I am Hindu jat and hamare 5 gotra chhodte hai(father, mother, Nani,Dadi and pardadi)and gotra does not mean family only it means that blood line lineage (like I'm Kaler so we can't marry any Kaler in world ) it's complex. Plus anyone from same village is considered brothers and sisters every gotra and Cast😊 how intelligent our ancestors were ❤
Me and my two other siblings suffer from genetic disorders because our parents were cousins. My sister suffers from a chronic bone diseases which has no cure in the world at the moment. I am among the brighest students throughout my educational career, which led to many of my chachu/phupho/khala families showing interest in me for their daughters. This included a proposal from a crore patti uncle and had I accepted that, I would have no need to do any work ever again in my life. Alhamdulilah, I preferred to marry out of my family and went agaisnt all the so-called khandan. The whole khandan no longer talk to us for this reason, but I am proud that I made the right deicision. Health of future kids > Khandan ki ego
I am a bengali Hindu Brahmin. I am from Sandalya gotra. So, I can't marry a girl from my gotra. I have to marry a girl from other gotras. My parents and other family members have also followed this rule. I am proud to have such intelligent ancestors who taught us this rule.
@@80sguy27no need to unless I fall in love with a girl. You marry someone who is living on the road side and show your inclusiveness. You won't do that because they are not equal to you in economical status. Think about yourself before taking lessons to others.
tera problem kya hain ?? Ye unke dharm mein ho raha hain , maybe it's our plan , to give them generational shock which can be helpful in our long term gain ...... so please , don't address this as their mistake .... let them do , to achieve our goals
I am a Hindu from Assam. My father is an Ahom. My mother is a Bhuyan. Since 12 Bhuyan families were picked by the Ahom King and settled in Assam then to manage land ( they were Zamindars ) ; Bhuyans are not allowed to marry another Bhuyan.
हम सभी मुसलमानों में सभी लोग जब बच्चे रहते हैं, तब हम सभी अपने चाचा, खाला, मामू, के बच्चे आपस में मिल कर रहते हैं, जिसमें आपस में प्यार बढ़ता है, एक दूसरे के जज्बात को समझते रहते हैं, यही कारण है कि हम सभी आपस में जुड़े रहने के लिए निकाह कर सकते हैं, यह बढ़िया काम है। इंशा अल्लाह, आमीन।
I want to add something as a Pakistani Hindu living in Pakistan. All Hindus in Pakistan still follow the ancestors' rule. My Gotra, which I inherited from my father and forefathers, and my mother's Gotra and my grandmother's Gotra are different because they came from the outside family. I can only marry a girl whose father, mother, and grandmother's Gotra are unmatched by mine. This means I can't marry in the family if one of the Gotra gets a match with anyone. Marrying in mutual Gotra is strictly prohibited.
@@Exhindu-d2x asapiṇḍā ca yā māturasagotrā ca yā pituḥ | sā praśastā dvijātīnāṃ dārakarmaṇi maithune || 5 || She who is not a “sapiṇḍa” of one’s mother, not of the same “Gotra” as his Father, and who is not born of (unlawful) intercourse-has been recommended for marriage.-(5) As mitravinda and bhadra were daughters of paternal aunt, they will be of different gotra from krishna's father gotra, hence it was not wrong as per marriage rule.
@@ShubhamGupta-hg9md kitna jhoot bolte ho yaar hindûuu , Waha saaf saaf likha hai parental aunts daughter Uano mausi ki beti ,, Jalebi baazi ki bhi had hoti hai
Finally someone said it. Who better than Junaid bhai anyway. I have been offered to marry cousins (first and second), but I genuinely find this thought abhore. I said no. The rebuttles I got: 1. Bahar ki larki kese chalay gi hamare khandaan mein 2. Baqi rishteydaron ki get together mein bahar ki larki hogi tou parda k masla hoga (as if other relatives are Mahram :D) 3. Bahar see larki lao ge tou baad mein wo kesi niklay phir kya kro ge? 4. Bahar wali tumhen hum see door le jaye gi Ab yeh video sab rishteydaro ko forward karun ga aur ghar TV pe chala dun ga 😂
Yah kaise ajib excuse hai , fir to aap log hamesha joint family system ko follow karte honge.. agar bahar wali door le jayegi to… kya falatu k excuse hai, caste system k according hi lo,
Ab iss baat dukh manao ki hasu ki pakistan mein abhi rationality kuch log mein baki warna sablog cousin marriage ko support kar rahe pakistan se according to religion.
Brother. I blame awareness for these kinds of issues. I really pity those people but hope at the same time that with time & generational shift, these practices will be less and less.
Hahaha bilkul accurate rebuttals batayen ap ne 😂 my husband faced the same issues while he announced about me to his family as they acknowledge cousin marriage only.. khandan waliyan aksar nani yad dila deti hain... bahar wali achi chal jati hain 😅😅
Bhai liberals agenda hamesha ya hindu RSS karata hai ya West.. Itna vulnerable na banao apne aapko ye junaid akrem jaisi log apne baap ke sage na honge
हम सभी मुसलमानों में सभी लोग जब बच्चे रहते हैं, तब हम सभी अपने चाचा, खाला, मामू, के बच्चे आपस में मिल कर रहते हैं, जिसमें आपस में प्यार बढ़ता है, एक दूसरे के जज्बात को समझते रहते हैं, यही कारण है कि हम सभी आपस में जुड़े रहने के लिए निकाह कर सकते हैं, यह बढ़िया काम है। इंशा अल्लाह, आमीन।
This is by far your best video. The level of research from Ancient India and its culture that has distilled to modern subcontinent's society is brilliantly explained. Give the researcher a raise!! Islam allows for cousin marriage but that doesn't mean we should exploit what God has given to us.
हम सभी मुसलमानों में सभी लोग जब बच्चे रहते हैं, तब हम सभी अपने चाचा, खाला, मामू, के बच्चे आपस में मिल कर रहते हैं, जिसमें आपस में प्यार बढ़ता है, एक दूसरे के जज्बात को समझते रहते हैं, यही कारण है कि हम सभी आपस में जुड़े रहने के लिए निकाह कर सकते हैं, यह बढ़िया काम है। हमें अपने रिवाज पर फख्र है। इंशा अल्लाह, आमीन।
But inke desh me inke jaisey samajhdar vyakti ko sunaney wale na ke barabar hotey he ( very very few ) aur mananey wale to bikul nil ke barabar ya .0001 % hogey Yaha bhi indian hi jyada he 😂😂😂
हम सभी मुसलमानों में सभी लोग जब बच्चे रहते हैं, तब हम सभी अपने चाचा, खाला, मामू, के बच्चे आपस में मिल कर रहते हैं, जिसमें आपस में प्यार बढ़ता है, एक दूसरे के जज्बात को समझते रहते हैं, यही कारण है कि हम सभी आपस में जुड़े रहने के लिए निकाह कर सकते हैं, यह बढ़िया काम है। हमें अपने रिवाज पर फख्र है। इंशा अल्लाह, आमीन।
As a healthcare professional, this is the best thing to watch. We seriously need these type of platforms to spread awareness in the society. Thankyou @junaidAkram.❤️
You can change your gotra. I can name you Kings who changed gotra to marry or to get rid of sin of gotra-hatya. It's a made up lineage where you believe your ancestor was a great sage. And btw when you don't know your gotra you can use Kasyap gotra as a general gotra. A better parampara would be bansha parampara where you trace your ancestors but it cannot be changed because it's not imaginary.
Tu ye btao rajput aur maratha royals ke lye kesa rha? 😂 Krishna ke lye kesa rha bhaia se saia ka safar? 😂 tumhare lye behn hai na? Tumhare haan tu baal beti bhi chal jata hai
I work at Child Psychiatry Department at Mayo Hospital, Lahore. Most (80%) of the parents of the children who present with intellectual disability have cousin marriage.
Cousin marriage has become a serious problem in our villages. 10-12 years ago, a child died due to thalassemia. Two years ago, another boy from the same family died due to thalassemia. Now 3 more children of the same family have thalassemia. My teacher's son has thalassemia. And now that the teacher has done blood tests on his family, 70% of the family members have thalassemia. And now this problem is getting even worse. Due to cousin marriage, many children in another family in our villages are mentally and physically disabled. 2 children were died due to this issue last year. Another family has children suffering from anemia. In another family, a little girl is suffering from thalassemia. My family has also thought of cousin marriage. But for the last 3 years I have been having a heated discussion with my family on cousin marriage and have been openly opposing cousin marriage. I have told my family in clear words that I would rather die than marrying cousin. Now, as my younger brother is doing MBBS, he is also opposing family, exposing downsides of cousin marriage and supporting me.
हम सभी मुसलमानों में सभी लोग जब बच्चे रहते हैं, तब हम सभी अपने चाचा, खाला, मामू, के बच्चे आपस में मिल कर रहते हैं, जिसमें आपस में प्यार बढ़ता है, एक दूसरे के जज्बात को समझते रहते हैं, यही कारण है कि हम सभी आपस में जुड़े रहने के लिए निकाह कर सकते हैं, यह बढ़िया काम है। इंशा अल्लाह, आमीन।
@@allahkakafirbanda1939 its not like it should not or can not be done.. point is to consider this as the least viable option when choosing your partner to have kids with.
I m hindu maithil brahmin. This is true even today. We marry different gotras not same. And I know my 7 generation it's written on mithila panchang which is like a official accountability of keeping data with name and details till today with birth, birth place, education, property to date of death and place of death. My father passed away this year and we did last rights at haridwar so I found my great grandmother and other relatives did last right at same place in some 634AD. So it's amazing to have such knowledge.
Brother this problem doesn't occur generally but if you marry generation after generation , to the first cousin then even there is a hadith not to do that . This Question was asked by Rahul in Dubai from Dr Zakir Nayak and he answered it.
I am Gujjar....and we cannot marry in our gotra.....they are like our sisters..... we can marry except 4 gotras.... (mother, father, grandmother, nani) rishte se phle hi na
@@Revenger.777: absolutely the biggest sin and looked down upon! Just like if a son tries to have a relation with his own mother will be frowned upon in muslims(ofcos in Hindus/Christian’s etc), same is with cousins. Ofcos there are cases where due to Infatuation people do such things, but those are illegal and a blasphamy. I mean, instead of talking shit, try to search for the facts! There are certain things which are haram like eating pork! Imagine, a Hindu accusing a Muslim of secretly eating pork and doing her mom?! It will be stupid and baseless right? But not completely impossible! Just like that marrying/keeping affair with cousins is a big no no! Also, in india South Indians hindu marry within cousins. So no, it is not all Hindu, but a regional thing. North Indians hindu don’t do that at all!!
Respected Sir, it's very brave of you to speak the truth which is not in sync with the Shariah Laws. You mus have really enriched many of our Muslim brothers & sisters. Hope they will listen to your knowledgeable suggestions. Namaskar 🙂
Coming from a Rajput family in Rajasthan I can assure the names mentioned at 5:00 are not true. In Rajputs we avoid weddings with mother’s and even grandmother’s gotra (gene pool). So, I believe that fact is inconsistent.
I am from miniscule zorastrian community residing in Mumbai ...... my daughter refused to marry within the parsi community as she says the regressive genes are dominant and the genepool is contaminated 🇮🇳 🇮🇳 🇮🇳 You touched a very important topic .....
@@Angelinajolieshortsdarn and have her in a fridge??? In sure the Parsis of our country are prudent enough ..and don’t forget the Parsis left Iran due to the Islamic invasion and sought refuge in India..We love our Parsi community very much ❤❤❤❤❤
@@trilokyamohanchakra6351 yes I am bcz i have seen childs with thalassemia fighting for their life. if you have someone in your family you will understand the importance.
@@Executor8 But the Creator of the heavens and the earth Allah obligates the razamandi of man and woman which as you can see in the servay is not there, the man and women are pressured and married against their will which is also not allowed, blame the culture not the religion (because seriously people here majority don't even know what's actually written in the Quran they haven't read the translation and many of them don't even establish daily five prayers which is the bear minimum)
I am a Hindu from West Bengal, India. In Bengal we do not marry if our GOTRA is same. Since my cousin share same Gotra hence there is no question of marring a cousin in Hindu Bengali family. Gotra refers to ancestral linage, if Gotra is same then your ancestral linage is same and you are prohibited to marry that person as per cultural norms. Marrying a person with same GOTRA is counted as incest in our culture and looked down upon society. In North India things are more strict they follows the GOTRA concept and along with that their rules are little different for example in Haryana, UP or Uttarakhand, you are prohibited to marry from same village because they think if a boy or girl is gown in same area then they became brother-sister by default. However in South India and North East, things are little different. Among Tamilians and Andhra Hindus they do cousin marriage so as to keep the wealth of the family intact. There could be other reasons too why they are allowed to do so but I have no idea regarding, when I heard about it I was shocked to know about it.
In Haryana, families kill the couple if someone marries a cousin (even distant one with same gotra or bloodline). Neither legal or justified but that is how sacred North Indians consider the bond of Brother-Sister (including cousins).
Exactly, I am from Uttrakhand and noone can even think about cousin marriage...strictly prohibited in my family. Majority of Pakistani do this practice due to poverty and orthodox philosophy.
Hmare yha Uttar Pradesh Haryana Rajasthan me same gotra me to shadiya hoti hi nahi h Hmare yha same village me bhi koi ek dusre se shadi nahi kr sakta chahe caste ya gotra alag alag kyo na ho
I am a Sanatni and reside in Austria. Here by laws inter-family marriage is not accepted by law. But our religion dont permit. It justifies, that our Ancestors were great researches and knowing secrets of genetics. That is why I feel proud to be a Sanatni
I am a bhardwaj brahmin from north india (gurgaon), though mine is love marriage. But she is also a brahmin girl, her parents and my parents checked thoroughly before marriage that none of our gotra should match like from mother father from both sides and grand parents, nana nani from both sides. Blessed with a healthy son 3 years ago.
As a Indian Hindu, How I see this is you took a Xerox and you keep xerox that Xerox sheet again and again... So at some point of a time you ll find the xerox of those Xeroxes getting fade!! So it takes multiple generation to effect it!! And in Pakistan this is happening from decades!! And now that xerox is fading away slowly and people still don't understand the alarming situation!!
We always compare Indian and Pakistani TH-camrs. But when Pakistani makes good informative video, no one watches it or even support the creator. On the contrary cringe daily vloggers are getting all the views from their scripted videos. We should support and subscribe Junaid Akram ❤🙌🏿
This is a very very sensitive subject and hat's off to you for raising this in such a practical and wonderful way. I think educated muslims can play an important role in creating awareness and explain the danger the coming generation will face . Kudos to you
Very well compiled article Junaid Uncle/Sir. It takes guts to talk about societal issues, and you have backed this video with data that is the best part.
It's important to understand that cousin marriage isn’t the sole reason for the birth of children with genetic defects. According to scientific research, even in non-cousin marriages, there's a 4% chance of having a child with a genetic condition, while in cousin marriages, this increases slightly to 6%. I personally know two families where the children were born with mental health issues, and the parents weren’t cousins. Genetic disorders can occur for many reasons, and while cousin marriage might slightly raise the risk, it’s not the only factor.
हम सभी मुसलमानों में सभी लोग जब बच्चे रहते हैं, तब हम सभी अपने चाचा, खाला, मामू, के बच्चे आपस में मिल कर रहते हैं, जिसमें आपस में प्यार बढ़ता है, एक दूसरे के जज्बात को समझते रहते हैं, यही कारण है कि हम सभी आपस में जुड़े रहने के लिए निकाह कर सकते हैं, यह बढ़िया काम है। हमें अपने रिवाज पर फख्र है। इंशा अल्लाह, आमीन।
Thank you Junaid. In a country drowning in religious extremism, intolerance and show of piety, you come with unique topics that affect the general populance. True son of soil, true patriot who does not care about his income, about his views and only thinks of the betterment of Pakistanis despite the consequences. We cannot thank you enough for the work you do, for the awareness you create.
You will continue to weep, as long as you are in Arabi political ideology called Islam. There will be n number of excuse only to avoid identifying root cause Islam
@farazfudge still some people are promoting cousin marriage in comments in the name of religion. One of the promotee guy says he did MS in genetics and chance of genetic disease in cousin marriage in negligible. 😆 🤣 😂
I think the genetic screening is the best option. I am based in UAE and over here before anyone gets a Nikah done, the man and woman go through a blood tests to check if they carry such diseases which can cause issues to their future children. It’s better to be aware before than it being too late.
i am a Dr and i think Junaid did the work which was solely our responsibility. great work , v informative vid bro. Plz create a video on fam planning aswell so we can stop the population boom as it is a great burden on our country's poor economy🙃🙃
@theexplorer9369 still India ranks 2nd largest country in the world, suffers from genetic disease Sickle Cell Anaemia births,double number than pakistan. In fact, half of SCD affected population lives in India alone, and Thalassemia rate is almost same in both countries life expectancy is also same. if only 'cousin marriage' is a threat, why India is more affected being 10x less in cousin marriage, everyone is following Gotra and no one marries a relative till 7th generation. Cousin marriages have been happening since the beginning of the world if marrying your cousins is pendamic, human spieces would have already extinct centuries ago.
India is Hindu majority country and population is also bcz of Hindus ... If Muslims ki wajah se population zyada hai to India se pehle 57 Muslim desh ki population zyada hoti... understood betaaa😂@@blackpacific5255
Superb video Junaid Bhai. I am a Brahmin from MITHILA (BIHAR). My GOTRA is "Shandilya", and yes i can't marry a girl who also is "shandilya", we always make sure our "GOTRA's" are different. The Mention of MANUSMRITI was also Superb. Thanks from BHARAT. 🧡
@@Exhindu-d2xin south india rare hindu marry their cousins, in the part of TN and aandhra, vo bhi ab band ho chuka he, and krishna ki baat bolne se pehle pdh ke aa, khud ki ga,ndh saaf nhi hoti to dusro ke ghr me bhi daal do tum logo ki fi,tart hi yhi he, khud mat sudharana dusre ki baat khod khod ke laana.
There are around 25 children in my family who are blind by birth and the root cause is cousin marriages. I refused to marry my cousin, which ended up on ending family ties with that family because they don't understand. Another problem is girls are more than boys, and it is difficult to find a husband for them. Anyways, my parents partially understood this issue and they stood up with me despite social pressure from many elders. I hope the other side will understand this one day.
@@enterjam4286 Like one of my uncles has two kids blind and two kids healthy. It is 50/50 somewhere. Another uncle has only one kid blind out of 4. But I have seen how it ruins lives even if one kid is blind... And nobody tells you how many kids die at the time of birth. So it is a serious matter. If you think you must marry your cousin, then go for a genetic test at least.
The best video ever made on the subject. You have the courage to be impartial with facts n figures. You have great knowledge also. Kudos to you. Hope not only Pakistanis but around the world Muslims will now take care of their future generations. ❤❤❤
Here in Jammu and Kashmir, India 🇮🇳... where as genetic diseases are less common Jammu which has 67 pc Hindu population while in Kashmir they are prominent which has 97 pc Muslim population and cousin marriages were very common in one generation back
@@Kevin_2719 What he said is not really true. Muslims of Kashmir are different from Punjabi, Sindhi, Pathan and Baloch Muslims in this regard. However, Jammu and Kashmir is the 5th highest state when it comes to cousin marriages in India, with only Telangana, Karnataka, Andhra Pradesh and Tamil Nadu ahead of JnK. And this little contribution for J&K is solely due to Muslims of J&K. Infact I would argue the presence of Hindus in Jammu is the reason why your state numbers are not so high in cousin marriages.
@@xijinpig8982 I m talking of kashmiri ethnic population... Everyone living in kashmir is not kashmiri ethnically n genetically... Cousin marriages r common in our ethnic group also but we don't face any such major issue.. Before marriage genetic counselling is preferred by everyone..
Which nation of India does it? India is not one nation or country. It was created by the British. A part of South India have marriages between mama bhanji
@@sabrinakhan8217 Sabrina ji... It happen in North India..... Here in India we have different cultural zones with their own practices and believe system.... But Sister we are one nation
This is my first comment about this I want to thank you for raising this issue I am also been suffering from genetical disorder I've searched about it but didn't found any evidence of this disease (I can't run, my legs feel like stuck when I try to run more than two steps, can't lift things up to my head but I never told about this to anyone even in my house) cuz my dad married his cousin, but Alhamdulilah
Zabardast brother this is the best video and you have explained well in UK the National HealthCare service has told the Muslim community that they have to stop having cousins marriages there are many children suffering disability and but they still carrying on I hope many people watching this video greeting from London
Bhai eik original case mein bhi hun merey parents 1st cousins hain mujhe Progressive Macular Dystrophy hai i am loosing muscle power and muscle mass by age zindagi jaise eik jang hai merey liye roz eik maut marte hain hum but kya kersakte hain bas apne se worst kisi ko dekhta hun tow ALLAH ka shuker ada kerta hun jo bhi yeh comment parhe merey liye dua kerey ALLAH mujhe himmat de
@@MohdFarhan-df6zrफिर भी भाई मुस्लिम समुदाय में साइंस एंड फैक्ट को मानने वाले लोग उंगलियों को जिन लो 99.99% मुस्लिम केवल कुरान, नबी, कन्वर्जन, गुस्ताक ए रसूल ईटीसी से बाहर नहीं निकल पाते हैं
हम सभी मुसलमानों में सभी लोग जब बच्चे रहते हैं, तब हम सभी अपने चाचा, खाला, मामू, के बच्चे आपस में मिल कर रहते हैं, जिसमें आपस में प्यार बढ़ता है, एक दूसरे के जज्बात को समझते रहते हैं, यही कारण है कि हम सभी आपस में जुड़े रहने के लिए निकाह कर सकते हैं, यह बढ़िया काम है। हमें अपने रिवाज पर फख्र है। इंशा अल्लाह, आमीन।
In rural India, marriages between families from the same village are often avoided, as they are considered akin to siblings. This practice persists in the southern parts of India, though it has declined due to increasing awareness. However, the percentage of endogamous marriages remains higher among Indian Muslims. If you visit a government hospital, you'll find a disproportionately higher number of Muslim patients suffering from genetic disorders due to the prevalence of such marriages
हिन्दुओ में कजिन मैरिज भारत के कुछ राज्य जैसे महाराष्ट्र, आंध्र प्रदेश और तमिलनाडु जैसे राज्यों में हिन्दुओ में भी कजिन मैरिज होता है। साउथ इंडिया में ऐसे मैरिज को मेरिकम कहते है। मेनरिकम शादियाँ दक्छिन के द्विजा ब्राह्मणो में भी होती है। भारतीय दक्छिन के कजिन मैरिज को समझने के लिए आपको भारतीय गोत्र प्रणाली को समझना पड़ेगा। दक्छिन भारतीय अपने गोत्र में शादी नहीं करते है। भारतीय गोत्र प्रणाली एक जटिल प्रक्रिया है जिसको समझने के लिए आपको आयुर्वेद और ज्योतिष शास्त्र को समझना पड़ेगा। आज भी पंडितो में जब शादिया होती है तो गोत्र का मिलान होता है। अगर एक गोत्र निकला तो सगोत्री होने के कारण शादी रद्द कर दी जाएगी। शादी करने के लिए वर और वधु का गोत्र अलग अलग होना चाहिए। इसके बाद शादी मिलान के लिए नाड़ी दोस निकाला जाता है। अगर गोत्र अलग अलग भी है और वर वधु का नाड़ी एक है तो वर वधु का विवाह नहीं हो सकता क्योकि नाड़ी दोस एक बड़ा दोस माना जाता है क्योकि नाड़ी आयुर्वेद के हिसाब से प्राण वायु, कफ और पित्त इन तीनो से मिल कर बनता है। अगर नाड़ी वर वधु कि एक हुयी तो संतान में दोस उत्प्पन हो जायेगा इसलिए नाड़ी एक नहीं हो सकता। फिर कुंडली के हिसाब से गण मिलाये जाते है। गण भी तीन प्रकार के होते है 1. देवता 2. मनुष्य और 3. राक्षस गण तो एक प्रकार के गण नहीं होने चाहिए जैसे देवता और देवता गण की शादी नहीं हो सकती इसीप्रकार मनुष्य और मनुष्य गण की शादी नहीं हो सकती है लेकिन राक्षस और मनुष्य गण की शादी हो सकती है इसीप्रकार देवता और राक्षस गण की भी शादिया हो सकती है। इन सभी की गड़ना की जाती हैं और कम से कम 25 गुण (गड़ना) और ज्यादा से ज्यादा 32 गुण तक की शादियाँ को शुभ माना जाता है। अगर यहाँ तक आप भारतीय गोत्र प्रणाली को समझ चुके है। तो अब आप ये समझिये की जब मामा ने गोत्र अपनी बहन का शादी के लिए कुंडली मिलान कराई होगी तो उन्होंने ये सारी प्रक्रिया का पालन किया होगा। अब मामा का ब्लड लाइन अलग है और मेरे कुटुम्ब का ब्लड लाइन अलग है। इसी तरह जब मेरे पिता ने अपने बहन का शादी किया होगा तो वो भी कुंडली की प्रक्रिया से अलग गोत्र में शादी किया होगा। इस प्रकार मेरे मामा या बुआ के ब्लड लाइन मेरे कुटुम्ब से के ब्लड लाइन से अलग होगा। मेरा मतलब गोत्र अलग होगा। हलाकि कि मैं नार्थ इंडियन हु और हमारे इलाके में इसप्रकार मामा व् बुआ के वहाँ शादियों का चलन नहीं है। फिर भी अगर मैं अपने कजिन मामा और बुआ के वहाँ शादी करू तो हिन्दू रीती और रिवाज़ों के अनुसार वो गलत नहीं माना जायेगा। और यही साउथ इंडियन लोग करते है। वो अपने गोत्र में शादिया नहीं करते है बल्कि अलग ब्लड लाइन में और खासकर मामा के लड़की से शादिया करते है। हालांकि की अब विज्ञानं ने काफी तरक्की कर ली है और अब हमारे पास ब्लड टेस्ट से लेकर दूसरी सुविधाएं मौजूद है। तो अब हमे हिन्दूओ को प्राचीन भारतीय गोत्र प्रणाली के साथ साथ नए वैज्ञानिक तरीकों के अनुसार शादियाँ करनी चाहिए। हिन्दू विवाह प्रणाली को अगर 360 डिग्री से चेक करे तो ये और भी जटिल प्रणाली बन जाती है। वात्सायन ऋषि द्वारा रचित कामसूत्र में पुरुष और महिलाओ को काम वासना के अनुसार तीन भागो में बाटा गया है। 1. हस्ती (हाथी ) 2. बड़वा (बैल) और मृगी (हिरण) और वो एक कदम और आगे जाकर वैवाहिक काम में स्त्री और पुरुष का काम वासना पूर्ण हो इसके लिए उन्होंने इन तीनो प्रकार के जोड़ो को भी मिलाने के पक्षधर थे। और ये यही नहीं रुकता बल्कि विवाह के प्रकार जैसे वैदिक शादी, व्यवस्था विवाह, गन्धर्व विवाह इत्यादि आगे ही बढ़ता जाता है। और इसलिए भारतीय विवाह प्रणाली एक जटिल प्रणाली है। जिस पे एक अलग से किताब लिखी जा सकती है। पूरी दुनिया के किसी भी मजहब में इस प्रकार का विवाह के दूसरा उदाहरण और इस प्रकार के वर्गीकरण के साथ नहीं मिलता।
Indian Vijay ji wo south India me ek non-Muslims hindu community hai jahan sirf cousins Marriage hi hoti hai isliye umnko kuch bimari or allergic hote hain aur wahan pr hospital me cast puchi jati hai Taki anaesthesia mna diya ja sake qk wo unkeliye jaanlewa hota hai Aap Mohak Mangal ki vedio dekh sakte hain isi topic pr
yes He s.a.w. did but He also married other women r.a. so the problem is not cousin marriage in my opinion it is parents forcing cousin marriage....If only peopel who fell in love with thier cousins would marry them there would be no issues
If both parents have sickle cell that can cause the child this anemia, doesn't matter if parents are cousin. If you have some concert reason to relate it with cousin marriage, let me know.
If both parents have sickle cell that can cause the child this anemia, doesn't matter if parents are cousin. If you have some concert reason to relate it with cousin marriage, let me know.
your big fan Sir but to be honest these wealth and power consolidation point is just valid for top 1%. In my family its a very common practice to do cousin marriages. Both of my elder brothers are marries with my cousins. There are 2 reasons for this practice in general 1st one is lack of awareness, when I told my parents that I am not going to marry my cousin due to health issues they said all marriages in our family are cousin marriages and we didn't see any medical issue so its a bullshit, that was there stance. 2nd reason is very important, parents usually see our cousins grow in front of themselves they see there behaviours and other attributes for almost 20 years and they can easily see which type of boy or girls they are going to choose. On the other hand marrying a girl form outside of your family is a complete bet because its obvious you cant judge the personality of a person in 4 to 5 meetings as in our culture these decisions are made by parents not kids so its very difficult to assess the person. (Its the main reason in our family it can defer in other families.) keep making these type of videos as they are very informative for our people.
Thank you for raising this pandemic. This is one of the biggest issue in Pakistan yet no one including government, media and medical fraternity talk about.
Easily one of the biggest issues in Pakistan . Why can't people just accept scientific consensus that cousin marriages ( especially multiple generations of such marriages ) leads to all kinds of health issues in people .
Ground reality is very much different than what media or scientific studies portray, the birth defect rate in kids Whose parents are related is same as much as the birth defect rate of kids whose parents are not related. It's not big of an issue if you make a survey you can find out and that's why in some regions people get involved in such relationships
The ancestral record part is very apt Junaid. Our family has records of our last 20 generations not just men but women. For further records, we will have to visit Kashi because most of the lineage records are placed in the holy cities of Hindus which our forefathers visited in their lifetime. This record is not only used during marriages but during Pitru Paksha also. It is a common practice among Hindus when we honor our almost last 2 or 3 generations of Fathers, Mothers, and Siblings by offering them food and seeking their blessings. By the way, the Gotra of my family is Kashyap and my mother's gotra is Bharadwaj.
@@muhammadArshad-ju2gg I think a part of video was about Gotra System which obviously ur ancestors also followed once. I just added the fact that we follow it today also.
@@gauravpatil9579 never heard of gotra system,it's your system not our's theek hai rai do lecture na do.... Ap maaz main nahi haal main Hain... Ancestors ko goli maro aur apnay haal aur mustaqbil ki fiqar karo... That's it
@@muhammadArshad-ju2gg The system was followed in almost all the Northern parts of India including present-day Pakistan. And I am talking about the present situation only all of the stuff I wrote is what we follow today also.
@@muhammadArshad-ju2gg One more thing I think you should improve your learning ability cuz I nowhere in my comment mentioned India but you assumed it just because of the word Hindu. Please start differentiating between religion, culture, and country.
Having watched a couple of these pak dramas, i too realised that they are very much agenda driven, promoting cousin marriages, wearing burkha etc! Do Continue doing such work. Asking the right questions, and making people think, is so important for a healthy society!
In many Pakistani communities, cousin marriages are common, especially within the middle and lower classes. Here's why people often choose this path: Some families strictly believe in marrying within the family ("hum khandaan main hi shaadi karte hain"). Even in the absence of suitable proposals, marrying outside the family is not considered an option. Society often expects individuals to marry within their family circle, reinforcing the tradition and discouraging outside matches. Marrying cousins ensures trust and familiarity, as families already know each other’s background, character, and reputation. Some believe cousin marriages help preserve cultural and familial values, which they fear could be diluted with outside marriages.
We Hindus never marage in same lineage.we all knows about our gotra . As i am from bharadwaj gotra i cannot marry from same gotra. In this way we are keeping ourselves safe from ancient times.thanks to our encestors knowledge 🙏🏻
Feeling pride to be part of sanatan dharm ❤ feeling very lucky to born in hindu family and I am very fortunate my ancestors who did not convert. That's why in our religion we treat our cousins as sister and brother.
@@karanvij00 apna Gyan apne paas rakho madarsa chap Gyan hamesha apne flat earth vali aasmani kitab sae compare karte rehte ho hamare granth ko And there is huge difference between 1400 religion and our oldest religion jitna purana thumhara dharam usse jyda purani hamare pass temples hai,jahil to tum khud Ho jo cousin marriage ke health par dangerous effect ke baad bhi blindly follow karte ho . Pehle jake Science padho phir Gyan Dene aana kyuki science to padhte nhi hoge
@@user-sp9wh6kl6c yes in maybe in your culture or religion because in mine uncle and nieces have very sacred relationship.because we don't have a policy of halala and four marriage you people have Many options right in house why to go outside
Niyoga (Sanskrit: नियोग) was an ancient tradition of Svayambhuva Manu sect, which is mainly followed by Svayambhuva Manu's believers. In which a woman (whose husband is either incapable of fatherhood or has died without having a child) would request and appoint a man for helping her bear a child.
There is also the same case in my family.Two cousins got married with each other.They have four sons two of them are deaf by birth.I think government should come forward to deal with this silent pandemic.
@mirsarfraz7143 untill ppl realize cousin marriages are also incest nobody can do anything. There still ppl in the comments supporting cousin marriages in the name of religion
Definitely lineage me koi na koi parent deaf rahe honge. Jab Aisa ho to fir cousin marriage avoid karni chahiye because you don't know kiska gene dominant ho
First cousins are non-siblings that share grandparents. Second cousins are non-siblings that share great-grandparents. Third cousins are non-siblings that share great-great-grandparents. 🙏
keep it up bro... bht important topic hy..we should stop these cousins marriages in Pakistan. me too suffer a lot due to cousinsl marriage.. my second daughter born with Congenital heart defect..i have gone through tough time if my life..after surgery she is doing well mashaallah.. but mughy bht ziayada care karni hoti hy. we should create awareness.
What a great video! I don’t usually leave comments on videos, but this is an issue that must be addressed. Some may bring up the marriage of Hazrat Fatima (AS) and Hazrat Ali (AS) as an example, but it's important to understand that the Prophet never openly endorsed cousin marriage. In the case of Hazrat Ali and Fatima (AS), there was already a deep bond between them, and the Prophet found no better man for his daughter than Ali (AS). Uthman (AS) was already married to two of the Prophet’s daughters, and Abu Bakr (RA) and Umar (RA) were older. Ali (AS) was young, and the Prophet had known him since he was nine years old. But again, the Prophet never explicitly encouraged cousin marriage for others. He left it as an option, just as he left the options for divorce or shaving body hair. With advancements in science, we now understand more about genetics and health risks that were unknown 1,400 years ago. The Prophet never declared that cousin marriage is necessarily good, nor did he prohibit it. Therefore, it's not a matter of challenging his prophecy or doubting his guidance. We are simply applying new knowledge to make choices that reflect both faith and reason. It is also important to understand that the Prophet did not possess knowledge of everything in the universe; rather, he knew only what Allah had revealed to him.
I am a Hindu from West Bengal, India. In Bengal we do not marry if our GOTRA is same. Since my cousin share same Gotra hence there is no question of marring a cousin in Hindu Bengali family. Gotra refers to ancestral linage, if Gotra is same then your ancestral linage is same and you are prohibited to marry that person as per cultural norms. Marrying a person with same GOTRA is counted as incest in our culture and looked down upon society. In North India things are more strict they follows the GOTRA concept and along with that their rules are little different for example in Haryana, UP or Uttarakhand, you are prohibited to marry from same village because they think if a boy or girl is gown in same area then they became brother-sister by default. However in South India and North East, things are little different. Among Tamilians and Andhra Hindus they do cousin marriage so as to keep the wealth of the family intact. There could be other reasons too why they are allowed to do so but I have no idea regarding, when I heard about it I was shocked to know about it.
@@incredibleindia9844 Kya aapke pass is baat ki daleel (reference) hai ke humare quran or hadith is baat ko endorse karte hain ke cousin marriage karo?
@@subhashishbagchi3191 Yeah he explained that lowkey in the video, I am disgusts by the fact too people continuously marriage with their first cousin or something, but I am pretty sure this number will get down in Pakistan as people are getting more educated about this and younger generate will be more self-aware.
Sir I am Indian Muslim my Father and Mother are First Cousin.....we are two brother......But not suffers any kind of serious illness Alhamdulillah 😊😊😊 Education is the only way for Stopping Cousin marriages 😊😊
Reason is not only lack of awareness and personal gains but also one of the most IMPORTANT reason is Mistrust. You would not marry your daughter to a person whom you know nothing about. You would prefer a guy who was raised in front of you. Plus you can exert pressure to treat your daughter kindly.
It's hilarious that such a huge population, yet people marrying into families... its like having ground to play football yet you kicking ball inside your home
No it's not, niyog is done when women can't find a better suited after her husband has passed away, aisa nhi ki chachi ki beti hot lagi toh ghusa do@@Dungeonmaster222
I am Hindu and we cannot marry anyone from the same gotra. Kundlis are matched before marriage to ensure happy marriage life. Proud to be a Sanatani whose ancestors were so advanced thousands of years ago.
These cousin marriages need to be stopped, it's astounding to see how many people kept defending this, not knowing about it's implications. More youtubers need to talk on this, specially our drama industry needs to inform people about it.
TH-camrs ko views chahiye. Unhe pata hota hai kaise views aayenge. India ke bengal region me bahut thalassemia ke cases paye jate hain among non muslims.
I believe the genetic part is the absolute difficult reality of the risk people are taking. Genetic tests should become more popular in countries like pak to bring awareness of potential danger factors. Whether or not they are cousins isn't going to help if there are underlying genetic illnesses. My own cousin married outside the family and extensive genetic issues arose amongst all her children. Truly breaks my heart. Same happened to my aunt, same happened to my friend, same happened to my neighbor. All non cousin marriage and severe very scary genetic issues that weren't in our family. There should be more awareness of genetic concerns in each family so they can't hide behind good manners and decorum and expensive walima parties. All these new generation babies are suffering immensely 💔
This is the comment I was looking for. The rate is 6 percent for cousin marriages and 4 percent for non-cousin marriages. This doesn’t mean that every child in a mental hospital is the result of cousin marriage. Ultimately, it's only God who can bless a family with a healthy baby. I’ve personally met two families who had children with health issues, and neither marriage was between cousins. In fact, their families hadn’t even known each other before the marriage. On the other hand my friends parents were cousins. He and his siblings are academically bright student and doing well in their life.
I am Hindu jat and hamare 5 gotra chhodte hai(father, mother, Nani,Dadi and pardadi)and gotra does not mean family only it means that blood line lineage (like I'm Kaler so we can't marry any Kaler in world ) it's complex. Plus anyone from same village is considered brothers and sisters every gotra and Cast😊 how intelligent our ancestors were ❤
Correct.
I am a sikh jatt we also practice the same
@@LuckySidhu-ln6vkSahi me aapke bhi gotra hota hai 😮
@@a.s-h1h haan bhai
@@LuckySidhu-ln6vk wow Aaj hi pata chala 😊
I am gurjar muslim from haryana
We also follow gotra system@@a.s-h1h
Me and my two other siblings suffer from genetic disorders because our parents were cousins. My sister suffers from a chronic bone diseases which has no cure in the world at the moment. I am among the brighest students throughout my educational career, which led to many of my chachu/phupho/khala families showing interest in me for their daughters. This included a proposal from a crore patti uncle and had I accepted that, I would have no need to do any work ever again in my life. Alhamdulilah, I preferred to marry out of my family and went agaisnt all the so-called khandan. The whole khandan no longer talk to us for this reason, but I am proud that I made the right deicision. Health of future kids > Khandan ki ego
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Pyare nabi ne to 8 saal ki gudiya se shadi kar li thi... 😂😂
@@adityapurohit8577 toh tu kyu uchhal raha hai?
Apne desh mein kya kum bakchodiyan chal rahi hai jo yaha gyaan de raha hai tu?
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I am a bengali Hindu Brahmin.
I am from Sandalya gotra. So, I can't marry a girl from my gotra.
I have to marry a girl from other gotras.
My parents and other family members have also followed this rule.
I am proud to have such intelligent ancestors who taught us this rule.
But you will not marry a non- Baaman even though Inter-caste marriages are the best for healthy children.
@@80sguy27no need to unless I fall in love with a girl. You marry someone who is living on the road side and show your inclusiveness. You won't do that because they are not equal to you in economical status. Think about yourself before taking lessons to others.
@@kujlijamoon hey m●r●n, I have married my school sweetheart. 😂
Before marriage we match kundali .
tera problem kya hain ?? Ye unke dharm mein ho raha hain , maybe it's our plan , to give them generational shock which can be helpful in our long term gain ...... so please , don't address this as their mistake .... let them do , to achieve our goals
I am a Hindu from Assam. My father is an Ahom. My mother is a Bhuyan. Since 12 Bhuyan families were picked by the Ahom King and settled in Assam then to manage land ( they were Zamindars ) ; Bhuyans are not allowed to marry another Bhuyan.
Yeah also heard a similar social practice in kerela where nayar ladies got married to nambudari brahman guys
Ahom superior race
Ahom. Community brave comiunity and ruler of asaam
हम सभी मुसलमानों में सभी लोग जब बच्चे रहते हैं, तब हम सभी अपने चाचा, खाला, मामू, के बच्चे आपस में मिल कर रहते हैं, जिसमें आपस में प्यार बढ़ता है, एक दूसरे के जज्बात को समझते रहते हैं, यही कारण है कि हम सभी आपस में जुड़े रहने के लिए निकाह कर सकते हैं, यह बढ़िया काम है।
इंशा अल्लाह, आमीन।
Just bakwas, baqi jin logoki shadian czn kesath nhi hoti unko kuch nhi hota wo nhi marte
I want to add something as a Pakistani Hindu living in Pakistan. All Hindus in Pakistan still follow the ancestors' rule. My Gotra, which I inherited from my father and forefathers, and my mother's Gotra and my grandmother's Gotra are different because they came from the outside family. I can only marry a girl whose father, mother, and grandmother's Gotra are unmatched by mine. This means I can't marry in the family if one of the Gotra gets a match with anyone. Marrying in mutual Gotra is strictly prohibited.
India bhi same yhi khud ki mammi or dadi ki gotra me Sadi nhi karte
South India main some Hindus karte hain cousin marriage.
Zinda ho abhi bhi kya tum log Pakistan mein ?
@@HardhikChouhan WHich nation of india? India is not one nation. A part of South India have marriages between mamoo and bhanji
@@tomarsingh6367Haan Karachi sindh mei hai ye log bache kuche
We Hindus in India recall our 7 levels of forefathers during the marriage puja ceremony to ensure avoiding collision of DNA within gotra.
Yah you're right but unfortunately some southern hindus do cousin marriage to contain the wealth within the family. But that practice is decreasing
A North India commenting from a village with Chinese phoné , bro visit south India,
I think Sri Krishna forget it so hi married his cousin
S.b. 10.58.56
@@Exhindu-d2x asapiṇḍā ca yā māturasagotrā ca yā pituḥ | sā praśastā dvijātīnāṃ dārakarmaṇi maithune || 5 ||
She who is not a “sapiṇḍa” of one’s mother, not of the same “Gotra” as his Father, and who is not born of (unlawful) intercourse-has been recommended for marriage.-(5)
As mitravinda and bhadra were daughters of paternal aunt, they will be of different gotra from krishna's father gotra, hence it was not wrong as per marriage rule.
@@ShubhamGupta-hg9md kitna jhoot bolte ho yaar hindûuu ,
Waha saaf saaf likha hai parental aunts daughter
Uano mausi ki beti ,,
Jalebi baazi ki bhi had hoti hai
Finally someone said it. Who better than Junaid bhai anyway.
I have been offered to marry cousins (first and second), but I genuinely find this thought abhore. I said no. The rebuttles I got:
1. Bahar ki larki kese chalay gi hamare khandaan mein
2. Baqi rishteydaron ki get together mein bahar ki larki hogi tou parda k masla hoga (as if other relatives are Mahram :D)
3. Bahar see larki lao ge tou baad mein wo kesi niklay phir kya kro ge?
4. Bahar wali tumhen hum see door le jaye gi
Ab yeh video sab rishteydaro ko forward karun ga aur ghar TV pe chala dun ga 😂
Yah kaise ajib excuse hai , fir to aap log hamesha joint family system ko follow karte honge.. agar bahar wali door le jayegi to… kya falatu k excuse hai, caste system k according hi lo,
Ab iss baat dukh manao ki hasu ki pakistan mein abhi rationality kuch log mein baki warna sablog cousin marriage ko support kar rahe pakistan se according to religion.
Brother. I blame awareness for these kinds of issues. I really pity those people but hope at the same time that with time & generational shift, these practices will be less and less.
Hahaha bilkul accurate rebuttals batayen ap ne 😂 my husband faced the same issues while he announced about me to his family as they acknowledge cousin marriage only.. khandan waliyan aksar nani yad dila deti hain... bahar wali achi chal jati hain 😅😅
Bhai liberals agenda hamesha ya hindu RSS karata hai ya West.. Itna vulnerable na banao apne aapko ye junaid akrem jaisi log apne baap ke sage na honge
भैया से सैया बनने वाला लाइन was epic ब्रो 🔥🤣
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हम सभी मुसलमानों में सभी लोग जब बच्चे रहते हैं, तब हम सभी अपने चाचा, खाला, मामू, के बच्चे आपस में मिल कर रहते हैं, जिसमें आपस में प्यार बढ़ता है, एक दूसरे के जज्बात को समझते रहते हैं, यही कारण है कि हम सभी आपस में जुड़े रहने के लिए निकाह कर सकते हैं, यह बढ़िया काम है।
इंशा अल्लाह, आमीन।
This is by far your best video. The level of research from Ancient India and its culture that has distilled to modern subcontinent's society is brilliantly explained. Give the researcher a raise!! Islam allows for cousin marriage but that doesn't mean we should exploit what God has given to us.
Thanks to our ancestors for accepting Islam
We thank Jinnah also
@@personalpr3723We should also thank jinnah for taking cancer away from us
@@personalpr3723😂😂😂😂
@@personalpr3723 v r u thanking Jinah?
@@personalpr3723 this has nothing to do with Islam. If you have watched the video, it was the Hindu culture that distilled into modern society.
Finally someone had guts to speak 👌
Sure ❤
हम सभी मुसलमानों में सभी लोग जब बच्चे रहते हैं, तब हम सभी अपने चाचा, खाला, मामू, के बच्चे आपस में मिल कर रहते हैं, जिसमें आपस में प्यार बढ़ता है, एक दूसरे के जज्बात को समझते रहते हैं, यही कारण है कि हम सभी आपस में जुड़े रहने के लिए निकाह कर सकते हैं, यह बढ़िया काम है। हमें अपने रिवाज पर फख्र है।
इंशा अल्लाह, आमीन।
That is a sign of Educated TH-camr.. Good Topic Junaid Bhai.. Proper Education is only way to stop it ..
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achaw 😆
Hare Krishna Hare RAM
Jai Shree Ram ❤✅✅✅
But inke desh me inke jaisey samajhdar vyakti ko sunaney wale na ke barabar hotey he ( very very few ) aur mananey wale to bikul nil ke barabar ya .0001 % hogey
Yaha bhi indian hi jyada he 😂😂😂
हम सभी मुसलमानों में सभी लोग जब बच्चे रहते हैं, तब हम सभी अपने चाचा, खाला, मामू, के बच्चे आपस में मिल कर रहते हैं, जिसमें आपस में प्यार बढ़ता है, एक दूसरे के जज्बात को समझते रहते हैं, यही कारण है कि हम सभी आपस में जुड़े रहने के लिए निकाह कर सकते हैं, यह बढ़िया काम है। हमें अपने रिवाज पर फख्र है।
इंशा अल्लाह, आमीन।
As a healthcare professional, this is the best thing to watch. We seriously need these type of platforms to spread awareness in the society. Thankyou @junaidAkram.❤️
We hindus beleive gotra system our ancestors are so intelligent 🧠.
It's common sense which is not so common
You can change your gotra. I can name you Kings who changed gotra to marry or to get rid of sin of gotra-hatya. It's a made up lineage where you believe your ancestor was a great sage. And btw when you don't know your gotra you can use Kasyap gotra as a general gotra. A better parampara would be bansha parampara where you trace your ancestors but it cannot be changed because it's not imaginary.
@@Nep.Prazolno it can't be changed bullshit
@@Nep.Prazollet him change his gotra but still he is so logical that he will not marry his cousin.
Fun fact:- Krishna didn't Believed in it 😂😂
Bhaiya se saiyan was epic bhai😂😂😂
Tu bhi maza lene hi aaya hai lagta hai 😂
Benstokes
@@yogesh124 hn bhai😂😂
Wese baap se paap ka safar kesa rehta hai?
Wo tumhare liye bhai hai not for us. So may be ask your god Krishna why he married his sister? 😂😂
Tu ye btao rajput aur maratha royals ke lye kesa rha? 😂
Krishna ke lye kesa rha bhaia se saia ka safar? 😂 tumhare lye behn hai na?
Tumhare haan tu baal beti bhi chal jata hai
I work at Child Psychiatry Department at Mayo Hospital, Lahore. Most (80%) of the parents of the children who present with intellectual disability have cousin marriage.
And you are still following Islam
We thanks our Ancestors who didn't accepted Islam
Otherwise we would have become Zombiees
.thanks Jinnah
@@personalpr3723it's does not matter with religion.
As hindu thanks you for knowledge
@@personalpr3723 Islam does not make cousin marriage obligatory, nor is it specifically encouraged in the Quran. It is simply not prohibited (haram).
@@شادThe guy with the username @whocares should read this.
Cousin marriage has become a serious problem in our villages.
10-12 years ago, a child died due to thalassemia. Two years ago, another boy from the same family died due to thalassemia. Now 3 more children of the same family have thalassemia.
My teacher's son has thalassemia. And now that the teacher has done blood tests on his family, 70% of the family members have thalassemia. And now this problem is getting even worse.
Due to cousin marriage, many children in another family in our villages are mentally and physically disabled. 2 children were died due to this issue last year.
Another family has children suffering from anemia. In another family, a little girl is suffering from thalassemia.
My family has also thought of cousin marriage. But for the last 3 years I have been having a heated discussion with my family on cousin marriage and have been openly opposing cousin marriage. I have told my family in clear words that I would rather die than marrying cousin.
Now, as my younger brother is doing MBBS, he is also opposing family, exposing downsides of cousin marriage and supporting me.
Maximum how old the children's when they die
@@bollywoodscenesandudayansh5947 He was 15-17.
@@bollywoodscenesandudayansh5947 12 or 15 maximum my close friend also died due to this at age of 13
@@bollywoodscenesandudayansh5947
10-14 years normally
हम सभी मुसलमानों में सभी लोग जब बच्चे रहते हैं, तब हम सभी अपने चाचा, खाला, मामू, के बच्चे आपस में मिल कर रहते हैं, जिसमें आपस में प्यार बढ़ता है, एक दूसरे के जज्बात को समझते रहते हैं, यही कारण है कि हम सभी आपस में जुड़े रहने के लिए निकाह कर सकते हैं, यह बढ़िया काम है।
इंशा अल्लाह, आमीन।
Finally someone said it, if its permisible doesn't mean u should always do it.
@@abdullahSSG
And if it should not be done, why is it permissible
@@allahkakafirbanda1939 4 marriages are also permissible, but does that mean everyone should do it? Ur point isn't good at all.
@@abdullahSSG
My question is different
@@allahkakafirbanda1939 its not like it should not or can not be done.. point is to consider this as the least viable option when choosing your partner to have kids with.
Its not permissible
I m hindu maithil brahmin. This is true even today. We marry different gotras not same. And I know my 7 generation it's written on mithila panchang which is like a official accountability of keeping data with name and details till today with birth, birth place, education, property to date of death and place of death. My father passed away this year and we did last rights at haridwar so I found my great grandmother and other relatives did last right at same place in some 634AD. So it's amazing to have such knowledge.
This is so fascinating
Yep I am also a hindu saryupari brahmin from uttarpradesh.
And we also had our family records.
634AD damn bro
Brother this problem doesn't occur generally but if you marry generation after generation , to the first cousin then even there is a hadith not to do that .
This Question was asked by Rahul in Dubai from Dr Zakir Nayak and he answered it.
But I think you forgot kríshnaa record
S.b . 10.58.56 😂😂😂 he maríeedd his cousiñn
I am Gujjar....and we cannot marry in our gotra.....they are like our sisters.....
we can marry except 4 gotras.... (mother, father, grandmother, nani)
rishte se phle hi na
Lekin affair rakh sakte ho.. hai na..
Apne ghar ka haal bata raha hai kya ????? @@Revenger.777
@@Revenger.777No we don't. It's a sin.
@@Revenger.777: absolutely the biggest sin and looked down upon! Just like if a son tries to have a relation with his own mother will be frowned upon in muslims(ofcos in Hindus/Christian’s etc), same is with cousins. Ofcos there are cases where due to Infatuation people do such things, but those are illegal and a blasphamy. I mean, instead of talking shit, try to search for the facts! There are certain things which are haram like eating pork! Imagine, a Hindu accusing a Muslim of secretly eating pork and doing her mom?! It will be stupid and baseless right? But not completely impossible! Just like that marrying/keeping affair with cousins is a big no no!
Also, in india South Indians hindu marry within cousins. So no, it is not all Hindu, but a regional thing. North Indians hindu don’t do that at all!!
@@Revenger.777bhai apni cult mentality apne paas rkh,
hum bachpan se sabko bhai behen ya bhaiya didi bolte hain, sabhi cousins ko, gaon me sbhi ko bhi
Respected Sir, it's very brave of you to speak the truth which is not in sync with the Shariah Laws. You mus have really enriched many of our Muslim brothers & sisters. Hope they will listen to your knowledgeable suggestions. Namaskar 🙂
Yes, in north India, GOTRA always play a major role in marriage
Nepal Mey bhi Gotra different hona chaiya
Odisha me v bina gotra sadi possible nhi hai
Sahi
All over the world bro
In each Hindu Family it plays a major role 🙏🙏
Coming from a Rajput family in Rajasthan I can assure the names mentioned at 5:00 are not true. In Rajputs we avoid weddings with mother’s and even grandmother’s gotra (gene pool). So, I believe that fact is inconsistent.
But Rajputs in Pakistan do this
@@Mrgearxx yes!
Muslim Rajputs*@@Mrgearxx
Totally agree. Naming Rana Kumbha Ji was utter negligence
@@Mrgearxxthey are Muslim
Junaid bhai you choose the very right topic to discuss.
Finally someone has the courage .
Nice to see such an educated youtuber from Pakistan ,,, good going...
LMFAO
I am from miniscule zorastrian community residing in Mumbai ...... my daughter refused to marry within the parsi community as she says the regressive genes are dominant and the genepool is contaminated 🇮🇳 🇮🇳 🇮🇳
You touched a very important topic .....
Jio Parsi.... India needs you
You should move towards the Muslim community. Your daughter will get attention as well.
Most respected minority of India. Pls increase your population we need you people.
I think Breast Cancer is more prevalent in Parsi community due to marriage among Parsis only
@@Angelinajolieshortsdarn and have her in a fridge??? In sure the Parsis of our country are prudent enough ..and don’t forget the Parsis left Iran due to the Islamic invasion and sought refuge in India..We love our Parsi community very much ❤❤❤❤❤
This issue genuinely needs a raise. We should start an awareness campaign or hashtags on social media to highlight the issue.
No, are you crazy? 🤣🤣
@@trilokyamohanchakra6351 yes I am bcz i have seen childs with thalassemia fighting for their life. if you have someone in your family you will understand the importance.
The creator of this world Allah allows cousin marriage in Quran so there is nothing wrong in it
@@Executor8 But the Creator of the heavens and the earth Allah obligates the razamandi of man and woman which as you can see in the servay is not there, the man and women are pressured and married against their will which is also not allowed, blame the culture not the religion (because seriously people here majority don't even know what's actually written in the Quran they haven't read the translation and many of them don't even establish daily five prayers which is the bear minimum)
@@ShahzeenFatima26 majority of cousin marriage occurs through razamandi because it's not considered as wrong
I am a Hindu from West Bengal, India. In Bengal we do not marry if our GOTRA is same. Since my cousin share same Gotra hence there is no question of marring a cousin in Hindu Bengali family. Gotra refers to ancestral linage, if Gotra is same then your ancestral linage is same and you are prohibited to marry that person as per cultural norms. Marrying a person with same GOTRA is counted as incest in our culture and looked down upon society.
In North India things are more strict they follows the GOTRA concept and along with that their rules are little different for example in Haryana, UP or Uttarakhand, you are prohibited to marry from same village because they think if a boy or girl is gown in same area then they became brother-sister by default.
However in South India and North East, things are little different. Among Tamilians and Andhra Hindus they do cousin marriage so as to keep the wealth of the family intact. There could be other reasons too why they are allowed to do so but I have no idea regarding, when I heard about it I was shocked to know about it.
Same hamare rajsthan me bhi yahi gotra system hota hai hamare yaha sirf kisi ladki ko bahan bol de to real sister ki tarah hi treat karte hai
Well said Bagchi ji
@@Indianmewadi A part of SOuth India have marriages between uncle and neice
@@sabrinakhan8217very very rare. It will end in the next generation. The last one I heard of happened in 2002.
@@warhead160 It still happens.
It is less but still happens.
Good Luck to you Junaid. This is great reporting converging every aspect of the problem.
In Haryana, families kill the couple if someone marries a cousin (even distant one with same gotra or bloodline). Neither legal or justified but that is how sacred North Indians consider the bond of Brother-Sister (including cousins).
In Jharkhand too, we don't do marriage in the same surname.
Exactly, I am from Uttrakhand and noone can even think about cousin marriage...strictly prohibited in my family. Majority of Pakistani do this practice due to poverty and orthodox philosophy.
Murder bhi common hogaya. Koi law and order hai kya?
@@nha3920 this is exceptional aur wait for 10 years and tumhaari haalat bangladesh, srilanka jaisi ho jaayegi
Hmare yha Uttar Pradesh Haryana Rajasthan me same gotra me to shadiya hoti hi nahi h
Hmare yha same village me bhi koi ek dusre se shadi nahi kr sakta chahe caste ya gotra alag alag kyo na ho
I am a Sanatni and reside in Austria. Here by laws inter-family marriage is not accepted by law. But our religion dont permit. It justifies, that our Ancestors were great researches and knowing secrets of genetics. That is why I feel proud to be a Sanatni
And they follow a teaching of a single book. Don't use their brain😅
What about Bramha Saraswati? Krishna Mitravrinda?
Wtf is tanatani 😂😂
@@houseofilm07I bet you don't know anything and just yapping misconceptions
@@Memewallah13 I know better than you!! I can give you reference also
I am a bhardwaj brahmin from north india (gurgaon), though mine is love marriage. But she is also a brahmin girl, her parents and my parents checked thoroughly before marriage that none of our gotra should match like from mother father from both sides and grand parents, nana nani from both sides. Blessed with a healthy son 3 years ago.
Bhai south india mai hindu ladkiya apneh mama seh shaadi karteh hai.. Google kar keh deklejya..
Indias 7.5% also is majority in Muslims.
In south India some communities marry their cousin not mostly
Except for Tamil Hindus who still have 26% first cousin marriages. This is higher that Indian Muslims
@@alokraj3128Exception doesn't mean that rule isn't there
@amanxojha lol he gave fact. Tamil is exception to you
You are right
As a Indian Hindu, How I see this is you took a Xerox and you keep xerox that Xerox sheet again and again... So at some point of a time you ll find the xerox of those Xeroxes getting fade!! So it takes multiple generation to effect it!! And in Pakistan this is happening from decades!! And now that xerox is fading away slowly and people still don't understand the alarming situation!!
@@menacegaming6836 Good example
we have gotra system can't marry in same gotra for example : i am from bhardwaj gotra can't marry someone from bhardwaj gotra
It's philosophical but good try. See mine. If you practice again and again you will find a better result every time.
@@rawatysh2 what if someone falls in love with a same gotra
@@02abhirupmukherjee31it does happen, leads to problems
We always compare Indian and Pakistani TH-camrs. But when Pakistani makes good informative video, no one watches it or even support the creator. On the contrary cringe daily vloggers are getting all the views from their scripted videos. We should support and subscribe Junaid Akram ❤🙌🏿
Omg😂😂😂😂😂
Keep dre@ming dear !!
Dreams are che@per than ATTA 😂😂😂
@@Hero99-99 I just don't understand why this aata joke? YAHAN AATA ACHA KHAASA HAI . Kaho to bhijwa dun? Waisy b charity hamara favourite kaam hai 🙂
@@Hero99-99 farigh awam
@@farwaali6329ignore them sister ye log without any reason hate karte hai sabko
Very well researched and professionally articulated. Love the way you express yourself in such a simple yet educative manner 👍
This is a very very sensitive subject and hat's off to you for raising this in such a practical and wonderful way.
I think educated muslims can play an important role in creating awareness and explain the danger the coming generation will face . Kudos to you
Very well compiled article Junaid Uncle/Sir. It takes guts to talk about societal issues, and you have backed this video with data that is the best part.
What a great educational piece. Kudos to Junaid and team. This type of content can literally change lives for the better.
My father and mother were cousins and my brother is suffering from genetic desease which is untreatable. From Bihar India
Gene defective ho to fir jabran shadi kyun karwana. Kuch na kuch hint zaroor dikha hoga kisi na kisi parent me jab woh baaligh huye honge
It's important to understand that cousin marriage isn’t the sole reason for the birth of children with genetic defects. According to scientific research, even in non-cousin marriages, there's a 4% chance of having a child with a genetic condition, while in cousin marriages, this increases slightly to 6%. I personally know two families where the children were born with mental health issues, and the parents weren’t cousins. Genetic disorders can occur for many reasons, and while cousin marriage might slightly raise the risk, it’s not the only factor.
हम सभी मुसलमानों में सभी लोग जब बच्चे रहते हैं, तब हम सभी अपने चाचा, खाला, मामू, के बच्चे आपस में मिल कर रहते हैं, जिसमें आपस में प्यार बढ़ता है, एक दूसरे के जज्बात को समझते रहते हैं, यही कारण है कि हम सभी आपस में जुड़े रहने के लिए निकाह कर सकते हैं, यह बढ़िया काम है। हमें अपने रिवाज पर फख्र है।
इंशा अल्लाह, आमीन।
Thank you Junaid. In a country drowning in religious extremism, intolerance and show of piety, you come with unique topics that affect the general populance. True son of soil, true patriot who does not care about his income, about his views and only thinks of the betterment of Pakistanis despite the consequences. We cannot thank you enough for the work you do, for the awareness you create.
You will continue to weep, as long as you are in Arabi political ideology called Islam.
There will be n number of excuse only to avoid identifying root cause Islam
@farazfudge still some people are promoting cousin marriage in comments in the name of religion. One of the promotee guy says he did MS in genetics and chance of genetic disease in cousin marriage in negligible. 😆 🤣 😂
I am spotting an Exmuslim
Bhai , ye duniya phani hai. Isliye duniya ki fikr mat karo
@@freethinker9217 daddy is here
I think the genetic screening is the best option. I am based in UAE and over here before anyone gets a Nikah done, the man and woman go through a blood tests to check if they carry such diseases which can cause issues to their future children. It’s better to be aware before than it being too late.
That is done for known and limited number of diseases.. Couldn't be done on all disease
i am a Dr and i think Junaid did the work which was solely our responsibility. great work , v informative vid bro. Plz create a video on fam planning aswell so we can stop the population boom as it is a great burden on our country's poor economy🙃🙃
Marriage stopping is not the way, just promote 2 child policy or childlessness.
Population Boom!! 🤭🤭🤣🤣
Lekin bacche to allah ki den hai...
what is ur spacility... Simple MBBS dont know any thing with surity...
@@syedzaffar3151 compounder hu ma🤡
Excellent and most intriguing presentation. Thank you
Luckily hum hindus isase safe hai
@theexplorer9369 still India ranks 2nd largest country in the world, suffers from genetic disease Sickle Cell Anaemia births,double number than pakistan. In fact, half of SCD affected population lives in India alone, and Thalassemia rate is almost same in both countries life expectancy is also same. if only 'cousin marriage' is a threat, why India is more affected being 10x less in cousin marriage, everyone is following Gotra and no one marries a relative till 7th generation. Cousin marriages have been happening since the beginning of the world if marrying your cousins is pendamic, human spieces would have already extinct centuries ago.
@@aminayasin416 kid not every genetic disorder is cause due to marrying cousins go read biology from better source instead of madarsha
@@aminayasin416because of muslim population in india
@@aminayasin416vo sab coincidence hai... Ye sab cousin marriage ek bewkufi hai jo log khud sign up karte hain...
India is Hindu majority country and population is also bcz of Hindus ... If Muslims ki wajah se population zyada hai to India se pehle 57 Muslim desh ki population zyada hoti... understood betaaa😂@@blackpacific5255
Superb video Junaid Bhai. I am a Brahmin from MITHILA (BIHAR). My GOTRA is "Shandilya", and yes i can't marry a girl who also is "shandilya", we always make sure our "GOTRA's" are different. The Mention of MANUSMRITI was also Superb. Thanks from BHARAT. 🧡
Gotra kya hota hai kaise pata chalega Mai Bihar se belong karta hu
@@rajeshprasad3904 maa baap se apni kundli maangna, usme sab likha hota hai
@@AngrezHu humlog apne sir name me pandit likhte hai or prajapati
@@AngrezHu in south India even hindus married their cousins ,
Even Krishna did , S.B.10.58.56
@@Exhindu-d2xin south india rare hindu marry their cousins, in the part of TN and aandhra, vo bhi ab band ho chuka he, and krishna ki baat bolne se pehle pdh ke aa, khud ki ga,ndh saaf nhi hoti to dusro ke ghr me bhi daal do tum logo ki fi,tart hi yhi he, khud mat sudharana dusre ki baat khod khod ke laana.
There are around 25 children in my family who are blind by birth and the root cause is cousin marriages. I refused to marry my cousin, which ended up on ending family ties with that family because they don't understand. Another problem is girls are more than boys, and it is difficult to find a husband for them. Anyways, my parents partially understood this issue and they stood up with me despite social pressure from many elders. I hope the other side will understand this one day.
Tu hre ghar mai 25 bache hai matlb tumhre akele ka 25 bache😱😱
@@thunderop6287 pori extended family mein siyane bhai
Bhai total kitne bachhe hain????
@@enterjam4286 Like one of my uncles has two kids blind and two kids healthy. It is 50/50 somewhere. Another uncle has only one kid blind out of 4. But I have seen how it ruins lives even if one kid is blind... And nobody tells you how many kids die at the time of birth. So it is a serious matter. If you think you must marry your cousin, then go for a genetic test at least.
25 bache 🤯are bhai aise hi chalta raha to tum apna hi ek kingdom khada kardoge😂😂(just kidding)
The best video ever made on the subject. You have the courage to be impartial with facts n figures. You have great knowledge also. Kudos to you. Hope not only Pakistanis but around the world Muslims will now take care of their future generations. ❤❤❤
Junaid Bhai! I am really impressed with today's topic. Keep up the good work. You really need to make vlogs on different issues like this.
Here in Jammu and Kashmir, India 🇮🇳... where as genetic diseases are less common Jammu which has 67 pc Hindu population while in Kashmir they are prominent which has 97 pc Muslim population and cousin marriages were very common in one generation back
Jammu is 84% hindu and 7 percent muslim where as in kashmir muslim population is 65% and 23 percent hindu
@@peeyushdey4767 bro correct ur stats ..I'm from j and k ... Jammu Division has 67 pc Hindus and Kashmir division has 97 pc Muslims
@@WhiteFii2212 I m a doctor from kashmir ..Give evidence n proof wat u hav just said about kashmiri muslims?
@@Kevin_2719
What he said is not really true. Muslims of Kashmir are different from Punjabi, Sindhi, Pathan and Baloch Muslims in this regard. However, Jammu and Kashmir is the 5th highest state when it comes to cousin marriages in India, with only Telangana, Karnataka, Andhra Pradesh and Tamil Nadu ahead of JnK.
And this little contribution for J&K is solely due to Muslims of J&K. Infact I would argue the presence of Hindus in Jammu is the reason why your state numbers are not so high in cousin marriages.
@@xijinpig8982 I m talking of kashmiri ethnic population... Everyone living in kashmir is not kashmiri ethnically n genetically... Cousin marriages r common in our ethnic group also but we don't face any such major issue..
Before marriage genetic counselling is preferred by everyone..
Bhai india m agar koi ladki 2-4 baar bhaiya hi bol de na to hum phir usse kabhi shadi nahi krte !!!😅
😂😂😂😂😂
Ek dam sahi baat👍
kyunki hum rishton ko dil se mante h aur bahan ka rishta to aisa khas h
Which nation of India does it? India is not one nation or country. It was created by the British. A part of South India have marriages between mama bhanji
@@sabrinakhan8217 Sabrina ji... It happen in North India..... Here in India we have different cultural zones with their own practices and believe system.... But Sister we are one nation
Very good to see you raising voice on this serious issue and spreading awareness
This is my first comment about this I want to thank you for raising this issue I am also been suffering from genetical disorder I've searched about it but didn't found any evidence of this disease (I can't run, my legs feel like stuck when I try to run more than two steps, can't lift things up to my head but I never told about this to anyone even in my house) cuz my dad married his cousin, but Alhamdulilah
Your channel is just a piece of wisdom .. Literally just Wow ... ❤❤❤
🛑🛑🛑 Saheen Afridi is the ambassador of cousin marriage
What a role model😂😂😂
they are not cousins, afridi is a tribe
Yes Afridi is s huge Clan.
not shaheen but shahid did cousin marriage.
@@abhinav5383 lol Shaheen n his wife Ansha aren't cousins both belong to same pathan tribe ''Afridi'' or caste for your understanding.
@@aminayasin416 Again, marrying within same set of people with same surnames is also dangerous. Khair tumhari Islamic khopdi m nhi aaegi ye bat.
I admire that you broke the stereotype thought of religion,You are a very educated & aware muslim
islam encourages marriage outside of family, islam is always 2 steps ahead in every matter
@@abdullahumar4482 U'r suffering from un-ability to understand or comprehension problem if that's what u understood or came to conclusion at, lol xD
@@trusfratedbunny2215 you said so much, but also didn't say anything meaningful, did I say something wrong when I wrote that reply?
@@abdullahumar4482 U don't know ur islam and neither ur ancestor civilizational culture, traditions.
Finally some voice on this matter. Thank you Junaid bhai.
Finally? LOL
Zabardast brother this is the best video and you have explained well in UK the National HealthCare service has told the Muslim community that they have to stop having cousins marriages there are many children suffering disability and but they still carrying on I hope many people watching this video greeting from London
Bhai eik original case mein bhi hun merey parents 1st cousins hain mujhe Progressive Macular Dystrophy hai i am loosing muscle power and muscle mass by age zindagi jaise eik jang hai merey liye roz eik maut marte hain hum but kya kersakte hain bas apne se worst kisi ko dekhta hun tow ALLAH ka shuker ada kerta hun jo bhi yeh comment parhe merey liye dua kerey ALLAH mujhe himmat de
اللہ آپ کو مکمل صحت و تندرستی عطا فرمائے۔ آمین۔
Bro that's sad af.
Ameen brother you are very strong Allah tallah py yaqeen rakhain hamesha ❤
Aameen
Ameen
Muslim हो कर भी इस भाई ने काफी अच्छा एवम वैज्ञानिक आधार पर विश्लेषण किया है
बधाई हो
Logic and Science doesn't have any religion. This who accept, benefits from these two - Logic and Science
@@MohdFarhan-df6zrफिर भी भाई मुस्लिम समुदाय में साइंस एंड फैक्ट को मानने वाले लोग उंगलियों को जिन लो
99.99% मुस्लिम केवल कुरान, नबी, कन्वर्जन, गुस्ताक ए रसूल ईटीसी से बाहर नहीं निकल पाते हैं
हम सभी मुसलमानों में सभी लोग जब बच्चे रहते हैं, तब हम सभी अपने चाचा, खाला, मामू, के बच्चे आपस में मिल कर रहते हैं, जिसमें आपस में प्यार बढ़ता है, एक दूसरे के जज्बात को समझते रहते हैं, यही कारण है कि हम सभी आपस में जुड़े रहने के लिए निकाह कर सकते हैं, यह बढ़िया काम है। हमें अपने रिवाज पर फख्र है।
इंशा अल्लाह, आमीन।
hats of to the editing❤ quality has improved remarkably
Well done bro.....U really love ur country.....that's why U can raise such topic. A big thumbs up from India.
In rural India, marriages between families from the same village are often avoided, as they are considered akin to siblings. This practice persists in the southern parts of India, though it has declined due to increasing awareness. However, the percentage of endogamous marriages remains higher among Indian Muslims. If you visit a government hospital, you'll find a disproportionately higher number of Muslim patients suffering from genetic disorders due to the prevalence of such marriages
Factual observation..it's true
हिन्दुओ में कजिन मैरिज
भारत के कुछ राज्य जैसे महाराष्ट्र, आंध्र प्रदेश और तमिलनाडु जैसे राज्यों में हिन्दुओ में भी कजिन मैरिज होता है। साउथ इंडिया में ऐसे मैरिज को मेरिकम कहते है। मेनरिकम शादियाँ दक्छिन के द्विजा ब्राह्मणो में भी होती है। भारतीय दक्छिन के कजिन मैरिज को समझने के लिए आपको भारतीय गोत्र प्रणाली को समझना पड़ेगा। दक्छिन भारतीय अपने गोत्र में शादी नहीं करते है। भारतीय गोत्र प्रणाली एक जटिल प्रक्रिया है जिसको समझने के लिए आपको आयुर्वेद और ज्योतिष शास्त्र को समझना पड़ेगा। आज भी पंडितो में जब शादिया होती है तो गोत्र का मिलान होता है। अगर एक गोत्र निकला तो सगोत्री होने के कारण शादी रद्द कर दी जाएगी। शादी करने के लिए वर और वधु का गोत्र अलग अलग होना चाहिए। इसके बाद शादी मिलान के लिए नाड़ी दोस निकाला जाता है। अगर गोत्र अलग अलग भी है और वर वधु का नाड़ी एक है तो वर वधु का विवाह नहीं हो सकता क्योकि नाड़ी दोस एक बड़ा दोस माना जाता है क्योकि नाड़ी आयुर्वेद के हिसाब से प्राण वायु, कफ और पित्त इन तीनो से मिल कर बनता है। अगर नाड़ी वर वधु कि एक हुयी तो संतान में दोस उत्प्पन हो जायेगा इसलिए नाड़ी एक नहीं हो सकता। फिर कुंडली के हिसाब से गण मिलाये जाते है। गण भी तीन प्रकार के होते है 1. देवता 2. मनुष्य और 3. राक्षस गण तो एक प्रकार के गण नहीं होने चाहिए जैसे देवता और देवता गण की शादी नहीं हो सकती इसीप्रकार मनुष्य और मनुष्य गण की शादी नहीं हो सकती है लेकिन राक्षस और मनुष्य गण की शादी हो सकती है इसीप्रकार देवता और राक्षस गण की भी शादिया हो सकती है। इन सभी की गड़ना की जाती हैं और कम से कम 25 गुण (गड़ना) और ज्यादा से ज्यादा 32 गुण तक की शादियाँ को शुभ माना जाता है। अगर यहाँ तक आप भारतीय गोत्र प्रणाली को समझ चुके है। तो अब आप ये समझिये की जब मामा ने गोत्र अपनी बहन का शादी के लिए कुंडली मिलान कराई होगी तो उन्होंने ये सारी प्रक्रिया का पालन किया होगा। अब मामा का ब्लड लाइन अलग है और मेरे कुटुम्ब का ब्लड लाइन अलग है। इसी तरह जब मेरे पिता ने अपने बहन का शादी किया होगा तो वो भी कुंडली की प्रक्रिया से अलग गोत्र में शादी किया होगा। इस प्रकार मेरे मामा या बुआ के ब्लड लाइन मेरे कुटुम्ब से के ब्लड लाइन से अलग होगा। मेरा मतलब गोत्र अलग होगा। हलाकि कि मैं नार्थ इंडियन हु और हमारे इलाके में इसप्रकार मामा व् बुआ के वहाँ शादियों का चलन नहीं है। फिर भी अगर मैं अपने कजिन मामा और बुआ के वहाँ शादी करू तो हिन्दू रीती और रिवाज़ों के अनुसार वो गलत नहीं माना जायेगा। और यही साउथ इंडियन लोग करते है। वो अपने गोत्र में शादिया नहीं करते है बल्कि अलग ब्लड लाइन में और खासकर मामा के लड़की से शादिया करते है। हालांकि की अब विज्ञानं ने काफी तरक्की कर ली है और अब हमारे पास ब्लड टेस्ट से लेकर दूसरी सुविधाएं मौजूद है। तो अब हमे हिन्दूओ को प्राचीन भारतीय गोत्र प्रणाली के साथ साथ नए वैज्ञानिक तरीकों के अनुसार शादियाँ करनी चाहिए।
हिन्दू विवाह प्रणाली को अगर 360 डिग्री से चेक करे तो ये और भी जटिल प्रणाली बन जाती है। वात्सायन ऋषि द्वारा रचित कामसूत्र में पुरुष और महिलाओ को काम वासना के अनुसार तीन भागो में बाटा गया है। 1. हस्ती (हाथी ) 2. बड़वा (बैल) और मृगी (हिरण) और वो एक कदम और आगे जाकर वैवाहिक काम में स्त्री और पुरुष का काम वासना पूर्ण हो इसके लिए उन्होंने इन तीनो प्रकार के जोड़ो को भी मिलाने के पक्षधर थे। और ये यही नहीं रुकता बल्कि विवाह के प्रकार जैसे वैदिक शादी, व्यवस्था विवाह, गन्धर्व विवाह इत्यादि आगे ही बढ़ता जाता है। और इसलिए भारतीय विवाह प्रणाली एक जटिल प्रणाली है। जिस पे एक अलग से किताब लिखी जा सकती है। पूरी दुनिया के किसी भी मजहब में इस प्रकार का विवाह के दूसरा उदाहरण और इस प्रकार के वर्गीकरण के साथ नहीं मिलता।
you're lying
Indian Vijay ji wo south India me ek non-Muslims hindu community hai jahan sirf cousins Marriage hi hoti hai isliye umnko kuch bimari or allergic hote hain aur wahan pr hospital me cast puchi jati hai Taki anaesthesia mna diya ja sake qk wo unkeliye jaanlewa hota hai Aap Mohak Mangal ki vedio dekh sakte hain isi topic pr
In south india marriage between maternal uncle and neice is prevalent.
The prophet Mohamed did it ... he is the perfect example to follow
yes He s.a.w. did but He also married other women r.a. so the problem is not cousin marriage in my opinion it is parents forcing cousin marriage....If only peopel who fell in love with thier cousins would marry them there would be no issues
@@goldenibbyyeah he also married a child. And it makes sense for parents to force if the best example for them did it and it’s sunnah
@@tamm9791 summun bukmun umyun...
@@goldenibby run away it’s all u can do 🤷🏻♂️
Junaid bhai, Your editor needs a raise.
Bhai raise kaise milega unko agr itni km audience aye gi? Wo to saray daily vloggers go chaat rahe hain😂
Original account sy Ah jaoo
@@shafatnawaz6102 hahahahahh
Sab kuch Ai generated hai bro it will take one second to get those pictures...😂😂😂
@@yashupadhaya3392 Nai
Excellent program brother.Well researched and nicely made.It is a fantastic topic.Qualitywise it is exceptional.
Cousins marriage is the main reason behind the sickle cell anemia 😢
To kon kehta hai apko k Bina testing kr k shadi kro? Test kr k shadi kro Kuch nahn Hoga. Is ganjey ki baton m na ayen
If both parents have sickle cell that can cause the child this anemia, doesn't matter if parents are cousin.
If you have some concert reason to relate it with cousin marriage, let me know.
If both parents have sickle cell that can cause the child this anemia, doesn't matter if parents are cousin.
If you have some concert reason to relate it with cousin marriage, let me know.
@@DanishAhmad-zq1do the probability of genetic disorder is higher among cousin marriage
@@bikashdas3146 reference please
your big fan Sir but to be honest these wealth and power consolidation point is just valid for top 1%.
In my family its a very common practice to do cousin marriages. Both of my elder brothers are marries with my cousins.
There are 2 reasons for this practice in general
1st one is lack of awareness, when I told my parents that I am not going to marry my cousin due to health issues they said all marriages in our family are cousin marriages and we didn't see any medical issue so its a bullshit, that was there stance.
2nd reason is very important, parents usually see our cousins grow in front of themselves they see there behaviours and other attributes for almost 20 years and they can easily see which type of boy or girls they are going to choose. On the other hand marrying a girl form outside of your family is a complete bet because its obvious you cant judge the personality of a person in 4 to 5 meetings as in our culture these decisions are made by parents not kids so its very difficult to assess the person.
(Its the main reason in our family it can defer in other families.)
keep making these type of videos as they are very informative for our people.
Yes, exactly these are the main points they look at especially the parents though sometimes doesn't make sense.........
I'm a Hindu,we can't marry in our Gotra and gotra of mother, grandmother,aunty,bhabhi as well ❣️ proud to born in Hindu family ❤
This is really an underrated topic, great work Junaid, really a good research work
Zabardast video.....app ne bohat he important and basic foundational issue highlight kiya hai
Thank you for raising this pandemic. This is one of the biggest issue in Pakistan yet no one including government, media and medical fraternity talk about.
The militery does not care about social medical care for the public.
Easily one of the biggest issues in Pakistan .
Why can't people just accept scientific consensus that cousin marriages ( especially multiple generations of such marriages ) leads to all kinds of health issues in people .
Ground reality is very much different than what media or scientific studies portray, the birth defect rate in kids Whose parents are related is same as much as the birth defect rate of kids whose parents are not related. It's not big of an issue if you make a survey you can find out and that's why in some regions people get involved in such relationships
@@numanzayn cousin lover spotted
😂@@snake2106
@@snake2106u cant make a blind see
@@snake2106😂😂
Much appreciated; No one has ever discuss it in detail.
The ancestral record part is very apt Junaid. Our family has records of our last 20 generations not just men but women. For further records, we will have to visit Kashi because most of the lineage records are placed in the holy cities of Hindus which our forefathers visited in their lifetime. This record is not only used during marriages but during Pitru Paksha also. It is a common practice among Hindus when we honor our almost last 2 or 3 generations of Fathers, Mothers, and Siblings by offering them food and seeking their blessings. By the way, the Gotra of my family is Kashyap and my mother's gotra is Bharadwaj.
Who care's bro, no one discussing India or Indian here, har jagha gusa achi baat nahi.... Itna lamba lecture 😂
@@muhammadArshad-ju2gg I think a part of video was about Gotra System which obviously ur ancestors also followed once. I just added the fact that we follow it today also.
@@gauravpatil9579 never heard of gotra system,it's your system not our's theek hai rai do lecture na do....
Ap maaz main nahi haal main Hain...
Ancestors ko goli maro aur apnay haal aur mustaqbil ki fiqar karo... That's it
@@muhammadArshad-ju2gg The system was followed in almost all the Northern parts of India including present-day Pakistan. And I am talking about the present situation only all of the stuff I wrote is what we follow today also.
@@muhammadArshad-ju2gg One more thing I think you should improve your learning ability cuz I nowhere in my comment mentioned India but you assumed it just because of the word Hindu. Please start differentiating between religion, culture, and country.
Having watched a couple of these pak dramas, i too realised that they are very much agenda driven, promoting cousin marriages, wearing burkha etc!
Do Continue doing such work. Asking the right questions, and making people think, is so important for a healthy society!
In many Pakistani communities, cousin marriages are common, especially within the middle and lower classes. Here's why people often choose this path:
Some families strictly believe in marrying within the family ("hum khandaan main hi shaadi karte hain"). Even in the absence of suitable proposals, marrying outside the family is not considered an option.
Society often expects individuals to marry within their family circle, reinforcing the tradition and discouraging outside matches.
Marrying cousins ensures trust and familiarity, as families already know each other’s background, character, and reputation.
Some believe cousin marriages help preserve cultural and familial values, which they fear could be diluted with outside marriages.
Nice to see someone started addressing this issue...👍💜❤️💙
We Hindus never marage in same lineage.we all knows about our gotra . As i am from bharadwaj gotra i cannot marry from same gotra. In this way we are keeping ourselves safe from ancient times.thanks to our encestors knowledge 🙏🏻
Feeling pride to be part of sanatan dharm ❤ feeling very lucky to born in hindu family and I am very fortunate my ancestors who did not convert. That's why in our religion we treat our cousins as sister and brother.
Arjun aur Subhadra bhi FIRST COUSIN THHE...Faaltu khush mat hua karo tum jaahil
@@karanvij00 apna Gyan apne paas rakho madarsa chap Gyan hamesha apne flat earth vali aasmani kitab sae compare karte rehte ho hamare granth ko
And there is huge difference between 1400 religion and our oldest religion jitna purana thumhara dharam usse jyda purani hamare pass temples hai,jahil to tum khud Ho jo cousin marriage ke health par dangerous effect ke baad bhi blindly follow karte ho . Pehle jake Science padho phir Gyan Dene aana kyuki science to padhte nhi hoge
Yeah thats why uncles marry nieces and nieces marry uncles :)
@@user-sp9wh6kl6c yes in maybe in your culture or religion because in mine uncle and nieces have very sacred relationship.because we don't have a policy of halala and four marriage you people have Many options right in house why to go outside
Niyoga (Sanskrit: नियोग) was an ancient tradition of Svayambhuva Manu sect, which is mainly followed by Svayambhuva Manu's believers. In which a woman (whose husband is either incapable of fatherhood or has died without having a child) would request and appoint a man for helping her bear a child.
In India only South India has little bit of cousin marriage thing but not in whole India..
Maharashtra too... But it's not extremely huge
It’s quite rare in today’s time
Overall Mila kar bhi kewal 7-8% hai.
Which very less.
But saar, south indian are educated saar
Know it is ended it was done to avoid dowry.
Many Many Many Thanks for information and salute to your efforts to aware society❤
There is also the same case in my family.Two cousins got married with each other.They have four sons two of them are deaf by birth.I think government should come forward to deal with this silent pandemic.
@mirsarfraz7143 untill ppl realize
cousin marriages are also incest nobody can do anything. There still ppl in the comments supporting cousin marriages in the name of religion
@@anishs5652 if u merry out side of ur cousons how can u tell it will not happen... it is not with cousion merriage ... ya allah ki aazmaish ha ...
Definitely lineage me koi na koi parent deaf rahe honge. Jab Aisa ho to fir cousin marriage avoid karni chahiye because you don't know kiska gene dominant ho
@@mohammedmuadh9567 recessive naki dominant
@@anishs5652 by dominant I meant ki which faulty gene will dominate in the kids
Very nice job man . This is known as educated person.😂 All the madarsachaap will hate u. But we appreciate you for your knowledge and honesty
First cousins are non-siblings that share grandparents. Second cousins are non-siblings that share great-grandparents. Third cousins are non-siblings that share great-great-grandparents. 🙏
yes he is not right as genetics does not work according to patriarchal society
keep it up bro... bht important topic hy..we should stop these cousins marriages in Pakistan. me too suffer a lot due to cousinsl marriage.. my second daughter born with Congenital heart defect..i have gone through tough time if my life..after surgery she is doing well mashaallah.. but mughy bht ziayada care karni hoti hy. we should create awareness.
Aapke ghar me koyi quran nahi pada
What a great video! I don’t usually leave comments on videos, but this is an issue that must be addressed. Some may bring up the marriage of Hazrat Fatima (AS) and Hazrat Ali (AS) as an example, but it's important to understand that the Prophet never openly endorsed cousin marriage. In the case of Hazrat Ali and Fatima (AS), there was already a deep bond between them, and the Prophet found no better man for his daughter than Ali (AS). Uthman (AS) was already married to two of the Prophet’s daughters, and Abu Bakr (RA) and Umar (RA) were older. Ali (AS) was young, and the Prophet had known him since he was nine years old. But again, the Prophet never explicitly encouraged cousin marriage for others. He left it as an option, just as he left the options for divorce or shaving body hair.
With advancements in science, we now understand more about genetics and health risks that were unknown 1,400 years ago. The Prophet never declared that cousin marriage is necessarily good, nor did he prohibit it. Therefore, it's not a matter of challenging his prophecy or doubting his guidance. We are simply applying new knowledge to make choices that reflect both faith and reason. It is also important to understand that the Prophet did not possess knowledge of everything in the universe; rather, he knew only what Allah had revealed to him.
I am a Hindu from West Bengal, India. In Bengal we do not marry if our GOTRA is same. Since my cousin share same Gotra hence there is no question of marring a cousin in Hindu Bengali family. Gotra refers to ancestral linage, if Gotra is same then your ancestral linage is same and you are prohibited to marry that person as per cultural norms. Marrying a person with same GOTRA is counted as incest in our culture and looked down upon society.
In North India things are more strict they follows the GOTRA concept and along with that their rules are little different for example in Haryana, UP or Uttarakhand, you are prohibited to marry from same village because they think if a boy or girl is gown in same area then they became brother-sister by default.
However in South India and North East, things are little different. Among Tamilians and Andhra Hindus they do cousin marriage so as to keep the wealth of the family intact. There could be other reasons too why they are allowed to do so but I have no idea regarding, when I heard about it I was shocked to know about it.
Bhai aapke kuran aur hadis allow karte hain cousin marriage.
@@incredibleindia9844 Allow to divorce bhi karte hai that doesnt mean ke karo. That's what I want to say
@@incredibleindia9844 Kya aapke pass is baat ki daleel (reference) hai ke humare quran or hadith is baat ko endorse karte hain ke cousin marriage karo?
@@subhashishbagchi3191 Yeah he explained that lowkey in the video, I am disgusts by the fact too people continuously marriage with their first cousin or something, but I am pretty sure this number will get down in Pakistan as people are getting more educated about this and younger generate will be more self-aware.
Such a holistic approach, so far the best video I have seen from any Pakistani TH-camr!! Well done 💫
Cousin marriage sirf Islam me hoti hai ya yahudi or christian me bhi hoti hai?
@@ORANGE_LAUNDA South India main Hinduo main bhi hota he. Pehle apne community main dekh le
@@tanweeralam1650 Jo south Indian ke Muslim hai ye vo log karty hai....Bhai
Hum bahen ko biwi nahi banaty
Sir I am Indian Muslim my Father and Mother are First Cousin.....we are two brother......But not suffers any kind of serious illness Alhamdulillah 😊😊😊
Education is the only way for Stopping Cousin marriages 😊😊
Thanks for raising a very sensitive and important issue.
Reason is not only lack of awareness and personal gains but also one of the most IMPORTANT reason is Mistrust. You would not marry your daughter to a person whom you know nothing about. You would prefer a guy who was raised in front of you. Plus you can exert pressure to treat your daughter kindly.
I am not justifying the reason, I am a doctor. I have seen people giving such reasons when I counsel them
Yes this is the reason. Trust is issue in Pakistan
@@talhawaleed6738Padha Likha m0min.😮Wow
But we must also see the divorce rate who says this
Whereas marrying unknown person scenario gives bit less divorce rate
@@kummudsharma8833 can you please share reference of that research that divorce rate in outside marriage is lesser than cousin marriage
It's hilarious that such a huge population, yet people marrying into families... its like having ground to play football yet you kicking ball inside your home
Boomerang!!
😅😅 👍
well said bro !
Still better than niyog😂
No it's not, niyog is done when women can't find a better suited after her husband has passed away, aisa nhi ki chachi ki beti hot lagi toh ghusa do@@Dungeonmaster222
Almost all Pakistani TV dramas show love stories between first and second cousins.
Hats off to you sir for bringing this issue up
I am Hindu and we cannot marry anyone from the same gotra. Kundlis are matched before marriage to ensure happy marriage life. Proud to be a Sanatani whose ancestors were so advanced thousands of years ago.
These cousin marriages need to be stopped, it's astounding to see how many people kept defending this, not knowing about it's implications.
More youtubers need to talk on this, specially our drama industry needs to inform people about it.
It is reducing now.
Drama industry supports cousin marriages
TH-camrs ko views chahiye. Unhe pata hota hai kaise views aayenge. India ke bengal region me bahut thalassemia ke cases paye jate hain among non muslims.
Generation after generation can be an issue but not every single marriage.
yes
it is not necessary that every smoker or drinker will die with cancer but smoking and drinking do cause cancer
That's why there is a thing called Inbreeding Coefficient.
11:44 ye data toh dekho
Humare jammu kashmir (india )
Mein ab cousin marriages kam hoti jaa rahi hain
Great research. Good job. Keep it up.💐💐💐
I believe the genetic part is the absolute difficult reality of the risk people are taking. Genetic tests should become more popular in countries like pak to bring awareness of potential danger factors. Whether or not they are cousins isn't going to help if there are underlying genetic illnesses. My own cousin married outside the family and extensive genetic issues arose amongst all her children. Truly breaks my heart.
Same happened to my aunt, same happened to my friend, same happened to my neighbor. All non cousin marriage and severe very scary genetic issues that weren't in our family. There should be more awareness of genetic concerns in each family so they can't hide behind good manners and decorum and expensive walima parties. All these new generation babies are suffering immensely 💔
This is the comment I was looking for. The rate is 6 percent for cousin marriages and 4 percent for non-cousin marriages. This doesn’t mean that every child in a mental hospital is the result of cousin marriage.
Ultimately, it's only God who can bless a family with a healthy baby. I’ve personally met two families who had children with health issues, and neither marriage was between cousins. In fact, their families hadn’t even known each other before the marriage.
On the other hand my friends parents were cousins. He and his siblings are academically bright student and doing well in their life.
It should be obligatory to get required tests done in order from nikaah to be registered. Especially if two cousins are getting married.
Simple and Wise advice❤
This is the best advice!
0:31 wrong map!!!
Pakistani hai bhai aur kya hi expect kar sakte hai
@@APKable yeah... tru
All the greatest true bhakts of Modiji should come forward
At the end of the day he is a Pakistani, understand man
Baap ko mat sikha