I was love bombed

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  • @vanosoup
    @vanosoup 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4015

    Let's be real, Julie created this video just to show off her whiteboard

    • @julienolke
      @julienolke  3 ปีที่แล้ว +711

      lol yup

    • @miguelramos3820
      @miguelramos3820 3 ปีที่แล้ว +414

      She needed to prove to her accountant why she put it on business expenses

    • @RS-pk4mp
      @RS-pk4mp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      Her Magic Whiteboard! Which creates a sketch, clears it, and has a new one within moments! That is serious magic. Just saying . . . I hope she patents it. (Wait, can a fictional, but realistic mirror-like figure copyright anything? Do you need proof of reality? Wow. Through the looking glass indeed. :)

    • @ShhheilaASMR
      @ShhheilaASMR 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      knew it! haha

    • @laurenh9678
      @laurenh9678 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Well now it’s a tax write off!

  • @kamille286
    @kamille286 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +76

    Reminds me of a quote I saw, if someone writes you a love poem they love you, if they write you 100 poems they love poems

  • @KMMHealy
    @KMMHealy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1030

    “He sends me good morning texts…”
    “The bar has gotten very low.”
    🤣💀 So true.

    • @HeidiFerren
      @HeidiFerren 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      I cried at how real that has become.

    • @BTNH_NiNJA
      @BTNH_NiNJA 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      💯😂

    • @seriesx9508
      @seriesx9508 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@BTNH_NiNJA This is so unfair. My GF pushed our relationship in the direction that she always gets compliments and gifts. Daily. I am trying to get out of the relationship since I am being pushed into "simp" cateogory.
      If I avoid her, she can easily say she was love bombed. Or pull some guilt trip females like doing to guys. I know women like to claim to be victims for not getting everything they want. I gotta get away from this princess. But the moment I do, she will go on claiming she was love bombed. And probably make a TH-cam video like this

    • @KhanGarth
      @KhanGarth 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You can easily set that up automatically with iPhones (probably android too). Just setup an automation where it sends a text at a certain time, and you can even have it pull randomly from a list of various differing ones to make it look like you’re really typing it. Then just continue sleeping in and have your phone message your chick automatically

    • @hiimluna2069
      @hiimluna2069 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@seriesx9508 did u even watch the video?? it’s a skit of her getting love bombed, realizing then moving on. it’s not about saying all guys that leave relationships are love bombers or something. also this is the first time ive even heard of the term love bombing so no not all FEMaLEs do this lmao.

  • @alishabee369
    @alishabee369 3 ปีที่แล้ว +176

    Making others learn about narcissistic love bombing is such a public service. Merit badge for you, Julie.

    • @vandoan8295
      @vandoan8295 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      100%
      i used to wake up every morning with paragraphs of love messages, flying to islands for vacation, breakfast at different hotels every morning…
      and then it suddenly stopped and other than the love bombing phase things got progressively worse and worse and they do not chsnge no matter what you tell / ask them to meet your needs once the love bombing phase is over and then after that it’s just pure cognitive stress and confusion (my ex is also a narc and im so relived i found the book abt narcissism ‘Should I stay or should i leave’)

  • @RhombonianKnight
    @RhombonianKnight 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1765

    We all need a friend like Mirror Julie. She's the realest.

    • @anshumanagrawal346
      @anshumanagrawal346 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      "Realest" 😆

    • @somethingthatexists4797
      @somethingthatexists4797 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ooh realest but not real, irony

    • @Voschel
      @Voschel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@somethingthatexists4797 Well, she is real. Just as real as you and me talking to our wonderful selves in the mirror and that's incredibly healthy. It may of course even be healthier to have a conversation with an actual other human being than yourself, in case of knowing a single person in this world - maybe even having a friend or two.
      But none of my friends showed off their whiteboards to me yet, so they shall be considered dead to me from now on.

    • @mirunapopescu
      @mirunapopescu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Everyone wants a Mirror Julie until you have her and she tells you what you don't want to hear

    • @ashleysmith7953
      @ashleysmith7953 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mirunapopescu I still want a mirror Julie 🤣
      My version lives to far away 😂

  • @ceilinh6004
    @ceilinh6004 3 ปีที่แล้ว +247

    Mirror Julie: A new variant, if you will.
    Julie: Too soon.
    Was it though? I laughed.

  • @somedutchguy7582
    @somedutchguy7582 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2007

    Everything makes perfect sense when Mirror Julie explains things!

    • @dcarter455
      @dcarter455 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I mean!!!! Spot on and the analogy made soooo much sense! Like how did I never see it like that before???🤔

    • @backstabingpike
      @backstabingpike 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ✊✊✊✊

    • @MartinMuehl
      @MartinMuehl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      We need to get Mirror Julie's take on NFT's! That can only be hilarious.

    • @pxrays547
      @pxrays547 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I trust Mirror Julie most when she is at her drunkest.

    • @babetravelling
      @babetravelling 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I actually wanna borrow Mirror Julie

  • @MultiverseAsheville
    @MultiverseAsheville 3 ปีที่แล้ว +167

    I like how “you had to be there” implies Mirrror Julie has adventures without Julie.
    And now that I think about it, Mirror Me 100% has stories I have no recollection of…

    • @CharlieSoze
      @CharlieSoze 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      This checks out. Drunk Charlie legit hides cigarettes from Sober Charlie because he knows Sober Charlie will throw them out. Fortunately only Drunk Charlie ever knows where they're hidden.

  • @Theo1505
    @Theo1505 3 ปีที่แล้ว +697

    "Too soon." Loved it. Perfect delivery.

    • @virbilaisa8899
      @virbilaisa8899 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      𝕊𝕡𝕖𝕔𝕚𝕒𝕝 𝕕𝕒𝕥𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕗𝕠𝕣 𝕪𝕠𝕦 ➺ BEAUTYZONE.CAM/Anna
      Anna is a beautiful girl.
      He's the person I love, he's my light
      day. The way the music flows and sounds
      is extravagant and fun. Anna is
      icon, legend, beautiful girl, princess, inspiration,
      a star. I could go on and on, understand this.
      I love NBA Anna.#垃圾

    • @photoo848
      @photoo848 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Kinda sad it wasn't one of the time travelling Julie's barging in and delivering that line

  • @lowandslow3939
    @lowandslow3939 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    “Then you have to trudge through this muddy area” had me in stitches!

  • @bicarbonat1
    @bicarbonat1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +719

    "He makes promises that he can't promise"
    She a little confused, but she got the spirit 💀

    • @400_billion_suns
      @400_billion_suns 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      His ass is writing checks that his body can't cash

    • @couchpotato6499
      @couchpotato6499 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@400_billion_suns is that a Top Gun reference?

    • @400_billion_suns
      @400_billion_suns 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@couchpotato6499 Nah, but yesterday I flew a cargo plane full of rubber dog s* out of Hong Kong.

    • @Alicia_Tomoko_5x
      @Alicia_Tomoko_5x 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Jason Shoots a woman that cared about you would not let you make expensive promises, then punish you for not keeping this. Its called simping which leads to divorce

    • @14sakuya26
      @14sakuya26 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Alicia_Tomoko_5x lol men refusing to take responsibility for their actions as usual

  • @bazilwreckerloughead
    @bazilwreckerloughead 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    "You look like roadkill when you wake up." Had me dying...had to re-watch that part 7 or 8 times!

    • @finsanders5851
      @finsanders5851 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’ve been collecting Mirror Julie’s best (worst?) insults of Regular Julie. (Excerpts to follow.) The roadkill comment may be #1.

    • @bazilwreckerloughead
      @bazilwreckerloughead 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@finsanders5851 LOVE IT!

  • @lejake
    @lejake 3 ปีที่แล้ว +352

    "You got lost in the analogy" :DD So good, a silent assassin of a joke :D

    • @virbilaisa8899
      @virbilaisa8899 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      𝕊𝕡𝕖𝕔𝕚𝕒𝕝 𝕕𝕒𝕥𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕗𝕠𝕣 𝕪𝕠𝕦 ➺ BEAUTYZONE.CAM/Anna
      Anna is a beautiful girl.
      He's the person I love, he's my light
      day. The way the music flows and sounds
      is extravagant and fun. Anna is
      icon, legend, beautiful girl, princess, inspiration,
      a star. I could go on and on, understand this.
      I love NBA Anna.#垃圾

    • @jamielondon6436
      @jamielondon6436 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      And what a class act is Mirror Julie for simply admitting it outright!

    • @flyingscotsman32
      @flyingscotsman32 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes but pretty solid upside down pine tree drawing

  • @neilschroeder7854
    @neilschroeder7854 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Nice detail. Mirror Julie turns the flask cap off and on in the direction you would see in a mirror.

  • @candacehorgan1057
    @candacehorgan1057 3 ปีที่แล้ว +303

    "Hold the phone, shoot the puck." Such a Canadian. Love it.

    • @bryancampbell9622
      @bryancampbell9622 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Shut the front door.

    • @slartimus
      @slartimus 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Also the lumberjack plaid flask.

    • @chantalfinn6173
      @chantalfinn6173 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@bryancampbell9622 sac en plastique

    • @kimreni
      @kimreni 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh. I heard that as "shoot the pug" and was really confused. Thank you for your comment 😅

  • @carolyntalbot947
    @carolyntalbot947 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Marco is about to know what it is to want Julie's attention. If you ghost a narcissist in this phase, you throw off the whole formula! Stay strong, Jules.

  • @karlsangree
    @karlsangree 3 ปีที่แล้ว +920

    Julie: He always says, "I'm lucky to be with you."
    Mirror Julie: Well that's not true.
    Way too funny...

    • @willow5235
      @willow5235 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I think I word your looking for is not funny but relatable

    • @Jade45224
      @Jade45224 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@willow5235 sorry but what’s wrong w funny ? just seems a bit nit picky

    • @willow5235
      @willow5235 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Jade45224 nothing wrong with funny, it was sarcasm that didn’t translate as well over text lol. I just found it painfully relatable

    • @Jade45224
      @Jade45224 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@willow5235 ohhh ok 😂😂

  • @danknfrshtv
    @danknfrshtv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Sometimes a person just needs a Nolke binge. Today was one of those days for me. Thank you, Julie!

  • @trinaq
    @trinaq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +344

    I love how quickly Mirror Julie draws the elaborate drawings in about five seconds flat! 😂🤣

    • @julienolke
      @julienolke  3 ปีที่แล้ว +108

      she's incredibly skilled

    • @qumquat
      @qumquat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      That's a suspiciously fast turnaround, Julie...mirror bomber

    • @Dismythed
      @Dismythed 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      ... until she needs to draw upside down, then a single line takes her 30 seconds. 😄

    • @ramonaflowers5052
      @ramonaflowers5052 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@julienolke It's even more impressive that she has to draw everything reversed so it doesn't look mirror image!

    • @Hugh.Manatee
      @Hugh.Manatee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ramonaflowers5052 But if you think about it, wouldn't her whole world be mirror imaged, so to her mirror imaged looks normal and we're the mirror image? ... I think I need to go to sleep...

  • @LaceyJuk
    @LaceyJuk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "Love is an open door" from Frozen is a good example of love bombing.

  • @ShimmyShimmyK8
    @ShimmyShimmyK8 3 ปีที่แล้ว +605

    Mirror Julie on the wall, who's the Julie-est of them all?
    She's definitely one of my faves!

  • @Cuffs565
    @Cuffs565 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    LOOOOVE "Mirror Julie" when she drunk lol the best IMO

  • @aryanmishra8454
    @aryanmishra8454 3 ปีที่แล้ว +189

    "DID YOU SEE THE DIAGRAM " IS A MOOD AND I LOVE IT

    • @julienolke
      @julienolke  3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      hehehe

    • @diegolima2098
      @diegolima2098 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I actually replayed this bit a few times HAHAHAHAHA

    • @TheRevolverLady
      @TheRevolverLady 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@diegolima2098 me too ^^

  • @chaddblaylock7857
    @chaddblaylock7857 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    The beginning of Narcissistic relationships usually starts with love bombing for 3 months. Julie you once again blend comedy and life skills so well!

    • @williamjenkins4913
      @williamjenkins4913 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You just wish it ended in them ghosting you.

    • @1000-Baby-Oil
      @1000-Baby-Oil 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Accusations of narcissism get tossed around far too casually these days...

    • @ankyfire
      @ankyfire 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@1000-Baby-Oil no, there are actually really many narcissists out there

    • @1000-Baby-Oil
      @1000-Baby-Oil 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ankyfire - That doesn't preclude the over- abundance of accusations to that effect. Tends to be women insisting that every guy they've ever dated was a narcissist. If that's true, they should look to themselves to understand why they are attracted to narcissists. I suspect that many of those men were, in fact, simply daring enough to have their own desires and opinions. As I say, it just seems far too common that we hear accusations of narcissism... as if narcissists make up half the population.

    • @ankyfire
      @ankyfire 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@1000-Baby-Oil have you thought that maybe indeed most of women HAVE dated a narcissist? Why think they're lying instead of trusting the victim?
      Yes the women should look at themselves... Do you know whom narcissists target? Highly emotional, empathetic individuals, usually in a more difficult part in their lives.
      That makes like 90% of women ever.

  • @lyndon4010
    @lyndon4010 3 ปีที่แล้ว +314

    the motto of this story: Ditch the love-bomber, keep the playlist

    • @PeterSedesse
      @PeterSedesse 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      plot twist... use the playlist to love bomb a different guy....

  • @T0MMYNAT0R
    @T0MMYNAT0R 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I need the playlist!

  • @LarryLatouf
    @LarryLatouf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +283

    The mirror-Julie videos are my favorites …. “…ballistic missile of attention…”. love it

  • @stevelee3144
    @stevelee3144 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Very creative! You are extremely smart to pull these videos off time after time. The entertainment value is up there. Thanks for sharing.

  • @michaelday6987
    @michaelday6987 3 ปีที่แล้ว +509

    Mirror Julie: "Your breath makes me want to vomit"
    My immediate reaction: "You sure it's not the hangover?"
    Love this channel.

    • @virbilaisa8899
      @virbilaisa8899 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      𝕊𝕡𝕖𝕔𝕚𝕒𝕝 𝕕𝕒𝕥𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕗𝕠𝕣 𝕪𝕠𝕦 ➺ BEAUTYZONE.CAM/Anna
      Anna is a beautiful girl.
      He's the person I love, he's my light
      day. The way the music flows and sounds
      is extravagant and fun. Anna is
      icon, legend, beautiful girl, princess, inspiration,
      a star. I could go on and on, understand this.
      I love NBA Anna.#垃圾

    • @bemasaberwyn55
      @bemasaberwyn55 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Goddamn dude

    • @RealRomplayer
      @RealRomplayer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My thought was: How can you smell that? You're on the other side of the mirror!

  • @heathen4236
    @heathen4236 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Mirror Julie is legitimately my soulmate. I feel like I could have hour-long, wordless conversations with her while we sat at a table in a crowded place and communicated exclusively with exasperated sighs and brow nods.

    • @beberivera7011
      @beberivera7011 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And maybe a whiteboard...😋

  • @tabathaarria9558
    @tabathaarria9558 3 ปีที่แล้ว +324

    for me it's not ghosting after the love bombing. it's more like "i'm gonna give you all these grandiose things that you didn't even ask so that i can mention them to guilt trip you in the future to make you do what i want you to" and it's terrifying

    • @andreakotvanova
      @andreakotvanova 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Are we dating the same guy ????

    • @abbycloud668
      @abbycloud668 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@andreakotvanova uhhh pls break up w him

    • @zachfeder9415
      @zachfeder9415 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      Just a quick reminder. If someone gives you something you didnt ask for, regardless of how thoughtful and nice it may be, you have no obligation to ever return the favour. They can never hold it over your head because THEY chose to do it.

    • @Magus_Union
      @Magus_Union 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      That's called Narcissism. Love bombing is a common tactic used by people who suffer this derangement in order to emotionally trap victims and inflict malicious harm after establishing a connection. It's part of their disguise in order to put up a "perfect partner" front in order to gain 'emotional supply' from the pain they inflict on people.
      Please get out and away from such people if they are in your life. They will do everything to harm and abuse you, regardless of how grandiose their gestures will be at times.

    • @DeathnoteBB
      @DeathnoteBB 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@Magus_Union Please don’t misuse medical terms and armchair diagnose people

  • @BlackCat-jg9cc
    @BlackCat-jg9cc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I like the little details, like how julie has her ring on her left hand while Mirror-Julie has her ring on her right because she's a reflection 😁

  • @trinaq
    @trinaq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +424

    Mirror Julie is the best agony aunt ever, she's always there to dispense advice, and point out obvious red flags!

    • @virbilaisa8899
      @virbilaisa8899 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      𝕊𝕡𝕖𝕔𝕚𝕒𝕝 𝕕𝕒𝕥𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕗𝕠𝕣 𝕪𝕠𝕦 ➺ BEAUTYZONE.CAM/Anna
      Anna is a beautiful girl.
      He's the person I love, he's my light
      day. The way the music flows and sounds
      is extravagant and fun. Anna is
      icon, legend, beautiful girl, princess, inspiration,
      a star. I could go on and on, understand this.
      I love NBA Anna.#垃圾

    • @oversoul7
      @oversoul7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Um what’s an agony aunt…. Cus I need one asap

    • @nawrr7438
      @nawrr7438 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@oversoul7 it is this thing in newspapers where people sent the problems so somebody could anonymously give advice

  • @Nikkimommyof4
    @Nikkimommyof4 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    First time watching this and I really liked it. Your characters seemed really authentic and I was able to truly see two different people even though it was you doing both characters. You are definitely talented. Thanks for sharing. Hope to see more of you soon.

  • @phenomenonnarutokun
    @phenomenonnarutokun 3 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    The best thing about the relationship between Struggling Julie and Mirror Julie is that after they completely disagree on something, they reunite and have a little beautiful banter. Love to see it

  • @RicardoMoralesMassin
    @RicardoMoralesMassin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Julie you are SO GOOD at the actin thing. I always forget your characters are played by the same person. And your storytellin is top notch too. This is awesome.

  • @nowshowjj
    @nowshowjj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +212

    "Do bears wear funny hats?" I'm using this forever.

    • @krisalan5327
      @krisalan5327 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Try using does a one-legged bear poop in a circle. You'll be amazed at the looks you'll get

  • @BlackHayateTheThird
    @BlackHayateTheThird 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good job! I remember you asked the community about this, and it's def a difficult topic to cover, and an even more-so to create as a comedic sketch. Relatable, truthful, digestable, and funny, awesome job!

    • @crafty1098
      @crafty1098 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Nice work! Only thing is, the guy isn't doing it for ego. He's purely in it for the bedroom fun. It's an end in itself. At least with the FFB, everyone got what they said they wanted. This guy still wants no strings attached, but has to fake it with pretend string. Silly string, if you will.
      Julie also had a good insight: these are mostly the same guys. They've just adapted with changing times. To be fair, a lot of women don't have Mirror Julie but still deep down know what's going on.

  • @zutty69
    @zutty69 3 ปีที่แล้ว +541

    For someone who's been in a committed relationship for years, Julie seems to know a bizarre amount about how terrible the dating world is these days.

    • @MsZephyra
      @MsZephyra 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      I've also been very confused about this...!!

    • @SpearAndMagicHelmetYT
      @SpearAndMagicHelmetYT 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Maybe she's non-monogamous?

    • @JNDReacts
      @JNDReacts 3 ปีที่แล้ว +120

      She put out a community post a week or so ago about this skit, asking about people's experiences with love-bombing.

    • @fignewton0000
      @fignewton0000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Jenny was right. It was a community post earlier last week

    • @ritugoswamy
      @ritugoswamy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      She does her research. :-)

  • @morisn
    @morisn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    3:03 - the muddy area, utterly irrelevant, yet my favourite part.

  • @marlenr8691
    @marlenr8691 3 ปีที่แล้ว +294

    As a survivor of an emotionally abusive relationship with a covert narcissist and professional love bomber, I enjoyed this so much!!! If only we could have vaccines!!!

    • @marthamryglod291
      @marthamryglod291 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      If you don't mind, would you give bullet points?

    • @1chienandalou
      @1chienandalou 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@marthamryglod291shut the door literally and figuratively, delete and block number and don’t check their social media. Get help.

    • @Maplecook
      @Maplecook 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I'm a guy, but I went through this with my ex, too. This video hit close to home.

    • @WayneLynch69
      @WayneLynch69 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Guy's see this so differently....and much less sympathetically.
      Elementally; you abandon responsibility for self, then complain you weren't
      protected. It's cringe-worhy to hear these middle-age women talk aboiut becoming "invisible". It's worth noting, men/boys were NEVER other than invisible; and it not only doesn't occur to women, they would blame the boy for not being a star.

    • @TeutaTheQueen
      @TeutaTheQueen 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      We do have a vaccine. It's called r/fds. Men usually have a meltdown when it's mentioned.

  • @davidpietarila699
    @davidpietarila699 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am SO glad that I came from a generation where courting was an in person thing.

  • @carola-lifeinparis
    @carola-lifeinparis 3 ปีที่แล้ว +160

    Amazing advice from Mirror Julie. And so realistic, I am pretty certain I cancelled a tinder date with someone exactly like Marco because I was a bit overwhelmed by these long, like 2 screens long, messages about how fantastic our life together will be before even meeting him in person. And good morning messages. And goodnight messages. And "getting sad when I did not reply right away" messages.
    This is really the most relatable channel I can imagine right now, presented by a drunk person living behind Julie's mirror :D :D

    • @julienolke
      @julienolke  3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      Oh my god I’m so glad you cancelled!! F*ck Marco! Thanks for watching 🥰🥰🥰

    • @Joseph_Roffey
      @Joseph_Roffey 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@julienolke Why do I suddenly feel like I’m watching a Disney movie…? Silencio Marco! We don’t talk about Marco no, no, no!

    • @TheKeksletsplay
      @TheKeksletsplay 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Imagine genuinely liking someone. Rather play hot cold and send mixed signals. Much more effective.

    • @Joseph_Roffey
      @Joseph_Roffey 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@TheKeksletsplay yeh I felt bad about Marco… It looked to me like Julie was about to genuinely miss out on a possibly great guy in this vid until Mirror Julie made it clear she knew Marco and knew he sent that playlist out to everyone at which point it was obvious he was not particularly genuine at all..😔
      I’m not sure this video constitutes an attempt at genuine love bombing, but even if that was what it was, love bombing is only distinguished from genuine affection by the removal of affection at a later stage. Even the slightly toxic “I feel so bad when you don’t reply quickly” that Marco was associated with could still just be romantic honesty and not manipulative. It’s only manipulative when the intention is to take those affections away once the other person is hooked so that they might feel compelled to try to get them back.
      As far as I understand the concept anyway. Xx

    • @SepiaMaddy
      @SepiaMaddy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@Joseph_Roffey The true difference (and the reason why kicking Marco to the curb is a good thing) is that he doesn't have enough emotional intelligence to recognize that it's not possible to love someone enough to spend the life with them when they haven't even met yet. That's not love, that's infatuation in the best case scenario. Worse even: it's infatuation with a mostly imaginary person because the brain just fills in the gaps with some "romance" when you barely know someone. To know someone takes time and opportunities so see them how they really are.
      That's why I absolutely agree with the Julies and say bye to every Marco out there. (Sorry Marco, you will only temporarily be memed.)

  • @jenn-k-h
    @jenn-k-h 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I wanted Mirror Julie's white board drawings to be brilliant works of art, like she turns it around and we're all astounded at her drunk artistic ability 😂🤣

  • @mattofthenorth
    @mattofthenorth 3 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    At first I thought mirror Julie had her own mirror 😲
    That could change everything!

    • @PeterSedesse
      @PeterSedesse 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      physicists could finally go back to string theory.

    • @FlatOnHisFace
      @FlatOnHisFace 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Wow! Imagine that story arc. Mirror Julie buys a mirror, gets Julie to look into it, trapping her in the mirror-verse, and then Mirror Julie is able to take her place in the real world. The chaos that would ensue!

    • @MadMadCommando
      @MadMadCommando 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mirror Julie’s mirror Julie is just passed out drunk in a mud bath

  • @Thepateisgreat
    @Thepateisgreat 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    So weird. He always ALWAYS said “I am so lucky” CONSTANTLY

  • @whitehawk5
    @whitehawk5 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    ok so the love bomber and fuckboy evolution art need to be put on t-shirt as merch, you are welcome mirror julie, and dont forget us little people

    • @ketoincontext2306
      @ketoincontext2306 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes!

    • @2livenoob
      @2livenoob 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      There needs to be a ghant chart to prove there is no level of attention women won't shame. If you don't respond to a text in 5.023437s you are an fboi, if you reply in 5.023436s you're a love bomber.

  • @8675309eahine
    @8675309eahine 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The line that got me was “Did you see the diagram?” You are so funny.

  • @AlysonTabbitha
    @AlysonTabbitha 3 ปีที่แล้ว +187

    Omg guys like this are actual nightmares. Thank you mirror Julie for your wisdom

    • @Aschmander
      @Aschmander 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hey I love your work! You do a kickass job

    • @edmis90
      @edmis90 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Difficult to imagine such exist.
      I feel like a person would have to be a psychopath, devoid of any empathy, in order to do that.

    • @Illvester42
      @Illvester42 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      people* ...gender inclusivity of all sociopaths is important!

    • @eat_pray_porg8450
      @eat_pray_porg8450 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi, AT! I didn't know you were a Julie Nolke fan! That's awesome! :-)

    • @PeterAcrat
      @PeterAcrat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Actually: _"People"_ like this (regardless of gender) are toxic narcissistic types to be avoided.

  • @CLdanse
    @CLdanse 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That’s really good. Love the inner dialogue ending up being a outer dialogue of 2 versions of you. And with just enough sense of humour. More eye-openers like this please ! The world needs it. Please do a series of all the narcissistic tools : love bombing it just one of them …

  • @HealingInsideMyMind
    @HealingInsideMyMind 3 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    Me: “Dammit Julie! Why you do this to me!?”
    Also me: “I love her so much!”

  • @heidiwood3142
    @heidiwood3142 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg I just can’t get enough of this beautiful woman’s smart, funny, relatable and relevant material!!! What a gem she is, I hope to see her on bigger and bigger platforms so the world can enjoy this beautiful genius as much as I do!!!

  • @MattGoodreau
    @MattGoodreau 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    You know what's amazing!? Sometimes I get lost in Julie's performance and forget that MJ is not another actress....just Julie...playing both parts perfectly lol

  • @MrAlexEart
    @MrAlexEart 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love how excited Mirror Julie was about the whiteboard!

  • @nrsrymj
    @nrsrymj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Hi Julie! Congrats on the million!

    • @julienolke
      @julienolke  3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      thank youuu

    • @nrsrymj
      @nrsrymj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@julienolke aaahh she answered! Thanks for all the laughs. Really made this crappy time easier!
      Also you're gorgeous. Loved your roller skating photos ❤️

  • @twilfits
    @twilfits ปีที่แล้ว

    Like the drone illustration. So true about the future plans that never happen. Let's sail! Let's hike to blah bla point! 😄

  • @jennifermc1221
    @jennifermc1221 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    I will only think of love bombers as a new type of variant from now on

    • @julienolke
      @julienolke  3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      we need a vaccine!

    • @Darwinwasright167
      @Darwinwasright167 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      “A stupid amount of people won’t take it” ---Julie Nolke 2021

    • @DivineDancing1
      @DivineDancing1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      A serious disease

  • @Marss13z
    @Marss13z 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    OK. So I found your channel in 2020 during lockdown and I was squandering time. I got really good at pasta. Lost you for a year and a half and here you are again. Delightful episode. Glad you're there.

  • @DJ-fn3jm
    @DJ-fn3jm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    Some people might think Mirror Julie drinks too much. But imagine this: You live in the mirror. Trapped there. Always primping and shaving and waxing and getting ready to go out. and...never...ever...leaving. I think she is under consuming.

    • @virbilaisa8899
      @virbilaisa8899 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      𝕊𝕡𝕖𝕔𝕚𝕒𝕝 𝕕𝕒𝕥𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕗𝕠𝕣 𝕪𝕠𝕦 ➺ BEAUTYZONE.CAM/Anna
      Anna is a beautiful girl.
      He's the person I love, he's my light
      day. The way the music flows and sounds
      is extravagant and fun. Anna is
      icon, legend, beautiful girl, princess, inspiration,
      a star. I could go on and on, understand this.
      I love NBA Anna.#垃圾

    • @johndododoe1411
      @johndododoe1411 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I would imagine she appears in all the mirrors Julie passes while out and about, so she actually goes out in the mirror world and gets visible hickies from mirrors of Julie's boyfriends.

    • @NonFerricIrony
      @NonFerricIrony 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      That sums up this *whole* past two years for me.

    • @Tom_YouTube_stole_my_handle
      @Tom_YouTube_stole_my_handle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      We have to consider the question of where does the booze come from? Either the mirror apartment is much larger to contain an unlimited supply in which case Mirror can pass time exploring the apartment or she is able to leave at will. Given we never hear her calling Julie we might assume there are times when Julie's calls to her go unanswered.

    • @chantalfinn6173
      @chantalfinn6173 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@NonFerricIrony 💯

  • @DavidDoncheck
    @DavidDoncheck 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Frickin love it. Smiles all around. Thanks Julie!

  • @heysunshine648
    @heysunshine648 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    the ways that this sketch imitates my own recently developing long-distance relationship with the only difference of the guy definitely not being a love bomber are incredibly hilarious and frighteningly creepy at the same time. i'm having fun but also a mild existential crisis
    classic julie content

  • @Hullj
    @Hullj ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you. The humor is wonderful. And the direction towards mental health examination and protection is exceedingly valid exceedingly necessary and God I wish I lived in can

  • @MANU123423
    @MANU123423 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Just discovered your channel, it’s incredible how quick I stopped thinking about the two characters being the same person! So seamless, well done!

    • @virbilaisa8899
      @virbilaisa8899 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      𝕊𝕡𝕖𝕔𝕚𝕒𝕝 𝕕𝕒𝕥𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕗𝕠𝕣 𝕪𝕠𝕦 ➺ BEAUTYZONE.CAM/Anna
      Anna is a beautiful girl.
      He's the person I love, he's my light
      day. The way the music flows and sounds
      is extravagant and fun. Anna is
      icon, legend, beautiful girl, princess, inspiration,
      a star. I could go on and on, understand this.
      I love NBA Anna.#垃圾

  • @TheEldarGuy
    @TheEldarGuy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "You had to be there"
    Yep, my shadow self is having a much better life than mine.

  • @chasbodaniels1744
    @chasbodaniels1744 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    So many great hooks in this. Tempted to play it at .75 speed to catch them all.
    One of your best.

    • @virbilaisa8899
      @virbilaisa8899 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      𝕊𝕡𝕖𝕔𝕚𝕒𝕝 𝕕𝕒𝕥𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕗𝕠𝕣 𝕪𝕠𝕦 ➺ BEAUTYZONE.CAM/Anna
      Anna is a beautiful girl.
      He's the person I love, he's my light
      day. The way the music flows and sounds
      is extravagant and fun. Anna is
      icon, legend, beautiful girl, princess, inspiration,
      a star. I could go on and on, understand this.
      I love NBA Anna.#垃圾

  • @TimGreen87
    @TimGreen87 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love the writing in this one

  • @writechris2
    @writechris2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Aw, I was hoping to get the playlist, mirror Julie! Also, where were you when I was still dating? Could have used your wisdom for sure.

  • @lia636
    @lia636 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg omg omg !!! This fits so well with my current situation !!!

  • @Chromicon
    @Chromicon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    The first time Julie said, Marco, I kindof expected Mirror Julie to say, Polo.

  • @ameliaa2302
    @ameliaa2302 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes!! Need more videos like this. I love learning from Julie and alter Julie’s

  • @tylerboyce4081
    @tylerboyce4081 3 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    4:58 Julie: "It's been a challenging year to say the least."
    Jack Donaghy: "It's February, Nolke..."

    • @Tom_McMurtry
      @Tom_McMurtry 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Both are true! 😅

    • @elissachasen2528
      @elissachasen2528 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      January was a really tough year.

    • @normanclatcher
      @normanclatcher 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      _This is foreshadowing. You might wanna write that down..._

    • @FlatOnHisFace
      @FlatOnHisFace 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She's setting up a future Future Julie revisits her past self sketch.

    • @Thundersnowy
      @Thundersnowy 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣🤣🤣🤣 true and true.

  • @ciel319faves
    @ciel319faves 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is sooo relatable!! 🤣🤣🤣 love the evolution drawing on the whiteboard makes so much sense 🤣🤣🤣

  • @TimKaseyMythHealer
    @TimKaseyMythHealer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Your skits are so smart! Love all that you do, ❤

    • @julienolke
      @julienolke  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you so much!

    • @TimKaseyMythHealer
      @TimKaseyMythHealer 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@julienolke ,❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @paddyodriscoll8648
    @paddyodriscoll8648 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    That was brilliant. Bravo,,, brava,,, bravissimo…

  • @MikeCiccolo
    @MikeCiccolo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love the stick figures running away from the love bomber!😄

  • @crggddns1
    @crggddns1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Julie your work is great on so many levels it is breathtaking! Thank you!

  • @Lumas101
    @Lumas101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    *Prepares to have “Confessions Part 2” in my head for the rest of the week.*

    • @normanclatcher
      @normanclatcher 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      reluctantly crouched at the starting line...

  • @qwertykey6586
    @qwertykey6586 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The drone illustration killed it🤣🤣🤣
    Forget that the evolution chart is insane

  • @Vorundor
    @Vorundor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Great way to start my day, Mirror Julie is DA BEST. Her diagrams are exquisite. The fuck boy evolution had me dying LOL

  • @mazeknox
    @mazeknox 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is now one of my favourites with mirror Julie. The back and forth banter feels VERY natural and on point. I mean...I know Julie is just 1 person, but sometimes I forget that..

  • @DeejayCombsGoesLive
    @DeejayCombsGoesLive 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Congratulations on one million subs, Ilysm ❤️

  • @circusmodern
    @circusmodern 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    "Damn this is an eclectic mix of songs with a great thru line"... giggles!! Excellent description of mixed tape

  • @marcokrueger3399
    @marcokrueger3399 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Hey Julie, I hope you're not giving up on us! I always thought of that as a long term thing and I'm definitely not a subscribe-bomber.
    I'm so glad we have you!

    • @sanjuseesstuff
      @sanjuseesstuff 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This comment needs to be pinned

  • @Chahlie
    @Chahlie 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Best yet! Every. Single. Line. So true :)

  • @dudemandudefood
    @dudemandudefood 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    This is my good morning text because it's 9:00 am... Hey! You did a great job per usual 🤘

    • @virbilaisa8899
      @virbilaisa8899 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      𝕊𝕡𝕖𝕔𝕚𝕒𝕝 𝕕𝕒𝕥𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕗𝕠𝕣 𝕪𝕠𝕦 ➺ BEAUTYZONE.CAM/Anna
      Anna is a beautiful girl.
      He's the person I love, he's my light
      day. The way the music flows and sounds
      is extravagant and fun. Anna is
      icon, legend, beautiful girl, princess, inspiration,
      a star. I could go on and on, understand this.
      I love NBA Anna.#垃圾

  • @JCookie721
    @JCookie721 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I need this playlist!

  • @AlaskanNativeRedEagle
    @AlaskanNativeRedEagle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    "I feel like the bar has gotten very low!" -I died laughing! haha

  • @ms.23
    @ms.23 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Pretty impressive. Right on.

  • @michaelmolarsky8524
    @michaelmolarsky8524 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Mirror Julie gives spot on assessment of Narcissism at it’s core.
    Takes one to know one!😁

  • @lfreuja92
    @lfreuja92 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Now I want to listen to the playlist too.

  • @davidnelson4960
    @davidnelson4960 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I won't lie to you, as relatable as the sketches are, Julie's ads are what set her apart. Where other youtubers give the plug in rote monotone, almost putting you to sleep, Julie actually sounds like she believes in the product. She's uncommonly diversified. She's just too cool for school.

    • @virbilaisa8899
      @virbilaisa8899 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      𝕊𝕡𝕖𝕔𝕚𝕒𝕝 𝕕𝕒𝕥𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕗𝕠𝕣 𝕪𝕠𝕦 ➺ BEAUTYZONE.CAM/Anna
      Anna is a beautiful girl.
      He's the person I love, he's my light
      day. The way the music flows and sounds
      is extravagant and fun. Anna is
      icon, legend, beautiful girl, princess, inspiration,
      a star. I could go on and on, understand this.
      I love NBA Anna.#垃圾

    • @Call-me-Al
      @Call-me-Al 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I see you haven't seen the Adstronaut. Look up George Ryan, IIRC he and Julie made a sketch together? They are both funny people.

  • @susanmarki2027
    @susanmarki2027 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can applaud enough. The drawings and analogy spiderweb was precious. Love your videos.

  • @bcreativecarson5973
    @bcreativecarson5973 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    White board comedy is a genre that is underutilized. Thank you, Mirror Julie, for bringing this style of comedy back to the forefront!
    Also, are you up for a game of Pictionary?
    I love Julie Nolke. ❤ (But not in a bombing kind of way.)

  • @mconnaghan
    @mconnaghan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "I love you so much and I'll see you next week." Ohhh, I see how it is.

  • @nurse425
    @nurse425 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I absolutely love how her flask is just THERE, LOL! 🙃

    • @virbilaisa8899
      @virbilaisa8899 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      𝕊𝕡𝕖𝕔𝕚𝕒𝕝 𝕕𝕒𝕥𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕗𝕠𝕣 𝕪𝕠𝕦 ➺ BEAUTYZONE.CAM/Anna
      Anna is a beautiful girl.
      He's the person I love, he's my light
      day. The way the music flows and sounds
      is extravagant and fun. Anna is
      icon, legend, beautiful girl, princess, inspiration,
      a star. I could go on and on, understand this.
      I love NBA Anna.#垃圾

  • @habbadabbado5765
    @habbadabbado5765 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    “I would just take the almost out of that sentence” great line and delivery!!

  • @davidarmstrongcharles
    @davidarmstrongcharles 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I want that playlist! 🎧 😉

  • @brunomena339
    @brunomena339 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I need that play list!

  • @hcarley
    @hcarley 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Please can you make this from the perspective of her recognizing that she is the love bomber?!

  • @notinterested8452
    @notinterested8452 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sorry to hear that. Hope everything is OK in future.