@@iamyourmotherdoasisay6497 I'm sorry I would not have been able to contain myself. Especially since she does look like one and I'm not trying to be rude.
I think it's even worst to be bullied but have no idea that you are being bullied. That was my issue in school. People would call me names and take advantage of me but since I THOUGHT they were my friends I thought that it was all in good fun. I never realized that they were laughing at me and not with me.
When she said that someone said that she looks like a Muppet, it looks like Tamera moved her hair out of her face, like, "let me see, do u look like a Muppet? " lol
"But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you." - Jesus ✟
I use to get bullied from Kindergarten to 11th grade in NY and I hated going to school. I would tell the adults, like I was taught, about it and all I got from them was.."Just walk away". The more I did, the more I got bullied. If I stood up for myself, I would get detention and the bully would get off scott-free, THEN was on punishment with my parents. When I was promoted to 12the grade, my father announced that we was moving to Florida. I was sooo happy and relieved because I felt like it would be a fresh start for me and NO ONE would bully me again. Well, I was wrong. I started getting bullied again for no apparent reason. One day, this bully approached me in school during lunch and spit in my face. At that moment, I had flashbacks of NY bullies and before I knew it, I was on top of said bully and proceeded to ware her out. At the end of the day, I got in-school suspension..she got expelled...and NO ONE bothered me again. I graduated with Top Honors while she had to repeat her grade twice. #karma
I got bullied for being dark skinned, for not having blue jeans, for being kind of chunky, and for just being me in general. Kids can be so mean in school.
Don't worry about what those kids say. Focus on yourself. Find the positives. To them your skin may be bad, but to others it is radiant. Many people tan to get darker skin. Just focus on school and your passions, and know that the only opinions you should care about is your family. They love you for who you are.
Denise 1101 baby you’re beautiful just the way you are! Brown skin or darkskin girl are the most beautiful creatures and that’s the reason why people hate us. Because have something that they don’t have and never Will have! Intelligent and a big open heart
I love how Tamar and Jeannie had a moment where they understood each other and I feel that that's emotion that you can't fake. the vulnerability in sharing with each other is real. I think that they might just be on their way to throwing less shade at each other.
"But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you." - Jesus ✟
These five women on the panel are not only insanely gorgeous, independent, sweet but also inspirational. Haters will always hate. That is their life goal, to bring down as many people possible because in their eyes its seen as an accomplishment to make someone feel awful to lift themselves up. No matter how successful or beautiful you are, you will receive negative criticism. Look at Beyonce for example. Woman is GORGEOUS, successful, and kind but yet people call her ugly, talentless, and obnoxious. If you cure cancer, someone will say "well you could've ended world hunger too" My point being, you will never, ever satisfy everyone so don't make that your goal, rather satisfy yourself or God and do not take haters seriously, they are just sad, lonely, and very insecure.
Thank You!!! Because there are a lot of haters online that are just trying to discourage others... But we have people like you and the second commenter so THANK YOU!! Finally we have some supporters
Yes. These women are so inspirational and inspiring that I can't even contain myself. When they cry, sometimes I cry. I just don't get how people criticize these women when they see so inspiring that people want to be them. People should respect them. Anyway, getting bullied in Hollywood is so hard because people in Hollywood think they run stuff and that they perfect. These girls respect God and they are his artwork. I love you girls so you stay positive and let the haters hate.👌🏻
3:57 i look like a muppet 3:59 “girl let me see” 4:02 “yeah you do look like one” 4:04 “i look like a muppet too, relatable” 4:08 “trying not to burst” 4:10 girl in white holding her laughter so much tears coming out
Yooo... Jeanie's "oh my God" after tamar asked if she looked like a muppet 💀😂and the way she put her face in her hands💀 and the way Adrienne pretended to wipe away tears 😂 and the audience crying lmao 😆😂
High school never ends. People will always put their own insecurities on others. The key to getting through it is not allowing your identity to be shaped by the world but instead allow it to be shaped by the one who shaped you cause when he looks at his creation he sees perfection.
"But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you." - Jesus ✟
I’m kinda anxious now cause I’m going to high school and I cut my hair 4 months ago and have bad dark spots on my face and I know I’m gonna look quite different sense it’s majority white people where I live.
@@user-qe6yw1bt9p dont worry. People dont really pay attention to things that YOU pay attention to yourself. Look up "the spotlight effect" I wish the best for you, and may The Lord bless you :)
It just doesn't make sense to me. Someone is crying out for help and putting their heart out on their sleeve, yet still in all these comments people are tearing her down even more. If you can watch someone fall a part and fall down on their face and struggle for happiness and STILL kick them around and push them down, you should be ashamed of yourself and know that you're a heartless person with a gargantuan amount of issues and insecurities.
Ya'll see shade?? You probably don't see the full episode. You only see clips of the hosts. Tamar and Jeannie are close, there this was one episode where they were touching and everything. (Like sisters nothing nasty lol.) The hosts have a sister relationship, you find them annoying at times but you still love them. Don't look for shade when there isn't.
She does that to everyone, it just appears that way because Jeanie doesn't receive it like the rest of the girls, and instead of laughing and brushing it off she seems to be offended by it. Before Jeanie they said it was Tamara she was bullying, the simple answer is Tamar is an outgoing, true to herself person and Jeanie often is one to be filtered and mild. They are opposites in how they represent themselves but she doesn't target Jeanie or at least she hasn't since the beginning. But Jeanie is so open ended and "Hollywood" (not really true to herself on tv which is fine) and Tamar is not, she has her own reality tv show so filter is not her thing. If you watch her show it honestly seems like she does that to her mother all the time, she is just open and funny with her delivery.
I feel so bad for Tamar because most of us don't know how it feels to have the whole world pointing and laughing at you & calling you a muppet and the pressures she deal with. But Oh my gosh when she said that muppet part and Loni had to hold in her laugh I was done. If I was on that panel Tamar would hate me because I would have busted out laughing. I have no self control when it comes to laughing. And before anybody says "thats not funny, you're insensitive!", Its not the fact that people call her a muppet, it's how she said it all of a sudden and the face that Loni made trying to hold the laugh in. I truly do feel bad for Tamar.
+Jadiee I actually busted out laughing. It really isnt because I agree with the name calling but her tone and everything when she asked the question. honestly thought they were all about to start laughing. im not a mean person but that part had me dying
I am sorry to say this but she brought this on herself. She started the whole K . Michelle battle by calling her a liar on social media, after she stated that her ex boyfriend abused her. There are some things in life we bring on ourselves and this is one of them.
ckmissghana Tamar already explained that situation. She said she wasn't even talking about K Michelle. K Michelle is the one who flipped it and made that statement seem like it was about her.
Jadiee I love tamar's music but I call a spade a spade. She is known for throwing subliminal shade on twitter and then when she Is called out, she deletes them. I follow her on twitter and I clearly remember tamar re tweeting Toya wright's comment where toya called k Michelle a liar and tamar added her own caption to that tweet saying that Toya should ignore the haters. This tweet was immediately after they aired love and hip hop Atlanta. Tamar should have stayed out of it because it wasn't her issue.
Ria Demi some people laugh to keep from crying and maybe that's I believe that's what Loni is doing. I don't believe she I laughing at her co-hosts. remember she feels like she has to be strong. so maybe laughing is a way to keep from crying
Pecolia Williams Loni should've laughed and said u do look like muppet but a cute one..Then she should've said well I been called Miss Piggy so we on the same boat girl
What’s wrong with the audiences reaction? They’re watching a person break down about something that they likely can relate to, I don’t see why they wouldn’t be emotional.
Im really glad they did this, happy to see that moment between Jeanie and Tamar, long overdue. I always thought Tamar was shading Jeanie before (i still do) but maybe it wasnt as personal as I thought (but you never know). Regardless of past shade or issues we saw or thought they had/have, this moment was genuine and I guess thats all that matters
I felt that Jeanie was trying to address Tamar shading her by pulling a reverse psychology by asking the "bully" so Tamar is made aware of what she has been doing to Jeanie or other people. Tamar has been shading Jeanie, and Jeanie didn't address it in the past because like she said she did a "flight". Also if people are doing you wrong or bullying you, you must call them out on their behaviour.
I completely agree! I think Tamar and Jeannie hardly ever agree so it always looks like Tamar is being shady. It's obvious they don't have a strong connection but I don't think it's personal at all. This moment was so great and you can tell that Jeannie and Tamar really understood each other.
Ya know, I got recommended their videos like a week ago ( ayyyy.) And I felt like Tamar hated Jeannie, but after watching this I really do not see how it isn't obvious what the issue is. They try so hard to read off of each other that they create tension, Tamar constantly has these stories that basically spell out how hurt she was and still is, and Jeannie has these stories of being accepted and free no matter her mistakes. They have very different upbringings with the same family love. Tamar throws so much shade because she's envious of that light that Jeannie carries in herself to keep away the bad Meanwhile Jeannie feels like a weakling for not standing up and voicing herself like Tamar does. It's honestly very classic opposites attract, but they are trying to hard to peer into each other they expect the other to do something or say something and it hurts them both deeply. You can tell they want to be friends but they are afraid of the repercussions. I really really hope that after this they talked and realized they are both strong in their own lights and that they have each other and 3 other strong women that can cover their weaknesses and make them strengths as well. This was a turning point that was long over due and will create even more joy at that table.
It took guts for Tamar to open up and share with the world her issues. There is nothing funny about laughing at others pain. We are to have empathy for others and if you can't empathize then don't say anything at all. If you like being talked about and laughed at then that's you, but at someone else's expense that's rude, selfish and ignorant.
shes 48 years old and she still gets hurt by playground name calling.. and she still throws shade here, there and everywhere... if you cant take it then dont dish it. simple lmao
What does age have to do with hurt feelings, anyone at any age could get their feelings hurt. All I'm saying is who are we to judge when someone is crying out. Not saying that anyone is right or wrong but I don't really see her dishing constantly on one person. Of course you're going to say something back to not look cowardly or to fight back. We should grow up but no one does. At every stage I've seen clicks and petty people most older than myself so age doesn't matter.
But she did exactly that to K Michelle. How do you think their fight started? K Michelle mentioned on love and hip hop Atlanta that her ex boyfriend abused her and then Tamar took herself to twitter and said that it was a lie. Last year the guy actually confessed in court that he abused K Michelle. Do unto others what you want them to do unto you. The first person to call her a Muppet was k Michelle but only after Tamar made fun of her abuse situation.
I really love when they have these types of topics / episodes. Also, I am glad Jeannie and Tamar had that moment. That said a lot about what the issue is between them. They were both intimidated about each others individual strength and they discover that it was something they actually admired about each other. That was beautiful.
I guess..... LMAO y'all really *THINK* y'all know their issue... they never said they had an issue that's y'all negative ass minds who seem to put that together.
I don't know why people don't like Jeannie, but I truly feel like she is the most genuine, raw, human (as in relatable) host on this show, IMO. I think people aren't receptive to her because she's so unlike the other four, who all have that likable/entertaining "homegirl" personality. She exposes so much of her inner feelings, and her pains, insecurities, docility, reservations, etc. are always so easily perceivable. I feel like she's fighting a lot of inner wars, and I hope she triumphs. I love her!
I used to get bullied by high schoolers when I was just a young pre-primary girl in the bus. People bullied me for my skin colour, called me the rudest things. It made me stronger, I love myself more than I ever did .... & no one can take that away from me.
I used to be bullied when I had no friends. It was really hard, and I saw the bullying as shameful and low of me to have done to me. I hid it from my family, and was depressed as a young girl because I had no friends to stand up for me or go to to get away from it. I was a nice, quiet girl, so I had no idea how to respond to such cruelty I have never received before for no reason.
Well, if I was Tamar, I would suck my tears up and say, "Well, I may look like a muppet but at least I don't look like Donkey from Shrek." (Hint, hint K. Michelle).
Seriously knowing myself I would've burst out laughing so hard. I commend these girls for keeping it together because it was just so unexpected and random. But in all seriousness, Tamar is absolutely beautiful. She is stunnnning !!!!
Like I've said before and this only confirms it. Jeannie doesn't like confrontation. I'm not trying to start a debate but I'm only connecting two videos together. People would claim she doesn't have a problem because she doesn't speak up. Wrong answer. She won't speak up because she doesn't want to start a rift/confrontation. She can learn to speak up WITHOUT it being something that would drive a wedge. She really has to find that voice. Of course people may say I'm nitpicking but I'm simply making an observation. Anyway very nice segment ladies!
Julya L I don't think many people like confrontation including myself but sometimes it has to happen when you're dealing with certain people. I used to be like this. I didn't have much a voice and I swept so much under the rug. I learned to speak up and when you get to that point, you become more outspoken and people will actually respect you more. Your voice matters. Don't forget that.
Julya L mine too. I'd rather slink away than stand up and defend myself. The fear is if my response doesn't shut you down, and you come harder...what next. I aint got time for that. I would much rather ignore. But the truth is all that I suppress just builds up and I either isolate or explode. Neither is healthy, but such is my life
Shantae Durden for me it's not about one upping someone. Simply defending my view is enough. Voicing my opinion and having a response is enough. Whether they choose to go further is up to them. I'll hear them out but depending on their response I'll leave it where it is. I assure you that speaking up isn't so bad.
This was so touching. I cried the whole time. I've been bullied for almost my whole life so this really hits home for me. Thank you ladies for being so open. This is definitely the best girl chat so far.
This lady in the yellow did not prepare anyone for what she was about to say, and it shows. Like damn at least say: “Now this is going to sound funny.” Or something… NO! She said that so serious and sobbing. She tested all those poor ladies that day.
Woow wooow wooow!!! This segment tho!!❤️❤️ loved it! I think that I speak for a lot of people when I say that this is the moment we all have been waiting for! Jeannie and Tamar bonding! This was very beautiful!! Loved it! God is good!
This got to me to the core I've been bullied all my life and it's still happening thank you for talking about a topic that is so current.you are all so amazing and beautiful.
Tamar, it ain't what they call you, it's what you answer to. I know what it's like to have someone try to drag you, and call you names that have you curled up in a ball crying at night. But stand strong. You will win that way. She is an insecure person who has to have her fat shifted around her body to love herself. You're worth so much more. Don't do this to yourself sweetie. Stand strong.
+Mitzi Harrison Aww, I wish my school did that (back when I went to school). If it was said everyday like that, it'll always stick with the listener. That's a good idea.
I am dealing with my daughter being bullied and it seems no matter how much I tell my daughter to be strong and don't listen to those bullies, the words still cut deep and the scars are there! All we can do as parents is love , show compassion and support our children through it all.
Elementary school was AWFUL for me. I was bullied and ostracized pretty badly. I would tell my teachers about it, and their response would be 'try to make friends with them.' I found this offensive because I was being myself and they were the ones who made things hard for me. I can absolutely relate to these stories (though we're not going to get into the details of my own experience); looking back, as the only Black girl in my class, I felt like the girls were really insecure about how some of the guys would look at me (as I was developed/curvy early) and tease me in that light obvious way that you do when you like somebody. There was a lot of insecurity and jealously. My solace was in the library at school and the local one near my house. That's probably why I love reading and writing so much; the ability to escape into another world where you loose yourself in other characters...its the best. As a result of this, I don't take bulling lightly. If my future kids have any issues at school I'm going straight to the teacher and then to the principal. My parents didn't take it as seriously as I wish they had, but I won't make the same mistake. Try me not when it comes to my future kids. Parents have an obligation to make time for their kids and develop their characters. Now that I'm older, I understand that a lot of these bullies are lacking something at home. They may have parents who aren't active enough, or they may have difficult situations at home (as we all know dysfunction in the home manifests itself in a multitude of ways). You have to make time for kids, or don't have them at all. Let not your neglect impact my kids processes in life. I'm not here for that, at all.
Good for you. It seems that you've really taken the time to analyse the roots of your experiences. I completely agree with your points regarding a parent's responsibility as well. I also believe having an outlet is a big lifesaver. For me, it was dance class. I don't know what I would've done without dance.
Sally Riposte Thank you! I certainly have done that; it helps you look at how you can do things differently in your own life and for your future kids. Yes, I think having parents support and an outlet is so important .Ah dance is amazing! Aww! I'm glad you had it :)
that's why they attacked Jeannie last time saying that she's a phony cause she kept it together all the time...its because they don't have that and see it in a person everyday, Jeannie is always the most upbeat one on the show which is why they claimed her not to be as real cause she acts like everything is peaches and strawberries
Jeannie is a phony. I think she's racist and puts White people on a pedestal... She's on of those Asians who thinks White is Right. You know, if you work in the field, you get dark type of mentality. She just said on today's show(12/20/17) that she moved away from President Obama's hug as to not mess up her contour, but if had it been Jesus, she would go in for the full hug. When White Jesus is not even real... So phony and delusional.
Tayshun Taylor I second what you just commented especially when it is remarkably clear that Jeannie grew up around blacks and Hispanics and loved dating black men in the past. In an entire different old media interview, she went into it more than she ever will on The Real. I was lucky to find that interview. Besides, I know what that kind of Asian looks like lol.
i stayed up till 4am last night watching videos from this show .. i love the bond that these girls have and how they communicate and love each other and totally connect and learn from each other. its so great, they're definitely my goals.
U know those who are saying that k Michelle is stuck up I would agree with that only because I think she (can't remember if it was her) went on tour with another one of my favorite singers Adrian Marcel and I remember watching an interview that he said that he was trying to hug her like throughout the tour and she goes "hold on u just tried to hug me like 5 times already back up"
Jeanie & Tamar moment was EPIC tho! Loved seeing them actually showing some type of love towards each other. The bonus is when Tamar said "thank you friend". I loved it!
Now I understand why Tamar was always (or most of the time) so rude towards Jeannie. It's because she admires her! And you know how people say "Sometimes your haters are your biggest fans". Well that's kind of the case here. Imma be honest, I was shocked seeing these two so emotional with each other. I even started crying.
@Karen Parra I thought she was going to cry too at first after looking at the thubnail 😭😭but now after watching & looking at the comments this is making me think well maybe not🥴🥴🤭🤭😕
I really don't understand some of you. Some of you KNOW that Tamar is insecure about herself and have been calling it out forever. So why then do you throw it in her face and try and shame her? That's just malicious and unnecessary. We know Loni has her insecurities and she masks it with comedy, we know Tamar has hers and masks it with attitude. We know Jeanie also gets insecure and masks hers with poshness. Everybody has insecurities, why then do you guys always feel the need to rub it in their faces and make them feel bad about already feeling bad? Like come on.
DaVinChae Ford So just because she's insecure that's a reason to be mean-spirited and foul to people. Everyone for the most part is insecure but that doesn't mean they have to lash out and hurt people. I hate how y'all are really making excuses for Tamar. She's not innocent and knows exactly what she's doing. It's a shame y'all can't see it.
What you give out to the world, you get back. Her crocodile tears mean absolutely nothing because she has caused most of the bullying she's received. We all know as soon as she's feeling froggy again, she's going to go in and say another derogatory comment about someone.
Looks like I was right on point. No less then a few days after this episode, Tamar liked a meme on her instagram that shaded Ciara's singing skills. Smh. Crocodile tears I tell you.
I related to this I got bullied when I was 5 now I'm 11 and it still sticks to me but I just want to say that watching the real made who I am and is gonna form in who I want to be these five women has taught to not care what others think and just love yourself. I would just love to say thank you the friendship you ladies have is really inspirational and it shows what real friendship is so thank you♥♥
Well That’s talent right there😊 like probably part of her hidden talent. Not saying this was funny but in general if something is really funny when you know your supposed to be serious in that moment. I don’t know if I’ll be able to hold it in for that long tbh🥴🤭😐😊
To me, this was the most touching Girl Chat moment I've ever seen from the show and I started crying myself. When the ladies talked about their stories through bullying, I could really relate because I was bullied many times myself from elementary to middle school and it was terrible. Then, I remember my mom telling me to stand up to them and never be afraid to fight back. So, therefore, I can REALLY relate to what these ladies had to say. Now, I'm a better person when it comes to being bullied and I know what to do. And I can understand where Tamar's definitely coming from because I felt the same way. This was a VERY TOUCHING Girl Chat moment for me, especially. I'll always and forever love "The Real" and these fabulous, beautiful ladies and I hope to see a taping one day. #TheRealDaytime
i absolutely loooooooove this moment between tamar and jeannie . they are probably the most different people in the group as far as relativity and its so pure and real .
I don't think she was laughing because i think tamar was talking about Chris Brown when he called tamar and adrienne a muppet and a trout mouth ass bitch
When I was in 5th grade, I was bullied. In reference to what Tamar and Jeannie said about lack of strength, I get it. There were times when I would be sitting with my friends at the lunch table, and the person that bullied me would be sitting right there with us. I would converse, laugh, and joke around with my friends, pretending as if nothing was wrong; all the while, I would be trying to pry his hands off of me under the table. Not only was I scared to speak up, but I didn't know how. My friends had no idea what was going on. It got to the point to where he followed me home from school one day, and then busted my lip because I wouldn't willingly allow him to steal from me. I walked into my home, thinking I was going to hide the evidence of what happened, but the moment my grandmother caught sight of me, I broke down. My mother went up to the school the next day and that put an end to it (aside from him continuously unplugging the computer I was using, on the second to last day of school). His own friend defended me then. Now that I'm older, the disrespect doesn't get a pass.
SassylittoLady Thank you. I've always understood that it had nothing to do with me and everything to do with him. I just never understood what set me apart and made me his target.
Omg! Sorry to hear that. You actually was bullied but Tamar sitting up there saying she was bullied when she the main one starting stuff is an insult to people who really been bullied
+Widline Honore While I do agree with what you said regarding K. Michelle, Tamar HAS been bullied in the past for real. She mentioned on the show how she would get jumped by girls in high school and junior high. I think there's a realness to that, even if her EXAMPLE was questionable as bullying.
when Jannie said " being a mother and being a-" I started laughing because I thought she was going to say "being a mother and being a Muppet" no offince , she doesn't look like a Muppet I just found that funny
I really do love this talk show. Everyone is beautiful and different ways and supporting eachother . I love it and i love you guys!! Forever annnnd always
A real genuine moment between Tamar and Jeannie.
Tasha Joachim yeah
Tasha Joachim it's nice seeing them together
It's amazing that this comment could have 1.2 k likes, but yet have two comments.
3 nw
It really was a good moment
Right ppl always doubted them
I’m sorry but I busted out laughing when Tamera moved Tamar’s hair back like “Damn, lemme see.” 😂😂😂😂😂
Spencer Jay hahaha 🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂 I felt that too but she did it innocently
😮 😄😄😄😄😄😄. That is what it seemed like LOL.
GWORL 😭💀
shoutout to Loni for holding that laugh in tho....because if it was me BOYYYYYY
Ru C lol too funny 😂 I'm dead
Right, I would've been asked off the staged. 😂😂😂
@@melaninenriched7844 yall are evil Hahahaha
@@iamyourmotherdoasisay6497 I'm sorry I would not have been able to contain myself. Especially since she does look like one and I'm not trying to be rude.
@@melaninenriched7844 hahahaha
"Do i look like a Muppet?" Yo i lowkey feel like i wouldve died laughing after that
Taehyung's Gucci Bag same 💀💀
DEAD ASS 😭😂😂😂
Omg same 🤣🤣🤣
Same here
Highkey
I think it's even worst to be bullied but have no idea that you are being bullied. That was my issue in school. People would call me names and take advantage of me but since I THOUGHT they were my friends I thought that it was all in good fun. I never realized that they were laughing at me and not with me.
I feel you. this is how it was for me in high school too
Lol people are funny when they say bullying needs to stop when they bully
I think everyone goes through that, it's really hard to figure out if they are l aughing with you or at you.
I'm sorry that happened. I was Loni in high school and stood up against the bullies for people.
Yeah. The same thing happened to me in high school too. I couldn't wait to graduate.
When she said that someone said that she looks like a Muppet, it looks like Tamera moved her hair out of her face, like, "let me see, do u look like a Muppet? " lol
Shavonne Southern I think she was just stroking her hair as a sort of intimate comforting gesture, like moms do.
I died 😂😂😂😂 at this comment!!!
I get what you're saying. It was kind of a joke. Kind of. She was getting a 2 for 1 deal lol (also a joke........with a side of truth😀)
I'm dying at this comment 😂
Lmaooo
Loni wanted to laugh so bad😂😂
Angel Johnson yes it it because she looks like a Muppet 😂🤣🤣😂
Bane1Mirin 😂😂
She really wanted to laugh😂
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Yeah but it's not funny because people can say bad things about her too.
4:12 Adrienne is silently praying, asking God to give her every ounce of strength not to laugh.
I’m saying !!😂😂
"But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you."
- Jesus ✟
She feels sympathetic for Tamar but she's also trying to hold it in 🤣🤣🤣
Adrienne: *dear Lord please I'm begging you. I'll be less petty from now on I swear*
If God don’t hear her she’ll have to faint 🤣🤣🤣
I use to get bullied from Kindergarten to 11th grade in NY and I hated going to school. I would tell the adults, like I was taught, about it and all I got from them was.."Just walk away". The more I did, the more I got bullied. If I stood up for myself, I would get detention and the bully would get off scott-free, THEN was on punishment with my parents. When I was promoted to 12the grade, my father announced that we was moving to Florida. I was sooo happy and relieved because I felt like it would be a fresh start for me and NO ONE would bully me again. Well, I was wrong. I started getting bullied again for no apparent reason. One day, this bully approached me in school during lunch and spit in my face. At that moment, I had flashbacks of NY bullies and before I knew it, I was on top of said bully and proceeded to ware her out. At the end of the day, I got in-school suspension..she got expelled...and NO ONE bothered me again. I graduated with Top Honors while she had to repeat her grade twice. #karma
I feel you sista, congrats! :)
im from NY and i moved to florida too
I just wanted to say that I love these kind of stories because you see how people get stronger after the bulling and that makes me happy
Good for you!! Bullies are cowards!! I don't condone violence, but the person who spit on you deserved that ass Whippen!!
from New York as well and I got bullied too, even at work I have gotten bullied by supervisors. idk what to do it pisses me off.
Loni looked like she wanted to burst out laughing at 4:02
dying😂
I can't 😂😂
I would've done the same thing XD
I was trying really hard to get in the moment but when I saw loni I couldn't help myself. I replayed it a million times. I feel so bad though
I think that's just her face tho.
I got bullied for being dark skinned, for not having blue jeans, for being kind of chunky, and for just being me in general. Kids can be so mean in school.
Don't worry about what those kids say. Focus on yourself. Find the positives. To them your skin may be bad, but to others it is radiant. Many people tan to get darker skin. Just focus on school and your passions, and know that the only opinions you should care about is your family. They love you for who you are.
mouna3242 Aw well I'm grown now. lol that was years ago. If I new then what I know now I would have definitely stood up for myself
Denise 1101 baby you’re beautiful just the way you are! Brown skin or darkskin girl are the most beautiful creatures and that’s the reason why people hate us. Because have something that they don’t have and never Will have! Intelligent and a big open heart
Caz A True
Kids are cruel and vicious adults forget that
“DO I LOOK LIKE A MUPPET” Boyyyy I woulda been dying
😂😂😂 your profile picture makes this comment so much funnier. Me and you both, Idk how they were able to hold the laugh in 😂😂😂😂
Kermit: Hey Miss Piggy! We got a new one ova here!!!
ABSOLUTELY NOT 😭😂😂
If I was in the audience, I would have laughed out loud
I love how Tamar and Jeannie had a moment where they understood each other and I feel that that's emotion that you can't fake. the vulnerability in sharing with each other is real. I think that they might just be on their way to throwing less shade at each other.
"But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you."
- Jesus ✟
These five women on the panel are not only insanely gorgeous, independent, sweet but also inspirational. Haters will always hate. That is their life goal, to bring down as many people possible because in their eyes its seen as an accomplishment to make someone feel awful to lift themselves up. No matter how successful or beautiful you are, you will receive negative criticism. Look at Beyonce for example. Woman is GORGEOUS, successful, and kind but yet people call her ugly, talentless, and obnoxious. If you cure cancer, someone will say "well you could've ended world hunger too" My point being, you will never, ever satisfy everyone so don't make that your goal, rather satisfy yourself or God and do not take haters seriously, they are just sad, lonely, and very insecure.
Preach!!
Thank You!!! Because there are a lot of haters online that are just trying to discourage others... But we have people like you and the second commenter so THANK YOU!! Finally we have some supporters
Preach sister!!
+Latonia Samy Thank you... Someone that understands..
Yes. These women are so inspirational and inspiring that I can't even contain myself. When they cry, sometimes I cry. I just don't get how people criticize these women when they see so inspiring that people want to be them. People should respect them. Anyway, getting bullied in Hollywood is so hard because people in Hollywood think they run stuff and that they perfect. These girls respect God and they are his artwork. I love you girls so you stay positive and let the haters hate.👌🏻
Loni was trying so hard not to laugh at 4:00 .. omg ..I can't.
+Kayla White ur right its hilarious
i would've been that idiot to laugh and not mean it. ugh! lol
Moheb Ahmadzai lmfao I can't
She is so bad smh lol
how could you Loni?!!!!
3:57 i look like a muppet
3:59 “girl let me see”
4:02 “yeah you do look like one”
4:04 “i look like a muppet too, relatable”
4:08 “trying not to burst”
4:10 girl in white holding her laughter so much tears coming out
THE MINUTE BY MINUTE LMFGAO!!!!!!!!!
You forgot the dramatic "oh my god"
Girl lemme wee 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I'm dyiiiiiinggggg ans I don't feel bad cuz tamar is a horrible person
This is hands down the most underrated comment lmao
this comment funny ash😂😂
4:02 they would have had to take me off the stage. Lawd 😁🤦🏽♀️
right
Same 💀💀💀💀🤣🤣
LONI WAS TRYING SO HARD NOT TO LAUGH 4:01 LMAO
Grace 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
Grace lmaoooo yes she was but Tamar started the beef
Grace ikr 💀💀💀
Grace 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I’m going STRAIGHT TO HELL for laughing when she said “do I look like a muppet?” 😭😭💀
same
Yalllllll
it was really just the way she pushed her face towards them that did it for me
Same💀💀🤣🤣
Straight to Hell ??
Yooo... Jeanie's "oh my God" after tamar asked if she looked like a muppet 💀😂and the way she put her face in her hands💀 and the way Adrienne pretended to wipe away tears 😂 and the audience crying lmao 😆😂
So she was being shady too🥴🥴😐😐🤭
they all were LMFAO
they know they wrong for calling tamar a muppet she is fine as hell.
preach
+Queen Nicki you spelled muppets wrong jealous wrong and bitterness 😂😂
factss
+Ameiyah Gant 😂😉😂😂😂😂😂😂😂shhhhhhhh
+Queen Nicki Weellll, Tamar should've kept her 2© to herself when she felt the need to have an opinion about K. Michelle on her abusive relationship she had wit Memphis(
High school never ends. People will always put their own insecurities on others. The key to getting through it is not allowing your identity to be shaped by the world but instead allow it to be shaped by the one who shaped you cause when he looks at his creation he sees perfection.
"But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you."
- Jesus ✟
I’m kinda anxious now cause I’m going to high school and I cut my hair 4 months ago and have bad dark spots on my face and I know I’m gonna look quite different sense it’s majority white people where I live.
@@user-qe6yw1bt9p dont worry. People dont really pay attention to things that YOU pay attention to yourself. Look up "the spotlight effect" I wish the best for you, and may The Lord bless you :)
@@camoflage1948 I should check it out I’ve been dealing with insecurities and thank you for your time god bless you also my prayers are with you. 💕
Come on
1:47...I thought Jeanie was gonna say "I just wanna ask Tamar, being a muppet..." LOL.
Lol this is too funny
Lmaoooo brooo 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Lmaoooo brooo 😂😂😂😂😂😂
💀💀💀💀💀
Keen Lagerfeld LOOOL
This is the most Loni has ever made me laugh💀
YOU WRONG FOR THAT 😂
🤣🤣🤣
LMAOOO
Watch her talkin bout the eating healthy video!!! I died 💀☠️⚰️🪦💀☠️⚰️🪦
It just doesn't make sense to me. Someone is crying out for help and putting their heart out on their sleeve, yet still in all these comments people are tearing her down even more. If you can watch someone fall a part and fall down on their face and struggle for happiness and STILL kick them around and push them down, you should be ashamed of yourself and know that you're a heartless person with a gargantuan amount of issues and insecurities.
Amen!
+Steveyroxx..........well said!
+Steveyroxx..........well said!
Yea! Get Real!
If it was reversed and Tamar asked Jeannie that, Tamar would've still been dragged
Tamar: "this particular person, said I look like a Muppet"
Loni: shakes head, in mind "just a little"
me: 💀
just a little😂😂😂😂😂
Oh god you're so stupid
OhMyGawd.Everybody crying and I'm trying not to laugh.This comment hilarious af.
LMAOOOO
😨😂😩😩
Jeannie doesn’t act like the world is peaches and cream, she just chooses to be positive. Simple.
💯💯💯💯
That's literally what that means.
@@gladitsnotme exactly
Yes Jeannie is completely real and has a great heart! Frfr!!
@@gladitsnotme to act and to be, are two different things 🤭
Adrienne’s face is just trying to hold on laughter so badly! I know that face😂😂😂😂
Loni looked like she wanted to laugh when Tamar was talking about being called a muppet @ 4:01
I just noticed that and she was shaking her head
Bebe Heart Lol, Loni is a fool, I think she secretly agrees.
I think she does too +Tony Turner
Lmaoo I know I wasn't the only one 😂😂😂😂😂
Lmaooo I know it was a serious segment, but her face had me busting out laughing!
04:00 you know damn well loni wants to laugh
true
I couldn't hold it in......like at all
+Eric Moreno they all did lmao
Lmao ikr I was gagging
lol ur evil
Wow, probably the first time I've seen Tamar and Jeannie genuinely bond. Love them both!
I was thinking the same thing.
Caprisha Curry they are both really inspiring :)
+iampaxo yesss! So true!
Loni's face took me tf out , this is so iconic
How ironic that Tamar is crying about being bullied yet has no problem to constantly disrespect and shade Jeannie
I know hey massive bullshit
Ya'll see shade?? You probably don't see the full episode. You only see clips of the hosts. Tamar and Jeannie are close, there this was one episode where they were touching and everything. (Like sisters nothing nasty lol.) The hosts have a sister relationship, you find them annoying at times but you still love them. Don't look for shade when there isn't.
She does that to everyone, it just appears that way because Jeanie doesn't receive it like the rest of the girls, and instead of laughing and brushing it off she seems to be offended by it. Before Jeanie they said it was Tamara she was bullying, the simple answer is Tamar is an outgoing, true to herself person and Jeanie often is one to be filtered and mild. They are opposites in how they represent themselves but she doesn't target Jeanie or at least she hasn't since the beginning. But Jeanie is so open ended and "Hollywood" (not really true to herself on tv which is fine) and Tamar is not, she has her own reality tv show so filter is not her thing. If you watch her show it honestly seems like she does that to her mother all the time, she is just open and funny with her delivery.
it's all scripted
Linda B Tamar a black open minded no filter woman.
Jeannie a small Asian open minded no filter woman.
why is it that only Tamar is called the bully.
I feel so bad for Tamar because most of us don't know how it feels to have the whole world pointing and laughing at you & calling you a muppet and the pressures she deal with. But Oh my gosh when she said that muppet part and Loni had to hold in her laugh I was done. If I was on that panel Tamar would hate me because I would have busted out laughing. I have no self control when it comes to laughing. And before anybody says "thats not funny, you're insensitive!", Its not the fact that people call her a muppet, it's how she said it all of a sudden and the face that Loni made trying to hold the laugh in. I truly do feel bad for Tamar.
I'm the EXACT same
+Jadiee I actually busted out laughing. It really isnt because I agree with the name calling but her tone and everything when she asked the question. honestly thought they were all about to start laughing. im not a mean person but that part had me dying
I am sorry to say this but she brought this on herself. She started the whole K . Michelle battle by calling her a liar on social media, after she stated that her ex boyfriend abused her. There are some things in life we bring on ourselves and this is one of them.
ckmissghana Tamar already explained that situation. She said she wasn't even talking about K Michelle. K Michelle is the one who flipped it and made that statement seem like it was about her.
Jadiee I love tamar's music but I call a spade a spade. She is known for throwing subliminal shade on twitter and then when she Is called out, she deletes them. I follow her on twitter and I clearly remember tamar re tweeting Toya wright's comment where toya called k Michelle a liar and tamar added her own caption to that tweet saying that Toya should ignore the haters. This tweet was immediately after they aired love and hip hop Atlanta. Tamar should have stayed out of it because it wasn't her issue.
That moment when everyone is being serious and all but you wanna burst out laughing. I'm looking at you Loni Love. 😑 smh
Ria Demi some people laugh to keep from crying and maybe that's I believe that's what Loni is doing. I don't believe she I laughing at her co-hosts. remember she feels like she has to be strong. so maybe laughing is a way to keep from crying
No, that was funny. Like the emotion Tamar showed about being said to look like a muppet. Sometimes serious things can be funny.
Pecolia Williams Loni should've laughed and said u do look like muppet but a cute one..Then she should've said well I been called Miss Piggy so we on the same boat girl
EMPRESS 😫🤣🤣💀💀
Ria Demi I saw that too 💀💀💀
3:59 Tamera was like Bish, lemme see real quick 🤔😂😂💀💀💀😫🤦🏼♂️
LMAO
*OMFGGGG LMAOOOOOOO* 😂💀😂💀😂
Lmfao bruuuhhhh
I’m sorry that took me out.😂😂😂😭
Loni wasnt tryna laugh at 4:00 she shook her head 😂😂
dana johns lol
dana johns I swear
THE GIRL IN THE AUDIENCE AT 4:05 HAS ME DEAD LMAOOOOO SO EMOTIONAL GIRL CALM DOWN 😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂 Like for real
💀💀😭
Karen Arpuq Lol I was thinking the same thing
giirl we over here tryna be serious and you makin jokes😭💀 like okay mini Loni😂
Adriana was crying tamar was crying Jennie was crying . why wouldnt she be crying as well ?? I would have been to !
4:01 why was loni agreeing tho😂😂
🤣😂😭
She was sooooo keeping it in she was bout to burst 😂😂😂😂😂
At first I was wondering why everyone said it looked like Loni was holding in her laughter. I didnt see it at first but at 4:27 I was convinced.
Bri yes she was smiling
😂😂😂💯
Lmaoooo I never noticed this CTFU!
Thank goodness I wasn't there for the taping of this show. I always have the urge to laugh at the most uncomfortable times.
Same! Like the muppet part
Ahhh ok, Because you look like a Muppet yourself right ???
Somebody need to get their eyes checked cuz Tamar aint no Muppet boo. That woman is in her own lane of GORGEOUS☝
preach
*applause
hey, I just stumbled upon this video. yes, she is gorgeous. all the grown up guys would find her pretty, plus she carries herself well.
that's true what they said about her is so stupid
Can someone please tell me who called her a Muppet?
Lol at tamera pushing Tamar's hair back to see if she really looked like a muppet. But all jokes aside being bullied is not funny or cool.
Lil Durk yeah lol
I can’t take this serious anymore lol... feel like loni trying to laugh the whole time and the audience reaction lol I can’t 💀💀💀
What’s wrong with the audiences reaction? They’re watching a person break down about something that they likely can relate to, I don’t see why they wouldn’t be emotional.
Im really glad they did this, happy to see that moment between Jeanie and Tamar, long overdue. I always thought Tamar was shading Jeanie before (i still do) but maybe it wasnt as personal as I thought (but you never know). Regardless of past shade or issues we saw or thought they had/have, this moment was genuine and I guess thats all that matters
It was really beautiful to see the two come together.
I felt that Jeanie was trying to address Tamar shading her by pulling a reverse psychology by asking the "bully" so Tamar is made aware of what she has been doing to Jeanie or other people. Tamar has been shading Jeanie, and Jeanie didn't address it in the past because like she said she did a "flight". Also if people are doing you wrong or bullying you, you must call them out on their behaviour.
BeyondWords92 I completely agree!
I completely agree!
I think Tamar and Jeannie hardly ever agree so it always looks like Tamar is being shady. It's obvious they don't have a strong connection but I don't think it's personal at all. This moment was so great and you can tell that Jeannie and Tamar really understood each other.
Ya know, I got recommended their videos like a week ago ( ayyyy.) And I felt like Tamar hated Jeannie, but after watching this I really do not see how it isn't obvious what the issue is.
They try so hard to read off of each other that they create tension, Tamar constantly has these stories that basically spell out how hurt she was and still is, and Jeannie has these stories of being accepted and free no matter her mistakes.
They have very different upbringings with the same family love.
Tamar throws so much shade because she's envious of that light that Jeannie carries in herself to keep away the bad
Meanwhile Jeannie feels like a weakling for not standing up and voicing herself like Tamar does.
It's honestly very classic opposites attract, but they are trying to hard to peer into each other they expect the other to do something or say something and it hurts them both deeply.
You can tell they want to be friends but they are afraid of the repercussions. I really really hope that after this they talked and realized they are both strong in their own lights and that they have each other and 3 other strong women that can cover their weaknesses and make them strengths as well.
This was a turning point that was long over due and will create even more joy at that table.
Loni sooo shady! 😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂 4:05 yesssd
Loni and Adrienne wanted to laugh 🤣
They all looked like they wanted to laugh after the “do I look like a muppet?” 😂😂😂
It took guts for Tamar to open up and share with the world her issues. There is nothing funny about laughing at others pain. We are to have empathy for others and if you can't empathize then don't say anything at all. If you like being talked about and laughed at then that's you, but at someone else's expense that's rude, selfish and ignorant.
shes 48 years old and she still gets hurt by playground name calling.. and she still throws shade here, there and everywhere... if you cant take it then dont dish it. simple lmao
What does age have to do with hurt feelings, anyone at any age could get their feelings hurt. All I'm saying is who are we to judge when someone is crying out. Not saying that anyone is right or wrong but I don't really see her dishing constantly on one person. Of course you're going to say something back to not look cowardly or to fight back. We should grow up but no one does. At every stage I've seen clicks and petty people most older than myself so age doesn't matter.
Well I guess we'll agree to disagree. All I'm saying is what does everyone else have to do with her truth. But if you don't agree that's fine with me
+Amber S. likewise... peace out!
But she did exactly that to K Michelle. How do you think their fight started? K Michelle mentioned on love and hip hop Atlanta that her ex boyfriend abused her and then Tamar took herself to twitter and said that it was a lie. Last year the guy actually confessed in court that he abused K Michelle. Do unto others what you want them to do unto you. The first person to call her a Muppet was k Michelle but only after Tamar made fun of her abuse situation.
I really love when they have these types of topics / episodes. Also, I am glad Jeannie and Tamar had that moment. That said a lot about what the issue is between them. They were both intimidated about each others individual strength and they discover that it was something they actually admired about each other. That was beautiful.
Very true! It was always clear to me that they both had quiet admiration for one another. A very lovely moment...
I guess..... LMAO y'all really *THINK* y'all know their issue... they never said they had an issue that's y'all negative ass minds who seem to put that together.
CianoXoC are you finished?
Y'all be talking like y'all have hardcore FACTS! When in reality y'all just be speaking opinions. 😂
Are you finished ?
I don't know why people don't like Jeannie, but I truly feel like she is the most genuine, raw, human (as in relatable) host on this show, IMO. I think people aren't receptive to her because she's so unlike the other four, who all have that likable/entertaining "homegirl" personality. She exposes so much of her inner feelings, and her pains, insecurities, docility, reservations, etc. are always so easily perceivable. I feel like she's fighting a lot of inner wars, and I hope she triumphs. I love her!
I used to get bullied by high schoolers when I was just a young pre-primary girl in the bus. People bullied me for my skin colour, called me the rudest things. It made me stronger, I love myself more than I ever did .... & no one can take that away from me.
I used to be bullied when I had no friends. It was really hard, and I saw the bullying as shameful and low of me to have done to me. I hid it from my family, and was depressed as a young girl because I had no friends to stand up for me or go to to get away from it. I was a nice, quiet girl, so I had no idea how to respond to such cruelty I have never received before for no reason.
I hope you're okay now sweetheart❤️
:'(
+Bella McGuire I've been bullied before when i was little and I am very glad I watched this.
Well, if I was Tamar, I would suck my tears up and say, "Well, I may look like a muppet but at least I don't look like Donkey from Shrek." (Hint, hint K. Michelle).
wait k.Michelle was the one who called her a Muppet ??
+Angel Chukwu yes
he right tho💯💯💯
Who called her that!?!
I couldn't have said it better
this is so sad. im not laughing because of tamars story im laughing at lonis face when tamar said the muppet thing.
lol
Im just saying lol because u explained it to the comments even tho u didnt have to lol
Seriously knowing myself I would've burst out laughing so hard. I commend these girls for keeping it together because it was just so unexpected and random. But in all seriousness, Tamar is absolutely beautiful. She is stunnnning !!!!
i’m going to hell- “Do I look like a muppet??” Their faces trynna not to laugh sent meeeee 💀💀💀💀
Like I've said before and this only confirms it. Jeannie doesn't like confrontation. I'm not trying to start a debate but I'm only connecting two videos together. People would claim she doesn't have a problem because she doesn't speak up. Wrong answer. She won't speak up because she doesn't want to start a rift/confrontation. She can learn to speak up WITHOUT it being something that would drive a wedge. She really has to find that voice. Of course people may say I'm nitpicking but I'm simply making an observation.
Anyway very nice segment ladies!
Julya L I don't think many people like confrontation including myself but sometimes it has to happen when you're dealing with certain people. I used to be like this. I didn't have much a voice and I swept so much under the rug. I learned to speak up and when you get to that point, you become more outspoken and people will actually respect you more. Your voice matters. Don't forget that.
Julya L mine too. I'd rather slink away than stand up and defend myself. The fear is if my response doesn't shut you down, and you come harder...what next. I aint got time for that. I would much rather ignore. But the truth is all that I suppress just builds up and I either isolate or explode. Neither is healthy, but such is my life
Shantae Durden Right, exactly
Shantae Durden for me it's not about one upping someone. Simply defending my view is enough. Voicing my opinion and having a response is enough. Whether they choose to go further is up to them. I'll hear them out but depending on their response I'll leave it where it is. I assure you that speaking up isn't so bad.
I agree it's probably her personality, but I bet Tamar being a producer has a lot to do with it too. I've read that Tamar has a lot of say.
This was so touching. I cried the whole time. I've been bullied for almost my whole life so this really hits home for me. Thank you ladies for being so open. This is definitely the best girl chat so far.
This lady in the yellow did not prepare anyone for what she was about to say, and it shows. Like damn at least say: “Now this is going to sound funny.” Or something… NO! She said that so serious and sobbing. She tested all those poor ladies that day.
I’M DYING
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😂
They were in tears for holding that laugh! 🤣🤣🤣
Woow wooow wooow!!! This segment tho!!❤️❤️ loved it! I think that I speak for a lot of people when I say that this is the moment we all have been waiting for!
Jeannie and Tamar bonding! This was very beautiful!! Loved it! God is good!
This got to me to the core I've been bullied all my life and it's still happening thank you for talking about a topic that is so current.you are all so amazing and beautiful.
Loni is Messy as hell. 😂 She just wrong. I'm literally crying.
Celebrijay lol she was smiling
Tamar, it ain't what they call you, it's what you answer to. I know what it's like to have someone try to drag you, and call you names that have you curled up in a ball crying at night. But stand strong. You will win that way. She is an insecure person who has to have her fat shifted around her body to love herself. You're worth so much more. Don't do this to yourself sweetie. Stand strong.
True my principal tells us that in morning announcements
+Mitzi Harrison Aww, I wish my school did that (back when I went to school). If it was said everyday like that, it'll always stick with the listener. That's a good idea.
omg I thought you was Adele lmao
Do I look like a muppet?
J Medina yes
I am dealing with my daughter being bullied and it seems no matter how much I tell my daughter to be strong and don't listen to those bullies, the words still cut deep and the scars are there! All we can do as parents is love , show compassion and support our children through it all.
Tamar telling Jeannie she would have never known she was bullied knowing damn well she is her bully 🤣🤣
I was feeling sad until she asked if she look like a “muppet” that caught me of guard 🤣😂🤣
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 me too Its the way she said it , so dramatic like thats the most horrible to say.....if i was there i would of busted out laughing.😂😂😂
@@TheAries414 I shouldn’t laugh 😂 😂
It’s so random !!
Elementary school was AWFUL for me. I was bullied and ostracized pretty badly. I would tell my teachers about it, and their response would be 'try to make friends with them.' I found this offensive because I was being myself and they were the ones who made things hard for me. I can absolutely relate to these stories (though we're not going to get into the details of my own experience); looking back, as the only Black girl in my class, I felt like the girls were really insecure about how some of the guys would look at me (as I was developed/curvy early) and tease me in that light obvious way that you do when you like somebody. There was a lot of insecurity and jealously. My solace was in the library at school and the local one near my house. That's probably why I love reading and writing so much; the ability to escape into another world where you loose yourself in other characters...its the best. As a result of this, I don't take bulling lightly. If my future kids have any issues at school I'm going straight to the teacher and then to the principal. My parents didn't take it as seriously as I wish they had, but I won't make the same mistake. Try me not when it comes to my future kids. Parents have an obligation to make time for their kids and develop their characters. Now that I'm older, I understand that a lot of these bullies are lacking something at home. They may have parents who aren't active enough, or they may have difficult situations at home (as we all know dysfunction in the home manifests itself in a multitude of ways). You have to make time for kids, or don't have them at all. Let not your neglect impact my kids processes in life. I'm not here for that, at all.
Good for you. It seems that you've really taken the time to analyse the roots of your experiences. I completely agree with your points regarding a parent's responsibility as well. I also believe having an outlet is a big lifesaver. For me, it was dance class. I don't know what I would've done without dance.
Sally Riposte Thank you! I certainly have done that; it helps you look at how you can do things differently in your own life and for your future kids. Yes, I think having parents support and an outlet is so important .Ah dance is amazing! Aww! I'm glad you had it :)
I LOVE the way Jeannie and Tamar support each other on this clip/episode. Loved it!!!
Can't wait to watch the whole girl chat.
that's why they attacked Jeannie last time saying that she's a phony cause she kept it together all the time...its because they don't have that and see it in a person everyday, Jeannie is always the most upbeat one on the show which is why they claimed her not to be as real cause she acts like everything is peaches and strawberries
Jeannie is a phony. I think she's racist and puts White people on a pedestal... She's on of those Asians who thinks White is Right. You know, if you work in the field, you get dark type of mentality.
She just said on today's show(12/20/17) that she moved away from President Obama's hug as to not mess up her contour, but if had it been Jesus, she would go in for the full hug. When White Jesus is not even real... So phony and delusional.
Tayshun Taylor
I second what you just commented especially when it is remarkably clear that Jeannie grew up around blacks and Hispanics and loved dating black men in the past. In an entire different old media interview, she went into it more than she ever will on The Real. I was lucky to find that interview.
Besides, I know what that kind of Asian looks like lol.
Its Tamera moving her hair to see if she really looks like a muppet for me 😭😭😭😭
i stayed up till 4am last night watching videos from this show .. i love the bond that these girls have and how they communicate and love each other and totally connect and learn from each other. its so great, they're definitely my goals.
I didn't find it funny until I googled "Tamar braxton muppet"
Currently holding back tears.
Jennifer Torrez it's K Michelle call her Muppet that stuck up bitch..
I hate k michell
Jennifer Torrez K Michelle. can be so evil at times.
R they laughing tears or crying tears?
U know those who are saying that k Michelle is stuck up I would agree with that only because I think she (can't remember if it was her) went on tour with another one of my favorite singers Adrian Marcel and I remember watching an interview that he said that he was trying to hug her like throughout the tour and she goes "hold on u just tried to hug me like 5 times already back up"
Jeanie & Tamar moment was EPIC tho! Loved seeing them actually showing some type of love towards each other. The bonus is when Tamar said "thank you friend". I loved it!
Now I understand why Tamar was always (or most of the time) so rude towards Jeannie. It's because she admires her! And you know how people say "Sometimes your haters are your biggest fans". Well that's kind of the case here. Imma be honest, I was shocked seeing these two so emotional with each other. I even started crying.
Loni's face made me craaaaack uuuuup^^^^^^. I was trying to feel bad in the moment ,but Loni.......had me LMAO.
4:13 you could see Adrienne had that smirk on her face and was trying to hold back the laugh
Mohammad Amil lol
@Karen Parra I thought she was going to cry too at first after looking at the thubnail 😭😭but now after watching & looking at the comments this is making me think well maybe not🥴🥴🤭🤭😕
Their honesty helps a lot !
Bruh. Adrienne couldn't keep a straight face to save her life! 🤣😂
I really don't understand some of you. Some of you KNOW that Tamar is insecure about herself and have been calling it out forever. So why then do you throw it in her face and try and shame her? That's just malicious and unnecessary.
We know Loni has her insecurities and she masks it with comedy, we know Tamar has hers and masks it with attitude. We know Jeanie also gets insecure and masks hers with poshness.
Everybody has insecurities, why then do you guys always feel the need to rub it in their faces and make them feel bad about already feeling bad? Like come on.
That's the world we live in.. truly disgusting!
DaVinChae Ford So just because she's insecure that's a reason to be mean-spirited and foul to people. Everyone for the most part is insecure but that doesn't mean they have to lash out and hurt people. I hate how y'all are really making excuses for Tamar. She's not innocent and knows exactly what she's doing. It's a shame y'all can't see it.
What you give out to the world, you get back. Her crocodile tears mean absolutely nothing because she has caused most of the bullying she's received. We all know as soon as she's feeling froggy again, she's going to go in and say another derogatory comment about someone.
Looks like I was right on point. No less then a few days after this episode, Tamar liked a meme on her instagram that shaded Ciara's singing skills. Smh. Crocodile tears I tell you.
+Shady Tyrell Thank you!!!!!
I related to this I got bullied when I was 5 now I'm 11 and it still sticks to me but I just want to say that watching the real made who I am and is gonna form in who I want to be these five women has taught to not care what others think and just love yourself. I would just love to say thank you the friendship you ladies have is really inspirational and it shows what real friendship is so thank you♥♥
You guys are just amazing!! I love you for being so REAL!!!
Love you love you strong women!
Loni held that laugh in so hard omfg I’m so shook 😭😭😭😭😭
Well That’s talent right there😊 like probably part of her hidden talent. Not saying this was funny but in general if something is really funny when you know your supposed to be serious in that moment. I don’t know if I’ll be able to hold it in for that long tbh🥴🤭😐😊
Loni trying not to laugh at Tamar😂
To me, this was the most touching Girl Chat moment I've ever seen from the show and I started crying myself. When the ladies talked about their stories through bullying, I could really relate because I was bullied many times myself from elementary to middle school and it was terrible. Then, I remember my mom telling me to stand up to them and never be afraid to fight back. So, therefore, I can REALLY relate to what these ladies had to say. Now, I'm a better person when it comes to being bullied and I know what to do. And I can understand where Tamar's definitely coming from because I felt the same way. This was a VERY TOUCHING Girl Chat moment for me, especially. I'll always and forever love "The Real" and these fabulous, beautiful ladies and I hope to see a taping one day. #TheRealDaytime
i absolutely loooooooove this moment between tamar and jeannie . they are probably the most different people in the group as far as relativity and its so pure and real .
Women need to support each other like this! This is where our strength should come from, having each others' backs.
cheetah girl was low key laughing 😂 4:16-4:20
yeah and I love Tamar to def, but "pumpkin smunkin" needs to pulls her wig down in the back , no shade though ;)
I don't think she was laughing because i think tamar was talking about Chris Brown when he called tamar and adrienne a muppet and a trout mouth ass bitch
Dana H I didn't see any laughing at all
Joseph Wright she's talking about K Michelle
Nah
This is so beautiful. I'm about to cry before I have to go to work
Tamera’s response is SO INCREDIBLE❤️, that is strong to be able to look at the person rather than the insult
When I was in 5th grade, I was bullied. In reference to what Tamar and Jeannie said about lack of strength, I get it. There were times when I would be sitting with my friends at the lunch table, and the person that bullied me would be sitting right there with us. I would converse, laugh, and joke around with my friends, pretending as if nothing was wrong; all the while, I would be trying to pry his hands off of me under the table. Not only was I scared to speak up, but I didn't know how. My friends had no idea what was going on. It got to the point to where he followed me home from school one day, and then busted my lip because I wouldn't willingly allow him to steal from me. I walked into my home, thinking I was going to hide the evidence of what happened, but the moment my grandmother caught sight of me, I broke down. My mother went up to the school the next day and that put an end to it (aside from him continuously unplugging the computer I was using, on the second to last day of school). His own friend defended me then. Now that I'm older, the disrespect doesn't get a pass.
That sounds awful, I'm sorry you went through that.
The kid was the one with the issues though - not you.
I hope you've understood that growing up.
SassylittoLady
Thank you. I've always understood that it had nothing to do with me and everything to do with him. I just never understood what set me apart and made me his target.
Omg! Sorry to hear that. You actually was bullied but Tamar sitting up there saying she was bullied when she the main one starting stuff is an insult to people who really been bullied
+Widline Honore While I do agree with what you said regarding K. Michelle, Tamar HAS been bullied in the past for real. She mentioned on the show how she would get jumped by girls in high school and junior high. I think there's a realness to that, even if her EXAMPLE was questionable as bullying.
"Do I look like a Muppet" 💀 lmaoo
LOLLL!!
how is this funny?
+chicken nugget because who calls someone a muppet? That is such an odd thing to call someone 😂 if someone called me that i'd be like wtf and laugh
+Andre Rodriguez baaaahahahaaaa. straight up died. this will never get old.
hey it is not funny bcuz i went through what tamar went through
when Jannie said " being a mother and being a-"
I started laughing because I thought she was going to say "being a mother and being a Muppet"
no offince , she doesn't look like a Muppet I just found that funny
Adrienne wanted to laugh too I know y'all seen that ...
I really do love this talk show. Everyone is beautiful and different ways and supporting eachother . I love it and i love you guys!! Forever annnnd always
I am so emotional right now. I've been bullied a lot. Love how real this is.
I have so much respect for all the girls at this table to remain calm during this hard situation cause I would have burst out laughing.
I was today’s years old when I found out that K Michelle was the one that called her a muppet I literally had no idea 😂
It's nice to see them supporting each other😊😊