what to do if you feel like your bjj coach does not like you?

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 13 เม.ย. 2021
  • in todays video, we got a question saying what do I do if my bjj coach does not notice me or give me much attention. Well this is a very common feeling in the gym where some people are not sure if their coach likes them or not. This is what you should do and how you should deal with it. Thanks for watching, if you found this video helpful please like, subscribe and comment. also keep submitting your questions and we will keep making videos for you guys!
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  • @dragonballjiujitsu
    @dragonballjiujitsu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Two sides of this. As a coach I straight up tell new students that I will not commit their name to memory for at least 6 weeks. Just because of the 95% turnover. On the other side I left a school I had trained at for about 3 years simply because the instructor was a dick and we didn't like each other. He finally made it clear I wasn't going anywhere training there. So I made it clear I was done giving him $$$.

    • @GracieBradentonjiujitsu
      @GracieBradentonjiujitsu  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thats crazy, seems like a bad coach.

    • @dragonballjiujitsu
      @dragonballjiujitsu 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@GracieBradentonjiujitsu Bro...the stuff I could tell you about him and that school.

    • @sliderx1897
      @sliderx1897 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I would've took that as a major form of disrespect if you told that to me while paying you to take lessons. You are basically telling them they are just numbers to u. How arrogant it must suck to be your student good grief

    • @dragonballjiujitsu
      @dragonballjiujitsu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sliderx1897 I'm not telling them they are just numbers. I'm telling them if they wanna stand out they need to show the fuck up and be regular. Why do I want to waste my time learning who someone is for them to come to 3 classes in a month and a half and leave? I have dozens of people come try the classes out per month. Just because you pays you money does not make you special.
      Go run an academy for a few years then come back and tell me about how you commit each person who walks in the door for their free class to memory.

    • @sliderx1897
      @sliderx1897 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dragonballjiujitsu i do run an academy. I will continue building a positive repor with my students. thanks have a good day.

  • @nathandrake9129
    @nathandrake9129 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Just leave and find another gym, its not school or uni, you don't have to be there. If you are paying for something and not enjoying it, just quit, no one is forcing you to be there.

  • @knalpot9936
    @knalpot9936 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Two grapplers, one cupcake

  • @MrAllamericanbobcat
    @MrAllamericanbobcat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Haha I keep coming back to these vids for nutty commentary. 😂

  • @vincechanhealthy6373
    @vincechanhealthy6373 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this is really good. thanks for sharing this.

  • @MRxQUIKx
    @MRxQUIKx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Love you too coach 🤣

    • @GracieBradentonjiujitsu
      @GracieBradentonjiujitsu  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤣🤣🧁 you just gave it away lol you are not the cupcake guy.

  • @arturofernandez725
    @arturofernandez725 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Lol scrabble champs will say this video is nigh one of the best yet!

  • @BobBob-il2ku
    @BobBob-il2ku 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I had a coach that clearly didn’t like/ got annoyed by white belts wich I could understand imagine how many he trained and they left. Idk if most people noticed it but I did.

  • @FR-ty5vn
    @FR-ty5vn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hysterical 😭 - he’s gonna bake you a cupcake 🧁 - why would anyone think that’s odd - I love that guy...😂

    • @GracieBradentonjiujitsu
      @GracieBradentonjiujitsu  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤣🤣🤣 it was hard to film this we were laughing the whole time during the story.

    • @FR-ty5vn
      @FR-ty5vn 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@GracieBradentonjiujitsu I got good laughs outa the intro & the cupcake - we gotta guy just like that, too...

  • @Haboogie
    @Haboogie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Cupcake guy was hoping he could move up in rank by way of pastry!

  • @tyhatfield7156
    @tyhatfield7156 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    What are the things only reason that I coach with you is if you’re doing things that you shouldn’t be doing like hurting other students. You might be disrespecting him in someway but it’s kind of important that that coach or that professor pulled you aside and explained to you what problems he’s having so that you both can see Eye 2 Eye and there wouldn’t be any problems. That way it’ll get worked out

  • @Theo-dj7vs
    @Theo-dj7vs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What better motivation and realization at early stage...people aren't going to like you so what!
    Be the best...let it drive you...strive. the haters and the gossipers...every gym has them...smash them.

  • @m5a1stuart83
    @m5a1stuart83 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The best way to get his attention is joining the tournaments and get a medal.

    • @Theo-dj7vs
      @Theo-dj7vs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Fuk his attention...do it for you...make his mistake his, not yours by trying to live up to his ego

  • @EyeChokeNex
    @EyeChokeNex 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Just fucking ask! Love the videos Sonny!

    • @GracieBradentonjiujitsu
      @GracieBradentonjiujitsu  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      What if he does hate him though 🤔🤣 lol

    • @EyeChokeNex
      @EyeChokeNex 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@GracieBradentonjiujitsu At least he’ll know sure 😆

    • @SonnyParlin
      @SonnyParlin 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Love you Gabe! 😘😘

  • @Theo-dj7vs
    @Theo-dj7vs 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You beat everyone in the gym accept him and shove it in their face.

  • @robertlester4569
    @robertlester4569 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Why do I have the feeling that question came from one of your own students?

  • @jeremiah4195
    @jeremiah4195 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Could be my competitors son come to poison me either have a great sense of humor or a lil paranoid

  • @sergiolastname3416
    @sergiolastname3416 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    First