NEVER Tell a Japanese Man That You're a Virg*n | Dating Advice | Issarant
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Watch the ENTIRE video before getting in your feelings. Don’t twist my words.
I am not encouraging women to be easy or sexually promiscuous but I am encouraging women to not write that they’re a virgin on their dating profile. It attracts the wrong type of men the same way posing half naked on a dating site does. I don’t make the rules but I’m teaching you how to play by them in real life. It’s not about what you think or like or want.
If you’re a straight woman you need to learn the way that men think and learn how to beat them at their own games.
Most of the Japanese men you will date here don’t want to marry you. The same can be said for your home country but this channel is about Japan and I’m making this video in response to a woman who ignorantly plastered her profile with statements about being a virgin and who openly shared this with a man she barely knew, jumped in bed with him and almost went all the way THEN acted surprised when he started ghosting her afterwards.
I too am a victim of being an idiot. I have been in this position before and I speak from experience. 99% of men view you as either a liar or see you as a challenge but they DO NOT see you as a wife especially when you’re willing to do things like makeout, give head, and grind on him.
The reason why being a virgin worked back in the day and even nowadays with the right partner is because people got married much faster and dating didn’t last several years. Most of your parents and grandparents met and married in a few months to no more than a few years. Most older people married in a year or less. Nowadays there are women holding onto men that they’ve been with for 5+ years hoping that they’ll get married. A man won’t mind making you wait 3+ years for marriage but the vast majority of men won’t put off sex for that long and if they do it with you they are almost always getting their needs met with someone else.
Japan is also not a truly religious place this the idea of being a good Christian or Catholic girl is not understood and if anything this might even scare some men away from wanting to date you seriously.
It’s unlikely that you find a Japanese man that will wait for you to be ready because it requires him to marry you which is a big gamble in ask in todays world where sex is free and cheating is a sport.
Being a virgin as an adult is hard. Abstinence takes strength. It’s amazing that you respect your body and value yourself and others. I am not shaming you but I am telling you that you shouldn’t readily share this information freely with the vast majority of people. If a guy tries to make you go further leave him. If he is not okay with your decision to be a virgin leave him. If he starts replying slowly leave him.
You can’t force a guy to want something he doesn’t want. Being a virgin sounds fun fetishy kinky etc. and most men claim they want one but they don’t want to wait for one. Unless you’re dating people looking for marriage within a year it is extremely unlikely that you will find a partner that YOU actually want who won’t cheat on you and that will actually marry you.
I’m sorry that this woman got played. She should have never gone to his house or made out with him. It gave mixed signals. That man was wrong too. He didn’t want his time to be wasted so he got her to go half way so he didn’t feel like he just gave her a free meal.
You may feel empowered because you didn’t let him stick his 🍆 in your 🐱 but he’s glad he still got something out of it and that’s why he turned into a magician the next morning. He didn’t feel like playing games with you. It wasn’t worth it.
Date men that have the same values as you don’t try to persuade or Date men in the hopes of converting them into your values. It seldom works out that way.
I wish I had a big sister to tell me this. I wasn’t a virgin when I came to Japan but I had 1 body count for years. I had only been with my longterm boyfriend since high school and I was single for about 2-3 years prior to coming to Japan and had no sex during that time. However I stupidly overshared and went on bad dates with bad bumb men I quickly lowered my standards here. I swore I’d never drink alcohol and in less than a week of being in Japan I had my first sip of alcohol and I added body number 2.
So please understand that while I may talk blunt and harsh and I don’t sugarcoat stuff I am just giving you some tough love and REAL game.
Again being a virgin is hard and my solution is NOT to be a hoe but it IS to stop dating hoes.
Watch the video I went into more detail…
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Facts. Certain men fetishize women who have purity.
No. It is not a fetish, but a spiritual connection.
(1) Rather, it is because your body is living temple of god where the spirit of god dwells richly within you. Why defile it?! God says, "Run from promiscuity. Any other sin a person commits is outside his body, but by illicit sex acts a person sins against his own body. And don't you know that your body is a temple of the holy spirit within you, given to you by God, and that you do not belong to yourselves? No! You were bought by God for a price. Then make your bodies glorify God." (1 Corinthians 6)
You are only born potentially pure. Being pure is not only in body, but in being and in becoming. It requires a whole change of mindset and being to become pure again if you are defiled.
"As a young man marries a young woman, so will your Builder marry you; as a bridegroom rejoices over his bride, so will your God rejoice over you." - Isaiah 62:5
If God rejoices over you and all the host of heaven and your body is the temple of his spirit, then glorify God. A man that sees that will honor and rejoice in that spiritual temple of god.
(2) Men still pay a dowry for women in many countries this day. Why should they pay for a bitten apple? Better yet, why should they pay for an apple with a rotten mindset that does not view themselves as a temple of the holy spirit?
(3) It is not a fetish, but rather this is what is commanded by that god in the Bible if you really love him and dedicated your life to him. And that lady in the video claimed to be Christian. Here is what Her own Bible says:
"Love is patient..." (1 Cor. 13:2-7)
"A man's greatest treasure is his wife--she is a gift from the LORD." - Proverbs 18:22 (CEV). Why pay a dowry for a prostitute or fornicator? That dowry is worth less or none at all.
"Marriage should be held in honor, and the marriage bed kept pure; for God will judge the adulterer and all the fornicators." - Hebrews 13:4
Some exceptions: However, if the woman is divorced or widowed, she is still pure because she kept the marriage bed pure. So, she is a woman of valor. Purity is a way of life including within marriage, not just a mere action of doing. You are pure, not just have purity. You can have purity before or after marriage with kids.
Comment: There is nothing hard about waiting for marriage to have sex if you not only dedicate your heart, mind and being to God, but change your being and conform your mind anew. And feeling horny is natural. It is a gift. Some people don't have that. You can give it to your husband. Don't be manipulated by
Jesus said, "Don't give your holy of holies to dogs. Don't cast your jewels at the feet of pigs, or else they'll trample them with their hooves and then swing round and knock you down." (Matthew 7).
This is especially true if they are not a part of your religious foundation when it comes to sex before marriage. So, it truly is not beneficial to reveal yourself to a spiritually dead person, just like it is not beneficial to reveal to an enemy where your nation's secret technology is. This is a spiritual warfare and a spiritual mindset, and those not in your camp are your spiritual enemies by default unless they have proven themselves by dedicating their entire being to your cause and your group and your god.
I wish I'd seen this video about seven years ago. I'm not in Japan but my first bf was such a *bum* and made my every first (first everything) a traumatic, unpleasant experience. I've never been on apps nor in Japan before, but what Rin says applies to RL in other countries too. Men are men everywhere and she's giving it to us straight no chaser. I still watch cuz I love to hear her talk sense😂😂
Im 21 and im virgin and im proud of it because almost all my friends are pregnant and im waiting for marriage and im dating older japanese guy and i told him if he does not want me because im virgin he çan leave the door is always open to leave and im going to Japan soon to meet him but im not in hurry to have sex
Very interesting video 🔥❤❤
Thank you for watching!💝