Talking about mental health is definitely not a distraction. Our hobbies, our work, our mental health...they're all integrated. Keep doing what you're doing, you've been so helpful with me and my Bronco. Just make sure you always take time for yourself. Even TH-cam and social media is work. Your drone and trail side videos take time and effort to set up, shoot, and then edit for publication. Most importantly, stay open and keep talking with your friends and family; your support network will help bring you back to center when life starts pulling you off stable ground.
You’re absolutely right, they are definitely all connected and it’s important to find the right balance between all of them which is going to be different for everyone. But I don’t want to talk about it a ton, because if my videos are to be an escape, then I also don’t want to remind people of their struggles. So that’s a balance I need to figure out as well. I’m so glad you’ve found value in my content though and that it’s been able to help with your bronco build! Thank you so much for the comment, I’ll definitely keep that in mind
Funny or not today I stumbled across your post on mental health . While I have been successful in my career it’s come at cost . Thanks man , your story met me where I needed it . Unless you have been to the abyss it’s hard to understand the darkness
This is not a distraction, and should not be in an apology. You should hold your head high and be proud of what you’re doing. More people, like you, need to share their stories, and need to be proud of what they’re doing for themselves, their lives, and their mental health. Don’t apologize for who you are, where you are, and what you’ve been through. I, personally, watch some of these stories, and I seek help through your shared experiences and inspiration. Keep posting.
I think this video took guts. To express yourself. Kudos on that. Give us all some background on you Ok Nuff said. Got my Bronco you and I have talked about in the past. With your help , my research, it’s perfect. It’s amazing actually lol. Thanks for doing what you do. Stay strong 💪
My wife just received her custom built four door bronco. She pulled the trigger on this new financial endeavor in part because of your videos with your wife, kids and pets. She wants to do the same. So thank you for being here, doing the best you can, and hanging out with other TH-cam creators who share that struggle and drive. God bless brother❤
Dude that is so awesome to hear! Thank you so much for sharing that and I am so glad that she has found inspiration in my content. That is freaking awesome! Congrats on the new Bronco!
The best thing you can do for your channel is trade in the Bronco for a Jeep. 😉😂 JK. Can’t wait to see you and hang out this year. You’re doing great!!!
I think most of us get how the business works, and those who don't are well... I dunno. I don't know what to think of them. But do what you gotta do to do what you are enjoying doing =) I'm more than happy to see product stuff, because honestly, I use you all to test products for me to see if I might want to use it or not! Anyway, I definitely get how the business works. I'm sure others do too. It helps let you make these videos and see where you go. I'm ok with watching product stuff, especially if it's product stuff you enjoy using, if it means you get to make more videos and I get to see them =)
Wow, we have a pretty parallel story. I was fully prepared for a full military career, but after a few years in I got really injured multiple times, and after another 1.5 years of many surgeries, failed physical therapy, and everything else, they finally told me I was too broken to fix, gave me a check, and said "beat it kid." I didn't want to be around people, or in cities. So I went back to NM and got into a small mountain town college, and back into nature. I was only 50% disabled for physical, but the VA tried so hard to get me to go the 100% for ptsd. I wouldn't do it though. Over the years, being in nature is what ultimately fixed me (mentally, the physical stuff is still broken, lol). I'm not an overlander. I'm just a photographer with a Subaru who can't afford a real rig, lol, so I use what I have, but it's mine and it gets me most of where I need to go. I love your channel and have watched for a while now. It's very calming and inspiring to watch your adventures. I will also say that I did the same thing as you. After I finished school and got my degrees like everyone told me to I went got real jobs, one was for DoD doing what I did in the navy but with way better pay; however it was even more stressful, no advancement, and very bad for my mental health, so I quit and went back to being a scientist in the private sector. Did that for a while until photography started paying more than the science. So I quit and went full time photography and TH-cam. It took a few years before TH-cam was big enough to pay the bills, but that's where I'm at now, so if you ever want someone to talk to about the whole thing, I'm always down. You can email, text, or call me anytime if you want to chat about the military stuff, life, art, TH-cam, or whatever. brent@hallofthewildstudios.com is my email.
Dude I am so sorry to hear that they broke you. Not fun at all. I have some physical limitations from my time in as well and it is not fun at all. But the mental side of things is real shitty. I get the thing about not wanting to be rated for PTSD. I was honestly really concerned about that as well, that is may interfere with my ability to do things that I want to do in life, in my career, stuff like that. I have not found that to be the case personally, and I am glad that the VA knows about it because there is such a focus on vets mental health, they do everything they can. They have been awesome. But dude, all that matters is that you get out. The vehicle doesn't matter. I LOVE my bronco and am fortunate enough to have it, but it is not necessary. I really want to find a way to make this channel less about the Bronco, and more about the adventure because at the end of the day, that is all that matters. Thanks for the comment man, I will definitely reach out and chat. Thanks
I just want to let you know that you inspired me to find something new in my life which is camping, I just ordered a Bronco Outerbanks 4 door because I so much love yours so thank you for your inspiration. I'm newly retired in my late sixties divorced and talking about mental health is not easy so I thank you on that as well, looking forward to the Ikamper 3.0 which I also thank you for suggesting it in your video. I'm new to camping adventures like this and your videos gives me the strength and inspiration to do this new hobby because it's good for the soul body and mind. Please find the time for yourself and stay healthy, lots of people support you and I'm proud to be one of them. Cheers. Tony. 💙🙏🤟🌞
Thanks for putting this video up. I'm retired career military and I know that being out doors, especially with my family, is the key to my mental health. I'm finally at a place that we can get out more and start to heal. Hearing your story helps. A lot more than the VA docs. You've got a new subscriber. Thanks again.
If you haven't already, turn your channel into an LLC. That way you can write off nearly everything related to your channel. The Bronco itself, tires, accessories, fuel, trip food, office supplies, ect. It all adds up to a lot at the end of the year. Hope this helps!
Thanks for sharing man! Fellow Vet here. Overlanding and hiking saved my life. I think everyone needs to find a healthy outlet. Glad you found something that works.
Agreed! We all have different stories, but are all going through something. The important thing is to do something that allows you to reset and do something for you. For us it is Overlanding/off-roading/hiking but it can be anything really. Thanks for watching man!
David I recently found out about your channel, I live in the pnw as well and I feel very inspired by your trips and loveeee the content, I hope to be able to get out more this summer even on 1 night trips, I honestly really hope you blow up and make a living out of something you love to do, because that’s something that I would wanna do in my life, I’m hoping one day that I can get out of my job and just be out there exploring the beautiful states of Washington and Oregon and eventually America, keep pushing, keep being consistent, and people like us will stick around, and next thing you know you’ll be making a video titled “thank you for 1 million subscribers”💪💪
This is powerful. My son is currently overseas, and is having massive difficulty. I am going to refer him to your channel. It takes a lot of courage to open up like this. I hope you continue down this road and keep chasing your dreams. That's one thing I have always told my son... No matter what. No matter who. Always, ALWAYS - Chase your dreams. They won't chase you back. Thanks again for what you do. I'm here for the long haul w ya man!
That is great advice and is what I will tell my son as well. I am sorry to hear that your son is having a hard time overseas. If he needs someone to talk to, he can reach out to me on Instagram if he wants. Best wishing for him and you and your family.
Well said! As many of us had had our struggles in life we are supporting you fully. BTW I just saw your first video yesterday and was blown away with the quality of your video editing. As long as you keep it real you'll have a supporter for life👍
I knew there was something about you that I liked. I either figured you were in the emergency services or military. Good for you buddy, keep up the great quality videos and focus on your wife and kid(s) 😊 I’m in the emergency services and camping/overlanding is a great reset for me and my wife loves to tag along
I have a few buddies who are first responders as well, and being in nature is such a great reset for them as well. Glad to hear you have something to reset man.
I love your channel and I don’t think this is a distraction. It makes things more personal and it takes a lot of courage to share your story, so thank you!-Cindi
Absolutely not a distraction. Thank you for opening up because we as men need to know there are other things out there that can help us. We don't have as many options as women do, but knowing there's better out there is good enough for me. You gained a subscriber for life bro!
As someone new to your channel I really appreciated this post. I have personally dealt with the mental health issues similar to what you have, as have all of my kids, two of them suffering from PTSD from trauma they dealt with in high school. Growing up I was told that real men don't cry and to power through the trials, don't rely on other people, how wrong that is. I grew up in the PNW but am stuck for the time being in the Midwest, your videos, and others from the PNW, are what keeps me grounded and relaxed. I miss the PNW and realize how much I took it for granted when I lived there. Thank you for opening up, thank you for sharing your explorations, thank you for showing that it is ok for a man to expose his struggles and that it is ok to get help.
I'm active Navy for 9 years now and just found your channel. Saw this video mentioned through another comment and had to check it out. I'm glad I did because mentally I'm struggling pretty bad. From hard pushing chain of commands that just don't care to the excessive workload that doesn't end. Was an avid speed guy so been through a ton of sport cars but decided that hobby honestly isn't in the best of my interest after years. So, I traded in my type R for a Ranger and decided to start getting back into going into the outdoors again. Some of the best times I've ever had were going on roads trips with my best friend and stopping to see the random places along the way. I'm rambling but your videos that I've gone through so far have helped quite a bit and I just want to say thank you for sharing your experience openly man. Makes me feel less alone. Hope to see you out there one day. I appreciate what you're doing and look forward to more videos.
I’m sorry to hear you’re struggle man. Someone command has such an impact on their military career and I don’t think a lot of people understand that. My first command was so bad I actively tried to get kicked out. Not proud of that but it’s true. My second command was INCREDIBLE though and I’m so glad I stuck around for that. But I hope you’re able to find some clarity and relief in getting back out in nature. And don’t be afraid to seek out counseling. It helped me a lot
That’s good that you stay with what your values are & dont let just anything get your jolly!!! And as far as the $$ goes, you know God will always provide & protect you through everything!! Keep the faith & keep doing what you do, & enjoy!!!
Don't avoid talking about this to those who find your TH-cam channel. You talking about mental health helps yourself and others that have the same struggles. It takes a strong person to admit they need help and to be open and share with others. Talking above it is not a distraction. Your talkkng about this is may save others. Often so many haven't been able to take that 1st step to help themselves yet. You may help them take that 1st step. Keep being you! Love the videos i have seen with you and Venture2Roam and RevereOverland. Keep rolling together. I'm a Jeeper so doing the Jeep wave but also praying you find that peace and continue following your dreams. When I am post Kidney/Pancreas transplant, I hope I cross your paths out there. I wil be hitting the road for a Very Longterm Overland trip across the beautiful country. I went thru a long mental health battle. I made it to the other side. Nothing gives me more peace since my purchasing my JLUR and getting off the concrete and out into nature. Currently awaiting a transplant call so I'm in downtime mode now but myself and my rig are ready for both our mods and then some day soon hope to see you guys out there. Keep following your dreams. You made the choice many should and won't take the risk of walking away from that check. Your life is more valuable! Your peace and happiness is more important. We only get one Life! Praying for you! ❤🙏✌️
Thank you for opening up, its the hardest thing to do, I will absolutely support your journey. I also am a Vet but my story is a little different, I didn't struggle or have issues upon returning, however I have been out of the Military since 1997 and just recently I am starting to struggle I think back to the my friends that didn't come home and the one I don't even know that didn't and I ask what I could have done differently... I literally have broken down into tears, typing this. I will be Honest I have followed you a short time and between you and Shaun from TSTN you both are what keeps me going and I thank you for that. I have a Bronco and Love it and just started to outfit it so I can go have peace out in the middle of no where.
Glad you were able to get to your happy place. Good on you for sharing! If you even keep one person from going too far down that dark road before seeking help you have changed the world for the better. When I retired I had that same feeling of pointless wondering. Making the compromise to work remote while still being able to get out for some dirt road therapy is my happy place. I don’t miss the circus, but I sure do miss the clowns. Keep chasing your dream Brother! Life is not the destination…..it’s the journey!
As someone who left a job that was toxic to those I loved and caused depression in myself, I identify with what you’re dealing with. However, making a living on TH-cam, may mean having to take less ethical sponsorships and it makes you more prone to having depression again. I’ve revamped TH-cam for myself and absolutely love life right now. I think you should consider this. I don’t and will not rely on TH-cam for income anymore… it’s freeing. My main job will now provide 100% of the financial support to make off-road adventure videos. Most jobs have time off (mine didn’t till this year). The benefit of a job allows me to be more connected to my audience (who also works real jobs) while making awesome videos simply for fun. I’m so excited about filming with this mindset. Oh that last video didn’t perform despite editing it for weeks, now it’s no big deal. I’m not saying you can’t be a TH-camr like Trail Recon or the Story till Now, but as someone who has had depression, full time YouTubing will likely bring it back. Find a job that you love, then make videos on the side… it’s realistic and makes TH-cam so much fun again. Whatever you do, good luck!
I know it’s hard but thanks for sharing. This testimony will bring you rather closer to the viewers. I like your product reviews and trust you. Someone got to do it for the newbies in overloading. I have recently bought the Wildtrack trim and product reviews and installation videos helped me a lot. Thanks for that. I would keep reviewing products for viewers like me, lol. I’ve learned a lot from you and always look forward to your new videos. You’ve a beautiful family. God bless you all! 🙏
Haha well thanks for that! I still have plenty more time of reviewing product and doing installs so not stopping anytime soon. That is my end goal though
David this was such a good video to put out and tell your story, I am sorry it took me so long to get to it. Thank you for your service and know many of us are dealing with mental health issues that we find it hard to discuss with anyone, even our closest friends and family. Organizations like Homeward for Heroes helps vets in a big way utilizing overlanding as a way to get out in nature and try to heal the soul. They are a great group!
I appreciate and respect your honesty and vulnerability, it's refreshing. There's nothing wrong with product placement. There are many times that some of us don't have aclue on what may or may not work for us and honest reviews are very much appreciated. especially those of us who are on a very tight budget and still want to live our lives. Once again, thank you.
Thank you for your service and sacrifice. I will be supporting your videos now and forever. You put out great content and now we get to see the great man behind it. Keep up the awesome work.
Similar story here, only 30 years ago. Fresh out of the military, and not a clue where my life should go next! I absolutely did the wrong thing by just trying to "power through". I have sense made some good choices and ended up getting married to an absolute angel of a woman who helped me in so many ways. I admire the choices you have made, and I am looking forward to following you on your journey! And thank you for your service!
So glad to hear that man! 30 years ago I don’t think there was any real transition assistance programs like there is today. Even with those though the transition is difficult. More so than I thought. But I’m glad you’re happy now and didn’t let it define your life
You are doing amazing work. Stay North and don't say that you will never do a video like this again, Its who you are and thats what we expect the most. I know the love and pain of doing this form of Work-Love-Passion-Hobby-Therapy. Faith in doing what feels right will bring us the fruits to allow us to continue to move forward. Giving back is the greatest gift. It is done in many ways and you are doing now.
Semper Fi brother!! I myself have struggled with it myself, got out went straight to line work found really good money and now im starting my overland rig on my f150
Good evening David thank you for sharing some personal information about you. It’s not easy since I met you through Michael from conquest, Overland, I have seen you both getting better with your video and content, and both of you at Paton campout and will just keep the jiffy pop popcorn out of the conversation. What you’re doing well with your channel you will get there just going to take a little bit of time, so keep up the good work and I will see you out on the trails. This is going to be a great year 😊
Thank you so much Brian. You have always been such a big and awesome supporter of the channel and I really appreciate that. The patreon campout was a lot of fun and I definitely need to get another organized for us all!
I get what you mean about the video being a "distraction" from the channels typical content, but it was worth making. First off, thank you for your service. Secondly, youre the MAN! Currently My and I am sure many others favorite outdoor/overlanding channel. Videos like this is why! Raw and unfiltered, tell it as it is. I haven't missed an upload in a very long time and when you do collaborations with other brands you do very well at staying on course with your brand. I think you do great, and it's only a matter of time before your subscribers/views show that! As always keep up the great work!
It was my pleasure, I loved my time in uniform serving this country. And thank you so much for the compliment. I’m glad you like and get value from what I post. It’s cliche, but “honest is the best policy” has served me well my entire life and I’m positive it will continue to do so
Thank you for your service 🇺🇸🙏 This video is honestly an incredible ‘foundational’ video for your channel. I hope that this one makes it to your subscribers and beyond as there is a great message here of how to overcome! Many people are looking for this type of inspirational story, in a world where the news mainly points to failures. Full support brother! 👊🏼
Thank you Greg! We’re all human and all facing something. I hope to encourage people to prioritize themselves and their health above all else. If you’re not right, then aspects of your life will be in disarray as well. At least that’s my thought. Thanks again man, you’re the man!
Id like to say a couple things. First thank you for ur service and sacrifices. Secondly im glad you have found a way to actually live and love what you do and i hope that it can continue for you. I love the channel and how you present the adventures you go on and the guys you colab with while doing it. Dont get discouraged by lil things ppl complain about. Rob was going over some things ppl comment about on his live lastnite and its truly unbelieveable. If u have to have adds on ur channel right now then so what. I can sit through a few seconds of an add without getting completely sidetracked. I feel like we r in an age where its cool to just complain about any and everything and its crazy to me. Keep your head high, stay consistant, and you will reach your goals and make this into the salary you had before and then some and u will do it all while not knowing its being done bcuz u truly seem to love this. You, Revere Overland, and Venture 2 Roam each inspire me to get out and start overlanding. I have a life threatening disease that i live with everyday but if i didnt tell you that most ppl would never know. Just like i wouldnt have known your hardships without this video, we know how to push through walls and live a beautiful life in the face of adversity. Thanks again for sharing this bro and stay focused and it will pay off!
I came across this video and I gotta say thank you Thank you for your service Thank you for your open and honesty of your story Much Respect You gained a new subscriber
We have a great friend who helped us with our overland stuff and he is an overland himself, he might have some connections or even opportunities to venture out with others like him. Always willing to help a fellow Washingtonian and bronco buddy!
Jesus, I can 100% relate to you. After the long, awkward, and painfully slow adjustment to civilian life (I've been out for three years), I recently started my second career. I ordered my Everglades Bronco last month and have been watching your channel since then. Losing your identity is hard, losing it and being surrounded by people who have no idea and don't even operate the same way is way harder. Keep on trucking, homie, and thank you.
Dude that transition out was way harder than I thought it would be. But I know I’m not the only one. I hope you find fulfillment in your new career. It’ll never be the same as being in uniform, but I hope it fills the void a little
Much respect for your transparency. I love your message and sincerity. Finding our way through life, especially post military is no easy feat however I know you are doing it right by talking about it and that takes courage. I wish you and your family all the best as you navigate the transition. I've had similar struggles and managed to surround myself with people who had my back and believed in me. Keep on keeping on brother!
One more thing - for the YOU in YOU. Your out focused on the trail, conditions, and the shots. Your working... One of my favorite vids on TH-cam - Tacoma Beast. He rolled up on the Beast quickly set up shop. Night fell fast as he prepped his firewood. Sparked danced from the fire. He prepped his meal over the fire. Temps dropped. He turned in for the night. My point here is. He NEVER spoke a word. He was blessed with a space in time. It was his. Many of us that go out know the silence, the crackle of the fire in our heart and mind. Thats where we are OFF THE GRIND. Do not overlook your blessing of time and space - working in a creation none of us will ever completely see. Enjoy our backyards to the fullest.
You are so real and honest, you are going to speak to so many people. Also there is no shame in making money. I think product placement is fine. Many of our regular TH-camr’s that we watch have product placement and we say good for them for adding to their income. Plus it has introduced us to many products we would not have known about.
This is the first video of yours I have watched, and I immediately subscribed. It can be incredibly difficult for men to open up, even a little bit, about the pressures we face, so massive kudos to you. You're on the right path, and more importantly in my opinion, you had the courage to take that path. More of us should emulate your example. I can't wait to explore your channel. God bless. Semper Fidelis.
And thank you forever, for your service to this great country. Appreciated more than you will ever know. From an American to an American, thank you for your service, and service and entertainment you provide on this platform for us viewers that care about not only your content, but YOU.
It was my absolute pleasure. I loved wearing the uniform. And I appreciate you saying that viewers care about ME and not just my content. That means a lot.
I had this video pop up on my feed so thought I'd have a quick watch. Doing what you did initially was incredibly brave and to follow that up with this message was even braver still. I wouldn't worry about having to use sponsors etc. for the time being (you need to eat), but keep being your authentic self and the genuine passion will take you where you want to go.
Thanks for serving! As a fellow vet, I hear ya. You'll always have an ear here. Unconditional! Being a combat vet from Nam, I have my own cross to carry. Sometimes successfully sometimes not. Keep your backside covered!
Dude, I feel for you guys who served in Vietnam. It was a rough war anyway, but then you had to deal with the backlash at home as well. I can't imagine. Thank you for your service man. Sometimes that cross gets a little heavy, I totally get it, but there is no shame in letting people help you carry it. Thanks!
Thank you for your honesty and for your channel! Overlanding and all that comes with it has been helping me through a really tough time in my life as well. Nice to know we’re not alone! Hope to meet you sometime on the trail!
Being in nature and I think just the unknown of going out and exploring is extremely therapeutic. I'm glad you have found an escape from your struggles and I am happy that I could be a part of that for you!
Opening up like you have, not just in this video, but in all your vids, is what sets you and your channel apart. Keep the faith and stay the course. Also, your product placements and integrations also add to your channel's value for the viewer. This is because you are consistantly true to yourself and "own it" when it doesn't work out, and are modest when it does. Your honesty and commitment to transparency actually makes your product reviews more valuable to the viewer because we can be sure its an honest assessment. Finally, I am so happy and proud for you that you recognized that you were in crisis and took steps to get well and get right. My own story is remarkably similar to yours and it does feel good to get free of the golden handcuffs and do what brings you joy. There is healing in what you do and what you bring - for us (the viewer) as well as for yourself. Keep bringin' it, Brother.
I have retired and moved to Vancouver Island. Being older and somewhat immobile your videos are a blessing! you make your experiences so realistic and entertaining that they are a joy to watch! I hope you realize how excellent the production values are for all of your videos. You are amazing And I thank you so much for all of the time and trouble - and expense! - That you put into making them. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Thanks so much Don! I really appreciate that! My whole goal is for people who can’t get out, to be able to live vicariously through my videos, so I’m glad it’s working!
Refreshing honesty. Great content also. I won’t lie, it’s hard as a TH-cam premium subscriber to watch this content because while the content itself is awesome, I can’t handle all of the video sponsorship and ad integration when the whole point of me paying for TH-cam is to not have to be forced to watch commercials. I love overlanding videos, but I’ve been noticing more and more sponsored videos and product placement recently to the point where it detracts from the experience.
Hey bro...no idea what branch you served in but your story is all too real to me. I wigged out in a WalMart a couple of years after I retired from the military. Had a moment like yours.... Went to the VA and got treatment, was the best thing that I have ever done. I love your videos, just recently found your channel. Found your channel cause I am have been wanting a Bronco since they relaunched the vehicle. Had a reservation with the initial launch but backed out. Keep those vids coming and cranking out this awesome content!
In the service, we knew our purpose. It’s difficult to find yourself in the world. Find like minded friends and surround yourself with them. Keep up the great work! 🤙🏻🇺🇸
I have recently seen the Story till now episode with Shawn and yourself in the Nevada desert. Shawn's recommendation to check out your channel sent me to " Off the Grind". I don't think that there could possibly be a better overlanding/ adventure channel name. I started looking through your videos for the first time and found this one.... I am a 40 year old man, father, husband, son, brother, uncle, grandson that was raised in the northern Candain oil patch. I deal with trauma indused PTSD. To be clear, not from military service like yourself but major trauma of its own. As men in a world where soo many members of our lives depend on our strength, protection, leadership, our ability to provide, and love and care at the same time.... mental health is something that needs to talked about more... When an individual is and the very bottom of there life... conversations like this one is what got me to seek out help. Help to develop the tools and the approach to life needed to climb back on top where we all should live and love. I Can't thank you enough for making this video, I also strongly suggest that there are many of your subscribers that are dealing with mental health in some way and are terrified to recognize it, or don't have the resources to help them. This video does not need to be the last on this topic, in fact what a success story to show your journey and how it is changing you life continually. All the best with Off the Grind, and great job with this video and your bravery.
You should do an overland meet group for us vets/active duty people. Weather you make the video live or not I think it would be a nice idea. I’d go, kitsap county area here.
Appreciate your honesty and authenticity! Love the videos you make, keep them coming and good luck to you on getting the income you need to live your dream.
Brotha, you are not alone. I felt that when I got out of the military as well. People don’t understand how much different the military is from the civilian world. I found nursing around the time I found off roading/overlanding. But I’m there with you in terms of the mental health we deal with
I am new to your channel (as of tonight, and I subscribed). I have seen you in some other YT videos, but I didn't know your story until tonight. Prior to landing on this video, I watched your recent eastern WA video, and I was drawn by your videography. So I subscribed. Then I watched this video, and now I am connected. I am a retired Army nurse and I understand exactly where you are coming from. Thank you for sharing your story. I too find solace in overlanding and photography. There is peace and beauty in this world.
For those who have seen the worst of the world, I think the attempt balance is equally as dramatic. We seek complete and utter solitude that you can only get when you are disconnected from the world. Thank you so much for your service and I am glad to hear that you have an escape and outlet that takes you away! Glad to have you here on the channel
Your time in the military ( biggest corperation in our world) admirable. Thank you for your service. Salute! Your open honesty - commendable and very human. You'd be a great guy to run into on the trail. Product marketing... I think we all feel you. Same Ole fridge etc. The need may be in your present space of time, none the less sharing your inspirational adventures have value perhaps in a unrealized contribution in someone else's life. (like mine). As you said, we can live it through you. And brother - it gets me out. In your desires striving for a bigger future, don't belittle your present contributions. We are only given one day at a time. Our tomorrow's are not promised. Love your family be smart on the trail. Thanks for sharing, don't be hard on yourself. William and Erin Bellingham WA. Salute and a hand shake brother!
Just got into Overland out here in the PNW and a friend referred me to your channel. Being a retired combat vet myself, I can relate. 2002 was a rough year for me being deployed to Afghanistan, still lingers in my mind from time to time. Civilians can never relate and your military friends have heard the stories a million times, so chatting with someone who is a professional was helpful. I also, just had a friend of a friend (Marine) commit suicide last week, I seriously just ran into him two weeks ago at our local watering hole and I just found out this week. Just remember you are never alone in this struggle. Keep doing what you are doing!! Hang in there brother.
Man you were in the initial push then huh? I can’t imagine how rough that would be. Hopefully you’re in a better spot now. Talking with professionals definitely helped, but I needed to remove myself from the constant reminders. That’s when I saw improvements. Thanks my man, enjoy the outdoors and be safe!
@@OFFTHEGRIND Battle of Robert's Ridge, right in the thick of it. I was not a ground troop, AWACS "Chair Force" guy, but that few weeks in March were crazy, aircraft stacked in thousand foot increments waiting to employ ordinance while the calls for CAS went on and on. Those calls are still embedded in my memory, 17 hour sorties every other day, Rip Its in the morning and Ambien for dinner. Got to meet some of the AC-130s guys years later, what stories they had. But, anyhow, yeah never really in a bad spot, but always ticked off for a while, way better now.
Thanks for sharing this with us also thanks for your service to our country as well. Love your videos man you will keep getting traction just stay the course.
So many TH-cam channels have a ‘façade’ to them. Videos like this are never a distraction, they allow us subscribers see what you as content creation go though. The odd time we hear that it can be a lonely place but we the views, especially here “Off The Grind” are with you and hope we can inspire you as well with our comments. My girlfriend likes the broncos and my research into them is probably the reason why you channel was suggested to me months ago. I currently have a 2016 F150 set up for overlanding. So seeing you and the videos you have created is inspiring, making me want to get one, maybe one day I can build one out for my girlfriend .
Makes me appreciate ya even more man ...great video and topic...I am just one of the people you've inspired to not only get into the lifestyle but you've also helped me out quite a bit with my build. Keep up the great content broski!
And what a beautiful build you have! One of the best looking tacos out there! So glad I’ve been able to help over the years. Always been awesome to chat when we get the chance. Thanks man!
Glad you find a deeper purpose and meaning in overlanding. Inner perspective is a peace you can't buy or work for, but its something to live for. Live for it and keep doing what you do.
Good video man, keep it up. I'm getting into overlanding and a fresh newbie to it all. Your videos, and what you have shown both with the scenery and the products keep me motivated and informed. Keep it up.
Being vulnerable is something to be admired. You took a leap and did something to take care of yourself. Well done! I hope you keep on putting out great content. I always look forward to relaxing and watching your channel so thank you.
Man, what a powerful video. It took a seriously big set to put this out there, and I deeply and sincerely appreciate you being this open and upfront with things. And this story is not a distraction. My interest in your channel just went up 10x, and took me from "Oh look, another Overland Channel" to "wow, this just got interesting...". I'm hoping to launch a TH-cam channel this year that is dealing with very similar issues (thought I'm not a Vet..). And in my case I see the personal challenges being as much of the story as anything else. As far as that dang "money thing".... Yes, we all need to make some money. You don't need to apologize for that. I just checked on Patreon and it didn't seem like you had a channel there. I think that is working well for a lot of people. And if I were in your shoes I wouldn't be totally adverse to you having sponsored content. It's all about how you do it. On most of the channels I watch I end up with their sponsored link for another VPN or "Better Help" or "Athletic Greens". Those all seem inauthentic to me. If you only embrace products or companies that you truly believe in that means so much more. No matter what, I'm a big fan of your channel now. Keep the rubber bits on the ground and keep exploring!
Good video man. Happy you’re finding some peace in your adventures. My personal opinion is don’t worry too much about the product endorsement side of things. If you truly are giving your best opinion of a product that you either recommend or are giving pros and cons of you are helping people streamline the process of getting out on the trail.
Keep it up bro. Don't quit. Your channel is great and I don't think folks are gonna abandon your channel. Product placement and sponsors are a necessary part of what you are trying to do, so don't sweat it too much. I was Active Army for 15 years (19k30) and I miss it a lot for the most part. I have struggled to adapt to the "civilian" world. It is not the same as where we come from. Most people struggle to get people like us. I think that is why I do the offroad and fast car stuff with the Broncos and Mustangs. It is a release from the normalcy of civilian life.
Not a distraction at all. Thank you for doing this. Men do not talk about mental health nearly enough... I appreciate your vulnerability in this and I have a whole new level of respect for you and your channel. Keep doing your thing brother... we will be right here to support you in whatever we you can. Thank you for your service and for the sacrifices you've made... (not all wounds are visible.) Keep up the good work!
Thank you so much for this. I appreciate the support and you continuing to watch. You're right, we don't talk about it enough. But I'm hoping I can at least play a small part in normalizing that conversation.
I'm a Marine corps veteran and being outside overlanding, fly fishing, camping etc. has helped me exponentially more than I ever thought it would. I've camped my whole life but I joined the corps and came home after three deployments and lost myself. I found it again and haven't looked back. I'm sure you've looked into patreon and the other ways of funding the channel. Whatever you choose people will support you.
Thanks for your service. Three deployments I’m sure came with some baggage but I’m so glad you’ve found an outlet and are doing good now. I have a Patreon, I just don’t really promote it cause it feel awkward to me lol. I need to get over that
First off thank you for your service. Thank you for opening up and talking to us in a very genuine way. Money is not everything, it's nice to have but having a healthy mind and a healthy relationship with the wife and your little boy is so much more important. I always watch your videos , they are great, you definitely have a talent in that area. Stay healthy, keep bringing great content 👌. Thanks again BTW I'm going back to the Owyhee beginning of June and I can't freaking wait
I agree. I was a terrible husband and father in that headspace. Much more present and engaged at home now and the relationships with my family clearly reflects that. Dope man! I’m actually headed back soon as well
David, This video is not a distraction, it is your voice affirming its purpose. Your struggle forced you diving for cover from confusion and frustration. The cognitive dissonance that brought you to your knees culminated into the very grind your productions attempt to escape. Happiness is obvious when you are behind the wheel trekking through amazing places, environments conjuring a sense of peace and belonging. You can love your truck, you can love camping, yet their combination conveys a wonder you strive to amplify. Nearly 35,000 individuals subscribe to this channel for various reasons, but they all have a singular component in common: You. Thanks for sharing all the good stuff, and more importantly thank you for sharing your crisis. Our influence on others cannot be properly measured. Beyond the Ford fans or overlanding enthusiasts, true connection to your audience comes from the bravery it takes to confess humanity. Videos like this are powerful and I hope it is not the last of its kind you release. Overlanding may have saved you, but do not neglect to acknowledge your own daring could be another’s rescue.
Steve, thank you so much for saying that. This was a tough video to release honestly, but feedback like this makes it easier, and definitely easier to make one similar if needed. I’ve heard from a lot of people saying that my videos help them escape from whatever their struggles are as well, and that has turned in to my driving force with life now. I love that I can do that for people. What a beautifully worded comment though and I can’t tell you how much it means to me. This is one of those comments I’ll save. Thanks again my man. David
Talking about mental health is definitely not a distraction. Our hobbies, our work, our mental health...they're all integrated. Keep doing what you're doing, you've been so helpful with me and my Bronco. Just make sure you always take time for yourself. Even TH-cam and social media is work. Your drone and trail side videos take time and effort to set up, shoot, and then edit for publication. Most importantly, stay open and keep talking with your friends and family; your support network will help bring you back to center when life starts pulling you off stable ground.
You’re absolutely right, they are definitely all connected and it’s important to find the right balance between all of them which is going to be different for everyone. But I don’t want to talk about it a ton, because if my videos are to be an escape, then I also don’t want to remind people of their struggles. So that’s a balance I need to figure out as well. I’m so glad you’ve found value in my content though and that it’s been able to help with your bronco build! Thank you so much for the comment, I’ll definitely keep that in mind
Funny or not today I stumbled across your post on mental health . While I have been successful in my career it’s come at cost . Thanks man , your story met me where I needed it . Unless you have been to the abyss it’s hard to understand the darkness
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Me too!
Me too!
This is not a distraction, and should not be in an apology. You should hold your head high and be proud of what you’re doing. More people, like you, need to share their stories, and need to be proud of what they’re doing for themselves, their lives, and their mental health. Don’t apologize for who you are, where you are, and what you’ve been through. I, personally, watch some of these stories, and I seek help through your shared experiences and inspiration. Keep posting.
I think this video took guts. To express yourself. Kudos on that.
Give us all some background on you
Ok Nuff said. Got my Bronco you and I have talked about in the past. With your help , my research, it’s perfect. It’s amazing actually lol. Thanks for doing what you do. Stay strong 💪
My wife just received her custom built four door bronco. She pulled the trigger on this new financial endeavor in part because of your videos with your wife, kids and pets. She wants to do the same. So thank you for being here, doing the best you can, and hanging out with other TH-cam creators who share that struggle and drive.
God bless brother❤
Dude that is so awesome to hear! Thank you so much for sharing that and I am so glad that she has found inspiration in my content. That is freaking awesome! Congrats on the new Bronco!
The best thing you can do for your channel is trade in the Bronco for a Jeep. 😉😂 JK. Can’t wait to see you and hang out this year. You’re doing great!!!
lol oh shoot! Where was this advice like a year ago!? Thanks! Can’t wait to see you guys again too!
You’re doing great, David. I’m glad you’re finding your path and you know I’m here anytime you need someone to talk to and my door is always open.
Thanks so much man, I really appreciate that. Same goes for you if you ever need it
I think most of us get how the business works, and those who don't are well... I dunno. I don't know what to think of them. But do what you gotta do to do what you are enjoying doing =) I'm more than happy to see product stuff, because honestly, I use you all to test products for me to see if I might want to use it or not!
Anyway, I definitely get how the business works. I'm sure others do too. It helps let you make these videos and see where you go. I'm ok with watching product stuff, especially if it's product stuff you enjoy using, if it means you get to make more videos and I get to see them =)
Wow, we have a pretty parallel story. I was fully prepared for a full military career, but after a few years in I got really injured multiple times, and after another 1.5 years of many surgeries, failed physical therapy, and everything else, they finally told me I was too broken to fix, gave me a check, and said "beat it kid." I didn't want to be around people, or in cities. So I went back to NM and got into a small mountain town college, and back into nature. I was only 50% disabled for physical, but the VA tried so hard to get me to go the 100% for ptsd. I wouldn't do it though. Over the years, being in nature is what ultimately fixed me (mentally, the physical stuff is still broken, lol). I'm not an overlander. I'm just a photographer with a Subaru who can't afford a real rig, lol, so I use what I have, but it's mine and it gets me most of where I need to go. I love your channel and have watched for a while now. It's very calming and inspiring to watch your adventures. I will also say that I did the same thing as you. After I finished school and got my degrees like everyone told me to I went got real jobs, one was for DoD doing what I did in the navy but with way better pay; however it was even more stressful, no advancement, and very bad for my mental health, so I quit and went back to being a scientist in the private sector. Did that for a while until photography started paying more than the science. So I quit and went full time photography and TH-cam. It took a few years before TH-cam was big enough to pay the bills, but that's where I'm at now, so if you ever want someone to talk to about the whole thing, I'm always down. You can email, text, or call me anytime if you want to chat about the military stuff, life, art, TH-cam, or whatever. brent@hallofthewildstudios.com is my email.
Dude I am so sorry to hear that they broke you. Not fun at all. I have some physical limitations from my time in as well and it is not fun at all. But the mental side of things is real shitty. I get the thing about not wanting to be rated for PTSD. I was honestly really concerned about that as well, that is may interfere with my ability to do things that I want to do in life, in my career, stuff like that. I have not found that to be the case personally, and I am glad that the VA knows about it because there is such a focus on vets mental health, they do everything they can. They have been awesome. But dude, all that matters is that you get out. The vehicle doesn't matter. I LOVE my bronco and am fortunate enough to have it, but it is not necessary. I really want to find a way to make this channel less about the Bronco, and more about the adventure because at the end of the day, that is all that matters. Thanks for the comment man, I will definitely reach out and chat. Thanks
I just want to let you know that you inspired me to find something new in my life which is camping, I just ordered a Bronco Outerbanks 4 door because I so much love yours so thank you for your inspiration. I'm newly retired in my late sixties divorced and talking about mental health is not easy so I thank you on that as well, looking forward to the Ikamper 3.0 which I also thank you for suggesting it in your video. I'm new to camping adventures like this and your videos gives me the strength and inspiration to do this new hobby because it's good for the soul body and mind. Please find the time for yourself and stay healthy, lots of people support you and I'm proud to be one of them. Cheers.
Tony. 💙🙏🤟🌞
Thanks for putting this video up. I'm retired career military and I know that being out doors, especially with my family, is the key to my mental health. I'm finally at a place that we can get out more and start to heal. Hearing your story helps. A lot more than the VA docs. You've got a new subscriber. Thanks again.
If you haven't already, turn your channel into an LLC. That way you can write off nearly everything related to your channel. The Bronco itself, tires, accessories, fuel, trip food, office supplies, ect. It all adds up to a lot at the end of the year.
Hope this helps!
Thanks for sharing man! Fellow Vet here. Overlanding and hiking saved my life. I think everyone needs to find a healthy outlet. Glad you found something that works.
Agreed! We all have different stories, but are all going through something. The important thing is to do something that allows you to reset and do something for you. For us it is Overlanding/off-roading/hiking but it can be anything really. Thanks for watching man!
David I recently found out about your channel, I live in the pnw as well and I feel very inspired by your trips and loveeee the content, I hope to be able to get out more this summer even on 1 night trips, I honestly really hope you blow up and make a living out of something you love to do, because that’s something that I would wanna do in my life, I’m hoping one day that I can get out of my job and just be out there exploring the beautiful states of Washington and Oregon and eventually America, keep pushing, keep being consistent, and people like us will stick around, and next thing you know you’ll be making a video titled “thank you for 1 million subscribers”💪💪
This is powerful. My son is currently overseas, and is having massive difficulty. I am going to refer him to your channel. It takes a lot of courage to open up like this. I hope you continue down this road and keep chasing your dreams. That's one thing I have always told my son... No matter what. No matter who. Always, ALWAYS - Chase your dreams. They won't chase you back. Thanks again for what you do. I'm here for the long haul w ya man!
That is great advice and is what I will tell my son as well. I am sorry to hear that your son is having a hard time overseas. If he needs someone to talk to, he can reach out to me on Instagram if he wants. Best wishing for him and you and your family.
Well said! As many of us had had our struggles in life we are supporting you fully. BTW I just saw your first video yesterday and was blown away with the quality of your video editing. As long as you keep it real you'll have a supporter for life👍
I knew there was something about you that I liked. I either figured you were in the emergency services or military. Good for you buddy, keep up the great quality videos and focus on your wife and kid(s) 😊 I’m in the emergency services and camping/overlanding is a great reset for me and my wife loves to tag along
I have a few buddies who are first responders as well, and being in nature is such a great reset for them as well. Glad to hear you have something to reset man.
I love your channel and I don’t think this is a distraction. It makes things more personal and it takes a lot of courage to share your story, so thank you!-Cindi
Good work bro🎉🎉🎉
Absolutely not a distraction. Thank you for opening up because we as men need to know there are other things out there that can help us. We don't have as many options as women do, but knowing there's better out there is good enough for me. You gained a subscriber for life bro!
I’m in a similar boat, man. And I’m considering doing this full time due to my life being completely upended.
The channel keeps me safe. It seems every content provider goes through this sort of thing.
As someone new to your channel I really appreciated this post. I have personally dealt with the mental health issues similar to what you have, as have all of my kids, two of them suffering from PTSD from trauma they dealt with in high school. Growing up I was told that real men don't cry and to power through the trials, don't rely on other people, how wrong that is. I grew up in the PNW but am stuck for the time being in the Midwest, your videos, and others from the PNW, are what keeps me grounded and relaxed. I miss the PNW and realize how much I took it for granted when I lived there. Thank you for opening up, thank you for sharing your explorations, thank you for showing that it is ok for a man to expose his struggles and that it is ok to get help.
Good on you man. It's good to talk about it. You know my background. If you ever need to talk, you know how to reach me. Keep up the great content!
I appreciate you man! I know I can reach out and I thank you for that.
Thank you for your service. Hope to see you on the trail some day.
I'm active Navy for 9 years now and just found your channel. Saw this video mentioned through another comment and had to check it out. I'm glad I did because mentally I'm struggling pretty bad. From hard pushing chain of commands that just don't care to the excessive workload that doesn't end. Was an avid speed guy so been through a ton of sport cars but decided that hobby honestly isn't in the best of my interest after years. So, I traded in my type R for a Ranger and decided to start getting back into going into the outdoors again. Some of the best times I've ever had were going on roads trips with my best friend and stopping to see the random places along the way. I'm rambling but your videos that I've gone through so far have helped quite a bit and I just want to say thank you for sharing your experience openly man. Makes me feel less alone. Hope to see you out there one day. I appreciate what you're doing and look forward to more videos.
I’m sorry to hear you’re struggle man. Someone command has such an impact on their military career and I don’t think a lot of people understand that. My first command was so bad I actively tried to get kicked out. Not proud of that but it’s true. My second command was INCREDIBLE though and I’m so glad I stuck around for that. But I hope you’re able to find some clarity and relief in getting back out in nature. And don’t be afraid to seek out counseling. It helped me a lot
That’s good that you stay with what your values are & dont let just anything get your jolly!!! And as far as the $$ goes, you know God will always provide & protect you through everything!! Keep the faith & keep doing what you do, & enjoy!!!
Don't avoid talking about this to those who find your TH-cam channel. You talking about mental health helps yourself and others that have the same struggles. It takes a strong person to admit they need help and to be open and share with others. Talking above it is not a distraction. Your talkkng about this is may save others. Often so many haven't been able to take that 1st step to help themselves yet. You may help them take that 1st step. Keep being you! Love the videos i have seen with you and Venture2Roam and RevereOverland. Keep rolling together. I'm a Jeeper so doing the Jeep wave but also praying you find that peace and continue following your dreams. When I am post Kidney/Pancreas transplant, I hope I cross your paths out there. I wil be hitting the road for a Very Longterm Overland trip across the beautiful country. I went thru a long mental health battle. I made it to the other side. Nothing gives me more peace since my purchasing my JLUR and getting off the concrete and out into nature. Currently awaiting a transplant call so I'm in downtime mode now but myself and my rig are ready for both our mods and then some day soon hope to see you guys out there. Keep following your dreams. You made the choice many should and won't take the risk of walking away from that check. Your life is more valuable! Your peace and happiness is more important. We only get one Life! Praying for you! ❤🙏✌️
Thank you for opening up, its the hardest thing to do, I will absolutely support your journey. I also am a Vet but my story is a little different, I didn't struggle or have issues upon returning, however I have been out of the Military since 1997 and just recently I am starting to struggle I think back to the my friends that didn't come home and the one I don't even know that didn't and I ask what I could have done differently... I literally have broken down into tears, typing this. I will be Honest I have followed you a short time and between you and Shaun from TSTN you both are what keeps me going and I thank you for that. I have a Bronco and Love it and just started to outfit it so I can go have peace out in the middle of no where.
First off thank you for your service, your story have inspired me for a lot of different reasons. Thank you for sharing your story, God bless you Man!
Thank you for your service and sacrifice. I greatly enjoy your videos, and I admire your integrity.
It was my absolute pleasure. I loved my time in uniform. I'm glad you like the channel. Thank you so much for the support and for this comment.
Glad you were able to get to your happy place. Good on you for sharing! If you even keep one person from going too far down that dark road before seeking help you have changed the world for the better. When I retired I had that same feeling of pointless wondering. Making the compromise to work remote while still being able to get out for some dirt road therapy is my happy place. I don’t miss the circus, but I sure do miss the clowns. Keep chasing your dream Brother! Life is not the destination…..it’s the journey!
I am so glad you are sharing this. Thank you. I too have struggled and it is important to get help. Thank you and I am glad you got help.
As someone who left a job that was toxic to those I loved and caused depression in myself, I identify with what you’re dealing with. However, making a living on TH-cam, may mean having to take less ethical sponsorships and it makes you more prone to having depression again. I’ve revamped TH-cam for myself and absolutely love life right now. I think you should consider this. I don’t and will not rely on TH-cam for income anymore… it’s freeing. My main job will now provide 100% of the financial support to make off-road adventure videos. Most jobs have time off (mine didn’t till this year). The benefit of a job allows me to be more connected to my audience (who also works real jobs) while making awesome videos simply for fun. I’m so excited about filming with this mindset. Oh that last video didn’t perform despite editing it for weeks, now it’s no big deal. I’m not saying you can’t be a TH-camr like Trail Recon or the Story till Now, but as someone who has had depression, full time YouTubing will likely bring it back. Find a job that you love, then make videos on the side… it’s realistic and makes TH-cam so much fun again. Whatever you do, good luck!
I know it’s hard but thanks for sharing. This testimony will bring you rather closer to the viewers. I like your product reviews and trust you. Someone got to do it for the newbies in overloading. I have recently bought the Wildtrack trim and product reviews and installation videos helped me a lot. Thanks for that. I would keep reviewing products for viewers like me, lol. I’ve learned a lot from you and always look forward to your new videos. You’ve a beautiful family. God bless you all! 🙏
Mad respect bro. Keep at it. I’m right there with you man.
Haha well thanks for that! I still have plenty more time of reviewing product and doing installs so not stopping anytime soon. That is my end goal though
David this was such a good video to put out and tell your story, I am sorry it took me so long to get to it. Thank you for your service and know many of us are dealing with mental health issues that we find it hard to discuss with anyone, even our closest friends and family. Organizations like Homeward for Heroes helps vets in a big way utilizing overlanding as a way to get out in nature and try to heal the soul. They are a great group!
I appreciate and respect your honesty and vulnerability, it's refreshing. There's nothing wrong with product placement. There are many times that some of us don't have aclue on what may or may not work for us and honest reviews are very much appreciated. especially those of us who are on a very tight budget and still want to live our lives. Once again, thank you.
Thank you for your service and sacrifice. I will be supporting your videos now and forever. You put out great content and now we get to see the great man behind it. Keep up the awesome work.
Similar story here, only 30 years ago. Fresh out of the military, and not a clue where my life should go next! I absolutely did the wrong thing by just trying to "power through". I have sense made some good choices and ended up getting married to an absolute angel of a woman who helped me in so many ways. I admire the choices you have made, and I am looking forward to following you on your journey! And thank you for your service!
So glad to hear that man! 30 years ago I don’t think there was any real transition assistance programs like there is today. Even with those though the transition is difficult. More so than I thought. But I’m glad you’re happy now and didn’t let it define your life
You are doing amazing work. Stay North and don't say that you will never do a video like this again, Its who you are and thats what we expect the most. I know the love and pain of doing this form of Work-Love-Passion-Hobby-Therapy. Faith in doing what feels right will bring us the fruits to allow us to continue to move forward. Giving back is the greatest gift. It is done in many ways and you are doing now.
Thanks for sharing, there are people who really need to hear that. I am glad you found overlanding and keep up the great work
Semper Fi brother!! I myself have struggled with it myself, got out went straight to line work found really good money and now im starting my overland rig on my f150
Good evening David thank you for sharing some personal information about you. It’s not easy since I met you through Michael from conquest, Overland, I have seen you both getting better with your video and content, and both of you at Paton campout and will just keep the jiffy pop popcorn out of the conversation. What you’re doing well with your channel you will get there just going to take a little bit of time, so keep up the good work and I will see you out on the trails. This is going to be a great year 😊
Thank you so much Brian. You have always been such a big and awesome supporter of the channel and I really appreciate that. The patreon campout was a lot of fun and I definitely need to get another organized for us all!
@@OFFTHEGRIND your welcome
Heartfelt and helpful. Thank you.
Of course. Thank you!
We should link up. ~USAF Vet
I get what you mean about the video being a "distraction" from the channels typical content, but it was worth making.
First off, thank you for your service.
Secondly, youre the MAN! Currently My and I am sure many others favorite outdoor/overlanding channel. Videos like this is why! Raw and unfiltered, tell it as it is. I haven't missed an upload in a very long time and when you do collaborations with other brands you do very well at staying on course with your brand. I think you do great, and it's only a matter of time before your subscribers/views show that!
As always keep up the great work!
It was my pleasure, I loved my time in uniform serving this country. And thank you so much for the compliment. I’m glad you like and get value from what I post. It’s cliche, but “honest is the best policy” has served me well my entire life and I’m positive it will continue to do so
We appreciate you and your content. Thanks for opening up.
Looking forward to more adventure videos 🏔️🏕️🥃
Thank you so much man!
God bless you!
Powerful Video 💪
Thank you for your service 🇺🇸🙏 This video is honestly an incredible ‘foundational’ video for your channel. I hope that this one makes it to your subscribers and beyond as there is a great message here of how to overcome! Many people are looking for this type of inspirational story, in a world where the news mainly points to failures. Full support brother! 👊🏼
Thank you Greg! We’re all human and all facing something. I hope to encourage people to prioritize themselves and their health above all else. If you’re not right, then aspects of your life will be in disarray as well. At least that’s my thought. Thanks again man, you’re the man!
@@OFFTHEGRIND 🙏🏼👊🏼
Id like to say a couple things. First thank you for ur service and sacrifices. Secondly im glad you have found a way to actually live and love what you do and i hope that it can continue for you. I love the channel and how you present the adventures you go on and the guys you colab with while doing it. Dont get discouraged by lil things ppl complain about. Rob was going over some things ppl comment about on his live lastnite and its truly unbelieveable. If u have to have adds on ur channel right now then so what. I can sit through a few seconds of an add without getting completely sidetracked. I feel like we r in an age where its cool to just complain about any and everything and its crazy to me. Keep your head high, stay consistant, and you will reach your goals and make this into the salary you had before and then some and u will do it all while not knowing its being done bcuz u truly seem to love this. You, Revere Overland, and Venture 2 Roam each inspire me to get out and start overlanding. I have a life threatening disease that i live with everyday but if i didnt tell you that most ppl would never know. Just like i wouldnt have known your hardships without this video, we know how to push through walls and live a beautiful life in the face of adversity. Thanks again for sharing this bro and stay focused and it will pay off!
I came across this video and I gotta say thank you
Thank you for your service Thank you for your open and honesty of your story
Much Respect
You gained a new subscriber
We have a great friend who helped us with our overland stuff and he is an overland himself, he might have some connections or even opportunities to venture out with others like him. Always willing to help a fellow Washingtonian and bronco buddy!
Thank you I appreciate that!
Jesus, I can 100% relate to you. After the long, awkward, and painfully slow adjustment to civilian life (I've been out for three years), I recently started my second career. I ordered my Everglades Bronco last month and have been watching your channel since then. Losing your identity is hard, losing it and being surrounded by people who have no idea and don't even operate the same way is way harder. Keep on trucking, homie, and thank you.
Dude that transition out was way harder than I thought it would be. But I know I’m not the only one. I hope you find fulfillment in your new career. It’ll never be the same as being in uniform, but I hope it fills the void a little
Thanks for sharing ❤
Much respect for your transparency. I love your message and sincerity. Finding our way through life, especially post military is no easy feat however I know you are doing it right by talking about it and that takes courage. I wish you and your family all the best as you navigate the transition. I've had similar struggles and managed to surround myself with people who had my back and believed in me. Keep on keeping on brother!
Thanks so much man I really appreciate the support. It’s not easy to talk about, but it’s important so hopefully others will do the same.
Stay strong 🇵🇹
One more thing - for the YOU in YOU.
Your out focused on the trail, conditions, and the shots. Your working...
One of my favorite vids on TH-cam - Tacoma Beast.
He rolled up on the Beast
quickly set up shop. Night fell fast as he prepped his firewood. Sparked danced from the fire. He prepped his meal over the fire. Temps dropped. He turned in for the night.
My point here is. He NEVER spoke a word. He was blessed with a space in time. It was his.
Many of us that go out know the silence, the crackle of the fire in our heart and mind.
Thats where we are OFF THE GRIND.
Do not overlook your blessing of time and space - working in a creation none of us will ever completely see.
Enjoy our backyards to the fullest.
You are so real and honest, you are going to speak to so many people.
Also there is no shame in making money. I think product placement is fine. Many of our regular TH-camr’s that we watch have product placement and we say good for them for adding to their income.
Plus it has introduced us to many products we would not have known about.
This is the first video of yours I have watched, and I immediately subscribed. It can be incredibly difficult for men to open up, even a little bit, about the pressures we face, so massive kudos to you. You're on the right path, and more importantly in my opinion, you had the courage to take that path. More of us should emulate your example. I can't wait to explore your channel. God bless.
Semper Fidelis.
Glad to hear people opening talking about mental health!! I think we all struggle, just various degrees of it...
Yeah to some extent I think we all definitely do. I’m glad talking about it is being normalized
And thank you forever, for your service to this great country. Appreciated more than you will ever know. From an American to an American, thank you for your service, and service and entertainment you provide on this platform for us viewers that care about not only your content, but YOU.
It was my absolute pleasure. I loved wearing the uniform. And I appreciate you saying that viewers care about ME and not just my content. That means a lot.
I had this video pop up on my feed so thought I'd have a quick watch. Doing what you did initially was incredibly brave and to follow that up with this message was even braver still. I wouldn't worry about having to use sponsors etc. for the time being (you need to eat), but keep being your authentic self and the genuine passion will take you where you want to go.
Stay stong bro. Appreciate the honesty. You are doing a good thing here, bringing to light mental illness, especailly among men who are normally
Thanks for serving! As a fellow vet, I hear ya. You'll always have an ear here. Unconditional! Being a combat vet from Nam, I have my own cross to carry. Sometimes successfully sometimes not. Keep your backside covered!
Dude, I feel for you guys who served in Vietnam. It was a rough war anyway, but then you had to deal with the backlash at home as well. I can't imagine. Thank you for your service man. Sometimes that cross gets a little heavy, I totally get it, but there is no shame in letting people help you carry it. Thanks!
Thank you for your honesty and for your channel! Overlanding and all that comes with it has been helping me through a really tough time in my life as well. Nice to know we’re not alone! Hope to meet you sometime on the trail!
Being in nature and I think just the unknown of going out and exploring is extremely therapeutic. I'm glad you have found an escape from your struggles and I am happy that I could be a part of that for you!
Opening up like you have, not just in this video, but in all your vids, is what sets you and your channel apart. Keep the faith and stay the course. Also, your product placements and integrations also add to your channel's value for the viewer. This is because you are consistantly true to yourself and "own it" when it doesn't work out, and are modest when it does. Your honesty and commitment to transparency actually makes your product reviews more valuable to the viewer because we can be sure its an honest assessment. Finally, I am so happy and proud for you that you recognized that you were in crisis and took steps to get well and get right. My own story is remarkably similar to yours and it does feel good to get free of the golden handcuffs and do what brings you joy. There is healing in what you do and what you bring - for us (the viewer) as well as for yourself. Keep bringin' it, Brother.
I have retired and moved to Vancouver Island. Being older and somewhat immobile your videos are a blessing! you make your experiences so realistic and entertaining that they are a joy to watch! I hope you realize how excellent the production values are for all of your videos. You are amazing And I thank you so much for all of the time and trouble - and expense! - That you put into making them. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Thanks so much Don! I really appreciate that! My whole goal is for people who can’t get out, to be able to live vicariously through my videos, so I’m glad it’s working!
Refreshing honesty. Great content also. I won’t lie, it’s hard as a TH-cam premium subscriber to watch this content because while the content itself is awesome, I can’t handle all of the video sponsorship and ad integration when the whole point of me paying for TH-cam is to not have to be forced to watch commercials. I love overlanding videos, but I’ve been noticing more and more sponsored videos and product placement recently to the point where it detracts from the experience.
New Sub, great to meet you at SAVE! Stay strong brother! Like you said, you can’t bottle it all up and just power through.
Hey man, it was great to meet you as well! Bottling struggles up is good for no one. Learned that one the hard way
Hey bro...no idea what branch you served in but your story is all too real to me. I wigged out in a WalMart a couple of years after I retired from the military. Had a moment like yours.... Went to the VA and got treatment, was the best thing that I have ever done. I love your videos, just recently found your channel. Found your channel cause I am have been wanting a Bronco since they relaunched the vehicle. Had a reservation with the initial launch but backed out. Keep those vids coming and cranking out this awesome content!
In the service, we knew our purpose. It’s difficult to find yourself in the world. Find like minded friends and surround yourself with them. Keep up the great work! 🤙🏻🇺🇸
It’s so true. Kinda takes a while to find your way again. Thanks so much
I have recently seen the Story till now episode with Shawn and yourself in the Nevada desert. Shawn's recommendation to check out your channel sent me to " Off the Grind". I don't think that there could possibly be a better overlanding/ adventure channel name. I started looking through your videos for the first time and found this one.... I am a 40 year old man, father, husband, son, brother, uncle, grandson that was raised in the northern Candain oil patch. I deal with trauma indused PTSD. To be clear, not from military service like yourself but major trauma of its own. As men in a world where soo many members of our lives depend on our strength, protection, leadership, our ability to provide, and love and care at the same time.... mental health is something that needs to talked about more... When an individual is and the very bottom of there life... conversations like this one is what got me to seek out help. Help to develop the tools and the approach to life needed to climb back on top where we all should live and love. I Can't thank you enough for making this video, I also strongly suggest that there are many of your subscribers that are dealing with mental health in some way and are terrified to recognize it, or don't have the resources to help them. This video does not need to be the last on this topic, in fact what a success story to show your journey and how it is changing you life continually.
All the best with Off the Grind, and great job with this video and your bravery.
You should do an overland meet group for us vets/active duty people. Weather you make the video live or not I think it would be a nice idea. I’d go, kitsap county area here.
Thank you for your service. Appreciate you. Looking forward to more adventures.
Appreciate your honesty and authenticity! Love the videos you make, keep them coming and good luck to you on getting the income you need to live your dream.
Thank you so much, I appreciate that!
Brotha, you are not alone. I felt that when I got out of the military as well. People don’t understand how much different the military is from the civilian world. I found nursing around the time I found off roading/overlanding. But I’m there with you in terms of the mental health we deal with
Glad you’re in a better place now man. Like others have said, it takes big balls to speak up about our internal demons. Good for you Brother.
Fully understand. You're never alone. Together, we're all greater than the sum of our parts.
I am new to your channel (as of tonight, and I subscribed). I have seen you in some other YT videos, but I didn't know your story until tonight. Prior to landing on this video, I watched your recent eastern WA video, and I was drawn by your videography. So I subscribed. Then I watched this video, and now I am connected. I am a retired Army nurse and I understand exactly where you are coming from. Thank you for sharing your story. I too find solace in overlanding and photography. There is peace and beauty in this world.
For those who have seen the worst of the world, I think the attempt balance is equally as dramatic. We seek complete and utter solitude that you can only get when you are disconnected from the world. Thank you so much for your service and I am glad to hear that you have an escape and outlet that takes you away! Glad to have you here on the channel
Your time in the military ( biggest corperation in our world) admirable. Thank you for your service. Salute!
Your open honesty - commendable and very human. You'd be a great guy to run into on the trail.
Product marketing... I think we all feel you. Same Ole fridge etc. The need may be in your present space of time, none the less sharing your inspirational adventures have value perhaps in a unrealized contribution in someone else's life. (like mine). As you said, we can live it through you. And brother - it gets me out.
In your desires striving for a bigger future, don't belittle your present contributions.
We are only given one day at a time. Our tomorrow's are not promised.
Love your family be smart on the trail.
Thanks for sharing, don't be hard on yourself.
William and Erin
Bellingham WA.
Salute and a hand shake brother!
Love the realness, brother!
Just got into Overland out here in the PNW and a friend referred me to your channel. Being a retired combat vet myself, I can relate. 2002 was a rough year for me being deployed to Afghanistan, still lingers in my mind from time to time. Civilians can never relate and your military friends have heard the stories a million times, so chatting with someone who is a professional was helpful. I also, just had a friend of a friend (Marine) commit suicide last week, I seriously just ran into him two weeks ago at our local watering hole and I just found out this week. Just remember you are never alone in this struggle. Keep doing what you are doing!! Hang in there brother.
Man you were in the initial push then huh? I can’t imagine how rough that would be. Hopefully you’re in a better spot now. Talking with professionals definitely helped, but I needed to remove myself from the constant reminders. That’s when I saw improvements. Thanks my man, enjoy the outdoors and be safe!
@@OFFTHEGRIND Battle of Robert's Ridge, right in the thick of it. I was not a ground troop, AWACS "Chair Force" guy, but that few weeks in March were crazy, aircraft stacked in thousand foot increments waiting to employ ordinance while the calls for CAS went on and on. Those calls are still embedded in my memory, 17 hour sorties every other day, Rip Its in the morning and Ambien for dinner. Got to meet some of the AC-130s guys years later, what stories they had. But, anyhow, yeah never really in a bad spot, but always ticked off for a while, way better now.
Thanks for your service! Certainly can understand the difficulty opening up about mental illness. Thanks for sharing your story.
It was my pleasure! Loved that I could wear the uniform for the time that I did
Thanks for sharing this with us also thanks for your service to our country as well. Love your videos man you will keep getting traction just stay the course.
My pleasure. Thanks so much
So many TH-cam channels have a ‘façade’ to them. Videos like this are never a distraction, they allow us subscribers see what you as content creation go though. The odd time we hear that it can be a lonely place but we the views, especially here “Off The Grind” are with you and hope we can inspire you as well with our comments.
My girlfriend likes the broncos and my research into them is probably the reason why you channel was suggested to me months ago. I currently have a 2016 F150 set up for overlanding. So seeing you and the videos you have created is inspiring, making me want to get one, maybe one day I can build one out for my girlfriend .
Makes me appreciate ya even more man ...great video and topic...I am just one of the people you've inspired to not only get into the lifestyle but you've also helped me out quite a bit with my build. Keep up the great content broski!
And what a beautiful build you have! One of the best looking tacos out there! So glad I’ve been able to help over the years. Always been awesome to chat when we get the chance. Thanks man!
Glad you find a deeper purpose and meaning in overlanding. Inner perspective is a peace you can't buy or work for, but its something to live for. Live for it and keep doing what you do.
Thank you so much and I completely agree. I don't think I personally have found inner peace, but I'm in a better place now, that is for sure.
Good video man, keep it up. I'm getting into overlanding and a fresh newbie to it all. Your videos, and what you have shown both with the scenery and the products keep me motivated and informed. Keep it up.
Being vulnerable is something to be admired. You took a leap and did something to take care of yourself. Well done! I hope you keep on putting out great content. I always look forward to relaxing and watching your channel so thank you.
Man, what a powerful video. It took a seriously big set to put this out there, and I deeply and sincerely appreciate you being this open and upfront with things. And this story is not a distraction. My interest in your channel just went up 10x, and took me from "Oh look, another Overland Channel" to "wow, this just got interesting...". I'm hoping to launch a TH-cam channel this year that is dealing with very similar issues (thought I'm not a Vet..). And in my case I see the personal challenges being as much of the story as anything else. As far as that dang "money thing".... Yes, we all need to make some money. You don't need to apologize for that. I just checked on Patreon and it didn't seem like you had a channel there. I think that is working well for a lot of people. And if I were in your shoes I wouldn't be totally adverse to you having sponsored content. It's all about how you do it. On most of the channels I watch I end up with their sponsored link for another VPN or "Better Help" or "Athletic Greens". Those all seem inauthentic to me. If you only embrace products or companies that you truly believe in that means so much more. No matter what, I'm a big fan of your channel now. Keep the rubber bits on the ground and keep exploring!
Good video man. Happy you’re finding some peace in your adventures. My personal opinion is don’t worry too much about the product endorsement side of things. If you truly are giving your best opinion of a product that you either recommend or are giving pros and cons of you are helping people streamline the process of getting out on the trail.
je te suis depuis la France et j’aime beaucoup ta chaine et ton travail….ne lache rien…
Keep it up bro. Don't quit. Your channel is great and I don't think folks are gonna abandon your channel. Product placement and sponsors are a necessary part of what you are trying to do, so don't sweat it too much. I was Active Army for 15 years (19k30) and I miss it a lot for the most part. I have struggled to adapt to the "civilian" world. It is not the same as where we come from. Most people struggle to get people like us. I think that is why I do the offroad and fast car stuff with the Broncos and Mustangs. It is a release from the normalcy of civilian life.
you are not alone. Many of us will never be as free as you are now.
Not a distraction at all. Thank you for doing this. Men do not talk about mental health nearly enough... I appreciate your vulnerability in this and I have a whole new level of respect for you and your channel.
Keep doing your thing brother... we will be right here to support you in whatever we you can.
Thank you for your service and for the sacrifices you've made... (not all wounds are visible.)
Keep up the good work!
Thank you so much for this. I appreciate the support and you continuing to watch. You're right, we don't talk about it enough. But I'm hoping I can at least play a small part in normalizing that conversation.
THANK YOU!!! Good useful advice.
I'm a Marine corps veteran and being outside overlanding, fly fishing, camping etc. has helped me exponentially more than I ever thought it would. I've camped my whole life but I joined the corps and came home after three deployments and lost myself. I found it again and haven't looked back. I'm sure you've looked into patreon and the other ways of funding the channel. Whatever you choose people will support you.
Thanks for your service. Three deployments I’m sure came with some baggage but I’m so glad you’ve found an outlet and are doing good now. I have a Patreon, I just don’t really promote it cause it feel awkward to me lol. I need to get over that
@@OFFTHEGRIND I get that. But you're providing a service and people would be happy to support you.
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First off thank you for your service. Thank you for opening up and talking to us in a very genuine way. Money is not everything, it's nice to have but having a healthy mind and a healthy relationship with the wife and your little boy is so much more important. I always watch your videos , they are great, you definitely have a talent in that area. Stay healthy, keep bringing great content 👌.
Thanks again
BTW I'm going back to the Owyhee beginning of June and I can't freaking wait
I agree. I was a terrible husband and father in that headspace. Much more present and engaged at home now and the relationships with my family clearly reflects that.
Dope man! I’m actually headed back soon as well
Thank you for your service and thank you for sharing this video. 💪🏻
Keep on, keeping on!
It was my pleasure! Thanks
David,
This video is not a distraction, it is your voice affirming its purpose.
Your struggle forced you diving for cover from confusion and frustration. The cognitive dissonance that brought you to your knees culminated into the very grind your productions attempt to escape.
Happiness is obvious when you are behind the wheel trekking through amazing places, environments conjuring a sense of peace and belonging. You can love your truck, you can love camping, yet their combination conveys a wonder you strive to amplify.
Nearly 35,000 individuals subscribe to this channel for various reasons, but they all have a singular component in common: You. Thanks for sharing all the good stuff, and more importantly thank you for sharing your crisis.
Our influence on others cannot be properly measured. Beyond the Ford fans or overlanding enthusiasts, true connection to your audience comes from the bravery it takes to confess humanity. Videos like this are powerful and I hope it is not the last of its kind you release.
Overlanding may have saved you, but do not neglect to acknowledge your own daring could be another’s rescue.
Steve, thank you so much for saying that. This was a tough video to release honestly, but feedback like this makes it easier, and definitely easier to make one similar if needed. I’ve heard from a lot of people saying that my videos help them escape from whatever their struggles are as well, and that has turned in to my driving force with life now. I love that I can do that for people.
What a beautifully worded comment though and I can’t tell you how much it means to me. This is one of those comments I’ll save.
Thanks again my man.
David