90 Day Fiancé: Shaeeda AGREES to Sign Bilal’s PRENUP!
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 24 ก.ค. 2022
- ET's Melicia Johnson breaks down the must-see moments from season 9, episode 15 of ‘90 Day Fiancé,’ from Shaeeda agreeing to sign Bilal’s prenup, to Mohammed proposing to Yve (again) and Kara and Guillemro getting married. ‘90 Day Fiancé’ airs Sundays at 8 p.m. ET/PT on TLC.
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Is it just me or does Shaeeda have the best skin I have ever seen? This lady is so stunning!! She should do commercials for skin care for sure...
Bilal's mom need to be in the 90 day's "voice of reasons" hall of fame
Marriage is not easy. I wish all of them happiness.
What a nice comment compared to all these others. God bless all of these couples ❤️
Me too
Marriage is the biggest most important step in a relationship. This is beyond being friends, close friends, or even boyfriend/girlfriend. Marriage is an investment spiritually and physically between two people. You don’t buy cars, real estate, and or jewelry for girlfriends/boyfriends because those are temporary relationships. A relationship in limbo where two people don’t know if they are coming or going. When you invest time and money into bringing someone else from a foreign land, with the intentions of settling down. That’s marital decision. Marriage isn’t a relationship in limbo. I see possible potential in these two. Everything seems to be about money though. This conversation should have taken place before bringing her over to a foreign land.
Geven en nemen en elkaar vrij laten
Bilal mom was spot on its the illusion of power ,and choosing your battles.
Shaeeda begging Bilal for a baby he clearly doesn't want smh.🙄
Ik just the look on his face like no but I wanna make you happy and not hurt your feelings
😵💫😵💫
Money is more important for her. She just stays married with that idiot. That way she has money/food/clothes/a house etc his whole life.
@@dolorestafoya2782 that is called acting😂
Dude.
Shaeeda is my favorite of all 90 Day Fiancé casts. Her conversation with Bilal's mom brought the show to a whole new level. What an uplift from those tastless and cheap conversations about jiggy-jigy and sexy time. And man, she's so beautiful and classy. Please TLC, we want more Shaeedas and less Angelas, Darceys, Lauras, and Memphises on the show!
Well said! ❤️
I totally agree. Bilsl's mum n sister too are very accepting of her, and give great advice to her. Wishing them both every happiness with their future.
It is also nice to see a Muslim family represented accurately--as classy, cultured and refined.
@@AndiLovesMolly absolutely, completely agree! 😃
And karens
The conversation between Shaeeda and Bilal's mom was a beautiful moment and very relatable
I think Shaeeda was right in the beginning when her intuition told her not to sign the prenup. I don't have a good feeling about this relationship. I'm not sure Bilal loves her like she loves him.
I don't understand how everyone can be so flippant about someone signing a prenup that a lawyer said is one sided and shouldn't be signed. I'm not saying she should profit from the marriage but it should be a fair contract.
@@evanjuleen Even if she doesn't sign a prenup, Bilal will always be held financially responsible for her as long as she is in America. It's part of the conditions of the spousal visa...this is Bilal mitigating his losses as It's a win win for Shaeeda whichever way you look at it.
@@JustMe-ug3mk You're Right! She's already protected by the spousal Visa... Either way this Marriage goes... Bilal is financially responsible for her! I'm surprised Bilal was OK with this!!!
Shaeeda you can live like a queen in Trinidad .try if this what you want.
@@evanjuleen q]
Shaeeda is such a sweet kind hearted lady! Full of elegance,,and class! This has to be the best I've ever seen them together but, she remains far too good for him.....
Exactly . Something about Bilal is not right.
He comes of shady she should run
She is going through so much arrogance from this dude is it for green card cuz My mother is from Trinidad there are good guys in Port of Spain🤫
@@maureengittens258 exactly 💯! She watching too much American TV. She bought that with the price tag hanging down! I don't feel sorry for her! Not one bit.
What? She's a money hungry how. Stop.
“Will it matter in 5 years?”
Melicia: “mmm yeah, that prenup will!”
Girl 😂
1 little side shade..😂...she did good overall
It’s beautiful that She and his mom really love and like eachother. It doesn’t always go that route.
Bilal's mom is such a wise woman. 👏
The biggest mistake shaheeda will be marring a man who wants to have power over you. It s his way or no way
Aww, his mom seems so nice. She seems like she is such a healthy person and non problematic. I hope they grow a strong bond together!
His mother is a physician
she is very level headed
The son is the issue he gives of a selflish dishonest vibe
AMEEEN YAH RAHBI 😍
@@dreadxplayzs7849 undercover shady. & not handsome or charming
She deserves So much better
Why would you knowingly have a kid with a narcissist. The potential for psychological abuse is crazy.
I knooow!!! Everyone's here thinking how sweet he is... He's that good at manipulating people... Damn! And he's going to continue manipulating her like that until it's no longer subtle ..
Are you suggesting his other two kids that have been featured on the show have been crazily psychologically abused? 🤔
The first wife knows this better..or rather, can answer this much better 🤷🤦
potential? it’s already happening
desperate
She has to beg him for a baby !??? Wow he has nerve
A choice rather.. It seems as if she is doing what most women do... Force things too much
I’ve doubted her from the start cause she seems to be more in material thing and it’s good that Bilal protect himself in anyway. She is in love with what he have and that wouldn’t end well so prenuptial contract is the only way to go. Wish them all the best.
of course Shaeeda is even gorgeous when she's sad
She's so beautiful, I look forward to her outfits every episode loll!
Hands down Shaheeda and the mom was the best moment. Genuine and real!
Heart touching and beautiful ❤️
It would not surprised me if Bilal get a vasectomy without telling her and blame it on her for not getting pregnant.
Ohhhh. That will be an evil thing to do..but it's something he is definitely capable of👿👿
Nope, y'all are haters. I think he's a decent, honest man
@@miriamh2551 Lol well, I pray for your emotional well-being if that’s who you would choose as a partner.
@@diamcole praise God, my hubby is wonderful, and I think Bilal is an honest, upstanding man too. He's just letting her know upfront what he wants & he isn't doing things secretly behind her back. I pray they have a beautiful marriage ❤️
Doubt that. Vasectomies are not permitted in their religion.
I need the scoop on what happened with Bilal and his ex! His ex says they’re friends and has the right to be concerned about his new relationship, but all Bilal’s family talks about is how much his ex hurt him. 🧐
Shaeeda is going to have her own business and a green card even though their marriage didn’t go well. That’s nice.
Bilial's mom gives great advise ❤️ she's going to be a good mother inlaw
I felt so touched by bilal’s mom ❤
The mother has wisdom that can be published in a book. She is calm, positive and extremely practical. A high value woman.
Are you talking about his EX wife?
@@shashamarie4760 the mother in law. The guys mother. Very very strong and intelligent lady. Now I see where does he gets his level headed behaviour from.
@@picklepoppers8223 ohhh-ok. I see. Yes, his mother is amazing. Not sure he has all of her calming skills.
@@shashamarie4760 he does. Otherwise he would not have been able to be so successful. He knows what he wants and is not afraid to set boundaries.
@@picklepoppers8223 I'm fine with boundaries. But tricking someone to get in a white van and a house that you no longer live in ia called "trickery ". Shady. He needs to stop playing with her emotions. Prenup is fine too, but she's gotta protect herself. He's ALL about HIM
She is disposable in his eyes.
I was one of the people who could not stand this man since that car ride..but at the same time i understood him wanting a prenup....however this scene has definitely made me look at him differently..I see a lot of people saying he don't want more kids and he NEVER said that. What he said was he didn't want to have a kid when they are still in the beginning stages. He want to make sure they have a chance of making their marriage and relationship stronger BEFORE kids come into the pic...and there is NOTHING wrong with that.
Great point on submission. I agree. Submitting to a GOOD man is not a BAD thing. Submission does NOT equal control. It’s just allowing your husband to BE the man. I’m not following a fool, the blind can NOT lead the blind; everybody will end up in a ditch child! If he’s shown he’s intelligent, responsible, strong, also caring and willing to compromise: I’M ALL FOR IT. He can be the HEAD, but I’m the NECK…the head can’t turn without cooperation from the neck😂😂😂. You ever had a stiff neck? 😂😂😂. You have to turn your whole body just to look to the left😂😂😂. All jokes aside submission is not a dictatorship, it’s a partnership. I’m 26 years into my marriage and I have no problem with submitting (to a GOOD MAN). I prefer my husband being in the leadership role, that’s just me though. Do what works FOR you.
Don’t like Kara’s personality at all but her Old Hollywood look on her wedding day was GORGEOUS.
I'd love to meet the person she thinks she is ... Her ego is off the charts ...
One thing I like about Shaeeda is that she is up front. You’ll never have to wonder what she’s thinking.
The mother conversation is so great!! Wow yes real talk. Mothers have the life experience and know their sons.
Melicia ... Being wonderfully diplomatic 🤗 and sensible for 18 minutes straight 👌
Yes Melicia! I really appreciate how you acknowledged and addressed this difficult conversation while remaining the beautiful, strong, independent woman you are and while being equally diplomatic yet true to who you are. 👍🙂
@@paulabrault301 Exactly !
That means Mohammed’s mom don’t want him back home. Hahaha kiddin 🤣🤣
Lol..exactly
Secure that citizenship
in their they don't marry an old woman he just wants green card after to run away from her
But 💯😉
I want to be Shaeeda's friend so bad. She seems like such an empowering person to have a relationship with.
I Love his Mom 💗 she's such an Amazing Blessing. I Love her soft & wise voice.
Her advice and the way she speaks reminds me of Maya Angelou
@@julief2830 Yes!!! She's Very comforting & compassionate!
To Shaheedah I would say be careful and don’t fall on the sword too much after one tender conversation with his mother. Know this, parents will MOSTLY side with their children. He may be a good man right now so to speak according to his mother but that doesn’t mean he’s for YOU…❤️
Oh my..this is an accurate statement. She took what his mom said and literally ran with it. She needs to tread lightly..and follow her own gut.
The mother trained him well. Like mother like son. Shaeda needs to be having this conversation with her own mother. Why would his mother serve against his interests in favor of yours?
Also...I think Bilal is someone who could've definitely benefited from therapy. You can see this push and pull within himself. (Unfortunately there's still a stigma around therapy and mental health in some communities, especially when faith based where "pray it away" mentality is strong. Both are important in my opinion. I have noticed this stigma is fading thankfully)
I actually never thought he was a bad guy in the first place...but Shaeeda was right to say she is paying for the damage someone else caused in some way. Hopefully they are happy and healing together.
Shaeeda is being manipulated big time. Submission does not mean neglect your needs. It should go without saying that the prenup should benefit and protect her as much as it does bilal. I really hope she doesn’t completely lose herself in this marriage listening to the advice of others
The prenup HAS TO or it’s void.
How is a prenup going to protect her she don't have s*** to protect. Y'all always want broke ass women to benefit from a marriage when a rich woman won't even entertain a broke man.
Shaeeda represents my country very well.
I don't feel like shaeeda has ever asked for too much but my goodness Bilal has gone way too far several times, "testing" her w his old house and getting mad when she asked for equal legal representation in reviewing the prenup, the fact the prenup is so one sided, letting his ex show up to talk shaeeda into signing it 🙄🤔. Him not respecting the award winning business she had already built back home.
Thank you Melissa 😊
Luv your breakdown.
Emily needs self awareness!!! She will end up driving every husband she weds, AWAY! NO man wants his wife to treat him like he’s a child! Let a man have his dignity for crying out loud!
She needs to find her feminine energy. She s too masculine, energy and vibrations, and by the time Emily does. Kobe will be out of the door, gone.
Shaeeda has no business in the US with narcissistic Bial. She's never been married and has no children. There are plenty of single childless men in the US that she could've hooked up with to have a family. Bilal doesn't want anymore kids. He just doesn't want to be without companionship.
No, no, no!
This is a great example of a woman making the wrong decision because their clock is ticking loudly and they’re desperate for a ring and children.
Bilal’s sister is joking. Look at her. That’s probably his mom’s dress.🤣🤣🤣
Bilal's mom- Wisdom, Strength, Tenderness
Before she turns 40 ? Why wait that long ? Getting pregnant at 38 or 39 sometimes won't be that easy anymore
She's already I think 37 or 38
@@pierr6496 so should be now. I have two friends who both had a hard time getting pregnant at 35.
The viable egg count drops drastically after age 35, and infertility, miscarriages, birth and genetic defects (i.e. Down Syndrome) increase. At age 37/38, Shaeeda might want to freeze some of her eggs like NOW.
@@simpaticaafilipina I think the point is if they start trying, let’s say a year after marriage when she’s 38, it might take two more years of trying to get pregnant regardless. Not that they start trying when she’s already 40
@@simpaticaafilipina I think you misunderstood, basically it’s before she turns 40, so she’s saying she wants to start immediately and not wait for him to make up his mind
Submission can mean so many things.
Guillermo was super cute dancing. He is in love! They seem to be genuine. A blessing on your house Mazel Tov! Mazel Tov!
he’s so toxic, she needs to get out of this asap
Submission is all about trust. I submit to my husband when necessary, I push back when needed. But at the end of the day I allow him to lead because he has my trust. I know that he has our best interest at heart.
Omg Malecia, I love you even more after this episode and after what you said about submission, oh what a triggering subject. You are so smart what you said makes perfect sense, thank you a tiny piece of healing has been done through your words. I greatly appreciate you 😌 I hope you feel through my comment what this means to me.❤
This is what my sister always say: women love the status of getting married, marriage is not about the ring its about what happens afterwards, the after. She exactly knows she's marrying a psychopath. She's unhappy as a gf what the hell makes her think she's gonna be happy as his wife?
Absolutely right!
She’s desperate and wants a rich lifestyle.
The mom gave really wise advice. I had to rewind it a few times
Me too..!! 😹
I also wrote it down in my notebook.!!
His mother is a touching lady because she's knowns when their get hurt and she's try to be the best mom that gives her children advice.
Mama said don't bring your ass back here. She on vacation time.
Thank you for your calm and respectful discussion, Melicia! This would not be a situation that worked for me, but as the saying goes...if they like it, I love it.
Her advice just helped my married ass too lol I love some good parents advice nothing better than that
I like how his Mom speak very slowly and teaching her some important lessons
I like your show, you make really insightful comments and you seem genuine. Keep up the great work.
He has the personality of a dial tone ...
the mom seems like such a kind, warm person. I'd never personally marry into a family where women are taught and expected to submit to their husbands lol. but hey... to each their own. they aren't hurting me.
I understand the compromise but Bilal is manipulative I don’t know I feel like he will invest in her yoga studio and if things go sour he’ll take it away from her. Mohamed just wants that green card he clearly does not care for compromising at this point I think his mother is like take this this opportunity or come back to little opportunity in Egypt.
Yep that summed it up well
I think you're being negative and thinking the worst of others intentions. Give the guys a chance, I wish these couples the best
Wise words about relationship from a elder . I myself will take into consideration the advice she gave .
Bilal sent his mom to manipulate shaeeda and she truly fell for it
In our culture his mom become her mom the mom needs to be impartial...
Plus in their religion submission is important...
That is why dating is important why would you marrying someone who don't know what they are doing?
I’m just saying!
Yup lol
I'm glad he is compromising and can see things from her point of view.
I Absolutely Love the HOST OMG! She's perfect for 90 Fiancé Recaps
Not the Mom gaslighting her into marriage 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
Girl RUN I don't know why I'm getting such a bad feeling about this relationship. I want the best for her but something feels so off
all i wanna know is what brand of lashes shaeeda is using
Girl, your hair and makeup are always on point!!!
Her reaction to that dress 😂😂🤣🤣
She didn’t hold anything back!
lol, I remember how my husband wanted us to get a prenup cause he had divorced friends that said every couple should. I was like: hell no, I'm poor, you're poorer, we have nothing to secure. So we got married without one. Still happily married. But it's good and important to agree on the major subjects before marriage. Things like children, jobs etcetera, so the convo is more important than the document.
“I’m poor and you’re poorer”
Guuurl I’m dead 😵
He should've stood his ground. Women are totally different during divorce 😂
Submission works if done correctly! If the man treats you like a queen, then why not?
Melecia is like the perfect BF in my head. Love her commentary
Why would the sister not follow her design for her wedding dress and then tell shaeeda that sometimes customers don't really know what they want ummm No she told you what she wanted and you went and did something else and gave her that ugly dress just days before her wedding if you couldnt create what she wanted you should've said that
Bilal looked terrified at the idea of another child
i heard a rumour saying Bilal got a vasectomy and can't have any more kids anyways 👀 that's messed up if he did and should null and void the contract agreement
I came across your channel and I'm absolutely hooked!!!
Ugh they did Shaeda dirty with that crying face of hers as the thumbnail...
Bilal mom Mansha’Allah she is good mom, May Allah give her good health and long life.
Yesssssss loving the hair cut.
I can’t believe she would sign that 🤦🏼♀️
His Mother is dropping some gems.
She deserves way better.
Submission is beautiful 🥰 but the men have to prove he can lead and make good decisions as the head of the family. And a women only is submit to her husband not no boyfriend or just any men she with . I understand shaeeda submitting but I hope she understands it don't mean you says yes to everything and goes along with everything. you have to have person hood. Don't make marriage your everything. Or revolve your life around your spouse. After 7 years of marriage I learned the hard way.
There's something about Bilal that seems off and just doesn't sit right. But I hope I'm wrong and that they have a happy and healthy marriage.
I just love his mom!!
I liked that they were able to come to a compromise on the prenup. Good for them and yes I want to see that wedding too because they'll look amazing.
What compromise tho? 😂
@@MissOnai_SouthAfrica Shaeeda including clauses to protect herself and him accepting her amendments, simple enough for you?
Did they marry?
Bilal's mom seems like a sweet lady, but oof, so much of her "advice" was so problematic, such as her perpetuating the flawed idea that men are divinely anointed with special qualities, skills and wisdom that women do not have, which allows men to hold positions of authority in home, but not women. This patriarchal notion has kept women down for millennia. His mom was (maybe unknowingly) gaslighting her - telling her to submit, that the woman doesn't always have to be right, men can have less tact when speaking etc.?! Basically telling her to ignore the pit in the bottom of her stomach that is telling her she's being mistreated and accept him for all his flaws, because he's allowed to have flaws but wives cannot. Terrible, terrible advice. Shaeeda is also naive to think that just because his mom was married for a long time means she had a great marriage. It could just mean she stayed quiet and "submissive" while being treated unfairly. Why is it so hard to accept that women and men are equals?!
Religion.
@@bandito241 seriously.
I think Sheeda looks much better in the pink than the dark red in her interview. The lighter color compliments her well
That sister is a GEM
This young lady articulates herself so well. She makes me proud to see her on television. A positive intelligent women!!!
Love the compromise. Experience tends to bring guards for sure.
Shaeeda run for your life. That marriage doesn't look good.
Marriage is hard already and Bidal omg good luck girl I'm routing for you sis.
Another great read melicia girl! We agree on the submission thing as I will not follow no man into a ditch. The man has to show you he can lead before I will follow so for me he must have a sincere strong relationship with God & he can start to show his leadership while we’re dating. Don’t wait until you are married because that’s too late. IMO. Also glad to have a couple from Kansas City. I want to be on this show so bad.
I agree with the strong and tender part
If it's tough in the begging, I sweat to God, shit will never work out, she needs to leave and have peace. Crying out of pain in a newly marriage is a no no!!
What is wrong to be submissive to a good man ? If he’s doing everything he suppose to im all for it
You’re Right, I just hope he doesn’t change on her right after she signed it
i like the advice on asking sure you don’t take their manhood away. Kobe needs his woman to listen to this. Being submissive to a good man means the man steps up and is not a child
Key word… good man
Healthy relationships include compromise... not if one or both are submissive to each other... using toxic controlling terms like submissiveness are huge red flags.
@@Azucarmelove Agree.💯
Ah old lady dres lol ..Shaheeda you sound like a real trini girl to the bone🇹🇹👍
Stuck with a narc for life good luck