17 Harsh Truths About Women I Wish More Men Knew

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  • Are you tired of feeling confused and frustrated in your dating life?
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  • @DatingbyMarie
    @DatingbyMarie  8 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Ready to transform your dating life? Book your coaching session with me here: calendly.com/datingbymarie/relationship-coaching-session-clone

    • @txt4r
      @txt4r 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      If all u say is true than women would go out with anyone who fits what u said - but they do not
      but in practice they go with guys with money
      second category go with b@@d boys

  • @cicloproposito9192
    @cicloproposito9192 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +367

    It would be nice if women applied the same standards and demands to their own behavior and shortcomings, you cannot get what you can't offer yourself...

    • @624697
      @624697 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You know, every civilization and religion throughout history tried to limit the freedom of women because, from an evolutionary standpoint, they've developed some pretty dark traits over millions of years. This makes them inherently more evil and less moral than men. I think modern society is getting it all wrong by letting them do whatever they want. It feels like the world is falling apart because of it, and I worry that the society we've built in the West since the 1960s just won't survive.

    • @OffGridInvestor
      @OffGridInvestor 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +23

      ABSOLUTELY COMPLETELY true. I only have to look at my cousins

    • @Michaelcollins1110
      @Michaelcollins1110 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Exactly delusional a lot of them

    • @LfunkeyA
      @LfunkeyA 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      yes you can

    • @jaialaiwarrior
      @jaialaiwarrior 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Most can't - they're hypocritical babies

  • @jaywaalreer233
    @jaywaalreer233 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +732

    How I improved my confidence with girls:
    Stopped procrastinating and started talking to strangers every day.
    Read the book Celestial Soulmate by Lentlish (it has some tips you won't find on youtube).
    Took care of my health (better diet and regular workouts).
    Focused on building better friendships with people around me.
    Practiced staying calm in awkward situations.

    • @mensurkeramika4732
      @mensurkeramika4732 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I've got the book now, and I really like what I've read so far. Tnx for recommending it

    • @alansun70
      @alansun70 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I recognized I need to manage stress better. I also can taste greasiness in food. I know what I can & can't have every day. Like fried lobster is really greasy.

    • @darthjayder9914
      @darthjayder9914 วันที่ผ่านมา

      op has really good tips

    • @dantimber
      @dantimber วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Talking to people is surprisingly hard for guys. It made all the difference for me to force myself to do it. Now it's no big deal. One tip I use is think (respectfully) how silly girls are and that they are just people too.

  • @sandormezei1675
    @sandormezei1675 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +175

    You dont ask the fish how to catch fish, you ask the fisherman!
    However i agree with what she says tbh.

    • @fox1actual
      @fox1actual 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +26

      I don’t think that’s necessarily true. Any hunter would appreciate insight from the fish. From what they eat, when they are most active, where they congregate, etc. - There’s a lot of valuable information to be had. You just need to have discernment on what is applicable and what is not.

    • @KrobSnave
      @KrobSnave 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

      Bad analogy. Women who want a partner want to be pursued. Fish never want to have a hook in their mouth and later eaten. Some fish prey on other fish as well. Seriously stop using that bad analogy. I used too as well think that.

    • @whitewalker608
      @whitewalker608 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Fish don't want to be caught. Besides, women are just humans.

    • @luxurybuzz3681
      @luxurybuzz3681 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Fish analogy makes no sense

    • @Wooky__
      @Wooky__ 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@KrobSnave women want to be pursued by men which already attract them. for this scenario is analogy bad,ok. on the other hand not many women want to be pursued by men who dont attract them. this is bolt statement but i think majority of men who seeks help on internet are from the 2nd group (of course i might be wrong) but in that case is fish analogy correct for them.

  • @RicheRichh
    @RicheRichh 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +69

    Relationships aren’t about men bending over backwards to meet an endless list of rules. It feels like auditioning to be the 'perfect men.-modern dating is a two-way street both sides need to bring effort and accountability.

    • @shermansheeshwood7803
      @shermansheeshwood7803 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      but dude .... truth is that women look for the best & they often can chose ; men take what they get ... has always been like that and will ever be. unless u r not one of the top males ... u have to be good at the auditions. its not a "wish comes crue"- world ... wunschkonzert we say in german

  • @AKA_Yours_2RLY_Music
    @AKA_Yours_2RLY_Music 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +158

    Women don't know what they want. Women will choose a man that knows how to direct them the way the WOMAN WANTS to be directed. That is all. Don't let anyone ever tell you otherwise.

    • @JosiahMonks
      @JosiahMonks 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Whoa. That hits it on the head

    • @brettflower8058
      @brettflower8058 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      they know what they want doofus. as she said though, they want to know you are pure. I feel bad for everyone, Women getting jokers posing all the time, men trying to be something they are not to attract women that are not there type. it is a mine field.

    • @vihaansota1515
      @vihaansota1515 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You seem to be the ultimate experts, do you dare a woman yourself, to prove your preach functions ?

    • @alansun70
      @alansun70 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I like beauty in women. Looks also vary within sexes. But, we need to be positive about our comments on people's appearance. I find both sexes better with hair. Yes, there were a few good looking males on Disney Channel as well as females. There were a few cute couples on there as well.

  • @thinkagain9315
    @thinkagain9315 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +72

    You want us to give you something we are not up to: changing ourselves. If I say “I don’t know”, is because I don’t know. If I say “I’d like to stay home and play video game”, I mean just that. If I say “I was thinking abou a movie”, bingo! But “I don’t know” is simply “I don’t know”. Accept it. Don’t try to make me become a “leader” on your terms. I lead on mine. And on my terms a leader says “ I don’t know”. I usually don’t know what I want to do in the evening when I’m single and alone. I decide everything last minute. What’s up that you can’t accept me as I am? Doesn’t it satisfy you? Be honest with yourself that you don’t want this man and move on. Surely it will save you energy, time etc etc just like you said. Stop wanting to play Barbie Home at your 30s with the life of another person. Either you love them the way they are, or you don’t. Just don’t lie to yourself, or you will come up as controlling and manipulative.
    What full grown men seek on a relationship is something that they already have alone: PEACE. If you come to take that away, you don’t need to stop by. There is nothing on the universe worth trading that off. So trying to change me is not gonna fly.

    • @ForestDruid-TN
      @ForestDruid-TN 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      Nailed it!

    • @TheMidnightdemon
      @TheMidnightdemon 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      True! You need to want to change yourself at all, that´s something nononeelse can decide for you! 👍

  • @TMMAAK
    @TMMAAK 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +85

    Listen, little pumpkin, you're too late. Men are going their own way nowadays. Drizzle Drizzle

  • @rigel472-ql9dd
    @rigel472-ql9dd 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +36

    and they will hate you for the slightest presentation of weakness, no one can be 100% tough and strong 24/7 .

    • @Hasio-Maszkietnik
      @Hasio-Maszkietnik 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Yep, at home is where I don't play a tough guy

    • @Mikhail_Ganchenko
      @Mikhail_Ganchenko 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Home is the place we come to regenerate, and we need love from our woman.

    • @rigel472-ql9dd
      @rigel472-ql9dd 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @Mikhail_Ganchenko indeed!!!

  • @Almighty_rage777
    @Almighty_rage777 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +47

    Hell no. I’m 4 minutes in and I can tell that this is bad. Men can have insecurities too. And that’s ok. The fact that it isn’t is why men are not dating anymore.

    • @andv993
      @andv993 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      having insecurities: can
      being insecure: absolute nope

    • @toasterpastries5811
      @toasterpastries5811 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@andv993you say that but if a man opens up about his insecurities you'd never be as attracted to him again

  • @saitamasensei1984
    @saitamasensei1984 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +35

    17 things are too much to remember

    • @alansun70
      @alansun70 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Maybe. I forget most of what is said in lecture after it's over. Some the equations on this are too hard to do mentally.

    • @darthjayder9914
      @darthjayder9914 วันที่ผ่านมา

      i guess I am gonna be that jerk, buuuuuuuut the title says 17 truths, she starts with saying "one key truth", reiterates that a couple times, then states she is going to list 17 truths, which Is what I assume she does next because I just ain't watching something made of those fallacies.

  • @aegisreflector2725
    @aegisreflector2725 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    Im sorry, but if a woman doesn't find you physically attractive, it doesn't matter how assured you are or how safe you make them feel. That's the plain and simple truth. Women will only ever see you through a romantic lens if they find you physically attractive. It is a prerequisite.

    • @DatingbyMarie
      @DatingbyMarie  6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      If you don’t think you’re attractive enough then work on yourself ;)

    • @carlosfernando6739
      @carlosfernando6739 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      It depends. Once a passed for a girl and she avoid me, but just because a friend, pretty than her stopped me to talk. The other girl started look at me.
      Resume: you need a cat, to have a cat😉

    • @shermansheeshwood7803
      @shermansheeshwood7803 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      no! science shows that for men what u say is true: look is THE factor.
      for women, character and status is THE factor. look is secondary.
      how many times have i heard from women: "oh ... he s not really my type, but I adore the way he is" or "I didnt really noticed him but then ... he took out his guitar ... boom. I was in love".
      have u ever (EVER!) heard that from a man speaking bout woman?!

  • @tedwilson1477
    @tedwilson1477 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    Is it just me, or are women just way to complicated? Life is a brief experience, keep it simple!

    • @whois_js
      @whois_js วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Keep it simple. Stay single.

  • @mariom5307
    @mariom5307 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    Who could endure the voice for eight and a half minutes? Show yourself, heroes!

  • @WhatDaFaust
    @WhatDaFaust 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    I watch these videos from various content creators just to analyze the consistency in suggestions. The advice is all over the board. There are far fewer rules in raising a Mogwai. The truth is nobody knows what they really want. The mind changes often.

  • @qjinx1
    @qjinx1 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    When a woman asks a man what they want to do tonight and the man says "I dont know, what do you want to do" its because the man usually doesnt want to do anything. He wants to chill. The i dont know part is deferring to the woman to get her to admit what shes wanting to do to bring up going out in the first place. Lots of men are content just chilling at home and only go out because the woman is wanting to go out. So to always have these plans ready for when ever she asks you what you want to do is not leadership, its conformity, because the man has been trained to have a response ready for a woman whenever she wants to go out. Something the man wouldnt be doing or bringing up on his own.

    • @whois_js
      @whois_js วันที่ผ่านมา

      Problem is, every woman want us to understand their way of thinking and their demands, but they REFUSE to at least TRYING to understand ours. For example, when we just want to chill at home. Everything has to be about them, and that's why more and more men are choosing to walk away from dating and just going their own way.

  • @nickjee
    @nickjee 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +168

    Amazing video, A year ago i took the no contact route, well i wouldn't say it didn't go well, but i missed her and sometimes you have to leave your comfort zone and go for what you want, Without knowing and having a huge ego, we might actually miss out on our soul mate all in the name of not settling for less, I know who i am, and at the same time i know what i want for me, so i did all i could to get her back, and I must say, it was the best decision i have ever made, we have been together again for over 7 months, yes marriage isnt always rosy, but i am lucky to have her, just as she is to have me, we compliment each other.

    • @emilyclark-m2g
      @emilyclark-m2g 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      its difficult to let go of someone you love, i am in a similar situation, and i do not know what else do to have him back, i have been dying inside, people actually think i am happy, i am not.

    • @nickjee
      @nickjee 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I feel your pain dear one, after trying out the no contact experiment that failed miserably, i had to find other means, i had to reach out to a spiritual adviser, it was brilliant idea which i never thought it was, but it worked wonders for me.

    • @emilyclark-m2g
      @emilyclark-m2g 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him/ her?

    • @nickjee
      @nickjee 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

    • @emilyclark-m2g
      @emilyclark-m2g 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

  • @Luis2077-xj2fq
    @Luis2077-xj2fq 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +36

    I have Paranoid schizophrenia, I have no idea why I keep watching these type of videos knowing I'm not fit for many women, s

    • @Anastasio777
      @Anastasio777 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      It is the deep wish of every human to be together with a partner. Are you taking medication? Hope yes. Speak with your Psychiatrist if after 2-3 years you can "slowly" stop medication and see if the "bad voices" come back or not. My brother has it too. HUGGS 🥰

    • @Luis2077-xj2fq
      @Luis2077-xj2fq 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      @@Anastasio777 Yes I'm taking medication
      The thing is in my current state of mind it is very difficult to remain masculine and unfazed/stoic, it feels like an act that's hard to pull off, I feel like I can't be seductive or make a woman feel feminine when I'm worried about having to sort out other things in my life.

    • @wwvvww573
      @wwvvww573 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      this species progresses so fast - don't put your head into the sand, you'll get the healing that you need some day(!)
      and when this day comes, you'll be prepared for the hunt

    • @fox1actual
      @fox1actual 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I read a comment a couple of weeks ago about someone who had the same thing. It took a while but their doctor was able to help with a medication combo and they were able to have a success relationship. I think they even got married. So don’t give up.

    • @Pain-Addict
      @Pain-Addict 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      The problem with schizophrenia is 1 they hate medicine 2 they hate those who love them. My father is schizophrenic he never take his medication, accuse us of poisoning him. I too have auditory and visual hallucinations but not the episodes thank god. Hallucinations are not the problem it’s the godamm delusions. My father’s schizophrenia is the worst one and he found my mom. I am 1000% positive you will find yours as well.

  • @MDMarshidaKhanom
    @MDMarshidaKhanom 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I'm 17 but that's how (as you told)I am building me. It's amazing to know that girls tend to like what I also want to see in myself though it's not fully same yet most of your points are in me.

  • @nickthx1138
    @nickthx1138 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Its a numbers game. Just keep plowing through till u get the one

    • @DatingbyMarie
      @DatingbyMarie  14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks for your input! It's an interesting perspective, and you're right-persistence is key.

    • @nickthx1138
      @nickthx1138 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @ its also why people shouldn’t get disheartened every time dating doesn’t work out esp with online or blind dates as that’s even more random. Its not that often for that matter you even meet friends you really get on with super well…

  • @ILoveSoImAlive
    @ILoveSoImAlive 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    just a translation to people who wonder:
    women want leadership but not control - you should open opportunities and not close them in genral. my opinion, its not possible to have a relationship without control. so you need more like a healthy proportion of this 2 things. both partners do have expectations to the other part and need to know, if this expectations are met. its like with the job. employer wants to know that you did your job. he wants to know that you did your job well. otherwise he will not want to pay you for wasting his time and resources. same here. and women do understand that too, and they also want to control you in one or another way. some of them are appropriate, some are not. but if they refuse the control to you, its mostly a red flag. they either have something to hide, or they do not respect you. in both cases, if they do not submit and cooperate to your healthy control, that means they hide something. just let them go in that case. you are just a "temporary solution" to them. you might be the best thing that happend to them in their entire life, but they are just unable to value it. and they will not learn it also. so just go your way and find a healthier option.

  • @leonardostaffa
    @leonardostaffa 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    This type of video will never work, simply because one of the key things implied in mens atractiveness is their autenticity. If you're trying to learn how to behave in front of a woman, you already dont have any chance. Every quality that she describes "confidence, effort, treating other people well, managing self anger", it all has to do with a man being himself, not trying to be someone else.

  • @Stephenhendrys
    @Stephenhendrys 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Informative and insightful video. Thank you.

  • @ProJatior
    @ProJatior 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Confidence, effort and emotional security. You have to be pretty close to perfect to have these consistently though right? I mean I get what she’s saying but confidence needs to be backed up otherwise it’s fake. This is what confuses me about women wanting a confident guy especially at first but they also want honesty. If you want honesty I’ll just be awkward in front of you 😆

    • @ProJatior
      @ProJatior 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      This video does give really good advice but the whole confidence thing confounds me.

    • @DatingbyMarie
      @DatingbyMarie  6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Confidence comes from talking action, so it’s normal to not be the most confident man at the beginning but it will come naturally with practice ;)

  • @brettflower8058
    @brettflower8058 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    women putting this stuff out so the men they actually want to be with pursue them. over just going for the guy they want

  • @sergejstankovic2388
    @sergejstankovic2388 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Tounge piercing says it all !

  • @Anastasio777
    @Anastasio777 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    Thanks for the good tipps. Marie, all Beginning is difficult, good work you are doing, in 1-2 years you will have 200k Followers! Stay motivated! 😃

    • @DatingbyMarie
      @DatingbyMarie  29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you so much!

    • @garyhutton2654
      @garyhutton2654 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Anastasio777 how come I can do what I do because I am so good looking end of please I aint lying

  • @alexdenton6586
    @alexdenton6586 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    A lot of demands but women can’t offer that in return that’s the problem

  • @Lele756
    @Lele756 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Oh boy, you should teach this stuff at school. I wish i could have seen this before.

    • @DatingbyMarie
      @DatingbyMarie  14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you for your kind words! It means a lot that you found this information valuable. I'll keep sharing more insights!

  • @donaldjohnson-y6n
    @donaldjohnson-y6n 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    What do I want to do this weekend? Absolutely nothing.

  • @Marco-zm9xh
    @Marco-zm9xh 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    Bruh ain't nobody got time for this. Can anybody list the 17 alleged truths? I get the feeling it's likely not even accurate so don't want to continue watching.

    • @russell5244
      @russell5244 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Brother, Rest

    • @ROAltair10
      @ROAltair10 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      Its just clickbait. I get hamza vibes on almost every new content creator on yt. Heres the xyz things clickbait vids and then they sell their course or private calls

    • @Hasio-Maszkietnik
      @Hasio-Maszkietnik 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Hamza is soooo bullshit​@@ROAltair10

    • @Alexandru1996_
      @Alexandru1996_ 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Yeah, i agree. Clickbait. Like most things on youtube these days.

  • @johnspencer8268
    @johnspencer8268 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hello I'm new here thank you for sharing this video I love meeting new people men and women I feel lonely sometimes I need more love

  • @Disg_lion
    @Disg_lion 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    This is actually a buissness advertisement. Total BS.

  • @JohnSmith-ij4xe
    @JohnSmith-ij4xe 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Women want the new shiny thing. Once you are showing who you really are they no longer want you. The only way to keep her happy is if she’s in love with you or your the only guy that made her feel things that she never felt before(like a soul connection or better yet a twin soul connection). That doesn’t mean she will always stay but it just means the less work you’ll have to put in to keep her in love.

    • @DatingbyMarie
      @DatingbyMarie  6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      If they no longer want you when you’re showing who you are it can be for multiple reasons, she wants authenticity and you might have played a different personality to impress her, she liked the man you pretended to be but not your true self and you cannot blame her for that because you tricked her ;)

  • @shreyanshdas7481
    @shreyanshdas7481 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    It's so over for me

  • @davegrant7819
    @davegrant7819 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You look stunning in winter colours, blacks, cool bright colours. It’s unusual for people (including women!) to get this right but you do 😊

  • @KonradTamas
    @KonradTamas 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Great One, keep up the good work!

  • @techmingito3747
    @techmingito3747 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    All i can say is thanks dear

  • @Tasty-the-money
    @Tasty-the-money วันที่ผ่านมา

    I came here for the accent, stayed for the content. 👌👌

    • @DatingbyMarie
      @DatingbyMarie  22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      Love that !

  • @PointlessIFR
    @PointlessIFR 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    I thought I was just supposed to have a Camaro...

    • @kikimbrown
      @kikimbrown 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Will only work for women 20 years old and below 😂

    • @rollthers3157
      @rollthers3157 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      LOL! I hope you're enjoying it! 😎

  • @TheFuture36520
    @TheFuture36520 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yes certainly this is quite true and it baffles me for no good absolute reason.

  • @soraygoularssm8669
    @soraygoularssm8669 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Okay i understand you are new to TH-cam and I like your passion and content, You are so beautiful and probably not an English speaker, everything is fine but here is a tip to make better videos. Firstly I realized this is you reading a random article on the subject or bullet points from ChatGPT, to make it more engaging and keeping viewers, you should be authentic and real, meaning getting better at telling the story and script writing. Like tell them that you yourself as a woman like this and that, your friends agree with this and that, tell memories, reveal your thought pattern and stuff like this. The way you were talking I felt this is a video from a man, no grily feedback here. You should take advantage of being a girl and being beautiful this way you could connect with the viewers at a deeper level if your scripts and story telling is better, like myself if I saw an authentic video from you, I'd be like yeah she's a woman so it must be true, but this way I realized you were only reading from an article or something and you only want to get views and followers but not put the effort in to make it realistic

  • @Leeam-o4g
    @Leeam-o4g 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    This all seems to make logical sense to me, I don't think it'd be easy for me to change certain habits though. 😂

  • @MrJeanBaguette
    @MrJeanBaguette 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Moving head every single word with high pitch voice lol this is almost a parody ❤️

  • @Mainlythingswithwheels
    @Mainlythingswithwheels 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    this is all common sense to me tbf

  • @ginarae5739
    @ginarae5739 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    1:1 Tuition sounds goood..!! on proviso there's a practical in the 'Sports Department'..?? 🎉

  • @rollthers3157
    @rollthers3157 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    What this woman is saying is completely true.

  • @TheMidnightdemon
    @TheMidnightdemon 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I was surprised to hear, that women in general are drawn to leadership!
    Personally I thought, it depends: Either the woman likes it, if the man takes charge OR the woman likes to decide on her own OR she wants them both decide together on something.
    I thought this would be more dependent on the type of personality the woman has.
    Also speaking of personality: You can´t always expect every man to take charge!
    Yes, I´m often insecure, but sometimes I just need to take my time to decide.
    And I think, that this is dependent on personality-type as well. :)

    • @DatingbyMarie
      @DatingbyMarie  3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yes women love a man who's confident and take the lead and no worries this is something you can work on ;)

  • @JacobHill-b2d
    @JacobHill-b2d 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Another big thing is knowing when you're ready to add a relationship to your life, and what you want out of a relationship. If you're still trying to find a sense of self (your trademark), you probably should stay single. You should know who you are as a single person in every possible respect. Who are you professionally, personally, spiritually, morally, and sexually. If you get into a relationship, make sure you know yourself first; this will protect you from manipulation and toxic people. Sometimes people aren't toxic, but the relationship is definitely toxic, so try to be mature about any unpleasant break-ups.

  • @tetrgonofficial1074
    @tetrgonofficial1074 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    if you did those things u'll be perfect😂 like what?! hahhahaah

    • @DatingbyMarie
      @DatingbyMarie  3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      One thing at a time, I'm not asking men to change everything overnight, the idea is to improve a bit every day in order to succeed in life (including dating) ;)

  • @johnarulraj9436
    @johnarulraj9436 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It’s easier to become a ceo then throwing the credit cards on her face to spend my money and leave me in peace while I focus on work ❤

  • @bintube5269
    @bintube5269 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Hello 👋

  • @willkenway
    @willkenway 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Great video, thanks Marie!

    • @DatingbyMarie
      @DatingbyMarie  3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Glad it was helpful!

  • @DulaZ
    @DulaZ 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I hope you find what you are looking for because you definitely shouldn’t be giving out these secrets. Thank you, look out dating world the beast has awakened 😅

  • @jaspergabriels8933
    @jaspergabriels8933 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    how to make her feel safe and comfortable to meet

  • @murranz
    @murranz 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Where are you from?

    • @DatingbyMarie
      @DatingbyMarie  26 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Belgium 🇧🇪

    • @rollthers3157
      @rollthers3157 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@DatingbyMarie That's so cool! I've always wanted to visit there.

    • @jumemowery1050
      @jumemowery1050 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Belgium!! Nice. When I lived in France. We used to jokes about the Belgians just like Americans tell Pollock jokes.

  • @garyhutton2654
    @garyhutton2654 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    Bullshit looks are the foremost and end of. Let's keep it real

    • @captainalex157
      @captainalex157 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Nah bro, plenty of fat poor dudes with attractive GFs. Charisma and healthy masculinity is the most important thing.

    • @sopronunciareglignocchi7255
      @sopronunciareglignocchi7255 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@captainalex157
      There's no such thing as 'unhealthy' masculinity.

    • @garyhutton2654
      @garyhutton2654 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@captainalex157 hi seriously get with it please

    • @faizissa8617
      @faizissa8617 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@captainalex157 money

  • @jaguarandi2
    @jaguarandi2 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I hear coaching sessions I move on to the next video.

  • @forgetaboutit192
    @forgetaboutit192 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Write them out

  • @thomasg627
    @thomasg627 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    There is no confusion if you only know a few things.
    Most important the times when rich old men would marry pennyless young girls are over, nowadays these men want a short term casual thing, nothing more and therefore the times for gold digging girls are over as well, they can't get money out of rich men anymore.
    There will be a few rare exceptions from this, but those are too few to be mentioned. There are quite a few cases where men with some money believe they are rich enough to provide for a woman and those usually become the victims of the gold diggers who cannot find a really rich man and are lowering their goal a bit downwards, repeating the same a few times in a row, because 5 times 200k is a million as well, so that's not an option either.
    The times when religious men were able to force women into doing whatever the man wants while divorce wasn't an option are over as well.
    That leaves people who are looking for a long term stable relationship with just one option and that's equal rights all the way.
    Same education, same status, same income, that's the basis.
    After that you check other important factors for a relationship, when those are a match as well you've got a pretty good chance to live happily ever after and your list of 17 truths has been automatically excluded on the way.

  • @domdom-999
    @domdom-999 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Where are you from Marie?

  • @patrickplummer1027
    @patrickplummer1027 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Marie Rules!

  • @ReyesRP
    @ReyesRP 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Because what men want doesn’t matter right?

    • @DatingbyMarie
      @DatingbyMarie  3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I'm a dating coach for men not female ;)

  • @DrNauseous
    @DrNauseous 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Маша, это конечно всё хорошо, естественно нельзя грубить хамить и все прочее. но я давно перестал обращать внимание на то что девчонки говорят хотят, тк у вас всех на уме одно, говорите другое, а делаете вообще 3-е. нет, не потому что 'плохие', нет конечно ) а просто потому что вы девчонки, вы ветрянные, и на самом деле сами понятия не имеете что хотите.
    как говорил мудрый А.С.Пушкин "Чем меньше женщину мы любим, тем больше нравимся мы ей". короче заниматься надо собой, своим ростом, своими целями... а девушка появится когда судьба решит. и делать какой-то специальный эффорт в дейтинге вообще нет смысла.

  • @ali_youtube_user_7351
    @ali_youtube_user_7351 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    Totally disagree

    • @kamilvidal785
      @kamilvidal785 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Womp womp, I agree but its okay, she is talking about “girls psicology” in general.

  • @grandpascuba
    @grandpascuba 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Women value confidence, effort and emotional security… but money trumps everything.

    • @DatingbyMarie
      @DatingbyMarie  6 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Money is important but it doesn’t make everything and it’s really important to understand this. Many men use the excuse to not have money or enough money to not take action but it should actually motivate you to work on your social skills and also on what you can offer to your future wife ;)

  • @johnwarren8032
    @johnwarren8032 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Hi Marie,
    Thanks, good video, with some good advice but it probably too soft for the US audience . Modern US culture has a much harder edge. In the US, you should treat relationships with women like 'at will' employment relationships. A man should think like he is the boss of a fast food restaurant (McDonalds!) dealing with an unreliable employee. You don't need to be an a**hole boss, and you should treat her fairly, but you have to let her know who is in charge and not get taken advantage of by her and be willing to fire her fast if she doesn't respect the you or the job she is there to do..
    1) A woman will get with you and stay with you only if you are her best option (highest SMV male). Otherwise she will come up a reason to not get with you or to leave the relationship with you if you are already in one together.
    2) A woman will delay getting with you and delay sex with you to look around for a better offer (higher SMV man) as long as possible unless the opportunity to get with you is time-limited. The best way to enforce a time-limit is if there are other women ready to get with you and remove you as an option for her.
    3) A woman in a relationship will manipulate you and exploit you to the max unless she sees you have the option to replace her with a woman of equal or higher SMV. If she sees you have the option to replace her and are serious about acting on it keeping you satisfied will be a priority for her. Otherwise it won't.
    4) A woman won't give you any real sympathy or understanding or favors. Women are built for deep bonding and sympathy with eachother and with children. Men who want this from women are acting like children and need to grow up. Women can provide valuable services in a man's life. They deserve respect for it. But they'll only do so if they understand that man is a boss. They also need to understand THAT SEX IS A NONNEGOTIABLE PART OF THE JOB OR YOU WILL GET IT ELSEWHERE. Love your kid(s), save your deep conversations for your guy friends or relatives, and don't feel any remorse if you have to get a side chick or engage a sex worker at the times when your main partner is not meeting expectations. And dump her without a second thought if she has earned it.
    In the US, you're the boss dealing with an unreliable employee. Treat her fairly but don't get manipulated. It's that simple.

    • @Grancigul
      @Grancigul 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Either you are jaded and had experiences that skewed your perspective or the dating situation in america is broken beyond repair. I dont even know whats worse.
      Surely tho, your insights are limited to coastal urban centers, USA is the size of a continent and has around 150 million women, i cant imagine it is this bad everywhere.
      Whatever the case, if you need to treat your gf as an unreliable employee to keep the relationship going, i recommend going celebate or gay because from what i see you get all the cons and none of the pros in a relationship, if you want sex there are pleanty of sluts and hookers for that

    • @johnwarren8032
      @johnwarren8032 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Grancigul Thanks. This is the reality of US dating and modern women's expectations. US has exported its relationship model to much of the world and it is hard to get away from it. So learn it, live it love it!
      I don't get your recommendation, though. We men can get sex, childbirthing, childcare, and housework out of these arrangements with modern women. Valuable services, with enormous market value. Nothing to sneeze at. There is no love, with US (and most Western) women, but feminism killed it long ago. That is why I say to meet your deeper needs for emotional and spiritual connection elsewhere.
      I don't know anything about being gay or celibate so I can't comment.
      Yes, sex workers provide important services, and they should be respected and treated fairly. Don't use language that denigrates or abuses sex workers, please.

  • @lassiluoma7701
    @lassiluoma7701 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    What is remaining about man's leadership or confirence, if man follows all of her truths? In fact, how could it be even possible, a woman to teach man, and still simultaneusly, the man's leadership could exist?

  • @manmeet-ux1fy
    @manmeet-ux1fy 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    your voice is same as my teacher

  • @budaibence720
    @budaibence720 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I think in a relationship each people should do things equally or more dynamically, leading should be doin by both.

  • @dr4g0n76
    @dr4g0n76 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Why do so many people use vocal fry nowadays?

  • @Angemell
    @Angemell 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What a beautiful closing sentence...

  • @meme-ei3yq
    @meme-ei3yq 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Micromanaging lol❤😅

  • @dtructin
    @dtructin 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Do all of these and according to another youtube psichologist, she will lose interest in you pretty quick. Sorry, but girls dont like the “perfect” man..
    Now, my point of view is that some of the things you mentioned apply both ways.
    What really annoys me is that most of the times, the girls/women you date, marry etc, at some point they will try to change you, they want to succeed through you. Women are aces when it comes to manipulation. They dont want whats best for you, but whats best for them (and im not talking about money, but about “needs”). And this is dangerous because they will have unrealistic expectations from the man. This is the point when relationships break. When she starts feeling that she can do better, she deserves better (even if in reality most of the times she doesnt). This is the bigges flaw in a woman’s mindset

    • @DatingbyMarie
      @DatingbyMarie  3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      This is the exact mindset you have to have to not succeed in your dating life congrats ;)

  • @mdtapilatu
    @mdtapilatu 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Sorry these are women's frame works not a man. We don't hone ourself to be the best version only later on to be dictated to superficial women's fantasy. Its as easy as are you authentic and stable or not period

  • @superheroAnnie
    @superheroAnnie 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Если он контролирует, значит ему важна ты. Хотя конечно в пределах разумного.
    Ибо нет смысла контролировать человека который хочет идти в клуб

  • @Iam.eshunn
    @Iam.eshunn 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I agree. Authenticity and integrity is key to be an attractive man

    • @little_lord_tam
      @little_lord_tam 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Can confirm, its by far not enough

  • @sharonlima8913
    @sharonlima8913 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Tell me about yourself 。⁠◕⁠‿⁠◕⁠。

  • @official_baan
    @official_baan 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    But I have seen women attracted to bad boys 😢

  • @nitshian
    @nitshian 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wow someone doesn't take the critic that well ha!

  • @grzegorzbrzeczyszczykiewic897
    @grzegorzbrzeczyszczykiewic897 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i was setting boundaries with all respect, i was always for her, i was funny, i was a good lover, i did all of the thinkg yet it was not enough, yo kings i have advice for yall - date but dont think about her as a wifey material, its always not enough and no matter how hard you try and how much effort you put in, its always not enogh
    be true to yourself, respect yourself, put yourself on pedestal not her, be for yourself not for her, your grind and you true yourself will always be there for you
    stay safe kings

  • @JMSLionheart
    @JMSLionheart 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Don't listen the lies xD you will never know what women really want. Cause they don't even know themselves what they want.

  • @aaaa-y8j5n
    @aaaa-y8j5n 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    another online dating 'expert' lol
    what are her qualifications for giving out advice?
    Has she been successfully married for 25+ years and still going strongg? THAT's about the only qualification I acknowledge.
    Calling a bunch of failed relationships 'dating experience' is like calling a bunch of car crashes 'driving experience'

  • @michaelhasse2568
    @michaelhasse2568 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Only 17

    • @DatingbyMarie
      @DatingbyMarie  6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I’m not saying men should implement all at once don’t worry ahah but it’s important to start bit by bit to see the improvements in your dating life ;)

  • @algirdasliutkevicius5102
    @algirdasliutkevicius5102 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Advices are great. But never do anything to get a woman. Never change for women to like you. Change for yourself and women will come.
    To listen to these advices and then change because you want women is a misery. You will just become a professional simp.
    Motivation for change always should be you. If you change, change for yourself.

  • @vllegalize23
    @vllegalize23 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Very well pointed! With commonsense and intelligence. Don’t worry about the bad comments around here. It takes some time, especially for the man to make all these steps, to open as you mentioned.but no one teaches us usually what’s real masculinity and much more , what’s the real consistency of a woman, the one that we should constantly adore.
    And yes. Didn’t look on your channel yet if you have any video about what means to be an harmonious woman , but I hope you’ll make one.
    And..would you like to come on a date with me? I come for you , wherever you are, of course.😅🤗🥰🔱

    • @DatingbyMarie
      @DatingbyMarie  6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Ahah the dating coach is taken

    • @vllegalize23
      @vllegalize23 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ i was expecting that of course:))) please make a video also about how to overcome gelousy, attachments, possessivety and what fidelity means. I’m curious where do you thing there are some limits in a relationship, if there are any

  • @sajalzz82
    @sajalzz82 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    just read the book models by mark manson , really matches with ur stuff

  • @flavio888
    @flavio888 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Gold 🪙🪙🪙🪙🪙

  • @somenuttysquirrel
    @somenuttysquirrel 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ..............I can't tell if she has an accent, or her tongue ring is causing her to slur her words x'D

    • @DatingbyMarie
      @DatingbyMarie  6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I’m from Belgium so it’s definitely my accent ahah

  • @luker1hutcher315
    @luker1hutcher315 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I love the way she says 'meecro man aj -eeng' Its so cute! (Mircomanaging). And the auto subtitles said "because he owns every WOMB (room) he enters in !!" Thats rather unintentionally explicit and funny! Some great tips all round. Its so hard to find the balance though..........you make too much effort..show too much interest....you come across like shes your everything.......... (she doesnt want to be that!)............not enough, and it seems like you don't care (or maybe you're just focused on yourself more, as a man should who's constantly growing)

    • @TheMusicGuyPL
      @TheMusicGuyPL 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Exactly. 😎😉😄😆 I agree with you that balancing it all is not an easy task... I guess it boils down to authenticity from both potential partners. If both sides are authentic within themselves and towards each other, then it is easier to just go with the flow and see if you are compatible or not necessarily. 😎😉

  • @jasonfanclub4267
    @jasonfanclub4267 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I want bookmarks

  • @desert_flight
    @desert_flight 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    love the tongue piercing, lol

  • @Suli-248
    @Suli-248 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    nice dialect where are you from?

  • @davidt9428
    @davidt9428 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    No thanks.

  • @yousoufgoollamkader7678
    @yousoufgoollamkader7678 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    You look so cute

    • @alansun70
      @alansun70 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yes. Maybe females do better looking over time.

  • @nsp74
    @nsp74 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    טיפים מצוינים

  • @TrueHunter999
    @TrueHunter999 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You need a master's degree at this point to get a woman that's worth her value

    • @DatingbyMarie
      @DatingbyMarie  6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      No just the willingness to take actions and see results

    • @Hasio-Maszkietnik
      @Hasio-Maszkietnik 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Master's degree and a load of money

  • @Tiggerrr-g1r
    @Tiggerrr-g1r หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    meow meow meow meow very cute 😊😊🙈🙈

  • @Mikhail_Ganchenko
    @Mikhail_Ganchenko 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yet another woman educating men how we must live. Ha ha

  • @LevLandau3
    @LevLandau3 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    In case it helps someone with confidence, when a woman tests you no matter how hard the test is, they're exploring your personality, and they're interested at some level whether they admit it or not. So appreciate the test, and be the best man you can be

    • @pablop9157
      @pablop9157 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      For real? When she flirts with another guy in front of you, it is just she trying to test your confidence? Bullsh1t, this test is she trying to see how domesticated and well-spirited you are, to see if she can "keep an eye" on "better options" while with you, the gape-filler, the soon-to-be substituted or the consolation prize she couldn't replace because nothing better came out.