The balance between the masculine and feminine has been out of balance for hundreds of years. The imbalance has created an unhealthy male energy, that’s the cause of war, violence, greed. Healthy male energy is very beautiful.
Love, Peace & being High is a way of life I appreciate your comment but the balance is truly off scale which causes issues in male female relationships. I enjoy healthy male energy as it allows me to become more feminine safely. ❤️
Healthy male energy is very charming. Generally women like men who consider them as equals. Whereas "toxic masculinity" is where the person doesn't like his feminine side or he has suppressed it for too long and that is why they won't respect females in general.
I totally believe and notice this, but particularly in the West. When I think of true positive masculinity I think of Freddy Mercury, not Stormin' Schwarzkopf.
@@highvibesonly8296 Are you stupid? toxic masculinity is a made up word to destroy men and men's masculinity! like yeah men and women do need both sides but to use cringe words like "toxic masculinity" makes you sound like a radical feminist, and also there is nothing wrong with men acting manly and women acting feminine!
Really enjoyed the information you went over in this one. I needed to hear this one. Please do more on polarity and surrounding topics. Thanks. Namaste, much love, keep it up! ✌🏽
The nice guy stuff giving gifts for getting sex or whatever is weak, all giving should always be unconditional. Forgiveness should be unconditional. Love and reverence should be unconditional. No matter if you’re feminine or masculine.
Forgiveness should NOT be unconditional. It must be earned. A person who shows no remorse should not be forgiven. Just the person should not let hate consume them. That's what I believe.
Mia Meow “UNDERSTANDING BRINGS FORGIVENESS “Forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.” Everyone makes mistakes. If we are mindful, we see that some of our actions in the past have caused others to suffer, and some actions of others have made us suffer. We want to be forgiving. We want to begin anew. “You, my brother or sister, have wronged me in the past. I now understand that it was because you were suffering and did not see clearly. I no longer feel anger toward you.” You cannot force yourself to forgive. Only when you understand what has happened can you have compassion for the other person and forgive him or her. That kind of forgiveness is the fruit of awareness. When you are mindful, you can see the many causes that led the other person to make you suffer, and when you see this, forgiveness and release arise naturally. Putting the teachings of Jesus and the Buddha into practice is always helpful.” - Thich Nhat Hanh from his book LIVING BUDDHA LIVING CHRIST
Unfortunately the society is creating feminine men and masculine women. This is creating a hell in the relationship when the natural tendencies are completely gone awry.
This opened my eyes about some of my ways. The past 6 months I’ve been trying to please this girl, from the moment we started talking I had that thought that I wasn’t good enough and that she wouldn’t accept me which led to me catering more so to her and what she wanted rather than being my natural confident self and enjoying the company. I completely lost myself in the process of trying to be with her. I became extremely indecisive even when it came to things as simple as saying a word or answering simple questions. I wasn’t focused at all on my hobbies and was more so worried about saying something stupid or saying something that might offend her, my whole life was me thinking about her and the potential relationship. I became extremely clingy and started to worry about what she was doing when she wasn’t with me, or if she was actually asleep when she said she would go to bed. This is not the way I want to be, I realize that I have lost a lot of masculine energy and today that starts to change. Ima carry myself different and ima assert myself a lot more and take more chances when it comes to everyday life. Focus more on me and let the rest come naturally. Forcing yourself to be a nice guy is not going to make things better for you especially when it comes to a potential relationship. Never change for anybody but yourself.
Yes, very well said. I know my response is much later but I truly hope things worked out for the best for you and that you fully came back to yourself. Never compromise yourself for anybody- they are not worth it- and the ones who really care for you will never ask you to compromise yourself. Peace and Love 😍🥰
Aaron, I normally agree with you but I think this video is missing the female perspective. Telling men not to be nice guys could be interpreted by some to mean ; Don't be chivalrous; Don't be a gentleman ; Don't help women - Some men might think that they look weak for just being nice. As a woman; I deeply value genuinely kind men. They should be honoured and loved- They shouldn't be told to stop being kind to women. It's true that some women don't appreciate them but it is also true that some men don't appreciate kind and loving women.
@Abraham If a man isn't nice to me...I'm leaving. Life is too short to waste on men who are unkind. Nice men make better husbands. Bad boys are time wasters. Smart women know this.
I have found that teachers also have a huge impact on our kids’ development for life; good or bad!! We all have distinct memories of how positively or negatively a teacher has affected us that has stuck with us no matter how old you are. Teachers are with kids more hours in a day than parents. We need more really good teachers for the priceless impact they can have on kids. It’s definitely a team effort between parents & teachers! Blessings of God’s light, love and compassion to all! 💗 🙏
Megi Stardust Totally agree! Anyone that can help you to get on a better path or save your life emotionally or physically, is way more valuable than the ridiculous amounts of money paid to athletes! I’m sure after parents being home with their children will realize that as far as valuing the good teachers, so hoping that changes very soon! Blessings to you, Megi! 🙏
Ahmed Abdulai Yes, teaching them these things, since these types of things aren’t taught in school, so we are the teachers at home that are here for life occurrences. Some listen and some have to learn on their own. When you hear them teaching a friend, you know they really were listening. Teaching others is easier than ourselves sometimes. We’re all on our own journey, so having loving support, guidance and compassion; especially as they move out on their own into this world, letting go as a parent is difficult. Sending them the daily loving energy is so very important for them and us as parents. Thank you, Ahmad! Blessings to you.
Great video 🔮 The divine masculine and feminine has been massively under attack for a long time. Its now the time for us to fully awaken to that fact and take back our innate power so we can find balance and peace with each other 🙏💜⭐
Wow! This is better than going to a psychiatrist. LOL! I think I've learned more today than any psychiatrist was able to explain. All he wanted to do is flood me with medication. I feel so much better listening to this and no, I don't take any medications, because I don't like them. :) Thank you so much for sharing all of this information. It helps so much! :)
Good on you for not taking their "treatment", psychiatrists are glorified drug pushers. Psychologists it seems are the real deal but I'd imagine it's not as easy to get one without money.
Women can’t trust in the masculine and have to become masculine to protect ourselves so idk about this. I feel like I can’t just start practicing surrendering to masculine energy in the world bc then I’d be abused and taken advantage of. It’s just sad the state of the world. Men and women have gotten so far from our natural feelings hormones thoughts etc. like when he said be more emotional express urself “dance” I’ve been taught that emotions is weakness and I shouldn’t show me express to other ppl how I’m feeling. It’s just a lot to hear that now I have to work on all these things when I’ve adapted due to the state of society today. Maybe this worked in the 50s but 2020 is a new age.
It works today bae. My leading energy is masculine and yesterday, i broke my heart and i let my masculine deal with that pain it almost killed me. All that close offness is terrible. My divine masculine didn't like that tho so i am better cos i have been able to heal the wounded masculine. Despite having a leading masculine energy, i once dealt with people pleasing. So it's really about letting go b. You are doing well, accepting as you are doing with this comment is a step so you are doing well. Applause to you.
I think this is something that a lot of ppl struggle with but in order to heal the root cause of the distrust we need to heal ourselves. When we have the belief that others can make us feel secure, loved, safe, or happy we give our power away. But if we truly understand that our emotions (joy, love, security, etc) comes from within us, we can understand that even if another person doesn't "show up" we've got our own back.
Negative Masculine energy is damaging. I too have been hurt by negative masculinity and having lost trust in men it was difficult. After marrying my husband he taught me to trust in a steady man who cared about others, who did nice things for me, and treated me kindly. Before getting married I felt like I had to act feminine to please my parents. I act more masculine than my adopted mom would have hoped for. My husband is okay with that because he usually has somewhat more feminine energy. Just because a majority of men are negative in their broken masculinity doesn't mean that they are all that way.
You have to be discerning, you can’t just trust any masculine. But the idea that the whole world is like this, that you can’t ever trust a man, only holds you back
From my heart to whoever reading this I hope you appreciate the greatness you hold from within. YOU are perfection just the way YOU ARE . You radiate love, kindness, strength, passion, will and light. You are beautiful! Wish you such a blessed and bright day. Cheers! 💙🌺
Wow!! This is what happened in my relationship that just ended. I had lack of trust and he was a total people pleaser. Also I could never relax and feel safe in his masculine energy. Thank you for explaing this in detail.
Ugh ! This is my experience now . Sometimes I’ll even act like I don’t know something or act afraid of something just to get my husband to be in his masculine .. :(
I’ve never been attracted to super sensitive and emotional men. But I’ve also never been attracted to Alpha Males either. Both are a turn off to me personally. I need something in the middle. Balance is key.
This is more important than people realize! I always thought something was off with men who want to be overly masculine, as if they are compensating for something else. It’s okay for men to have some feminine energy as well!
It hunduism it's called shiva shakti. Shiva is the masculine polarity and Shakti is the feminine polarity. We all have shivashakti within us. If you cover one eye with each eye and look at your face you will realize one side looks more masculine and one side looks more feminine.
OMG the “typical” situation happened to me. I was naturally very feminine, but at the age of 19 I found out that my dad cheated on my mom , and I actually became more masculine. Luckily, I found my purpose and it resulted in me having more freedom.
Let's go deeper into the real truth. The true "spiritual" journey is letting go of form and gender ideology. YOU are not broken. Wherever YOU go there you are, the Soul. The you that you "think" you are is not you
Yes thank god someone said the truth 😂❤ althoug what he says is partly truth. i can relate to being feminine with bit of wounded masculine. My dad was abusive in a multiple ways always cheating so that left me in fear that men arn't trust worthy and i have fear that love will leave me. That makes me more controling in a relationship beacause i lack to trust people. I understand that i need to work on that for my own good and happiness. However to think that u need to put yours self into this box in order to think that you are now healed is funny 😀 you don't need to feel guilty as a women if you are leading and assertive they are positive humen qualities for both gender. Same goes for a men . Men shouldn't feel less of a men if they are emotional and vulnerable. In lot of cases expectation and pressure that we put on our selves about what is a true feminine and true masculene can cause harm to our true identity. Every person is unique with both feminine and masculine and if you want to find a relationship thats hapy and fulfilling u should find a partner that matches u and isn't scared of masculine qualities u have as a women or vixe versa ❤
True but you're here on this earth playing a role, and part of that character you play has a particular biology(your sex) with a particular set of accompanying traits(your gender role if you will). Though God may have come here to play as us, we didn't come here to play as God if you get me haha you're not the unlimited, you're limited to certain roles/functions. It's not about eliminating the ego completely, if it was only that simple. It's about developing a healthy ego as opposed to a neurotic ego, becoming who you are meant to be so to speak. I certainly haven't got the hang of it yet but here's hoping. Have a good one
@@MsMeGUka i don't really think he's saying that, but I appreciate your view. I feel he was talking specifically about polarisation. And there are different levels of awareness and reality. At one level of reality what he's talking about is true. Everything is energy, just like at a separate reality there is no selfhood but rather an expression of source. The wounded feminine energy and masculine energy needs to be healed through shadow work at this level of reality, and he's talking about energy not necessarily based on gender dynamics. Anyway that's my take away. LOL! Have a beautiful day!
I am very much in my wounded masculine energy. I have a lot of failed relationships where there was just no trust. I'm so closed off as a partner also, scared of showing vulnerability
So I’m confused. If you have wounded feminine, doesn’t it mean you would have the people pleasing, unworthy, lack of barriers traits, not the masculine traits?
it tilted my balance. six months later with a lot of shadow work and meditation, it’s much more clear now that my divine masculine was in overdrive and in defense.. denying the much needed healing of the divine feminine. my takeaway was that the scales had shifted heavily for the sake of avoidance. meaning utter chaos lol. especially since i’m a libra 😉
@@Mosdefinitelyable wounded masculine means you are not expressing masculine traits, therefor, being a people pleaser / nice guy. wounded feminine would be the opposite, not expressing you’re feminine traits,
When you say “the feminine wants to be lead by the masculine” I think many masculines think this means they should control feminines. I don’t want anyone leading me lmao I want to lead myself 😂 I do want that comfort of masculine energy because I’ve never had it in a healthy way, so the idea of being safe resonates. There’s a big difference between “letting a man feel like a man, and a woman be a woman” (gender roles) and tapping into the energies in a healthy way for your specific partnership. I think more people need to understand this.
Yes this is exactly what I have been thinking! I saw many women and men on the internet saying that when they life in this plurality, if they be more feminin that will also mean that they are going to life in these old gender roles! It's like: don't be so independent, be more feminin = don't start your own business, let your man do that and you can stay home and do nothing. THAT'S NOT WHAT IT MEANS! There are so many successful highly feminine woman out there and I think it's time that we include the term that every strong woman needs a strong shoulder. Because I feel like it's seen as though successful men need the support of their woman but if a woman wants to be successful she has to do everything on her own. Wich is not true. And I saw sooo many woman say that they want to go into their feminin power but if they will they can't build that business or those dreams. We all have both in us! And being an independent person is different from letting yourself be led by your man! (like him telling you to cancel this meeting or making a decision so you don't run into trouble cause the feminine just wants to create and explore and maybe doesn't recognize such things)
@@fireshine4105 that is so true, I’ve never thought about it that way. I definitely have that mindset of needing to do everything on my own 😅 but everyone needs support! And I would much rather be in my feminine energy tbh than overexerting myself (which i do all the time). It so important to have that balance, and it’s nice to have a partner that is supportive of that. I see so many weird comments on the internet too, toxicity and misunderstanding is everywhere unfortunately! Learning about how to balance our own energy would help so much and also to understand healthy relationships in general
I am glad that you are showing the positive side of masculine and feminine energies. Many times when we think of masculine energy, the shadow side comes to mind of power and control. But it is much more than that. And extremely important! And without it, it is true, the feminine can't relax and flow. I'm glad you are making these videos. Thank you. Namaste 🙏
Hi Aaron, my understanding of this is that masculine and feminine energies represent duality, which we are moving away from in 5D. Masculine energies have been dominant on the planet for a very long time, whilst the divine feminine has been supressed. We are now moving into a time of healing these energies within ourselves individually and collectively, to come into balance and wholeness. I am a woman with strong feminine energy but for me, there is nothing more attractive than a man in touch with his feminine side in a balanced beautiful way.
every human does because you have both hormones testosterone and estrogen even though one dominant than other one like yin(feminine) and yand(masculine)
I've known about this for a number of years now and I've tried to explain it to quite a few people, the importance of masculine/feminine polarity, or balance in a romantic relationship. I tend to lose people fairly early in explaining it, especially the men. Perhaps it's not a masculine subject to talk about, so they get bored and tune out. Women seem more open to considering this stuff, from what I've experienced. Or maybe it's the way I'm approaching it. It makes so much sense though, I'm not sure why so many people out there fail to understand it or even take interest in it, with all the dysfunction we see in relationships now.
Amazing Aaron this is exactly what has happened in my relationship because I really have a wounded feminine and cannot trust the masculine so then I make myself the masculine, I make myself the controller, and it has been a cause for the end of the relationship. Knowing this is so empowering and I hope it fixes this!
Another thing to check out that may shine some more light is attachment styles... also the dynamic between your care givers growing up. You will be re-creating that dynamic so that you can heal it! Hope this helps!
I love your work Aaron,we are here and fully awakening,but I’ve been awake my whole life,knew I didn’t fit the “norm”!Im holding the light so others may see in the hour of darkness!❤️👍
your content seems chill but i’d recommend leaning more towards happy, and up beat topics, since naturally sad and deprecating topics aren’t attractive
This is the video I needed to see right now! I asserted my boundaries and because I did this- the masculine backed off- hurts but I understand why… this explains a lot
More on this Aaron! I have been studying polarity in relationships but never heard the tension part. Interesting for sure. I think more conversations need to be done on this because relationship (especially when it is healthy) helps us all.
hey aaron. this energy is all about children and family. thats why the feminine wants the protective masculine. The whole thing only makes sense if u make this point
Going through a breakup right now, my inner masculine and feminine are so wounded it's unreal. These videos are really helping me. Thank you for everything you do x
Great video and needed for many ⭐️ I define the balanced/healthy/empowered Masculine towards Feminine as “4 P’s”: - Presence - Protection - Provision - Patronage ✨
Not true. You cannot put those 2 in a box. Especially trying to explain with so many words and details and aspects. You’re only gonna end up going in circles. It won’t make sense instead, the truth is the masculine is outward in the feminine is inward. Everything else is different for everyone.
HOw do I heal my masculine who had to do soooo much as a kid, teenager because of toxic, abusive parents? I think my masculine is tired because had to decide, take over so much and wants a break but I can't have a break, I have to get things done as an adult. I don't know what to do.
Ahh... That is why i lost attraction to my boyfriend maybe we will be ex. When we talked the first time, i was so being in tune in masculine energy. I have a job, i have an income, i always direct, blunt, i make lot of decision and lead. When i lost job, i start to become more feminine. I want to relax, i want to feel safe, i want to be taken care of. Then, after i lost job, i realize that for this whole time. My boyfriend atrracted to my masculine energy and he is more in tune in feminine energy. That cause a problem in us cause we both embody a feminine energy.
I support you Aaron.. BUT I must say I felt uncomfortable and almost cringy when seeing you hesitate, trying to think of good words to describe healthy feminine energy & corresponding activities. It’s obvious you know a lot about how this concept relates to your life. The holes where there are lack of knowledge were quite evident. So your message wasn’t as clear and impactful as usual. This msg isn’t to complain about my personal non resonation.. It’s to give good constructive feedback. Like I said, I want Aaron to succeed. My only problem is the fact he is very unlikely to ever even see this. But if he needs to hear it I know spirit will weasel it in somehow.)
Can somebody tell me whats the energy situation in my case? The sex is with my women is great but there are all the time conflicts because everyone wants to lead and to control. I think its two times masculine Energie but I don’t understand why the sex is good since sex is hugely based on polarity 🌞
althoug what he says is partly truth. i can relate to being feminine with bit of wounded masculine. My dad was abusive in a multiple ways always cheating so that left me in fear that men arn't trust worthy and i have fear that love will leave me. That makes me more controling in a relationship beacause i lack to trust people. I understand that i need to work on that for my own good and happiness. However to think that u need to put yours self into this box in order to think that you are now healed is funny 😀 you don't need to feel guilty as a women if you are leading and assertive they are positive humen qualities for both gender. Same goes for a men . Men shouldn't feel less of a men if they are emotional and vulnerable. In lot of cases expectation and pressure that we put on our selves about what is a true feminine and true masculene can cause harm to our true identity. Every person is unique with both feminine and masculine and if you want to find a relationship thats hapy and fulfilling u should find a partner that matches u and isn't scared of masculine qualities u have as a women or vixe versa ❤
Hey my dude you have stillness and movement backwards on this. Look at Paul Cheks 4 doctor approach as a reference. Dr. Movement is yang fire and only becomes yin when in excess, think of the emaciated looking distance runner as an example of excess. Movement creates more heat and thus more yang energy and makes us sweat. Stillness is passive and therefore yin, like when we sleep at night. "Every fire needs something to burn", the fire element within us sits on top of earth and water respectively. Don't take my word for it, feel it out and see if it resonates 👍
@@marianabarreto9115I 100% agree and I look at it this way personally; fire is the essence of yang/masculine energy and what does it do to most anything it touches?? Burns it, metabolizes it, consumes it. Fire is inherently catabolic and related to metabolism which is increased by movement. Like when a man or woman enters the gym and breaks down muscle tissue, which only grows if there is enough passive sleep/recovery later. Yin/feminine is passive and restorative. We see this in foods as well. Animals get up and move around and meat has always been considered more inherently yang and takes more energy and time to breakdown which in turn increases metabolic rate. Plants don't get up and move and are still, yet plant foods/ medicines are the most restorative from my experience.
I've always been feminine as a man, and don't really like it, but I like some parts of it. I'm attracted to women, but I'm often mistaken for being gay. I've been more masculine lately than in the past, but I don't really like my leading feminine energy.
You got to study demonology and how we are all trying to clear our demons and whether there a generation demon some have been in the blood line for a 1000 generations . We might have 10 to a couple of hundred . And they carry the victim narcissist traits and whether there out side of us or actually part of us . So many coming up at the moment with positive energy the negative has to heal . As spiritual as we are have some faith in the plan and trust God and jesus and keep it clear that its ur inner healing for love .
I like how you say "practical and relatable" I think that men or women who are angry with the opposite sex, are making their own issues worse. It is harmful to direct fear and hate towards the opposite sex in general. Healing is within by accepting ourselves on all levels, becoming the best self we can be (our ideal life ) We shouldn't get hung up on the physical in terms of cosmetic surgeries, etc...
The guy I’m dealing with is very feminine.. it’s starting to cause problems because I want to relax into my femininity and be protected. He can’t seem to switch over to his masculine.
Wren Linnet you really don’t seem to understand feminine and masculine energy. A woman can be feminine and still independent / capable of living on her own. And I don’t need to be protected, but sometimes it would be nice to feel like I am.
Hi Aaron! I am so thankful for the TH-cam algorithm that suggested your videos to me most recently. I already know that I'm going to watch this video several more times to finish processing it. Thank you very much for making this content. It really helped me understand some things about myself on a deeper level and the people in my life. Peace & Blessings from the most High. 🥰🙏🏽🙏🏽.
This was a great teaching.🤓Thank you for the examples from your own real life experience. 👠🥾 I’m definitely sharing this with my community. 🌟 Blessings to you.
Very glad you took a break from the current conspiracy theory videos. I've been watching your videos daily for about a year now and I just can't put any of my energy into the negative events of the world any more. This is what I came for. Thanks bro, you have taught me alot and kept me on track
Can you make more videos on healing wounds for masculine and feminine energies? I am usually masculine around the women I like, but I've noticed I tend to display traits of both wounded masculine and feminine throughout my life. Not just with women I date, but with my parents and family and even my friends
I do appreciate you specifying masculine and feminine energies. I‘ve always naturally had more masculine energy than feminine energy (I’m a gay woman). But I want both polarities within me to be organic and healthy. I just went through a breakup so it’s a great time for me to recalibrate. My stepdad was not a people pleaser but he was a “nice guy” otherwise. My mom did cheat on him and I think that did have an influence on my relationships with the women I dated.
The information is mind boggling and very new to me. Perhaps another video on this will get people to get use to this and understand it more because this subject also plays a big role in good and bad relationships.
Great teaching, how does a woman flow in her divine feminine when she is a single mother and her divine feminine is bruised? A single mother has to flow in the divine masculine to raise the kids however, may desire to flow in the divine feminine. This is what I experience so how do we find balance?
1. Please be careful when using the expression ‘ nice guy’. In a grown, mature woman’s vocabulary ‘ nice’ is a compliment and describes a good person, a potential partner. I understand that in popular culture a ‘ nice guy’ is often portrayed as a people pleaser and loser, but let’s please not perpetuate this. That association subconsciously implies that being good to others is seen as weakness, which, again for a real woman looking for a high value partner, is a non negotiable. All the things listed at top left that describe divine masculine in my books would equate to a ‘ nice guy that I would gladly see as potential partner’.
2. Please elaborate on what exactly you mean by positive and negative emotional tension. ? How, when and in what forms does that manifest? And how is it possible that the feminine does now know the difference between the positive and negative? I doubt that they don’t. As you mentioned divine feminine is very intuitive and one thing it’s really good at is picking up intention from the other party.
The twelve zodiac signs. Some zodiac signs are Feminine, others are Masculine. Feminine signs are Taurus, Cancer, Virgo, Scorpio, Capricorn, and Pisces. Masculine signs are Aries, Gemini, Leo, Libra, Sagittarius, and Aquarius.
All of this polarity is *such an eye opener* to the *facts and truth* Any one else *really realizing* something about them selves and the relationship they're in? I'm definitely looking at the balance I'm trying to create in my life with that sense of security from my own work, through my TH-cam channel and other sources, to create the security I crave but also make sure that it's still a feminine energy that is dominantly me, to find a *balance within myself* that is lacking in the exterior world.
As a therapist and Life Coach i always thought i had to be THE NICE GUY lol. After doing my own Shadow Work on myself i figured out THATS NOT WHO I AM. Exactly what you found out about yourself. Having a dad i felt like i had to please cos i wasnt good daughter enough i became people pleaser as you did. Working on being AUTHENTIC allowing myself to speak or react the way i FEEL not the way im SUPPOSED TO helped me a lot. Thank you for this amazing video.❤
thank you, again! You Have been such Pivotal part of my healing after a Relationship became toxic, and you have helped me see all the places I need to heal in me, to move forward. Thanks Aaron!!
I am male in this incarnation and naturally carry a more feminine energy. This has been a great challenge for me to embody, more so heal. As I become aware of how I’ve in a sense “run away” from my own natural frame, to embody a “masculine mask” to people please, to be accepted by society.
A word of caution for men watching this. I highly recommend you do not try to lead a woman. That which seeks to lead is not fit to do so. Leaders are decided and made by their followers. In other words by you embodying certain qualities you lead by example, which mean that people around you notice your behaviour and principles, are inspired by them and DECIDE to follow in your footsteps, fuelled by inspiration. In no moment did you seek dominion over those people. When it comes to a romantic feminine - masculine dynamic, a divine masculine worships the divine feminine and is inspired by it, in awe of its difference, beauty and creative power it carries. Because of this awe ( feminine is the muse to masculine if you will) the masculine WANTS to protect, provide ( giving dynamic ) this magical mysterious different being in front of them. When they proceed to GIVE to the feminine, without expecting any thing in return, but simply out of awe and devotion to it, the feminine feels SEEN, SAFE, APPRECIATED, loved and worshipped. They feel divine. This very behavior lead by the masculine ALLOWS the feminine to be the feminine. And that triggers immense gratitude, surrender, relaxation, and only then the feminine will willingly FOLLOW this masculine figure to the end of the world. BECAUSE they have filled their cup, they have showed their respect and admiration to their true essence. This is the natural order of things and if you ever attempt to lead someone before they have acknowledged you as their leader, your leadership will never be true, nor it will last.
What I certainly agree with in this video is that masculine is attractive to the feminine when they know who they are, what they stand for and are secure in all their dimensions - mental, physical, financial, spiritual. You are your own person and you like who you are, you are perfectly self sufficient and abundant and in fact are now looking for someone to share that abundance, knowledge, wisdom and life force with. The feminine brings a new, unique, fun, playful, beautiful, sensual, emotional and creative dynamic in the masculine’s life, which is why they are attracted to it and want that in their life.
Lost trust in my mother. Highly abusive. Always using my vulnerability against Me. Always accusing her husband and her children of what she was guilty of. I tend to stay away ftom people since I started therapy over 20 yrs ago. I don't want relationship with anyone . Yup it gets lonely sometimes but jeez it's much more peaceful than watching, listening and dealing with nonsense ftom people who are nuts.
Aaron honey, I have to say I disagree. I do agree That Polarity ends exist, sure!. But, they are part of a Whole. It is never about two people, it is always about self. The partner responsibility is not to "Please Another", but rather be a fun playmate. That's basically where his "responsibility" ends. So yeah, the truth of the matter is, nobody is responsible for Anyone. But they still do acts of kindness. Why? Because it feels FUN! That's the only reason a person could ever need. By no means, a partner has a specific "Role". Good Example: If a masculine guy want's to wake up tomorrow morning, and wear a dress, and say "hey! look at me! I am a beautiful fairy
The balance between the masculine and feminine has been out of balance for hundreds of years. The imbalance has created an unhealthy male energy, that’s the cause of war, violence, greed. Healthy male energy is very beautiful.
Love, Peace & being High is a way of life I appreciate your comment but the balance is truly off scale which causes issues in male female relationships. I enjoy healthy male energy as it allows me to become more feminine safely. ❤️
Healthy male energy is very charming. Generally women like men who consider them as equals. Whereas "toxic masculinity" is where the person doesn't like his feminine side or he has suppressed it for too long and that is why they won't respect females in general.
High Vibes only yes; nicely stated!
I totally believe and notice this, but particularly in the West. When I think of true positive masculinity I think of Freddy Mercury, not Stormin' Schwarzkopf.
@@highvibesonly8296 Are you stupid? toxic masculinity is a made up word to destroy men and men's masculinity! like yeah men and women do need both sides but to use cringe words like "toxic masculinity" makes you sound like a radical feminist, and also there is nothing wrong with men acting manly and women acting feminine!
Very helpful info man thank you for helping the world awaken 🌟 Sending good vibes to everyone here 🏝😎
Really enjoyed the information you went over in this one. I needed to hear this one. Please do more on polarity and surrounding topics. Thanks. Namaste, much love, keep it up! ✌🏽
Wow Aaron this is a truly useful video thank you for sharing . 🤗❤️
im operating in my masculine energy 😭😭😭 very desisive, go getter,. set goals etc but i tend to ..not ease off this when it comes to a relationship..
Likewise Universal Crystals☯️ ❤️
The nice guy stuff giving gifts for getting sex or whatever is weak, all giving should always be unconditional. Forgiveness should be unconditional. Love and reverence should be unconditional. No matter if you’re feminine or masculine.
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a guy who fakes being nice in order to get sex in return is not a "nice guy". a guy who is everything You mentioned after your first comma is.
Forgiveness should NOT be unconditional. It must be earned. A person who shows no remorse should not be forgiven. Just the person should not let hate consume them. That's what I believe.
Laci Rae ...it was Aaron that described the nice guy being nice to get sex.
Mia Meow
“UNDERSTANDING BRINGS FORGIVENESS
“Forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.” Everyone makes mistakes. If we are mindful, we see that some of our actions in the past have caused others to suffer, and some actions of others have made us suffer. We want to be forgiving. We want to begin anew. “You, my brother or sister, have wronged me in the past. I now understand that it was because you were suffering and did not see clearly. I no longer feel anger toward you.” You cannot force yourself to forgive. Only when you understand what has happened can you have compassion for the other person and forgive him or her. That kind of forgiveness is the fruit of awareness. When you are mindful, you can see the many causes that led the other person to make you suffer, and when you see this, forgiveness and release arise naturally. Putting the teachings of Jesus and the Buddha into practice is always helpful.” - Thich Nhat Hanh from his book LIVING BUDDHA LIVING CHRIST
Unfortunately the society is creating feminine men and masculine women. This is creating a hell in the relationship when the natural tendencies are completely gone awry.
How so? How is society creating this? I sense a blame the women trope coming up.
You just explained the breakdown of my 10 year relationship. I am exhausted being in my masculine but felt I had to be. Wow
I'm having the same realization
Same!!!!!
I’m 54. I’m successful. I’m just learning this and he’s nailing it.
Be a king, not a knight, gentlemen. ☮️☯️
never a butler !
This opened my eyes about some of my ways. The past 6 months I’ve been trying to please this girl, from the moment we started talking I had that thought that I wasn’t good enough and that she wouldn’t accept me which led to me catering more so to her and what she wanted rather than being my natural confident self and enjoying the company. I completely lost myself in the process of trying to be with her. I became extremely indecisive even when it came to things as simple as saying a word or answering simple questions. I wasn’t focused at all on my hobbies and was more so worried about saying something stupid or saying something that might offend her, my whole life was me thinking about her and the potential relationship. I became extremely clingy and started to worry about what she was doing when she wasn’t with me, or if she was actually asleep when she said she would go to bed. This is not the way I want to be, I realize that I have lost a lot of masculine energy and today that starts to change. Ima carry myself different and ima assert myself a lot more and take more chances when it comes to everyday life. Focus more on me and let the rest come naturally. Forcing yourself to be a nice guy is not going to make things better for you especially when it comes to a potential relationship. Never change for anybody but yourself.
Many of us guys who grow up watching RomCom have been there, brother. Right now i am consuming No more mr. Nice Guy by D. Glover
"Never change for anybody but yourself." I love it! Thank you ...and your story so encouraged me. William
Yes, very well said. I know my response is much later but I truly hope things worked out for the best for you and that you fully came back to yourself. Never compromise yourself for anybody- they are not worth it- and the ones who really care for you will never ask you to compromise yourself. Peace and Love 😍🥰
I’m exactly in the same situation. Thanks for sharing it and all the best 👍
Thanks for sharing your story! My situation echos yours
Aaron, I normally agree with you but I think this video is missing the female perspective. Telling men not to be nice guys could be interpreted by some to mean ; Don't be chivalrous; Don't be a gentleman ; Don't help women - Some men might think that they look weak for just being nice. As a woman; I deeply value genuinely kind men. They should be honoured and loved- They shouldn't be told to stop being kind to women. It's true that some women don't appreciate them but it is also true that some men don't appreciate kind and loving women.
@Abraham If a man isn't nice to me...I'm leaving. Life is too short to waste on men who are unkind. Nice men make better husbands. Bad boys are time wasters. Smart women know this.
Kindness in men is sexy!
Indeed, seems like everything in the universe has a polar opposite. And we are compelled to obey our own Polarity 🖖
Only if the energy is healthy and the action is for the good of humanity
I have found that teachers also have a huge impact on our kids’ development for life; good or bad!! We all have distinct memories of how positively or negatively a teacher has affected us that has stuck with us no matter how old you are. Teachers are with kids more hours in a day than parents. We need more really good teachers for the priceless impact they can have on kids. It’s definitely a team effort between parents & teachers! Blessings of God’s light, love and compassion to all! 💗 🙏
If we paid teachers like we pay athletes we would change society in a generation
Linda Ruddy or take back your power and let go of the memories - sending love to them is transformative
Megi Stardust Totally agree! Anyone that can help you to get on a better path or save your life emotionally or physically, is way more valuable than the ridiculous amounts of money paid to athletes! I’m sure after parents being home with their children will realize that as far as valuing the good teachers, so hoping that changes very soon! Blessings to you, Megi! 🙏
Ahmed Abdulai Yes, teaching them these things, since these types of things aren’t taught in school, so we are the teachers at home that are here for life occurrences. Some listen and some have to learn on their own. When you hear them teaching a friend, you know they really were listening. Teaching others is easier than ourselves sometimes. We’re all on our own journey, so having loving support, guidance and compassion; especially as they move out on their own into this world, letting go as a parent is difficult. Sending them the daily loving energy is so very important for them and us as parents. Thank you, Ahmad! Blessings to you.
Amen!! 💯
Great video 🔮 The divine masculine and feminine has been massively under attack for a long time. Its now the time for us to fully awaken to that fact and take back our innate power so we can find balance and peace with each other 🙏💜⭐
Wow! This is better than going to a psychiatrist. LOL! I think I've learned more today than any psychiatrist was able to explain. All he wanted to do is flood me with medication. I feel so much better listening to this and no, I don't take any medications, because I don't like them. :) Thank you so much for sharing all of this information. It helps so much! :)
Good on you for not taking their "treatment", psychiatrists are glorified drug pushers. Psychologists it seems are the real deal but I'd imagine it's not as easy to get one without money.
Women can’t trust in the masculine and have to become masculine to protect ourselves so idk about this. I feel like I can’t just start practicing surrendering to masculine energy in the world bc then I’d be abused and taken advantage of. It’s just sad the state of the world. Men and women have gotten so far from our natural feelings hormones thoughts etc. like when he said be more emotional express urself “dance” I’ve been taught that emotions is weakness and I shouldn’t show me express to other ppl how I’m feeling. It’s just a lot to hear that now I have to work on all these things when I’ve adapted due to the state of society today. Maybe this worked in the 50s but 2020 is a new age.
It works today bae. My leading energy is masculine and yesterday, i broke my heart and i let my masculine deal with that pain it almost killed me. All that close offness is terrible. My divine masculine didn't like that tho so i am better cos i have been able to heal the wounded masculine. Despite having a leading masculine energy, i once dealt with people pleasing. So it's really about letting go b. You are doing well, accepting as you are doing with this comment is a step so you are doing well. Applause to you.
I think this is something that a lot of ppl struggle with but in order to heal the root cause of the distrust we need to heal ourselves. When we have the belief that others can make us feel secure, loved, safe, or happy we give our power away. But if we truly understand that our emotions (joy, love, security, etc) comes from within us, we can understand that even if another person doesn't "show up" we've got our own back.
Negative Masculine energy is damaging. I too have been hurt by negative masculinity and having lost trust in men it was difficult. After marrying my husband he taught me to trust in a steady man who cared about others, who did nice things for me, and treated me kindly. Before getting married I felt like I had to act feminine to please my parents. I act more masculine than my adopted mom would have hoped for. My husband is okay with that because he usually has somewhat more feminine energy. Just because a majority of men are negative in their broken masculinity doesn't mean that they are all that way.
@@britt1525 it's a difficult thing to learn and we are doing it irrespective.
You have to be discerning, you can’t just trust any masculine. But the idea that the whole world is like this, that you can’t ever trust a man, only holds you back
From my heart to whoever reading this I hope you appreciate the greatness you hold from within. YOU are perfection just the way YOU ARE . You radiate love, kindness, strength, passion, will and light. You are beautiful! Wish you such a blessed and bright day. Cheers! 💙🌺
Thank you, and so are you!
@@deadhead1968 you aren't
Wow!! This is what happened in my relationship that just ended. I had lack of trust and he was a total people pleaser. Also I could never relax and feel safe in his masculine energy. Thank you for explaing this in detail.
SAME!! 🙌🏿
Ugh ! This is my experience now . Sometimes I’ll even act like I don’t know something or act afraid of something just to get my husband to be in his masculine .. :(
Same!!!
I’ve never been attracted to super sensitive and emotional men. But I’ve also never been attracted to Alpha Males either. Both are a turn off to me personally. I need something in the middle. Balance is key.
Balance is everything.
Abraham yes
I completely agree. There is a time and a place for everything.
This is more important than people realize! I always thought something was off with men who want to be overly masculine, as if they are compensating for something else. It’s okay for men to have some feminine energy as well!
It hunduism it's called shiva shakti. Shiva is the masculine polarity and Shakti is the feminine polarity. We all have shivashakti within us. If you cover one eye with each eye and look at your face you will realize one side looks more masculine and one side looks more feminine.
OMG the “typical” situation happened to me. I was naturally very feminine, but at the age of 19 I found out that my dad cheated on my mom , and I actually became more masculine. Luckily, I found my purpose and it resulted in me having more freedom.
Thanks for sharing, how did you find your purpose?
When is your Birthday?
Let's go deeper into the real truth. The true "spiritual" journey is letting go of form and gender ideology. YOU are not broken. Wherever YOU go there you are, the Soul. The you that you "think" you are is not you
Yes thank god someone said the truth 😂❤
althoug what he says is partly truth. i can relate to being feminine with bit of wounded masculine. My dad was abusive in a multiple ways always cheating so that left me in fear that men arn't trust worthy and i have fear that love will leave me. That makes me more controling in a relationship beacause i lack to trust people. I understand that i need to work on that for my own good and happiness.
However to think that u need to put yours self into this box in order to think that you are now healed is funny 😀 you don't need to feel guilty as a women if you are leading and assertive they are positive humen qualities for both gender. Same goes for a men . Men shouldn't feel less of a men if they are emotional and vulnerable.
In lot of cases expectation and pressure that we put on our selves about what is a true feminine and true masculene can cause harm to our true identity. Every person is unique with both feminine and masculine and if you want to find a relationship thats hapy and fulfilling u should find a partner that matches u and isn't scared of masculine qualities u have as a women or vixe versa ❤
True but you're here on this earth playing a role, and part of that character you play has a particular biology(your sex) with a particular set of accompanying traits(your gender role if you will).
Though God may have come here to play as us, we didn't come here to play as God if you get me haha you're not the unlimited, you're limited to certain roles/functions. It's not about eliminating the ego completely, if it was only that simple. It's about developing a healthy ego as opposed to a neurotic ego, becoming who you are meant to be so to speak. I certainly haven't got the hang of it yet but here's hoping. Have a good one
@@AnradTheUnvaxxed I like my roles with butter
@@MsMeGUka i don't really think he's saying that, but I appreciate your view. I feel he was talking specifically about polarisation. And there are different levels of awareness and reality. At one level of reality what he's talking about is true. Everything is energy, just like at a separate reality there is no selfhood but rather an expression of source. The wounded feminine energy and masculine energy needs to be healed through shadow work at this level of reality, and he's talking about energy not necessarily based on gender dynamics. Anyway that's my take away. LOL! Have a beautiful day!
I am very much in my wounded masculine energy. I have a lot of failed relationships where there was just no trust. I'm so closed off as a partner also, scared of showing vulnerability
SAME I feel like cold Man and whenever I am dating and a guy is good to me, I just get mad and think he is playing me.
@@danamuller5016 I just googled how to heal that energy, I came across Jake Woodard he talks a lot about it.
Juliet Ngweno everyone who is chosen has to go through something
@@jewlzn7130 thank you
just what i’ve been thinking about. i operate as a divine masculine with wounded divine feminine traits.
Same
Same😥
So I’m confused. If you have wounded feminine, doesn’t it mean you would have the people pleasing, unworthy, lack of barriers traits, not the masculine traits?
it tilted my balance. six months later with a lot of shadow work and meditation, it’s much more clear now that my divine masculine was in overdrive and in defense.. denying the much needed healing of the divine feminine.
my takeaway was that the scales had shifted heavily for the sake of avoidance. meaning utter chaos lol. especially since i’m a libra 😉
@@Mosdefinitelyable wounded masculine means you are not expressing masculine traits, therefor, being a people pleaser / nice guy. wounded feminine would be the opposite, not expressing you’re feminine traits,
When you say “the feminine wants to be lead by the masculine” I think many masculines think this means they should control feminines. I don’t want anyone leading me lmao I want to lead myself 😂 I do want that comfort of masculine energy because I’ve never had it in a healthy way, so the idea of being safe resonates. There’s a big difference between “letting a man feel like a man, and a woman be a woman” (gender roles) and tapping into the energies in a healthy way for your specific partnership. I think more people need to understand this.
Yes this is exactly what I have been thinking! I saw many women and men on the internet saying that when they life in this plurality, if they be more feminin that will also mean that they are going to life in these old gender roles! It's like: don't be so independent, be more feminin = don't start your own business, let your man do that and you can stay home and do nothing. THAT'S NOT WHAT IT MEANS! There are so many successful highly feminine woman out there and I think it's time that we include the term that every strong woman needs a strong shoulder. Because I feel like it's seen as though successful men need the support of their woman but if a woman wants to be successful she has to do everything on her own. Wich is not true. And I saw sooo many woman say that they want to go into their feminin power but if they will they can't build that business or those dreams. We all have both in us! And being an independent person is different from letting yourself be led by your man! (like him telling you to cancel this meeting or making a decision so you don't run into trouble cause the feminine just wants to create and explore and maybe doesn't recognize such things)
@@fireshine4105 that is so true, I’ve never thought about it that way. I definitely have that mindset of needing to do everything on my own 😅 but everyone needs support! And I would much rather be in my feminine energy tbh than overexerting myself (which i do all the time). It so important to have that balance, and it’s nice to have a partner that is supportive of that. I see so many weird comments on the internet too, toxicity and misunderstanding is everywhere unfortunately! Learning about how to balance our own energy would help so much and also to understand healthy relationships in general
So true
Real men, strong men have a need to server their women and for women to appreciate this. This is vastly different from leading as in bossing around.
I am glad that you are showing the positive side of masculine and feminine energies. Many times when we think of masculine energy, the shadow side comes to mind of power and control. But it is much more than that. And extremely important! And without it, it is true, the feminine can't relax and flow. I'm glad you are making these videos. Thank you. Namaste 🙏
I'm the only one that when Aaron says "and I'm helping people expand their consciousness", I'm saying it with him?😂
no me too lol
An then a wee giggle sometimes ?
Hi Aaron, my understanding of this is that masculine and feminine energies represent duality, which we are moving away from in 5D. Masculine energies have been dominant on the planet for a very long time, whilst the divine feminine has been supressed. We are now moving into a time of healing these energies within ourselves individually and collectively, to come into balance and wholeness. I am a woman with strong feminine energy but for me, there is nothing more attractive than a man in touch with his feminine side in a balanced beautiful way.
*Is t it true that every man has a masculine and feminine side? How does your balance look like Aaron?* 🙏
every human does because you have both hormones testosterone and estrogen even though one dominant than other one like yin(feminine) and yand(masculine)
I've known about this for a number of years now and I've tried to explain it to quite a few people, the importance of masculine/feminine polarity, or balance in a romantic relationship. I tend to lose people fairly early in explaining it, especially the men. Perhaps it's not a masculine subject to talk about, so they get bored and tune out. Women seem more open to considering this stuff, from what I've experienced. Or maybe it's the way I'm approaching it. It makes so much sense though, I'm not sure why so many people out there fail to understand it or even take interest in it, with all the dysfunction we see in relationships now.
Please do a video about telekinesis 🙏
This was so needed and so informative. Thank you so much Aaron. 🙏🏼🙏🏼💫
congrats on almost one million!🤍 thanks for being someone who helps others
appreciate you!
Amazing Aaron this is exactly what has happened in my relationship because I really have a wounded feminine and cannot trust the masculine so then I make myself the masculine, I make myself the controller, and it has been a cause for the end of the relationship. Knowing this is so empowering and I hope it fixes this!
Another thing to check out that may shine some more light is attachment styles... also the dynamic between your care givers growing up. You will be re-creating that dynamic so that you can heal it! Hope this helps!
I love your work Aaron,we are here and fully awakening,but I’ve been awake my whole life,knew I didn’t fit the “norm”!Im holding the light so others may see in the hour of darkness!❤️👍
I too have never felt normal. As a kid I always knew I didn't think like the other girls. It made me insecure. I'm still working on that. Lol
Who else is trying to grow their YT channel during the quarantine. Let’s help eachother ! 👁💙🥺
your content seems chill but i’d recommend leaning more towards happy, and up beat topics, since naturally sad and deprecating topics aren’t attractive
Yessir 👁
WHAT quarantine
The Fearless Man on yt is really informative for healthy masculine energy. I just wish there was a feminine equivalent.
It's everywhere. You don't even have to look on youtube for healthy feminine energy. Look around the world.
There are a couple of youtubers who talk about the feminine, just look :))
This is the video I needed to see right now! I asserted my boundaries and because I did this- the masculine backed off- hurts but I understand why… this explains a lot
My polarity is ok
But this video is sort of a Eye opener.
More on this Aaron! I have been studying polarity in relationships but never heard the tension part. Interesting for sure. I think more conversations need to be done on this because relationship (especially when it is healthy) helps us all.
hey aaron. this energy is all about children and family. thats why the feminine wants the protective masculine.
The whole thing only makes sense if u make this point
Not everyone watching this has a family (children)..so maybe you should be more open-minded.
TG, well yeah, but we have human instinct that we don't always recognize/acknowledge for what it actually is.
Going through a breakup right now, my inner masculine and feminine are so wounded it's unreal. These videos are really helping me. Thank you for everything you do x
What's your birthdate?
Great video and needed for many ⭐️
I define the balanced/healthy/empowered Masculine towards Feminine as “4 P’s”:
- Presence
- Protection
- Provision
- Patronage
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This is a powerful video. Thank you for putting it together! Very healing.
Not true. You cannot put those 2 in a box. Especially trying to explain with so many words and details and aspects. You’re only gonna end up going in circles. It won’t make sense instead, the truth is the masculine is outward in the feminine is inward. Everything else is different for everyone.
The man is to become the stage and the woman to become the dancer 👌🏼
HOw do I heal my masculine who had to do soooo much as a kid, teenager because of toxic, abusive parents? I think my masculine is tired because had to decide, take over so much and wants a break but I can't have a break, I have to get things done as an adult. I don't know what to do.
Ahh... That is why i lost attraction to my boyfriend maybe we will be ex. When we talked the first time, i was so being in tune in masculine energy. I have a job, i have an income, i always direct, blunt, i make lot of decision and lead. When i lost job, i start to become more feminine. I want to relax, i want to feel safe, i want to be taken care of. Then, after i lost job, i realize that for this whole time. My boyfriend atrracted to my masculine energy and he is more in tune in feminine energy. That cause a problem in us cause we both embody a feminine energy.
I support you Aaron.. BUT I must say I felt uncomfortable and almost cringy when seeing you hesitate, trying to think of good words to describe healthy feminine energy & corresponding activities. It’s obvious you know a lot about how this concept relates to your life. The holes where there are lack of knowledge were quite evident. So your message wasn’t as clear and impactful as usual.
This msg isn’t to complain about my personal non resonation..
It’s to give good constructive feedback. Like I said, I want Aaron to succeed. My only problem is the fact he is very unlikely to ever even see this. But if he needs to hear it I know spirit will weasel it in somehow.)
Aaron inspired me to start my TH-cam channel
Can somebody tell me whats the energy situation in my case?
The sex is with my women is great but there are all the time conflicts because everyone wants to lead and to control. I think its two times masculine Energie but I don’t understand why the sex is good since sex is hugely based on polarity 🌞
Yea I lean feminine. I do express myself but it takes work. It’s not my strong suit. My twin flame, she leans masculine.
althoug what he says is partly truth. i can relate to being feminine with bit of wounded masculine. My dad was abusive in a multiple ways always cheating so that left me in fear that men arn't trust worthy and i have fear that love will leave me. That makes me more controling in a relationship beacause i lack to trust people. I understand that i need to work on that for my own good and happiness.
However to think that u need to put yours self into this box in order to think that you are now healed is funny 😀 you don't need to feel guilty as a women if you are leading and assertive they are positive humen qualities for both gender. Same goes for a men . Men shouldn't feel less of a men if they are emotional and vulnerable.
In lot of cases expectation and pressure that we put on our selves about what is a true feminine and true masculene can cause harm to our true identity. Every person is unique with both feminine and masculine and if you want to find a relationship thats hapy and fulfilling u should find a partner that matches u and isn't scared of masculine qualities u have as a women or vixe versa ❤
Truth well spoken
Hey my dude you have stillness and movement backwards on this. Look at Paul Cheks 4 doctor approach as a reference. Dr. Movement is yang fire and only becomes yin when in excess, think of the emaciated looking distance runner as an example of excess.
Movement creates more heat and thus more yang energy and makes us sweat. Stillness is passive and therefore yin, like when we sleep at night. "Every fire needs something to burn", the fire element within us sits on top of earth and water respectively. Don't take my word for it, feel it out and see if it resonates 👍
holistic health ben yeah I always thought feminine was still, masculine was movement.
Feminine conceives the idea and the masculine makes it happen
@@marianabarreto9115I 100% agree and I look at it this way personally; fire is the essence of yang/masculine energy and what does it do to most anything it touches?? Burns it, metabolizes it, consumes it. Fire is inherently catabolic and related to metabolism which is increased by movement.
Like when a man or woman enters the gym and breaks down muscle tissue, which only grows if there is enough passive sleep/recovery later. Yin/feminine is passive and restorative.
We see this in foods as well. Animals get up and move around and meat has always been considered more inherently yang and takes more energy and time to breakdown which in turn increases metabolic rate.
Plants don't get up and move and are still, yet plant foods/ medicines are the most restorative from my experience.
I've always been feminine as a man, and don't really like it, but I like some parts of it. I'm attracted to women, but I'm often mistaken for being gay. I've been more masculine lately than in the past, but I don't really like my leading feminine energy.
When you're leading you are tapping into the masculine side.
I’m a masculine woman and have often been mistaken for gay by others as well.
You got to study demonology and how we are all trying to clear our demons and whether there a generation demon some have been in the blood line for a 1000 generations . We might have 10 to a couple of hundred . And they carry the victim narcissist traits and whether there out side of us or actually part of us . So many coming up at the moment with positive energy the negative has to heal . As spiritual as we are have some faith in the plan and trust God and jesus and keep it clear that its ur inner healing for love .
I like how you say "practical and relatable" I think that men or women who are angry with the opposite sex, are making their own issues worse. It is harmful to direct fear and hate towards the opposite sex in general. Healing is within by accepting ourselves on all levels, becoming the best self we can be (our ideal life ) We shouldn't get hung up on the physical in terms of cosmetic surgeries, etc...
The guy I’m dealing with is very feminine.. it’s starting to cause problems because I want to relax into my femininity and be protected. He can’t seem to switch over to his masculine.
Wren Linnet Knock yourself out becoming a corporate tax slave, I will happily pass along that role any day of the week
Wren Linnet you really don’t seem to understand feminine and masculine energy. A woman can be feminine and still independent / capable of living on her own. And I don’t need to be protected, but sometimes it would be nice to feel like I am.
Good point that these wounds come out in some areas of life and not others
Blame Patriarchy which has been pushed through these varieties of religions. The world was a Matriarch and spiritual not religious in ancient times.
Hi Aaron! I am so thankful for the TH-cam algorithm that suggested your videos to me most recently. I already know that I'm going to watch this video several more times to finish processing it. Thank you very much for making this content. It really helped me understand some things about myself on a deeper level and the people in my life. Peace & Blessings from the most High. 🥰🙏🏽🙏🏽.
This is such an important video. THANK YOU SO MUCH 😇💞🙏🏼💫🌈
That was the best.. I thank you for clearing up my confusion. This video is just what I needed to see. Right on & thanks Aaron
We won't forget your stepmom lol.(Great video BTW)
I hope his ex step Mom sees this!!🤣
Thanks you Aaron to expaaand my consciousness. Your channel is awsome. Greetings from India🙏
11th Like this beautiful Now moment , make sure you make time to do something you love today .
Kyoko kirigiri Love👩❤️👨❤️❤️❤️❤️😍😍😍😍😍😎😉😇😇🙂😃😹😻🤓😎😉😚😙😁😀😅😃😃PlAlRIS will🇫🇷🇯🇵
Thank you for bringing back the high energy when closing with the word “peace” I missed that! I watch all your videos🙏🏽🦋
Its all about balancing the masculine and feminine energy insides of us
Thank you, Aaron. This was an amazing and entertaining video. I learned so much. Please keep doing more videos on this subject.
This was a great teaching.🤓Thank you for the examples from your own real life experience. 👠🥾 I’m definitely sharing this with my community. 🌟 Blessings to you.
Very glad you took a break from the current conspiracy theory videos. I've been watching your videos daily for about a year now and I just can't put any of my energy into the negative events of the world any more. This is what I came for. Thanks bro, you have taught me alot and kept me on track
wow this was SO helpful, thank you so much!
Can you make more videos on healing wounds for masculine and feminine energies? I am usually masculine around the women I like, but I've noticed I tend to display traits of both wounded masculine and feminine throughout my life. Not just with women I date, but with my parents and family and even my friends
This hands down has to be one of your most resourceful videos. Kudos Aaron! ✨
I do appreciate you specifying masculine and feminine energies. I‘ve always naturally had more masculine energy than feminine energy (I’m a gay woman). But I want both polarities within me to be organic and healthy. I just went through a breakup so it’s a great time for me to recalibrate. My stepdad was not a people pleaser but he was a “nice guy” otherwise. My mom did cheat on him and I think that did have an influence on my relationships with the women I dated.
The information is mind boggling and very new to me. Perhaps another video on this will get people to get use to this and understand it more because this subject also plays a big role in good and bad relationships.
Great teaching, how does a woman flow in her divine feminine when she is a single mother and her divine feminine is bruised? A single mother has to flow in the divine masculine to raise the kids however, may desire to flow in the divine feminine. This is what I experience so how do we find balance?
That was beautiful and very helpful. Thank you for making these videos it is greatly appreciated by me 😌
one of your best videos, I think this will be helpful to a lot of people
Gamechanger
Mind blown. You totally made it click for me. Perfect timing on the message Aaron! Would love to hear more! 💕☀️
1. Please be careful when using the expression ‘ nice guy’. In a grown, mature woman’s vocabulary ‘ nice’ is a compliment and describes a good person, a potential partner. I understand that in popular culture a ‘ nice guy’ is often portrayed as a people pleaser and loser, but let’s please not perpetuate this. That association subconsciously implies that being good to others is seen as weakness, which, again for a real woman looking for a high value partner, is a non negotiable. All the things listed at top left that describe divine masculine in my books would equate to a ‘ nice guy that I would gladly see as potential partner’.
I was the 126th like and 1/26 is my birthday. ;) synchronicity signposts are the greatest
This is "DEEP" Most Grateful💞🙏
2. Please elaborate on what exactly you mean by positive and negative emotional tension. ? How, when and in what forms does that manifest? And how is it possible that the feminine does now know the difference between the positive and negative? I doubt that they don’t. As you mentioned divine feminine is very intuitive and one thing it’s really good at is picking up intention from the other party.
Can both energies be wounded equally?
if one is wounded so is the other
GAME CHANGER, game changer!!! dude stop
I was brought up to always be "nice".... Now I can refer family and friends to this video so I can finally RELAX AND JUST BE!!!
🥰🥰🥰 happy Sunday to you all!
The twelve zodiac signs. Some zodiac signs are Feminine, others are Masculine.
Feminine signs are Taurus, Cancer, Virgo, Scorpio, Capricorn, and Pisces.
Masculine signs are Aries, Gemini, Leo, Libra, Sagittarius, and Aquarius.
I understand you though. My mom was physically, emotionally and mentally abusive as well
All of this polarity is *such an eye opener* to the *facts and truth*
Any one else *really realizing* something about them selves and the relationship they're in?
I'm definitely looking at the balance I'm trying to create in my life with that sense of security from my own work, through my TH-cam channel and other sources, to create the security I crave but also make sure that it's still a feminine energy that is dominantly me, to find a *balance within myself* that is lacking in the exterior world.
As a therapist and Life Coach i always thought i had to be THE NICE GUY lol.
After doing my own Shadow Work on myself i figured out THATS NOT WHO I AM.
Exactly what you found out about yourself. Having a dad i felt like i had to please cos i wasnt good daughter enough i became people pleaser as you did.
Working on being AUTHENTIC allowing myself to speak or react the way i FEEL not the way im SUPPOSED TO helped me a lot.
Thank you for this amazing video.❤
Wow, spot on.
thank you, again! You Have been such Pivotal part of my healing after a Relationship became toxic, and you have helped me see all the places I need to heal in me, to move forward. Thanks Aaron!!
I am male in this incarnation and naturally carry a more feminine energy. This has been a great challenge for me to embody, more so heal. As I become aware of how I’ve in a sense “run away” from my own natural frame, to embody a “masculine mask” to people please, to be accepted by society.
A word of caution for men watching this. I highly recommend you do not try to lead a woman. That which seeks to lead is not fit to do so. Leaders are decided and made by their followers. In other words by you embodying certain qualities you lead by example, which mean that people around you notice your behaviour and principles, are inspired by them and DECIDE to follow in your footsteps, fuelled by inspiration. In no moment did you seek dominion over those people.
When it comes to a romantic feminine - masculine dynamic, a divine masculine worships the divine feminine and is inspired by it, in awe of its difference, beauty and creative power it carries. Because of this awe ( feminine is the muse to masculine if you will) the masculine WANTS to protect, provide ( giving dynamic ) this magical mysterious different being in front of them. When they proceed to GIVE to the feminine, without expecting any thing in return, but simply out of awe and devotion to it, the feminine feels SEEN, SAFE, APPRECIATED, loved and worshipped. They feel divine. This very behavior lead by the masculine ALLOWS the feminine to be the feminine. And that triggers immense gratitude, surrender, relaxation, and only then the feminine will willingly FOLLOW this masculine figure to the end of the world. BECAUSE they have filled their cup, they have showed their respect and admiration to their true essence. This is the natural order of things and if you ever attempt to lead someone before they have acknowledged you as their leader, your leadership will never be true, nor it will last.
What I certainly agree with in this video is that masculine is attractive to the feminine when they know who they are, what they stand for and are secure in all their dimensions - mental, physical, financial, spiritual. You are your own person and you like who you are, you are perfectly self sufficient and abundant and in fact are now looking for someone to share that abundance, knowledge, wisdom and life force with. The feminine brings a new, unique, fun, playful, beautiful, sensual, emotional and creative dynamic in the masculine’s life, which is why they are attracted to it and want that in their life.
Lost trust in my mother. Highly abusive. Always using my vulnerability against Me. Always accusing her husband and her children of what she was guilty of.
I tend to stay away ftom people since I started therapy over 20 yrs ago. I don't want relationship with anyone .
Yup it gets lonely sometimes but jeez it's much more peaceful than watching, listening and dealing with nonsense ftom people who are nuts.
God!! This puts sooo much into perspective!! I have never heard it explained like this!! Thankyou!
Aaron honey, I have to say I disagree.
I do agree That Polarity ends exist, sure!. But, they are part of a Whole. It is never about two people, it is always about self.
The partner responsibility is not to "Please Another", but rather be a fun playmate. That's basically where his "responsibility" ends.
So yeah, the truth of the matter is, nobody is responsible for Anyone. But they still do acts of kindness. Why? Because it feels FUN! That's the only reason a person could ever need.
By no means, a partner has a specific "Role". Good Example: If a masculine guy want's to wake up tomorrow morning, and wear a dress, and say "hey! look at me! I am a beautiful fairy
I was the opposite, i was Feminine wounded in Business, and Masculine wounded in relationships, love this!