What Do You Wish You'd Known Sooner in Life? - Part 1
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 11 ก.ค. 2024
- We open up about with what we know now, if there is anything we wish we had learned sooner. Real fam, is there any decision you would have made differently knowing what you know now?
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Jeanie has been through a lot firstly she was sexually abused,her broken relationship with her mother for a decade then the divorce,😭how can she go through all this and manage to smile to the world?
She's too good, it's always good people who get hurt the most. God bless her.
Why’s Jeannie 😭?
Only by the grace of God!!
Fridah Munafumpa She is amazing!
I am so glad they didn't have children
“When someone shows you who they are....believe them” ‼️
Sally and Paul truth
Sometimes it takes 10 yrs
#FACTS
on God
So true! Believe patterns not words
Loni is the mama, Adrienne is the best friend, Tamara is the sister, and Jeanie is everyone. 💙
Powerful 😍😍😍💗💗💗
Seriously I felt that 💕
tfit tread THIS WAS SUPER BEAUTIFUL AND GENIUS AT THE SAME TIME ❤️
And braxton was the barking dog, outside, out out!! Haha
SPOT ON PERFECTLY SAID OMG
i love how loni automatically starts to talk to sorta distract while jeanie has a moment to breathe
madi mitchell right. I notice that too
I feel like she does that alot when someone is having a hard time
I love how protective Loni is over the ladies. She has a really good sense of the vibe and if the conversation needs to be redirected at a moment’s notice, she does it so smoothly and in a respectful way. Loni has such a good soul.
I think she was doing it so Jeannie wouldn’t say something out of emotion. You can tell she really loves her cohosts.
@@barbie4170 That comment was extremely unnecessary, yes you can have your opinion but to share a comment that is purposefully hateful and attacking her because of her body is really low. Loni may never see that comment, but someone who has the same body as Loni might, that person could just be getting on track with feeling better within themselves, and your comment could have a really negative impact on someone’s life. Now, this isn’t me attacking you, as I said you have a right to your opinion, but please, could you think about how you would feel if someone said this to your mum, or you sister, or your daughter etc. You wouldn’t want someone to get that sort of comment, so please don’t give that comment out to others
Jeanie looks amazing for almost being 40 years old!
Girl yes Jeannie Mai will be 40 January 4th
sandra crump really? I thought she was in her early 30s. She’s looks bomb!
Forreal i was like whaaaa?? Almost 40? Damn! She look about 28
Asain don't Raisin! She looks amazing and she is amazing
I agree. Beautiful inside out.
Jeanie is now married to Jeezy, in a love that is unconditional, and welcoming a BABY!
Look at God! 🙏🏾❤️
God is so good and his timing is divine ❤️ so happy for her!!!!
Amen!!
Let's see how long it's gonna last.she married a rapper who was arrested for weapons ,drugs,and multiple children from diff women who were not their wives.Anytime now
@@Carousel5883 and he’s changed from what you’re saying he is. He’s a businessman now, and he loves her & their child
@@chrisgreatness6953 I dont know much about him nor hae I heard from him till now since I joined in season 8 but I heard he's a beleiver I hope thats true because that would be good for her😊😊🙏🙏
Rihanna said something so deep that was so similar to this "I think a lot of people meet people and then they're dating the idea of what the person could become, and that person never shows up and then they're just mad disappointed. A person can always get better, they can always get worse, but you've got to be fine with what you met them as."
Aaliyah D Damn....that is deep🙏♥️
I thought that went without saying, but I feel it though
Aaliyah D and who they are currently
Carl Ruiz So explain why you feel that way
Aaliyah D very profound
Tamara always feeling sorry for people... She's so sweet
Nsuku General yea she's really nice
Jessica Uchechi she’s a ♋️
@@nazbites that has nothing to do with it
DeAndre Stewart yes it does ... obviously you don’t know much about astrology
I think she’s an empath. 💗
Jeannie Mai is a gem. She doesn’t deserve to feel like that. Stay strong Jeannie ❤️
Natzelle Her ex and his new woman are being so nasty to her after this show aired.
omg s this bad to think i always knew since day one watching the real that she would get a divorce i dont wish bad about ppl its just you could see through the marriage
Love Jeannie shes a queen
J Saadati what did they do?
Captain America he got his new girl pregnant something Jeanie didn’t want
So good of loni to take over and let jeannie breath for a sec
Truly!
Yes I like how Loni came in such a good host in that way
yes i really liked that...
She's alway been good at that! I remember when she did the same thing when Jeannie was crying because she was sharing how her dad would secretly eat her leftovers from the trash when they were struggling.
Nneka Onukwugha Yess !! Omg! I do remember that . Good one girl!
Who’s watching this after Jeanie got engaged!!!! Yay God has a plan for your life . Don’t worry if things are not going the way you like to. Something amazing will come for you.
lau50 ga Me!! I’m so happy for her.
yay 💗
lau50 ga yassssss! God bless her infinitely. May she receive it a million fold
I love what she said. When someone shows you who they are believe them. Sooo true. And the fact that her ex always said you don’t really know who you married till you don’t get what you want. Something like that not exact words. But so so true. But she is happy now.
I am so happy for her. Saw the engagement first b4 this
I’m in bed...this video makes me wanna turn around and slap my boyfriend whos asleep and he didn’t even do nothing 🤣
PV 💀💀
PV 😹😹😹😹😹😹 I know, right?
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Best freaking comment!!! Me too!!!
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Seeing Jeannie cry breaks my heart stay strong baby girl 💔
I am over here crying too. She is so loving and so positive! Freddy you are going to hell in a hand basket! Be strong Jeannie. You have us loving and praying for you! This too shall pass.
I agree missy. She has a better man out there for her. everything happens for a reason
OMG. Jeannie addresses Linsey on Twitter 😱😱😱
th-cam.com/video/JYBsImI85s4/w-d-xo.html
I know seeing her cry was real heartbreaking. No one knows what she feels and what she's going through she's putting this out for the world to see and for people to talk about their tired of seeing her cry and this that and the third. They have no idea what a broken heart feels like obviously. Is easy for someone looking from their screen on a computer or their cell phone and saying get over it they can't control people's emotions and they didn't know what she's feeling.
@@naturallydope6971 she's acting. She had no tears coming out. Tamera had real tears.
This may go down in history as one of the realest moments on The Real. This was such a real picture of their bond. It isnt just an on screen thing, these ladies are true friends.
🗣👏🏾
No its for the camera. You heard her side who says its the truth?
I really meant their friendship/ bond being real. But if you wanna go there...I dont think anyone but them have the right to determine what the truth about their relationship is. So why dont we go back to minding our own business instead of jumping to conclusions?
I think so too
I would like to believe so, but with the rumours surrounding Tamar getting fired and Jeannie not inviting any of them to her wedding, I find it hard to believe there that close.
jeanie comforting the girls while breaking down is me.
@javi ruiz You sound absolutely ridiculous.
2:26
"DID I KNO THE REAL YOU OR
THIS IS THE REAL YOU"
Kai Diver that’s earlier
Kai Diver but that line was so powerful
2:16 not 2:26
2:08
Kai Diver 2:13**
I wish the girls that are my age would have these kind of heart to heart conversations.
I'm in my early 20s and these are conversations I'm starting to have with girls in my generation 19-22
There are girls like that, it takes awhile to find them, sometimes you have to look outside your comfort zone
I'm almost in 20's I have conversations like this with my friends who are 17/18/younger
Yes!!!
stormy zee Please do. It will possibly save you some heartache.
You could literally hear the pain in her voice when she cried omg, I wish the best for her 😢♥️
Miriam C ..I didn’t “literally” hear the pain... I “heard the pain in her voice”......
Fotini Gavrilis that’s nice
True she is going to get stronger.
And now she’s engaged congratulations 🎉 she deserves to be happy
Marian Kondowe ysssss get that D too!!! Lmao
And pregnant ❤️😭🔥
And now she’s remarried, expecting a child, and fell in love with herself completely and I love all her growth
I feel your pain gurl! I’m divorced. I’ll I can say is “I loved who I married, I hate who I divorced”! 😫💔
Perfectly said...
*I ask if the him I knew was the real him or the him now after our break up*
Ditto 💔i hate the monster he became or was just hidding inside of him
Maggie B amen
I love how you worded that
Awww Jeannie group hug from The Real TH-cam family.❤️
I wanted to be the 666th like
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OMG. Jeannie addresses Linsey on Twitter 😱😱😱
th-cam.com/video/JYBsImI85s4/w-d-xo.html
I agree
The perfect example of “Weeping May endure for a night, but Joy comes in the morning!!” So happy for her and Jeezy!!!
Ut oh...
I cnt thank this girl enaf for sharing this
Hey there Kansime
My kansiime be going through the Reals vids as well. I'm not alone
My kansiime be going through the Reals vids as well. I'm not alone
Haiya Kansiime you also watch the real💕
So much love my sisters.....relatable
I love how Loni came in and started talking to help jeanie out in her emotional state. You can tell that these ladies have a true friendship. Definitely Emmy worthy.
jeannie you're better off without him. you deserve better 💕
Now she's going thru it again😢. Life is rough. Be kind to people
heavy on be kind! life can be hard man.
Looking back on this episode today and to see where Jeanie was 2 years ago compared to where she is now is amazing! She deserves the life she has! She’s winning with her new husband and baby on the way!!❤️
I'm here with you in 2021, isn't it funny how time brings about a change 🌷
Am soooo happy for you Jeanie n Jezzy and she is Absolutely amazing n deep. Love my Capricorn ♑ Sister I truly cried cause I felt that in my soul.🙏🌹 Like loni said life is so precious and if you not feeling it make a change welp I know what I got to do 2022 winning circle 🔴👏🙌
brings me to tears!
2023 they are now divorced because of cultural and family value differences 🤎
10+ years of marriage & he just goes ahead & knocks up some bimbo who already had her eyes on him. Homewreckers deserve no happiness.
And what about him, he opened the door while still being married only then the baby mama got in, so it more of his mistake for wreaking his own home
@@adlinkujur2382 Oh definitely. Not saying he didn't do wrong. He's the number 1 arsehole & that scumbag of a woman is no less.
Then said he didn't want kids more to the reason they did get divorce
Syalie Magar I would have did the same, if she’s not trying to have the baby.
Ohmagawd girl WERE YOU THERE why do people think the worst of people. The only ppl who know the truth are the 3 of them
I wish I would have known earlier that each individual person has an individual journey. I spent a lot of time comparing my life to others and I wasted a lot of time being upset because I wasn't going fast as the next person or I wasn't getting the same results.
I'm trying to accept that rn but it's so hard!
@@OrangeMilkBlossom What's rn? Lol
rn means right now
@Devon Dené Drouillard You're welcome.😊
Devon Dené Drouillard definitely feel this same way. We just need to do what we can and have faith
when Loni isn’t joking, she really be speaking some real stuff...
I wish i could tell this broken hearted and hurt Jeannie that in a year or so you will find a man, fall madly in love with him, change the way you see the world, redefine love and most importantly that you will become pregnant with your first child and know the joy of being secure in love. That 2 years later we will all marvel at God's hand on her life and the many blessings he has bestowed upon her.
Her story gives me hope!
But allhese in a year is a bit strange or too soon to me
@@africanprincessmaya it's not strange or too soon for her and honestly, that's all that matters.
I feel like that Jeannies wound is very fresh.
Yea, the divorce isn't a year old... SHE REALLY LOVED HIM so, she's still going through the healing process.
might also be that she found out later that he cheated on her during their marriage which seems to be very clear at this point
Deplorable Arab yep the blonde bih stupid af for making that fool her baby daddy
Yes I think mostly because she never really talked about it. I think it's time she let's everything out now and move on.
Think she was ok but now that the baby is here makes it more real that the marriage is really over
He could have waited until they were divorced to see another woman.did he want a baby THAT bad? Smh
For what, she wasted 10 years of the man life.
Rasta Buggie They BOTH went into the marriage agreeing that they didn’t want children. It was Freddy who changed his stance on becoming a father the last 3 years of them being married. She was still adamant about not wanting any. He chose to stay and she wasn’t going to have a kid for somebody else if that’s not what she wanted. So how did she waste 10 years of his life again?
@@mocosacarajo well the man moved on and got his baby..she need to stop all that damn crying.
Jazzy P Freddie “wasted” his own life, and probably got resentful over the years towards Jeanie because he was mad at himself. Good riddens, he got his kid and now Jeanie can actually be happy and be with someone who appreciates her and actually RESPECTS her decision.
Tanya B People change, it’s called life, they loved eachother. But she was right when she said, “you don’t really know a person until they don’t get what they want”. I hope she’ll eventually find her happiness, she’s still healing.
LOVE to see the new happily married Jeannie in 2021 who’s EXPECTING A BAAAAABY! 😭🎉
Saying to the unmarried. Open your eyes, listen to your heart, listen to what your loved ones are saying. Don't fight your loved ones if they complain about him or her. Take time out and think about their comments/corrections. People can't see so much of the person's character. Cos love is blind. The moment you exchange those rings , people will show their true colours.
Look out at RED flags. Follow your conscience. Don't marry cos you are ageing. Pray and let other people pray with you b4 you commit to a relationship. Don't make up your mind to go with that person if God says NO. Only God knows the future. Be blessed
Amen
Yes i agreee with u.
My loved ones never say anything about my relationships
Don't marry because you are ageing, yes! I am 28 and fed up with the "ticking clock" comments. I have yet to live 40-50 years with that person on a daily basis, so they'd better be right or none. I'd rather be single too long or forever than stuck in a miserable marriage looking at the better opportunities fly by.
What are some red flags you would say to look out for?
Aww I started crying the moment she started 😩😩
Juna Antenor me too. 😢
Same 😭😭
Omg hysterical
Same same same
I almost cried, I fell the emotion through the TV. The pain is real.
What’s Freddy’s address... I just wanna talk I swear🤷🏽♀️
Literally had the same thought lmao. It’s as if you’re seeing one of your own girls cry. 😡
You won😃😃😄😂
Ur funny
Dana Perkins you’re the kinda friend I need in real life 💘
For real.. “come outside Freddy, ain’t nobody finna jump you...”
I’m so happy she’s engaged now to Jeezy😍 she deserves to be happy
"i never thought he would be the one to prove that to me" wow.
Years from now when Jeannie is happy and blessed, she'll look back on this moment and realise that she had to go through this to get to that happy place ❤
Amen!
ShanDizzy 101-Vlogs so right
I agree...🙏🏾
ShanDizzy 101-Vlogs Well said!!
That's that boomerang........pay back issa ⏩b⏪
Jeannie is getting hotter by the minute. You're better off without him and better off without kids too. Live the single life and thank God from showing you who he really is.
Or maybe she never felt ready to have kids with HIM for a reason... Hmmmm....
kitty kay AMEN!!!
kitty kay she’s glowing, she’s been looking more and more radiant since that whole thing ended, I’ve always loved her
What has he done ?
Yep
Jeanie is going to make me cry. Her emotions are so raw and sincere. My heart goes out to her ❤️
Seeing the pain Jeannie was in then and looking at her absolutely glowing now. I could not be happier for her, she's been through hell and to be in a place where she feels so loved and ready to be a mama is just beautiful to see! The glow up!
I hate seeing someone as happy as Jeannie break down like that.. stay strong babygirl ❤️we love you!
Freddy is still a 🐍
Should’ve never done my girl Jeannie dirty like that smh
EDIT: If you guys want to know what happened go check out Day time tea time TH-cam channel, she made 2 videos about it and with LOTS of deets ☕️🐸
Can you shed light on what he did for me? I can find any updates on their divorce
I think he cheated on her because he's currently in a new relationship and their expecting. And the timeline doesn't add up. Jeannie also said there were other things besides not wanting kids. But she hasn't revealed them yet
Ana Castaneda what did he do ?
Imani Kerr he cheated on her and he’s asking for more money i guess bc in the interview with The breakfast club they were saying money changes people
One of the main things for the divorce was that Jeannie was always public with not wanting children , however Freddy did. He was pressuring her into starting a family so left for another woman and immediately had a baby
That's Maya's saying: " When people show you who they're, believe them."
I love how these women lift each other up, on and off camera. My favorite reason to watch ❤️ thank you for being so vulnerable
It’s beautiful
I think she needs some time off. I feel so bad for her
but some of her main sources of support are at her job? but she probably doesnt wanna spill too much on live TV idk its up to her
I think she’s surrounding herself around positive people and keeping herself distracted rather then crying about it or being depressed sometimes taking a break can break you down even more rather then trying to NOT think about it ya know!
R3DQ22 Lol which is exactly y men don’t have trouble moving on from women like that
R3DQ22 I hollered
@@Chevylosophies lmfao I'm just seeing this 🤣
FACT: When people show me who they really are I believe them( CHARACTER) if you ignore you pay later!
That's why they say fool me once shame on you fool me twice Shane on me
Yes
TRUE!! People can only hide who the really are for so long. Pay attention to the WARNING SIGNS!!! And govern YOURSELF ACCORDING RUN!!!!
true.. i usually pray to God to reveal people's true intentions then once i see the signs, i back off immediately and without warning
Absolutely!
Congratulations Jeanie on your engagement....... not long ago you where heart broken and going through so much heart break, now look at you!! You are happy, engaged and have a bright future ahead of you! So happy for you and Jeezy!! And to everyone out there going through a hard time, hang in there! As you can see things change❤❤❤
Bekezela Hadunka yes!!
4shp my boi jeezy sabe her life
Got married
My wife was in a 12 year marriage with an abusive husband; I came along right place right time... 15 years later and she is my everything!!! My Wife, My Love, My best friend...
@@c.juneau410 That’s awesome 😭
Loni is extremely intelligent and strong.
Look at Lonni saving the day... A true friend💛
Total TRINITY I thought the same thing ❤️
Javi Ruiz bruh anyone would be sad over a divorce... she’s a human being, of course she’s shedding tears
"When people show you who they are, believe them." So, so true but hard to practice in real life. We fall for the fantasy or the illusion of someone, as opposed to who they are all the time.
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
So True
Very true
amazing analysis!
True what u said. But she said You truly don’t know a person until they don’t get what they want. It was no illusion he wanted a child - she didn’t -
She’s almost 40 but she looks so young.
She’s 42 now lol
SHE LOOK 40 MAKE UP
@@bettieclayton2811 shut up 🤫
fast forward 2 years later, she fell in love again, got married & is having a baby!!!!
Oh hun 💔This made me sad to see Jeannie cry like that 😔
You are gonna be ok hunay. This too shall pass. ❤❤❤❤
I ignored my red flags and I stayed with someone for 7 years. I stayed with someone for the sake of my child at the end just so I could be stable. It wasn't worth it. I'm glad it's over now. I'm living on my own and I'm in college now earning my degree. In a few more months I will be graduating. Sometimes things like this happens in life just to make you stronger. I felt Jeannie's pain. I love this show. Such sisterhood. No fakeness.
valenciaorange2000 congratulations!!!!!
God is always there to pick you up girl! Dont worry, just seek him for better decisions❤
CONGRATULATIONS!!! Not just for graduating and living your best life, but for being strong enough to get out of an unhappy situation and move on...
Im in the same situation as you are. I'm only with him for our 2 children. Also because I don't have money', a place to stay, or a car. If I leave I don't my kids to struggle or suffer in the streets with me. I don't have family ot friend support. I tried living him, got back with him believing that with time the relationship will get better. We been together 7 years. But I feel I don't know him. He changed me to a person that I hate. The lawyer told me if I wait 3 more years I can get half of everything. So when I leave him atleast i will have some money. For a place while I get a job.
Trust me, I am in your shoe and Im also will be graduated too. I been with a person and I regretted it but now im more happier then I ever been
Seeing Jeanie cry breaks my heart, I feel for her, went through the same thing except 17yrs of marriage & with children Involved 😭 thank goodness she did not have kids with the man! On a positive note, it's good to see that Jeannie has a lot of love and support from friends & family. Healing comes with time.
I wish I could look so pretty when I cry😓
Pablo Lovie loool tbh
Lol
She was sexually abused and her mother not supporting her for 8 years???? That is the biggest hurt.Then to have a parasite for a husband for 10 years!!!!.Girl you are a strong woman but to see you break down there shows that you hide your feelings and hurt inside.You are a champion.
@Javi Ruiz you can clearly see tears lol
Lol looking pretty when you cry is just a superficial thing lol
What a bunch of wasted years and energy. Well, YEAH shes hurt! 👀She loved him. To add insult to injury, she JUST found out that the man she recently divorced, JUST had a baby by another woman. The timing doesn't add up. They were still married while the other woman was pregnant. Its HOW he did it. Deception is real.
@Carissa Best He knew before marrying her that she didn't want kids. If he knew that before marrying, so that was his fault.
At least he will have children. This asian girl didnt want no kids. Hes actually smart by jumping ship
@@everettfanor1989 It's her life and she is a woman you wouldn't understand.
You are all right, she didn’t want kids, he did. And she said before the reason for the divorce was that. She didn’t wanna hold him back. BUT, he got the other woman pregnant while he and Jeannie were still together. THATS the problem.
Danielle Cleary I believe they were in the process of a divorce when he got with the woman and him and Jeannie were already divorced when the other got pregnant they had been separated for a long time
Feeling very sorry for Jeannie, she seems like she's full of love and comes across as a kind genuine person. Her life with Freddie was probably a test from God and a real man will find her soon and it will a wonderful experience for her. I'm so happy for you in advance Jeannie Mai ❤
James 1:13 When under trial, let no one say: “I am being tried by God.” For with evil things God cannot be tried, nor does he himself try anyone.
Reinah Alexa thank you for this bible verse
@@KeaYang21 I'm very happy that the verse helped you.
A test from God? Are you serious?
God is within her, she will not fall -Psalms 46:5
Life is too precious to waste it with the wrong person. Love this Loni
Jeanie was so brave to share how she really felt. Ladies don’t confuse being strong with not having feelings. It doesn’t mean you are weak if you hurt. It means you are a beautiful lady with feelings. It’s best to cry and get it out and help your healing process.
PERIOD!
Whoever reading the comments and posting longer videos for the new season. KUDOS! We appreciate YOU. 💗💗💗💗
They posted a super short clip of this yesterday and people were complaining lol.
She said "when somebody shows you who they are, believe them the first time" completely true
so true !
Word to Maya Angelou
I appreciate Jeannies honesty and vulnerability. She probably helped someone going through the same or similar situation.
I’m have a really hard time going through my divorce right now and this specific girl chat came to mind. When Jeannie says “you truly don’t know a person until they don’t get what they want” it really hits home. I never thought my relationship would end the way it did, I don’t even recognize my partner (well, ex) at this point in life. I really feel Jeannie’s pain here but seeing where she is now in life gives me so much hope! I truly miss this show so much but I’m grateful for clips like these! ❤️
She’s getting a divorce now and her husband filed not her I hope she didn’t carry that toxicity they say be careful if you don’t heal from what hurt you….you will bleed 🩸 on someone who didn’t cut you 😢
I know your a strong grown woman but to see you crying like this makes me feel sad.
I hope you'll find your right one very soon, because I want to see you falling in love again and be genuinely happy.
A New Love Official she needs to love herself and heal first. Jumping in a new relationship is not going to help that.
Nothing wrong with crying like that, she is honest with herself,,,
Before i thought he hurt her but she was his side chick before they marry so my question is did he hurt her or she get her karma
Come on girl Jeanne stop lying girl you knew who he is coz you was his side chick come on
I would disagree. In this particular instance, his love for her was eventually trumped by his desire for fatherhood. This appears to be the only reason he cheated/left her. Had she been amenable to bearing his children, will he have left her after 10 years? I would believe not.
So glad this show exists!! Their friendship is so real and inspiring
agreee... u feel it radiate from them.. im just new into watching this so im currently binge watching and i lovee it
She's now happily married. Jeannie Jenkins ♥ 💍
I almost married someone who was could have ruined me. My ex was away at work for the summer and when the summer ended we were suppose to elope and move away. Well at the end of the summer I kept calling him and he never answered my calls. My ex's best friend's wife had to call me and break the news that the reason my ex never called is because my ex cheated on me and the girl ended up pregnant. I was completely heart broken.
Then 3 years later I had a very good friend tell me that knows my ex and told me his wife was having so many problems with my ex. It was problem after problem with their marriage.
After that I thanked God for the heart break I went through in the past because God saved me from a very bad relationship. Before I knew everything, I ignored the red flags because I chose to but it's very very important to pay ATTENTION to those red flags.
Jeannie is a wonderful, strong woman. She is an example to young women everywhere to stay true to who you are and dont change your views to appease no man, I'm happy she didnt have kids with him to please him, she deserves better.
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 she is BETTER!!!
That’s why it’s important to be upfront about this stuff from the get go. And if these two people were,they shouldn’t have married.
@@jazzya7383 Neither one of them wanted children when they first got married but her ex husband changed his mind which caused the conflict.
This is how I feel about it also. Too many women compromise on this just to "keep a man" and then usually end up breaking up anyway. And now you have a child in tow. I think we all saw the split coming but i'm disappointed that Freddie would do her like this. All this was unnecessary. Like really? You couldn't wait until the divorce was final before you went raw in another woman? You had to have a kid right now? smh.
Just shows he was narcissistic and didn't attach to her like she did to him
I always thought 40 was old when I was younger but these ladies show me that 40 is really the beginning of your life. You have gone through all these things and you only then know exactly what you want out of life. It also helps that they're freakin gorgeous.
Hadou Khai beautiful comment
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾Well Said
It is
This is so off topic, but it’s so crazy how one persons energy & presence effects a group as whole. Ever since Tamar has gone, they are so much more understanding and respectful of each other. I discovered their true selves only after Tamar left. Tamar’s energy and presence caused so much negativity and grudges towards each other, leaving them not trust each other, pick sides and just not act like themselves. Whoever decided that Tamar needed to go, THANK YOU.
Yasmeen k I agree, although I never liked her overall. Her bad energy came through the tv
Nelofar K yes!! For reals! She was so dominating and oppressive that it hindered the growth of their friendship and show.
i agree
Nelofar K It’s the truth ever since she’s been gone I think the dynamic has changed for the best
Tamara was the reason I considered watching this show in the first place.
Every body needs a friend like Tamera!
tam holding jeannie’s hand is so sweet
I wish I’d put my education 1st, money 2nd and relationships laster than last😭😭😭😭
Vy Sharieff thanks big sis,I will take this with me for the rest of my life.
Me too
I echo that! nobody taught me how real life was gon be, everything was peaches and cream..Now I have 3 girls oldest are 11 and 13 and u better believe I stay in their heads about education first. I met their dad at 14 had my oldest at 18 and its been a real lesson.
Nokukhanya Nthanzi Please do Sweetheart, your education will take you more places than so guy you have the hots for😉
Vy Sharieff I swear my life would have been 2000% happier if I did this
Oh Jeannie look at you now 🥰
Like Steve Harvey said best❗️ don’t collect Red Flags, run & run fast when you see the first one ☝🏾 I need to learn this ugh 💜🤟🏽
she is so much better off without that cheater
He cheated on her?
Did he cheat on her?? someone please tell me.
Anisa J yes he did. He knew the girl he was with for years. He since 2015 has been liking her insta pictures and commenting on her posts. And 7 months before Jeannie revealed they was getting a divorce Freddy and Jeannie went on a trip and fredddys current girlfriend was there too. She was freddys side chick and now girlfriend
Looks better- physically and through how she looks!!! She is MORE VIBRANT than ever- and I didn't think that was possible. She is a viking. She is a warrior woman!!!
And with that long distance relationship they had, I’m not surprised he cheated
I’ve never heard that quote before but it’s the truth. You really see people’s true colors when they don’t get what they want. And things can get really nasty or hurtful sometimes. God bless Jeannie
what has he done to her?
Freddy was wrong to say, "you really truly don't know a person until they don't get what they want", because a true man would never said to his wife like that, rather a man accept his wife as his own and together they figure out what's the God's plan for their life.
I'm 23 years old and still single but I can judge, 'Freddy love for Jeannie was selfish!'
Amen
never heard it before? are you brand new or just white???????????? its sooooooooooo OLD. been hearing it since the 90s.............
@@serenityq26 I never heard that either.
But had I heard it, I don't think I'd feel the need to be so arrogant.
Was that really necessary?
Did it accomplish something? Well something other than making you look like a harsh person?
Awww Jeannie look at God you found true love and you're going to be a mom. I am so happy for you!! Like Loni put it so eloquently..."Life is so precious"...and I am adding to it.."Life is so short "!!
Fast forward 2022, Jeannie is happily married with a child. Just keep living, tomorrow makes a big difference. What you're going through now won't last. Just get through it, you'll be better then you ever imagined. Look at Jeannie then and look at her now (2022), that's all the actual proof you need.
Literally this!!
Jeanie is like the queen of the real. Without her, the real wouldn’t be the real
No dont do that. All of them has a touch of this, that and the third. All of them are Queens .
yall said the same thing about tamar..........how quickly you replace your false idols. mmmm hmmm
Dazain Ambhutsang AGREED!
This was one of the BEST episodes. I know this is The Real, but this was the REALIST. My heart went out to Jeannie as she stripped herself bare about her divorce. It's time to say, "BOY...BYE!!!"
Jeannie is acting
@@jonnydavis6066 Everyone is entitled to their own opinion.
@@evilevie2000 keep believing that. She using this platform to destroy Freddy character. Everyone knew Jeannie didn't love freddy. Everytime u saw Freddy on the real he look like someone took his manhood
@@jonnydavis6066 How is she using this to destroy his character? And if he was really unhappy he should have left a long time ago.
@@evilevie2000 he tried to work things out.
... now she's happily married and pregnant what a beautiful turnaround😍
I’m watching this after she got engaged to jeezy 🥺 so happy for her
Jeannie is the epitome of strength! What a woman! My heart shattered when she started crying.. You can really feel her pain. Yet she's still our here bossing it every damn day! Encourage, supporting and loving others with her infectious energy, while she's dealing with her own circumstances. You'd never know she was getting divorced if you didn't know her. Always smiling! Honestly Jeannie you're such an inspiration! And we will pray for fast healing 'cos giiiiirrrrl you way too fine (inside and out) to be crying tears hunny! ❤️❤️❤️
My love goes out to you Jeanie
Her husband was already messing with that woman. We know that
Exactly!!
Right because she got pregnant fast
@@camara1194 when they are in the early stage of divorce, Freddy got a gf and was expecting a child. So they were saying that he may have "cheated" on Jeannie to get to know his current gf and got her pregnant because Jeannie just got divorced like a year ago. This, I found by searching his Instagram and doing some searches online. But I'm not sure if that's is the only thing that Jeannie is crying about because she also mentioned money in this clip, maybe he wants to sell their house that they lived in. Idk because I don't follow the show that closely.
Sassy Girl Creative they even went on a weekend getaway and the girl was there.... Freddy is real messed up!
Well they were in the same hunting group so probably, the next one is always close by
I'm glad she's found her soulmate...I hope Jeezy respects and treats her Right
I felt so much for Jeanie. I'm going through a divorce right now, were ok now and everything is going really well. We're working together about everything to do with our futures and our childrens future but I am so scared that it will turn ugly. Hugs Jeanie.
Btw you look fantastic!! I hope I hit 40 and look as good as you.
She’s right I swear your gut tells you everything...at the end of the day no matter how much we wanna hold on to something if it ain’t right for us we truly know so. As humans, our intuition is everything!
Learning who you are and trusting yourself to listen to your gut... that's the challenge.
Jeannie...despite seeing you crying (hurting)... you've never looked more beautiful. You are keeping it real being honest (raw)/transparent. That's "real", that's beautiful. You can help so many people who are going through this. But you better be prepared b/c something better is heading your way :)
This is exactly why she's happily married with a newborn ❤️ we love you Jeanie!
Good call Adrienne! It was Maya Angelo who said that
Jeannie, I appreciate your honesty and transparency. Thank you for being open, it will help a lot of other women. Your pain is palpable... but I truly believe everything happens for a reason, so from this heartache something great will arise.
Tavia A. ● BULLS-EYE 🎯 !!!! ....... EXTREMELY WELL SAID !!!!
Thank God Jeannie did not have a child with Freddy. I saw the likes and inappropriate (for a married man) comments he left under Linsey's Instagram posts since January of last year. Like damn could he really not just keep his cheating ways strictly to her DM? He has no shame :(
I saw too yesterday i wanted to comment n cussed him out. Freddy a loser i shld break up n then do that, asshole.
Definitely some DMs but they’re not that dumb to release it
What were the comments like??
California Cation I heard people actually did comment under a post on his IG and it got so bad he was deleting comments until he just deleted his comment section completely.
@@averixu4836 i saw ones fr june they divorce oct, saying "u look cute" "one of my fav pic" etc...i read it and got hurt for jeanie. It just sucks bc freddy seem nice but he started to resent her and his babymama n total country white girl and freddy prolly didnt like how jeanie went for swag. Opposite dont always attract. He resent her. But yes the comments were "lookin cute"
And now your happily married and having a baby. Time heals and things change. Thank goodness.
i remember watching this when it first came out, and my heart hurt for jeanie. it’s so nice to watch this knowing she’s doing true love and is expecting. i’m so so happy for her.❤️