When Shaeeda told the ex you came into my home the ex said “my home” then corrected herself “your home”. That spoke volumes that she has not accepted the fact Bial has moved on and has a new wife.
The ex wife was interrupted and then cut off and dismissed when new wife did not hear what she wanted to hear. That's why me and my ex have a strict rule our new significant others meet just to.know who each other is as far as our relationship and how we co parent we will keep.moving the same. My new partner and my ex new partner does not have to be friends for the kids sake we parents need to be friends for the kids sake.
@@candace9560 She's definitely married and even has another child with her husband. All that energy that she's putting into her ex husband, she should be putting into her own marriage.
His not coward, he just don't want the ex wife get back to him. Remember they have children. I was in that situation. Its sad we women we are in control 😢..
The WIFE stood up for herself while carrying herself with dignity and grace. I am proud of how she handled the situation. The ex wife is just bitter and jealous because she does not have access to Bilaal money.
@@PORTERGYRL She still handled the situation very well. Shadiah been disrespecting her from day one; the wife deserves an apology. The ex wife knows she is dead wrong!! When she does something malicious she always displays this evil grin. The first time she met the Shaeeda, She even stated she didn’t come to play no games and hoped to ruffle her feathers. The ex wife knows what she is doing. I see right through her.
I doubt it. they look just alike 😂 . but I do think she's use to controlling stuff with Bilal and it's hard for her to stop now that there's someone new
As an EX WIFE, it is no longer her business to look out for her ex husband. Let the man go and move on with your life. You can co parent from across the country.
Yes. Can’t control his money anymore. If she is worried about what the kids have she should work hard and attain a small fortune for them instead of depending on him.
@@chanellee9762 yes that's what she is most concerned about..even when speaking to the Wife..she said "I have been here"..she definitely stuck on stupid!
Hey but it very heartbroken to see the man who was once your husband belong to another woman why does Bilal leave the mother of her children's for this lady
His ex-wife is too invested in their marriage. It wasn’t her place to bring up the prenup to her. A disrespectful person like that will continue to disrespect you until you check them.
Why can't Bilal tell Shahida to stay out of his private business with Shaeeda and get her own business with her own new husband? Or is that too much like non-triangulating right?
@@oscarjames43 OMG! Exactly!! He's such a narcissist. Sitting there the whole time and not saying ANYTHING to defend his wife. Just despicable. This is what he wants.. everything and everyone is just supply to him.
@@oscarjames43 He must have brought her into it. His sister and mother also had something to say about the prenup. The prenup should have remained a conversation for the two of them and their lawyers. All other parties should have trusted that he would protect any interest they had (ex included, on behalf of the children, of course).
You can tell Shaeeda was holding back tears in the mist of the argument 🥺 My family is from Trinidad & Tobago so I liked Shaedda from the start but seeing how she handled herself here makes me like her even more. Lord knows if his ex wife was dealing with another Trini women she would have gotten beat up on national tv 🤦🏽♀️
Yes she doesn't know Trini woman and they love to fight and see the new wife looking all cool and calm that's how some are but don't be fool they will beat the scrap out of you.
She is not portraying a good characteristics of a Muslim woman all the great women in the Quran in prophet Muhammad pbuh times would never that why I have to say what type of Muslim is this she humiliate herself and Islam but Our Trinidadian Sister showed the world the true Islam Wallahi long time a imam or a shaykh or a mufti done check that long time imagine I'm sure she does watch Khalid Yasin Islamic Lectures and Mufti Menk Islamic Lectures what a total shame
Yes...too aggressive to threaten her..it's deeper for sure that's why she needs to see her way out of their relationship and Bilal need to step up for his wife more..the Ex went to far period in all her actions!
Bilal is to blame for the issue between these two women. He has no business consistently going to his ex wife and telling her his business with his wife. He welcomes her into their business. Then he wants to sit and pray when it goes left smh. Typical
This is what I thinking, since the beginning when he told is his ex about dating/marrying Shaeeda she was never cool about it.Plus if anyone remembers the ideal of the pre nup was really the ex’s ideal not Bilal’s he just went along to get along. This why there is drama with them now. I don’t think that Bilal realize what affect telling his ex that he found someone else had on her nor did she realize how it would her as well.
I can’t believe that Bilal is blaming his wife and saying that he’s disappointed in HER behavior!!!!! He needed to shut his ex down. She’s the one that stood up and became aggressive!
Exactly. He should be disappointed in himself for not protecting his wife. That's what a husband is supposed to do. He continues to neglect and disregard her feelings.
It takes two to tango. Yes, the ex wife lost her cool, but Shaeeda’s aggressive disrespectful tone to wards her when she said she wasn’t here to apologize was what triggered her. I believe Shaeeda’s words were just as hurtful as the ex standard up and shouting. We shouldn’t dismiss her behavior and I believe this is what Bilal was referring to.
LMAO I lost it when Bilal started to pray 😂 he was trying to remind them of their values but that shit didn't work. I hope his ex watches the season and actually SEE her behavior but hunny you're looking like a horrible person! As a fellow introvert I wanna say I'm so proud of Shaeeda for standing up for herself and still keeping her composure.
Bilal is something else. He is the culprit but of course he needs to make himself look like the humble good example when the fireworks go off that he himself started. What a child.
@@chanellee9762 lol you're right. He needs to set boundaries with his ex. She's that bold because he's given her the green light and now he's upset they're clashing smh
Good point, you can learn a lot about a person by watching how they conduct themselves during confrontational situations. Bilal believes that perfecting his exterior he can hide his fragile interior but in times like this, you can see right through him.
Bilal be a man and put an end to this disrespectful behavior towards your beautiful wife. There's a very good reason why she's with another man, she's not your wife anymore, she should go home to her new husband and manage her affairs there. I know you're smart enough do good with your kids she can also do something for them too
I am shocked that she conducted herself as such as a Muslim woman. Whether she was Christian or some other faith, when you seem as devoted as she was trying to seem, then that behavior is unacceptable
@@bubblephobiaoftheshire absolutely! That’s why I’m no longer a Christian! To demean the hungry,or the homeless in the name of Christianity I had to bow out! But,let’s remember,this is all done for RATINGS! The more they argue the higher the ratings!
Shaeeda has more class in her little finger than the EX (Shahidah) has in her whole body! Shaeeda is so composed and full of self-control, if I had been spoken to like that I would have been all over the Ex before she even had time to cry it was about to go left! Shaeeda just needs to learn how to stick up for herself like that with Bilal!
When Shaeeda said she was about to band her from her home you can tell the ex wife was about to say, "band me from MY home?" As if she is still the wife.
yeah the ex is so bitter. Shaeeda needs a friend like me bc i would’ve stood right up too. you’re not gonna try to intimidate and talk to shaeeda like that.
The ex wife isn't jealous, Sheeda said "My house". This house belongs to the kids. She wasn't there when he bought the house and she doesn't pay for the mortgage. The ex has every right to be upset. Protect your children's generational wealth.
Bilal the moment your ex stood up and threatened your WIFE with violence, you should’ve shut that down immediately! You embarrassed her on a global scale by taking your ex’s side and provided her with the reassurance she needed to continue to bully your wife by treating her like an outsider. I hope you feel ashamed.
Shaeeda...I know their names are way to similar🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️...but, yes the ex-wife needs to go home to her husband!...I wonder where he is and what he thinks of the whole situation.
@@ilovegoodsax That is her marriage home. It is her place of residency as his wife. When he married her it became hers as well. She may not have financial stake in it, but if she starts working and there is a mortgage that she will help pay, she will be rewarded in Divorce.
Exes with kids always feel some type of when the man marries or remarry (it’s worse when they secretly haven’t moved on). They use the opportunity of the kids to ruffle his new relationship, always wanna poke nose in the new family they are no more a part of. U can tell they are jealous despite the fact that they don’t necessarily want him back.
Bilal's ex-wife is bugging. She overstepped boundaries even if she was trying to help and came out rude. Just say sorry and keep it moving. And the only reason why she is acting like that to Shaeeda is because she thinks she is weak and honestly wasn't trying to say this but she is jealous.
she definitely think Shaeeda is weak it'd sad...im disappointed in Bilal he needs to stand up for his wife. Can't believe this woman uttered shes from San Diego 😂😂😂
It actually takes a verY strong person to sit back and let a wild actin' hyena howl in their face, and it's apparent that the new wife (Shaeeda) proved exactly who the reaL weak woman was, simply by sippin' her drink and watchin' the ex-wife act a 🤡! Too many "Adults" in Cali are so obnoxious and often suffer from "Peter Pan" syndrome, meaning that they never grow up no matter how old they get-and their "set tripping/gangsta" behavior is one of the manyyy reasons why I don't miss that cesspool of degeneracy!! 🙃
Lynnette s I think Shaeeda should have had handled it the same time she was at the house but she wanted to aggravate the ex wife that's wth she plan to meet up with the ex she could have left it alone
Bilal knew the toxic ex before so why is this a surprise, I’m sure if you dig deeper he has had these confrontations before. I feel so bad for Sheeda caught being in between these two dogs!
Right, but then he's upset with his wife, I'm no sure why, she carried herself very well in the aggressive argument and then he's looking at his wife when he's telling her to quiet down what was she supposed to do just quiet down, it was apparent that Bilal wasn't going to have her back.
Coparenting YES. Being friends with whatever EX (girlfriend, wife) that belongs to the PAST is an absolute NO. It’s never working. If it was me, girl don’t threaten me. Cause we’re ab to get BOTH crazy lol.
These two women don't need to be friends. Cordial to one another? Yes. Futhermore, you can't tell someone to apologize, or "make" them apologize. Shaeeda was wrong there with her approach to that with Shadidah. I'd been pissed and said f*k that and f*k you Shaeeda! Who the hell are you to tell me I need to apologize?
I'm so proud of Shaeeda for standing up for herself. She's good representation for Trinidad and Tobago. If Shahida met a different Trinidadian things would've gone really left.
She’s so jealous and it’s obvious! She needs to mind her business and worry about her own husband. But Bilal is the one allowing this to happen. He’s a weak man or he’s still in love with her
The reason the ex wife feels she can act this way is because bilal laid the path for her to act as she pleases . She believes she still has a say so in his home. They share children not a life together anymore. A husband and wife both should never let someone else in their circle to disrespect one another.
She should have banned her, damn after that Bilal should be like you are banned from our home unless there's an emergency with the kids where you gotta come inside. Seriously, she was acting like Shaheeda had no right to say that like it's her home and Bilals. She's trying to act like she controls everything and is somehow part of their marriage. No the marriage is between those two not her.
His ex wife has 👀 look she’s about to reveal dirt on him if he doesn’t defend her. That’s the look she gives all the time they are together. I respect the way Shaeeda stands up for herself. It’s always respectfully and gracefully.
I'm sure she has step to him and put her hands on him in a very heavy way. What person under any faith will Stan in public or private and threaten someone. She need counseling....anger issues.
@@diamondsparkle9967 I CARE AND SO DOES THE WIFE AND HUSBAND. Ppl gets Damn offensive when the word ISLAM MUSLIM MASJID MOSQUE. SAUDIA ARAB etc... IS MENTION. You only saw one word and ran with it. ما زلت خائفة .. اقرأ وتعلم المزيد عن من نحن أناس متواضعون Thang. amka dunia sisi hapa
Lol, nah he got the dirt on her. Bilal has always been loyal, faithful, a man of faith, respectful, trustworthy patient, kind and yes a neat freak. (Military upbringing , but yall call it being a narcissist). The Ex rep in the streets is not of a Pious woman. She brags about the divorce, but truth be told she filed before he could, then tried to take it all and got denied in the courts. If yall pay attention, the Prenup is all about what he been through, not about not trusting Shaeeda (wife). Protecting him and his children from another crazy Shahidah! Funny how things works out, God gave him a 2.0 version of everything. Even a New Shaeeda ( their name means the same, pronounced differently) Shaeeda is the Upgrade. A woman of faith and virtue. She has nothing to worry about as long as she don't CHEAT. He almost missed his blessing, because of her name being a turn off to him. ALLAH is the BEST OF PLANNERS
Bilal is a typical man..his ego is building watching two women argue.But is ex-wife do not want the true trini to come come out,,she will be going right.I think she is jealous of the new wife.She has to understand she is theEX
Bilal should have stood up for his wife. He’s weak. Poor excuse for a husband. Then he has the nerve to take the ex wife side. The ex wife thinks she is more than what she is. And she’s not. She’s jealous and a piece of work. The ex wife has a nasty attitude, I can’t stand her.
Everyone is haling for the new wife because she is still young and beautiful but remember the ex is still human as well and she is still beautiful just a little older and Bilal had married her while she was much younger than the new wife and she have his kids so all she was trying to do is to protect them yes and who for an ex wife wouldn't want to do that but maybe she went about it the wrong way
I don't know what made the ex-wife think it was her place to address Shaeeda in that manner, especially after just meeting her. If you wanna talk about having things in place for the children, you talk to Bilal. She was acting like she wasn't a married woman and still wanted Bilal. She was wrong, and she definitely owed Shaeeda an apology.
From the moment you come into my house telling me that the kids have been here and YOU have been here... It would be a problem. She was trying to assert herself when she did all that and Bilal is the one that needed to set his EX straight.
@@kreole0834 yes he does, he needs to support his WIFE, at home, and in public. And tell the previous wife to stay out of his life. If he doesn’t, he’ll be looking for a third wife.
As an ex wife who's son has a step mother I can't even fathom this. This is so disrespectful on so many levels. It isn't my job or concern to "look out" for my ex-husband (he's an ex for a reason). If he's stupid enough to give his new wife everything that's his problem as by law he would need to be responsible for at least half of his child's financial needs. The only thing I worry about is if she's good to my son! That's it. Anything else between those 2 I couldn't care any less. Clearly the ex wife is a nosy control freak and needs to worry about her kids, not bilal.
Bilal is weak. He is afraid of his ex wife because she may threaten him with not seeing his kids. He needed to check his ex wife, who escalated the issues. Even if she didn’t think she needed to apologize for her “attitude “ she definitely needed to apologize for over stepping her boundary. Again though, that’s Bilal‘s fault. Goodluck Shaeeda. She was a class act.
The Ex has no business in approaching Shaeeda regarding a marriage settlement or any other issue in her relationship with Bilaal. None whatsoever. If she is worried about the future of their kids, she might discuss it with Him, not her. Shaeeda has every right to be upset about her behaviour and an apology is very due! As for Bilaal, his reaction was VERY disappointing, to say the least. Giving her the silent treatment afterwards, his own wife, shame on him!
As soon as they got married alimony stopped, y'all dont really see why she's mad. But thats it. She's worried about the money for her kids because its her income. She never approached the new wife as a friend she approached her as a threat.
@RescueAlwaysOfficial you're correct. If the person who receives alimony remarries, the no longer receive alimony. Now if the person paying remarries, they will continue to pay and in some states the new spouse's income will be included in the amount
Looking out for his well-being and best interests? That's shaeeda's job as his wife! Not you, an ex wife. She's bugging, rude, aggressive, patronizing and condescending towards Shaeeda
Why did ex-wife come alone? Why is she threatening the current wife? Why is she so triggered by someone asking her to acknowledge her rudeness that we all witnessed? lol
He shouldn't have allowed his ex to even speak to her in private. She should have only known that her children would be taken care of in the future. Nothing about the pre-nup or saying she's a gold digger. She's no longer married to him and should be focusing on her husband. He should have introduced her to everyone at the mosque and told them to respect her. It's all his fault and she does owe her a apology.💯
So you think you really know how it came about?! Nah he didn't set it up, production did. Yall so twisted and quick to blame Bilal. You don't know him or the family.
Exactly! There is no reason in this world that the ex should’ve had a conversation with Shaeeda about the prenup. That wasn’t her place - and she knew it wasn’t her place because she started the conversation with “It might not be my place to say this, but….” Ain’t no but. Mind your business. Her business was to have a conversation with BILAL about any concerns she had about their kids’ financial future - not with his new wife. And then it was up to Bilal to deal with his new wife about it however he chose to. The ex overstepped her bounds. And then got super ghetto at the coffee shop. Shaeeda definitely handled it better than I would have, because the minute she stood up and started acting all hood with me, I would’ve stood up and matched her energy
@@kreole0834 Ok playing devil's advocate that production had a hand in it then Bilal should have apologized and corrected it. People are quick to blame Bilal because he tries so hard to appear so together and present himself as a strong man. Yet if what you say is correct then he is feeble and easily manipulated and that is not a true man.
Shaeeda’s point was PROVEN! Bilal needs to defend his wife. Shahidah is just DISRESPECTFUL, COMBATIVE AND AGGRESSIVE!! I get he’s probably scared Shahidah will use their children as pawns because of her explosive pattern of behavior . She had NO problem threatening Shaeeda for asking for respect after being disrespected and having her feelings disregarded by a bully! Bilal has some nerve saying his wife had a defensive energy. She had a self protection energy because she knew her husband didn’t have nerve to do it. Shaeeda carried herself with grace and respect!!!
She wasn’t going to do anything. She had all the opportunity to do so. You were sitting right next to her. Hate when people show out and really have no action.
I love how she was met with “I don’t care where you’re from” and “you don’t know me either” lmao. Like those words are supposed to make someone quiver.
The ex clearly needs to worry about her own money/own man and let her ex handle his own affairs. If the ex really loved him she wouldn't have let him and the marriage. She needs to go worry about her own man and leave Bilal alone. The ex is clearly jealous and Shaeeda is the mature one. To be frank I think Shaeeda is physically strong with all that Yoga and probably could whoop the ex's a$$. The ex is all mouth but clearly Shaeeda is not even scared didn't even flinch.
@@dmess3735 Did you see Shaeeda hold her own body weight in Yoga. She probably can throw the ex like a little mouse lol. She is jealous that Shaeeda is beautiful and trying to get clout. She should worry about her boyfriend and kids.
@@canningscharles6392 lmao!! hilarious!! The ex reminds me of a little weasel. lmao like a mouse running all up in the house trying eat the New wife's cheese.
I think she's still in love with him too but she's the one who divorced him. So, either she didn't want to run back to him with her tail tucked between her legs when she realized she messed up or he has already expressed to her that they will never get married again because she chose to leave him.
Amanda Pedro you are wrong Shaeeda had no control in that point in time if so she should never answer her she should have shown the ex wife that she is a lady but she kept going back and forward with the ex she even call the ex a bully which didn't call for and you see her husband didn't even say anything because he felt so shock and disappointed in both of them
Shahidah needs therapy. She doesn’t realize she comes off as aggressive yet her grown self goes on to name drop the hood she’s from and threaten Shaeeda. She’s clearly having trouble letting go of the authority she once had over Bilal’s life and household. Shahidah came in there not wanting peace. It was clear in her facial expressions, then she completely let go of all self-discipline and made hood girl threats. Ma’am!! Meanwhile Shaeeda is calmly expressing her feelings . Shahidah embarrassed herself like this for what???
She also went into their first meeting not wanting peace. She even said she wasn’t there to play games. Yet, she doesn’t think she she did anything wrong 🙄
Because Shahidah did not come into Bilal's house ranting and raving with anger. She is pathetically trying to play victim and cause disharmony and disruption.
@Vivian Perry The directors and editors do make decisions to paint a particular picture of a person to create drama. Even asking Shahidah if she was going to apologize just to get her going before the sit down.
Yeah just like I called Pedro and everyone was riding Pedro’s wave. Shaeeda was distant from the ex wife in the beginning. She has plans to drop a baby and cry wolf then separate Balil from his children. For her to say ban her from Balil’s house says all. Some with this woman is off.
Ex is mad because the new wife is prettier and she ain't in control anymore. Have boundaries your the ex wife . Yes ur the mother of his children but your the EX WIFE! GET OVWR IT
his ex is distrespectful af, she needs to know her place shes the past, the fact that she even told bilal to get her like that's when bilal should of defended his wife and stood up for her.
Love shaadah. Sips her coffee, remains seated, and speaks her mind without a glitch. Yesss ladies. All the wives to the baby moms. Remain seated and sip ur coffee. Let her act a damn fool.
She’s such a beautiful, classy and lively woman. She should have stay in Trinidad, I’m sure she would have been much more happy than living in this toxic environnement with this narcisist guy and jealous ex wife
For me.. Bilal is most at fault for not standing up for his wife and standing up to his ex. The saddest part is that I think Shaeeda is gonn be dealing with that for a long time with this man
Bilal is truly and utterly USELESS. And his EX wife needs to get CHIN CHECKED REAL QUICK. Bless Shaeeda, she is very sweet, intelligent, classy and beautiful, she deserves so much more than this.
She's not an EX... in her mind. She is revealing why she is an ex by Bilal. There's much more she is not saying. Such as JEALOUSY??? Shaeeda voiced herself and attitude very maturely.
The Ex is disgusting and invested way too much in their relationship ‼ plus on the upcoming episode, I see that Bilal has the nerve to blame Sheeda for this blow up when she did nothing but response with grace when the ex was acting like an enraged hyena ‼
Gaurantee failed marriage... This dude is hot garbage.. Word of advice don't be quick to marry someone divorced with kids..... And you fight with a lot before marriage.
@@ZipporahRian44 He sat there and enjoyed them arguing. He keeps this triangulation going between them. He didn't even get up to defend his wife when the ex wife got up.
@@bellaapple2166 You're right this clip shows the entire meeting. Obviously we saw 3 % of what happened. Secondly he arranged the meeting, went with his wife and sat there. Rebuking the devil in God's name to keep the peace. Just say you're singel and bitter sis.
@@bellaapple2166 House, kids and husband here. That's why I doubt you comprehend how a marriage works since you display lack of critical thinking and a believe you can judge a man off a semi scripted show
It's crazy how she wants to claim south San Diego and how she doesn't know her but his current wife can say the same for you.! This chick is delusional, I'm worried about the kids having to deal with this mad woman. And the fact that Shaeeda stayed in her seat the whole time has me dead 😂😂😂 She knew she wouldn't bust a grape
@S. Módica I honestly don't know lol. That's the only SD I know of other than South Dakota, but who's repping the state like that? I was really hoping Shaheeda wouldn't marry him because of this nonsense with his ex. She's been rude and jealous from the start
I can't say I blame her for leaving Bilal. And I'm still trying to figure out why Shaeeda wants him. IMO Bilal's ex is jealous of the new wife. Shaeeda is elegant, beautiful, intelligent, sophisticated, kind, and classy. The ex is an Undercover Hoochie who needs to step off. She's probably even jealous of the relationship her children have developed with their Dad's new wife. The ex needs to get some business of her own and stay out of Bilal and his new bride's business.
@@keekssss the current wife stated multiple times to the producer and camera crew that she wanted an apology. Please rewatch Melicia's intro around 2:00.
The EX wife needs to accept the fact she no longer has any power in her EX husband’s decision making and simply be a co parent and that’s it 🤷🏽♀️
heavy on the EX 😂 YES
When Shaeeda told the ex you came into my home the ex said “my home” then corrected herself “your home”. That spoke volumes that she has not accepted the fact Bial has moved on and has a new wife.
Exactly we’ll said !
And they haven't been together for 10yrs believe me his ex wife is over this controlling neat freak .
The ex wife was interrupted and then cut off and dismissed when new wife did not hear what she wanted to hear.
That's why me and my ex have a strict rule our new significant others meet just to.know who each other is as far as our relationship and how we co parent we will keep.moving the same. My new partner and my ex new partner does not have to be friends for the kids sake we parents need to be friends for the kids sake.
The ex wife is just making herself look desperate, clingy and controlling. Shaeeda definitely spoke with grace.
She really is and am I tripping or was she married? Or doesn’t she have another baby with someone else or something??
Shaeeda is softly spoken and very smart. She knows what's going on
The ex wife should have not had a voice at all in Shaeeda's relationship with her EX-Husband. It's Not her life anymore
@@candace9560 She's definitely married and even has another child with her husband. All that energy that she's putting into her ex husband, she should be putting into her own marriage.
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She not once showed any respect for his new wife. And bilal is a coward for not sticking up for her! 🤡👎
That part 👍🏾
His not coward, he just don't want the ex wife get back to him. Remember they have children. I was in that situation. Its sad we women we are in control 😢..
He IS a coward, wuss, & etc.etc......I really don't know why either of them would want him !!!
@@ranaehood8805 🤑💰💵💸💲that’s why
@@healthylifestylemoi7197 it sounds like she would keep the children from him or if they have some sort of secret hanging over his head.
The WIFE stood up for herself while carrying herself with dignity and grace. I am proud of how she handled the situation. The ex wife is just bitter and jealous because she does not have access to Bilaal money.
That’s what you call divinity and grace being triggered by not getting an unwarranted apology so you began yelling
@@PORTERGYRL She still handled the situation very well. Shadiah been disrespecting her from day one; the wife deserves an apology. The ex wife knows she is dead wrong!! When she does something malicious she always displays this evil grin. The first time she met the Shaeeda, She even stated she didn’t come to play no games and hoped to ruffle her feathers. The ex wife knows what she is doing. I see right through her.
@@Chance754 OK
I totally agree...
The ex-wife is so TOXIC, jealous and MANIPULATIVE! Bilal be a MAN, keep her out of your current life! She overstepped her boundaries BIG TIME❗️❗️❗️
For this man to sit and just watch his wife be bullied all the time by an ex, says so much about him, lil boy
Yes!! He was stirring the pot and knew it was his running back and forth to each of them , that made this messy.
Well, God is in the heart, not in appearance....
It’s clear she’s so intimidated by the new wife. She made such an embarrassment of herself in that conversation.
I disagree 😂
Oh very clear...isnt she married as well? Shahida? Like go get yo mans and bye
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I doubt it. they look just alike 😂 . but I do think she's use to controlling stuff with Bilal and it's hard for her to stop now that there's someone new
As an EX WIFE, it is no longer her business to look out for her ex husband. Let the man go and move on with your life. You can co parent from across the country.
I know that's rt...🌺
Yes. Can’t control his money anymore. If she is worried about what the kids have she should work hard and attain a small fortune for them instead of depending on him.
@@chanellee9762 yes that's what she is most concerned about..even when speaking to the Wife..she said "I have been here"..she definitely stuck on stupid!
Hey but it very heartbroken to see the man who was once your husband belong to another woman why does Bilal leave the mother of her children's for this lady
@@frhidosMoutoukpaHe didn't she is also already married to someone else
His ex-wife is too invested in their marriage. It wasn’t her place to bring up the prenup to her. A disrespectful person like that will continue to disrespect you until you check them.
Why can't Bilal tell Shahida to stay out of his private business with Shaeeda and get her own business with her own new husband? Or is that too much like non-triangulating right?
thank you! She is his Ex, and there's a place for her position.
@@oscarjames43 OMG! Exactly!! He's such a narcissist. Sitting there the whole time and not saying ANYTHING to defend his wife. Just despicable. This is what he wants.. everything and everyone is just supply to him.
@@oscarjames43 He must have brought her into it. His sister and mother also had something to say about the prenup. The prenup should have remained a conversation for the two of them and their lawyers. All other parties should have trusted that he would protect any interest they had (ex included, on behalf of the children, of course).
Seems like shaida cares more about the kids than the mom does😭😭😭
You can tell Shaeeda was holding back tears in the mist of the argument 🥺 My family is from Trinidad & Tobago so I liked Shaedda from the start but seeing how she handled herself here makes me like her even more. Lord knows if his ex wife was dealing with another Trini women she would have gotten beat up on national tv 🤦🏽♀️
Yes she doesn't know Trini woman and they love to fight and see the new wife looking all cool and calm that's how some are but don't be fool they will beat the scrap out of you.
@@marilynb884 Exactly💯 Trini women are not to be underestimated lol
She is not portraying a good characteristics of a Muslim woman all the great women in the Quran in prophet Muhammad pbuh times would never that why I have to say what type of Muslim is this she humiliate herself and Islam but Our Trinidadian Sister showed the world the true Islam Wallahi long time a imam or a shaykh or a mufti done check that long time imagine I'm sure she does watch Khalid Yasin Islamic Lectures and Mufti Menk Islamic Lectures what a total shame
Exactly
Girl you talking all that big bad wolf crap and Shaeeda all calm but if you put hands on her she will rip you apart! Trust me!
If Shaheedah was so concerned about her ex husband's resources for her kids...she should've stayed married to him
The ex wife is aggressive, disrespectful, and angry.
She actually threatened violence.
Stop embarrassing yourself !!
Yes...too aggressive to threaten her..it's deeper for sure that's why she needs to see her way out of their relationship and Bilal need to step up for his wife more..the Ex went to far period in all her actions!
@Coffee Nut ☕️
Only when I need to be ✊🏽💪🏽
OK
Bilal is to blame for the issue between these two women. He has no business consistently going to his ex wife and telling her his business with his wife. He welcomes her into their business. Then he wants to sit and pray when it goes left smh. Typical
Yes yes n yes
THANK YOU!!!!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 and now he just sitting there
🎯 exactly he’s full of shit he need to put her in her place. He’s the one that made her feel like she has authorization to be talking to her like that
Exactly!💯 I think he gets off on instigating tension between his ex and Shaeeda.
This is what I thinking, since the beginning when he told is his ex about dating/marrying Shaeeda she was never cool about it.Plus if anyone remembers the ideal of the pre nup was really the ex’s ideal not Bilal’s he just went along to get along. This why there is drama with them now. I don’t think that Bilal realize what affect telling his ex that he found someone else had on her nor did she realize how it would her as well.
I can’t believe that Bilal is blaming his wife and saying that he’s disappointed in HER behavior!!!!! He needed to shut his ex down. She’s the one that stood up and became aggressive!
Exactly!
Exactly. He should be disappointed in himself for not protecting his wife. That's what a husband is supposed to do. He continues to neglect and disregard her feelings.
He didn’t want to blame his ex because he knows his ex will keep his kids from him. Everyone can tell she is one of those 🙄
they don't seem to be over each other
It takes two to tango. Yes, the ex wife lost her cool, but Shaeeda’s aggressive disrespectful tone to wards her when she said she wasn’t here to apologize was what triggered her. I believe Shaeeda’s words were just as hurtful as the ex standard up and shouting. We shouldn’t dismiss her behavior and I believe this is what Bilal was referring to.
LMAO I lost it when Bilal started to pray 😂 he was trying to remind them of their values but that shit didn't work. I hope his ex watches the season and actually SEE her behavior but hunny you're looking like a horrible person! As a fellow introvert I wanna say I'm so proud of Shaeeda for standing up for herself and still keeping her composure.
Bilal is something else. He is the culprit but of course he needs to make himself look like the humble good example when the fireworks go off that he himself started. What a child.
@@chanellee9762 lol you're right. He needs to set boundaries with his ex. She's that bold because he's given her the green light and now he's upset they're clashing smh
What is shit exactly?
Exactly
“so what” lmao Shaeeda is so unbothered by Bilals ex wife’s foolishness 🤣
Bilal is a punk, his ex is totally aggressive and hateful, and he has the audacity to be angry at his wife, his ex is TOXIC.
Good point, you can learn a lot about a person by watching how they conduct themselves during confrontational situations. Bilal believes that perfecting his exterior he can hide his fragile interior but in times like this, you can see right through him.
Bilal be a man and put an end to this disrespectful behavior towards your beautiful wife. There's a very good reason why she's with another man, she's not your wife anymore, she should go home to her new husband and manage her affairs there. I know you're smart enough do good with your kids she can also do something for them too
Don't insult punks. Punks are badasses. Bilal is just an ass
Yes!!!! Notice that he only addressed his wife and never made eye contact with the ex wife! At least not in the clip shown.
I disagree
I am shocked that she conducted herself as such as a Muslim woman. Whether she was Christian or some other faith, when you seem as devoted as she was trying to seem, then that behavior is unacceptable
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Remember she left Bilal ... what is she doing interfering in their marriage .... Greedy woman
Faith without works is dead.
"Trying to seem" says it all!
@@bubblephobiaoftheshire absolutely! That’s why I’m no longer a Christian! To demean the hungry,or the homeless in the name of Christianity I had to bow out! But,let’s remember,this is all done for RATINGS! The more they argue the higher the ratings!
Bilals ex wife completely embarrassed herself. Why is she even mad? She wanted a divorce. Move on!
That’s
Called baby mama entitlement .
The ex wife needs to find her own life and just deal with her kids. She almost said my home but caught herself and said your home
Shaeeda has more class in her little finger than the EX (Shahidah) has in her whole body! Shaeeda is so composed and full of self-control, if I had been spoken to like that I would have been all over the Ex before she even had time to cry it was about to go left! Shaeeda just needs to learn how to stick up for herself like that with Bilal!
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When Shaeeda said she was about to band her from her home you can tell the ex wife was about to say, "band me from MY home?" As if she is still the wife.
Lol yes. She is embarrassing.
Yes…I caught that as well. She’s definitely very entitled.
Exactly 💯
yeah the ex is so bitter. Shaeeda needs a friend like me bc i would’ve stood right up too. you’re not gonna try to intimidate and talk to shaeeda like that.
Yes indeed I would've stood up also. Throwing hands at her. Stopped that bullying on the spot.
Yes girl!!!!
@Bella would you stop already! Damn! Stop being thirsty! Go on
@@dstreet43 Right. So annoying. I just report as spam.
The ex wife is remarried and still jealous over her ex husband, his new wife and THEIR money 💀
jealous of what 😂😂 every problem she had with him is now shaheeda 🤷🏿♀️😂 and 90 day does not pay that well
The ex wife isn't jealous, Sheeda said "My house". This house belongs to the kids. She wasn't there when he bought the house and she doesn't pay for the mortgage. The ex has every right to be upset. Protect your children's generational wealth.
@@sugarpop4642 you don’t have to agree but that is HER house. As Bilals’ wife, that is her home.
His money but yeah she's definitely jealous.
@@lemonlemon7186 💯
Bilal the moment your ex stood up and threatened your WIFE with violence, you should’ve shut that down immediately! You embarrassed her on a global scale by taking your ex’s side and provided her with the reassurance she needed to continue to bully your wife by treating her like an outsider. I hope you feel ashamed.
This is the first ET host who actually made me smile let alone laugh out loud thank you so much Melicia 😍
SHe got mad when Shaeeda kept saying "my house" 🤣😂
🤣🤣🤣 Yup!! Sis was triggered asf!! 🤣🤣😭😭
She wanted Shaeeda to say our home.
Shaeeda...I know their names are way to similar🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️...but, yes the ex-wife needs to go home to her husband!...I wonder where he is and what he thinks of the whole situation.
Bilal bought that house before Shaeeda. It's not even her house, nor is it community property in a divorce.
@@ilovegoodsax That is her marriage home. It is her place of residency as his wife. When he married her it became hers as well. She may not have financial stake in it, but if she starts working and there is a mortgage that she will help pay, she will be rewarded in Divorce.
Shaedda definitely held her own. Wasn’t bothered. Love it.
"You don't know me either Shaedda"
I hope the Ex-wife know that West Indians don’t play either!! She is not scared.
@@saytumahsvillage1917 exactly. I've seen aa try to intimidate caribbeans and africans
Honestly, Bilal's ex needs to butt out. She's so disrespectful, and the way she spoke to the current wife was definitely disgusting.
Was Jibri right about them staying together?
@Dianne Ellis Trini women can get jazzy with it too.
His new wife is just as disrespectful she’s just a little better at being passive about it. The way she even looks at his ex is crazy
Exes with kids always feel some type of when the man marries or remarry (it’s worse when they secretly haven’t moved on). They use the opportunity of the kids to ruffle his new relationship, always wanna poke nose in the new family they are no more a part of. U can tell they are jealous despite the fact that they don’t necessarily want him back.
Yes. They always tryna prove sum. Like they want the new wife to know that she'll never be better than her
5:56 “then why did you come here?”
That burn tho🔥
The ex wife standing over Shaeeda with her hand pointing in her face. That’s all that needs to be said.
You hear me
YES! Her body language is speaking as loud or louder than what she says…
My bfs ex did this to me one day while speaking about me as if I wasn’t sitting there, let’s just say we are no longer cool 🤷🏾♀️😂
Bilal should have stood his punk ass up and directed the ex wife to the door.
Of course because she felt disrespected stop being soft
Bilal's ex-wife is bugging. She overstepped boundaries even if she was trying to help and came out rude. Just say sorry and keep it moving. And the only reason why she is acting like that to Shaeeda is because she thinks she is weak and honestly wasn't trying to say this but she is jealous.
she definitely think Shaeeda is weak it'd sad...im disappointed in Bilal he needs to stand up for his wife. Can't believe this woman uttered shes from San Diego 😂😂😂
@@dexxhax12345 😂😂😂Exactly!!! She’s a gangsta muslimah!!! How old is she?! Too old for this, westsiiiddddeee!!!🤣
@@1Loveneverends hahahahaa
It actually takes a verY strong person to sit back and let a wild actin' hyena howl in their face, and it's apparent that the new wife (Shaeeda) proved exactly who the reaL weak woman was, simply by sippin' her drink and watchin' the ex-wife act a 🤡! Too many "Adults" in Cali are so obnoxious and often suffer from "Peter Pan" syndrome, meaning that they never grow up no matter how old they get-and their "set tripping/gangsta" behavior is one of the manyyy reasons why I don't miss that cesspool of degeneracy!! 🙃
Lynnette s I think Shaeeda should have had handled it the same time she was at the house but she wanted to aggravate the ex wife that's wth she plan to meet up with the ex she could have left it alone
I love how his wife sipped her drink In the mist of the children's mother getting heated 😂
Right!!!!!!!!!!!! I love it
Total grace!. beautiful Woman. But don't underestimate her I feel like. The "bully gonna get hers day. Just saying
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Same!
That’s what pissed her off more!😂
If I’m Bilal I’m putting the ex in her place. You don’t speak to my fiancé like this
Shahida was wrong. She's the EX-wife and needs to know her place.
Bilal knew the toxic ex before so why is this a surprise, I’m sure if you dig deeper he has had these confrontations before. I feel so bad for Sheeda caught being in between these two dogs!
Right, but then he's upset with his wife, I'm no sure why, she carried herself very well in the aggressive argument and then he's looking at his wife when he's telling her to quiet down what was she supposed to do just quiet down, it was apparent that Bilal wasn't going to have her back.
Send that gold digger back home
Coparenting YES. Being friends with whatever EX (girlfriend, wife) that belongs to the PAST is an absolute NO. It’s never working. If it was me, girl don’t threaten me. Cause we’re ab to get BOTH crazy lol.
Right don’t tell yo man to get me you get me lol. She had plenty of space and opportunity and she chose not too
These two women don't need to be friends. Cordial to one another? Yes. Futhermore, you can't tell someone to apologize, or "make" them apologize. Shaeeda was wrong there with her approach to that with Shadidah. I'd been pissed and said f*k that and f*k you Shaeeda! Who the hell are you to tell me I need to apologize?
I'm so proud of Shaeeda for standing up for herself. She's good representation for Trinidad and Tobago. If Shahida met a different Trinidadian things would've gone really left.
The ex wife doesn't know about Trinidad.... taking about where she come from...😅😅😅
She’s so jealous and it’s obvious! She needs to mind her business and worry about her own husband. But Bilal is the one allowing this to happen. He’s a weak man or he’s still in love with her
That is the same thing I said
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@@radiantyc8001 exactly. From the time she stand up that would've been it.
The reason the ex wife feels she can act this way is because bilal laid the path for her to act as she pleases . She believes she still has a say so in his home.
They share children not a life together anymore.
A husband and wife both should never let someone else in their circle to disrespect one another.
You can tell when the rage started to set in when she said "banned you from my home" and then she said "okay"🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
She should have banned her, damn after that Bilal should be like you are banned from our home unless there's an emergency with the kids where you gotta come inside. Seriously, she was acting like Shaheeda had no right to say that like it's her home and Bilals. She's trying to act like she controls everything and is somehow part of their marriage. No the marriage is between those two not her.
I would ban her ass lol
She has that hand movement "up in here"
His ex wife has 👀 look she’s about to reveal dirt on him if he doesn’t defend her. That’s the look she gives all the time they are together. I respect the way Shaeeda stands up for herself. It’s always respectfully and gracefully.
I'm sure she has step to him and put her hands on him in a very heavy way. What person under any faith will Stan in public or private and threaten someone. She need counseling....anger issues.
@@khadijahd01 who cares ab faith...
There's a way to conduct urself in public and fighting is not it.
@@diamondsparkle9967 I CARE AND SO DOES THE WIFE AND HUSBAND. Ppl gets Damn offensive when the word ISLAM MUSLIM MASJID MOSQUE. SAUDIA ARAB etc... IS MENTION. You only saw one word and ran with it. ما زلت خائفة .. اقرأ وتعلم المزيد عن من نحن أناس متواضعون Thang. amka dunia sisi hapa
Lol, nah he got the dirt on her.
Bilal has always been loyal, faithful, a man of faith, respectful, trustworthy patient, kind and yes a neat freak. (Military upbringing , but yall call it being a narcissist).
The Ex rep in the streets is not of a Pious woman. She brags about the divorce, but truth be told she filed before he could, then tried to take it all and got denied in the courts.
If yall pay attention, the Prenup is all about what he been through, not about not trusting Shaeeda (wife). Protecting him and his children from another crazy Shahidah!
Funny how things works out, God gave him a 2.0 version of everything. Even a New Shaeeda ( their name means the same, pronounced differently) Shaeeda is the Upgrade. A woman of faith and virtue. She has nothing to worry about as long as she don't CHEAT. He almost missed his blessing, because of her name being a turn off to him.
ALLAH is the BEST OF PLANNERS
Bilal is a typical man..his ego is building watching two women argue.But is ex-wife do not want the true trini to come come out,,she will be going right.I think she is jealous of the new wife.She has to understand she is theEX
Bilal should have stood up for his wife. He’s weak. Poor excuse for a husband. Then he has the nerve to take the ex wife side. The ex wife thinks she is more than what she is. And she’s not. She’s jealous and a piece of work. The ex wife has a nasty attitude, I can’t stand her.
Everyone is haling for the new wife because she is still young and beautiful but remember the ex is still human as well and she is still beautiful just a little older and Bilal had married her while she was much younger than the new wife and she have his kids so all she was trying to do is to protect them yes and who for an ex wife wouldn't want to do that but maybe she went about it the wrong way
I don't know what made the ex-wife think it was her place to address Shaeeda in that manner, especially after just meeting her. If you wanna talk about having things in place for the children, you talk to Bilal. She was acting like she wasn't a married woman and still wanted Bilal. She was wrong, and she definitely owed Shaeeda an apology.
From the moment you come into my house telling me that the kids have been here and YOU have been here... It would be a problem. She was trying to assert herself when she did all that and Bilal is the one that needed to set his EX straight.
The ex wife needs to stay out of their business! Step-up BILAL,
You don't know what's been said in Private. He doesn't have to prove anything publicly
@@kreole0834 yes he does, he needs to support his WIFE, at home, and in public. And tell the previous wife to stay out of his life. If he doesn’t, he’ll be looking for a third wife.
@@janetstotler399 Bilal was married twice before.
Ok, Fourth. We may be seeing why!
I don't watch the show, I just watch your recap because your voice is so soothing and relaxing.
Stop simping
And she is beautiful ❤️
She's very entertaining.
Shaeeda is an accomplished educated woman. I think she's out of Bilals league.
Shaeeda was thirsty to get to the U.S. to try and level up her yoga game.
@@ilovegoodsax Exactly
She comes across classy!
She’s bitter
@@ilovegoodsax exactly! I see though shaheeda. 37 and never paid a bill but we're suppose to believe she ran a successful business 😂😂
As an ex wife who's son has a step mother I can't even fathom this. This is so disrespectful on so many levels. It isn't my job or concern to "look out" for my ex-husband (he's an ex for a reason). If he's stupid enough to give his new wife everything that's his problem as by law he would need to be responsible for at least half of his child's financial needs. The only thing I worry about is if she's good to my son! That's it. Anything else between those 2 I couldn't care any less. Clearly the ex wife is a nosy control freak and needs to worry about her kids, not bilal.
Why is his X- wife so Jealous!!!!!! She did devoice him 🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️
Leave that man & his NEW wife alone !!!!!
Why is the ex even in their relationship? She needs to tend to her own business!
Cause she Will not ger what she want anymore maybe he financial support her and she will not get it anymore maybe child support but nothing for her
I think she is also jealous.
Because he allows it. I think he’s still in love with her or he’s just a weak man
Because he wants her around him
The Exwife is so outta pocket periodtt
Bilal is weak. He is afraid of his ex wife because she may threaten him with not seeing his kids. He needed to check his ex wife, who escalated the issues. Even if she didn’t think she needed to apologize for her “attitude “ she definitely needed to apologize for over stepping her boundary. Again though, that’s Bilal‘s fault.
Goodluck Shaeeda. She was a class act.
Lol how is it weak to want to keep ur kids in ur life?
@@mSalam.30
Don't mind that foolish remark. And if he doesn't do that, they'll be quick to call him a deadbeat dad.
@@mSalam.30 so to keep his kids he has to belittle the current wife? And make her apologise to the manipualtive and toxic ex???
@@girlhappy6442 lol 😂 u have a talent in putting words in ppl mouth. U should get paid for it
@@mSalam.30 yeah and you should get paid for condoning violence by Shahida!
Yes girl..
Ban her from your home
The Ex has no business in approaching Shaeeda regarding a marriage settlement or any other issue in her relationship with Bilaal. None whatsoever.
If she is worried about the future of their kids, she might discuss it with Him, not her.
Shaeeda has every right to be upset about her behaviour and an apology is very due!
As for Bilaal, his reaction was VERY disappointing, to say the least. Giving her the silent treatment afterwards, his own wife, shame on him!
As soon as they got married alimony stopped, y'all dont really see why she's mad. But thats it. She's worried about the money for her kids because its her income. She never approached the new wife as a friend she approached her as a threat.
This!
Alimony stopped when SHE got remarried, so it was her decision. Him getting remarried doesn't affect it.
@@itscalledlogic7 right
Is that how alimony works? I thought it stops if the person receiving it remarries?
@RescueAlwaysOfficial you're correct. If the person who receives alimony remarries, the no longer receive alimony. Now if the person paying remarries, they will continue to pay and in some states the new spouse's income will be included in the amount
Looking out for his well-being and best interests? That's shaeeda's job as his wife! Not you, an ex wife. She's bugging, rude, aggressive, patronizing and condescending towards Shaeeda
They are business partners…
Ex is a loose untrained woman no wonder they divorce can see she aggressive also domestic abused him
One woman spoke with dignity, class, and articulated her feelings through her words... the other is Bilal's ex-wife.
I'm so glad the comments have my thoughts. This ex wife is seething with animosity.
Why did ex-wife come alone? Why is she threatening the current wife? Why is she so triggered by someone asking her to acknowledge her rudeness that we all witnessed? lol
Lunatic is probably jealous he’s now married to a beautiful woman and he’s happy❤️
Cause she’s gangster.
He shouldn't have allowed his ex to even speak to her in private. She should have only known that her children would be taken care of in the future. Nothing about the pre-nup or saying she's a gold digger. She's no longer married to him and should be focusing on her husband. He should have introduced her to everyone at the mosque and told them to respect her. It's all his fault and she does owe her a apology.💯
Juanita Holland! Well said, he's not even standing up for his wife❤
So you think you really know how it came about?! Nah he didn't set it up, production did. Yall so twisted and quick to blame Bilal. You don't know him or the family.
Exactly! There is no reason in this world that the ex should’ve had a conversation with Shaeeda about the prenup. That wasn’t her place - and she knew it wasn’t her place because she started the conversation with “It might not be my place to say this, but….” Ain’t no but. Mind your business. Her business was to have a conversation with BILAL about any concerns she had about their kids’ financial future - not with his new wife. And then it was up to Bilal to deal with his new wife about it however he chose to. The ex overstepped her bounds. And then got super ghetto at the coffee shop. Shaeeda definitely handled it better than I would have, because the minute she stood up and started acting all hood with me, I would’ve stood up and matched her energy
@@kreole0834 Ok playing devil's advocate that production had a hand in it then Bilal should have apologized and corrected it. People are quick to blame Bilal because he tries so hard to appear so together and present himself as a strong man. Yet if what you say is correct then he is feeble and easily manipulated and that is not a true man.
One of these days, Shaeeda’s gonna go Trini on all of them.
The trini will come out 🇹🇹🇹🇹
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What do Trinies do that is different? Pull out machetes?
Damn. dats gona hurt
TEAM SHAEEDA ALL THE WAY. THE EX NEEDS TO FOCUS ON HER OWN MARRIAGE.
Shaeeda’s point was PROVEN! Bilal needs to defend his wife. Shahidah is just DISRESPECTFUL, COMBATIVE AND AGGRESSIVE!! I get he’s probably scared Shahidah will use their children as pawns because of her explosive pattern of behavior . She had NO problem threatening Shaeeda for asking for respect after being disrespected and having her feelings disregarded by a bully!
Bilal has some nerve saying his wife had a defensive energy. She had a self protection energy because she knew her husband didn’t have nerve to do it. Shaeeda carried herself with grace and respect!!!
She wasn’t going to do anything. She had all the opportunity to do so. You were sitting right next to her.
Hate when people show out and really have no action.
Talking about balil get her naw bitch you get me lol since you want me lol
That part!!! Talking mo shyt than the law allows and cant bust a grape!! I wish the 🤬 she would. Get her ass ran up out of KC
Exactly she was all that talk and wasn't going to do a damn thing because I would have bet her ass when she jumped up and that's on PERIODT
I love how she was met with “I don’t care where you’re from” and “you don’t know me either” lmao. Like those words are supposed to make someone quiver.
@@chanellee9762 exactly. Girl sit down and let’s talk like adults
The ex clearly needs to worry about her own money/own man and let her ex handle his own affairs. If the ex really loved him she wouldn't have let him and the marriage. She needs to go worry about her own man and leave Bilal alone. The ex is clearly jealous and Shaeeda is the mature one. To be frank I think Shaeeda is physically strong with all that Yoga and probably could whoop the ex's a$$. The ex is all mouth but clearly Shaeeda is not even scared didn't even flinch.
She wouldn’t be allowed in my house anynore
The ex is proudly ratchet. But I agree, Shaaeda did not flinch. She would handle that ex.
@@dmess3735 Did you see Shaeeda hold her own body weight in Yoga. She probably can throw the ex like a little mouse lol. She is jealous that Shaeeda is beautiful and trying to get clout. She should worry about her boyfriend and kids.
Shes trini the pepper in her blood will have that ex begging for mercy.
@@canningscharles6392 lmao!! hilarious!! The ex reminds me of a little weasel. lmao like a mouse running all up in the house trying eat the New wife's cheese.
To be honest the ex-wife she looks like she still loves this Homer Simpson looking dude😂🤣😂🤣😂
I think she's still in love with him too but she's the one who divorced him. So, either she didn't want to run back to him with her tail tucked between her legs when she realized she messed up or he has already expressed to her that they will never get married again because she chose to leave him.
JourneyMan Smitty Your comment have me laughing so hard.I like the description "Homer Simpson looking dude"That is so funny.
The ex-wife only accomplished making herself look bad in front of thousands of people
Shaeeda has remarkable self control.
Amanda Pedro you are wrong Shaeeda had no control in that point in time if so she should never answer her she should have shown the ex wife that she is a lady but she kept going back and forward with the ex she even call the ex a bully which didn't call for and you see her husband didn't even say anything because he felt so shock and disappointed in both of them
Naaaa she has nooo self control at allllllll. She intentionally annoyed the woman.. and she knows how to push buttons period
@Amada Pedro Yes she does! I need to learn that quality myself!
Shahidah needs therapy. She doesn’t realize she comes off as aggressive yet her grown self goes on to name drop the hood she’s from and threaten Shaeeda. She’s clearly having trouble letting go of the authority she once had over Bilal’s life and household. Shahidah came in there not wanting peace. It was clear in her facial expressions, then she completely let go of all self-discipline and made hood girl threats. Ma’am!! Meanwhile Shaeeda is calmly expressing her feelings . Shahidah embarrassed herself like this for what???
She also went into their first meeting not wanting peace. She even said she wasn’t there to play games. Yet, she doesn’t think she she did anything wrong 🙄
Shaeeda, doesn’t need to lie in front of us. She is something else.
Shaeeda is definitely a spoiled liar.
Why do you think Shaeefa's a liar. I stopped watching early on
Because Shahidah did not come into Bilal's house ranting and raving with anger. She is pathetically trying to play victim and cause disharmony and disruption.
@Vivian Perry The directors and editors do make decisions to paint a particular picture of a person to create drama. Even asking Shahidah if she was going to apologize just to get her going before the sit down.
Yeah just like I called Pedro and everyone was riding Pedro’s wave. Shaeeda was distant from the ex wife in the beginning. She has plans to drop a baby and cry wolf then separate Balil from his children. For her to say ban her from Balil’s house says all. Some with this woman is off.
Ex is mad because the new wife is prettier and she ain't in control anymore. Have boundaries your the ex wife . Yes ur the mother of his children but your the EX WIFE! GET OVWR IT
his ex is distrespectful af, she needs to know her place shes the past, the fact that she even told bilal to get her like that's when bilal should of defended his wife and stood up for her.
Bile is the blame of this all. He and his ex is disrespectful. I love the way the new wife stood her ground.
Bilal most certainly Is "Bile"!!! 🤣
Not bile 😫🤦🏽♀️
The children are the only thing the ex's should be speaking of. Their new marriage is not her concern nor is the pre-nup.
Exactly!
Right!
His ex is a nasty piece of work! Hot headed and nothing but a bully! Awful example to her children.. 😫😫
That's where they got that introductory ggv flippancy, egged on by Bilal, from.
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Bilial was not praying, he was seeking refuge from the shaytan ( the devil). Only a Muslim would understand it.
The ex wife is so damn crazy and proves his current wife’s point
Love shaadah. Sips her coffee, remains seated, and speaks her mind without a glitch. Yesss ladies. All the wives to the baby moms. Remain seated and sip ur coffee. Let her act a damn fool.
To immediately resort to violence tells me all I need to know about the ex-wife. She's too grown to be throwing hands. Use your voice lady.
Yes me too. It tells me that his ex is extremely jealous of sheeada and insecure about herself the ex probably can't fight and would get her a** beat.
To ghetto to know how to do that. It’s kinda sad.
Ex wife has a husband and still looks jealous SMFH
You see how great the new wife looks. How well she dresses and all the flexibility video she post.
@@rihannahaiti5570 😪😴😪😴😪😴
my only question is: what’s his ex-wife”s business? leave them the F alone bro
The Ex- wife is not a nice person. Jealous is part of it.
She’s such a beautiful, classy and lively woman. She should have stay in Trinidad, I’m sure she would have been much more happy than living in this toxic environnement with this narcisist guy and jealous ex wife
She loves her life with Bilal.
She loves money! She wouldn’t and couldn’t have stayed in Trinidad for change
Trinidad has nothing to offer
For me.. Bilal is most at fault for not standing up for his wife and standing up to his ex. The saddest part is that I think Shaeeda is gonn be dealing with that for a long time with this man
He's afraid of the South Diego crew she's threatening with
@@Caribbeana😂
Bilal is truly and utterly USELESS. And his EX wife needs to get CHIN CHECKED REAL QUICK. Bless Shaeeda, she is very sweet, intelligent, classy and beautiful, she deserves so much more than this.
She's not an EX... in her mind.
She is revealing why she is an ex by Bilal.
There's much more she is not saying. Such as JEALOUSY???
Shaeeda voiced herself and attitude very maturely.
Bilal praying during the arguement had me crying 😂😂😂 I don't blame him either tho
😂😂😂😂😂 He had to rebuke Satan LOL
"I was ready to ban you from coming to my home" sheesh😂😂😂lowkey shots fored
That was a trigger statement if ever there was one.
Shots fired lol
Honestly! And then we look at the ex as if she is the mad person… the new wife is still and always have been a gold digger 🙃
@@palesasekhoto7316 It is her home….how is that gold digging? When you get married you become one.
@@palesasekhoto7316 Bilal sent the Ex to talk to Shaeeda about signing the prenup. I hope the truth is revealed soon.
that's not what happened new wife is Exaggerating that is not what happened. Ex wife don't apologize for nothing
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Sumits mom is acting like she's in an Indian Soap opera 😂
Sumit's Mom is very manipulative. Threatens to kill herself if he marries Jenny. Who does that? Sumit's Mom specializes in guilt trips.
ITS ALL HIS FAULT.. His ex needs to stay in her lane and he needs to stop telling her about their relationship.. he’s a weirdo
Either he is trying to keep the peace or he still sleeping with her. For him not to step in and not take control is just not good.
The Ex is disgusting and invested way too much in their relationship ‼ plus on the upcoming episode, I see that Bilal has the nerve to blame Sheeda for this blow up when she did nothing but response with grace when the ex was acting like an enraged hyena ‼
Oh no he sounds like a Narcissit.
Gaurantee failed marriage... This dude is hot garbage.. Word of advice don't be quick to marry someone divorced with kids..... And you fight with a lot before marriage.
Relax. He is not garbage. He literally rebuked the devil in the room. Harshness towards other translates in how harsh you are on yourself.
@@ZipporahRian44 He sat there and enjoyed them arguing. He keeps this triangulation going between them. He didn't even get up to defend his wife when the ex wife got up.
@@bellaapple2166 You're right this clip shows the entire meeting. Obviously we saw 3 % of what happened. Secondly he arranged the meeting, went with his wife and sat there. Rebuking the devil in God's name to keep the peace. Just say you're singel and bitter sis.
@@ZipporahRian44 You obviously are hurting inside you should take time to heal, instead of projecting your feelings onto others.
@@bellaapple2166 House, kids and husband here. That's why I doubt you comprehend how a marriage works since you display lack of critical thinking and a believe you can judge a man off a semi scripted show
It's crazy how she wants to claim south San Diego and how she doesn't know her but his current wife can say the same for you.! This chick is delusional, I'm worried about the kids having to deal with this mad woman. And the fact that Shaeeda stayed in her seat the whole time has me dead 😂😂😂 She knew she wouldn't bust a grape
@S. Módica I honestly don't know lol. That's the only SD I know of other than South Dakota, but who's repping the state like that? I was really hoping Shaheeda wouldn't marry him because of this nonsense with his ex. She's been rude and jealous from the start
THE EX IS IN THE WRONG
I love how she sat there and sipped her tea and it did not even faze her at all.
the way she is still so involved with her EX-HUSBAND is crazy! Girl, you're no longer with him, you have no say in who he dates!!
The ex- wife is out of line she has been disrespectful to Shaheeda. I blame Bilal he should have come to his wife's defense .
I can't say I blame her for leaving Bilal. And I'm still trying to figure out why Shaeeda wants him. IMO Bilal's ex is jealous of the new wife. Shaeeda is elegant, beautiful, intelligent, sophisticated, kind, and classy. The ex is an Undercover Hoochie who needs to step off. She's probably even jealous of the relationship her children have developed with their Dad's new wife. The ex needs to get some business of her own and stay out of Bilal and his new bride's business.
🤣🤣🤣🤣 at Undercover Hoochie!
You can't make people apologize to you or reconcile in the manner that you want. Sometimes you have to accept who they are & move forward accordingly.
Right she can’t make that woman apologize to her she should’ve known better that her personality is too strong to submit to that request
Exactly.
Amen
But she didn’t ask her to apologize she just wanted her to acknowledge that she came up in her house with some hostile nasty energy, which she did.
@@keekssss the current wife stated multiple times to the producer and camera crew that she wanted an apology. Please rewatch Melicia's intro around 2:00.