I’m going to do something different for me and be open and vulnerable for a change and confess that I struggle with this and I want to heal. Grew up in foster homes. I still don’t know my biological parents. Now in romantic relationships I fear getting abandoned so it usually happens. Please God heal me.
Jake, I got your masculine and feminine course a few days ago. The last two days I listened to your meditations while in the sauna where I found myself sweating and crying out the repressed feelings from my childhood trauma. I've done a lot of inner work but still have so much more to do. I saw how I needed to heal this while in my marriage the past few years. I attracted someone not as toxic as prior relationships because of the work I did before meeting him however it became clear I had more layers to work on especially with masculine and feminine energies. I've realized I'm more feminine and have been drawn to the toxic masculine. Not too long into relationships, my feminine would feel unsafe and not led properly so my masculine would take over. This caused a lot of competitiveness and toxic behaviors. I did heal my abandonment issues while in the marriage and was able to walk away peacefully from him a few months ago. I even moved close to my parents after a couple of decades of being away because I knew I needed to go back to where it all started and heal those wounds with them. Having this clarity is helping me dig deeper. I'm so grateful for your journey and the healing that has brought you to help others. I'm a wellness coach and will be sharing your work with my clients in my next newsletter. Thank you!
My father would cry like a child and threaten suicide in front of me.. I remember as a 6 year old feeling like I was his parent and needed to protect him. I'm 33 now and have spent the last 6/7 years utterly crippled by anxiety and worthlessness.. I just got dumped by a beautiful unavailable woman who I desperately chased. But I'm finally realising what's going on inside and wish to heal my abandonment wounds. Thank you for wise words they really helped me 🙏
woke up after having a dream a dream that just screamed to me “abandonment issues” it’s like the dream made me understand that I still deal subconsciously with this.. so I’m here watching this video on, how can I change that? how can I let go of that feeling of fear. I took the moment to talk to my wounded inner child like you mention and gave her the love that I always searched for from my family, I apologized to her, nurtured her, motivated her, valued her and reminded her that she was loved by me, and by god .. I cried in the process, but it was such a healing moment. thank you.
I am just now aware that for 63 years I have suffered from abandonment issues and the worst part was losing my mom when I was 39 and I know there were times she just wasn't emotionally available for me. This is going to take much energy and strength to work through because right now I'm suffering from major depression and I'm pretty sure that healing from these wounds is key.
I am so thankful I came across your channel. It’s been very hard finding a coach I connect with. Thank you, your content is so comforting and informative. I can’t wait to see the light at the end of tunnel ❤️
Thanks Jake, this was brilliant. The last couple of days I've been letting abandonment wounds come up, so this video has come at the most opportune time as I have been reluctant to get into this because I dont want to cry everyday about it. Between 2017 and 2018 I spent every day crying purging a whole bunch of other issues, so I've been hesitant to get into these abandonment wounds because who knows how long that'll go on for. Except, it's 100% true that abandonment will keep manifesting in my life if I don't commit to working through it.. so here I go 🙌
Amazing. Thank you for sharing. I've also been crying a looot, I think it was even since 2016. I thought I'd be done with it, if I just allow the tears to flow, but it seemed, even more pain came up again and again. Now I start to understand that I wasn't healing the abandonment wound consciously, I was probably more feeling sorry for myself. Which I forgive myself for now 😉😃🙏
Most of these abandonment wounds are pre verbal and somatic. Accessing these states from the limbic brain. So physical healing is the first step. Cleaning the body of toxins. The emotional body will be accessed through feeling emotions. Somatic psychedelic therapy helps. The body keeps the score.. healing takes a lot of patience and compassion. I find it is not a linear path and it takes enduring effort and a lot of awareness. John Bradshaw’s work has been really helpful. Grieving the childhood and parents I never received.
The universe never ceases to amaze me. It blows my mind, in times of pain, of need, of healing when you truly open your heart and ask for help, help will always come. My friend, it is my first time watching one of your videos. But wow was this meaningful for me. Thank you for for being an example of what it means to be vulnerable, for sharing your story and inspiring others to dive deeper into their healing ❤️🩹 Today it was me, tomorrow I’m sure it will be somebody else. Your perspective on forgiveness has truly allowed me to start letting, for my good and the good of the collective. We are all worthy of happiness and peace. Thank you for inspiring people to find their way 💖
I was completely vulnerable and open to my shadows , I didn’t know how high my carpet was and wow I was triggered just before Christmas when my partner ended the relationship, he’s an avoidant and I’m an anxious , I was completely closed of 6 months ago then I opened up an whole can of worms ❤
Absolutely wonderful. I am trying to heal this wound, my father passed away when I was 5, and my mother emotionally checked out. Many issues, working through them, thank you for your insightful help!
5 stars :) watching this came at a perfect time, thank you. I didnt know we were earth angels till few weeks ago & clarity is coming to light & i am working cleansing my energy couple times a day. It all makes sense now..lots of light switch moments. My masculine & feminine energy have been both required serious attention & realised i have been rehealing since a child but needed step it up big time, i had to trust the universe. My mother left when i was 6 yr old ish my dad brought up 3 girls. He had a wounded inner child, which i know what that story tales & why i was his stress release, i have forgiven him & my relationship is so much better. We dont see our mother shes not in our lives we tried with her but i even told her i love her. We chose her & i know shes seriously wounded inner child, i have prayed for her. I wish her no wrong but hope she can save herself & try to be happy. Thank you Jake from my heart :)
Thank you so much. I feel so lucky that I came across this channel last night. It really spoke to my heart in times of solitude. I feel I can finally move on from this place. Thank you so much.
Yes since I was child he said that he will leave us ... if he wouldn’t t receive what he wants ... this was his drama giving to us as child ... Abundance ! Since today when he doesn t like what he is confronted with he says he will kill himself ... still doing it with a age of 86 years we are all adult ! Don’t know why I still have to be confronted with this way of press ! I left this contact ... but it still follows me threw companies who abounded me or people I love leave by marrying someone else ... I think I still have to gäl. this part of me what comes from outside ! My shadow ... thanks for your lesson ... I have to be a better partner to myself who doesn t leave me ❤️
This was groundbreaking for me. It some how opened questions I never really considered. I think this will be a positive start in a better direction for me. Thank you so much.
If been left by everyone in my life ..and grew up an only child ..parents divorced at 12 .. pulled the plug on my pop in 99 ..i know chaos all to well and i seem to push away everything that come around me in time .. the loss is only getting harder..i cant afford therpy i have no one to talk to ill be 46 in dec..only stable thing in my life are my jobs
My lifetime "best friend" randomly began ghosting me a few months back, we are neighbors and see eachother daily, he wont even look in my direction, just acts like I dont exist, lately I've just wanted to knock his teeth out and break his nose. Just really pissed, as I would never even think about treating him the way hes done to me, just sick of being the only loyal and real one.
I cried all the way through the video😂. I have severe abandonment issues. I'm both a fearful and an avoidant type. I was in foster care as a baby, was returned to my parents at the age of three but the bond was already broken. My mother was NOT a motherly figure, I grew up fearful of her and despising her. I was jealous of my little brother who received all the attention and all the gifts whereas I was treated like sXXt. I keep running after people who don't show interest in me and running away from those who show too much interest because that makes me feel extremely uncomfortable.
I dont agree with that point about letting people go will atteact the right people in because ive been abandoned so many times by partners. Everytime i let him go another guy comes in only to abandon me again. I let him go and the cycle repeats
Thanks Jake, I have a lot of respect and admiration for the kind of work you are doing.May I request you for your email address , I’d like to connect with you regarding a spiritual healing workshop..thanks again
Imagine yourself talking to a child version of yourself. Think of what you might have looked like when you were crying and run towards the child version of yourself hug him/her and say, "I love you and I'm sorry for not being present in your time of need. Let's figure this out together."
KARMA IS A LIE! things get worse sometimes when you do the right thing. suffering is not connected directly to your actions you are not the center of the universe. reincarnation is also a lie
KARMA IS A LIE.........grace is available through jesus. the law of sowing and reaping is biblical. its different than Karma. bad things can happen to you for no reason. jesus himself suffered and was mistreated. bad things are not life paying you back. there are consequences built into negative things we do. but we are not narcissistically reponsible for everything that happens to us. karma is NOT TRUE its not all about you.
I’m going to do something different for me and be open and vulnerable for a change and confess that I struggle with this and I want to heal. Grew up in foster homes. I still don’t know my biological parents. Now in romantic relationships I fear getting abandoned so it usually happens. Please God heal me.
He wont. Why?
Because he was the one that put you there in the first place. He wanted you to suffer.
Yet here you are begging him to help 😂
@@blahblah2779 I’m sorry that you feel that way. I don’t.
You Soul already has...blessings
Fabulous Affirmation, "I give myself permission to feel my pain! "
Jake, I got your masculine and feminine course a few days ago. The last two days I listened to your meditations while in the sauna where I found myself sweating and crying out the repressed feelings from my childhood trauma. I've done a lot of inner work but still have so much more to do. I saw how I needed to heal this while in my marriage the past few years. I attracted someone not as toxic as prior relationships because of the work I did before meeting him however it became clear I had more layers to work on especially with masculine and feminine energies. I've realized I'm more feminine and have been drawn to the toxic masculine. Not too long into relationships, my feminine would feel unsafe and not led properly so my masculine would take over. This caused a lot of competitiveness and toxic behaviors. I did heal my abandonment issues while in the marriage and was able to walk away peacefully from him a few months ago. I even moved close to my parents after a couple of decades of being away because I knew I needed to go back to where it all started and heal those wounds with them. Having this clarity is helping me dig deeper. I'm so grateful for your journey and the healing that has brought you to help others. I'm a wellness coach and will be sharing your work with my clients in my next newsletter. Thank you!
Thank you for sharing this deep and profound testimony!
Oh my goodness...that was so sweet that you said 'I won't abandon you...and I'm proud of you" 😥 That really touched me.
My father would cry like a child and threaten suicide in front of me.. I remember as a 6 year old feeling like I was his parent and needed to protect him. I'm 33 now and have spent the last 6/7 years utterly crippled by anxiety and worthlessness.. I just got dumped by a beautiful unavailable woman who I desperately chased. But I'm finally realising what's going on inside and wish to heal my abandonment wounds. Thank you for wise words they really helped me 🙏
I've cried soooo much during this video haha:') especially during the affirmations. I can not thank you enough for this video
woke up after having a dream a dream that just screamed to me “abandonment issues” it’s like the dream made me understand that I still deal subconsciously with this.. so I’m here watching this video on, how can I change that? how can I let go of that feeling of fear. I took the moment to talk to my wounded inner child like you mention and gave her the love that I always searched for from my family, I apologized to her, nurtured her, motivated her, valued her and reminded her that she was loved by me, and by god .. I cried in the process, but it was such a healing moment.
thank you.
I am just now aware that for 63 years I have suffered from abandonment issues and the worst part was losing my mom when I was 39 and I know there were times she just wasn't emotionally available for me. This is going to take much energy and strength to work through because right now I'm suffering from major depression and I'm pretty sure that healing from these wounds is key.
I never thought that forgiving could be so powerful
best thing ive heard this week, "gotta feel it, to heal it" and learned about something called "shadow work". trying to take a deep look within.
I am so thankful I came across your channel. It’s been very hard finding a coach I connect with. Thank you, your content is so comforting and informative. I can’t wait to see the light at the end of tunnel ❤️
Thanks Jake, this was brilliant. The last couple of days I've been letting abandonment wounds come up, so this video has come at the most opportune time as I have been reluctant to get into this because I dont want to cry everyday about it. Between 2017 and 2018 I spent every day crying purging a whole bunch of other issues, so I've been hesitant to get into these abandonment wounds because who knows how long that'll go on for. Except, it's 100% true that abandonment will keep manifesting in my life if I don't commit to working through it.. so here I go 🙌
Amazing. Thank you for sharing. I've also been crying a looot, I think it was even since 2016. I thought I'd be done with it, if I just allow the tears to flow, but it seemed, even more pain came up again and again. Now I start to understand that I wasn't healing the abandonment wound consciously, I was probably more feeling sorry for myself. Which I forgive myself for now 😉😃🙏
Most of these abandonment wounds are pre verbal and somatic. Accessing these states from the limbic brain. So physical healing is the first step. Cleaning the body of toxins. The emotional body will be accessed through feeling emotions. Somatic psychedelic therapy helps. The body keeps the score.. healing takes a lot of patience and compassion. I find it is not a linear path and it takes enduring effort and a lot of awareness. John Bradshaw’s work has been really helpful. Grieving the childhood and parents I never received.
The universe never ceases to amaze me. It blows my mind, in times of pain, of need, of healing when you truly open your heart and ask for help, help will always come. My friend, it is my first time watching one of your videos. But wow was this meaningful for me. Thank you for for being an example of what it means to be vulnerable, for sharing your story and inspiring others to dive deeper into their healing ❤️🩹 Today it was me, tomorrow I’m sure it will be somebody else. Your perspective on forgiveness has truly allowed me to start letting, for my good and the good of the collective. We are all worthy of happiness and peace. Thank you for inspiring people to find their way 💖
Duuuuude, that was some incredible information. So poignant and timely. Thank you so much for sharing that.
Not me crying saying I give myself permission to be validated 😭 definitely subscribing
Thank you, I truly needed this guidance!
Now I know why I unconsciously ignored my commitment to myself.
Thank you Jake
Send you infinite love, too.
Thank you Jake, this is profoundly helpful 🙏
this is so good ima need to rewatch this several times 🎯🙌🏽
Thank you so much Jake!!! Sending you soo much love and so grateful for YOU 🤍
Seeing the divine masculine take responsibility and heal 😍
I was completely vulnerable and open to my shadows , I didn’t know how high my carpet was and wow I was triggered just before Christmas when my partner ended the relationship, he’s an avoidant and I’m an anxious ,
I was completely closed of 6 months ago then I opened up an whole can of worms ❤
I can't thank you enough for this video !
Equanimity❤️❤️❣️❣️ I never hear anyone use this word! I’m so glad I was lead to you.
Thank you so much for this. it is perfect right now. I understand so much more now about forgiveness, it helps me a lot!!
Very beautifully explained! Thank you for contributing in my life 😇🙏💜💜🙏🙌🙌🙌
Omg words of wisdom! Great job 👏🏼
Absolutely wonderful. I am trying to heal this wound, my father passed away when I was 5, and my mother emotionally checked out. Many issues, working through them, thank you for your insightful help!
Wow, just been writing and processing some stuff for an hour or so after watching this thank you🙏🙏
You have my 5 stars .I couldn't have explained my life any better Ty 💛
5 stars :) watching this came at a perfect time, thank you.
I didnt know we were earth angels till few weeks ago & clarity is coming to light & i am working cleansing my energy couple times a day.
It all makes sense now..lots of light switch moments.
My masculine & feminine energy have been both required serious attention & realised i have been rehealing since a child but needed step it up big time, i had to trust the universe.
My mother left when i was 6 yr old ish my dad brought up 3 girls. He had a wounded inner child, which i know what that story tales & why i was his stress release, i have forgiven him & my relationship is so much better.
We dont see our mother shes not in our lives we tried with her but i even told her i love her. We chose her & i know shes seriously wounded inner child, i have prayed for her. I wish her no wrong but hope she can save herself & try to be happy. Thank you Jake from my heart :)
I give myself permission to feel and heal all of my pain
I give myself permission to feel validated within
Thank you for your healing wisdom 🙏💙
i appreciate who you are and for enriching my life. I am ready to embrace my abondonment and see the gifts in these sitations
Love your energy 🙏🏽
Thank you so much. I feel so lucky that I came across this channel last night. It really spoke to my heart in times of solitude.
I feel I can finally move on from this place. Thank you so much.
Yes since I was child he said that he will leave us ... if he wouldn’t t receive what he wants ... this was his drama giving to us as child ... Abundance ! Since today when he doesn t like what he is confronted with he says he will kill himself ... still doing it with a age of 86 years we are all adult ! Don’t know why I still have to be confronted with this way of press ! I left this contact ... but it still follows me threw companies who abounded me or people I love leave by marrying someone else ... I think I still have to gäl. this part of me what comes from outside ! My shadow ... thanks for your lesson ... I have to be a better partner to myself who doesn t leave me ❤️
Thank you so much x much appreciated content 🙏 love and light 💖 ✨ 🙏
This was groundbreaking for me. It some how opened questions I never really considered. I think this will be a positive start in a better direction for me. Thank you so much.
Thank you for this! Exactly what I needed to hear as I’ve had triggers pop up recently.
You are a beautiful soul, thank you for your wisdom.💜
This is such a beautiful video Thankyou
Thank you Jake
This is so beautiful! Thank you🙏🏻
Thank you for making this video 🙏🏼❤️
If been left by everyone in my life ..and grew up an only child ..parents divorced at 12 .. pulled the plug on my pop in 99 ..i know chaos all to well and i seem to push away everything that come around me in time .. the loss is only getting harder..i cant afford therpy i have no one to talk to ill be 46 in dec..only stable thing in my life are my jobs
This was absolutely outstanding I loved every minute of this and I truly learnt so live for you! I cannot thank you enough 🙌🏽💚🙏🏼
Thanx Jake for this healing ❤
My lifetime "best friend" randomly began ghosting me a few months back, we are neighbors and see eachother daily, he wont even look in my direction, just acts like I dont exist, lately I've just wanted to knock his teeth out and break his nose. Just really pissed, as I would never even think about treating him the way hes done to me, just sick of being the only loyal and real one.
Thankyou for this enlightening video ♥️🙏🏻
Genius! Thank you so much. I will have to review this one to practise forgiveness regularly 🙏
This is great! Thank you so much
This is so beautiful! thanks so much!!
Okay im not a spiritual person but you're talking about all the problems ive had all my life and i need to do something
Thanks Jake. This video was great. Do you have content specifically geared toward men?
Why I want to hug you 😭‼️
She was wounded a few times , I can’t actually remember because I was a baby ❤
I cried all the way through the video😂. I have severe abandonment issues. I'm both a fearful and an avoidant type. I was in foster care as a baby, was returned to my parents at the age of three but the bond was already broken. My mother was NOT a motherly figure, I grew up fearful of her and despising her. I was jealous of my little brother who received all the attention and all the gifts whereas I was treated like sXXt. I keep running after people who don't show interest in me and running away from those who show too much interest because that makes me feel extremely uncomfortable.
Thank you 🙏🏾
Thank you 💙
Thank you
Brilliant
How do i stop attracting people who abandon me. I never know they gona abandone me.
Thank you for this video.. I still struggle with the forgiveness side of things.. What could you advise?
I dont agree with that point about letting people go will atteact the right people in because ive been abandoned so many times by partners. Everytime i let him go another guy comes in only to abandon me again. I let him go and the cycle repeats
When I was six years old my stepmother left me in a doorway with a note saying not wanted.....
Sending you love 💓 and positive vibes ❤️
@@zizicario thank you
Is the death of a parent a beginning of an abandonment issue?
Thanks Jake, I have a lot of respect and admiration for the kind of work you are doing.May I request you for your email address , I’d like to connect with you regarding a spiritual healing workshop..thanks again
How long does the grief take, geez
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How do we forgive ourselves?
Imagine yourself talking to a child version of yourself. Think of what you might have looked like when you were crying and run towards the child version of yourself hug him/her and say, "I love you and I'm sorry for not being present in your time of need. Let's figure this out together."
What is the name of the podcast?
The Awake With Jake Show
@@JakeWoodard thank you!!
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You are so pure 😇
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KARMA IS A LIE! things get worse sometimes when you do the right thing. suffering is not connected directly to your actions you are not the center of the universe. reincarnation is also a lie
KARMA IS A LIE.........grace is available through jesus. the law of sowing and reaping is biblical. its different than Karma. bad things can happen to you for no reason. jesus himself suffered and was mistreated. bad things are not life paying you back. there are consequences built into negative things we do. but we are not narcissistically reponsible for everything that happens to us. karma is NOT TRUE its not all about you.
I am absolutely loving your channel !! I am really really resonating with everything you share 💖 thank you so much for being yourself and sharing 😍🥺💚
Thank you Jake.
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Thank you 🙏🏾✨❤️
Thank you ❤❤
Thank you 🙏🏼
Thank you !