I LOVE the way you explain everything. No ridiculous 70s style “masculinity”, just a perfect mix of real masculinity and stoic philosophy. The best on TH-cam imo. Thank you coach 🤙🏻
My problem with men is not having those raw conversations, uncomfortable conversations. If I don't know something don't belittle me teach me. When I want to talk about important issues and I'm coming to you calm and loving, don't pick and start an argument and then walk away. I've been working on controlling my emotions and staying calm in any situations, but it's hard. Expressing myself in a calm and loving manner is fuel to my soul and sometimes men don't know how to receive it or appreciate it. If I have belittle you, yell at you, talk down to you, arguing with you or even cuss you out, I don't need or want to be with you. Feed my soul, feed my spirit. I pay attention to the small things.
I think the main thing that men need to do (to deal with an emotional woman as well as prevent it from happening) is to be considerate. Frankly, most men are way too selfish and lazy. I have experienced numerous relationships where I have said to the guy "please don't do that, it really annoys me", and he forgets and keeps doing it the annoying thing. He can't be bothered. He doesn't want to think about my needs or if his behaviour upsets me. He thinks he should just be able to do whatever he wants, and, if it upsets me, that's my problem and I'm an "emotional woman". If you don't have care enough for the woman to stop doing things which upset her, you don't deserve a relationship. You're too selfish.
All these energy that men have to go through just for women, we men get drained just to make a woman happy and we don’t have anywhere to replenish our energy from, thus, we die before them and or we just walk away.
I'm a woman who listened to the whole video and I think that men and women need to develop these qualities. We should both work to develop a stoic mindset together. Interesting point of view and I am glad to listen to point that is different than my own.
Stephen, If men get what your saying here. It will eliminate a unnecessary escalations of drama, pain, mental stress, separation, divorce, or over reacting an going to jail.
About 20 years ago my wife (now ex. Wife) literally had a nervous breakdown, and we had to commit her. During her meltdown i didn't know how to handle it, and because of her literal breakdown I'm thinking alot of what you just explained to do really wouldn't have worked, because she was literally going crazy.
There’s a total difference between a women being emotional and having an emotional moment and a woman experiencing a mental health crisis which required specialist medical intervention. They are not the same thing …
You can't be a woman's rock if she hasn't submitted. You'll be her energy source that she'll drain instead. If she won't stop talking and control her nonverbal expressions and body language after you've asked her to stop, then that's your cue that she's hasn't submitted. Submission at its root means peace. She has to cool down to an emotionally peaceful place once you ask her to calm down or stop talking. This is the only formula for a successful marriage that aligns with Divine Intent for marriage. We are their target for spiritual development. Our targets are elder men and the lives of prophets.
@@mscurvy6922 At some point sis, ya'll have to grow up. Being triggered by a word "is" childish. Ya'll want men to not call you childish simply because ya'll are biologically grown. You have to be discerning enough to respond to the truth. If the truth is spoken, you shouldn't be triggered. If a woman needs to calm down, then a man should be able to say that and have a reasonable expectation that she will. The worst thing you can do is be emotionally under developed by allowing yourself childish behavior.
I disagree. In 99% of the cases, an over-emotional is not worth of handling her. You should simply run run run. An over-emotional women will affect your purpose, your carrier and will be your burden. Why would you do it to yourself? I woman who loves you will ask for your advice/guidance instead of jumping sh*t on your head
I like your advice.This becomes draining tho. I feel like men have to consistently find ways to communicate our feelings in ways that our women can recieve them or the relationship fails. It feels like women get to emotionally dump and men have to piece together a puzzle to understand the root of a problem or the relationship fails. Its cool if these incidents are seldom but extended periods of this will cause a man to check out.
100% correct, it sounds like you need to constantly have a masters degree just to have a simple life and not 'Upset' some because some towels were on the bed , lols
The emotion I get is usually anger and aggression from my lady. I'm calm for the most part during the moment but I'm still absorbing all that negative energy and just left feeling angry and frustrated internally.
I like the post but with love to see some content on changeling women to understand men. I honestly don’t think women are challenged to appreciate masculine energy and it causes problems
It's very difficult to be her "rock" when she directs all her emotional negativity, aggression and ugliness at me. When she attacks verbally and emotionally. Her "moment" has lasted the last several years. I dread coming home now. I'm just there for our daughter.
There is only one model where women get in tune with men: submission. Men have to articulate what that looks like before times of conflict and it's simple: when I say enough, retreat to an emotionally peaceful place (which is what submission means) so that we can have cool dialogue and so that you can respect my final decision. We must ensure women that we are always genuine, present, and listening even when they interpret that we aren't. Submission requires good faith. It's hard for women with previous relationships to have good faith in their husbands. Lastly, we must require that women judge us by the quality of the outcomes we produce for the family over "TIME" and not by how they feel in the moment. This is crucial because they won't agree with many decisions but we need them to reserve judgement in that moment and trust that more likely than not this decision will also work out well. And, if it doesn't like the some others that didn't we will quickly pivot to create a better outcome.
I've been out of the dating g scene for 10 years now. After I got custody of my now 14 year old son I just couldn't deal with women with a fare biased because I saw the most ugliest parts of women when my son's mom started using my son a pawn in a game to try and get what she wanted out of me and also other women around the time a personL saw do some dirty stuff to men. Well I've concentrated on my son and myself and did alot if self reflection and let myself just figure me out a little better. I still have some trust issues but that with both men and women and I'm just trying to see were me and this woman I've started dating can go.
Never stay in a relationship with a woman that will speak to you foul if you don't have kids. I wouldn't even allow for a 2nd time. If you do have kids, then you will have to go through the arduous process of restructuring your relationship which should be based on her getting in tune with you vis-a-vis submission. If she doesn't want to submit then you may have to divorce. A woman who won't submit after you have asked is likely to cheat (don't think your women is special and won't) so that's something you'll have to consider.
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I LOVE the way you explain everything. No ridiculous 70s style “masculinity”, just a perfect mix of real masculinity and stoic philosophy. The best on TH-cam imo. Thank you coach 🤙🏻
My pleasure ❤️
My problem with men is not having those raw conversations, uncomfortable conversations. If I don't know something don't belittle me teach me. When I want to talk about important issues and I'm coming to you calm and loving, don't pick and start an argument and then walk away. I've been working on controlling my emotions and staying calm in any situations, but it's hard. Expressing myself in a calm and loving manner is fuel to my soul and sometimes men don't know how to receive it or appreciate it. If I have belittle you, yell at you, talk down to you, arguing with you or even cuss you out, I don't need or want to be with you. Feed my soul, feed my spirit. I pay attention to the small things.
I think the main thing that men need to do (to deal with an emotional woman as well as prevent it from happening) is to be considerate. Frankly, most men are way too selfish and lazy.
I have experienced numerous relationships where I have said to the guy "please don't do that, it really annoys me", and he forgets and keeps doing it the annoying thing.
He can't be bothered. He doesn't want to think about my needs or if his behaviour upsets me. He thinks he should just be able to do whatever he wants, and, if it upsets me, that's my problem and I'm an "emotional woman".
If you don't have care enough for the woman to stop doing things which upset her, you don't deserve a relationship. You're too selfish.
I'm so glad you put this back up! Be blessed brothaman!!!! Thank you!
My pleasure ❤️
All these energy that men have to go through just for women, we men get drained just to make a woman happy and we don’t have anywhere to replenish our energy from, thus, we die before them and or we just walk away.
About time you start addressing issues like this..... KEEP IT UP....
I'm a woman who listened to the whole video and I think that men and women need to develop these qualities. We should both work to develop a stoic mindset together. Interesting point of view and I am glad to listen to point that is different than my own.
Stephen, If men get what your saying here. It will eliminate a unnecessary escalations of drama, pain, mental stress, separation, divorce, or over reacting an going to jail.
About 20 years ago my wife (now ex. Wife) literally had a nervous breakdown, and we had to commit her. During her meltdown i didn't know how to handle it, and because of her literal breakdown I'm thinking alot of what you just explained to do really wouldn't have worked, because she was literally going crazy.
There’s a total difference between a women being emotional and having an emotional moment and a woman experiencing a mental health crisis which required specialist medical intervention. They are not the same thing …
You can't be a woman's rock if she hasn't submitted. You'll be her energy source that she'll drain instead. If she won't stop talking and control her nonverbal expressions and body language after you've asked her to stop, then that's your cue that she's hasn't submitted. Submission at its root means peace. She has to cool down to an emotionally peaceful place once you ask her to calm down or stop talking. This is the only formula for a successful marriage that aligns with Divine Intent for marriage. We are their target for spiritual development. Our targets are elder men and the lives of prophets.
The worst thing you can ask us to do is calm down that word calm down. It’s like you’re talking to a child it will ignite any flame.
@@mscurvy6922 At some point sis, ya'll have to grow up. Being triggered by a word "is" childish. Ya'll want men to not call you childish simply because ya'll are biologically grown. You have to be discerning enough to respond to the truth. If the truth is spoken, you shouldn't be triggered. If a woman needs to calm down, then a man should be able to say that and have a reasonable expectation that she will.
The worst thing you can do is be emotionally under developed by allowing yourself childish behavior.
I disagree. In 99% of the cases, an over-emotional is not worth of handling her. You should simply run run run. An over-emotional women will affect your purpose, your carrier and will be your burden. Why would you do it to yourself?
I woman who loves you will ask for your advice/guidance instead of jumping sh*t on your head
doesn't he differentiate between someone who makes this routine and a moment of human weakness in the beginning of the video?
Stick to dating stoic, emotionally-detached women and you'll NEVER have this problem....
I like your advice.This becomes draining tho. I feel like men have to consistently find ways to communicate our feelings in ways that our women can recieve them or the relationship fails.
It feels like women get to emotionally dump and men have to piece together a puzzle to understand the root of a problem or the relationship fails.
Its cool if these incidents are seldom but extended periods of this will cause a man to check out.
100% correct, it sounds like you need to constantly have a masters degree just to have a simple life and not 'Upset' some because some towels were on the bed , lols
Most of the time there is a deeper problem which u need to listen to. Never thought it would be that easy. Just listen better
Bingo 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Sounds like way to much agro, like dealing with a child. How about an adult women ?
The emotion I get is usually anger and aggression from my lady. I'm calm for the most part during the moment but I'm still absorbing all that negative energy and just left feeling angry and frustrated internally.
I managed to grasp a very important point that the way you handle it can give birth to new problems 😂😂😂😂
I like the post but with love to see some content on changeling women to understand men. I honestly don’t think women are challenged to appreciate masculine energy and it causes problems
He has another channel talking about that
It's very difficult to be her "rock" when she directs all her emotional negativity, aggression and ugliness at me. When she attacks verbally and emotionally. Her "moment" has lasted the last several years. I dread coming home now. I'm just there for our daughter.
There is only one model where women get in tune with men: submission. Men have to articulate what that looks like before times of conflict and it's simple: when I say enough, retreat to an emotionally peaceful place (which is what submission means) so that we can have cool dialogue and so that you can respect my final decision. We must ensure women that we are always genuine, present, and listening even when they interpret that we aren't. Submission requires good faith. It's hard for women with previous relationships to have good faith in their husbands.
Lastly, we must require that women judge us by the quality of the outcomes we produce for the family over "TIME" and not by how they feel in the moment. This is crucial because they won't agree with many decisions but we need them to reserve judgement in that moment and trust that more likely than not this decision will also work out well. And, if it doesn't like the some others that didn't we will quickly pivot to create a better outcome.
u need start back dropping more videos
I've been out of the dating g scene for 10 years now. After I got custody of my now 14 year old son I just couldn't deal with women with a fare biased because I saw the most ugliest parts of women when my son's mom started using my son a pawn in a game to try and get what she wanted out of me and also other women around the time a personL saw do some dirty stuff to men. Well I've concentrated on my son and myself and did alot if self reflection and let myself just figure me out a little better. I still have some trust issues but that with both men and women and I'm just trying to see were me and this woman I've started dating can go.
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Never stay in a relationship with a woman that will speak to you foul if you don't have kids. I wouldn't even allow for a 2nd time. If you do have kids, then you will have to go through the arduous process of restructuring your relationship which should be based on her getting in tune with you vis-a-vis submission. If she doesn't want to submit then you may have to divorce. A woman who won't submit after you have asked is likely to cheat (don't think your women is special and won't) so that's something you'll have to consider.
As a woman .. I hope some y’all men can grasp this excellent advice .. we woman ladies just need to be heard , listened to !
That’s it Simple !