Why Silence Makes Your Ex Come Back?
ฝัง
- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 15 ธ.ค. 2024
- 🎁 FREE Gift 🎁 : 10 Mistakes to Avoid When Trying to Get Your Ex Back → www.love.withm...
In today's video, you'll learn why silence makes your ex return to you after a breakup.
After our breakup, we all want to talk to our ex and make sure we can communicate together. But when you do that, you're showing your ex that you are becoming needy. Silence is so powerful, because you can ignore your ex, and this is what human beings hate the most.
We don't like to be ignored - even negative attention is better than no attention. Showing silence is what turns the tables around on your ex. Watch this video to learn more reasons why silence actually makes your ex come back!
My name is Coach Alex from Love Advice TV. We want to give you at home all the tips, tools, and resources you may need to see the change you want in your relationships. We offer these free videos to help you rebuild a connection with the person you love the most.
👥 Need 1-on-1 Coaching?
Let our experts help you get back with the one you love
bit.ly/4g9SBZq
⭐️ [SOCIAL] Let's Connect On Social :
TikTok: / lovecoachadrian
INSTAGRAM: / lovecoachadrian
FACEBOOK: / adrianlovecoach
⭐ ABOUT LOVE ADVICE TV: Our mission is to help people find happiness in love, and to provide individuals and couples with the communication tools and relevant techniques to be together in healthy sustainable relationships. Over the years, we have helped people in all types of breakups, separation, and divorce successfully get back together. I highly encourage you to look into how we’ve been so successful.
#getyourexback #loveadvice #breakupadvice
Silence is gold
"and ducktape is silver"😭
I want to just go away on my own and start a new life. Not because I am expecting anything to change but just for me to heal. I wish I could do that.
some advice,because I went through that : clean your house spick and span,dress elegantly,do a lot of haircare, skincare, go and walk in nature, accept all invitations,be the "yes" person for a while, do a lot of walking, eat healthy,block your ex everywhere, see positive people, don't even mention your ex, you will eventually move on, and feel free
Silence is a very powerful tool
No contact can give me work on myself in my own way.. Not expecting them to reach out.
Better to move on and wait for the right man!!!
It's hard to move on sometimes and with the right actions it's possible to get someone you love back.
His voice is so soothing.
Great video! Unfortunately, my two-year relationship ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, and I still love him deeply. I can't stop thinking about him. I've done everything I can to get him back, but nothing has worked. I'm frustrated and can't imagine my life with anyone else. Despite my best efforts, I can't get him out of my mind. I really miss him.
Over the years i have learnt to be silent.never fight back.blocked no more calls following up.
It's been 2 months he came back were talking again we both apologized
I left him.....I don't regret it and I don't want him Back.
I had Enough.
Maybe ex will come back maybe not but one is sure they will respect you as person as someone strong who is not depend on anyones attention.
Great video. I followed your advice three years ago and never had any contact with my ex ever again. Now she has a one-year-old child.😅
Indortunately, you are one of the exceptions…but Life is not finished yet…
😂
I don't know that I have it in me anymore. Sometimes the only winning move is NOT to play
The first thing you should be silent after breakup is to help you move on.
💯💯
Silence is Golden
You take her, she has known where I've been for 22 years,
true silence really works
Thank you for watching, Shuwisai.
Coach Alex
He Ghosted me went back to his ex had a baby what I'm I suppose to do with that ?? Ghost him back and focus on myself Love myself I come first I've learned a valuable Lesson. SELF LOVE is the best Love 😊
The silence is deafening but it is also speaking volumes.... I'm done. It's me time. Happy .However he is, is not my affair 👍
Both sides as a human will choose silence, then what????? Who is going to beg?
Scrapped it yesterday night. Total silence now!!
That doesn't work on guys that sleep around. All guys don't want commitment. They want lot of bed warmers.
Not true, it works on everybody, they just good at playing the game.
What if he is seeing someone, after 4 1/2 years he walked out.. my silence has worked to some extent cos now he does not know anything going on in my life. I miss him dearly and pray for a miracle
This is very true I was quiet on my ex for months and suddenly he called
Not only exs can be anyone
It’s so true go no contact it’s been a month I’m not calling or texting being silent with him
Me too.
Wow. Silence is gold.
I have given the silent treatment for 10 months.. It's a little harder to have zero communication because we have children together, so... I don't know what else to do... He knows I look after myself... I've gone on holiday and posted and everything else...
Even he just say that we dont had a chance. Because he dont want me anymore..
Thank you for reaching out. Please take a look at this article, it will be helpful to you.
www.withmyexagain.com/blog/is-my-relationship-over-forever/
Coach Alex
No body with a self value wants the same again
Depends on the situation
If you ever loved at all? You must be a taster...
Again and again, marrying ...a new wife each time something goes wrong?
Garbage comment.
Not the same, evolve, an evolve version of you
I told him that I will never take him back so I doubt he will try to again in the future
I told this numerous times to my ex he still tries!! For years now. But I don't love him anymore because he cheated on me at the beginning. If they really want you nothing you say will stop them
We're on a break right now. Have known each other for 6 yrs. We are both in our 70's so I don't have alot time to wait. I hope he calls.
Damn. Hope it's good
Yes I believe the power of silence .....
Tanks a lot coach we are now together coz of your advices it works for me
this channel saved me
So true Silence good ideas.
Good information but, I will never want him back, I left for a reason.
Silence can be very noise.
Silence really it works
Hahaha, i did this almost 1 week and he start to calling me and texting me with lots of love🤣😍 Now he is mine💪🏻👌🏻🤣
She just texted me earlier today after 9 days of NC and said she had found my passport. Asked me if I want to go over or she could bring it to me. Also, asked how I am doing. I replied and kept it very brief saying I will go over and that I am okay and hope she is too.
My ex finally unblocked me in wa. After 4 month. And after pray everyday. I hopefully this is good sign for us.
But no contact it's hard because I HV tried it, but I get attempted to text him. However sometimes I Text him and he ignores me. But currently I admitted to give up on him. though every day he is always on my mind. But I will be fine
You are very good Alex. You really do know what you are talking about. Soraya x
Thank you, Soraya!
Coach Alex
4 years I have been silent on my ex husband and just the other day I called to check him coz of Corona shit,his voice was shaking babe come home please &am well.😊
That's right. I support this silence explanation
I lost my love last few months so please please please pray for me his come back
Me and my husband (not yet annulled) broke up last feb 2019, i been no contact with him. Were in a long distance relationship. We talk, he said that he move on and his not mad at me anymore and ask me that he hope that i find someone else, but he refused to see me to talk and told his friends to stop pushing him to see me because he is still mad at me. I dont know what to do anymore. 😭 Help.
If he move on like he said why he can't see me to talk? 😭 Is there any chance at all? He still mad at me.
Thanks sir for the advice it worked and we are now together
My boyfriend broke up with me over the weekend,He didn’t tell me why but he just came to say it will be for the best.Just yesterday,I missed one call from him but he hasn’t called again and I haven’t called back either.
I want him back but I don’t know what to do
I love the silence and quiet no more lies and acting no more love Bombing no more gaslighting or pretending🎉 no more using my money from my bank account like it was all yours and not mine in the first place! No more Contact with dishonest narcissistic people who i unfortunately used to know! 🎉😂
Woow...I think all of this can happen when he is not in a new relationship....No .contact and silence take most of them away...
The best way is to move on
Which is difficult...
But surely what did not kill you will surely makes you strong.......
Thought of that too...kinda no room for him to feel anything if he is in a relationship. My case for instance he broke up with me since i wasnt ready to start a family. But he broke up at the same time some few days before break up we had plans of starting a family now! So now he has another woman who he claims she is pregnant
Silence is good but if he came back would not take him back because if he loved you he wouldn't of left in the first place! Single now and maybe one day a real man will love me!
I will stay away from love .
being needy is incurable
Excellent brother thanks for sharing 👍👍👍👍👍💐💐💐
Thank you for watching. I appreciate your kind words!
Coach Alex
That applies if you don’t have any kids with them 🤷🏽♀️
Thanks powerful message.
I dont think so, cuz shes talking to someone now 😔
I believe at least I found my self from this
Sometime I tell myself I'm not good enough or I'm ugly..because I give my all n it never enough.
Thank uhhh...Alex but ....bro don't want him back anymore.....just tired with his traumas,having peace now
My ex fiancé and I are on month 3 of being broken up. I made so many mistakes of begging and telling him I love him and crying to him that I can’t move on. Is it possible to go into no contact after all of that and for him to ever reach out? We last spoke the other day oh good terms catching up about life but I feel as I need to let him come to me.
He’s told me within this break up that he will always love me and have a place in his heart for me and that if it’s meant to be it will be. “We don’t know the future”. He continuously says he wants to be friends so I’m just confused and think we need space.
Pray for me coz i need her
Thank you for reaching out, Pitoka. ⭐ Need Immediate 1-on-1 Custom-Tailored Coaching | Schedule A Call With Us 👇: www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
Coach Adrian
I am listening from Kolkata in India
Thank u for the encouragement I'm tired of begging him
Thank you for watching. Please take a look at this video to understand why begging is the last thing you want to do.
www.withmyexagain.com/blog/begging-an-ex/
Coach Alex
Guys plz pray for me that me and my ex getting back together.. I still welling take the risk and I changing myself just for her..
No contact with my ex for 6 months.. no text no communication.. still have strong feelings cant move on.. why??.. what now?
My ex came back and expected physical contact but I want him to be committed to me so I didn't go ahead in that expectation. So he said if we both are away from first marriage by divorce then v can think about future like that. But right now I want him with me and tell he is there for me.
My silence pushed my crush away even though he started his cold shoulder treatment. Oh well.
I love you Alex you are the best i will surely apply this from Africa....i watch most of your videos and i learned a lot❤
I learn a lot to your videos Coach Alex may God bless you
She ditched me for an ugly tomboy, OMG, i begged i cried. I am picking up myself now. i hate myself for doing that last yr.
Sir I'm from MANIPUR but I'm very near to you because of your valuable messages to me.I like 👍 it ❤
Silence is your best friend...🙂
Absolutely!
Doesn't it depend on the reason for the breakup?
My ex lied me he called me at morning and said he will come to meet me at evening but he didn't come and he didn't contact.
What if he is confused and a coward? Will no contact still work? Will he still come back to me?
Y haven’t I seen this video for long. Thanks for this video that is what am actually doing now. But if I lose him a better one than him is coming.
Thank you i really needed such advice
You're welcome!
Coach Alex
I really like your explanation it doth make a lots of Suns!!
My husband and i married but we are in a long distances relationship.coz im here in Europe and his in US and now he have new lady.he dont call and chat me😭😭😭😭😭please help me🙏🙏🙏🙏
You"re great. Tnx so much for yor advise. You're my idol.
Then what happens when both of you decide to keep quiet
You bask in the glow of peace and serenity, that's what you do!
what happen s if wife is dating while in speration but she wont give u divorce also getting gifts from the person and tell u no matter she loves y u want her back
sure...I'll follow your tips😉thank you
You're welcome, Nisya. Sending you lots of positivity!
Coach Alex
Thank you Alex. It's certainly worth a try!
I tried no contact before and I guess I was the percentage that it didnt work with. Now I need to try it again.
I understand you have tried no contact before, Doreen. Please watch this video to understand how to do no contact successfully. th-cam.com/video/Zh18joNiGZY/w-d-xo.html
Coach Alex
Silence don’t work if u have kids together 😩
Hello . Help me 😭😭I'm doing good in no contact rules but still it didn't work. We've been together for 3 years . I did the no contact but still it didn't work . He talked to my mom that he is in so much pain ang he won't comeback and ruin my life (does he mean it?),😭😭1 month since our break up . Can I still start the radio silent? 😭😭😭Pls help
My ex does not comebk during my total silence.. He got new after .. Though he said always he was broken hearted due to me.. He found someone new after few months.
There is no meaning coming back only for a while..then gone again
My bf broke up with me 1week ago,,,i dont know why but i feel good after he told me its over and i said ok if thats what you want ...,i even wish him well and said take care and then he got angry at me ...i dont know whats wrong with him ...
I broke up with my ex but I am the one who is.hurt.I suffered depression, anxiety .He is very mad at me
I reached out after two weeks of no contact and she still didn't wanna talk. ):
My ex asked me to be his girlfriend on the 28th December, dated for 4 months before he asked me, then dumped me on new years day 😂. I didn’t even know I gave him the silent treatment🤷🏻♀️ but I was hurt and I didn’t want to reply to his messges. Anyway cut long story short. He messaged me today 3 days after he dumped me and told me he made a mistake! Let him stew for a few hours and had a 2 hour convo on the phone and decided To gave him a second chance but we’re going back to the start clean slate and dating again and hoping he never does it again . Wish me luck 🙏 xx
Ps... I love this guy and haven’t told him yet and he hasn’t used the L word with me but I think he does we’re just both not admitting it x
Hi Samantha, I am very pleased for you😊 I am going through a similar situation with my ex and am hoping we can make it work this time....😎 Good luck 🤞 kind regards and best wishes, Toby xx
mine too.hard to handle her back she sees am diffrent everytime we meet ...am in dilema
And if they are already talking to someone else?
You are totally right
Lol I love ur accent..no contact rule 4days in ...so done. God has a plan for all of us & if dey walk away..let them go. Thank u for this video..needed to remember doing the right thing.
Thank you new subscriber from phil