3 BIG Mistakes of My Career in my 30s and 40s | Career Talk With Anand Vaishampayan
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3 BIG Mistakes of My Career in my 30s and 40s | Career Talk With Anand Vaishampayan
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You nailed it. Being laid back or lazy is a huge challenge!
Couldn't agree more 👍.
Get to the choppaaar😂
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I don’t agree on that, this video talks about 30-40s . We have family kids and job … if we spending 10hours in job and 8 hour in sleep .. 6 hours left … that is just enough for family and taking care of self health… where laziness comes in thi busy schedule
1. Second income stream
2. Advise from mentor
3. Delegating the work
Thank you. It's boring to listen to him. Just a clear snap shot will always be better for time savers like me
You are stealing his views, which is very bad @krishna.
You missed the bonus point which is only told if you have viewed till the end. Its the most important in my opinion
What are you talking about? He’s up to the point. Doesn’t beat around the bush at all
@@JustWithAllBut he is commenting as well for better reach of this video.
No 5 : take care of your health
Perfectly said add on to that, never sit with a comfort zone that also gives you a hard time, moreover love your job not company.. between 30 to 40years is very important phase to any one who is working in a corporate field..
Yes that's true. Comfort zone makes us laid back and lazy.
@@CareerTalk I'm 39 and working as FE developer but I'm sick of this corporate culture where I have to come out of project every 3 months to attend internal/client round of interview to get into another Project. This repeats every 2 to 3 months.
No saving nothing, no own house.
Now my questiont to you is, what do you suggest to grow to next level. I see managing teams as technical/program manage is the only scope to escape these interviews but unless some manager give a promotion to you to become a sub-group manager it's not possible. Please share your though on this, whether it's good to stay in service company or product company.
And how you are generating second streams of income now? And also create a video about savings, investments and other information (we can find so many video but I would like to see a video from a technical perspective ) who works in IT
Will changing company yearly due to company layoff will it effect my resume
Amazing advice. When I look back at my 21 year career, I have made the same mistakes. Better fix it late than never.
Hi Rajeev, We all are in the same boat. It is never late to get started :)
Very valid points. I will be 40 next week and I can say that this applies to my age group fully.
Really beneficial. Worth to watch. Thanks for putting good efforts.
Very insightful.
Thanks for being candid and it mistakes. It's not easy to own your mistakes.
Days have changed, during 2005-14, i have seen genuinely good guys in technology becoming complacent with just 5 years technical background to become a program manager, delivery manager etc. They said they have learnt enough of technology and now would suggest USA, Japan, Europe what the technology would look like in next 50 years. Cut to 2023, now guys with 20 years experience need to be billable in customer projects or they get kicked out. No more posing as guru or managing 4000 freshers would help. Another disaster for the technical guys were to get too much obsessed with domain knowledge, like getting Insurance domain, Retail domain certification deviating from core technology. The moment insurance specialist get shifted to say Burger King project, the entire domain knowledge goes to drain
5th mistake. After 40s we need to take the spiritual path. We are here for max 20 to 40 more years. Realise this fact. Take care of your health. We need to realise that we will not achieve much in remaining time. And even if we achieve death is going to take away everything. So be thankful for coming this far in life with such a good intelligence that you produced and watched this video. Which means you can realise what went wrong even when you never planned for it. Use 2nd order thinking and extrapolate what could happen in next 10 or 20 years. Excellent advice to all fellow travellers in life. Thank you.
Spirituality should not be left to the latter part of your life.. incorporate it in as soon as you can. It will help you throughout your life
Why after 40 , why so late, even 20 yr old can initiate into spirituality.
So true..while 30s are time for self growth.after 40 should be considered to think on contributing to nature and spirituality rather than dwelling on materialistic things
Hi sir, I am following your videos regularly and I have always found good content and learning from you 😊👌
Crazily True points ..
Vow.. What a reflection and
Great tips to nudge someone like me to take action and not just sit and wait 👍
Well said. Especially point no.1 is very important to know for everyone
Lesson 4 is an eye-opener. At least most of us are stuck by giving some excuses to come out of the monotonous thing
Hi Vinay, Yes, most of us find some reason or another to push things to the next day, next week or next month.
Sir, I consider you as my mentor. Great advice. Your content is so relevant and rewarding. Thank you Sir!
Thanks a lot Hema Brijesh :)
To whom your giving gyan through this youtube? To jobless youtube watchers lyk me?😊 Life is not so much planned or consistent or predictable lyk you giving story😅... life is all abt 97% fate.. 2% hard work.. 1% luck... my gyan to you... find urself in next 10 years.....
You have such a good communication. Clarity in voice, tone, thoughts.
Excellent sir, even i looked back and feel the same.
Thank you sir, Can you also point out at what point we should realise to push back and not take too much on the plate
Great advice sir, appreciate! all your videos makes sense....
On a side note, i personally dont think these are mistakes,,..u enjoyed doing all these in ur own way; and thats what matters the most.. and that defines one's personality and one's happiness..in other words, sometimes more productivity or more time saving does not mean more happiness😀its just doing things in ur own way;;;;but thank you for sharing sir..its always great to hear to ur experiences🙂
Very true, at present (46) am in a job out of my core skill area (thanks to covid19), very basic - creating tickets and doing it just to survive economically. Thus two things are important a good mentor/boss at a young age and a partner- never had.
Thank you so much sir for the valuable info..will focus on these things👍
You are doing a fabulous job sir
I am seeing my Mentor in you Anand, your info is very boosting
Lessons learnt is always a great eye opener
Thanks for sharing your experience. The only thing I find interesting is you should keep learning new skills to survive.
Great explanation Sir ji ! I also gone through This situation What you had experienced. But you had worked for IT sector & i was worked with catering services department.
Thanks for sharing Rajiv 🙏
sir you are really good in talking the reality \..Thank you
Thanks for your wise worlds. It's amazing that through the Algorithm, your words have reached the other side of the world and affected me.
Thanks for the video
Insightful
Hi Sir, A big Thanks for Advices!
Thanks Boss, u opens up Lower, Middle class guys life, I am just below average mark student, u just imagine my survive
Thank you for sharing your suggestions based on your experience 😊
Simple beautiful information presentation.
you're making very helpful videos Sir, This is much needed.
Keep it up. ✌✌✌✌
Not everyone is financial savvy in doing the right investments or have the entrepreneurial skills to start generating a second income, or even if they do all might not succeed.
With my 16 years of experience, even im a bit confused. I know I'm not smart, but personally I feel it is good to invest in building your skills and expertise and not mention focusing on your health care, both are really important to have a sustainable future in your life.
After all, if you have good health and a learning aptitude it should help you to survive even in your b older years
Excellent video.. good info
Thank You for teaching this
Really !
Purposeful video
Thanks Sir...i think i m here at right time.
Absolutely 💯% correct Anand..
Learning and applying the learnings are the best you can do for your career..
A side income is always good . Apart from my job I started creating udemy courses last year but didn't got any paid enrollments.We all lack patience, results always take time. I started creating more useful courses without thinking about income and after 8 months i have 3 paid courses published on udemy and reached 200$ till now. 200$ are not much but as a side hustle i think so that's a good start and also i give offline tutions too for kids in my colony. Once can start anytime sooner the best
Thanks for sharing your experience Rahul. Yes, you are right it takes time to get results. Best wishes to you for your future endeavors :)
What subjects do you teach?
Thank you very much for sharing this
Sir, amazing advise u have given..thank u sir
Thanks for Wonderfil Video
Before delegating , isn't it better to learn yourself?
That's the first thought which comes to mind when deciding to delegate (the risk of under/over estimation)
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Not easy to reflect on your own mistakes!
Absolutely Prithwiraj, it is not at all easy to reflect. But once we do, it makes a lot of things simpler.
I am a hundred and two and still employed, I was always mediocre as per your advice. Thank you.
Hundred and Two?
Thanks for the motivation
The point number 1: Second income stream is the thing I want tell something about. You can take that as secondary interest other than job. For example I was facing some ups and downs in 2009 year. I had brought "Vedic Mathematics" book as a side interest. I did not pay much attention to that at that time. Now that in 2023 after layoff I feel I should have paid some interest to Vedic Maths so that by now I could have at least taught some people. Anyways I have taken interest now.
Thank you, thank you krishna rao from bringing this out. I think 80s born can rekate to this position. I'm into same position of project management/PM role
Sir plz don't stop making videos. These are really helpful.
Thank You Krishna 🙏
Sir, Really great advice from you, I consider you has my mentor. I was searching answers for all these questions and you have provided right advice. I like to share your videos to other folks as well. Please continue with such videos it is of great help to IT community.
Very insightful !!
Thank You Nagbhushan 🙏
Sir, I have question, Career in my 30s and 40s , I have took pause in the career deliberately to transform a path from QA Lead to Scrum Master for which I had worked earlier.. ...In short, should we consider career pause as mistake or not ? As my pause are getting longer I am worried now. Thanks in adv.
Appreciate your advise.. even though we all are aware of this we don’t take it seriously or start taking action point 4.
Yes that's true, point 4 is the main thing 🙏
Second that!
Thanks 🙏
Thank you for the video
You're welcome
Hi Anand, today I watched your video for the first time and its very informative. By the way, I work as a project manager in a pharmaceutical company and I am pretty much happy with my career progress. As you suggested in the video, I too want to have a mentor with long visibility. Could you give me some tips on how to find the right mentor....
Thank you so much.
Hi,
I couldn’t agree more on all the points you brought in.
However my question is specifically to mentorship.
As a software developer what are the indicators to look for as a requirement for mentor?
Nice points. Also the challenge part is that to concentrate on second income and parallelly manage your job , when we don't have much time and tired with house and office work.
Yes, it is a challenge we understand that, so one needs to take small baby steps in that direction. Key is to have focus and make small efforts for long term.
@@CareerTalkwhat are some possible options for second income in India?
Very well said
Thanks for information
Thanks Jayakumar
Well said Anand 👍
Thanks for sharing your honest review, am sure most of 15+ experienced guys can correlate it
Thanks a lot Nazeer
Thanks a lot sir.
Thanks for sharing 🙏
very informative
Thank you sir🎉
5. Always find ways to do what u r doing more efficiently.
very informative, almost doing same mistakes
You are simple incredible..
Thank you sir
Glad to help 🙌
TH-cam is the best second income
Source for many 😊😊. This creates second income source by giving knowledge for free
Thanks 🙏 SIR
Most welcome Jagat 🙌
When you're young, it's a wise choice to save as much money as possible. Additionally, it's worth considering avenues for secondary income. In my personal opinion, not everyone can become a CEO or manager, so there's no need to be concerned about others. Instead, stay focused on your job and your work.
I'm currently 44 years old and in a technical lead role at my company. While I can't control the longevity of my career, I believe I'm doing a good job. The period between 40 and 50 is a critical stage in life, and it's essential to think about how you'll spend your life after 50.
In my case, I'm planning to move to my village. I purchased agricultural land and built a small house without taking any home loans. For the past three years, my family has been in the village, where we've been able to reduce our expenses significantly. Now, I'm relocating to Chennai for my kid's education.
Fear , comfort zone and laziness are the biggest problem.
Enlightening message !!
Sir a lot of times i have heard that it's better to be a master of 1 particular skill or task rather than ordinary at many things -as per the saying goes "Jack of all trades but master of None "so my question was will it be beneficial to work in a small company as a specialist or in a large company as generalist ? In terms of making more money at faster rate bcoz the problem is there is a fixed growth in top companies in a normal routine. So how to break the chain & rules to achieve exceptional growth without getting stuck in age old career ladder corporate system that offers not much to the employees but works for the owners very well..
Excellent bro
You are simply supperb sir
Thanks . I am just reached my 30s . But i have one income stream. But other things you said that i need to follow from today
Thanks good message
Thanks 🙏
Very rightly said! I have made the same 4 mistakes and have been realizing it. Though I have already started to take action.... but sometimes I feel it is already late. Thank you for bringing this video.
Hi Raj, It is never too late. In our LinkedIn Training batch we have an ex CFO who is 60 plus years of age and now wants to build his LinkedIn Profile. So it is never late to get started :)
The companies I worked for never cared about advising me on the next level. While others in these companies had mentors and climbed the ladder, I was not one of them. I am not into the politics etc. and there was nobody who could have been my mentor or had the best interest at heart. They are all for themselves, the boss and colleagues. I invested in my own training and courses to be the best employee for my employer but so far, I have not gotten the ROI. I now left the corporate world and hope to never have to go back!
This video is worth a million. You are awesome sir. I wish you should be my mentor 🙏
Good Video.
Thanks!
@CareerTalk Excellent suggestions. Can you suggest some example of youTube and Instagram automation? Where do you find the person who could edit videos for. you ?
Yes...I do agree
Thanks 🙏
Good information
Nice video.
Many many thanks
Mistakes in 30s and 40s
1. Not creating a separate income stream
2. Not finding a mentor or a accountability partner
3. Not considering deligate/outsource/automate work
4. Failure to take action when needed
Thanks for the summary Sourabh :)
1.Second Income
2. Mentor/ accountability partner missing
3. off loading/ delegation of work.
4. Failure to take action
Main thing is that you dont do work you told to do rather you do a job what you love to do.. money matters but happiness is more important. Mostly 99 percent people dont know what their inner soul wants to do but they just do jobs seeing others and imaging themself to become similar to others..
Same thing happened with me When I got VRS from Govt job at the age 46 and then decided to do job that should bring my interest and it may be irrelevant of my career. And when I got it after 2 years pause I am really happy to do that job even in Half of my salary what I previously getting!
hi u r correct @ my 33 's i realised this.
Dr Sir,
However in addn to the abv quotes made by me, I wld fur like to add tat at d time of Selection Process 1000's of candidates r seen waiting in queue but d saddest part is tat only a few selective candidates r chosen n tat too having a gd fly background - either their parents r Doctors, Engineers or holding good political positions or cumin frm a vry highly influential status r selected. Even if d same influential candidates r not able to perform in their duties, they r promoted to a higher position n r given due recognition.
But in comparison, if a Middle Class (lower) Group is taken n if after his gaining entry into d organization becoz of his luck n even if he wants to associate himself wit d influential class in order fr him to know n understand d type of work he is assigned due to his lacking in certain fields, no one will ever associate themselves wit dis person becoz of his status n even in d process if the do so, a jealously is created in d minds of influential class tat if they help him in his matters, they feel tat they wld loose their positions n by helping the Mid Class (lower group), he will gain access to the knowledge imparted by d influential status n if at all he is elevated, the rich wld fear tat they wld loose their rank, therefore a sense of insecurity in d mindset of d Rich n Affluent Class in their upbringing n holding plum position in their posts by their acts.
This is hw d Middle Class (Lower Gtoup) hv no other choice n hv to struggle hard to make ends meet n to reach their desired goals.
Worth
Dear Anand, I am commenting for the first time. Sage advice. No theory, all comes from experience. Having a mentor is almost critical to moving in the right path. The thing is how do you identify a mentor?
When the student is ready guru appears automatically
/from ancient Indian texts
@@brodaismso everything is based on good karma and efforts in right direction
The BEST things about your videos is you jump straight into the points, not even a HI Prndssss !
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@@CareerTalk ❤️