I get hyped up when you talk about the Bible, because you understand it more than most pastors. I might have the chance to unlock some insight for you, the Bible refers to believers as the "Bride of Christ" because the dynamic of women to men is the same as men to Christ/satan/the angels.
It’s crazy when you listen to Casey and you think back of the situations that you’ve been in and how everything he says has played out in exactly the same way that he is explaining.
Basically what he is explaining has been in the Bible for thousands yrs. The good book constantly says to abstain from lustful thoughts and do not give into the flesh. It preaches no sex before marriage for a reason. It doesn’t just mess up a female’s biology it messes with male biology as well . Both human genders are made up of emotional chemistry that is triggered easily. The story and lesson of the tale of Adam and Eve is .. Eve was deceived.. her biological emotions where used against her to partake in a direct order from God, Adams Love for Eve cost him his life , because instead of using his logical reasoning, he allowed his emotions of love and lust of not wanting to lose Eve let him make a decision he knew was wrong. Unfortunately both sexes are cursed with being tempted into bad decisions because of leading with our emotions. For women it’s love , for men it’s lust. When both can strive to abstain from these sins , these weaknesses and rise above them , that is when the relationship can survive.
Yah, everything he says adds up when I think about what's happened in my past with women. It's fucked up and I hate to admit but it's the sad reality. It does make it hard to respect women but I have to come to terms with their nature and just accept it and move on
This is it. Be a "better" man -in the truest sense of the word. I've been married coming on 12 years and this resonates with my journey. Pursue strong character and a good woman will be the bonus on top of the rewards of true masculinity and the respect you have for yourself.
I was a “better’’ man for 11 years of marriage I gave her every she ever dreamed of but it was not enough, she was never satisfied and still longed for her jail bird ex who used to beat her and treat her like shit. She actually resented me for being a “good” man who gave her everything
@@miked9112 you're not understanding the video. What you did is exactly the wrong way. The whole point is you are not suppose to be led astray by a woman or affected by her. You are good because you want to be good, not because you are doing it for her. The fact that you gave HER everything SHE wanted makes you weak. You need to tell her no if she misbehaves and does not cater to morality herself.
I’ve come to believe it’s the feminine’s job to weaken the masculine, and she’ll be drawn to the one who holds steady in this ever changing universe. I didn’t understand why love hurt until it was explained to me that love for a woman is transitory, while love for a man is sacrifice. Then I understood why love for me was painful. Now I wish I could speak for all men, but I can’t. I can only speak for myself. Love is strength.
Great to see someone else aware of the “Adam and Eve” role in relationships. Also great to hear that if you “give” women what they “want”, they will stop wanting you! Great vid. Cheers Peter👍
I’ve known this all along. But my friends told me I was wrong. A woman will respect you more if you are more disciplined and have morals. Not giving into temptations and knowing more of the spiritual aspects of a woman. Thank you Casey.
It’s speculative. It’s not empirical and verifiable like he said women can’t put it into words. We tend to feed the ego behind the theory. This theory does align with polarity that many coaches talk about. It summarized that we need be the strong and noble man.
There was no resolution. lol, so we just abstain from sex with her our entire life.lol, WHEN do we start to have sex with her?.... WHEN can we watch movies with her in bed. I know it's crucial to abstain from these sins at 1st, but then what? Just go through life never doing any of these things? Where's the resolution?....when do we let our guards down. Or do we just continue this forever, never having sex.🤣
Gentlemen, I hope you realize that was Casey is doing here is not about using different techniques- it’s about becoming an all around better man and person FOR YOURSELF. These principles will elevate your mental, physical, and spiritual health as a whole and that is what will attract a woman. You can’t use these as a mask, they have to become your life. He’s channeling Buddhist, Christian, and stoic concepts to make you a better man and when that’s who you are deep inside, you will have the partner you deserve. Big up Casey, man of the year.
I work in a shelter if homeless people. There are living ca 90 men. They are all ultra selfish, ultra egos, spending their life just drinking and drugging. Some are cokeheads like ZC (look exactly the same, this nose I recon from a mile). They enjoy their life! Great!
It takes a lot of guts to make content like this; talking about deeper issues. Tons of respect for you Casey. I think a lot of younger women don’t understand men in general. I know when I was younger, I had a ton of misconceptions. I served four years as a United States Marine, and that was how I came to learn so much more. Specifically about how deeply men feel, and how it’s just not expressed the same way because men aren’t women and vice versa. It was a huge eye opener for me and I’ll forever be grateful for the many transparent conversations men were willing to share with me. Those gentleman taught me a lot. I believe men and women are both incredibly valuable. Just very different from each other… almost like different species. But thankfully very compatible. One is not better or worse than the other. God bless all you men out there. I know your struggles are real. It takes guts to live from the heart. Don’t give up hope. Know there are women who exist out there who appreciate all that you are.
My wife is a clinical psychologist and we discuss these kind of things often, so I'm quite familiar with male-female dynamics, attraction, intimate relationships, mating strategies, etc. This is one of the most insightful summary of these things I"ve ever heard.
you hit on something. i have a good story for you. one day long ago i grew frustrated with women because i was only attracting the women i was not into. i decided to swear off of women and not be into any of them. no matter what, i was not interested. i was still nice and engaging but i didnt accept any of them as a possible partner. The result? The hottest women i ever met started throwing themselves at me. over and over. ever since then, i just keep acting in my mind like none of them are good enough for me (until they PROVE IT). i think the 'prove it' part is the most healthy way to look at it. seriously guys. have standards. that's really it. stop feeling like every girl you meet is a princess. they aren't.
@uptamistik I think that attraction can be kick started from the jump even if there is no initial interest. Casey has explained this in other videos that it isn't about status, looks, or even money. It all boils down to creating a dynamic (from the first interaction) that she is not good enough...or you are not sold on her, rather. Every other guy is going to immediately go weak for her and pedastalize her, so when she encounters a dude who displays a higher SMV and unwavering indifference, she won't understand what is wrong with her and will immediately want to get his interest. Dam Bacon also touches on this and basically laid it out in the exact same way which is why these two guys are absolutely revolutionizing the "red pill" space in my opinion. I myself have experienced that very thing and I can tell you Casey is right on with his analysis. I got into self improvement about a year and a half ago (eating right, working out, bettering my social network, and upping my income,) but nothing really changed with my ability to attract women (or lack thereof). But once I altered my mindset from trying soooo hard to impress women to the belief that "I am the prize and I'm evaluating you" it really has changed my outcomes quite shockingly. I'm not a Brad Pitt or Denzel Washington and I still am now able to affect attractive women's emotions and get clear signs of interest from them in a way I never believed I ever could. I have still made mistakes here and there and am still learning to make that way of thinking natural as it's a mindset you have to be able to maintain at all times. Its an identity you adopt...not just a technique that is turned on and off at random. So to sum up, attraction can absolutely be created. There are many testimonials of women saying they were not initially attracted to a man (from a physical sense) but after hearing him speak and getting to experience his unapologetic charismatic personality...he went from a 6 to an 8 in looks almost immediately. Sorry to rant but just wanted to add my 2 cents to the discussion. God bless!
The topic of sex and lust tricks men for ages and decades. I'm 39 and just got into it. When we hear about it from the religious standpoint, usually we abandon the idea because we don't know how it works. But not anymore! Thank you Casey, this is golden.
I know in my heart you are absolutely right! I’ve been on the red pill journey for the last 3 1/2 years. This brings me full circle. All the knowledge intact and back to the bedrock. Take the woman off the pedestal and lead her in righteousness. 🤯
"The more pleasure you engage in is the more pain you will attract" Brilliant operating principle! Fully agree that you present these topics better than any other content creator in this space that I have ever seen, and I have been watching this space for years now. You have a gift my friend. Thank you for shareing.
The explanation you gave here in this video, described very precisely why I could never ever maintain girlfriends or affairs respecting me for a long period of time. I’m so grateful that I have no words to thank you.
When Casey said “The more pleasure you engage in, the more pain you will attract”. 20+ years ago one of my spiritual teachers said, “your next pleasure is your next pain”. That has always stuck with me over the years.
This video felt like a missing dot on the I for my journey. You presented it absolutely perfectly. I feel like most of the self-improvement content creators focus on building value only to immediately give it away for lust. By playing the game, you're playing yourself. Stop being slave to your desires and gain your power back. This is the type of video that could genuinely change your life. Stay blessed, thank you for the content.
This was a cool concept Casey is touching on. To sum it up i think his main point is that women want a man who is better than they are in every single metric. specifically they want a man that has more control over his sexual desires than she does. Its about men having complete and utter control over himself AND the relationship. Lusting and having sex non stop isnt signaling that the man is in complete control. The woman realizes subconsciously that the man is weak for sex and thus lower value.
What Casey is saying, is that women want masculine stoic men who possess a high level of emotional maturity. In the woman's mind if her man is masculine he will be perceived by her as her best option irregardless of his looks and actual social status within the hierarchy of social dominance
@@LRS11B Yes I believe you are correct and so was my summation I mentioned earlier. I have found this stuff is easier said than done. Heck I still have trouble putting this stuff into practice in real life which is why I constantly watch Casey and a few other similar channels to keep me sharp.
So how often is too often when it comes to having sex? If any sex at all is a surrender to weakness and diminishes a woman’s respect, what is the point of being in a relationship or having sex in the first place? And why would “having options” increase a woman’s desire for a man? If having sex opens a man to contempt in a woman’s eyes, wouldn’t exercising options just lower her opinion of him still further?
I’m a happily married wife, going 24+ years, but I’m so pleased you're providing young men with moral guidance, enlightenment, and growth. After so many years of misguided information on dating and relationships circulating on TH-cam and various platforms, it's a breath of fresh air. Good luck to you and everyone- Godspeed.
Definitely found this out too late but such a valueable lesson. The more i learn about womens psychology the more i find it depressing but i feel like it is stupid to ignore this stuff at this point.
I also find it extremely depressing and concerning. It almost makes me want to avoid women altogether if this shit is inherent. Feels like a ticking time bomb that will always blow up in your face. No grace, no forgiveness, no opportunity to fail, no opportunity to grow and improve from mistakes, no space to have struggles and share vulnerably. You must be perfect every time, all the time. If not, they’re on to the next one.
Just broke up with my first GF after a 33 year miserable marriage. I'm 62 and she is 22. I made every mistake in spades. Literally she had nothing to offer but her youth while I have everything. I turned into a simp!! Well, at least I found this channel. I will hopefully get it right with the next 22 yr old I meet.😉
Every pleasure I’ve ever taken from a woman, whether it is one night or ten years, is paid back exponentially in pain. Great video. I think you’ve given us a key to stop that pleasure and pain cycle.
Answers, answers... I find nothing more than answers to the questions I had since first time I laid eyes on a girl. Thought I was gonna die without understanding, but thankfully I was able to find this channel. Best wishes.
Going through divorce with a child really made me look at this a lot differently. Anytime I’m getting to know a woman I find myself asking whether this is somebody I would want to have a child with (whether accidental or intentional). The extremely negative relationship with my child’s mother makes me very discerning about forming any kind of union with women now. On a positive note, I have found that by abstaining I also have more women in my life who are trustworthy and consistently supporting me, despite the relationships not being sexual/romantic in nature. There’s a lot of truth to what you’re talking about and I appreciate you discussing the spiritual side of this.
The whole part about she will destroy you if she sense weakness is so true. She'll play games to mess with your emotions start fights and none of that would happen if you were strong.
Listen to every word. This is the long game and is so true. I'm almost 50 and getting woman 10 20 years younger that I thought I couldn't get when I was that age. Dead serious. Every man is after the poonani but when you shine different they notice. Give it a few. Days,weeks,months and your strength will be rewarded. As someone that has had years more experience I can also say Listen to Casey. Even if he's wrong about 1 thing per individual circumstances the odds are bulletproof !
This is honestly the best video Casey has ever made. It's good to see the evolution take place in him as he's dropping true knowledge. Fella's stop being man whores who chase pleasure. Self control and discipline are the keys to being a true high value man.
My life experience taught me that anything and everything is just a variation of reality you can explore and not rule of thumb. Including female hypergamy.
Been watching you from day one, and it’s funny how easy it is nowadays to get and keep quality women… I just try to understand what you say and apply till it becomes part of me.. it’s now like a super power I have… you’re doing a wonderful job with this MBT well done brother, I appreciate you.
@@carpediem4512 Why is it funny to you that a guy has found legitimately helpful information from this channel that has greatly improved his experience with women?? People who laugh at other peoples success and improvement are the ones who are a joke.
Being traditional and raised in Church, I’ve done this with women who I was really interested in before. This is great for sure with women who want a serious relationship. But women do enjoy “fun” just as much as men. Sometimes they just want to use you for “fun”. If that is the case, you probably won’t hear from her again after you say no.
I was shocked when my male friend from the gym described his dating life, i.e. girls raised in church that used him for sex. All the things I've heard have made me a hard-core advocate for waiting until marriage, especially when you factor in the procreative consequences.
Perfectly explained to the extent that even women themselves are not aware of all the tests and games they perform on men ! Best video I ever seen and heard !
Very good insight. I tried after a broken heart to fill the void and my ego with as many woman I could. But felt worse after every single pointless conquest. Felt good ..but without purpose, meaningless sex is empty. Lucky I found my wife, a girl who was genuine,feminine, appreciated me for my qualities and follows my lead. 4kids and still love her to death. She works hard to keep me. ❤
Very cool! I'm happy to hear you have an awesome family life and a great woman who follows your lead! I am currently a year in with the girl I'm dating and so far so good. But I remain diligent. I'm sure you know just how quickly things can change from good to bad. I like the girl I have now but if she ever steps out of line I have no problem leaving. If thats what needs to happen then so be it.
This is one of the best, most well articulated truths about what women "really" want. Fact is, as you're stating...they want character, they want a strong spiritual protector, they want what their soul yearns for... Which is a True Godly Connection. Well said my friend 🙏🏿
Bro, I cannot tell you how grateful I am for this video. You opened my eyes fully! When you are trying to be a high value man you walk that path and figure things you are talking about, but it is so easy to fall astray when you don’t have the full picture. I really think you cracked the code man. Salute to you! Hope you inspire more man to walk that path to fulfilment in relationships, like you did to me. Thank you 🙏
This video was a huge eye opener for me. I have noticed women lose respect and start shit testing after I get it in, especially recently that I've been on a dozen or so dates over the last month. When I've waited and purposefully teased women by not giving into sex they want it 10x more and treat you WAY differently and almost put you on a pedestal. I just never really fully realised it. I think the spiritual aspect you mentioned is extremely important, and no one really talks about that. I've felt my best around women when I've abstained, and most of them are honestly flabbergasted when I do so. From here on I'm abstaining and not being a manslut, because honestly it gets pretty depressing just turning chick's out, makes you lose faith in humanity and yourself although the alure of it is intoxicating. Be better, gents 👌
Agree 100%. Slutting yourself out damages you in deep ways. I’m recovering currently. The same way Casey explains that they resent you and lose trust when you sleep with them easy, I’ve found my inherent trust for women plummets with every notch on the headboard. Which in turn will make it impossible to actually trust the good ones. Hoemath has a great illustration of this in one of his videos. Be well brother, we’re all in this together. Men need to support and encourage men. Good luck on your journey and stay strong
So when do you slay man? I'm going through this now. She wants it so bad lol after 2 dates. But don't know how long to feel out that stage. I mean I got divorced and it's not like I can wait till marriage here.
After being married 4 times and I'm 45 years old. Thanks, bro, good job, keep up a good work. Damn it took me long enoughto hear this information is key priceless.
Good job man, I've been dissatisfied for a long time with red pill information toward men it's all about the external, it's all about the physical, six-pack, six figure have a nice car, have a lot of money, etc. nobody has been talking about the spiritual side or the internal side and I'm glad you did.
So, after watching this video two days ago, I’ve been thinking about the ups and downs of my 30 year marriage. The ups and downs align precisely with the seven deadly sins. This paradigm fits my experience perfectly.
One of the best descriptions for respect. Like men want respect, women want to be cherished. The way for a woman to be cherished is to be virtuous. In 1981 I travelled to China the men in the group loved the Chinese women. One of the western women in the group noticed the phenomenon and realized that western women had lost their innocence, virtue.
I've been watching your content for the last couple weeks. The way you present the information is well thought out, and is giving me a new POV on dating. I've had a lot of what I thought were great relationship over the years. I never was really taught why girls like what they like. By accident I would be dating multiple girls and by default wouldn't want to settle down with any of them. Some would bail but there were always new ones. Eventually girls would pressure me for a relationship. I never realized it HAD to happen like this. It never works the other way, and actually makes them dissappear.
I was driving to work and I was listening to some lady explaining stoicism. I got annoyed immediately. I clicked this without knowing what to expect. This is a slam dunk 🤯. Well done. You are saving the world right now. We have too many weak men. This has given too many deviants free reign to do as they please. My wife knows I am the leader and she respects me. I was a virgin until 19 then I didn't have sex again until I was 33 and married my wife. It was a lonely painful time but I feel it had to be that way in order for me to become spiritually strong. Well done good sir. I hope young men and women find your video. I'm actually going to post this on my Facebook right now !
I don’t buy it, most of the women I meet judge you by your wealth and position. Of course, you have to have personality, but in the end, it’s all about the Benjamins!
@@simon359 Honestly speaking it's always that way with women when you start working. Though there are the ones that you've been around that only care about that. Some just want a dude that can make enough to support a home and family. But yeah. There's certainly a lot of women that are greedy and have the audacity to think a man's money is theirs even when they're not married 😂
Coming from a Christian background (son of a preacha man) that was the best fully secular video I've seen on this topic, in otherwords, you seemingly nailed all of 'God's points' without talking about or really mentioning 'God'. Amazing!!
This man is awesome. So vast and solid knowledge. You can tell he really does a good research and reflection job when preparing the videos. Also his communication skills and direct and clear lenguage makes all a lot of easier. Congratulations and success man!
Wow bra. This was so good to hear . It's so spot on. These other podcasts and cultural behaviours that men blame the women for being sluts but the men think it's ok to be sluts themselves, sleeping with women who will one day be someone else's wife/mother. I was part of the problem as well. When men can see it for what it really is and how weak it is as you have so very well presented, it's a positive thing. Men need more of this,they need to not just know the truth but to live in the light.
I fully agree. Ironically this attitude was partly responsible for the creation of feminism, the other thing this podcasts rage so much about (which is mostly true in our days).
Casey ever since I started watching your stuff, I’ve kept women around more! Thanks for doing what you’re doing. I’ve never had a great father figure and these videos help a ton.
Casey, this was a phenomenal video. Super nice work with lots of detail. You are correct, most guys just don’t know this stuff and don’t have the patience or discipline to sit down and listen, take notes, process and incorporate into their own lives. Keep up your great videos. Saving me a fortune in money and wasted time!
I love how indirectness yet being straight to the point, and the repetition of points gets us to ACTUALLY understand, and all of that-an entire life lesson-in an unforgettable way, in 27mins. Beat that.
Great content that makes 100% sense. I love how you don’t make it some type of “battle” between men and women where the man has to come out on top ALL THE TIME. I appreciate that you break everything down to the simplicity that it actually is. To any new subs, this dude is totally legit. Thank you for the great content.
I have always felt this way ,but I couldn't speak it out. It is difficult to unsex the mind, but it is definitely a good ongoing challenge with myself. Thank you, Casey!
@@avasdv I also don’t trust his marriage advice because he seems very jaded about Marriage. But his advice was great at getting a relationship started :)
Corey Wayne is okay, his videos lean towards, it's all the man's fault. Women are adults and no one should ever tell you that you are responsible for some else's behavior. However Rich Cooper Entrepreneurs in Cars shows how to vet women and leave the damaged ones alone. You're only responsible for your own behavior. Corey Wayne is giving women a free pass. Modern women have to work on themselves just like modern men, instead of women working on their options.
You continue to blow my mind Casey. I can not thank you enough! It is nice and all to learn about womans nature, but as far as i am concerned that is just a bonus. The real gift lies in bringing the lost ways of the man back. A heartbreak and your videos have totally changed my mindset and outlook on life. I am forever gratefull, and i will continue not to fall for the seven deadly sins for the rest of my life! Again THANK YOU Casey
I agree that is the highest form of Masculinity. Being an attractive man and choosing to not engage sexually. You then become more powerful and focused in all other aspects of life
Hands down one of the best videos that can help young man understand themselves and how attraction works. Man you should convert these boards into newsletter or tweets, they're super valuable.
Even tho im muslim. I really understand this at a deep level. Balancing red pill understanding woman nature. Even as a christian u make it clearer to balance out. Being abstain from sex before marriage really does the best results.
@@Violet_Odorata Yes it all does. As a man you should never let any of the 7 sins control you and that is truly a philosophy to live by in all times of your life. That does not mean you always abstain as ofc it is halal after wedlock but you should never let these sins control you and find a good balance. You must remember that Casey's advice is very wise but may not always align with Islam.
So I don’t sleep with her because she will lose attraction. I also don’t give her any attention because that will validate her. Doesn’t seem like we will be interacting at all…
We men are supposed to silently work non-stop to get resources, and bring it back to women for them to consume and enjoy while they grow fat and (if we're lucky) raise our offspring. Sounds like a brilliant deal, eh?
I don't think that's what he was saying. The goal is not to be ruled by your base desires or the woman's powers. I don't think he said anything about not "validating her" -I'd say provide, protect and pursue the woman you are interested in -and don't do those things to get eg. "sex" Do them because that's the kind of man you are. What he's talking about is the Golden Path, the hardest thing you can do. Actually becoming a better person, a true man who rules himself and is able to help others.
Finally something biblical. I had a girlfriend a few months back who worshipped me. We both decided abstinence was the way we wanted to go. I used to be a pick up artist, so don’t think I’m a prude. I wanted to not do anything that wasn’t biblical because I wanted this relationship to last. After 2 months of her tempting me, I gave in and I could FEEL the dynamic immediately shift. That was the beginning of the end, 3 months later, she had morphed into a whole different human and I could feel her resentment towards me every time we spoke. I caught her talking to her ex boyfriend and I immediately dumped her. She accepted it without any resistance. Shit was crazy
I've had countless friends tell the girl NO to sex but keep hanging out because the man is interested in them, or they just don't make the move. The girl wants to have sex, and eventually loses interest because the man didn't make the move...
Yeah. I experience this. The only response i get is "shes the wrong woman for you." And then give me a solution in dating an overweight woman they know, or just in general, which i feel is mocking me... I guess the first part is right but the right woman FOR ME (i have a standard too and can be put off but im not asking for a 9/10 ffs!) is very rare i feel?
Man this makes so much sense. I remember me & my ex were having a day where she was reading a book and I was watching Netflix, later she snaps on me saying how at least she's being productive... We both are doing the same thing, enjoying a fictional story but the standards were completely different for me. I also remember many calls/texts along the lines of "Tell me I don't need to buy this" or "Tell me I dont need fast food", which aligns with the deviance topic. Great vid
My wife asked me who is the center of your heart. And like a bullit I answered as a christian it's Jesus Christ and then myself. I noticed a disturbed look on her face. But that's true . She knows it since we married 30 years ago. Some years ago she cheated on me with a in my eyes low value guy. ( poser) She regrets , I forgave , then she signaled me I can cheat on her ( to make me as bad as she is ). And as it often happens , there suddenly appeared a women who tries to seduce me. Up to now I rejected . But to calm my rage because of my wifes betrayel I temptated to do it. Thank you for your video. It explained a lot to me.
This is the best video I have watched on masculinity. I have been that 1% man all my life. I am a Sigma INFJ. I now understand this concept more deeply. Thank you
It was a long one but I agree with it was gonna sign up for the mbt but I can’t afford it right now appreciate the videos learned more in five days than in 30 years lol and it’s already starting to work
Now you’re on the right track. It was all designed to be done in the Designers way. So get close to Him and you will be on the right track. Seek JC and you will be in the presence of the Maker. This way the kryptonite has no power…Superman!
And then what? You will never have sex with her? I don't understand this video at all. Casey is literally demanding us to be asexuals as a man? Wtf is this?
@@Dale_Blackburn no, it means you are the one who controls it. But how exactly to do it in relationship (not on the first dates or months of dating) - there is no script and can't be. It's just one of the ways to be more masculine and strong in woman's eyes. And it will prolongue your relationship.
You are one Hundred percent correct on all those levels. Because I use that same state of mentality. Then I realized what I did wrong when I came back to the dating seen. I wasn’t fallowing these rules. I was just doing it to get laid. And females can see and smell that a mile away.
Wow! I've been on my red pill journey for about 3 years, consumed hundreds of hours of content, and this is the first time I've heard such insight into the male-female dynamic. Thank you!
This is very accurate. I grew up around pimps in Oakland CA and they always told me they gain control over there woman by not having sex with them. That way they remain the prize and stay high value meanwhile the girls give them all of the money and respect these guys so much. Not condoning that lifestyle at all but those type of men always knew the dark side of female nature
I've learnt some psychological things of the women pimp metric. Essentially, it's what you're saying. The women see all these simple men giving money for sex, the pimp takes their money and subconsciously in their mind creates respect towards him. Because their sexuality with all their daily clients constantly receives a monetary value. The pump and ass hole that he is is the only man figure not giving in to the sexuality.
Dude, you nailed it on this one. Women will sometimes perceive that weakness even if it's not there and lose a ton of respect. As a film maker, I've had to cast beautiful women and then been accused of lust but I have never cheated so that small perception of wanting someone (but just wanting to cast the beautiful actors) has screwed me over. Then regaining that respect is impossible. On the flip-side, when a woman sees that you resist another attractive woman they fall apart for you.
Honestly this has fucked me up mentally and i don't know to say. I have a lot of questions rather then answers. Everything you say is spot on but at the same time the truth is hard pill to swallow and it only shows how deep and fucked up the game is really is. The Game isn't made for us to win. It's all about gaining leverage.
Very good video. I agree. Epic delineation. For me I already knew this but never sat down and figured out how to delineate it. It’s just part of my essence.
Casey craft the hard wired code between the sexes and how you present in a selfless manner has and will benefit human population. I’m sure your intuition has confirmed this from time to time. Most respectable man I have learned from about females and their subconscious behavior. Thanks Brotha
Abstinence might just be a level of self control, but then you have to be able to keep control at all times by deciding when, and during and after the process! The testing and observing by her and life never ends. We have to become an ever better and stronger people! Thank you Casey, phenomenal video!
Hey Casey! Beautifully explained! I am 35 now, I have been coming to a similar conclusion through my own experiences, but because I was raised in a Hindu culture it has it's own flavor. I totally agree with all the pointers, but I would add another level to it, on top of all these high standards, also add being "MEDITATIVE" , NOT doing meditation but BEING meditative...which means being in a highly attentive/aware state 24/7 , This will actually raise your happiness levels.OK hear me out please... usually our mind is in a scattered /confused state ( this also wastes lot of our energy as brain consumes 20% of nutrition) . But when you are in a meditative state, you are centered and even if it feels like your are using energy when you start practicing it, it will slowly become your default state and will bring an ease to your life ( it will raise your energy levels). If you want to make this easier, start practicing Semen retention/ Brahmacharya. After you practice this for some amount of time, you will realize that your manifestations also start happening super fast (i.e you just have a thought and within days it will happen, I know hard to believe but try it out). But if you can even ignore the worldly desires , you can start getting glimpses into reality or you can even say start experiencing glimpses of God! I believe the next stage would be enlightenment/nirvana/moksha. But I am not personally there yet. I don't know why I am sharing this here, I feel your teachings just clicked something in me. All the best! Keep helping people out there!
Nobody just wakes up one day and is as based as this man is. He's done the WORK and I'm so lucky to be able to learn from his wisdom. Awesome videos man.
Casey, this is a very interesting take which makes a lot of sense for some reason, but one thing I am uncertain of is this; if you do not give in to lust, how do you balance the sex aspect when you are in a relationship with her, in order for her to keep her attraction level the same as time goes on? I mean you win her more when you say no at first, but eventually you are going to have sex with her. Consider perhaps making a follow up video regarding this aspect. God bless you man.
My thoughts as well. Seems like he’s just suggesting to never have sex or engage in any of the seven deadly sins ever. It makes sense logically but we are still only human. Wondering what the right balance is
Yeah i didnt understand this either. So is going monk mode the route or maybe once a week? Because realistically shes gonna leave if you dont do it at all speaking in a long term relationship of course.
@@mabu6464 I think we all understood that was the idea he's getting across, maybe he could give a more concrete example from his own life though. I feel like it depends on the individuals situation, but I feel like if you are on your upward trajectory and have all your shit together and she is the one mainly initiating, a few times a week should be fine
You know I've been trying to become myself stronger but i think there's not a clear definition of that. When you explained about the sins it makes me feel like there's something deep inside me that already knew it. I've been zooming out my interactions lately and I noticed that we do those things when we actually think that the woman who we are dating to isn't above us we do those things we say "no" but we get weak when it comes to a beautiful woman we automatically put her above us wanting lust
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Casey, you rock for mentioning the spiritual aspect for us men. Please share the good news ✝️
I get hyped up when you talk about the Bible, because you understand it more than most pastors.
I might have the chance to unlock some insight for you, the Bible refers to believers as the "Bride of Christ" because the dynamic of women to men is the same as men to Christ/satan/the angels.
This vid is the one 🔥💯
Masterpiece My Guy...
My brother's also Timothy in the Bible explains Casey's doctrine perfectly ✊🏽🇺🇳🇺🇸
It’s crazy when you listen to Casey and you think back of the situations that you’ve been in and how everything he says has played out in exactly the same way that he is explaining.
Exactly brother
Eats me up even more too… but of course I’ve learned from it
Basically what he is explaining has been in the Bible for thousands yrs.
The good book constantly says to abstain from lustful thoughts and do not give into the flesh. It preaches no sex before marriage for a reason. It doesn’t just mess up a female’s biology it messes with male biology as well . Both human genders are made up of emotional chemistry that is triggered easily. The story and lesson of the tale of Adam and Eve is .. Eve was deceived.. her biological emotions where used against her to partake in a direct order from God, Adams Love for Eve cost him his life , because instead of using his logical reasoning, he allowed his emotions of love and lust of not wanting to lose Eve let him make a decision he knew was wrong. Unfortunately both sexes are cursed with being tempted into bad decisions because of leading with our emotions. For women it’s love , for men it’s lust.
When both can strive to abstain from these sins , these weaknesses and rise above them , that is when the relationship can survive.
Indeed. Casey the best at it!
I feel it too, just remind my past
Yah, everything he says adds up when I think about what's happened in my past with women. It's fucked up and I hate to admit but it's the sad reality. It does make it hard to respect women but I have to come to terms with their nature and just accept it and move on
This is it. Be a "better" man -in the truest sense of the word. I've been married coming on 12 years and this resonates with my journey. Pursue strong character and a good woman will be the bonus on top of the rewards of true masculinity and the respect you have for yourself.
Better men and women stay married and raise they're kids to college
I was a “better’’ man for 11 years of marriage I gave her every she ever dreamed of but it was not enough, she was never satisfied and still longed for her jail bird ex who used to beat her and treat her like shit. She actually resented me for being a “good” man who gave her everything
@@miked9112 I'm sorry man. That sounds terrible. I wish you the best.
@@miked9112 you're not understanding the video. What you did is exactly the wrong way. The whole point is you are not suppose to be led astray by a woman or affected by her. You are good because you want to be good, not because you are doing it for her. The fact that you gave HER everything SHE wanted makes you weak. You need to tell her no if she misbehaves and does not cater to morality herself.
@@miked9112your job is to be a better man for its own sake. It’s not her job to be a better woman. The sooner this is accepted, the better.
I’ve come to believe it’s the feminine’s job to weaken the masculine, and she’ll be drawn to the one who holds steady in this ever changing universe. I didn’t understand why love hurt until it was explained to me that love for a woman is transitory, while love for a man is sacrifice. Then I understood why love for me was painful. Now I wish I could speak for all men, but I can’t. I can only speak for myself. Love is strength.
Your still in ego state
@@blackswan5034what do you mean
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And your favorite pronouns are “I,” and “me.”
@@neildignon3842 All that is expected of a man in the face of God is simply to make the most of the gifts he’s been given.
Great to see someone else aware of the “Adam and Eve” role in relationships. Also great to hear that if you “give” women what they “want”, they will stop wanting you!
Great vid. Cheers Peter👍
I’ve known this all along. But my friends told me I was wrong. A woman will respect you more if you are more disciplined and have morals. Not giving into temptations and knowing more of the spiritual aspects of a woman. Thank you Casey.
It’s speculative. It’s not empirical and verifiable like he said women can’t put it into words. We tend to feed the ego behind the theory. This theory does align with polarity that many coaches talk about. It summarized that we need be the strong and noble man.
A woman wants emotional, physical, and emotional safety
@@hv2328 I like the double emotional 🙂
There was no resolution. lol, so we just abstain from sex with her our entire life.lol, WHEN do we start to have sex with her?.... WHEN can we watch movies with her in bed. I know it's crucial to abstain from these sins at 1st, but then what? Just go through life never doing any of these things? Where's the resolution?....when do we let our guards down. Or do we just continue this forever, never having sex.🤣
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Gentlemen, I hope you realize that was Casey is doing here is not about using different techniques- it’s about becoming an all around better man and person FOR YOURSELF. These principles will elevate your mental, physical, and spiritual health as a whole and that is what will attract a woman. You can’t use these as a mask, they have to become your life. He’s channeling Buddhist, Christian, and stoic concepts to make you a better man and when that’s who you are deep inside, you will have the partner you deserve. Big up Casey, man of the year.
I work in a shelter if homeless people. There are living ca 90 men. They are all ultra selfish, ultra egos, spending their life just drinking and drugging. Some are cokeheads like ZC (look exactly the same, this nose I recon from a mile). They enjoy their life! Great!
Well said.
Improve yourself they’ll meet you at the finish line, but still they initiate 70% of divorces.
@@Mcgee833This video is BS!
Becoming a better man by not engaging in sex? What would be the point in even attracting women then?
It takes a lot of guts to make content like this; talking about deeper issues. Tons of respect for you Casey.
I think a lot of younger women don’t understand men in general. I know when I was younger, I had a ton of misconceptions. I served four years as a United States Marine, and that was how I came to learn so much more. Specifically about how deeply men feel, and how it’s just not expressed the same way because men aren’t women and vice versa. It was a huge eye opener for me and I’ll forever be grateful for the many transparent conversations men were willing to share with me. Those gentleman taught me a lot.
I believe men and women are both incredibly valuable. Just very different from each other… almost like different species. But thankfully very compatible. One is not better or worse than the other.
God bless all you men out there. I know your struggles are real. It takes guts to live from the heart. Don’t give up hope. Know there are women who exist out there who appreciate all that you are.
🙏✝️
This is truly the best video you've made.
Completely agree!
Me too.
honestly gentlemen-I've watched MANY/MOST of his vids - & like halfway in, I thought:
"Wow... this is Casey's MASTERPIECE."
My wife is a clinical psychologist and we discuss these kind of things often, so I'm quite familiar with male-female dynamics, attraction, intimate relationships, mating strategies, etc. This is one of the most insightful summary of these things I"ve ever heard.
Ugh, why can't it just be, you like her, she likes you? Love may or may not come later.
@@mikewillett5076 ikr. . . dating was supposed to be fun but now gotta treat it as a sophisticated annoying game
@@mikewillett5076 because laziness is of the darkness, and ultimately evil
Your wife told me the same thing
you hit on something. i have a good story for you. one day long ago i grew frustrated with women because i was only attracting the women i was not into. i decided to swear off of women and not be into any of them. no matter what, i was not interested. i was still nice and engaging but i didnt accept any of them as a possible partner. The result? The hottest women i ever met started throwing themselves at me. over and over.
ever since then, i just keep acting in my mind like none of them are good enough for me (until they PROVE IT). i think the 'prove it' part is the most healthy way to look at it.
seriously guys. have standards. that's really it. stop feeling like every girl you meet is a princess. they aren't.
The tricky part they need to like you first to even throw themselves at you.
@uptamistik
I think that attraction can be kick started from the jump even if there is no initial interest. Casey has explained this in other videos that it isn't about status, looks, or even money. It all boils down to creating a dynamic (from the first interaction) that she is not good enough...or you are not sold on her, rather. Every other guy is going to immediately go weak for her and pedastalize her, so when she encounters a dude who displays a higher SMV and unwavering indifference, she won't understand what is wrong with her and will immediately want to get his interest. Dam Bacon also touches on this and basically laid it out in the exact same way which is why these two guys are absolutely revolutionizing the "red pill" space in my opinion.
I myself have experienced that very thing and I can tell you Casey is right on with his analysis. I got into self improvement about a year and a half ago (eating right, working out, bettering my social network, and upping my income,) but nothing really changed with my ability to attract women (or lack thereof). But once I altered my mindset from trying soooo hard to impress women to the belief that "I am the prize and I'm evaluating you" it really has changed my outcomes quite shockingly. I'm not a Brad Pitt or Denzel Washington and I still am now able to affect attractive women's emotions and get clear signs of interest from them in a way I never believed I ever could.
I have still made mistakes here and there and am still learning to make that way of thinking natural as it's a mindset you have to be able to maintain at all times. Its an identity you adopt...not just a technique that is turned on and off at random.
So to sum up, attraction can absolutely be created. There are many testimonials of women saying they were not initially attracted to a man (from a physical sense) but after hearing him speak and getting to experience his unapologetic charismatic personality...he went from a 6 to an 8 in looks almost immediately.
Sorry to rant but just wanted to add my 2 cents to the discussion. God bless!
The topic of sex and lust tricks men for ages and decades. I'm 39 and just got into it. When we hear about it from the religious standpoint, usually we abandon the idea because we don't know how it works. But not anymore! Thank you Casey, this is golden.
I'm 39 and also just became aware of this just in time to break up with my gf who was low of lowest class females
39 too. Completely deceived my whole life. Unbelievable. All the Hollywood films, sitcoms…..all complete lies to sabotage us.
I know in my heart you are absolutely right! I’ve been on the red pill journey for the last 3 1/2 years. This brings me full circle. All the knowledge intact and back to the bedrock. Take the woman off the pedestal and lead her in righteousness. 🤯
Yep take her off the pedestal let her earn her keep
You can be very sexual but leading with that or letting it control you is when they think they can disrespect and start playing games
Facts.
"The more pleasure you engage in is the more pain you will attract" Brilliant operating principle!
Fully agree that you present these topics better than any other content creator in this space that I have ever seen, and I have been watching this space for years now.
You have a gift my friend.
Thank you for shareing.
The explanation you gave here in this video, described very precisely why I could never ever maintain girlfriends or affairs respecting me for a long period of time. I’m so grateful that I have no words to thank you.
When Casey said “The more pleasure you engage in, the more pain you will attract”. 20+ years ago one of my spiritual teachers said, “your next pleasure is your next pain”. That has always stuck with me over the years.
This video felt like a missing dot on the I for my journey. You presented it absolutely perfectly. I feel like most of the self-improvement content creators focus on building value only to immediately give it away for lust. By playing the game, you're playing yourself. Stop being slave to your desires and gain your power back. This is the type of video that could genuinely change your life. Stay blessed, thank you for the content.
Dude at first I thought you were crazy - but now I see that my experience has verified everything you say
This was a cool concept Casey is touching on. To sum it up i think his main point is that women want a man who is better than they are in every single metric. specifically they want a man that has more control over his sexual desires than she does. Its about men having complete and utter control over himself AND the relationship. Lusting and having sex non stop isnt signaling that the man is in complete control. The woman realizes subconsciously that the man is weak for sex and thus lower value.
Good work, fella. This man is learning!
Good stuff
What Casey is saying, is that women want masculine stoic men who possess a high level of emotional maturity. In the woman's mind if her man is masculine he will be perceived by her as her best option irregardless of his looks and actual social status within the hierarchy of social dominance
@@LRS11B Yes I believe you are correct and so was my summation I mentioned earlier. I have found this stuff is easier said than done. Heck I still have trouble putting this stuff into practice in real life which is why I constantly watch Casey and a few other similar channels to keep me sharp.
So how often is too often when it comes to having sex? If any sex at all is a surrender to weakness and diminishes a woman’s respect, what is the point of being in a relationship or having sex in the first place? And why would “having options” increase a woman’s desire for a man? If having sex opens a man to contempt in a woman’s eyes, wouldn’t exercising options just lower her opinion of him still further?
I’m a happily married wife, going 24+ years, but I’m so pleased you're providing young men with moral guidance, enlightenment, and growth. After so many years of misguided information on dating and relationships circulating on TH-cam and various platforms, it's a breath of fresh air. Good luck to you and everyone- Godspeed.
1) Lust - sex
2) Envy - jealous
3) Greed - Selfish
4) Pride - Ego
5) Sloth - Lazy
6) Wrath - Anger - Mood swings
7) Gluttony - overconsumption - consumerism
Definitely found this out too late but such a valueable lesson.
The more i learn about womens psychology the more i find it depressing but i feel like it is stupid to ignore this stuff at this point.
I also find it extremely depressing and concerning. It almost makes me want to avoid women altogether if this shit is inherent. Feels like a ticking time bomb that will always blow up in your face. No grace, no forgiveness, no opportunity to fail, no opportunity to grow and improve from mistakes, no space to have struggles and share vulnerably. You must be perfect every time, all the time. If not, they’re on to the next one.
@@kyleoconnell2039yup....you pretty much summarized it. Much appreciated.
Just broke up with my first GF after a 33 year miserable marriage. I'm 62 and she is 22. I made every mistake in spades. Literally she had nothing to offer but her youth while I have everything. I turned into a simp!! Well, at least I found this channel. I will hopefully get it right with the next 22 yr old I meet.😉
Every pleasure I’ve ever taken from a woman, whether it is one night or ten years, is paid back exponentially in pain. Great video. I
think you’ve given us a key to stop that pleasure and pain cycle.
Answers, answers... I find nothing more than answers to the questions I had since first time I laid eyes on a girl. Thought I was gonna die without understanding, but thankfully I was able to find this channel. Best wishes.
same
Sigmund Freud admitted his blindness regarding women. In this, he was no stronger than Adam.
Going through divorce with a child really made me look at this a lot differently. Anytime I’m getting to know a woman I find myself asking whether this is somebody I would want to have a child with (whether accidental or intentional). The extremely negative relationship with my child’s mother makes me very discerning about forming any kind of union with women now. On a positive note, I have found that by abstaining I also have more women in my life who are trustworthy and consistently supporting me, despite the relationships not being sexual/romantic in nature. There’s a lot of truth to what you’re talking about and I appreciate you discussing the spiritual side of this.
And you’ll probably form friendships and maybe in a year it will be more. She’ll be glad she was friends with you first.
Casey turning spiritual and showing others the way in this dating world is a boon to both us men AND the women we care about❤
The whole part about she will destroy you if she sense weakness is so true. She'll play games to mess with your emotions start fights and none of that would happen if you were strong.
Evil, insentient and shameless, one should communicate and cooperate in unity instead
You have solved the manosphere. That's all I needed. Thank you
Listen to every word. This is the long game and is so true. I'm almost 50 and getting woman 10 20 years younger that I thought I couldn't get when I was that age. Dead serious. Every man is after the poonani but when you shine different they notice. Give it a few. Days,weeks,months and your strength will be rewarded. As someone that has had years more experience I can also say Listen to Casey. Even if he's wrong about 1 thing per individual circumstances the odds are bulletproof !
We all have to adapt to the principles being shared. I’m just turning 40 and my life is barely getting started.
This is honestly the best video Casey has ever made. It's good to see the evolution take place in him as he's dropping true knowledge.
Fella's stop being man whores who chase pleasure. Self control and discipline are the keys to being a true high value man.
My life experience taught me that anything and everything is just a variation of reality you can explore and not rule of thumb. Including female hypergamy.
💯 Men need to be the example! Godly masculine men ! principled w/ healthy boundaries ..period. Great job!
Been watching you from day one, and it’s funny how easy it is nowadays to get and keep quality women… I just try to understand what you say and apply till it becomes part of me.. it’s now like a super power I have… you’re doing a wonderful job with this MBT well done brother, I appreciate you.
A super power? 😂😂😂
Rite… really all by not giving a fuc … that’s really the key..
@@mannygunn4698you stole my thought
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@@carpediem4512 Why is it funny to you that a guy has found legitimately helpful information from this channel that has greatly improved his experience with women??
People who laugh at other peoples success and improvement are the ones who are a joke.
Being traditional and raised in Church, I’ve done this with women who I was really interested in before. This is great for sure with women who want a serious relationship. But women do enjoy “fun” just as much as men. Sometimes they just want to use you for “fun”. If that is the case, you probably won’t hear from her again after you say no.
Understandable but..
This ain’t no “ technique “
Dont look at it as a turn on/off ting
Its just how u live
true a lot of girls just want to experience a guys energy, smash n then bounce. kind of how a lot of guys do it
And when she leaves hold the door for her since she'll get a taste of the world and will want what she cant have: YOU!
Which is great cause you don’t want those type of woman in your life. Casual sex is a soul sucking sinful act
I was shocked when my male friend from the gym described his dating life, i.e. girls raised in church that used him for sex. All the things I've heard have made me a hard-core advocate for waiting until marriage, especially when you factor in the procreative consequences.
Perfectly explained to the extent that even women themselves are not aware of all the tests and games they perform on men ! Best video I ever seen and heard !
Very good insight. I tried after a broken heart to fill the void and my ego with as many woman I could. But felt worse after every single pointless conquest. Felt good ..but without purpose, meaningless sex is empty. Lucky I found my wife, a girl who was genuine,feminine, appreciated me for my qualities and follows my lead. 4kids and still love her to death. She works hard to keep me. ❤
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I'm so happy for you Bro!Awesome to hear about positive outcomes.Stay blessed!
Very cool! I'm happy to hear you have an awesome family life and a great woman who follows your lead! I am currently a year in with the girl I'm dating and so far so good. But I remain diligent. I'm sure you know just how quickly things can change from good to bad. I like the girl I have now but if she ever steps out of line I have no problem leaving. If thats what needs to happen then so be it.
Awesome!!!
Truly blessed
Casey, Truthfully I tip my hat to you for admitting your mistakes and continuing on a path of growth. You have a broad audience that deserve truth
you hit the nail this time brother. thissss is imprinted in my brain right now and everything has started to make sense to me.
Preach brother. So much better content than deceit. 'While you have the light, follow the light that you may be a son of the light'
This is one of the best, most well articulated truths about what women "really" want. Fact is, as you're stating...they want character, they want a strong spiritual protector, they want what their soul yearns for... Which is a True Godly Connection. Well said my friend 🙏🏿
What if she doesn't want God?
Bro, I cannot tell you how grateful I am for this video. You opened my eyes fully! When you are trying to be a high value man you walk that path and figure things you are talking about, but it is so easy to fall astray when you don’t have the full picture. I really think you cracked the code man. Salute to you! Hope you inspire more man to walk that path to fulfilment in relationships, like you did to me. Thank you 🙏
This video was a huge eye opener for me. I have noticed women lose respect and start shit testing after I get it in, especially recently that I've been on a dozen or so dates over the last month. When I've waited and purposefully teased women by not giving into sex they want it 10x more and treat you WAY differently and almost put you on a pedestal. I just never really fully realised it. I think the spiritual aspect you mentioned is extremely important, and no one really talks about that. I've felt my best around women when I've abstained, and most of them are honestly flabbergasted when I do so. From here on I'm abstaining and not being a manslut, because honestly it gets pretty depressing just turning chick's out, makes you lose faith in humanity and yourself although the alure of it is intoxicating. Be better, gents 👌
Agree 100%. Slutting yourself out damages you in deep ways. I’m recovering currently. The same way Casey explains that they resent you and lose trust when you sleep with them easy, I’ve found my inherent trust for women plummets with every notch on the headboard. Which in turn will make it impossible to actually trust the good ones. Hoemath has a great illustration of this in one of his videos. Be well brother, we’re all in this together. Men need to support and encourage men. Good luck on your journey and stay strong
How u get so many dates
So when do you slay man? I'm going through this now. She wants it so bad lol after 2 dates. But don't know how long to feel out that stage. I mean I got divorced and it's not like I can wait till marriage here.
@pabloescobar4029 I'm a chadlite that uses decent pictures and make myself sound better in my bio than I actually am
Really?? In my case if I make them wait for sex, they quickly lose interest and move on.
I’ve no words for this guy.. brilliant
After being married 4 times and I'm 45 years old. Thanks, bro, good job, keep up a good work. Damn it took me long enoughto hear this information is key priceless.
Good job man, I've been dissatisfied for a long time with red pill information toward men it's all about the external, it's all about the physical, six-pack, six figure have a nice car, have a lot of money, etc. nobody has been talking about the spiritual side or the internal side and I'm glad you did.
So, after watching this video two days ago, I’ve been thinking about the ups and downs of my 30 year marriage. The ups and downs align precisely with the seven deadly sins. This paradigm fits my experience perfectly.
One of the best descriptions for respect. Like men want respect, women want to be cherished. The way for a woman to be cherished is to be virtuous. In 1981 I travelled to China the men in the group loved the Chinese women. One of the western women in the group noticed the phenomenon and realized that western women had lost their innocence, virtue.
I've been watching your content for the last couple weeks. The way you present the information is well thought out, and is giving me a new POV on dating. I've had a lot of what I thought were great relationship over the years. I never was really taught why girls like what they like. By accident I would be dating multiple girls and by default wouldn't want to settle down with any of them. Some would bail but there were always new ones. Eventually girls would pressure me for a relationship. I never realized it HAD to happen like this. It never works the other way, and actually makes them dissappear.
These videos and information is the best. Don’t ever stop conditioning us men to be better.
I was driving to work and I was listening to some lady explaining stoicism. I got annoyed immediately. I clicked this without knowing what to expect. This is a slam dunk 🤯. Well done. You are saving the world right now. We have too many weak men. This has given too many deviants free reign to do as they please. My wife knows I am the leader and she respects me. I was a virgin until 19 then I didn't have sex again until I was 33 and married my wife. It was a lonely painful time but I feel it had to be that way in order for me to become spiritually strong. Well done good sir. I hope young men and women find your video. I'm actually going to post this on my Facebook right now !
I'm a woman, and thanks to your videos, I am able to understand myself and not feel guilty anymore 😊
As a woman, do you 100% agree with what was said here?
As long as you're not pulling any BS then it's just your biology 👍😂
you should be
I don’t buy it, most of the women I meet judge you by your wealth and position.
Of course, you have to have personality, but in the end, it’s all about the Benjamins!
@@simon359 Honestly speaking it's always that way with women when you start working. Though there are the ones that you've been around that only care about that. Some just want a dude that can make enough to support a home and family. But yeah. There's certainly a lot of women that are greedy and have the audacity to think a man's money is theirs even when they're not married 😂
"Being a man is about who you are on the inside" Amen brotha, PREACH! Excellent!
Coming from a Christian background (son of a preacha man) that was the best fully secular video I've seen on this topic, in otherwords, you seemingly nailed all of 'God's points' without talking about or really mentioning 'God'. Amazing!!
This is such an important message brother. Young men need people like you in mainstream media to, myself included. Thank you, God Bless.
This man is awesome. So vast and solid knowledge. You can tell he really does a good research and reflection job when preparing the videos. Also his communication skills and direct and clear lenguage makes all a lot of easier. Congratulations and success man!
Wow bra. This was so good to hear . It's so spot on. These other podcasts and cultural behaviours that men blame the women for being sluts but the men think it's ok to be sluts themselves, sleeping with women who will one day be someone else's wife/mother. I was part of the problem as well. When men can see it for what it really is and how weak it is as you have so very well presented, it's a positive thing.
Men need more of this,they need to not just know the truth but to live in the light.
I fully agree. Ironically this attitude was partly responsible for the creation of feminism, the other thing this podcasts rage so much about (which is mostly true in our days).
Men are slutmakers, but yes, chasing women for sex is a weakness in itself.
Casey ever since I started watching your stuff, I’ve kept women around more! Thanks for doing what you’re doing. I’ve never had a great father figure and these videos help a ton.
Casey, this was a phenomenal video. Super nice work with lots of detail. You are correct, most guys just don’t know this stuff and don’t have the patience or discipline to sit down and listen, take notes, process and incorporate into their own lives. Keep up your great videos. Saving me a fortune in money and wasted time!
I love how indirectness yet being straight to the point, and the repetition of points gets us to ACTUALLY understand, and all of that-an entire life lesson-in an unforgettable way, in 27mins. Beat that.
I’m loving the biblical references brother, I needed this today. Thanks be to God
Great content that makes 100% sense. I love how you don’t make it some type of “battle” between men and women where the man has to come out on top ALL THE TIME. I appreciate that you break everything down to the simplicity that it actually is. To any new subs, this dude is totally legit. Thank you for the great content.
I have always felt this way ,but I couldn't speak it out. It is difficult to unsex the mind, but it is definitely a good ongoing challenge with myself. Thank you, Casey!
Corey Wayne + Casey Zander... both great for men to learn about women and relationships.
@@avasdv I also don’t trust his marriage advice because he seems very jaded about Marriage. But his advice was great at getting a relationship started :)
Playing with fire is also top dating advice
Corey Wayne is okay, his videos lean towards, it's all the man's fault. Women are adults and no one should ever tell you that you are responsible for some else's behavior. However Rich Cooper Entrepreneurs in Cars shows how to vet women and leave the damaged ones alone. You're only responsible for your own behavior. Corey Wayne is giving women a free pass. Modern women have to work on themselves just like modern men, instead of women working on their options.
I love the convection in your voice while saying all of this
My god
Golden
I can't emphasize this enough
You continue to blow my mind Casey. I can not thank you enough! It is nice and all to learn about womans nature, but as far as i am concerned that is just a bonus. The real gift lies in bringing the lost ways of the man back. A heartbreak and your videos have totally changed my mindset and outlook on life. I am forever gratefull, and i will continue not to fall for the seven deadly sins for the rest of my life! Again THANK YOU Casey
I agree that is the highest form of Masculinity. Being an attractive man and choosing to not engage sexually. You then become more powerful and focused in all other aspects of life
It's not being an attractive man it's about being the Man who has internal strength
Casey, you’re the man! My dating life has improved drastically since I came across your channel 3-4 months ago
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This works ive applied it and it works. GOTTA control your lust .....
Hands down one of the best videos that can help young man understand themselves and how attraction works.
Man you should convert these boards into newsletter or tweets, they're super valuable.
Even tho im muslim. I really understand this at a deep level. Balancing red pill understanding woman nature. Even as a christian u make it clearer to balance out. Being abstain from sex before marriage really does the best results.
As a muslim that is still not married, does this still apply after the wedlock?
@@Violet_Odorata Yes it all does. As a man you should never let any of the 7 sins control you and that is truly a philosophy to live by in all times of your life. That does not mean you always abstain as ofc it is halal after wedlock but you should never let these sins control you and find a good balance. You must remember that Casey's advice is very wise but may not always align with Islam.
But the quran says you can rape slave women that are married, and have sex with children like your prophet.
So I don’t sleep with her because she will lose attraction. I also don’t give her any attention because that will validate her. Doesn’t seem like we will be interacting at all…
We men are supposed to silently work non-stop to get resources, and bring it back to women for them to consume and enjoy while they grow fat and (if we're lucky) raise our offspring. Sounds like a brilliant deal, eh?
I don't think that's what he was saying. The goal is not to be ruled by your base desires or the woman's powers. I don't think he said anything about not "validating her" -I'd say provide, protect and pursue the woman you are interested in -and don't do those things to get eg. "sex" Do them because that's the kind of man you are. What he's talking about is the Golden Path, the hardest thing you can do. Actually becoming a better person, a true man who rules himself and is able to help others.
The man in control of himself and fully aware is the one that will earn the respect that he most needs to be happy in a relationship.
Finally something biblical. I had a girlfriend a few months back who worshipped me. We both decided abstinence was the way we wanted to go. I used to be a pick up artist, so don’t think I’m a prude. I wanted to not do anything that wasn’t biblical because I wanted this relationship to last. After 2 months of her tempting me, I gave in and I could FEEL the dynamic immediately shift. That was the beginning of the end, 3 months later, she had morphed into a whole different human and I could feel her resentment towards me every time we spoke. I caught her talking to her ex boyfriend and I immediately dumped her. She accepted it without any resistance. Shit was crazy
@@cedricbillingsley3960 This is not always true, you can get friendzoned if you turn down sex, because her ego got hurt
I've had countless friends tell the girl NO to sex but keep hanging out because the man is interested in them, or they just don't make the move. The girl wants to have sex, and eventually loses interest because the man didn't make the move...
Yeah. I experience this. The only response i get is "shes the wrong woman for you." And then give me a solution in dating an overweight woman they know, or just in general, which i feel is mocking me... I guess the first part is right but the right woman FOR ME (i have a standard too and can be put off but im not asking for a 9/10 ffs!) is very rare i feel?
Casey is coping hard on his fairy tale beliefs. 😆
Wouldn’t that also make you a orbiter simp if you were hanging around and not having zex?
Man this makes so much sense. I remember me & my ex were having a day where she was reading a book and I was watching Netflix, later she snaps on me saying how at least she's being productive... We both are doing the same thing, enjoying a fictional story but the standards were completely different for me. I also remember many calls/texts along the lines of "Tell me I don't need to buy this" or "Tell me I dont need fast food", which aligns with the deviance topic. Great vid
My wife asked me who is the center of your heart.
And like a bullit I answered
as a christian it's Jesus Christ and then myself.
I noticed a disturbed look on her face. But that's true .
She knows it since we married 30 years ago.
Some years ago she cheated on me with a in my eyes low value guy. ( poser)
She regrets , I forgave , then
she signaled me I can cheat on her ( to make me as bad as she is ). And as it often happens , there suddenly appeared a women who tries to seduce me.
Up to now I rejected .
But to calm my rage because of my wifes betrayel I temptated to do it.
Thank you for your video.
It explained a lot to me.
Another winner, Casey. Men must develop high, stoic self confidence and stable high strength and great character.
I needed this tonight.
Thanks!
Yeah... thanks again from ALL OF US. We've had a life of total BS ABOUT WOMEN!
This is the best video I have watched on masculinity.
I have been that 1% man all my life. I am a Sigma INFJ. I now understand this concept more deeply.
Thank you
Thanks dude your personal experience is inspiring. Also, thanks for explaining this to ys.
Lol, shit I thought this was a private comment. Anyways thanks Casey.
It was a long one but I agree with it was gonna sign up for the mbt but I can’t afford it right now appreciate the videos learned more in five days than in 30 years lol and it’s already starting to work
Dude, you are the #1 presenter in this field. Just with this video. That would be enough.
Now you’re on the right track.
It was all designed to be done in the Designers way. So get close to Him and you will be on the right track. Seek JC and you will be in the presence of the Maker.
This way the kryptonite has no power…Superman!
Mind blowing, that's exactly what I did and still doing to my girl, No wonder she is in love , thank you Casey, finally someone cracked the code.
And then what? You will never have sex with her? I don't understand this video at all. Casey is literally demanding us to be asexuals as a man? Wtf is this?
@@Dale_Blackburn you see. Sex is the focus. that's the fuckin problem. and I have to add I had sex with her alot
@@Dale_Blackburn no, it means you are the one who controls it. But how exactly to do it in relationship (not on the first dates or months of dating) - there is no script and can't be. It's just one of the ways to be more masculine and strong in woman's eyes. And it will prolongue your relationship.
Facts every now and then don't want sex from your girl and magically she wants it more it's crazy but it works thus giving you the leverage
You are one Hundred percent correct on all those levels. Because I use that same state of mentality. Then I realized what I did wrong when I came back to the dating seen. I wasn’t fallowing these rules. I was just doing it to get laid. And females can see and smell that a mile away.
This was the video I I recognized this guy is a genius
i always thought this way but i thought i was wrong . now iam a believer you are right
Wow! I've been on my red pill journey for about 3 years, consumed hundreds of hours of content, and this is the first time I've heard such insight into the male-female dynamic. Thank you!
Mind blown! Perfectly explains so many things and makes complete sense to me now about my dating history. Well done bro, thank you
This is very accurate. I grew up around pimps in Oakland CA and they always told me they gain control over there woman by not having sex with them. That way they remain the prize and stay high value meanwhile the girls give them all of the money and respect these guys so much. Not condoning that lifestyle at all but those type of men always knew the dark side of female nature
Different context and dynamic
Damn, by not sleeping with the women to gain control
Please explain more of this
Am curious
@@Usman.akubandid u watch the video?
I've learnt some psychological things of the women pimp metric. Essentially, it's what you're saying. The women see all these simple men giving money for sex, the pimp takes their money and subconsciously in their mind creates respect towards him. Because their sexuality with all their daily clients constantly receives a monetary value. The pump and ass hole that he is is the only man figure not giving in to the sexuality.
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Dude, you nailed it on this one. Women will sometimes perceive that weakness even if it's not there and lose a ton of respect. As a film maker, I've had to cast beautiful women and then been accused of lust but I have never cheated so that small perception of wanting someone (but just wanting to cast the beautiful actors) has screwed me over. Then regaining that respect is impossible.
On the flip-side, when a woman sees that you resist another attractive woman they fall apart for you.
brother you shattered my perception of reality. TY, im burning through these videos!!
Honestly this has fucked me up mentally and i don't know to say. I have a lot of questions rather then answers. Everything you say is spot on but at the same time the truth is hard pill to swallow and it only shows how deep and fucked up the game is really is. The Game isn't made for us to win. It's all about gaining leverage.
Very good video. I agree. Epic delineation. For me I already knew this but never sat down and figured out how to delineate it. It’s just part of my essence.
Casey craft the hard wired code between the sexes and how you present in a selfless manner has and will benefit human population. I’m sure your intuition has confirmed this from time to time. Most respectable man I have learned from about females and their subconscious behavior. Thanks Brotha
This basically sums up what I’ve been thinking about for a while now. I’ve told friends this but I could never get as concise as this. Shouts my man
Abstinence might just be a level of self control, but then you have to be able to keep control at all times by deciding when, and during and after the process!
The testing and observing by her and life never ends.
We have to become an ever better and stronger people!
Thank you Casey, phenomenal video!
Wow, actually one of your best videos. Now this makes it clear what it means for them to want someone BETTER than them... as in literally better.
Hey Casey! Beautifully explained! I am 35 now, I have been coming to a similar conclusion through my own experiences, but because I was raised in a Hindu culture it has it's own flavor. I totally agree with all the pointers, but I would add another level to it, on top of all these high standards, also add being "MEDITATIVE" , NOT doing meditation but BEING meditative...which means being in a highly attentive/aware state 24/7 , This will actually raise your happiness levels.OK hear me out please... usually our mind is in a scattered /confused state ( this also wastes lot of our energy as brain consumes 20% of nutrition) . But when you are in a meditative state, you are centered and even if it feels like your are using energy when you start practicing it, it will slowly become your default state and will bring an ease to your life ( it will raise your energy levels). If you want to make this easier, start practicing Semen retention/ Brahmacharya. After you practice this for some amount of time, you will realize that your manifestations also start happening super fast (i.e you just have a thought and within days it will happen, I know hard to believe but try it out). But if you can even ignore the worldly desires , you can start getting glimpses into reality or you can even say start experiencing glimpses of God! I believe the next stage would be enlightenment/nirvana/moksha. But I am not personally there yet. I don't know why I am sharing this here, I feel your teachings just clicked something in me. All the best! Keep helping people out there!
It is amusing to see Casey finding his path to Christ after wandering in the darkness. This is relatable to many among us. Great content.
Nobody just wakes up one day and is as based as this man is. He's done the WORK and I'm so lucky to be able to learn from his wisdom. Awesome videos man.
Many things you said are spot on. Years later they say, you are the one that got away or didn't you want me.
Casey, this is a very interesting take which makes a lot of sense for some reason, but one thing I am uncertain of is this; if you do not give in to lust, how do you balance the sex aspect when you are in a relationship with her, in order for her to keep her attraction level the same as time goes on? I mean you win her more when you say no at first, but eventually you are going to have sex with her. Consider perhaps making a follow up video regarding this aspect. God bless you man.
My thoughts as well. Seems like he’s just suggesting to never have sex or engage in any of the seven deadly sins ever. It makes sense logically but we are still only human. Wondering what the right balance is
Yeah i didnt understand this either. So is going monk mode the route or maybe once a week? Because realistically shes gonna leave if you dont do it at all speaking in a long term relationship of course.
This is the question that needs answering @ Casey
He’s not saying never have sex just don’t let your lust and sex drive control you to where you don’t do what you know is right
@@mabu6464 I think we all understood that was the idea he's getting across, maybe he could give a more concrete example from his own life though. I feel like it depends on the individuals situation, but I feel like if you are on your upward trajectory and have all your shit together and she is the one mainly initiating, a few times a week should be fine
You know I've been trying to become myself stronger but i think there's not a clear definition of that. When you explained about the sins it makes me feel like there's something deep inside me that already knew it. I've been zooming out my interactions lately and I noticed that we do those things when we actually think that the woman who we are dating to isn't above us we do those things we say "no" but we get weak when it comes to a beautiful woman we automatically put her above us wanting lust
That seems pretty true to me.