Museums, art galleries, high end bars and cafes, chocoloate making classes, cooking classes, dancing classes, fashion events, business events, and language classes.
@@georgeramos9474l will gladly go to museums and art galleries but forget about taking classes because women don't attend classes to meet men, so if you are a single male you don't want to go there.
I think that chocolate making classes, cooking classes and fashion events would backfire. If a woman sees a man in one of these places, she would probably think either "he's gay" or "he's here just for the women (something that they usually don't like)".
Dancing is a great way to meet women. I love to dance and when I go to a dance club I can’t tell the number of women I find flirting with me. I may not be Fred Astaire but when I dance with a woman I try to make her feel like Ginger Rogers. When I go dancing I get there early, which is when the dancers are there and leave when the drinkers arrive. I love art and another place to meet women is at an art museum, gallery or an art show/opening. I also love the theater and can’t tell the number of times I’ve gone to see a play, a musical or an opera and left with a woman. Wine tastings are another place to meet women.
Walter, you’re more of a Casanova than I! Thank you for sharing your tips, I’m sure that art museums, theater shows, and wine tastings are all excellent ways to meet women, especially classy women
I've had the exact opposite experience with dance. Conversations don't last more than a song before everyone goes dancing again. So they are very shallow. After 10 years of dancing, I met next to no women nor friend. How do you do that? I've come to the point where I consider social dance parties as asocial, I go there only to dance and no talk. That will save me disappointment.
Simply say that you want a drink and ask her if she wants to join you. It's better than offering her a drink right away and clearly stating you're hitting on her. Plus she can decline without things getting akward. After that ask her what she likes to do besides dancing and find an opportunity to meet her one one one. All of that will feel natural and not flirtatious. If girls never want to join you you should probably work on your appearance and non verbal communication. You should give the feeling that having a drink with you is fun and interesting. What you want to avoid is awkwardness which can comes up quite easyly when dancing / interacting with a stranger. Hope this helps!
@@yugioh5ds209 Yes a the party, unless she proposes it or it makes sense. For exemple if she says she wishes they have vodka you can say you know this very nice shooter bar if she's interested. But going out is not necessarily a good idea you might want to dance more with her. If you have already danced enough and the party is about to finish going out might make more sense. But usually staying there is more natural, she will feel safe, it's lower commitment which means a lower chance of decline.
Conferences and courses are excellent because you have a built-in conversation starter: "Hello (looks at her name badge" Jennifer, what did you think of the presentation?" I would wager that Augustina would agree that a gentleman sincerely asking a woman about her opinions is a positive inflection point in a first conversation.
I enjoyed this video. I have been thinking about quitting the dating apps recently and this video was very helpful. I also thought that it was great that you invited a woman to comment, the two of you worked well together. It gave the video good balance and made you look better than a lot of the other videos/channels on this topic. Thanks for sharing 👍
Thanks Bryden! I should add, I am not against dating apps, and Augustina and I actually met on Tinder! But I do think the dating app world can limit your perspective a little too. I’m glad you found it useful to get my girlfriend’s take on things. I do find it annoying how many dating advice channels for men have no female input
Fantastic video! I've found that bouldering is also a sport where there is good balance in male:female ratio. And because it's intensive there's a lot of short rests in between, perfect to start a short conversation.
Refreshing to hear your gf say “dog owner”. We have a weird epidemic here where women wish to replace children with pets and call themselves “dog moms”. Always been a big red flag for me. You picked a good one. Cheers.
Poetry night: you could impress a woman by saying something like, "Yes, I thought it was a very good poem, but I was perplexed by the change of foot between the first and second verse."
Great advice , as a ballroom dancer myself i know this is a great way to meet people..and at 5 ladys to every 1 the odds are with you...also there are apps to find new partners for dancing. A great skill that you wont ever lose.
All good points. As usual diversify! I agree with the dog thing. Unfortunately having dated someone who had multiple dogs, I realized they're like kids who never grow up! While they're fun, but like you said they're a huge commitment. You can't travel freely, you have to walk them, feed them and it never ends until they die - all too soon, which makes you miserable. Dancing is a good one, but after a while you will realize it makes it very easy for women to find some other dude. (It's like swiping right on an app with a physical element to it.) If you're a solid guy looking for a real relationship, you want situations with huge barriers to entry - not coworkers, not clubs/bars/dancing. Some real mutual interest. (Cooking, travel, wine, sports that require a skill, language...)
I love to dance, so I will be looking for a dance class close to me as I live in a rural area, it can be hard to find social events close to me.. great video, thanks so much!
Yeah, most hobbies men have tend to be very male dominated. My hobbies are sports, guns, video games, movies, and music. Some may say music is a good way to meet women, but I prefer to listen to music alone. I just put on my headsets, close my eyes, and just vibe with mainly Jazz.
@@GreenWolf2k That's where I disagree on the subject on not doing effort and doing only what you like. If you don't put any effort you'll stay single forever. You need to do things that women like it's not working the oher way around. So yes have a good job, take care of your appearance and have activities that women like. I would even argue that most of what men do is to attract women. And the competition is fierce.
@@Wonderwoman79G Yeah, but like I said. I prefer listening to music alone. Listening to music alone allows me to enter a tranquil state that I can't get while others are around.
Argentine Tango dancer here. It's an amazing way to meet lots of people. Looks matter somewhat, but being a good dancer makes up for lots of other things. At first, no one cares whether or not you can dance. iIf you just show up and try you get lots of respect.
Museums, meetups, racing and music events are excellent places to meet like minded people. And great advice ln the activities like tennis, id add rock climbing, snow sports, any low entry leisure sports really (paddleboarding/swimming, disc golf, etc)
Volunteering is another great way to meet people. Again, you already have something in common---the issue in question. Volunteering also says a lot about your values and ability to make commitments. Finally, men are vastly outnumbered by women in this space.
All very good suggestions and my compliments Augustina is a very attractive companion. I am a Boomer, so let me add a few suggestions geezers can use: If not tennis, pickle ball. Not as hard on the joints. Join a Bridge club, you are bound to meet highly intelligent and competitive women. Join a classical music club, attending concerts and recitals is a winner. Join a reading group, some of these even include audio books.
Do you have any suggestions for where to find conferences open to the public? All I could find are academic research conferences you need to be invited to or conferences for medical doctors. (Helpful video by the way!)
Dancer here (salsa, bachata, swing, balfolk, walzer). The advice of choosing dancing is very good. The advice of the girlfriend on how to during the dancing event is instead very bad. Why asking a woman? She had never to do it, she has no experience as a man. My advice: get good at the specific dancing style, wear good, fitting clothes, change them to avoid sweating shirt during the night and be flirting during the dance with eyes contact and moves but always respectful. Learn to read the signals
I usually try and make my comments about the subject and not too personal regarding the presenter. However, your girlfriend is quite stunning and, it sounds like she has a Canadian or American accent, so as a Yank A+ for you, sir.
American, non-city version: -Mountain biking. Every mountain town has one or more "local trails", where you'll find locals after work. -Mountaineering, rock climbing. A skilled mountaineer has no trouble finding climbers who want to include him. And, most mountain towns have a "climbing gym", great place to meet athletic women. -Kayaking/whitewater rafting. A skilled oarsman is valued. You might find yourself on a three week trip on the Grand Canyon with a group that includes, again, athletic women. -Poetry readings are a good idea. Here in Wyoming we have "cowboy poetry" events. Sneer if you like, but they are great fun, and the men who attend are NOT gay.
It is a wise move to include a female voice when talking about meeting women. Men who have access to female friends and family members for their perspectives definitely have an advantage over men without a female perspective.
Motorcycle events. Not just because of the people owning and riding these motorcycles (who mostly tend to be down to earth, middle-aged dudes), but because the connection often grows far beyond the hobby. I do not usually like to admit it, but the majority of female company I have had was with the daughters of other motorcycle owners.
Thank You for sharing👍 your recommendations, I really loved the ideas specially of going to confrences, joining courses and owning a dog which I have always wanted. Personallly, I also love the idea of holding parties and inviting people on weekends to expand my social circle. I also wanted to say that you guys are extremely beautiful couple.😍 You guys look so perfect together, please keep this forever, I absolutely adore you guys.
All great ideas. I’ve fostered some great relationships with women over the years from playing tennis and conducting wine tastings. Also, sailing clubs are fantastic.
I figure to double my odds by bringing a dog with me to the dance class or tennis lesson--that'll show 'em. Meanwhile, these two could sell me tickets to my own funeral if they asked me nice, that's how pretty they are. My god.
It is 80s, but he rocks it with nonchalance, therefore it works. Nothing wrong with taking style nods from different eras. As a swing dancer my casual style often has touches of the 30s.
I have danced modern jive, Tango, and recently West Coast Swing. For 14yrs. Trust me, dancing is not the place to go for a relationship. Full over desperation, sad men and women jumping from one person to another. Trying to get with the teachers dg’s and best dancers. Divorced lonely woman trying to bag their next meal ticket. Desperate lonely men spending time money and energy on them. Plus it’s a closed world where everyone knows everyone else and move in the same circles so if you break up you will keep seeing your ex and that makes for a very toxic atmosphere. Hard experience has taught me to go to dance to learn and improve and enjoy music and the skill of dancing. I stay away from all thoughts of a relationship. Other downside is Modern Jive in particular as well as WCS is full of feminist lunatics of both sexes whose sole job is to gaslight everyone into their way of thinking. Tango is less so. Another aspect is that very few younger people go partner dancing though the Latin, WCS has a younger filling MJ is the hall of the living dead.
There are tons of professional seminars, free training, and conferences that you can go to related to your career, whatever that is. Also think about going to trade shows related to your career.
Just about any hobby/social events that's co-ed are great environments to meet women. If your sole purpose is to pick up women, it will often show & will be a turn off. So pick something you'll genuinely enjoy participating in. It will be more authentic. The up side, you'll have something in common to converse about (especially if your talk game is normally weak) lol. In the case of physical activity or competitive hobbies, there is a cheat code if it's tough to get a proper date. You can always invite her to practice/improve both your skills. That's one on one time right there. Thank me later 😂
4:35 This made me smile. Tennis is absolutely an attractive sport, but as someone who plays semi-competitively I tend to...what can one say..."lose some of my elegance" when I am out there down a set and a break in an important match, hahaha.
Suggestion for next video - 5 more hobbies to meet women. I went to a badminton club recently, I know badminton isn't tennis, but anyway, it was a sausage-fest of the highest order. 23 male, 3 female (I counted). I enjoyed the badminton.
You missed a big one - playing an instrument. I swear, every girl I've ever been interested in, I've had long conversations with about music, and being a guitarist myself, it's literally free points in the dating game. Granted, people who play instruments just to be attractive are pretentious beyond infinity, usually suck at their instruments and are just plain assholes
OMG. go with a platonic girlfriend. That was my M.O.in my youth. sometimes when women see you with another woman they either feel at ease because the other woman obviously feels safe with you or they are a bit competitive. "Women don't want good looking men. They want men with good looking women." - Milan Kundera.
I really enjoyed this video and I think that the suggestions that you gave were excellent. The two of you make such a lovely couple! Augustina’s manicure was flawless, and the sweater that you wore around your neck was an elegant touch! You’re both so stylish!
@@Gent.Z I would love to see a video on how to spot a classy woman. I personally think long nails are not classy. I also think fake nails can make someone look cheap, which is not the case here, your girlfirend is beautiful and elegant.
I don't make much beyond a modest salary right now and I was making considerably less when we first met. So I can't say money would have played any role in her attraction to me.
LoL, take up sewing! The women are at the fabric & yarn stores. For women, it's Hardware & paint stores to meet men. I won't be left to find anything by myself there. And its actually quite interesting. Of course, no one's eligible, but you did say just meet?
It's not complicated. Just go too, and participate in the activities that you are genuinely interested in. No matter what it is. You will meet like minded women. I have met many women, over time... at ball games, motocross, skiing on both water and snow....stuff that I participate in. Most of these girls are pretty athletic, and down to earth. A solid Win in my book!!!
What you absolutly shouldn't do, if your goal is meeting women, is fencing. I do HEMA in Bologna, Italy, and we literally have 60 guys and 4 girls in our club (all 4 are either occupied or lesbian, obviusly 😂).
Learn how to work your camera on your cellphone. Maybe take a photograph class. Learn how to frame the picture, learn how to do close ups, portraits, etc.
Dance is a difficult hobby because of damn if you do, damn if you don't. If you get in a relationship with somebody who dances and it goes south, it can sour the "happy place" as you called it. If you get in a relationship with somebody outside of the dancing scene, be prepared for lots of jealousy. Eventually, you will either quit dancing or exit the relationship.
You two are a very beautiful couple. I sincerely wish you to be happy together. Good advise. I, personally, could never find the idea of meeting women through “dating apps” to be even slightly attractive. There are plenty of places to meet people. Just don’t be a loser and a creep. Do something with your life, improve your finances (if that’s the issue), take a good care of your health, get rid of bad habits (if you have any), and then women who meet you will see that you are a healthy and wholesome man who needs a woman in his life to be happy.
Guys, do not think that dancing means you can say or do anything. It's really creepy, women say this all the time. If you are good enough catch she will show you the green light. Read the signs. Dogs, no way. I had one gf with a dog and honestly it ties your freedom like a toddler. Good for the initial phase but extremely time consuming in everyday life.
This couple will fit right in to AI controls in the near future. They are already robotic in form and haven't the faintest idea of what life can really bring!
Playing bad at tennis makes you look miserable, same with playing golf. Or you just stay at the clubhouse. It takes some time before you reach a considerable level. Just be yourself
It only makes you look miserable if you allow it to make you miserable! There’s no need to take yourself so seriously, and in a dating scenario, it’s best not to anyway
Museums, art galleries, high end bars and cafes, chocoloate making classes, cooking classes, dancing classes, fashion events, business events, and language classes.
Thanks for the heads up, I'll endeavor to avoid such places😅
@@georgeramos9474l will gladly go to museums and art galleries but forget about taking classes because women don't attend classes to meet men, so if you are a single male you don't want to go there.
Most men don’t enjoy this stuff tho
@@Kiennguyen22360 Then they have poor tastes. Either that, or they are not very well-rounded individuals. Its just the truth.
I think that chocolate making classes, cooking classes and fashion events would backfire. If a woman sees a man in one of these places, she would probably think either "he's gay" or "he's here just for the women (something that they usually don't like)".
1 - Dancing class
2 - Own a dog
3 - Tennis
4 - Professional Conferences and Courses
5 - Activities or events that appeal mainly to women
Cats work too, even better if you're trying to attract Asian women
@@Hhhh22222-wthing is, you can't really go out with your cat like you do with a dog. That is the thing here
Only get a dog 🐕 if you want one. Maybe the girl has another dog or cat and they don't get along. The other ideas are worth trying though
@@DutchWestFilms Yes, but you can usually borrow a dog for a walk.
Archery
Thank you to you both- Agree with all, and especially how easy it to meet women when you have a (friendly) dog. 🐾
Dancing is a great way to meet women. I love to dance and when I go to a dance club I can’t tell the number of women I find flirting with me. I may not be Fred Astaire but when I dance with a woman I try to make her feel like Ginger Rogers. When I go dancing I get there early, which is when the dancers are there and leave when the drinkers arrive.
I love art and another place to meet women is at an art museum, gallery or an art show/opening.
I also love the theater and can’t tell the number of times I’ve gone to see a play, a musical or an opera and left with a woman.
Wine tastings are another place to meet women.
Walter, you’re more of a Casanova than I! Thank you for sharing your tips, I’m sure that art museums, theater shows, and wine tastings are all excellent ways to meet women, especially classy women
I've had the exact opposite experience with dance. Conversations don't last more than a song before everyone goes dancing again. So they are very shallow.
After 10 years of dancing, I met next to no women nor friend.
How do you do that?
I've come to the point where I consider social dance parties as asocial, I go there only to dance and no talk. That will save me disappointment.
Simply say that you want a drink and ask her if she wants to join you. It's better than offering her a drink right away and clearly stating you're hitting on her. Plus she can decline without things getting akward.
After that ask her what she likes to do besides dancing and find an opportunity to meet her one one one. All of that will feel natural and not flirtatious.
If girls never want to join you you should probably work on your appearance and non verbal communication. You should give the feeling that having a drink with you is fun and interesting. What you want to avoid is awkwardness which can comes up quite easyly when dancing / interacting with a stranger.
Hope this helps!
@@MrOmerDalorthank you! by a drink you mean inside the dance party ?
If she joins you in a bar that is already one on one.
@@yugioh5ds209 Yes a the party, unless she proposes it or it makes sense. For exemple if she says she wishes they have vodka you can say you know this very nice shooter bar if she's interested. But going out is not necessarily a good idea you might want to dance more with her. If you have already danced enough and the party is about to finish going out might make more sense.
But usually staying there is more natural, she will feel safe, it's lower commitment which means a lower chance of decline.
augustina is a BOMBSHELL
Indeed I hope I'll find someone who has similar traits.
Respect, man. Your girl is stunning!
She drastically changed her look.
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Conferences and courses are excellent because you have a built-in conversation starter: "Hello (looks at her name badge" Jennifer, what did you think of the presentation?" I would wager that Augustina would agree that a gentleman sincerely asking a woman about her opinions is a positive inflection point in a first conversation.
I enjoyed this video. I have been thinking about quitting the dating apps recently and this video was very helpful. I also thought that it was great that you invited a woman to comment, the two of you worked well together. It gave the video good balance and made you look better than a lot of the other videos/channels on this topic. Thanks for sharing 👍
Thanks Bryden! I should add, I am not against dating apps, and Augustina and I actually met on Tinder! But I do think the dating app world can limit your perspective a little too. I’m glad you found it useful to get my girlfriend’s take on things. I do find it annoying how many dating advice channels for men have no female input
Thanks for the vid! I really enjoyed the two host/perspective approach!
I like gent Z but his guest adds a pleasant change to the videos.
Fantastic video! I've found that bouldering is also a sport where there is good balance in male:female ratio. And because it's intensive there's a lot of short rests in between, perfect to start a short conversation.
Refreshing to hear your gf say “dog owner”. We have a weird epidemic here where women wish to replace children with pets and call themselves “dog moms”. Always been a big red flag for me. You picked a good one. Cheers.
Whatever the male version of "the ick" is, women talking about their "fur baby" is it.
Congratulations for your girlfriend! Augustina is beautiful and you two make a beautiful couple!
Respect & best wishes to both of you.
Quite the companion accompaniment. Well done my friend, well done.
Thank you!
Been dancing for 8 months; it's been a great way to meet people.
Your girl is absolutely gorgeous. Good job bro! 🤜🏼🤛🏼
Thanks for the tips! I appreciate you.
Thank you for this video. My biggest problem is not having social hobbies.
Try an app like meet up
Poetry night: you could impress a woman by saying something like, "Yes, I thought it was a very good poem, but I was perplexed by the change of foot between the first and second verse."
I didn't notice he was standing on one leg. 😜
I got married so I didn’t have to go on dates. 3 months we dated, got engaged and married 9 months later. Been happy ever since.
Great advice , as a ballroom dancer myself i know this is a great way to meet people..and at 5 ladys to every 1 the odds are with you...also there are apps to find new partners for dancing. A great skill that you wont ever lose.
All good points. As usual diversify!
I agree with the dog thing. Unfortunately having dated someone who had multiple dogs, I realized they're like kids who never grow up! While they're fun, but like you said they're a huge commitment. You can't travel freely, you have to walk them, feed them and it never ends until they die - all too soon, which makes you miserable.
Dancing is a good one, but after a while you will realize it makes it very easy for women to find some other dude. (It's like swiping right on an app with a physical element to it.)
If you're a solid guy looking for a real relationship, you want situations with huge barriers to entry - not coworkers, not clubs/bars/dancing. Some real mutual interest. (Cooking, travel, wine, sports that require a skill, language...)
I love to dance, so I will be looking for a dance class close to me as I live in a rural area, it can be hard to find social events close to me.. great video, thanks so much!
One problem I run into, is a lot of events I like; film festivals and historic reenactments, tend to be sausage 🌭 fests, or mostly retirees
Yeah, most hobbies men have tend to be very male dominated. My hobbies are sports, guns, video games, movies, and music. Some may say music is a good way to meet women, but I prefer to listen to music alone. I just put on my headsets, close my eyes, and just vibe with mainly Jazz.
@@GreenWolf2k That's where I disagree on the subject on not doing effort and doing only what you like.
If you don't put any effort you'll stay single forever. You need to do things that women like it's not working the oher way around.
So yes have a good job, take care of your appearance and have activities that women like.
I would even argue that most of what men do is to attract women. And the competition is fierce.
@@GreenWolf2kThere are many Jazz festivals and Jazz clubs in Cities.
@@Wonderwoman79G Yeah, but like I said. I prefer listening to music alone. Listening to music alone allows me to enter a tranquil state that I can't get while others are around.
@@GreenWolf2k you could do both, listen at home, but go to a Jazz event say once a month
I met my later-wife in a salsa dancing class. So: first hand approval here.
1:30 I was going to ask someone about this, definitely want to stay appropriate at my swing events. Thank you!
You’re welcome! Writing this rely from a tango event right now
Argentine Tango dancer here. It's an amazing way to meet lots of people. Looks matter somewhat, but being a good dancer makes up for lots of other things. At first, no one cares whether or not you can dance. iIf you just show up and try you get lots of respect.
Appreciate the tips! Lots to learn here. Subscribed and looking forward to more
Museums, meetups, racing and music events are excellent places to meet like minded people. And great advice ln the activities like tennis, id add rock climbing, snow sports, any low entry leisure sports really (paddleboarding/swimming, disc golf, etc)
Man, you have a great profile. Religious services or events. Shared values are very important.
Got 2 dating app ads on this lol
Volunteering is another great way to meet people. Again, you already have something in common---the issue in question. Volunteering also says a lot about your values and ability to make commitments. Finally, men are vastly outnumbered by women in this space.
it also helps to look and sound like a younger pierce brosnan
All very good suggestions and my compliments Augustina is a very attractive companion. I am a Boomer, so let me add a few suggestions geezers can use: If not tennis, pickle ball. Not as hard on the joints. Join a Bridge club, you are bound to meet highly intelligent and competitive women. Join a classical music club, attending concerts and recitals is a winner. Join a reading group, some of these even include audio books.
I think Augustina needs to start her own channel and help the women of the world!!
Great idea😊
Do you have any suggestions for where to find conferences open to the public? All I could find are academic research conferences you need to be invited to or conferences for medical doctors. (Helpful video by the way!)
Thank you! I would choose an area of interest for you like a hobby, religious group, or social cause and find public conferences related to that
Dancer here (salsa, bachata, swing, balfolk, walzer). The advice of choosing dancing is very good. The advice of the girlfriend on how to during the dancing event is instead very bad. Why asking a woman? She had never to do it, she has no experience as a man.
My advice: get good at the specific dancing style, wear good, fitting clothes, change them to avoid sweating shirt during the night and be flirting during the dance with eyes contact and moves but always respectful. Learn to read the signals
I usually try and make my comments about the subject and not too personal regarding the presenter. However, your girlfriend is quite stunning and, it sounds like she has a Canadian or American accent, so as a Yank A+ for you, sir.
Well, thank you! Yes she is beautiful and from California. We met not long after I moved stateside
@@Gent.Z well, you’re both very attractive people, but the most important thing is that it looks like you treat each other with respect.
@@olanderdecastro52 thank you 🙏 Yes, respect is one of the most important parts of our relationship
@@Gent.Zon the flipside, your own accent sounds very British. That's a long way from California isn't it?
I was just wondering how I could get half of his eyebrows. 😐
American, non-city version:
-Mountain biking. Every mountain town has one or more "local trails", where you'll find locals after work.
-Mountaineering, rock climbing. A skilled mountaineer has no trouble finding climbers who want to include him. And, most mountain towns have a "climbing gym", great place to meet athletic women.
-Kayaking/whitewater rafting. A skilled oarsman is valued. You might find yourself on a three week trip on the Grand Canyon with a group that includes, again, athletic women.
-Poetry readings are a good idea. Here in Wyoming we have "cowboy poetry" events. Sneer if you like, but they are great fun, and the men who attend are NOT gay.
It is a wise move to include a female voice when talking about meeting women. Men who have access to female friends and family members for their perspectives definitely have an advantage over men without a female perspective.
Motorcycle events. Not just because of the people owning and riding these motorcycles (who mostly tend to be down to earth, middle-aged dudes), but because the connection often grows far beyond the hobby. I do not usually like to admit it, but the majority of female company I have had was with the daughters of other motorcycle owners.
Thank You for sharing👍 your recommendations, I really loved the ideas specially of going to confrences, joining courses and owning a dog which I have always wanted. Personallly, I also love the idea of holding parties and inviting people on weekends to expand my social circle.
I also wanted to say that you guys are extremely beautiful couple.😍 You guys look so perfect together, please keep this forever, I absolutely adore you guys.
Hi, thank you for your wonderful comment. Hosting a party and asking everyone to bring a friend is a great idea too!
0:53 dancing is great! And not just for meeting women! It's a very fun activity and it helps you relieving stress.
I’d rather learn the tango. That sounds like amazing fun.
All great ideas. I’ve fostered some great relationships with women over the years from playing tennis and conducting wine tastings. Also, sailing clubs are fantastic.
I think she is the female version of him . They both look alike , handsome & beautiful .
Gallery openings, the ballet, plays, book lectures, orchestras. No shortage of women at these events.
Pretty useful ideas. You'll never catch me going to a salsa class, but some of the other ones are good 😊
Good content as always brother, I’ll really love a video about cigarettes, if you don’t smoke I’ll understand
Greetings from Mexico
I figure to double my odds by bringing a dog with me to the dance class or tennis lesson--that'll show 'em. Meanwhile, these two could sell me tickets to my own funeral if they asked me nice, that's how pretty they are. My god.
Augustine, it’s ok to tell the bf that a shoulder tied sweater is so 1980’s. 😂
Other than the fashion crime good advice!
Haha, I read your comment to her but she says she is a fan of the shoulder sweater ;)
It is 80s, but he rocks it with nonchalance, therefore it works. Nothing wrong with taking style nods from different eras. As a swing dancer my casual style often has touches of the 30s.
I always thought of sweaters as something you put on when your mom is cold. But then I dislike long sleeves.
7:05-8:06 is amazing advice!
I have danced modern jive, Tango, and recently West Coast Swing. For 14yrs. Trust me, dancing is not the place to go for a relationship.
Full over desperation, sad men and women jumping from one person to another. Trying to get with the teachers dg’s and best dancers. Divorced lonely woman trying to bag their next meal ticket. Desperate lonely men spending time money and energy on them. Plus it’s a closed world where everyone knows everyone else and move in the same circles so if you break up you will keep seeing your ex and that makes for a very toxic atmosphere.
Hard experience has taught me to go to dance to learn and improve and enjoy music and the skill of dancing. I stay away from all thoughts of a relationship.
Other downside is Modern Jive in particular as well as WCS is full of feminist lunatics of both sexes whose sole job is to gaslight everyone into their way of thinking. Tango is less so. Another aspect is that very few younger people go partner dancing though the Latin, WCS has a younger filling MJ is the hall of the living dead.
what are good classes / conferences to look for? Im 33 so not sure if community college is the right place
There are tons of professional seminars, free training, and conferences that you can go to related to your career, whatever that is. Also think about going to trade shows related to your career.
Most anything you are interested in also has some social activity open to the public, conference or seminars, associations.
Just about any hobby/social events that's co-ed are great environments to meet women. If your sole purpose is to pick up women, it will often show & will be a turn off. So pick something you'll genuinely enjoy participating in. It will be more authentic. The up side, you'll have something in common to converse about (especially if your talk game is normally weak) lol. In the case of physical activity or competitive hobbies, there is a cheat code if it's tough to get a proper date. You can always invite her to practice/improve both your skills. That's one on one time right there. Thank me later 😂
4:35 This made me smile. Tennis is absolutely an attractive sport, but as someone who plays semi-competitively I tend to...what can one say..."lose some of my elegance" when I am out there down a set and a break in an important match, hahaha.
Suggestion for next video - 5 more hobbies to meet women.
I went to a badminton club recently, I know badminton isn't tennis, but anyway, it was a sausage-fest of the highest order. 23 male, 3 female (I counted). I enjoyed the badminton.
stupendous advice tbh.
You missed a big one - playing an instrument. I swear, every girl I've ever been interested in, I've had long conversations with about music, and being a guitarist myself, it's literally free points in the dating game. Granted, people who play instruments just to be attractive are pretentious beyond infinity, usually suck at their instruments and are just plain assholes
Playing an instrument in your bedroom isn't going to help though. You need to actually get out an perform somewhere in order to meet women.
She adds an almost scientific perspective
OMG. go with a platonic girlfriend. That was my M.O.in my youth. sometimes when women see you with another woman they either feel at ease because the other woman obviously feels safe with you or they are a bit competitive. "Women don't want good looking men. They want men with good looking women." - Milan Kundera.
I really enjoyed this video and I think that the suggestions that you gave were excellent. The two of you make such a lovely couple! Augustina’s manicure was flawless, and the sweater that you wore around your neck was an elegant touch! You’re both so stylish!
Thank you, Suzi! Yes, those long sharp red nails were actually my choice haha
@@Gent.Z I would love to see a video on how to spot a classy woman. I personally think long nails are not classy. I also think fake nails can make someone look cheap, which is not the case here, your girlfirend is beautiful and elegant.
Fascinating!!!!
Dance classes are #1
How much money you need to attract her personally ?
I don't make much beyond a modest salary right now and I was making considerably less when we first met. So I can't say money would have played any role in her attraction to me.
@@Gent.Z I think it does.
LoL, take up sewing! The women are at the fabric & yarn stores. For women, it's Hardware & paint stores to meet men. I won't be left to find anything by myself there. And its actually quite interesting.
Of course, no one's eligible, but you did say just meet?
Supermarkets and special events.
Inspiring...TY
Where did you two meet?? I'm surprised you didn't mention it.
We actually met on Tinder
Cool... thanks!! @@Gent.Z
😁@@Gent.Z
@@Gent.Zthat's hilarious, given the video subject 😂
@@mdhazeldineSavageee lol
Augustina! Not the accent I was expecting.
6 JOIN A CHOIR!!!!
It's not complicated.
Just go too, and participate in the activities that you are genuinely interested in.
No matter what it is.
You will meet like minded women.
I have met many women, over time... at ball games, motocross, skiing on both water and snow....stuff that I participate in.
Most of these girls are pretty athletic, and down to earth.
A solid Win in my book!!!
Your idea of a masculinity depends on the effect of the manner on the person, in your examples they are women, thats a point I would criticize.
What you absolutly shouldn't do, if your goal is meeting women, is fencing. I do HEMA in Bologna, Italy, and we literally have 60 guys and 4 girls in our club (all 4 are either occupied or lesbian, obviusly 😂).
Thanks both, very informative and direct. Daaarling girl, is there other stuff like that yiu might replace stuff like that with...and stuff like that?
My hobbies: cars and guns. Not too many women doing those 2 things lol the city nights and parties r sufficient tho
Learn how to work your camera on your cellphone. Maybe take a photograph class. Learn how to frame the picture, learn how to do close ups, portraits, etc.
Hiking clubs. Most members are ladies
I can’t say I’ve experienced one but I take your word for it! Hiking was very popular when I lived in LA
What a sophisticated couple 🤩 you guys will have a beautiful family ❤
This comment didn't age quite so well...
@@KevvoLightswiftwhat happened?
@@KevvoLightswift how'd you know?
@@rockyblumble He mentioned it in a "life update video".
Yoga and classes at the gym.
Did it once and well. Now I am in a friend group of 40+ moms
Someone needs to have a talk with Rollo Tomassi for a while :D
Dance is a difficult hobby because of damn if you do, damn if you don't. If you get in a relationship with somebody who dances and it goes south, it can sour the "happy place" as you called it. If you get in a relationship with somebody outside of the dancing scene, be prepared for lots of jealousy. Eventually, you will either quit dancing or exit the relationship.
Get a job in a library. At a women's college.
It worked for me.
You two are a very beautiful couple. I sincerely wish you to be happy together.
Good advise. I, personally, could never find the idea of meeting women through “dating apps” to be even slightly attractive. There are plenty of places to meet people. Just don’t be a loser and a creep. Do something with your life, improve your finances (if that’s the issue), take a good care of your health, get rid of bad habits (if you have any), and then women who meet you will see that you are a healthy and wholesome man who needs a woman in his life to be happy.
Translation;
Rule #1: be attracting
Rule #2: don’t be unattractive
They broke up. That's why you don't meet on tinder.
@@KevvoLightswiftoh sad
Ballroom, swing, tango, salsa, and BaCHAAhtuh
I got much attention out with my gf’s dog or my toddler. 😊
Guys, do not think that dancing means you can say or do anything.
It's really creepy, women say this all the time. If you are good enough catch she will show you the green light. Read the signs.
Dogs, no way.
I had one gf with a dog and honestly it ties your freedom like a toddler.
Good for the initial phase but extremely time consuming in everyday life.
This, my girlfriend had 2 dogs. As much as i loved them it was so fucking stressfull
Don’t give me hope 😅
great idea, you'll be all sweaty from tennis, chicks love that.
Are you telling me that going out to just get the essentials and not going out to interact with human beings is what is keepin me gf-less?
A real gentleman has a lady-friend whose name ends with an 'A'. Names that end with another letter are clear red flags!
Church is the best place.
you can't seriously recommend adopting a whole ahh dog just to try meet a woman, someone will actually take that advice and neglect the poor thing
This guy's ex is named Augustina. Makes sense.
jeez who the fuck painted that wall
It looks eerie, like a liminal space
Was there a man talking in this video? I didn’t see it. I was distracted.
This couple will fit right in to AI controls in the near future. They are already robotic in form and haven't the faintest idea of what life can really bring!
Boating
Sailing
Kayaking
Yachting
How tf anybody supposed to do that in the southwest?
@@J_Caban ask their sweaters
Playing bad at tennis makes you look miserable, same with playing golf. Or you just stay at the clubhouse. It takes some time before you reach a considerable level. Just be yourself
It only makes you look miserable if you allow it to make you miserable! There’s no need to take yourself so seriously, and in a dating scenario, it’s best not to anyway
But I don't really like dancing, and I am so bad at tennis I can't get it over the net.