I am Hindu jat and hamare 5 gotra chhodte hai(father, mother, Nani,Dadi and pardadi)and gotra does not mean family only it means that blood line lineage (like I'm Kaler so we can't marry any Kaler in world ) it's complex. Plus anyone from same village is considered brothers and sisters every gotra and Cast😊 how intelligent our ancestors were ❤
I am a bengali Hindu Brahmin. I am from Sandalya gotra. So, I can't marry a girl from my gotra. I have to marry a girl from other gotras. My parents and other family members have also followed this rule. I am proud to have such intelligent ancestors who taught us this rule.
@@80sguy27no need to unless I fall in love with a girl. You marry someone who is living on the road side and show your inclusiveness. You won't do that because they are not equal to you in economical status. Think about yourself before taking lessons to others.
tera problem kya hain ?? Ye unke dharm mein ho raha hain , maybe it's our plan , to give them generational shock which can be helpful in our long term gain ...... so please , don't address this as their mistake .... let them do , to achieve our goals
I want to add something as a Pakistani Hindu living in Pakistan. All Hindus in Pakistan still follow the ancestors' rule. My Gotra, which I inherited from my father and forefathers, and my mother's Gotra and my grandmother's Gotra are different because they came from the outside family. I can only marry a girl whose father, mother, and grandmother's Gotra are unmatched by mine. This means I can't marry in the family if one of the Gotra gets a match with anyone. Marrying in mutual Gotra is strictly prohibited.
You have rightfully highlighted this very important issue. I am a Professor. Married with my maternal cousin. My first daughter died due to Neuroblastoma (Cancer) at the age of four. My second son was still born. The third one is OK and he is now 36. My fourth son has also some genetic problem, though he is 32. Concluding 3 out of 4, children got problems. Please make more videos and present scientific facts, why cousin marriages MUST be avoided. Recently a law is passed in Britain, which has put banned on cousin Marriages.
Coming from a Rajput family in Rajasthan I can assure the names mentioned at 5:00 are not true. In Rajputs we avoid weddings with mother’s and even grandmother’s gotra (gene pool). So, I believe that fact is inconsistent.
@@Exhindu-d2x asapiṇḍā ca yā māturasagotrā ca yā pituḥ | sā praśastā dvijātīnāṃ dārakarmaṇi maithune || 5 || She who is not a “sapiṇḍa” of one’s mother, not of the same “Gotra” as his Father, and who is not born of (unlawful) intercourse-has been recommended for marriage.-(5) As mitravinda and bhadra were daughters of paternal aunt, they will be of different gotra from krishna's father gotra, hence it was not wrong as per marriage rule.
@@ShubhamGupta-hg9md kitna jhoot bolte ho yaar hindûuu , Waha saaf saaf likha hai parental aunts daughter Uano mausi ki beti ,, Jalebi baazi ki bhi had hoti hai
I work at Child Psychiatry Department at Mayo Hospital, Lahore. Most (80%) of the parents of the children who present with intellectual disability have cousin marriage.
I am a bhardwaj brahmin from north india (gurgaon), though mine is love marriage. But she is also a brahmin girl, her parents and my parents checked thoroughly before marriage that none of our gotra should match like from mother father from both sides and grand parents, nana nani from both sides. Blessed with a healthy son 3 years ago.
I am a Hindu from Assam. My father is an Ahom. My mother is a Bhuyan. Since 12 Bhuyan families were picked by the Ahom King and settled in Assam then to manage land ( they were Zamindars ) ; Bhuyans are not allowed to marry another Bhuyan.
हम सभी मुसलमानों में सभी लोग जब बच्चे रहते हैं, तब हम सभी अपने चाचा, खाला, मामू, के बच्चे आपस में मिल कर रहते हैं, जिसमें आपस में प्यार बढ़ता है, एक दूसरे के जज्बात को समझते रहते हैं, यही कारण है कि हम सभी आपस में जुड़े रहने के लिए निकाह कर सकते हैं, यह बढ़िया काम है। इंशा अल्लाह, आमीन।
I am from miniscule zorastrian community residing in Mumbai ...... my daughter refused to marry within the parsi community as she says the regressive genes are dominant and the genepool is contaminated 🇮🇳 🇮🇳 🇮🇳 You touched a very important topic .....
@@Angelinajolieshortsdarn and have her in a fridge??? In sure the Parsis of our country are prudent enough ..and don’t forget the Parsis left Iran due to the Islamic invasion and sought refuge in India..We love our Parsi community very much ❤❤❤❤❤
I am Gujjar....and we cannot marry in our gotra.....they are like our sisters..... we can marry except 4 gotras.... (mother, father, grandmother, nani) rishte se phle hi na
@@Revenger.777: absolutely the biggest sin and looked down upon! Just like if a son tries to have a relation with his own mother will be frowned upon in muslims(ofcos in Hindus/Christian’s etc), same is with cousins. Ofcos there are cases where due to Infatuation people do such things, but those are illegal and a blasphamy. I mean, instead of talking shit, try to search for the facts! There are certain things which are haram like eating pork! Imagine, a Hindu accusing a Muslim of secretly eating pork and doing her mom?! It will be stupid and baseless right? But not completely impossible! Just like that marrying/keeping affair with cousins is a big no no! Also, in india South Indians hindu marry within cousins. So no, it is not all Hindu, but a regional thing. North Indians hindu don’t do that at all!!
I am from Manipur, India and belongs to Meitei community. We have 7 clans - Mangang,Luwang ,Khuman, Angom, Moirang, Kha Nganba & Salang Leisgangthem. I belong to Angom Clan and I can't marry any Angom clan in this entire universe otherwise we have deformed children. Let alone cousin marriages !
In Haryana, families kill the couple if someone marries a cousin (even distant one with same gotra or bloodline). Neither legal or justified but that is how sacred North Indians consider the bond of Brother-Sister (including cousins).
Exactly, I am from Uttrakhand and noone can even think about cousin marriage...strictly prohibited in my family. Majority of Pakistani do this practice due to poverty and orthodox philosophy.
Hmare yha Uttar Pradesh Haryana Rajasthan me same gotra me to shadiya hoti hi nahi h Hmare yha same village me bhi koi ek dusre se shadi nahi kr sakta chahe caste ya gotra alag alag kyo na ho
As a Indian Hindu, How I see this is you took a Xerox and you keep xerox that Xerox sheet again and again... So at some point of a time you ll find the xerox of those Xeroxes getting fade!! So it takes multiple generation to effect it!! And in Pakistan this is happening from decades!! And now that xerox is fading away slowly and people still don't understand the alarming situation!!
I am a Hindu from West Bengal, India. In Bengal we do not marry if our GOTRA is same. Since my cousin share same Gotra hence there is no question of marring a cousin in Hindu Bengali family. Gotra refers to ancestral linage, if Gotra is same then your ancestral linage is same and you are prohibited to marry that person as per cultural norms. Marrying a person with same GOTRA is counted as incest in our culture and looked down upon society. In North India things are more strict they follows the GOTRA concept and along with that their rules are little different for example in Haryana, UP or Uttarakhand, you are prohibited to marry from same village because they think if a boy or girl is gown in same area then they became brother-sister by default. However in South India and North East, things are little different. Among Tamilians and Andhra Hindus they do cousin marriage so as to keep the wealth of the family intact. There could be other reasons too why they are allowed to do so but I have no idea regarding, when I heard about it I was shocked to know about it.
As a healthcare professional, this is the best thing to watch. We seriously need these type of platforms to spread awareness in the society. Thankyou @junaidAkram.❤️
Cousin marriage has become a serious problem in our villages. 10-12 years ago, a child died due to thalassemia. Two years ago, another boy from the same family died due to thalassemia. Now 3 more children of the same family have thalassemia. My teacher's son has thalassemia. And now that the teacher has done blood tests on his family, 70% of the family members have thalassemia. And now this problem is getting even worse. Due to cousin marriage, many children in another family in our villages are mentally and physically disabled. 2 children were died due to this issue last year. Another family has children suffering from anemia. In another family, a little girl is suffering from thalassemia. My family has also thought of cousin marriage. But for the last 3 years I have been having a heated discussion with my family on cousin marriage and have been openly opposing cousin marriage. I have told my family in clear words that I would rather die than marrying cousin. Now, as my younger brother is doing MBBS, he is also opposing family, exposing downsides of cousin marriage and supporting me.
हम सभी मुसलमानों में सभी लोग जब बच्चे रहते हैं, तब हम सभी अपने चाचा, खाला, मामू, के बच्चे आपस में मिल कर रहते हैं, जिसमें आपस में प्यार बढ़ता है, एक दूसरे के जज्बात को समझते रहते हैं, यही कारण है कि हम सभी आपस में जुड़े रहने के लिए निकाह कर सकते हैं, यह बढ़िया काम है। इंशा अल्लाह, आमीन।
There are around 25 children in my family who are blind by birth and the root cause is cousin marriages. I refused to marry my cousin, which ended up on ending family ties with that family because they don't understand. Another problem is girls are more than boys, and it is difficult to find a husband for them. Anyways, my parents partially understood this issue and they stood up with me despite social pressure from many elders. I hope the other side will understand this one day.
@@enterjam4286 Like one of my uncles has two kids blind and two kids healthy. It is 50/50 somewhere. Another uncle has only one kid blind out of 4. But I have seen how it ruins lives even if one kid is blind... And nobody tells you how many kids die at the time of birth. So it is a serious matter. If you think you must marry your cousin, then go for a genetic test at least.
I m hindu maithil brahmin. This is true even today. We marry different gotras not same. And I know my 7 generation it's written on mithila panchang which is like a official accountability of keeping data with name and details till today with birth, birth place, education, property to date of death and place of death. My father passed away this year and we did last rights at haridwar so I found my great grandmother and other relatives did last right at same place in some 634AD. So it's amazing to have such knowledge.
Brother this problem doesn't occur generally but if you marry generation after generation , to the first cousin then even there is a hadith not to do that . This Question was asked by Rahul in Dubai from Dr Zakir Nayak and he answered it.
Finally, someone addressed the issue of cousin marriage. As an Indian Muslim, I enjoy watching Pakistani dramas, but I don’t like how they frequently glorify cousin marriages. The Pakistani entertainment industry should avoid promoting this practice, as it might encourage more people to follow it.
This is by far your best video. The level of research from Ancient India and its culture that has distilled to modern subcontinent's society is brilliantly explained. Give the researcher a raise!! Islam allows for cousin marriage but that doesn't mean we should exploit what God has given to us.
I am a Sanatni and reside in Austria. Here by laws inter-family marriage is not accepted by law. But our religion dont permit. It justifies, that our Ancestors were great researches and knowing secrets of genetics. That is why I feel proud to be a Sanatni
But inke desh me inke jaisey samajhdar vyakti ko sunaney wale na ke barabar hotey he ( very very few ) aur mananey wale to bikul nil ke barabar ya .0001 % hogey Yaha bhi indian hi jyada he 😂😂😂
हम सभी मुसलमानों में सभी लोग जब बच्चे रहते हैं, तब हम सभी अपने चाचा, खाला, मामू, के बच्चे आपस में मिल कर रहते हैं, जिसमें आपस में प्यार बढ़ता है, एक दूसरे के जज्बात को समझते रहते हैं, यही कारण है कि हम सभी आपस में जुड़े रहने के लिए निकाह कर सकते हैं, यह बढ़िया काम है। हमें अपने रिवाज पर फख्र है। इंशा अल्लाह, आमीन।
You can change your gotra. I can name you Kings who changed gotra to marry or to get rid of sin of gotra-hatya. It's a made up lineage where you believe your ancestor was a great sage. And btw when you don't know your gotra you can use Kasyap gotra as a general gotra. A better parampara would be bansha parampara where you trace your ancestors but it cannot be changed because it's not imaginary.
@@allahkakafirbanda1939 its not like it should not or can not be done.. point is to consider this as the least viable option when choosing your partner to have kids with.
हम सभी मुसलमानों में सभी लोग जब बच्चे रहते हैं, तब हम सभी अपने चाचा, खाला, मामू, के बच्चे आपस में मिल कर रहते हैं, जिसमें आपस में प्यार बढ़ता है, एक दूसरे के जज्बात को समझते रहते हैं, यही कारण है कि हम सभी आपस में जुड़े रहने के लिए निकाह कर सकते हैं, यह बढ़िया काम है। इंशा अल्लाह, आमीन।
Finally someone said it. Who better than Junaid bhai anyway. I have been offered to marry cousins (first and second), but I genuinely find this thought abhore. I said no. The rebuttles I got: 1. Bahar ki larki kese chalay gi hamare khandaan mein 2. Baqi rishteydaron ki get together mein bahar ki larki hogi tou parda k masla hoga (as if other relatives are Mahram :D) 3. Bahar see larki lao ge tou baad mein wo kesi niklay phir kya kro ge? 4. Bahar wali tumhen hum see door le jaye gi Ab yeh video sab rishteydaro ko forward karun ga aur ghar TV pe chala dun ga 😂
Yah kaise ajib excuse hai , fir to aap log hamesha joint family system ko follow karte honge.. agar bahar wali door le jayegi to… kya falatu k excuse hai, caste system k according hi lo,
Ab iss baat dukh manao ki hasu ki pakistan mein abhi rationality kuch log mein baki warna sablog cousin marriage ko support kar rahe pakistan se according to religion.
Brother. I blame awareness for these kinds of issues. I really pity those people but hope at the same time that with time & generational shift, these practices will be less and less.
Hahaha bilkul accurate rebuttals batayen ap ne 😂 my husband faced the same issues while he announced about me to his family as they acknowledge cousin marriage only.. khandan waliyan aksar nani yad dila deti hain... bahar wali achi chal jati hain 😅😅
Bhai liberals agenda hamesha ya hindu RSS karata hai ya West.. Itna vulnerable na banao apne aapko ye junaid akrem jaisi log apne baap ke sage na honge
Wese baap se paap ka safar kesa rehta hai? Wo tumhare liye bhai hai not for us. So may be ask your god Krishna why he married his sister and ask Brahma why he 🍇’d and married his daughter? 😂😂
Tu ye btao rajput aur maratha royals ke lye kesa rha? 😂 Krishna ke lye kesa rha bhaia se saia ka safar? 😂 tumhare lye behn hai na? Tumhare haan tu baal beti bhi chal jata hai jese Brahma ne apni beti Saraswati ko hi pel dia
This is a very very sensitive subject and hat's off to you for raising this in such a practical and wonderful way. I think educated muslims can play an important role in creating awareness and explain the danger the coming generation will face . Kudos to you
@@trilokyamohanchakra6351 yes I am bcz i have seen childs with thalassemia fighting for their life. if you have someone in your family you will understand the importance.
@@Executor8 But the Creator of the heavens and the earth Allah obligates the razamandi of man and woman which as you can see in the servay is not there, the man and women are pressured and married against their will which is also not allowed, blame the culture not the religion (because seriously people here majority don't even know what's actually written in the Quran they haven't read the translation and many of them don't even establish daily five prayers which is the bear minimum)
We always compare Indian and Pakistani TH-camrs. But when Pakistani makes good informative video, no one watches it or even support the creator. On the contrary cringe daily vloggers are getting all the views from their scripted videos. We should support and subscribe Junaid Akram ❤🙌🏿
Thank you Junaid. In a country drowning in religious extremism, intolerance and show of piety, you come with unique topics that affect the general populance. True son of soil, true patriot who does not care about his income, about his views and only thinks of the betterment of Pakistanis despite the consequences. We cannot thank you enough for the work you do, for the awareness you create.
You will continue to weep, as long as you are in Arabi political ideology called Islam. There will be n number of excuse only to avoid identifying root cause Islam
@farazfudge still some people are promoting cousin marriage in comments in the name of religion. One of the promotee guy says he did MS in genetics and chance of genetic disease in cousin marriage in negligible. 😆 🤣 😂
It's important to understand that cousin marriage isn’t the sole reason for the birth of children with genetic defects. According to scientific research, even in non-cousin marriages, there's a 4% chance of having a child with a genetic condition, while in cousin marriages, this increases slightly to 6%. I personally know two families where the children were born with mental health issues, and the parents weren’t cousins. Genetic disorders can occur for many reasons, and while cousin marriage might slightly raise the risk, it’s not the only factor.
हम सभी मुसलमानों में सभी लोग जब बच्चे रहते हैं, तब हम सभी अपने चाचा, खाला, मामू, के बच्चे आपस में मिल कर रहते हैं, जिसमें आपस में प्यार बढ़ता है, एक दूसरे के जज्बात को समझते रहते हैं, यही कारण है कि हम सभी आपस में जुड़े रहने के लिए निकाह कर सकते हैं, यह बढ़िया काम है। हमें अपने रिवाज पर फख्र है। इंशा अल्लाह, आमीन।
Which nation of India does it? India is not one nation or country. It was created by the British. A part of South India have marriages between mama bhanji
@@sabrinakhan8217 Sabrina ji... It happen in North India..... Here in India we have different cultural zones with their own practices and believe system.... But Sister we are one nation
Very well compiled article Junaid Uncle/Sir. It takes guts to talk about societal issues, and you have backed this video with data that is the best part.
Bhai eik original case mein bhi hun merey parents 1st cousins hain mujhe Progressive Macular Dystrophy hai i am loosing muscle power and muscle mass by age zindagi jaise eik jang hai merey liye roz eik maut marte hain hum but kya kersakte hain bas apne se worst kisi ko dekhta hun tow ALLAH ka shuker ada kerta hun jo bhi yeh comment parhe merey liye dua kerey ALLAH mujhe himmat de
My Indian brothers and sisters are rocking in the comments section ,nice to see that we indians are educated about our culture and we are showing our cultural advancements to the world
Here in Jammu and Kashmir, India 🇮🇳... where as genetic diseases are less common Jammu which has 67 pc Hindu population while in Kashmir they are prominent which has 97 pc Muslim population and cousin marriages were very common in one generation back
@@Ahmed_Fawad What he said is not really true. Muslims of Kashmir are different from Punjabi, Sindhi, Pathan and Baloch Muslims in this regard. However, Jammu and Kashmir is the 5th highest state when it comes to cousin marriages in India, with only Telangana, Karnataka, Andhra Pradesh and Tamil Nadu ahead of JnK. And this little contribution for J&K is solely due to Muslims of J&K. Infact I would argue the presence of Hindus in Jammu is the reason why your state numbers are not so high in cousin marriages.
@@xijinpig8982 I m talking of kashmiri ethnic population... Everyone living in kashmir is not kashmiri ethnically n genetically... Cousin marriages r common in our ethnic group also but we don't face any such major issue.. Before marriage genetic counselling is preferred by everyone..
@theexplorer9369 still India ranks 2nd largest country in the world, suffers from genetic disease Sickle Cell Anaemia births,double number than pakistan. In fact, half of SCD affected population lives in India alone, and Thalassemia rate is almost same in both countries life expectancy is also same. if only 'cousin marriage' is a threat, why India is more affected being 10x less in cousin marriage, everyone is following Gotra and no one marries a relative till 7th generation. Cousin marriages have been happening since the beginning of the world if marrying your cousins is pendamic, human spieces would have already extinct centuries ago.
India is Hindu majority country and population is also bcz of Hindus ... If Muslims ki wajah se population zyada hai to India se pehle 57 Muslim desh ki population zyada hoti... understood betaaa😂@@blackpacific5255
I think the genetic screening is the best option. I am based in UAE and over here before anyone gets a Nikah done, the man and woman go through a blood tests to check if they carry such diseases which can cause issues to their future children. It’s better to be aware before than it being too late.
हम सभी मुसलमानों में सभी लोग जब बच्चे रहते हैं, तब हम सभी अपने चाचा, खाला, मामू, के बच्चे आपस में मिल कर रहते हैं, जिसमें आपस में प्यार बढ़ता है, एक दूसरे के जज्बात को समझते रहते हैं, यही कारण है कि हम सभी आपस में जुड़े रहने के लिए निकाह कर सकते हैं, यह बढ़िया काम है। हमें अपने रिवाज पर फख्र है। इंशा अल्लाह, आमीन।
i am a Dr and i think Junaid did the work which was solely our responsibility. great work , v informative vid bro. Plz create a video on fam planning aswell so we can stop the population boom as it is a great burden on our country's poor economy🙃🙃
In rural India, marriages between families from the same village are often avoided, as they are considered akin to siblings. This practice persists in the southern parts of India, though it has declined due to increasing awareness. However, the percentage of endogamous marriages remains higher among Indian Muslims. If you visit a government hospital, you'll find a disproportionately higher number of Muslim patients suffering from genetic disorders due to the prevalence of such marriages
Indian Vijay ji wo south India me ek non-Muslims hindu community hai jahan sirf cousins Marriage hi hoti hai isliye umnko kuch bimari or allergic hote hain aur wahan pr hospital me cast puchi jati hai Taki anaesthesia mna diya ja sake qk wo unkeliye jaanlewa hota hai Aap Mohak Mangal ki vedio dekh sakte hain isi topic pr
Sirf hospitals mein nahi normal 'physicians' aur 'dermatologists' ke clinic par bhi muslims bahut jyada dekhne milte hain,meri city mein 20% muslim population hai lekin jab bhi kabhi doctor ko visit karta hoon 50% muslim patients hi milte hain.
@@MohdFarhan-df6zrफिर भी भाई मुस्लिम समुदाय में साइंस एंड फैक्ट को मानने वाले लोग उंगलियों को जिन लो 99.99% मुस्लिम केवल कुरान, नबी, कन्वर्जन, गुस्ताक ए रसूल ईटीसी से बाहर नहीं निकल पाते हैं
हम सभी मुसलमानों में सभी लोग जब बच्चे रहते हैं, तब हम सभी अपने चाचा, खाला, मामू, के बच्चे आपस में मिल कर रहते हैं, जिसमें आपस में प्यार बढ़ता है, एक दूसरे के जज्बात को समझते रहते हैं, यही कारण है कि हम सभी आपस में जुड़े रहने के लिए निकाह कर सकते हैं, यह बढ़िया काम है। हमें अपने रिवाज पर फख्र है। इंशा अल्लाह, आमीन।
Superb video Junaid Bhai. I am a Brahmin from MITHILA (BIHAR). My GOTRA is "Shandilya", and yes i can't marry a girl who also is "shandilya", we always make sure our "GOTRA's" are different. The Mention of MANUSMRITI was also Superb. Thanks from BHARAT. 🧡
@@Exhindu-d2xin south india rare hindu marry their cousins, in the part of TN and aandhra, vo bhi ab band ho chuka he, and krishna ki baat bolne se pehle pdh ke aa, khud ki ga,ndh saaf nhi hoti to dusro ke ghr me bhi daal do tum logo ki fi,tart hi yhi he, khud mat sudharana dusre ki baat khod khod ke laana.
I am still suffering from this, my father's sister wishes to marry her daughter with me when i was only 1 day old, but today i am 19 years old and i refused to marry her. So my parents are crying and forcing me to marry her just because of their fu***** respect in the society.
@@SarthakaSinghBut if he married outside family still his upcoming generation face the same scenario. Because we cannot control the destiny of others.
I appreciate the way you have presented this topic. Pakistanis like you are hope for the future of your country. Keep spreading awareness against inappropriate social practices for the welfare of the society
Easily one of the biggest issues in Pakistan . Why can't people just accept scientific consensus that cousin marriages ( especially multiple generations of such marriages ) leads to all kinds of health issues in people .
Ground reality is very much different than what media or scientific studies portray, the birth defect rate in kids Whose parents are related is same as much as the birth defect rate of kids whose parents are not related. It's not big of an issue if you make a survey you can find out and that's why in some regions people get involved in such relationships
This is my first comment about this I want to thank you for raising this issue I am also been suffering from genetical disorder I've searched about it but didn't found any evidence of this disease (I can't run, my legs feel like stuck when I try to run more than two steps, can't lift things up to my head but I never told about this to anyone even in my house) cuz my dad married his cousin, but Alhamdulilah
If both parents have sickle cell that can cause the child this anemia, doesn't matter if parents are cousin. If you have some concert reason to relate it with cousin marriage, let me know.
If both parents have sickle cell that can cause the child this anemia, doesn't matter if parents are cousin. If you have some concert reason to relate it with cousin marriage, let me know.
Assalam o Alaikum, everyone. I have a brother who is all facing the cinsequence of this. We are 2 brothers and have one sister. When my brother was 8 years old, he had a problem with his liver. So when my parents took him to a local doctor. That doctor referred him to Childern Hospital Lahore. There at the hospital, tests took place, and it was diagnosed that this happened because of the cousin marriage and genes repetition that took place as a result. From that day till today, my brother hasn't 100% recovered, and it caused him to fight with the disease all his life. He has to take medicines all of his life. Otherwise, he won't live. Now it has cost our grandparents nothing but my brother life. I hope my brother example is an eye opener for those parents, who want to force their childern for cousin marriages. Thank you
Reason is not only lack of awareness and personal gains but also one of the most IMPORTANT reason is Mistrust. You would not marry your daughter to a person whom you know nothing about. You would prefer a guy who was raised in front of you. Plus you can exert pressure to treat your daughter kindly.
In Islam, cousin marriage is permissible but not specifically encouraged. It is allowed under Islamic law and is quite common in some cultures, especially in parts of the Middle East, South Asia, and North Africa. The permissibility is based on the fact that the Quran does not prohibit marriage between cousins, and some Islamic scholars cite examples from early Islamic history, including marriages within the Prophet Muhammad's (PBUH) family. While cousin marriages are allowed, they are not considered superior or encouraged over other types of marriages. The focus in Islam is generally on finding a spouse who is righteous, kind, and of good character, regardless of familial relations. In some communities, cultural practices may make cousin marriages more common due to social, familial, or economic reasons, but this is more cultural than religious encouragement.
Gautam Buddha says ," don't accept any thing unless it is logically right for you. Apply your brain n then accept. Don't accept ,because it is written in holy book. Don't accept because, I am advising you. Check every thing critically n if you are convinced its right , then only accept. " But this type of mental freedom is very rarely found in Islamic world.
It's not true. Mental freedom was pioneered by Muslims by presenting the world astronomy, algebra, evolution, and so many other things. You can't dismiss the entire religion or its followers based on one thing. I won't say anything about other religions of subcontinent, but you know there are practices that do not align with common sense. Thank you!
@@adnanhaider8241 Well this makes the fact even more sad that despite having 56 Muslim countries they are still leagues behind. The radicals are always active and the educated are suppressed.
हम सभी मुसलमानों में सभी लोग जब बच्चे रहते हैं, तब हम सभी अपने चाचा, खाला, मामू, के बच्चे आपस में मिल कर रहते हैं, जिसमें आपस में प्यार बढ़ता है, एक दूसरे के जज्बात को समझते रहते हैं, यही कारण है कि हम सभी आपस में जुड़े रहने के लिए निकाह कर सकते हैं, यह बढ़िया काम है। हमें अपने रिवाज पर फख्र है। इंशा अल्लाह, आमीन।
It's hilarious that such a huge population, yet people marrying into families... its like having ground to play football yet you kicking ball inside your home
No it's not, niyog is done when women can't find a better suited after her husband has passed away, aisa nhi ki chachi ki beti hot lagi toh ghusa do@@Dungeonmaster222
There is also the same case in my family.Two cousins got married with each other.They have four sons two of them are deaf by birth.I think government should come forward to deal with this silent pandemic.
@mirsarfraz7143 untill ppl realize cousin marriages are also incest nobody can do anything. There still ppl in the comments supporting cousin marriages in the name of religion
Definitely lineage me koi na koi parent deaf rahe honge. Jab Aisa ho to fir cousin marriage avoid karni chahiye because you don't know kiska gene dominant ho
What a great video! I don’t usually leave comments on videos, but this is an issue that must be addressed. Some may bring up the marriage of Hazrat Fatima (AS) and Hazrat Ali (AS) as an example, but it's important to understand that the Prophet never openly endorsed cousin marriage. In the case of Hazrat Ali and Fatima (AS), there was already a deep bond between them, and the Prophet found no better man for his daughter than Ali (AS). Uthman (AS) was already married to two of the Prophet’s daughters, and Abu Bakr (RA) and Umar (RA) were older. Ali (AS) was young, and the Prophet had known him since he was nine years old. But again, the Prophet never explicitly encouraged cousin marriage for others. He left it as an option, just as he left the options for divorce or shaving body hair. With advancements in science, we now understand more about genetics and health risks that were unknown 1,400 years ago. The Prophet never declared that cousin marriage is necessarily good, nor did he prohibit it. Therefore, it's not a matter of challenging his prophecy or doubting his guidance. We are simply applying new knowledge to make choices that reflect both faith and reason. It is also important to understand that the Prophet did not possess knowledge of everything in the universe; rather, he knew only what Allah had revealed to him.
I am a Hindu from West Bengal, India. In Bengal we do not marry if our GOTRA is same. Since my cousin share same Gotra hence there is no question of marring a cousin in Hindu Bengali family. Gotra refers to ancestral linage, if Gotra is same then your ancestral linage is same and you are prohibited to marry that person as per cultural norms. Marrying a person with same GOTRA is counted as incest in our culture and looked down upon society. In North India things are more strict they follows the GOTRA concept and along with that their rules are little different for example in Haryana, UP or Uttarakhand, you are prohibited to marry from same village because they think if a boy or girl is gown in same area then they became brother-sister by default. However in South India and North East, things are little different. Among Tamilians and Andhra Hindus they do cousin marriage so as to keep the wealth of the family intact. There could be other reasons too why they are allowed to do so but I have no idea regarding, when I heard about it I was shocked to know about it.
@@incredibleindia9844 Kya aapke pass is baat ki daleel (reference) hai ke humare quran or hadith is baat ko endorse karte hain ke cousin marriage karo?
@@subhashishbagchi3191 Yeah he explained that lowkey in the video, I am disgusts by the fact too people continuously marriage with their first cousin or something, but I am pretty sure this number will get down in Pakistan as people are getting more educated about this and younger generate will be more self-aware.
Very interesting and well researched. Thanks. We people have always avoided marriage within the family. But we had the choice of marrying sister's daughter as she will be of other gotra. But over the years we have moved away from that practice.
One reason, which they fail to acknowledge is the origin of muslims in indian context. They were converted. Once converted, it was difficult for them to find bride or groom from their earlier hindu society because they wouldn't give it to converts . Hence in such situations, it was their compulsion to marry within what ever was available. Subsequently it became an acceptable practice.
This is not the case. Muslims do cousin marriage all over the world, not just in Pakistan. The roots of Muslims' cousin marriage practice is in Islam itself. Muhammad married his cousin, Zainab bint Jahsh, and Muhammad is the most important role-model in Islam. Even Muhammad's daughter Fatima married her cousin, Ali ibn Abi Talib, though I'm sure if she did so at Muhammad's command or of her own wish. All these modern Muslims who're trying to avoid cousin marriage just because doctors scared them with difficult to pronounce terms like Thalassemia, and some scary looking charts, are going against their religion! In fact, they're going against the most important figure in Islam- Muhammad!
It’s important to understand that cousin marriage isn’t the sole reason for the birth of children with genetic defects. According to scientific research, even in non-cousin marriages, there's a 4% chance of having a child with a genetic condition, while in cousin marriages, this increases slightly to 6%. I personally know two families where the children were born with mental health issues, and the parents weren’t cousins. Genetic disorders can occur for many reasons, and while cousin marriage might slightly raise the risk, it’s not the only factor.
@@baboralikhan5130west ki jo studies hai wo european pe hui jo khud cousin marriage karte hai waha gotra yaani lineage ka koi data nahi hota logo ke paas, india mae hazzaro saal se gotra ka data mandiro mae rakha jata hai
I find this video highly educational. I have always been against cousin marriages because of several reasons mentioned in the video. I also like how you talk about every single detail in this video. However, I only have one issue which is about you calling the paternal cousins as the 'first cousins' while the maternal cousins as the 'second cousins'. I believe this is completely wrong as both paternal and maternal cousins are supposed to be one's 'first cousins' as both father and mother have an equal genetic contribution. Instead the children of the cousins of one's parents are said to be the 'second cousins'. Thank you for talking about the disadvantages of cousin marriages and educating people about it. Very informative video.
Man im not gonna lie Junaid bhai's video has been so informative and my mom's literally guilt tripping me on not marrying my cousin kai khandan kya kahai ga humara izat kharab hoga like tf man...
It's 2024 and still each and every Pakistani drama romanticizes cousin love story and marriage , or love triangles between first cousins and there is no other topic. no ambition in girls their sole purpose is marriage.
The ancestral record part is very apt Junaid. Our family has records of our last 20 generations not just men but women. For further records, we will have to visit Kashi because most of the lineage records are placed in the holy cities of Hindus which our forefathers visited in their lifetime. This record is not only used during marriages but during Pitru Paksha also. It is a common practice among Hindus when we honor our almost last 2 or 3 generations of Fathers, Mothers, and Siblings by offering them food and seeking their blessings. By the way, the Gotra of my family is Kashyap and my mother's gotra is Bharadwaj.
@@muhammadArshad-ju2gg I think a part of video was about Gotra System which obviously ur ancestors also followed once. I just added the fact that we follow it today also.
@@gauravpatil9579 never heard of gotra system,it's your system not our's theek hai rai do lecture na do.... Ap maaz main nahi haal main Hain... Ancestors ko goli maro aur apnay haal aur mustaqbil ki fiqar karo... That's it
@@muhammadArshad-ju2gg The system was followed in almost all the Northern parts of India including present-day Pakistan. And I am talking about the present situation only all of the stuff I wrote is what we follow today also.
@@muhammadArshad-ju2gg One more thing I think you should improve your learning ability cuz I nowhere in my comment mentioned India but you assumed it just because of the word Hindu. Please start differentiating between religion, culture, and country.
Im a clinical psychologist. I have witnessed many patients with development disorders or neurological disorders. Most of them 90% were children of cousin marriage couples. Thankyou for making this video. I hope we can generate this awareness.
In many Pakistani communities, cousin marriages are common, especially within the middle and lower classes. Here's why people often choose this path: Some families strictly believe in marrying within the family ("hum khandaan main hi shaadi karte hain"). Even in the absence of suitable proposals, marrying outside the family is not considered an option. Society often expects individuals to marry within their family circle, reinforcing the tradition and discouraging outside matches. Marrying cousins ensures trust and familiarity, as families already know each other’s background, character, and reputation. Some believe cousin marriages help preserve cultural and familial values, which they fear could be diluted with outside marriages.
Thank-you for spread awareness about disadvantages of cousins marriage. All Pakistani need to implement social media event and public event to spread awareness bad impact of cousins marriage.
First cousins are non-siblings that share grandparents. Second cousins are non-siblings that share great-grandparents. Third cousins are non-siblings that share great-great-grandparents. 🙏
Many here in comments are proudly telling that their spouse are their cousin and children they have are absolutely fit and fine, see guys this is not necessary that everyone who is a smoker or a alchoholic will die with cancer but smoking and drinking are the major cause of cancer
But what about the people who are in large population. Their children have severe congenital problems and they are not even related. Have you thought about it.
@@shafjam1701cousin marraige just make the occurrence of disease 50%, many diseases also occur due to weakness of vitamins in parents. So necessarily doesn't mean that cousin marraige are only the source of such diseases. But it just amplifies the chances.
Feeling pride to be part of sanatan dharm ❤ feeling very lucky to born in hindu family and I am very fortunate my ancestors who did not convert. That's why in our religion we treat our cousins as sister and brother.
@@karanvij00 apna Gyan apne paas rakho madarsa chap Gyan hamesha apne flat earth vali aasmani kitab sae compare karte rehte ho hamare granth ko And there is huge difference between 1400 religion and our oldest religion jitna purana thumhara dharam usse jyda purani hamare pass temples hai,jahil to tum khud Ho jo cousin marriage ke health par dangerous effect ke baad bhi blindly follow karte ho . Pehle jake Science padho phir Gyan Dene aana kyuki science to padhte nhi hoge
@@user-sp9wh6kl6c yes in maybe in your culture or religion because in mine uncle and nieces have very sacred relationship.because we don't have a policy of halala and four marriage you people have Many options right in house why to go outside
Niyoga (Sanskrit: नियोग) was an ancient tradition of Svayambhuva Manu sect, which is mainly followed by Svayambhuva Manu's believers. In which a woman (whose husband is either incapable of fatherhood or has died without having a child) would request and appoint a man for helping her bear a child.
Even though data is the king, as a casual point I'll give out this statement. In India, a girl you're interested in, if she calls you 'bhaiya' even 3-4 times, we make an effort to take her 'out of sight & out of mind'. We stop considering any romantic interactions. Rather, girls in schools & colleges use this as a 'bhramastra'. Forget about marrying cousins !!
In Pakistan, whole life cousins don't even think about each other, then suddenly "DADI G" on her death bed comes and ties the knot between cousins. saying that "mere marne sy phly main in dono ko sath dekhna chahti hun" My dadi wanted to do same with me. but I said "Dadi ap to mar jao g mujhy q phnsa kar ja rahi ho" and it's been 5 years. she's still alive...... Benchod main phans jata or khud marti bhi na dadi
@@dabbudas4494 it's india not hindu lol, by that logic Arabs which are muslims are very wealthy and hindus work their as workers lol. And I'm not pakistani lol.
Never, ever consider marrying a relative, whether close or from extended family. All of my siblings chose partners from outside the family, and Alhamdulillah, it turned out to be the best decision for both them and our family. It gave us valuable exposure and expanded our family tree, benefiting us both mentally and economically. People from outside tend to be more humble and considerate, whereas relatives often impose pressure and expectations. On the other hand only I had to suffer from emotional abuse, unrealistic demands and intense mental pressure in a marriage within the relatives that ended up on a divorce. So never go for that option.
@@muhammadarsalanghouri3693 Hazrat Ali and Hazrat Fatima were not first cousins. Hazrat Muhammad PBUH married only aone cousin who was already married two times. Rest 10 wives were neither cousins nor from same tribes. Better look at history. This implies that Islam allowed the cousin marriages but allowing doesnot mean that you have to do it obligatory. Also one cousin marriage donot do the damage. It is repetitive cousin marriages in two to more generations lead to defects.
@@mehak-GB Well marriages without cousin also lead to defects. I am not saying they were cousins but they belong to same bloodline. Your only logical point is that it is not obligatory it is a choice.
I am Hindu jat and hamare 5 gotra chhodte hai(father, mother, Nani,Dadi and pardadi)and gotra does not mean family only it means that blood line lineage (like I'm Kaler so we can't marry any Kaler in world ) it's complex. Plus anyone from same village is considered brothers and sisters every gotra and Cast😊 how intelligent our ancestors were ❤
Correct.
I am a sikh jatt we also practice the same
@@LuckySidhu-ln6vkSahi me aapke bhi gotra hota hai 😮
@@a.s-h1h haan bhai
@@LuckySidhu-ln6vk wow Aaj hi pata chala 😊
I am gurjar muslim from haryana
We also follow gotra system@@a.s-h1h
I am a bengali Hindu Brahmin.
I am from Sandalya gotra. So, I can't marry a girl from my gotra.
I have to marry a girl from other gotras.
My parents and other family members have also followed this rule.
I am proud to have such intelligent ancestors who taught us this rule.
But you will not marry a non- Baaman even though Inter-caste marriages are the best for healthy children.
@@80sguy27no need to unless I fall in love with a girl. You marry someone who is living on the road side and show your inclusiveness. You won't do that because they are not equal to you in economical status. Think about yourself before taking lessons to others.
@@kujlijamoon hey m●r●n, I have married my school sweetheart. 😂
Before marriage we match kundali .
tera problem kya hain ?? Ye unke dharm mein ho raha hain , maybe it's our plan , to give them generational shock which can be helpful in our long term gain ...... so please , don't address this as their mistake .... let them do , to achieve our goals
I want to add something as a Pakistani Hindu living in Pakistan. All Hindus in Pakistan still follow the ancestors' rule. My Gotra, which I inherited from my father and forefathers, and my mother's Gotra and my grandmother's Gotra are different because they came from the outside family. I can only marry a girl whose father, mother, and grandmother's Gotra are unmatched by mine. This means I can't marry in the family if one of the Gotra gets a match with anyone. Marrying in mutual Gotra is strictly prohibited.
India bhi same yhi khud ki mammi or dadi ki gotra me Sadi nhi karte
South India main some Hindus karte hain cousin marriage.
Zinda ho abhi bhi kya tum log Pakistan mein ?
@@HardhikChouhan WHich nation of india? India is not one nation. A part of South India have marriages between mamoo and bhanji
@@tomarsingh6367Haan Karachi sindh mei hai ye log bache kuche
You have rightfully highlighted this very important issue. I am a Professor. Married with my maternal cousin. My first daughter died due to Neuroblastoma (Cancer) at the age of four. My second son was still born. The third one is OK and he is now 36. My fourth son has also some genetic problem, though he is 32. Concluding 3 out of 4, children got problems. Please make more videos and present scientific facts, why cousin marriages MUST be avoided. Recently a law is passed in Britain, which has put banned on cousin Marriages.
Coming from a Rajput family in Rajasthan I can assure the names mentioned at 5:00 are not true. In Rajputs we avoid weddings with mother’s and even grandmother’s gotra (gene pool). So, I believe that fact is inconsistent.
But Rajputs in Pakistan do this
@@Mrgearxx yes!
Muslim Rajputs*@@Mrgearxx
Totally agree. Naming Rana Kumbha Ji was utter negligence
@@Mrgearxxthey are Muslim
We Hindus in India recall our 7 levels of forefathers during the marriage puja ceremony to ensure avoiding collision of DNA within gotra.
Yah you're right but unfortunately some southern hindus do cousin marriage to contain the wealth within the family. But that practice is decreasing
A North India commenting from a village with Chinese phoné , bro visit south India,
I think Sri Krishna forget it so hi married his cousin
S.b. 10.58.56
@@Exhindu-d2x asapiṇḍā ca yā māturasagotrā ca yā pituḥ | sā praśastā dvijātīnāṃ dārakarmaṇi maithune || 5 ||
She who is not a “sapiṇḍa” of one’s mother, not of the same “Gotra” as his Father, and who is not born of (unlawful) intercourse-has been recommended for marriage.-(5)
As mitravinda and bhadra were daughters of paternal aunt, they will be of different gotra from krishna's father gotra, hence it was not wrong as per marriage rule.
@@ShubhamGupta-hg9md kitna jhoot bolte ho yaar hindûuu ,
Waha saaf saaf likha hai parental aunts daughter
Uano mausi ki beti ,,
Jalebi baazi ki bhi had hoti hai
I work at Child Psychiatry Department at Mayo Hospital, Lahore. Most (80%) of the parents of the children who present with intellectual disability have cousin marriage.
And you are still following Islam
We thanks our Ancestors who didn't accepted Islam
Otherwise we would have become Zombiees
.thanks Jinnah
@@personalpr3723it's does not matter with religion.
As hindu thanks you for knowledge
@@personalpr3723 Islam does not make cousin marriage obligatory, nor is it specifically encouraged in the Quran. It is simply not prohibited (haram).
@@شادThe guy with the username @whocares should read this.
I am a bhardwaj brahmin from north india (gurgaon), though mine is love marriage. But she is also a brahmin girl, her parents and my parents checked thoroughly before marriage that none of our gotra should match like from mother father from both sides and grand parents, nana nani from both sides. Blessed with a healthy son 3 years ago.
Bhai south india mai hindu ladkiya apneh mama seh shaadi karteh hai.. Google kar keh deklejya..
I am a Hindu from Assam. My father is an Ahom. My mother is a Bhuyan. Since 12 Bhuyan families were picked by the Ahom King and settled in Assam then to manage land ( they were Zamindars ) ; Bhuyans are not allowed to marry another Bhuyan.
Yeah also heard a similar social practice in kerela where nayar ladies got married to nambudari brahman guys
Ahom superior race
Ahom. Community brave comiunity and ruler of asaam
हम सभी मुसलमानों में सभी लोग जब बच्चे रहते हैं, तब हम सभी अपने चाचा, खाला, मामू, के बच्चे आपस में मिल कर रहते हैं, जिसमें आपस में प्यार बढ़ता है, एक दूसरे के जज्बात को समझते रहते हैं, यही कारण है कि हम सभी आपस में जुड़े रहने के लिए निकाह कर सकते हैं, यह बढ़िया काम है।
इंशा अल्लाह, आमीन।
Just bakwas, baqi jin logoki shadian czn kesath nhi hoti unko kuch nhi hota wo nhi marte
I am from miniscule zorastrian community residing in Mumbai ...... my daughter refused to marry within the parsi community as she says the regressive genes are dominant and the genepool is contaminated 🇮🇳 🇮🇳 🇮🇳
You touched a very important topic .....
Jio Parsi.... India needs you
You should move towards the Muslim community. Your daughter will get attention as well.
Most respected minority of India. Pls increase your population we need you people.
I think Breast Cancer is more prevalent in Parsi community due to marriage among Parsis only
@@Angelinajolieshortsdarn and have her in a fridge??? In sure the Parsis of our country are prudent enough ..and don’t forget the Parsis left Iran due to the Islamic invasion and sought refuge in India..We love our Parsi community very much ❤❤❤❤❤
I am Gujjar....and we cannot marry in our gotra.....they are like our sisters.....
we can marry except 4 gotras.... (mother, father, grandmother, nani)
rishte se phle hi na
Lekin affair rakh sakte ho.. hai na..
Apne ghar ka haal bata raha hai kya ????? @@Revenger.777
@@Revenger.777No we don't. It's a sin.
@@Revenger.777: absolutely the biggest sin and looked down upon! Just like if a son tries to have a relation with his own mother will be frowned upon in muslims(ofcos in Hindus/Christian’s etc), same is with cousins. Ofcos there are cases where due to Infatuation people do such things, but those are illegal and a blasphamy. I mean, instead of talking shit, try to search for the facts! There are certain things which are haram like eating pork! Imagine, a Hindu accusing a Muslim of secretly eating pork and doing her mom?! It will be stupid and baseless right? But not completely impossible! Just like that marrying/keeping affair with cousins is a big no no!
Also, in india South Indians hindu marry within cousins. So no, it is not all Hindu, but a regional thing. North Indians hindu don’t do that at all!!
@@Revenger.777bhai apni cult mentality apne paas rkh,
hum bachpan se sabko bhai behen ya bhaiya didi bolte hain, sabhi cousins ko, gaon me sbhi ko bhi
I am from Manipur, India and belongs to Meitei community. We have 7 clans - Mangang,Luwang ,Khuman, Angom, Moirang, Kha Nganba & Salang Leisgangthem. I belong to Angom Clan and I can't marry any Angom clan in this entire universe otherwise we have deformed children. Let alone cousin marriages !
In Haryana, families kill the couple if someone marries a cousin (even distant one with same gotra or bloodline). Neither legal or justified but that is how sacred North Indians consider the bond of Brother-Sister (including cousins).
In Jharkhand too, we don't do marriage in the same surname.
Exactly, I am from Uttrakhand and noone can even think about cousin marriage...strictly prohibited in my family. Majority of Pakistani do this practice due to poverty and orthodox philosophy.
Murder bhi common hogaya. Koi law and order hai kya?
@@nha3920 this is exceptional aur wait for 10 years and tumhaari haalat bangladesh, srilanka jaisi ho jaayegi
Hmare yha Uttar Pradesh Haryana Rajasthan me same gotra me to shadiya hoti hi nahi h
Hmare yha same village me bhi koi ek dusre se shadi nahi kr sakta chahe caste ya gotra alag alag kyo na ho
As a Indian Hindu, How I see this is you took a Xerox and you keep xerox that Xerox sheet again and again... So at some point of a time you ll find the xerox of those Xeroxes getting fade!! So it takes multiple generation to effect it!! And in Pakistan this is happening from decades!! And now that xerox is fading away slowly and people still don't understand the alarming situation!!
@@menacegaming6836 Good example
we have gotra system can't marry in same gotra for example : i am from bhardwaj gotra can't marry someone from bhardwaj gotra
It's philosophical but good try. See mine. If you practice again and again you will find a better result every time.
@@मैंयशरावत what if someone falls in love with a same gotra
@@02abhirupmukherjee31it does happen, leads to problems
I am a Hindu from West Bengal, India. In Bengal we do not marry if our GOTRA is same. Since my cousin share same Gotra hence there is no question of marring a cousin in Hindu Bengali family. Gotra refers to ancestral linage, if Gotra is same then your ancestral linage is same and you are prohibited to marry that person as per cultural norms. Marrying a person with same GOTRA is counted as incest in our culture and looked down upon society.
In North India things are more strict they follows the GOTRA concept and along with that their rules are little different for example in Haryana, UP or Uttarakhand, you are prohibited to marry from same village because they think if a boy or girl is gown in same area then they became brother-sister by default.
However in South India and North East, things are little different. Among Tamilians and Andhra Hindus they do cousin marriage so as to keep the wealth of the family intact. There could be other reasons too why they are allowed to do so but I have no idea regarding, when I heard about it I was shocked to know about it.
Same hamare rajsthan me bhi yahi gotra system hota hai hamare yaha sirf kisi ladki ko bahan bol de to real sister ki tarah hi treat karte hai
Well said Bagchi ji
@@Indianmewadi A part of SOuth India have marriages between uncle and neice
@@sabrinakhan8217very very rare. It will end in the next generation. The last one I heard of happened in 2002.
@@warhead160 It still happens.
It is less but still happens.
As a healthcare professional, this is the best thing to watch. We seriously need these type of platforms to spread awareness in the society. Thankyou @junaidAkram.❤️
Cousin marriage has become a serious problem in our villages.
10-12 years ago, a child died due to thalassemia. Two years ago, another boy from the same family died due to thalassemia. Now 3 more children of the same family have thalassemia.
My teacher's son has thalassemia. And now that the teacher has done blood tests on his family, 70% of the family members have thalassemia. And now this problem is getting even worse.
Due to cousin marriage, many children in another family in our villages are mentally and physically disabled. 2 children were died due to this issue last year.
Another family has children suffering from anemia. In another family, a little girl is suffering from thalassemia.
My family has also thought of cousin marriage. But for the last 3 years I have been having a heated discussion with my family on cousin marriage and have been openly opposing cousin marriage. I have told my family in clear words that I would rather die than marrying cousin.
Now, as my younger brother is doing MBBS, he is also opposing family, exposing downsides of cousin marriage and supporting me.
@bollywoodscenesandudayansh5947 He was 15-17.
@bollywoodscenesandudayansh5947 12 or 15 maximum my close friend also died due to this at age of 13
@bollywoodscenesandudayansh5947
10-14 years normally
हम सभी मुसलमानों में सभी लोग जब बच्चे रहते हैं, तब हम सभी अपने चाचा, खाला, मामू, के बच्चे आपस में मिल कर रहते हैं, जिसमें आपस में प्यार बढ़ता है, एक दूसरे के जज्बात को समझते रहते हैं, यही कारण है कि हम सभी आपस में जुड़े रहने के लिए निकाह कर सकते हैं, यह बढ़िया काम है।
इंशा अल्लाह, आमीन।
@@selfservice6836kitna ghatiya soch...
There are around 25 children in my family who are blind by birth and the root cause is cousin marriages. I refused to marry my cousin, which ended up on ending family ties with that family because they don't understand. Another problem is girls are more than boys, and it is difficult to find a husband for them. Anyways, my parents partially understood this issue and they stood up with me despite social pressure from many elders. I hope the other side will understand this one day.
Tu hre ghar mai 25 bache hai matlb tumhre akele ka 25 bache😱😱
@@thunderop6287 pori extended family mein siyane bhai
Bhai total kitne bachhe hain????
@@enterjam4286 Like one of my uncles has two kids blind and two kids healthy. It is 50/50 somewhere. Another uncle has only one kid blind out of 4. But I have seen how it ruins lives even if one kid is blind... And nobody tells you how many kids die at the time of birth. So it is a serious matter. If you think you must marry your cousin, then go for a genetic test at least.
25 bache 🤯are bhai aise hi chalta raha to tum apna hi ek kingdom khada kardoge😂😂(just kidding)
I m hindu maithil brahmin. This is true even today. We marry different gotras not same. And I know my 7 generation it's written on mithila panchang which is like a official accountability of keeping data with name and details till today with birth, birth place, education, property to date of death and place of death. My father passed away this year and we did last rights at haridwar so I found my great grandmother and other relatives did last right at same place in some 634AD. So it's amazing to have such knowledge.
This is so fascinating
Yep I am also a hindu saryupari brahmin from uttarpradesh.
And we also had our family records.
634AD damn bro
Brother this problem doesn't occur generally but if you marry generation after generation , to the first cousin then even there is a hadith not to do that .
This Question was asked by Rahul in Dubai from Dr Zakir Nayak and he answered it.
But I think you forgot kríshnaa record
S.b . 10.58.56 😂😂😂 he maríeedd his cousiñn
Finally, someone addressed the issue of cousin marriage.
As an Indian Muslim, I enjoy watching Pakistani dramas, but I don’t like how they frequently glorify cousin marriages. The Pakistani entertainment industry should avoid promoting this practice, as it might encourage more people to follow it.
This is by far your best video. The level of research from Ancient India and its culture that has distilled to modern subcontinent's society is brilliantly explained. Give the researcher a raise!! Islam allows for cousin marriage but that doesn't mean we should exploit what God has given to us.
Thanks to our ancestors for accepting Islam
We thank Jinnah also
@@personalpr3723We should also thank jinnah for taking cancer away from us
@@personalpr3723😂😂😂😂
@@personalpr3723 v r u thanking Jinah?
@@personalpr3723 this has nothing to do with Islam. If you have watched the video, it was the Hindu culture that distilled into modern society.
I am a Sanatni and reside in Austria. Here by laws inter-family marriage is not accepted by law. But our religion dont permit. It justifies, that our Ancestors were great researches and knowing secrets of genetics. That is why I feel proud to be a Sanatni
And they follow a teaching of a single book. Don't use their brain😅
What about Bramha Saraswati? Krishna Mitravrinda?
Wtf is tanatani 😂😂
@@houseofilm07I bet you don't know anything and just yapping misconceptions
@@Memewallah13 I know better than you!! I can give you reference also
That is a sign of Educated TH-camr.. Good Topic Junaid Bhai.. Proper Education is only way to stop it ..
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achaw 😆
Hare Krishna Hare RAM
Jai Shree Ram ❤✅✅✅
But inke desh me inke jaisey samajhdar vyakti ko sunaney wale na ke barabar hotey he ( very very few ) aur mananey wale to bikul nil ke barabar ya .0001 % hogey
Yaha bhi indian hi jyada he 😂😂😂
हम सभी मुसलमानों में सभी लोग जब बच्चे रहते हैं, तब हम सभी अपने चाचा, खाला, मामू, के बच्चे आपस में मिल कर रहते हैं, जिसमें आपस में प्यार बढ़ता है, एक दूसरे के जज्बात को समझते रहते हैं, यही कारण है कि हम सभी आपस में जुड़े रहने के लिए निकाह कर सकते हैं, यह बढ़िया काम है। हमें अपने रिवाज पर फख्र है।
इंशा अल्लाह, आमीन।
0:31 wrong map!!!
Pakistani hai bhai aur kya hi expect kar sakte hai
@@APKable yeah... tru
All the greatest true bhakts of Modiji should come forward
At the end of the day he is a Pakistani, understand man
Baap ko mat sikha
We hindus beleive gotra system our ancestors are so intelligent 🧠.
It's common sense which is not so common
You can change your gotra. I can name you Kings who changed gotra to marry or to get rid of sin of gotra-hatya. It's a made up lineage where you believe your ancestor was a great sage. And btw when you don't know your gotra you can use Kasyap gotra as a general gotra. A better parampara would be bansha parampara where you trace your ancestors but it cannot be changed because it's not imaginary.
@@Nep.Prazolno it can't be changed bullshit
@@Nep.Prazollet him change his gotra but still he is so logical that he will not marry his cousin.
Fun fact:- Krishna didn't Believed in it 😂😂
Finally someone said it, if its permisible doesn't mean u should always do it.
@@abdullahSSG
And if it should not be done, why is it permissible
@@allahkakafirbanda1939 4 marriages are also permissible, but does that mean everyone should do it? Ur point isn't good at all.
@@abdullahSSG
My question is different
@@allahkakafirbanda1939 its not like it should not or can not be done.. point is to consider this as the least viable option when choosing your partner to have kids with.
Its not permissible
What a great educational piece. Kudos to Junaid and team. This type of content can literally change lives for the better.
भैया से सैया बनने वाला लाइन was epic ब्रो 🔥🤣
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हम सभी मुसलमानों में सभी लोग जब बच्चे रहते हैं, तब हम सभी अपने चाचा, खाला, मामू, के बच्चे आपस में मिल कर रहते हैं, जिसमें आपस में प्यार बढ़ता है, एक दूसरे के जज्बात को समझते रहते हैं, यही कारण है कि हम सभी आपस में जुड़े रहने के लिए निकाह कर सकते हैं, यह बढ़िया काम है।
इंशा अल्लाह, आमीन।
Original id se aao kumar 😂@@selfservice6836
@@selfservice6836 cheee bhai hai vo yar 😢
Finally someone said it. Who better than Junaid bhai anyway.
I have been offered to marry cousins (first and second), but I genuinely find this thought abhore. I said no. The rebuttles I got:
1. Bahar ki larki kese chalay gi hamare khandaan mein
2. Baqi rishteydaron ki get together mein bahar ki larki hogi tou parda k masla hoga (as if other relatives are Mahram :D)
3. Bahar see larki lao ge tou baad mein wo kesi niklay phir kya kro ge?
4. Bahar wali tumhen hum see door le jaye gi
Ab yeh video sab rishteydaro ko forward karun ga aur ghar TV pe chala dun ga 😂
Yah kaise ajib excuse hai , fir to aap log hamesha joint family system ko follow karte honge.. agar bahar wali door le jayegi to… kya falatu k excuse hai, caste system k according hi lo,
Ab iss baat dukh manao ki hasu ki pakistan mein abhi rationality kuch log mein baki warna sablog cousin marriage ko support kar rahe pakistan se according to religion.
Brother. I blame awareness for these kinds of issues. I really pity those people but hope at the same time that with time & generational shift, these practices will be less and less.
Hahaha bilkul accurate rebuttals batayen ap ne 😂 my husband faced the same issues while he announced about me to his family as they acknowledge cousin marriage only.. khandan waliyan aksar nani yad dila deti hain... bahar wali achi chal jati hain 😅😅
Bhai liberals agenda hamesha ya hindu RSS karata hai ya West.. Itna vulnerable na banao apne aapko ye junaid akrem jaisi log apne baap ke sage na honge
Bhaiya se saiyan was epic bhai😂😂😂
Tu bhi maza lene hi aaya hai lagta hai 😂
Benstokes
@@yogesh124 hn bhai😂😂
Wese baap se paap ka safar kesa rehta hai?
Wo tumhare liye bhai hai not for us. So may be ask your god Krishna why he married his sister and ask Brahma why he 🍇’d and married his daughter? 😂😂
Tu ye btao rajput aur maratha royals ke lye kesa rha? 😂
Krishna ke lye kesa rha bhaia se saia ka safar? 😂 tumhare lye behn hai na?
Tumhare haan tu baal beti bhi chal jata hai jese Brahma ne apni beti Saraswati ko hi pel dia
Very well researched and professionally articulated. Love the way you express yourself in such a simple yet educative manner 👍
This is a very very sensitive subject and hat's off to you for raising this in such a practical and wonderful way.
I think educated muslims can play an important role in creating awareness and explain the danger the coming generation will face . Kudos to you
This issue genuinely needs a raise. We should start an awareness campaign or hashtags on social media to highlight the issue.
No, are you crazy? 🤣🤣
@@trilokyamohanchakra6351 yes I am bcz i have seen childs with thalassemia fighting for their life. if you have someone in your family you will understand the importance.
The creator of this world Allah allows cousin marriage in Quran so there is nothing wrong in it
@@Executor8 But the Creator of the heavens and the earth Allah obligates the razamandi of man and woman which as you can see in the servay is not there, the man and women are pressured and married against their will which is also not allowed, blame the culture not the religion (because seriously people here majority don't even know what's actually written in the Quran they haven't read the translation and many of them don't even establish daily five prayers which is the bear minimum)
@@ShahzeenFatima26 majority of cousin marriage occurs through razamandi because it's not considered as wrong
Junaid bhai you choose the very right topic to discuss.
Finally someone has the courage .
👌💕
Excellent program brother.Well researched and nicely made.It is a fantastic topic.Qualitywise it is exceptional.
We always compare Indian and Pakistani TH-camrs. But when Pakistani makes good informative video, no one watches it or even support the creator. On the contrary cringe daily vloggers are getting all the views from their scripted videos. We should support and subscribe Junaid Akram ❤🙌🏿
Omg😂😂😂😂😂
Keep dre@ming dear !!
Dreams are che@per than ATTA 😂😂😂
@@Hero99-99 I just don't understand why this aata joke? YAHAN AATA ACHA KHAASA HAI . Kaho to bhijwa dun? Waisy b charity hamara favourite kaam hai 🙂
@@Hero99-99 farigh awam
@@farwaali6329ignore them sister ye log without any reason hate karte hai sabko
Indias 7.5% also is majority in Muslims.
In south India some communities marry their cousin not mostly
Except for Tamil Hindus who still have 26% first cousin marriages. This is higher that Indian Muslims
@@alokraj3128Exception doesn't mean that rule isn't there
@amanxojha lol he gave fact. Tamil is exception to you
You are right
Junaid Bhai! I am really impressed with today's topic. Keep up the good work. You really need to make vlogs on different issues like this.
Really great video I hope it reaches more Pakistanis
Thank you Junaid. In a country drowning in religious extremism, intolerance and show of piety, you come with unique topics that affect the general populance. True son of soil, true patriot who does not care about his income, about his views and only thinks of the betterment of Pakistanis despite the consequences. We cannot thank you enough for the work you do, for the awareness you create.
You will continue to weep, as long as you are in Arabi political ideology called Islam.
There will be n number of excuse only to avoid identifying root cause Islam
@farazfudge still some people are promoting cousin marriage in comments in the name of religion. One of the promotee guy says he did MS in genetics and chance of genetic disease in cousin marriage in negligible. 😆 🤣 😂
I am spotting an Exmuslim
Bhai , ye duniya phani hai. Isliye duniya ki fikr mat karo
@@freethinker9217 daddy is here
Yes, in north India, GOTRA always play a major role in marriage
Nepal Mey bhi Gotra different hona chaiya
Odisha me v bina gotra sadi possible nhi hai
Sahi
All over the world bro
In each Hindu Family it plays a major role 🙏🙏
My father and mother were cousins and my brother is suffering from genetic desease which is untreatable. From Bihar India
Gene defective ho to fir jabran shadi kyun karwana. Kuch na kuch hint zaroor dikha hoga kisi na kisi parent me jab woh baaligh huye honge
It's important to understand that cousin marriage isn’t the sole reason for the birth of children with genetic defects. According to scientific research, even in non-cousin marriages, there's a 4% chance of having a child with a genetic condition, while in cousin marriages, this increases slightly to 6%. I personally know two families where the children were born with mental health issues, and the parents weren’t cousins. Genetic disorders can occur for many reasons, and while cousin marriage might slightly raise the risk, it’s not the only factor.
हम सभी मुसलमानों में सभी लोग जब बच्चे रहते हैं, तब हम सभी अपने चाचा, खाला, मामू, के बच्चे आपस में मिल कर रहते हैं, जिसमें आपस में प्यार बढ़ता है, एक दूसरे के जज्बात को समझते रहते हैं, यही कारण है कि हम सभी आपस में जुड़े रहने के लिए निकाह कर सकते हैं, यह बढ़िया काम है। हमें अपने रिवाज पर फख्र है।
इंशा अल्लाह, आमीन।
Good Luck to you Junaid. This is great reporting converging every aspect of the problem.
Bhai india m agar koi ladki 2-4 baar bhaiya hi bol de na to hum phir usse kabhi shadi nahi krte !!!😅
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Ek dam sahi baat👍
kyunki hum rishton ko dil se mante h aur bahan ka rishta to aisa khas h
Which nation of India does it? India is not one nation or country. It was created by the British. A part of South India have marriages between mama bhanji
@@sabrinakhan8217 Sabrina ji... It happen in North India..... Here in India we have different cultural zones with their own practices and believe system.... But Sister we are one nation
Very well compiled article Junaid Uncle/Sir. It takes guts to talk about societal issues, and you have backed this video with data that is the best part.
Bhai eik original case mein bhi hun merey parents 1st cousins hain mujhe Progressive Macular Dystrophy hai i am loosing muscle power and muscle mass by age zindagi jaise eik jang hai merey liye roz eik maut marte hain hum but kya kersakte hain bas apne se worst kisi ko dekhta hun tow ALLAH ka shuker ada kerta hun jo bhi yeh comment parhe merey liye dua kerey ALLAH mujhe himmat de
اللہ آپ کو مکمل صحت و تندرستی عطا فرمائے۔ آمین۔
Bro that's sad af.
Ameen brother you are very strong Allah tallah py yaqeen rakhain hamesha ❤
Aameen
Ameen
My Indian brothers and sisters are rocking in the comments section ,nice to see that we indians are educated about our culture and we are showing our cultural advancements to the world
Here in Jammu and Kashmir, India 🇮🇳... where as genetic diseases are less common Jammu which has 67 pc Hindu population while in Kashmir they are prominent which has 97 pc Muslim population and cousin marriages were very common in one generation back
Jammu is 84% hindu and 7 percent muslim where as in kashmir muslim population is 65% and 23 percent hindu
@@peeyushdey4767 bro correct ur stats ..I'm from j and k ... Jammu Division has 67 pc Hindus and Kashmir division has 97 pc Muslims
@@WhiteFii2212 I m a doctor from kashmir ..Give evidence n proof wat u hav just said about kashmiri muslims?
@@Ahmed_Fawad
What he said is not really true. Muslims of Kashmir are different from Punjabi, Sindhi, Pathan and Baloch Muslims in this regard. However, Jammu and Kashmir is the 5th highest state when it comes to cousin marriages in India, with only Telangana, Karnataka, Andhra Pradesh and Tamil Nadu ahead of JnK.
And this little contribution for J&K is solely due to Muslims of J&K. Infact I would argue the presence of Hindus in Jammu is the reason why your state numbers are not so high in cousin marriages.
@@xijinpig8982 I m talking of kashmiri ethnic population... Everyone living in kashmir is not kashmiri ethnically n genetically... Cousin marriages r common in our ethnic group also but we don't face any such major issue..
Before marriage genetic counselling is preferred by everyone..
Luckily hum hindus isase safe hai
@theexplorer9369 still India ranks 2nd largest country in the world, suffers from genetic disease Sickle Cell Anaemia births,double number than pakistan. In fact, half of SCD affected population lives in India alone, and Thalassemia rate is almost same in both countries life expectancy is also same. if only 'cousin marriage' is a threat, why India is more affected being 10x less in cousin marriage, everyone is following Gotra and no one marries a relative till 7th generation. Cousin marriages have been happening since the beginning of the world if marrying your cousins is pendamic, human spieces would have already extinct centuries ago.
@@aminayasin416 kid not every genetic disorder is cause due to marrying cousins go read biology from better source instead of madarsha
@@aminayasin416because of muslim population in india
@@aminayasin416vo sab coincidence hai... Ye sab cousin marriage ek bewkufi hai jo log khud sign up karte hain...
India is Hindu majority country and population is also bcz of Hindus ... If Muslims ki wajah se population zyada hai to India se pehle 57 Muslim desh ki population zyada hoti... understood betaaa😂@@blackpacific5255
I think the genetic screening is the best option. I am based in UAE and over here before anyone gets a Nikah done, the man and woman go through a blood tests to check if they carry such diseases which can cause issues to their future children. It’s better to be aware before than it being too late.
That is done for known and limited number of diseases.. Couldn't be done on all disease
This is really an underrated topic, great work Junaid, really a good research work
Finally someone had guts to speak 👌
Sure ❤
हम सभी मुसलमानों में सभी लोग जब बच्चे रहते हैं, तब हम सभी अपने चाचा, खाला, मामू, के बच्चे आपस में मिल कर रहते हैं, जिसमें आपस में प्यार बढ़ता है, एक दूसरे के जज्बात को समझते रहते हैं, यही कारण है कि हम सभी आपस में जुड़े रहने के लिए निकाह कर सकते हैं, यह बढ़िया काम है। हमें अपने रिवाज पर फख्र है।
इंशा अल्लाह, आमीन।
i am a Dr and i think Junaid did the work which was solely our responsibility. great work , v informative vid bro. Plz create a video on fam planning aswell so we can stop the population boom as it is a great burden on our country's poor economy🙃🙃
Marriage stopping is not the way, just promote 2 child policy or childlessness.
Population Boom!! 🤭🤭🤣🤣
Lekin bacche to allah ki den hai...
what is ur spacility... Simple MBBS dont know any thing with surity...
@@syedzaffar3151 compounder hu ma🤡
In rural India, marriages between families from the same village are often avoided, as they are considered akin to siblings. This practice persists in the southern parts of India, though it has declined due to increasing awareness. However, the percentage of endogamous marriages remains higher among Indian Muslims. If you visit a government hospital, you'll find a disproportionately higher number of Muslim patients suffering from genetic disorders due to the prevalence of such marriages
Factual observation..it's true
you're lying
Indian Vijay ji wo south India me ek non-Muslims hindu community hai jahan sirf cousins Marriage hi hoti hai isliye umnko kuch bimari or allergic hote hain aur wahan pr hospital me cast puchi jati hai Taki anaesthesia mna diya ja sake qk wo unkeliye jaanlewa hota hai Aap Mohak Mangal ki vedio dekh sakte hain isi topic pr
In south india marriage between maternal uncle and neice is prevalent.
Sirf hospitals mein nahi normal 'physicians' aur 'dermatologists' ke clinic par bhi muslims bahut jyada dekhne milte hain,meri city mein 20% muslim population hai lekin jab bhi kabhi doctor ko visit karta hoon 50% muslim patients hi milte hain.
Muslim हो कर भी इस भाई ने काफी अच्छा एवम वैज्ञानिक आधार पर विश्लेषण किया है
बधाई हो
Logic and Science doesn't have any religion. This who accept, benefits from these two - Logic and Science
@@MohdFarhan-df6zrफिर भी भाई मुस्लिम समुदाय में साइंस एंड फैक्ट को मानने वाले लोग उंगलियों को जिन लो
99.99% मुस्लिम केवल कुरान, नबी, कन्वर्जन, गुस्ताक ए रसूल ईटीसी से बाहर नहीं निकल पाते हैं
हम सभी मुसलमानों में सभी लोग जब बच्चे रहते हैं, तब हम सभी अपने चाचा, खाला, मामू, के बच्चे आपस में मिल कर रहते हैं, जिसमें आपस में प्यार बढ़ता है, एक दूसरे के जज्बात को समझते रहते हैं, यही कारण है कि हम सभी आपस में जुड़े रहने के लिए निकाह कर सकते हैं, यह बढ़िया काम है। हमें अपने रिवाज पर फख्र है।
इंशा अल्लाह, आमीन।
Superb video Junaid Bhai. I am a Brahmin from MITHILA (BIHAR). My GOTRA is "Shandilya", and yes i can't marry a girl who also is "shandilya", we always make sure our "GOTRA's" are different. The Mention of MANUSMRITI was also Superb. Thanks from BHARAT. 🧡
Gotra kya hota hai kaise pata chalega Mai Bihar se belong karta hu
@@rajeshprasad3904 maa baap se apni kundli maangna, usme sab likha hota hai
@@AngrezHu humlog apne sir name me pandit likhte hai or prajapati
@@AngrezHu in south India even hindus married their cousins ,
Even Krishna did , S.B.10.58.56
@@Exhindu-d2xin south india rare hindu marry their cousins, in the part of TN and aandhra, vo bhi ab band ho chuka he, and krishna ki baat bolne se pehle pdh ke aa, khud ki ga,ndh saaf nhi hoti to dusro ke ghr me bhi daal do tum logo ki fi,tart hi yhi he, khud mat sudharana dusre ki baat khod khod ke laana.
I am still suffering from this, my father's sister wishes to marry her daughter with me when i was only 1 day old, but today i am 19 years old and i refused to marry her. So my parents are crying and forcing me to marry her just because of their fu***** respect in the society.
mana kar do......thode time tak wo angry rahenge lekin thode time baad sab bhool jaenge
Show them this video this is dangerous for your upcoming generation.
Don’t marry it’s really very dangerous for future children
@@SarthakaSinghBut if he married outside family still his upcoming generation face the same scenario. Because we cannot control the destiny of others.
For a few days anger of your parents, dont ruin the life of an upcoming child
I appreciate the way you have presented this topic. Pakistanis like you are hope for the future of your country. Keep spreading awareness against inappropriate social practices for the welfare of the society
Easily one of the biggest issues in Pakistan .
Why can't people just accept scientific consensus that cousin marriages ( especially multiple generations of such marriages ) leads to all kinds of health issues in people .
Ground reality is very much different than what media or scientific studies portray, the birth defect rate in kids Whose parents are related is same as much as the birth defect rate of kids whose parents are not related. It's not big of an issue if you make a survey you can find out and that's why in some regions people get involved in such relationships
@@numanzayn cousin lover spotted
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@@snake2106u cant make a blind see
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This is my first comment about this I want to thank you for raising this issue I am also been suffering from genetical disorder I've searched about it but didn't found any evidence of this disease (I can't run, my legs feel like stuck when I try to run more than two steps, can't lift things up to my head but I never told about this to anyone even in my house) cuz my dad married his cousin, but Alhamdulilah
Cousins marriage is the main reason behind the sickle cell anemia 😢
To kon kehta hai apko k Bina testing kr k shadi kro? Test kr k shadi kro Kuch nahn Hoga. Is ganjey ki baton m na ayen
If both parents have sickle cell that can cause the child this anemia, doesn't matter if parents are cousin.
If you have some concert reason to relate it with cousin marriage, let me know.
If both parents have sickle cell that can cause the child this anemia, doesn't matter if parents are cousin.
If you have some concert reason to relate it with cousin marriage, let me know.
@@DanishAhmad-zq1do the probability of genetic disorder is higher among cousin marriage
@@bikashdas3146 reference please
Your channel is just a piece of wisdom .. Literally just Wow ... ❤❤❤
Assalam o Alaikum, everyone. I have a brother who is all facing the cinsequence of this. We are 2 brothers and have one sister. When my brother was 8 years old, he had a problem with his liver. So when my parents took him to a local doctor. That doctor referred him to Childern Hospital Lahore. There at the hospital, tests took place, and it was diagnosed that this happened because of the cousin marriage and genes repetition that took place as a result. From that day till today, my brother hasn't 100% recovered, and it caused him to fight with the disease all his life. He has to take medicines all of his life. Otherwise, he won't live. Now it has cost our grandparents nothing but my brother life. I hope my brother example is an eye opener for those parents, who want to force their childern for cousin marriages. Thank you
hats of to the editing❤ quality has improved remarkably
Reason is not only lack of awareness and personal gains but also one of the most IMPORTANT reason is Mistrust. You would not marry your daughter to a person whom you know nothing about. You would prefer a guy who was raised in front of you. Plus you can exert pressure to treat your daughter kindly.
I am not justifying the reason, I am a doctor. I have seen people giving such reasons when I counsel them
Yes this is the reason. Trust is issue in Pakistan
@@talhawaleed6738Padha Likha m0min.😮Wow
But we must also see the divorce rate who says this
Whereas marrying unknown person scenario gives bit less divorce rate
@@kummudsharma8833 can you please share reference of that research that divorce rate in outside marriage is lesser than cousin marriage
Junaid you are doing a noble job of educating people
In Islam, cousin marriage is permissible but not specifically encouraged. It is allowed under Islamic law and is quite common in some cultures, especially in parts of the Middle East, South Asia, and North Africa. The permissibility is based on the fact that the Quran does not prohibit marriage between cousins, and some Islamic scholars cite examples from early Islamic history, including marriages within the Prophet Muhammad's (PBUH) family.
While cousin marriages are allowed, they are not considered superior or encouraged over other types of marriages. The focus in Islam is generally on finding a spouse who is righteous, kind, and of good character, regardless of familial relations.
In some communities, cultural practices may make cousin marriages more common due to social, familial, or economic reasons, but this is more cultural than religious encouragement.
Mohammad duped you guys.
Obviously Allah was not too good with genetics!
Really, was cousin marriage not encouraged? Wasn't it sunnat?
Lol...Allah had no vision at all..
lol sunnat isn't encouraged?
I admire that you broke the stereotype thought of religion,You are a very educated & aware muslim
islam encourages marriage outside of family, islam is always 2 steps ahead in every matter
@@abdullahumar4482 U'r suffering from un-ability to understand or comprehension problem if that's what u understood or came to conclusion at, lol xD
@@trusfratedbunny2215 you said so much, but also didn't say anything meaningful, did I say something wrong when I wrote that reply?
@@abdullahumar4482 U don't know ur islam and neither ur ancestor civilizational culture, traditions.
Gautam Buddha says ," don't accept any thing unless it is logically right for you. Apply your brain n then accept. Don't accept ,because it is written in holy book. Don't accept because, I am advising you. Check every thing critically n if you are convinced its right , then only accept. " But this type of mental freedom is very rarely found in Islamic world.
Buddha was an atheist... Not a Brahmanical person
It's not true. Mental freedom was pioneered by Muslims by presenting the world astronomy, algebra, evolution, and so many other things. You can't dismiss the entire religion or its followers based on one thing. I won't say anything about other religions of subcontinent, but you know there are practices that do not align with common sense. Thank you!
Loll . Then it will create more lot of chaotic situation.
@@adnanhaider8241 Well this makes the fact even more sad that despite having 56 Muslim countries they are still leagues behind. The radicals are always active and the educated are suppressed.
What are your views on human consumption of cow dung and urine?
Wrong map of Pakistan. Jammu Kashmir is integral part of India 🇮🇳
Wrong map of India. Jammu and Kashmir is an integral part of Pakistan. 🇵🇰
@@MDK10100 then pakistan is no mre not existing in the world. 😂
@@aaryansharmaa4019 Bharat mata ki Jai 🚩
no they are sanskari ,, they will gove more aid or some land also free ,, wait to come for congress
हम सभी मुसलमानों में सभी लोग जब बच्चे रहते हैं, तब हम सभी अपने चाचा, खाला, मामू, के बच्चे आपस में मिल कर रहते हैं, जिसमें आपस में प्यार बढ़ता है, एक दूसरे के जज्बात को समझते रहते हैं, यही कारण है कि हम सभी आपस में जुड़े रहने के लिए निकाह कर सकते हैं, यह बढ़िया काम है। हमें अपने रिवाज पर फख्र है।
इंशा अल्लाह, आमीन।
Very good to see you raising voice on this serious issue and spreading awareness
It's hilarious that such a huge population, yet people marrying into families... its like having ground to play football yet you kicking ball inside your home
Boomerang!!
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well said bro !
Still better than niyog😂
No it's not, niyog is done when women can't find a better suited after her husband has passed away, aisa nhi ki chachi ki beti hot lagi toh ghusa do@@Dungeonmaster222
Such a holistic approach, so far the best video I have seen from any Pakistani TH-camr!! Well done 💫
Cousin marriage sirf Islam me hoti hai ya yahudi or christian me bhi hoti hai?
@@ORANGE_LAUNDA South India main Hinduo main bhi hota he. Pehle apne community main dekh le
@@tanweeralam1650 Jo south Indian ke Muslim hai ye vo log karty hai....Bhai
Hum bahen ko biwi nahi banaty
Well done bro.....U really love ur country.....that's why U can raise such topic. A big thumbs up from India.
There is also the same case in my family.Two cousins got married with each other.They have four sons two of them are deaf by birth.I think government should come forward to deal with this silent pandemic.
@mirsarfraz7143 untill ppl realize
cousin marriages are also incest nobody can do anything. There still ppl in the comments supporting cousin marriages in the name of religion
@@anishs5652 if u merry out side of ur cousons how can u tell it will not happen... it is not with cousion merriage ... ya allah ki aazmaish ha ...
Definitely lineage me koi na koi parent deaf rahe honge. Jab Aisa ho to fir cousin marriage avoid karni chahiye because you don't know kiska gene dominant ho
@@mohammedmuadh9567 recessive naki dominant
@@anishs5652 by dominant I meant ki which faulty gene will dominate in the kids
In India only South India has little bit of cousin marriage thing but not in whole India..
Maharashtra too... But it's not extremely huge
It’s quite rare in today’s time
Overall Mila kar bhi kewal 7-8% hai.
Which very less.
But saar, south indian are educated saar
Know it is ended it was done to avoid dowry.
Nice to see such an educated youtuber from Pakistan ,,, good going...
LMFAO
Finally some voice on this matter. Thank you Junaid bhai.
Finally? LOL
What a great video! I don’t usually leave comments on videos, but this is an issue that must be addressed. Some may bring up the marriage of Hazrat Fatima (AS) and Hazrat Ali (AS) as an example, but it's important to understand that the Prophet never openly endorsed cousin marriage. In the case of Hazrat Ali and Fatima (AS), there was already a deep bond between them, and the Prophet found no better man for his daughter than Ali (AS). Uthman (AS) was already married to two of the Prophet’s daughters, and Abu Bakr (RA) and Umar (RA) were older. Ali (AS) was young, and the Prophet had known him since he was nine years old. But again, the Prophet never explicitly encouraged cousin marriage for others. He left it as an option, just as he left the options for divorce or shaving body hair.
With advancements in science, we now understand more about genetics and health risks that were unknown 1,400 years ago. The Prophet never declared that cousin marriage is necessarily good, nor did he prohibit it. Therefore, it's not a matter of challenging his prophecy or doubting his guidance. We are simply applying new knowledge to make choices that reflect both faith and reason. It is also important to understand that the Prophet did not possess knowledge of everything in the universe; rather, he knew only what Allah had revealed to him.
I am a Hindu from West Bengal, India. In Bengal we do not marry if our GOTRA is same. Since my cousin share same Gotra hence there is no question of marring a cousin in Hindu Bengali family. Gotra refers to ancestral linage, if Gotra is same then your ancestral linage is same and you are prohibited to marry that person as per cultural norms. Marrying a person with same GOTRA is counted as incest in our culture and looked down upon society.
In North India things are more strict they follows the GOTRA concept and along with that their rules are little different for example in Haryana, UP or Uttarakhand, you are prohibited to marry from same village because they think if a boy or girl is gown in same area then they became brother-sister by default.
However in South India and North East, things are little different. Among Tamilians and Andhra Hindus they do cousin marriage so as to keep the wealth of the family intact. There could be other reasons too why they are allowed to do so but I have no idea regarding, when I heard about it I was shocked to know about it.
Bhai aapke kuran aur hadis allow karte hain cousin marriage.
@@incredibleindia9844 Allow to divorce bhi karte hai that doesnt mean ke karo. That's what I want to say
@@incredibleindia9844 Kya aapke pass is baat ki daleel (reference) hai ke humare quran or hadith is baat ko endorse karte hain ke cousin marriage karo?
@@subhashishbagchi3191 Yeah he explained that lowkey in the video, I am disgusts by the fact too people continuously marriage with their first cousin or something, but I am pretty sure this number will get down in Pakistan as people are getting more educated about this and younger generate will be more self-aware.
Junaid bhai, Your editor needs a raise.
Bhai raise kaise milega unko agr itni km audience aye gi? Wo to saray daily vloggers go chaat rahe hain😂
Original account sy Ah jaoo
@@shafatnawaz6102 hahahahahh
Sab kuch Ai generated hai bro it will take one second to get those pictures...😂😂😂
@@yashupadhaya3392 Nai
Very interesting and well researched. Thanks. We people have always avoided marriage within the family. But we had the choice of marrying sister's daughter as she will be of other gotra. But over the years we have moved away from that practice.
🛑🛑🛑 Saheen Afridi is the ambassador of cousin marriage
What a role model😂😂😂
they are not cousins, afridi is a tribe
Yes Afridi is s huge Clan.
not shaheen but shahid did cousin marriage.
@@abhinav5383 lol Shaheen n his wife Ansha aren't cousins both belong to same pathan tribe ''Afridi'' or caste for your understanding.
@@aminayasin416 Again, marrying within same set of people with same surnames is also dangerous. Khair tumhari Islamic khopdi m nhi aaegi ye bat.
Zabardast video.....app ne bohat he important and basic foundational issue highlight kiya hai
One reason, which they fail to acknowledge is the origin of muslims in indian context. They were converted. Once converted, it was difficult for them to find bride or groom from their earlier hindu society because they wouldn't give it to converts .
Hence in such situations, it was their compulsion to marry within what ever was available. Subsequently it became an acceptable practice.
Not just in India they marry cousins in all Islamic Countries
Every single member of the Saudi Royal Family is married to their cousin
This is not the case. Muslims do cousin marriage all over the world, not just in Pakistan. The roots of Muslims' cousin marriage practice is in Islam itself. Muhammad married his cousin, Zainab bint Jahsh, and Muhammad is the most important role-model in Islam. Even Muhammad's daughter Fatima married her cousin, Ali ibn Abi Talib, though I'm sure if she did so at Muhammad's command or of her own wish.
All these modern Muslims who're trying to avoid cousin marriage just because doctors scared them with difficult to pronounce terms like Thalassemia, and some scary looking charts, are going against their religion! In fact, they're going against the most important figure in Islam- Muhammad!
It’s important to understand that cousin marriage isn’t the sole reason for the birth of children with genetic defects. According to scientific research, even in non-cousin marriages, there's a 4% chance of having a child with a genetic condition, while in cousin marriages, this increases slightly to 6%.
I personally know two families where the children were born with mental health issues, and the parents weren’t cousins. Genetic disorders can occur for many reasons, and while cousin marriage might slightly raise the risk, it’s not the only factor.
@@baboralikhan5130west ki jo studies hai wo european pe hui jo khud cousin marriage karte hai waha gotra yaani lineage ka koi data nahi hota logo ke paas, india mae hazzaro saal se gotra ka data mandiro mae rakha jata hai
@@accidental34 oh my god !!! How much more brainwashed can you be??? Didn’t you just listen to the evidences he presented?
I find this video highly educational. I have always been against cousin marriages because of several reasons mentioned in the video. I also like how you talk about every single detail in this video. However, I only have one issue which is about you calling the paternal cousins as the 'first cousins' while the maternal cousins as the 'second cousins'. I believe this is completely wrong as both paternal and maternal cousins are supposed to be one's 'first cousins' as both father and mother have an equal genetic contribution. Instead the children of the cousins of one's parents are said to be the 'second cousins'. Thank you for talking about the disadvantages of cousin marriages and educating people about it. Very informative video.
Man im not gonna lie Junaid bhai's video has been so informative and my mom's literally guilt tripping me on not marrying my cousin kai khandan kya kahai ga humara izat kharab hoga like tf man...
It's 2024 and still each and every Pakistani drama romanticizes cousin love story and marriage , or love triangles between first cousins and there is no other topic. no ambition in girls their sole purpose is marriage.
True 😂😂
Children of mama khala aren't called second cousins
Second cousins are when the parents are cousins of each other
Yes. Junaid's definition of second cousin was new to me also.
I was just about to comment that
Yes. They will also be called first cousins. My children and my first cousin's children will be second cousins to each other.
Yes.
Yes he got confused with cross cousins
The ancestral record part is very apt Junaid. Our family has records of our last 20 generations not just men but women. For further records, we will have to visit Kashi because most of the lineage records are placed in the holy cities of Hindus which our forefathers visited in their lifetime. This record is not only used during marriages but during Pitru Paksha also. It is a common practice among Hindus when we honor our almost last 2 or 3 generations of Fathers, Mothers, and Siblings by offering them food and seeking their blessings. By the way, the Gotra of my family is Kashyap and my mother's gotra is Bharadwaj.
Who care's bro, no one discussing India or Indian here, har jagha gusa achi baat nahi.... Itna lamba lecture 😂
@@muhammadArshad-ju2gg I think a part of video was about Gotra System which obviously ur ancestors also followed once. I just added the fact that we follow it today also.
@@gauravpatil9579 never heard of gotra system,it's your system not our's theek hai rai do lecture na do....
Ap maaz main nahi haal main Hain...
Ancestors ko goli maro aur apnay haal aur mustaqbil ki fiqar karo... That's it
@@muhammadArshad-ju2gg The system was followed in almost all the Northern parts of India including present-day Pakistan. And I am talking about the present situation only all of the stuff I wrote is what we follow today also.
@@muhammadArshad-ju2gg One more thing I think you should improve your learning ability cuz I nowhere in my comment mentioned India but you assumed it just because of the word Hindu. Please start differentiating between religion, culture, and country.
Im a clinical psychologist. I have witnessed many patients with development disorders or neurological disorders. Most of them 90% were children of cousin marriage couples.
Thankyou for making this video. I hope we can generate this awareness.
Almost all Pakistani TV dramas show love stories between first and second cousins.
In many Pakistani communities, cousin marriages are common, especially within the middle and lower classes. Here's why people often choose this path:
Some families strictly believe in marrying within the family ("hum khandaan main hi shaadi karte hain"). Even in the absence of suitable proposals, marrying outside the family is not considered an option.
Society often expects individuals to marry within their family circle, reinforcing the tradition and discouraging outside matches.
Marrying cousins ensures trust and familiarity, as families already know each other’s background, character, and reputation.
Some believe cousin marriages help preserve cultural and familial values, which they fear could be diluted with outside marriages.
My uncle married his cousin he had 6 kids but unfortunately 4 of them died
Mohammed ka knowledge 😂😂😂
@@NylonStrings83
Shiva k knowledge 😂
@@DrStrange234 muhammad married his own daughter in law 😂😂😂
@@rohand04he was not his biological son do some research before saying something he just raised him as a son
Anybody can die and everybody has to die, what's your point?
Thank-you for spread awareness about disadvantages of cousins marriage. All Pakistani need to implement social media event and public event to spread awareness bad impact of cousins marriage.
First cousins are non-siblings that share grandparents. Second cousins are non-siblings that share great-grandparents. Third cousins are non-siblings that share great-great-grandparents. 🙏
yes he is not right as genetics does not work according to patriarchal society
Many here in comments are proudly telling that their spouse are their cousin and children they have are absolutely fit and fine, see guys this is not necessary that everyone who is a smoker or a alchoholic will die with cancer but smoking and drinking are the major cause of cancer
Very Apt!
But what about the people who are in large population. Their children have severe congenital problems and they are not even related. Have you thought about it.
Did I say that cousin marriage is responsible for every disease that occurs in children?
On point!!!
@@shafjam1701cousin marraige just make the occurrence of disease 50%, many diseases also occur due to weakness of vitamins in parents. So necessarily doesn't mean that cousin marraige are only the source of such diseases. But it just amplifies the chances.
You are doing a great job. Superb. Keep it up. These topics can and will revolutionize.
Feeling pride to be part of sanatan dharm ❤ feeling very lucky to born in hindu family and I am very fortunate my ancestors who did not convert. That's why in our religion we treat our cousins as sister and brother.
Arjun aur Subhadra bhi FIRST COUSIN THHE...Faaltu khush mat hua karo tum jaahil
@@karanvij00 apna Gyan apne paas rakho madarsa chap Gyan hamesha apne flat earth vali aasmani kitab sae compare karte rehte ho hamare granth ko
And there is huge difference between 1400 religion and our oldest religion jitna purana thumhara dharam usse jyda purani hamare pass temples hai,jahil to tum khud Ho jo cousin marriage ke health par dangerous effect ke baad bhi blindly follow karte ho . Pehle jake Science padho phir Gyan Dene aana kyuki science to padhte nhi hoge
Yeah thats why uncles marry nieces and nieces marry uncles :)
@@user-sp9wh6kl6c yes in maybe in your culture or religion because in mine uncle and nieces have very sacred relationship.because we don't have a policy of halala and four marriage you people have Many options right in house why to go outside
Niyoga (Sanskrit: नियोग) was an ancient tradition of Svayambhuva Manu sect, which is mainly followed by Svayambhuva Manu's believers. In which a woman (whose husband is either incapable of fatherhood or has died without having a child) would request and appoint a man for helping her bear a child.
Even though data is the king, as a casual point I'll give out this statement. In India, a girl you're interested in, if she calls you 'bhaiya' even 3-4 times, we make an effort to take her 'out of sight & out of mind'. We stop considering any romantic interactions. Rather, girls in schools & colleges use this as a 'bhramastra'. Forget about marrying cousins !!
In Pakistan, whole life cousins don't even think about each other, then suddenly "DADI G" on her death bed comes and ties the knot between cousins. saying that "mere marne sy phly main in dono ko sath dekhna chahti hun" My dadi wanted to do same with me. but I said "Dadi ap to mar jao g mujhy q phnsa kar ja rahi ho" and it's been 5 years. she's still alive...... Benchod main phans jata or khud marti bhi na dadi
@@laibasheikh2 lol
@@laibasheikh2😂😂
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@@laibasheikh2
You have a macabre sense of humour! Salute.
We are Hindu and we thankful to our ancestors. They were very intelligent 🙏
That's why your indian ancestors converted to islam, they understand praying idols don't mean anything.
@@reflect513 haha, yes they converted for the love of islam..
@@reflect513 This is why hindus command 4th largest economy. Do you want Roti?
@SeekerXP expected reply from the one whose people worship humans imao
@@dabbudas4494 it's india not hindu lol, by that logic Arabs which are muslims are very wealthy and hindus work their as workers lol. And I'm not pakistani lol.
Never, ever consider marrying a relative, whether close or from extended family. All of my siblings chose partners from outside the family, and Alhamdulillah, it turned out to be the best decision for both them and our family. It gave us valuable exposure and expanded our family tree, benefiting us both mentally and economically. People from outside tend to be more humble and considerate, whereas relatives often impose pressure and expectations. On the other hand only I had to suffer from emotional abuse, unrealistic demands and intense mental pressure in a marriage within the relatives that ended up on a divorce. So never go for that option.
So why Hazrat Ali RA married to Hazrat Fatima RA of same bloodline?
@muhammadarsalanghouri 3693
Cousin marriage is halal in islam
@@muhammadarsalanghouri3693
Cousin marriage is allowed in islam.
@@muhammadarsalanghouri3693 Hazrat Ali and Hazrat Fatima were not first cousins. Hazrat Muhammad PBUH married only aone cousin who was already married two times. Rest 10 wives were neither cousins nor from same tribes. Better look at history. This implies that Islam allowed the cousin marriages but allowing doesnot mean that you have to do it obligatory. Also one cousin marriage donot do the damage. It is repetitive cousin marriages in two to more generations lead to defects.
@@mehak-GB Well marriages without cousin also lead to defects. I am not saying they were cousins but they belong to same bloodline.
Your only logical point is that it is not obligatory it is a choice.