Hello from Ontario. The narcs are across the globe so weird the more I learn. So glad we have internets to get the proper education so we can thrive after narc abuse. ❤
You are so on the ball.🙏 My husband just gives me the death stare after I question how he could hurt someone he loves and claims to protect. I'd be crying and so emotionally distressed and still he will not say sorry but gives me the this very frightening stare. 😱
Thank you for explaining things step by step from this angle. It very much brings to clarity a dynamic that can be so confusing to the ‘victim’ so mind boggling. This is helpful
You said to say BB for an email? I'm interested in continuing my healing. It's because of finding you over 5 years ago, I got out of a terrible narcissistic relationship. Thank you for your videos! Keep up the good works.
Hi Gwen, I'm so pleased I could help with my work..congrats for where you are today! The link for my webinar is above in the description and I'll drop it for you here as well www.melanietoniaevans.com/beyond-broken So great you feel ready to keep healing and Thrive! ❤🦋
Amazing. I am a new Therapist incorporating your work for the last few years, turning victim into peace. Thank you, and yes I had a breakdown breakthrough and everything changed. xoxoxo
The best talk I've ever heard and from it I've become to understand what I couldn't before and wouldn't even conceive of knowing before, because I wasn't ready. I had to go through another narcissistic relationship and with someone very close to me and was blinded by. Thanks so much from my heart.
Absolutely I have seen those eyes! I also have wondered about demonic possession before I started doing NARP. This video resonated with me so much and I can’t tell you the relief I feel hearing this! ❤❤❤
Ego = Creature- focused on its own survival with no limits to satisfaction needed to be obtained to sustain themselves. Addicted to the survival of their own ego with no regard for anyone or anything and even feeds off of the negative results they create for others as they enjoy the ‘control, chaos, financial harm, etc etc. Best to only pay attention to their behavior- focus on what they do and not what they say. Ignore the creatures words. Deflect their words and do not internalize any of them. Keep focused on your plan to separate forever. Take care of business that is necessary and get past them so that at the conclusion of your business, relationship, marriage, etc you can walk away from them forever. They will not change- cannot change- are not healthy or safe to be around you or in your life. Be strong and do not be effected by their ‘creature features’. Watch and observe the horror movie you are actually living in and plan your REAL get away without ever giving any clues of what you are planning to do.
Yep. You didn't even meet me at the door. That was a clue her male co-workers weren't taking the bait. Funny now and funny then really. Not funny that patterns can keep any of us so very stunted. Especially a narcissist. It'll be your pattern and your fault everytime. These videos are very empowering at this stage in recovery. Thanks so much Melanie. Today's the brightest day yet in a month.
Could you do a video on narcissistic mother-law’s. I have gone no contact but eventually will have to see her and I know she will ask why no contact. Thank you for your videos, they are amazing.
Hi Melanie, Great video as always. I’d be really curious to hear your take on how adopted people can carry an abandonment wound that can translate to narcissism. I know this is a sensitive area but I had an aha moment where I realised that two of my former friends were definite narcs even though both had been adopted into loving families. I never realised this at the time but it’s screaming at me now!
I really do believe so much of trauma is epigenetic. What has been acquired through the dna of a family lineage. We could only imagine that the reason for a child coming into adoption would be traumatic many codependents have abandonment trauma. That is not specific to narcissism. I would suspect its what was passed on, whatever that was ... abuse ....substances ...poverty... criminality etc. ❤
@@MelanieToniaEvans interesting perspective. Thanks so much for that. I’m currently working on ancestral healing. There is definitely a lot of abandonment and self-abandonment in my family. My mother would treat me appallingly and yet when I left, she’d collapse in a heap and then start stalking me. Her logic ‘I’ll treat you like utter 💩 but don’t you dare ever leave me.’
BB- thanks to you I KNOW it’s possible to face the creatures and not cave in- but not meant to tarry w/ them either… requires a lot of psychology and planning but an end can be planned and the Thrive Will Survive- Believe It.
Yes dead eyes and complete cruelty. I’m free after 40 years! Thanks Mel!
So happy for you! Yay! You did it! ❤🎉
Hello from Ontario. The narcs are across the globe so weird the more I learn. So glad we have internets to get the proper education so we can thrive after narc abuse. ❤
Yes on a micro amd macro level narcissistic abuse exists Absolutely! ❤
Knowing what's going on is 70% of the battle. Knowing what supply is and know how they think keeps you from wondering if it's you.
Completely!
Chaos+ division
=
Power+ Acquisition
Current state of humanity sadly.
Always grateful for you Melanie🌹
I've seen those eyes!
I am watching you again after being off most narcissistic recovery with Dr Romini videos and Thrive on!
You are so on the ball.🙏 My husband just gives me the death stare after I question how he could hurt someone he loves and claims to protect. I'd be crying and so emotionally distressed and still he will not say sorry but gives me the this very frightening stare. 😱
Thank you for explaining things step by step from this angle. It very much brings to clarity a dynamic that can be so confusing to the ‘victim’ so mind boggling. This is helpful
YES. Yes, I've seen those eyes. Made my blood run cold.
You said to say BB for an email? I'm interested in continuing my healing.
It's because of finding you over 5 years ago, I got out of a terrible narcissistic relationship. Thank you for your videos! Keep up the good works.
Hi Gwen, I'm so pleased I could help with my work..congrats for where you are today! The link for my webinar is above in the description and I'll drop it for you here as well www.melanietoniaevans.com/beyond-broken So great you feel ready to keep healing and Thrive! ❤🦋
Amazing. I am a new Therapist incorporating your work for the last few years, turning victim into peace. Thank you, and yes I had a breakdown breakthrough and everything changed. xoxoxo
The best talk I've ever heard and from it I've become to understand what I couldn't before and wouldn't even conceive of knowing before, because I wasn't ready. I had to go through another narcissistic relationship and with someone very close to me and was blinded by. Thanks so much from my heart.
Absolutely I have seen those eyes! I also have wondered about demonic possession before I started doing NARP. This video resonated with me so much and I can’t tell you the relief I feel hearing this! ❤❤❤
I love that. I'm so happy for you. Mission accomplished by me! Sending many Blessings 🙌 ❤🦋
BB needed hope of recovery after recent total devastation. Looking forward to inner healing.
So grateful for your service - your doing gods work here ❤❤❤
Thank you for your lovely comment and support ❤️ 🦋
Thrive on! As there is nothing else to do….
Spot on lovely one! ❤🎉
Thrive on 💙
Beyond broken - excited to learn your program - lymbic & somatic inner work ……. Yes !!! Inside job !!!
Thank u very much. You really helped me understand what was going on my life
Yes absolutely.. every word is sooo true.. 😢
I love you so much, Melanie! ❤
Excellent summary, learnt so much!
Thrive on!
Thank you, Melanie! As always everything is very clear, it is like drinking a spring water😊 Resonating too much❤
So glad! You are very welcome! 💖🦋
Thrive on and upward
Ego = Creature- focused on its own survival with no limits to satisfaction needed to be obtained to sustain themselves. Addicted to the survival of their own ego with no regard for anyone or anything and even feeds off of the negative results they create for others as they enjoy the ‘control, chaos, financial harm, etc etc.
Best to only pay attention to their behavior- focus on what they do and not what they say. Ignore the creatures words.
Deflect their words and do not internalize any of them. Keep focused on your plan to separate forever. Take care of business that is necessary and get past them so that at the conclusion of your business, relationship, marriage, etc you can walk away from them forever. They will not change- cannot change- are not healthy or safe to be around you or in your life. Be strong and do not be effected by their ‘creature features’. Watch and observe the horror movie you are actually living in and plan your REAL get away without ever giving any clues of what you are planning to do.
Thrive On!
Yep. You didn't even meet me at the door. That was a clue her male co-workers weren't taking the bait. Funny now and funny then really. Not funny that patterns can keep any of us so very stunted. Especially a narcissist. It'll be your pattern and your fault everytime. These videos are very empowering at this stage in recovery. Thanks so much Melanie. Today's the brightest day yet in a month.
Could you do a video on narcissistic mother-law’s. I have gone no contact but eventually will have to see her and I know she will ask why no contact. Thank you for your videos, they are amazing.
Great suggestion! I may do so! Thank you and pleasure know how welcome you are 💖🦋
Thrive on
Love and missed Thriver TV 🤩🦋
It's good to be back! ❤🦋
Thriver on ❤
Thank you for the video! ❤
You are so welcome! 🦋💖
They care more about their self image than they care about their own minds, bodies and spirits let alone what damage they do to anyone else's
Visualisation exercises help, got a sore knee at the moment though😉
He blocked me and I blocked him too and never looked back. Feel sorry for the new supply because she has no idea who he is.
thank you you are so amazing and insightful ❤
It's my pleasure. Thank you for your comment ❤.🦋
Hi Melanie,
Great video as always.
I’d be really curious to hear your take on how adopted people can carry an abandonment wound that can translate to narcissism. I know this is a sensitive area but I had an aha moment where I realised that two of my former friends were definite narcs even though both had been adopted into loving families. I never realised this at the time but it’s screaming at me now!
I really do believe so much of trauma is epigenetic. What has been acquired through the dna of a family lineage. We could only imagine that the reason for a child coming into adoption would be traumatic many codependents have abandonment trauma. That is not specific to narcissism. I would suspect its what was passed on, whatever that was ... abuse ....substances ...poverty... criminality etc. ❤
@@MelanieToniaEvans interesting perspective. Thanks so much for that.
I’m currently working on ancestral healing. There is definitely a lot of abandonment and self-abandonment in my family. My mother would treat me appallingly and yet when I left, she’d collapse in a heap and then start stalking me. Her logic ‘I’ll treat you like utter 💩 but don’t you dare ever leave me.’
thrive on
Thrive On
you're lovely and smart. thank you
So nice of you 🦋💖
BB- thanks to you I KNOW it’s possible to face the creatures and not cave in- but not meant to tarry w/ them either… requires a lot of psychology and planning but an end can be planned and the Thrive Will Survive- Believe It.
Thats so great we'll done! If you would like the link to my free webinar, here it is ... www.melanietoniaevans.com/beyond-broken 🦋💖
Do you have a book?
You got Betty Davis eyes _ narky eyes
yes! Absolutely!!!!
Doctor Jeckle and Mr. Hide (on and off switch)
Love ❤️ from Ireland 🇮🇪
Thank you! Love back from Australia! ❤🦋
Lake Havasu City Arizona
Yes
yes
I'm in a castle surrounded by a voided moot _ bloody mary
Yessssssss
Ohio, USA
She speaks BEAUTIFUL English. What seems to be the issue?
❤
It's a twisted self.
Understatement of the decade!
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Beyond broken - excited to learn your program - lymbic & somatic inner work ……. Yes !!! Inside job !!!
Thrive on!
Thrive on
Thrive on ❤
Yes
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Beyond broken - excited to learn your program - lymbic & somatic inner work ……. Yes !!! Inside job !!!
Thrive on
Thrive on
Thrive on
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Here are the details for my free Beyond Broken webinar www.melanietoniaevans.com/beyond-broken 💖🦋
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Here is the details for the free Beyond Broken webinar www.melanietoniaevans.com/beyond-broken 💖🦋