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Are you held back by fear of judgment or ridicule? Sadhguru shares his insights on how to overcome this obstacle.
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*"Do not fear having no friends. Fear having bad friends”* ~My life taught lesson
Selflove❤
IHaveSadhguru.
True!
😊 Thank you!!!
True👍💯
As you get older you learn to stop caring about what others think of you, you realise life is too short
True...
Actually you dont care when you haven't done something wrong. It is impossible to commit unconscious actions and not to feel guilty about it.
And this is why people are not caring for each other these days.
I have spent so much time thinking about what others are thinking. Now I understand what a waste of time it was.
This came to me at a time I really needed it.
❤ för me too ❤
Homie always comes thru
Same here
The guru knows when we need him. 🙏
Same bro
"You must be concerned what is the quality of your mind.
Don't worry about the quality and content of other people's minds.
Exploring other people minds is not worth it." Sadhguru
"If you concern yourself of what should happen in your mind, your life will improve.
If you concern what he may be thinking , what she may be thinking , you will go crazy " Sadhguru
Thank you brilliant 🙏
You are absolutely right
Dont think about anyone
And dont compair ur self to others also ❤
so TRuE🎉❤
Healthy comparison is when you get inspired from the other. Aside that, it almost always breeds negativity.
@Dark Daze Bright knights We have two forms of comparison. We have downward comparison and upward comparison. It depends which one you re talking about.
I am so happy and lucky that this man has come into my life... when i need him the most! Namasté.
It's liberating to realize that the opinions of others do not define us, and that true fulfillment comes from being true to ourselves. Sadhguru's teachings remind us to focus on self-awareness and personal growth rather than seeking approval from others. I'm grateful for the insights shared in this video, as they serve as a powerful reminder to break free from the chains of fear and live a life guided by our own values and dreams.
Correct, Nobody has time to think about someone and pass judgement ❤
Almost every human does it almost everyday 🙂
@@UsmanIhsan-nd1xv Being quick to judge is not a sensible quality to have. We shouldn't be bothered about it.
Wisdom that helps us survive in the society. Pranam Sadhguru🙏
if somebody laughs, you can join and laugh, you''ll make a friend.
sadhguru
"Other people's opinion about you doesn't have to become your reality !" - Les Brown.
The manager of the ice rink 😂
Thanks for the message, I wish I could have listened to this in my childhood, I would have not waste so many years. Balanced education and fair informations are so decisive in a life perspective.
Those waste years tought you. You have learned from those lost years, so it is not wasted! It all depends on how you look at it now!😉
@@anaguq4651 of course and it is not what I am talking about
So I'm still only concerned with my vaasana, but today i learned that that includes my mind and what i choose to think about 🙏🏻 Much Love Sadhguru Team! 💖
Cry about it or laugh about it. Its upto us. So true.
Thank you sadguru it's an amazing truth, the more we expect good judgement from others more and more we get bad experience.. instead we should try to be true to ourselves and follow our true instinct...
Namaskaram...
He says thank you and when does he get to see you, hes gonna be giving you the biggest hug when he does finally get to see you
Never worry abt what other ppl think. Pranam Sadhguru
All my life i have struggled with this and sadhguru gsve the perfect answer❤
There is no right or wrong thing, so it's ok to be a fool, everyone is in some way. 🌼
I have a hard time with this... hopefully it'll help me... haven't seen it yet...so excited to watch and see what wisdom Sadhguru brings us
I stop worrying what people talk about me,or judge me,i continue my way.Sadguru 🙏🙏🙏
This is the fenomanal one great Sadhguru ji 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Huge& Comprehensive❤
"Instead of crying about all these things, might as well we laugh what to do" 😂🙏❤
Don't forget, "we are mortal", we don't have to waste time about the question : " what people think about me" 🙏🏽
I will never EVER worry about what others think. 🙏
I am receiving health , wealth happiness and peace in my life right now.
I am grateful with all of my heart ❤
Very nice..what people think about us doesn't matter..some people are always critical about others..
Meditation and meditative music can be powerful tools for helping us let go of worrying about what others think. By quieting the mind and turning inward, we can gain a greater sense of self-awareness and self-acceptance, which can in turn reduce our need for external validation. Meditative music can further enhance this process by providing a calming and grounding backdrop that can help us stay focused and present. With regular practice, meditation and meditative music can help us cultivate a deeper sense of inner peace and confidence that allows us to be more comfortable in our own skin, regardless of what others may think
yes ... yes ... it is this way .. that is the best to do in live relations ... with others .. I LOVE YOU SADHDGURU ... you are my life teacher THANK YOU FROM ALL MY HEART !!!
Thank you so much Sadhguru.🙏💖💖💖 Love from Brazil.
Namaste SADHGURU!!! I'm glad for this! Following all the way from Kenya, Africa. ❤
Great analogy.
Namaskaram Sadhguru!🎉❤💐🙏💯
Respected sat Gurudev !koti koti pranam,i am listening of sat gurus spiritual speech daily. i am feeling so pleasure.
If you think its ridicule - dont do it..
If you think its worth doing.. why care what others think..
Only the opinion of yourself and God matters, about you. No one else matters. 😊
I WISH I COULD HUG U SADHGURU, I love you so much. thx for the wise words.
🙏🏽❤ exactly what i needed to hear
Where I live (small village) people have the greatest ability of telling others what they think about them and their actions. 😅😅
And above all, to classify it as 'this is bad' and 'this is good'.
We don't need to read minds.... People just throw their limitations on you and walk away.
"Very good" for spiritual growth or "very bad" when most people take these limitations as their own.
😂😂😂😂😢😢😢
I try to smile and love them as they are, but I cultivate ridiculous ways since I was a child. 😂😂 So, if I don't fall down. I go out in pyjamas.... Now I am on with sadhguru and yoga 😮😊❤😂😂 they don't have to tell me. They think I am nuts they look at me with half smile or some ask with interest.
Funny place 🎉🎉😊🙏🏽 ❤️ ❤️
Before Sadhguru i was bothering alot with stuff like this, after innerengineering those kinds of things become so insignificant, now i can laugh at most stuff that use to bother me.
This is the first time I've seen you wearing a mala, Kyabje. ❤
I too go through same situations where I feel what people will think.
Namaskaragalu Sadhguru 👋🎈 pls come to BELAGAVI city 🙏
Lot's of love from BELAGAVI KARNATAKA 🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳
I've learned many great lessons from this and applied them 2 myself along with a good laugh Thank u
How about instead of assuming ppl are silently negatively judging you.. assume that ppl are thinking of you in a positive way 🥰
Fear of judgment and ridicule is a common experience that many people face in their lives. It can prevent us from expressing ourselves fully and living the life we want to live. Overcoming this fear requires effort and practice, but it is possible. Here are some tips:
1. Recognize that everyone experiences fear of judgment and ridicule at some point in their lives. It is a natural human emotion, and you are not alone in feeling this way.
2. Challenge your negative thoughts. Often, our fear of judgment is based on negative self-talk and assumptions about what others may think. Challenge these thoughts by asking yourself if they are based on evidence or just your own fears.
3. Build your self-confidence. The more confident you feel in yourself and your abilities, the less you will be impacted by the opinions of others. Practice self-care, set achievable goals, and celebrate your successes.
4. Surround yourself with positive and supportive people. Having a network of people who believe in you and support you can help boost your confidence and reduce your fear of judgment.
5. Practice self-compassion. Be kind and gentle with yourself, and remember to treat yourself the way you would treat a good friend. Practice self-compassion can help you prioritize your own feelings and needs over the opinions of others.
Remember, overcoming fear of judgment and ridicule is a journey, and it may take time and effort. However, by practicing these tips and embracing your true self, you can find the courage to live a fuller and more authentic life.
Ooo mostly people are not thinking about me....really sad..but it's ok and good. THANKU
What Others Think
Once upon a time it was announced that a dog show was to be held and the top prize was set at $1000. But this was a special show because to win the money it required all ten judges to agree on only one dog as better than all the others. So through a process of elimination it came down to selecting the best dog out of the last two - one was a Border Collie and the other was a Golden Retriever.
Both were nice dogs and most of the audience wasn't able to tell there was anything special about them just by appearances. So to make them even more noticeable, the owners washed them and brushed their coats until they were shiny and smooth. They even tied colorful ribbons on them and brushed their teeth. Both dogs looked their best and they both wagged their tails and wiggled their butts when their owners would pat them on their heads.
And now the big moment had arrived and the judges examined the two dogs while the proud owners stood beside their pets. The judges cast their votes and the results were in. Half of the judges liked the Border Collie and half of them preferred the Golden Retriever. And no matter how much they discussed it, neither side could convince the other to change their votes. And so the contest ended in a draw with neither dog owner collecting the $1000 prize.
Once the two dog owners left the show they met outside in the parking lot to complain to each other how disappointed they were at the results. They talked about how they did so much work trying to win the approval of the judges and it was all for nothing. Then they unleashed their pets and immediately the two dogs ran off to splash and play in a nearby mud puddle. They seemed happy the show was over and they could finally have fun just being themselves again. They wagged their tails and wiggled their butts as they chased each other around in the dirty water.
The moral of the story is: Your happiness doesn't require the approval of others. Do what makes you happy, and if others don't approve of your choices that's their problem, don't make it yours. As the old saying goes, you can't please everyone, so just please yourself.
In this story the pet owners let the choices of others determine their happiness, but the dogs didn't care what anyone thought of them, they were happy just being dogs and doing what they loved to do.
So do what makes you happy and don't worry about what others think. This is an important thing to learn in life, especially for young people who often base their own happiness on the approval of friends.
NAMASKARAM SADHGURU 🙏🏾🪷🙏🏾🕉️🦚
🔥 That’s great, Sadhguru! I completely agree🤗
❤Thats Right...ThAnk You ❣💟👀😘
Ty,, GIVING THEM POWER, use that on YOURSELF❤
You're great Guru
We promise that we will make ourselves fantastic & wonderful
Sadhguru's videos always come at the right moment..
just as i needed it Maharaj is there ❤❤❤
I so wish I had a meaningful picture of maharaja. Even Desmond Tutu.
@@Lovableshapes67 what i could not understand
Shambho
Bless the naga .may they be kind to us,especially the elements.
@Sadhguru Good video!
Sadhguru you beauty! ❤
🌲Sadhguru🌳🌿🌸🌹🙏
Thankyou guruji 🙏🌺🙏
Thankyou somuch sir for you wonderful speech
What a beautiful message ❤
I like the presentation method..funky music etc.. they should invest in making some music with his voice in the background..maybe our guru could be like in the top 40
All the people here , i want to share that spirituaity has very much ruined my life , i did not focus much on my career and did not focus on survival as well which caused enormous suffering which ruined my relationship and mental state , please stay away from such things
Shambho❣️🙏🏼
That was just wow❤
Superb guruji ☺
Sadhguru 🙏🔱💐🌹😇💖🥰😇
HEAVENlow sir. Much love ❤
Sadhguru 😊❤
That man digging into the ice rink had a divine experience
Thankyou sadhguru
Thnq sadguru for rudraksha diksha
Without watching the video yet to see Sadhguru's answer. I Would like to point out what i have noticed; we tend to create imaginations in our mind about certain situations. For example the situation that what will be the other person's reaction if you do certain thing or act certain way. The key thing to stop worrying what other people think about you is to cease to identify/living the thing that your mind tells you. We exaggarate things easily in our minds. I Belive all people have noticed this aspect for example in situation where you have started to imagine what will be the situation if you have done something wrong, something that feels to you as wrong.
And also if people would judge you, react negatively, in a non-friendly way it is in your hands how you relate to this situation. It's about how you relate the to your bodily response to the reaction of other - emotion, thought etc. What is up to you to decide is that do you identify with emotion or thought. I Tend to choose always not to react. I Have realized this only causes suffering. Attachment to your mind's movements mostly causes sufering or exaggareting of the reality of the existing situation.
Summary; you consicoussly can shape your experience of reality by not identifying with the movements of your mind/not starting to live your innerworld (thoughts,emotions).
You can apply these to all sorts of cases.
Hope this sheds some light on how our reality experience is basically construction of mind.
Serenity and conscioussness,
Teemu Nuutinen
Bonus: Little by little you start to realize that ego is just a thought. I Have noticed good way to observe your mind is in meditation practice. What worked for me was zazen-meditation.
Thank you Bigger Sadhguru
One's own estimation about self is far more important than what others think about it ! Because, one can't cheat oneself and one's own conscience ; provided, ofcourse, someone has any ! How right was the great Napoleon Bonaparte in his assessment in saying -
"Men may treat me unjustly ! No matter - so long as I am innocent ! My conscience is the tribunal - before which I judge my conduct ! And, my conscience is untroubled !"
@@carlospeixoto
. . Let it be very loud and clear that my comment was meant for the channel operator, alone ; and certainly not for one's foot soldiers and cronies ! Does someone hold a brief for the channel operator ! Or does it require someone's prior permission to participate in its various programmes ! If so, I am quite oblivious of it ! Can someone take pains to share it with the viewers in this august forum itself for their knowledge and information anytime soon or in the immediiate future ! Is that understood ! Someone should better understand it !
I do hereby challenge someone to master the necessary courage/guts to come out of the veil of secrecy behind a pseudonym and reveal one's real face and true identity, without mincing any further word, and, without ever trying to dodge/deviate from giving a direct response ; and, share it with the viewers in this august forum itself for their knowledge and information anytime soon or in the immediiate future ,; provided, ofcourse, someone is not otherwise a coward ! Is that understood ! Someone should better understand it !
How right was William Shakespeare in his assessment in saying - "Cowards die many times before their death ,; but the valiants never taste of death but once !"
To get optimum satisfaction as also to ascribe some semblance of authenticity to it, someone should better put this question to one's own conscience ! Because, conscience never lies ; provided, ofcourse, someone has any !
It seems - someone, who has lost the morale courage to speak directly, now finds it expedient to indulge in a soliloquy, instead - completely out of context ! How disgusting it looks !
The answer is very much implicit in the narrative, itself ! What's absolutely required is - proper application of mind ! However, it's an altogether different issue, if someone feigns ignorance intentionally ! How right was the great Lao Tzu in his assessment in saying - "The truth is not always beautiful nor beautiful words the truth !"
Ioften wonder - why does some people make a mockery of themselves by evolving stories out of nothing ! I very much pity someone's stupidity and abysmally low level of intelligence, although one pretends to be so smart ! Even a person of average intelligence can very easily understand that similar questions merit similar responses !
Has someone been invited to come and poke one's nose here ! What else is someone doing here ! Why does someone poaching here ! Perhaps, leg - pulling and back - bitting is someone's favourite pastime ! Propriety demands that there should be a limit to hypocrisy.!
Infact, it's the other way round ! Someone, who's really a so - called "Nonsense,' and has perfected this obnoxious art through practice over the years, finds one's own reflection in everyone, whenever one ventures to look at others ! Someone might have seen one's own image in the mirror, prior to writing this comment ! How farcical and hypocritical it looks !
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Don't share the negative space dont share the negative energy if you have to make the negative positive.Proceed with life with a smile 😁
Har har mahadev
That mustache on top of the beard could win trophies
Sadhguru plz give answer on how to be successful in any field, what it requires to master a skill ?
Sadhguru volunteers plz help this question to reach Sadhguru it'll help a lot of people.
Hey Amit, sorry my involvement here. But you don't need Sadhguru to answer this question because it's been answered by him numerous times.. read his Inner Engineering book.
Anyway the answer to your question is 'Absolute Involvement'. Do not pursue something to taste success as a result, instead pay absolute attention in whatever you are trying to achieve on a daily basis and eventually your intrinsic involvement in that activity will open the doors to success, you don't even have to run behind it.
Tap into your inner strength called "believe" then dream it then chase it! Positivity 😊
@@rajashekarbeerpur8239 thanks it helped
@@believe-in-yourself Thanks, your words inspired me
Needed This video .Thank You sadhguru.Lots of love from Nepal❤❤
Its all in mind
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People have lot of time to judge you always and the closest people do this more especially family
Such a great video 🥹
🙏 brother!❤
❤ I’m laughing so hard
Thank you!!
Truly said 🎉
This too shall pass. 🙏
Naman Guruji 🙏🙏🙏
I use to do that alot worry about what others think. I still do but not as much as before I kind of at the age where I don't care.
Thank you Sadguru 🙏
Sadguru should not have insulted Shri Chatrapati Shivaji Maharaj due to his Brahmin agenda ....he should apologise
Wow😊
❤❤❤❤❤RAM NARAYAN RAM
RAM NARAYAN RAM ❤❤❤❤❤
Tq sadhguru...
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🙏 thank you for your wonderful wisdom Sadhguru 🙏
❤😂❤ You are awesome 👍😎👍... ... ... 😌💖🧝