How I Got Out Of Homelessness - divorce, lost job in the UK
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 13 ก.ค. 2024
- 00:23 - How I became homeless
03:16 - Squatting an abandoned house
06:03 - Making money
09:17 - What actually got me out of homelessness and how I started saving
11:48 - Can anyone get out of homelessness?
ABOUT ME:
I’m William, a Sociology researcher at the University of Warwick. I make videos about society and the outdoors. My publications and other creative projects are on my website williambarylo.com . To get in touch, email me at hello@williambarylo.com
PS: This channel is eligible for monetisation. However, I have chosen not to depend on TH-cam for income and not make money out of TH-cam so 1. I can have creative freedom and 2. Offer ad-free videos to my viewers.
The best thing about you is that despite the hardship and the tough time you went through, you look at your past with compassion. You are neither sad nor angry because your first marriage was a failure or because didn’t have means to live a decent life for few years of your life. Your past experiences have shaped who you are today. An incredibly amazing person. May God protect you and your family.
Ameen thank you!
Such an amazing story! I hope this reaches as many people as possible to allow them to see a true insight into homelessness
Thank you. Yeah, it can affect literally anyone
Im unemployed currently and running out of savings make dua for me - from Canada
I will. Hopefully you'll find something soon inshAllah. Let me know if I can help in any way.
Very inspiring, and very well presented! Thank you for sharing.
Thank you very much for leaving an encouraging comment!
Masha Allah, I didn't imagine one second what you've been through. I really would like to help people who are homeless, especially try to prevent the young people who were "raised " thanks to France state. More of 50% of the Homeless are from ASE in France. I think that our country should feel ashame to be so careless with his own youth. At least, I feel ashame and I woul like that my tax are used to prevent and stop homelessness. Your testimony is very precious. El hamdouliLlah you're fine now and thanks to your experience, you can alert about this subject.
Thank you. Many countries have no clue about how to address the issue
Thanks for sharing this- that you've reached a stable situation after such adversity should give many hope. It's an amazing story of resilience.
How do you manage (or did you solve) the Chronic Fatigue Syndrome?
Thank you. I had a few sessions of HBOT that fixed the physical symptoms, and a course of Lions Mane to help with the cognitive stuff. I talk about this in more details in this video: th-cam.com/video/HpvZIi2T8Mo/w-d-xo.html
Thank you for sharing your story. I have been going through a tough time, feeling behind in life, I'm 28, but I want to pursue Master's and PhD, eventually becoming a university professor Insha Allah
inshaAllah. Do a masters but avoid a PhD and the academic route. It's very detrimental on mental health and family life. I'm trying to leave academia and finding other ways of doing research and teaching. th-cam.com/video/ZVWWJevqsWQ/w-d-xo.htmlsi=kOnl4KzVysFX-6xe
Such an inspiring story for everyone that is dealing with tough times!
I will remember this story as a source of encouragement whenever tough times arise.
Indeed with tough times, there are good times.
We all are tested in this world in some way.
I am glad you managed to get a stable life after literally struggling for survival.
Now that i think of it, you were lucky enough to get a wife and work together as a team to cover up the expenses.
Of course your friends also did their part to help you, they are very valuable in times of need.
Now that i think of it, i do think it makes sense why you know Urdu since you married a Pakistani i guess?
Your journey is so inspiring, you have learnt about so many cultures at this time while being steadfast in your difficult times.
May Allah make it easier for you and your family to live in this life and the hereafter.
Thank you! Ameen!
It's true. A helping hand is most commonly the path to recovery.
It becomes very if you suddenly become ill or disabled or your mentall illness becomes out of control.Glad you made it out Akhi but right now the financial system of this world going through its last stages and failing badly.And for introverts its hell.
Yes it's a tough time
Congratulations, and thank you very much for sharing your personal struggle, and honesty.
thank you. I hope it helps someone not making the same mistakes!
William, thank you for sharing your eye-opening life history. I wonder if you'd be able to tell your story at Eton College and all those English boarding schools that produce all the front-bench loungers in Westminster? Perhaps then we would eventually get people in government who are more attuned to the lives of folks outside their hyper-privileged bubble.
Problem is, I'm not English and usually these people at Eton College only listen to people who share the same culture and accent! I'm no match for the gatekeepers!
May Allah bless you and increase you in goodness. Been following your work over these past few years, would never have guessed your journey, amazing resilience! mashAllah
Thank you. I wish resilience was enough! I couldn't have made it without these miracles along the way
Thanks for sharing your story and experience. I’m inspired to continue to show empathy and to seize the moment. May God continue to bless you and keep you safe and healthy.
You need to write a book .
I've published one already! (Don't buy it, ask me for the pdf) But I prefer writing books about other people's amazing stories
@@williambarylo How can I get the pdf ?
@@saleemakbar4335 email me (email in the description)
@@williambarylo je t’envoie un mail aussi :)
@@williambaryloSalam William, I am so touched by your journey and the fact that you are sharing it here. I have experienced God’s miracles many times also. It is His way ! Inshallah it will help many . I would love to read your book so I will email you ! Thank Thank you 🙏🏻❤️
Like I said in my comment on another subject (Piers Morgan vs. X ,Y, Z...) Your are a happy discovery for me, (thru a friend),'relating to many things you said.. and YES, without friends it's casi imposible to make it ,even being a genius. Very articulate and honest bloke!! .. very happy for you to have succeeded.
Thank you!!
You said you didn't drink alcohol. I think this is sooooo important! Otherwise you would have wasted everything.
Bardzo się cieszę, że się Panu udało wyjść z kryzysu bezdomności! Gratuluję!
Thank you so much!
Bravo Dr. Barylo. Your storytelling is facisnating.
Thank you
Je comprends mieux…En réalité mon expérience au niveau personnel a été très similaire . C est bcp plus difficile de survivre en GB en tant qu homme. I appreciate your openness, very inspiring ! 💪. I hope you are in a better place emotionally and financially.
Alhamdulillah ça va beaucoup mieux!
Superb story..I was at the end of the tunnel at some point and came out too.Wish you all the best
thank you!
Thank you for sharing. You are a beautiful soul! Congratulations you made it through another day. ❤
Thank you!!
This is really impressive. Inspiring even. And you are stronger for it, not that anyone should have to be so strong. Well done.
THANK YOU!...You are an INSPIRATION!!! ....and you made me feel ashamed of myself ( in a good way ) ....THANK YOU!!! ...not to mention your VERY VALUABLE INSIGHTS in the other videos. BRAVO!
Thank you
very touching story. you are have a great personality .good luck the rest of the way with your endeavours.
thank you!!
Really inspiring story
Thank you! I really hope it helps
Thank you sir for your inspiring story. Following this, I will give it my best shot on what I have
thank you!
Sometimes happiness lies beyond the chains. Hope you're friend to your wife, and she's to you, that's right now the most important. So, grow first the friendship, then love. Love is just like a nice colour on a paint, it makes more beautiful, but the art is the friendship. That's what a learned from your video clip.
Thank you!
@@williambarylo 🍒
*The darkest nights make the brightest stars*
I'm far from shining yet!
@@williambarylo hope to see you shining then❤️, in sha Allah.
Such an inspiring story masha Allah bro may Allah bless you
Ameen
Incredible journey.
I wish no one had to go through this kind of journey!
Incredible story of determination and willpower. Well done for not succumbing to despair and giving up.😊👍
Thank you
subhanallah..may allah bless u for striving for HIS test
Thank you!
I am in awe, what an amazing story. I consider you a jewel.
Thank you
Top story mate, best of luck for the future.
thank you!
Congratulations x
Hey from Dubai ❤🎉
Hello!!
Hyper choquant ce qui t’es arrivé alors que tu es docteur ! Et surtout tu connaissais le TMTT donc les gens qui y bossaient pouvaient largement t’aider! Choquant mais bravo !
Les amis du TMTT sont en France! Pour moi c'était hors de question de revenir, d'autant plus qu'il n'y a pas beaucoup de postes pour les docteurs en sociologie dans mon domaine
You worked together as a team. A lot of family dynamics within especially South Asian marriages, the woman and the men have these rigid roles where man only does X and woman only y. This ends up being hand to mouth for a lot people and they have no hope for getting on the property ladder, especially if only the male is expected to be the only breadwinner. Not just the main breadwinner, the only one, the only income. It's not possible in the UK
Thank you. I think it's true for all domains of life from marriage, business to the arts, even if Social Media want people to believe that people can be 'self made'. Behind the vast majority of successful businesses and artists, there's always a team.
Quelle ascension hamdul'Allah
Alhamdulillah
People who are fortunate enough to have all their basic needs met and then some, always strike me as the most misanthropic and anti social welfare. However, those who have nothing and then impressive inroads and manage to make something of their situation and themselves have legitimate reason to be grudge-bearing and staunchly resentful. But they never let it define them and their outlook in life. That's my surmise at least.
Inspiring story, considering doing something similar. But why didn't you apply for the job seekers allowance in the beginning? was that possible?
Yes! I had it for some time, but then I couldn't apply for it when I had freelance work.
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته أخي الكريم
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دكتور ويليام إنما الأصدقاء كانوا سبباً لما انت فيه الآن و لكن رحمة الله الرؤوف الرحيم هي التي هيئت لك تلك الأسباب.
الفضل و المنة و الحمد لله العزيز القدير و ثم الشكر لأصدقائك
نعم!
❤️💎…👏🏾🙏🏾
Hey hey ahold of me. Much love.
Thanks!
@@williambarylo are you still awake? Just a curious question
Be much appreciated
You awake?
👋 wake up
“And He (Allah) will provide him from (sources) he never could imagine. And whosoever puts his trust in Allah, then He will suffice him. Verily, Allah will accomplish his purpose. Indeed Allah has set a measure for all things.” Qur’an - Surah Talaq, ayah 3
I was just going to write this verse here 😃. It is so reassuring for us struggling humans and William’s story is proof that God’s promise will always realize its self 👍🏻Thank you ❤❤❤
why did you not present as homeless to a local authority?
Ironing? I don't do such a thing. If I ever would need to, I'd just put it under a mattress, that would iron it.
I try to rely on myself as much as possible before asking for help
And are you become muslim or muslim reasercher ?
All of the above