Alternative perspective: He want to breakup but wants you to make the call. Better three months wasted than 10 years. Also, just because you love someone doesn't mean you are compatible.
I love my husband, but if he came out as transgender, I think that would be a dealbreaker for me. I’d support him/her and always be a friend and help our daughter understand why daddy has changed, but I don’t think I could be romantically intimate with a lady. And that’s ok. It would suck for us because we do love each other, but we would still have to honour our true selves. My advice to this caller would be to take some time and consider couples counseling to be honest about the situation. Also stop referring to them as he.
Alternative perspective: He want to breakup but wants you to make the call. Better three months wasted than 10 years. Also, just because you love someone doesn't mean you are compatible.
I love my husband, but if he came out as transgender, I think that would be a dealbreaker for me. I’d support him/her and always be a friend and help our daughter understand why daddy has changed, but I don’t think I could be romantically intimate with a lady. And that’s ok. It would suck for us because we do love each other, but we would still have to honour our true selves.
My advice to this caller would be to take some time and consider couples counseling to be honest about the situation. Also stop referring to them as he.
People also often think I'm transgender even though I'm a real woman 😢😢