An older woman gave me this advice when I was a teenager. She said, "Honey, you have to let your man do "manly" things like killing bugs, fixing the car, getting things off tall shelves for you, letting him protect you etc" And she was right. I've learned that it doesn't diminish me as a strong woman to allow my man to know that I need him
This is very wise advice. There is certainly a wonderful balance that comes from this, especially if he allows you to be the lovely, beautiful, strong, kind, nurturing woman you were created to be. Very well said.
I love this I will remember this excellent advice bcuz I was always the type to do everything I never called on my man for help I will keep this in the forefront of my mind. Thank you for pointing this out! 💯
Oh girls!! don't forget to dump the ones who weaponise your needs . My brother helped me move with a you haul. He was angry and throwing my things away and owning for himself what he wanted of my items. When it came time to unpack the truck he gave me strict orders not to unload it until he came home from work. I easily could have by myself. Then he didn't feel like following me 10 minutes to drop off the truck and take me back. he said they won't charge me for an extra day. They tacked on an additional 150.00 dollars for a late return. An ex boyfriend rigged my 6 month old battery to die by loosening the battery terminals and he cleaned them by shooting wd 40 on them . The battery terminals corroded green. He jumped it so I could follow him to advance autoparts to purchase a new battery on his account to keep his account open. He said I can get you 25% off. He gave me the invoice it had no 25 percent off like he said..or no sale price like the ad said. He kept my "old" battery he rigged to die. for himself. And said I didn't need the large plastic shroud and kept it to sell on e bay..told me I didn't need it. So I basically gave him my battery . And bought a new one I didn't need on his account so advance auto wouldn't cancel his account for lack of purchases. 😡 ..so come time to pay him back...I gave myself a 20 % discount off the sale price it was advertised for. I deducted the 25 dollar core charge. And that's all. I dumped him a few days later.
True. I've stopped playing games now. I directly communicate my wants and misunderstandings. Despite if he choses to not text. I'd let him go. Get a life and save your energy
IN this day and age, it is necessary for all women to consider being chaste and pious because we live in a volatile age with too much crime and sadness all around. For every single sin that you do and every person that you hurt, your children and your family members will suffer for generations because of that generational curse that the victims of your murder and your warfare is giving. Whether after your death or not your family will never ever be freed from that curse. And generation after generation they will be faced with utter suffering and humiliation because of this one act of evilness that you are doing today. Since being homosexual has become a norm in this century, women should be wary in choosing a sexual partner in life, especially if they wish to be saved from great perils. It is this pending danger that could completely erase sanity from a woman because if she accidentally gets into a romantic relationship with a man who has a male lover, then her life would be a living hell, as that man would try to humiliate and torture her if she even indirectly seduces or tries to speak with the young male lover of her husband or boyfriend. Men who publicly declare themselves to be homosexual are generally soft-hearted and harmless, and do little to hurt or vex womankind, but the most vindictive and fierce stalkers of young men are those male characters who pretend to be violently straight and always remain in fulltime relationship with women in order to exude a macho force about their persona, but inside their heart, they are bitterly in love with a young man or young men in general, and would be prepared to destroy the world to secure the romantic affection or approval of a young man of their liking. Trust me you will not die if you stay celibate. I promise you- you will not die you will not be murdered you will not be tortured you will not starve and you will not be imprisoned and you will not be fed to the lions like the saints of Christianity who were fed to the Lions by pagans and pagan Rome. None of those things will happen to you should you choose celibacy and Chastity and honour over relationships and dependency and dishonour. You true lover will never leave you just because you didn't touch them sexually. If they leave for a reason so simple and horrible than why would you want a lover like that!? Wouldn't they find better lovers than you to worship and serve them sexually the moment you died or got lost? There is no honour in relationships. And most importantly there is never ever ant true love in any sexual relationships. The moment sexuality comes into a relationship that love turns into bitterness degradation and hatred. True love only comes from a relationship that never become sexual. Should you become celibate today you will find true love you will find true friendship and you will find true honour. And most importantly you will be saving yourself from becoming a monster a killer and a warmonger. And a lot of people in the world will be saved from your evil and your harm and your jealousy and your vindication and your revenge and your torture. And your children will become happy with their lives and will be safe and their generations will be successful and will never face any pain in their life.
- Focus and energy are interconnected, and it is important to be mindful of where one's focus goes. - Giving too much energy to a man who doesn't reciprocate can lead to feeling depleted and ungrounded. - Building a healthy relationship does not involve mistreating or manipulating a man. - Being a challenge to a man is about inviting growth and becoming the best versions of yourselves together. - Men want a teammate who complements their weaknesses, not a follower or trophy. - Paying attention to emotional intelligence is important for handling conflicts, actively listening, effective communication, self-awareness, and adaptability. - Emotional intelligent women do not play games, are clear in their wants and expectations, and earn respect by being trustworthy and intuitive. - Misinformation and bad advice online contribute to relationship struggles, so subscribing to the channel is encouraged to spread the ideas discussed.
I think it's about matching his energy instead of trying to give more to him in order to get more back. Just match his energy or withdraw your energy and pour it into yourself. Focus on your own beautiful life. This was a hard lesson for me to learn, but I'm glad I finally learned it.
Ismael, you are so right on these points. I've been married for over 40 years. I realized that my worth/energy was be wasted after finding out that my spouse had 3 social media affairs. I confronted him very calmly and called out his behavior. I told him that he had betrayed my trust in our marriage. I've since been in counseling to regain my feminine energy, to learn to maintain my emotional intelligence and to be my OWN person and not a multi-tasking, dutiful doormat. I let too much of my personal life go in lieu of fulfilling HIS needs, wants and desires. Lesson learned. I'm making up for lost/wasted time in my own life.
Yes I have realised the same after having two children. There’s no point trying to figure things out when things go wrong. Just be yourself. Enjoy your life. Keep your energy for yourself. Be calm. Be genuine you and then you’ll realise the enjoyment of self love.
@@user-sr9tq3xz8f I’ve fought for one online and that lasted one month and a half… I gave up already… it’s been 2 weeks and do days that I am not even messaging him. There are a lot of men still for us to get miserable with one.
Wow, sometimes I am curious about why my husband stopped with other women and wanted to focus on me. So after I watched this video, I have the answers. Because I have most of these. And I love emotional intelligence the most. It works well to let him know me and also I understand him.
I have realised love, feelings, attachment is all hormonal. When your hormones are at its pick in your 20s and 30s...people feel all those emotional staffs with full vengeance. Once the hormones start dropping... people mellow down. Companionsh may be matters after that.
I don't like huge crowds of people. I like having one on one relationships and I have a smaller group of people who I can trust and yes feminine energy is so important because I want a masculine man. Thank you for the information. I just got out of a 30 year marriage of physical, mental and emotional abuse and I am so glad to be out of it.
I'm so glad you said about texts as that's a bug bear of mine. If people can't be bothered to write correctly (on personal messages) it shows a distinct lack of standards & effort to me and last night, I noticed a change in a man's vocabulary which now matches mine 🤩💖
Yep Totally agree I'm widowed...and I was married for 20 yrs ... This video reminds me of some ways she attracted me to her ... hopefully I find my next girl..soon..
That there is alot of bs going around about healty relationships that's a fact.. i went trough a really tough breakup and was looking around for tools. And alot of the times they just advising to " play games". This is the first channel that i listen to and hear genuine advice to how you need to handle a healthy relationship! Thank you for sharing the best advice you can get. 🌸
When I was dating my husband he had told me, 4 months into the dating part, that he loved that I didn't play games. I didn't know I wasn't playing games. I was being real.
Ran across this video while looking for something totally different. But I watched this out of curiosity & I appreciate this man's sincerity & genuineness. Also he seems to have some very solid & valuable advice. It was certainly worth listening to. Thank you.
Well said! True thing about the grammar in texts. In the initial days my guy was barely making any sense in his texts and I told him it wasnt respectful to me to send such meaningless texts, and that he should make an effort to atleast use a translator. We all make mistakes and I am fine with the occasional typo but I dont think it is mean Ismail, in my opinion it is disrespectful & entitled to send some meaningless gibberish to someone and expect him/her to decode the message & read your mind.
This is hilarious. "Imagine you come to a date, and you're missing a shoe..." Thank you for pointing out the importance of putting in effort when it comes to text messages! I wish more people were on the same page with that. Also, you made me laugh, when you specifically pointed out the ladies who constantly multitask. lol. I feel called out. I will work on not spreading my energy thin. Thanks for the great advice as always!
I just listen to this and was very impressed with your Advice. The things you shared are so right on and realistic. I like how you get after us for multitasking and not paying attention. We also let other people steal our energy. Thank you for the teaching about emotional intellect .
great tip ismael...Thanks!! just made me realized my previous relationship literally stripped me off from these aspects... my ex gets angry and jealous when i focus on myself, when I challenge him and when I attempt to communicate my needs (also sometimes when I was acting completely normal because he *thought* i was offending him or trying to hurt him with my words...)
Ismael be proud of your knowledge. Some therapists with PHDs are not so enlightened. What enabled that man to do that to me was he took his time to whittle me down by taking tiny pieces of me so I wouldn't notice very skillfully. I found out he was like a serial abuser of women making it his specialty. I guess it was a shock to him when I finally left.
This really true I really want to be emotionally intelligent stable... I don't really know how to communicate what I want or how i feel with a Man most especially when he isn't doing the right thing
wow I really recognise myself in things you've said here - and I have even been given comms by him to improve for his governorship dealings! lol and i'm always happy to do it without complaining. The kids do it now though cos they're in their late teens. Thank you - new subscriber here. Really love your tender communication style, honesty and etiquette as well as your focus on authenticity!
...my gosh, thank you so much for sharing this wonderful information. Though I have these qualities, I never really thought to put it into perspective until I saw this video and clicked on it...I'm certainly glad I did. Good stuff.
When person feels a pain or anxiety, the brain isnt able to to do two big tasks at once feeling his own pain and at the same time feel pain or anxiety of someone else... therefore our mind reacts in a way that we start to either be silent, or accuse each other of laziness, incompetency etc.... or other thing is when they feel our pain, they are not able to feel their own pain and anxiety and solve their own pain. So the best resolution is some meditation or therapy, where both people heal their traumas and anxiety, to calm the mind, and self-regulate, so they may use deep emphatic conversation with each other. and they should forgive each other for being ignorant to someone´s anxiety because brain isnt able to do two big tasks, at the same moment feel pain and feel empathy at once.....So if each of us learns to selfregulate, only then our brain has freedom to choose empathy and compassion and humor but its a daily work, so the anxiety will not come back and will not polarize the mind......Forgiving means : "sorry that your brain choosed anger and anxiety, and it wasnt able to do the other big task, empathy and compassion".... According to scientists Negative emotions are higly addictive to brain, therefore our brain becomes addicted to negative emotions and often its subcosncious process, so we arent even aware that brain ahs these negative triggers, unless we choose some therapeutic techniques.....If we practice mindfulness and techniques of selfregulating, the brain will after time choose the elevated happy emotions, and lso it helps people to increase their immune system of body and physical health.
What I know is I don't pretend. I respect your opinion but I'm being me...that's just me.😂😂😂..that's how I respond to alot of them😂 Cos I believe I am happy when I'm honest with myself first before I can be honest to others.
This is the second video that popped up on youtube that I have watched and enjoyed listening to. Thank you Ismael for Sharing such great information, Your knowledge and expertise. It was quite helpful especially for some of us 60 plus group who Haven't been in the relationship And romance scene for many, many years. No matter how old we are, we never stop learning and it's on God's divine time when he sends you your soulmate. Take care everyone and God bless. Keep the faith and I wish you all Love, peace, happiness, longevity, Prosperity and may all of your dreams come true. As I tell my two wonderful adult children, be happy, be well And be safe. Sincerely, Amelia Mello❤😊
Never tell a guy about their spelling and grammar. That’s rude. I’ve been a teacher for a very long time and guys get very embarrassed when women do that to them. They also resent being called out.
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An older woman gave me this advice when I was a teenager. She said, "Honey, you have to let your man do "manly" things like killing bugs, fixing the car, getting things off tall shelves for you, letting him protect you etc" And she was right. I've learned that it doesn't diminish me as a strong woman to allow my man to know that I need him
This is very wise advice. There is certainly a wonderful balance that comes from this, especially if he allows you to be the lovely, beautiful, strong, kind, nurturing woman you were created to be. Very well said.
I love this I will remember this excellent advice bcuz I was always the type to do everything I never called on my man for help I will keep this in the forefront of my mind. Thank you for pointing this out! 💯
Oh girls!! don't forget to dump the ones who weaponise your needs . My brother helped me move with a you haul. He was angry and throwing my things away and owning for himself what he wanted of my items. When it came time to unpack the truck he gave me strict orders not to unload it until he came home from work. I easily could have by myself. Then he didn't feel like following me 10 minutes to drop off the truck and take me back. he said they won't charge me for an extra day. They tacked on an additional 150.00 dollars for a late return.
An ex boyfriend rigged my 6 month old battery to die by loosening the battery terminals and he cleaned them by shooting wd 40 on them . The battery terminals corroded green. He jumped it so I could follow him to advance autoparts to purchase a new battery on his account to keep his account open. He said I can get you 25% off. He gave me the invoice it had no 25 percent off like he said..or no sale price like the ad said. He kept my "old" battery he rigged to die. for himself. And said I didn't need the large plastic shroud and kept it to sell on e bay..told me I didn't need it.
So I basically gave him my battery .
And bought a new one I didn't need on his account so advance auto wouldn't cancel his account for lack of purchases. 😡 ..so come time to pay him back...I gave myself a 20 % discount off the sale price it was advertised for. I deducted the 25 dollar core charge. And that's all. I dumped him a few days later.
@@kellysong2256 true I agree
1. Focus on yourself. 2. Challenge. 3. Emotional intelligence.
If there’s no respect, there is no love.
TOTALLY 💯!!! That’s the issue I have - laugh and have fun - but respect is paramount!
yes u r right
Me being called out “how many of you are listening to me and reading the comments” .. guilty 😂 had to stop and right this
I was just reading your comment when he said that😂
im reading the comments and now writing one omg hes correct
True. I've stopped playing games now. I directly communicate my wants and misunderstandings. Despite if he choses to not text. I'd let him go. Get a life and save your energy
Ur so right
IN this day and age, it is necessary for all women to consider being chaste and pious because we live in a volatile age with too much crime and sadness all around. For every single sin that you do and every person that you hurt, your children and your family members will suffer for generations because of that generational curse that the victims of your murder and your warfare is giving. Whether after your death or not your family will never ever be freed from that curse. And generation after generation they will be faced with utter suffering and humiliation because of this one act of evilness that you are doing today.
Since being homosexual has become a norm in this century, women should be wary in choosing a sexual partner in life, especially if they wish to be saved from great perils. It is this pending danger that could completely erase sanity from a woman because if she accidentally gets into a romantic relationship with a man who has a male lover, then her life would be a living hell, as that man would try to humiliate and torture her if she even indirectly seduces or tries to speak with the young male lover of her husband or boyfriend. Men who publicly declare themselves to be homosexual are generally soft-hearted and harmless, and do little to hurt or vex womankind, but the most vindictive and fierce stalkers of young men are those male characters who pretend to be violently straight and always remain in fulltime relationship with women in order to exude a macho force about their persona, but inside their heart, they are bitterly in love with a young man or young men in general, and would be prepared to destroy the world to secure the romantic affection or approval of a young man of their liking.
Trust me you will not die if you stay celibate. I promise you- you will not die you will not be murdered you will not be tortured you will not starve and you will not be imprisoned and you will not be fed to the lions like the saints of Christianity who were fed to the Lions by pagans and pagan Rome. None of those things will happen to you should you choose celibacy and Chastity and honour over relationships and dependency and dishonour. You true lover will never leave you just because you didn't touch them sexually. If they leave for a reason so simple and horrible than why would you want a lover like that!? Wouldn't they find better lovers than you to worship and serve them sexually the moment you died or got lost?
There is no honour in relationships. And most importantly there is never ever ant true love in any sexual relationships. The moment sexuality comes into a relationship that love turns into bitterness degradation and hatred. True love only comes from a relationship that never become sexual. Should you become celibate today you will find true love you will find true friendship and you will find true honour. And most importantly you will be saving yourself from becoming a monster a killer and a warmonger. And a lot of people in the world will be saved from your evil and your harm and your jealousy and your vindication and your revenge and your torture. And your children will become happy with their lives and will be safe and their generations will be successful and will never face any pain in their life.
- Focus and energy are interconnected, and it is important to be mindful of where one's focus goes.
- Giving too much energy to a man who doesn't reciprocate can lead to feeling depleted and ungrounded.
- Building a healthy relationship does not involve mistreating or manipulating a man.
- Being a challenge to a man is about inviting growth and becoming the best versions of yourselves together.
- Men want a teammate who complements their weaknesses, not a follower or trophy.
- Paying attention to emotional intelligence is important for handling conflicts, actively listening, effective communication, self-awareness, and adaptability.
- Emotional intelligent women do not play games, are clear in their wants and expectations, and earn respect by being trustworthy and intuitive.
- Misinformation and bad advice online contribute to relationship struggles, so subscribing to the channel is encouraged to spread the ideas discussed.
Woww...thank you Miss Bethzy(jaw drops in admiration)...what an axiom.
I think it's about matching his energy instead of trying to give more to him in order to get more back. Just match his energy or withdraw your energy and pour it into yourself. Focus on your own beautiful life. This was a hard lesson for me to learn, but I'm glad I finally learned it.
Ismael, you are so right on these points. I've been married for over 40 years. I realized that my worth/energy was be wasted after finding out that my spouse had 3 social media affairs. I confronted him very calmly and called out his behavior. I told him that he had betrayed my trust in our marriage. I've since been in counseling to regain my feminine energy, to learn to maintain my emotional intelligence and to be my OWN person and not a multi-tasking, dutiful doormat. I let too much of my personal life go in lieu of fulfilling HIS needs, wants and desires. Lesson learned. I'm making up for lost/wasted time in my own life.
Emotional Maturity is key !! Knowing one’s worth !!
Having basic standards !!
My secret is just be yourself and love life to the fullest as tomorrow may never come.
Yes I have realised the same after having two children. There’s no point trying to figure things out when things go wrong. Just be yourself. Enjoy your life. Keep your energy for yourself. Be calm. Be genuine you and then you’ll realise the enjoyment of self love.
I'd fall in love with you! And I'm a woman!
*Love does not begin and end the way we seem to think it does. Love is a battle, love is a war; love is a growing up.*
"Competition is the death of joy."
Yes very correct
...this quote should be on a t-shirt :D
If you love a person there’s no need to play games like chasing, etc.
That's so true I am not going to chase noone who doesn't want to be with me so much men's out there
@@user-sr9tq3xz8f I’ve fought for one online and that lasted one month and a half… I gave up already… it’s been 2 weeks and do days that I am not even messaging him. There are a lot of men still for us to get miserable with one.
I support cos whatever belongs to you will always come to you my dear
Agree
Showing a man you respect him is key. Never put him down and that doesn’t mean he gets to walk on you. Love and respect by both is key.
Most people in relationships live in codependency. Focus on yourself, be honest and respectful and be the best version of yourself. ✨️
Be assertive, not a doormat. Keep yourself together, don't give yourself away. Love and accept yourself first.
Couldn't have said it better myself.
Yes, ignore , disrespect, and insult HIM and think only about yourself!!!!
This is hard for me
True communication is not one sided. It requires each party to be both listener and responder. Just have true communication.
Wow, sometimes I am curious about why my husband stopped with other women and wanted to focus on me. So after I watched this video, I have the answers. Because I have most of these. And I love emotional intelligence the most. It works well to let him know me and also I understand him.
you both are quite fortunate to have evolved to this stage together. Long my you both remain connected and in love this way.
I have realised love, feelings, attachment is all hormonal. When your hormones are at its pick in your 20s and 30s...people feel all those emotional staffs with full vengeance. Once the hormones start dropping... people mellow down. Companionsh may be matters after that.
I don't like huge crowds of people. I like having one on one relationships and I have a smaller group of people who I can trust and yes feminine energy is so important because I want a masculine man. Thank you for the information. I just got out of a 30 year marriage of physical, mental and emotional abuse and I am so glad to be out of it.
I'm so glad you said about texts as that's a bug bear of mine. If people can't be bothered to write correctly (on personal messages) it shows a distinct lack of standards & effort to me and last night, I noticed a change in a man's vocabulary which now matches mine 🤩💖
Wonderful. Thanks for sharing.
Its true, men are humans too and not perfect! EVERYONE needs correction, and pleaaaassee BE YOURSELF LADIES! We ARE the prize❤
Yep
Totally agree
I'm widowed...and I was married for 20 yrs ... This video reminds me of some ways she attracted me to her ... hopefully I find my next girl..soon..
On point. Precise. No beating around the bush. Just what we need. Perfect. Thank you.
That there is alot of bs going around about healty relationships that's a fact.. i went trough a really tough breakup and was looking around for tools. And alot of the times they just advising to " play games". This is the first channel that i listen to and hear genuine advice to how you need to handle a healthy relationship! Thank you for sharing the best advice you can get. 🌸
When I was dating my husband he had told me, 4 months into the dating part, that he loved that I didn't play games.
I didn't know I wasn't playing games. I was being real.
Excellent, mature advice. You are wise beyond your years.
Ran across this video while looking for something totally different. But I watched this out of curiosity & I appreciate this man's sincerity & genuineness. Also he seems to have some very solid & valuable advice. It was certainly worth listening to. Thank you.
It depends, being emotionnally intelligent make some of them flee because they know you can read trough them😅
I see this as a good thing. Less headache to endure further down the road...'flee on' :D
Those are boys, hun... we're not talking about them 😂😂
We WANT them to leave! 💃🏾
@@leislsmith4293 Exactly. Let them flee
Let them flee! Byeeeee!
@@peggys2546 okieee :D
Well said! True thing about the grammar in texts. In the initial days my guy was barely making any sense in his texts and I told him it wasnt respectful to me to send such meaningless texts, and that he should make an effort to atleast use a translator. We all make mistakes and I am fine with the occasional typo but I dont think it is mean Ismail, in my opinion it is disrespectful & entitled to send some meaningless gibberish to someone and expect him/her to decode the message & read your mind.
You’re channel is a bless im so done with mediocrity starting fresh to attract the man of my dreams been dating for a decade now is the time ❤
This is hilarious. "Imagine you come to a date, and you're missing a shoe..." Thank you for pointing out the importance of putting in effort when it comes to text messages! I wish more people were on the same page with that. Also, you made me laugh, when you specifically pointed out the ladies who constantly multitask. lol. I feel called out. I will work on not spreading my energy thin. Thanks for the great advice as always!
💯 I’ve decided I’m done giving to someone that is switching up on me all of a sudden. My time and energy are valuable. Not going to waste it anymore.
Its not only related to man woman relation it also relevant for general relationship ..Nicely said
I just listen to this and was very impressed with your Advice. The things you shared are so right on and realistic. I like how you get after us for multitasking and not paying attention. We also let other people steal our energy. Thank you for the teaching about emotional intellect .
great tip ismael...Thanks!! just made me realized my previous relationship literally stripped me off from these aspects... my ex gets angry and jealous when i focus on myself, when I challenge him and when I attempt to communicate my needs (also sometimes when I was acting completely normal because he *thought* i was offending him or trying to hurt him with my words...)
My weakness emotional intelligence
You present the information with compassion. You help me understand!!! TY
I love what you said about manipulation and healthy relationship.. This is so true for a long term relationship ❤
I totally appreciate and understand your points! Thank you ❤
Your content is so important and beautiful, your channel is gonna grow wild
That's very sweet of you Margo. Thank you.
I am so glad you are getting this information out to the world about relationships. I hope it spares many from the pain of toxic pairing.
Totally valid points......actually I hv already used them and it really worked 💪
Thank you so much for your advice!
My man is very clean and I like that about him
Another great video from you Ismael .
Ismael be proud of your knowledge. Some therapists with PHDs are not so enlightened. What enabled that man to do that to me was he took his time to whittle me down by taking tiny pieces of me so I wouldn't notice very skillfully. I found out he was like a serial abuser of women making it his specialty. I guess it was a shock to him when I finally left.
Thax very much 4 this message
If a man can't give you a compliment he'll never get anywhere.
I'm so happy i've found this channel. This is such an eye opener.At least I can know where I went wrong to correct it. Xxx thankyou
U r right, I corrected my bf grammar, he appreciated it
Thank you for sharing this information. 😊
Wow... seriously I kudos these points because they are so accurate. Point taken and lesson well learnt🎉
1. Focus on your needs
2. Challenge him
3. Emotional intelligence
True! Make all about YOU! 😀😃😄😁
I believe you...this more than just falling in love
This really true
I really want to be emotionally intelligent stable...
I don't really know how to communicate what I want or how i feel with a Man most especially when he isn't doing the right thing
wow I really recognise myself in things you've said here - and I have even been given comms by him to improve for his governorship dealings! lol and i'm always happy to do it without complaining. The kids do it now though cos they're in their late teens. Thank you - new subscriber here. Really love your tender communication style, honesty and etiquette as well as your focus on authenticity!
Thanks for the kind compliments. I appreciate them.
Yes, very truthful and clear I trust ur View points and most of the people too ❤❤
I’m the one multi tasking
Thank you for such thoughtful insights--I can always use more!!
Genuineness in your video❤
...my gosh, thank you so much for sharing this wonderful information. Though I have these qualities, I never really thought to put it into perspective until I saw this video and clicked on it...I'm certainly glad I did. Good stuff.
Welcome to the channel. Glad to have you here.
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My boyfriend mocks me because I have standards like leaving the toilet clean!
When person feels a pain or anxiety, the brain isnt able to to do two big tasks at once
feeling his own pain and at the same time feel pain or anxiety of someone else...
therefore our mind reacts in a way that we start to either be silent, or accuse each other of laziness, incompetency etc....
or other thing is when they feel our pain, they are not able to feel their own pain and anxiety and solve their own pain.
So the best resolution is some meditation or therapy,
where both people heal their traumas and anxiety, to calm the mind, and self-regulate,
so they may use deep emphatic conversation with each other.
and they should forgive each other for being ignorant to someone´s anxiety because
brain isnt able to do two big tasks, at the same moment feel pain and feel empathy at once.....So if each of us learns to selfregulate, only then our brain has freedom to choose empathy and compassion and humor but its a daily work, so the anxiety will not come back and will not polarize the mind......Forgiving means : "sorry that your brain choosed anger and anxiety, and it wasnt able to do the other big task, empathy and compassion".... According to scientists Negative emotions are higly addictive to brain, therefore our brain becomes addicted to negative emotions and often its subcosncious process, so we arent even aware that brain ahs these negative triggers, unless we choose some therapeutic techniques.....If we practice mindfulness and techniques of selfregulating, the brain will after time choose the elevated happy emotions, and lso it helps people to increase their immune system of body and physical health.
I wish I could like this video more than once 🥰🥰 thank you Mr Gomez
imotionally I' m very weak, want to change it. but how i don' t know..
What I know is I don't pretend. I respect your opinion but I'm being me...that's just me.😂😂😂..that's how I respond to alot of them😂 Cos I believe I am happy when I'm honest with myself first before I can be honest to others.
The best video ❤
You are a very sincere, serious and wise guide. Best wishes for great sucess! 🤴🏻✨🌟🥳🥳🥳
Thank You ! ☺️☺️☺️
I love your content!! Thank you 😊
good job, Ismael, thank you
You tuning me into a better person.
This was very insightful
Thank you
Your videos really are a bliss in this day and age - thank you
I totally pay attention to your videos, first thing starting at 5am and while and after I feed my Livestock...so enjoy thank you❤
Excellent points. sharing with my community. Thank you!
I hope it serves them well.
Perfect 🤩
This is the second video that popped up on youtube that I have watched and enjoyed listening to. Thank you Ismael for
Sharing such great information,
Your knowledge and expertise.
It was quite helpful especially for some of us 60 plus group who
Haven't been in the relationship
And romance scene for many, many years. No matter how old we are, we never stop learning and it's on God's divine time when he sends you your soulmate.
Take care everyone and God bless.
Keep the faith and I wish you all
Love, peace, happiness, longevity,
Prosperity and may all of your dreams come true. As I tell my two wonderful adult children, be happy, be well And be safe.
Sincerely,
Amelia Mello❤😊
As a woman...👍👍👍👍👍 TQ very much...
I love this content. Thank you!
Some good advice here, but i have realized most men talking relationships on social media aren't even married themselves.
I don't speak about marriage. I speak about how men think and behave in relationships.
Love this thank you 🙏
Thank you 🙏
I hope this man is perfect because he is critical of women.
This was reallly helpful. Thank you
You're welcome.
Awesome pointers 🎉
Very well worded! Thanks 🙏🏼
That is great bro ismael
Thank you, excellent.
That's true ladies,, When we give , the man thinks that he can get it freely,,
Just stop and see ,!!
Thank you for your wonderful values to go by. ❤
You are awesome and correct!!❤
Me getting called out in the first part of the video because I have adhd.
Good points.
The best inspiring account ever ❤❤❤
Such an amazing video. Thank you!
I feel accomplished 🙏
❤ excellent explanation ❤
Never tell a guy about their spelling and grammar. That’s rude. I’ve been a teacher for a very long time and guys get very embarrassed when women do that to them. They also resent being called out.
Thanks ❤