Masculine energy is known as “doing” action-oriented things, competitive, being assertive, driven, independent, and implementing leadership like qualities that set an individual up for success in this world. You constantly have goals you are striving to achieve while maintaining security and stability. There is generally a mission that’s being pursued to reach a level of accomplishment and productivity. Masculinity is all about the force of energy. On the other hand, feminine energy is about “being” present, using your soft skills, building a connection, feeling-oriented, free-flowing, and caring. You allow things to move gracefully while letting your heart guide you through your relationship. You are aligned with your values and open to receiving exactly what you deserve. And while you flourish with elegance, you remain true to your feminine power.
Lol and what happens when we give we get drained, frustrated,tired especially over give and over do. So we need to respond to men's giving so in balance ⚖️
“Learning to express your feelings without drama” boooom *drops mic* I beg my generation let’s pledge to teach our daughters the biological gender energies a gender neutral society is NOT what we should be striving for! let’s stop pitting our women against our men by saying we need gender equality!! We live in a patriarchal hierarchy and THANK GOD feminine energy is not orderly, logistical, or systematical!!!
Adrienne Everheart's Love Academy yes ma’am!!!! If you look at cell division (life creation) from under a microscope you will see the cells attract and pull apart with the exact same polarity you are talking about!!! This is life baby! Some enlightening stuff!!! Btw I have a total girl crush on you! Thank you for spreading the love and knowledge 😘
EVERYONE, male or female DOES have to PROVE they are worthy, and yes you DO have to do things to be worthy. That is a law of nature. You don't get any automatic value just by being born female. That sort of Disney Princess horse shit lying is what make men hate women.
Kelly Vincent oh dearie me, that's a sense of entitlement. Majority of women are damaged so are unworthy narcissistic reprobates riddled with vanity. Women of noble character do exist but they're few and far between.
Masculine energy is known as “doing” action-oriented things, competitive, being assertive, driven, independent, and implementing leadership like qualities that set an individual up for success in this world. You constantly have goals you are striving to achieve while maintaining security and stability. There is generally a mission that’s being pursued to reach a level of accomplishment and productivity. Masculinity is all about the force of energy. On the other hand, feminine energy is about “being” present, using your soft skills, building a connection, feeling-oriented, free-flowing, and caring. You allow things to move gracefully while letting your heart guide you through your relationship. You are aligned with your values and open to receiving exactly what you deserve. And while you flourish with elegance, you remain true to your feminine power.
wait ladies. most masculine men i know dont just go up to random women and talk to them. you still have to give some signals that you're interested because we dont give a damn about a random woman who's just not interested. dont just sit there. smile at him once or twice. we love women who show interest but are not attached too much. speaking through experience. of course do whatever you wanna do. if it works, fine :)
I love how you encourage us to feel and share our feelings in mature authentic ways. Because thats who we are as feminine females: feelers and sharers. I absolutely love your concepts because they encourage us to BE. Just BE. And i love love love it!! Thank you so much.
so the number one thing is just focusing on yourself. Don’t think too much… just feel & then express yourself…. Don’t put your energy on him, put it on yourself instead! That’s how I understood this video:)
I am so feminine and everyone tells me that. I glorify my femininity but didn t realize that i am acting too much by my masculine energy. I really find myself, this is what i m looking for. So inspiring thanks my dear. Much love and respect xoxo
Think of your feminine energy as very receiving goddess like energy, all focused on you and your projects / success and sitting on your thrown to receive the equal vibration of you. AKA twin flame!! 🔥
I need to say that I love when you say that many women pursue men thru FB, Instagram , check his photos and “text, and text, and text and text”..........ha ha ha. That made me laugh so much cuz it is so true! The problem is when I tell a girlfriend about leave that man alone and lean back and turn her energy toward herself but she doesn’t understand and keeps on pursuing him and eventually that man pulls away because he feels so overwhelmed .
So true! It's really about balancing your boy's drive to DO and take ACTION with your girl's ability to receive. It takes practice and good you are encouraging your friend. xoxo!
I have one friend that told me his wife calls him 10 times if she can’t reach him . Another one that his wife calls him sometimes up to 17 times and leaves 10 voicemails. My God I tell them please tell your wife to get a life ! Ha , ha . I call 2 times tops or text him once . Eventually the man will show up when he can or want to ! But we have to learn to be happy on our own and let them add to that happiness . I learned that thru the hard way !
Wow...I did all of the things we aren’t supposed to do to my husband when we were dating...while dating he once told me that I was suffocating him, Lol. He still asked me to marry him after that...we’re in year 6 with two children. He’s a great man...I’m starting to wonder why he stayed and not ran...I’ve been looking for videos on how to be the best version of myself as a woman and this video was recommended lol!
I've had a big realization. I am a female stuck in my masculine energy too much. Probably comes from working in male dominated industries all my life (oil & gas, mining, bar industry). I have developed a tough exterior shell and I do everything for myself, I have a hard time allowing a man to do things for me. Example: at the grocery store I want to carry my own bags, I want to pump my own gas, do things for myself. I have a hard time being vulnerable around a man. I always want to show off my driving skills, or that I can do things that a man can do I have been told by men that I make them feel emasculated. If I want to find a masculine king, I need to be more feminine.
Hugs to you! 💕 Yes, this is a lot of the issues in relationships. The 2 masculine energies are like rams on the mountaintop! FEMM Tools is a great place to start! bit.ly/femmtools
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The part about how I've changed...made me angry-happy haha I definitely changed and it was so painful even for me. I'm sure it was for the man. I'm learning how to put my energy back on myself now. Thank you Adrienne!
Wonderful video, thanks for sharing your knowledge. I'm currently working through past personal traumas n since finding content like this I realized how much trauma can pull you away from your feminine energy n into the masculine or just being stagnant Getting in touch with your own feminine n also recognising it in the strong women around myself is healing on many levels Thanks for the video
It can absolutely feel overwhelming at first. It’s like learning a new language. Yet go slow, give it time and just practice one tool at a time. Feminine energy will begin showing results and this will speed your desire, patience and ability to learn. Much love to you. bit.ly/femmtools
I love being in my feminine energy. But, when I meet a man that doesn’t do well in his masculine energy I switch up so quick. I hate seeing it all crumble in the name of “staying in character”
Yes, many men are lazy these days because SO many women are doing it for them. Worry not, you will switch up your karmic vibe and begin attracting the right man. It takes time and consistency. Keep learning! www.everheartcoaching.com/courses
You just really nailed it with this one Adrienne! This was so helpfull thank you! You just described my life in a nutshell here... This is the video every women should watch. Thank you ❤️
This is difficult really 😂 I am a boss at My work and really have a lot of masculine energy. I am. Currently in a great long distance relationship with a man from Italy who aims to meet me in a few months. And I can't help but feel a bit anxious as to whether this will really happen. I know he loves me and he does express this often. But there are also times when he is totally in his weekday workzone mode where I don't feel like I matter too much to him because he's busy. It's times like these when I feel like I have to be talking to him and in control. But I'm slowly learning that I need to just lean back. And let him come around. It's quite difficult but I realize I am a busy woman and do have a lot going on so it's step by step just getting into my body.
This is good advice for the start of dating or within a healthy situation. But a woman in an abusive relationship, ends up having to lock on and focus on him in order to watch for cues in order to survive/walk on eggshells. Same yang energy focusing on him but out of fear, not for interest in love. Pulling back into the soft, vast, powerful femme energy works to diminish his control in magical ways too!
Thank you 💗 i tend to do a lot in a relationship from a kind place now I'm thinking that I possibly lived in my male energy too much. I'm a single mom so it's hard for me to sit back as I have to do ... especially when my ex bf wasn't focused on the new family unit just himself. I guess there's a balance to be struck. I was more successful at work as regards income which I think had a very negative impact as he let me help him out financially. Lessons learned from this video big time. It can be hard to come out of your male energy when you have a lot of responsibility ... but I'll def try esp if we reunite 💗 x
I think the idea that men want confident women is a myth. Men want attractive women, and attractive women are confident. A woman who is so pretty that many men chase her will naturally become confident. The confidence is secondary to her already being pretty/beautiful/whatever you want to call it. The men are chasing her because she is beautiful, and she is confident because the men chase her. But no amount of confidence will replace that natural beauty, and it is the natural beauty that the men are seeking. In short, look better, and men will begin to chase you and you will start to gain confidence. Focus on your appearance first.
All of my clients are attractive and what I consider drop dead gorgeous, so this falls flat in my experience, yet you're entitled to have your opinion. When I was single, I saw lots of what I felt were just average girls happily married. My ex married a girl that imho is quite plain. Looks are important but the best sex and looks will not keep a man around if he doesn't connect to your heart.
I agree that beauty alone will not keep a man around. But a threshold of beauty is required to gain initial interest in the first place. With the obesity epidemic going on, most women are not pretty enough to gain the initial attraction.
Eli Nope thats called an ego boost! Ego destroys everything, including healthy relationship in fact, you cant sustain a healthy relationship based on ego! Dont be a fool...selflove is whats going to help you build a relationship with yourself and a person of your interest!
Anya Vladim I absolutely agree that self love is very important. People who love themselves take care of thier body and become more physically beatiful as a result of this self love.
What Not To Do At a Stoplight Sure, I will agree with "healthy" women being the attractive ones. But due to the obesity epidemic, 2/3rds of women are unhealthy by fat alone. Other health problems chip away at the remaining 3rd so that only one in five women are healthy enough to be attractive. The very first thing a woman who has difficulty getting a man should ask herself is "am I over 30% bodyfat?" Because if they are this means they are by definition unhealthy and this problem alone accounts for more than half the women in the US.
Proverbs 31:25 is one of my most favorite scriptures. I know it by heart just don't remember the verse number till I looked Proverbs 31 up haahaha. 'She is clothed with strength & dignity and she laughs without fear of the future'.
They can! That's why this video exists, so women can receive more easily from men which is their natural thing to DO. This balances it all. Love to you!
That line "for powerful dynamite women it might be hard to lean back and trust the man that he'll turn the ship around" hit me so hard. In my case I always wanted to be the pursuer. It felt good and felt dominating. And guess what I'm on my third heart break ryt now🙈
Hugs to you! 🥰 Let the man do the work. Lean back & watch it unfold. I promise you it will feel very different & you will love the results. Learn more in my ABC program bit.ly/ABCGetHimBack
The soul is genderless, you are all divine, your body is just here to help you learn to balance between your female and male energy, may God bless you all in Jesus Name, we love you so much.
Thank you! You are so sweet. Learning to balance the two energies in definitely a journey unique to each person. Explore your feminine energy with my eBook "500 Ways": bit.ly/500waysbook
Adrienne, I am a stay at home mom. I’m confused. So ok, my husband goes to work. And I am here all day thinking about what to cook for him. Sometimes it takes about 2 hours to cook a good dinner. And does this mean that my energy is revolving around him too much? And I also watch a lot of videos to help our relationship stay better. 1 year married
Adrienne, I wonder what happens when we may have met this man that prefers you to be totally absorbed into him? I was married to my first love very early on. Stayed in a horrible marriage for too long. Because he was older than I was. As a teenager, I was still trying to figure out who I was, and what I wanted as far as success in my life I stayed going to school, wanted my degree, stayed learning and growing all the time. But I feel now, being older and wiser, that this guy grew to feel like I didn’t need him. I have a girlfriend who is currently in a similar situation now. Where the man just needs and wants so much attention... that we feel bad when we get absorbed into ourselves. And the man goes elsewhere for attention... Easy out if you’re not married. But what if you are married? This is old I know. But you made me remember this situation. GREAT VIDEO. THANK YOU FOR BEING YOU!!!💋
My fiance has told me in the man in the relationship cause I forget to text him back, he usually calls me first, I'm good with alone time, etc. Guess I should dial up the feminine energy more often. Poor guy
jay hulrs if you’ve found this video, it’s likely because you’re an important, powerful dynamite woman. The energy exchange. You want to balance extremes such as leaning forward too much to what can feel like, to your partner, ignoring him. How to fix this? Be sure to make eye contact with your man, nod and just listen to him at least twice a day so he feels listened to and important. Formulaic at first but then it becomes a healthy habit. 🌹
Drama is not connected to feelings. Drama is connected to poor boundaries. Let’s not get that confused. Certain people invite drama into their world because they tolerate things they shouldn’t or they don’t recognize others and trample over them. Drama isn’t necessarily about feelings, it’s about low emotional IQ. Just my thoughts.
I remember I once cried at work (working at Ernst & Young). I couldn't help it, I tried my best not to, but I couldn't. The day I got the news 2 of my best buddies were leaving. it wasn't "carrer suicide", but it is considered a sign of weakness (specially for men)
Hi Adriane! I broke up with my boyfriend 3 weeks ago and I haven’t heard anything since. Watching this video now I realized that I was in my masculine energy being available all the time and pursuing him. After a year and a half being together he said he’s not ready so I just walked away ( I told him I want something more). I still feel so confused and I am wondering should I reach back to him or should I just leave it as it is? What should I say and what should I do? Thank you in advance if you have time to read this!:)
Actually you did everything perfect imho. You hit the limit in having your boundaries dismissed. You set a boundary. You were in the girlfriend trap and wanted out. This time do it differently: bit.ly/femmtools
So that means I don’t start a conversation, a question, a suggestion, invitation, I only need to receive? I’m sorry but I’m trying to understand why am I 31 and still single!
Nourlentine yes it’s not all black and white. This is about your overall energy and focus. It’s likely you’re single for a number of reasons, not just masculine or feminine energy. Let me ask you: imagine a date with a man where you don’t initiate. You receive. You let the man lead and as topics come up and curiosity presents itself you ask, ponder and feel. Instead of driving the conversation. Let him drive it. You be passenger but also present.
Nourlentine this talk is very stereotypical. What you can take from it is: you start a conversation, for example, because you’re that kind of gal 👍🏻 and you are interested in the guy, then after contact has been established you take your energy back a bit. So he becomes piqued and moves towards you, a bit of a “keep him guessing if you are interested” game. It’s very time consuming and weird if you ask me, but it does work to garner initial interest. After a relationship has been established, who wants to play games? Keep yourself interested in your thing and interesting to him and positive and all shall go well for as long as that relationship is meant to last. Which is not a forever. Really, anymore. However, and this is very important, why have you been single and you’re 31? If you want my honest advice, you need to look at your birth chart and your place of residence. Go to the UAC Chicago website (serious astrologers conference) and call them and ask for an astrologer who does Relocation. Get your birth chart analyzed and get recommendations for relocation. You probably don’t know anything about Astrology or you would already be dating so let me give you an example. In your birth chart there are four angles, one of these angles is the angle of relationships. If you were born with a planet that constricts that angle then you would experience lack of abundance in that area. If you don’t believe me, look at your life. Is there any reason you can give me for being 31 and single? Right? So If you still live where you were born, then that energy continues. Or you might have moved but the energy got strengthened in the new location. To fix this, a relocation astrologer will explain what is going on and will offer you locations that soften that energy and make the abundance in relationships possible. You may want to move. Or you may just go there to find someone and then decide what you do. Sort of go fishing in good waters for you. :D I am sorry to hear that you have had no big love thus far. But there are ways to change that. You can also google “Relocation Astrology”. There are two gentlemen that pop up, Scott Wolfram and ... don’t remember his name. They are both serious. One is more expensive than the other. Meaning, one is not at all expensive. And I have consulted with both of them so I can tell you they are legit. I consulted them for relocation for career, I got the same recommendations from each and I am very very happy with the change. Lastly, once you find someone, call your relocation astrologer and ask for a recommendation on a Relationship Astrologer and he/she can look at both of your birth charts and tell you whether it’s a link that can last, and what you can do to keep the foundation strong. Astrology is about the mathematical relationships (angles and degrees) between celestial bodies. So if it’s a 90 degree relationship between your sun and their sun (your identity), that will be stressful always. But there will be good things too, 30 degrees and 60 degrees between your planets and that’s what you work with. It’s very interesting and very precise. I suppose it’s the difference between buying a large building with no information except that it’s a building you now “own”. And getting an engineer to look at it, he could say: the foundation is strong but there’s water leaking here. Now you know what to deal with. This is the longest post. I just really want you to be able to experience love. Ok so, it may be weird for you to ask people’s birth data when you are just getting to know them. You need to have the birth time. It’s essential. So asking people where they were born and when’s their birthday is easy. We do that all the time. But to know the exact time of birth takes more finesse. What I do, is at a separate moment in time I say: “I just got a post on FB (or a friend just texted me) that says that we are the most productive at the time of day that coincides with the time of day when we were born. Is this possible? Something about circadian rhythms”. And you take it from there. Have him tell you when he feels he’s most productive and then have him check it on his birth certificate. You tell him you’ll do the same. Now you have all that you need to check out what’s possible between you two, to work on the strong, to be aware of the weak parts and be smart about them. Good luck Nourlentine!! 🍀❤️
it's not that extreme. We all love mutual initiation, so i'm sure men will appreciate it if you send a text or suggest something. But be patient and let time do it's own thing. Leaning back means you look at things from a healthier perspective- when you ask "What does he do for me" that's when you see this man objectively (does he text you, does he ask about you, does he suggest anything?). A mistake so many people make is being impatient- wanting things to happen "now!". Well things don't work this way because relationships take time. Sometimes women focus so much on "how to make him my bf" ASAP and it a connection killer.
Nourlentine don't listen to this nutjob. You need to meet a man halfway be kind, friendly, good manners, humorous, courteous let him know subtly you like him but not like a predator. Do NOT focus on self, do NOT get tattoo body piercing or slap heaps of makeup on be natural, kindly and do good deeds be a woman of virtue NOT an entitled brat full of self importance.
Yes, this is true and it makes sense but it usually works when you already want to keep someone,what about initial attraction? Let's just be real that looks are the most important thing when you first meet someone, yes it is true that you need to connect afterwards but if you don't look nice,no one will pursue you
U said..we focus on men. We push energy on them We try to change him. We try to control him. Try to influence him. So WHAT IF ITS THE MAN IS TRYING TO DO THAT ON WOMEN(I'm not yelling at you. I want you to answer this question) So is he using his feminine energy on us??? And is he focusing too much on us...???? When he should be focusing on himself???? *****************👆👆👆👆👆
I hear you. Yes, this can go both ways. The key is to stay in your feminine energy by focusing on your own life, no matter what the man does. This will weed out feminine-energy men who will only drain you and stress you out!
Your absolutely right, and I think most guys are like that.... Most guys like to play games because unfortunately only a rare few are different. "The less difficult ones"
Like this video, I get real impatient with men. Got to just sit back & wait & on them smh. Then when they're ready to so called pursue me I'm not interested. Guess this game isn't for me. 💯👌
I don't understand this emotions part . I have been shamed all my life for being too emotional and crying too much . I just don't understand how people will love me for being emotional
Exactly. Confusing isn’t it? Emotions to get attention or needs met versus finding what you feel without necessarily responding. Read this ➡️bit.ly/500waysbook
Is it true that both men and women have feminine energy? I feel like I'm a man with high polarities of male energy and female energy... How do I relax in my feminine energy and not "freak out" that I'm being too feminine that I think I'm pushing a woman away. In a relationship, will the women understand that men will also sometimes fall into their feminine energy? Or will that repulse woman away? I'm coming from a place of BUILDING A RELATIONSHIP, IN A RELATIONSHIP. Of course while courting, male has to show strong masculine energy... But what happens when courting becomes into something more serious? Is it okay to show your vulnerability and your feminine side as a man?
What about when he has a problem with you or the relationship, he said he feels insecure because he doesn’t feel respected by my friends. How would I help fix this by using feminine energy?
His feelings are his responsibility as a man to solve. Not for you. Keep telling him, "I feel so happy when I'm with you... I trust you will figure it out." Keep reading and learning: www.everheartcoaching.com/ebook
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So when he finally comes back to calling and texting do we just wait like a puppy with open arms? What are the repercussions for a man that pulls away for most of the work week? Legs open on the weekend? I’m very hurt but leaning back doing my own thing. At this point I don’t trust him or care
Absolutely not open and ready. You need clarity on where the relationship is going with this man. I encourage you read '500 Ways to Talk to a Man.' For example you can say: I feel so happy to see you on the weekend, and yeah, I want to get close and make one anther feel good yet during the week I feel so alone, a bit forgotten. What do you think we can do? Let him solve it, but at least you calmly and warmly speak your feelings and open your heart to him.
Feminine Energy Love & Dating love this I will check this suggestion out. I had a feeling he wasn’t honest with me and he was living with his ex wife he told me they do not have a relationship. Of course I don’t believe him. He said he’ll do anything to make it up to me and get me back. I blocked him
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Being feminine is so beautiful
I dont think female energy is only recieving. Female energy has so much giving and nurture.
Masculine energy is known as “doing” action-oriented things, competitive, being assertive, driven, independent, and implementing leadership like qualities that set an individual up for success in this world. You constantly have goals you are striving to achieve while maintaining security and stability. There is generally a mission that’s being pursued to reach a level of accomplishment and productivity. Masculinity is all about the force of energy.
On the other hand, feminine energy is about “being” present, using your soft skills, building a connection, feeling-oriented, free-flowing, and caring. You allow things to move gracefully while letting your heart guide you through your relationship. You are aligned with your values and open to receiving exactly what you deserve. And while you flourish with elegance, you remain true to your feminine power.
Lol and what happens when we give we get drained, frustrated,tired especially over give and over do. So we need to respond to men's giving so in balance ⚖️
@@aniket789 thank you 😊
“Learning to express your feelings without drama” boooom *drops mic* I beg my generation let’s pledge to teach our daughters the biological gender energies a gender neutral society is NOT what we should be striving for! let’s stop pitting our women against our men by saying we need gender equality!! We live in a patriarchal hierarchy and THANK GOD feminine energy is not orderly, logistical, or systematical!!!
So glad you get this! xoxo! Sperm is so different from the egg is it not?
Adrienne Everheart's Love Academy yes ma’am!!!! If you look at cell division (life creation) from under a microscope you will see the cells attract and pull apart with the exact same polarity you are talking about!!! This is life baby! Some enlightening stuff!!! Btw I have a total girl crush on you! Thank you for spreading the love and knowledge 😘
🙌🙌Yes PLEASE!!! I heard a guy say “Women don’t realize that their true power is in their softness”, it’s sooo true.
Men and women are equal but not same. And we don't live in a patriarchical hierarchy it's created when masculinity become over powered
We just have to know we are worth it. We don't need to prove anything or do anything to be worthy.
I agree, It starts with the woman knowing her worth and that actually it's her powerful female energy
Amen!!!
Girl thank you .
EVERYONE, male or female DOES have to PROVE they are worthy, and yes you DO have to do things to be worthy.
That is a law of nature. You don't get any automatic value just by being born female.
That sort of Disney Princess horse shit lying is what make men hate women.
Kelly Vincent oh dearie me, that's a sense of entitlement. Majority of women are damaged so are unworthy narcissistic reprobates riddled with vanity. Women of noble character do exist but they're few and far between.
Bottom line: stay an individual
yup!
Masculine energy is known as “doing” action-oriented things, competitive, being assertive, driven, independent, and implementing leadership like qualities that set an individual up for success in this world. You constantly have goals you are striving to achieve while maintaining security and stability. There is generally a mission that’s being pursued to reach a level of accomplishment and productivity. Masculinity is all about the force of energy.
On the other hand, feminine energy is about “being” present, using your soft skills, building a connection, feeling-oriented, free-flowing, and caring. You allow things to move gracefully while letting your heart guide you through your relationship. You are aligned with your values and open to receiving exactly what you deserve. And while you flourish with elegance, you remain true to your feminine power.
Thank you for the synopsis 🥰
wait ladies. most masculine men i know dont just go up to random women and talk to them. you still have to give some signals that you're interested because we dont give a damn about a random woman who's just not interested. dont just sit there. smile at him once or twice. we love women who show interest but are not attached too much. speaking through experience. of course do whatever you wanna do. if it works, fine :)
Thank you for your insight!
I love how you encourage us to feel and share our feelings in mature authentic ways. Because thats who we are as feminine females: feelers and sharers. I absolutely love your concepts because they encourage us to BE. Just BE. And i love love love it!! Thank you so much.
so the number one thing is just focusing on yourself. Don’t think too much… just feel & then express yourself…. Don’t put your energy on him, put it on yourself instead! That’s how I understood this video:)
We just lean back and receive, ....😂
berrychorley 24 sounded odd to me at first yet try it fir a few weeks and see how you feel simply receiving and not doing the man’s‘work’ for him. 🥰
Or bend over and receive 🤣🤣
@@AdrienneEverheart This sense of disney princess entitlement is exactly why non-promiscuous men overlook women.
Brilliant!!! I'm happy to relax and leave male energy to him. What a relief!
I am so feminine and everyone tells me that. I glorify my femininity but didn t realize that i am acting too much by my masculine energy. I really find myself, this is what i m looking for. So inspiring thanks my dear. Much love and respect xoxo
So very welcome...XOXO!
Love and respect from algeria 💗
This whiteboard session was really helpful for me. I am a visual person so it’s nice to see things drawn out! Thank you!
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In one day my feminine energy has caught me 6 high quality men! This is powerful stuff when amplified with crystals 😇
Yesss! Love it! Go deeper with Femm Tools for Dating bit.ly/femmtools
Think of your feminine energy as very receiving goddess like energy, all focused on you and your projects / success and sitting on your thrown to receive the equal vibration of you. AKA twin flame!! 🔥
Hugs to you! 🥰 That’s a beautiful perspective.
I need to say that I love when you say that many women pursue men thru FB, Instagram , check his photos and “text, and text, and text and text”..........ha ha ha. That made me laugh so much cuz it is so true! The problem is when I tell a girlfriend about leave that man alone and lean back and turn her energy toward herself but she doesn’t understand and keeps on pursuing him and eventually that man pulls away because he feels so overwhelmed .
So true! It's really about balancing your boy's drive to DO and take ACTION with your girl's ability to receive. It takes practice and good you are encouraging your friend. xoxo!
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Thanks a lot Adrienne for your response! 💜
I have one friend that told me his wife calls him 10 times if she can’t reach him . Another one that his wife calls him sometimes up to 17 times and leaves 10 voicemails. My God I tell them please tell your wife to get a life ! Ha , ha . I call 2 times tops or text him once . Eventually the man will show up when he can or want to ! But we have to learn to be happy on our own and let them add to that happiness . I learned that thru the hard way !
Wow...I did all of the things we aren’t supposed to do to my husband when we were dating...while dating he once told me that I was suffocating him, Lol. He still asked me to marry him after that...we’re in year 6 with two children. He’s a great man...I’m starting to wonder why he stayed and not ran...I’ve been looking for videos on how to be the best version of myself as a woman and this video was recommended lol!
Hugs to you! 💕 You must have an amazing man. Now you will surprise him with a beautiful and feminine you! bit.ly/femm2
I've had a big realization. I am a female stuck in my masculine energy too much. Probably comes from working in male dominated industries all my life (oil & gas, mining, bar industry).
I have developed a tough exterior shell and I do everything for myself, I have a hard time allowing a man to do things for me.
Example: at the grocery store I want to carry my own bags, I want to pump my own gas, do things for myself.
I have a hard time being vulnerable around a man. I always want to show off my driving skills, or that I can do things that a man can do
I have been told by men that I make them feel emasculated.
If I want to find a masculine king, I need to be more feminine.
Hugs to you! 💕 Yes, this is a lot of the issues in relationships. The 2 masculine energies are like rams on the mountaintop! FEMM Tools is a great place to start! bit.ly/femmtools
This was SUCH a good class. Many aha-moments. And best of all, you are a really cute as a teacher next to your whiteboard 🌸.
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You're doing much needed work nowadays. Respect.
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The part about how I've changed...made me angry-happy haha I definitely changed and it was so painful even for me. I'm sure it was for the man. I'm learning how to put my energy back on myself now. Thank you Adrienne!
Wonderful video, thanks for sharing your knowledge.
I'm currently working through past personal traumas n since finding content like this I realized how much trauma can pull you away from your feminine energy n into the masculine or just being stagnant
Getting in touch with your own feminine n also recognising it in the strong women around myself is healing on many levels
Thanks for the video
This is so complicated I'm starting to plan my future of singleness lol
It can absolutely feel overwhelming at first. It’s like learning a new language. Yet go slow, give it time and just practice one tool at a time. Feminine energy will begin showing results and this will speed your desire, patience and ability to learn. Much love to you. bit.ly/femmtools
I love being in my feminine energy. But, when I meet a man that doesn’t do well in his masculine energy I switch up so quick. I hate seeing it all crumble in the name of “staying in character”
Yes, many men are lazy these days because SO many women are doing it for them. Worry not, you will switch up your karmic vibe and begin attracting the right man. It takes time and consistency. Keep learning! www.everheartcoaching.com/courses
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You just really nailed it with this one Adrienne! This was so helpfull thank you! You just described my life in a nutshell here... This is the video every women should watch.
Thank you ❤️
This is soooo brilliant. Thank you we need this
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I loved this!Loved the way you speak,your energy,everything!
This is difficult really 😂 I am a boss at My work and really have a lot of masculine energy. I am. Currently in a great long distance relationship with a man from Italy who aims to meet me in a few months. And I can't help but feel a bit anxious as to whether this will really happen. I know he loves me and he does express this often. But there are also times when he is totally in his weekday workzone mode where I don't feel like I matter too much to him because he's busy. It's times like these when I feel like I have to be talking to him and in control. But I'm slowly learning that I need to just lean back. And let him come around. It's quite difficult but I realize I am a busy woman and do have a lot going on so it's step by step just getting into my body.
This is good advice for the start of dating or within a healthy situation. But a woman in an abusive relationship, ends up having to lock on and focus on him in order to watch for cues in order to survive/walk on eggshells. Same yang energy focusing on him but out of fear, not for interest in love.
Pulling back into the soft, vast, powerful femme energy works to diminish his control in magical ways too!
Thank you 💗 i tend to do a lot in a relationship from a kind place now I'm thinking that I possibly lived in my male energy too much. I'm a single mom so it's hard for me to sit back as I have to do ... especially when my ex bf wasn't focused on the new family unit just himself. I guess there's a balance to be struck. I was more successful at work as regards income which I think had a very negative impact as he let me help him out financially. Lessons learned from this video big time. It can be hard to come out of your male energy when you have a lot of responsibility ... but I'll def try esp if we reunite 💗 x
I hear you☝️❤
I love listening to you, Adrienne everyday on one of many videos and starting my day with a smile in my heart♥️
I think the idea that men want confident women is a myth. Men want attractive women, and attractive women are confident. A woman who is so pretty that many men chase her will naturally become confident. The confidence is secondary to her already being pretty/beautiful/whatever you want to call it. The men are chasing her because she is beautiful, and she is confident because the men chase her. But no amount of confidence will replace that natural beauty, and it is the natural beauty that the men are seeking.
In short, look better, and men will begin to chase you and you will start to gain confidence. Focus on your appearance first.
All of my clients are attractive and what I consider drop dead gorgeous, so this falls flat in my experience, yet you're entitled to have your opinion. When I was single, I saw lots of what I felt were just average girls happily married. My ex married a girl that imho is quite plain. Looks are important but the best sex and looks will not keep a man around if he doesn't connect to your heart.
I agree that beauty alone will not keep a man around. But a threshold of beauty is required to gain initial interest in the first place. With the obesity epidemic going on, most women are not pretty enough to gain the initial attraction.
Eli Nope thats called an ego boost! Ego destroys everything, including healthy relationship in fact, you cant sustain a healthy relationship based on ego! Dont be a fool...selflove is whats going to help you build a relationship with yourself and a person of your interest!
Anya Vladim I absolutely agree that self love is very important. People who love themselves take care of thier body and become more physically beatiful as a result of this self love.
What Not To Do At a Stoplight Sure, I will agree with "healthy" women being the attractive ones. But due to the obesity epidemic, 2/3rds of women are unhealthy by fat alone. Other health problems chip away at the remaining 3rd so that only one in five women are healthy enough to be attractive.
The very first thing a woman who has difficulty getting a man should ask herself is "am I over 30% bodyfat?" Because if they are this means they are by definition unhealthy and this problem alone accounts for more than half the women in the US.
God, no wonder he dumped me lol
beinganthea feeling the same way
Proverbs 31:25 is one of my most favorite scriptures. I know it by heart just don't remember the verse number till I looked Proverbs 31 up haahaha. 'She is clothed with strength & dignity and she laughs without fear of the future'.
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I get you girl 😅
I love your confidence in yourself and you're very beautiful too ! :)
I loved everything you said. Thank you sooo much! ☺️
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This is brilliant, I feel so inspired by you, you're such an adorable person, I feel so much gratitude :)
Thank you so much. I am honored to be part of your life. xoxo!
Why can’t two people find each other and equally contribute effort and just be great! It’s all too complicated 😰
They can! That's why this video exists, so women can receive more easily from men which is their natural thing to DO. This balances it all. Love to you!
Laidbacksoundz Black women always want to go 50/50 and be the man in the relationship
@@alexjames2510 And you know this how..? Gosh, how patronising!
That line "for powerful dynamite women it might be hard to lean back and trust the man that he'll turn the ship around" hit me so hard.
In my case I always wanted to be the pursuer. It felt good and felt dominating. And guess what I'm on my third heart break ryt now🙈
Hugs to you! 🥰 Let the man do the work. Lean back & watch it unfold. I promise you it will feel very different & you will love the results. Learn more in my ABC program bit.ly/ABCGetHimBack
As a female I want to give- that is my first instinct...
This is very very good, clear, concise advice.
The soul is genderless, you are all divine, your body is just here to help you learn to balance between your female and male energy, may God bless you all in Jesus Name, we love you so much.
Thank you! You are so sweet. Learning to balance the two energies in definitely a journey unique to each person. Explore your feminine energy with my eBook "500 Ways": bit.ly/500waysbook
Adrienne, I am a stay at home mom. I’m confused. So ok, my husband goes to work. And I am here all day thinking about what to cook for him. Sometimes it takes about 2 hours to cook a good dinner. And does this mean that my energy is revolving around him too much? And I also watch a lot of videos to help our relationship stay better. 1 year married
You are beautiful and brilliant!! Thanks for everything!! Changing my life 🌹🌍☀
I am honored to be part of your life. Much love to you! xoxo!
Great, Adrienne. Thank you for explaining.
This is so well explained! I finally got it. Had to subscribe.
Adrienne, I wonder what happens when we may have met this man that prefers you to be totally absorbed into him? I was married to my first love very early on. Stayed in a horrible marriage for too long. Because he was older than I was. As a teenager, I was still trying to figure out who I was, and what I wanted as far as success in my life I stayed going to school, wanted my degree, stayed learning and growing all the time. But I feel now, being older and wiser, that this guy grew to feel like I didn’t need him. I have a girlfriend who is currently in a similar situation now. Where the man just needs and wants so much attention... that we feel bad when we get absorbed into ourselves. And the man goes elsewhere for attention... Easy out if you’re not married. But what if you are married? This is old I know. But you made me remember this situation. GREAT VIDEO. THANK YOU FOR BEING YOU!!!💋
This was so wonderful. I am into this very same situation. Thanks for the help.
I think this is just what I needed to hear ❤
Penny DeFrank then you're wrong and destined to remain single forever.
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Awesome job saving relationships so great
Thank you Kaylee! xoxox!
Thank you so much I love you. You make me feel a beautiful woman in. The world right now !
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My fiance has told me in the man in the relationship cause I forget to text him back, he usually calls me first, I'm good with alone time, etc. Guess I should dial up the feminine energy more often. Poor guy
jay hulrs if you’ve found this video, it’s likely because you’re an important, powerful dynamite woman. The energy exchange. You want to balance extremes such as leaning forward too much to what can feel like, to your partner, ignoring him. How to fix this? Be sure to make eye contact with your man, nod and just listen to him at least twice a day so he feels listened to and important. Formulaic at first but then it becomes a healthy habit. 🌹
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Text him back some time if you dont he will find too stressful to date you and he will find someone who is warmer n capable of demonstrating love.
Great video, helpful, & informative.
As I'm watching this video getting tips my man just sends me a sweet text saying he misses me 🤭
Keep focusing your energy ON YOU and you’ll get more 🥰😘
@@AdrienneEverheart I definitely will do thanks for all your advice it's really working in my relationship 😃
Brilliant absolutely brilliant advice!
I needed this today, thank you♡
Great advice! Thank you for sharing.
Drama is not connected to feelings. Drama is connected to poor boundaries. Let’s not get that confused. Certain people invite drama into their world because they tolerate things they shouldn’t or they don’t recognize others and trample over them. Drama isn’t necessarily about feelings, it’s about low emotional IQ. Just my thoughts.
Yes this is true!
Now I get it. 😆
I remember I once cried at work (working at Ernst & Young). I couldn't help it, I tried my best not to, but I couldn't. The day I got the news 2 of my best buddies were leaving. it wasn't "carrer suicide", but it is considered a sign of weakness (specially for men)
Hugs to you!
I really appreciate your videos! Many thanks to you!
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Grazie mille Adrienne! Un video davvero illuminante
4:53 your ring is massive this tactic must work
You are so sweet, thank you! This work is authentic and will help you in positive and earnest ways.
@@AdrienneEverheart thank you for the advice adrienne
You are so welcome honey! @@evierich3085
Hi Adriane! I broke up with my boyfriend 3 weeks ago and I haven’t heard anything since. Watching this video now I realized that I was in my masculine energy being available all the time and pursuing him. After a year and a half being together he said he’s not ready so I just walked away ( I told him I want something more). I still feel so confused and I am wondering should I reach back to him or should I just leave it as it is? What should I say and what should I do?
Thank you in advance if you have time to read this!:)
Actually you did everything perfect imho. You hit the limit in having your boundaries dismissed. You set a boundary. You were in the girlfriend trap and wanted out. This time do it differently: bit.ly/femmtools
This video is a gem! New subscriber here 🎉
I guess I needed to have it drawn out for me 😂
Me too! So many women do! Hugs to you honey! everheartcoaching.com/ebook
So that means I don’t start a conversation, a question, a suggestion, invitation, I only need to receive? I’m sorry but I’m trying to understand why am I 31 and still single!
Nourlentine yes it’s not all black and white. This is about your overall energy and focus. It’s likely you’re single for a number of reasons, not just masculine or feminine energy. Let me ask you: imagine a date with a man where you don’t initiate. You receive. You let the man lead and as topics come up and curiosity presents itself you ask, ponder and feel. Instead of driving the conversation. Let him drive it. You be passenger but also present.
Nourlentine this talk is very stereotypical. What you can take from it is: you start a conversation, for example, because you’re that kind of gal 👍🏻 and you are interested in the guy, then after contact has been established you take your energy back a bit. So he becomes piqued and moves towards you, a bit of a “keep him guessing if you are interested” game. It’s very time consuming and weird if you ask me, but it does work to garner initial interest. After a relationship has been established, who wants to play games? Keep yourself interested in your thing and interesting to him and positive and all shall go well for as long as that relationship is meant to last. Which is not a forever. Really, anymore.
However, and this is very important, why have you been single and you’re 31? If you want my honest advice, you need to look at your birth chart and your place of residence. Go to the UAC Chicago website (serious astrologers conference) and call them and ask for an astrologer who does Relocation. Get your birth chart analyzed and get recommendations for relocation. You probably don’t know anything about Astrology or you would already be dating so let me give you an example. In your birth chart there are four angles, one of these angles is the angle of relationships. If you were born with a planet that constricts that angle then you would experience lack of abundance in that area. If you don’t believe me, look at your life. Is there any reason you can give me for being 31 and single? Right? So If you still live where you were born, then that energy continues. Or you might have moved but the energy got strengthened in the new location.
To fix this, a relocation astrologer will explain what is going on and will offer you locations that soften that energy and make the abundance in relationships possible. You may want to move. Or you may just go there to find someone and then decide what you do. Sort of go fishing in good waters for you. :D
I am sorry to hear that you have had no big love thus far. But there are ways to change that.
You can also google “Relocation Astrology”. There are two gentlemen that pop up, Scott Wolfram and ... don’t remember his name. They are both serious. One is more expensive than the other. Meaning, one is not at all expensive. And I have consulted with both of them so I can tell you they are legit. I consulted them for relocation for career, I got the same recommendations from each and I am very very happy with the change.
Lastly, once you find someone, call your relocation astrologer and ask for a recommendation on a Relationship Astrologer and he/she can look at both of your birth charts and tell you whether it’s a link that can last, and what you can do to keep the foundation strong. Astrology is about the mathematical relationships (angles and degrees) between celestial bodies. So if it’s a 90 degree relationship between your sun and their sun (your identity), that will be stressful always. But there will be good things too, 30 degrees and 60 degrees between your planets and that’s what you work with. It’s very interesting and very precise. I suppose it’s the difference between buying a large building with no information except that it’s a building you now “own”. And getting an engineer to look at it, he could say: the foundation is strong but there’s water leaking here. Now you know what to deal with.
This is the longest post. I just really want you to be able to experience love. Ok so, it may be weird for you to ask people’s birth data when you are just getting to know them. You need to have the birth time. It’s essential. So asking people where they were born and when’s their birthday is easy. We do that all the time. But to know the exact time of birth takes more finesse. What I do, is at a separate moment in time I say: “I just got a post on FB (or a friend just texted me) that says that we are the most productive at the time of day that coincides with the time of day when we were born. Is this possible? Something about circadian rhythms”. And you take it from there. Have him tell you when he feels he’s most productive and then have him check it on his birth certificate. You tell him you’ll do the same. Now you have all that you need to check out what’s possible between you two, to work on the strong, to be aware of the weak parts and be smart about them.
Good luck Nourlentine!! 🍀❤️
çeci n’est pas une pipe How can I contact you ? Im interested in Relocation Astrology : )
it's not that extreme. We all love mutual initiation, so i'm sure men will appreciate it if you send a text or suggest something. But be patient and let time do it's own thing. Leaning back means you look at things from a healthier perspective- when you ask "What does he do for me" that's when you see this man objectively (does he text you, does he ask about you, does he suggest anything?). A mistake so many people make is being impatient- wanting things to happen "now!". Well things don't work this way because relationships take time. Sometimes women focus so much on "how to make him my bf" ASAP and it a connection killer.
Nourlentine don't listen to this nutjob. You need to meet a man halfway be kind, friendly, good manners, humorous, courteous let him know subtly you like him but not like a predator. Do NOT focus on self, do NOT get tattoo body piercing or slap heaps of makeup on be natural, kindly and do good deeds be a woman of virtue NOT an entitled brat full of self importance.
Thank you so much! This helped a lot
You are so welcome!
Very well explained. Thank you.👍
Thank you so much Andrienne ❤🌼
Ro Mii you’re so welcome!
This video changed my life! Thank you Adrienne
Happy for you! xoxo!
This is so good, I love it!
You’re amazing! Thank you!!!
Thank you Whitney!
Very sweet of you to say.
Yes, this is true and it makes sense but it usually works when you already want to keep someone,what about initial attraction? Let's just be real that looks are the most important thing when you first meet someone, yes it is true that you need to connect afterwards but if you don't look nice,no one will pursue you
It's very much the same. Even if you are in a 5 year relationship, please begin using these tools. Read more here: www.everheartcoaching.com/ebook
Thank you Adrienne
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Have done 🙏
Great teaching :D
Best vid so far ive seen
Awesome vid 👌🏻❤️️
U said..we focus on men. We push energy on them We try to change him. We try to control him. Try to influence him.
So WHAT IF ITS THE MAN IS TRYING TO DO THAT ON WOMEN(I'm not yelling at you. I want you to answer this question)
So is he using his feminine energy on us??? And is he focusing too much on us...???? When he should be focusing on himself????
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I hear you. Yes, this can go both ways. The key is to stay in your feminine energy by focusing on your own life, no matter what the man does. This will weed out feminine-energy men who will only drain you and stress you out!
You are amazing. You talking about me men
Your absolutely right, and I think most guys are like that.... Most guys like to play games because unfortunately only a rare few are different. "The less difficult ones"
Maryam Gama you’ll begin to attract quality men and bad boys will reform when you learn all the FEMM tools! 💕👍🏼
You are fantastic. Thank you for explaining feminine energy so simply.
Simple, clear and easy to remember. I enjoyed this unpretentious and pleasant lesson.
Like this video, I get real impatient with men. Got to just sit back & wait & on them smh. Then when they're ready to so called pursue me I'm not interested. Guess this game isn't for me. 💯👌
I don't understand this emotions part . I have been shamed all my life for being too emotional and crying too much . I just don't understand how people will love me for being emotional
Exactly. Confusing isn’t it? Emotions to get attention or needs met versus finding what you feel without necessarily responding. Read this ➡️bit.ly/500waysbook
Is it true that both men and women have feminine energy? I feel like I'm a man with high polarities of male energy and female energy... How do I relax in my feminine energy and not "freak out" that I'm being too feminine that I think I'm pushing a woman away. In a relationship, will the women understand that men will also sometimes fall into their feminine energy? Or will that repulse woman away? I'm coming from a place of BUILDING A RELATIONSHIP, IN A RELATIONSHIP. Of course while courting, male has to show strong masculine energy... But what happens when courting becomes into something more serious? Is it okay to show your vulnerability and your feminine side as a man?
It takes practice and learning balance.
You are incredible 💕 thanks
You're super smart, great video.💛
Thank you honey! Your kind words mean so much to me. Love to you! xoxox!
What about when he has a problem with you or the relationship, he said he feels insecure because he doesn’t feel respected by my friends. How would I help fix this by using feminine energy?
His feelings are his responsibility as a man to solve. Not for you. Keep telling him, "I feel so happy when I'm with you... I trust you will figure it out." Keep reading and learning: www.everheartcoaching.com/ebook
Great video.
well, I believe you, because this is exactly what i'm doing lol. I come from that family of strong women. goodness. thank you
Lisa Fox you just admitted to being a selfish reprobate.
Excellent instructional!
This helped me a lot thanks
I think maybe you just changed my life. Inn be so hope I can do this.
Thanks so much great info
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any woman thinking that crying at work (Or being very emotional) is NOT a carrier sepuku.. unless your career is being a secretary.. you’re delusional
You go girl! watching in 2020!!!!!! /
So I’m not going to him and waiting for him to come to me
Thank you so much!!!!
So when he finally comes back to calling and texting do we just wait like a puppy with open arms? What are the repercussions for a man that pulls away for most of the work week? Legs open on the weekend? I’m very hurt but leaning back doing my own thing. At this point I don’t trust him or care
Absolutely not open and ready. You need clarity on where the relationship is going with this man. I encourage you read '500 Ways to Talk to a Man.' For example you can say: I feel so happy to see you on the weekend, and yeah, I want to get close and make one anther feel good yet during the week I feel so alone, a bit forgotten. What do you think we can do?
Let him solve it, but at least you calmly and warmly speak your feelings and open your heart to him.
Feminine Energy Love & Dating love this I will check this suggestion out. I had a feeling he wasn’t honest with me and he was living with his ex wife he told me they do not have a relationship. Of course I don’t believe him. He said he’ll do anything to make it up to me and get me back. I blocked him