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  • @priscillao1064
    @priscillao1064 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3115

    Tamar with the 'don't nobody take your power' is everything!!!

    • @raynee6668
      @raynee6668 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      i dont get it
      wht does it mean?

    • @tater4442
      @tater4442 7 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Ayan Hashi basically saying dont let's some else control you, or your decision, you keep your head high not matter what, because a lot of people would kill to see you fall

    • @raynee6668
      @raynee6668 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Oh ok thanks!

    • @brienethefox853
      @brienethefox853 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Also shows Tamar is a great friend.

    • @freshstart4423
      @freshstart4423 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      They make stuff up, Kiki Palmer has multiple personalities and isn't diagnosed yet. It's a serious issue.
      Her book isn't real because she assumes different personalities and imagines stuff that didn't happen.
      Childhood trauma causes DID.

  • @swaggpro17
    @swaggpro17 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5376

    YESSSS Tamar preaching in the beginning to Tamera when she was about to cry. "Don't give nobody your power now tell your story" that's a friend that's worth keeping 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @sharzhay
      @sharzhay 6 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      Lol apparently not ..

    • @marqusdaimen4624
      @marqusdaimen4624 6 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      LOL.. Apparently she wasn't worth keeping, considering.....

    • @tsmitty5782
      @tsmitty5782 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Sharzhay La fleur they had nothing to do with her getting fired so apparently

    • @rc2369
      @rc2369 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@rararodrigo1677 they said on the breakfast club that they havent spoken since

    • @soobindoll9767
      @soobindoll9767 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Fr

  • @crysg9739
    @crysg9739 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3135

    I love Tamera's humbleness. It makes her 100x more beautiful

    • @zora99ny
      @zora99ny 8 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      +Chryss Garcia humility

    • @Melathegreat
      @Melathegreat 8 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      She was my favorite growing up. I'm glad she stays grounded even through so much fame

    • @theepunkrockprincess
      @theepunkrockprincess 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +NYCzora lol

    • @HeyMyLifeIsLibby
      @HeyMyLifeIsLibby 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      News flash: It's one of the first things that makes her beautiful.

    • @tllymchll7474
      @tllymchll7474 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      agree 1,000%

  • @GabyTeeMUA
    @GabyTeeMUA 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4759

    Omg Tamar looks so beautiful with her hair like that!!!

    • @annieparker2788
      @annieparker2788 8 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Absolutely gorgeous.

    • @catqueen2031
      @catqueen2031 8 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Ugly goofy twin my fat ass😂 she is gorgeous

    • @dfranklin5497
      @dfranklin5497 8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      +Queen of the World she said Tamar lol . But Tamera is gorgeous, I wanna find out who wrote that letter

    • @CassieJazz96
      @CassieJazz96 8 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      +GabyTeeMUA IKR! When I saw her in the thumbnail, I was like she looks so PRETTY!

    • @CassieJazz96
      @CassieJazz96 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Kimberly Seaborn I think they were jealous in the first place, Tamera was always naturally gorgeous!

  • @aaannnyyy99
    @aaannnyyy99 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1438

    when tam said the girl called her ugly but not her sister......
    THEY ARE IDENTICAL TWINS SISTERS !!!!!!!!!!
    both beautiful

    • @jojopemb2218
      @jojopemb2218 7 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      Anny F *sigh* identical twins don't always look the same. Tia and Tamera aren't identical in looks. Their DNA is just identical.

    • @aaannnyyy99
      @aaannnyyy99 7 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      Jonelle Pemberton umm they clearly look alike almost identical... and they not ferternal soo ya they are identical

    • @jojopemb2218
      @jojopemb2218 7 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Anny F u literally just said "they clearly look alike almost identical". U literally JUST said "almost". There is no "almost" in identical. U either are or u aren't. That's like saying ur almost pregnant. Either u are or u aren't. Identical just means they shared an egg. Nuthin to do specifically with looks. Mary Kate and Ashley Olson look completely alike and yet they are fraternal twins because they had their own egg and sperm separate from each other.

    • @aaannnyyy99
      @aaannnyyy99 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Jonelle Pemberton ........ i said almost because the mole

    • @jilln.1761
      @jilln.1761 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      ik im way late. but on ones DNA is identical

  • @KeishaCharmaine
    @KeishaCharmaine 8 ปีที่แล้ว +513

    Tamera went OFF!! Go girl!!

  • @Empressive
    @Empressive 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1826

    Ugh...they always make me cry. Adrienne spoke to my heart. When you go through a rough time, go to the place where you're loved. Even if your love ones are not around....God is still there and He loves you more than anyone. I commend Tamera for getting over that hurdle of insecurity as well. Hearing things like that is so painful, especially when you're young. Tamera is the furthest thing from ugly. Never accept detrimental lies about yourself.

    • @annieparker2788
      @annieparker2788 8 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Amen to that.

    • @C2G2
      @C2G2 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Empressive YES! Thank you I definitely needed to read that today in 2018. Bless you.😚😘✌❤ & soul.

    • @joycevaughn9028
      @joycevaughn9028 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Empressive im late but yesvits help me get through

    • @bossqueenStar
      @bossqueenStar 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      God is good to us don't matter what happens 🙏🙌😇

  • @alansimpson8384
    @alansimpson8384 8 ปีที่แล้ว +624

    Tamar can be so freaking extra sometimes but I find that she always show love especially toward Adrienne. You can tell Adrienne and Tamar talk a lot about Adrienne's insecurities and sadness. I remember when Adrienne finished singing the Selena song and Tamar started crying and hugged her and said she loved her. She's like a big sister to Adrienne.

    • @dimeziaire
      @dimeziaire 7 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      They were SUPER Close. Adrienne was even in one of Tamar's videos & on Tamar & Vince Adrienne Was Always over Tamar's house. You can tell that all the ladies were friends but Tay Tay and Adrienne were EXTREMELY close.

  • @08kbaby
    @08kbaby 8 ปีที่แล้ว +485

    I love the way Tamar looks at Tamera in such admiration at 2:34! She was so proud and happy for her overcoming that burden. Their friendship is so cute and inspiring

  • @murielmelly7688
    @murielmelly7688 8 ปีที่แล้ว +841

    Tamar was a awesome friend to Tamera here. 😚😚

    • @CONGLOMERATE32
      @CONGLOMERATE32 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Muriel Melly I disagree, I thought it was too pushy

    • @missaddis8929
      @missaddis8929 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Only for her she's was rude for Janine

    • @Aliasss
      @Aliasss 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      miss Addis - who the hell is Janine?

    • @jacksongotthetea3118
      @jacksongotthetea3118 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      How is it too pushy she's giveng her strength and confidence to say it. @@CONGLOMERATE32

    • @Eddy6159
      @Eddy6159 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Tanya Carrie shut up

  • @NadiaVenice
    @NadiaVenice 8 ปีที่แล้ว +738

    Adrienne's story was beautiful. Not gonna lie I teared up. It's so true though. Material things and fame should never be ones end all be all.

    • @tianamarie6210
      @tianamarie6210 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nadia Venice they are fake!!!

  • @Cheezfuz92
    @Cheezfuz92 8 ปีที่แล้ว +935

    Tamar is serving Toni realness here

    • @CastellonZamora
      @CastellonZamora 8 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      +Steven Toro ugh yes it is giving me LIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIFE

    • @des8679
      @des8679 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Wow I thought I was seeing stuff I can't believe how much she looks like her with this style so gorgeous

    • @lanadavis8238
      @lanadavis8238 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Omg yes she looks just like her!!!! I thought it was her at first

    • @queenmarie1232
      @queenmarie1232 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Tamar is serving Tamar realness

    • @TianaTajana
      @TianaTajana 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I thought it was her

  • @rafaellayorke1991
    @rafaellayorke1991 8 ปีที่แล้ว +179

    "Regardless of what happens I can still go home"
    #PREACH
    That within it self is a God given blessing!

  • @DivineVibrations9
    @DivineVibrations9 8 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    "I can still go home" simple, but powerful ❤️

  • @kkingmusic13
    @kkingmusic13 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1558

    Adrienne's story I really sympathies with with me going of to private college world renowned n then having to come back home like you really feel like a failure because you here stories of your friends getting there first apartments & having great jobs and your just, back home trying to make things work and it sucks but you have to realize some people can't go back home people people aren't as blessed as you are to have a family to fall back on so I totally understand at least that's what I took from it....

    • @Gossiptgirl
      @Gossiptgirl 8 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      Thank you, you just put everything I'm feeling right now after graduating university into words. We are lucky to have family to fall back on.

    • @itsfriday9139
      @itsfriday9139 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +Yellowlover94 preach

    • @TShashini266
      @TShashini266 8 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      +Yellowlover94 I am going through the same thing...having achieved academically and getting opportunities to work not knowing this can fall apart I had to return home. right now I am home it has been this way for two years it teaches a great deal. It is not the end though I consider this as a loooooong break.

    • @itzallaboutmeee5506
      @itzallaboutmeee5506 8 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      +Yellowlover94 Going through the same thing. I'm graduating this May with two bachelors and I've been applying for jobs, can not for the life of me find a job offer and It's looking like I am going to have to move back home. I feel like my friends are successful and i'm a bit embarrassed that I haven't "Made It" yet. Anyways, I have to look at the positive and remember that at least i have a home to go back to.

    • @shawnpreston1639
      @shawnpreston1639 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yes! That's my story/situation. For some ppl it's do or die. There is no going back home.

  • @Shabulousx3
    @Shabulousx3 8 ปีที่แล้ว +441

    I'm feeling Adrienne's story. Going to college and graduating with a 3.5 gpa and still not getting a serious job, hurts. It's been 7 months so far, and i feel like a failure. I'm living at home with family, not going out and its depressing. I went from an active lifestyle to hardly moving from bed. Her stories motivate me.

    • @mariono244
      @mariono244 8 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      +S Kim Sis it's a painful and hurtful situation to be in - doing so well at school and all these expectations you had are not met, I'm here to tell you and encourage you that God has better for you.I've been there and I know I will be there again at some point in my life. He's doing his part and he needs you to do your part - to keep on trusting, being the best you can be, reaching out to others and sharing your pain like you're doing now and most importantly act like you already have the blessing he is about to open for you. This is key, that dream job waiting for you - will you be acting the way you are now if you had that job? Act like you already have the blessing you're waiting on. This is not the end of a story but the beginning of a new chapter. Sending you love and light!

    • @mariono244
      @mariono244 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +S Kim I also recommend you watch Daring to Wait on God by Rick Warren - it's told from a Christian's perspective but he has some key messages that are relevant to every human being! x

    • @Shabulousx3
      @Shabulousx3 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Marion Osieyo thank you for this beautiful message, it means a lot, I truly appreciate the advice

    • @momoVerse-z5h
      @momoVerse-z5h 8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      babe... I have been where you are and all I can tell you is don't forget how amazing you are...3.5 gpa!!! YOU ROCK! you don't see it now but something amazing will come your way...be patient and oh sweety please please be kind to yourself. This is just one of many seasons in your life and it gets better-promise.

    • @kedeidradupree164
      @kedeidradupree164 8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I went through the same exact thing. It's been 5 months. Keep your head held high girl, God's got us ❤️

  • @brianna1350
    @brianna1350 8 ปีที่แล้ว +618

    Wow..Adrienne had me in tears. I'm grateful that I have people that love me for me! "We can all go home." That's a very powerful statement. Whatever or whoever your home may be, you know that you're safe when you're there.

    • @amandaclbn8324
      @amandaclbn8324 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +brianna1350 fr especially seeing as to how everyone is bashing right now. I balled my eyes out lol

    • @tianamarie6210
      @tianamarie6210 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bri.V.M. really😂😂 they are fake

    • @anewno6240
      @anewno6240 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      So true. I quit my job and I am not successful at school so drop out but now I am home. Thank God for that. I can feel happy, safe because I have home and people who love me

    • @freshstart4423
      @freshstart4423 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don't have anyone who loves me and all I care about is my salvation.
      The racketeering, extortion, bribery, coercion, witchcraft, necromancy and idolatry is nasty.
      Deuteronomy 18:9

  • @tllymchll7474
    @tllymchll7474 8 ปีที่แล้ว +621

    There's nothing ugly or goofy about Tamera, the Lord's children are never ugly nor goofy! That person had serious self esteem issues, and took it out on Tam-Tam.

    • @jannahnurul
      @jannahnurul 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Truth!

    • @tllymchll7474
      @tllymchll7474 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you

    • @ClearLavenderSky
      @ClearLavenderSky 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      +Michelle Talley I mean seriously what "fan" writes a letter like that? I wouldn't be a surprised if it were some jealous kid she went to school with before they became famous.

    • @45mo4528
      @45mo4528 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      +Michelle Talley what's wrong with being goofy anyway?

    • @madamebishop
      @madamebishop 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +45mo4528 I think she mentioned one time that being goofy was interpreted as being an airhead.

  • @amaracheee
    @amaracheee 8 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    When she said "we're real people and REAL PEOPLE love us" oh my goodness that almost broke me. Yasssss Adrienne!

    • @annieparker2788
      @annieparker2788 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Adrienne was speaking to the haters.

  • @harlemfruean9365
    @harlemfruean9365 8 ปีที่แล้ว +739

    I love Tamar in this one 😌😭😍❤️

  • @AkiffHssn
    @AkiffHssn 8 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    I've been poor and have been rich again...and poor and rich gain..and its okay. :') deep & appreciate life now thats everything -AdrienneBailon

  • @SeniorLife2012
    @SeniorLife2012 8 ปีที่แล้ว +237

    I have NEVER seen Adrienne just ..open herself up like that. like, damn. it gave me all kinds of feels. I actually cried on her part and not Tamera story. but that's because I have heard Tamera talk about her story about her insecurities many times. but Adrienne is more closed off with some stuff. and she don't cry a lot so it made me cry 😢. lol. but I'm proud of all the ladies.

  • @mouna3242
    @mouna3242 8 ปีที่แล้ว +164

    I really liked Adrienne's story. I'm happy that she knows the true meaning of happiness which is at home with her family. That's a hard lesson to learn, especially know that everyone wants to be rich. When I saw Tamera crying I immediately stopped the video so I could write this comment. I know people are gonna say that Tamera's a crybaby, but people only cry because their in pain. It can be a happy pain of a memory of a bad time and how you pulled through. Or it could be a sad pain in which you remember a bad experience and re-live the pain. It's okay to cry.

    • @amandasteiner3616
      @amandasteiner3616 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      mouna3242 Tamera is ALWAYS in pain then... 😵

  • @aprilinparisxoxo
    @aprilinparisxoxo 8 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    I LOVE what Adrienne said! It's always ok to go back home ❤️

    • @tianamarie6210
      @tianamarie6210 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aprizzle they are fake😂😂😂😂😂

  • @traykin123.
    @traykin123. 8 ปีที่แล้ว +212

    Tamar you may never see this but you are AMAZING. you support these women so much and I want to thank you for that.

    • @ClearLavenderSky
      @ClearLavenderSky 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +Kin Ny When was Tamar ever supportive? The others yes but Tamar is one of the messiest women on tv. I swear people will allow themselves to see and think whatever they want.

    • @traykin123.
      @traykin123. 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      EarthlyHue so if people will allow themselves to see and think whatever they want let that be my opinion. 😑 I think she was very supportive of tamera in this segment. I stand by my original comment.

    • @ClearLavenderSky
      @ClearLavenderSky 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well I won't let only one supportive moment determine my final thought of someone. Good day.

    • @traykin123.
      @traykin123. 8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      +EarthlyHue I never asked. . good day.

    • @rainbowturtleness
      @rainbowturtleness 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +EarthlyHue Watch other videos then and let that thoroughly fucked up opinion of yours change when you see how wrong you are, and don't be stubborn and refuse to change your opinion either.

  • @peachlife5118
    @peachlife5118 8 ปีที่แล้ว +176

    Adrienne's story is something I can really relate to. I had been the star student in my family but I dropped out in 12th grade. It really showed me people's true colours as my cousins came out of the woodwork to throw shade at me and basically wanted nothing to do with me as they went off to their colleges and new jobs. Now after 5 years, I have started at university. They are all coming back around wanting to associate with me again and in this time I have learned that I am a happier person without their approval/them in my life. I would rather just live to please first and foremost GOD and then myself.

  • @tranvo1846
    @tranvo1846 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1536

    I want Tamar to be my bestfriend I feel like she's gonna kill anyone who done me wrong 😂

    • @ashleyfrancis1212
      @ashleyfrancis1212 8 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      haha for real tho..she had her back

    • @niahart7641
      @niahart7641 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Tran indeed She would be my Friend she has great advice that you cannot take away from her and learn from She is funny and will make me laugh so much And she will get anyone who did me the wrong way

    • @deannayork2771
      @deannayork2771 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ashleyfrancis1212 Ikr.

    • @sweetheartluv1823
      @sweetheartluv1823 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She cried bullied by Kmichelle. We all need someone stronger. Who has Tamar back?

    • @SimplyTaz21
      @SimplyTaz21 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      No that’s Fr! 😂

  • @BlahBronxJodes
    @BlahBronxJodes 8 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    That is soooooo real Adrienne, no matter how UP we may think we are, we can all be STRIPPED DRY!! But.. at the end of the day, I am glad I can hold my head up and... go home! #HUMBLED

  • @angie23621
    @angie23621 8 ปีที่แล้ว +301

    I love the ladies. They're such amazing role models, and they have such beautiful and kind spirits. They might make me cry because of their stories, but that just shows how real they are.
    P.S. If you're ever in Los Angeles, go to a taping of those show. They're so nice to everyone. They'll say hi and talk to the audience during the break, and stuff like that. Can't wait for seasons 3&4. They totally deserve the blessings.

    • @angie23621
      @angie23621 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      *this

    • @sizzle19
      @sizzle19 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Amen. Truly beautiful women, inside and out

    • @meliss90
      @meliss90 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      do u have to buy tickets or canu show show up?

    • @angie23621
      @angie23621 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      ranya x you have to request tickets on their website. An audience coordinator will send you the tickets the week before the actual date that you signed up for.

    • @meliss90
      @meliss90 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      how much are they do y know?

  • @anaointa
    @anaointa 8 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    I appreciate Adrienne's words bc I'm going through that moment of "going home" right now. It feels as if no matter what you do and how hard you work, you somehow end up stagnant in the same situation. We really are more than our career aspirations. As long as we do good by people day by day, remain faithful, and hard working, we're winning! It's so easy to be hard on ourselves or lose hope but we are blessed beyond measure. And who knows? What if God is actually protecting you from that thing you want RIGHT NOW or thinks you need just a little bit more time to grow. Keep going, yall! I really appreciated this segment and their candidness.

    • @yvetteboafo5838
      @yvetteboafo5838 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Shaz123 I am going through it too and your words are so true! Amen

    • @GoodMomBeauty
      @GoodMomBeauty 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You better say that!!!

  • @chktkart8540
    @chktkart8540 8 ปีที่แล้ว +207

    OH DAMN IT. Whoever poked my eyes he\she better admitted. What are you talking about? I'm not crying.

  • @clairew1718
    @clairew1718 8 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    Tamar is such a supportive beautiful person. Tamar supporting Tamera is the cutest thing, they are 100% best friend goals.

    • @tmo7297
      @tmo7297 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Totally Agree!

  • @iamsoiexist7192
    @iamsoiexist7192 8 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Adrienne we all seen you in the spotlight and fade and come back alot of times, I'm glad youre okay to not let fame determine who you are and keep your ego in check knowing God can take a blessing as fast as it was given

  • @kareemcoleman335
    @kareemcoleman335 8 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    That was powerful Adrienne! A lot of people don't understand they can go home. A lot of people have allowed Fame, Money, Things to define they.... Thank you!

  • @amnesianbro9220
    @amnesianbro9220 8 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    "Regardless of what happens in life, I can still go home" That really spoke to me, thank you Adrienne.

  • @ja.m9562
    @ja.m9562 8 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    The love Tamar has for Tamera and Adrienne is so beautiful. ❤️

  • @animemangaluv13
    @animemangaluv13 8 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    I love Tamar being the cheerleader in the back in this clip, you can tell she has been there for Adrienne and tamera listening to this and giving them kind words~

    • @ltsoul9751
      @ltsoul9751 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I couldnt tell at all, not for Adrienne, she was making light of it, joking, and laughing at her, she didnt seem sympathetic at all.

  • @anti_ivyy
    @anti_ivyy 8 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    there are no words for how much i love Tamera!!!

    • @kanmaliving
      @kanmaliving 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Absolutely no words

  • @anaointa
    @anaointa 8 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    I absolutely ADORE Tamera! She is so incredibly beautiful to me.

  • @MajesticMyronn
    @MajesticMyronn 8 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    I think that what shaped me into the young man i am today is my parents always telling me "Know when to follow and when to be a POWERFUL LEADER !!!" When you are good follower , you'll be a BETTER Leader!!!

  • @manny1488
    @manny1488 8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Adrienne is amazing at her job. She addresses the audience, she poured her heart out, kept it beyond real and I loved how her whole recount had a theme of "going home".

  • @ebonymitchell6963
    @ebonymitchell6963 8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Thank You Tamera and Adrienne for your vulnerability, it has definitely helped me. I once had a lady tell me that if I wasn't married by 25 something was wrong with me. It stuck with me for years and as a result I made some stupid relationship decisions from the insecurity that was birthed out of what she said to me. I realize how asinine that "wisdom" was and its made me more aware of what I say to other people. I have forgiven her for all her foolish statements.

  • @jaymak_16
    @jaymak_16 8 ปีที่แล้ว +217

    I loved Adrienne message ....I feel like Tamera is really insecure when people compare her to her sister she is growing out of it though

    • @Sonic_and_DuckyYT
      @Sonic_and_DuckyYT 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      agreed but i feel like shes still dealing with it and suppresses it

    • @tianamarie6210
      @tianamarie6210 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jay Mak they are fake🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @kamrynm2210
    @kamrynm2210 8 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    ADRIENNE NEVER CRIES I LOVE HER SOOOOO MUCH 💓💓

    • @annieparker2788
      @annieparker2788 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So true when Adrienne gets to crying it breaks my heart.

    • @tianamarie6210
      @tianamarie6210 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kam Marshall fakeee🤣🤣🤣

  • @joejill51lala
    @joejill51lala 8 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I loved Tamera's story, but I'm even more shocked that I heard Tamera say "Damnit" lol TWICE AT THAT. Love Tam. I relate to Adrienne story a lot too!

  • @gigitea4205
    @gigitea4205 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Adrienne is speaking volumes today! "This isn't everything." 🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @D3IM2NTEIII
    @D3IM2NTEIII 8 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I love moments like this on The Real! Incredibly inspiring!

  • @theregoesbryan8641
    @theregoesbryan8641 8 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    What Adrienne said was so beautiful and so real and so honest and inspiring. I love this show so much ❤️!

    • @tianamarie6210
      @tianamarie6210 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      ThereGoesBryan fake 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @shecops985
    @shecops985 8 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I swear i knew Tamera was about to cry as soon as I saw her face at 0:25

    • @londa4793
      @londa4793 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      I didn't see it at all but awww

  • @iwannaseeit1979
    @iwannaseeit1979 8 ปีที่แล้ว +176

    Tamar!!! I thought you were Toni in the thumbnail for this video....

  • @alienlarry
    @alienlarry 8 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Tamera and Adrienne are beautiful. AND I HAVE NO IDEA WHY TAMERA FELT THE NEED TO THINK SHE WASN'T BEAUTIFUL!!! AND Adrienne your TALENTED AS HELL. success will always find you. Stay beautiful everyone you are loved

  • @SA-nt9kl
    @SA-nt9kl 8 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I love tamera so much!
    She's beautiful in and out, such a beautiful spirit

  • @Lovely_her199
    @Lovely_her199 8 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Whew Tamera had me emotional for a second. I had to get myself together after she stopped talking.

  • @selormk.4235
    @selormk.4235 8 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    This is just what I needed.... I live for episodes like this❤️

  • @nisha5290
    @nisha5290 8 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    This reminds me of the scene in cheetah girls where Chanel says "the cheetah girls are over ma"

    • @OMGitsAmora
      @OMGitsAmora 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Loves Pink yesssss omg

    • @quiselarnell
      @quiselarnell 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Loves Pink it really does

  • @citlalyramos9994
    @citlalyramos9994 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "don't give nobody your power, don't give one person your power, you take all your power back"-Tamar . the way she said it touched my heart, such a beautiful quote.

  • @farhiyayussuf9814
    @farhiyayussuf9814 8 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    tamar's that friend that will forever ride on you but have your back when you truly need her 💙

  • @sxcgirlieox
    @sxcgirlieox 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This makes me feel so much better, i love these women so much. They're all so genuine and incredible, thank God for The Real, y'all really do make my day.

  • @AmmaMama
    @AmmaMama 8 ปีที่แล้ว +241

    Hell yeah I remember 3LW!

    • @amandaclbn8324
      @amandaclbn8324 8 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      +Amma Appiah I'm getting a lil tired of your broken promithes promithes

    • @ChrisBHoni
      @ChrisBHoni 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +Mandy X'O-twod pettyyyyyy 😂

    • @misskemo
      @misskemo 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +Mandy X'O-twod the lisp is intergeral to the song lol

    • @amandaclbn8324
      @amandaclbn8324 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      lmaoooo I had to

    • @asha1195
      @asha1195 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      +Mandy X'O-twod that joke never gets old lol

  • @ItsdancingmarinaZUMBAREGGAETON
    @ItsdancingmarinaZUMBAREGGAETON 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love how she says don't be nervous don't give anybody your power , take your power back 👏👏👏

  • @kourtneyjackson2663
    @kourtneyjackson2663 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Damn Adrienne delivered a sermon!! Fame and all the glitz and glamour that come with isn't everything. Having supportive family and friends matters so much

  • @killlamas57
    @killlamas57 8 ปีที่แล้ว +549

    I wanted to hear Loni's insecurity so badly. Smh.

    • @heyQui
      @heyQui 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Awww 😂😂😂😂

    • @annieparker2788
      @annieparker2788 8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      She did last season about how sometimes she don't feel good about herself.

    • @vizengwa
      @vizengwa 8 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      +annie parker Lol that's not specific enough

    • @osimeon00
      @osimeon00 8 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      Please. She will never open up. She'd probably talk about bacon, alcohol, or some one night stand that caused her to be the woman she is today.

    • @kelsaMJ
      @kelsaMJ 8 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      she has several times. A lot of her old stand up reveals it as well as her last season saying she wasn't good enough, she was too fat, she was this and that and I feel like it would be redundant if she hasn't said it over the years again and again.

  • @freegratuits
    @freegratuits 8 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I envy Adrienne with regards to her comment. I came to America as an immigrant hoping to find my pot of gold but have been delayed along the way having so many obstacles and having to help family back home. Sad thing is, when I was at the end of my rope, when things were unimaginably difficult, I could not, for one second, imagine being able to go home. My own family members and former friends were so envious of me leaving that when they would find out I was having troubles, they would laugh at me and outwardly mock me to my parents. I am doing much better now and people ask me to come back but even though I miss home terribly, I don't have that peace that will allow me to go back unless I am close to filthy rich or successful. People have enjoyed hearing that I suffer and then asked me for dollars. My story is SO COMMON amongst immigrants, especially from ALL OVER my lovely continent of Africa. I've met people who haven't gone home for over 30 YEARS because of this shame people back at home put on us. People's mothers are dying and they'd rather miss the funeral than deal with the mockery of those who are supposed to welcome you.
    When folks ask me when I'm coming home I feel like I no longer have a home and enjoy the anonymity of the US where people support your hustle because they see you sweat everyday trying to make something out of nothing. They see the courage of having left your home to come to a foreign land. At home they laugh and say "ha ha did she really think she could make it in America," while they have never even moved out their mama's home.

    • @jsallysally
      @jsallysally 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      im American and you story is my story...

    • @freegratuits
      @freegratuits 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +thatGirlkarina Gosh you're making me cry. I need these words everyday. Thank you for being so kind and generous with your heart to a stranger. I'm trying my best all the time. I'm at a place now where I am secure and not so affected by people at home, but it takes a lot of fighting. I'm going to save your comment so I can read it whenever I feel I have no strength. I wish all the same to you in your journey, dreams and happiness. Thank you so much and all the best to your whole family as well - especially your parents!

    • @freegratuits
      @freegratuits 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Ms. Shauna (Juicie) I wish you the best sis. So you know how tough it is, how so many people want you to fail, but keep your head high and keep it all together. It takes a warrior attitude to make it.

    • @riseup6112
      @riseup6112 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Go home

  • @batoolabbasi2746
    @batoolabbasi2746 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I think seeing Adrienne's fall into obscurity then her rise again is so emotional and amazing. What she said about failure and embracing it and being okay is so great. i am 17 and i have a lot of dreams that re not as guaranteed as going to a college and finding a mediocre passionate job is. I am part of the studious crowd but i dont want to be stuck in a boring life based on some other person's definition of success (read: money, money, money). But i am sooo deathly afraid that what if i fail? the embarrassment, the regret, the public humiliation. I have to learn to be okay with that like adrienne did. I dont know if adrienne will ever read this but i just wanna thank her for her words.

  • @Maxqueenn
    @Maxqueenn 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Adrienne's story on going home reaaaallly resonates with me & I can relate to it so much, I had tears in my eyes listening to her. I appreciate these women for being open & honest with the world because people like me who are truly listening to them, took so much from this moment.

  • @stephanieb4763
    @stephanieb4763 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I still come back and what this clip especially for Adrienne's part. I love what she said and the message she sent out. Absolutely beautiful.

    • @MariFenty21
      @MariFenty21 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here i come back to this video constantly! Such good gems in the segment

  • @PrincessOfTheUniverz
    @PrincessOfTheUniverz 8 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    If you really read these comments... I wish you somehow cross paths with this one. I wanted to compliment the whole panel for contributing a variety of "real" opinions and life anecdotes that truly connects with different viewers. I can only watch y'all through your you-tube videos and can only see the clips you guys put on this channel, so I thank you for doing this on a daily. I think everyone offers something different which makes the show so wholesome. I literally find myself talking back (not in a weird way) because I feel like I am talking to my peers and friends. There is not a panel out there that is like the Reals... who with all the success you guys have gotten, y'all stayed 100 and humble the whole time. I pray for y'alls continued success.

  • @RoodianneTide
    @RoodianneTide 8 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    There are so many internet bullies these days. I feel like people genuinely forget that the people they're watching on tv or online are actual humans with real feelings. If you don't have anything nice to say in the comments section, just keep it moving!

  • @homegirl44
    @homegirl44 8 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    "Oh my God. So we all just gonna let it free? We gon' caw caw?" - LOL I love me some Adrienne. Her and Jeannie are my favorite personalities, but Adrienne's personality is more like mine.

    • @amandaclbn8324
      @amandaclbn8324 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +Reyna yaaasss

    • @itsfriday9139
      @itsfriday9139 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Reyna ADRIENNE WAS CRYING BECAUSE OF HER PASTOR DRAMA NOT THE PAST LOL

    • @amandaclbn8324
      @amandaclbn8324 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mia Walker and how is that funny? you just heard her say she reads the comments, with all the trash talk in these comments i'd cry too

    • @itsfriday9139
      @itsfriday9139 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mandy X'O-twod BOO HOO?

  • @mariahb8927
    @mariahb8927 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love these ladies so much. I appreciate how "real" they are with one another and with us. Adrienne really made me tear up. :( I'm so happy that they are renewed for a 3rd & 4th season. Go ladies!

  • @rockxstarr818
    @rockxstarr818 8 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    i dont know why that hit me so hard i can go home because you forget yo some people cant go home im so blessed to be able to go home

    • @NinaPrissyMurphy
      @NinaPrissyMurphy 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This made me cry. Because I get it. I work so hard because for me it is everything. I cannot go home. I'm glad people have that. Some aren't strong enough to have no where to go.

  • @josephlovely7759
    @josephlovely7759 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I graduate from medical school in my country Haiti in 2016, I immediately immigrated to USA. All my colleagues were going to specialization or work, here I was with no job, nothing going on. I was really depressed. I felt like a failure like Adrienne said. Here, I am today doing an MPH at Mount Sinai grad school in NY. You just have to be patient and be grateful for our family if you do have one to support you. There'll be dark phases but it's never the end.

  • @MsBrooklyn11232
    @MsBrooklyn11232 8 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Tamera is a beautiful person inside and out and I agree with Adrienne because celebrities are normal people just like everyone else but the only difference is their bank account. People feel that they can say whatever they want to these celebs and what people seem to forget is that they have feelings just like everyone else. If only people are more sensitive and showed more empathy towards each other this world would be a better place.

  • @Sonic_and_DuckyYT
    @Sonic_and_DuckyYT 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Adrienne's message is just beautiful. I really feel for the people all alone in this world and lack a loving home, sometimes you pick up the pieces make it and build your home.
    Nothing like the free and genuine place of happiness like a family with a beautiful home.

  • @AlphabetSoup123
    @AlphabetSoup123 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Preach Adrienne! You spoke to my situation and my heart! I appreciate that!

  • @StrongnBeautiful
    @StrongnBeautiful 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Perfect example of why The Real is my show! God bless all of yall.

  • @Zanaaa50
    @Zanaaa50 8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    We can all return "home" literally and figuratively and spiritually!

  • @pizdaaumaa1089
    @pizdaaumaa1089 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    2:45 Tamar's laugh, 4:01 Loni's face, did she even know what she was talking about? I love when they cry because it shows them how real they are!

  • @colsomemiah6095
    @colsomemiah6095 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Tamar has the perfect personality for a talk show: funny, inventive, original, so very talented: I don't watch the show since she 's not there..great for a mid morning laugh

  • @Expresstruly3
    @Expresstruly3 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    The ladies from the Real are so inspiring. I literally come home looking forward to watch these short clips that make me forget about my real life for a little while. When I have a bad day I think to myself I can't wait to get home and go watch the real. I laugh, I cry and I learn new things. I seriously wish this show goes on for years to come because there is nothing like it on TV at the moment. All these ladies are beautiful, strong, inspiring and hardworking. They laugh, they cry and boy do they keep it real. I love this show, I love them, I love coming home and watching this so much. Thank you thank you thank you!

  • @mariahplummer4611
    @mariahplummer4611 8 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    God damn this clip made me love Tamar... look at how she looking at tamera and Adrienne

  • @gardening4zone970
    @gardening4zone970 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You ladies are awesome...Thank you for being so real!

  • @enosynce
    @enosynce 8 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Daggone it, I was a Sister, Sister fan, I wish I knew about the fanmail address back then!

  • @rachaelxcooper
    @rachaelxcooper 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Adrienne makin me cry over here. Loved this clip.

  • @demetriastevenson3086
    @demetriastevenson3086 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love Tamar for how she supported Tamara while she was struggling 🤞🏼Bring her back please 😭

  • @nadevi92
    @nadevi92 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love this show so much. You ladies are the real people.

  • @jazariathompson3402
    @jazariathompson3402 8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Tamera is so confident and beautiful! I love me some Tam Tam yaaaas want he do it! ❤🙌 All of the ladies look wonderful 😊💕

  • @lamoskgr
    @lamoskgr 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I cry every time I watch this video. When Adrienne said that it's ok to go home. My life changed 180 degrees. I really love this show.

  • @fanficbarbie
    @fanficbarbie 8 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    "Oh we all just gon set it free, we gon caw caw" lmao I'm sorry but Adrienne made me laugh 😂

  • @nataliehhowarth
    @nataliehhowarth 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love how y’all involve God in everything!! It makes me emotional 😭 So proud to see strong women speaking truth and knowing God! ❤️

  • @marshmellowsafari
    @marshmellowsafari 8 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    You guys should sell 'The Real Tissue Boxes' as preparation for each segment!!! Thank you for sharing stories we can relate to guys!!! Love from Trinidad!!! Always!!!

  • @venusmoodie4874
    @venusmoodie4874 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bro Tamar is amazing her putting them tears away you're a survivor. Don't be nervous don't give anybody that power

    • @alexandraanderson3988
      @alexandraanderson3988 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah I like that statement this has to be one of her uplifting postive moments here because the rest in the comments people say about her are just negative in general apparently😕😕🤔

  • @niahart7641
    @niahart7641 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love T At the beginning Her words were absolutely powerful and true!

  • @min.faithgogbarjallah2495
    @min.faithgogbarjallah2495 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Story of my life. Adrienne said my heart.

  • @JaybBritts
    @JaybBritts 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You guy's are all amazing people please never feel sad because you are all loved and blessed. You all have so much love to give keep believing in your self and always smile because you are all beautiful and gifted individuals. Thank you for sharing ur stories to us and letting us in. We all love you so much because of that and i for one have so much respect for you guys.

  • @shanice_a
    @shanice_a 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Seeing Tamera cry... Awww... It made me cry when she told her story. She is so Soft-hearted and seems to be such a Beautiful hearted human being. I love her.

  • @fionnaadeline7525
    @fionnaadeline7525 8 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    i love how tamera's voice doesn't crack one bit when she's crying like that

  • @davinnaligons9812
    @davinnaligons9812 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    'Home' surely is a wonderful place and I thank God for it. (Thanks Adrienne for that reminder).

  • @SunkissNia
    @SunkissNia 8 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    I'm not sure how they cry with eye makeup on. I did it once and my eye was burning for hours.

    • @TheYvi33
      @TheYvi33 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂oh gosh so funny! I totally know what you're talking about

  • @anewno6240
    @anewno6240 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This segment helped me a lot. I dropped out of a program I was working on for 10 years because family needed income support. I was jobless for four months and this segment helped me and Thankfully to God I got a job now