Vrchat Dating is the WORST
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 ก.พ. 2025
- Today we talk about the degeneracy that is dating in the virtual world know as vrchat. More
specifically dating on the Vrchat platform. We look at the methods people use to find their dates like datng apps , discord servers and vrchat groups ,all of which have been used to find a romantic partner.
Discord: / discord
Remember when VRchat was all about the funny little red goobers?
Do you know da wae?
the memories 😭😭
Do you know da wae?
People hated on that meme but I absolutely loved when the different variations of it started coming out, the Russian tank was my favorite
Do you know da wae
oh god this reminds me of a story......guy at work spent his entire college funds on buying a pc and anime girl avatar.
he eventually told me his stream so one night i decided to pop in.
he was doing a fake girl voice while cheerfully interviewing an anime girl who said and i quote "I do this as a hobby and would never put myself in debt over it".
Guy from work immediately went silent and stopped doing his anime girl voice...he was so angry XD
No way
entire college funds on a pc and a single avatar? I didn't know college was that cheap
How did things end up for him?
@cristalido3640 not sure....all I know is he was fired and works at McDonald's now.
Many such cases! Very sad!
It's insane that we regressed so badly from just socializing IRL with people to now having people "pleasure themselves" in a fake online world with people they don't even know
2020 is all to blame.
@@Resolution2026but even then people are to blame for 2020 too imo
@@Resolution2026 Camgirls were a thing long before 2020
@@Resolution2026 why 2020? Secondlife an AOL chatrooms have been around since the early 2000's. Both of those are or were a hell of a lot worse
wait til you realize irl relationships, both intimate and just friendships, also start with people you don't even know and begin by bonding over things you have in common.
I played one days worth of vrchat, and spent half of it convincing a young girl to not give her discord and socials to a guy DRESSED AS DIDDY!! I genuinely am scarred from that game now. It’s sickening
:| Red flag instantly if someone is dressed as Diddy. And no offense to the little girl but how stupid are you to just go randomly giving personal stuff to people you don't even know?
I hope he goes into the great horrors of Roblox.
He will surely be traumatised
@@Pasekmasekfrom someone who have 3000 hour on vrchat IM sure seen stuff
@@mylife4113 its worse because roblox is a kids game
Roblox is so bad. There isn't a Roblox rabbit Hole, it's a Roblox chasm to the depths of hell
This would go too deep and take way too long. Roblox sh ain't even a rabbit hole it's a slide into purgatory where lil red devils stab you with giant tooth picks while you get water boarded.
i'll be honest vrchat relationships can go very bad but sometimes when the whole universe align you get lucky for example i met my now wife on vrchat and we got together in vrchat but now we are married irl so sometimes there's a good ending but they are rare asf
That's what everyone hopes, but it seems that what you've got was an equivalent to leaving the house after a storm and finding a fine diamond washed up in the mud
@@imjackandurnot i ain't the only one in my friend groups but all tho i have to admit, e boys and e girls never have working relationships since to them the game is like irl and they are more addicted to it then a junkie to fent
I also met my wife through this, the possibility is slim to find someone worth while and I usually avoid other peoples relationships as they normally are a nightmare or super cringe.
@@NightShadeLD13-101 just like any relationship, i've been with countless numbers of relationship's that just... didn't work out, be it cause we grew apart, the spark wasn't there, or because, we changed. a few times i was cheated on,,, like... 8 times... but its not just a vr chat issue, that's a dating issue... everything is slim, but if you find "the one" nothing should matter, if you vibe with them, and you just are, connected... id say vr chat is ... fine... just don't date the mute girls, unless your okay with "surprises" LMAO.
@@Honed- oh true that with the last part, I have had many relationships up until this one, all of them very much felt empty or made me feel empty. Either I had the same many of eventualities you had or just up and left. Often I didn’t because I was desperate for love in my younger years since trauma does exist and has molded me into the person I am today. I think it’s definitely a common issue of it being so slim but I also think some women(and men) need not to be so harsh with those just talking to them, if one is being genuinely kind and you respond with “eww don’t talk to me” behavior that can result in the person having their self esteem impacted greatly, in which I did for a long time because people were dickheads all the time. The dating world wouldn’t be so ruthless if simply people weren’t. Everyone creates this grand standard and even if the vibe fits a common person often will find that it doesn’t work cause of the other person, be it immaturity or the many other things you said. Trust is so important yet impossible to find and with the standard of perfection you often see trust being broken because one person has something you don’t have. Grow to accept what people don’t have and appreciate what they do. (Energy drinks in the morning get me rambling, I find great interest in this topic regardless)
I'm a minor who really wanted to play vrchat for a while but now you've scared me away, ty
Yeah, lucky bro, I played it a bit once and like the players are just incells, unfunny kids whos parents bought them vr, cringey ecouples, actual npcs that stare at themselves in the mirror, people who are too socially anxious to talk to others and finally the 1 in a million jackpot of a person whos just a good person.
Don’t ever change your mind, stay far away.
The good ending
Best to just leave the internet completely while you're at it.
finally seeing something good on youtube
I’m a VRChat puzzle world adventure developer. I dislike what VRChat has become, but there isn’t another platform on which I can release the worlds like how VRChat allows you to release them. I focus on very specific people, which aren’t found often in VRChat anymore. Just passionate gamers who like to try worlds and such. No Eboy/girls.
It’s a huge pirate themed passion project of mine which will have 13 worlds in the end. It’s called: The Shipwreck Eagle.
It’s literally the only thing that keeps me coming back to the game. I only hang out in my own worlds or sometimes I go to the Pug to show people the things I make.
yes i love puzzles worlds
When is it coming out? I want to try them
@@valenovale117 Chapter 0 till 4 are already out! Chapter 2 is still in development. The ideas for chapter 0 till 2 came later, so I made chapter 3 and 4 beforehand.
It has voice acting, a lot of animations and custom models all made by me!
Enjoy!
It is PC only.
Hopefully in the future when I get a functioning, proper PC that can actually handle the amount of ping and fps for Vrchat I will play your game. I hope you don't mind if I take a screenshot of your comment for future references?
@@CaptainChysa Woah, I've played Shipwreck Eagle chapters 3 and 4 before! Very cool
I sadly have 1,274 hours in VRchat. most of which ive spent creeping around as a realistic alien around corners, in full body tracking.
Nah that's based.
"now you see me 👽"
bogos binted in the flesh
👽
Couple hundred here pretty much all spent in the spider lair
Vrchat is like an addiction, the more you play the worse it gets
I barely managed to get this piece of 💩 working on my pc, there aint no way im getting addicted. 🗿
Truer words have never been spoken currently addicted to the spider lair
But VRChat, as with other vices like alcohol, in moderation can actually be really fun
You need to be on. said vice to enjoy vrchat
@@towarzyszmarcin474the vr version is definitely what does it for people, I don’t play it like that but it’s definitely a chill game to talk to people on
I may be single and I may want a girlfriend, but I'm not desperate enough to go on Vrchat as some people could be 100% different irl compared to how they are portraying themselves in the game.
Same
well i mean irl woman are different from "e-girls" anyways, somehow the internet changes their personality
i mean people can act different IRL too. its harder but still you never know anyone. trust noone
I came to the game for better friends and Therapy since that’s something my mom doesn’t cares about
As bad as vrchat dating can be, I think purposely seeking someone out isn't the way to go. If you just meet people and are genuine with them, you'll make many friends and maybe be attracted to one or two of them. Some of those friends you may end up meeting IRL, a lot of them end up doing so. Some even get together or even married thanks to VRChat, I've heard lots of people say that, surprisingly enough. If you have the right mindset and the person you meet also does things can go very far.
I was once an avid VRChat user about two years ago. I would literally rot my life away spending 16+ hours a day, every day on the damn game. It was extremely depressing and god awful; However, that is exactly how I met my now IRL wife. Within two months of knowing each other, she flew down and started living with me, currently 3 years strong. As much as I hate VRChat, and what the community has become. Finding the right people, having a good mindset, and not playing the game like how I did can definitely be fun. And a great way to meet new people and hang out with friends. You just HAVE to be careful as to not get trapped playing VRC as I did. Trust me it's not fun lol.
0 VR chat hours, no need to thank me.
50,765 help me
@@GOGAMBLINGGAMING-sf6qs
Try planting strawberries it’s pretty cool
@@GOGAMBLINGGAMING-sf6qsplay rec room instead 🗿🗿🗿
@@GOGAMBLINGGAMING-sf6qs bro u probably have the same hours i put into roblox on the span of 6 years
Me too.
I played VR Chat before it got this bad. My avatar was a 15 foot tall banana in golden knight armor. Back then, people just wanted to be funny or have fun. How far it has fallen...
Not to rain on your pitty parade but this is still how the majority of VRC lobbies are, just avoid the obvios cesspools like party or club worlds.
I was thinking about getting Vr chat back then
But your videos saved my life
More than once
do it.
@@Royaltyishere "I became the thing i swore to destroy"
@@RoyaltyishereYou are talking about the jumping out the window part right?
Dont do it
you should play it but not on public servers but with your own friends
this is why I left
forgot you existed
and you're a big reason i got into it years ago xD
You’re part of the reason I was obsessed with it when I was younger lmao
Bro no way you got me into it lol
..girl your also uploading yourself doing these zesty ahh content about vrchat and this is why you left?😭 aint this a bit hypocrital?😭😭😭
As someone who was tricked into a VRchat relationship and got out, it was the worst relationship I've ever had. Imagine trying to saying "I love you" to a girl wearing a Loona the wolf avatar with XL "accessories". I've recovered tho
Edit: I use the word trick because it was a long distance relationship and she said that it would bring us closer and I had no idea what VRchat was at that time and I turned the game off whenever I didn’t feel like dealing with all that.
congratulations you're a furry :)
Character development imo
"tricked"
Joker arc when
How were you tricked did she bait you with a van that said goth mommy on the side
With 4,843.3 hours of deplorable interactions with virtual human existence, i believe i have a few words.
●people in front of mirrors, aka "mirror dwellers" are either looking for love (I'm guilty), sleeping, waiting for someone to start a conversion (also guilty) or generally talking with their partner before/after a hefty erp sesh.
●Generally dating in vrc is pointless, because you never find love as genuine as real life.. and also, you'll typically find the person you're "dating" flirting with another person 2 minutes after becoming your partner in another instance, because it's just that easy.
●Fullbody users have beef with half body users. Pc users are typically insta blocked for being well known to run around and make racist remarks, play loud noises, and crash you (i miss the days when EAC wasn't implemented).
Thanks for coming to my Ted talk.
you stink of edater
Yet another video i am watching at work because my task is too boring
i should of put loud noises to alert your employer again
Same.
@@Royaltyisheresame at work just some good content to show me that I have not strayed this far off the path
I feel like dating in vrchat would be extremely awkward
Your brain knows it's not a real genuine human connection
@@It_Lavender0 it's a real living breathing person behind the avatar but it would still be weird to me
It is, don't try
@@Random90sAnimeGirl say you don't go outside without saying you don't go outside
@@It_Lavender0 my family doesn't have a car therefore I walk everywhere I guess that counts
Me (on desktop) and my girlfriend (on VR) tried to play VRChat but got banned from multiple lobbies because incels thought she was underage due to her voice. We also encountered a lot of clearly underage people who weren't getting our sort of treatment, they'll keep kids around to see NSFW avatars but can't let 20+ year olds explore a lounge. Bizarre game, I'm not touching it again but it's fun to watch the cesspool that it is from a distance.
That's an L for having a girlfriend on VR
@@rebcommando587 He's saying that his girlfriend and him got on vrchat to hangout. How would they have met on vrchat if they haven't played vrchat before 😭
L to them, W to you for being a normal person on VR chat.
@YEEESSSman why are u assuming he's chronically online just cuz he tried out vr chat one time
@@arujun9212probably because he used the term incel incorrectly which is what most twitter addicts do
hey its me, the jane doe at 5:24! it was funny meeting you man, keep up the good work!
THIS GUY WAS LOOKING FOR EGIRLS WHEN I FOUND HIM
@@Royaltyishere THE SLANDER HELLO 😭
@@iOokami_E GIRL SEARCHER!⚠️🚨 E GIRL SEARCHER!⚠️🚨
Ain't no way bro got exposed
I've played the game for FAR too long. Roughly 8 years. I've been in and out of relationships in VRC, met some amazing and life long friends, and have also dealt with the most awful people and partners. Being behind a screen, wearing an avatar, doesn't change who you are if your personality is still stinky. I met my current partner/fiancé in VR. We watched movies, hung out with friends, and he was the first person to come to the realistic conclusion that VR is a game, ERP is over rated, and your avatar does not define your looks or personality. Nearly 2 years after meeting each other, he's moved in, we got engaged, and I've never been happier. We watch movies in VR still (Because going to the movies is hella over priced) but we both know that VR doesn't do justice to being physically near each other. If someone defines themselves through their avatar and their personality through VR chat, then that's an instant red flag. It took 8 years of playing VR to finally find a good realistic person (I dated outside of VR as well). I wish luck to those looking for relationships in VR, but first learn who you are outside of VR and what you want before trying to seek companionship from a boy/girl with huge tits, an 8 pack, unrealistic body standards, or a voice changer.
lets fucking go
This. Taking the game to seriously honestly breaks the immersion, it should be fun and goofy that’s the point. I have a partner irl and vrc helps me spend time with him when I can’t go see him, it’s amazing.
Shiz gave trauma
unexpected wholesomeness.
I wish you two the best and many more good movies nights to come!
This is exactly what I want for my partner, whom he sadly lives across the world. We both suggested for each other to use vrchat as a another way we can communicate until we can actually see each othe one day. It's been amazing, and I hope my story can turn out like yours.
Found out one of my co-workers used Nevermet.
We are both welders.
Sad
:(
Do you live in Missouri by chance?
@@infotroll no. I live in misery.
@ no
Rec Room should be more popular than vrchat, once I fought furries alongside Arthur Morgan and Jesus
Who won and also did Jesus walk on water
Epic rap battles if history!!! Arthur Morgan VS Jesus
Oh my god, I love recroom broo 😭
rr is a banger bruh
Yes it has many problems as pedos, hackers and toxicity but sadly many games have the same issues (still funny when a hacker appears in the rec center spawning random items and shit)
If rec room gets more popular it adds more weird people
I honestly think 17:35 it’s just a lot of sad lonely people looking for companionship, you kind of proved this with the wholesome messages
"Apart from the people that only get on to get high and drink themselves to death." Sir I'll have you know I also play guitar and scream into a microphone.
Recently hit 1000 hours playtime on VRChat after first playing in 2018 (joined for Ugandan Knuckles like many people). The game has its up's and downs but I've made a lot of genuine friends on it and I'm glad I picked it up all those years ago. VRChat is what lead me to pick up 3D modelling and I've been pursuing further education in it for the last 3 years to hopefully turn it into a career one day
go outside
Haven’t even watched yet I just agree I had a friend obsessed with online relationships he literally stopped being friends with the boys because his online gf told him to like bruh he knew her for a month and when I asked her or us he said “are you giving me head” like bruh it’s vr 💀
"Are you giving me head" is WILD bro wtf 😭
He needs an irl girlfriend 😅
@@corruptederror1952 oh that’s the best part of the story we finally helped him realize the online girls were just using him after he literally sent one money then got blocked on all platforms by her so he finally gets an irl gf and she screws our other friend they get over that then she screws her ex they get over that then she lies about being pregnant so he doesn’t dump her they get over that cause he believes every word she says like it’s prophecy and now just to play games or hang with him she has to be there and she causes drama like there is no theater where she can get that outta her system and again he would choose her over us any day she got him addicted to drugs and they are only getting worse he don’t have a job anymore he cast aside our friend who has known him since birth literally just because his gf didn’t like a joke he made like bruh after all the crap online he finds one irl girl and it’s the worst possible and he doesn’t know cause he has only dated online he is addicted to being in a relationship and it’s scary also she has called the police on our group multiple times for no reason she has said we’ve abused her like physically and that we’ve stolen from her just for reference we were all raised Christian not saying we are perfect at all but my momma didn’t raise no bum I don’t hit women and I don’t steal and after all of this she’s never apologized we just have to forgive her cause we don’t wanna lose him and she starts fights every month and then they leave our group chats and block us but then their back within 2-3 weeks it’s an annoying process and after the most recent one most of my group is done with them so I’m having to talk to them on the side to just try and get her to stop being a problem
"bruh" The brainrot is real
@@bobhill-ol7wp How is the word "bruh" brainrot, it is literally just another way to say "bro" or "brother"
The thing about this is at 16:55 the entryway to the ERP fest is through wholesome little cuddle buddy stuff, as someone with thousands of hours in the game and been skating around these communities by association. you will mostly find that people tend to introduce in cutesy ways where they are nice and perfect then lump you with ERP and their mental/physical health issues after locking you into some sort of status, the most common being "exclusive" as it's a nice in-between ground for them that doesn't say dating but locks you in with them. whole friend groups and community run group instances are built on this behavior and you see popular groups rise and crumble sometimes based entirely on people doing this to each other in a cycle.
We are so BACK🗣️
back in the pit
VRchat is honestly amazing, I've never had so much fun doing pretty much nothing. Once had a power struggle over a random object in the hub world and was laughing my ass off. Plenty of weirdos but also a very fun game if you know how to avoid bad places and don't get addicted to it
the funny about mentioning as a good game is that rec room is in one a pretty big nightmares of a game with how the devs treat and how the coummity responds. there hasent been a quest in the game for nearly 6 years, they abandoned every single rr orginal room they make meaning when they released the battle royale they promised they would update the seasons for the season pass but since launch it has been the same. removed the weekly skin system that they claimed no one was using when the reason people weren't using it is because they stopped adding new skins to it so the people who did do the weekly stopped because they got everything. the RR team prioritizes sreenmode over vr and its just blatant at this point the UI is made for screen mode and so are most of the originals they make. They focus heavily on UGC while giving people the most limiting tools of any UGC game insisting that you use a horrible maker pen which they are starting to realize is a stupid system themselves so they made rooms 2.0 which is a whole nightmare in it of itself with how they gave people access to it. They release outfit sets that could cost up to 80 dollars worth of tokens and the worst part is that they made it much harder to earn token for free now when it use to be very easy. i could just keep going on about rec room but the craziest part is that the community specifically the 2020-2021 player base runs insane defense for the company they give the unironically give you the excuse of, "the company is just trying to make more money" as it somehow justifies removing content they killed. i would really recommend looking into rec room and how the game slowly killed it player base.
I'm ashamed to admit it I tried vr dating I gave it 3 tries and just woke up one day .dude i rather hold a woman in irl that I actually know than taking a gamble going to another state.
Welcome back to reality
I can't count how many times I was in a friend group and some people in the group would date, the inevitable downfall of their relationships always was so unhinged. I had MULTIPLE friend groups in shambles because of edating going south like it always does. There is never a normal ebreakup EVER and it always ends up with friend groups being split or people trying to end their lives.
go outside mane
as someone who met their spouse in vrc (been together for almost 2 years, have met each other irl) i would not suggest vrc dating to anyone. its really really really rare to find someone who won’t just dump you either after 2 weeks or 3 months. and just to find someone who isn’t secretly a psycho, a weird person, or pedo is rare. and not to mention that it can be very mentally exhausting, depending on who you decide to get with on vrc. a lot of vrc players are critically online and don’t touch grass. so they manipulate people all of the time and make them dependent on them. but if you are both consenting adults, you guys really like each other, and both know that you guys are real (if they refuse or make excuses to not video call, RUN AWAY) then go right ahead! but i really suggest minors to stay away from dating vrc since a lot of the time minors get attacked by predators and don’t even realize that they are being harassed since that predator has gaslighted them and manipulated them into thinking that it is okay.
HAHA LOL
That's not funny you meany
Break up and find a real relationship. meeting twice every 3 years isnt healthy
All VRC needs to do is add an ID verification system. ID verified adults can access adult content, non verified members can't. Make it so that under 18 players can't join worlds with adults, and make lying about your age to appear under 18 during signup a ban-able offense.
That would likely push people away from vrchat. No adult wants to have to use a real ID to sign up for anything or access regular content.
It'd be better to separate vrchat into two entities and leave one uncensored and less regulated, and the other is for SFW, which I suppose quest is.
@@translatedbird they should add AI moderation for Avatars and worlds. Too many Hyper NSFW avatars because they're not designed to be in a game/platform like this. This will also combat crasher avatars as well.
If i was a director for VRC, i would immediately invest in AI development for content moderation because vrc desperately need this....
Not sure if this is still relevant for you but they are finally actually doing this!
This aged well
It's not for "regular content" uts explicit @translatedbird
Meanwhile i use vrchat for occasional date night with my irl wife, playing games with random people/world hopping. Not everyone on vrchat is a loon. It's actually a pretty amazing platform for vr if you know where to go. But people tend to hyperfocus on the negative because it gets more attention.
6:35 Errrrrrm ackshually, that is Bubble Bass. Larry is the chad lobster. Gee, I sure hope somebody got fired for that blunder. 🙄
nooooo picklllllllles!
Bro you're halarious, i agree with you the whole way xD i get on vrchat to go to the underground rave scenes and dance but when im not there i see them cringy relationships an drama all the time
Hey I’m the owner of the Daddy Marks Fanclub (at least one of the 2 owners) and I just wanna thank you for enjoying our pile of trash group 🙏
Bro, I love when he roasts people in vrchat. I'm a VRChat veteran and there are definitely unhinged moments and people. 😂
All I have done on VR chat was walk around firelink shrine. I did not know how deep this rabbit hole went.
Shit, maybe I am lonely enough.
real shit
I have 30 minutes, and half of them were insulting furries and nsfw Avatars
based
Time well spent
Cringe
Deserved (I'm a furry myself)
@@emilydavidson8844 are you one of the furries
Seeing people with more hours in a single game than I have in an idler I've been running for six years every minute that I'm at my PC is concerning.
My first video I am seen from u. This is great! Everything u went over I agreed with and it all makes sense. It didnt feel biased and when u point out that u have been shitting on it, you explain that is just what you do and jt has nothing to do what you actually feel. Most youtubers I have seen with similar video ideas dont seem to be has honest and fair as you. They would usually just say its weird only because its "cringe." You make good points and I respect you for it
I had a story told to me. Twas a friend of my friend who decided to empty his bank account on their VrChat partner, get all sorts of "gear" for their "playtime", and ultimately realize he'd been doing it with a dude this entire time
1:07 GOLD GOLD GOLD
I was one of the OG kids growing up on uncensored chat rooms in the early 00s . This is nothing compared to those communities
AIM left some scars.
Remember when VRChat was about having a fun time? Like the ReeKid videos? Who remembers those? I certainly do. And they made me want a VR actually, but I sadly never got one.
I got vrchat rightfully taken away from me for a year. Watching this still without vrchat makes me happy that I don't have it back yet
WANTS ERP “yea that’s a pretty safe for work bio”
fr
Advice to newbies: When you start playing VRChat, the first few weeks will be rough. But eventually, you will meet some good people. When you do, don't bother joining new worlds to "make friends". The friends you make will keep introducing you to other people, and hopefully, your circle of friends will increase for the better. That's how you avoid most of the cringe. I used to always hang out in friend+ worlds.
I had an amazing time in VRChat during the COVID-19 pandemic. I haven't been back since, but I met my boyfriend of 4 years there.
The good: Meeting people from all over the world, learning languages and exploring worlds.
The bad: Creeps, Mirror dwellers, FBT "flexers", insanity, racism and ALOT OF CRINGE.
2:08 I have 0 hours, because I live vicariously through TH-camrs doing it for me, like you.
We play smart.
"Dps no not damage per second idiot" Caught me off guard
I see pepperoni nipples
Interesting video and topic.
I’ve been on VRChat since December 2017, so I know quite a lot about it by now. That said, I agree with some of the points you made, but not entirely.
It’s true that many people on VRChat are stuck in a bottomless pit of toxicity and bad habits, but I feel you were a bit too judgmental in some cases where it wasn’t necessary.
Anyway, there’s no reason to be scared of those things. Each of us chooses what to do and how to do it on that platform.
If you want to play VRChat, just focus on surrounding yourself with nice and kind people to share moments with, and stay away from the negativity you might encounter.
That’s what I do, and I’m happy I’ve met great people, some of whom I’ve even met in real life and built solid bonds with them.
I have 0 hours in VRChat and currently eating an Asda sponge cake whilst watching this vid.
👍
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Mirror dwelling is definitely an equivalent to crack. It calls to me everytime.
This game was just a whole entire ride of emotions for me. VRCHAT literally made me a different ass person once I got addicted to it. Relationships I got into in vrchat was fucking horrible. First one was some faking "D.I.D." person that I thought was cool at first but then later on in the relationship I realize that they were going behind my back and just using me as a teddy bear especially their "disorder" was fake as fuck as well they literally had a video game character as an ALTER. It's such bull shit. The other ones were okay but the last one relationship literally made me cut the fucking rope and I just stopped playing entirely because I came to the conclusion that there's so much degens that'll just use people just for pleasure and it's not even cool at all. There was some friend group I was in that made a "femboy hooters" instance for business and they were all minors including me and of course I stepped out of that cause I found it to be weird. but once I heard that people of the friend group started making jobs for minors and adults to SUCK people off I just completely cut contact of that weird ass friend group right then and there. But on the good side of it I made some cool friends that ended up not being weirdos and I still talk to them to this day. Overall VRCHAT is fucking disgusting overall. If I have my own family I am never letting them get a headset or if I do I'd have some restrictions on it to prevent them from playing that horrible dog shit of a game. I'm so glad that I'm like 2 years clean of the game
I had no idea these kind of things exist in the platform. I really don't join the English Speaking worlds like Black Cat or similar trending worlds anymore. I have found myself being comfortable with the Japanese community ever since I started the game. I started to learn the language with their help, it was a very good motivation to continue Japanese. Its been 3 years now, I have many friends there. I stop by the events, the Japanese events are much better and fun. People are nice. Thanks to VRChat, I have developed Japanese faster.
last year I came to study in Japan, I convinced my parents and my life is somewhat comfortable for now (well working part time while studying is a bit tough but I can manage)
dude the japanese community is actually so wholesome, but it can also be the weirdest one, at least to western people
17:15 "This is ridiculous a son of Sparda defeated by a ittle girl"
i genuinely missed the old vrchat content where just a group of friends goof around different worlds, play diff minigames, and just meeting random interesting people, and sometimes a cool giant ass avatar with big effects randomly shows up
Idk if it's bad, but I'd probably use VR dating as a sort of test-run to see what to and not to do or whatever. Plus, I don't see it as overly bad, considering I rarely can go anywhere personally, due to my isolationist nature, so talking to peeps in VR is the only reason why I haven't gone mute by now.
Good thing I left VRChat just as Ugandan Knuckles were dying out, because seeing how low this interesting app had fallen, is sad.
12:25 that Dom joke caught me off guard I’m rolling 🤣
This video was really funny but also really interesting. I love how it talks about genuinely wholesome people that just want to have a relationship and the degenerates in vrc. The fact that we essentially have online prostitution in vrchat is absolutely absurd. I might understand if you really like someone you've known for a little while, but at that level it's a little crazy.
I dont know if you were being sarcastic about the groups but, i appreciate that you chose to like one of my groups!
Used NM and ended up finding literally the perfect person- meeting each other very soon, no sus shit at all, been at it for almost a a year, and VRC was barely a thing we used all year. We just play any games together, with cams on and have a blast almost every day. The Perfect Gamer couple I'd say. VRC does contain some maddingly unhinged people but its better being expressed there than out in public, which would result in real damage potentially being done.
I wouldn't be surprised if diddy's favorite game was vrchat-
😭
Nah imagine a drake and diddy world experience on vrc ☠️
I would say naked twister would be his favorite game
I’m so happy you mentioned your time in vrc, all I could think for the longest time was how much you sound like a dedicated vrchat player
my ex best friend met her current bf on vrchat and he’s superrrr toxic and controlling. she asked me to give him $50 and when i asked why, i got doxxed by him. i tried voicing my feelings to her about this but she got mad and blocked me. safe to say, im no longer friends with her and vrchat ruined everything.
Vrchat didn't ruin it, it exposed what kind of a person she actually is
Jeez. Sorry to hear that. Hope she leaves him and things settle well
Playing vrchat for 9 hours a day for a whole year requieres an impressive amount of dedication
During the pandemic I spent all my time in vrchat, it filled a void. Honestly I went out into the world and into abusive relationships. Now I use vrchat and yea I met someone who actually cares about me, shows me the respect, and actually wants to be around me. It’s not our fault that most women in gen z are just looking for the top 5% of men, the people of vrchat for the most part in my thousands of hours, are genuinely wholesome.
Well ofc, people in vrc are very humane, and some of them "mature"
I enjoy vrchat from time to time, and im very thankful in friends with SANE people. We vairy from 18 to 30 but were an overall fun group. These types of people are really sad to see and are the reason I stopped going on as often. I'll stick to my trolling miku avatars and watching people lose their minds when I attack them and the phantom touch illness most of them seem to have.. 😭
the title alone triggered my PTSD....
I only recently started playing vrchat and made my bio/profile to mirror the ones i would see of people in public lobbies. This is eye opening.
This is why i only go in private pc only worlds, i can't stand weird e-daters in vrchat smh
I can't believe vr gooning is real and I loved the cry of fear reference 11:42
as someone who has dated on vrchat, I deeply regret it.
just get back on, easy
I was laughing so hard watching this especially when he kept on bringing up the dating app because when I found this out I argued with my friend about why it's weird asf and she kept saying let them do what they want.
Damn VRChat really will never be as good or as fun as it was in 2018-2021.
I have to disagree, it depends on the crowd you go with or just who you find. Sure, it's all bad apples but been playing since 2020, everything still feels the same to me.
Something no one is talking about is the fact that the filter system used to be forced on for accounts
Either they're lazy or incompetent but seeing as how it's nearly been 10 years since the creation of this and there's no age verification?
It's probably both.
Was just announced like a week or two ago, and seems like it's going to be a pretty good start at combating some of the shit that goes on, or at least making it harder for kids to get accidentally/knowingly involved with it.
@@nightdagger yeah I'm pretty excited for it. I'm just hoping that it's not easy for people to fake IDs onto it. It's an amazing start though for sure
They seem to be listening to the community for this update
"pixel's smashing" got me rolling
I got a rec room ad when you said rec room player at 2:35 💀💀💀
I told you the fbi is spying on us but you never believed me 😒
I got an ad for a Psychic support group in California. Wanna trade?
@@EthanConradLeNosePicker GET OUT!!!!! 👉🚪
All I got was the burger king whooper ad
Just got a headset a few weeks ago and got my mind blown by vrchat. Was my first vr game since it's free. On the good side there's soo much stuff to do in vr chat with great worlds but then there's some public lobbies that I would go to and make me question wtf am I doing here.
0:20 you really just called us out like that😢
Us?
US? 🤨
Us?🤨
you heard em, US!!
Yo there’s pedos in that game you really want to associate with that?
these types of videos make me feel better about my life and where its headed.
0:46 the part where you don’t get IP banned isn’t true you do get IP banned when you get banned I’ve been ban many of times. Ik they wanted to add the HWID ban but they haven’t yet
I unplug the router for 5min and get a new ip. Until they range ban ips like 4chins it will be a joke
Do you understand how ip bans work? The fact you've been banned multiple times means you haven't been ip banned. Unless you've moved house with each ban
@@NigelDafenpot lmao why talk about stuff you don't know about? All ISP's give dynamic IPs meaning you can change your IP by unplugging your router for 5 min and getting assigned a new IP. They would need to range ban IPs to stop you from doing this. You have to pay extra for a static IP meaning your IP does not change
@@d76458 wow guess I've been paying extra for something I don't even need.
Came for the title, but stayed for the wholesome conclusion. Thanks for the insight, bruv!
Ayo i watched that while trying to bake bread in a vrc world
how does one bake bread in a vrc world ?
@@Royaltyishere there's a world for that
VRC is definitely a Place full of degeneracy but we all know that, you should definitely highlight some of the amazing things you can do like baking bread and making cakes or swimming underwater in a neon glow sea or even racing tron bikes lol
drop the world name i must bake bread
I bake bread irl sometime... At least i can eat it afterwards. 😖
This is definitely getting out of hand. My ex Goodestboyo is a predator. Hes 17 dating a 14 year old and hes been foung some very dirty stuff with them on vrchat. His mom was notified twice even with evidence, and she just never cared.
you stink of edater 🫵😆
@ak0tine you have no pfp, stop yapping
The mental trauma in the longrun is NOT worth it. This app can break you. Not exaggerating the least bit.
“Do you know da wae” turned to this. Horrific.
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i love it
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W Video as usual. I first watched your videos like 8 months ago, and bro you deserve much more subs man keep up the great work
3:00 We need to get Dogmeat from Fallout 4 out of VRChat
tried vr chat a few months after it first came out, these problems exist pretty much since day 1, i joined a lobby, it got crashed because of some dude with a modded avatar that spawns millions of particles, a lot of lobbies just talked about porn and applicable toys, and i finally left after seeing two pedos getting onto two minors (11 and 13, idk why they where even on that), pulled the kids away, explained them whats happening and never launched vr chat again, this was years ago and sadly from what ive seen, the younger one has gone back because she liked it (?!) and the older one became a heavy drug addict
I very much believe the company that made VRCHAT encourages this degenerate behavior and care little in stopping it.🐱
I remember watching a video looking into specifically that and the tldr is the creators originally didn't really expect it to become the way it is but they can't really do anything because it's pretty heavily implied the share holders just tell them to ignore everything and pretend nothing is happening.
yes they do especialy how over sexualised people are and how degenerate the community is enabling this kind of behaviour
Met a dev at the last irl meetup/party I went to. Guy creeped me out in our first interaction, acting oddly close despite being a complete stranger. Felt like he was powertripping on his position given its a "vrc meetup".
Not surprised honestly.
MONEY!!!!
@@timowii2861 i mean who can blame this people anyways? they probably don't even know how to socialize and the weird societal standards of vrchat put more fuel in the pit, of course you'd feel uncomfortable with him.
Me watching a video where a man with 3k hours in Vrchat talks about dating when im sitting at my desk with 39 hours 💀💀💀💀