send u a message
Love this! ❤️ How did you meet?
I love this! Two CEOs in and out of the home. My woman has got to be as much of a boss as I am
@@Ashdaesq Just make sure she is making less than you…9/10 a women will lose respect for a man that she believes is equal to her, she wants to feel like her man is superior to her and won him
That’s great for you ! Can I ask you if you both built a life together or were one of you already established ?
“just because you got him doesn’t mean you got him forever!” soo key & a lot of women in my generation need to understand. that’s where the work AS WOMEN comes in!
Absolutely 💯 agree
Just because he got her doesn't mean he got her forever. That's where the work starts from.
I'm sorry but you need 2 to tango. It goes both ways. If both sides won't work on the marriage it'll fall apart. I'm married for over 10 years, we have kids. I know what I'm saying.
@@VicToria-sd1dnright! Hence, the majority of divorces are initiated by women because the husbands could not keep them.
@@goldenparachute392 Yes the majority of divorces are initiated by the wives because some husbands cheat. Also the issue of male toxicity is rampant. Both parties should want to remain together and should work on it willingly.
Excellent video and so true. Although I am 72 and not looking for anyone , married for 48 years, this is exactly how I found my man of means. If you love yourself and are true to yourself it will shine through that you are a woman who has value to any high value man.
Great!
Judge Judy said it best "beauty fades but dumb is forever". Sadly if you look at social media its all about looks and zero substance and the ones with substance dont get the shine. Awesome stuff as always.
One of the best comments I've ever read. So true
Men go after the shiny thing. Some woman are beautiful, smart, and work hard, but they’re not likely to be blinged out with colored hair, fake nails, etc.
My husband is a high value man, he's Godly, a leader, a provider and a protector. He loves his family and reaches out to help others in need.Highly responsible and confident.
A truly high value man can provide but doesn't have the entirety of his identity wrapped up in performance & material. A high value man values character & has a good heart.
How about God loving. God fearing
@@RealRockdidit amen agreed !
If there is one thing I have learnt over the years it is that the term high value means something completely different for every person. For me being of high value means being of higher consciousness, that is the greatest service a man can give to anyone.
exactly. High income men who are sociopaths are not high value. But high consciousness more often than not, results in wealth.
PBD and Valuetainment keeps delivering value. You guys never cease to amaze me.
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Pat just gave guys _”20 women to avoid”_ but made it look like _Self help for ladies_ clever 🧐😂
100% SEND this video to every coworker, cousin, daughter, sister you have so they can have the knowledge to better thelmselves.
@@miamitten1123 hahahaha
A mom of 5, married for 11 years. I love that my husband and i have climbed these ladders together!!! I’m a coach, a chauffeur, a cleaner, a cook, an artist (not great but still doing it all), herbalist, a carpenters (my husband) helping hand, and a child of the almighty God. If one chooses to live a life he does not bless, then good luck!!!
W wife, W mom!
A high value man is a man that can afford many divorces and still not be broke
W wife w mom , RESPECT
@@yourlogicalnightmare1014 - That sounds like a man who has valuable in his own mind, but not good marriage material.
@@yourlogicalnightmare1014 that's high quality man NOT high value. High value man is quality+compassion+integrity, it's not just about the money
Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser,i wasnt going to let my marriage of 18years crash
amazing,i am kinda in a similar situation,how did you handle it?
@@DavidVelasquez9 well not the orthodox way but i was referred by a friend to a spiritual adviser and healer
@@peterwilliams6361 please how can i get in touch with the spiritual adviser?
@@DavidVelasquez9 her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE ,and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as caster
you can look her name up online and you will find all you need.
I love my hard working man. He's a simple man who loves his family. I don't have to work hard to keep him nor him working to keep me. We flow together and we have peace and comfort. To each their own. To me, mine is high value. To our family he is high value. I'm blessed ❤
Pat is the father and even mother that many women didn’t have. Imagine a fully grown female needing to be told take care of your body. That’s the current state of society
A tree is known by its fruit…
Fathers are fathers.
Mothers are mothers.
Girls think taking care of their body is make up and expensive fads. No. Nope. Nothing bad with makeup. But the real care is taken through healthy habits, like eating healthy and exercise. Same for dudes.
@@alasdairhicks6731 I agree wholeheartedly. Dudes do not need make up to be hot.
Bro u say that to modern women & they'll hit you with a "body positivity" & "fatphobia" cards so fast u never seen them react that fast to anything else 😂😂
I met my high-value man while we were both working security. Now I have a high-value job and he's still in security, but he cooks and cleans and gets my gear ready in the morning and treats me like a queen. I had to go through two previous long-term relationships before I met the perfect guy, because I had a lot of issues that needed to be taken care of before I could really know myself and know what I needed and wanted. Heal your issues and know yourself first, and you'll find the right man with the right level of value who suits you and your preferred lifestyle as well as you suit his.
No, you ended up with a Beta
He's a retired Alpha. @@thehonesttruth8808
Actually that isn't the definition of a high value man.
Been married 30 yrs to a high value man. I'm a high value woman. You attract what you put out.
I'm striving to be a high value woman and very glad I watched this video. Your ideas resonate with me. Thank you Pat.
A high value woman isn't something you to strive to become it's something you are either born with or you aren't and you either preserve it or ruin it.
@@MrFuchew that's a good point. While some qualities of a high value woman may be innate, many can also be developed through personal growth and self-improvement, such as being well-rounded, a good communicator, and having strong religious values and so on.
@@ehitkassa8512 agreed, you are both correct imo.
Women were created by Almighty God to be high value. Use it or loose it.
@@MrFuchew false you’re not born immediately high value. The man I. The video literally said he changed and became a high value man later on in his life. Nobody’s born “high value” maybe in the eyes of your mother yes
At 12:30, there's an old wives saying: "If you marry a fisherman, don't be surprised when he goes fishing." Always remember the story about the woman who nursed a dying rattle snake back to health but he bit her. When she asked him why he said: because I'm a snake; we bite. You knew that I was a snake so why are you surprised that I bit you?
That's a good one
I think I know what you mean.
That’s what I call High Value information delivered succinctly, and leaving nothing to chance.
I have 3 precious little girls - I worry about the future, how men will treat them, that there will be men of integrity when they are in their twenties & picking husbands.
@@davisholman8149 yes brother, I have 2 (not so little anymore) girls and my blood pressure goes up every tine I start thinking about it
For the most part I watch your podcast, you speak intellectually and reasonably even while co-presenting on topical contemporary issues. Kudos
Good to hear this advice from someone who is in a successful loving marriage. I consider myself blessed to be in the same position and I've always said, "Going on 2,000 dates doesn't make you a dating "expert" any more than having 2,000 at bats with no home runs makes you an "expert" on power hitting."
Very accurate on a lot of things. Personality, image, and personal growth matters more for high value men.
Thank you, Pat!! That was great and everyone needs these reminders.
Please more content like this! This was amazing! Thank you!
Love the honesty & bluntness I’m definitely the independent female compared to other FEMALES but when I’m business meetings with very successful man it’s a whole different ball game and I admire and want to learn from and them it’s definitely a different type of energy ‼️💯
Super excited to see such a video! Thank you for this!!
Love this no nonsense approach Pat thank you !
Met my husband at Bible study. Married for 38 years now. 2 wonderful and successful children. My husband was never well-off but we had a decent life. God provides.
Good for you Sis❤
Thank you for this video. Gives me a lot of perspective on what went wrong in my early relationships.
“Not a marriage counselor, not a psychologist, not a therapist”
oh so someone who knows what he’s talking about then!
Just a happily married man. They are a lot more credible.
Great! My laugh for the day🤣
Exactly like everyone feels they’re experts and can just provide commentary on topics like it’s no big deal.
Pat should just stick to investing /economics commentary and spare us.😂
Patrick, I’m a 26-year-old female and this is sad to say but I believe you are the father I never had. Thank you for all you do and this video.
Lmao sure you are
@@richardmyers7847 😂😂😂😂
How to say you’ve got daddy issues without saying it
@@breakfree1949 Well some of us didn’t grow up w a Dad and weren’t taught things Patrick talks about. Some of us do have daddy issues and want to better ourselves. Have a great day 👍🏼 😎
@@highvalue1195 you wrote on a previous thread how you sneak out then say your coerced to have sex with someone twice your age? Then all these other shocking behaviors.
Don’t blame this on not having a father, take ownership and blame it on you.
Your behavior is not your parents fault, it’s yours. While you and many other billions of people had it rough, using that as an excuse means you’re the problem. The fact you’re 26 and just starting to do something about it, probably won’t help because you left it too late.
Your profile pic and title is also really odd.
But k I’m salute you because I better late than never, read extreme ownership by Jocko Willink
Then I’d say you have at least 10 years of therapy. I dated a girl with similar upbringing than you, she didn’t do anything about it except blame her parents .
A psychopath would be an understatement.
As a last resort I said I will attend therapy with you, but it’s not for me.
First day of therapy she lost it because she wanted to control what I said to therapist.
It was over right there and then. She can’t be helped.
Patrick is real one ... Speak on uncomfortable topic most avoid ❤️
Pat, I love you ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ I told my friends, online dating relationship last: 3 months, 6 months, 9 months and if they are lucky 2 years. Period !!!! Online dating is all about physical attraction not personality and moral attraction. Kings work on yourself and the right woman will definitely come along, she will feel your energy.
I've been waiting for this video for so long. I've watched the 20 rules for men video and was waiting for 20 rules for women one. I'm 18 and I guess this is the best time for me to watch this video.
Are you a woman?
Always better to learn the easy way, than the hard ones.. Now "just" implement your knowledge..! Good "luck".
These are all accurate, I think most well put together men want all of this. And if they don't care about many of these points, you probably need to avoid them because they will mistreat you in some way down the line.
This video is gold it needs to be shared everywhere
Thank you for very brief and powerful lesson 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Absolutely make sense
Thank you! This was just what I needed to hear
Great pieces of relationship advice, I strongly agree with almost all.
These are the exact same things I taught my daughters!!! 💪🏾💯🔥👑 The proof is in the pudding time will tell how well they've learned. 💯 Thx PBD
Absolutely outstanding presentation of facts from a mans point of view. The examples brought it home. There is a clear and OBVIOUS difference from how a younger man vs a mature man online delivers this type of message to women.
Strong but not harsh is very effective! A mans tone will help any woman receive a message and leave her “thinking”.
Great timing Valuetainment. Relevant topic.
Dads with daughters, appreciate this 👍
Pat the Goat 🐐
12:06 "Work on having real CLASS, real VALUES, real PRINCIPLES-- because there's no need to act. It's real." This!!! Training your character is so important. I just don't know where to start. How do I become that if I didn't grow up like that? Won't it always be fake?
Good stuff! I like your nonjudgmental vibe and honest advice
Nailed it! There was nothing offensive in this video at all. And if anyone took anything as a personal hit, that's a good sign that that area of your life or thinking needs some work. Thank you Patrick. As always - great video and insight!
Great advice Pat. Spot on.
The issue with labelling people as "high value" is how value is perceived. Not everyone perceives value the same way
Not true at all. “High value man” is clearly connotated to mean a man with money, power, and influence. But a lot of women don’t like the idea of a group of men who know their worth, so they’ll try to move the goalpost of “high value” to avoid having to acknowledge any particular man as high value that they themselves don’t like. Vladimir Putin is objectively a high value man, but there are plenty of people who would sooner die than admit it.
@@AJweathersby but being married to Putin probably sucks, that's the part you're not acknowledging. Personality and character actually matter on a daily basis living with someone… More than money does
@@utamu777 Being married to Putin if you’re a native born Russian woman, especially if you were raised in the Russian aristocracy, is probably amazing.
You’re projecting your American, modern sensibilities across billions of women and cultures. We don’t even have to go outside of America. Donald Trump is liked by half the country, and there are probably millions of women in that half of the country willing to take Melania’s place if the chance arose. Just because you don’t like someone that doesn’t mean the rest of the female population shares your feelings. That’s what being high value means: Not being valuable to everyone, but being valuable to so many people that you don’t have to care who or how many people don’t like you.
Right, I agree with you. A valuable man to me is someone who is capable of being loyal, has a good sense of humor, respectful and kind to all living things. But the video was good for most women.
@@AJweathersby Eww, not spiritually enlightening nor Godly.
Everything reminds me of my ex wife, i love her so much, i wish there was a way i can bring her back.
i felt the same way a year ago, my wife left me two years ago and i was so down because she was and is the love of my life, and i couldn't just let her go, so i did all i could to bring her back.
@@wonhur885 i wont say i'm glad that you understand how i feel, it is really sad, how did you get her back?
@@LanceNRusso i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me get her back, her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE, you can look her up you will find all you need to know about her online.
thank you so much, this is really helpful.
Pray tp Jesus for her and do the self work.
Interesting part on the virgin experiences. I noticed men like knowing you are impressed with something and just seeing you enjoy yourself. Even if you've been there, maintain your curiosity about the experience and be thankful. He's going out of his way to please you then let him see you pleased and delighted
Right on the target Pat. Thank you.
Felt like a Chat with a dad, caring uncle, cousin or big brother . heart felt facts.
I get so much from your vids. You are definitely one of my fave channels. Keep up the Awesome work!!!
Such wonderful advice! Thank u 🩷🙏🏻
Lol exactly😂
Thank you for this video!😊
I am sharing this video. Excellent message Patrick
Much needed insight in today’s society!
Thank you Pat. This was long time coming
Faith, family, fun. Qualities most high value man value. Great video Pat.
Great content Pat 🔥🔥
Awesome share here & I am aligned with 95% of this wisdom!!!
Thank you for sharing high value information david !!
I loved the video, thank you! ☺️
This video is on point. Gentleman pay attention and ladies take notes!
I love this exchange. Thank you. 😎
Appreciated this video. Thank you so much!
Really down to earth advice
Lots of really good points. Men are strategic thinkers, we think about what we do. Most women just do,
especially just talk. It's the reason why men talk less than women, because our status is very important to us
and we tend to not let things slip - I totally agree with Patrick here, that the biggest mistake I've seen women making
is that I take them with me to a red carpet event or a fancy business affair but they treat those business relationships
like a private party and tell people things about me, that are strictly private. That's a big red flag, especially early on in a
relationship. I understand it's sometimes a tough balance when you want to befriend people, but it takes ages to build a
reputation and only one party to ruin it.
Yes you need to be able to trust someone...I would never trust a man who breaks a confidence...You should not trust a lady who does either...
Very helpful. Thanks for sharing❤
I love Patrick. His content is always high value
💥👏😃SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO GOOOOOODDDDD!!!! 22 minutes of my life I won't trade for anything🤩😝....THIS WAS GOLD...Well done and well produced...great job Pat and Team🤩💯
This video should be provided to young adults as a guide, literally listed most of what i've learn from just living.
Not everybody lives by the Same Rules in life, Nor Care About the Same things. Some people are happy and content and die happily married to a person who, by World Standards, is Not Considered a "High-Value-Person". Don't pretend that everyone is happy with the same things.
Patrick, Thank You for this Video. Keep on Teaching Your Wisdom.
Great value! I'm showing this to my girl ASAP!
Very good way to include the sponsor during the video without get click offs. Keep going master 🙏🙏
In my mind you are my personal mentor i have learnt so much just by watching your videos i watch some of them over and over👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Great choice for a mentor
This video was excellent. I wish it was longer. Thank you
Excellent advice. Thank you
This is very interesting to listen to for someone in my position and stage of life. I used to think dating would be weird since I hadn't experienced a "crush" and at 18 I developed a disability that limited work and lifestyle. But listening to older (30+) guys talk about relationships and cultural issues has had a way of making me revisit the concept of a "crush". I probably just never related to youthful and hormonal romance. All the traits I like are mature traits anyway, and I'm getting to an age where I both refuse to feel insecure about my limitations and people no longer mind slowing down in interactions. As for what I could bring to a relationship, I'm still pondering. Maybe low maintenance/practical orientation paired with goofiness counts. If not, I'll have to get my dad to teach me how to do steaks. His are better than restaurants. He needs to pass that on.
PBD just keeps on delivering.
He’s the TH-cam United Parcel Service 🚚📦 🔥
What a great video! So much truth! Thank you pat!!
This is pure GOLD. 💪🏾💯
Excellent points made here. Excellent! "One male friend is one too many." "You're mine, I'm yours. Let's roll." 👊🏽
Except the get side piece nd you don't get to do same... It can be hard to accept that part of the contract
@@emmaphilo4049 Only a cuck would tolerate or go for that arrangement. That's not me. They're wired differently. For me, she's either the main gf or a sidepiece.
I think you absolutely on point with all 20 rules!!’
Thank you !
Spot on!!! Unfortunately I figured these things out way later in life. Great advice. ❤
1)He has many options
2)Not desperate
3)increase worth
4) Attract not chase
5) He has life goal
6) He knows the game
And for me, he needs to be a Christian #1
@@understandingthetimes4544 Absolutely!
This is such a fun & straight to the point video. Thank you Pat
Brillant perspective. Thank you!
Excellent video and advice. I love your approach. Blessings.
I can definitely attest to the rules 11 and 14. Number 11 didn't happen to me but I observed it with my cousin who dated a very obnoxious, loud woman on and off for years. They came to my housewarming party together. A few hours in, she started drunkenly ranting to the other women about how Carribbean men are not good in bed and the ones she's been with are small down there. He ended it again less than a month later, for good.
Must have been very embarrassing for your cousin!
I’ve met people who think talking about those things are fine, I’ve made a conscious decision not to be around those people anymore
Every point was spot on
Thank you, you reinforced even a senior’s understanding
Excellent advice, you hit it perfectly.
Patrick hittin' it on the head as he typically does... 🔥