HOW to be the LOSER that WOMEN Want to SLEEP WITH (arousal secrets of hypergamy and female nature)
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Zander love your work, but you absolutely must change your body shot photo in youtube profile as it runs against the very thing you teach. You have a nice bod but you couldn't resist not displaying it for false value like a dud on tinder. Much love and respect, and am watching all your clips!
Ayo?^
When u pull a 10 on Facebook and ur half gay
@@superiergaming5463 i pull 10s i pull 11s, and i notice the little things in life that matter. Do you want me to be half gay ;)?
The most funny thing for me is that in order to understand a woman, we need a guy with a white board who can give us a clear explanation of how they think 💀
Amazing isn't it.
Clearly guys don’t think with their upper head just the bottom one 💀 they need it
@@isaiahjr9259nah they think with their upper one but they OVERTHINK
This is one of the best videos I've ever seen.
White board, wife beater and cowboy hat.
If she giggles and calls you an asshole, you're doing something right.
She might even make a scene and throw her beverage at you, all good signs. The last thing you want is the "aaaaw isnt he cute" followed by a hug - that means you are friendzoned AF
@@supremelordoftheuniverse5449 I think you have things backwards, if a woman throws a drink at you, it means she doesn't respect you, and no respect= no attraction. On the other hand, if she's being affectionate (hugs) it means there's at least some attraction. There's a big difference between being called an asshole and actually being an asshole. Women do not like assholes, they like men who do their own thing and don't care what she or anyone else thinks.
@@OLDPEDOJOE nah believe me, I speak from experience
@@supremelordoftheuniverse5449 Oh I have no doubt you get friend zoned all the time, you have no clue when it comes to women.
@@OLDPEDOJOE thanks you too
"Successful" men always have something to prove. "Losers" don't give a fuck - the type of rebellious masculinity women are drawn to.
I saw alot of "Rebels" wearing Face Muzzles 😷 & following the Mandate orders like cowards back in 2020-2022
"Rebellious" ha
And then they get pregnant lol
Women love all the "Men" that wore Face Muzzles 😷 and got the Jabs
That’s why successful men should look to prove that they don’t give a fuck either. Give a fuck about the correct things in life, but don’t give a fuck if you offend someone with your opinion
Somebody show me exactly where in the United States Constitution it is written that American citizens have the right not to be offended. I’ll wait.😊
"You're going to have to dumb yourself down...A LOT...!"
I literally laughed out loud at this😂
Once upon a time, probably 10 years ago...RSD Max once made a video about dumbing yourself down. Funny how this type of plan circles back years later and stays consistent
Facts 😅
I think girls like dumbasses because _THEY_ are dumbasses.
it is true, I was too logical as well
@@renegadezen7841 Was looking for it but could not find it. Think you can find it ? I think this is the last piece that I need in life for now.
Step 1: don’t give a fuck
Step 2: let women know openly how much of a fuck you don’t give
Step 3: repeat with everything in life except for the important shit
You’ll be surprised at just how quickly your value shoots up because you can’t be controlled as easily
Lol!! Simp
Or..you REALLY don't give a f*** and you want her to leave you alone
Simp2Pimp
@@johnpittscom by showing her that you don’t give a fuck despite continuing to talk to her, it shows you wanna fuck her, which is smooth
Only problem is it that once it comes full circle and you REALLY don't care, why would you sleep with her
I lied to a chick one time, and told her I was a convicted felon. Long story short she was so sprung on me😅😂
I spent many years being known as a “professional toilet cleaner” (I’m a doctor) & it worked always to my benefit
Tell them you’re fucking married but your wife isn’t nice to you lmao. Then make them think they’re the love outlet. Then you fuck em and you do it good
@Ravi-did-it Are you serious lol? Because I understand how telling potential woman to date that your a doctor can be intimidating to them.
It isn't intimidating doctors are known cheaters lol@@prettyboishah2898
I swear 😂 you are the ultimate truth. “If she has to watch you think…..it’s over” you are right.
So men are required to have all the answers, but females can be as indecisive as they want? Do you see the problem with this double standard?
Damn, yeah that's true. You've gotta be a perfect robot for these women. Many who can't even match you in Intellect 😅
@@thalmoragent9344 you don’t get it. It’s not about being a robot. It’s about being your complete self. With autistic honesty. You have to not give a fuck.
nah man, I like watching a guy think and take his time.
This true, but there is way to look like a deep thinker that is very arousing to women. It just depends on situation, but what he meant basically is if you have to struggle with her bullshit tests, "its over" you should be ten steps ahead or if your not you just need to have i dont give a fuck energy
“How many drinks have you had?” You’re in the perfect energy. Gold.
Chick: “How many drinks have you had?”
Answer:”Not enough, you should get me some more 😉!”
Haha had this question recently.
Not give a F attitude. Works like a charm if it’s honest.
Can’t be faked. Like not even a little bit
@@Stop-loss-BoSSbut can be learned. I mean it’s basically realizing how certain ideas control you and not liking that and re-evaluate
This is articulated extremely well. What Casey is not mentioning, but I know he stands for, is trying to sleep with a lot of women is degenerate behavior. As soon as I realized all I had to do was completely enjoy myself when I was out, for no one else’s sake but my own, I would hook up with girls all the time. This led to more or less an addiction and caused me to go broke real quick as well as pickup an addiction to bars and drinking. It’s not worth it. Casey is speaking gold, but be sure to balance your life. Being the put-together logical man has its place too, Casey’s MBT explains all this very well.
you should sleep with him yourself
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@dashingdiary
A female that gets taken out by random rich guys has been hooking up w me and im a fu*king bum!!!😂😂😂 everything casey said is valid
Yes but that means she just using you...the rich guy she gonna do what she told on command....you should want to be the guy she puts 1st
@@KakekutterDude you don’t need to be jealous for the lucky man.
How is she using you if you’re the bum? She obviously isn’t with you for the money if you’re the bum.
The rich guy is the one that has the money she can use to her advantage (just think of the rewards she gets for divorcing him).
Actually it sounds like she is using the rich guys. Let me guess. The rich guys are the ones paying for the dates.
@vegasknights4103 remember Casey says women don't think with logic like men....women will sleep wirg you but not actually like you....she can find a man sexually attractive but not attractive to you as a man she wants to be with
Summaey boiss
00:00 Embody ruggedness and non-try-hard energy.
01:59 Avoid displaying logic, exerting psychological effort, talking about goals or career, and trying to impress.
04:03 Women respond to energy, not societal standards of 'value skilled' men
05:59 Vibe of the guy who gets laid: Carefree and fun-loving attitude.
07:58 Embodying Daddy energy and masculine frame to attract women
10:06 Being in your most primal masculine state helps you attract women.
12:14 Being fully present attracts women
14:13 Let women cook and be in the right energy
16:03 Being the 'loser' women want to sleep with is embracing a carefree, masculine essence.
18:01 Hypergamy and female nature influence relationships
My man!
@jigneshjod3050
What does last point mean. Hypergamy leads to ......
Explain
Thanks, you saved me 20 minutes
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This will be hard for me. Every cell in my body won't allow me to go this low.
Me too...I let them chase me ...I just focus on what I want.
Thas why u don't get no chicks😂😂😂
We can always stay focus and grind. Bro gyms, good job, fit clothes can do the trick if we became that type of man, a successful one.
I see no formula 1 man (people who enter car race) who needs to be dumb and go to a party, they usually had attention from woman all together, also football players, who knows, almost any successful person has some girl.
Just be 100% you and if that get attention from woman you are in.
I’m much more successful after my third beer… 😛
Learn to let go lmao
the part where men get disconnected is that women always consider relationships temporary, even if its a marriage. So the logical future planning is just irrelevant in that context, she will be cheating regardless
Agreed it's always temporary
Women live in the present, men live in the past. No matter how much effort you put on her, she doesn't give a fuck if she no longer experiencing it now. Women love you for now.
@@javier.alvarez764 yessss
@@javier.alvarez764it’s funny how they can bring up past arguments to present time 😂 but they always want to have everything now just like you said. They don’t give a shit if you’re married and have children they still prioritize their needs and themselves first. And will go out to have fun and cheat…
She’s not yours, it’s just your turn? 😁
In my teenage years, my friends and I realized if we could make them laugh, it was all over. Same applies at any age.
By "over" you mean "lost" or "won"?
Wrong. That’s not all there is to it. It’s all too easy to become the goofy jester in her eyes.
Losers attract losers ...period.
Best comment I've seen on this post lol
True. You attract what you are
Very interesting
100%, only low value woman in-gage on degenerate.
No ! Masculine attract feminine
This video encapsulates the mindset that I have been in before, have tried to settle into again, and the optimal results I've ever had! This is spot on! Casey made the most accurate video ever on focusing into perfect natural mindset! Not even just for dating, this is how you want to be to enjoy life itself! Turn off all your bullshit and blast fun!
How to be the Loser is WILD but this stuff was 1000 percent facts 🤣🤣🤣🤣
This is spot on !!! Losers don’t have to prove themselves to anyone or to the world !!!Successful men do !!!💯
I sell construction materials and farm I don’t need to try to look rugged 😂chicks love the wranglers and work boots seriously. Im gonna tell you something Casey won’t. The more physical work you do busting ur ass in the dirt and the mud the more masculinity comes out of you naturally. Women gravitate to it
You sir, absolutely nailed it!
Hahaaha he actually said that in the next video🤣
LEGIT this is the video a lot of men need to hear. I love the lowkey law of attraction, Masculine/Feminine Energy sprinkled in there. Good Shit Brother🔥
True. Now having a loyal faithful long term relationship with a woman while keeping that dynamic going is what men would do well to get good at. Being a responsible good man while also being able to lighten up and live as a free spirited, faithful, loyal, intelligent man.
This man is on point. I’m not sure if you still have the older videos you would post but Thoes were platinum they helped me out a lot. I was doing good but you helped me become the best man I could ever be. Everything you say is on point. It’s about understanding your message!
wow one of caseys best videos for sure!!! Fantastic example. This one makes ALOT of sense.
🔥🔥 bro I was in the right energy without knowing it last night at the club
Sometimes could bring this type of energy. IDGF energy. This woman who was an acquaintance asked me at a bar what I have been up to lately. I said without thinking "listening to Motley Crue!" we ended up together to say the least.
Hands down one of the most fun and entertaining videos. I think most of this too can be applied to daily life. Also the hat looks cool.
Casey, been watching you for years and seeing the man you’ve transformed into is really impressive. Keep up the good work brother
The dude is just an absolute ace as a presenter.
The beginning is pure gold. I've been blue-pilled a nice guy most of my life, but now being back in the market after a divorce and learning this stuff, I decided to try it out. And it's amazing how well it works. No serious conversations, just lie about everything. Where you from, what's your name, what you do, just BS everything, and tease them in the process now and then, don't take anything they say seriously, throw in some very explicit innuendos, the type that make everyone on the table give you looks of "hey man that's too much" and see the magic happening. Girls literally jumped on my lap
You have made a lot of great videos, but this is one of your finest! I totally understand what you’re talking about, thanks for defining it so well! 🔥
This is the one of the best videos of your channel. It's more concrete !
In any way, shape, or form, this video was good
you are literally describing my boyfriend🤣🤣🤣🤣 it is very easy to make this men happy. let them sleep, let the eat what they like and let them watch their favorite movies. And behave like a cat. And look cute. Don't yell at them.
This is one of the best videos ever made because it's 10000% true 😂😂
Proudly can say I've been slaying this part of my life it's been like a switch since I subscribed
this is so true, having done both angles , you are confirming for me what I thought was true, thank you for the real insight into this psychology.
Since the Beard you've become the G.O.A.T. in dating advice !!!
As a person who is stuck in my head thinking of every possible outcome. This was necessary to get me out of that mind state when I'm out
Have the same problem
Uncle C strikes again providing the real goods!
Thanks brother
Casey always dropping truth bombs 💣
This is the best video that makes no sense while making perfect sense at the same time.
I know exactly what you mean
I have accidentally been that guy several times, couldn't figure it out, tried to clean up my act and got rejected. Before you get mad, consider how many losers she has slept with and what they could be passing on to you.
It's been a hot mins since I last saw a CZ vid. I really like the video style of the preface of your vids Casey. Nice work.
Casey is the only guy on YT I see preaching “idiot game.” 😂😂😂😂 If you guys don’t know what this kind of game is it’s time to find out! This is how you really get chicks!!!
Because most of the "gurus" on the manosphere / RP community, as right as they may be about identifying the problem, are disingenuous about the solutions they propose: because they want to sell you some sort of book, coaching or course, thus the whole "sel-improvement" narrative.
It's really not that hard to get chicks for hook ups (if that's what you're after).
And when it comes to good women, well there the problem is not so much in what the men has to offer but in the supply - they don't exist anymore.
Honestly If I had enough money I would have bought your course by now, since this video is so freakin' true. Hopefully this video won't get deleted, like many front end game videos. And this video in some way apllies to all things women that includes business, law and many other things.
And that's the thing. If Casey(or whoever is actually in charge of determining the price) would lower the price, sure the percentage of profit per course sold would be lower, but he would sell a *hell* of a LOT *more* programs in sheer numbers.
Stop using that phrase, "I can't afford " just stop it, as crrow777 says "words have meaning
@@FreddyKurganNimmoIf he lowers the price he will have more sales and probably +/- the same profit, BUT he will have more work and therefore his courses will eventually be putting him out of business, because of competition or more likely lack of demand...
So far my number one relationship guide channel, Casey's breakdowns are phenomenal.
I saw another on talking about the guy who has status and takes a chick on multiple dates has very little access to her because he is being tested as a lifetime potential mate and such types of men don't really spark any interest in her, yet they try too hard to impress a woman with money, trips and too much logical conversations with the hopes of getting laid, which might happen measureably and that's how pity f&#s come in. I she likes you it doesnt mean you will lay her. It's pointless to keep trying to impress a woman. They don't want that.
Woot woot woot, now I seee 😂
the song from Beck strikes on my mind (loser), big ups Casey!
This is gold, right here.
Yell like Stallone aka Rocky YO Adriiiaan!! Worked for him! And he's a genius
I definitely do believe that Casey is the best in this space
The best dating channel on TH-cam. Fight me
He was not trying to impress anyone, he's good
Interesting that you mentioned "Wolf of Wall Street", that whole movie is a mess lol, but you can't stop watching, there's a fascination to seeing that chaos unfold, it has its own unique appeal whether you admit it or not. I don't think it's about giving "bad boy" vibes either, i think it's about having fun with it, it's not that deep or serious, you become more attractive for some reason and people are drawn to you, and that of course might include some lady you may find attractive. Speaking of vibe this felt like you talking to a friend you took under your wing to turn him into an alpha chad lol, i enjoyed that 👍
Thats maybe one of your best videos. Thanks a lot👍
This is one of your best works mate
When one can drop the fakery of how and what we've been taught, the result is Pure Genius...
Loved it! Makes sense. The more I don't care the more they care
This video totally gave me drunk high school party vibes and put a smile on my face. Seems like you guys had fun awesome video brother.
I was showing a girl around the neighbourhood, this town and the next door town, where there were better shops. Actually there weren't. Anyway, we were going to drive past a cafe bar that I like. I think I asked, "Aren't you hungry?" I didn't wait for an answer. I just said, "I'm hungry. Lets go and get a snack." So we did. I just felt like going there, with or without her. In fact, we ate a meal basically sitting on a bench seat at a round table in the sunny part of the bar by the windows, not in the restaurant, then went to the shops. It was great energy. So relaxed. The next time we went there on a more proper date, it was total crap. Vibe non-existent.🤣 The waitress put us at one of those shitty double bench seats facing each side of a table. It's like they designed these to be as bad as possible for vibe. Never let the waitress send you to a seat. Pick your own. Honestly if they don't let you choose your own seats, leave and save yourself some money!😂
This dudes lessons are becoming like satire
Hes got very good points. Have some fun, don't get caught up in your head, don't try hard to impress.
awesome info and video. Thanks a lot Casey. Greetings from México.
Think of Hollywood celebs always looking rough. It’s cause they don’t give af. But people are still highly attracted.
Nnnnot really.
People in Hollywood are constantly dressed to impressed and try WAY too hard. (See some of their lame fashion choices).
@@briandam8126 guess you don’t see street photos. Bummed out. Not giving af.
To truly be attractive you need a balance of both.
@RandyChatter shia labeouf is like a 6/7. Not top tier but average looks. He pulls it tho. Because he owns it. It’s the mindset of a warrior.
They do give AF. The trick is in making *others* think they don’t.
The rounding up the troops with the mini baseball bat had me rolling 💀💀💀
Would probably work even better with a full size one with a nail through it.
Every video is your best video, my guy. You're doing the Lord's work.
Finally someone says it! I always knew this to be true. It's at the tip of everyone's tongue, to flex new game or 'evolution' of human, yet we fall short to the eyes of the matricx
You know what's interesting to me, is that Casey has and is building a masculine winner's life, YET women want to sleep with losers who are going nowhere.
Yeah because sleeping with chicks is boring. You have enough sex with girls by playing this character that doesn’t care at all it is an empty existence.
PRICELESS!!! P R I C E L E S !!! imagine if most MEN would follow these traits, society would get fixed
actually one of your top videos
UNCLE C😂😂 love to hear your personal stories and how you practice what you preach
I feel like Casey's angle is to forego your high value ambitions so you can be the bum women want to sleep with...
Nope lol
I've pretty much always been a loser, but wondered how other losers get the ladies.
The key is to not care, and I mean at all. Losers who care never get the girl, but losers who don't care do.
@@anthonyvasquezactorwell it’s because when they care, they show they want to be something that they are not. Then the girl wonders why he isn’t successful. Then she goes and picks the guy who knows he doesn’t need to improve to be attractive. Pretty easy chain effect to see
Those losers will get the girls. But they can't keep thr high value ones. Not giving a fuck people are strong. Loud and "alfa" guys on the other hand are weak inside. They compensate with yelling and wanting to be in the spotlight.
They were good looking , you have to loooks max to your fullest potential , height and face works with this material
Show the girl u picked up ,,receipts now !
Exactly, life isn't meant to be complex, good video👏👏👏👏👏.
Spot-on once again, thanks bro!!
Now I know why I was so successful when I was drunk 😂
Dude, for real. The guy having fun and making people laugh and being a little adventurous. Years later I wondered how I even acquainted such hotties. You may not bag the babe that night sometimes, but you left an impression and they have hot friends too. Unfortunately, most dudes get too carried away and take the latter part of this video into being obnoxious. Guaranteed to be looking for a fight by the end of the night.
_How to attract party girls and bar flies in one easy lesson._
Very educational.
It depends on what you want. If you just want to sleep around, then yeah. If you want deep connection with a woman, you need to invest emotionally and in a deeper level, yet you need to strike a balance between not seeming needy and that investment. In essence, this dude is cooking.
Your best video yet, bro. You actually just mentally kicked my ass into remembering how much more fun I was before 2020. I had way better pull and lived in a shitbox apartment with no vehicle! I got my shit together now and it's never been worse. I'm going to bar trivia tonight with a new group and switching my sensible clothes for s loud ass ball cap and bringing gummy worms for the whole table. Let's fucking go
I never really struggled that much with dating and am not particularly rich, successful or attractive (though fortunately, don’t lack anything either). I often get the comment of either being “high” or “drunk” whenever I go out, so now it all makes sense. Gold video 👌
Now you know why girls lose it at spring break, poker runs and biker rallies. Unleashed T running wild, no F's given. Beauty wants to tame the beast.
Everything is energy and vibration. Tesla was the OG pick up artist 😂
the tat with the cross telling men how to sleep with women...the slight Canadian accent with the brah vocabulary completes the cirlce......yeah bro, teach me about vibe😂
great advice for basic bar variety hook ups.....
Damn, that thumbnail is ZESTY!!!
Giddy up cowboy!!! 🤠 🌈🏳️🌈🦄
Disclaimer: This only works if you are at least 6ft tall with a beard and jacked with good face.
And a fat wallet 😅
Afghanistan has the right idea. They don't deal with women's foolishness.
Lmaooo
@@Karruxo9Because the weather sucks.
@@Karruxo9 You can't just move there because they have actual immigration laws that protect their demographics. They aren't a joke country like your western white one with your low birth rates where you get replaced by non whites because anyone can just move to it legally or illegally.
The Talib too.
Exactly
Wow bud! Nailed it! When I was younger I lived with a couple guys and we rolled like this at all times!😂 you forgot to mention how often the girls will sneak anywhere to be around you, boyfriends or not, uncounted times of fists flying from pissed boyfriends, quickies in the weirdest places as soon as her man looks away! Learned a lot about females in that time, good and bad. Good video!
Damn. You actually made this video. Thanks Casey
I don’t give a F. I don’t pretend to be something I’m not for any Broad. I have my S together and won’t pretend otherwise.
Im saying cause wtffff. Pretending not to give a fuck is fake and is the epitome of giving a fuck because ur fighting ur nature of giving a fuck
Humans care about things. That's a justifiable excuse! To not care about anything is one of two things: 1, a coping mechanism for the insecure and emotionally vulnerable, 2, a man who hasn't confronted his depression.
Videos like this just prove dating is dead in 2024
Yes and no, I just had a tinder repeat, and you know she's pretty good in bed. I'll keep her around for a while, all I said to her when we matched was you feel like getting bent and your hair pulled? And she asked. Where do you live? 😈🤣😆 It really works all the time. They want to be talked to like SL ut s. The best part it was free, and she left. If you remember the old Charlie Sheen joke. You don't pay a hooker for the S e kx, You pay her to leave. 🤣🤣
This is spot on all aspects! Just would like to reinforce the non logical conversation. For the ppl reading this: if its not your style to dress down etc, just embrace the non logical conversation. For fs sake, don’t have logical conversations with them. This works for dating apps, face to face dates, etc
Damn, this is so friggin true. My vibe is usually great and when I'm unshaven and unkept, I do catch the fish.
FUCK! This is so annoyingly true. I'm very self-aware and conscious of everything I do, especially in social environments. So, in communication with this one girl super hot, kinda smart, rich parents I'd assume she'd want something that could match/compliment her status or sum superior and in trying to display said qualities but not much investment has come from her and I feel the attraction fading.
I guess I just gotta be the douche blunt honest fuckboy people take me for... (i look like one)
Douchebag maxing… I’m here cuz of the cowboy hat
One of your best videos.
So you we're basically peacocking a bit with the accessories, and created an attention getting vibe
Thats exactly what happened to me recently, I ignored women when they asked for drinks, I lit up the dance floor with both guys and women, and I was hugely almost fought over! I just was applying your principles, I had to laugh but fully agree with being that loser! What a fun night
Oh, and I'm over 50 and all ages of women
You shouldn’t be buying women drinks anyways. And I don’t dance because I’m white and I know my limitations
@@marcusmcgraw3519I don’t get the white part? Is there a stereotype that white guys can’t dance too?
@@mat7083 Yes. What he meant to say was that he has no rhythm.
@@mat7083 yeah there is. And unlike “men can cheat without feelings being involved”, there’s some truth to this notion
Love it! 😅 Next time you’re in AZ for spring training, let’s cook! 🤠
Damn it, he right. Let him cook (doing this for st patties weekend). I really needed this video, clutch timing
If you actually watched the video, and reflected on what you learned, you would realize it’s a complete load of nonsense. At 2:44 , I decided to ignore the first and second points, understanding that I won’t agree with everything. By the time I got to 5:07, I realized that more than likely everything was going to be similar.
Please, heed this. This man is making these videos in the hopes you buy his course; he’s not doing it because he believes in what he’s telling you. I’d bet money that if given a polygraph, he’d fail. Notice how he never gives a real life example of him using his own advice? That’s a major red flag. He makes a ton of statements without demonstrating anything or using a source other than himself. He’s a great salesman, I’ll give him that, but once you deconstruct the advice, you realize this will usually only work on very young, immature women that are only looking for sex to begin with.
He is talking about women who are real garbage. There are structured women who are juges of good characters. When you are a man of essence, you'll attract the good ones.
You're right, and so is he.
I say, try to go down the middle and learn to be the fun "frat bro" he's describing when it's appropriate. Even the classy girls like a serious guy who has an unserious side at times, you just have to make it a treat though - can't be unserious all the time, but when you are, she gets to briefly experience and enjoy the true core of you.
Most of them are married and unavailable.