4 Ways to Reject Reality (Denial: Root of all Failure)

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  • @stellar_cartographer
    @stellar_cartographer วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Sam this is perhaps my all time favorite work of yours yet. Oddly enough I’m currently deep into researching dissociation, and hearing your view on the entire mechanism from start to finish is a wellspring of knowledge and wisdom in 30 min. Thank you Professor!

    • @samvaknin
      @samvaknin  19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +6

      Watch the trauma and dissociation playlist.

  • @stoicfreediver
    @stoicfreediver วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    I have been watching your channel for years. This is might be your best, most insightful video ever in my opinion. Thank you!

    • @samvaknin_fan_page-g4l
      @samvaknin_fan_page-g4l ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

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  • @ProtiNarcisisticnizlorabi
    @ProtiNarcisisticnizlorabi 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    Amazing information
    When you accept/assume responsibility you gain response ability

    • @samvaknin_fan_page-g4l
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  • @truthseeker2391
    @truthseeker2391 วันที่ผ่านมา +21

    Great sense of humor, de nile

    • @samvaknin_fan_page-g4l
      @samvaknin_fan_page-g4l ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

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  • @Englishwithbahar-j3o
    @Englishwithbahar-j3o 13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

    Perfect timing Dr. Vaknin 👌have learned so much from you 🙏🙏

  • @ponuryhutnik
    @ponuryhutnik 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    As a borderline with mixed addictions: I'm barely able to comprehend and accept what you just lectured. But it's like medically, scientifically describing what's happening to me in active addiction to some extent and what's going on in my mind on psychedelics: I'm going through all stages and than is that moment when l can stay in delusions or even fantasy(while taking other drugs and alcohol too) after the trip, until reality hits so hard I'm just don't know who the F is me, my mind and my life(happened) or hopefully break into pieces, into nothingness in me, like katharsis that recently happened in relapse, only because I gained some knowledge from therapy and similar videos. I have so much work to do, to help myself. Thank you, prof. Vaknin.

    • @samvaknin_fan_page-g4l
      @samvaknin_fan_page-g4l ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

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  • @roseacoco8459
    @roseacoco8459 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    eye opener! thanks Prof Sam!

    • @samvaknin_fan_page-g4l
      @samvaknin_fan_page-g4l ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

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  • @tiakennedy1681
    @tiakennedy1681 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Thank you 🙏

    • @samvaknin_fan_page-g4l
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  • @Tureco-Audiovisuales.
    @Tureco-Audiovisuales. วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    the denial in israel is huge, we think our leaders are not psychos and we think our cousins like us.

  • @olgakozlova4413
    @olgakozlova4413 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Amazing! Thank you!

    • @samvaknin_fan_page-g4l
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  • @Zeinep-r4t
    @Zeinep-r4t 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Well, today i was thinking how the hell did i KNOWINGLY, BEING SUPER AWARE of the shitty ,psychopathic behavior just magically choose to overlook! I am shocked with myself. I used to think that i have a word on my choices and that i know a thing or two about human psychology..Ha!
    Sir Vaknin your videos are so helpful...Awakening! I can almost say I feel thankful for the narcs entry to my live, I've learnt so much about myself during this healing journey. As unbearable the pain was , it was a thrilling journey- Awakening and getting in touch with my multidimensional self and hidden truths. Are narcissists evil or the door to suffering thus; self improvement as nietzche says...Thanks Narc

    • @samvaknin_fan_page-g4l
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  • @leon7e
    @leon7e วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Acceptance and awareness is the way to healing. So then denial can be a form of temporary protection to say a child that has been subjected to traumatizing events when repression fails?

    • @samvaknin_fan_page-g4l
      @samvaknin_fan_page-g4l ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

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  • @acmvnate
    @acmvnate วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Is there any medicine for fixing the really issues?

    • @Drogonmoon
      @Drogonmoon วันที่ผ่านมา

      There are many drugs for mental illnesses.

    • @samvaknin
      @samvaknin  วันที่ผ่านมา +18

      No.

    • @danielastoica3354
      @danielastoica3354 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Not yet

  • @safchojuk
    @safchojuk วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Is there a way to stop/reduce fantasies?

    • @samvaknin
      @samvaknin  19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +4

      Fantasies are healthy unless and until they take over and become indistinguishable from reality which is when a therapeutic intervention is required.

  • @Zwiebly
    @Zwiebly วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    My mind after watching this video:
    What are you hiding? Wait I am talking to myself. No way I could have been hiding anything from myself. Right?
    oh god... I'm not in denial, I'm not in denial, I'm not in denial. Puuh dodged that one.

    • @samvaknin_fan_page-g4l
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  • @danielledaisley6166
    @danielledaisley6166 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Dr. Vaknin, can certain mental illnesses cause a similar sensation of Denial though? I feel like that's the case with OCD it makes a lot of thoughts feel real, so you go about trying to deny these thoughts as a compulsion for pure o.

    • @samvaknin
      @samvaknin  วันที่ผ่านมา +21

      Denial and other defense mechanisms are clinical features of many mental illnesses and disorders.

    • @lizmandelaine6863
      @lizmandelaine6863 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@samvaknin wondering, what are your thoughts on anosognosia?

    • @waleskaaddams
      @waleskaaddams วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Hi!! Do you have videos on Maladaptive Daydreaming?

    • @lizmandelaine6863
      @lizmandelaine6863 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ Interesting.

  • @GG-rh2uk
    @GG-rh2uk วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hello professor,in an interview you said individual could choose outside(go narcissist , get accepted ,...) or inside ( developing the self which has a methodolgy, based on Heidegger i think) .what's the methodology ? Is there a way to develope the self but also take part outside without becoming a Narc?
    Thanks

    • @samvaknin
      @samvaknin  วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Watch the Life’s Wisdom playlist.

    • @GG-rh2uk
      @GG-rh2uk วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks

  • @Ravenafeedsravens
    @Ravenafeedsravens วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    A valuable lecture. Is propaganda a sub-"genre" of fantasy?

    • @samvaknin
      @samvaknin  วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      It is used in order to create a collective shared fantasy.

  • @TransilvaniaRotterdam
    @TransilvaniaRotterdam วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Professor, haw do you get this rational intelligence? I personally struggle to understand the human mind

    • @samvaknin_fan_page-g4l
      @samvaknin_fan_page-g4l ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

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  • @leon7e
    @leon7e วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    DE-Nile is a river n Egypt...Info noted Sam 🤣😂🤣😅

    • @samvaknin_fan_page-g4l
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  • @mgem1611
    @mgem1611 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    If you have money problems buy a rental property

    • @de-nz4jp
      @de-nz4jp วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I have a rental property, my tenant just moved leaving thousands of dollars of damage, I find it hillarious that I have manifested the opposite of what I intended to...😅😅ps. I rarely suffer from denial ..😉

    • @mgem1611
      @mgem1611 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @de-nz4jp fix it and sell it

    • @de-nz4jp
      @de-nz4jp วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@mgem1611 yes, it's good to have options..

    • @samvaknin_fan_page-g4l
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  • @mgem1611
    @mgem1611 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Good joke

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  • @albket1892
    @albket1892 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    As Egyptian woman can't agree more 😂😂😂😂 it is one of the most used defensive mechanism here 🫠

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