It is funny to read because I am 39 so for me she is more like younger sister or maybe even a kid :) But I love her and her energy, ideas, tips. She is more mature than I ever been in her age. I have a thing for England too so I adore every single aspect of her videos.
I developed the IDGAF mindset and now I talk to strangers, dance in the street, sing in airports, started a newsletter and express my emotions. It is crazy where it gets you.
@@Nishtha210 I realised we only get one life, and we are all running out of time. You will regret not dancing as you really wanted to because you thought other people were looking. “Your life isn’t yours if you always care what other people think” is so so true and it is so scary not to be living as you want when you think about it
People are never paying as much attention to us as we think they are. Everyone is too busy wondering what other people are thinking about them. I have had the IDGAF mindset for years because I've never been average, always been a bit quirky. I've got other stuff I'm dealing with, but I don't care if people think I'm weird. Why be normal?? X
@@Jazzy4612 YESS, most of the people who have sm to say about you are the people your not gonna see often in your life, it’s better to live for yourself than to live to other’s expectations
0:51 planning 1:08 do a SWAT analysis 1:30 shadow work 2:41 create your older ego 7:11 vision board 7:57 create solutions 9:48 appearance 10:02 #1 health 12:51 #2 fashion 13:43 #3 beauty 15:45 mindset tips 23:11 new habits 23:19 #1 exposure therapy 24:18 #2 become the life of the party 25:16 #3 stop being everywhere at all times for everyone 26:25 #4 identify the nonsense in your day 27:17 #5 fake it til you make it 28:14 #6 hot girls are always grateful 28:37 homework
Planning (Homework) - SWOT analysis - Shadow work (journal prompts) - Reinvention script - Create an alter ego - Create solutions - Take steps (add a new habit slowly, one at a time) Appearance * Health - healthy diet - drink matcha over coffee - stop listening to everyone about diet - take your supplements * Beauty - "if I'm not wearing it in 5 years, I'm not buying it." - build a capsule wardrobe around what you envision your dream self to be * Fashion - makeup that enhances your particular facial feature and suits your face type - buy one product of everything and stick to it - fix your posture *sits straight haha* - explore nontoxic products and clean beauty Mindset tips * Undoing the negative - eliminate all threats - be self-aware; identify and work back on your insecurities and self-limiting beliefs - change up your environment * Becoming the positive and improved version of yourself 1. stay self-aware; "but what about me?" mindset; don't self-sabotage 2. embody the habits and lifestyle you want to have 3. take a step back and engage with your old self (who you want to make proud) and future self (where you want to be) 4. "I don't give an f*" mindset; start networking 5. decide on your reaction; turn pain to power and motivation New habits 1. exposure therapy; face your fears 2. become the life of the party; when in a social event, put all your attention into how you make other people feel (genuinely try to get to know and understand them); it makes people fall in love with you and widens your network; 3. stop being everywhere at all times for everyone; choose to attend to what aligns with your future purpose, vibrational energy, and where you wanna be; not everyone needs to know your business 4. identify and remove the nonsense in your day 5. "fake it 'til you make it" 6. be grateful
I promise you Tam, you are probably going to be my virtual life coach. My inspiration to keep going in life. I'm glad I have found your channel. I'm also starting my after high school life so you will be helping me along the way. Thank you!
**Reinventing Yourself: A Guide to Personal Transformation** 🌟 **Part 1: Introduction to the Journey** 🚀 🎯 The journey of personal transformation and reinvention begins with self-awareness and a desire for positive change. 🔍 Identifying weaknesses, self-sabotage, and obstacles is crucial to understanding the path forward. 🧠 Embracing discomfort and self-growth leads to a higher level of self. **Part 2: Elevate Your Appearance** 👗💄 💃 Elevating your appearance is a form of self-expression and empowerment. 👠 Dressing well can positively impact your confidence and mindset. 💅 Building a capsule wardrobe around your vision of your ideal self helps manifest your aspirations. 💄 Learning makeup techniques enhances facial features; clean beauty and non-toxic products promote overall well-being. 💆♀ Fixing your posture and adopting ergonomic habits contribute to a confident, poised presence. **Part 3: Cultivate a Winning Mindset** 🧠🌈 🧘♀ Undoing negative patterns involves eliminating obstacles, blocking negativity, and shedding emotional baggage. 💪 Overcoming self-limiting beliefs and embracing positive self-talk is essential for growth. 🔥 Embodying desired habits and lifestyle choices transforms "have to" into "I am" statements. 🤝 Embracing an "I don't give an f" mindset frees you from external opinions and boosts confidence. 🌐 Changing your environment helps transition from old patterns to new ones, aligning with your future self. **Part 4: Establish New Habits** 🌱🎉 😎 Exposure therapy encourages embracing the cringy and facing fears to build confidence. 🎉 Becoming the life of the party by focusing on others creates strong connections and expands your network. 🚫 Setting boundaries and being selective about social engagements promote personal growth. 🔑 Faking confidence and positive traits can lead to their natural incorporation into your identity. 🙏 Practicing gratitude raises your vibrational frequency and accelerates manifestations. **Part 5: Homework for Your Transformational Journey** ✍📋 🔍 Conduct a SWOT analysis to identify weaknesses and self-sabotage patterns. 🎨 Create a vivid vision of your ideal self, imagining her appearance, habits, and surroundings. 🔧 Develop actionable solutions to bridge the gap between your current and desired self. 📌 Use a mood board to visualize and reinforce your reinvention goals. 💄 Invest in appearance-enhancing items and commit to new self-care rituals each week. **Conclusion: Embrace the Journey and Celebrate Growth** 🎈 🎉 Celebrate progress and embrace the process of transformation. 🙌 Witness yourself evolving into a new and improved version. 📚 Reflect on your self-growth journey and continue to strive for positive change.
the rate at which your channel is growing is exponential, i swear you hit 500k only last week and now you're at 521k!! so proud of you Tam, your content is so helpful and inspiring and you deserve every ounce of success that you've worked so hard for
I hit rock bottom and I was just thinking how I can get back on track but be better than before. This literally gave me goosebumps. Perfect timing… my birthday is in 6 months and it is told that you can make a significant difference in that amount of time. I will stay disciplined and push myself to the limit! And never give up! I am going to give myself the life I’ve always wanted. I will come back in 6 months! Wish me luck! ❤️
Homework: 1. Swap analysis shadow work 2.draw out your ideal self 3. Create solutions 4.create a mood board 5. Invest on one thing that will approve your appearance 6. Commit to a new self-care ritual this week
I’m 40 and absolutely LOVE your channel ! You are so mature for your age and such a great influence especially for young ladies…. Older too. 😉 I think this is your calling & am shocked you don’t have millions of followers but they are coming - speaking it into existence. Keep shining your light. 💫
Another great way to understanding yourself and what you really wish in life is "the passion test". I discovered this yesterday reading a book of the same name. When you know what your real passions are in life and you put your attention on them, you automatically attract opportunities and people that will help you making them a reality.
Hi tam thanks for sharing this great inspo I found your wisdom so inspirational! I started my path to reinventing myself a year ago, I’m now living healthier, confident, stronger, making 6 figures, having leisure to enjoy family &friends. I feel happier and living my life for myself . This is to encourage someone “you can start anytime to have a reset it’s worth it! I’m striving to continue growing cus it’s a journey 💗
Change your mindset, read self-help books, expand knowledge, budget and don't spend on impulse, save, take your finances seriously, eat healthy, exercise your body, meditate; the list goes on... I hope it is useful to you.
I swear why am I spending my 30 minutes with my therapist when your giving me more info and your ENERGY makes me wanna get up and start MOVING UPWARD... Thank you Tam 🥰🤗
I'm older than you but I feel like you're a big sister to me. I love listening to your videos. They make me feel hopeful about myself and my future. Lots of love!
i seriously love the fact that you always have homework chapters at the end!!! it makes things a lot easier to note down and summarize, thank you for all that you do!
I watched this in December 2023 and now in feb 2024 what I development is an abundance mindset... I was someone who cries so much and now the time which I might have wasted crying, I exercise make smoothies make vision boards have a solo date and so much more 2 months ---💅💅💅love myself ❤
this is literally what i needed rn my birthday is coming up and i sort of treat it the way everyone treats new years day and i have been working on changing my habits and rebranding myself tysm for this
Guys, remember that some things may look very scary to you, but actually they are not scary at all when you do them. Just do them even if you're not feel like it ❤️
I started watching this channel a few months ago and the more I focus on my glow up, the more I notice my self destructive behaviors and the more I feel like I am being personally called out and it’s fucking good. I need to grow up at some point and start taking control of my life. It’s a journey for sure but I’m going to get there.
I'm the eldest daughter of my family and you know when things get overwhelming, tough and heavy, you are the person I really look up to. Really grateful!
love ur videos because some of the self improvement videos feel like theyre trying to bully me into being better but your content actually seems like you want us to be better because u care
Your last video really made me smile and cry at the same time.. A huge thankyou for always making my day and helping us to be a better version of ourselves!!..♡♡♡
Its the summer holidays and I feel like ive become more lazy. I set myself goals but have constantly been decreasing them because i feel that i wont be able to complete anyway. I've mostly just been staying in the house not doing anything and i think of things to do but dont get around to doing them because i dont feel like it. I feel that this video really came on the right time. I watch your videos and im really thankful for them❤️they help me so much❤️❤️
no cause literally how does this girl make videos for exactly what im struggling with in my life rn like get out of my head 😂❤ BUT LOVE YOUUUU ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I was trying the shadow work method on me and while answering the questions it made me cry soooo hard i didn't know I have taken this muchhh amount of pain inside me after every question I felt like a free cloud it was so refreshing for me thank you soo much for this i really appreciate your work 🥺❤️
i am 13 and watching your videos everyday. your youtube channel has carried me through my school year and has brought my grades from 60s to 90s, you made my mind focus more on the good then the bad things in life i’m am forever grateful and i will keep on supporting and following you every step of the way❤️❤️
this is honestly what i need right now. Thank u for this wonderful video. I'm going to start taking little steps to get to where i wanna be and become the absolute best version of me.
I discovered your channel not long ago and it has helped me so much in cleaning up my life. Thank you for being so generous in sharing your tips and routines, and for all your timely pep talks!
I am in a rebranding , fuelled by owning my own business. Stepping into the business woman & coach I am. I love this growth process. Thank you for all the tips here . This video is absolutely gold. I had done some of those tasks before but this is a masterclass. Time to get to work and keep it up. Go ladies !!
Your video gave me the push that I needed to go ahead and start my villain era. I was on a standstill for the past 3-4 months or so. Thanks a lot girlie for catapulting me into the direction I was so internally yearning to go ahead into!!! Love you loads!! You changed my life!!!!!!
I was literally thinking about writing a reinvention script and you put out a video about it the same day, i take this as a sign to reinvent myself and to stay disciplined enough to fully do it :)
Girl my life is such a mess rn and you just made it a lil better. I don’t have any sister but i really wanted one since my childhood and i really saw her in you. Thank you for this amazing video, it really helped a lot. I love you so much😭🧿❤️
Yesterday I was just looking at pinterest how to change my life and now tam is making video about that! She's the best sister , virtual life coach always want to have in my life. Thank you for inspiring us!! Love you from Malaysia
your videos are truly life-changing I have always avoided working on myself and thinking abt who I am thoroughly. But discovering your videos (and they came at the best time possible) made me want to actually try to change my life wish me luck, everyone I have my intentions but I hope they all come true
Girl , this was a ted talk 😅 I literally took notes ( about two pages ) like if I was in a classroom ( titles, headings, etc ) you are amazing thank you ❤❤
Hey tam I’m starting school in 20 days and this summer I’ve tried my best to reasearch ways to self improve myself as over the past 2-3 years since staring secondary school(started 13 currently 15) I’ve tumbled down to sort of a rut in life (mainly internally self sabotaging all that stuff ) but also externally (trying to deal with expectations ignoring getting bullied putting effort into friendships that were toxic all that stuff ) basically all theese incidents over the past few years led me to being more self aware so the reason I want to improve now is bc IK at this point all the repetitive struggles patterns and negatives of life that keep getting worse im so great full for stumbling upon your channel this summer and I’ll try my best over theese 20 days to figure out an exact healthy format for me to function and up level myself it’s hard internally im panicking but I can’t let myself spiral to the worst also thank you so much for your videos genuinely ❤
i have been having trouble with rebranding myself for a while, this video really helped me thank you so much ,stay blessed cant wait for more content from you.😘
first time watching your video... i would say my older self would be proud of who i became today but iam still very far away from my dreams and i feel stuck in the process with no improvements ... thanks to you i feel motivated to try new ways of improving myself so THANK YOU
Can't imagine myself improving with you. You are the biggest inspiration and my role model as well. Thank you so much for helping us all out. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
🕯candle 🕯🤍 Tam, thank you. I've recently made a big shift in my life and ugly cried a good week because of all the fear it brought up and having to shed old skin/thought patterns. Your videos have helped me gain a wider perspective in my new journey of creating space for myself. (I watched: how to get over a breakup, glow up, financial freedom, self validate-ouuuh this oneee hit the nail on the headd😩😂) Your perspectives have encouraged and guided me to feel more intentional and purposeful for this new chapter in my life. Big big love and blessings to you and your journey 🤍🕯
You're the best self growth motivational speaker on yt. I always try listening to the other but I love the way you talk and how organized you are in your speaking. Just everything about you girl >>>>>>
thank you i needed this. recently went thru a situation with a manipulative guy who i kept around just to make me miserable. i lost myself. ill follow your advice and learn to improve myself thank you!
just want to share that now im trying to create opportunities in my life rather than waiting. i have a lot of social anxiety but i just asked a girl i rlly wanna be friends with to hang out. im a brave woman now
Thanks to your videos I been trying to get more smarter by pretending to work on office since I am single mom your advices help it good to prepare yourself to have skills just to succeed in any workplace ❤
I did the 'future self' thing 2 years ago. I check it every month and do big reviews every 6 months. It's one of the best things I've ever done and transformed my life.
I’m stuck in life Couldn’t clear an exam for 3 years now, felt down and lazy all the time.. Watched this video, feeling a lot better and having the urge to put my life back together… . . . . . Gotta change it now ✅ I’m gonna come back with great score and my dream college I’ll come here on the day my results come out Exam is on July 7th Results towards end of July See you on the other side! Let’s go girl ! Thanks Tam
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love you❤❤
I know this has nothing to do with the video but I love how you did your hair!!! 🤩❤❤
I love youuuuu so much you're the best wallah
Can u do a to do lists
@@Lilyaanaaa qq
SHE is the ELDER SISTER we did not want, but NEEDED.❤
It is funny to read because I am 39 so for me she is more like younger sister or maybe even a kid :) But I love her and her energy, ideas, tips. She is more mature than I ever been in her age. I have a thing for England too so I adore every single aspect of her videos.
Same! I’m 34 but I was clueless at 22. She’s amazing!
That I wish I had
No I did want her ( cries in oldest daughter 🥲)
When you are 47 and could be her mother but learn more from her than your OWN Mother 😂🤷♀️
I developed the IDGAF mindset and now I talk to strangers, dance in the street, sing in airports, started a newsletter and express my emotions. It is crazy where it gets you.
HOW DID YOU DO IT??? I WANNA HAVE THIS IDGAF MINDSET
@@Nishtha210 I realised we only get one life, and we are all running out of time. You will regret not dancing as you really wanted to because you thought other people were looking. “Your life isn’t yours if you always care what other people think” is so so true and it is so scary not to be living as you want when you think about it
@@waytofreedom this is precious information!
People are never paying as much attention to us as we think they are. Everyone is too busy wondering what other people are thinking about them. I have had the IDGAF mindset for years because I've never been average, always been a bit quirky. I've got other stuff I'm dealing with, but I don't care if people think I'm weird. Why be normal?? X
GOALS
and just a reminder to everyone who is taking a new step into their new era, dont change for the approval of others change for YOURSELF!
So much. Other people won't always be there but as long as you're alive you're always with yourself.💝
@@Jazzy4612 YESS, most of the people who have sm to say about you are the people your not gonna see often in your life, it’s better to live for yourself than to live to other’s expectations
TYSM UR AMAZING 💗💗
0:51 planning
1:08 do a SWAT analysis
1:30 shadow work
2:41 create your older ego
7:11 vision board
7:57 create solutions
9:48 appearance
10:02 #1 health
12:51 #2 fashion
13:43 #3 beauty
15:45 mindset tips
23:11 new habits
23:19 #1 exposure therapy
24:18 #2 become the life of the party
25:16 #3 stop being everywhere at all times for everyone
26:25 #4 identify the nonsense in your day
27:17 #5 fake it til you make it
28:14 #6 hot girls are always grateful
28:37 homework
Thanks
I hope everything goes your way
you are the best, i wish you good luck great person
I hope god rewards you a little bit extra when he’s giving out blessings ❤
i love u
Planning (Homework)
- SWOT analysis
- Shadow work (journal prompts)
- Reinvention script
- Create an alter ego
- Create solutions
- Take steps (add a new habit slowly, one at a time)
Appearance
* Health
- healthy diet
- drink matcha over coffee
- stop listening to everyone about diet
- take your supplements
* Beauty
- "if I'm not wearing it in 5 years, I'm not buying it."
- build a capsule wardrobe around what you envision your dream self to be
* Fashion
- makeup that enhances your particular facial feature and suits your face type
- buy one product of everything and stick to it
- fix your posture *sits straight haha*
- explore nontoxic products and clean beauty
Mindset tips
* Undoing the negative
- eliminate all threats
- be self-aware; identify and work back on your insecurities and self-limiting beliefs
- change up your environment
* Becoming the positive and improved version of yourself
1. stay self-aware; "but what about me?" mindset; don't self-sabotage
2. embody the habits and lifestyle you want to have
3. take a step back and engage with your old self (who you want to make proud) and future self (where you want to be)
4. "I don't give an f*" mindset; start networking
5. decide on your reaction; turn pain to power and motivation
New habits
1. exposure therapy; face your fears
2. become the life of the party; when in a social event, put all your attention into how you make other people feel (genuinely try to get to know and understand them); it makes people fall in love with you and widens your network;
3. stop being everywhere at all times for everyone; choose to attend to what aligns with your future purpose, vibrational energy, and where you wanna be; not everyone needs to know your business
4. identify and remove the nonsense in your day
5. "fake it 'til you make it"
6. be grateful
thankss
Ty!
Literally saw this at 111 likes ❤❤❤>>
tysm❤
The mindset ”you don’t have to, you get to” is my new fav 😍
Leaving this comment here to track my myself
Hey, how is everything going?
It’s been 3 months - I hope you are doing better love!
How is it going?✨️
It's now 5 months girl!?
H-HOW LIKE ABSOLUTELY HOW did she know what I was feeling and this dropped?? Mother is mothering y'all
I worship you Tamana
Why the hell is her timing so good 😭😭
I promise you Tam, you are probably going to be my virtual life coach. My inspiration to keep going in life. I'm glad I have found your channel. I'm also starting my after high school life so you will be helping me along the way. Thank you!
I'm feeling very Lost and so not productive and organised it's so tiring 💔
I hate that feeling omg, i swear worse is that i wasted my summer vacation doing nothing 😭
Same, my early summer was doing good until during my period I lost motivation and tired..😢
I know what you mean especially because there's no school! I really don't know what I'm doing lol...
@@yusyna yeess and on top of all this we stayed home all summer
Thats okay, take a moment, you will turn this around. I believe in you!
**Reinventing Yourself: A Guide to Personal Transformation** 🌟
**Part 1: Introduction to the Journey** 🚀
🎯 The journey of personal transformation and reinvention begins with self-awareness and a desire for positive change.
🔍 Identifying weaknesses, self-sabotage, and obstacles is crucial to understanding the path forward.
🧠 Embracing discomfort and self-growth leads to a higher level of self.
**Part 2: Elevate Your Appearance** 👗💄
💃 Elevating your appearance is a form of self-expression and empowerment.
👠 Dressing well can positively impact your confidence and mindset.
💅 Building a capsule wardrobe around your vision of your ideal self helps manifest your aspirations.
💄 Learning makeup techniques enhances facial features; clean beauty and non-toxic products promote overall well-being.
💆♀ Fixing your posture and adopting ergonomic habits contribute to a confident, poised presence.
**Part 3: Cultivate a Winning Mindset** 🧠🌈
🧘♀ Undoing negative patterns involves eliminating obstacles, blocking negativity, and shedding emotional baggage.
💪 Overcoming self-limiting beliefs and embracing positive self-talk is essential for growth.
🔥 Embodying desired habits and lifestyle choices transforms "have to" into "I am" statements.
🤝 Embracing an "I don't give an f" mindset frees you from external opinions and boosts confidence.
🌐 Changing your environment helps transition from old patterns to new ones, aligning with your future self.
**Part 4: Establish New Habits** 🌱🎉
😎 Exposure therapy encourages embracing the cringy and facing fears to build confidence.
🎉 Becoming the life of the party by focusing on others creates strong connections and expands your network.
🚫 Setting boundaries and being selective about social engagements promote personal growth.
🔑 Faking confidence and positive traits can lead to their natural incorporation into your identity.
🙏 Practicing gratitude raises your vibrational frequency and accelerates manifestations.
**Part 5: Homework for Your Transformational Journey** ✍📋
🔍 Conduct a SWOT analysis to identify weaknesses and self-sabotage patterns.
🎨 Create a vivid vision of your ideal self, imagining her appearance, habits, and surroundings.
🔧 Develop actionable solutions to bridge the gap between your current and desired self.
📌 Use a mood board to visualize and reinforce your reinvention goals.
💄 Invest in appearance-enhancing items and commit to new self-care rituals each week.
**Conclusion: Embrace the Journey and Celebrate Growth** 🎈
🎉 Celebrate progress and embrace the process of transformation.
🙌 Witness yourself evolving into a new and improved version.
📚 Reflect on your self-growth journey and continue to strive for positive change.
Heyy, can i use your comment for my Pinterest post? Would be really helpful 💗
@@nuhaqureshi6570 hey, sure, it's just a summary of Tam's video :)
THANK YOU
Wow 👍💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗
Wish I could copy this and paste it into notes
the rate at which your channel is growing is exponential, i swear you hit 500k only last week and now you're at 521k!! so proud of you Tam, your content is so helpful and inspiring and you deserve every ounce of success that you've worked so hard for
wow, up 2k in just under a day. thats amazing! she will def hit 1m by the end of the year at this rate 🤩
It's up 20k now and that too in only 7 days
She’s at a million now, it’s insane 😭 so happy though
I hit rock bottom and I was just thinking how I can get back on track but be better than before. This literally gave me goosebumps. Perfect timing… my birthday is in 6 months and it is told that you can make a significant difference in that amount of time. I will stay disciplined and push myself to the limit! And never give up! I am going to give myself the life I’ve always wanted. I will come back in 6 months! Wish me luck! ❤️
I'll be taking this journey with you, my birthday is in 6 months as well... We can do this
good luck to you in your journey!🥰
you go girl❤
Good luck! How is it going so far?
How did it go?
Tam knows damn well when we need her!!!! 😭💗💗
If you’re reading this I’m praying you receive the highest form of love. You deserve the best.💗🙏🏼
Homework:
1. Swap analysis shadow work
2.draw out your ideal self
3. Create solutions
4.create a mood board
5. Invest on one thing that will approve your appearance
6. Commit to a new self-care ritual this week
Tysm
Thank you
I’m 40 and absolutely LOVE your channel ! You are so mature for your age and such a great influence especially for young ladies…. Older too. 😉 I think this is your calling & am shocked you don’t have millions of followers but they are coming - speaking it into existence. Keep shining your light. 💫
Another great way to understanding yourself and what you really wish in life is "the passion test". I discovered this yesterday reading a book of the same name. When you know what your real passions are in life and you put your attention on them, you automatically attract opportunities and people that will help you making them a reality.
Girl you are literally like a fairy godmother for me! Thank you so so much and Love you ❤
Hi tam thanks for sharing this great inspo I found your wisdom so inspirational! I started my path to reinventing myself a year ago, I’m now living healthier, confident, stronger, making 6 figures, having leisure to enjoy family &friends. I feel happier and living my life for myself . This is to encourage someone “you can start anytime to have a reset it’s worth it!
I’m striving to continue growing cus it’s a journey 💗
Congratulations sis! Thanks for encouraging others with your story, I will love to get tips from you too
Kudos to you 🎉
Change your mindset, read self-help books, expand knowledge, budget and don't spend on impulse, save, take your finances seriously, eat healthy, exercise your body, meditate; the list goes on... I hope it is useful to you.
How did you grow to 6 Figure ? I’m honestly trying to work on my personal finance this year.
Congratulations to you that's a great accomplishment keep it going 🎉
I swear why am I spending my 30 minutes with my therapist when your giving me more info and your ENERGY makes me wanna get up and start MOVING UPWARD... Thank you Tam 🥰🤗
I'm older than you but I feel like you're a big sister to me. I love listening to your videos. They make me feel hopeful about myself and my future. Lots of love!
Thought I was the only older one here 😊 Thanks Tam for reminding me of what I need to get done!
i seriously love the fact that you always have homework chapters at the end!!! it makes things a lot easier to note down and summarize, thank you for all that you do!
I watched this in December 2023 and now in feb 2024 what I development is an abundance mindset... I was someone who cries so much and now the time which I might have wasted crying, I exercise make smoothies make vision boards have a solo date and so much more
2 months ---💅💅💅love myself ❤
Great!
@@Daveeff Thankuh 💓
Thank you so much Tam for giving me confidence! Because of you I am my school's head girl now.
Omg ❤️❤️❤️❤️
that's such a great achievement :D
this is literally what i needed rn
my birthday is coming up and i sort of treat it the way everyone treats new years day and i have been working on changing my habits and rebranding myself
tysm for this
same w me!! my birthday is the 29th and i wanna make sure i have everything ready to rebrand myself during this new year around the sun
ITS LIKE SHE KNOWS WHAT VIDEOS WE WANT! ♥
Currently in hostel and every single day I was weak...but my girl you always make me think I'm the best...and I can be the highest self ❤
Guys, remember that some things may look very scary to you, but actually they are not scary at all when you do them. Just do them even if you're not feel like it ❤️
Planning is so crucial, I started writing how I want my day to go and I feel like I’m in control of my life❤❤❤ I love your videos 😊
I started watching this channel a few months ago and the more I focus on my glow up, the more I notice my self destructive behaviors and the more I feel like I am being personally called out and it’s fucking good. I need to grow up at some point and start taking control of my life. It’s a journey for sure but I’m going to get there.
Your timing is always so perfect 😭💜
frrrr
Girllllll how can someone be on time 🥺😩thankuuuuu so much you r beautiful soul!!!!!!
I'm the eldest daughter of my family and you know when things get overwhelming, tough and heavy, you are the person I really look up to. Really grateful!
I love you so much tam ❤ I am 17 years old, learning to become the best version of myself by watching your videos, I am so lucky to have you!
love ur videos because some of the self improvement videos feel like theyre trying to bully me into being better but your content actually seems like you want us to be better because u care
Your last video really made me smile and cry at the same time.. A huge thankyou for always making my day and helping us to be a better version of ourselves!!..♡♡♡
Ahhhh how do you always know what we need right at the moment!! Your literally a lifesaver ❤
Tam knows the need of her viewers. I swear I love her so much ❤
Its the summer holidays and I feel like ive become more lazy. I set myself goals but have constantly been decreasing them because i feel that i wont be able to complete anyway. I've mostly just been staying in the house not doing anything and i think of things to do but dont get around to doing them because i dont feel like it. I feel that this video really came on the right time. I watch your videos and im really thankful for them❤️they help me so much❤️❤️
no cause literally how does this girl make videos for exactly what im struggling with in my life rn
like get out of my head 😂❤
BUT LOVE YOUUUU ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I was trying the shadow work method on me and while answering the questions it made me cry soooo hard i didn't know I have taken this muchhh amount of pain inside me after every question I felt like a free cloud it was so refreshing for me thank you soo much for this i really appreciate your work 🥺❤️
i am 13 and watching your videos everyday. your youtube channel has carried me through my school year and has brought my grades from 60s to 90s, you made my mind focus more on the good then the bad things in life i’m am forever grateful and i will keep on supporting and following you every step of the way❤️❤️
this video is a real gold mine when you apply the advice given. thank you so much !
Im the oldest sibling but now i have an older sister of my dreams❤️
girl you always post a video in perfect timing with a subject that helps me the best in my current situation damn.. love u sm
Thank you so much for creating this!!! You're such an inspiration to everyone, especially the brown girlies. Keep up the amazing work Tam!!
Really wanna share my opinion that she is one of the best guide for women .. appreciate you sis 😘
I'm Re-watching because I have already changed so much for the better ❤
this is honestly what i need right now. Thank u for this wonderful video. I'm going to start taking little steps to get to where i wanna be and become the absolute best version of me.
girl you're an expert at manipulating yourself into doing the things you want & i'm here for it
You're so amazing. You literally are changing lives here. I hope you get all the happiness of this world and the hereafter.
I've felt like absolute shit this entire year and I just now realized I cannot go into 2024 like this
tysm ily 🫶🫶
I have NEVER subscribed to a channel so fast
Thankyou you know what I am the eldest daughter and I really needed this cause there's no one to guide me ❤
Same here 😢 . Wish you best of luck 🤞 for your improving journey ❤
I watched this video once, and rewatched it to take notes and do everything she said. She's a Queen 👑
I discovered your channel not long ago and it has helped me so much in cleaning up my life. Thank you for being so generous in sharing your tips and routines, and for all your timely pep talks!
She gave me so much confidence and learned me how to know my worth I love you so much Tam ❤❤❤
I am in a rebranding , fuelled by owning my own business. Stepping into the business woman & coach I am. I love this growth process. Thank you for all the tips here . This video is absolutely gold. I had done some of those tasks before but this is a masterclass. Time to get to work and keep it up. Go ladies !!
Your video gave me the push that I needed to go ahead and start my villain era. I was on a standstill for the past 3-4 months or so. Thanks a lot girlie for catapulting me into the direction I was so internally yearning to go ahead into!!! Love you loads!! You changed my life!!!!!!
I was literally thinking about writing a reinvention script and you put out a video about it the same day, i take this as a sign to reinvent myself and to stay disciplined enough to fully do it :)
TK I am so thankful to you, like an guardian angel for us girliess you just know what we need ❤️✨ never stop what you're doing
I absolutely love your vibes, you are worthy of the success and support you get!💟💟✨✨✨✨✨
Girl my life is such a mess rn and you just made it a lil better. I don’t have any sister but i really wanted one since my childhood and i really saw her in you. Thank you for this amazing video, it really helped a lot. I love you so much😭🧿❤️
GuRL I am literally so so much grateful that I found you. Your videos are so helpful and life changing. Love your videos
Yesterday I was just looking at pinterest how to change my life and now tam is making video about that! She's the best sister , virtual life coach always want to have in my life. Thank you for inspiring us!! Love you from Malaysia
I am so grateful that I found ur channel . u have no idea how much u help me ❤
your videos are truly life-changing
I have always avoided working on myself and thinking abt who I am thoroughly. But discovering your videos (and they came at the best time possible) made me want to actually try to change my life
wish me luck, everyone
I have my intentions but I hope they all come true
Girl , this was a ted talk 😅 I literally took notes ( about two pages ) like if I was in a classroom ( titles, headings, etc ) you are amazing thank you ❤❤
drops when i most need it ❤ you are appreciated Tam x
Hey tam I’m starting school in 20 days and this summer I’ve tried my best to reasearch ways to self improve myself as over the past 2-3 years since staring secondary school(started 13 currently 15) I’ve tumbled down to sort of a rut in life (mainly internally self sabotaging all that stuff ) but also externally (trying to deal with expectations ignoring getting bullied putting effort into friendships that were toxic all that stuff ) basically all theese incidents over the past few years led me to being more self aware so the reason I want to improve now is bc IK at this point all the repetitive struggles patterns and negatives of life that keep getting worse im so great full for stumbling upon your channel this summer and I’ll try my best over theese 20 days to figure out an exact healthy format for me to function and up level myself it’s hard internally im panicking but I can’t let myself spiral to the worst also thank you so much for your videos genuinely ❤
i have been having trouble with rebranding myself for a while, this video really helped me thank you so much ,stay blessed cant wait for more content from you.😘
this girl is changing my brain for the better. Thank you for being an INFLUENCER
This came when I was at my lowest point, yesterday I was crying but today I’m gon step into new change and beginning
first time watching your video... i would say my older self would be proud of who i became today but iam still very far away from my dreams and i feel stuck in the process with no improvements ... thanks to you i feel motivated to try new ways of improving myself so THANK YOU
So glad u spoke abt clean beauty its really important even though its really hard sometimes.
Can't imagine myself improving with you. You are the biggest inspiration and my role model as well. Thank you so much for helping us all out.
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You are literally the most helpful person ever frfr
🕯candle 🕯🤍 Tam, thank you. I've recently made a big shift in my life and ugly cried a good week because of all the fear it brought up and having to shed old skin/thought patterns. Your videos have helped me gain a wider perspective in my new journey of creating space for myself. (I watched: how to get over a breakup, glow up, financial freedom, self validate-ouuuh this oneee hit the nail on the headd😩😂) Your perspectives have encouraged and guided me to feel more intentional and purposeful for this new chapter in my life. Big big love and blessings to you and your journey 🤍🕯
I realized now that all the tasks Tam requested I had already done ... I can only thank
You're the best self growth motivational speaker on yt. I always try listening to the other but I love the way you talk and how organized you are in your speaking. Just everything about you girl >>>>>>
thank you i needed this. recently went thru a situation with a manipulative guy who i kept around just to make me miserable. i lost myself. ill follow your advice and learn to improve myself thank you!
This video came out at such perfect timing because I had been so dull and tired and everything and I needed something like this. Thanks tam❤️
Girl you be reading my mind!!!
I was literally going through this since last week
Tysm! You are amazing love u
using your tips for my senior year of college. I'm ready to mature and finally become the woman I had always envisioned
This is your best video so far, Tam
just want to share that now im trying to create opportunities in my life rather than waiting. i have a lot of social anxiety but i just asked a girl i rlly wanna be friends with to hang out. im a brave woman now
Going to a new city for a new job......my sign of re branding yourself for success
Thanks to your videos I been trying to get more smarter by pretending to work on office since I am single mom your advices help it good to prepare yourself to have skills just to succeed in any workplace ❤
I did the 'future self' thing 2 years ago. I check it every month and do big reviews every 6 months. It's one of the best things I've ever done and transformed my life.
for sure this is one of the best videos within this subject i have found! i like how it's super proactive and with actions to take right away
Watched one video from her few weeks ago… now she is the first person I go to watch so inspiring ❤
Wow this was just so good, i really how you explained every single thing to do and steps. I will do them all. Thank you so much Angel 😇🥰
omgg i just love your vibe and i feel so motivated to change my life !! love you so muchh
This video was soooo good and helpful. I’m adding it to my favorites for when I need encouragement.
You got this!
AAW TAM I JUST WANTED TO SAY THAT WE NEED A PART TWO OR THIS!!
I’m stuck in life
Couldn’t clear an exam for 3 years now, felt down and lazy all the time..
Watched this video, feeling a lot better and having the urge to put my life back together…
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Gotta change it now ✅
I’m gonna come back with great score and my dream college
I’ll come here on the day my results come out
Exam is on July 7th
Results towards end of July
See you on the other side!
Let’s go girl !
Thanks Tam
i owe you everything