Girl Dumped Me Because I Wouldn't Go Over My Dating Budget!
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Dave needs to learn some basic mainstream economics. Treating the macroeconomy as a household is counter-intuitive at that level. Consumption + Investment + Government consumption = Y National output, on a micro-level it makes sense to save and cut, however, what miro-economics/personal finance level/neo-classical economics fails to take seriously is that one person's expense is another person's income. If confidence drops to near zero no matter what happens consumption will drop and everyone will be worse off. The reserve bank can lower rates to zero but it won't make a difference if there is a liquidity trap. Government spending is needed to reinject some demand into the equation to get an upward trajectory going again especially if monetary policy is no longer working. I know Dave likes to bag on the left but their actual spending plans put forward tend to be more in line with the Keynesian/ neo-classical synthesis response that would help unemployment more. Kaynes was right about the national debt, in the long run, we are all dead, I don't want to see a whole generation of people suffering or jobless when they don't have to be, much better to get growth back up and let the growth rate and inflation rate take care of debt long term, as long as they actually do pay it back and don't lower taxes again when they start to get surpluses again. If we have to sacrifice inflation for employment, like the trade-off in the Phillips Curve I would much rather have higher inflation and low unemployment then the other way around.
I'd like to, but it has about a 5 minute how to manipulate a women video that you can't cancel and I refused to watch. No video is worth that.
Dave can you tell Anthony I wanna go on a date? We can 2 for $20 at Applebee’s & i’m content 😏
I would never let my BF buy a $500 dinner date. Maybe if we went on a one week vacation but dinner no.
@@Josh-vc8lr So what you’re saying is the monetary system is outdated, tremendously flawed, and essentially a form of slavery that only the greedy and insecure feed on. Good points! Thanks for the perspective!
Any woman that demands things like that so early in the relationship is going to be trouble. He dodged a bullet.
Richard Forester 💯
I'd take that even further and say.. at any point in the relationship.
Brown Devil, spot on. I've been married almost 10 years. I've never spent HALF that much on a meal with my wife. I would love to be in a position to do that, but not because she demands it. She doesn't. I'm going to splurge for our 10 year anniversary, but I'll be surprised if it hits over $200. We just don't live like that.
That woman would have ruined his life.
Now if she can appreciate peanut butter on a flour tortillas. You might find a winner.
Any woman that would demand a $500 dinner is not worth a $5 dinner.
Agreed ,as a woman I normally recommend a good coffee shop..sit down drink coffee talk see how it goes from there..
@@Kibatsume1 Same. A $500 dinner? That must have included champagne and the food must have been served on gold platters..hehe
My husband’s first date with me cost him about $60, including tip. I chose the restaurant and he expected to pay more. Dating is an opportunity to get to know each other, not go broke. Once you are married, you can go crazy spending for each other once you are in a position to do that. Overspending to impress is foolish if you are looking for a lifelong companion.
@@luvtheLordJesus First date was $60? I've never spent, and never will spend that much on a first date
@@aligncars10000 That is personal choice and that is fine. The point is, he told me to choose a restaurant and I looked for somewhere reasonable. I wouldn't make someone spend $500 on their first date with me.
He is not cheap. He is smart. Check back on this king in 10 years he will be crushing life. $500 for a date? Crazy. He has goals, she has a price tag.
"He has goals, she has a price tag."-James Lyons what a quote
What?! Even $50 would not be cheap ... only a man like me should be called cheap ... I spend $0 on dates, free dates, if the woman really liked me why wouldn't she want to talk to me while walking in the park, while not paying for anything?
This comment needs more likes bro. Have a like and get up there!
She ain’t even worth it
That’s crazy!
$500 for dinner!?!?! That's some 30 year wedding anniversary stuff right there.
Eh. I wish to have a special trip for my 30 year wedding anniversary instead just a dinner.
In over 30 years of marriage anniversaries, birthdays everything I've never spent that on a dinner...maybe $200-300 but that's it on some of our anniversaries. I think I spent that ($500) maybe on my parents 50th anniversary for a dozens people that I split with another family member is the most I've ever spent.
That would've been a great answer: well, let's date and some day marry and on our 30th anniversary we'll go to this place and spend 500 dollars. 😂
I'm very happy that I will probably pay all my marriage anniversary dinners out of dividends of investing the equivalent of just this singl le bill.
That 's not being cheap, that 's called having boundaries
Excellent!
She’s in fantasy land!
YES!!
Well said
EXACTLY! Not every man is rich as Elvis. Today's economy stinks!
Better to find out shes a gold digger on the first date, you got lucky.
Win Duncan all decent looking women are gold diggers. Either high key or low key, they all are.
@@JacesOwnWorld Wanting your husband to provide for his household is not the same as golddigging.
The days have long passed to that the family can get by on one income,
@@robertcraft1030 .
It would be very financially smart for the wife to pick up a PT job, to help with the bills (especially if there are not any children in the house).
@@solascripturaPR1517 Of course a family can get by on one income. Plenty of single people with kids or families with a stay at home parent live on one income. With no children, a couple can certainly live on one income.
that's truly right, find another.
I’ve been married 13 years and we have plenty of money and I would NEVER demand a $500 dinner. I’m happy with a $50 dinner and $450 towards something useful for our family.
Agree
Preach!
You are amazing! 👏🏿
See..you got wifed up for a reason
but you still want to spend the remaining $450. lol. I'm the cheap one Dave talks about.
Omg hearing “not in my budget” would be a turn on lol
Same lol
Ikr? Someone who is honest and responsible? It's great.
@Daniel Navarro Hey, points for the attempt, right? Lol.
"but...it's a cup of cof-"
"NOT. IN MY BUDGET!"
now pick up your cup. we gonna wash it and use it as a pencil holder, for the pencils we snatched from ikea.
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$500 on a date is literally groceries for a month that can make multiple meals. smh, that's not being cheap it's being smart with your money.
for 3 months if you go to a farmers market :/
500 might even be an overestimate, assuming that you're only cooking for two, and you eat leftovers for lunch the next day.
That's like 2 months at least man, 6 months of beans and rice 😂
It's not being selfish, it's being smart.
@Bianca Boswell I agree
She claimed she was a date, she was just a Foodie Call. She just wanted to eat on his dime.
Retired Manager LOL @ “Foodie Call”!!!
Ha ha foodie call! Love it!
Exactly!!!
That’s even an excessive amount if you was taking your mom or dad.
When I was single, the word for women like this was a “grazer”.
A budget doesn’t mean “cheap”
Eating out at restaurants wasn’t in my budget this month but my budget did tell me to invest $1500 in my brokerage account. That doesn’t sound cheap to me
It was generous for him to say that he will put it in the budget for next month... I dont think he should have even said that. This is a gentleman, oil and water dont mix.
Yeah, I was amazed he would even think to go that far. He needs to stay away from women like that.
Regardless of a budget, a $500 meal is absurd.
Yep I'd rather have a good baked potato and roast chicken.
Well, not as a habit. But for a very special occasion of which you might have one or two in your lifetime and can afford it - then go ahead and treat yourself. Second date? No frikking way! Even Dave says that once you have everything sorted and get some savings and investments happening, enjoy some of that money
I felt really bougie having a $50 steak- there's no way I'm eating $500. That's too much for me. But if that's what you wanted for like a 10 year anniversary then that would be different than a second date.
Idc if I got 2 million me and the wife enjoy small eating spots that are local and fun
A $500 dinner is not absurd for two. An expectarion for that on a second date is beyond absurd. He dodged a bullet.
I have a daughter. I was thinking if she called me in tears saying “my boyfriend wouldn’t take me out on a 500$ restaurant”. I would comfort her and say “you deserved to get dumped”. Hahaha!
I would have told mine the same thing.😂🤣
Yep. Lol
Honest question, why are Americans all of a sudden putting the dollar sign after the number?
JeffWVU I think this has been going on for years. If you really think about it, it makes sense. You wouldn’t say dollars 500 if you’re talking to someone. That’s just my $.02 cents😜
@@jeffwvu4602 stupidity
As a woman myself I find $500 for two people to eat dinner is absurd!
That probably included a $200 bottle of wine
You do look like you're into Big Macs.
That $500 would have literally went down the toilet 🤣🤣🤣.
Why do I feel like in a few years that girl will be crying to the Dave Ramsey show about how she just doesn't know how she racked up 300k+ of debt. :')
And she’ll blame Anthony for not calling her back, begging for her forgiveness, and reigning her in - as if she would have listened to anything he had to say. These kind of women have zero sense of responsibility or accountability for their own stupidity.
And single with 3 kids
I have another feeling, she's gonna run into a guy who has the money to spend and wants too. He'll be older....
AlllSmiless and that’s great. This dudes looking for a wife. She’s looking for a sugar daddy. Hope they both find what their looking for.
She gone end on the Maury Show too
That kind of money for dinner is ridiculous, that’s an anniversary dinner, like ten year.
Haha agreed! When I saw the title I figured it was someone who got tired of $2 pizza slices and wanted to go somewhere with a menu, $500 is ridiculous for a date.
That’s how thots test men. If they’ll pay 500 to feed me and look at me he will pay infinitely more for other things.
Yessss haha
Me and my wife just celebrated 10 years. We actually refer to anniversaries as "family birthdays" and we celebrate. Got some ribeyes at Costco. Salad from the garden, Fresh bread, Baked taters, Brussels sprouts, cocktails. Had a better meal than if we went out. The 4 of us (2 kids) ate it for 2+ meals. Felt like we were in some high cotton! All costs around $80.
@@someguynamedvictor yes, good point. I suppose it is a test from both sides. Personally I find it revolting that a woman is after a rich man like that .... get a job woman, why would you want to be kept like that !
Someone making ANY kind of demand on a dating partner is a huge red flag.
If some guy wanted to buy me an $80 dinner I’d have a heart attack.
Same I’d be freaking out too.
80 dollars is "correct" for a regular restaurant with a main dish, dessert and drinks but 500 dollars, that's something you do on very special occasions, not for a date (I'm a woman and I won't mind a 500 dollars dinner if the dude was some millionnaire gourmet, some guys love such stuff but I can't afford it so... I won't be the one asking for it...250 bucks is what I eat in a MONTH)
I don't even treat myself to an $80 dinner so I wouldn't expect someone else to either 😂 If it happens it would be because they can and want to not because I demand it.
I will insist pay my part. If I cannot afford it, I just refuse it. I only accept my husband’s dinner.
Same. The ambulance would have to come get me.
I had a second date with a girl one time at Costco when I was 19. For the appetizers we got the free samples, and the main course was hotdogs at the food court. I ended up marrying that girl at age 26, and today at age 28 we own $4.5 million worth of real estate and we have a net worth of $1.5 million. Fellas, find yourself a woman who is interested in you when you're broke. Then once you succeed the two of you can run your empires together, and you know she loves you and not your wallet.
Congrats
Wow! You just killed it in life. Great job on many different levels, the first one finding an awesome woman.
@@cameronsantiago3155 Thank you!
@@michaelb.8953 Thanks. ton man!
$3M spread... same thing happened to Dave when they called the notes and he went bankrupt. Clear that debt up. 👍🏼
$500 is half of baby step 1. That girl crazy.
Thomas Morrison 😂😂😂😂
She's MORE THAN CRAZY, I'd be telling her HERE'S THE DOOR DON'T LET IT HIT YOU IN THE A$$
Lol...Facts!!!
😂😂😂😂😂
Exactly!
Sounds like it was a 'foodie call'
Underrated
Bro. This comment should have 1k likes
You don't nominate an expensive restaurant and then expect the other person to pay for you unless you're using them.
🤣
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A girl also dumped me because I was responsible financially, what she didn't know that is that my primary home is almost paid off and my rentals are almost paid off as well. She ended up dating a guy who lived in an apartment but drove a nice sport car lol.
yup. I had a similar experience. A girl broke up with me because I pleaded with her not to buy a new fancy car that she couldn't afford. I'd be so interested to run into her now 10 years later. I now have the nice car and the house and some other things, and no debt.
👏
Sometimes Rejection is God protection or redirection
My wife would have dumped me if I HAD spent $500 on a dinner date 🤣
Winner
Yep! Because I would have thought you were crazy. $500 on dinner is crazy, I don’t care if we had been together 10 years.
$500 is more than my monthly grocery budget. And I have 5 kids.
Now imagine how she would react if you spent $500 on a dinner with your girlfriend!
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She was going to dump him after he fed her anyway.
Yup!!
Not even that, she already has a dude she is eyeing/rolling with, that is why she is so bold with asking for a $500 dinner.
Indeed!!! Becareful!
@Kertigen1 that's why I dont go to bars. Way too overpriced.
Yup she wasn't interested anyway. He probably went for a woman out of his league who was used to that lifestyle
The nerve! He sure dodged that bullet😂
Any girl who determines who she’s going to be with by how much he spends on her needs different priorities. You absolutely did the right thing and deserve someone who will respect your boundaries and values, and will want to spend time with you no matter how much you spend!
That dude needs to consider himself blessed...better get rid of that drama now then when you're in divorce court, fighting for your kids, house and mental sanity. Real talk.
Women in debt always calling someone broke walking around with a negative net worth
So much truth in only one sentence.
Lol... truth!!!
They’re broke and don’t even know it
Negative Self-Worth too
TELL ME ABOUT IT. AT LEAST HE’S SPINNING SOMETHING ON HER.
He is actually lucky she ghosted him, he is better off.
I heard a story I like. A guy drives up to a girls house to pick her up for their first date. He walked her to the car and opened the car door for her, and she got upset and said she can open her own door and refused to get in. He said sorry, can we start over? She said, well, OK. He closed her car door, went around to the drivers side, got in, and drove off and left her there. End of date.
Dang. Honestly being ghosted by this girl is dodging a huge bullet.
Bullet? More like a nuke!
Dude 100% accurate....
That $500 dollar dinner on the second date is insane. That’s someone monthly car payment, she’s a bird. You’re not cheap at all.
I wouldn't even spend that much for a car payment. I am cheap and proud of it. 😉
Or salary in the Caribbean
Dave Ramsey wouldn’t approve on anyone having a car payment, but I understand what you mean.
That was my salary back in Portugal.
Hopefully it's not your car payment either!
He got lucky she dumped him early on....move on to a real woman who's not self absorbed and entitled!
Good luck finding a worthy western woman like that.
@@MaGaTOW69 I found one, but I agree that's rare. Lol
A gold digging sociopath can't really dump anyone.
What happened was save him from herself
@@RazrBlayde We aren't rare. I'm tired of that lie too. You all are just brainwashed.
So rare they don't exist.
He dodged a bullet by saying NO!!
Thats crazy! My first date would be coffee. Second, a walk by the lake, or a bike ride. I don’t care about $500 meals, but then I’m a woman from a different generation.
I'm a millionaire, would never spend that much on a meal
That's probably why you're a millionaire!
@@Reids0me you got it!😉
Just curious,what do you do?
@@OnTaRgEt16 real estate. Research Bigger Pockets.
@David Hester maybe
I like what he says about that's a dinner for a wife or fiancee, NOT someone who you literally just met. Those are the kinds of things you do for someone because you love them, not because they're a princess and they feel entitled to it.
Austin Rohlfing if he’s unwilling to treat you as a gf then why would he put more effort once he secured you
@@kittyearsheadbands8810 She wasn't a gf. It was a 2nd date. Also, nobody said he wasn't willing to treat a woman to a dinner. Just not a $500 dinner. A guy would be more willing to treat a wife to a more expensive dinner because by then he would know that it was true love and she wasn't using him just to buy expensive things for her.
@@eaglesandowls exactly, true love is built over time, not just something that's given as a right of dating someone
I wouldn't spend $500 for dinner for my girlfriend or wife. My girlfriend/wife wouldn't be a liability to my life. Relationships doesn't revolve around money & materialism
KittyEars&Headbands No one should demand that kind of spending from a man, BF or even Husband.
Who do those types of women think they are?
- a woman.
My now wife passed one of my tests, she was fully on board with splitting meals on dates. Married 21 years and counting and financially well off.
What are your other tests lol
She wasn't worth it. If she really liked you she'd be happy with a happy meal
She was never your girlfriend. She “belonged to the streets” with that mindset.
🤣🤣🤣
In future’s voice
yuppp
Lol
From the streets did she emerge; and to the streets she shall return. And I say unto you, "She is for the streets." So be not weary when she must return from whence she came.
- The Gospel according to Future
As a single 31 year-old millennial, I am shook lol. Seriously though, I am shocked that a woman could even be so comfortable asking to be taken on a $500 dinner date. I would be so uncomfortable to even ask that! This represents what is so wrong with current society expectations. I side with Anthony, good for him telling her straight up! 👏🏼
That is seriously disturbing. But I don’t doubt that some men will take this opportunity to starting hating on all women for being opportunistic. Because, you know, we’re opportunistic.
Brutus Tan and you think you guys are perfect little things? Men today are at best man children. There are more men today playing video games than working and being productive. You want to talk about being responsible? I wish this statement were made up, but I’ve read enough articles about this phenomenon, it’s not even funny. At least there are more of us women going out there, getting an education, working hard, building careers, and making money of our own. We ARE responsible. We DO take responsibility, because if we don’t, then who will? I’m not a feminist, btw, but I AM tired of having to apologize for being a woman when I went, got educated, worked hard, saved up my own money, bought my own investments and home and am a contributor to this economy. There are men my age right now waking up and playing Zelda or whatever the devil you boys like to play. They live in their parents’ basement somewhere, and they play all day. Somehow I’m worse than you all? Because somehow that’s taking on more responsibility than a person like me? Please.
You have no idea how much money 500 dollars is in my native country, it's around 1month salary.
Right!! Clearly that girl has received $500 dinners before and ghosted guys.
@Robert Burger idiots... once you bring them in the state, you will see.
Who else binge watches Dave Ramsey’s Content
Apparently I do...NOW
LOL
If she tells me she want to go to a restaurant where they make the food in front of you, I'm taking her to Subways
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I'm not cheap I'm "financially responsible"... Let the streets have her fam
Seth Stone not the streets 🤣🤣
Feed them to the wolves
Fax I just don’t go to a date when I know I can’t afford it
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Guess there's brothels, too? Lol
Any girl, I don't care what social class she's from-- should not be demanding a 500$ dinner. If that dinner is so important to her, she can pay for it. ALL of it. And at the very least, offer to pay half. That's insane. Lots of delicious dinners for WAY less. You're paying for status, not food.
I was going to say something similar. Could she pay for the meal? If she can't, then shut up lol
Exactly
He should have said to her, "Nah sorry, you're not THAT hot! Who do you think you are? Megan Fox?" And then walked off without looking back - she obviously thinks she's a 10 when she's probably more like a 7.
live _monkey wasn’t saying any of that. Not keen on rating women in numbers.... all I’m saying is that she’s asking way too much. Doesn’t matter what she looks like.
I’m saying !! She probably tasted that life style one so believes that’s how she should be treated from then. WRONG! You miss, you’re a classy lady. Respect!
If she wanted to go - SHE SHOULD PAY!
I’ve been married 41 years and never paid $500 on a dinner!!!!
Dang $500 is insane. Especially for a second date forget that.
I agree.
$500 is insane for food, period! No matter the date! That's like monthly food budget in there. In some countries, that's like monthly salary man
@@JulienKenny Yes very true. I completely agree.
I would do it if I was married for many years and debt free, but never on a date.
@@JulienKenny monthly? For 500$ in india you can have a very good yearly house ration ( yes our cost of living is very less and hence despite a much lower per capita you can live a very good life)
Dump her, she's a gold digger. A valuable woman would appreciate a man who sticks by his decisions.
Facts 💯
I’m pretty sure Kanye West wrote a song about her 😂
Amen!
I would never in my life let a man spend that amount of money on me. When my husband and I were dating he paid for the first date I paid for the second. Then we would switch off. He didn’t want to let me but I insisted.
Same here. I do not like to owe anyone.
I took a girl out when I was in college and she ordered steak and lobster and didn't take one bite from it. I never spoke to her again after that. Steak and Lobster in college is inconsiderate! That blew my food budget for the entire month.
Total "C_ee U N_ext T_uesday"!
😂
This kind of woman is the one you DONT wanna invest in.
@@marquezmercado1480 anything can be an investment if it is worth it. You can dog all women but I'm not about that mentality. Not all men and women are the same. If you are living or dead, it still cost.
ray ray,
Well said!
John Smith actually men that work that have a woman at home raising the kids and doing the housework/finances make way more money than just the single guys. So you could say that finding a good woman is an investment lol
Not sure any woman I’ve met is worth investing in now in days.
Key words “I’ve met”, and I’ve met a lot of women. You wanna prove me wrong? Show me evidence.
@@arisn32 I dont think anyone has to provide evidence because in part you are correct that most (not women, but people) are not ready to engage in adulthood especially with another adult who they would have to compromise with. Too much entitlement in the these times. But, I dont think its because women are not worth it or men arent worth it. Its individuals who are mature (not just independent) and are at an emotional level that can handle real life.
$500!!!?😳 For “A” DINNER?😑 That’s a WHOLE vacation with MY budgeting!!’🤷🏽♀️✊🏽❤️
I have had more than a few $500 vacations. Gas and camping gear and campsite fees. Great fun
She might as well walk into his house and take his ps5
😂😂😂😂😂😂
That's my rent payment
Amen! And those can be great vacations if you plan them well! = D
Honestly, if a guy tells me he can't afford a fancy place because of his budget - I will respect him more, because it shows he has discipline.
I've been married for 10 years and I've never spent that much on dinner with my wife. With our finances, I don't think she would've let me. That's dang near our house payment!
Met a young lady online once, she insisted we go to one of the most expensive steak houses in Houston for our first date. She would not take any of my reasonable counter suggestions... lunch, drinks, etc. I could have afforded it but it was a huge red flag and I moved on...
Great decision
Huge red flag. Smart man.
Smart man
Good.
First date should be coffee.
I had a girl approach me flirting and she was like all into me and she wanted to exchange info and when she asked for my Facebook and I told her I don't use Facebook she was like nevermind and walked away. I still don't use Facebook.
Had a similar, experience but it was with instagram
Ivan de La Grange snap
Facebook? You mean that website for conspiracy theorists?
I am happily married and I can't imagine telling my husband that I want a five hundred dollar dinner lol
I’m not married yet but I still can’t imagine asking my future husband that. Especially if he tells me it’s not in his budget. You don’t know where he has to spend his money. Some people need to take care of their aging parents or something else. So inconsiderate
Me too. After all, this $500 is my money too.😅
He trained you.
$500 for a meal...that’s $700k in 30 years in a mutual fund at 8% interest if he keeps avoiding these women who demand these monthly tributes. My husband and I are millionaires and our recent 10 year anniversary dinner cost $180 with 20%tip
My first date with my wife was $30 and after that we were golden. We enjoyed each other's company
She would have ghosted him after anyway. Or played him like a mark.
Exactly
Of course or as Dave would say, "duh"
Yep
She would’ve kept him around as the “food dude”.
Agreed.
I've been with my girl for 3 years, if I told my girl that I was spending $500 on a dinner for us she would slap me into next week.
Anthony is a wise man.
This is pretty common in cities like NY and LA - some women string guys along so that they can go to expensive restaurant.
Really?
That lady doesn’t eat $500 dinners and she knows it.
She eats at McDonald's =)
You ARE what you eat;)
(trash)
Sometimes I have found in my life that the worst rejections in my life were the best things for me.
100% agree. Sometimes it's taken months but I've looked back at some rejections in a less emotional light and be like.... wow, they saved me from a life of misery. If they're that unreasonable now, god knows what they will be like when they have my kids
Such a good example of two people with differing boundaries. Something really important to validate before marriage 🎉
I'm married and the dinner that I want is usually wings on a game night at home. Im pretty cheap too.
You gotta get some class lady. Thats too cheap 😄 But its beautiful that you’re content with whatever you have or get. Once in a while we all want our husbands and wives to show us a good time. It keeps the chemistry and the biology alive. If you know what I mean.
@@byefelicia8632 lol I can go to classy places..I just generally don't enjoy my time there. I'd rather share the moment with my husband and watch a game together..or even just a picnic in the backyard. I don't need class to be happily in love.
@@angelinecatteeuw thank you! Love comes from the heart, I don't need money and high class experiences to keep my marriage working. All it takes is creativity and imagination.
@@aziaramirez3932 I like you. A simple girl whose happy with just love and memories. You’re a rare commodity. Why do I always get the expensive ones 😄 Good luck and all the best wishes to you.
My husband and I are completely debt-free, including our houses and I would NEVER want to spend that CRAZY amount of money on one meal! That's just nuts!
Makes my head hurt!
“She spends like she is in Congress”🤣🤣🤣 A $500 meal is a special occasion and a 2nd date is not that. That girl is going to bankrupt a man with those expectations.
She would get better luck dating Bill Gates or Steve Jobs!
She’s going to end up with a wanna be who uses a credit card and is buried in debt
forget that! she’s gonna be bankrupt herself with that dependent mindset
Been married 20 years, we have eaten at some really nice restaurants but wow $500 is really crazy to spend on one meal. I choke when the bill is $200 and those are only on special occasions that we splurge like that.
Thank you. Many men go broke because of women. A discipline man who is careful about his finances will be rich in the future.
some woman are crazy. my first date with my husband was a trip to the beach and a ice cream shop, he explain to me that he had just paid all his bills and at that moment all he could afford was ice cream. I thought it was so refreshing to have a man be honest about his finances from day one.
Dave is so in touch with modern language yet he pretends he doesn’t quite get it and I love that.
I once dated a guy for over a year and till this day my parents remember him as the guy who used coupons when we went out one dates. Back then I felt a little embarrassed when he used coupons for dairy queen or gift cards and had to stay on the budget, but now I look back and I'm like man I was dumb, and naive. If I'd known back then what I know now, I'd have so much more money. He was a saver and hey I hope hes gotten far :)
A self-disciplined saver is rare in today's world.
Believe it.
I think it's more important for a girl to date a man that knows how to budget than to recklessly spend for clout.
Exactly. I can't follow a man that spends like that.
Unfortunately in the black community most women will call you broke for being frugal and smart with you money
I'm a princess and would never have that expectation, demand, or ask to go on a $500 second date. That's insane. That is complete wife status right there for rare and special occasions.
Female here, when I was dating my husband when we were 19 and 20 years old, neither of us obviously had a lot of money. I was happy just to spend time with him and go on walks or picnics. After we had been dating about 6 months, there was this nice restaurant in town that I had really wanted to checkout, but I didn’t feel right asking him to take me there since I knew he didn’t have a lot of money. So, I saved my money and took us out on St. Patrick’s Day and we had a great time! We have been married for 13 years and he is not cheap! When we were getting engaged, I had mentioned that I didn’t want anything big or flashy, because that is not what marriage is about or what our relationship was about. I was moved however that he bought the best, most beautiful diamond he could, much more than I was expecting. Great man!
Wow.
Lucky guy.
Thanks for sharing! Great story.
Well you are a great woman, so you deserve a great man like him 👍👍
What a good match, well done so sweet.
Why don't more like you exist? (That's mostly my frustration talking)
There's a difference between being cheap and being smart
Dave's joking. Most wealthy people who live modestly might be seen as cheap, but they are smart for being cheap.
Facts... Not all woman but alot of woman couldn't tell the difference when a man is being smart with his money. Instead he cheap 😅
He got lucky. He seems like a responsible man. I'm surprised if she didn't try and trap him with a baby.
Facts man
No one traps anyone with a baby. At least thats what people think.
Yes you can get trapped or tricked. Too many stories of it happening.
Too many so called men out there with to many kids with different women, that’s not being trapped, that’s just plain stupid, takes two to tango.
When I think of the dates my wife and I went on the first one that comes to mind is a short road trip to a state park with hamburgers grilled there followed by strawberry shortcake. We were married 29 years when she died.
Oh that’s beautiful. I’m sorry to read she has passed away.. you obviously found a good match, very rare in today’s world. All the best.
I'm glad he stuck to his budget and said NO! Lol
It takes a strong man to say no to a woman...and wiser man to not give into spoiling her.
Does it though? I'm rather allergic to these kind of red flags. Bye honey.
Not necessarily strength, just sensibility and standards...
@Unscripted They treat a gentleman's kindness as a weakness they can exploit.
I’ve been happily married for 20 years and we aren’t hurting for money and eat out frequently but if Hubby wanted to take me out to a $500 dinner for two...Houston, we have a problem. I cannot think of any meal we could get $500 worth of enjoyment out of.
That amount of money even for a married couple is just insane!! Maybe for your 25th wedding aniversary.
In the words of Kayne West. “I ain’t saying she’s a a gold digger but she ain’t messin with no broke...”
Right! If she made that suggestion, she was literally trying to make up for the terrible first date.
🤣
Nice.
"I'm not implying she's mining for precious metals, but she's not associating herself with gentlemen who are financially thrifty."
Nigerian?
Only mistake this guy made was not dumping her first. She’s be a punt return man
WOW I think you can count yourself EXTREMELY LUCKY that you got to see her REAL intentions so early.... Most USERS hide their true selves well until they have their PREY hooked. You are BLESSED to have found out so quickly the LOW caliber of her personality and I hope you are not beating yourself up on her not still being in your life. I have been married over 10 years and we have NEVER even entertained the idea of spending that much money on ONE MEAL that will probably not even be remembered.
Good on you! I had one girl, many years ago, just fall in love with my wallet and not me. She's definitely garbage.
This is hilarious. Good job Anthony. That's ridiculous. Almost my entire mortgage.
I think the line "I'm on your side but I will make fun of you because it's easy" perfectly sums up nearly all male relationships
Damn, that is so true. Went to a friend’s birthday dinner last night and all we did was bust balls… but at the end of the night wished him a happy birthday.
You didn't lose anything. Now you know what kind of materialistic woman she is. Also, you can easily find another woman who will not be that inconsiderate and demanding. If she wants to spend more money on a meal, then she should pay for it.
Good for you! Excellent example of standing your ground and a great teaching moment.
I feel in love with my husband over Taco Bell and lots of long walks, bike rides, and conversations. He *might* have paid a total of $200 on dating before we were engaged. His discipline with money has kept us well taken cared of during Covid19, even though our business is dead (thank you Newsome). I really appreciate and admire him. We easily could have been thrown into financial despair if not for his diligence.
good for you .... both of you
Great story, keep sharing this and spreading your knowledge. Nice love story too.
Newsomes the effing worst. Bring back the governator
Suuuurrrreee
real women like you should protect men like your husband from 3rd wave feminism.respect for you.
I know my husband will literally give me whatever I want. That being said, I do not take advantage of this. I don't abuse his money because I know how hard he works for it. It's a matter of respect. I do not allow myself to be spoiled.
T Barrett that’s true beauty right there. A humble woman who loves and respects her husband and vice versa. When both parties respect one another both want to please each other it becomes a win win, rather than only one person giving. Our society/culture is all about consumerism and transactional relationships. If person x doesn’t get y he or she will terminate the relationship contract.
I agree with the mindset, except if you are married it's already both of your money..Not just his
@@jenna8987 that's right, that's why she considers how hard the husband had to work for their money. It isn't just hers to spend, nor is it just the husbands money.
I agree with you. There are things more important than how much money you spend. Cooking together is the best idea and it is way cheaper. Can you imagine her request for a ring...? 10,000 +++ hahahha
@@Raz0rIG yes I agree. But many women and men use the language that I don't agree with. It's not a big deal. I'm sure she isn't laying around at home doing nothing while her husband is at work. It would cost a lot of money to pay someone for everything a stay at home wife does. Or if she works it's the same. I just think "we paid for" and "our money" healthier language for a husband and wife. Even if you have a lazy husband or lazy wife, they still share everything. That's not the ideal situation lol I agree that no one should take another person for granted! I don't think people need to use the language I like, I'm just laying out my reasons because I think it may be beneficial.
Tell that woman,"NO SOUP FOR YOU".
Even if a guy offered the 500$ meal I wouldn’t take it. My conscience wouldn’t let me!
Most people don't even have that much in their savings.
They called men and they are not date able according to most women.
glorymanheretosleep what? can you please say that again with good grammar. i have zero clue what you meant
@@tylerarnold3971 They be seeeing what they see yo! But b literally a jackael.
True!!!!
glorymanheretosleep you need to work on your english my friend. unless it is a second language and you are struggling in which case i am sorry and didn’t mean to be mean. but if english is what you’ve been speaking your whole life-you need to work in it a lot.
No, that is an anniversary dinner, not a second date.
That's anniversary dinner for married status. Not a date or a girlfriend.
Ive had many marriage anniversaries - we dont spend that kind of cash on food in one sitting. That's why we have that kind of cash...
That's anniversary day money for dinner, tickets to a concert and a hotel room for later. Not just one dinner.
This is crazy. Ive never in my whole life spent that much on a dinner. Me and my husband have been out to dinner for 200 and that was an absolute treat