Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.
It's hard to let go of someone you love; I went through a similar experience when my 12-year relationship ended. I tried everything to get him back, and eventually I had to turn to a spiritual counselor for assistance.
All this advice is good. But it reinforces just how difficult dating is today, especially for men. Having these great conversations to trigger emotions, questions, etc. may be hard to always have in our minds when talking. She'd wind up asking me what's on that little piece of paper I keep pulling out and reading. I'd have to reply, "Cliff's Notes for Emotional Triggering in Dating".
Just keep in mind that you want her to feel things when you're talking to her. It actually comes naturally to me though so I don't know if other men need to constantly keep it in mind. But I bet you can learn to do it pretty quickly.
For 1…. Never show a woman any vulnerability. I don’t care what they SAY they want. Usually it’s the complete opposite. The minute you start showing weakness people exploit it. Women will make you pay if you show them any weakness. Never listen to what they say. Watch what they do and if you have experience with a lot of women you know from experience they will make you pay dearly once you start showing any vulnerability. Stay the rock no matter what. You can go that route but it’s a tricky one and one wrong move could ruin everything so best to not even go there.
Hello! I am Yúri Lifestyle from Lisbon/Portugal. Amazing video edition! The text letters behind you and the beautiful environment. And your advices are the best.
Apollonia - you are by far the most "down to earth" and "make sense" person - I will schedule a one on one with you soon as I have some conflicts that stem from old core values which no longer apply in our modern society and I feel stuck .. Stay tuned ..
Currently I mostly talk to women online because I haven't found many women in my area I want to date yet. I realized just a week ago that I spend the majority of the time I'm talking to a woman trying to elicit emotions in them. I'm usually joking with them, flirting with them, sending voice clips of me playing guitar and singing. Or sometimes we'll talk about real life and even ex's and such. And even then I'm trying to make them feel something. They might feel sad for me or that I'm sweet when I'm talking about my ex wife. Or maybe I'm just passionate about whatever topic. But I'm constantly and unconsciously trying to make them feel. And I have to say, this is HIGHLY effective. And I have zero issues being emotional and venerable with them. And they love it.
I wonder how much a lot of this can vary based on the different attachment styles involved in "attachment theory". I think all of this applies to "secure" and "secure" pairing, but may vary in certain areas for any avoidant types or anxious types. And that's great in the sense that the goal for anyone ought to be having a secure attachment style and being with someone of that type as well. The sad truth is that there are a lot more people with dysfunctional attachment styles than healthy ones.
What if you’re an older guy who likes to read and go for walks, but she likes the excitement of ‘doing stuff’? (adventure courses, hiking, etc) Are we just incompatible?
Women go after what they are attracted to. Shes not being honest at all. She sees me and others in a bar, shes going for the taller guy next to me, not knowing hes my body guard
But what if she is a borderline and she is scare of closenest because of her disorder?How do we conect to this people?Avoidant personalities are so many woman's on the world and that is very confusi.
Yes, it turns out that fish would know what they would like to bite on. But you should learn dating and relationship advice from a wide variety of sources.
All these things will put you in the friend zone guys. I'm not saying this in a negative way but she's like every other woman they say things and they do something else. It's just the way they're wired
I am currently in a new relationship and this tips are such a gorgeous way to make me step up my game,,,I don't want to screw this up,,,thank you Apollonia 😊😊🎉
Why exactly should we be caring about what women want! Why all these videos trying to teach men , how to be ? Women arent learning dating secrets about men .. why exactly men need to care so much.
I dont agree with this. There are only 2 things that determine if a woman is sexually attracted to us or not. ONLY 2 factors, none of which you have mentioned
This is helpful. I was watching THE BIKERIDERS on DVD. Not to give anything away about the movie, but there was a scene where Austin Butler's character was in tears and his wife just sat there a long moment looking at him like he's a sissy and finally held him in her arms. That's what we gentleman want more than anything is for a lady to hold us when the universe is tearing us apart. We will slay the dragon, make money, take care of the situation etcetera, but we need a lady to make us forget the nonsense of the day with her kindness and tenderness.
@@dacritter8397 Sarcasm alert: Jesus wept 3 times John 11:35 Luke 19: 41 and Hebrews 5: 7-9, so anyone who was present during those times ladies included thought Jesus a sissy mama's boy, right.
Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.
It's hard to let go of someone you love; I went through a similar experience when my 12-year relationship ended. I tried everything to get him back, and eventually I had to turn to a spiritual counselor for assistance.
Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?
His name is Father Akunna, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
he is father akunna, he has great powers, he can help you.
I appreciate you providing this important information; I've just checked Father Akunna online, and wow, he's really genuine. Thank you so much again ❤
All this advice is good. But it reinforces just how difficult dating is today, especially for men. Having these great conversations to trigger emotions, questions, etc. may be hard to always have in our minds when talking. She'd wind up asking me what's on that little piece of paper I keep pulling out and reading. I'd have to reply, "Cliff's Notes for Emotional Triggering in Dating".
😂😂😂
Just keep in mind that you want her to feel things when you're talking to her. It actually comes naturally to me though so I don't know if other men need to constantly keep it in mind. But I bet you can learn to do it pretty quickly.
For 1…. Never show a woman any vulnerability. I don’t care what they SAY they want. Usually it’s the complete opposite. The minute you start showing weakness people exploit it. Women will make you pay if you show them any weakness. Never listen to what they say. Watch what they do and if you have experience with a lot of women you know from experience they will make you pay dearly once you start showing any vulnerability. Stay the rock no matter what. You can go that route but it’s a tricky one and one wrong move could ruin everything so best to not even go there.
You are tallking bullshit.If we will listen to you we giving up and loosing power over woman wich leads to disaster
Love your enthusiasm of honesty and excepts it's a journey
I must say this is impressive and it actually work in some woman who is understandable and emotional secure.
Hello! I am Yúri Lifestyle from Lisbon/Portugal.
Amazing video edition! The text letters behind you and the beautiful environment.
And your advices are the best.
Apollonia - you are by far the most "down to earth" and "make sense" person - I will schedule a one on one with you soon as I have some conflicts that stem from old core values which no longer apply in our modern society and I feel stuck .. Stay tuned ..
You are perfect I appreciate all this free game you should be charging for all this. I love a woman’s true perception 🙏🏼
Your videos are always packed with useful insights!
Currently I mostly talk to women online because I haven't found many women in my area I want to date yet. I realized just a week ago that I spend the majority of the time I'm talking to a woman trying to elicit emotions in them. I'm usually joking with them, flirting with them, sending voice clips of me playing guitar and singing. Or sometimes we'll talk about real life and even ex's and such. And even then I'm trying to make them feel something. They might feel sad for me or that I'm sweet when I'm talking about my ex wife. Or maybe I'm just passionate about whatever topic.
But I'm constantly and unconsciously trying to make them feel. And I have to say, this is HIGHLY effective. And I have zero issues being emotional and venerable with them. And they love it.
Yeah that's what women love to do is talk. Get off your computer and go hang out with them that'll be the test of where you end up
@@jasonpoolo3523 Only a few are local, I hang out with them when I can.
I wonder how much a lot of this can vary based on the different attachment styles involved in "attachment theory". I think all of this applies to "secure" and "secure" pairing, but may vary in certain areas for any avoidant types or anxious types. And that's great in the sense that the goal for anyone ought to be having a secure attachment style and being with someone of that type as well. The sad truth is that there are a lot more people with dysfunctional attachment styles than healthy ones.
Absolutely it depends on the attachment style of the woman you're talking to and yourself.
so its all about making a performance!
This stuff is always gold
Thank you so much for watching!
I like - I like
*Has anyone here experienced a moment where they realized a particular trigger made a significant impact on their relationship?*
Yes. I wrecked one.
What if you’re an older guy who likes to read and go for walks, but she likes the excitement of ‘doing stuff’? (adventure courses, hiking, etc) Are we just incompatible?
can someone write down the points thanks
I don't think i like being a player i always feel like im giving up my boundaries for bs
Then maybe its time to stop and turn this around 😉
Epic advice mic 🎤 drop
Love you❤
Talk down to them, and put them in their place!
Women go after what they are attracted to. Shes not being honest at all. She sees me and others in a bar, shes going for the taller guy next to me, not knowing hes my body guard
My is extremely attracted to me by my inner self and who I am to her
"The Inner Light" (The Beatles, the White Album, 1968.)
@@azmike3572 I will look it up
This is a lot to list
But what if she is a borderline and she is scare of closenest because of her disorder?How do we conect to this people?Avoidant personalities are so many woman's on the world and that is very confusi.
6:35 sexual discipline? In the modern USA? 🤯
On a serious note though, I'd love it if you'd make a video on the topic one day Apollonia
A fish teaching you how to catch a fish
Yes, it turns out that fish would know what they would like to bite on. But you should learn dating and relationship advice from a wide variety of sources.
All these things will put you in the friend zone guys. I'm not saying this in a negative way but she's like every other woman they say things and they do something else. It's just the way they're wired
I am currently in a new relationship and this tips are such a gorgeous way to make me step up my game,,,I don't want to screw this up,,,thank you Apollonia 😊😊🎉
You not wanting to screw this up, is what will end up screwing it up. Take a step back
Why exactly should we be caring about what women want!
Why all these videos trying to teach men , how to be ?
Women arent learning dating secrets about men .. why exactly men need to care so much.
I dont agree with this.
There are only 2 things that determine if a woman is sexually attracted to us or not. ONLY 2 factors, none of which you have mentioned
What are they?
This is helpful.
I was watching THE BIKERIDERS on DVD. Not to give anything away about the movie, but there was a scene where Austin Butler's character was in tears and his wife just sat there a long moment looking at him like he's a sissy and finally held him in her arms. That's what we gentleman want more than anything is for a lady to hold us when the universe is tearing us apart. We will slay the dragon, make money, take care of the situation etcetera, but we need a lady to make us forget the nonsense of the day with her kindness and tenderness.
She may have held him -- but in real life, she'd never respect him again. Never show that type of emotion with a woman. That's "Mommy" energy.
@@dacritter8397 Sarcasm alert: Jesus wept 3 times John 11:35 Luke 19: 41 and Hebrews 5: 7-9, so anyone who was present during those times ladies included thought Jesus a sissy mama's boy, right.