This is a wonderful topic and speech! Jonathan is the love of my life but like we can all agree on, love is complicated. Starting our oxytocin project was the best journey we have embarked upon together and I know we are happier for it! I am so grateful, not only for Jonathan, but because oxytocin is something we humans share and need. Cheers!
Hello Amanda, I hope the best for your life toghether, as you know or you'll, the marriage is a little bit more complicated .that's not enough to be happy,sometimes it Will be hard but there 's always a solution which you toghether must search . Toghether is the magic word A very big hug from my heart to yours
My boyfriend and i live in different cities and have different schedules so we only see each other twice a week. Its not easy sometimes but when we first see each other again we immediately hug for about a minute. The calming, euphoric bliss that comes from that hug feels magical, even spiritual.
Jonathan is absolutely correct - I did not know it was called oxytocin... we just call it 'being in love' - after 33 years together (30 of them married) twice we've been on the brink of calling it quits but we worked on it and today we are like a couple of adolescents (we are both rapidly approaching 70) - we hug/ we cuddle / we kiss / we love each other and as Jonathan says - LOOK at each other, go for walks together. One thing Jonathan missed - LAUGH together - share jokes to start with but after a while it becomes easier to find amusement in every day things. Take care of each other - offer to help in a task and be confident to ask for help in a task. Plan little projects together - like clearing out the wardrobe - (a boring task but together it is done faster and it's more fun). However, I have a little advice for Jonathan and Amanda - I know it's fashionable but try and keep the mega expressions of your love more private - the turning up at work with flowers, in my mind, is not so cool - it smacks of possession and wanting to show others how good a partner you are - instead surprise her with the flowers at home. I won't even comment on the public proposal - mine was on top of a promontory - overlooking the Pacific Ocean - it was a blissful moment which still makes my skin tingle. It was our moment.
@@eugheniat.2121maybe came up on his recommendation. I personally searched for this one but I do get off videos sometimes and get curious as to what it may actually be about so I watch 😅
@@PraveenKumarMalviya-ll9fd Thank you but please note ....we HAVE a fantastic life - we're both still kicking - now 73 - finally both retired. I lost my business to a fire in October 2023 (caused by a restaurant upstairs but we got both staff and customers out safely and we were well insured) and my husband finally hung up his hat in June 2024. At the end of September 2024 we are flying to Europe for 3 months - our first extended holiday.. We are very excited.
Exactly. This is it. If you love that person all options should be explored to find a mutual motivation to make this work if you both wish to be together.
True love is love you give and you get, without asking, demanding or craving for. Respect, loyalty, honesty, touch, smell, laugh, look, protection, all good feelings making one- love for life. Communication is the key. When you communicate you have no problems. Congratulations to both of you. All the best.
Just woww.... I don't have a thing to tell you Jonathan. You are just imperfectly perfect. Such a raw and genuine person you are that shows on your face. Thank you for highlighting about Oxytocin. It brought goosebumps when you proposed Amanda. Wishing you loads of love and bliss with Amanda along with a bunch of wonderful kids. Keep smiling... Keep laughing... Keep inspiring us.....! Loads of love from India!
This one is my favorite ted talk, I'm always watching one all of them everyday as I'm about to learn english and then I came across to a such great message about love, so not only that's give me encouragement but it also give like big hope and I strongly wanna to restart my relationships by experiencing all these powerful oxitocyne advices...I almost had tears in my eyes by seeing both being in love...good luck for you and thank you so much..
This is a really important message to everyone! In these covid times, we should be careful with all our relationships. Thank you for your thoughts Jonathan!
Marriage Encounter (ME) is the best marriage saver. My husband and I attended the Marriage Encounter Weekend (MEW) Seminar. After the seminar, we were able to renew our relationship. As if we were a newly married couple, although we were on the 22nd year of our married life at that time. ME rekindle our marriage because there were three in that relation: God my husband and me. God bless!
Watch until the end. Because I thought after he finished his speech, it was the end. So powerful !!! My only Ted talks show that makes me cry of happiness. I will do my oxytocin project too!
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GREAT SPEECH AND AWESOME ENDING! A MARRIAGE PROPOSAL AND SHE SAID YES AFTER HE DID HIS WHOLE SPEECH ON HER AND HOW MUCH HE LOVES HER THIS IS TRULY BEAUTIFUL 💯❤😃
Lovely! So glad Amanda said YES! :) Wishing you guys all the very best for a love-filled and happy future together. I would say make a habit of showing love!
Thank you so much for this speech! It is very inspiring! My partner and I have been together for a while and have had a couple "make it or break it" points. I truly love him so much so thank you for making me feel empowered in my ability to give and receive love. God bless you all.
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I'm in the exact same situation. We've not been our best to each other, and I've had a hard time communicating on things like children, moving in together. Unfortunately, she left because of these. I've been working on myself, but how can I give this a chance now? I believe this will make us far stronger.
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my child Note, the spell i cast is 100% guarantee sure an safe, it has no side effect or harm, also note that I do not beg or false people to send me money to do their work, rather I will allow them to do according to there heart desire. I have been doing this work for the past 38 years now, and inherited this work from my great grand father, and this work has been past from generation to generation, as I believe in my work so also my work speaks for me because what is behind my spell is very powerful If you are ready to continue with the spell let me know so that i can send you the information of my temple messenger to send the money to buy the require items needed to cast the spell OK I hope to hear from you soon because I found your problem so easy for me to handle. Best Regards, Dr
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This was amazing related to it so much. Especially the part of the 10 straws (Neuro receptors) in a the water (hormones) inside the glass (your brain) if you are busy using 8 of those straws and maxing them out then it’s a safe assumption that those two other ones may never be used, could be clogged or atrophy. This is what happen to Jonathon and he didn’t even know it until he got the call from his Longterm girlfriend saying I don’t know how to comfort or love me. What was not talked about was lessening his life hobbies of chasing mountains, fame and adventure. And by doing that he put some attention/focus on his oxytocin Neuro receptor (straw) and by hugging, eye contact and talking fromThe heart he buffed up that straw until it was as thick as a milk shake straw. I too lost this straw bc I had so many other hobbies and passions that my oxytocin Neuro receptor was completely atrophied and took stopping cold turkey many of my “positive” selfish passions that made me feel good but dried up All the hormones for neuroreceptors and left my cup dry.
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Safety and trust in a relationship is essential. Oxytocin techniques can create the feelings of love, exercising these techniques regularly is the secret to long lasting love 9:02 1) Hugging each day and night. 2) Gratitude meditation. Looking for moments of gratitude with your loved ones. Focus on nice childhood memories, focus on things for gratitude in the moment such as a beautiful sunset, pretty flower, a fluttering butterfly, a group of trees, a kind gesture etc. 3) Communication. Making deep eye contact can trigger oxytocin. Syncing up each others nervous systems, through hugs and presence. Being in the head too much disconnects you from your heart...try to get out of your head and into a heart space. Talk about relationship fears. 12:58 17:04 😭💗💗💗🙌🙌🙌👍 please give us a update. 🌟🎉🌟Congratulations🌟 🎉🌟
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Congratulations. I wish you all the happiness in the world. I will definitely join the oxytocin project as we have our own rough patches at times. The only thing I would like to know is ( and this for all guys outs about there)…if Amanda is Jonathan’s love of his life WHY(???!!!) the heck did it take 10 years to ask her to merry him??? Last week I was about to brake up with my boyfriend of 7 yrs if he doesn’t want to get married. Can any guys please explain to me WHY they don’t ask the girl to marry if she’s the real deal??? Please help me understand.
This is a wonderful topic and speech! Jonathan is the love of my life but like we can all agree on, love is complicated. Starting our oxytocin project was the best journey we have embarked upon together and I know we are happier for it! I am so grateful, not only for Jonathan, but because oxytocin is something we humans share and need. Cheers!
I LOVE YOU
Hello Amanda, I hope the best for your life toghether, as you know or you'll, the marriage is a little bit more complicated .that's not enough to be happy,sometimes it Will be hard but there 's always a solution which you toghether must search .
Toghether is the magic word
A very big hug from my heart to yours
@@DomenicoMazzaSm Thank you for the advice :)
@@DomenicoMazzaSm very true! you are so right..together and teamwork is KEY!
Congrats ❤️
Thank you for these 3 tips:
1. Hug
2. Gratitude
3. Communicate from the heart
My boyfriend and i live in different cities and have different schedules so we only see each other twice a week. Its not easy sometimes but when we first see each other again we immediately hug for about a minute. The calming, euphoric bliss that comes from that hug feels magical, even spiritual.
Jonathan is absolutely correct - I did not know it was called oxytocin... we just call it 'being in love' - after 33 years together (30 of them married) twice we've been on the brink of calling it quits but we worked on it and today we are like a couple of adolescents (we are both rapidly approaching 70) - we hug/ we cuddle / we kiss / we love each other and as Jonathan says - LOOK at each other, go for walks together. One thing Jonathan missed - LAUGH together - share jokes to start with but after a while it becomes easier to find amusement in every day things. Take care of each other - offer to help in a task and be confident to ask for help in a task. Plan little projects together - like clearing out the wardrobe - (a boring task but together it is done faster and it's more fun). However, I have a little advice for Jonathan and Amanda - I know it's fashionable but try and keep the mega expressions of your love more private - the turning up at work with flowers, in my mind, is not so cool - it smacks of possession and wanting to show others how good a partner you are - instead surprise her with the flowers at home. I won't even comment on the public proposal - mine was on top of a promontory - overlooking the Pacific Ocean - it was a blissful moment which still makes my skin tingle. It was our moment.
Great comment & I have one question- why would you watch a video like this if you are happily married for the last 30 years?
@@eugheniat.2121maybe came up on his recommendation. I personally searched for this one but I do get off videos sometimes and get curious as to what it may actually be about so I watch 😅
Loved every extra wisdom you shared .You had a fantastic life .
@@PraveenKumarMalviya-ll9fd Thank you but please note ....we HAVE a fantastic life - we're both still kicking - now 73 - finally both retired. I lost my business to a fire in October 2023 (caused by a restaurant upstairs but we got both staff and customers out safely and we were well insured) and my husband finally hung up his hat in June 2024. At the end of September 2024 we are flying to Europe for 3 months - our first extended holiday.. We are very excited.
thank u for your comment ! it was useful !
It’s easy to give up and say “it didn’t work”. Take time and analyze what can be done to fix it. Good talk.
Thank you very much!
Exactly. This is it. If you love that person all options should be explored to find a mutual motivation to make this work if you both wish to be together.
Why am I not surprised the moment he called her up i was like yep we're gonna see a proposal
Me too😄
This is a tough subject for long-term partners. And I believe that everyone should watch this!
Glad to hear that you liked it!
I loved it and I'm happy for you both. Much happiness and long life.
So glad I got to witness this in person!
Is was a true honor meeting you!!
@@adventurepear Likewise!
True love is love you give and you get, without asking, demanding or craving for. Respect, loyalty, honesty, touch, smell, laugh, look, protection, all good feelings making one- love for life. Communication is the key. When you communicate you have no problems. Congratulations to both of you. All the best.
It takes so much patience, and calmness. When your partner is scared, to open up.
Just saw the end. Very sweet.
He's so excited to tell these so simple yet mind blowing techniques.
Wow wasn’t expecting that at the end, I wish you guys both success and happiness.
Just woww.... I don't have a thing to tell you Jonathan. You are just imperfectly perfect. Such a raw and genuine person you are that shows on your face. Thank you for highlighting about Oxytocin. It brought goosebumps when you proposed Amanda. Wishing you loads of love and bliss with Amanda along with a bunch of wonderful kids. Keep smiling... Keep laughing... Keep inspiring us.....! Loads of love from India!
I actually cried. What a wow
Thanks for talking about this lovely argument. Love is all I need. The love of my life? Nature. Being in nature and liberty.
I must say I love the nature to! Thank you so much for the comment!!
I cried after watching the speech... Too much Oxytocin was produced at once!! Such a wonderful couple you are! Best wishes and regards.
Don't give up and say it wouldn't work / try to find the problem , fix it and protect your relationship ❤
When the other person gives up on you is one the hardest things to experience.
Yeah .. you're right but you gotta move
Wow!! It's about time Jonathan!!Congratulations to both of you!
This one is my favorite ted talk, I'm always watching one all of them everyday as I'm about to learn english and then I came across to a such great message about love, so not only that's give me encouragement but it also give like big hope and I strongly wanna to restart my relationships by experiencing all these powerful oxitocyne advices...I almost had tears in my eyes by seeing both being in love...good luck for you and thank you so much..
Awww this made me cry the happiest tears for you two!!
This is a really important message to everyone! In these covid times, we should be careful with all our relationships. Thank you for your thoughts Jonathan!
ssuperssara1 Thank you 🙂
Marriage Encounter (ME) is the best marriage saver. My husband and I attended the Marriage Encounter Weekend (MEW) Seminar. After the seminar, we were able to renew our relationship. As if we were a newly married couple, although we were on the 22nd year of our married life at that time. ME rekindle our marriage because there were three in that relation: God my husband and me. God bless!
Watch until the end. Because I thought after he finished his speech, it was the end. So powerful !!! My only Ted talks show that makes me cry of happiness. I will do my oxytocin project too!
Thought I was the only one; I cried too. It is the only Ted talk show I've ever watched where the presenter demonstrated live what they meant 🥺😭
@@FellyMahlatsi exactly
also beautiful moment for a proposal well done!
Thank you :)
I’m grateful to have watched this! Thanks guys!
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Thank you for sharing this moment with us!
Swedish people are the kindest human beings I’ve ever come across they’re sooo good!
GREAT SPEECH AND AWESOME ENDING! A MARRIAGE PROPOSAL AND SHE SAID YES AFTER HE DID HIS WHOLE SPEECH ON HER AND HOW MUCH HE LOVES HER THIS IS TRULY BEAUTIFUL 💯❤😃
Thank you so much 😃🙏
@@jonathanljungqvist9112 Absolutely thank you for the great video and inspiring proof of your love
MO TV- INDEPENDENT THINKING FOR THE FREE MIND you’re welcome 🙂
@@jonathanljungqvist9112 😃
Cute proposal.. He seems to really love her. Most guys would give up easily, he didnt. Congrats girl!
Women give up just as easily.
🇺🇦hi from Ukraine! Awesome things to learn! Thank you Jonathan and Amanda!🙏❤️
This was the best speech I had watched it on TED talks... Thank you ❤ I want an another Jonathan in my life 🙌🙏🍀
Oh my god ! Ending was so beautiful made me so emotion.
What a beautiful gratitude along with proposal best twist ❤
Awwww that was awesome!!!!!! Wow what a finale ending lol. That was fantastic!
what a beautiful ending of such a insipiring talk
I got quite emotional and will watch this many more times!
THIS SHOULD HAVE A BILLION VIEWS BRILLIANT INFORMATION XXXX THANK YOU WHOLEHEARTEDLY
This is how partners should be
Lovely! So glad Amanda said YES! :) Wishing you guys all the very best for a love-filled and happy future together. I would say make a habit of showing love!
So grateful to find this video, thanks Jonathan 😀
That's the best I have ever seen in my life
Wow thank you so much!!
Your energy is so contagious
Why is my face leaking! Congratulations this was very beautiful
Wowww I didn't know that there is a Ted talk that has a proposal in it. ❤❤❤
Men cry? Because I am crying!!
Thank you so much for this speech! It is very inspiring! My partner and I have been together for a while and have had a couple "make it or break it" points. I truly love him so much so thank you for making me feel empowered in my ability to give and receive love. God bless you all.
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What a great talk and a talented story-teller!
And I must say I love your company idea, super exiting! keep it up!
It's an underrated video ☹️ it should has some spotlight
Thank you so much!
I'm in the exact same situation. We've not been our best to each other, and I've had a hard time communicating on things like children, moving in together. Unfortunately, she left because of these. I've been working on myself, but how can I give this a chance now? I believe this will make us far stronger.
Beautiful! I love the mind to heart communication ❤️
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wow! thats the cutest thing I've watched today!
Woaw this is such a beautiful video ! Thank-you for this !
Thank you 🙏☺️
Such a beautiful way to start my day. Thank you for sharing.
Catherine Darringer so happy you liked my talk 🙂 Thank you!
Hi
Can we talk
Vicky Jay sure 🙂
my child
Note, the spell i cast is 100% guarantee sure an safe, it has no side effect or harm, also note that I do not beg or false people to send me money to do their work, rather I will allow them to do according to there heart desire. I have been doing this work for the past 38 years now, and inherited this work from my great grand father, and this work has been past from generation to generation, as I believe in my work so also my work speaks for me because what is behind my spell is very powerful If you are ready to continue with the spell let me know so that i can send you the information of my temple messenger to send the money to buy the require items needed to cast the spell OK
I hope to hear from you soon because I found your problem so easy for me to handle.
Best Regards,
Dr
This was absolutely spot on. Just an excellent talk.
Loved this speech!
Absolutely, amazing! Congratulations!
Thank you for sharing. So lovely ending 😍
This topic I say, is a great project and so much informations I need
Best Ted Talk ever!! ❤
Congratulations 🎉 you will be happy forever
Wow wow wow. Absolutely powerful
Thanks dia Jonathan
That was a great talk. Very diffucult publicum
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This is really beautiful.
😭😭😭 this is so sweet ❤️
This was amazing related to it so much. Especially the part of the 10 straws (Neuro receptors) in a the water (hormones) inside the glass (your brain) if you are busy using 8 of those straws and maxing them out then it’s a safe assumption that those two other ones may never be used, could be clogged or atrophy. This is what happen to Jonathon and he didn’t even know it until he got the call from his Longterm girlfriend saying I don’t know how to comfort or love me.
What was not talked about was lessening his life hobbies of chasing mountains, fame and adventure. And by doing that he put some attention/focus on his oxytocin Neuro receptor (straw) and by hugging, eye contact and talking fromThe heart he buffed up that straw until it was as thick as a milk shake straw.
I too lost this straw bc I had so many other hobbies and passions that my oxytocin Neuro receptor was completely atrophied and took stopping cold turkey many of my “positive” selfish passions that made me feel good but dried up
All the hormones for neuroreceptors and left my cup dry.
Thank you so much for your useful and open comment. I really appreciate it! I was struggling a little with the straws concept.
Great person and aventurer. Thankx a lot 4 your advices.
Gorka Jakobe Palazio thank you 🙂
Oh man! I didn't notice I was smiling from ear to ear at the end of this video! Congrats!
Thank you!!
Yes me too can’t stop smiling ;-), feeling this lucky hormone through my veins at the end. What a bliss to find this ‘proposal’ speach!
Me too :)
Love this!
Truly heart-warming 👍👍👍🌹
Communication
- talking about fears.
- eye contact.
Don't forget hugging 👥
Am 46yrs this year and I married a man i will never love for the rest of my life because the man i have real love for is still alive but a widower.
So what does being a widower have to do with it?
What a beautiful ending
Thank you for sharing this holy instant!
Dare to share your emotion.
Congratulations 🎊🍾
thx for sharing this...
There is a great experiment in Japan on physical contact for young children and oxytocin levels in both the children and their parents.
J Mercure Do you have more information about that?
I so much love this topic ❤❤❤
This is really a nice tip's ❤❤
God bless you.
Thank you!
It's exactly what i need. Thanks so much
You are welcome 🙏
Congrats!
I think this can help us all. Well done
Thank you 🙏
Hay un hombre con el que me gustaría que contactes y que me ayude a restaurar mi matrimonio en solo 2 días.
Ponte en contacto con él ahora en WhatsApp y su nombre es Wilson Thomas, ese es el nombre del hombre poderoso, ok número de WhatsApp: 2347041592580..
Its been hard to increased the love if the relationship keep in Long distance relationship for almost 9 years 😢 Instead its looking cold the love
Sorry to hear this! Anything I can do?
Long distance can work just do the gratitude use video to communicate try harder!
we will of course apply it. and thanks for the oxytocin project advice. it's given for granted. :)
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God bless you both
Thank you 🙏🙏
what a moving talk. tanx!
What was your feeling after the talk? thank you! :)
Safety and trust in a relationship is essential.
Oxytocin techniques can create the feelings of love, exercising these techniques regularly is the secret to long lasting love 9:02
1) Hugging each day and night.
2) Gratitude meditation. Looking for moments of gratitude with your loved ones. Focus on nice childhood memories, focus on things for gratitude in the moment such as a beautiful sunset, pretty flower, a fluttering butterfly, a group of trees, a kind gesture etc.
3) Communication. Making deep eye contact can trigger oxytocin. Syncing up each others nervous systems, through hugs and presence.
Being in the head too much disconnects you from your heart...try to get out of your head and into a heart space. Talk about relationship fears. 12:58
17:04 😭💗💗💗🙌🙌🙌👍 please give us a update.
🌟🎉🌟Congratulations🌟 🎉🌟
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@@estheragbo6153 not interested love, I find my own sources of information and select carefully, also too much scamming, thanks anyway
Where can I find the other 17 tips?
wow. this is great
Puree love 💗🙏
Beautiful!
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Goosebumps
It was beautiful!!!
Thank you 🙂
Congratulations. I wish you all the happiness in the world. I will definitely join the oxytocin project as we have our own rough patches at times. The only thing I would like to know is ( and this for all guys outs about there)…if Amanda is Jonathan’s love of his life WHY(???!!!) the heck did it take 10 years to ask her to merry him??? Last week I was about to brake up with my boyfriend of 7 yrs if he doesn’t want to get married. Can any guys please explain to me WHY they don’t ask the girl to marry if she’s the real deal??? Please help me understand.
Fear. Some guys dont ask out of fear and some guys ask someone to marry them out of fear. I dont know that either is a great strategy.
I love your watch
Great presentation
Great speach Jonathan!
thank you :)
He just stand there to give his love story that no one ask .
really enjoyed this video thanks for the tips
Adadaslavaa mne I’m so happy you liked it 🙂
Woahh!
😭❤️Beautiful