I would never marry a man who took off on his child or children 😭. But yes men who take full care of their children get looked at as gold because usually it's the women who has the child. But those men are bigger red flags because is the mother unfit? Why did you get a woman who is unfit pregnant? If she is then why did you get the kid and not her? Too many questions and it's not worth it. I rather stay awayyy 😂
It only seems that way- because single dads are rare. When a man willing takes full custody of their kids he does get applauded. Single dads and single moms should get together, what I don’t promote is childless people getting with people who already have children.
@@Leleeve I know a guy who always talks about how much he loves children. His baby momma and child live in another city and he never visited. He just loves the idea of children. When I was with my ex and we were discussing children I noticed that whenever I thoight of children I thought of: How we should try to raise a kid, how we were gonna meet their needs, stuff like that. Important, practical stuff. When my ex brought up having children it was always only how he wanted to play with them and teach them his hobbies. Only the fun stuff.
it's rare and not only that, but single fathers have MORE resources. You have women that will cook, clean and help take care of his children for the bare minimum in a relationship.
Not the same dynamic. Single dads often have little to no contact or responsibility with their kids. The kids have NO IMPACT on his life. If I dated a single father who had nothing to to with his kids, HE IS GONE. don't tell me mama keeps kids away from you. If you love or want your kids, SEE THEM, VISIT THEM, SUPPORT THEM.
What do you want folks to say about single fathers. Are you talking about single fathers in general or the ones who are the primary caregivers of their kids. Problem is women don't care and their standards are basic as hell. All the man has to do is have a job and many will date him. Men require a whole bunch of stuff and women be jumping through hoops to meet these requirements.
The guy saying single mothers are easy, and that his wife was a single mom and they had sex the first night to prove his point was weird. He still married her 🙄
He is telling the truth. Men like him are single husbands. They are in everybodies dms being thirsty. He is saying he married the single mother because he is a parasite and wanted an easy host.
And who made them single mother 🤔 and also why are they acting like they treat single childfree women any better. The dustiness is real 🤭💀 decenter them
You’re right! The men who prey on single moms don’t just magically turn into good men in the presence of childless women. Women have to navigate the same BS. Certainly, for single moms, the danger to their kids is more immediate, but nothing is stopping predators from dating/marrying childless women and having kids with them.
Thats the funny part. Trust we get the same men. I will say, single moms are quick to cut men off faster - we have a little person that takes up considerable amount of time, so our tolerance is lower, especially if we are really taking care of our kids.
True but when you don't have kids the relationship is a little bit funnier if you didn't get yourself knocked up and even if you do at least he will know you have common sense and you were willing to use protection. You can also hide your body count easier that way too.
Yeah, I am at some point I just stopped watching the video. Mister child predator smile with the bald head at 11:15 is where I couldn't be bothered anymore.
If they aren’t good enough for your kids they aren’t good enough for you. Don’t give any man your body or time you wouldn’t feel comfortable around your children.
@@KayUniverseyes this is me to a T. I’m very cautious and selective because of my son and haven’t even been interested in dating because of him! And I always tell myself if I do meet someone I like and want to get to know better, he will NOT be meeting my son for a very long time!
These men want to be right so bad. She’s not talking about men not marrying single mothers. She’s talking about a topic that claims men don’t date single mothers. By the way, my mother had 7 kids before meeting my stepdad who is an amazing man.
Not sure what the first guy is talking about. Single mothers look all kinds of ways. As a teacher I've seen all different kinds of mothers and they all look different - some pretty and well put together and some not so pretty and struggling. Any woman having sex can become a single mother. Just like any man can be a single father.
Right ! They are the #1 group of males that turn women into single mothers no matter the race of said woman ! At first I wanted them to stop talking but now I realized it’s better if they just keeping exposing and embarrassing themselves on Al Gore’s internet 😂
They group us the same. I don't bother to correct them, because their issue is with motherhood in general. That's why I am glad many women are opting out of motherhood.
Exactly I got married young had a kid young just like they asked of me only to be saddled with a man who had never been faithful to me and I let it slide because "he's a man they cheat it's just them" only to have him skip state when the baby came and all my attention went on taking care of her and cause I couldn't fuck him while I was healing 4 years later I'm still technically married to him cause I ain't got the money to track him down and force him to court we all know if the court ordered him to visit his daughter he wouldn't otherwise she'd have met him literally at any point in her life
@PeaceofReese Don't conflate.. If the rate is highest amongst BW, then we know that the overwhelming majority contracted it from equally irresponsible, (possibly) non monagous BM!!! The statistic doesn't state single mothers... SMH!! 🙄 Do better
no. A lot of single mommas want to mock women back then by saying they had “shotgun weddings”. Shotgun or not, they atleast had the good sense to get the wedding. Shame is a good thing to have. Not enough shame these days. Prideless people are bringing us down. Most of the people destroying our communities and filling our prisons come from these shameless situations.
Single mom here , my partner met me when my son was 9 . Dude is Chinese and his family wasn’t having it. He did not care. Its been 8 years. We are spoiled and Loved ♥️
Pris is telling the truth, they DO target for easy access to either YOU or your children. Ladies, I worked as a corrections nurse and nine times out of ten, the predator's number one target was....SINGLE MOMS so they could gain access to the children and sometimes it would go on for YEARS, there was a teen girl that unalived herself by train because her mother didn't believe her when she told her, she just laid down on that track and let the train do the rest. These men talking in this video is EXACTLY the same thing I heard ALL DAY LONG between the inmates when time was short, and they were about to get released. They talk, and they give each other "advise." Stay safe out there ladies.
Why would I, someone who has worked very hard to be where I am today, want to marry a single mother? I and other men who are top producers in society prefer to start our own families. Nothing against single mothers, it’s just our preference.
@@Dr.GD4 Is anyone telling you, you have to date single mothers or trying to convince you to do so? Everyone has preferences and can date who they want. There are 8billion people on the planet. Single mothers are dating and getting married regardless of what your preferences are. 😉
@@SupraSoulStar Don’t have anyone forcing me to do anything/date single mothers. I dated women in the past and they were mad when I left after they mentioned they have a child on the date. Not physically just leave on the date, but I tell them I am not interested after and explain I want to start my own family. I’m a 28 year old anesthesiologist.
It just about self love and standards and picking a man that wants a family even better pick a man with as similar age kids and pick the one who is good with his kids. It works better if they are family orientated
EVERY LAST ONE OF THESE MEN MISSED THE PART WHEN SHE SAID SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND. “No one wants to commit to yall…” But they literally have boyfriends. Yall don’t listen fr.
@EmyEgy31 Yes, dear. I know single mothers get married, too. I am a nurse practitioner who has to treat their children when they get abused by step daddy, and it happens ALL THE TIME. I am a mandated reporter in 3 states, so I work with CPS every day. Step fathers are very busy.
I meet my husband as a single mom . Not to brag but he is a wonderful father to both our kids & husband to me . People got to stop listening to social media it’s the devil !
Seriously! My mom was a single mom of 3, and my stepdad proposed to her in less than 3 months. She didn’t even want him at first when she told me lmao. It’s really when you’re not looking that these men want you the most. Social media is a damn lie!
I think it's funny how they claim single moms are easier and can't find men who will commit to them aka marriage.... meanwhile married men are THEE MOST UNCOMMITTED men I've ever met in my life!!!
If I was the stepkid to the last guy I would lock myself in my room crying, cause why would you tell the world you don't want to deal with me? As a husband why did you tell everyone your wife is easy and you settled for her? You literally said you would prefer a woman without kids, but stuck with who you could get. 😒
I think that 70 percent of men that approach women with kids have bad intentions. 30 percent might actually be fine with it and will take them seriously. But the majority think she is an easy target.
70% of men that approach women have bad intentions We aren't with our kids 24/7 They have school, friends, other family members, extracurriculars..Men don't automatically know if you have kids or not and they're still slime balls no matter what
@JAYWIL01 Yet those same men complain about family court and child support. Those same men are filled with STDs , low sperm counts and all. You males think randomly targeting women who have done absolutely nothing to you makes you a “ real man”, but your karma will hit in the end- all alone and slowly dying
Ahhh, it's a beautiful time to live in the sticks, grow my garden, craft refurbished items, cook, cut my grass, go fishing, leave the country with my girls, live free of noise pollution, and live free of these emotional serial killers. I protect my peace and mental health at all costs.
Same but I don't cook but I have every fruit trees in my yard lol the fishes I have I brought for the pond and 284 koi fishes in my pool but I do have a river at the end of the road well I didn't build any roads yet but the river is at the end of the sugar cane and chocolate trees I bring my nieces and sisters during summer break cause they didn't finish building their homes yet but they also think 8bdrm 5bm is too much for just me but they help occupied it when we go on vacation or when they go out there for a funeral there house's are a mile apart but only us so I know u love just chilling with nature and not have to worry about ppl estate when you go out there alone even though I live alone in the states it's something about eating cucumberlemon leche grapes papaya mango pineapple coco/chocolate etc straight from the tree I'm thinking about paying someone to pick stuff so I'm less wasteful but I only go 4 times a year so stuff just ripes and fall then end up growing more trees lol
The single mother was child free once upon a time. That man obviously wanted to leave her with the burden of child rearing. My question is, who is really the bad guy in this senario???
Also, these men say no one will want single moms and then say you look good so of course you will date...what kinda mess? Now it's you can't get a husband...but they are mad women are leaving useless husbands. Whenever they are proven wrong, they move the bar.
And they like to turn single mothers and child free women against each other. Young women vs old women. Stay at home moms vs working moms. Feminists vs traditionals etc The classic Divide and conquer game
@@user-kp3rc4eq8x divide and conquer is their mantra. They cant conquer anything without dividing us first. The list goes on: by skin color, hair texture, weight, class etc etc. And we fall for it each and every time.
@user-kp3rc4eq8x BAM! I see you get it! Many men hate the idea of women getting along and possibly even helping one another through crisis with men! This is why so many men hate the “single female friends” his girl has- because he knows how much common sense those single women really have. They always want women to go against each other because it helps them to appear as saviors , etc
The lady in the dark spoke the truth. I think a lot of men that talk down on single mothers had pick me moms and they saw them put up with a lot of bs. They think all women should/ will put up with the same bs.
Wow, I wonder what that one guy’s wife thinks of what he said about single mothers being easy access. I mean he blasted his feelings hard on social media and dragged her in too 😖
I don't really care about the dating part, only the BD part. As a single mother, Ladies, you don't need to be tied to that man forever, not even while your child is under 18. I know a lot of men think they will have access to the mother of their children forever and society makes us think we have to maintain a certain type of relationship with the father to be fair to the child. From a person that was raised by divorced parents, that each were raised by parents that were together until death did them part, and being a single mother myself; it is very possible to put a distance between your life and the father's life, while still making sure your child has as much access to their father as they need. A lot of these BDs out here may not like that, my ex sure didn't, but who tf cares? He's supposed to have a relationship with his child, not me. My communication with my ex has been whittled down to a place where, once our kid is 18, there will be zero reason for us to speak again. And that was absolutely by design.
The special type of men actually step up and those are the ones to commend. I have a stepfather who is amazing. My late husband stepped up before we even begam discussing it.
My motherless friend added that she was a single mom and her dating profile blew up. It's very easy for them to find a partner. The horrifying question as to why it was night and day is terrifying. Did they want access to her or to her "two young daughters" that she experimented with listing!? Terrifying. This question haunts me now.
My cousin was 25 , had 2 kids & a sugar daddy . A real sugar daddy , he was an African scientist , not a pretend one. She met her husband in Church, with her kids sitting next to her . She told him she had a man helping her . He said he could take care of her & her kids . They married 6 mos later . 25 yrs later , still married. He told her she didn't have to work . But , she always kept a part-time job . 😅
I was 18 when I had my son. His father was abusive and we broke up when my son was 3. I met a good man a few months later and we dated. He loved my son as his own 😊 we got married and had a baby Lol And we have been married for 17 years now ❤ There's always hope for single moms. Just stay celibate until you meet the right man. Always carry yourself with respect, dress modestly/ conservative and don't act wild. Men love a classy, good, down to earth woman.
My divorced friend is a single mom now, and it didn't take long for men to see her and start calling her fine, while the youngest baby was in her arms and she's taking the older two to school!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 That being said, she is DEFINITELY not easy! If the man is not her ex-husband or a relative, they're not allowed up in her house.
I never had a problem getting married as a single mom. Did it 5 times. And the man who equates single moms being any ''easier" than child free, that stereotype went out in the 1970's. Just cause a woman doesn't tell you about her sex life don't mean she don't have it. So many stupid ideas men have about womens bodies, they are easy to fool. p.s and you know all these men are someone elses ''baby daddy''.
@silververnallbells191 Well some of you tend to pick and choose , what’s acceptable for women- is it ok to shack up? Is it ok to get married? What part is ok for women? Easy answer: no part. Women be shunned either way, the easiest entity on the planet will always be a man- single or not, you can get a man’s pants for free forever.
😢 It really makes me sad how clueless many single moms are. They are putting their children right into the hands of predators, all the while thinking he is into HER. In my 30 years as a pediatric RN, ask me how many kids were abused and unalived by their single mothers' boyfriends. 😢😢 This is nothing to be proud of. It is frightening. Wake up single moms!!!
There are predators in your own family like your brother, father, etc. But no one wants to have that discussion. Leave me with the BS. Your sons and daughters can be predators too.
@@giovannanicolas8299 This video is about single moms and their new boyfriends. Why don't YOU stay on topic? Everybody knows there are also predators within families, but that is another video.
As a single Mom (divorced), being single has always been a choice. I have many options. And it's not all jerks, and men that don't want to love both you and the kids that want you to use you. There are good, desirable men that want us. The "nobody wants single Moms" thing is a lie.
I had a whole argument with my ex that there are people who look to date single women. He could not, and did not believe me. And me believeing that got him so bent out of shape. He’s an ex for many reasons, but even my non child having ass knew it
“Single mothers are easy” Absolutely NOT!! If you are a good single mother and actually care about your kids well being then that is false!! Just like the lady was saying in her response to that last video, you definitely CANNOT just walk up in my house or even spend the night, you CANNOT chill at my house because my child lives here!! wtf is he talking about. I know there are some single mothers out there that are easy and don’t care who they bring around their kids but a lot of us ALWAYS consider our children FIRST !!! We couldn’t care less about a man when we have vulnerable kids !
@@IngridLennon-np4ds exactly!!! They are so dumb, it’s like they really don’t hear themselves speak because if they did they would realize how contradictory and hypocritical they sound! Talking about single mothers yet you married one? The jokes are writing themselves 😂😂😂
I become a single mom of a boy after my husband died and haven’t dated after seeing how society views single moms. only thing I care about is brining in money and giving my son a normal childhood. You know a man is thinking with his d by his actions not words .
Ive been a single mom for the last 4 years and i have never had an issue dating it's always the first thing on any profile i make and no one has ever broken up with me because of it
My brother is attractive and has a great job and he married a single mother of two. I don't see single mothers having problems remarrying. His current wife, while she is his type, she's not a model or anything.
That fool contradicted himself, if no man would choose a single mother over a childless woman but you chose one and married her! Oh maybe the child free woman wasn’t an option! Solved
So I guess this explains the type of man who will actually get married to a woman that was priorly married and had six kids and loved her children as his own. What happened to the fourth type of man that would date a single mother? That's the problem y'all try to act as if there aren't men out there who will genuinely date single mothers and marry them. I've seen plenty of examples of men who would stand up to the plate and take care of their children and not be blood related at all. In fact, that's something else that women complain about is that these men will get with women that have kids and they'll take care of the woman with their kids and not even take care of their own. So I think he forgot the fourth type of man. Actually I would say five because there are men out there who are honorable and will take on the mantle that another man boy dropped.
They made some good points tho not even offended by some of it & should listen to them ,this actually helps more so u know wat to look out for . Be careful moms dnt let anyone around ur kids . ❤
The first guy-He need to take his narcissistic, contradicting self and go have a seat somewhere! Grow up!!!! Ladies take note that’s not how real man talks.
@@shaypope4732 lol i did for 2 months out of hate but as a good mother i missed my son and took him back. We live in different countries for contex. Otherwise i would let him stay with his dad x
There are men out there and good men at that who don’t mind dating a single mother. I’m divorced who then became a single mother and I’ve met some great men who didn’t mind that I was a single mother, men who want to play games, and men who wouldn’t date me because I’m a single mother. It actually helps you ween out the ones who aren’t for you much more easily. Single mothers just need to be wise and not desperate. These men are good at portraying something they are not and your job is to protect your children. Some of these men will go after your children so please protect your children and be on alert. I have a boyfriend and he is a good man. But my children come first and their safety. you just never know with these men.
Oh boy! Ladies pay attention❕️Even the married men are exposing themselves. I feel bad for their wives. Seems like men do not like women. 🙆🏽♀️ Wow❕️❕️
That is why Shera advise women not to tell these men you have kids unless they ask for your hand in marriage. Until they are ready to commit to you, they have no business knowing that information! Sprinkle sprinkle 😂
Shaquille O'Neal left his fiancé & their child, and married Shaunie (a single mother). So, did Carl Crawford, Steve Harvey, Antonie Walker, Travis Barker, Chad Ocho, Reginald YoungBlood
The first guy seems to say something useful then he lost me, he is red pill. May be bit hard red pill but defo red pill, I bet he consider himself the good guy
Literally my cousin was in her third trimester and she was asked out. Multiple times. In fact she gets asked out more when she's out with her son. But she tells me one thing. There's NO way her son gows around them. It's the same reason she doesn't allow him to spend unsupervised time with his father because she knows what type of womanizing bum he is.
My mom was a single mom because she divorced my dad and she ended up getting remarried to my stepdad like five years later so and they’ve been together for almost 20+ years, so just depends. I think that’s more like a millennial thing or a thing back then my mom said they didn’t care whether you had kids or not and my stepdad had zero kids when she met him so Also the other women in my family who have gotten a remarry single mom after divorce and ended up being with somebody and that’s who they’ve been with for years, so I think it just depends on who you are picking and choosing entertain being a single mom got nothing to do with anything😂
@@RDCFemmes yes, and vast majority of the time men don't take the kids. Single fatherhood is not an epidemic the way single motherhood is and single fathers do not have the same struggles as single mothers.
Both my sisters are baby mamas my oldest sister has 5 kids and is extremely beautiful and these men will not leave her alone , but finding a husband is just not happening for her . My other sister has 2 and when that man said “regardless of what the man did” he was not kidding my sister baby daddy cheated on her for years so when she found out she broke off the engagement and everything. The men she has dated after will still tell her “well that’s why yo as is alone can’t keep a man ! “ they will do anything to smash but will leave at the drop of a hate and to be honest I really believe these men think they doing you a favor or being a hero when the do date you for a while .
Social media is a strange place… I’ve seen single mothers remarry allllll the time. Men with children usually marry other women with children. I’m clearly lost as to these men thinking all single mothers die alone lol please get out of the internet and reflect on actual people u know and I promise you, you will find plenty of ppl that remarry, cohabite, date people with kids.
Response the guy at 8:15 , the answer is simple, don’t act like the baby daddy . He says “regardless of reasoning.” The reason is usually that he did not love and cherish her the way she deserves . So don’t be him and she will love and appreciate you.
I honestly feel like single boy mothers are the most caught up in running to get a man, after attempting to raise their son solo. I’m a single mother. I’m also a boy mom- and there’s been pressure left and right to “ find a man”, find a father figure for my son. I’m like look- I will allow my son to participate I sports and have supervised visits with coach and male teammates during practices and game time. I’m not worried about getting a man, I just want to make my money, tend to my my kid- go on vacations with my kid and live life. That’s it and that all.
Single mothers get put down while single fathers get put on a pedestal.
I would never marry a man who took off on his child or children 😭. But yes men who take full care of their children get looked at as gold because usually it's the women who has the child. But those men are bigger red flags because is the mother unfit? Why did you get a woman who is unfit pregnant? If she is then why did you get the kid and not her? Too many questions and it's not worth it. I rather stay awayyy 😂
😂😂😂😂😂
Because of the patriarchy. Men make the rules unfortunately
It only seems that way- because single dads are rare. When a man willing takes full custody of their kids he does get applauded. Single dads and single moms should get together, what I don’t promote is childless people getting with people who already have children.
@@Leleeve I know a guy who always talks about how much he loves children. His baby momma and child live in another city and he never visited. He just loves the idea of children.
When I was with my ex and we were discussing children I noticed that whenever I thoight of children I thought of: How we should try to raise a kid, how we were gonna meet their needs, stuff like that. Important, practical stuff.
When my ex brought up having children it was always only how he wanted to play with them and teach them his hobbies. Only the fun stuff.
The very odd thing is if there is a single mother then obviously there is a single father as well and no one talks about them.
Exactly
it's rare and not only that, but single fathers have MORE resources. You have women that will cook, clean and help take care of his children for the bare minimum in a relationship.
Not the same dynamic. Single dads often have little to no contact or responsibility with their kids. The kids have NO IMPACT on his life. If I dated a single father who had nothing to to with his kids, HE IS GONE. don't tell me mama keeps kids away from you. If you love or want your kids, SEE THEM, VISIT THEM, SUPPORT THEM.
I think it depends on if you have kids or not. Myself and my friends without kids avoid all men with kids whenever possible as a rule
What do you want folks to say about single fathers. Are you talking about single fathers in general or the ones who are the primary caregivers of their kids. Problem is women don't care and their standards are basic as hell. All the man has to do is have a job and many will date him. Men require a whole bunch of stuff and women be jumping through hoops to meet these requirements.
The guy saying single mothers are easy, and that his wife was a single mom and they had sex the first night to prove his point was weird. He still married her 🙄
You beat me to it. Why was he so proud to say that?! Smh STILL disrespectful to the woman he married. “Y’all easy”! I’m worried about her.
Yup, judging by his commentary about his WIFE, I'm certain he's a verbally abusive partner to her!
Bro called his wife easy.
And he also said “real men don’t wana take care of someone else’s kid” 😂 wtff 🤣🤣 comedy honestly
The contradiction!! 😂😂😂😂
He seems very narcissistic so into his self
He is telling the truth. Men like him are single husbands. They are in everybodies dms being thirsty. He is saying he married the single mother because he is a parasite and wanted an easy host.
And don't forget the good ol "women = cars" shit they always pull out 🙄
And who made them single mother 🤔 and also why are they acting like they treat single childfree women any better. The dustiness is real 🤭💀 decenter them
You’re right! The men who prey on single moms don’t just magically turn into good men in the presence of childless women.
Women have to navigate the same BS. Certainly, for single moms, the danger to their kids is more immediate, but nothing is stopping predators from dating/marrying childless women and having kids with them.
Exactly!!! When they also try to bash single childfree women but in the same sentence wanna talk about logic!!! 😂😂😂
Thats the funny part. Trust we get the same men. I will say, single moms are quick to cut men off faster - we have a little person that takes up considerable amount of time, so our tolerance is lower, especially if we are really taking care of our kids.
@@LisaSoulLevelHealing thiiiisss!!! I cannot be bothered with a man! I don’t have the energy or the patience to deal with one !!
Right
The men act like they are committed to women without kids.
Right!?😂
😂😂 for real
Committed to making them single mothers....
They are only committed to create fatherless homes
True but when you don't have kids the relationship is a little bit funnier if you didn't get yourself knocked up and even if you do at least he will know you have common sense and you were willing to use protection. You can also hide your body count easier that way too.
Notice how none of these guys are good looking. One guy didn't even have teeth but he still trying to talk down on single mother 🦷👹
Yep!
Its always uahly males lol🤣
Yeah, I am at some point I just stopped watching the video. Mister child predator smile with the bald head at 11:15 is where I couldn't be bothered anymore.
Lmaoooo
Single mothers don’t bring any man around your children. You can have “relations” without EVER bringing these men around your child/children.
Very true
If they aren’t good enough for your kids they aren’t good enough for you. Don’t give any man your body or time you wouldn’t feel comfortable around your children.
@@a.j.7016facts!!!!!
There are those who will be w/single mothers specifically for access to the children
Exactly
Is anybody else suspicious of men who uses violent words to describe sex?
Thats why im good on dating period , and none of yall worth it . Women are valuable period , doesn’t matter if they are single moms
This is why you have to choose yourself
A woman with a kid should feel more protective over her energy in my opinion cuz she has a an extremely vulnerable human to care for
@@KayUniverse that’s not an opinion, that’s a fact!! lol especially if you have multiple kids
@@KayUniverseyes this is me to a T. I’m very cautious and selective because of my son and haven’t even been interested in dating because of him! And I always tell myself if I do meet someone I like and want to get to know better, he will NOT be meeting my son for a very long time!
Right
They work real hard to make child free single women into a single mom with 3 kids and then have the audacity to put them down in the same breath, 😅
Cause these Ninjas just hate women!!!
FAAAAACTS!!??
These men want to be right so bad. She’s not talking about men not marrying single mothers. She’s talking about a topic that claims men don’t date single mothers. By the way, my mother had 7 kids before meeting my stepdad who is an amazing man.
Single mothers have been getting married since the dawn of time. I don't where those men get their ideas from
Either claim is trash. Single Mother or not, that is a _Woman._ And a Woman is _always_ wanted.
Men just moving the goal post as usual
Like they aren't millions of blended married families out there
@@RDCFemmes they invent them for their ego, hoping its will make the women trapped with them.
@@kellarenna maybe just maybe not everyone thinks alike outside of social media?
Not sure what the first guy is talking about. Single mothers look all kinds of ways. As a teacher I've seen all different kinds of mothers and they all look different - some pretty and well put together and some not so pretty and struggling. Any woman having sex can become a single mother. Just like any man can be a single father.
I love how these black males tell all their business. Ladies take notes!
Right ! They are the #1 group of males that turn women into single mothers no matter the race of said woman ! At first I wanted them to stop talking but now I realized it’s better if they just keeping exposing and embarrassing themselves on Al Gore’s internet 😂
Sooo are divorced women w children sexually irresponsible? These dudes are why some women are choosing motherhood but not marriage.
They group us the same. I don't bother to correct them, because their issue is with motherhood in general. That's why I am glad many women are opting out of motherhood.
But what are they???? The highest rate of new HIV cases is amongst black women. Who do they think they're getting it from???
Exactly I got married young had a kid young just like they asked of me only to be saddled with a man who had never been faithful to me and I let it slide because "he's a man they cheat it's just them" only to have him skip state when the baby came and all my attention went on taking care of her and cause I couldn't fuck him while I was healing 4 years later I'm still technically married to him cause I ain't got the money to track him down and force him to court we all know if the court ordered him to visit his daughter he wouldn't otherwise she'd have met him literally at any point in her life
@PeaceofReese Don't conflate.. If the rate is highest amongst BW, then we know that the overwhelming majority contracted it from equally irresponsible, (possibly) non monagous BM!!! The statistic doesn't state single mothers... SMH!! 🙄 Do better
no. A lot of single mommas want to mock women back then by saying they had “shotgun weddings”. Shotgun or not, they atleast had the good sense to get the wedding. Shame is a good thing to have. Not enough shame these days. Prideless people are bringing us down. Most of the people destroying our communities and filling our prisons come from these shameless situations.
calling your wife easy is CRAZY!
Be careful single mothers protect your child/ children. Please. 🙏🏾
Single mom here , my partner met me when my son was 9 . Dude is Chinese and his family wasn’t having it. He did not care. Its been 8 years. We are spoiled and Loved ♥️
Gangggg
As a fellow single mom that’s attracted to Asian men I love this for you and wish you and your family the best ❤
Love this ❤
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Pris is telling the truth, they DO target for easy access to either YOU or your children. Ladies, I worked as a corrections nurse and nine times out of ten, the predator's number one target was....SINGLE MOMS so they could gain access to the children and sometimes it would go on for YEARS, there was a teen girl that unalived herself by train because her mother didn't believe her when she told her, she just laid down on that track and let the train do the rest. These men talking in this video is EXACTLY the same thing I heard ALL DAY LONG between the inmates when time was short, and they were about to get released. They talk, and they give each other "advise." Stay safe out there ladies.
I was looking for this comment. This goes for little girls AND little boys!!!
Advice?
Yep, even Nabokov wrote about it
I’m so glad I was raised to see men as optional and not necessary to live your life
These men literally turn my stomach. Ugh! I’m so glad they are exposing themselves.
I thought it was just me! I literally feel repulsed by them 🤢
Ain't nobody checking for big Shirley
Why would I, someone who has worked very hard to be where I am today, want to marry a single mother? I and other men who are top producers in society prefer to start our own families. Nothing against single mothers, it’s just our preference.
@@Dr.GD4 Is anyone telling you, you have to date single mothers or trying to convince you to do so? Everyone has preferences and can date who they want. There are 8billion people on the planet. Single mothers are dating and getting married regardless of what your preferences are. 😉
@@SupraSoulStar Don’t have anyone forcing me to do anything/date single mothers. I dated women in the past and they were mad when I left after they mentioned they have a child on the date. Not physically just leave on the date, but I tell them I am not interested after and explain I want to start my own family. I’m a 28 year old anesthesiologist.
I had a lot to say, but I'll leave it at these men really ain't worth the time. These men sound stupider and stupider.
Thank you
every day
It just about self love and standards and picking a man that wants a family even better pick a man with as similar age kids and pick the one who is good with his kids. It works better if they are family orientated
Like they have good intentions with women without kids??? Theyre all slime no matter what your situation is 😂😂
They want us to believe they’re leaders yet admit to having absolutely no integrity at almost every opportunity😂 silly rabbits
EVERY LAST ONE OF THESE MEN MISSED THE PART WHEN SHE SAID SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND. “No one wants to commit to yall…” But they literally have boyfriends. Yall don’t listen fr.
They actually did listen. Boyfriend means nothing and is NOT a commitment. HUSBAND is a commitment.
@@Childfree334 there is alot of blended family. single mother get married too.
@EmyEgy31 Yes, dear. I know single mothers get married, too. I am a nurse practitioner who has to treat their children when they get abused by step daddy, and it happens ALL THE TIME. I am a mandated reporter in 3 states, so I work with CPS every day. Step fathers are very busy.
@@Childfree334 😢
@@Childfree334 step father and fathers, 4B has point.
I meet my husband as a single mom . Not to brag but he is a wonderful father to both our kids & husband to me . People got to stop listening to social media it’s the devil !
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Seriously! My mom was a single mom of 3, and my stepdad proposed to her in less than 3 months. She didn’t even want him at first when she told me lmao. It’s really when you’re not looking that these men want you the most. Social media is a damn lie!
There are outliers. These men are rare. You can never be too careful.
Literally 3 of my aunts have been MARRIED to their current husbands for over 15 years! We are still getting married.
I am not a single mother but it hurts me to hear them
Why? They ugly as fuck? Why would you let their opinions affect you? They don't seem like they are so happy in life either
Same. 😢
I think it's funny how they claim single moms are easier and can't find men who will commit to them aka marriage.... meanwhile married men are THEE MOST UNCOMMITTED men I've ever met in my life!!!
If I was the stepkid to the last guy I would lock myself in my room crying, cause why would you tell the world you don't want to deal with me? As a husband why did you tell everyone your wife is easy and you settled for her? You literally said you would prefer a woman without kids, but stuck with who you could get. 😒
I think that 70 percent of men that approach women with kids have bad intentions. 30 percent might actually be fine with it and will take them seriously.
But the majority think she is an easy target.
70% of men that approach women have bad intentions
We aren't with our kids 24/7
They have school, friends, other family members, extracurriculars..Men don't automatically know if you have kids or not and they're still slime balls no matter what
Pump and dump. Sweet lies lol
@JAYWIL01 Yet those same men complain about family court and child support. Those same men are filled with STDs , low sperm counts and all.
You males think randomly targeting women who have done absolutely nothing to you makes you a “ real man”, but your karma will hit in the end- all alone and slowly dying
@@JAYWIL01 and/or pdf files
Ahhh, it's a beautiful time to live in the sticks, grow my garden, craft refurbished items, cook, cut my grass, go fishing, leave the country with my girls, live free of noise pollution, and live free of these emotional serial killers.
I protect my peace and mental health at all costs.
Such a beautiful comment
Sounds divine🙂
Same but I don't cook but I have every fruit trees in my yard lol the fishes I have I brought for the pond and 284 koi fishes in my pool but I do have a river at the end of the road well I didn't build any roads yet but the river is at the end of the sugar cane and chocolate trees I bring my nieces and sisters during summer break cause they didn't finish building their homes yet but they also think 8bdrm 5bm is too much for just me but they help occupied it when we go on vacation or when they go out there for a funeral there house's are a mile apart but only us so I know u love just chilling with nature and not have to worry about ppl estate when you go out there alone even though I live alone in the states it's something about eating cucumberlemon leche grapes papaya mango pineapple coco/chocolate etc straight from the tree I'm thinking about paying someone to pick stuff so I'm less wasteful but I only go 4 times a year so stuff just ripes and fall then end up growing more trees lol
The single mother was child free once upon a time. That man obviously wanted to leave her with the burden of child rearing. My question is, who is really the bad guy in this senario???
They "over valued" themselves...WHO is in a loneliness epidemic??
Also, these men say no one will want single moms and then say you look good so of course you will date...what kinda mess? Now it's you can't get a husband...but they are mad women are leaving useless husbands. Whenever they are proven wrong, they move the bar.
They treat songle childree women the SAME way. Your catalog of videos is proof 😂😂😂 🙄
exactly, they just whip out a different playbook
And they like to turn single mothers and child free women against each other. Young women vs old women. Stay at home moms vs working moms. Feminists vs traditionals etc
The classic Divide and conquer game
@@user-kp3rc4eq8x divide and conquer is their mantra. They cant conquer anything without dividing us first. The list goes on: by skin color, hair texture, weight, class etc etc. And we fall for it each and every time.
A used car can be a Toyota or a Rolls royce understand that they will never be the same.single mothers know your worth ❤❤❤❤
@user-kp3rc4eq8x BAM! I see you get it! Many men hate the idea of women getting along and possibly even helping one another through crisis with men! This is why so many men hate the “single female friends” his girl has- because he knows how much common sense those single women really have. They always want women to go against each other because it helps them to appear as saviors , etc
The lady in the dark spoke the truth. I think a lot of men that talk down on single mothers had pick me moms and they saw them put up with a lot of bs. They think all women should/ will put up with the same bs.
The woman who spoke in the dark, spoke with light.
She asked a question. The reason single mothers are on their mind, is because most of them are baby daddy’s 🤷🏽♀️.
Single mother here, celibate for 7 yrs and before u can't come over my house period. My kids made me extra picky
Single mom, celibate for 5 years. My son hasn't seen any non friends around me in all those years.
Wow, I wonder what that one guy’s wife thinks of what he said about single mothers being easy access. I mean he blasted his feelings hard on social media and dragged her in too 😖
No doubt the title of "wife" is the only thing keeping her warm at night.
I don't really care about the dating part, only the BD part. As a single mother, Ladies, you don't need to be tied to that man forever, not even while your child is under 18. I know a lot of men think they will have access to the mother of their children forever and society makes us think we have to maintain a certain type of relationship with the father to be fair to the child. From a person that was raised by divorced parents, that each were raised by parents that were together until death did them part, and being a single mother myself; it is very possible to put a distance between your life and the father's life, while still making sure your child has as much access to their father as they need. A lot of these BDs out here may not like that, my ex sure didn't, but who tf cares? He's supposed to have a relationship with his child, not me. My communication with my ex has been whittled down to a place where, once our kid is 18, there will be zero reason for us to speak again. And that was absolutely by design.
The special type of men actually step up and those are the ones to commend. I have a stepfather who is amazing. My late husband stepped up before we even begam discussing it.
We know you got snacks and wifi.. dear lord. Bar is in hell.
I think it's that they're jealous women can have families without them, but they can't say the same #MamasBaby
My motherless friend added that she was a single mom and her dating profile blew up. It's very easy for them to find a partner. The horrifying question as to why it was night and day is terrifying. Did they want access to her or to her "two young daughters" that she experimented with listing!? Terrifying.
This question haunts me now.
This is easy...... we all, welllll some women and mothers can read between the lines.
My cousin was 25 , had 2 kids & a sugar daddy . A real sugar daddy , he was an African scientist , not a pretend one. She met her husband in Church, with her kids sitting next to her . She told him she had a man helping her . He said he could take care of her & her kids . They married 6 mos later . 25 yrs later , still married. He told her she didn't have to work . But , she always kept a part-time job . 😅
I was 18 when I had my son. His father was abusive and we broke up when my son was 3. I met a good man a few months later and we dated. He loved my son as his own 😊 we got married and had a baby Lol And we have been married for 17 years now ❤ There's always hope for single moms. Just stay celibate until you meet the right man. Always carry yourself with respect, dress modestly/ conservative and don't act wild. Men love a classy, good, down to earth woman.
My divorced friend is a single mom now, and it didn't take long for men to see her and start calling her fine, while the youngest baby was in her arms and she's taking the older two to school!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 That being said, she is DEFINITELY not easy! If the man is not her ex-husband or a relative, they're not allowed up in her house.
The crazy thing is that most of these men come from single mother homes
Please remember that its mostly dusty men that think this way. Wealthy families are blended A LOT of the time. Even royal families are blended.
I never had a problem getting married as a single mom. Did it 5 times.
And the man who equates single moms being any ''easier" than child free, that stereotype went out in the 1970's. Just cause a woman doesn't tell you about her sex life don't mean she don't have it. So many stupid ideas men have about womens bodies, they are easy to fool.
p.s and you know all these men are someone elses ''baby daddy''.
You got married 5 times, tho.. you're not breaking the stereotype w/that. js
@silververnallbells191 Well some of you tend to pick and choose , what’s acceptable for women- is it ok to shack up? Is it ok to get married? What part is ok for women?
Easy answer: no part. Women be shunned either way, the easiest entity on the planet will always be a man- single or not, you can get a man’s pants for free forever.
She should have known that the men responding were going to be opportunists and try to "humble" single moms. They will take every advantage.
Since I didn't see it in the comments: Dear Baby Daddies... us child free ladies don't want you or them kids! ❤❤😂😂
Amen to not being flattered when some of these dusties look your way!!
😢 It really makes me sad how clueless many single moms are. They are putting their children right into the hands of predators, all the while thinking he is into HER. In my 30 years as a pediatric RN, ask me how many kids were abused and unalived by their single mothers' boyfriends. 😢😢
This is nothing to be proud of. It is frightening. Wake up single moms!!!
My same sentiments 💯
8 out of 10 it's moms new boyfriend
There are predators in your own family like your brother, father, etc. But no one wants to have that discussion. Leave me with the BS. Your sons and daughters can be predators too.
@@giovannanicolas8299 This video is about single moms and their new boyfriends. Why don't YOU stay on topic? Everybody knows there are also predators within families, but that is another video.
@@giovannanicolas8299 yes, we know this, we grew up with yall
Someone needs to reach out to that last man’s wife. She needs this video evidence in her divorce proceedings. Expeditiously.
I saw a man trying to talk to a woman who had a newborn in her arms.
Men will hit on women who are very obviously pregnant, these men have no shame lmao
Eeew I don’t know why I find that so gross. Did he think women are willing or available for sex soon after giving birth?
@KRW3321 I can trump that, there was a man pursuing the hell outta me while I was 7 months pregnant.
It's the kink 😨
@@dblr4931 Some men have a pregnancy fetish.
Some women wont learn. Smh.😞 Instead of arguing with the men who are telling you the TRUTH, listen to what they are saying and move accordingly.
💯💯💯 This is the best comment Instead of trying to prove these men wrong, just listen to what they're saying.
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Best comment!
As a single Mom (divorced), being single has always been a choice. I have many options. And it's not all jerks, and men that don't want to love both you and the kids that want you to use you. There are good, desirable men that want us. The "nobody wants single Moms" thing is a lie.
I had a whole argument with my ex that there are people who look to date single women. He could not, and did not believe me. And me believeing that got him so bent out of shape. He’s an ex for many reasons, but even my non child having ass knew it
“Single mothers are easy” Absolutely NOT!! If you are a good single mother and actually care about your kids well being then that is false!! Just like the lady was saying in her response to that last video, you definitely CANNOT just walk up in my house or even spend the night, you CANNOT chill at my house because my child lives here!! wtf is he talking about. I know there are some single mothers out there that are easy and don’t care who they bring around their kids but a lot of us ALWAYS consider our children FIRST !!! We couldn’t care less about a man when we have vulnerable kids !
Embarrasssing for him to say that yet she’s now your wife. What a dumbass thing to say and assume single mothers don’t have boundaries.
@@IngridLennon-np4ds exactly!!! They are so dumb, it’s like they really don’t hear themselves speak because if they did they would realize how contradictory and hypocritical they sound! Talking about single mothers yet you married one? The jokes are writing themselves 😂😂😂
I think most single mothers are easy and desperate… no shade.
@@IngridLennon-np4dsthen he said he doesn't care about her kids
That first dude was trippin'. Did he really say dudes are butt hurt because his GIRLFRIEND won't make him the head of her house 😂😂
I become a single mom of a boy after my husband died and haven’t dated after seeing how society views single moms. only thing I care about is brining in money and giving my son a normal childhood. You know a man is thinking with his d by his actions not words .
Ive been a single mom for the last 4 years and i have never had an issue dating it's always the first thing on any profile i make and no one has ever broken up with me because of it
My brother is attractive and has a great job and he married a single mother of two. I don't see single mothers having problems remarrying. His current wife, while she is his type, she's not a model or anything.
That fool contradicted himself, if no man would choose a single mother over a childless woman but you chose one and married her! Oh maybe the child free woman wasn’t an option! Solved
He settled for what he could get. Childfree women probably had too many standards for him. Basically told on himself.
Thank you for Acknowledging The facts that dudes do out here baby trapping all these women Cause every time this topic come up they lie and gas light
He says we did it to ourselves but who is the one using the term Simps and stuff the most other men
Facts. I roll my eyes at these men, but that one was ridiculous
Exactly. They be saying anything. If I was his wife I would be annoyed with him. He sounds like he got with her because he thought she was easy.
@@filmadcamp1512he was so long winded I can’t do men who talk a lot
Calling single moms a used car with 100,000 miles but sprinkling in a no offense after 😂
Basically 😂😂😂 they’re so foolish
So I guess this explains the type of man who will actually get married to a woman that was priorly married and had six kids and loved her children as his own. What happened to the fourth type of man that would date a single mother? That's the problem y'all try to act as if there aren't men out there who will genuinely date single mothers and marry them. I've seen plenty of examples of men who would stand up to the plate and take care of their children and not be blood related at all. In fact, that's something else that women complain about is that these men will get with women that have kids and they'll take care of the woman with their kids and not even take care of their own. So I think he forgot the fourth type of man. Actually I would say five because there are men out there who are honorable and will take on the mantle that another man boy dropped.
They made some good points tho not even offended by some of it & should listen to them ,this actually helps more so u know wat to look out for . Be careful moms dnt let anyone around ur kids . ❤
The first guy-He need to take his narcissistic, contradicting self and go have a seat somewhere! Grow up!!!! Ladies take note that’s not how real man talks.
I was married when i had my child. So what should i do? Throw him in the bin after the divorce? Far from easy.
Give them the papi
@@shaypope4732 lol i did for 2 months out of hate but as a good mother i missed my son and took him back. We live in different countries for contex. Otherwise i would let him stay with his dad x
He said big girls don't know when they will get another chance...😮 really dude
He is delulu.🤦🏽♀️ In a vast expanse of creation, there is not “one formula fits all”type deal and that’s what makes life most interesting.🥰
If the chances look and sound like him, then girls, big and small, don't want them
Dis he just disrespect his own wife? Wtf did i just watch?
There are men out there and good men at that who don’t mind dating a single mother. I’m divorced who then became a single mother and I’ve met some great men who didn’t mind that I was a single mother, men who want to play games, and men who wouldn’t date me because I’m a single mother. It actually helps you ween out the ones who aren’t for you much more easily. Single mothers just need to be wise and not desperate. These men are good at portraying something they are not and your job is to protect your children. Some of these men will go after your children so please protect your children and be on alert. I have a boyfriend and he is a good man. But my children come first and their safety. you just never know with these men.
The first guy give me zesty vibes. I can’t take home seriously.
I skipped over him. 😂 I couldn’t even finish listening to him.
Oh boy! Ladies pay attention❕️Even the married men are exposing themselves. I feel bad for their wives.
Seems like men do not like women. 🙆🏽♀️
Wow❕️❕️
That is why Shera advise women not to tell these men you have kids unless they ask for your hand in marriage. Until they are ready to commit to you, they have no business knowing that information! Sprinkle sprinkle 😂
Shaquille O'Neal left his fiancé & their child, and married Shaunie (a single mother).
So, did Carl Crawford, Steve Harvey, Antonie Walker, Travis Barker, Chad Ocho, Reginald YoungBlood
My kid is grown and out the house. Ladies, there's no reason to tell a man that you have any children. Its literally none of his business.
9:28 whose grandpa is this 🧐 grandkids, take his phone 😅 and why is he still talking about single mothers and stuff 😂
KS told them they’re in their prime and twenty year old women want them 🥴
@@Gem-n-lifebs they social security ain't worth it
The problem is single Fathers know we don’t want them!!!! No baby daddies!!!! Eewwww I wish I would date someone’s Dad 🤮
Right he won't even get a hello better go back to ur family
The first guy seems to say something useful then he lost me, he is red pill. May be bit hard red pill but defo red pill, I bet he consider himself the good guy
Literally my cousin was in her third trimester and she was asked out. Multiple times. In fact she gets asked out more when she's out with her son. But she tells me one thing. There's NO way her son gows around them. It's the same reason she doesn't allow him to spend unsupervised time with his father because she knows what type of womanizing bum he is.
They come to live off of you.
Very eye opening video. Thank you for sharing
My mom was a single mom because she divorced my dad and she ended up getting remarried to my stepdad like five years later so and they’ve been together for almost 20+ years, so just depends. I think that’s more like a millennial thing or a thing back then my mom said they didn’t care whether you had kids or not and my stepdad had zero kids when she met him so Also the other women in my family who have gotten a remarry single mom after divorce and ended up being with somebody and that’s who they’ve been with for years, so I think it just depends on who you are picking and choosing entertain being a single mom got nothing to do with anything😂
Limbo dance with satan just to get under them. That is the most clever descriptive sentence I’ve heard all week. Love it.
Omg listening to these males talk gives me a headache
We don't talk about sexual irresponsibility enough and it is the main contributing factor to single motherhood.
Both parties are irresponsible
* main contributing factor to single parenthood** there.. fixed it for you!!!
@@RDCFemmes yes, and vast majority of the time men don't take the kids. Single fatherhood is not an epidemic the way single motherhood is and single fathers do not have the same struggles as single mothers.
@@ommiohmy single fatherhood really isn't the epidemic causing generational trauma and issues. Cause it's not that common but I get your point
Single fatherhood is not an epidemic because women don't typically walk away from their kids like men do.
This conversation about parents is old and a waste of time. 😂😂
Two of them said they were married to single mothers, then went on to speak horribly about single mothers. Do they hear themselves?
Sometimes its not you he got an eye for but for your innocent child..especially women with daughters!!
Both my sisters are baby mamas my oldest sister has 5 kids and is extremely beautiful and these men will not leave her alone , but finding a husband is just not happening for her .
My other sister has 2 and when that man said “regardless of what the man did” he was not kidding my sister baby daddy cheated on her for years so when she found out she broke off the engagement and everything. The men she has dated after will still tell her “well that’s why yo as is alone can’t keep a man ! “ they will do anything to smash but will leave at the drop of a hate and to be honest I really believe these men think they doing you a favor or being a hero when the do date you for a while .
Jeff Besoz left his much younger wife for a 49 yr old single mother with 3 baby daddies....... incels r scary ppl.
Jeff Bezos *CANNOT* be part of this realistic conversation. He is a statistical outlier. There are more tangible examples he is not it
Social media is a strange place… I’ve seen single mothers remarry allllll the time. Men with children usually marry other women with children. I’m clearly lost as to these men thinking all single mothers die alone lol please get out of the internet and reflect on actual people u know and I promise you, you will find plenty of ppl that remarry, cohabite, date people with kids.
Priscilla where you get your wigs! Gurrrrrl
15:17 this lady is speaking truth. If I was single, I wouldn't let any man around my children, it would be a couple of years.
(Some) Men love answering questions noone asked.
Response the guy at 8:15 , the answer is simple, don’t act like the baby daddy . He says “regardless of reasoning.” The reason is usually that he did not love and cherish her the way she deserves . So don’t be him and she will love and appreciate you.
Juge Toler I-love your energy 🥰🥰🥰🥰💯
This is exactly why I sit my big ass down cause of this gem right here
I honestly feel like single boy mothers are the most caught up in running to get a man, after attempting to raise their son solo. I’m a single mother. I’m also a boy mom- and there’s been pressure left and right to “ find a man”, find a father figure for my son.
I’m like look- I will allow my son to participate I sports and have supervised visits with coach and male teammates during practices and game time. I’m not worried about getting a man, I just want to make my money, tend to my my kid- go on vacations with my kid and live life.
That’s it and that all.