As a single man who struggles with the sins of the flesh.. i wasnt ready to cry this much.. i had seen this video in the suggestions and scrolled over it once.. i saw it again and decided to watch.. i know your just a messenger.. but i want to thankyou for this video and thank God for His Grace.. not sure where thay leaves me now.. but thats ok.. because im thankful to the end. GLORY AND HONOR BE TO YOU CHRIST THE KING 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
I just had a huge confrontation about my wife reading books containing erotic scenes and how it has crushed me for several years. While in the pit I was convicted to also tell her about my history of watching porn. We both got off track and when the enemy had a stronghold on my marriage, I took him head on and by the grace of God we had the hardest conversations in our 13yr marriage and I was terrified. We are dumping the garbage out and starting anew. We are withstaining from sex for a short time in prayer to reset the perversion we allowed the enemy to make it. I’m struggling through this extremely hard time and miss my wife’s touch and connection like crazy but I have more hope than ever and we are building an even stronger marriage. Praise God! We will get through this together and have a story to share and help others. The enemy will not destroy this marriage!
Proverbs 31:10-31, a good wife is a precious treasure who is a source of strength, support, and good advice for her husband: - your husband is truly blessed 🙏🏽
Very well done. May every husband treat his wife like the gift from God that she is. May every wife feel his love for her and may the both desire to please God
This video came at just the right time. My husband and I have been struggling and started reading the Bible together. I just read genesis 2 and 3 where it was talking about how God made man a helper. You really helped answer some questions I was having. Thank you.❤️
@@somethingwitty44 I’m so sorry to hear that. I would recommend talking to her about it, if that doesn’t go well just pray for her in this area ❤️ prayer is very powerful
Yes I agree, thats how God designed it to be. Unfortunately, were all sinners and many people sin in this area. Thankfully there is forgiveness for all ☺🤍
@@bustjanzupan1074 Wat? 0_o Then why marry and how do you manage to have kids? Your parents are more likely were shaming you about all that connected with sex, this is not normal.
Thank you for taking the time to create this message to share with people. Marriage is such a joy and you did such a fantastic job at highlighting the roles of marriage and the functions of making love. The lord is pleased with your spreading of the word.
Great job on this video. I'm a pastor and, when doing marital or pre-marital counseling, I share similarly. Couples today need to have a Biblical understanding of the husband/wife relationship, how to structure their home and finances, sex in the marriage, etc.
Two of the most important lessons I learned in Ephesians: If you want to be loved, you must be lovable; . If you want to be respected, you must be respectable. This principle carries into a host of other things but love and respect in a marriage is not a given by one partner or the other. It is a mutual thing...
Sorry. It’s not the end times. Most of the “end times” stuff in the Bible is about the destruction of the temple and the end of Judaism. Yes. The end. What’s passed as Judaism today is man made religion not what God ordained. A man with decades of pastoring and biblical lecturing has done many TH-cam videos on this topic. The futurist dispensational teachings of most churches. Is false. So. Not end times. Jesus said his 2nd coming would be like a thief in the night. And we are not to try and predict when this may be. Instead do good works until then. The signs and times stuff was for the Jews to realize when thee temple would be destroyed. Example. “When will these things be?” Jesus said “THIS generation shall not pass before ALL these things will take place” and roughly 40 years (approximately 1 generation) later, not one stone was left standing, the Jews who took Jesus words seriously ran. And lived. The “harlot church” from revelations being the unbelieving Jews. Died. Hundreds of thousands of not millions. It was a genocide. Exactly as warned. Further evidence. “John could have wrote revelations about that. It had to be the end of the whole world because he wrote revelations in 90ad. Not 65-69 ad” well. If so. Then John. Who was a peer of Jesus. So similar in age would have been 120-130 some odd years old at that point. If it was written earlier. Before the sacking of the city and destruction of the temple. He’d have been 80-90 some odd years old. Logical answer. Back to Jesus saying “this generation” literally their generation or some spiritualized generation of multitudes of generations? Again. Logic. Also Daniels prophecy. Told seal it up. For it’s not yet. 500 some odd years later John gets essentially that same prophecy and told don’t seal it up. The time is near. So “not yet” being 500 ish years before John’s “near” but John’s “near is 2000+? Again. I side with logic. All evidence when interpreted logically taking literally what is logical to do so and spiritually what is logic to do so. It all shows that you have to do all kinds of twisting and manipulation to make it futurist. Therefore today. Is not the end times. We wait for the return of Christ. Nothing else. It’s illogical to believe otherwise. Sorry if this upsets anyone. If anything it should bring peace. Work for the lord. Stay busy. And don’t fear a 7 year tribulation that is also not in the Bible. Revelation says 3.5 years twice but never that it’s 7 total. Just 2 things for 3.5 years. Jesus ministered and preached for 3.5 years. And then was cut off exactly as stated in Daniels 70 weeks. There’s no 2000+ year gap. That’s like say I live 10 miles away but there’s a 40 mile gap between mile 9 and 10. It’s just illogical. Jesus made a deal with the Jews. Believe in him and be spared. Then? He ended the sacrifices once and for all. After the death of Christ. Judaism and the sacrifices became illegitimate the next 40 years that was the harlot church. The synagogues Satan. Why would the modern church be called SYNAGOGUE of Satan? Again. It’s illogical to paint modern times as what the Bible was discussing. The Bible wasn’t written TO us. In modern times. It was written to the people its authors clearly stated it was written to. And it was written FOR our education in faith. Back to revelation. Who might have the wisdom to discern the beast today? Or is it more logical to believe that John. Writing in Hebrew. To Hebrew Christian’s. About Nero. In Hebrew so the Roman’s couldn’t spy and discover what John knew about Nero and what was to come. Hmm. Again. Sorry if this upsets anyone. But all logical biblical evidence says dispensationalism futurism. Is false.
Amen! A very good video! If more would really take on the biblical roles in marriages, instead of just looking at "what's in it for me", a lot of joy of/in marriages would be enjoyed. I totally support your interpretation and understanding of the wifes role in a marriage, I wish more wimen would listen carefully to your teaching of a biblical marriage! May the Lords blessings fill you and your familys holy congregation!
Nothing that I didn’t already know. But I enjoyed your post. It’s comforting to know there are others who desire to truly live according to Gods plan for us. God bless you and your beautiful family. ✝️🙏🕊️📿
Interesting video, i heard about half of it because i don't have time to finish it, but ill get to it. Sex isn't a bad thing, it's an art, its a beautiful thing designed by God the Father between man and woman. Sadly the world doesn't see it that way, the enemy perverts what God creates, he doesn't have the ability to create his own. Marriage is beautiful, i would say there is no wrong way with sex in the bedroom between a man and his wife, its suppose to be fun. Don't think you are free from lust, you'll always get tempted because of the flesh.
@@ahomemakersnotebook I think believers overlook this topic alot, they try too hard do the right thing. Like they try to do sex the perfect way. Sex should be fun, find what you like and don't like. Temptation, is another story it'll always be there. Paul said put on the whole armor of God, stay on The Word.
Scripture is spot on truth, when I was 10 I knew I would never marry, as Paul said “if single remain single” in this day of age marriage is a huge gamble and risk for men, because todays women refuse to take responsibility for their actions, and put all the faults on the men And the courts ruin men all for women’s happiness, emotions and lies, I’m single and remain such, I enjoy your insight and bless this ministry, if I was married this video is worth it’s weight in gold
well done ,j presented and Biblically grounded. MUCH NEEDED.... peace and God Bless...and yes it DOES not matter the gender....we ALL face the temptations...."as we forgive, so shall we BE forgiven" therefore , if we keep counts of wrongs..we are in UNFORGIVENESS....and therefore we WILL be held accountable for that....LET GO !! great perspective....
The word in Matthew 5:27-28 that is translated “lust” is actually closer to “covet” to want. When you get the feeling we all know is attraction the “wow that persons is really good looking” and maybe we blush a little that is sexual desire NOT lust. Lust is to a person sexually that does not belong to as. Even Matthew 5 is in the context of marriage because adultery is only in reference to a married woman, when a married man sleeps with an unmarried woman it is fornication not adultery. I highly recommend anyone who sees this comment looks to Berean Patriot. He’s very learned and has taught me a lot. Do not think that I say these things to justify evil. Sexual sin is very serious and so is calling something sin that isn’t sin. It is important to know the difference between sexual desire and illicit sexual desire. The run down is essential it is wrong to want what is bad. So what is bad? It is bad to want women out of marriage or a man out of marriage or a person who is not your spouse. To look at those people and want them is wrong but if a unmarried man looks at a unmarried woman in a respectful manner, seeing that she is attractive and thus thinks “she’s so pretty, I’m gonna approach and hopefully start courting her so she can be my wife” that is not a illicit desire and is not sinful.
It’s hard when you’ve recently had a baby and husband wants to start again then complains about it. It crushed me now I don’t know how to forgive him for certain comments and I do not want to do it again. Why am I the one who always has to forgive? I’m the Christian & he isn’t. We both weren’t when we got together but then I got saved. So now I just have to keep on forgiving? It gets tiring
Keep being virtuous because you will sanctify your unbelieving husband. 1 Corinthians 7:14 continue to serve the Lord and don’t deny your husband! I Thank God for women like you who endures for righteousness sake. God bless.
Where did you and your Husband meet? I want to meet a woman who loves Jesus Christ and not just someone who says that they are a Christian and has no relationship with Jesus Christ. Thank you for the video, sister.
Being abused at a young age sexually has programmed me to look at men like sexual objects I used to have a sex addiction problem which is why my husband doesn’t want me to talk to men god please help me overcome this I don’t want to look at life this way
Thank you sister 🙏🏻💕🌸🦋 very good thoughts. May Lord help us. Im not married jet. Im considering, praying ,since my partner isnt godly man, we are unequally j and in relationship celibacy 😢
So glad you enjoyed it! Seek God first and everything else God has for you will follow ❤️ I know it’s hard to hear, but if a man isn’t in relationship with God, you shouldn’t be in a relationship to pursue marriage with him. Your husband is called to be your head, but he can’t be your head if he isn’t under Christ. Christ should be his head - Christ should come first in his life. I will be praying for you and for him to encounter Christ and pursue him. if y’all are meant to be together, the Lord will show you ❤️
Dear sister, thanks for sharing. Its inportant themes. We should discuss all . Im wondering Im newborn four years ago, and I feel like Im dragging my partner in faith, but he resists, is lukewarm. We studied reading Bible together. Aldo he is good person, and he prays, he doesnt holeheartedly seeks Him. He wants marriage, but I think he wants from wrong reasons. Can he love me truly when he doesnt experienced love from God .? I want God centered marriage or non. 😔🙏🏼
I will be praying for you and for him to pursue Christ. I encourage you to pray boldly for him and his relationship with Christ as well. As Christ should be the foundation of marriage ❤️ If you are not meant to be together, God will show you, if you are I’m confident he will have a radical transformation. 🫶🏽 prayer is powerful
So even when your married and your thinking about your own husband it's a sin? Or just of your married and thinking of another man other than your husband?
I was unequally yoked. My ex wife cared nothing about God. She made me believe she did but she didn't. I trusted her and she turned her back on me. She left me and we're getting divorced.
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Its terrible. I can't have sex. The woman I married with she trew me out the house. You promote sex as something good, which it is, but many don't have it and that can be very very hard... I wich I had a solution for myself. One without masturbation. 🙄
I’m sorry to hear you’re going through that. Pray. Read your Bible daily & pray often. If you’re still married, I would suggest working on restoring your marriage with your wife.
We are going through the same situation. i have a daughter and son who are being affected. A man needs to take responsibility for his family and household it's your job to have a relationship with Lord Jesus. Remember, rejoice always. Take the time to reflect and refine your marriage. this can be the change you and your wife need. Pray and keep the faith. Love never fails!!!
many times the woman is frigid is because she was abused when she was young. very few women will admit that the abuse broke them and there's really no good councilors out there. it is a fallen world and lots of men and women get hurt. if 2 cor 5:18-21 is true and i believe it is then if you have to get out and start over then do it sooner than later just be sure to know your next wife's past before you fall in love again the happy wife school on you tube has some valuable info.
Im not married but if i marry I want to know, if we can use help tool to feel pleasure also some women cant have natural climax, should the women then just watch the men get satisfaction and the women cant have that nobody have answered this question.... Thats just sad then i rather dont marry then to lay an be tempted but cant do anything about it
@@YeshuaIloveuuu Hi 👋🏽 Good question. Studies show most women actually don’t climax from penetrative sex alone like men do. A husband should ensure his wife is also satisfied in this area and do what he needs to do to ensure her pleasure and climax as well ❤️🫶🏽 hope that helps!
@ahomemakersnotebook then that will be hard work for the man if you cant use vibrator or oral sex ..... :o sorry for graphic words , ❤️🙏 is vibrator okey to use in marriage bed
Why does God say if any man looks upon a woman with lust and not make it vice versa? We add the vice versa but he doesn’t say it. I find that interesting
It also is a bad translation.... when it says if a man looks upon a MARRIED woman with lust..... that is based on the actual law of adultery according to torah
@ so why is it used as the standard for even men? Is not a sin for men to look upon a woman to lust then? Or is it a sin? Seriously asking because I think we don’t question anymore. We just accept as a whole what is being told to us.
@KKTanaa if we take the definition of adultery given to us in torah..... then we apply it thru the entire Bible, and then adultery isn't something you can do by looking at a widow or single woman with lust (lust = a great desire for) because by definition, that woman isn't married. So, if the definition is based on the status of the woman, you have two options.... 1. understand the translation is bad and should read to look at a married woman with lust in your heart is sin or 2. change the definition of adultery to looking at all women with lust is sin..... but then we have to understand 1 John 3:4 sin is transgression of the law...... the law defines adultery by the marital status of the woman. Also, never once, do we have multiple wives or concubines condemned or called sin in the old or new testement, so having multiple wives or concubines isn't adultery, how can looking at a single or widowed woman be sinful...... plus, now if just looking at a woman is sin.... when you look at your wife with great desire (lust), you would still be in sin for looking at your wife ...... the lady trying to "teach" in this video should have never said, "Let's not get into a deep dive" ...... deep diving is the only way you lean.
@@KKTanaa you wrote: so why is it used as the standard for even men? I don't know Greek, but this applies to men and women, as both are made in the image of God, as stated in Genesis. Men and women are spiritually equal. “Do not presume that I came to abolish the Law or the Prophets; I did not come to abolish, but to fulfill. “You have heard that the ancients were told,... But I say to you... "You have heard that it was said,... but I say to you... “Again, you have heard that the ancients were told... But I say to you... “You have heard that it was said,... But I say to you... “You have heard that it was said... But I say to you,... -excerpts Matthew 5 -Jesus speaking of the fulfillment of the Law, speaking of how things are now different “You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery’; but I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart. -excerpt Matthew 5 Jesus explains that the standards are more difficult now. (The reader should check out verses 17-48). In this matter wanting to commit adultery is equal to physically committing adultery. By extension, wanting to steal from your neighbor is equal to stealing from your neighbor, etc. etc.
I agree with one of the commenters below saying that men and women are both created in the image of God and that it pertains to us both. Throughout scripture in the Bible “man” is often used to refer to us as a people. It means men and woman. Hope that helps ❤️
"Enjoy yourself in marrige". Husband and Wife. Do not go outside the marrige seeking an emotional and/or physical affair. Too many instances of open and secret affairs amongst "religious" married people, then some half ass confession and reconciling. Please speak plainly and hammer on those who have, or are seeking, affairs.
Sex was created when Eve was taken out of Adam. Children are created when man re enters woman they create life. This is why sex is the most important physical act a wife and husband can share. It is also what establishes amarriage that's why God hate fornication, adultery and divorce. A marriage is not just about sex . A MARRIAGE IS SEX. If Sex is experienced with Godly Love you can never be tempted. Remember JESUS .Satan tried to tempt Jesus but he couldn because Jesus was full of Love for his Father not to go against him. Love comes from the husband in the form of patience, kindness , gentleness even if the wife doesn't do her part and she will eventually respect him and submit. Also the husband is already submitted to the wife because of Adam. When Adam took the forbidden fruit from Eve knowing that this was wrong. This was when man submitted to woman . So now it's your turn women.. It's not a unreasonable request. God be with you and your family.
Godly, spiritual and biblical marriage and sex goes hand and hand, can't be separated into two different things. When a man and wife sleeps together. they become one and their souls are then tied together, like forever! That has always been God's plan and "design" for a sacred and holy bond between a man and woman. Unfortunately, worldly people( fools) separate marriage from sex and they think having sex and being fornicators, are not a sin cos they aren't married legally!! Don't get married legally with a ring and certificate, that is the Devil's evil way to give power in the wrong hands..it leads to all kinds of evil thinking and actions like anger, stress, depression, financial tension and conflict, jealously, trust issues, disrespect, envy, powerplay, division...even hate and murder. Legal marriages ends up in divorces and broken homes. Weddings was just good a very long time ago when there was still virgins that made those weddings(legal marriages) good. Churches, pastors and parents teach their children not to have sex before marriage, what a joke that is.. cos sex is the marriage. You can't have sex before a marriage, only before the wedding!! duh, please wake up all ya good people, don' stay deceived and stop following false religions, traditions and believes created by Satan thousands of years ago. Satan destroyed millions of legal marriages and divorces are now actually just a way of life and a lifestyle..in fact, it's cool to be divorced and Hollywood movies promotes it more and more.
now, when you take the biblical definition of adultery and then tell god he is wrong when you change the definition and rewrite it.... adultery definition never had "if you're single or married," and it never said man and woman.... adultery is clearly defined in scripture by the marital status of the woman
I think you misheard. I not once said God was wrong. I read from scripture. There are many verses where the bible talks about adultery. The verse I read, from the bible, does not matter on the marital status of a woman.
@ahomemakersnotebook nope, I heard fine.... and using the greek new testement without understanding the Hebrew old testement can lead to misunderstandings.... and adultery according to God when torah was given to Moses was based on the martial status of the woman..... to reinterpret it to mean all people, men or women, means you either changed God's definition or the English translation you have is a mistranslation.... so I will stick with the definition of adultery given by God to Moses.face to face at Mount Sinai...... there are dozens of verses in the Hebrew, Aramaic, and the Greek..... but there is only one definition given in torah and God does not change.
@ahomemakersnotebook it's not what I believe or don't believe..... it's what the book says. what did moses write adultery was = when a MARRIED woman has sex with a man that's not her husband or a man that has sex with ANOTHER MANS WIFE.... so yeah, a man can commit adultery if he has sex with another man's wife.... but if we are actually getting deep, the word husband and wife does not exist in the Hebrew language. a man covered a woman or a man possessed a woman.... a woman was covered by a man or a woman was the possession of a man, the more accurate biblical Hebrew translation.
@ahomemakersnotebook and to add.... it was more the culture and custom of the Hebrew people, if you poke it, you own it..... so to speak. a man has sex with a woman and refuses to keep her and cover her..... well that meant he made a whore out of her and he was whore mongering and as we are told, you shall not make whores on Israel..... as women where to he covered from cradle to grave..... from father to husband.
Read scripture, interpret it how you see fit, then use mental and emotional abuse to enforce your interpretation. If the people you know don't like it just start a new denomination and condemn them for worshiping satan and not the real God. Welcome to the wonderful world of Christianity!
I think that you forgot the real reason that Jesus died. Ephesians 5:26-28 26 He did this to make her holy by washing her in a bath of water with the word. 27 He did this to present himself with a splendid church, one without any sort of stain or wrinkle on her clothes, but rather one that is holy and blameless. 28 That’s how husbands ought to love their wives Jesus is about making a perfect wife suitable to HIMSELF. A Christian husband is to be developing a wife suitable to himself (and yet also holy unto God). Jesus chastens everyone that He loves! Hebrews 12:5
As a single man who struggles with the sins of the flesh.. i wasnt ready to cry this much.. i had seen this video in the suggestions and scrolled over it once.. i saw it again and decided to watch.. i know your just a messenger.. but i want to thankyou for this video and thank God for His Grace.. not sure where thay leaves me now.. but thats ok.. because im thankful to the end. GLORY AND HONOR BE TO YOU CHRIST THE KING 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
I just had a huge confrontation about my wife reading books containing erotic scenes and how it has crushed me for several years. While in the pit I was convicted to also tell her about my history of watching porn. We both got off track and when the enemy had a stronghold on my marriage, I took him head on and by the grace of God we had the hardest conversations in our 13yr marriage and I was terrified. We are dumping the garbage out and starting anew. We are withstaining from sex for a short time in prayer to reset the perversion we allowed the enemy to make it. I’m struggling through this extremely hard time and miss my wife’s touch and connection like crazy but I have more hope than ever and we are building an even stronger marriage. Praise God! We will get through this together and have a story to share and help others. The enemy will not destroy this marriage!
Proverbs 31:10-31, a good wife is a precious treasure who is a source of strength, support, and good advice for her husband: - your husband is truly blessed 🙏🏽
Key words here "a good wife".....oh well.
I love that this popped up in my feed. Biblical roles of both men and women are so valuable to hear. Please continue what you’re doing!
@@jamesharris3642 I’m glad you enjoyed it, thank you!
Very well done. May every husband treat his wife like the gift from God that she is. May every wife feel his love for her and may the both desire to please God
@@terrytatum7006 🙌🏽
This video came at just the right time. My husband and I have been struggling and started reading the Bible together. I just read genesis 2 and 3 where it was talking about how God made man a helper. You really helped answer some questions I was having. Thank you.❤️
Amen, love the way God is using you to tell truth in love!
True. Being disrespected by my wife hurts primordially and severely affects my life.
@@somethingwitty44 I’m so sorry to hear that. I would recommend talking to her about it, if that doesn’t go well just pray for her in this area ❤️ prayer is very powerful
Never have sex outside of marriage!
Yes I agree, thats how God designed it to be. Unfortunately, were all sinners and many people sin in this area. Thankfully there is forgiveness for all ☺🤍
Amen, and even better : Never have sex even inside of the marriage. Peace with you.
@@bustjanzupan1074 Wat? 0_o Then why marry and how do you manage to have kids? Your parents are more likely were shaming you about all that connected with sex, this is not normal.
@@bustjanzupan1074and that is precisely how Satan destroys and devours
That's foolish @@bustjanzupan1074
Thank you for taking the time to create this message to share with people. Marriage is such a joy and you did such a fantastic job at highlighting the roles of marriage and the functions of making love. The lord is pleased with your spreading of the word.
@@cameronzuzula3711 thank you so much🙏🏽 I’m glad you enjoyed it!
Great job on this video. I'm a pastor and, when doing marital or pre-marital counseling, I share similarly. Couples today need to have a Biblical understanding of the husband/wife relationship, how to structure their home and finances, sex in the marriage, etc.
Two of the most important lessons I learned in Ephesians:
If you want to be loved, you must be lovable;
. If you want to be respected, you must be respectable.
This principle carries into a host of other things but love and respect in a marriage is not a given by one partner or the other. It is a mutual thing...
I’m sorry but that’s not what Ephesians says.
@@nacholibre5705 Soooo, what exactly DOES Ephesians say about this?
Very educated life savings marriage video for the end time marriages, oh my God what a blessing message, God bless you for the knowledge to humanity
Thank you 🙏🏽
Sorry. It’s not the end times. Most of the “end times” stuff in the Bible is about the destruction of the temple and the end of Judaism. Yes. The end. What’s passed as Judaism today is man made religion not what God ordained. A man with decades of pastoring and biblical lecturing has done many TH-cam videos on this topic. The futurist dispensational teachings of most churches. Is false. So. Not end times. Jesus said his 2nd coming would be like a thief in the night. And we are not to try and predict when this may be. Instead do good works until then. The signs and times stuff was for the Jews to realize when thee temple would be destroyed. Example. “When will these things be?” Jesus said “THIS generation shall not pass before ALL these things will take place” and roughly 40 years (approximately 1 generation) later, not one stone was left standing, the Jews who took Jesus words seriously ran. And lived. The “harlot church” from revelations being the unbelieving Jews. Died. Hundreds of thousands of not millions. It was a genocide. Exactly as warned. Further evidence. “John could have wrote revelations about that. It had to be the end of the whole world because he wrote revelations in 90ad. Not 65-69 ad” well. If so. Then John. Who was a peer of Jesus. So similar in age would have been 120-130 some odd years old at that point. If it was written earlier. Before the sacking of the city and destruction of the temple. He’d have been 80-90 some odd years old. Logical answer. Back to Jesus saying “this generation” literally their generation or some spiritualized generation of multitudes of generations? Again. Logic. Also Daniels prophecy. Told seal it up. For it’s not yet. 500 some odd years later John gets essentially that same prophecy and told don’t seal it up. The time is near. So “not yet” being 500 ish years before John’s “near” but John’s “near is 2000+? Again. I side with logic. All evidence when interpreted logically taking literally what is logical to do so and spiritually what is logic to do so. It all shows that you have to do all kinds of twisting and manipulation to make it futurist. Therefore today. Is not the end times. We wait for the return of Christ. Nothing else. It’s illogical to believe otherwise. Sorry if this upsets anyone. If anything it should bring peace. Work for the lord. Stay busy. And don’t fear a 7 year tribulation that is also not in the Bible. Revelation says 3.5 years twice but never that it’s 7 total. Just 2 things for 3.5 years. Jesus ministered and preached for 3.5 years. And then was cut off exactly as stated in Daniels 70 weeks. There’s no 2000+ year gap. That’s like say I live 10 miles away but there’s a 40 mile gap between mile 9 and 10. It’s just illogical. Jesus made a deal with the Jews. Believe in him and be spared. Then? He ended the sacrifices once and for all. After the death of Christ. Judaism and the sacrifices became illegitimate the next 40 years that was the harlot church. The synagogues Satan. Why would the modern church be called SYNAGOGUE of Satan? Again. It’s illogical to paint modern times as what the Bible was discussing. The Bible wasn’t written TO us. In modern times. It was written to the people its authors clearly stated it was written to. And it was written FOR our education in faith. Back to revelation. Who might have the wisdom to discern the beast today? Or is it more logical to believe that John. Writing in Hebrew. To Hebrew Christian’s. About Nero. In Hebrew so the Roman’s couldn’t spy and discover what John knew about Nero and what was to come. Hmm. Again. Sorry if this upsets anyone. But all logical biblical evidence says dispensationalism futurism. Is false.
Amen! A very good video! If more would really take on the biblical roles in marriages, instead of just looking at "what's in it for me", a lot of joy of/in marriages would be enjoyed. I totally support your interpretation and understanding of the wifes role in a marriage, I wish more wimen would listen carefully to your teaching of a biblical marriage! May the Lords blessings fill you and your familys holy congregation!
Thank you so much 🤍
I wholeheartedly believe that this video came to me in the perfect timing. Wow. The way God works.
@@JacobBrinck praise God 🙌🏽❤️
*This world * needed to hear this 💯
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Nothing that I didn’t already know. But I enjoyed your post.
It’s comforting to know there are others who desire to truly live according to Gods plan for us.
God bless you and your beautiful family. ✝️🙏🕊️📿
@@XoScottXo yes 🙌🏽 thank you!
Subscribed! Wonderful video, and all the scripture that you use is perfect for the subject. Many blessings to you and your family.
@@Praying-Steadfastly thank you so much! I’m glad your here ❤️☺️
Interesting video, i heard about half of it because i don't have time to finish it, but ill get to it. Sex isn't a bad thing, it's an art, its a beautiful thing designed by God the Father between man and woman. Sadly the world doesn't see it that way, the enemy perverts what God creates, he doesn't have the ability to create his own. Marriage is beautiful, i would say there is no wrong way with sex in the bedroom between a man and his wife, its suppose to be fun. Don't think you are free from lust, you'll always get tempted because of the flesh.
@@OneR003 yes! I agree! That’s why it’s important to always stay in The Word so we are better suited to fight against our flesh
@@ahomemakersnotebook I think believers overlook this topic alot, they try too hard do the right thing. Like they try to do sex the perfect way. Sex should be fun, find what you like and don't like. Temptation, is another story it'll always be there. Paul said put on the whole armor of God, stay on The Word.
@@ahomemakersnotebookEphesians 6:10-17, the full armor of God.
Learning alot and inspired ❤
So happy your finding my videos helpful ❤️
Scripture is spot on truth, when I was 10 I knew I would never marry, as Paul said “if single remain single” in this day of age marriage is a huge gamble and risk for men, because todays women refuse to take responsibility for their actions, and put all the faults on the men
And the courts ruin men all for women’s happiness, emotions and lies, I’m single and remain such, I enjoy your insight and bless this ministry, if I was married this video is worth it’s weight in gold
well done ,j presented and Biblically grounded. MUCH NEEDED.... peace and God Bless...and yes it DOES not matter the gender....we ALL face the temptations...."as we forgive, so shall we BE forgiven" therefore , if we keep counts of wrongs..we are in UNFORGIVENESS....and therefore we WILL be held accountable for that....LET GO !! great perspective....
Great video keep give us this good information
Thank you ❤️
Good one, thank you:)
@@rosagoglia4649 ❤️ glad you enjoyed it!
Amen! I wish I could like this video a hundred times!❤
@@LadyErnst your so sweet 🥹 I’m so glad you enjoyed it! ❤️
The word in Matthew 5:27-28 that is translated “lust” is actually closer to “covet” to want. When you get the feeling we all know is attraction the “wow that persons is really good looking” and maybe we blush a little that is sexual desire NOT lust. Lust is to a person sexually that does not belong to as. Even Matthew 5 is in the context of marriage because adultery is only in reference to a married woman, when a married man sleeps with an unmarried woman it is fornication not adultery. I highly recommend anyone who sees this comment looks to Berean Patriot. He’s very learned and has taught me a lot. Do not think that I say these things to justify evil. Sexual sin is very serious and so is calling something sin that isn’t sin. It is important to know the difference between sexual desire and illicit sexual desire. The run down is essential it is wrong to want what is bad. So what is bad? It is bad to want women out of marriage or a man out of marriage or a person who is not your spouse. To look at those people and want them is wrong but if a unmarried man looks at a unmarried woman in a respectful manner, seeing that she is attractive and thus thinks “she’s so pretty, I’m gonna approach and hopefully start courting her so she can be my wife” that is not a illicit desire and is not sinful.
Thank you for this detailed review. Amen.
Thankyou for this video. 100% truth
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Only half way through but 🙌🏽 👏🏾👏🏾 SO good girl!!
❤️ thank you!
Very good and Biblical!
thank you!
Every man needs someone like this 👍(masculine ones)
There are both this many women worth the vow.
This is so so good!!
@@abbijoy4010 🫶🏽 thank you sweet friend!
Great video
@@justinhorrell2251 thank you 🙏🏽
Perfectly stated !!
Thank you💜
Thank you. The sound primarily comes from the left side of my headphones, and it seems like something is not functioning correctly.
Oh no! I’m glad you were still able to listen though 🤍
This video was dope!
thank you!
Well said, thank you ❤
@@JesusIsKing-f7y thank you 🤍
Amen!
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❤loved this video, thank you.
You are so welcome! Thank you for being here friend
you.. are.. a.. TEACHER
well done!
Thank you! ❤️
You’re so wise…Thank you and God bless you!!!
Thank you, God bless you ! ☺
Thank you sis for sharing this. You definitely answered a lot of questions in less than 30 minutes ❤❤❤
@@Jess.Igbokwe I’m so glad you enjoyed it ❤️
Well said 👌
@@matthewstewart5008 thank you!
It’s hard when you’ve recently had a baby and husband wants to start again then complains about it. It crushed me now I don’t know how to forgive him for certain comments and I do not want to do it again. Why am I the one who always has to forgive? I’m the Christian & he isn’t. We both weren’t when we got together but then I got saved. So now I just have to keep on forgiving? It gets tiring
Cant you just give him oral sex or digital sex in the mean time?
Keep being virtuous because you will sanctify your unbelieving husband. 1 Corinthians 7:14 continue to serve the Lord and don’t deny your husband! I Thank God for women like you who endures for righteousness sake. God bless.
Where did you and your Husband meet?
I want to meet a woman who loves Jesus Christ and not just someone who says that they are a Christian and has no relationship with Jesus Christ.
Thank you for the video, sister.
Watch out for the promiscuous woman that now says she's ready to settle down and be a good Christian wife
Being abused at a young age sexually has programmed me to look at men like sexual objects I used to have a sex addiction problem which is why my husband doesn’t want me to talk to men god please help me overcome this I don’t want to look at life this way
Very good thought provoking ideas. God bless 😊
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Really enjoyed this. Cant wait for the next. I subscribed ❤
@@PretoriaHamilton I’m so glad! Welcome friend ☺️❤️
That book is alright, hope to find it in my language. Good typs
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Thank you.
Thank you sister 🙏🏻💕🌸🦋 very good thoughts. May Lord help us. Im not married jet. Im considering, praying ,since my partner isnt godly man, we are unequally j and in relationship celibacy 😢
None of my business
However
Why are you getting married to him
Or
Even in a relationship with him
Just saying
So glad you enjoyed it! Seek God first and everything else God has for you will follow ❤️ I know it’s hard to hear, but if a man isn’t in relationship with God, you shouldn’t be in a relationship to pursue marriage with him. Your husband is called to be your head, but he can’t be your head if he isn’t under Christ. Christ should be his head - Christ should come first in his life.
I will be praying for you and for him to encounter Christ and pursue him. if y’all are meant to be together, the Lord will show you ❤️
You are a wonderful wife to your husband and also a wonderful mother
Thank you so much! 🤍 I'm always learning and trying to be better!
Amen,why are not more Churches talking about this.
same question I've wondered 🥲
Love your videos♥️
Thank you so much 🤍
What if we ARE stuck in an asymmetrical marriage? Its been over 10 years and I have almost nothing left to give.
Thank you💖
You are so welcome
Hi nice vid
Thank you!
Thats my dream wife !!!😘
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Dear sister, thanks for sharing. Its inportant themes. We should discuss all . Im wondering Im newborn four years ago, and I feel like Im dragging my partner in faith, but he resists, is lukewarm. We studied reading Bible together. Aldo he is good person, and he prays, he doesnt holeheartedly seeks Him. He wants marriage, but I think he wants from wrong reasons. Can he love me truly when he doesnt experienced love from God .? I want God centered marriage or non. 😔🙏🏼
I will be praying for you and for him to pursue Christ. I encourage you to pray boldly for him and his relationship with Christ as well. As Christ should be the foundation of marriage ❤️ If you are not meant to be together, God will show you, if you are I’m confident he will have a radical transformation. 🫶🏽 prayer is powerful
@@ahomemakersnotebook Amen 💕🔥
What happen there at 10:40??
What do you mean?
@ahomemakersnotebook the audio seemed to skip a bit there. At the "comfortable" part.
@@strictly45s6oh haha I see what your talking about 😅 that was probably the way I said the word. I tend to mispronounce words sometimes 😂
@ahomemakersnotebook oh, I was not aware, my apologies, it was my first video, of yours.
I have audio videos….. of simple revelations about the Love of God on my youtube.
And the need to follow the Word.
So even when your married and your thinking about your own husband it's a sin? Or just of your married and thinking of another man other than your husband?
No, it’s not a sin to think sexual thoughts about your husband and to desire him.
Exactly what the above person said 👍🏽Thinking of other men outside your husband would be the sin.
I was unequally yoked. My ex wife cared nothing about God. She made me believe she did but she didn't. I trusted her and she turned her back on me. She left me and we're getting divorced.
You can both be Christians and unequally yoked too
Sooo glad you talked about barebase😁 Do you ship internationally please?
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Read a whole chapter, its free advertising for the book and no true christian would file copywrite claims as believer wont take believer before the unbelievers in court.
See I thought that too 😅
Its terrible. I can't have sex. The woman I married with she trew me out the house. You promote sex as something good, which it is, but many don't have it and that can be very very hard... I wich I had a solution for myself. One without masturbation. 🙄
I’m sorry to hear you’re going through that. Pray. Read your Bible daily & pray often. If you’re still married, I would suggest working on restoring your marriage with your wife.
We are going through the same situation. i have a daughter and son who are being affected.
A man needs to take responsibility for his family and household it's your job to have a relationship with Lord Jesus. Remember, rejoice always. Take the time to reflect and refine your marriage. this can be the change you and your wife need. Pray and keep the faith.
Love never fails!!!
many times the woman is frigid is because she was abused when she was young. very few women will admit that the abuse broke them and there's really no good councilors out there. it is a fallen world and lots of men and women get hurt. if 2 cor 5:18-21 is true and i believe it is then if you have to get out and start over then do it sooner than later just be sure to know your next wife's past before you fall in love again the happy wife school on you tube has some valuable info.
Im in my house and the same situation. You’re not alone. 😢
Divorce her
It's hard to flourish sometimes l should want to thrive
I’m sorry, 😕 what do you mean exactly?
God loves men
God loves you too my friend ❤
God Bless.
Thank you 🙏🏽 God bless you as well!
Im not married but if i marry I want to know, if we can use help tool to feel pleasure also some women cant have natural climax, should the women then just watch the men get satisfaction and the women cant have that nobody have answered this question.... Thats just sad then i rather dont marry then to lay an be tempted but cant do anything about it
@@YeshuaIloveuuu Hi 👋🏽 Good question. Studies show most women actually don’t climax from penetrative sex alone like men do. A husband should ensure his wife is also satisfied in this area and do what he needs to do to ensure her pleasure and climax as well ❤️🫶🏽 hope that helps!
@ahomemakersnotebook then that will be hard work for the man if you cant use vibrator or oral sex ..... :o sorry for graphic words , ❤️🙏 is vibrator okey to use in marriage bed
@@YeshuaIloveuuu no worries! if you message me on IG @ahomemakersnotebook we can talk more about this :)
Why does God say if any man looks upon a woman with lust and not make it vice versa? We add the vice versa but he doesn’t say it. I find that interesting
It also is a bad translation.... when it says if a man looks upon a MARRIED woman with lust..... that is based on the actual law of adultery according to torah
@ so why is it used as the standard for even men? Is not a sin for men to look upon a woman to lust then? Or is it a sin? Seriously asking because I think we don’t question anymore. We just accept as a whole what is being told to us.
@KKTanaa if we take the definition of adultery given to us in torah..... then we apply it thru the entire Bible, and then adultery isn't something you can do by looking at a widow or single woman with lust (lust = a great desire for) because by definition, that woman isn't married. So, if the definition is based on the status of the woman, you have two options.... 1. understand the translation is bad and should read to look at a married woman with lust in your heart is sin or 2. change the definition of adultery to looking at all women with lust is sin..... but then we have to understand 1 John 3:4 sin is transgression of the law...... the law defines adultery by the marital status of the woman. Also, never once, do we have multiple wives or concubines condemned or called sin in the old or new testement, so having multiple wives or concubines isn't adultery, how can looking at a single or widowed woman be sinful...... plus, now if just looking at a woman is sin.... when you look at your wife with great desire (lust), you would still be in sin for looking at your wife ...... the lady trying to "teach" in this video should have never said, "Let's not get into a deep dive" ...... deep diving is the only way you lean.
@@KKTanaa
you wrote:
so why is it used as the standard for even men?
I don't know Greek, but this applies to men and women,
as both are made in the image of God, as stated in Genesis.
Men and women are spiritually equal.
“Do not presume that I came to abolish the Law or the Prophets; I did not come to abolish, but to fulfill.
“You have heard that the ancients were told,... But I say to you...
"You have heard that it was said,... but I say to you...
“Again, you have heard that the ancients were told... But I say to you...
“You have heard that it was said,... But I say to you...
“You have heard that it was said... But I say to you,...
-excerpts Matthew 5
-Jesus speaking of the fulfillment of the Law,
speaking of how things are now different
“You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery’; but I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.
-excerpt Matthew 5
Jesus explains that the standards are more difficult now. (The reader
should check out verses 17-48). In this matter wanting to commit
adultery is equal to physically committing adultery.
By extension, wanting to steal from your neighbor is equal to
stealing from your neighbor, etc. etc.
I agree with one of the commenters below saying that men and women are both created in the image of God and that it pertains to us both. Throughout scripture in the Bible “man” is often used to refer to us as a people. It means men and woman. Hope that helps ❤️
mono sound?!🤔
@@andrejlee ?
"Enjoy yourself in marrige".
Husband and Wife.
Do not go outside the marrige seeking an emotional and/or physical affair.
Too many instances of open and secret affairs amongst "religious" married people, then some half ass confession and reconciling.
Please speak plainly and hammer on those who have, or are seeking, affairs.
Why is you title "Gods design for Sex?" Don't you mean "God's design for Sex?"
Import ant...ugg, why i cant unhear it...i dont know....bothers me...i wanted to hear whole video but
Sex was created when Eve was taken out of Adam. Children are created when man re enters woman they create life. This is why sex is the most important physical act a wife and husband can share. It is also what establishes amarriage that's why God hate fornication, adultery and divorce. A marriage is not just about sex . A MARRIAGE IS SEX. If Sex is experienced with Godly Love you can never be tempted. Remember JESUS .Satan tried to tempt Jesus but he couldn because Jesus was full of Love for his Father not to go against him. Love comes from the husband in the form of patience, kindness , gentleness even if the wife doesn't do her part and she will eventually respect him and submit. Also the husband is already submitted to the wife because of Adam. When Adam took the forbidden fruit from Eve knowing that this was wrong. This was when man submitted to woman . So now it's your turn women.. It's not a unreasonable request. God be with you and your family.
Ephesians 5:22-24 'wives should submit in everything to their husbands'. I have the best sex life with my wife!
That’s great!
Godly, spiritual and biblical marriage and sex goes hand and hand, can't be separated into two different things. When a man and wife sleeps together. they become one and their souls are then tied together, like forever! That has always been God's plan and "design" for a sacred and holy bond between a man and woman. Unfortunately, worldly people( fools) separate marriage from sex and they think having sex and being fornicators, are not a sin cos they aren't married legally!! Don't get married legally with a ring and certificate, that is the Devil's evil way to give power in the wrong hands..it leads to all kinds of evil thinking and actions like anger, stress, depression, financial tension and conflict, jealously, trust issues, disrespect, envy, powerplay, division...even hate and murder. Legal marriages ends up in divorces and broken homes. Weddings was just good a very long time ago when there was still virgins that made those weddings(legal marriages) good. Churches, pastors and parents teach their children not to have sex before marriage, what a joke that is.. cos sex is the marriage. You can't have sex before a marriage, only before the wedding!! duh, please wake up all ya good people, don' stay deceived and stop following false religions, traditions and believes created by Satan thousands of years ago. Satan destroyed millions of legal marriages and divorces are now actually just a way of life and a lifestyle..in fact, it's cool to be divorced and Hollywood movies promotes it more and more.
now, when you take the biblical definition of adultery and then tell god he is wrong when you change the definition and rewrite it.... adultery definition never had "if you're single or married," and it never said man and woman.... adultery is clearly defined in scripture by the marital status of the woman
I think you misheard. I not once said God was wrong. I read from scripture. There are many verses where the bible talks about adultery. The verse I read, from the bible, does not matter on the marital status of a woman.
@ahomemakersnotebook nope, I heard fine.... and using the greek new testement without understanding the Hebrew old testement can lead to misunderstandings.... and adultery according to God when torah was given to Moses was based on the martial status of the woman..... to reinterpret it to mean all people, men or women, means you either changed God's definition or the English translation you have is a mistranslation.... so I will stick with the definition of adultery given by God to Moses.face to face at Mount Sinai...... there are dozens of verses in the Hebrew, Aramaic, and the Greek..... but there is only one definition given in torah and God does not change.
@@cattywampusmcdoogle so what do you believe adultery is to be exact? do you believe only females can commit adultery?
@ahomemakersnotebook it's not what I believe or don't believe..... it's what the book says. what did moses write adultery was = when a MARRIED woman has sex with a man that's not her husband or a man that has sex with ANOTHER MANS WIFE.... so yeah, a man can commit adultery if he has sex with another man's wife.... but if we are actually getting deep, the word husband and wife does not exist in the Hebrew language. a man covered a woman or a man possessed a woman.... a woman was covered by a man or a woman was the possession of a man, the more accurate biblical Hebrew translation.
@ahomemakersnotebook and to add.... it was more the culture and custom of the Hebrew people, if you poke it, you own it..... so to speak. a man has sex with a woman and refuses to keep her and cover her..... well that meant he made a whore out of her and he was whore mongering and as we are told, you shall not make whores on Israel..... as women where to he covered from cradle to grave..... from father to husband.
Read scripture, interpret it how you see fit, then use mental and emotional abuse to enforce your interpretation. If the people you know don't like it just start a new denomination and condemn them for worshiping satan and not the real God. Welcome to the wonderful world of Christianity!
No time for this; she had too much nagging and complaining on her schedule.
Who?
Proverbs 25:24
@@JohnDretired I am familiar with the scripture. I’m just not sure who you are referring to when you said “she”
My albatross.
@@ahomemakersnotebook his wife, its actually super common to find a "continual drip" woman that is like chinese water torture. Prov 27:15
Religion is mythology
Its a good thing I'm not religious ☺️
@ahomemakersnotebook Mythology has value
@@ahomemakersnotebookYou're even crazy than I thought if you follow the Bible but don't think you're religious
@@NeoRelic-o8p God is looking for relationship with him, not religion ❤️ Many people are religious yet fail to have a relationship with Christ.
@@ahomemakersnotebook You are literally a crazy person.
I think that you forgot the real reason that Jesus died.
Ephesians 5:26-28
26 He did this to make her holy by washing her in a bath of water with the word. 27 He did this to present himself with a splendid church, one without any sort of stain or wrinkle on her clothes, but rather one that is holy and blameless. 28 That’s how husbands ought to love their wives
Jesus is about making a perfect wife suitable to HIMSELF.
A Christian husband is to be developing a wife suitable to himself (and yet also holy unto God).
Jesus chastens everyone that He loves! Hebrews 12:5