My ex (narcisist) treated me badly for 10 years, I was falling in depression and was metaly exosted. But I always made sure my garden is blooming and I have clean , fresh home.
@@robertadanilova3248this is what I want to said I have a friend and her husband is always partying outside go back home late but her house is amazing a clean and she said is the only thing she can controls lol 😅
An older believer and mom, grandma, here… PLEASE don’t just read your Bible in the morning before your children awaken. READ YOUR BIBLE QUIETLY IN FRONT OF YOUR CHILDREN. It will give them a good example without you having to say a word. Your children will see you praying and seeking the Lord without it being blessing the food or praying with them/instructing them. They’ll see you studying the Bible and someday will recall you doing that. More is caught than taught…and I wish someone had told me the same advice when mine were young.
You have no idea how much this video means to me...I grew up in a chaotic home, even though my parents were loving, they didn't know how to housekeep in a loving environment. Now I know that the house has a big impact in my family's life and I want to do my best for the glory of God ♥
I was literally going through a burn out when God led me to this video!Seriously I mentally gave up I was about to cry my eyes out from all the overwhelming things I have to deal with. I locked myself in my room and opened my phone, one of my kids had a video up so I closed it and the first video I seen was yours. Now 20 minutes later I have hope and a smile on my face. I can't thank you enough for blessing me with this information and getting my mindset back on track! ❤❤❤Many blessings to you and your family!
I am blessed to have watched this beautiful video. As I am in a waiting season for my husband to come into the life God has given me. This video has taught me how to be a wife that my future husband deserves. I don't want to be the neck (controller) but a crown (proverbs 12:4), where things need to be taken care of to have my future provider (husband) to be proud of me of making our home look good. Thank you, sister in Christ. You are loved by many.
As wives and mothers, we do these things unto the Lord because of our deep abiding love and gratitude for Him and our salvation. If that is not our number one motivation then everything else is an idol of the heart, yes, even good gifts like a husband and children and our efforts can eventually turn sour and hearts bitter. But if we do things in honor and glory of our Lord that is what fuels and sustains our deep love for others, especially our husband and children, so that we can steward our good gifts well. Prepare for marriage and motherhood but not so much that you miss or are distracted from what God is doing in your heart & life in the season you're in. Much of what you learn about marriage and motherhood is learned "as you go" anyway 🙂
Our home reflects our chaotic, messy but above all happy and loving family. We are a family of four creative individuals. Or home is perhaps not perfectly tidy all the time, but there is lots of laughs and warmth. Me and my husband both work, and we share the housework equally. But spending time with our sons has always been the priority.
This video is speaking directly to my heart. We have moved, twice, in two years; had another baby, lost family members and so much more. I am now also a stay at home mom and it is the best part of my life journey thus far! Everything you mentioned is what I needed to hear. The past couple days I have felt God speaking to me about my habits and routines. I am hearing him louder now more than I had before, and why is it? My husband has now deployed again and we expect him back in about a year. I believe He has put me in this place to bring me closer to Him. Thank you for your videos
I appreciate that you are lifting up the concepts of making yourself and your home presentable. Considering that laziness would leave yourself and your home a chaotic mess, I think everyone could agree that organization and some extra effort in both of those areas raises your esteem, your energy, and cares for your temple as well as your home in honor of God. Not only does a tidy home raise your spirits, but everyone around you. And when you look put together, others respect you more, even if it is your children and your husband, everyone recognizes effort and care. It was a little difficult seeing some of the comments come at you like something you said was incorrect. Truly you are leading us in a direction of peace, of cleanliness, of care for yourself and your home for the glory of God. Thank you for this video, I will be subscribing. I also want to mention I've been putting off getting up an hour early which I used to do to read my Bible or to shower, but I've put it off so that my younger children will run upstairs when they wake up and snuggle in bed with me before I get up. The hard truth is knowing that the shower and the reading may or may not happen that day if I don't do it in the morning. I also know this is a season where my little ones like to snuggle. So maybe I will start to do those early mornings a few days a week so I can still get that morning snuggle now and then. ❤
At this mama’s faith I just thank God for you! This morning I did my bed lol I sprayed it with febreze. I had not done laundry for over 2 weeks. My baby and I were struggling with what to wear. I realized that I wasn’t being a good steward of my child. You got me when you said what are they going to remember about their childhood. Oh! I am so blessed by your videos. My child is 12 years old and I felt bad that I’ve shown her no structure this long, but I will be creating a routine. Thank you for allowing God to use you. Days earlier I had anointed my work space at work and yesterday I felt an “itch” to organize it and it is a better work environment and I even felt kinder when speaking to customers.
I wish I came across your channel months ago. My x partner and I married young and I had no idea what it meant to be a wife,SAHM, and homemaker. I lacked and he became unhappy and left. I wish he had more patience for me to learn and grow but now I will allow God to prepare for my next partner if that’s what He has planned for me..
Sorry to hear your husband left…but please don’t blame yourself or your lack of knowledge in certain areas. Marriage for the first time…specially at a young age means you will not know a lot of things and will learn and grow together. If he left that was his choice based on other things (trust me). You don’t leave someone you love because they don’t know how to wash dishes, make the bed, or sweep the floor. Stay strong and trust that God has someone better for you. 🌻
Tell me if that makes sense bc I still don’t understand it. He says it’s disrespectful or I didn’t love him enough to do those household chores to his specific standards no matter how much good intentions I put behind my efforts. If I loved him enough I would do it the way he liked it. With two under two I felt overwhelmed by those demands
The Lord is your strength, God is our teacher, I was also lacking, not domestically speaking but in other areas of my marriage but thank God for being my teacher he taught me where I lacked and things got better. I'm still not perfect but I have learnt a lot from yielding my self to the holy spirit. Sorry about your marriage. Trust God and he will help you.@@ChristinaArt
I think this video is perfect a home is somewhere cozy and safe for our families. I am so grateful and especially now when floods destroyed so many homes I want to just remember gratitude each day.
Just found your channel❤ I do the 3 Rs, but in reverse. I read my Bible, then chores (I have diary cows), then reset my area, then ready myself. If I got ready first those cows would make me a mess. I usually come back with hay in my hair😂
I'm listening to your previous video as I'm hemming a widowed pastor's pants for him late at night. I'm at a stage when I need to work outside the home and am preparing for nursing school to do what God is telling me. .. He will give me strength. .. And the JOY of the Lord is my strength. I release unto Him everything that is not Joy and Peace.
I realized as I was watching your video the guilt and condemnation I've been carrying when desiring to get ready in the morning, shop for a new wardrobe, and overcome this feeling of feeling ugly and lazy and looking a mess ... thoughts of it being wrong to desire or like it shouldn't matter as much as it has been to me. Thanking Jesus for your video and for showing me it IS okay to take care of myself not just first but also.
Thank you for these videos! 🙏 I became a stay at home mom after having my third child and my husband and I are trying to cultivate a more structured, Christian home ❤
It reflects my pregnancy right now. If you struggle like i do and its not your typical routine to be chronically fatigued your not alone. Don't beat yourself up for not being able to do tasks you used to be able to do.
Thanks for this. I struggle with staying in bed in the morning, not getting ready, and getting derailed by details when I should be doing the basics. Your three R's and the food, clothing, and clean shelter have really helped me today, at least mentally. Now it's putting it into practice!
I kind of feel hopeless sometimes. I'm 16 and my mom hasn't really taught me how to do feminine things. This has really made me feel down about myself. Also, I'm not trying to blame my mom, I think I definitely need to put more effort into it now that I'm getting older. But I've never had that boost. I don't know where to start. I don't know how to cook, do my hair nice, dress in a feminine way, or do literally any homemaking things. I just feel like a failure of a woman and I'm so masculine that I hate it so much. I hate feeling this way. Sorry for venting I just need to get this off my chest and hopefully I might receive good advice on what to do.
Lifting you up in prayer! Father God thank you for your beautiful daughter who you created in your image. Please take away her hopeless feelings and replace them with joy and peace. Please reveal your purpose and plan to her so she can continue to grow in wisdom and skill. Jesus thank you for being the firm foundation we can build our life upon, Amen
Remember you don’t have to do all the things all at the same time. Take one thing out of your clothing that doesn’t make you feel feminine and replace with one thing that does and modest clothing is beautiful and feminine. When you get your hair done ask for them to show you how to style an easy everyday look. Learn how to cook just one dinner and later on just bill on it. You tube is great on how to videos. Praying your blessed and look to proverbs 31 as an encouragement and a prayer, to be a Godly young woman!!
Keep searching for blogs and channel like this one. And start with small changes , consistent changes until they become habits. And pick up new ones and give yourself time to change. Also , while doing that extend your grace to your mom. Most likely something went wrong for her that she wasn’t able to provide a warm , orderly home for you. God bless you!
Thank you so much. .. I'm 52. I appreciate you sharing here what the Lord taught you. And I believe it will help my mental state as well as my husband's. 🌹 Thank you so much, Sister. God bless you.
This video really motivated me! I am 20 weeks pregnant with 3rd baby and having lots of pelvic girdle pain. 😢 I'm a home keeper with my husband working hard full tim3 for us. I know he deserves a clean house to come home to... si fo my chidren. I want to honor God by keeping my home... even if/whem my body is killing me.
Hi dear, I am a homemaker and mum of 2 toddlers. Please take things easy because pelvic girdle pain is not easy. Part of homemaking is also being healthy for the family. Wholelistic living I call it😊 You show up for the family as best as you can but not at the expense of your health. I am also a youtuber and sometimes we don't show how messy things can be. Please take this phase of your life easy and once you have your baby, you can resume having the place spotless and awesome😊 God loves you and be blessed❤
Remember everyone is on a different season of their live, I used to see videos and get frustrated bc I couldn't achieve all they use to show you on the videos, but I understood, we all need to work with what we have, and do what we can ❤❤
I'm sure you're doing the BEST you can, I had that same pain with my 3rd and it was brutally painful to do anything or get anything done. God bless you 🙏
I'll never forget the advice mum mum gave me when I could not do as much as I wanted to do for my family especially after giving birth or when sick, she reminded me how she was always on her toes caring for everyone and the farm plus her home, and forgot all about herself which affected her health. The point is take a break, heal, ask for help no shame in that, reprenish your body since after birth sorry to say we are as delicate as that infant and our soul body and spirit need rest if we want to be at peace with everything.
Please consider that the person making this video isn’t pregnant or have little children running around, God is a God of love! Your home does not reflect who you are, your value was determined on the cross! Jesus died for you and wants you to live life to the fullest. Your contribution to your family is so important. Your body is working overtime to produce this beautiful baby, therefore please have grace with your self just as God does. You are giving your 100 percent, remember the day the lord blessed was the 7th day. The day he rested! 😊
🙏🏼 excellent example on starting the day and how to make a house a home that your husband and children are going to enjoy being in🥰 and creating memories.
First time here and have liked, subscribed and shared!!! Watching this video after intuitively completing my 3 Morning Rs was part of my “self care plan” for today! Home making is such a lost art in our generation. I’m here to unlearn, learn, and relearn. Thank you kindly for this and be blessed, beloved!
Oh man... as soon as I saw the title of the video I had conviction big time. 😂❤ Love your channel. Thanks for being a great deliverer of God's timely word. 🙏 bless you
This was so nice to watch but discouraging at the same time. We’re in a season of lots of littles and trying to manage everything alone is very hard so I definitely feel guilty when our atmosphere isn’t warm and cozy in our home. I’m hoping to (in the future) be able to make my house feel more homey (decore-wise) but it’s a slow process in getting my husband on board!
You're so not alone, I have 3 under age of 6 and all day it's a battle to keep anything clean or caught up, it's a battle.😅 we're in a season with our Littles and this too shall pass. I'm wishing you the best with your precious family and God bless ❤
@idepartasair God bless you and your family, I can imagine how hard that is with your living situation 🙏 give yourself grace and know one day we pray you will be blessed with the house of your dreams💖
Start small. Maybe with having family dinners if that is possible. Doing everything at one and keeping an orderly home whire raising little ones is not always possible. Keep things simple, offer food the children would eat, have them help cook for daddy (the food they like😊) , and try to enjoy it. Small steps .
Give yourself grace. When you have very young children it’s hard to keep the home tidy all the time. When mine were little I had someone tell me that I should have decor on my tables and such. I was like why?? The kids will just play with it and it will end up on the floor. Now they are teens and young adults, my home has decor all over. 😆 Enjoy that age because it seriously goes by too fast. You’ll have time to have a well put together home soon enough.
Thank you so much for this video, I like how gentle you are in explaining things and you are encouraging. May GOD continue to bless you Sister in CHRIST❤️
Wow this video has absolutely motivated me. I really needed this. I have so watched you grow over the years that i have been following you. Im amazed at Gods work and how much you do for the Lord. Thank you so much for this video.
Thank you, Tabitha - so much. I really love you and your content and gorgeous family. You really encourage this rather isolated home schooling Christian wife and mama of five xxx
Loved ❤ this video Tabitha. So nice to see a young wife and mother live this out. Your husband and children are very blessed to have you. God bless you and your family.
I ABSOLUTELY NEEDED THIS VIDEO! I am so grateful to you for making this beautiful inspiring video. I have followed your homeschool channel for years and I’m excited to support this channel as well. I would really appreciate a video of a day in your life! I struggle to find balance with maintaining myself, my home and still be really effective in homeschool and keeping my kids responsible for their own chores too. Hoping I get the hang of it soon. 🥰 Thanks again for the video!!
Thank you for sharing this video. I have been struggling lately with keeping up with my home and family and working outside of my home. Especially on this cold virus season. But watching this video helped in putting things into perspective and knowing that it will all take some time and with the help of the Lord it’s all possible 😇💕
Highlight. Once youve decluttered and when youre in a giod groove with youre routine, thats when you cn fall in love with your home and make it your own.
I love your videos. I have started to love being a proverb 21 women. I pray you have a blessed week. I know I have been blessed watching your videos and have learned so much. Thank you
God bless you, thank you for this video. I am finding home making very overwhelming, there seems to be too much clutter, too much mess and so much to do. I am intending on focusing on the Lord more and inviting Him into everything so I can see what He wants for our family, I'd like to get ride of a lot of stuff. How can I clean when there are so many items everywhere. AHH. We'll get there
Amen love watching these peaceful kind of homemaking videos when im cleaning the home or folding laundry, I'm also a homemaker and homeschooling mom of 7❤ new subscriber :)
Thank you for this video. I am a Christian woman, and i have been struggling with balancing home and work. There is much clutter, and I desire to have a home that reflects me. I will adopt some of these tips, which are helpful. Thank you again.
My husband and I have inherited our home from a bit of a hoarder and much of the excess was left for us to clean up. I wasn't able to do much for the first year because the last resident (family) was still coming to get things sometimes. When I was able to start really working on it I was 6 weeks PP with my first, and my husband was 1 week post major vehicle accident which almost left him paralyzed. I have been working on it for 4 months and I'm still so overwhelmed by much of it, but I have made so much progress, I want my husband to be proud of what I've done so far. I feel like everything has fallen on me and I'm doing my best to do it all. After this video I feel a little less guilty about not having a solid routine yet and still having things I don't love about my home. I'm changing my home to reflect my skills as a wife, it doesn't have to be perfect yet, it's transforming by God's grace giving me the strength to shoulder this season until I am able to really bloom. Thank you for encouraging videos.
First video of yours that has come across my feed. 41 seconds in and had to pause… couldn’t find the subscribe button fast enough. 🥰👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🙏🏼❤️ Now to continue watching… 😍
I appreciate your videos. I believe in living a Godly good life. I pray God give more grace for those women that have had trauma. It effects the brain. Also, I pray for those women that have health issues. No matter how much you pray. Pain effects the motivation. May the good Lord give these women more grace to have a well kept home and glorify God!
I love this video ❤so lovely, the content, the voice is so soft and nice to hear! Thank you so much! Mam this is a big help for my homemaking routine ❤❤❤God bless you more 🙏🙏🙏💙💙💙💙
I understand doing some things without your kids, but I think scripture reading should be done with your kids and in front of your kids sometimes too. If you want your kids to grow up loving/reading scriptures, then they need to see you do it. They need to hear you talk about it too and be taught by you. That way they can hopefully learn to love it as well.
Thank you, I just quit my job of 20 years to become a homemaker. It has been the hardest thing ever for me to do. This video pops up.. I clicked on it and felt welcome right away... If you are a new homemaker I suggest forwarding this to others who may be starting out as a homemaker. I was always a neat person but to have the time to read the BIBLE was what I was most missing. No social media just quite time with God. Thank you sweet Lady for this video
Hello Tabitha!!! Beautiful words of wisdom!!! You are such a blessing to your husband and children!!! Starting the day off with God's word makes the day so much better. Thank you for this video it was a blessing to me!!! Take care God bless 😊❤
Thanks so much for this breakdown! When do you actually homeschool and how do you plan for it in your schedule?And what do you fo for snacks? Do you make all of you guys' snacks?
We homeschool from 9-2 with an hour break for lunch. I’ve been trying to make more snacks homemade! We used to do a lot of prepackaged stuff 🫣 muffins, fruit, veggie with ranch, hard boiled eggs, bread etc is what we do now
A couple of sermons I would like to recommend for anyone who is struggling; they are all by Charles Stanley: 1. The Courage to Keep Going 2. The Key to Continuing Peace 3. The Habits of a Godly Mother These are all life-changing!
This is frustrating. I worry so much about how our home and home life reflects myself as well how my kids will look back one day. I am very disappointed with how things are currently. But I feel completely helpless to change. I feel like I have no control over my home, yet I am the one judged. 😞
I know this feeling well… Jesus sees who you really are. What is written about costly attire and stylish hairdos also applies to your home. The home does NOT reflect who you are. It reflects in what conditions you live. And while making everything nice for your family can be an expression of love and care, it can also be an expression of shallowness and vanity. What is it like to be told by your mom that all you ever do is ruin her beautiful clean home? What is it like to not be allowed on the sofa (like a dog!) because it is white? What is it like to not be allowed to collect pebbles, or to see your mom throw away what you crafted for her just a few hours ago because it is “only a dust catcher”? Visitors will say “what a lovely home”, but your kids would know it was not… What really matters is, are you there for them when they need you? Do you listen to them? When they do something wrong, do you bother to find out why and do you help them to find better solutions? Do you know what they like, what they wish, what they fear? Are they allowed to bring friends? Do they trust you in general?
I responded to someone else's comment similar to yours with this: Do not worry about how your efforts look to others even those in your household. It will enslave you to the "works" part of being a homemaker which is not what a Proverbs 31 woman is at her core, though many people try to push that (do this to be a good Christian wife, do that to be a good Christian mother, etc). But before you can think about the "doing" part being a joy to your life, you need to look at the heart as scripture says, God cares not of outward appearances but of the heart. That scripture was written about those with works based mentality and religiosity for its own sake... but God wants to conform you to Christ first and foremost. As wives and mothers, we do the work of homemaking unto the Lord because of our deep abiding love and gratitude for Him and our salvation. If that is not our number one motivation then everything else is an idol of the heart, yes, even good gifts like a husband and children and our efforts can eventually turn sour and hearts bitter. But if we do things in honor and glory of our Lord that is what fuels and sustains our deep love for others, especially our husband and children, so that we can steward our good gifts well.
So grateful for your peaceful videos! Very encouraging. It's also pretty neat that I noticed you also use Melaleuca products!! We do as well. Thanks from a household of 10 ranging from ages 4-64!! I needed this encouragement!
I'm curious your kids ages? I also have 6 and I do stay in my pajamas and restful through breakfast because we are very much in a stage where I'm constantly feeding and changing diapers and I would have to leave them crying to get done up and have bible time. I do listen during the morning but it's while I do other things.
NO SISTER THE HOME DOES NOT REFLECT THE WOMAN! We are the reflection and the image of Jesus. So even on days when our homes look like chaos and our kids are screaming cause they are sick and we are giving our best we still can be at perfect peace because we are the reflection of the most high God, because we are at peace with God and friends with the Holy Spirit.
Adelelobo5321, studies show that the your surroundings do indeed reflect your mental state, former trauma, etc. Please do some research because what she has to say is important.
@ThisMamasFaith this does not mean we should feel guilty if our house is not perfect. Excuse me but sometimes our house will be chaotic and messy especially with lots of children around. One day only has 24 hours and it's more important interacting with your children, playing with them and not shouting at them for not keeping the house clean than trying to keep the house perfectly clean. And u r only human
@ThisMamasFaith and u r only human and u may be too tired sometimes to deal with the mess at once and leave it for the next day and that s all right...Don t aim for perfection. It s in accepting our weaknesses that we grow, not in struggling to be perfect
I just found your channel and love it! Where is this beautiful place, what state are you in? Thank you for taking us along on your day, it never gets boring to see how another faith filled woman lives. I know I'll find some peace and motivation watching your videos!
This video helped me so much. We just found out a couple of weeks ago that I am pregnant with baby number three (3 in 3 years) and I am feeling so overwhelmed and stressed with taking care of the home, especially since we will be moving soon. This video brought me peace and inspiration that I really needed this morning. Thank you so much ♡ .
This was such a blessing - I never knew it was called neurodivergent that I was but that’s def what it is! This was so comforting and most importantly inspiring to me to get my house in order :) thank you sister
I love your videos on this channel. Generally, I get up and do something during yours. But man, I’ve been struggling with apathy and even anger lately. Upset and lacking creativity during my newly established homeschooling and dealing with a boy who just doesn’t want to do what he doesn’t want to do. I want to wake up early, but the babies wake up with me no matter what. I feel like I never get to recharge, therefore I’m rubbing my kids of the fun loving version of myself who seems to be on hiatus. Bleh.
The home also reflects the mental state of the woman and how the husband treats her
Absolutely
My ex (narcisist) treated me badly for 10 years, I was falling in depression and was metaly exosted. But I always made sure my garden is blooming and I have clean , fresh home.
100%, this isn't said enough.
Well said
@@robertadanilova3248this is what I want to said I have a friend and her husband is always partying outside go back home late but her house is amazing a clean and she said is the only thing she can controls lol 😅
An older believer and mom, grandma, here… PLEASE don’t just read your Bible in the morning before your children awaken. READ YOUR BIBLE QUIETLY IN FRONT OF YOUR CHILDREN. It will give them a good example without you having to say a word. Your children will see you praying and seeking the Lord without it being blessing the food or praying with them/instructing them. They’ll see you studying the Bible and someday will recall you doing that. More is caught than taught…and I wish someone had told me the same advice when mine were young.
Such wise advice! I read the Bible to them at breakfast everyday!
Good tip❤
Thank you for sharing
More is Caught
than Taught... Well Said🙏
Thank you ma for this
I agree that starting the day with our Heavenly Father makes the whole day run smooth. I'm glad I found your channel ❤
It makes such a big difference!
You have no idea how much this video means to me...I grew up in a chaotic home, even though my parents were loving, they didn't know how to housekeep in a loving environment. Now I know that the house has a big impact in my family's life and I want to do my best for the glory of God ♥
I was literally going through a burn out when God led me to this video!Seriously I mentally gave up I was about to cry my eyes out from all the overwhelming things I have to deal with. I locked myself in my room and opened my phone, one of my kids had a video up so I closed it and the first video I seen was yours. Now 20 minutes later I have hope and a smile on my face. I can't thank you enough for blessing me with this information and getting my mindset back on track! ❤❤❤Many blessings to you and your family!
God is good! I am so glad it lifted your mood and I am praying for you
I am blessed to have watched this beautiful video. As I am in a waiting season for my husband to come into the life God has given me. This video has taught me how to be a wife that my future husband deserves. I don't want to be the neck (controller) but a crown (proverbs 12:4), where things need to be taken care of to have my future provider (husband) to be proud of me of making our home look good. Thank you, sister in Christ. You are loved by many.
As wives and mothers, we do these things unto the Lord because of our deep abiding love and gratitude for Him and our salvation. If that is not our number one motivation then everything else is an idol of the heart, yes, even good gifts like a husband and children and our efforts can eventually turn sour and hearts bitter. But if we do things in honor and glory of our Lord that is what fuels and sustains our deep love for others, especially our husband and children, so that we can steward our good gifts well. Prepare for marriage and motherhood but not so much that you miss or are distracted from what God is doing in your heart & life in the season you're in. Much of what you learn about marriage and motherhood is learned "as you go" anyway 🙂
Our home reflects our chaotic, messy but above all happy and loving family. We are a family of four creative individuals. Or home is perhaps not perfectly tidy all the time, but there is lots of laughs and warmth. Me and my husband both work, and we share the housework equally. But spending time with our sons has always been the priority.
This video is speaking directly to my heart. We have moved, twice, in two years; had another baby, lost family members and so much more. I am now also a stay at home mom and it is the best part of my life journey thus far! Everything you mentioned is what I needed to hear. The past couple days I have felt God speaking to me about my habits and routines. I am hearing him louder now more than I had before, and why is it? My husband has now deployed again and we expect him back in about a year. I believe He has put me in this place to bring me closer to Him. Thank you for your videos
I appreciate that you are lifting up the concepts of making yourself and your home presentable. Considering that laziness would leave yourself and your home a chaotic mess, I think everyone could agree that organization and some extra effort in both of those areas raises your esteem, your energy, and cares for your temple as well as your home in honor of God. Not only does a tidy home raise your spirits, but everyone around you. And when you look put together, others respect you more, even if it is your children and your husband, everyone recognizes effort and care.
It was a little difficult seeing some of the comments come at you like something you said was incorrect. Truly you are leading us in a direction of peace, of cleanliness, of care for yourself and your home for the glory of God. Thank you for this video, I will be subscribing.
I also want to mention I've been putting off getting up an hour early which I used to do to read my Bible or to shower, but I've put it off so that my younger children will run upstairs when they wake up and snuggle in bed with me before I get up. The hard truth is knowing that the shower and the reading may or may not happen that day if I don't do it in the morning. I also know this is a season where my little ones like to snuggle. So maybe I will start to do those early mornings a few days a week so I can still get that morning snuggle now and then. ❤
At this mama’s faith I just thank God for you! This morning I did my bed lol I sprayed it with febreze. I had not done laundry for over 2 weeks. My baby and I were struggling with what to wear. I realized that I wasn’t being a good steward of my child. You got me when you said what are they going to remember about their childhood. Oh! I am so blessed by your videos. My child is 12 years old and I felt bad that I’ve shown her no structure this long, but I will be creating a routine. Thank you for allowing God to use you. Days earlier I had anointed my work space at work and yesterday I felt an “itch” to organize it and it is a better work environment and I even felt kinder when speaking to customers.
I wish I came across your channel months ago. My x partner and I married young and I had no idea what it meant to be a wife,SAHM, and homemaker. I lacked and he became unhappy and left. I wish he had more patience for me to learn and grow but now I will allow God to prepare for my next partner if that’s what He has planned for me..
Sorry to hear your husband left…but please don’t blame yourself or your lack of knowledge in certain areas. Marriage for the first time…specially at a young age means you will not know a lot of things and will learn and grow together. If he left that was his choice based on other things (trust me). You don’t leave someone you love because they don’t know how to wash dishes, make the bed, or sweep the floor. Stay strong and trust that God has someone better for you. 🌻
Tell me if that makes sense bc I still don’t understand it. He says it’s disrespectful or I didn’t love him enough to do those household chores to his specific standards no matter how much good intentions I put behind my efforts. If I loved him enough I would do it the way he liked it. With two under two I felt overwhelmed by those demands
I feel ya on this one !! My hubby has mentioned leaving a few times
But progress is what we can do !! And I will pray for you!!!
The Lord is your strength, God is our teacher, I was also lacking, not domestically speaking but in other areas of my marriage but thank God for being my teacher he taught me where I lacked and things got better. I'm still not perfect but I have learnt a lot from yielding my self to the holy spirit. Sorry about your marriage. Trust God and he will help you.@@ChristinaArt
@@ChristinaArtIt sounds like your ex husband is a narcissist. Look up Dr. Ramani on here, and narcissistic abuse recovery.
I think this video is perfect a home is somewhere cozy and safe for our families. I am so grateful and especially now when floods destroyed so many homes I want to just remember gratitude each day.
Yes, I'm struggling as a Catholic, homeschooling mom of 6. Thanks for your channels.
Your voice is so calming for me! I love to listen while I do my chores. ♥️
Just found your channel❤ I do the 3 Rs, but in reverse. I read my Bible, then chores (I have diary cows), then reset my area, then ready myself. If I got ready first those cows would make me a mess. I usually come back with hay in my hair😂
Home not only reflects women but how all members take responsibilities of helping each other in taking care of it.
Yes! And the woman is in charge of delegating and managing. Children aren’t born knowing how to take responsibility and help
Members include husband
I'm listening to your previous video as I'm hemming a widowed pastor's pants for him late at night.
I'm at a stage when I need to work outside the home and am preparing for nursing school to do what God is telling me. .. He will give me strength. .. And the JOY of the Lord is my strength. I release unto Him everything that is not Joy and Peace.
So adorable how the chickens come waddling out and up to their food! 💖🐔💖🐔
I realized as I was watching your video the guilt and condemnation I've been carrying when desiring to get ready in the morning, shop for a new wardrobe, and overcome this feeling of feeling ugly and lazy and looking a mess ... thoughts of it being wrong to desire or like it shouldn't matter as much as it has been to me. Thanking Jesus for your video and for showing me it IS okay to take care of myself not just first but also.
Thank you for these videos! 🙏 I became a stay at home mom after having my third child and my husband and I are trying to cultivate a more structured, Christian home ❤
It reflects my pregnancy right now. If you struggle like i do and its not your typical routine to be chronically fatigued your not alone. Don't beat yourself up for not being able to do tasks you used to be able to do.
Thanks for this. I struggle with staying in bed in the morning, not getting ready, and getting derailed by details when I should be doing the basics. Your three R's and the food, clothing, and clean shelter have really helped me today, at least mentally. Now it's putting it into practice!
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I kind of feel hopeless sometimes. I'm 16 and my mom hasn't really taught me how to do feminine things. This has really made me feel down about myself. Also, I'm not trying to blame my mom, I think I definitely need to put more effort into it now that I'm getting older. But I've never had that boost. I don't know where to start. I don't know how to cook, do my hair nice, dress in a feminine way, or do literally any homemaking things. I just feel like a failure of a woman and I'm so masculine that I hate it so much. I hate feeling this way. Sorry for venting I just need to get this off my chest and hopefully I might receive good advice on what to do.
First step is recognizing your lack! You’re on your way! I was married at 23 and knew nothing I’d say you’re ahead of the game. You got this!
Lifting you up in prayer!
Father God thank you for your beautiful daughter who you created in your image. Please take away her hopeless feelings and replace them with joy and peace. Please reveal your purpose and plan to her so she can continue to grow in wisdom and skill. Jesus thank you for being the firm foundation we can build our life upon, Amen
I’m glad you were able to find this page. She’s is an amazing person to learn from. Praying for more success in your life. Have a great day ❤
Remember you don’t have to do all the things all at the same time. Take one thing out of your clothing that doesn’t make you feel feminine and replace with one thing that does and modest clothing is beautiful and feminine. When you get your hair done ask for them to show you how to style an easy everyday look. Learn how to cook just one dinner and later on just bill on it. You tube is great on how to videos. Praying your blessed and look to proverbs 31 as an encouragement and a prayer, to be a Godly young woman!!
Keep searching for blogs and channel like this one. And start with small changes , consistent changes until they become habits. And pick up new ones and give yourself time to change. Also , while doing that extend your grace to your mom. Most likely something went wrong for her that she wasn’t able to provide a warm , orderly home for you. God bless you!
Gentle, touching, genuine wisdom, encouragement and inspiration 💕
Thank you so much for such a kind comment 🤎
Thank you so much.
.. I'm 52. I appreciate you sharing here what the Lord taught you. And I believe it will help my mental state as well as my husband's. 🌹
Thank you so much, Sister. God bless you.
This video really motivated me! I am 20 weeks pregnant with 3rd baby and having lots of pelvic girdle pain. 😢 I'm a home keeper with my husband working hard full tim3 for us. I know he deserves a clean house to come home to... si fo my chidren. I want to honor God by keeping my home... even if/whem my body is killing me.
Hi dear, I am a homemaker and mum of 2 toddlers. Please take things easy because pelvic girdle pain is not easy. Part of homemaking is also being healthy for the family. Wholelistic living I call it😊
You show up for the family as best as you can but not at the expense of your health.
I am also a youtuber and sometimes we don't show how messy things can be. Please take this phase of your life easy and once you have your baby, you can resume having the place spotless and awesome😊
God loves you and be blessed❤
Remember everyone is on a different season of their live, I used to see videos and get frustrated bc I couldn't achieve all they use to show you on the videos, but I understood, we all need to work with what we have, and do what we can ❤❤
I'm sure you're doing the BEST you can, I had that same pain with my 3rd and it was brutally painful to do anything or get anything done. God bless you 🙏
I'll never forget the advice mum mum gave me when I could not do as much as I wanted to do for my family especially after giving birth or when sick, she reminded me how she was always on her toes caring for everyone and the farm plus her home, and forgot all about herself which affected her health. The point is take a break, heal, ask for help no shame in that, reprenish your body since after birth sorry to say we are as delicate as that infant and our soul body and spirit need rest if we want to be at peace with everything.
Please consider that the person making this video isn’t pregnant or have little children running around, God is a God of love! Your home does not reflect who you are, your value was determined on the cross! Jesus died for you and wants you to live life to the fullest. Your contribution to your family is so important. Your body is working overtime to produce this beautiful baby, therefore please have grace with your self just as God does. You are giving your 100 percent, remember the day the lord blessed was the 7th day. The day he rested! 😊
🙏🏼 excellent example on starting the day and how to make a house a home that your husband and children are going to enjoy being in🥰 and creating memories.
Great refreshers, even for us, empty nesters. We always need reminded about our focus.
First time here and have liked, subscribed and shared!!! Watching this video after intuitively completing my 3 Morning Rs was part of my “self care plan” for today! Home making is such a lost art in our generation. I’m here to unlearn, learn, and relearn. Thank you kindly for this and be blessed, beloved!
Oh man... as soon as I saw the title of the video I had conviction big time. 😂❤ Love your channel. Thanks for being a great deliverer of God's timely word. 🙏 bless you
Conviction is the beginning of repentance and growing in humility as we conform to Christ ❤
You are so blessed to not have to go to the laundromat! 🙏 And I luv your homemaking style! The 3 R's- Readin, Rightin, and Rithmetic 🤗
This was so nice to watch but discouraging at the same time. We’re in a season of lots of littles and trying to manage everything alone is very hard so I definitely feel guilty when our atmosphere isn’t warm and cozy in our home. I’m hoping to (in the future) be able to make my house feel more homey (decore-wise) but it’s a slow process in getting my husband on board!
You're so not alone, I have 3 under age of 6 and all day it's a battle to keep anything clean or caught up, it's a battle.😅 we're in a season with our Littles and this too shall pass. I'm wishing you the best with your precious family and God bless ❤
@idepartasair God bless you and your family, I can imagine how hard that is with your living situation 🙏 give yourself grace and know one day we pray you will be blessed with the house of your dreams💖
Start small. Maybe with having family dinners if that is possible. Doing everything at one and keeping an orderly home whire raising little ones is not always possible. Keep things simple, offer food the children would eat, have them help cook for daddy (the food they like😊) , and try to enjoy it. Small steps .
Give yourself grace. When you have very young children it’s hard to keep the home tidy all the time. When mine were little I had someone tell me that I should have decor on my tables and such. I was like why?? The kids will just play with it and it will end up on the floor. Now they are teens and young adults, my home has decor all over. 😆 Enjoy that age because it seriously goes by too fast. You’ll have time to have a well put together home soon enough.
Thank you so much for this video, I like how gentle you are in explaining things and you are encouraging. May GOD continue to bless you Sister in CHRIST❤️
Wow this video has absolutely motivated me. I really needed this. I have so watched you grow over the years that i have been following you. Im amazed at Gods work and how much you do for the Lord. Thank you so much for this video.
Thank you, Tabitha - so much. I really love you and your content and gorgeous family. You really encourage this rather isolated home schooling Christian wife and mama of five xxx
Thanks for sharing the couch. I’ve been waiting two years. I think this will be a perfect fit for our family.
We really have been loving it
This video is packed with such incredible information! I will definitely be listening to this one a lot while working on my home❤
Thank you, you encouraged me to be a better keeper of the home ❤
Loved ❤ this video Tabitha. So nice to see a young wife and mother live this out. Your husband and children are very blessed to have you. God bless you and your family.
Love the couch! The dark color would be good for our large family too. Looks like the sections clip together well. Our sectional separates often 🤦♀
I ABSOLUTELY NEEDED THIS VIDEO! I am so grateful to you for making this beautiful inspiring video. I have followed your homeschool channel for years and I’m excited to support this channel as well. I would really appreciate a video of a day in your life! I struggle to find balance with maintaining myself, my home and still be really effective in homeschool and keeping my kids responsible for their own chores too. Hoping I get the hang of it soon. 🥰 Thanks again for the video!!
Hi, can you please tell me what the homeschool channel is called?
Thank you for sharing this video. I have been struggling lately with keeping up with my home and family and working outside of my home. Especially on this cold virus season. But watching this video helped in putting things into perspective and knowing that it will all take some time and with the help of the Lord it’s all possible 😇💕
Highlight. Once youve decluttered and when youre in a giod groove with youre routine, thats when you cn fall in love with your home and make it your own.
I love your videos. I have started to love being a proverb 21 women. I pray you have a blessed week. I know I have been blessed watching your videos and have learned so much. Thank you
God bless you, thank you for this video. I am finding home making very overwhelming, there seems to be too much clutter, too much mess and so much to do. I am intending on focusing on the Lord more and inviting Him into everything so I can see what He wants for our family, I'd like to get ride of a lot of stuff. How can I clean when there are so many items everywhere. AHH. We'll get there
Amen.
I love all your scriptural references. Faithful instruction is surely on your lips.
God bless you too!
This is such a beautiful place to be❤.I am a career woman but admire this kind of life,i hope some day we all can be able to live the life we admire.
Amen!
I enjoyed this so much. I've missed your videos. They really bless me. Ty Tabitha.
Amen love watching these peaceful kind of homemaking videos when im cleaning the home or folding laundry, I'm also a homemaker and homeschooling mom of 7❤
new subscriber :)
Thank you for all this biblical encouragement!
GOD is so faithful!! Bless you for this beautiful video.
Great start to my Sunday morning😍😍 can’t wait for the laundry routine video😃😃
I’m excited to share
I loooooveeee ....it is so therapeutic to watch this
Much love from Africa
Thank you for this video.
I am a Christian woman, and i have been struggling with balancing home and work. There is much clutter, and I desire to have a home that reflects me. I will adopt some of these tips, which are helpful.
Thank you again.
This is a complete video that i would like to rewatch whenever i m down on my emotions n demotivated,
Thank you dear sister
My husband and I have inherited our home from a bit of a hoarder and much of the excess was left for us to clean up. I wasn't able to do much for the first year because the last resident (family) was still coming to get things sometimes. When I was able to start really working on it I was 6 weeks PP with my first, and my husband was 1 week post major vehicle accident which almost left him paralyzed. I have been working on it for 4 months and I'm still so overwhelmed by much of it, but I have made so much progress, I want my husband to be proud of what I've done so far. I feel like everything has fallen on me and I'm doing my best to do it all. After this video I feel a little less guilty about not having a solid routine yet and still having things I don't love about my home. I'm changing my home to reflect my skills as a wife, it doesn't have to be perfect yet, it's transforming by God's grace giving me the strength to shoulder this season until I am able to really bloom. Thank you for encouraging videos.
Beautiful ❤ Praying for you and your family. May God's grace continue to sustain you and may you continue to cling to His strength. 🙏🏼
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Could you please do a video on homesteading, freeze drying, milling your own wheat, etc.? I'd love to learn more!
Currently dating but love your verses to back what you’re telling us! It really inspired me to create my home a nice place whilst dating. To prepare ❤
First video of yours that has come across my feed. 41 seconds in and had to pause… couldn’t find the subscribe button fast enough. 🥰👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🙏🏼❤️
Now to continue watching… 😍
I appreciate your videos.
I believe in living a Godly good life.
I pray God give more grace for those women that have had trauma. It effects the brain. Also, I pray for those women that have health issues. No matter how much you pray. Pain effects the motivation. May the good Lord give these women more grace to have a well kept home and glorify God!
Love this video! Thanks for sharing. So cute the way your dog was staring at you ❤ you are so blessed with a beautiful family, home, and animals
It was only today that I first saw the amazingly beautiful surroundings you live in. A place full of trees.😍😍😍❤️
I love this video ❤so lovely, the content, the voice is so soft and nice to hear! Thank you so much! Mam this is a big help for my homemaking routine ❤❤❤God bless you more 🙏🙏🙏💙💙💙💙
I understand doing some things without your kids, but I think scripture reading should be done with your kids and in front of your kids sometimes too. If you want your kids to grow up loving/reading scriptures, then they need to see you do it. They need to hear you talk about it too and be taught by you. That way they can hopefully learn to love it as well.
Absolutely! I read them the Bible every day at breakfast.
Thank you for your videos, Tabitha! These are so encouraging for me in my homemaking journey. May God bless you always!
How much time do you read the Bible each morning?
Thank you,
I just quit my job of 20 years to become a homemaker. It has been the hardest thing ever for me to do. This video pops up.. I clicked on it and felt welcome right away... If you are a new homemaker I suggest forwarding this to others who may be starting out as a homemaker.
I was always a neat person but to have the time to read the BIBLE was what I was most missing. No social media just quite time with God.
Thank you sweet Lady for this video
Thank you very much for the feeling of peace and such love that warmed my heart. I wish to carry it to my home.
Hello Tabitha!!! Beautiful words of wisdom!!! You are such a blessing to your husband and children!!! Starting the day off with God's word makes the day so much better. Thank you for this video it was a blessing to me!!! Take care God bless 😊❤
Its so peaceful watching your videos. So wise for being so young.
What a beautiful video.
I just found you and after watching just one video I’m subscribing💕
Thank you! Such a beautiful message ❤️
This is really inspiring. Thanks so much for sharing this wisdom with us
So glad you enjoyed it!
Thanks so much for this breakdown! When do you actually homeschool and how do you plan for it in your schedule?And what do you fo for snacks? Do you make all of you guys' snacks?
We homeschool from 9-2 with an hour break for lunch. I’ve been trying to make more snacks homemade! We used to do a lot of prepackaged stuff 🫣 muffins, fruit, veggie with ranch, hard boiled eggs, bread etc is what we do now
So much a blessing! Thank you!
Thank you for this encouragement 💗 I've been struggling with our home and going to use these recommendations.
I’m really thankful I came across your content. It’s really helping me as a SAHW 😊
Lovely ❤
A couple of sermons I would like to recommend for anyone who is struggling; they are all by Charles Stanley:
1. The Courage to Keep Going
2. The Key to Continuing Peace
3. The Habits of a Godly Mother
These are all life-changing!
This is frustrating. I worry so much about how our home and home life reflects myself as well how my kids will look back one day. I am very disappointed with how things are currently. But I feel completely helpless to change. I feel like I have no control over my home, yet I am the one judged. 😞
I know this feeling well… Jesus sees who you really are. What is written about costly attire and stylish hairdos also applies to your home. The home does NOT reflect who you are. It reflects in what conditions you live. And while making everything nice for your family can be an expression of love and care, it can also be an expression of shallowness and vanity. What is it like to be told by your mom that all you ever do is ruin her beautiful clean home? What is it like to not be allowed on the sofa (like a dog!) because it is white? What is it like to not be allowed to collect pebbles, or to see your mom throw away what you crafted for her just a few hours ago because it is “only a dust catcher”? Visitors will say “what a lovely home”, but your kids would know it was not…
What really matters is, are you there for them when they need you? Do you listen to them? When they do something wrong, do you bother to find out why and do you help them to find better solutions? Do you know what they like, what they wish, what they fear? Are they allowed to bring friends? Do they trust you in general?
I responded to someone else's comment similar to yours with this: Do not worry about how your efforts look to others even those in your household. It will enslave you to the "works" part of being a homemaker which is not what a Proverbs 31 woman is at her core, though many people try to push that (do this to be a good Christian wife, do that to be a good Christian mother, etc). But before you can think about the "doing" part being a joy to your life, you need to look at the heart as scripture says, God cares not of outward appearances but of the heart. That scripture was written about those with works based mentality and religiosity for its own sake... but God wants to conform you to Christ first and foremost. As wives and mothers, we do the work of homemaking unto the Lord because of our deep abiding love and gratitude for Him and our salvation. If that is not our number one motivation then everything else is an idol of the heart, yes, even good gifts like a husband and children and our efforts can eventually turn sour and hearts bitter. But if we do things in honor and glory of our Lord that is what fuels and sustains our deep love for others, especially our husband and children, so that we can steward our good gifts well.
Thank you so so much for making this video. I will apply now.
So grateful for your peaceful videos! Very encouraging. It's also pretty neat that I noticed you also use Melaleuca products!! We do as well. Thanks from a household of 10 ranging from ages 4-64!! I needed this encouragement!
Tabitha thank you again for such a wonderful video. This is exactly where I am right now and this is so helpful. ❤ May God bless you ❤
Lovely video and even more important message. Love the crucifix 🙏🏽 God bless you.
Thank you! Listen while I was doing my FlyLady evening-routine. 🙏❤️
I am a new subscriber and like your timetable for homemaking! I find splitting chores into specific 'days' can help to fend off the overwhelm x
I was praying and I found this video. Thank you. Very inspiring
I’ve been waking up your videos which has started my day so nicely. Do you have a video of nighttime prayers to settle down for sleep. Thanks
You have so much wisdom for someone so young! ❤ Love this video .
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I'm curious your kids ages? I also have 6 and I do stay in my pajamas and restful through breakfast because we are very much in a stage where I'm constantly feeding and changing diapers and I would have to leave them crying to get done up and have bible time. I do listen during the morning but it's while I do other things.
You are the best sister ❤. God bless you
NO SISTER THE HOME DOES NOT REFLECT THE WOMAN! We are the reflection and the image of Jesus. So even on days when our homes look like chaos and our kids are screaming cause they are sick and we are giving our best we still can be at perfect peace because we are the reflection of the most high God, because we are at peace with God and friends with the Holy Spirit.
Adelelobo5321, studies show that the your surroundings do indeed reflect your mental state, former trauma, etc. Please do some research because what she has to say is important.
I love your sentiment about being in perfect peace no matter what but also feel very strongly what @GLT2024 said
Proverbs 14:1 explains how our impact on our home is extremely important.
@ThisMamasFaith this does not mean we should feel guilty if our house is not perfect. Excuse me but sometimes our house will be chaotic and messy especially with lots of children around. One day only has 24 hours and it's more important interacting with your children, playing with them and not shouting at them for not keeping the house clean than trying to keep the house perfectly clean. And u r only human
@ThisMamasFaith and u r only human and u may be too tired sometimes to deal with the mess at once and leave it for the next day and that s all right...Don t aim for perfection. It s in accepting our weaknesses that we grow, not in struggling to be perfect
Love your video. So peaceful and inspiring. Thank you.
I just found your channel and love it! Where is this beautiful place, what state are you in? Thank you for taking us along on your day, it never gets boring to see how another faith filled woman lives. I know I'll find some peace and motivation watching your videos!
This video helped me so much. We just found out a couple of weeks ago that I am pregnant with baby number three (3 in 3 years) and I am feeling so overwhelmed and stressed with taking care of the home, especially since we will be moving soon. This video brought me peace and inspiration that I really needed this morning. Thank you so much ♡ .
My third under 3 is now 6mo, i think it was easier than 2 under 2! I did have family/husband help the first month though
@@HisChild099 Thank you so much, this is so reassuring!
This was such a blessing - I never knew it was called neurodivergent that I was but that’s def what it is! This was so comforting and most importantly inspiring to me to get my house in order :) thank you sister
❤ your channel sis. It helps me alot in my homemaking. 👍
I love your videos on this channel. Generally, I get up and do something during yours. But man, I’ve been struggling with apathy and even anger lately. Upset and lacking creativity during my newly established homeschooling and dealing with a boy who just doesn’t want to do what he doesn’t want to do. I want to wake up early, but the babies wake up with me no matter what. I feel like I never get to recharge, therefore I’m rubbing my kids of the fun loving version of myself who seems to be on hiatus. Bleh.
I get you. It’s cause you are overwhelmed and overstimulated
Wonderful video! Much needed! Thank you so much 💕
Thank you for this video. I’m looking forward to your laundry system video!
You got it! I can’t wait to share that one with you!
I love your outdoor views.