"If you are LGBT, you're most likely a female, looking for a man to treat you like a princess." Is just unironically the most unintelligent thing I've ever heard from a misogynist. Like I'm not even joking, even the most intensely queerphobic person knows that there are men and nonbinary people in the LGBT community. I don't think this dude knows what LGBT means and assumes it's probably just lesbians who he thinks are hot but explicitly say they don't want him.
I've never understood the concept of the Friend zone. If being friends with someone you're interested in is a punishment, are you really interested in them?
Haha true. I think it’s just a feeling of sadness knowing that the degree of romantic interest you showed in the other person is not being reciprocated the same way. I mean it does suck but being a dick/misogynist is not the solution innit xD
@@duresh08 I feel like the issue with the friendzone is that guys don’t always want friendship. Like we all get rejected in life but somehow wanting to still be friends is offensive to them. Some men are only friends with women becuse they hope it turns into something else
True. Like, I just don't think the friend zone is a thing. There's no "friend zone", you're either friends or you're not, me and my significant other are best friends, am I in the friend zone because of that? No, idk, just feels like an odd term created by these weird fellows of the "manosphere".
@@lizstolte2634 no I agree being “friends” with an ulterior motive doesn’t actually make one a friend AT ALL. Completely spot on there fosho. But again it’s the the frustration that some men go through in not having their feelings reciprocated and make them resentful of being in the “friendzone”. The feelings are very synonymous to rejection. It comes from a difficult space of mind but it is not right to blame the other party for it definitely not.
It's wild that to these guys, there's nothing between "treat a woman like a 'princess'!" and "treat her like shit!" Maybe try, I dunno, treating a woman like she's a human?
Saying that women only like assholes just seems really like they’re blaming victims of abuse to me. Like it’s the woman’s fault if someone treats her like a bag of garbage and manipulates her. Just me?
Well that may be the case, but there are women who don’t know better and actually like guys full of excitement and act harshly. They probably didn’t expect him to be abusive towards her own self but thought he was masculine because he portrayed these extra violent traits. I mean 1 woman enough who claims she likes these kind of guys proves that not all of them fall into the victim basket. It could be daddy issues.
Btw to any men that are "nice guys": being like that and treating women like they can't pick a partner and treating basic decency like currency for sex- actually makes wayy less attractive to women. You're acting like a misogynistic incel that's mad at all the women for not dating him. Even if you think women are stupid, acting that way won't get you a girlfriend and will make them even afraid that you might assault them in response to being rejected.
it's so weird, they keep raving about how they "understand women", yet here I am with several long term relationships in my past, and currently in one. Yet I "treat women all wrong", and they can't get a date to save their lives. How do they not notice this completely upside-down reality they're living in?
@@Nerobyrne They just don’t want to face their shitting views and try to change themselves, they blame women for not being one dimensional and actually having a personality. Guys who do understand and listen what a women wants will most likely have success in the dating scene.
Also can I point out that these men aren’t even trying to pursue the woman, they’re essentially wanting the sense that they DID pursue a woman. We aren’t human with thoughts and emotions; we’re video game achievements to show off to everyone else so they don’t feel empty and more pathetic than they already are.
the sad thing is, even if they got a girlfriend, they'd still feel like that. And then they abuse their girlfriend because it's her fault for not being perfect.
@@Nerobyrne Which is even more disgusting. Which in turn they use manipulation tactics to make the girl/woman feel like THEY were the one’s at fault for the dude’s already shitty behavior.
@@Nerobyrne They're most likely the types to try and control their girlfriend's physical appearance and even personality if they ever did get one. They'd most likely think of her as less of a person and more like a glorified sex doll/trophy they need to maintain so they can show off to "The Boyz TM".
For real. Pursuing a girl isn't bad as long as you remember the girl is human and treat women as regular human beings (because that's all women are - regular humans)
"I hate it when guys treat me like human beings, thats so gross I want to be objectified and controlled by an abusive misogynist, thats what a real man would do" said NO woman EVER Niceguys claim women are turned off and repulsed by men who treat women like human beings with respect, meanwhile I've lived over 2 decades on this earth and have never heard a woman say that
@@VultureClone Yep, men listen to other men in regards to what women want and when women correct them or tell that what they actually do want, they ignore them and keep listening to other men. They are their own worst enemies.
You’re assuming there’s a correlation between what a woman says and what a woman thinks. The only time women say what they actually think is when they’re drunk, very angry or don’t think there’s any men listening.
Same. Plus, as a guy, all my friends and the people who’ve liked me or liked me back, feel that way because they think I’m a genuinely nice guy and super fun to be around
heres the thing: women want to be treated well, with love, attention and respect. IN A RELATIONSHIP. if you have a female friend or just see a woman you think is attractive, and you don't have an established romantic relationship with her, giving her all this attention and making all these advances is creepy, weird, and unwanted! if you dont know anything about her as a person (what she likes, what she cares about, what causes matter to her, her hobbies, etc), you can not expect her to meet you with any kind of reciprocation when you proclaim your undying love because you DONT love her! How can you, if you don't even know her! you just think shes hot and want her to fill some hole in your life, and then get mad when she won't do it. all these guys who go "she doesnt want someone who will treat her like a queen" make ME go "who the fuck are you talking about?" because as far as I've seen, women love attentive and loving partners! they just hate when men give them too much attention out of nowhere and just seem desperate and insecure.
These guys don’t seem to realize that if you’re only being her friend in the hopes of getting with her, you’re not her friend. You’re a creep and an asshole. There’s a difference if she eventually makes a move on you, but if you keep trying to make moves on her and getting turned down, just leave the poor girl alone. She’s clearly not interested in dating you and you’re clearly not interested in actually being her friend.
“Women will never sexually objectify me” Actually, rejecting someone’s entire being because their body doesn’t meet your physical standards IS a result of reducing them to an object. Congratulations, you’ve been objectified. It hurts. Women have been trying to warn you.
It’s really hilarious when men like these fight for their lives trying to prove that they love women but it isn’t even “women” that they love. It’s just a literal mirage because of their toxic upbringing who gave them a disgusting generalization of how women act and think. Not to mention the homophobia/transphobia within these spaces as well.
I saw something on TikTok: "The lack of negative traits does not mean the presence of positive ones." Just because you're nice doesn't mean you have any other good qualities.
The most important qualities for a man’s dating success 1: Face, must be at least 7/10 (Mark Wahlberg or above) 2: Height: Taller than 80-90% of men in your country 3: Carrot size, must be comparable to the largest products available at Bad Dragon. 4: Skin colour.
@@johnwilliams655 Mark Wahlberg? 2003 called, it wants its semi attractive hot head back. I know that I'm not the "I'm not like other girls" girl, because I'm astoundingly average. My husband is shorter than me. We've been married for 10 years this September and just a year ago we FINALLY got ourselves in a good position financially and workwise. When we met and were married, we lived with his family, and had a bedroom to ourselves. If you think that women are as shallow as you write in your comments, you don't deserve one. She will never live up your expectation of what a woman should be and you will constantly be looking over your shoulders for someone taller, richer, and more attractive walking by and thinking they're going to take her interest. If a woman isn't into a guy, it's because he's a wet blanket, creepy, or there just wasn't a spark there- and you can't help who you do and don't like.
Men like these make me want to, move to the UK, live in a peaceful cottage, happily marry a woman, drink homemade herbal tea with them, start a tomato garden, and adopt 10 cats, than go on _one_ date with the *"nice"* guys edit: I made this post when I identified as a girl, I'm now a transmasc guy and me and my best friend (who's also transmasc) have jokingly planned to move to Sweden when we meet, I appreciate all the comments talking about other beautiful places!! I have changed my mind about wanting to go to or visit britian, and I now have an interest in other countries!
Also the ironic thing about the 'We Need to Do Something' review is that the film was adapted from a book...written by a man, the same man who wrote the screenplay for the film lol. (Also, speaking as someone who personally doesn't want to have children of my own, so many moms are incredibly strong in times of crises).
right! i'll concede my own mom is way too anxious and a little neurotic, but i know a ton of women who would be able to keep calm under pressure, and are less emotionally reactive than men. it's silly because these men think that all men and all women are one way, when in fact, all individuals have their own unique personalities 😑
I love when you shed light on these kinds of topics it has made me realize how many people like this I've encountered you've definitely saved me from associating with people of this nature.
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Expecting a medal for being nice is like expecting to be president because you can talk in a camera and have opinions. Nobody should expect rewards for the bare minimum
“Nice guys finish last” Like bro, are they upset that their partner should finish as well? Like are they mad that their partner deserves pleasure as well? Smh
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This was like being repeatedly sucker punched and then Annamarie forcing me to laugh while she sarcastically kisses the boo boo. I'm glad we went through it together
I think it’s so weird how these are the type of people that’ll hold up the beauty standard that women should be hairless from the eyebrows down, yet expect women to be all over them when they put no effort into looking nice to actually attract women. Another thing is that a lot of them won’t date WOC or bigger women bc it’s a ‘preference’ but get super mad when a women wants to simply be attracted to her partner. You can’t expect women that are your exact standard to be chasing you when you don’t even try to be up to their standard.
That movie review at the end kinda reminded me about this review I saw on Amazon for the book 'Star Wars, Thrawn Ascendency: greater good'. The entire thing was some dude ranting about how 'weak' they made the men and that the women characters 'were to smart and strong without training'. It would've been funny if it wasn't so painful, all the characters have been threw the same military training and Thrawn is still the smartest. Thrawn was never portrayed as weak, yes in some of the chapters that like went back to when he was a cadet he was more shy and almost timid, because he was a teenager, he wasn't a military strategist right after exiting the whom (I'm so sorry I know I spelt that wrong). He also said how no important characters are guys, like did I hallucinate Samakro, Thrass, Ba'kif, Ja'fosk, Thrufian, Zistalmu, Apros, Jixtus, that rancher guy whose name I forgot, and Quilori? And goodness graciously forbid some of the characters be women, none of them where written like Rey, they all had depth and character development, none of them where perfect, Thalias made some stupid decisions, Che'ri was a brat sometimes (Because she's literally 10) Ar'alani despite being of higher rank still listened to Thrawn's plans, even Roscu kinda did the ok thing in the end. Sorry unnecessarily rant over good bye.
When you're a 6, i.e. right in the middle of the conventional attractiveness scale, nice guys are everywhere. Where men get the audacity to not wipe their butts, and smell like a rotten wood because they refuse to shower, and act like I should be grateful for their ding dong ,and their time I have no idea. Also I'm a lesbian, but when I tell them that, they suggest corrective r**e. So that's wonderful.
The only men that don’t shower a homeless men that don’t have access to them. Showering isn’t something that’s taught, it is a basic instinct that 99.999% of men possess.
@@johnwilliams655 no it isn't. Don t tell me I don't know what that smells like, There are many men I've personally encountered who do not care about personal hygiene or having a personality and still somehow think they're God's gift to women. I'm relating my own lived experience, not saying all men don't shower. Stop gaslighting. Just because you personally do something doesn't mean everyone does.
Excuse me? Corrective r**e?? What the hell?? They really out here thinking that forcing themselves on a woman who isn't attracted to them will someone make them attracted?? That's like saying "oh you don't like being hit with a chair? Let me hit you with a chair then you'll see you actually like it". Disgusting 🤢🤮
Yeah, getting "laid" IS hard work. Because you have to genuinely be interested in someone and love them. Then you have to be patient and wait for someone who's actually compatible with you, stuff that these men can't do and will never be strong enough OR enough of a man to do.
IKR?? I think their main problem is that they refuse to grow as people. They want amazing things from life but never bother to take the steps to actually getting them. I want a girlfriend so, SO bad but I recognize that the problem is ME. The reason I’ve never had a girlfriend is bc I’m too shy, I don’t talk to anyone so why would someone want to date me?? I’m taking steps to be more social and confident and already I’ve been having so many interesting conversations with people I never used to talk to. Still no dice on the gf situation but hey, baby steps. I don’t understand how these guys can honestly sit there and blame everyone else for all of their problems. It’s counterproductive and just makes you feel like garbage! EDIT: I GOT A GIRLFRIEND YALL
What's scary is how common these guys are. Like I'm pretty sure 90% of us know/have known many people like this. I'm super lucky I haven't had to deal with this first hand. But I've seen it IRL, and definitely seen it a ton on the internet.
It’s not hard work for attractive people. Being interesting = being attractive. Take your average night club attender for example; never seen a movie, can’t name a single music artist or song, has never been outside their own state etc. Yet they’re considered “interesting” because of their looks.
I mean, there are people that partake in hook ups and one night stands. However, at that point you now have to be either charismatic enough to attract their attention, or they have to be horny enough to not care how boring you are, or your third option is that they're drunk enough for consent to be questionable at best.
I don't think it's great to call incels and misogynistic Men gay 😬 some straight Men don't like women but are attracted to them, that's what a patriarchy rewards
nice guys are like the main character of some goosebumps morality story about a shitty kid who crosses a fairground fortune teller and gets cursed to always act in the exact opposite way of what would achieve his desires.
I go on r/niceguys when I'm with my homophobic/transphobic family and it does help pass time so thank you nice guys you're so annoying i can make fun of you in my head for entertainment:)
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12:38 this reminds me of a tweet I saw that said something like 'Schrodingers Jerk, where how attractive a man views a women is determined by whether she'll fuck him or not'. Can also be used in the context of art commission choosing beggars. 'your art is gorgeous! I want a commission!' 'cool it's $20' 'ugh srsly? You can't give it to me for free? It's an ugly piece of crap anyway'
Guys who don't want a woman who's a cat lover screams red flags to me 🙄 Cats require patience and consent and y'know respect or else they will scratch or bite you. Aaaaand that's something those kinda men just don't wanna deal with, independence. If y'know y'know.
Yeah it is a red flag. I mean I don't really like cats all that much myself, but anyone who says that they outright hate anyone who likes cats is just gross. It'd be one thing if it was "Hey I don't like cats, so I don't want to date someone who does because then they'd want to have a pet cat and I don't want that." But I doubt that's the case here. Dudes are probably just worried that said woman would pay more attention to the cat than them.
Omfg the guy with the thousand page essay about him not getting laid, complaining about only getting "ugly" girls and not the "pretty" ones. He said it himself that he isn't physically the most attractive guy and that's why women don't like him yet he wants to have Britney Spears as his gf because he can't set his standards lower but women have to just because he is so sad and waawaa. So pathetic.
Ew, gross. Why would you say you have photos with women because you “understand females?” If you feel compelled to address the women in your photos at all, just say they’re your friends. Why are they a case study for you, Chad?
*Hello little mouse. You can see me with mice on my picture, because I understand mice. I have experimented on mice for many many years now. Come. I am your friend, little mouse. Only I understand you.* This is how these guys who say they "understand females" sound to me
The best thing about this video is the stock footage if the guy crying the background 😂 also, how frustrating it is as a women thinking you made a friend and they start making moves on you. It's not like it happened to me a lot of times but a few times and it's frustrating
Yeah it is kind of frustrating when it happens. I don't think I've had a case where a guy is friends with me just to try and date me, but I have had cases where I'll be friends with a guy for maybe a month if that. A time where we're literally just friends with no romantic undertones, and then they suddenly tell me that they have a crush on me. Like you've known me for a month, and have only seen maybe 10% of my personality. At that point do you actually like me, or do you just like who you think I am? Not to mention that when it happens a bunch, it just makes you feel like a shitty person. There's nothing wrong with telling people you're not interested in them like that, but damn do I feel like a heartless bitch having to constantly do that to my friends over and over again.
I feel a little bad for the guy in the minute 15:05 I mean he’s clearly depressed and needs therapy (it’s okay we all need therapy and meds sometimes in our lives) I can guarantee him that there’s a person for each and every one of us but mental health goes first so you can focus on someone else then. Edit: he’s attitude it’s quite bad towards women and men but that’s something you can talk in therapy
I’m 22, and a virgin and I sometimes have similar thoughts to that guy. It’s extremely anxiety inducing when you’re a virgin past what’s normally expected because you feel like it’s because you’re ugly or undesirable but you don’t really no for sure. Meanwhile all your friends are getting laid or have gotten laid and you’re wondering what you’re doing wrong.
I would love to say to anyone that is struggling with that… that there is no “normal” time to get laid or whatever. There is only the right time and it will come soon or later. I was a late bloomer and my current boyfriend is even a later one. I dont know, I just wanted to write you something nice 🌈
The 'man who won't take no for an answer so I have to curb him away from me as much as possible, hoping he won't snap and murder me for rejecting him' zone
Or it's just a woman trying to have a proper friendship with them, which could be a beautiful human relationship, but the "nice guy" doesn't value it, because he sees no purpose in women his age, other than sex. Meanwhile the woman actually cares about him as a friend. It's really sad.
Do you think these men would have an easier time if they didn't accept the whole alpha/beta mentality as reality? Seems like self esteem is at the root of their problems. Maybe if they didn't believe women view them as lesser because they are "betas" they would be less misogynistic?
Guys were even worse before those words became the norm. The problem is alpha and beta does exist, and these types are betas. But instead of working on themselves to lessen that, they are so beta that they take out their frustration on women and children instead of competing with other men like they should be. These types of humans will always exist, they are a part of nature, and these types exist in the animal kingdom as well. We can only speculate as to why nature does this, but obviously there's a reason.
@@FoxExcess there's no such thing as alphas/betas. What there is in nature is parental figures. Animal groups are led by the mom or dad and the rest of the group is their children.
I think the whole 'Alpha/Beta' thing is a result of that insecurity, or that at the least it's like a chicken and egg scenario (a mental construct because it doesn't really exist). What both sides of this dichotomy fail to realise is that it's best to be a well rounded human with well rounded expectations; have no self confidence and self deprecating constantly is a bad vibe, but so is bullish self confidence that defies all reason. Expecting someone to be your one stop shop for all human interaction is terrible but so is treating a partner like they can offer you nothing but their body. People just need to fucking chill mostly lmao. I personally believe that it's two different ways of dealing with the same feelings of insecurity we all have that have something in common: avert all attention and onus for change from the subject. It is the women who are wrong, not me, I'm a poor nice guy/ a high quality man
I watched We Need to Do Something (plot is a family that gets trapped in a bathroom after a natural disaster and the story turns kinda supernatural) and what's pretty funny with what that review is that the father in the movie loses his shit and starts being rlly aggressive and violent while his family is trying to just survive in there and this man's review is him literally losing his shit over the pretty accurate portrayal of a man not knowing how to deal with his stress and emotions
A insecure man thinks all women want what he doesn't have, a short man says all women want a tall guy, a dude with not a lot of money claims all women want a rich dude, and man not so blessed in other physical assets says all women want men with these blessed physical assets, it's the same shi, and the "nice guys" should finish last, because they are being nice expecting something in return, instead of being a genuinely nice person.
I was thought it was weird when my friends talked to me about the "friend zone" Friend zone doesn't exist, if you're only in the company of a person and saying you're their friend because of ulterior motives then you're not their friend, and automatically there is no "friend zone", being friends with someone you have feelings for is not a punishment, i think its much worse to lose that friendship just because they don't wanna have sex with you I have been through an experience where I was friends with a really sweet guy (i am still his friend to this day), and i was romantically interested in him, i was very young at the time so i didn't notice he was also interested in me, when I noticed he had already fallen in love with a girl he's still in love to this day, yes i was sad because I lost my chance, but i was still his friend, because I was not around him and making jokes and talking to him just because I wanted to kiss him, it's because I valued him as a friend, i thought he was funny, and sweet and nice to talk to I moved on, today I'm in a happy relationship and I'm still friends with him, you need to move on, some people will like you, others will not, sometimes you'll commit mistakes and other times you'll do things very nicely, sometimes you'll lose your chances and other times you'll learn with your mistakes so you don't lose them anymore That's how life works, NO ONE is obligated to like you back, no one, yes people should respect you and treat you well if you treat them well, but no one is obligated to have sex with you or kiss you And if you're only after friendships because of romantic interest, then you're not after friendships, you're after "guilt sex" and you're a terrible "friend" (because you're no friend at all) Resume: friendzoned doesn't exist, move on and be a good person
I say that if a guy only calls women "Females" It's fucking weird, and my mom and her husbanf think it's not weird at all (Which makes sense he is the exact type to do that shit) "It's just respectful" they say- NO IT"s not- it's fucking weird
The dude talking about movies is not only mysoginistic, he also doesn't understand that he is not the target audience to every piece of media ever created. These people always say to whoever want representation in media that if they want they should create it but when people start to do exactly that they get mad because a slight number of pieces of media don't cater to them anymore.
@@KalinTheZola most movies are not catered to me, I'm a Brazilian, mixed race, non binary, asexual, who also has adhd, most movies are not meant for me, that's why I'm not big on watching movies, I watch probably less than 10 movies a year.
@@bluester7177 ye I wasn't trying to refer to you there, it was a sarcastic comment about the people who make that complaint. Sorry the tone probably didn't come across lol
Ngl makes me tempted to make a good, solid story that has an all female cast and they are all strong lovely women in their own right, just to see how many uptight incels I can piss off at one time.
They really don't understand that most people in the world (women, non white people, LGBT people) have been raised watching mostly content that didn't cater to them, and are still able to enjoy this content. You have to be severely sheltered and close minded to be unable to enjoy anything that doesn't cater to your demographic entirely.
Sometimes not even that. They see some other guy who got treated wrong or hear about a guy who knows a guy who's brother got treated badly and then assume that's what relationships are like and the cycle continues
I think people also see the problematic behaviours of characters in romance movies/tv/books and assume that shit works irl. The toxic guy usually ends up with the girl in most rom-coms or YA fiction and that stuff is popular with girls so maybe men see that and assume that women want that
ughh, had a guy at work the other guy ask me out (this is after telling him to his face 'no i don't like talking to you') and when i turned him down he just stood in the way saying 'well at least i asked, right?' like three times
As someone who used to struggle alot with my own self image, I'm glad I never fell victim to the hyper misogynistic rhetoric, even in my cringey chud days. I ultimately feel bad for these incel types though. They have probably been social outcasts and loosers for the bigger part of their lives, fucking up their mental health, social, romantic and sexual developement. And this sadly results in a lot of resentment for the world, as the world in a lot of ways have treated them unfairly for the longest time. They need therapy and counseling, but instead they seek out enviroments that reaffirms said resentment, because it's the easier thing to do.
Keep going on the nice guys! I got covid these past few days and found your channel and it's really pushing me through it all (with some good laughs). Keep on slaying, queen
My favorite is how all these guys say “she rejected me for texting back :( I’m too nice ;// “ when they had a conversation over text, like you both texted back and forth obviously?? What shitty thing did you say to scare her off lmao
'Nice' is like, the most basic human triat ever. Okay, you're nice...what else? What else do you bring to the table other than objects? No, a samurai sword that stays on the wall is not a personality trait, Benjamin.
i remember when i posted to nice guys and 3 other girls said the same guy messaged them and then instead of actually doing something about it they removed the post- edit: also we were all underaged and the guy literally has a daughter.
I clicked on this video so quickly despite being a bit tired of nice girls/guys content. Your sense of humor and insight makes the difference. More videos like this would be awesome.
“All men are perfect and good, and all these «women» are just traumatized for absolutely no reason, and certainly not because of men, who are all perfect and good”.
hii! I once dated a nice guy (yes, out of fear that he would hurt me if I didn't, I didn't want to lol) so I thought I'd share what happened in my experience of actually dating one. It was his first day at my school, at lunch he asked to sit with me, of course I said yes. Then he repeatedly asked to be my boyfriend at the lunch table, it was awkward and he kept threatening me with things like "I talked to your friends I know where you live" "My dad is in the army and has a gun collection" "I could turn your friends against you" and because of this I said yes. He got excited and then it all began He would always brag to other people that he was dating me, I would tell him to stop and he would just tell me to shut up. (for this part you need info, we had a great teacher that had set up a play area almost in the classroom, it would change every now and then to things like a bakery, a house etc etc) Whenever he felt like it, he would grab my arm and pull me into the play area and either kiss me or rape me I had later found out he was also the guy who gang raped me when I was 2 years old Of course I quickly broke up with him, after that whenever we had assembly he would sit next to me and either touch my leg or forcefully kiss me, he still bragged to his friends as if we were together. And once I told him to stop, he said "Okay" I thought it was over, I then went to break, it was normal. Next day I went to break again, nobody was talking to me, my friends were avoiding me, some people ran away from me, I saw one kid who wasn't scared and asked him. "Some guy told everyone that you bullied him and hit him" he spread rumours about me and it took multiple years for my friends to trust me again, all because I broke up with him Decided to write some things you can do in this situation PLAN A: If you reject a nice guy there is a slim chance they'll do anything they threaten to do. However if you date one, there is a chance that they'll ruin that year for you, either by doing what this guy did or just being a bad person. If you then reject them, that chance that they'll do anything would go up, and it's likely it'd be worse than if you just rejected them PLAB B: If you're already in a relationship with one of these people, try get help from teachers, friends, parents, siblings ANYONE, and if they've done something illegal to you, try again to get help but tell them what they did, nobody believes you? Try gain a relationship with everyone you even slightly like, prepare for when you break up with them. PLAN C: Again, if they did something illegal, are there police stations near you? Are there police that go around the neighbourhood? If so try get their help, if this fails then try plan B (I'm sorry if this is bad advice, but it's advice that would've helped me in my situation) stay safe out there!
On a dating app which I soon did leave from and deleted my account because some dude terrified me. I am a grey-ace which I had that in my profile and after awhile I matched with some guy which talking was cool at first until. He claimed he will fix me if we date of how I will be drugged by him and he will fix me;; it was just terrifying and I just left from the place after I reported them still creeps me out a lot;;
I always find it fun getting a random noodle pic on the internet without asking and then informing the guy that sends me that pic that I was AMAB, and then just watching them run away. Always fun.
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@@AnnamarieForcino ily
"If you are LGBT, you're most likely a female, looking for a man to treat you like a princess." Is just unironically the most unintelligent thing I've ever heard from a misogynist. Like I'm not even joking, even the most intensely queerphobic person knows that there are men and nonbinary people in the LGBT community. I don't think this dude knows what LGBT means and assumes it's probably just lesbians who he thinks are hot but explicitly say they don't want him.
He probably thinks it means "progressive".
Me and a few of my friends would like to meet them.
He thinks lgbt means let girls be together 😂
Instead of bein’ nice they need to be smart smh
@@_plantlife ain't that it?
I've never understood the concept of the Friend zone. If being friends with someone you're interested in is a punishment, are you really interested in them?
Haha true. I think it’s just a feeling of sadness knowing that the degree of romantic interest you showed in the other person is not being reciprocated the same way.
I mean it does suck but being a dick/misogynist is not the solution innit xD
@@duresh08 I feel like the issue with the friendzone is that guys don’t always want friendship. Like we all get rejected in life but somehow wanting to still be friends is offensive to them. Some men are only friends with women becuse they hope it turns into something else
True. Like, I just don't think the friend zone is a thing. There's no "friend zone", you're either friends or you're not, me and my significant other are best friends, am I in the friend zone because of that? No, idk, just feels like an odd term created by these weird fellows of the "manosphere".
@@lizstolte2634 no I agree being “friends” with an ulterior motive doesn’t actually make one a friend AT ALL. Completely spot on there fosho.
But again it’s the the frustration that some men go through in not having their feelings reciprocated and make them resentful of being in the “friendzone”. The feelings are very synonymous to rejection. It comes from a difficult space of mind but it is not right to blame the other party for it definitely not.
To me it sounds like they'd rather date them or not be friends
It's wild that to these guys, there's nothing between "treat a woman like a 'princess'!" and "treat her like shit!"
Maybe try, I dunno, treating a woman like she's a human?
I love the Shawn Spencer quote from the show Psych: "First treat a woman like a person, then a princess, then a Greek goddess, then a person again."
@@ginger_snapped_ as much as I hate Henry, ( I don’t know why )
He did teach Shawn some valuable lessons
Right. It's almost like we just want basic respect 🤯
@@dolphinman9896 Y-you want basic respect? *shocketh*
The lady wanted to be treated like a princess, so I kidnapped her and forced her to marry me to aquire her kingdom.
It’s best to be different and interesting, not just nice. Being nice is just a basic human thing to do.
right!! And being nice to someone doesn't mean they owe you sex
its the bare minimum! you dont deserve applause for being a decent human, as tough as it sounds
@@mcbby7 exactlyyyy
@@zyerkos very tough for some
Hey! We have the same profile picture, different font😂😌✨
The friend zone exists, it's a fantastic place where you can hang out with someone and have fun without being romantic or sexual
The Aro Ace Space.
@@Lily-ni5po Aro and/or ace people are amazing and I love them (and/or meaning one or the other, or both)
No it doesn't.
Great satirical jab at dudes who believe in this shit
Not the people in question being pissed off in this thread lmao
Saying that women only like assholes just seems really like they’re blaming victims of abuse to me. Like it’s the woman’s fault if someone treats her like a bag of garbage and manipulates her. Just me?
You and 17 other people
you’re absolutely right
Just wait till one gets in a abusive relationship(not saying I wish it on them) that might change some of their thinking
Well that may be the case, but there are women who don’t know better and actually like guys full of excitement and act harshly. They probably didn’t expect him to be abusive towards her own self but thought he was masculine because he portrayed these extra violent traits. I mean 1 woman enough who claims she likes these kind of guys proves that not all of them fall into the victim basket. It could be daddy issues.
@@gagger7033 exactly! Some women do like these violent guys but didn’t expect him to abuse her and control her 💀
It's always "I'm a nice guy" and literally never "I'm a good person"
I couldn't like your comment cause it was at 69 (and I'm a cultured swine) so I'm responding instead
There's no such thing as a good person. I tell myself I'm a bad guy everyday.
@@tn420animations9 why
@@dollbabyy13 because I play my role I'm supposed to be a bad guy. If not it messes up the natural order of life.
@@tn420animations9 sigma mindset 😈😈😈😈😈
Btw to any men that are "nice guys": being like that and treating women like they can't pick a partner and treating basic decency like currency for sex- actually makes wayy less attractive to women. You're acting like a misogynistic incel that's mad at all the women for not dating him.
Even if you think women are stupid, acting that way won't get you a girlfriend and will make them even afraid that you might assault them in response to being rejected.
PREACH💪🤝💖
it's so weird, they keep raving about how they "understand women", yet here I am with several long term relationships in my past, and currently in one.
Yet I "treat women all wrong", and they can't get a date to save their lives.
How do they not notice this completely upside-down reality they're living in?
@@Nerobyrne It's almost like it's just about maintaining the ego of some very lonely men by blaming women for all their problems
@@Nerobyrne They just don’t want to face their shitting views and try to change themselves, they blame women for not being one dimensional and actually having a personality. Guys who do understand and listen what a women wants will most likely have success in the dating scene.
Truth!
Also can I point out that these men aren’t even trying to pursue the woman, they’re essentially wanting the sense that they DID pursue a woman. We aren’t human with thoughts and emotions; we’re video game achievements to show off to everyone else so they don’t feel empty and more pathetic than they already are.
the sad thing is, even if they got a girlfriend, they'd still feel like that.
And then they abuse their girlfriend because it's her fault for not being perfect.
@@Nerobyrne Which is even more disgusting. Which in turn they use manipulation tactics to make the girl/woman feel like THEY were the one’s at fault for the dude’s already shitty behavior.
@@Nerobyrne They're most likely the types to try and control their girlfriend's physical appearance and even personality if they ever did get one. They'd most likely think of her as less of a person and more like a glorified sex doll/trophy they need to maintain so they can show off to "The Boyz TM".
Only an extrovert would care about showing off a gf.
For real. Pursuing a girl isn't bad as long as you remember the girl is human and treat women as regular human beings (because that's all women are - regular humans)
My good bro, no woman is scared of you because you “care too much.” We’re scared of you because you’ve mistaken stalking for caring.
"I hate it when guys treat me like human beings, thats so gross I want to be objectified and controlled by an abusive misogynist, thats what a real man would do" said NO woman EVER
Niceguys claim women are turned off and repulsed by men who treat women like human beings with respect, meanwhile I've lived over 2 decades on this earth and have never heard a woman say that
If a women does accept that kind of behavior, the cause is 99% because of abuse from parents, especially fathers. Childhood trauma can fuck with you.
That's because men love telling us how we feel and what we want, because they "know better"
@@VultureClone Yep, men listen to other men in regards to what women want and when women correct them or tell that what they actually do want, they ignore them and keep listening to other men. They are their own worst enemies.
You’re assuming there’s a correlation between what a woman says and what a woman thinks.
The only time women say what they actually think is when they’re drunk, very angry or don’t think there’s any men listening.
Same. Plus, as a guy, all my friends and the people who’ve liked me or liked me back, feel that way because they think I’m a genuinely nice guy and super fun to be around
I'm ashamed to admit I was both too silly AND too goofy when you were gone. I apologize and am embarrassed of my actions 🕴
All forgiven.
Some sins can not be forgiven.
I get it.
@Victor Marrtinez and @:^P
The duality of man
Oooooo99ollpk
heres the thing: women want to be treated well, with love, attention and respect. IN A RELATIONSHIP. if you have a female friend or just see a woman you think is attractive, and you don't have an established romantic relationship with her, giving her all this attention and making all these advances is creepy, weird, and unwanted! if you dont know anything about her as a person (what she likes, what she cares about, what causes matter to her, her hobbies, etc), you can not expect her to meet you with any kind of reciprocation when you proclaim your undying love because you DONT love her! How can you, if you don't even know her! you just think shes hot and want her to fill some hole in your life, and then get mad when she won't do it. all these guys who go "she doesnt want someone who will treat her like a queen" make ME go "who the fuck are you talking about?" because as far as I've seen, women love attentive and loving partners! they just hate when men give them too much attention out of nowhere and just seem desperate and insecure.
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Facts
This
"Since we are in 2002"
Plot twist: she's a time traveler
Now we all are :D
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My 2 y/o self says hi
@@sapphire8644 my -2 year old self says hi
@@clara_jojo7826 hi there 😭
i don’t understand how these dudes can’t smell their own desperation
it's probably the caked-on cologne
@@mal3068 that or the pungent cloud of BO that has been left untreated for so long it gained its own sentience
Yep, much like that old quote “if every room smells like crap, check your shoes”
The universe where nice guys don’t finish last must be terrifying
so glad we’ll never know!!
thats probably the answer to the question, where do black holes lead to?
These guys don’t seem to realize that if you’re only being her friend in the hopes of getting with her, you’re not her friend. You’re a creep and an asshole. There’s a difference if she eventually makes a move on you, but if you keep trying to make moves on her and getting turned down, just leave the poor girl alone. She’s clearly not interested in dating you and you’re clearly not interested in actually being her friend.
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Facts real Nice guys stay their distance
I love how women talk about this like they're completely innocent of this it's great
That's not a creep lmao.
This right here. Nice guys wanna complain about the friend zone but keep putting women in the girlfriend zone
“Women will never sexually objectify me”
Actually, rejecting someone’s entire being because their body doesn’t meet your physical standards IS a result of reducing them to an object.
Congratulations, you’ve been objectified. It hurts. Women have been trying to warn you.
“We are in 2002 now.” Are we? Lol ❤️
Oh shit, we travelled in time :D I didn't knew
Happy new year!
It’s really hilarious when men like these fight for their lives trying to prove that they love women but it isn’t even “women” that they love. It’s just a literal mirage because of their toxic upbringing who gave them a disgusting generalization of how women act and think. Not to mention the homophobia/transphobia within these spaces as well.
I saw something on TikTok: "The lack of negative traits does not mean the presence of positive ones." Just because you're nice doesn't mean you have any other good qualities.
The most important qualities for a man’s dating success
1: Face, must be at least 7/10 (Mark Wahlberg or above)
2: Height: Taller than 80-90% of men in your country
3: Carrot size, must be comparable to the largest products available at Bad Dragon.
4: Skin colour.
@@johnwilliams655 is.. is this satire?
@@johnwilliams655 Mark Wahlberg? 2003 called, it wants its semi attractive hot head back.
I know that I'm not the "I'm not like other girls" girl, because I'm astoundingly average. My husband is shorter than me. We've been married for 10 years this September and just a year ago we FINALLY got ourselves in a good position financially and workwise. When we met and were married, we lived with his family, and had a bedroom to ourselves. If you think that women are as shallow as you write in your comments, you don't deserve one. She will never live up your expectation of what a woman should be and you will constantly be looking over your shoulders for someone taller, richer, and more attractive walking by and thinking they're going to take her interest.
If a woman isn't into a guy, it's because he's a wet blanket, creepy, or there just wasn't a spark there- and you can't help who you do and don't like.
Men like these make me want to, move to the UK, live in a peaceful cottage, happily marry a woman, drink homemade herbal tea with them, start a tomato garden, and adopt 10 cats, than go on _one_ date with the *"nice"* guys
edit: I made this post when I identified as a girl, I'm now a transmasc guy and me and my best friend (who's also transmasc) have jokingly planned to move to Sweden when we meet, I appreciate all the comments talking about other beautiful places!! I have changed my mind about wanting to go to or visit britian, and I now have an interest in other countries!
Sounds peaceful I wouldn't mind joining in this community we all can invite each other for lunch food made from are gardens and tea.
@@bunnyboo6295 I would also like to come sounds cozy and charming
@@bunnyboo6295 OMG YES
@@bunnyboo6295 bro, this sounds amazing. I think we should have a bunch of outdoor cats that we all collectively feed and take care of
Bro. As someone in the UK. ITS JUST AS BAD HERE
Also the ironic thing about the 'We Need to Do Something' review is that the film was adapted from a book...written by a man, the same man who wrote the screenplay for the film lol. (Also, speaking as someone who personally doesn't want to have children of my own, so many moms are incredibly strong in times of crises).
right! i'll concede my own mom is way too anxious and a little neurotic, but i know a ton of women who would be able to keep calm under pressure, and are less emotionally reactive than men. it's silly because these men think that all men and all women are one way, when in fact, all individuals have their own unique personalities 😑
I love when you shed light on these kinds of topics it has made me realize how many people like this I've encountered you've definitely saved me from associating with people of this nature.
BEST Nice-Guy-Coverage would probably be all the Book-Reviews
Reviewing ‚Nice-Guy-King’ Onision,
various videos of TH-camr HUSH and of course Hbomberguys Measured Response Videos about Sargon and the Art of Pick-up Artistry.
The "Well Hello Sinners" and the fan flick at the beginning literally makes me so happy
Big dose of dopamine and serotonin
Expecting a medal for being nice is like expecting to be president because you can talk in a camera and have opinions. Nobody should expect rewards for the bare minimum
But it worked for trump, even though it wasn't exactly a good thing that it did.
@@TarisLuna *sigh* yeah
The US is barely mustering that these days
“Nice guys finish last”
Like bro, are they upset that their partner should finish as well? Like are they mad that their partner deserves pleasure as well? Smh
BEST Nice-Guy-Coverage would probably be all the Book-Reviews
Reviewing ‚Nice-Guy-King’ Onision,
various videos of TH-camr HUSH and of course Hbomberguys Measured Response Videos about Sargon and the Art of Pick-up Artistry.
I’m 28, and I’m disappointed this “nice guy” is calling me old by proxy of calling himself old. I’m a hot 28 year old MiLF, that dude can suck it lol.
I stan you now 👌🙏
Stan
MILF rights!! 🙏🏻🙏🏻
😳
I love you
wait that sounds weird
I love your confidence
This was like being repeatedly sucker punched and then Annamarie forcing me to laugh while she sarcastically kisses the boo boo. I'm glad we went through it together
"2 cars and a sword"? Doesn't he know that swords are only cool when it's women, enbies, and actually decent guys that have them?
As an afab genderqueer person who collects swords, I feel rather flattered that you think it's cool
I think it’s so weird how these are the type of people that’ll hold up the beauty standard that women should be hairless from the eyebrows down, yet expect women to be all over them when they put no effort into looking nice to actually attract women. Another thing is that a lot of them won’t date WOC or bigger women bc it’s a ‘preference’ but get super mad when a women wants to simply be attracted to her partner. You can’t expect women that are your exact standard to be chasing you when you don’t even try to be up to their standard.
THIS exactly!
Alternate sign options;
“nice guy deserves last”
“nice guy smice guy”
And my favorite, “uh oh sinners we got a nice guy”
Honestly the “alrighty then hello sinners” just makes me feel happy, no matter what day I’ve had
That movie review at the end kinda reminded me about this review I saw on Amazon for the book 'Star Wars, Thrawn Ascendency: greater good'. The entire thing was some dude ranting about how 'weak' they made the men and that the women characters 'were to smart and strong without training'. It would've been funny if it wasn't so painful, all the characters have been threw the same military training and Thrawn is still the smartest. Thrawn was never portrayed as weak, yes in some of the chapters that like went back to when he was a cadet he was more shy and almost timid, because he was a teenager, he wasn't a military strategist right after exiting the whom (I'm so sorry I know I spelt that wrong). He also said how no important characters are guys, like did I hallucinate Samakro, Thrass, Ba'kif, Ja'fosk, Thrufian, Zistalmu, Apros, Jixtus, that rancher guy whose name I forgot, and Quilori? And goodness graciously forbid some of the characters be women, none of them where written like Rey, they all had depth and character development, none of them where perfect, Thalias made some stupid decisions, Che'ri was a brat sometimes (Because she's literally 10) Ar'alani despite being of higher rank still listened to Thrawn's plans, even Roscu kinda did the ok thing in the end.
Sorry unnecessarily rant over good bye.
Ohhh don’t worry it’s womb!
As an enby Star Wars fan I’ve had to leave the fandom sites because it’s just so toxic (and they never like anything new or challenging in the series)
When you're a 6, i.e. right in the middle of the conventional attractiveness scale, nice guys are everywhere. Where men get the audacity to not wipe their butts, and smell like a rotten wood because they refuse to shower, and act like I should be grateful for their ding dong ,and their time I have no idea.
Also I'm a lesbian, but when I tell them that, they suggest corrective r**e. So that's wonderful.
The only men that don’t shower a homeless men that don’t have access to them. Showering isn’t something that’s taught, it is a basic instinct that 99.999% of men possess.
@@johnwilliams655 no it isn't. Don t tell me I don't know what that smells like, There are many men I've personally encountered who do not care about personal hygiene or having a personality and still somehow think they're God's gift to women. I'm relating my own lived experience, not saying all men don't shower. Stop gaslighting. Just because you personally do something doesn't mean everyone does.
Excuse me? Corrective r**e?? What the hell?? They really out here thinking that forcing themselves on a woman who isn't attracted to them will someone make them attracted?? That's like saying "oh you don't like being hit with a chair? Let me hit you with a chair then you'll see you actually like it". Disgusting 🤢🤮
Oof, bless you and stay safe
Yeah, getting "laid" IS hard work. Because you have to genuinely be interested in someone and love them. Then you have to be patient and wait for someone who's actually compatible with you, stuff that these men can't do and will never be strong enough OR enough of a man to do.
IKR?? I think their main problem is that they refuse to grow as people. They want amazing things from life but never bother to take the steps to actually getting them.
I want a girlfriend so, SO bad but I recognize that the problem is ME. The reason I’ve never had a girlfriend is bc I’m too shy, I don’t talk to anyone so why would someone want to date me?? I’m taking steps to be more social and confident and already I’ve been having so many interesting conversations with people I never used to talk to.
Still no dice on the gf situation but hey, baby steps. I don’t understand how these guys can honestly sit there and blame everyone else for all of their problems. It’s counterproductive and just makes you feel like garbage!
EDIT: I GOT A GIRLFRIEND YALL
What's scary is how common these guys are. Like I'm pretty sure 90% of us know/have known many people like this. I'm super lucky I haven't had to deal with this first hand. But I've seen it IRL, and definitely seen it a ton on the internet.
It’s not hard work for attractive people.
Being interesting = being attractive.
Take your average night club attender for example; never seen a movie, can’t name a single music artist or song, has never been outside their own state etc. Yet they’re considered “interesting” because of their looks.
@@johnwilliams655 wrong, wrong and wrong
I mean, there are people that partake in hook ups and one night stands. However, at that point you now have to be either charismatic enough to attract their attention, or they have to be horny enough to not care how boring you are, or your third option is that they're drunk enough for consent to be questionable at best.
"two cars and a samurai sword" is my new "I was studying the blade"
I was thinking the same thing 😂
“Pick your head up king, you’re fedora is falling”
I fucking love this channel.
I'm bi and not a woman so the homophobic post is already wrong right off the bat.
I'm started to believing that nice guys had an internalized homophobia without telling us they had an internalized homophobia 🤭
I’m going to be the 69 like.
(Edit) noooo, it was taken. But it’s in the 70’s now.
I don't think it's great to call incels and misogynistic Men gay 😬 some straight Men don't like women but are attracted to them, that's what a patriarchy rewards
Most humans are, that’s why even the most passionate LGBT advocates always use “gay” as a slur
@@johnwilliams655 ? I'm confused by your statement sorry
@@izzy-gb8us yeah i know that. I was joking by the way
nice guys are like the main character of some goosebumps morality story about a shitty kid who crosses a fairground fortune teller and gets cursed to always act in the exact opposite way of what would achieve his desires.
I go on r/niceguys when I'm with my homophobic/transphobic family and it does help pass time so thank you nice guys you're so annoying i can make fun of you in my head for entertainment:)
BEST Nice-Guy-Coverage would probably be all the Book-Reviews
Reviewing ‚Nice-Guy-King’ Onision,
various videos of TH-camr HUSH and of course Hbomberguys Measured Response Videos about Sargon and the Art of Pick-up Artistry.
@@nenmaster5218 thanks i have a family gathering today actually so this should help pass time
12:38 this reminds me of a tweet I saw that said something like 'Schrodingers Jerk, where how attractive a man views a women is determined by whether she'll fuck him or not'. Can also be used in the context of art commission choosing beggars. 'your art is gorgeous! I want a commission!' 'cool it's $20' 'ugh srsly? You can't give it to me for free? It's an ugly piece of crap anyway'
As a straight guy, day after day, I'm more and more confused and embarrassed about the behaviour of men
Had to pause and comment to say a guy I know did EXACTLY what the other guy did at 8:37, accused me of being "crazy" after I rejected him.
Guys who don't want a woman who's a cat lover screams red flags to me 🙄
Cats require patience and consent and y'know respect or else they will scratch or bite you. Aaaaand that's something those kinda men just don't wanna deal with, independence.
If y'know y'know.
Also that’s just bad judgment cats are great
Yeah it is a red flag.
I mean I don't really like cats all that much myself, but anyone who says that they outright hate anyone who likes cats is just gross.
It'd be one thing if it was "Hey I don't like cats, so I don't want to date someone who does because then they'd want to have a pet cat and I don't want that."
But I doubt that's the case here. Dudes are probably just worried that said woman would pay more attention to the cat than them.
Omfg the guy with the thousand page essay about him not getting laid, complaining about only getting "ugly" girls and not the "pretty" ones. He said it himself that he isn't physically the most attractive guy and that's why women don't like him yet he wants to have Britney Spears as his gf because he can't set his standards lower but women have to just because he is so sad and waawaa. So pathetic.
If you have to call yourself a nice guy, you’re not actually a nice guy
Exactly- show, don’t tell, and don’t only be nice to get something out of people.
I mean, it depends. But these guys DEFINITELY aren't
Ew, gross. Why would you say you have photos with women because you “understand females?” If you feel compelled to address the women in your photos at all, just say they’re your friends. Why are they a case study for you, Chad?
He's acting like he's Jane Goodall and we're chimpanzees.
*Hello little mouse. You can see me with mice on my picture, because I understand mice. I have experimented on mice for many many years now. Come. I am your friend, little mouse. Only I understand you.*
This is how these guys who say they "understand females" sound to me
The best thing about this video is the stock footage if the guy crying the background 😂 also, how frustrating it is as a women thinking you made a friend and they start making moves on you. It's not like it happened to me a lot of times but a few times and it's frustrating
Right it’s to the point where it just feels like predatory behavior
Yeah it is kind of frustrating when it happens.
I don't think I've had a case where a guy is friends with me just to try and date me, but I have had cases where I'll be friends with a guy for maybe a month if that. A time where we're literally just friends with no romantic undertones, and then they suddenly tell me that they have a crush on me.
Like you've known me for a month, and have only seen maybe 10% of my personality. At that point do you actually like me, or do you just like who you think I am?
Not to mention that when it happens a bunch, it just makes you feel like a shitty person. There's nothing wrong with telling people you're not interested in them like that, but damn do I feel like a heartless bitch having to constantly do that to my friends over and over again.
I feel a little bad for the guy in the minute 15:05 I mean he’s clearly depressed and needs therapy (it’s okay we all need therapy and meds sometimes in our lives)
I can guarantee him that there’s a person for each and every one of us but mental health goes first so you can focus on someone else then.
Edit: he’s attitude it’s quite bad towards women and men but that’s something you can talk in therapy
I’m 22, and a virgin and I sometimes have similar thoughts to that guy. It’s extremely anxiety inducing when you’re a virgin past what’s normally expected because you feel like it’s because you’re ugly or undesirable but you don’t really no for sure. Meanwhile all your friends are getting laid or have gotten laid and you’re wondering what you’re doing wrong.
I would love to say to anyone that is struggling with that… that there is no “normal” time to get laid or whatever.
There is only the right time and it will come soon or later.
I was a late bloomer and my current boyfriend is even a later one.
I dont know, I just wanted to write you something nice 🌈
@@miriana3679 the right time is taking forever to get here. Especially since most people’s right time is 17 or 18 lol
Too many males don't realize the friend zone is actually "the creepy guy I'm nice to so he doesn't commit crimes on me" zone.
The 'man who won't take no for an answer so I have to curb him away from me as much as possible, hoping he won't snap and murder me for rejecting him' zone
Or it's just a woman trying to have a proper friendship with them, which could be a beautiful human relationship, but the "nice guy" doesn't value it, because he sees no purpose in women his age, other than sex. Meanwhile the woman actually cares about him as a friend. It's really sad.
@@juscocky8251 Are you okay?
Literally anything the last nice guy typed out can be used against him, it's so beautiful
Do you think these men would have an easier time if they didn't accept the whole alpha/beta mentality as reality? Seems like self esteem is at the root of their problems. Maybe if they didn't believe women view them as lesser because they are "betas" they would be less misogynistic?
Guys were even worse before those words became the norm. The problem is alpha and beta does exist, and these types are betas. But instead of working on themselves to lessen that, they are so beta that they take out their frustration on women and children instead of competing with other men like they should be.
These types of humans will always exist, they are a part of nature, and these types exist in the animal kingdom as well. We can only speculate as to why nature does this, but obviously there's a reason.
@Fox Excess the alpha/beta studies have all been disproven. Doesn’t exist in the animal kingdom either.
@@FoxExcess there's no such thing as alphas/betas. What there is in nature is parental figures. Animal groups are led by the mom or dad and the rest of the group is their children.
I think the whole 'Alpha/Beta' thing is a result of that insecurity, or that at the least it's like a chicken and egg scenario (a mental construct because it doesn't really exist). What both sides of this dichotomy fail to realise is that it's best to be a well rounded human with well rounded expectations; have no self confidence and self deprecating constantly is a bad vibe, but so is bullish self confidence that defies all reason. Expecting someone to be your one stop shop for all human interaction is terrible but so is treating a partner like they can offer you nothing but their body. People just need to fucking chill mostly lmao. I personally believe that it's two different ways of dealing with the same feelings of insecurity we all have that have something in common: avert all attention and onus for change from the subject. It is the women who are wrong, not me, I'm a poor nice guy/ a high quality man
I watched We Need to Do Something (plot is a family that gets trapped in a bathroom after a natural disaster and the story turns kinda supernatural) and what's pretty funny with what that review is that the father in the movie loses his shit and starts being rlly aggressive and violent while his family is trying to just survive in there and this man's review is him literally losing his shit over the pretty accurate portrayal of a man not knowing how to deal with his stress and emotions
A insecure man thinks all women want what he doesn't have, a short man says all women want a tall guy, a dude with not a lot of money claims all women want a rich dude, and man not so blessed in other physical assets says all women want men with these blessed physical assets, it's the same shi, and the "nice guys" should finish last, because they are being nice expecting something in return, instead of being a genuinely nice person.
Hey you dropped this W on the floor dude
I was thought it was weird when my friends talked to me about the "friend zone"
Friend zone doesn't exist, if you're only in the company of a person and saying you're their friend because of ulterior motives then you're not their friend, and automatically there is no "friend zone", being friends with someone you have feelings for is not a punishment, i think its much worse to lose that friendship just because they don't wanna have sex with you
I have been through an experience where I was friends with a really sweet guy (i am still his friend to this day), and i was romantically interested in him, i was very young at the time so i didn't notice he was also interested in me, when I noticed he had already fallen in love with a girl he's still in love to this day, yes i was sad because I lost my chance, but i was still his friend, because I was not around him and making jokes and talking to him just because I wanted to kiss him, it's because I valued him as a friend, i thought he was funny, and sweet and nice to talk to
I moved on, today I'm in a happy relationship and I'm still friends with him, you need to move on, some people will like you, others will not, sometimes you'll commit mistakes and other times you'll do things very nicely, sometimes you'll lose your chances and other times you'll learn with your mistakes so you don't lose them anymore
That's how life works, NO ONE is obligated to like you back, no one, yes people should respect you and treat you well if you treat them well, but no one is obligated to have sex with you or kiss you
And if you're only after friendships because of romantic interest, then you're not after friendships, you're after "guilt sex" and you're a terrible "friend" (because you're no friend at all)
Resume: friendzoned doesn't exist, move on and be a good person
You don’t know what your talking about
9:53 FVCK I am a vegan with depression and he seemed sooooo nice, such a shame, I lost my chance... So sad
I say that if a guy only calls women "Females" It's fucking weird, and my mom and her husbanf think it's not weird at all (Which makes sense he is the exact type to do that shit) "It's just respectful" they say- NO IT"s not- it's fucking weird
The dude talking about movies is not only mysoginistic, he also doesn't understand that he is not the target audience to every piece of media ever created.
These people always say to whoever want representation in media that if they want they should create it but when people start to do exactly that they get mad because a slight number of pieces of media don't cater to them anymore.
Yep! Sure does suck when a movie isn't catered to you for once in your life, huh?
@@KalinTheZola most movies are not catered to me, I'm a Brazilian, mixed race, non binary, asexual, who also has adhd, most movies are not meant for me, that's why I'm not big on watching movies, I watch probably less than 10 movies a year.
@@bluester7177 ye I wasn't trying to refer to you there, it was a sarcastic comment about the people who make that complaint. Sorry the tone probably didn't come across lol
Ngl makes me tempted to make a good, solid story that has an all female cast and they are all strong lovely women in their own right, just to see how many uptight incels I can piss off at one time.
They really don't understand that most people in the world (women, non white people, LGBT people) have been raised watching mostly content that didn't cater to them, and are still able to enjoy this content. You have to be severely sheltered and close minded to be unable to enjoy anything that doesn't cater to your demographic entirely.
They date one girl that treats them wrong and all of the sudden it’s our problem🙄
Sometimes not even that. They see some other guy who got treated wrong or hear about a guy who knows a guy who's brother got treated badly and then assume that's what relationships are like and the cycle continues
I think people also see the problematic behaviours of characters in romance movies/tv/books and assume that shit works irl. The toxic guy usually ends up with the girl in most rom-coms or YA fiction and that stuff is popular with girls so maybe men see that and assume that women want that
"I might just be an empath" that line and timing is too good lol
Why waste an island? We can just drop 'em off in the middle of the Pacific - they'll fit in just fine with the rest of the garbage there.
Lord of the Flies 2
Loving this channel because she actually touches grass instead of sitting on the internet coming up with theories about women theyve never met
Nothing changed for the nice guys, there everywhere, they're like spiders hatching
they’re cockroaches, even
@@AnnamarieForcino Yes
0:40 “So since we’re in 2002 now….” 😭 Same, I’m still stuck in 2002.
OMFG Annamarie I was literally in the middle of rewatching your first Nice Guys video when this popped up! Hell yeah, you just made my night!
SAME!!!!
I was skeptical at first, then he said he has two cars and a SAMURAI SWORD!!! My panties have never been more sodden 😫😫😫
I forgot about the "You forget to cherish her." Oh my god I love that quote
how to lose a woman: treat her like a human being??
“Pick your hat up king, your fedora is falling” is probably the hardest burn I’ve heard in a while😮💨😂
ughh, had a guy at work the other guy ask me out (this is after telling him to his face 'no i don't like talking to you') and when i turned him down he just stood in the way saying 'well at least i asked, right?' like three times
* the other day
i might have adhd
what a nightmare omg
"Good thing I have insurance because my basement is flooded"
Damn, that's the best term for that I've heard in a while ^^
"I have the power of 2 cars AND a samurai sword on my side!" -- That Bungle guy, probably.
You know there’s a problem when someone says “Other than that I’m a nice guy”
I'm a nice guy but...
As someone who used to struggle alot with my own self image, I'm glad I never fell victim to the hyper misogynistic rhetoric, even in my cringey chud days. I ultimately feel bad for these incel types though. They have probably been social outcasts and loosers for the bigger part of their lives, fucking up their mental health, social, romantic and sexual developement. And this sadly results in a lot of resentment for the world, as the world in a lot of ways have treated them unfairly for the longest time. They need therapy and counseling, but instead they seek out enviroments that reaffirms said resentment, because it's the easier thing to do.
Keep going on the nice guys! I got covid these past few days and found your channel and it's really pushing me through it all (with some good laughs). Keep on slaying, queen
thank you so much! i hope u feel better soon
My favorite is how all these guys say “she rejected me for texting back :( I’m too nice ;// “ when they had a conversation over text, like you both texted back and forth obviously?? What shitty thing did you say to scare her off lmao
Nobody:
Nice guys explaining how they have a point, And you are wrong:
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Everytime Annamarie says: well hello sinners. I flick my hand and do the fan movement 😍
"Now that we're in 2002 now"
Oh no, oh god what's happening... 🧍♂️🧎♂️👶🤱 🤰
Stopppp underrated comment 😭
@@_..jolene.._ it has occurred to me that with my birthday and human pregnancy this is false, but it's funny so-
I love her sense of humor, and her videos are so good I really don't get why she doesn't have more subs
'Nice' is like, the most basic human triat ever. Okay, you're nice...what else? What else do you bring to the table other than objects? No, a samurai sword that stays on the wall is not a personality trait, Benjamin.
I was JUST scrolling through your old vids and watching them cause you hadn’t posted and here we are!! I’m new here .. hope you are doing great ❤️
yo no i watch u during the summer at 5,000 and now you’re 160,000+. so proud of what you’ve accomplished! 💜
i remember when i posted to nice guys and 3 other girls said the same guy messaged them and then instead of actually doing something about it they removed the post-
edit: also we were all underaged and the guy literally has a daughter.
Even though nice guys say they're in the friend zone, I would never be friends with them
"My life is sad and pathetic"
I mean, you're right, but you're wrong about why you're right
I clicked on this video so quickly despite being a bit tired of nice girls/guys content. Your sense of humor and insight makes the difference. More videos like this would be awesome.
“All men are perfect and good, and all these «women» are just traumatized for absolutely no reason, and certainly not because of men, who are all perfect and good”.
Absolutely lost my shit at "I have 2 cars and a samurai sword." Holy fuck that is the most 14 year old thing anyone could ever say. 🤣🤣🤣
hii! I once dated a nice guy (yes, out of fear that he would hurt me if I didn't, I didn't want to lol) so I thought I'd share what happened in my experience of actually dating one.
It was his first day at my school, at lunch he asked to sit with me, of course I said yes. Then he repeatedly asked to be my boyfriend at the lunch table, it was awkward and he kept threatening me with things like "I talked to your friends I know where you live" "My dad is in the army and has a gun collection" "I could turn your friends against you" and because of this I said yes. He got excited and then it all began
He would always brag to other people that he was dating me, I would tell him to stop and he would just tell me to shut up.
(for this part you need info, we had a great teacher that had set up a play area almost in the classroom, it would change every now and then to things like a bakery, a house etc etc)
Whenever he felt like it, he would grab my arm and pull me into the play area and either kiss me or rape me
I had later found out he was also the guy who gang raped me when I was 2 years old
Of course I quickly broke up with him, after that whenever we had assembly he would sit next to me and either touch my leg or forcefully kiss me, he still bragged to his friends as if we were together. And once I told him to stop, he said "Okay"
I thought it was over, I then went to break, it was normal. Next day I went to break again, nobody was talking to me, my friends were avoiding me, some people ran away from me, I saw one kid who wasn't scared and asked him. "Some guy told everyone that you bullied him and hit him"
he spread rumours about me and it took multiple years for my friends to trust me again, all because I broke up with him
Decided to write some things you can do in this situation
PLAN A: If you reject a nice guy there is a slim chance they'll do anything they threaten to do. However if you date one, there is a chance that they'll ruin that year for you, either by doing what this guy did or just being a bad person. If you then reject them, that chance that they'll do anything would go up, and it's likely it'd be worse than if you just rejected them
PLAB B: If you're already in a relationship with one of these people, try get help from teachers, friends, parents, siblings ANYONE, and if they've done something illegal to you, try again to get help but tell them what they did, nobody believes you? Try gain a relationship with everyone you even slightly like, prepare for when you break up with them.
PLAN C: Again, if they did something illegal, are there police stations near you? Are there police that go around the neighbourhood? If so try get their help, if this fails then try plan B
(I'm sorry if this is bad advice, but it's advice that would've helped me in my situation)
stay safe out there!
I got so happy seeing you posted 😭
I CANT believe you wouldn’t give a chance to some random, mediocre man you have no chance of being attracted to… “you need mental health” 💀
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On a dating app which I soon did leave from and deleted my account because some dude terrified me. I am a grey-ace which I had that in my profile and after awhile I matched with some guy which talking was cool at first until. He claimed he will fix me if we date of how I will be drugged by him and he will fix me;; it was just terrifying and I just left from the place after I reported them still creeps me out a lot;;
it's almost like the bare minimum of being nice and caring is not enough for someone to like you
I always find it fun getting a random noodle pic on the internet without asking and then informing the guy that sends me that pic that I was AMAB, and then just watching them run away. Always fun.
“You need mental health!” I’m rolling