Why Does the Narcissist's New Supply Get Everything I Wanted | Thriver TV

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  • Narcissists come out of the same cookie-cutter!! (It's incredible how they MOSTLY do the same behavior!)
    Join me for an important LIVE about one of the most PAINFUL aspects of narcissistic abuse - and ONE of the most COMMON!
    Worse than discard, and even replacement …
    THIS …showering the NEW supply with what you wanted!
    Maybe this happened to you years ago, and it STILL hurts like hell … or you are going through this emotional torture now.
    Or, perhaps you are terrified of someone in the future getting the DREAM life you believed you could have with this person.
    If you relate to or know someone who is suffering from this, this is a must-watch Thriver TV episode!
    I trust you will gain great clarity, perspective, and relief!
    Love Mel ❤
    Experience trauma energy clearing to not just survive but Thrive after narcissistic abuse with my Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program™ melanietoniaeva...

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  • @taghazoutmoon5031
    @taghazoutmoon5031 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    I was the new supply. Found out he destroyed his ex. He didn't treat me any better.

    • @RC-eb5hq
      @RC-eb5hq 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Mine had an "angry ex-girlfriend"..always a bad sign...but was "good friends" with ex-wife, which threw me. She was on other side of the country tho, so... discovered later that he'd been stringing her along for 20 years, implying they might get back together.

    • @MelanieToniaEvans
      @MelanieToniaEvans  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Correct ... the same pattern over and over 😮

  • @Boyhowdy875
    @Boyhowdy875 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    The most important thing that I ever learned about narcissists is that they will never change. The take away is… Save yourself!

    • @ladyvirgo013
      @ladyvirgo013 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree, same for me

    • @MelanieToniaEvans
      @MelanieToniaEvans  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      So true. Nobody changes behaviour unless they change beliefs. Ns don't believe they need to do inner reflection or change! ❤

  • @lindaallotey6257
    @lindaallotey6257 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Melanie thank you.. you are one of the people that opened my eyes to the narcissist and narcissm , you deserve a million followers and likes, keep the good work up, love ❤️ you

    • @redredrubyred9
      @redredrubyred9 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same here Linda, this program changed my life with awareness why I was attracting narcissists from my own place of over caring and neediness.

    • @MelanieToniaEvans
      @MelanieToniaEvans  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you Linda I'm really happy my work has helped you. Much Love and many Blessings to you ❤

  • @RC-eb5hq
    @RC-eb5hq 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    TIME FRAME
    Year 1: Love Bombing and promise of marriage.
    Years 2-7: Hoovering and promises to change every time I left
    Year 7: I left for umpteenth time, but this time moved across country
    7 MONTHS after I left: Married to another person he met on-line. Not dating, not engaged, not living together. MARRIED. With "the big, beautiful diamond ring" that I never received...even after helping him through his career changes, his mother's cancer, her death, cleaning out her house...Basically "playing role of wife". Amazing how the hoovering suddenly ended once I was "geographically undesireable". What a great guy. 🙄

    • @Charleen-nb9yu
      @Charleen-nb9yu 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I feel for ya. Similar situation here, but we can always do better and we did, right?

    • @shebasan13
      @shebasan13 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Count your blessings you got far away!!! You are strong and claiming your own power…that is awesome!
      They are truly parasites that cannot live or even truly care about anyone…. We were all just accessories to them ..nothing more

  • @lesliejohnson9893
    @lesliejohnson9893 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I needed to know this many years ago. I have been dealing with this for over 50 yrs. Here is how it will leave you. 78 yrs old in Sept, 6 months ago had a quadruple bypass and my aorta is at a 4.6cm in size. When the size gets to 5.0cm, it is opening up my chest again. I refuse that as a choice, so if I can keep the stress down will determine how long that I will live. I still get around, much better than most 60 year olds that I know. Still active, installed 2 air condition units a couple months ago.
    I could write a book on this subject.

    • @ellejee74
      @ellejee74 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🙏✌🙌

  • @CarolRemen-nt8wp
    @CarolRemen-nt8wp 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you for explaining about the liberation I needed to hear. It has helped tremendously. Your words brought more healing and peace to my very being.

  • @amyoverthetop
    @amyoverthetop 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Yes... It's happening right now.

  • @newhope4me
    @newhope4me 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thrive on

  • @sandrinharamos2023
    @sandrinharamos2023 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thrive On

  • @amyoverthetop
    @amyoverthetop 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    THRIVE ON.

  • @nancyadams4358
    @nancyadams4358 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    It’s a dance we were taught to go along to get along….. I now focus on my heart and what’s healing with in me. Love you dear Woman Mel for helping me on my way🫶

    • @MelanieToniaEvans
      @MelanieToniaEvans  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You so have! Healed, survived, and then Thrived! Love you, Dear Nancy! 😘😘

  • @pattirowe
    @pattirowe 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My ex narc's new supply is more controllable than I was ...neither of them looked happy despite the act

  • @newhope4me
    @newhope4me 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hands up

  • @redredrubyred9
    @redredrubyred9 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The NARP program really helped me learn so much about myself and it has been over 5 years. I could not care less about that narcissist or who he is or isnt with! such a relief. These videos are great " touch ups" ... BTW: cute cheerful outfit Melanie.

    • @MelanieToniaEvans
      @MelanieToniaEvans  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm so thrilled NARP www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp has helped you so much! Glad you are enjoying TTV coming back. Grateful too for your lovely comment ❤

  • @user-fx3sj1vf5q
    @user-fx3sj1vf5q หลายเดือนก่อน

    My ex narc husband abandoned me leaving me with a child, now adult child with a disability. Almost 20 years and he’s still with the same supply, and doesn’t help financially with our son

  • @newhope4me
    @newhope4me 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yes

  • @Charleen-nb9yu
    @Charleen-nb9yu 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My ex of 11 yrs is now engaged to the new supply after he cheated but convinced himself he didn't. After a lot of pain and work, I'm back to myself!!!!!!

    • @MelanieToniaEvans
      @MelanieToniaEvans  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Well done, sending you hugs and healing ❤

  • @tamaramcnabb1256
    @tamaramcnabb1256 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thrive on!🎉

  • @feliciadean1084
    @feliciadean1084 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thrive on!

  • @ladyvirgo013
    @ladyvirgo013 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Spot on Wisdom you shared here. Heal On Survivors & Thrivers

  • @minzasjourney2367
    @minzasjourney2367 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    THRIVE ON❤

  • @irenapetrov9482
    @irenapetrov9482 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am so glad I learn about narcissism through Sam Vaknin . He is right about all coaches and specialists about narcissism.

  • @paulinefourie1103
    @paulinefourie1103 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thrive on🤩

  • @newhope4me
    @newhope4me 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Me. Hands up

  • @sallyjane9111
    @sallyjane9111 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thrive

  • @Naturehealingperspectives33
    @Naturehealingperspectives33 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'd love the Intel on the narc I was dating when it ended he ran into a love relationship with his therapist and they are making their relationship very public! So sick. I wonder who is manipulating who!

    • @MelanieToniaEvans
      @MelanieToniaEvans  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Many therapists have fallen for n's. They believe the "it was ny ex who had all the issues" narrative and are love bombed and charmed. I've also had therapists this has happened too who have been n-abused come firward to start NARP healing. It's all the same pattern. Many therapists are wounded healers. Relief from this and healing from abusers requires self inner healing. ❤

  • @newhope4me
    @newhope4me 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes...literally chased him down the drive

  • @Charleen-nb9yu
    @Charleen-nb9yu 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ty so much for this episode!!!

  • @amyoverthetop
    @amyoverthetop 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    And yes - they did it with me. I did not understand while it was happening.

  • @RC-eb5hq
    @RC-eb5hq 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    THRIVE ON!!!

  • @sagadut6371
    @sagadut6371 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for this. ❤

  • @nicolagrace3667
    @nicolagrace3667 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thrive on!! ❤

  • @newhope4me
    @newhope4me 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Me

  • @natasharichard3900
    @natasharichard3900 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @Confessions089
    @Confessions089 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Why do you even care?

    • @ladyvirgo013
      @ladyvirgo013 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The information helps people heal, especially from long term exposure to these toxic people. Ultimately, indifference comes with healing

  • @newhope4me
    @newhope4me 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yes

  • @tamaramcnabb1256
    @tamaramcnabb1256 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thrive on!

  • @newhope4me
    @newhope4me 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thrive on

  • @newhope4me
    @newhope4me 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yes

  • @kimberlywatkins928
    @kimberlywatkins928 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes

  • @newhope4me
    @newhope4me 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes

  • @jaslyn5501
    @jaslyn5501 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thrive on

  • @Charleen-nb9yu
    @Charleen-nb9yu 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes

  • @annbouchard6564
    @annbouchard6564 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thrive on