Is It Normal For My Japanese Boyfriend to Ignore My Text Messages & Phone Calls? | REAL TALK

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[@Kwan4132]

How often did you and your husband text each other when you first met/beginning stage of your relationship?

[@nailahasanah6805]

11:37 i also notice this pattern among japanese people lol, it’s true, it’s those small details you notice eventually by experience

[@CoMic95]

Please watch the entire video before giving your anecdotal experiences in the comments. I can assure you that even if you marry a Japanese man that labels himself as a bad texter or that used to be one it simply means that he either fucked up things with the girl he really liked, was cheating on you back then, or became desperate enough to marry you in the end. Ignoring calls and texts is a sign of disinterest and disrespect. The same is true for a man that doesn’t spend money on you, doesn’t remember things about you or important dates, and that won’t put a label on your relationship. He WILL do all of that AND MORE for the woman that he actually loves. It just isn’t you and that is a tough pill for a lot of you to swallow.
Japanese Men are still men. A lot of the things that men in America think or do Japanese men also do. This is why if you have noticed when I made videos talking about what Japanese men like, want or what they are attracted to, even with HVM here it mostly overlaps American men’s desires too. They are still men afterall. Cultures may be different but communication exists in Japan JUST like it does in America and BOTH Japanese women and men expect it.
ALSO because he knows that he is dating a foreigner he is aware that you expect more romance and communication than a Japanese girl but even then a Japanese woman would LOVE to have a man that calls and messages often UNLESS she is cheating or using you that is…
My husband is a damn medical doctor and I can assure you he works WAAAAY more hours and days than 99.9% of you who believe that your convenience store or IT boyfriend or even worse college student boyfriend is soooo overworked and depressed and “busy” that he cannot even read your messages. This month my husband only has 3 FULL off days yet he will message me and call on his own occasionally during his breaks and ANYTIME I do he gets back to me either immediately or within 4-6 hours. He works nearly 24 hour shifts at time switching between different locations and STILL he makes time. My ex who was an engineer did the same.
MOST Japanese men don’t work crazy late night overtime shifts. It is a BIG exaggeration. Those are referred to as “black companies” in Japan and MOST men don’t work for one and when they do they get out fast.
White people love making documentaries on this but it is not true for most people. If you live in Japan just look at what rush hour is like. It dwindles down after 7:30pm because the overwhelming MAJORITY of Japanese men and women get off work immediately at either 5:00pm or 6:00pm. It is rare for anyone to work past 7:30pm when it comes to overtime. Even salarymen that go out drinking usually wrap it up no later than 9-10pm because most of them have wives and kids to go home to and a 20-40 minute commute AND most places close rather early.
MOST Japanese men are not passed out in vomit without shoes on trains and benches and the vast majority of men that you do see like this are low salary regular office workers and even college kids.
Overtime and overwork exists here but it is NOT as prevalent as you are thinking. Most bosses want to go home on time if not early too.Even for the men that work crazy hours their phone is not a burden it is an escape from the day’s work and problems. He uses it the moment he gets off work. You should be insulted that he apparently views you as work too which is why he ONLY replies when he is bored, has no date and is feeling horny. Meanwhile he is replying to the girl that he likes daily or even worse physically dating and sleeping with her.
Japanese men LOVE to talk on the phone, go on dates, and at the very least even the brokest of men reply to your messages within 4-8 hours MAX when they like you but they’re just busy at work or sleep. If it is after work and he is “too tired” or forgot or any other bullshit excuse I can assure you that he is lying to you and simply doesn’t like you.
There will NEVER be a job, school, or emergency that your man goes through that require a week or months without receiving texts,calls and emails.
The same can be said for Japanese men who ONLY talk to you when it is about sexting, phone sex, or making plans to have sex again. It is a clear sign that he is playing you. This is also why I keep telling women that they are wasting their time in these online relationships. Dating someone you found online is fine. That is how I got married and engaged to a previous man. HOWEVER MOST Japanese men are not taking you seriously when you see eachother once a month or once a year or NEVER. Video chatting and phone sex is NOT a replacement for you physically being here. They will just find a bunch of other women to date online AND probably get at least one other girlfriend to fuck in real life.
Japanese people usually breakup just because they moved an hour or 3 away. My ex fiance’s ex girlfriend broke up with him after she moved to Kyoto or Tokyo from Osaka which is NOT that damn far. My husband’s ex broke up with him after she decided the one and a half hour commute and both of their busy schedules was too much for her. You really think a guy you met a few times to NEVER is going to stay faithful to you when you don’t even live on the same continent?!
Anyway back on subject men have time AND money for the women that they love. He is showing you that he doesn’t care about you or respect you. He is likely using you for English lessons, free nude and sexy pictures/videos, and just wasting your time. This often happens to younger girls under 23 because they are much more naive than those 25 and up but some women 30+ fall for this game too. If you don’t mind getting cheated on and possibly exposed to STDS and getting embarrassed by your man roaming the streets and you just have such low self esteem and a big ass fetish then by all means go ahead and get played I cannot stop a grown woman from being dumb HOWEVER I wanted to to make this video to address the stereotype that Japanese men are so busy that they need 24 hours to days to reply to your calls and text messages.
They don’t forget to reply and they are not swarmed with studying and tests for even a week. They take breaks, attend parties, hangout with their friends, go bar and club hopping etc.. He is lying to you. He is also likely cheating on you by chatting with or physically dating other women. It is NOT about how cute you are. They will cheat on you with an EVEN CUTER girl and sometimes and even uglier one. Ask yourself what is so special about you? Why should he not cheat on you? What is there about you that another girl can’t do better?
Japanese men use their cellphones during their lunch break, commute to and from work,when they go to the bathroom, in bed before sleeping, and oftentimes even while working.He saw your message and phone call. In fact this is going to hurt you but MOST of you have specifically been put on mute and your chat has been hidden so that his real girlfriend or even wife won’t see you in his phone and so you won’t ruin his day blowing up his phone with your desperate frantic messages.
A lot of men on dating and language exchange apps are married or at least have girlfriends and they have a fetish for foreign women (usually white women) OR they simply are looking for a way to cheat without raising suspicions with their woman so they pretend to be studying English or they use old or fake photos or hide their faces to cheat in peace.This will have to be saved for another video because there is too much to say about this.
To wrap it up he is lying to you he is not busy he just doesn’t want to be in a genuine relationship with you. You are either being used to help him cheat on his REAL LIFE wife or girlfriend, for free faps, free English lessons, or just a fun experiment to be crossed off of his list.
Anyway please watch the video where I explained everything there….

[@mandyX2000]

Where did you met your husband ?