🇵🇭Why you MUST be a Filipinas first foreigner🇵🇭
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Jasper you're continuing to kick million dollar game. So basically the women there once corrupted by simps are no different than American women. Thanks for the heads-up
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I wouldn't say "no different." If A has something in common with B, that doesn't make A "no different" than B, even if the trait they share in common is significant. A Filipina with one - or even a few- experiences with western simps is surely better than one that raised - since birth - by western simps, with simps for brothers, cousins, uncles, friends and boyfriends.
Trust me, I've seen this happen with my own eyes. Once you corrupt any women with materialism, you've reached the point of no return. Especially women from an emerging market.
@@theone6189 Well said logic and wisdom right there
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Absolutely bang on point. Also avoid a girl who was heart broken by a westerner. An alpha widow will wreck your life.
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I just returned from a 3 week Philippine vacation. It was my very first time there and I loved it. So here's a short story how I came to visit there. I did the dumb thing of going on a dating site and met a young Filipina. We talked for a few months and hit it off. I did all the dumb things that guys said don't do prior to going there. I get there and she's there at the airport waiting. What a sight. She was simply beautiful. I'm her first foreigner. I take that with a grain of salt. As we're spending all this time together I noticed that she will not order anything that's expensive when we go out. I ask her why she's doing this and she told me she did not want me spending a lot of money on her like that, WOW!!! I continue to try and she continues to do the same thing. So it was me that had to bring it down to her level to enjoy our time together and I truly did enjoy being with her. There are scammers there but there's also some diamonds in the rough. This woman was very sweet and caring. I can't wait to go back to see her again. If you treat them with respect and show you care you will be taken care of. They can be truly loving and loyal. I didn't care about spending the money on her. I met her family and we all hung out and they showed me the same respect that she gave me. I learned a lot about myself there and being with a caring woman. It was worth every dime I spent to have that type of peace.
Sana all
@rescuedude01. I live in Philippines full- time for a few years now. They call guys that visit the Philippines on vacation from their jobs to visit an online gf “two-week millionaires”.
They usually visit a girl in the Philippines for a couple of weeks to a maximum of one month. During their short stay, the guy spend money like crazy….then go back home because they are only on vacation from their jobs
@retiredinph979 I hear ya, but that ain't gonna be me. I'm looking at retiring shortly myself. I wanted to check it out first, and it was great. I'm not sure what your point is. I didn't spend money like crazy for two reasons, 1: I watched a lot of videos about the Philippines and the way men have done those women so wrong. 2: The woman I was with made sure I didn't spend money like crazy. I can see myself there long term. Thanks for the heads up.
@@rescuedude01 It sounds like you may have stumbled upon a good one. Time will tell
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I would say that having a girlfriend is usually the greatest expense for a man's budget here in the Philippines, or any country. I would reference Briffault's law: The female selects the mate, and no female will enter a relationship unless there is an advantage for her. I agree it is good to be the first foreigner so you will not be punished for the sins of the first foreigner. Even if you find a Filipina with a job, you will usually have vastly more resources than her in most cases. You just have to say no sometimes. I am retired with plenty of time so I prefer a girl who is available instead of a girl who is working all the time Pussy is never free, you always have to pay somehow. I would say any man who comes here with an extremely low budget and expects a perfect girl might have a difficult search. I prefer the city life in Cebu and my girl grew up in a rural baranguay but she has been in Cebu for several years. She is very much younger, sexier, and just better in every way than any girl I could find in America. That is something that I feel quite willing to pay for, and I feel like I am getting the good end of the deal. To me, it doesn't seem that expensive to buy her a new scooter and some nice things to upgrade her life a bit, but it is all a matter of perspective. Even if your girl has never been with a foreigner she knows a girl who has and she will have expectations because of what she sees going on in other relationships with girls she knows who have dated foreigners.
Nice thanks for sharing
It's because man is still the head and foundation of the family, , pilipina is happy if you treat her free if foods and other expenses but is willing to do in return it share if only you tell her in advance that you eat outside and have 50/50share or ask her if she can treat you, , that
Exactly and that is why those old fat foreigners with money go looking for those Negras in Dumangete . Those are the easiest women to get. Not to say they are prostitutes or necessarily bad women it is just the easiest women to impress and obtain when you are a 70 year old foreigner. I don't blame them. They are still men and want a woman's affection. Women in the west all want men making 100k-200k a year that looks like THOR. in Phillipines they are perfectly happy getting an old man with social security 1200 USD a month that is their version of THOR. You know King Solomon had like 1000 concubines. Not because he was super good looking but because he had a lot of power and money. Women ultimately want the Power and money. A good looking man with no money is trash to a woman the most he is worth is being a fuckboi.
They are giving their youth and beauty, it's only fair to share resources.
That said, never forget: women are the gatekeepers to sex, men are the gatekeepers to relationships
Facts! This one is a challenge in Makati/ Manila tho…. To be a girl’s first foreigner is a needle in a haystack. If she’s on Tik Tok, twerking, forget about her
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Not just if the girl has dated a foreigner before. Can also have unrealistic expectations if she has friends or family in a rental relationship payment plan. Building houses in the province.
Being the second foreigner can be like taking over lease payments on a second hand car
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Bro, you're hitting on some great topics. I haven't moved there yet, but I'm taking notes! Keep 'em coming.
Thank you
I’ve been traveling there 15 years. Been to the Philippines 11 times. Tons of dating sites, tons of dates, it is very hard to find a woman that has not been with a foreigner from a dating site.
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Find her on relegious gatherings and communities not on streets or park , , ,
Don’t look on sites 😂🤡
Never settle for less, stay single till you find your traditonal partner who wants to do everything u want in life. Your travel buddy but also your best friend.
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Bang 💥 and move on.... Suits me
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@@Plough78 I just watched "backpacking with banger" youtube video about how a foreigner offered him his filipina girlfriend and he accepted. They used to say Asia is like the U.S.A. in the 1950's, but obviously it's like the Louis and Clark expedition, when the indian chiefs would offer their daughters to you.
In the west, there are no more traditional woman.
I'm 55 and met my wife online over 9 months ago! I came here in March 9th and never led with my wallet and I ended up marrying my 31 year old wife on April 29th! I'm her First and Only Foreigner! I'm Retired Army and I still don't Hand Money Out Like an ATM! I provide My Wife a better life and She's College Educated and Has a Good Govt Job for over 10 years now and She Saves Money and doesn't believe in wasting money and is a Province Girl and I love my life with her!
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Are you planning on having a kid with her, or, did you both agree to only being with each other? Just curious. Thanks
Brother Spot On as always. Beware gentlemen I started coming to the PH since 2010 and the attitudes of the women there are changing towards what we are trying to escape...
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Facebook and tik tok has changed Philippians completely i hawed hard time dating them
I have been watching your videos lately. The best thing are guy who comes to the Philippines. Is to be in great shape and let the women chase you down , this way you can call the shots. Make it clear you not an ATM . I’m sleeping with you not your parents. 😂this is why I love your videos brother.
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100 percent correct brother this video needs to be on repeat
Thank you Bro
I agree with you on this completely. I'm thinking of going off the beaten track a bit where there's few foreigners so I can purosely avoid this issue.
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I Think Great “ Real “ Advice. Thank You For Your Thought Provoking Videos. We Think The Same! Great Job Jasper! 👊🏼💪🏼👏🏼👍🏼
Thanks bro
Always glad coming to your channel to see content geared towards young travellers, keep it up bro
Thanks, will do!
Good content and info. Thanks for being upfront and honest.
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Love the content. Looking to learn more. Subscribed!!!
Thank you my friend.
Another great walking tour. Enjoyed seeing the mall and the topic was good with some sound advice.
Thank you golf.
Yeah, I try to go to different places you know one day BGC one day P Burgos one day at the mall one day Boracay got a switch it up
$$$$ Lift them Up pay the price $$$$ Bring them to the West, you are DONE. Just a matter of time.
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Bru I like that you are warning the rookies that come to the PH.What it boils down to is Don’t let the little head rule over the big head ! Ive been to the Ph a number of times. It’s my agenda or not at all. I make it known to who ever I get with she ain’t running anything especially concerning my finances.
Exactly how I a.m. I control every penny of my money that doesn’t mean I’m not taking her out to eat or getting her coffee or making sure that she’s OK but she doesn’t make any plans for my money ever under any circumstance.
Thank you
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Jasper dropping us the inside intel. Keep it up man, great stuff! Sana all!
Sana allllll
Another great video, thank you for all you do.
Be safe bro 🍺
Thanks brother.
Solid and practical advice. Thanks, Jasper.
You’re welcome my friend 🫡
My brother Jasper, always speaking the truth! I chat with so many, never even been there and it's so true! So if you are OK with a little chubby older girl (early 40's but so much younger than me) who is submissive owns her own home and wants to take care of you! It may or may not work out but worth a shot! Right?
Ha ha right!
Thanks man, for dropping that street knowledge for us. Peace!!
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That's a golden nugget ✨️
Thank you
thanks for the video, you are speaking fax
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This is true stuff.....preach on
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Great advice 👍🏼
Thank you
That is same reason I got Liezl a condo in IT PARK. I knew I would be visiting for two months and it was less expensive than getting a nice hotel for that amount of time. It didn't work out the way I wanted because I had health problems and needed to return after the first month. I have problems with my eyes and needed to get them operated on. I tried to do it before my visit but it didn't work out that way. I thought I would be okay for two months there but I was wrong. So after the operation is done I will be back in August
🎯 Smart move plus you got a great price
@@JordanMelbyVlogs Sounds like a ₱ 🦈 if this is true
@@JordanMelbyVlogs I believe it from what I have seen and read. Noticed her latest (Golf) and her don't extend pleasantries anymore so figured the same thing...
Good info jasper.
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Good information 👍🏻
Yes. Sir
Thanks Jasper. You should do a video on the pros and cons of meeting A Filipina online first vs going there blind without one waiting at the Airport with a crowd behind her. I'm heading there in August and wont be using online dating Apps.
Ok sir.
You’re welcome
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Yes, your right. I have found 2 beautiful women but one was a scorned woman from a guy from the UK, the other one was also left by a guy from the UK. I had to ghost them both.
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HE'S GIVING STRAIGHT FACTS IN THIS VIDEO
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I completely agree with this video. I met a girl who was with a foreigner and I stopped talking to her.
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you and scotty boy are looking out for the young guns i think thats great...we should look out for each other out there ..times are changing women are changing we have to change em back LOL
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Brotherman, you're right on point, and that goes to all the other developed or underdeveloped countries you're living in
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Hello Brother Jasper!!! Have you seen any business opportunities since your arrival in the Philippines?
Hey Michael! The Internet is our only business opportunity until we link up with that Filipina.
Absolutely!
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I've been watching a lot of filipino/american couples meeting for the first time. I'm noticing that the hottest and skinniest filipinas seem to be on the island of "leyte." There the ones with the long jet black hair and super skinny. I think I need to visit the Leyte region of the Philippines buddy!
Yes. The best is Leyte & negros
@@JasperinthePhilippines Those women are called "Morena Filipinas." They are dark skinned and black hair and black eyes and have the flat dished noses and high cheek bones. They are considered country province girls. They are not the filipinas with spanish blood. My neighbor married on just like that in Cebu.
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@@JasperinthePhilippines. whatchu talkin' 'bout willis ??? it's not only in leyte & negros, it's almost everywhere in the province of the philippines, especially if you go to small towns .... if you go to big cities like manila,cebu & davao,you can easily find mixed (blood) & educated filipinas,but since they are educated then they can't easily be fooled the same thing as western women .... in the big cities, it's easy to find filipinos mixed with spanish & chinese ..... that's why,they have white skin or light brown skin ...... If you want filipinas who doesn't act like western women then go the province, especially the ones who came from poor families & uneducated (unfortunately) ..... they might the perfect filipinas you're looking & good wife material .....
Title. Right ✅ Why? 🙄
First come, first served! 😃 No background = no comparison! 😃
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Jasper, I'm hooked on your channe and Sunshine shoulder. Both of you tell it as is, this is very helpful. What does "sana all" mean.
Lol.
Thank you so much.
I wish or hope everyone can I have the same luck, blessing, or material gains-Sana all
Even they are "nice" at start. Then friends and family come slowly in and tell her that she can get better if you not feed them with money. Will happen every time.
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@@JasperinthePhilippines It's actually kinda sad. I have seen it happen so many times to so many guys. Including me. Most girls still end up with worse guys when they try to find the better ones. Most actually end up to be single moms at province. This include those BGC girls who think they are so hip and way to the moon. Actually they are one dick out from being single moms.
Correct brother. Thanks for sharing the truth.
No problem bro
As usual, church! Hey, how do you get those bold “PH’s” in your title?
Chuuuch preach tabernacle!- 🏆👑
So? How do you get those bold “PH’s” in your title????
@@MakatiMazz what you mean?
On my TV TH-cam app your title has a big bold “PH” at the beginning and end of the title. How did you do that? Do they have a purpose?
Supossed to have the flag
Good Night Jasper
Good night
Okay good to know my Friend 👍💯
Maybe better off to just pay for it upfront kick all the problems out the door when the sun comes up 🤣💯 for real.
Thx bro
all good advice. remember.. don't invest more than you can afford to lose. because you will lose.
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DAmn! Old guy talking here. I've wondered how that's going to play out when I get there. here I go, Cebu. I won't be supporting families. I've read to consider Airbnb condo in IT park. It's Greek to me, but that's what I'm looking at.
All good. Book a consultation with me if you need me.
Solid logic.
Thank you Jay
Damn you Jasper. I'm meeting 2 pinays next month when I come. They both work, no kids, nice personality but have had a foreigner bf before 😢
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Have them both!!
For Filipino women, family always comes first. And only then her man. In my country, women are taught that her children or parents will not run away from her, but a man can.
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Expectations
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I say go enjoy the country the gf will come in time.
Exactly what I’m doing
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The gal telling you she had a 30ish superChad sugardaddy is lying. She had an older guy & thinks you won't want her if she tells u the truth
I’m not too sure she offered to show pictures, but I didn’t wanna see the pictures and I just passed on her completely.
If a woman is talking finances with me, I’m just not interested. I don’t care how old you are how hot you are my finances are completely irrelevant. They are simply the icing on the cake for the young foreigner living year round in the Phils.
@@JasperinthePhilippines Wise move! You sidestepped a landmine
@@dansemacabre6515 facts. Story sounded off. Being that young and working that hard in the gym yet putting a family on an allowance seems kind of backwards. lol
@@JasperinthePhilippines Btw Jasper thankyou!! Thanks for all you do. There are many good info providers for those of us eyeing the Phils as a place to look for a partner but you're one of the greats. This is critical 411 you're dishing out. Much appreciated
I' ve never dated a foreigner. I would want to try. 😊
Yes ma’am. Foreigners are good. You need to make your thumbnail your pic I have many foreigner viewers.
Jasper has the illest content
Thanks bro
"What can we spend your money on today " 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 im crying bro. I live there in south Manila, and my lady saves me money and never asks for anything, we just watch movies go out on dates I feel when I feel we should go. Luckily I found a good one.
You forgot to mention for the idiots in the back, just like in the USA you don't fall inlove with strippers or known 304s, DO NOT GO TO THE BARS AND FALL FOR THE BAR GIRLS!!!! 🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️ I knew so many guys who got wrecked bc they fell for a woman who was used to going from guy to guy. That's rule #1 in every country. Those women are high risk.
Yes, this is the true way to see if a woman wants you if a Filipino or any woman saves you money and you control every penny of your money and decide if you go out on a date that means you got yourself a good one and she’s attracted to you. 🏆👍🏻
As Danny Zuko said "Sloppy seconds ain't my style" 😀
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If this guy she's talking about was such a GigaChad and so generous, where is he now ? Broke ? Did she chase him off ? Sounds like a hustle to me.
Agreed
that's the case for Japanese women too, the best Japanese girlfriends are the ones that have never dated western before
Gotcha
Your my neighbor in makati..
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Just learn to say NO - its easy. Just depend on yrself till you find someone worthy. If you are needy and vulnerable tho just dont go there
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Do you give tours?
I could…
One philipina said she want to be a strong independent woman
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Let her be one then, this is the problem, Feminism has arrived in the Philippines, particularly amongst the younger women in the cities.
I thought the family tax was fairly universal.
Never experienced it
Is it true if you married to Philippines girl you also have to take care of her whole families?
You can do whatever you want
interesting video"""""""""""DLW"
Thank you
Just met one 34 , very pretty , LDR ready if I meet her last LDR standard . 40K p a month 😮. I could build a life with her if I “ showed “ this much love. Yes that’s polished western standards. She was married to two simps before, one a European. They kneeled at this princess feet . She’s very pretty and stern as I have ever seen a Filipino
Oh hell no!!!
Is this a mall in Makati?
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Some guys give to much they lift them up to worst position then before where they were make 150 dollars a month.
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COLD HARD FACTS
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In March I visited Dumaguete and while walking the boulevard I was approached by a beautiful 29-year-old Felipina who wanted to take a selfie with me. Afterwards we went our own way until a couple of days later I ran into her outside of my hotel. We went to dinner and since I was flying out that night, we exchanged numbers and separated. She began reaching out to me on Facebook Messager. Once I returned home, we stayed in contact, and I became he "boyfriend". She told me that she loved me and wanted to get married to me. After a few weeks she started asking me for money to pay bills and to help her family. Then after two more requests for money within a 2-week period I realized I was her "sugar daddy". She worked selling cosmetics and made 3500paso each month. She wanted to improve her standing in life which I don't blame her, but not with me. I decided to cut the cord and change my number.
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My province girl is 24 ...one previous Filipino owner ... He cheated ..known her 5 years .. I'm very happy with her ..dated other city girls ... Totally different
Owner??
Women in the west are referred to as decommissioned taxis ... Some podcasts ...talk about cars being like women .. no disrespect to my Filipina .. I love her very much .. I've loved others too .. the last one I found out had a tinder profile and dated a lot of men ... Hence the decommissioned taxi ...I do not mean I own my young lady ..far from it .. she's as free as a bird with no rules set by me ... I don't have to .. she keeps her own rules ...
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I think I found the thumbnail😁-->Robb Guinto!?😅
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@@JasperinthePhilippines type the name, I think she's 1 of those Vivamax baddies😘😁
@@cookiemurph8532 Damn.
@@cookiemurph8532 Sounded Like a dude 🤣🤣🤣
Is it true that even if a Filipina girlfriend has her own place, but stays a lot at her Foreigner boyfriend's place a lot and the relationship is established, they can eventually be considered married by Filipino law?
No, that’s not true
They dont even recognize simple american weddings as legal. catholic church wedding only.
Not married but maybe under VAWC. Dont abuse your Filipina gf, even emotionally and psychologically. Criminal act.
@@JasperinthePhilippines I hope not. However, based on watching Filipina Pea's vlog with the Filipina Attorney, it looks like Article 147 and 148 say that if a Filipina moves in with you (cohabitating) if you break up, you (Foreigner Boyfriend) can be considered legally married and you may be on the hook to give her financial support. Yikes! th-cam.com/video/UJZGw-x969k/w-d-xo.html
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I only have a one pack.................but i do have 8 inches, plus tax.
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"Sexual marketplace value"...nice expression
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Good video. I might add one more thing. If you meet a philippina and take her back to the west she might not keep inocent and "non-western" like when you met her. I married a Philippina and took her to the west. 10 years later she was more "westernized" then the western girls I had been in relationships with before that. She moved out and we got divorced. That was actually a good thing for me as she was no longer the kind of woman I want to spend my time with.
I still think philippinas are the best, but I learned that not all philippinas are marriage material. Currently I am trying to figure out how to get out of the Philippino marriage (we married first in the west, and then also in the Philippines. I only got a divorce from the western marriage so far).
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U forgot to add to check if the girl is really single without any commitment..
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WAS TIM K FIRST ?😂😅😱
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Agreed, see this "Westernizing" filipinas by YT vloggers, its sad really and going to set an unrealistic standard for filipina viewers.
Facts.
Just tell them no. That's what I do.
>Will you give me some money?
>No. But I'm happy to grab a drink with you.
>Okay.
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Yeah you should know your girl interested first not allow them you will be their atm machine
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Women/girls in Philippines is 80 relegious if not so but church goers, , of different denomitions, , only hunters are Gala to have preys
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It is True what you're saying. I knew some1 actually fix this particular person to an old fashioned traditional woman to marry. They did, but the man committed a crime also even in prison. For 15 yrs she brought their kids to visit their Dad religiously all those time. Then when he got out of prison he banged a woman in their house, in their own bed and that was it. She finally left his ass. Scumbag eventually got murdered later in his older yrs. So it's the reason why Ppl prefer an old fashioned traditional woman, not that they are a doormat but family is everything to her.
Wow 😮
Gold diggers are everywhere on this planet. . Just be careful, and eventually, you will find what you're looking for. . And enjoy the journey. .
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Girl in the photo is model level. Youre telling me men are finding wife material that looks like that? Not pros?
Im in on overseas, ive done it.
But your averages guy isn't Pulling that girl, especially the older guys 40+
More power to whomever proves me wrong
40+ is young in the Philippines as far as a year-round resident and yeah, I think that girl is possible depending on if you’re handsome know how to speak to women and appear to be very financially stable.
@Jasper in the Philippines 🇵🇭 I was in Asia 10 years, in that time I only had 3 women at or slightly above that level.
I always worked out,I'm 6ft, better below the belt than most.
But I'm not the best with women admittedly, and I always go for a relationship.
I'm talking to one girl now, 25, virgin, wife material, the issue is her looks for me, fantastic person, decent body, the rest is giving pause.
By the time I make it to the Philippines I will be about 40, I guess we will see when the time comes.
Thanks for the info you give out
In other words don't be a sucker.
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So instead of what you're calling "an allowance", why not teach them how to earn money? In the 60's allowances weren't handouts, they were earned. This is why most baby boomers have some type of work ethic. Mow my lawn, wash my car or do my laundry? Then, I'll give you $5. Shop for me, cook for me and clean my house for a whole week, that might be worth $15. (Bonus: having a local do your shopping could keep you from paying "Joe" prices). Tell them that you're not a charity and that they need to go find someone else if they're asking for a handout. If allowance means handout to you, you're probably from a younger generation. You could easily turn this into a mutually beneficial arrangement.
Exactly. If I was to meet a girl, I would have her start a TH-cam channel.
Amen pastor Jasper speaking the gospel truth
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So it really is better to have a face to face Talk with these Women so you really can gauge their Character...if they talk much about money,or bling- bling,or how much this or that!!--- RUUUUN AWAY!!
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Let me translate: what you meant to say was to make sure you're her "last foreigner;"; because these young fine Filipinas have already had a bucket full of foreigner sugar daddies who got played before you. But you want the girl that is really ready to settle down and stop gold digging. The first foreigner was the first to get played.
Nope that’s not it all what I said for instance the 21-year-old from Davao that I did it had only had one Filipino boyfriend the only guy she ever slept with in her entire life and that’s like verifiable I get it you got rolled up by multiple girls in the Philippines it makes sense that happens to most goofy’s. What I’m talking about is finding a girl that’s NEVER had a foreigner.
I think girl in the Philippines is beautiful and very lovely
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careful in gold digger
Yes sir
@@JasperinthePhilippines you should know the partner you choose
Never thought about the angle of taking over other people's payments.
It’s a real thing
Having a difficult time finding a "1st timer" here in the USA 😂
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Set a more modest goal of find a 101st timer lmfao
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She might bs to trick us to provide for her
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It does matter your the man your a foreigner you know the game do not let the women run game on you. Do not be tricked by her when she gives you the cat between her legs that she has already given away to another foreigner ?