How to outsmart female manipulation and emasculation when dating WOMEN (exact guide)
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Casey can you do a video on those of us who are already in exclusive committed relationships?
My first serious relationship lasted 12 years with a 8/9
Then my next was with a 6 and the whole time she sees me a 8/9 and is paranoid. Ultimately leaving me for a guy who's a 5/6....the exact thing she said she'll never be with, short, fat, bald...
Such badass dude🎉.. blessings man..
blessings
Casey, for better understanding, I'd like to know, and I think I'm not the only one, what demographic of girls you encounter.... ?
In majority of Casey's vids the common denominator is the Not caring part but the problem is when u already are a caring dude switching up ain't easy
You can care but you should not be needy. That's the difference. Don't expect anything back and she will respect you for that at least. The only way to go in life.
And of course if you really DO have few options, you will naturally care, and it is hard to hide it for long periods of time.
Bro you are not wrong, the not caring bit messes with your emotions, it's the common denominator that has let me down throughout my dating life
Being caring is a feminine quality. Harness your masculinity and it will come naturally
Ok Mr. Care bear. If you really cared about her you'd stop caring about her lol
They take kindness for weakness. Spot on
They take allmost everything as weakness 😂 except money, status and other women.
@@Myrslokstokthey take everything as weakness
@@mgway4661
Yes, except that if you would CARE about your:
money,
status and
all the women that chase you,
women would most likly even take that as a sign of weakness. It is only if you don't give a f**k they start to care!
Projecting how they feel shity for being weak
@mgway4661 they can project their interpretation into anything. Just let it roll off, lead and make sure she actually worth leading
as a 36 year old man. I can promise you Casey is giving everyone great guidelines here. Just be cool fellas! It's that simple! slow down your man machine computer in every way around the one you like. GOD SPEED!
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I learned this "accidentally" while doing Semen Retention.... once you're no longer a slave to your sex drive, it becomes easier to just chill when talking to women. And oddly enough, this creates a TON of sexual tension (and curiosity) within women because they're not use to talking to men that have sexual restraint and discipline.
The women all have the same thought: "Wait a minute, we just had a great conversation and NOT ONCE did he hit on me or ask for my number...... I must figure him out." *And then the chase begins!*
I like that
Girls actually do want enjoyment and for you to enjoy yourself like the cat and dog videos. It's _nurturing._
LOL enjoy not caring when you kissing day girl and tasting ma salty goodness on her lips 😂😂😂
Preserving your masculinity comes from unlearning the bs programming society forced you into
So much gynocentric programming in the world
Society has steadily been brainwashing men to be afraid of being masculine men!!! Yet we hear in Casey's videos that women lie about really desiring, truly masculine men (by their hypergamy ... !
Nah, it’s just being a normal, healthy, rational adult. Stop crying about “society” & listening to “pseudo gurus” & build some actual self respect.
Amen, brother..
@@JordanQuest_ total clownery 🤣
here's the easy version: STOP CARING
YES BRO. JUST DON’T GIVE A FUCK !
You can care, just care about YOURSELF more.
@@papiertje2261 yeap lets go there show how not care in front of her in a restaurant date
it's not that easy unless you can absolutely turn off your emotion like a robot or something, but you can make it works just like that, with stoicism and or with perseverance/patient
Right, the true message is actually care about yourself and your goals, naturally you will never care about them too much. The real problem here is most dudes have no goals that they really care about. Find purpose. @the-real-super-genius
It’s easy to not care once you know that almost all of them have someone on the side. There’s always another guy in the picture somewhere at some level for most. Taking her seriously after knowing this is just foolishness.
This is true. Because they always think they can do better and they love attention and validation that orbiters provide. Married women are the worst because they know they're in a comitted relationship which can feel like a prison if they're not being treated like a princess and a goddess. They will go out of their way to entice other men to make themselves feel wanted, going even so far as to cheat so they can think they still got it, even if they were just being used for sex
Very true. It hurts to know but it's better/safer for your own mental to assume that then not
This is a very advanced subject that I struggle with.
Is it ‘sour grapes’ or is it not being willing to put in the work?
It’s almost like you have to
Acknowledge they are disabled and choose to forgive them for it to press on. Otherwise it’s like you said and why would we not be grossed out that playing these games is a pre req?
Idk man. I’m getting better every few months but resent the process along the way even though it very clearly is effective
Correct! There's always one in the bushes thinking he still "owns" her and another in the driveway waiting to get in--while you're inside thinking you're the only one. Always. No exceptions. It's the way it is. Don't play yourself.
Pretty much how i feel. They're masters at spinning plates. Not a one of them truly single. Whether it's fwb/instagram or dating app/hot guy from gym/spring break hook ups/or the nice guy thats emotionally fcking her good, pick the role you want to be in. Sounds like black pill stuff but pretty accurate. Even the 'I don't care bad boys' are probably getting cheated on. I sound harsh but the way I view it is..sure you can play the game but are you really winning..? I totally get the passport bros movement lol
Simple way to understand all of this: Act like the prize, not the prize winner.
If you act like shes the prize, she'll agree, and she'll leave you for someone who makes her feel like the prize winner. No one w ants to feel as though theyre dating down.
✨👍 Excellent point made! ❤
Casey is spot on here.
The most attractive place to be is slightly out of reach. If you put in effort you are within reach. If you aren’t dating multiple options you are within reach, if you have to invest time, money, or emotion you are within reach. For her to actually want you she must believe she is getting someone out of her reach. That’s when she puts in WORK!
When she puts in work to earn you as a man, it means she values her effort. Therefore expects a return. She will keep working to the point she will provide you with all the benefits to ensure you stay.
Yep can't get yours if you give it away and she relying on you to be the rock.
Casey is throwing absolute gems:
"Women copy that other women do"
No surprise marriage and no divorce culture were pretty common 100+ years ago when a woman didn’t want to be that one woman, the outsider, who got divorced and was shunned. Until culture changes women change, they’re followers, not leaders
@@DD-xw6uw
Nothing screams “follower” than having reprogram who you are because some pseudo dating guru tells you to behave to a certain way. The reality is simple: 100 years ago, women didn’t have the opportunity, the wealth, the career, the autonomy & now that they do being a man requires more than just having a “paycheck” she has to rely on! The answer isn’t “be someone you’re not” or blame women & culture, it’s to make yourself the BEST VERSION of yourself you can possibly be! Newsflash; most human beings are not leaders, in fact the majority of men are not leaders & that’s why you’re here trying to change your entire identity just o get “women” to like you. 🤦🏼♂️
Funny story. I'm a class and multiple women pregnant or recently gave birth. I asked _"why?"_
I couldn't script this but in unison many of them responded _"because it's a social expectation"_
.... and they push their social expectation onto you and their relationships. 😂❤
@ that’s too funny. Women are social creatures more than men. They’ll do anything they think society expects of them, that’s why they do stupid things on Tik Tok. If society became all red pilled so would the women
This happens to me every single time a girl is into me and I’m not into her. The more I don’t engage, the more attracted she becomes. I just blew off plans with a girl I’ve been seeing for a month or so over the weekend to meet up with another girl. She of course got super butt hurt and deleted me from all socials (I refused to give her my phone number when we met) and then added me back two days later and sent me a bunch of messages. It was kinda sad honestly bc I at least respected her for deleting me bc what I did was a dick move. Treat a girl like dirt, she’ll stick to you like mud.
304s gonna 304 🤣😂
"treat a girl like dirt, she will stick to you like mud" hahahah I hadn't heard that one before. Brilliant
It is funny. The only reason why showing no attention to women actually works is because they always get attention, but they’re not smart enough to know that and appreciate how good they have it.
They're only like that until they get you. Once that challenge has been completed, they move on. She's more concerned with winning the game than winning you at this point. She overplayed her hand. She probably feels like a fool and she should
You must be banging her well
I am 49 years old. Take care of myself. Have my shit together. Been dating a hot 22-year-old med school woman for months. Used the techniques from these videos and she was all about me. We would go places and people would stare at her and then look at me and go how the fuck did he get her
Played it right everything fantastic Then, I started to spend a lot more time with her and feelings got involved. I was fucking fighting the feelings because I knew if I allowed myself to get attached, it would be game over. Sure enough this week she is now pulling back and I can see the end of this relationship. Kicking myself because I did not stay on doing what I should have and allowed feelings to get the best of me.
It is very difficult to not care, but Casey is spot on. I’ve been married before and using his steps, even in a marriage, where those steps would be modified a bit would work.
Not caring is difficult, but it is something that we have to do Keep the wall up and focus on yourself and bettering yourself while dating
At least you got some young pussy. It was never gonna last tbh
It's probably an age gap too. It's really hard to treat this kind of relationship as serious and plan a family. Simply because it's very likely you'll be dead in 20 years or will be a grandpa for your kids.
So I think it was a short fun ride from the start.
57 here and I can attest to this as I was dating a 35 year old. You have to keep NOT caring
I think its possible to reverse it if you keep yourself a way, go on a travel, meeting other women etc.
@@andreasfahlen4936 You are right she started texting me 3 weeks later when I cut her off...but I was already involved with a 47 year old...if that fails I will hit her up again
From my own personal experience of 15 years dating women, Casey is right.
Live with purpose and become so independent that you stop being affected by what others think or do.
When you meet women, you'll be so unfazed by their behavior that whether they like you or not won't matter-you'll continue living your life on your terms.
That is TRUTH.
@@MiguelMolina-e3z that is _zen_ 😂
I think an important distinction to clarify here is being masculine in your own nature versus demonstrating masculine traits towards a woman you like. Maintaining masculine traits (emotional independence, confidence, strong beliefs etc.) is always going to be attractive.
It’s when you start directing that energy towards a specific person that can make you appear to lose value. Essentially don’t try to lead or control a woman too early because it signals buy in.
Every man is masculine.
I learned it the hard way casey is right ✅️
As a simp nice guy product of a sociopath mother it's hard to take advantage of people but that's what girls want
This is the best video you have done in several months in my opinion, thank you
Casey , I am 62 , have had a boatload of beauties in my time , hard work , enjoyed it but everything u say is true have learnd the lesson the hard way , wish I had these sort of educational vids in my day 😂 27 yrs married now under my own fk it attitude , thanks
I here ya !!!! I'm 61, retired from Boeing and saved my money. I got cancer and struggled for several months with it. I came out the other side a beast. Never been stronger mentally in my life. My wife decided she "needed time to think" and left. She came back 3 days later to our $700,000 home and wanted to come back. I cut that hooker off. She is weak and pathetic and I no longer want her. She is a useless human being and a lying scheming punk. I live in the house because she can not afford to live in it and pay the bills. I can. Sucks for her because by law she can come back but I will make her pay half the bills she still can not afford. As I schooled her on picking fights with a man who has nothing to lose, I asked her if she would like me to crush her credit and abandoned the house, she retreated. Now she is singing the blues .......... LMAO ............ AND I DO NOT CARE !!!!! You see, the opposite of love is not hate, but "I do not care" ............. Lesson learned and life is good !!!!!! 🙂
What does "married under my own attitude" mean?
That he's does what he wants and has enjoyed it
@@wanderingdoc5075being 58, I think I can explain. Lad, we are old. We think that our time perishes. So... We feel that we have to live on our terms the remain of our precious lives. So... We don't give a pig's dirty ass, about her feelings. It is our way or get-the-fuck-out-of-sight, way. We do not have time to lose in this stupidity. A lot of us, and definitely me, are rude. We mainly know our value. Thus we come in absolute alliance with Casey. Thus my question above.
As for you, make sure you enjoy your life. You only get one.
Yep they flip the script out if nowhere just for their own fun. It's called _narcissism_
The messiah Casey has spoken very well again. Not shy to say he has added much value to my dating life. Concealing my interest level has been a major key to getting much of what I want from my women. Life is getting better by the day.
Yep. It's magic. Before I started watching Casey videos I would go on date after date and if the girl was a cutie I had a knack for never getting a 2nd date. Once I started watching his videos, suddenly it became commonplace for me to be getting hand jobs, blow jobs, hook ups, etc on the first date and almost always get 2nd dates and beyond .
This sounds like a lot of work for women… I think I’m just gonna chill.
Yoo this guy understood the assignment the best😂
Not caring is no work at all.
You're wrong, the only "work" you're seeing is the rewritting of your false ideologies. This is much much simpler and natural to true masculine essence.
based and redpilled
The most important point from this video is the signaling masculinity bit, the amount of times I’ve heard a girl say they would love X/Y treatment e.g someone who pays for everything or consistent gm texts etc. and then still lose feelings for the guy that gives them an overdose of this treatment radicalized me completely and I’m never going back
I agree with most of this, but you don’t have to date more than one at a time if you’re not that type of Man. I think as long as she knows other women would talk to you & find you attractive you’re fine
Dating doesn’t seem to mean the same thing for everyone. That’s what I have noticed the main issues are when he says to date multiple women
No it is an absolute MUST that you date multiple or else she will sniff out your scarcity mindset
It's much better to actually work on yourself and be okay being alone, so you don't even have a scarcity mindset to sniff out.
My girl knows I'm faithful and love her. She also knows I have standards and expectations, and will leave if they aren't met
Keeping a rotation to hide a scarcity mindset and/or to keep the upper hand, tells me you're not in control of yourself or the situation, and that it will get exposed and unravel somewhere down the road
@DoloDezi that's a myth created by dorks
Can you explain more? “to keep the upper hand tells me youre not in control of yourself or the situation”
Bottom line, love yourself, love God, do things that bring meaning and purpose to your life and manage your money wisely.
I’m forever changed kuz I watched these videos. Casey always pops in my head now when things are going down in RL
Spent the last yr slowly relaxing and doing exactly what is said at the start of the video. I'm sat here laughing about how right this man is. Casey is right ✅
your past few videos have been on the money 🎯
"1 is too close to zero, 2 is too close to 1." Best & most memorable quote for 2025! Priceless my friends..
You out here saving lives brother
I’m not playing any manipulation games. I can recognize genuine care from the beginning, either they like me for who I am or they don’t, what they think of me is of little concern
This the one…
That’s how you find a true soulmate
As a women. You are absolutely spot on .
I moved to SE Asia and don't need to play these narcissistic games.
@@paulclinton6414 that's where I'm going
This is because you are a low tear female 😂
@@paulclinton6414 something must be wrong otherwise you wouldn’t be on these videos 😂
Women hate women and tell them who really hates women? The democrats! 😂❤
Casey, i am genuinely glad that you are doing well with your experiences and teachings.
Your six and seven bank numbers are deserving of you.
Excellent work Casey.
I'm 7 minutes in so please don't attack me. From what i've heard so far, this is Pro Level game and he has mastered a woman's inner conversations/ego. It's the break them down to build them up method... this is GOLD. It makes her like you more than you like her. Women actually DO CHASE and they prefer to chase, but tiktok kinda persuaded them otherwise. I've been in plenty of situations where women chase and they block you after they realize they're chasing... their initial chase was their NATURAL behavior... the blocking and ego was their social programming... but you as a man have to have substance.. this game he's teaching (which is amazing) works.... but it works better if you've sacrificed some and gained life experience, knowledge and substance. All of those = PRESENCE!
Your videos from july 2023 to nov 2023 was peak time quallity.
yea I learned the most there especially as my heartbreak was during that time
Same, broke up in Nov 2023. Right on time
Bro it's crazy because I was exactly like this with not caring and then she convinced me to be a good boyfriend and now it's over 😂 like brah I got tricked. But atleast I know now and am confident going forward
she did the whole thing with going distant all that, difficult to come back from that once you show a more caring side. Changing back now is probably too late but it's all I can do and I'd rather leave w my respect
@finallysaved It is NEVER "too late", my friend, NEVER...! So good luck 👍...;-)-...!.!
@@finallysaved that no contact will flip the script…it’s hard af when u care but believe me G, it takes strength and she will notice. Gotta be true strength, can’t go back soft when she comes back. She will test to see if the bravado is a facade or not
yess this happened to me i’d say i was a chad and then turned to be a good bf for her because i really wanted to do good (only bad thing was i didn’t work) but then i changed my manners and even avoid cheating allt for in the end prolly get cheated on and split up appart still didn’t went weak for her when we ended so she tried many times to comeback just to me hitting couple times and then didnt gaf abour getting back the relation, but it’s all true i was on a legendary run😂 after that one girl i haven’t shit cause i didn’t try enough tho but yeah, they deserve good but in the end don’t want it so it’s mostly all crap
She did the same thing with me bro. I cheated and did whatever the hell I wanted and didn’t give a shit but the second I started being “good” after 7 years. Then last the last 2-3 years became a train wreck. I was already confident and knew I could get whatever I wanted, I just wanted to see what would happen if I stopped cheating on her and it just got bad.
Recently, I had a challenging split. The breakup of my five-year relationship a few months ago has been quite difficult. I still harbor a deep affection for my ex-boyfriend, and I can't seem to stop thinking about him. My attempts to win him back have been unsuccessful, and at this point, it seems impossible to be with anybody else. It may seem strange to admit this, but I miss him terribly and can't stop thinking about him.
I completely understand the pain of letting go of someone you love. I went through a similar experience when my 10 year relationship ended. I couldn't imagine my life without him, so I tried everything to rekindle our love. I eventually found guidance from a spiritual counselor, and their support helped me bring him back into my life if you're open to it, seeking help from a spiritual counselor might make a difference.
How did you find your spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with them?
His name is Father Obah Eze and he's an incredible spiritual counselor known for helping restore relationships.
He can assist you; he is Father Obah Eze, and he possesses immense powers.
I just sought him up online thanks to your helpful information. remarkable
I just checked Father Obah Eze online, and he's really genuine. Thank you again ❤
I should have known casey but 2023 was not too late. I have learnt alot from him and working on myself knowing love doesn't inspire love, neither does loyalty and reality is far much from what I grew up knowing
Dude really figured out dating in the age of social media. 👍🏻
This is so spot on. 🙌🏻
Delivery is important. Treat her like an object, not like sh1t.
I love Casey this Guy is a God send to save men
i remember feeling like i was always the one fading into the background while others stood out effortlessly. it was frustrating and made me doubt myself a lot. then i came across this book, Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and it showed me things i’d never even considered. it’s not just a self-help book; it’s like a guide to understanding your own energy and using it to connect with people. if you’ve ever felt like you’re not seen, this book might change everything.
Thanks for the commercial segment, broo
Sounds like an infomercial in print.
A lot people don’t like to hear the truth, but you’re goated
You’re so right and I hate it. I wish I watched this video 1 month ago. Your content and advice quality improves as time goes on. Respect.
Shear genius. I haven't figured out yet if this stuff still applies after say a decade or two of marriage but it MOST DEFINITELY applies during the first couple years of dating/relationships
he is 100% true about not caring
It's easy to see why a prenup is essential. Thanks for your work.
Ive witnessed the “she will do the opposite just to piss u off.” That is very true and this vids great. Instead of verbalizing a boundary, give her an expression of disapproval and remove your attention. She will come back. These women know right from wrong.. if they cheat or something else, good. U have 2 more and u never cared anyway. Take care of you.
You are who you think you are! 🔥
"Never date any one woman at a time" this is so true and people who disagree will go through miseries of woman and end up to this conclusion..
I recognize everything you just told in my own datinglife. Think your spot on
Brothers, listen to this man. At first, his words didn’t resonate with me, but as I reflected on them later, I realized he was 100% right. I’ve experienced it myself. While not all women are like that, many are. He is teaching us the importance of self-protection and self-love.
Highlights - always have an option, care less and awareness 🍻🍻
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You’re the man Casey…I can hear your passion in your voice 😎👏🌹♥️🌀🙏🙌🏽
The advice that women decided how attractive you are based on other women is so true. Had a girl who clearly showed interest, went on dates, making out and all that jazz but her girl friends, who used to be my friends before, kept telling her how unattractive I was. Honestly, I was more bewildered on how she couldn’t determined whether or not I was the right call despite her didn’t even get along well with my old friend group.
If you want a girl, you must make her friends like you first.
So you're already seeking for attention and THIS is making you weak
you are just assuming. how do you know she didn't have another guy ? How do you know they were telling her that? She may of been lying to you to get you to accept it when she dumps you.
This dude is exactly what i need right now.
I agree with Casey says, every whiteboard is like he's talking about all my errors. Like he's watching my life....lol
Goes to show how rational and mathematical sexual dynamics truely are but we were thought that these things were ruled by irrational feelings and emotions. Thats Disney & Hollywood for ya.
This guys saved my life
You have to genuinely not care. You can't pretend to not care. It's charity work at the end of the day and they will be thankful for what they get.
Then why bother
@JoeBudd-D now you get it.
IMO this is the best video you've ever done
Love your videos man, I'm watching them since 2022, and every time I applied everything you said in reverse, in my dating life or relationships, i've seen massive change in behaviour and attitude, in a bad way. So if genuinely caring for them is you, that's the fastest way to turn them off.
I followed your steps and it has changed the game for everything. Idk i was in a game this whole time. 😈 Times have changed.
Another amazing long terme tutorial as usual
Personally, I don't want to be in a relationship in which checking whether my female partner got home safely is seen as a weakness. Good luck, tho.
He's talking about the earlier stage of the relationship, also referred to as dating. Or the time before she asks you where is this going.
literally gonna have to reframe my whole mindset 😭
One of my top favorite Casey's video.
Hey Casey, thank you so much for sharing this wisdom, this is exactly what I needed for my reflection. I am definitely gonna apply it henceforth. Everything you said about being a good man, showing consistency, and effort to a woman is so true, bcos as soon as they noticed that, it’s over. They loose interest in you immediately. Throughout the course of my dating journey, the women I met kept saying that they want a good man, someone that will treat them nice, and is consistent but in reality, it’s all BS. It is such a paradox.!!! I appreciate the knowledge. Lesson Learned!! Thank you 🙏
This is 💯. Their (mis)behavior seems to be a projection of what type of man they prefer. Mirror her (mis)behavior seems to be the key. Be a man & exemplify leadership for yourself; your life; your benefit. Foremost. Never for her. That should be enough to attract the women compatible to you.
Everything he’s teaching works like magic. My question is where does this all end? Are we going to keep doing this when we get married? I’m talking long term here
Yup. It never really ends. And I’m in my early 20s. The truth is, is that what are you looking for? You’re look to fall in love with a women? That’s simp stuff. You should only fall in love with Jesus. You can love a woman but never fall in love because she will leave you. She should never take up space in your mind because you’re a man. You are willing to die for a woman but your journey and potential is not controlled by her. You have to do whatever you want without her taking a spot in your head.
He's not lying.... And the tactics work.... But at the end of the day - im still letting my life be turned into some run-around theatrical performance controlled by her emotion. Did i really win?
At this point it seems more intelligent and less stressful to just pre plan the divorce - and accept the fact shes gonna take your kids and try and turn them against you etc. And just plan for War. The only way to experience peace is to plan, and be prepared for war.
I have to do all this theatrics, tap dancing and lying in the world of business and money - I dont want to come home and lie more. Living through layers and layers of lies and manipulation is a prison. Getting a good behavioural result out of her - while living through layers and layers of lies, may be a tactical win - but the whole point of the war was lost.
Those are not tactics, if you genuinely don't care.
I can resonate with most things you sayin here thanks for the free teachings
I think now it's been 11 years of dating experience for you Casey 😊
figured all this out since i was 12-15. It came naturally because I was my own person doing something meaningful, greatly meaningful in my life
I’ve had a history of breaking up with all my girlfriends because I never got to the point of respecting them and didn’t take the time to understand.
Then, the one and only time I actually took the time to understand them while leading myself… I got ghosted.
Then what’s the solution ?
The problem is this shows how to get a date, it doesn't show how to get commitment.
It does get you commitment if you’re consistent with these points.
exactly. not saying the guy in the video, but no one can keep a girl. if you’re funny, find a way to get a girl on a date and make her laugh she will fuck you eventually. most guys don’t have the dawg in them to actually keep the girl though.
Why is that a problem? The bad boy/player doesn't need commitment.
@@djcaly84 He doesn’t need anything, he can choose what works best for him at that time, but he will have to own his choices in anything in return.
I wish I was 20yo watching this. I'm now 46 learning this treasure.
The part about leading yourself is golden. The part about getting women who don't want to be cared for is risky. Been with a girl like that and she is damaged goods. If I see that kind of behavior from a woman going forward, it will be a giant red flag
The Dennis system. This is hilarious and so true The less you care the more they want you.
wtf…..I swear you and like 2 other TH-camrs are releasing topics of EXACTLY what I need right now,EXACTLY when I need it😅😳😱 shit is actually crazy lol
Right it's like women all work on the same fucking programming and frame work. So weird how it works
Its because your cellphone is a camera
Whos the other one
Welcome to the matrix
The other ones are?
Killed it!
> They take kindness for weakness
> You have to not care
> You have to focus on bettering yourself while dating
This is all very interesting. Caring less w/out being inauthentic is perhaps only possible if you are actually dating around and truly working on yourself.
thanks Casey, you and Zan Perrion are the only ones with this mindset.
I’m 36 almost 37 years old. I wish I got this game when I was 18.
Bro….great channel. I’m subscribing. Thank you. 👍🏼
We need a video for married guys and how to maintain attraction. I know Marriage is the ultimate form of validation but this is the main goal for most men. It would good to see how you woukd navigate this with LOW
Impressive, Case! You’re hitting over 1,000 views in half an hours time. Stay hydrated, my friend! 😂
You’re right … he’s right , everything
Actually a really good point.
Sure boundries and red lines are important maybe for the long term, just because your not willing to put up with bullshit and respect yourself.
But especially early on kts obvious youre trying to prove something and that means you want her, its even more obvious if setting boundries is something you have to learn
"Not caring"
As people have mentioned in comments before is more akin to zen thinking, taoist mentality of letting go. Like in nature when you let go its more likely to come to you.
I was expecting advice for when in a commited relationship but his advice is just to not even ever have one lol
Wow. The first time I've ever heard this. Brilliant and true. Thanks.
Legendary status continues to grow.
now i really don't care if i have to do this its just fake, i rather just stay single and chill and foucs on my self
I'm 100% sure he is right I've there myself.
when you care too much girls just slip away no matter how much strong attraction you have
But when you don't give a fu*k they just stick around and do everything to get you like her.
it's kind of sad but that's the truth'
Act like you don't care ❤
What are you defining as caring to much? She probably is bored of her own life. Women use men as projects.
The simps do all the work for her while the guy she wants do nothing
Tks Casey for the continuous enlightenment 👍 💪.
The last part is important but you can't add it to just any girl and it depends on where you are in the relationship.
I was doing good talking to this girl, until i sent out 1 response that screwed it up for me. our last interaction she knew i was going out and called me. i didnt bite and told her i was busy for the night and that we would chill again. few days later, she hits me up to chill. I beat myself up now because i see it in hindsight, but all i said was "Lmk what day works for you and ill swing by". even though im not always free, it could've been worded differently and should have expressed that im not available and been more distant and less adamant on making plans. not going to beat myself over it but definitely was a lesson learned. acting in a way you dont care if you lose her or not is a power hack. love to women is a game and the game is trying to get YOU. as soon as she feels like she has you, youre done.
Fellah, if she got you second guessing your words, time to put her on ice
Casey, can you make a video of you explaining how to be playful with women how to keep them in a state of play and not be serious with them
Go to his older stuff from about a year ago he has a couple on that subject
bro you had recess in elementary school and pe in middle and high school. you never overthought anything. you just played. just get in that mindset.
@justusgreen8498 this is a great comment . Yes you gotta work on turning off your logical /analytical male brain.
Id rather be single the rest of my life then act like this. Peace ladies
I rent by the hour.
Seriously. Why bother?
@JoeBudd-D think of the big picture, 63% of men are single , the other 34% wish they were single, women need us and can't be alone. Until the no fault divorce law changes that allows for no accountability and being paid to leave, and theor behavior changes , don't even bother. Plus Living life in authentically to satisfy anybody that cant handle raw truth in order to grow, learn, and become the best version of themselves, .... is just draining on the soul. Men Provide, Protect, and Discipline ,women give, sex, respect, and communication. We want Fit, feminine, friendly personality traits and until we get these , MGTOW will only grow. Won't be long now , the world is changing. They get crazy and desperate when they want babies. Big picture, we're men, we can wait'em out.
@@JoeBudd-Dlast girl I was with I couldn’t get a hard on with her rubbing it on me 😂 now without her around I can get hard again and actually get off 😂. I tried to show the Bit ch that when you stress out an older guy , that penis quits working
That's the purpose here. Live your life independently and unapologetically, and truly don't care if you have someone or not. It's not an act at all.
The crazy part is how true all of this is, basically never show her how you feel, never properly communicate great communication to her. She will be turned off never be excited to see her, but let her hopefully be excited to see you. This is all the same stuff we deal with in relationships as a man you can never be too happy. You can never have any problems. You can never have any issues to work through. don’t have any hobbies above HER, You can never cry or she’s leaving so essentially you must act the way she wants you to act if you want a woman to be attracted to you she decides what’s masculine and what’s not. so the real question is, will you chase or will you wait for that diamond in a rough That actually cares about every strand of hair on you? Those women are few the woman that holds onto every word every expression that comes from you and social media has not robbed her of that ability . I have seen them though I’ve never had one……..
If a woman is being disrespectful you have to set a boundary otherwise she won't respect you. If she crosses the boundary you must exit.
Purest and greatest gem ever 💎💎❤❤
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The problem with this guy is there is certainly elements of truth in things he says, but he takes it to such extreme level that nobody could ever function like a normal human being. Don’t look at her, don’t speak too much, don’t show any interest, don’t touch her, don’t text her, but at the same time date three girls !!
Honestly I think he's just differentiating himself from other content creators in this space and not really providing the best advice.
In real life, the man has to grab his balls and make moves at the right time, or nothing will happen at all.