I think the best part of this, is making me realize my slow loves are my friends the people that have always been there for me. It just reestablished for me that love isn’t always “love” but has many forms. Thank you for the vid it helps during these tough times
Thank you for giving my video a chance! 🍀 I can remember the moment I realized I had love for my friends. Life became so much less lonelier. It’s so easy to label yourself as lonely when you’re single but I stopped feeling “single” after I realized I have love. Real love. Of course romantic endeavors will still have to be met with another but I am no longer in a rush. I am so grateful my video helped your darker days 💕 you yourself are a light 💡 embrace the romance and let’s keep loving!!
I have watched a few videos around this topic but this one resonated with me. The balanced meal and rope/bow analogies are so good. Thank you for taking the time to make this and be vulnerable to share!
slow love is the way to go! i’m currently dating a guy right now and we’ve been dating for almost 3 months, and it’s so funny how we’re taking our time to get to know each other and spend time together. we’re slowly meeting each others friends too, he sleeps over couple times a week, and we’re both starting to see all the different sides of each other yet we’re still together haha. there’s not necessarily a dependence too bc we go out about with our days, go to work, hang out with our own friends, and then see each other when we can. idk i feel like we both have some sort of emotional maturity and idk i haven’t dated someone in 3 years so im not used to this ?? but it’s great, doesn’t feel too complicated, and i like where things are going :-)
wow this was so eye opening. i’m starting to date my friend of 2 years now and we kinda have both slow & fast love. now that we realized we’re such a good match, we’re going a little crazy and moving a bit fast. it’s probably a good idea to step back and take it nice & easy.
Same here! But I'm experiencing slow love rn, the first mth was fast love but now we're busy with our lives but we still keep in touch and talk or text whenever we can...
I dated a girl for the first time this summer. ironically, the first date was to a bookstore. I went way to fast and she broke it off, even though we had great chemistry and got along really well. I was going for a fast love and looking to hide all of my insecurities and lack of discipline in a relationship.
It came across my mind when you mentioned a beautiful bow tie versus a shipping tie. Both can be beautiful. A bow tie is made of silk and LOOKS beautiful and yet fragile (doesn't matter how slow or fast we tie, in the end the same results), versus a shipping tie which LOOKS normal yet strong when it takes time to tie it down, and that's where the beauty is deep down on the inside (the quality and the function). Exciting type of content I just came across in my feed. Thank you for easy digesting daily bread.
Thank u for such a calming video! I think this video really made me evaluate my friendships; i’ve grown more open and confident the past year and its led me to trying a lot of new things and meeting new people. I sometimes feel like rushing that connection and just going head first into spending more time with them, “forcing” the deeper and vulnerable conversations. I also noticed that the people i meet nowadays probably see the more confident and secure version of me, but a lot of my high school and early college friends have seen me at my vulnerable, stressed, anxious, and insecure moments. And thats just the nature of building and maintaining long lasting bonds! The beautiful part of staying friends from an early age is seeing multiple versions of each other in so many stages of life, especially the young adult years😓😅 Time is something we never have enough of and are always racing against, and that sorta applies to new friends and connections as well. The people we meet later in life are seeing this current version of ourselves after the length of time has allowed us to grow and evolve. And thats also quite beautiful, but it doesn’t give the full picture of a person, and it just simply takes time and patience to build a strong relationship foundation. Sometimes its sad knowing people dont want to have that patience, but i wonder if social media and the perception of “the next best thing” just makes people want to move on quicker. Im rambling but thanks for this video! I really liked it and now have some material to journal😆
Thank you so much for giving my video a chance! What wonderful news to hear you have been more comfortable with yourself and experiencing the light of life 🌟 People will always see different versions of ourselves because we live through to many deaths of ourselves. WOW your statement of "the full picture of a person" is true. Someone will only see one brush stroke of a singular color when first meeting you. It does take a curiosity on their part and openness on yours for both to see the full painting. In terms of social media, i'm curious to hear more about your viewpoint on that question. I love the rambles! Thank you so much for watching and commenting. It is truly an honor to have been featured in a journal entry. 🌷I hope to continue seeing your name in my notifications. Sending you peace.
I love this video, thank you so much for sharing these insights so honestly! I've always been a "fast love" kind of person, and I think I'm experiencing slow love for the first time in my life. At times I feel afraid that the person might disappear because the pace is so slow, but, no matter how long it takes, she always returns, and that's something I'm learning to appreciate. It's my own anxiety about checking boxes--by this time we have to be this, and by this age I need to have done that, etc.--that has been weighing me down. Your video made me realize that it might be a good thing to be experiencing something that I never have before. Time and trust might show me a more beautiful story than I have ever seen, if only I have the patience to keep listening! Also, I subscribed! Looking forward to more of your wisdom Lucy!
Just came across your video today!!,and I felt in love with your channel not really about the niche but your voice is so calm and it's like a therapy to my ears ❤❤now you got a subi😂
Thank you so much for giving my channel a chance! I'd like to explore topics outside of love so PLEASE let me know what you would be interested in listening to!! I'd love to make a video about it 🌷🌟
Lucy, you came into my recommended videos at such a great time. I feel like every new vid I get some kore answers and some more feelings of related understanding. Like I have a friend who is conversing with me. Thank you. Looking forward to seeing more :)
I didn't know that when I talked to crushes or tried dating, that I didn't really know that I wasn't taking it slow, but more so rushing into what you called fast love. Yes I get anxious when it comes to liking someone, but I have noticed, that usually when I allow myself to become too self aware and lead it to overthinking in my hopeless romantic mind, I end up showing too much of myself too quickly and exasperate the interest of her or just put eachother in overwhelming situations. I find this video funny timing. I'm glad I'm not alone in this lol.
Thank you for giving my video a chance! I am grateful I can shed some light on topics you'd discuss with a friend. If there's any question you'd be curious my answer would be, let me know!🌷 I'd love to make a video about it :)))
This is a wonderful analysis of how you showcase yourself when falling in love. I too, used to show so much of my heart so quickly. I think it stems from deeply wanting to be heard and known. But after I developed friendships and accumulated a wonderful support system (friend group) who do hear and know me, I didn't feel the need to spill so much of soul with potential romantic partners. This is just a response of my experience. Does it help? 🌷🌟
stumbled on your channel again and man oh man do I love it, so thankful my fyp recommended this. your voice and the whole vibe is just so so poetic and beautiful )
Thank you so much for returning! 🌟I too, am grateful for your algorithm's guidance. Please let me know if there's anything you'd want me to talk about. I'd love to make a video about it! 🌷 sending you peace.
I have tried countless times to go on dates with people who I met somewhere whether it be at a bar or a dating app and every time I cannot seem to get past the talking stage or even set up the date. It's the same damn vicious cycle. Where I live, it's a small town and there really isn't any youth. I go to the city and I don't always get to go to the places I want all the time because I live far away from the city. So I come to conclude that the only way to meet someone you want to have a relationship with is through fate and not a connection built overtime. I wish things were a constructed connection and not destiny.
Wow this must of been a divine timing I am experiencing fast love and maybe not best after cutting off an engagement with someone with a man for a year Now I’m talking to someone else but it’s gone way way to quick
Listen to your gut! It's always talking and sending us alarms, but sometimes it's voice can be hushed if we haven't given it the proper chances to be heard 🌟i'm rooting for you and sending you peace!🌷
Thank you for being such a wonderful supporter🌟! I am in no rush to find my person, I believe life will present us to each other when it is right. Thank you for the kind wishes! Sending you peace🌷
I think the best part of this, is making me realize my slow loves are my friends the people that have always been there for me. It just reestablished for me that love isn’t always “love” but has many forms. Thank you for the vid it helps during these tough times
Thank you for giving my video a chance! 🍀 I can remember the moment I realized I had love for my friends. Life became so much less lonelier. It’s so easy to label yourself as lonely when you’re single but I stopped feeling “single” after I realized I have love. Real love. Of course romantic endeavors will still have to be met with another but I am no longer in a rush. I am so grateful my video helped your darker days 💕 you yourself are a light 💡 embrace the romance and let’s keep loving!!
I have watched a few videos around this topic but this one resonated with me. The balanced meal and rope/bow analogies are so good. Thank you for taking the time to make this and be vulnerable to share!
slow love is the way to go! i’m currently dating a guy right now and we’ve been dating for almost 3 months, and it’s so funny how we’re taking our time to get to know each other and spend time together. we’re slowly meeting each others friends too, he sleeps over couple times a week, and we’re both starting to see all the different sides of each other yet we’re still together haha. there’s not necessarily a dependence too bc we go out about with our days, go to work, hang out with our own friends, and then see each other when we can. idk i feel like we both have some sort of emotional maturity and idk i haven’t dated someone in 3 years so im not used to this ?? but it’s great, doesn’t feel too complicated, and i like where things are going :-)
I will continue to love love no matter how rarely I see it, love abounds. ❤
wow this was so eye opening. i’m starting to date my friend of 2 years now and we kinda have both slow & fast love. now that we realized we’re such a good match, we’re going a little crazy and moving a bit fast. it’s probably a good idea to step back and take it nice & easy.
Same here! But I'm experiencing slow love rn, the first mth was fast love but now we're busy with our lives but we still keep in touch and talk or text whenever we can...
I dated a girl for the first time this summer. ironically, the first date was to a bookstore. I went way to fast and she broke it off, even though we had great chemistry and got along really well. I was going for a fast love and looking to hide all of my insecurities and lack of discipline in a relationship.
It came across my mind when you mentioned a beautiful bow tie versus a shipping tie. Both can be beautiful. A bow tie is made of silk and LOOKS beautiful and yet fragile (doesn't matter how slow or fast we tie, in the end the same results), versus a shipping tie which LOOKS normal yet strong when it takes time to tie it down, and that's where the beauty is deep down on the inside (the quality and the function). Exciting type of content I just came across in my feed. Thank you for easy digesting daily bread.
Thank u for such a calming video! I think this video really made me evaluate my friendships; i’ve grown more open and confident the past year and its led me to trying a lot of new things and meeting new people. I sometimes feel like rushing that connection and just going head first into spending more time with them, “forcing” the deeper and vulnerable conversations.
I also noticed that the people i meet nowadays probably see the more confident and secure version of me, but a lot of my high school and early college friends have seen me at my vulnerable, stressed, anxious, and insecure moments. And thats just the nature of building and maintaining long lasting bonds! The beautiful part of staying friends from an early age is seeing multiple versions of each other in so many stages of life, especially the young adult years😓😅 Time is something we never have enough of and are always racing against, and that sorta applies to new friends and connections as well. The people we meet later in life are seeing this current version of ourselves after the length of time has allowed us to grow and evolve. And thats also quite beautiful, but it doesn’t give the full picture of a person, and it just simply takes time and patience to build a strong relationship foundation. Sometimes its sad knowing people dont want to have that patience, but i wonder if social media and the perception of “the next best thing” just makes people want to move on quicker.
Im rambling but thanks for this video! I really liked it and now have some material to journal😆
Thank you so much for giving my video a chance! What wonderful news to hear you have been more comfortable with yourself and experiencing the light of life 🌟
People will always see different versions of ourselves because we live through to many deaths of ourselves. WOW your statement of "the full picture of a person" is true. Someone will only see one brush stroke of a singular color when first meeting you. It does take a curiosity on their part and openness on yours for both to see the full painting.
In terms of social media, i'm curious to hear more about your viewpoint on that question.
I love the rambles! Thank you so much for watching and commenting. It is truly an honor to have been featured in a journal entry. 🌷I hope to continue seeing your name in my notifications. Sending you peace.
I love this video, thank you so much for sharing these insights so honestly! I've always been a "fast love" kind of person, and I think I'm experiencing slow love for the first time in my life. At times I feel afraid that the person might disappear because the pace is so slow, but, no matter how long it takes, she always returns, and that's something I'm learning to appreciate. It's my own anxiety about checking boxes--by this time we have to be this, and by this age I need to have done that, etc.--that has been weighing me down. Your video made me realize that it might be a good thing to be experiencing something that I never have before. Time and trust might show me a more beautiful story than I have ever seen, if only I have the patience to keep listening!
Also, I subscribed! Looking forward to more of your wisdom Lucy!
i''ve been in a relationship for a year now and this video really gave me a new perspective on things. thank you :)
I glad I found this video
This generation doesn’t know what love is it’s just lust
Hopefully we can be the ones to change that 🌷
Sadly most of the people just wanna hock up.
scarily perfect timing
good video lucy - currently experiencing a slow love type situation and its been everything i want and more 😃 hopefully it continues!!
Just came across your video today!!,and I felt in love with your channel not really about the niche but your voice is so calm and it's like a therapy to my ears ❤❤now you got a subi😂
Thank you so much for giving my channel a chance! I'd like to explore topics outside of love so PLEASE let me know what you would be interested in listening to!! I'd love to make a video about it 🌷🌟
Happy to have been your first like ☺️, such an excellently crafted video
Thank you so much for giving my video a chance! I appreciate your like and i appreciate you! You yourself are a light🌷💡
Lucy, you came into my recommended videos at such a great time. I feel like every new vid I get some kore answers and some more feelings of related understanding. Like I have a friend who is conversing with me. Thank you. Looking forward to seeing more :)
I didn't know that when I talked to crushes or tried dating, that I didn't really know that I wasn't taking it slow, but more so rushing into what you called fast love. Yes I get anxious when it comes to liking someone, but I have noticed, that usually when I allow myself to become too self aware and lead it to overthinking in my hopeless romantic mind, I end up showing too much of myself too quickly and exasperate the interest of her or just put eachother in overwhelming situations. I find this video funny timing. I'm glad I'm not alone in this lol.
Thank you for giving my video a chance! I am grateful I can shed some light on topics you'd discuss with a friend. If there's any question you'd be curious my answer would be, let me know!🌷 I'd love to make a video about it :)))
This is a wonderful analysis of how you showcase yourself when falling in love. I too, used to show so much of my heart so quickly. I think it stems from deeply wanting to be heard and known. But after I developed friendships and accumulated a wonderful support system (friend group) who do hear and know me, I didn't feel the need to spill so much of soul with potential romantic partners. This is just a response of my experience. Does it help? 🌷🌟
stumbled on your channel again and man oh man do I love it, so thankful my fyp recommended this. your voice and the whole vibe is just so so poetic and beautiful )
Thank you so much for returning! 🌟I too, am grateful for your algorithm's guidance. Please let me know if there's anything you'd want me to talk about. I'd love to make a video about it! 🌷 sending you peace.
@@lucyvolume not any I have on mind rn but thanks, I'll keep that in mind, best wishes and love for you
Thank you so much for this video
I have tried countless times to go on dates with people who I met somewhere whether it be at a bar or a dating app and every time I cannot seem to get past the talking stage or even set up the date. It's the same damn vicious cycle.
Where I live, it's a small town and there really isn't any youth. I go to the city and I don't always get to go to the places I want all the time because I live far away from the city.
So I come to conclude that the only way to meet someone you want to have a relationship with is through fate and not a connection built overtime. I wish things were a constructed connection and not destiny.
resonate w this shi hard luvd this
Thank you for giving my video a chance!! 🌷sending you peace 🌟
The sugar reference🥰🥰
Wow this must of been a divine timing I am experiencing fast love and maybe not best after cutting off an engagement with someone with a man for a year
Now I’m talking to someone else but it’s gone way way to quick
Listen to your gut! It's always talking and sending us alarms, but sometimes it's voice can be hushed if we haven't given it the proper chances to be heard 🌟i'm rooting for you and sending you peace!🌷
Just curious, why r u filming in a library?
beautiful
this is a scary video to get in the situation I'm in 😭
Not wrong, 6 month long distance with only 3 weeks in person we broke up if you couldn't guess
I hope you find that special person soon. 🌹
Maybe they’re in your life now and you don’t even know it 😅
Thank you for being such a wonderful supporter🌟! I am in no rush to find my person, I believe life will present us to each other when it is right. Thank you for the kind wishes! Sending you peace🌷
talk your shit grandma 🤍
Love does not exist. We are living in the downfall of society. This generation is that spearhead.