When he ignores the text... let them know how you feel and move on. Makes no sense to repress your feelings and make no sense to continue waiting. You deserve respect!
When he muted you or temporarily blocks you on text, just let him know you’ve no time for his games. Call his bullshits out and give him all the space he wants in the world. It’s not a revenge, it’s just that you need not continue to prioritize people who don’t prioritize you and you also have better options out there.
Why would you let him know when he knows already that he ignored you that’s dumb let’s just move on instead and live our lives stop giving people who don’t care about you a reaction ladies it’s not worth it
Basically do not get involved in a relationship unless you have figured yourself out, feel confident, strong in your own self not getting affected by what others might do or not do. To me the solution starts with ourselves. Thank God I'm not 21 anymore. 🙌😋
Whenever someone does this, I simply delete his or her phone number. I do not tollerate the lack of respect. After deleting their phone number, they suddenly wake up and write to me and then I ignore them. Life goes on. I've got no time for these stupid games
True! I should do that, I thought I have a connection with him, he made plans to have dinner when he come back from vacations, yesterday he texted me, I responded and he never texted me back. 🙄
@@carlel121 it takes two minutes or less to text to someone. Treat him the way he treats you! Indifference is the best answer. But most of all remember what you deserve and know your worth! Do not waste your life!
I am not ignoring him out of anger or spite, I chose not to text him after he didn’t respond to my texts and last text he “no read”, I think texting him back telling him how I feel about him not texting is me being disrespectful to myself. He either lost interest or he is a rude person. I had no skin in the game so I am moving on. It has been 27 days no contact so he definitely moved on!
If he ignores your text then ignore his text back if he does text u back and wait a day to respond back to his text to make him think you were busy. Don’t respond to his text immediately.
This is my weakness. Each time he replied, I replied within two hours but we are adults. No game. He is gone now I think. It's very hurtful and humiliating. His last text was 4 days ago " i miss having you around " I replied nicely. He is abroad starting new business. Very busy..when we started taking he was still in my country where he lives and works. I guess I walked into a trap of manipulation idk. Hope the pain will fade soon 😢 He told me to write if zi felt confused and having doubts, said he understood but he was confident to be back soon and meet and build sonething beautiful together He only called me 3 times in the first weeks. We almost met for a date but I didn't have time and the next time he had a flu with fever etc. Then he went on vacation to recover ftom stress and found a business oppertunity there. Well. Good part is no more stress but you still keep wondering.
Thanks for this video! I just leave the door open and send him a text once in a while wishing him well and letting him know I'm thinking about him. No self-pity, no worrying about what I did wrong because I can't know unless he tells me, nothing like that. He's explained how busy he is and I've accepted that he's not willing to make time for me for whatever reason. Nothing I can do or say to fix that and that's okay.
Nice post but , ignoring back doesn’t necessarily mean that one wants to get rid of him , if we feel hurt or upset I feel it’s best to get into a space of calmness and peace before responding and moving forward
I already made these mistakes 😢😂 i mean, my reaction was justified in my situation. Let me explain: he flaked me twice successively without giving me any reasons, i had only "i will call you, i have problems". I waited for few days and he came back. But that situation had already happened to me once and he knows i do not appreciate this behavior. When he came back to me, i naturally asked if his problem was fixed and what it was. He responded to the first question, but not to the second one. I then sent him a kinda reminder which he did not respond to. I said "every time i am writing i have no response. Should i stop writing?" = no response. I was very frustrated that i ended up saying "sorry, i think i am brothering you. I got it". First, it was not respectful not to respond, second, i had no justification for him flaking me the other time / not even a sorry, third he comes back with no justification. My patience has limits as well.
If it's someone you have just met then delete them and move on know your worth . If it's someone who has been into you one min then all of a sudden starts ignoring you then you need to ask what there problem is ! If they give you a bs answer then you know there playing games and probably were never really interested in the first place
I think I know what I did.... first, he was not that into me to begin with 😔😔 second, I drank a little too much when I was with him, so I was super clingy.... this might have killed any physical attraction. 😔😔 there is nothing I can do right now. Time will decrease my pain 😔😔😔😔
I’m having this right now it’s happened 3 times already and his excuse is I’ve been ill each time the longest was 4 months I just deleted him of Facebook I’m 42 I don’t wanna be playing these games I’m happy being single 😊😊😊😊
He use to care about my feelings he used to care about calling texting me he use to want to come home to me now he thinks he has the upper hand because he's ignoring my calls and texts
abc: You'll be constantly asking that question. Ive had several men recently either takes days to respond to a message or they ignore my message, the longest was 2 weeks to respond. I cut them off. You look at their actions. If they cannot text back in a decent time, get rid. If they treat you like shit, get rid. If they are controlling, insult you in any way, mess you about or just want sex and its not reciprocated, get rid of them. They will not be honest, most bullshit their way out of things or they just ghost now. I'm sure women do it too but this is just my experience. Don't take shit from them. I give them one chance, they do it again and im out...it doesn't bother me anymore, not sitting like a twat wondering what went wrong, i used to do that years ago and its a complete waste of time and energy and they really just aren't worth it. If someone really does like you, they will make the effort.
Use your words... "Sorry, Im sure you're a great person but I just don't see us together, so it would be best if we end this here bcuz I don't want to hurt your feelings. Sorry, I'm terribly busy with so many things and I know you really want to talk but that's not possible for me. I don't want to hurt your feelings but I have focus elsewhere. I hope you can understand.
This has recently happened to me. 6 hours passed without a response but he was active meanwhile. So eventually I decided to block him. Way too annoying and disrespectful.
Yes because when he asked me out for a year and a half and now it's I love you sorry I'm busy with work. It makes me crazy. Why not just break up with me ?
Therefore, whatever you want men to do to you, do also to them, for this is the Law and the Prophets. Matthew 7:12 NKJV Show others how you would like to be treated , in action . If you want to be loved show love even when they aren't. Teach them and don't play the game of mirroring what they do
I am colombian and my man is american , I am overly sweet he is not as much. Every time I see something that bothers me I communicate and have worked.. is not perfect but he put effort. Communication is key, you gotta be forward.
Matt What if you've been out of contact again for awhile. Then he slowing stops dropping hints, likes one of your posts, posts a song, and then finally posts something on one of his outdated profiles (the only one you're on) hinting about some health issues he having. So, you finally take the bait and message. Both of you message back and forth for 3 days. Just once a day each, in depth about real life current issue, length of text increasing in length progressively, by each of us. All going well, then after the 3 days, he stops for 2 days. I know not to do anything more until he does. But, I just dont understand what's going on.
Please, may I ask some things? 1) Is it normal to text someone, and them replying to you 1 month later, or even 3-4 months later ? 2) Does family play a role here? For instance, if you are single, but they have a big family to care, is it still normal for them to take 3 months to answer you back? 3) Is it normal that you are texting them to inform them that you had a recent loss (pet loss, but that's not umimportant, right?) and them not replying at all for 1 month or more ? 4) Is it normal that you inform someone (in physical presence) that your animal is actually dying, and them replying "Ok", then start the car engine on, and leave you on the cold, without asking if you need any help with the dying animal? The questions above are for separate cases I have experienced. Thanks :)
1 and 2 can be debatable but 3 and 4, especially when something happened in ur life you cared about is gone, and they just shrugged it off with an 'ok'... It's definitely a person uninterested to u. Or anyone who isn't bothered to say anything emphatic. Imo.
In my humble opinion none of the above are normal nor typical for most. Scatch that. Simply not being typical or the norm arent necessarily the right words or reason. The word i mean is unacceptable. I find that as unacceptable behavior. I would just let go of those people and move on.
I have a friend like this. And it's not a romantic thing though. She used to be close when we were in school now she doesn't reply to my texts and almost never see them it's been a month
I always make an effort to call everyone back, but sometimes there's the type that want you to drive to them, never the other way around. And they want you to keep them company doing something you don't particularly want to do. If I'm super busy and I don't want to have to make a person like that feel bad by saying no, I just ignore their call or call them back in a few days.
Hi I'm confused you said if they ignore you not to ignore them back. Please explain cause you just said not to text or chase them. So when they ignore you and give you the silent treatment what are we to do?
I text my boyfriend he didn't reply back until a day later, so I reply back and I haven't hurd from him, so this morning I went and delete the massage I send I don't know what to do
What would you say it means if someone ignores you on one platform but not on any others? I have a new friend who used to read my Instagram msgs and reply but has stopped even reading them. She still interacts with me on facebook, still sends me text msgs…she will post a story on Instagram (where’s she’s ignored a few different msgs from me, sent on different days) and then she will go over to Facebook and comment on one of my posts or send me a text. It seems like a game of some kind but I don’t see why it’s happening. I know for sure she knows I’ve sent her a few messages and she is not reading them on purpose.
He use to care he use to want to text me but now it's all my fault I'm texting hom to much I'm the one sending messages that he doesn't want to respond to be ause he says I'm picking a fight when he won't tell me why he takes so long to get back home after dropping off a couple worker off after work he refuses to tell me what time he will be home he's says we'll I'd rather just honk the the horn then give a time on when I'll be home at all
My friend just Sees my message we both treat ourself like brothers two Years and He just ignored me he Post Facebook like mostly if people Doenst Understand Me like me..seriously I help him alot but u being useless to my friend...qnq
Me and my guy had a full way and he ignores my text but he started doing this before 🤷🏻♀️ he was seeing my value before don’t make sense I acknowledge something I said or did May have put him off. 😮
Matt.......... Question.... kinda random but um, Do I go down the slide alone or accompanied by another person and if so, would you recommend I go down with or without the water on....? 🤦👌
He doesn't care .
It hurts, but you can't make someone care.
Respect yourself, and realize you can't make someone have feelings. He is not your match.
When he ignores the text... let them know how you feel and move on. Makes no sense to repress your feelings and make no sense to continue waiting. You deserve respect!
💯💯💯💯
not me litterly wanting to cry cuz he wasnt texted me back all day lol
When he muted you or temporarily blocks you on text, just let him know you’ve no time for his games. Call his bullshits out and give him all the space he wants in the world. It’s not a revenge, it’s just that you need not continue to prioritize people who don’t prioritize you and you also have better options out there.
Why would you let him know when he knows already that he ignored you that’s dumb let’s just move on instead and live our lives stop giving people who don’t care about you a reaction ladies it’s not worth it
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No response is a response
Text me would explain how it works +1 2 0 4 8 0 8 2 2 3 4..!!!!!!!!
He is indeed problem a problem solve
rosa lies and scams! Just stop get a real job
Exactly!
Perfect
Mirror his action Period
YASSS THIKKK
I do that!
Basically do not get involved in a relationship unless you have figured yourself out, feel confident, strong in your own self not getting affected by what others might do or not do. To me the solution starts with ourselves. Thank God I'm not 21 anymore. 🙌😋
I say move on without him,he ain't worth your time if he can't understand your value.
What value What you bring to the table
Effort = interest = effort
If he ignores you he doesn't like you. Move along swiftly
Whenever someone does this, I simply delete his or her phone number. I do not tollerate the lack of respect.
After deleting their phone number, they suddenly wake up and write to me and then I ignore them. Life goes on. I've got no time for these stupid games
True! I should do that, I thought I have a connection with him, he made plans to have dinner when he come back from vacations, yesterday he texted me, I responded and he never texted me back. 🙄
@@carlel121 it takes two minutes or less to text to someone. Treat him the way he treats you! Indifference is the best answer. But most of all remember what you deserve and know your worth! Do not waste your life!
Don’t text them back !! it’s all games !!! trust me everytime he will do it again and it’s the same games ! Block them
I don’t make mistakes.. he did it by ignoring me😌⚔️
Text me would explain how it works +1 2 0 4 8 0 8 2 2 3 4..!!!!!!!!
He is indeed problem a problem solve
ignoring them back doesnt work if they dont care about you in the first place
So what we must do
@@rojinaltin7934 move on
@rojinaltin7934 You cannot do anything. You have to move on. You cannot force another person to like you or talk to you..
@@Leo-pv9ziyes u are right thats what i will do
I am not ignoring him out of anger or spite, I chose not to text him after he didn’t respond to my texts and last text he “no read”, I think texting him back telling him how I feel about him not texting is me being disrespectful to myself. He either lost interest or he is a rude person. I had no skin in the game so I am moving on. It has been 27 days no contact so he definitely moved on!
If he ignores your text then ignore his text back if he does text u back and wait a day to respond back to his text to make him think you were busy. Don’t respond to his text immediately.
Exactly
I m gonna do this!
Thank you so much❤
This is my weakness. Each time he replied, I replied within two hours but we are adults. No game.
He is gone now I think. It's very hurtful and humiliating.
His last text was 4 days ago " i miss having you around "
I replied nicely.
He is abroad starting new business. Very busy..when we started taking he was still in my country where he lives and works.
I guess I walked into a trap of manipulation idk.
Hope the pain will fade soon 😢
He told me to write if zi felt confused and having doubts, said he understood but he was confident to be back soon and meet and build sonething beautiful together
He only called me 3 times in the first weeks.
We almost met for a date but I didn't have time and the next time he had a flu with fever etc. Then he went on vacation to recover ftom stress and found a business oppertunity there.
Well.
Good part is no more stress but you still keep wondering.
Mirror their behaviour
BOOM! Give them the same energy. Give ppl what they give you.
@@iwantcrystals God's words says treat others how you would like to be treated. It doesn't say treat others how they treat you . 💯
Therefore, whatever you want men to do to you, do also to them, for this is the Law and the Prophets.
Matthew 7:12 NKJV
I don't get frustrated with anyone who doesn't reply to me but I do have hard and nervous feelings about it because I feel like they might cut me off.
same here
Me too but I move on there’s no chances when you don’t reply back within 10 days . no excuses for that like bye ✌🏾
Thanks for this video! I just leave the door open and send him a text once in a while wishing him well and letting him know I'm thinking about him. No self-pity, no worrying about what I did wrong because I can't know unless he tells me, nothing like that. He's explained how busy he is and I've accepted that he's not willing to make time for me for whatever reason. Nothing I can do or say to fix that and that's okay.
If a guy ignores your text, he is telling you to get lost. It’s rude and IMMATURE so do yourself a favor and move on.
Not always
@@redfather5342 or he’s manipulating you. In that case you should also get lost.
Or he's manipulating you to feel rejected, insecure, and be obsessed so that you panic and start chasing him.
@@basicinfo2022 💯
Nice post but , ignoring back doesn’t necessarily mean that one wants to get rid of him , if we feel hurt or upset I feel it’s best to get into a space of calmness and peace before responding and moving forward
It’s always the woman’s fault 🙄🙄🙄
I would say do nothing and move on.
That’s what I did, that make so sense thank you
I will do the same
Mad disrespectful like leave a man who ignores me ... like if you like me you would enjoy my presence ❤
Just ignore him back, simple
I ignore them back
It's hard if you fear abandonment.
I'm going to pretend I did none of this
Lol
Lmao
Lol, I hear you. I did a lot of this. Embarrassing. He did leave. Oh well, I caused him to leave.
We hve all done it😂
😅
He was giving me a lot of compliments and he told me I don’t compare to any of the other girls that he talks to.
its either bro dosent care or bros running from the cops with a 5 star wanted level
I already made these mistakes 😢😂 i mean, my reaction was justified in my situation. Let me explain: he flaked me twice successively without giving me any reasons, i had only "i will call you, i have problems". I waited for few days and he came back. But that situation had already happened to me once and he knows i do not appreciate this behavior. When he came back to me, i naturally asked if his problem was fixed and what it was. He responded to the first question, but not to the second one. I then sent him a kinda reminder which he did not respond to. I said "every time i am writing i have no response. Should i stop writing?" = no response. I was very frustrated that i ended up saying "sorry, i think i am brothering you. I got it". First, it was not respectful not to respond, second, i had no justification for him flaking me the other time / not even a sorry, third he comes back with no justification. My patience has limits as well.
If it's someone you have just met then delete them and move on know your worth . If it's someone who has been into you one min then all of a sudden starts ignoring you then you need to ask what there problem is ! If they give you a bs answer then you know there playing games and probably were never really interested in the first place
I think I know what I did.... first, he was not that into me to begin with 😔😔 second, I drank a little too much when I was with him, so I was super clingy.... this might have killed any physical attraction. 😔😔 there is nothing I can do right now. Time will decrease my pain 😔😔😔😔
I’m having this right now it’s happened 3 times already and his excuse is I’ve been ill each time the longest was 4 months I just deleted him of Facebook I’m 42 I don’t wanna be playing these games I’m happy being single 😊😊😊😊
Yes ❤
It hurts and it's painful when someone ignores you
When he's ignoring me, I ask him if he's vex and he responds immediately. So just go with your feelings here. Don't over analize.
He use to care about my feelings he used to care about calling texting me he use to want to come home to me now he thinks he has the upper hand because he's ignoring my calls and texts
Same here.i am in so much pain😢
Matt my problem I'm having is why cant he be honest
abc: You'll be constantly asking that question. Ive had several men recently either takes days to respond to a message or they ignore my message, the longest was 2 weeks to respond. I cut them off. You look at their actions. If they cannot text back in a decent time, get rid. If they treat you like shit, get rid. If they are controlling, insult you in any way, mess you about or just want sex and its not reciprocated, get rid of them. They will not be honest, most bullshit their way out of things or they just ghost now. I'm sure women do it too but this is just my experience. Don't take shit from them. I give them one chance, they do it again and im out...it doesn't bother me anymore, not sitting like a twat wondering what went wrong, i used to do that years ago and its a complete waste of time and energy and they really just aren't worth it. If someone really does like you, they will make the effort.
Use your words...
"Sorry, Im sure you're a great person but I just don't see us together, so it would be best if we end this here bcuz I don't want to hurt your feelings.
Sorry, I'm terribly busy with so many things and I know you really want to talk but that's not possible for me. I don't want to hurt your feelings but I have focus elsewhere. I hope you can understand.
This has recently happened to me. 6 hours passed without a response but he was active meanwhile. So eventually I decided to block him. Way too annoying and disrespectful.
You are crazy.
Yes because when he asked me out for a year and a half and now it's I love you sorry I'm busy with work. It makes me crazy. Why not just break up with me ?
Hi Matt, I'm missing the solution in this video. Thx.
Me too.
Ong
Yeah kinda sounds like I gotta read his mind to figure him out vibe and that's exhausting.
Therefore, whatever you want men to do to you, do also to them, for this is the Law and the Prophets.
Matthew 7:12 NKJV
Show others how you would like to be treated , in action . If you want to be loved show love even when they aren't. Teach them and don't play the game of mirroring what they do
You’re absolutely right! People want to be cold hearted so bad!
I guess when someone takes the time and effort to block you on Facebook, they are no longer interested in pursuing a friendship.
It’s not a dating thing tho. I have a friend who just out of the blue just ignored me.
I think that's when they met someone else
@@MonicaThomas-ig7zk yeah probably
Yeah same here
I am colombian and my man is american , I am overly sweet he is not as much. Every time I see something that bothers me I communicate and have worked.. is not perfect but he put effort. Communication is key, you gotta be forward.
The worst part is he texted me, I replied about 40 minutes after and he didn’t reply back!
Matt
What if you've been out of contact again for awhile.
Then he slowing stops dropping hints, likes one of your posts, posts a song, and then finally posts something on one of his outdated profiles (the only one you're on) hinting about some health issues he having.
So, you finally take the bait and message.
Both of you message back and forth for 3 days. Just once a day each, in depth about real life current issue, length of text increasing in length progressively, by each of us.
All going well, then after the 3 days, he stops for 2 days.
I know not to do anything more until he does.
But, I just dont understand what's going on.
Happen same with my date.. Can someone tell me why
Hey... you gonna ignore me like that?
...
Forever?
@@КристиянТрънбашев-м9о If I girl likes you, you'll know. If you have to guess than she is either playing games or not worth the effort.
Lol I lost him! Lol I like to have a conversation! I will not text him no more
i dont have a crush on him he's just my classmates..
How to talk at the first date if he finds me unattractive? Love from Naga girl
Why would you !? Just leave
Please, may I ask some things?
1) Is it normal to text someone, and them replying to you 1 month later, or even 3-4 months later ?
2) Does family play a role here? For instance, if you are single, but they have a big family to care, is it still normal for them to take 3 months to answer you back?
3) Is it normal that you are texting them to inform them that you had a recent loss (pet loss, but that's not umimportant, right?) and them not replying at all for 1 month or more ?
4) Is it normal that you inform someone (in physical presence) that your animal is actually dying, and them replying "Ok", then start the car engine on, and leave you on the cold, without asking if you need any help with the dying animal?
The questions above are for separate cases I have experienced.
Thanks :)
Ofc that’s not normal wtf?
I think you know the answer to this.....
1 and 2 can be debatable but 3 and 4, especially when something happened in ur life you cared about is gone, and they just shrugged it off with an 'ok'... It's definitely a person uninterested to u. Or anyone who isn't bothered to say anything emphatic. Imo.
In my humble opinion none of the above are normal nor typical for most. Scatch that. Simply not being typical or the norm arent necessarily the right words or reason. The word i mean is unacceptable. I find that as unacceptable behavior. I would just let go of those people and move on.
I have a friend like this. And it's not a romantic thing though. She used to be close when we were in school now she doesn't reply to my texts and almost never see them it's been a month
I always make an effort to call everyone back, but sometimes there's the type that want you to drive to them, never the other way around. And they want you to keep them company doing something you don't particularly want to do. If I'm super busy and I don't want to have to make a person like that feel bad by saying no, I just ignore their call or call them back in a few days.
Thank you for this. 😪
Any time!
So where is the rest of the video? I’m hearing what not to do but you state that you’ll be saying what you need to do….where is that? Thanks
He is not texting back or calling back like he said he would.
What I don't understand is if he was the one to give the number
How much texting is too much to go back on?
f the text , when I was in my 20's we had a phone connected to a wall , and a busy signal , less drama
Hi I'm confused you said if they ignore you not to ignore them back. Please explain cause you just said not to text or chase them. So when they ignore you and give you the silent treatment what are we to do?
Ignoring someone means that you don't respond back to them... that's different than reaching out to them (or not reaching out to them).
@@MatthewCoast Gracias 😊
I text my boyfriend he didn't reply back until a day later, so I reply back and I haven't hurd from him, so this morning I went and delete the massage I send I don't know what to do
What would you say it means if someone ignores you on one platform but not on any others? I have a new friend who used to read my Instagram msgs and reply but has stopped even reading them. She still interacts with me on facebook, still sends me text msgs…she will post a story on Instagram (where’s she’s ignored a few different msgs from me, sent on different days) and then she will go over to Facebook and comment on one of my posts or send me a text. It seems like a game of some kind but I don’t see why it’s happening. I know for sure she knows I’ve sent her a few messages and she is not reading them on purpose.
Move on
Great content but I also have to say something.. you’re so cute in this video!
😊 Thank you kindly
Thanks!
Thanks too!
He is ghosting me and dosnet like me
Or there done useing u getting what they wanted so it's over so it's stupid cause really friends talk to u not ghost u
What if he’s a priest
What if he says , " Oh I thought I answered you " 🤔
He is fooling around u.
Leave him on read
He use to care he use to want to text me but now it's all my fault I'm texting hom to much I'm the one sending messages that he doesn't want to respond to be ause he says I'm picking a fight when he won't tell me why he takes so long to get back home after dropping off a couple worker off after work he refuses to tell me what time he will be home he's says we'll I'd rather just honk the the horn then give a time on when I'll be home at all
My friend just Sees my message we both treat ourself like brothers two Years and He just ignored me he Post Facebook like mostly if people Doenst Understand Me like me..seriously I help him alot but u being useless to my friend...qnq
Block 📵
If he’s not that attracted to you. Why bother staying there 🥱
Me and my guy had a full way and he ignores my text but he started doing this before 🤷🏻♀️ he was seeing my value before don’t make sense I acknowledge something I said or did May have put him off. 😮
Are you assuming all these chick's have been perfect? Please bro
😅🎉
Thanks!
Thank you, Ash
Matt.......... Question.... kinda random but um, Do I go down the slide alone or accompanied by another person and if so, would you recommend I go down with or without the water on....? 🤦👌
@@MatthewCoast sorry for seeming strange but it is a very valid question.... 🤷😚