Mine had an "angry ex-girlfriend"..always a bad sign...but was "good friends" with ex-wife, which threw me. She was on other side of the country tho, so... discovered later that he'd been stringing her along for 20 years, implying they might get back together.
Melanie thank you.. you are one of the people that opened my eyes to the narcissist and narcissm , you deserve a million followers and likes, keep the good work up, love ❤️ you
TIME FRAME Year 1: Love Bombing and promise of marriage. Years 2-7: Hoovering and promises to change every time I left Year 7: I left for umpteenth time, but this time moved across country 7 MONTHS after I left: Married to another person he met on-line. Not dating, not engaged, not living together. MARRIED. With "the big, beautiful diamond ring" that I never received...even after helping him through his career changes, his mother's cancer, her death, cleaning out her house...Basically "playing role of wife". Amazing how the hoovering suddenly ended once I was "geographically undesireable". What a great guy. 🙄
Count your blessings you got far away!!! You are strong and claiming your own power…that is awesome! They are truly parasites that cannot live or even truly care about anyone…. We were all just accessories to them ..nothing more
I needed to know this many years ago. I have been dealing with this for over 50 yrs. Here is how it will leave you. 78 yrs old in Sept, 6 months ago had a quadruple bypass and my aorta is at a 4.6cm in size. When the size gets to 5.0cm, it is opening up my chest again. I refuse that as a choice, so if I can keep the stress down will determine how long that I will live. I still get around, much better than most 60 year olds that I know. Still active, installed 2 air condition units a couple months ago. I could write a book on this subject.
It’s a dance we were taught to go along to get along….. I now focus on my heart and what’s healing with in me. Love you dear Woman Mel for helping me on my way🫶
The NARP program really helped me learn so much about myself and it has been over 5 years. I could not care less about that narcissist or who he is or isnt with! such a relief. These videos are great " touch ups" ... BTW: cute cheerful outfit Melanie.
I'm so thrilled NARP www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp has helped you so much! Glad you are enjoying TTV coming back. Grateful too for your lovely comment ❤
Thank you for explaining about the liberation I needed to hear. It has helped tremendously. Your words brought more healing and peace to my very being.
My ex of 11 yrs is now engaged to the new supply after he cheated but convinced himself he didn't. After a lot of pain and work, I'm back to myself!!!!!!
It was me then he took on a 5 year relationship (I had no idea) they broke up then it was me again we broke up now he is back with her. He told me she makes him feel good about himself.
My ex narc husband abandoned me leaving me with a child, now adult child with a disability. Almost 20 years and he’s still with the same supply, and doesn’t help financially with our son
I'd love the Intel on the narc I was dating when it ended he ran into a love relationship with his therapist and they are making their relationship very public! So sick. I wonder who is manipulating who!
Many therapists have fallen for n's. They believe the "it was ny ex who had all the issues" narrative and are love bombed and charmed. I've also had therapists this has happened too who have been n-abused come firward to start NARP healing. It's all the same pattern. Many therapists are wounded healers. Relief from this and healing from abusers requires self inner healing. ❤
The most important thing that I ever learned about narcissists is that they will never change. The take away is… Save yourself!
I agree, same for me
So true. Nobody changes behaviour unless they change beliefs. Ns don't believe they need to do inner reflection or change! ❤
I was the new supply. Found out he destroyed his ex. He didn't treat me any better.
Mine had an "angry ex-girlfriend"..always a bad sign...but was "good friends" with ex-wife, which threw me. She was on other side of the country tho, so... discovered later that he'd been stringing her along for 20 years, implying they might get back together.
Correct ... the same pattern over and over 😮
Melanie thank you.. you are one of the people that opened my eyes to the narcissist and narcissm , you deserve a million followers and likes, keep the good work up, love ❤️ you
Same here Linda, this program changed my life with awareness why I was attracting narcissists from my own place of over caring and neediness.
Thank you Linda I'm really happy my work has helped you. Much Love and many Blessings to you ❤
TIME FRAME
Year 1: Love Bombing and promise of marriage.
Years 2-7: Hoovering and promises to change every time I left
Year 7: I left for umpteenth time, but this time moved across country
7 MONTHS after I left: Married to another person he met on-line. Not dating, not engaged, not living together. MARRIED. With "the big, beautiful diamond ring" that I never received...even after helping him through his career changes, his mother's cancer, her death, cleaning out her house...Basically "playing role of wife". Amazing how the hoovering suddenly ended once I was "geographically undesireable". What a great guy. 🙄
I feel for ya. Similar situation here, but we can always do better and we did, right?
Count your blessings you got far away!!! You are strong and claiming your own power…that is awesome!
They are truly parasites that cannot live or even truly care about anyone…. We were all just accessories to them ..nothing more
I needed to know this many years ago. I have been dealing with this for over 50 yrs. Here is how it will leave you. 78 yrs old in Sept, 6 months ago had a quadruple bypass and my aorta is at a 4.6cm in size. When the size gets to 5.0cm, it is opening up my chest again. I refuse that as a choice, so if I can keep the stress down will determine how long that I will live. I still get around, much better than most 60 year olds that I know. Still active, installed 2 air condition units a couple months ago.
I could write a book on this subject.
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Yes... It's happening right now.
Thrive On
THRIVE ON.
🎉❤
It’s a dance we were taught to go along to get along….. I now focus on my heart and what’s healing with in me. Love you dear Woman Mel for helping me on my way🫶
You so have! Healed, survived, and then Thrived! Love you, Dear Nancy! 😘😘
The NARP program really helped me learn so much about myself and it has been over 5 years. I could not care less about that narcissist or who he is or isnt with! such a relief. These videos are great " touch ups" ... BTW: cute cheerful outfit Melanie.
I'm so thrilled NARP www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp has helped you so much! Glad you are enjoying TTV coming back. Grateful too for your lovely comment ❤
Thrive On! I appreciate your service to all humanity.
Thank you for explaining about the liberation I needed to hear. It has helped tremendously. Your words brought more healing and peace to my very being.
Thrive on!
Spot on Wisdom you shared here. Heal On Survivors & Thrivers
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Thrive on!🎉
My ex of 11 yrs is now engaged to the new supply after he cheated but convinced himself he didn't. After a lot of pain and work, I'm back to myself!!!!!!
Well done, sending you hugs and healing ❤
THRIVE ON 🎉❤😊
THRIVE ON❤
It was me then he took on a 5 year relationship (I had no idea) they broke up then it was me again we broke up now he is back with her. He told me she makes him feel good about himself.
My ex narc husband abandoned me leaving me with a child, now adult child with a disability. Almost 20 years and he’s still with the same supply, and doesn’t help financially with our son
Thrive on
❤🎉
My ex narc's new supply is more controllable than I was ...neither of them looked happy despite the act
Yes...literally chased him down the drive
And yes - they did it with me. I did not understand while it was happening.
I hope this has helped ❤
THRIVE ON!!!
Yes!!! ❤🎉
Ty so much for this episode!!!
It's my pleasure 🙏 ❤
Hands up
Thank you for this. ❤
I'd love the Intel on the narc I was dating when it ended he ran into a love relationship with his therapist and they are making their relationship very public! So sick. I wonder who is manipulating who!
Many therapists have fallen for n's. They believe the "it was ny ex who had all the issues" narrative and are love bombed and charmed. I've also had therapists this has happened too who have been n-abused come firward to start NARP healing. It's all the same pattern. Many therapists are wounded healers. Relief from this and healing from abusers requires self inner healing. ❤
Thrive on!! ❤
Yes!!! 🎉❤
I am so glad I learn about narcissism through Sam Vaknin . He is right about all coaches and specialists about narcissism.
Thrive
Thrive on🤩
Yes
Me. Hands up
Me
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Why do you even care?
The information helps people heal, especially from long term exposure to these toxic people. Ultimately, indifference comes with healing
Thrive on!
Thrive on
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