I'm so thankful that Mrs. Apollonia was nice enough to take the time to help, and encourage us men to be better men an learn how to understand our women better. Thank you so much Mrs. Apollonia
As a man you can't be yourself if you have to learn techniques or strategies to keep a woman happy. Don't be codependent because you don't need a woman, happiness comes from within you. Especially when she doesn't bring value to the relationship. Women are hypergamous and you probably won't be able to keep her. I would suggest not to make women your priority and focus on yourself and your goals. When you care less you have more control over the relationship. I hope that no one takes this as an insult towards women. They have different Hormones and I accept them for who they are.
This largely depends on the way you define yourself. If you define you by your behaviour and have a fixed mindset this might be true for you. If you define yourself by the outcome and have a growth mindset this isn`t true at all. Then you are not learning techniques and strategies, you are just growing as person, aquiring new knowledge and apply it to your life on a day to day basis. And this is nothing new. You did that all your life. During childhood, during growing up, during experiencing your first experiences with the opposite (or same) gender/sex. You learned so much new and applied it to your life. Why stop at a certain age, call it a day and stop yourself from becoming more awesome? I`m not who I`m right now. I define myself by the ideal self I aspire to.
She asked me not to call her my love, queen,and wife Then she said she wants space And guess what I'm moving on It hurts but that's life trying to forget her right now
I can respond to such quote like this: "Why do you need space if it's very high to reach? Earth is more than enough for us both." ;) then she'll laugh. Change her mood, not her MIND!
I’m a woman. I asked my man for space because I don’t feel like we’re connecting. I’ve explained this to him multiple times but he’s too caught up in himself to actually hear me. Instead of nagging him, I asked for space so that maybe he can evaluate if he’d rather keep his current routine or adjust a little to create space for me. Longer story short: She’s wrong. Women ask for space for different reasons. Care enough to ask her why she needs space and if there is anything you can do to help bring her into a better space.
Well, I suspect she needs space to think about what to do with the other fellows that give her attention (or she is even sleeping with), and figure out if it is worthy to drop all her former lifestyle for you. This approach on women turn me off because she is shit testing you and trying to check if you are fit. She is trying to get back control and she do not allow herself to be emotionally vulnerable towards you. This might indicate a girl has to many milage.
You are right on the money I been with my wife for 11 years I messed up our relationship and she told me she needs space please help me save my marriage
When they ask for space it’s a test just want to know if they can trust you beleive me if she wants to leave she will , she will always come back if the relationship was good
This video was perfectly timed for my life.. I am currently interesting in a girl that told me she isn't ready..but she also kissed me ..then texted to say "sorry.. Im confused"... and naturally, I am severely confused..so I am just going to back away and see.. the potential pitfall is that if we both go on pointless dates in the meantime, we could each end up trapped in a lesser relationship..but my only option is to wait.
My girl asked me for space because she's having anxiety and family problems. You gotta trust your girlfriend whenever she ask for space because if you don't trust her then you're afraid of your own ghost.
Great tips Apollonia! I believe she needs space expression is a just a symptom. The root of the problem as a man is to do the opposite of what caused this mess... be unpredictable, focus on our purpose, have an abundance mindset and so on.
Apollonia wonderful knowledge .this was exactly what happened to me 12 years ago. Exactly what u said here in this video . No one told me all this not friends or family. So I really value you as a dating coach and overall as a human being
She said she loves you . You sleep together on and off, she loves your company, you have a great time together but she says she can’t be with you can you shed some light on this
Hey, I’m the last comment in your video. I worked very heard because...that’s the only way I know how to do anything...apparently my friends who girls said I overwhelmed her.
Women really are complicated. My gf asks space and time out of the blue. she said im too available and she doesnt want herself to be too needy and dependent. She said she becomes anxious with the thought of marriage. I was disappointed and downhearted but in the end i gave her whats she asked for and respected her decision. Now im just waiting...
Gershwin Quintyne how about she’s just tired of trying to make things work despite having many many open talks with him but couldn’t see a future and no longer sure if he’s the right man to be in her life. She just wants space to rethink through things.
First view, like and comment ❤. Thank you Apollonia. You know that this topic is the topic in which you benefit me the most Apollonia. By the way, you are "a cute little flower girl" today 😄. I love seeing you wearing white and red outfits as my favourites in addition to your red manicure. Allah bless you Apollonia.
I told my girlfriend about a month ago that I didn't want to hurt her and to leave me alone as I had problems I needed to work out. She instead supported me with my problems. I respected her for that. A month later she tells me she needs space and acts like I don't matter anymore and I offered her support and she got mad at me and doesn't want to see me. We've been together for over 3 years and I am so confused.
Hi Apollonia, we are not in a relationship because she said she isn't ready, we got in an argument and she said that she needs time to think things through. I told her alright I will give you the space and time that you need. She replied back by telling me her plans for the day and then said ok... Why would she reply like that instead of just a thank you? Please help or anyone help
Girl told me she needed space she is/was interested but she isn't emotionally available. Had a break up a month and a half ago. She specifically said. I want to know I'm available to you and when I'm ready if you're still interested we can continue from there. Pretty straight forward. Thoughts? My response to her was I understood and related how I felt after my last break up so I got it. We had a hug after that and she said I smelled good something I said to her earlier that day to which I said I don't know you might have rubbed off on me. It sounds to me she was sincere and I don't think she would have said if I'm still interested when she is ready if she wasn't actually interested? Comments would be appreciated. We were never officially dating and didn't have sex either so no rebound.
I am in this situation where she broke up with me because she would like to find herself. she told me she is coming back to me because she wants to be better and she wants to really come back, however she does not know when. She blames herself for everything. She also told me that I should not hesitate to communicate with her if I need her because she said I won't be alone and I wont ever be. Should I check on her on how she is doing or should I just wait for her approach? 4 days now of no contact. Advice please.
Me and my girlfriend got together when she was separated from her boys's father and they were separated for quite some time about 4 months and then me and her met and then after we got together she said that she's moving out and the reason why she stayed was because of the kids and before I even asked her to be my girlfriend or we agreed to do things I told her that I wanted her to take time to work on herself and get herself straight and work out tha things that she needs to within herself to be happy with herself and have that taken care of on her part. I had that time to do all of that before we met and she says she needs time to work on herself.
women are too much in the US. Ive met foreign women and its not like this, i understand that there are things that a man should do and not do but this seems too extreme.
on top of that, the tests that women throw at men doesnt go anywhere, no wonder why relationships and marriages fail in the US. Like i said, ive met foreign women and things are great and everything just flows naturally because they dont pressure you or test you all the time like women do in the US
Alex Zandani Most women are always extreme. Sometimes s illogical. Well. Jeopardy looking I guess. Until we can find those who who are great. Yes. Everyone has their personal space and comfort zone. But, in a relationship, both parties need to be willing to step out from that so called space or comfort zone. There is no such thing as the right girl or guy. It’s the effort and willingness to adapt and commit. Just like happiness. It’s not only positive affect. If he or she is not ready to commit, clarify that from the beginning. As a guy, it is hard to tolerate ambiguity.
80% of the time this happen to woman, it look to me that we are more willing to accept and live happy or trying to be with a woman than a woman with us.
Freak out, then move on. She's only asking you to help her dump you... Spares herself the emotional guilt that comes with dumping you. Walk away....for good.
Recently something crazy happen to this girl ik you witness a friend dying so the night after I went to her house after work talk to her comfort her and stuff told her everything gonna be ok I can admit I feel like I come off a bite too clingy and a few days pass she told me to she's will be taking a break from social media and I was like okay then so. I called her then I felt like she gave me a attitude then she said "I'm not use being close to guys emotionally and then she hung up in my face. She still gets on Facebook and shit but doesn't message me. What should I do
My girlfriend of four years broke up with me a few months after her dad died. Sadly, because of circumstances surrounding that she has had the time to grief for him. Fucking Covid. As someone who lost his dad years ago I know the pain she is going through and I just want her to be well. Even if it’s not with me. I love you enough to know that.
I didn't even watch the video.. because the reasons she would ask for space is irrelevant. If she wants space give it to her.. tell her "sure but understand our monogamous relationship is over. Call or text AFTER you've had enough space". And when she does gentlemen, add her to your rotation of women. She is now a booty call.. NEVER be exclusive with her again. She had her chance and she choose space. What is she an astronaut 🤣🤣🤣
I need advice about the 6th reason they ask for space. We've been together almost 10 months now and she asks for time to heal or to fix herself. What should I do? We live together.
Hey Apollonia, so my girlfriend broke up with me today, she told me that she needs space and that she doesn’t know what’s going to happen in the future. The problem she brought up the most was that I “ask what she was wearing Everytime she went somewhere”, she said I was controlling but I was only scared of her being hit on, this eventually led to arguments then our relationship, what should I do. I really love her and I know she loves me. What can I do?
Leave them you guys. My wife said the same thing after 13years. Women that appreciate you and love you well stay and grind with you. Fuck there feelings.
Really women are tricky to understand one wrong step men gonna hurt themself for long time There are some time don't why she doesn't like us all of a sudden I'm just kept by ignored her that really hurts when I ask she says i don't want to talk to you now with i need space if I need you i will call you I just don't want to talk with you for sometime I don't understand how this space will go on its been 4 days i tried to not to text her Now I'm in a dialama may be It's just a break to forget me Please help in understanding 🙏
My girl is 2 months pregnant & says she needed space after I annoyed her. Is it still possible she'll cheat on me? It's been almost a week of space now
She's asking you to leave the room, not the house...though you're welcome to show yourself out if you so wish. But ... now she's free to have whomever she wishes in her room and there's not a damn thing you can do about it. If you try to she will ask you to leave the house. Spare her the trouble and show yourself out, then post the key. Never ever ever go back.
This coin be flipped to apply to women giving men space for the same reasons. Marriage / relationship advice is far weighted negatively on a man as default.
She said she needs space to focus on her friends, this is a first time in our relationship. What do I do? I’m gonna respect her decision but what does this mean?
okay but how much time are we talking about for that space you can't wait forever the girl i love told me she needs space now too but how long will it be?
Me and my GF have been together for about 3 months and we haven't seen each other for a month do to a problem. Then when everything was going good, I said "I love you" And she didn't wanna say it back. Then she said that she needed space and that she isn't leaving me. Then she says that she doesn't wanna keep making the same mistakes and that she loves me as a friend for now. The next day she texts me first in the morning and angel emoji. Idk what to say or do whenever she texts me?
Hi. If someone can advice it would be much appreciated. I'm stuck in between the issue. I failed my girlfriend trust twice, I lied to her about my addictions. We spoked about it before, she knew of them, I started recovering, however slipped in meantime and didn't tell about it. We have developed very deep and strong connection, being with each other 2 years, she said it wasn't really about health problems, as those are the sickness of mind and it's understandable, but lying is much bigger crime. She obviously went in rage and broke up. Some short time after this we spoke about all this calmly, she said she needs time for herself, which I fully respected. Since then I do not contact her anymore, no msgs, no calls, no social media reactions. She loved me very much, I was the one holding bigger emotions as I am from alcoholic family and not being open to deeper emotions that easily, however I was really started showing it to her, piece by piece and she noticed this evolution. Until this happened. Now, women can be very contradicting in what they say and feel, I was thinking this is over but during our last convos she was speaking bits and clues, or "open opportunity" about getting back together in sometime. I'm holding the frame, putting all effort to come out clean (no slip ups) and getting better men, enjoying hobbies, work, friends and free time but, as normal, sometimes revoking and considering what to do. It's been almost month now since we spoke and wondering how to behave best and show her I'm becoming different man but not overwhelm Her. Honest and meaningful transformation will speak for itself. I'm fully aware this also might not work anymore, and having certainty that I want to fight for this love and for Her. And struggling to find best moment... Should I just carry on as she will perhaps seek for contact when suitable, or maybe initiate soft spontaneous chat?
What if the opposite is true? What if you (the man) are the one who needs space? Also, what happens if your feelings for her fissile out? Do you walk away and go your separate ways, or do you stay and try to work things out, knowing in the end, you guys are going to break up, anyway?
Even though this is old , the reasons why she "needs space" doesn´t matter, she´s either hooking up with someone else or hooking up with someone else , so cheating can´t be put on her. A girl said that to me once and I told her this: If you need "space" you will have exactly that, she said thanks for understanding, however I walked out. She looked confused as I was leaving and asked me what I meant...I turned around and said: Meaning it´s over Either stay together or you will get that space and it won´t be with me....
That second one seems to be my reason, we’ve been really close for around 8-9 months now and she knows i like her but has told me that she’s not ready. She would always ask why her? Why do you like me? Recently we had an argument and she blocked me, i contacted her friend and she helped me talk to her but now her and her best friend are in a fight because of me (Apparently her friend liked me too) 😬 So now she thinks i’m the reason she lost her best friend and told me she doesn’t want to talk to anyone rn and she wants to get her friend back.
Another reasons why she says I need space can we be friends is she don't value you or respect you as a man and she has her sights o. Other dudes she wanna try out the pretty boys like s Chris Brown or drake look alikes. To her it's all about light skinned albino skinned
17 years. Then show up to her house in maine where she now lives with her husband and two children. Have a huge beard and a yellow rain coat, white sneakers. It has to be raining. Knock on the door and ask for refuge. She'll bring you in, ask for some hot coffee. Tell her how after she asked for space you decided to take a boat out to sea and got stranded after a massive storm.
I and my girlfriend broke up after a year and 5 months. it was a mutual break up and we are on good terms. we have spoken about what changes need to be done if we did get back together but she wants to have some space to work on herself. I've told her I will wait until she's ready because of shes the one I want. she said she doesn't want me to because she doesn't want me to feel guilty for moving on or if nothing does happen. but she did say hopefully when she is ready I haven't moved on and then we spoke about the jumper I always use to take and wear. she giving me that one when we next meet for the one I have now. we said I love you and it was hard for her to say since we broke up but she did say it back twice. i asked her if she wanted to be with me still and she said she doesn't know and wants some space. but we are keeping in touch when she is ready like after Christmas we are having a catch up
I dont think if she want Space or not but my girlfriend loves me she call me babe ..i love you i want to be with you .. Marry you ect we talk about sex she send me pictures .but at some days she tells me she need a break or she need Space to listen to a music and cry than She back talks normaly than She do the same thing .. what the hell is going on her ?
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I need space because this guy I’m seeing wants to be around me ALL THE TIME! It’s exhausting!
When a woman asks for space give her space and break up with her
You sir have honey in your brain.
🤣🤣🤣
She needs space=hypergamy 😉
she's an astronaut
HAHAHA! OMG I think I almost fell out of my chair reading this comment. So funny!
Gilbert Sanchez SPACE.....🤭😂
@@ApolloniaPonti i'm a subscriber, good content
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Lol
I'm so thankful that Mrs. Apollonia was nice enough to take the time to help, and encourage us men to be better men an learn how to understand our women better. Thank you so much Mrs. Apollonia
As a man you can't be yourself if you have to learn techniques or strategies to keep a woman happy. Don't be codependent because you don't need a woman, happiness comes from within you. Especially when she doesn't bring value to the relationship. Women are hypergamous and you probably won't be able to keep her. I would suggest not to make women your priority and focus on yourself and your goals. When you care less you have more control over the relationship. I hope that no one takes this as an insult towards women. They have different Hormones and I accept them for who they are.
This largely depends on the way you define yourself. If you define you by your behaviour and have a fixed mindset this might be true for you. If you define yourself by the outcome and have a growth mindset this isn`t true at all. Then you are not learning techniques and strategies, you are just growing as person, aquiring new knowledge and apply it to your life on a day to day basis. And this is nothing new. You did that all your life. During childhood, during growing up, during experiencing your first experiences with the opposite (or same) gender/sex. You learned so much new and applied it to your life. Why stop at a certain age, call it a day and stop yourself from becoming more awesome?
I`m not who I`m right now. I define myself by the ideal self I aspire to.
She asked me not to call her my love, queen,and wife
Then she said she wants space
And guess what I'm moving on
It hurts but that's life trying to forget her right now
So update.me bro what happened now
Oh dear! She just wants to know if you will fight for her.
I can respond to such quote like this:
"Why do you need space if it's very high to reach? Earth is more than enough for us both."
;) then she'll laugh. Change her mood, not her MIND!
Danny Ortiz No. She’s going to realize you’re an unserious moron and feel vindicated in her decision to get away.
I’m a woman. I asked my man for space because I don’t feel like we’re connecting. I’ve explained this to him multiple times but he’s too caught up in himself to actually hear me. Instead of nagging him, I asked for space so that maybe he can evaluate if he’d rather keep his current routine or adjust a little to create space for me. Longer story short: She’s wrong. Women ask for space for different reasons. Care enough to ask her why she needs space and if there is anything you can do to help bring her into a better space.
Ashley Renee I asked her and she’s says she just needs the space for no reason
If she needs space just give it and that it. Wait and see. Or move on. Good video. I like your Jacket Apollonia
Well, I suspect she needs space to think about what to do with the other fellows that give her attention (or she is even sleeping with), and figure out if it is worthy to drop all her former lifestyle for you.
This approach on women turn me off because she is shit testing you and trying to check if you are fit. She is trying to get back control and she do not allow herself to be emotionally vulnerable towards you. This might indicate a girl has to many milage.
That last line, 'You are always loved'. Made me cry.. thank you for that.
You are right on the money I been with my wife for 11 years I messed up our relationship and she told me she needs space please help me save my marriage
Man done all those things I'm good now 😂 I'll give her all the space in the world I'm on my purpose 😭
If she says she & pain & she need her space it's weird asf 2 me
When they ask for space it’s a test just want to know if they can trust you beleive me if she wants to leave she will , she will always come back if the relationship was good
This video was perfectly timed for my life.. I am currently interesting in a girl that told me she isn't ready..but she also kissed me ..then texted to say "sorry.. Im confused"... and naturally, I am severely confused..so I am just going to back away and see.. the potential pitfall is that if we both go on pointless dates in the meantime, we could each end up trapped in a lesser relationship..but my only option is to wait.
Michael Hilliary you to old for that
" I don't see myself growing with you, I need space "
My girl asked me for space because she's having anxiety and family problems. You gotta trust your girlfriend whenever she ask for space because if you don't trust her then you're afraid of your own ghost.
Great tips Apollonia! I believe she needs space expression is a just a symptom. The root of the problem as a man is to do the opposite of what caused this mess... be unpredictable, focus on our purpose, have an abundance mindset and so on.
She still won't choose you.
Apollonia wonderful knowledge .this was exactly what happened to me 12 years ago. Exactly what u said here in this video . No one told me all this not friends or family. So I really value you as a dating coach and overall as a human being
Thank you, Daniel! :)
@@ApolloniaPonti your welcome
She said she loves you . You sleep together on and off, she loves your company, you have a great time together but she says she can’t be with you can you shed some light on this
Joey Joe sounds like she has other options and wants to keep it that way.
Hey, I’m the last comment in your video. I worked very heard because...that’s the only way I know how to do anything...apparently my friends who girls said I overwhelmed her.
Everyone needs that
There ist no way to understand a Woman . Juste choose your one and try to stay alive
lol
Hahahah
Or there is another guy in the picture.
big geesus probably
big geesus chill bro😔
If she she need space that's red flag, she will go silence then dump you, dump her and walk away..
Yes dump her first it injures her ego because women don't like rejection. Don't contact her or Beg and Plead. Stay strong.
Apollonian and her display of confidence while talking.I can't resist
Women really are complicated. My gf asks space and time out of the blue. she said im too available and she doesnt want herself to be too needy and dependent. She said she becomes anxious with the thought of marriage. I was disappointed and downhearted but in the end i gave her whats she asked for and respected her decision. Now im just waiting...
Did she come back?
Any update?
she wants to go and explore something with another man. NO OTHER REASON.
Not true, I need to think I feel overwhelmed. I went 8 years happy with myself.
How yucky to say.
jen caf so you ain’t fuck nothing for 8 years? Oh okay then
lol thats not true, (at least not in my case) i already got a man to explore with....fuck i need another one for? to drive me even crazier hahahah
Gershwin Quintyne how about she’s just tired of trying to make things work despite having many many open talks with him but couldn’t see a future and no longer sure if he’s the right man to be in her life. She just wants space to rethink through things.
Hi
First view, like and comment ❤. Thank you Apollonia. You know that this topic is the topic in which you benefit me the most Apollonia.
By the way, you are "a cute little flower girl" today 😄. I love seeing you wearing white and red outfits as my favourites in addition to your red manicure. Allah bless you Apollonia.
I told my girlfriend about a month ago that I didn't want to hurt her and to leave me alone as I had problems I needed to work out. She instead supported me with my problems. I respected her for that. A month later she tells me she needs space and acts like I don't matter anymore and I offered her support and she got mad at me and doesn't want to see me. We've been together for over 3 years and I am so confused.
Hi Apollonia, we are not in a relationship because she said she isn't ready, we got in an argument and she said that she needs time to think things through. I told her alright I will give you the space and time that you need. She replied back by telling me her plans for the day and then said ok... Why would she reply like that instead of just a thank you? Please help or anyone help
The last one hit home 🥺current situation
She doesn't need space, she needs konmari
Girl told me she needed space she is/was interested but she isn't emotionally available. Had a break up a month and a half ago. She specifically said. I want to know I'm available to you and when I'm ready if you're still interested we can continue from there. Pretty straight forward. Thoughts? My response to her was I understood and related how I felt after my last break up so I got it. We had a hug after that and she said I smelled good something I said to her earlier that day to which I said I don't know you might have rubbed off on me. It sounds to me she was sincere and I don't think she would have said if I'm still interested when she is ready if she wasn't actually interested? Comments would be appreciated. We were never officially dating and didn't have sex either so no rebound.
I will never get a girlfriend anyway
Apollonia you look so young as in you still have a. Baby face but yet one of the smartest people I have ever known in my entire life
Thanks,great advice and insight,as always.Dan.
I am in this situation where she broke up with me because she would like to find herself. she told me she is coming back to me because she wants to be better and she wants to really come back, however she does not know when. She blames herself for everything. She also told me that I should not hesitate to communicate with her if I need her because she said I won't be alone and I wont ever be. Should I check on her on how she is doing or should I just wait for her approach? 4 days now of no contact. Advice please.
Btw, i somehow contributed to it because she felt I was too needy and not thinking of her. Maybe I just got overprotective of her...and it I take it.
We are in LDR tho
same situation hope they come back 😢
Thank you so much for your encouraging, and outstanding advice 👍💪🙏
Damn u hit it on the spot
Me and my girlfriend got together when she was separated from her boys's father and they were separated for quite some time about 4 months and then me and her met and then after we got together she said that she's moving out and the reason why she stayed was because of the kids and before I even asked her to be my girlfriend or we agreed to do things I told her that I wanted her to take time to work on herself and get herself straight and work out tha things that she needs to within herself to be happy with herself and have that taken care of on her part. I had that time to do all of that before we met and she says she needs time to work on herself.
I feel like our relationship was doomed from the start
lmaooo
women are too much in the US. Ive met foreign women and its not like this, i understand that there are things that a man should do and not do but this seems too extreme.
on top of that, the tests that women throw at men doesnt go anywhere, no wonder why relationships and marriages fail in the US. Like i said, ive met foreign women and things are great and everything just flows naturally because they dont pressure you or test you all the time like women do in the US
Alex Zandani Most women are always extreme. Sometimes s illogical. Well. Jeopardy looking I guess. Until we can find those who who are great. Yes. Everyone has their personal space and comfort zone. But, in a relationship, both parties need to be willing to step out from that so called space or comfort zone. There is no such thing as the right girl or guy. It’s the effort and willingness to adapt and commit. Just like happiness. It’s not only positive affect. If he or she is not ready to commit, clarify that from the beginning. As a guy, it is hard to tolerate ambiguity.
80% of the time this happen to woman, it look to me that we are more willing to accept and live happy or trying to be with a woman than a woman with us.
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You are freaking amazing!! Thank you
Very insightful. Thanks
So true the very last thing u mention
OK. So if I'm not available, not easy to be with and not comfortable with, then I'm doing the right thing.........
Thr girl i love told me she needs space should i move on should i freak out 😥
Anthony Scott Same bro how did it end?
Freak out, then move on. She's only asking you to help her dump you... Spares herself the emotional guilt that comes with dumping you.
Walk away....for good.
Anthony Scott move on
Recently something crazy happen to this girl ik you witness a friend dying so the night after I went to her house after work talk to her comfort her and stuff told her everything gonna be ok I can admit I feel like I come off a bite too clingy and a few days pass she told me to she's will be taking a break from social media and I was like okay then so. I called her then I felt like she gave me a attitude then she said "I'm not use being close to guys emotionally and then she hung up in my face. She still gets on Facebook and shit but doesn't message me. What should I do
My girlfriend of four years broke up with me a few months after her dad died. Sadly, because of circumstances surrounding that she has had the time to grief for him. Fucking Covid. As someone who lost his dad years ago I know the pain she is going through and I just want her to be well. Even if it’s not with me. I love you enough to know that.
you helped learn how to deal with situations differently
What happens when she wants space but she want me to call and text her everyday
Thanks all this was of great help to ease my mind. Muchas gracias 😊
sister this is greatest information
I didn't even watch the video.. because the reasons she would ask for space is irrelevant. If she wants space give it to her.. tell her "sure but understand our monogamous relationship is over. Call or text AFTER you've had enough space". And when she does gentlemen, add her to your rotation of women. She is now a booty call.. NEVER be exclusive with her again. She had her chance and she choose space. What is she an astronaut 🤣🤣🤣
This is true. I'm seeing this. Is there a way I can contact you? I have 2 questions I need to ask privately if I may
I need advice about the 6th reason they ask for space. We've been together almost 10 months now and she asks for time to heal or to fix herself. What should I do? We live together.
Hey Apollonia, so my girlfriend broke up with me today, she told me that she needs space and that she doesn’t know what’s going to happen in the future. The problem she brought up the most was that I “ask what she was wearing Everytime she went somewhere”, she said I was controlling but I was only scared of her being hit on, this eventually led to arguments then our relationship, what should I do. I really love her and I know she loves me. What can I do?
Let her go life get better dawg find somebody else
This is a very helpful video! I have some specific situations I want to ask for? Anyway I can speak to you? Thanks!
So why should we hang around for her to find our replacement
Ive been with my girl 13 years and all of a sudden she needs space
And she says she loves me just not right now this is crushing aye what do I do
Damn man 7 years into it and my girl just said the same thing. How are you dealing with it? Any advice?
How did it work out?
Leave them you guys. My wife said the same thing after 13years. Women that appreciate you and love you well stay and grind with you. Fuck there feelings.
Thank you for this
Any time
Really women are tricky to understand one wrong step men gonna hurt themself for long time
There are some time don't why she doesn't like us all of a sudden
I'm just kept by ignored her that really hurts when I ask she says i don't want to talk to you now with i need space if I need you i will call you I just don't want to talk with you for sometime
I don't understand how this space will go on its been 4 days i tried to not to text her
Now I'm in a dialama may be It's just a break to forget me
Please help in understanding 🙏
My girl is 2 months pregnant & says she needed space after I annoyed her. Is it still possible she'll cheat on me? It's been almost a week of space now
she might get a abortion
my girlfriend ask me this
She's asking you to leave the room, not the house...though you're welcome to show yourself out if you so wish.
But ...
now she's free to have whomever she wishes in her room and there's not a damn thing you can do about it. If you try to she will ask you to leave the house. Spare her the trouble and show yourself out, then post the key.
Never ever ever go back.
love you girl! thanks for the video!
What nationality are you?! you say your last name like a Greek :p
Hi.. im facing the same scenario right now with my fiance.. I felt that she was confused with her past and in our relationship
How did it work out?
Omg I wasn’t ready
Why not?
This coin be flipped to apply to women giving men space for the same reasons. Marriage / relationship advice is far weighted negatively on a man as default.
I was literally thinking the same thing every video you see tells men to bend over backwards to satisfy a womans sporadic emotions
She said she needs space to focus on her friends, this is a first time in our relationship. What do I do? I’m gonna respect her decision but what does this mean?
it means shes a borderline,idealize devalue discard.nothing will make her happy.
do you have a video where yo go more into detail about the last one?
okay but how much time are we talking about for that space you can't wait forever the girl i love told me she needs space now too but how long will it be?
Reasons why she’s leave me alone
She’s needs to leave me alone 😡😡
She was with another guy didn't even bother to end our engagement LMAO broke off ties with her entirely
Me and my GF have been together for about 3 months and we haven't seen each other for a month do to a problem. Then when everything was going good, I said "I love you" And she didn't wanna say it back. Then she said that she needed space and that she isn't leaving me. Then she says that she doesn't wanna keep making the same mistakes and that she loves me as a friend for now. The next day she texts me first in the morning and angel emoji. Idk what to say or do whenever she texts me?
Rocky Falcone any updates im in the same circle..
She found your replacement and is test driving the relationship while keeping you on the backburner. hypergamy playing out brother..I'm sorry..
I have a girlfriend but she can not wait for me four years.what is the reason she can not wait for me can you please give me advice
Thanks:)
Hi. If someone can advice it would be much appreciated. I'm stuck in between the issue. I failed my girlfriend trust twice, I lied to her about my addictions. We spoked about it before, she knew of them, I started recovering, however slipped in meantime and didn't tell about it. We have developed very deep and strong connection, being with each other 2 years, she said it wasn't really about health problems, as those are the sickness of mind and it's understandable, but lying is much bigger crime. She obviously went in rage and broke up. Some short time after this we spoke about all this calmly, she said she needs time for herself, which I fully respected. Since then I do not contact her anymore, no msgs, no calls, no social media reactions. She loved me very much, I was the one holding bigger emotions as I am from alcoholic family and not being open to deeper emotions that easily, however I was really started showing it to her, piece by piece and she noticed this evolution. Until this happened. Now, women can be very contradicting in what they say and feel, I was thinking this is over but during our last convos she was speaking bits and clues, or "open opportunity" about getting back together in sometime. I'm holding the frame, putting all effort to come out clean (no slip ups) and getting better men, enjoying hobbies, work, friends and free time but, as normal, sometimes revoking and considering what to do. It's been almost month now since we spoke and wondering how to behave best and show her I'm becoming different man but not overwhelm Her. Honest and meaningful transformation will speak for itself. I'm fully aware this also might not work anymore, and having certainty that I want to fight for this love and for Her. And struggling to find best moment... Should I just carry on as she will perhaps seek for contact when suitable, or maybe initiate soft spontaneous chat?
She doesn’t love you , and asking space for you is the nicest way to break up
💔
She has someone else
How can I have a personal conversation with you? Am goin through this now and I think I need to talk to with you.
You didn't address her being insecure as you mentioned around the 30 second mark, or did you?
Holy shit you’re right
What if the opposite is true? What if you (the man) are the one who needs space? Also, what happens if your feelings for her fissile out? Do you walk away and go your separate ways, or do you stay and try to work things out, knowing in the end, you guys are going to break up, anyway?
Even though this is old , the reasons why she "needs space" doesn´t matter, she´s either hooking up with someone else or hooking up with someone else , so cheating can´t be put on her.
A girl said that to me once and I told her this: If you need "space" you will have exactly that, she said thanks for understanding, however I walked out.
She looked confused as I was leaving and asked me what I meant...I turned around and said: Meaning it´s over
Either stay together or you will get that space and it won´t be with me....
Relationships are difficult but being completely inflexible and insecure probably makes your life pretty tough.
Can i get advise? Especially this time during covid?
Or what if she notices he doesn’t meet her needs?
That second one seems to be my reason, we’ve been really close for around 8-9 months now and she knows i like her but has told me that she’s not ready. She would always ask why her? Why do you like me? Recently we had an argument and she blocked me, i contacted her friend and she helped me talk to her but now her and her best friend are in a fight because of me (Apparently her friend liked me too) 😬 So now she thinks i’m the reason she lost her best friend and told me she doesn’t want to talk to anyone rn and she wants to get her friend back.
Hi Apollonia I have some personal questions for you and I believe you can help me
Another reasons why she says I need space can we be friends is she don't value you or respect you as a man and she has her sights o. Other dudes she wanna try out the pretty boys like s Chris Brown or drake look alikes. To her it's all about light skinned albino skinned
Why would you want THAT girl?
Not sure i agree with this women ask for space for many reasons, and many of them can be serious or childish insecurity issues
So if I said I want my space should she understand me
Can someone help with what she said in second 30-1:03!!!
If I messed up with the space part. Will I ever have another chance to get my ex girlfriend back ?
Mark Viles stop chasing value yourself !
how long should I give that space? few days ? a week?
17 years. Then show up to her house in maine where she now lives with her husband and two children. Have a huge beard and a yellow rain coat, white sneakers. It has to be raining. Knock on the door and ask for refuge. She'll bring you in, ask for some hot coffee. Tell her how after she asked for space you decided to take a boat out to sea and got stranded after a massive storm.
@@stephenjams hahahahah
I and my girlfriend broke up after a year and 5 months. it was a mutual break up and we are on good terms. we have spoken about what changes need to be done if we did get back together but she wants to have some space to work on herself. I've told her I will wait until she's ready because of shes the one I want. she said she doesn't want me to because she doesn't want me to feel guilty for moving on or if nothing does happen. but she did say hopefully when she is ready I haven't moved on and then we spoke about the jumper I always use to take and wear. she giving me that one when we next meet for the one I have now. we said I love you and it was hard for her to say since we broke up but she did say it back twice. i asked her if she wanted to be with me still and she said she doesn't know and wants some space. but we are keeping in touch when she is ready like after Christmas we are having a catch up
Hi Apollonia..,👌
I dont think if she want Space or not but my girlfriend loves me she call me babe ..i love you i want to be with you .. Marry you ect we talk about sex she send me pictures .but at some days she tells me she need a break or she need Space to listen to a music and cry than She back talks normaly than She do the same thing .. what the hell is going on her ?