THEY Find YOU MOST ATTRACTIVE When You Put Yourself on a Pedestal (MASTERING Self-Esteem)

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  • @AttorneyD
    @AttorneyD 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    These comments are so negative. It does work. I had an ex that literally broke up with me THEN BEGGED FOR ME BACK as soon as I stopped chasing/begging and actually removed my energy and put it back on myself. Ultimately, I decided I didn’t want them at all but soon as I energetically detached and truly didn’t care if he came back or not, he quickly came back begging. I ended up having to block him because he was doing a LOT lol. Point is, if your ENERGY is desperate PEOPLE CAN FEEL IT EVEN IF YOU ARE NO CONTACT! Put ALL your energy ON YOURSELF. It WORK! What Coach says is REAL! It’s about energy as well as physical action! It’s law of detachment!

  • @mjsocks5929
    @mjsocks5929 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +63

    I’m Glad she dumped me. I literally found myself again. Thank You.

    • @ckyung1312
      @ckyung1312 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      That’s a great perspective.

  • @Proximiti_Music
    @Proximiti_Music 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Man, I’m a little over a month NC and watching this video made me realize that I’m doing a lot better than I thought!
    I went sober, worked on my music career, started creating content daily, and went full in on understanding my attachment style. Thanks for helping me realize that I’m doing good!

  • @annsumrall2593
    @annsumrall2593 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    You are right body posture shows alot. Dont let them know you are hurting when they see you. I hate to say it but i act like i am talking to someone on my phone and laughing . Let him wonder who i am talking to

    • @Croy617
      @Croy617 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      That’s what my mom says!! lol

  • @fayeevarts5891
    @fayeevarts5891 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    I spoke to you a couple weeks ago…..it’s Faye 😊
    Remember he moved out, we have kids and married…So he begged back and we went to counseling first session and he is dating me now…been a few dates..said he’s looking at subletting the lease out now to move back if everything goes well…wants to text and “watch shows” but I won’t let him hang out like that yet, like you said…you said eight dates..that seems like a lot 😂 do I still have to not hang out at home and shut down text conversations…he cries at therapy and I comforted him and picked of the pieces kind of…

    • @blacademic
      @blacademic  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Haha if he is doing all the things you can loosen up a bit. Happy for you!

  • @ckyung1312
    @ckyung1312 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Great advise. I’m currently crawling out from S.A.D. while going through a breakup *while also beginning a new job. For the past couple months I wallowed in sleepy sadness wanting nothing to do nothing except shut out the entire world. Yesterday, I snapped out of it and told myself to get back into shape and completely focus on the moment and myself and quit worrying about the future.

  • @giparamore
    @giparamore 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    Finally a video focus on us and not on the ex’s. Pleaseeee do more videos like that, when the time is right and I feel I’m open for a new relationship I don’t want have another broke heart.

    • @lucyinneh
      @lucyinneh 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me how Dr Romeo help many people to bring there lover back

    • @lucyinneh
      @lucyinneh 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

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      @lucyinneh 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

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  • @GinNBoost
    @GinNBoost 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    Being the best version of myself unfortunately has not translated to my wife wanting to reconcile. Despite my efforts to be a model husband and dad she is still hellbent on following through with divorce. It sucks. Our kids will suffer the most from it. Thank you for the video.

    • @1life2life
      @1life2life 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Sorry your going through this. I went through it after 4 kids and 22 years

    • @humbertoyepez1543
      @humbertoyepez1543 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Her loss. She thinks she can do better let her. Why would want to keep someone who doesn’t want to be kept? Grow some balls and let her go. The kids will be fine and with time they will see her for what she is.

    • @GinNBoost
      @GinNBoost 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      @@humbertoyepez1543 because I love her? Not easy to let go. Me and her built a life together. Now it’s being torn down. My (twin) boys are 5 years old. They don’t deserve what’s to come.

    • @StormsHurt
      @StormsHurt 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@GinNBoost❤❤
      I will pray for restoration or your family.

    • @KB82424
      @KB82424 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@GinNBoosthey brother everything gets better I promise hit the gym go to church

  • @Rambo4President
    @Rambo4President 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Coach Blac was there for me when I was dying inside two weeks ago. Still hard being in NC, but not nearly as hard as it was. Can’t thank you enough.

  • @UniversoSpiritualUnido
    @UniversoSpiritualUnido 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    This is for everything work and money never put anything above you. 🖤 your outfit coach blac is on point!

    • @soukainaMeha
      @soukainaMeha 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Dont forget God allah!

    • @blacademic
      @blacademic  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks you! 🙏

  • @thomesc6214
    @thomesc6214 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Love this video. Great for an aftermath of a breakup. I don’t want to go back to my ex but still very good video for life in general.

    • @lucyinneh
      @lucyinneh 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me how Dr Romeo help many people to bring there lover back

    • @lucyinneh
      @lucyinneh 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

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  • @sam_so_nice
    @sam_so_nice 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    For all those guys who feel like they’ve lost their balls -> book a coaching with blac. You won’t regret it.

  • @erikawilson3881
    @erikawilson3881 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I enjoyed this more inwardly focused video. 🎉

  • @charmainek6416
    @charmainek6416 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Being the best version of me since meeting U here

  • @nieczerwony
    @nieczerwony 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    My break up was just a nail to the coffin. My job ruined my self-esteem and confidence.
    Because of it I stopped being active and my physique was horrible.
    My nutrition was also crap.
    I say my job, but it was actually me, as I choose to focus on it, not on my women.
    She was left alone.
    Worst part is I became someone I don't even know.
    My nutrition and physique now are way, way better, but even that mentally and emotionally I am alien to myself.
    I used to be positive, supportive, sociable and driven. Didn't procrastinate, had everything organized.
    I used to love taking risk and new adventures.
    Now I am stuck in my mind and have to force myself to do anything.
    What's worst she already has someone else. So it's like another kick to your self esteem, that you was so easy to replace.
    I am in the worst time in my life and believe me I had some rough ones before.

    • @e18terrrones58
      @e18terrrones58 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Worst part about a break up imo is definitely being stuck in ur mind 24/7 as life passes by you seeing days, weeks, months go by so fast and you’re just still in the same place you were before (in your mind)I’m going through the SAMEEE exact thing and I can’t even begin to start on how sad I am over the whole situation. I try to be stronger but I overthink the ways she’s hurt me and I’ll break and cry and some days I won’t even cry at all. No motivation to pick my self up and I spend days trying to see when she’s going to come back

    • @nieczerwony
      @nieczerwony 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@e18terrrones58 I think my will never come back. 😪

    • @e18terrrones58
      @e18terrrones58 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@nieczerwony me either dude been overthinking a shit ton and she hasn’t texted me once.

    • @nieczerwony
      @nieczerwony 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@e18terrrones58 Yeah probably another dude on side.

  • @mariataneva655
    @mariataneva655 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I enjoyed this video greatly, thanks a lot for this and can't wait to see some more on this topic 🙏🙏🙏

  • @RURU-rc1yp
    @RURU-rc1yp 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Do more of these please :(( Super appreciated and helpful. Like a series of videos ON WHAT TO DO WHILE YOU'RE ON NO CONTACT and such

  • @SpenKilpatrick94
    @SpenKilpatrick94 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +77

    Take my advice: This time last year I was watching every break up video on how NO CONTACT gets your ex back. I split up with my ex over a year ago now and I was heartbroken. I was keeping a daily track on how many days we had been split up and I was a mess inside. THEY DON’T COME BACK. They never do. The only advice I can give you is: self improvement. For yourself. Get in shape. I lost 28 lbs, I got a better haircut. I started to perform better at work, I made more time for my friends & I attracted better women. The day I did finally saw my ex girlfriend came by, Then I realised that I’d improved and she hadn’t. You’ve gotta win for yourself. And once you take control of who you are, you win!! Seek for a better you, don’t seek for someone who didn’t think you were good enough.

    • @johncatalano7101
      @johncatalano7101 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      You walked by your ex as an improved version of yourself and she didn’t try to come back???

    • @SpenKilpatrick94
      @SpenKilpatrick94 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@johncatalano7101they don’t come back. Take it from me.

    • @lilianakeya9868
      @lilianakeya9868 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    • @jenniferh.994
      @jenniferh.994 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I will walk this same path, and I agree that one needs to improve themselves and give SELF LOVE, it will be a hard journey to get there but I pray I make it through just as you did! ❤thanks for commenting, your words of advise and your outcome is very uplifting to know that one CAN make it through!

    • @kkdream99
      @kkdream99 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      Naah, they do come back ;)

  • @jeaneengant6771
    @jeaneengant6771 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I enjoyed this video and I'm doing every you mentioned.. Eating better.. Gym.. My career etc.. What I struggle with is how he stills see the person who he cheated on me with..
    As if I wasn't enough.. Just some things I wasn't into that they are..

  • @chrisnemat
    @chrisnemat 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is your best video yet

  • @bronzedgold
    @bronzedgold 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I haven’t finished watching the video yet but I do want to say I would love more videos like this that focus on me and not the dumper. Like let’s build me up. All the attention in everyone’s videos always focuses on them and makes them way more important than what they actually are. I’m the nice one. I’m the caring one. I’m the one who is more loyal and was more mature during the relationship. I’m the real prize. He the damn problem 😂 yeah, I wanna talk about me 🥰

  • @joelleweaver9609
    @joelleweaver9609 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes this is the most important thing period in this process. I made the whole experience about improving myself in every single area of my life. No matter what happens, this has been the blessing.

  • @perryduncan1898
    @perryduncan1898 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Yes,, you are most important,, you can't help anyone if you can't help yourself.

    • @lucyinneh
      @lucyinneh 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me how Dr Romeo help many people to bring there lover back

    • @lucyinneh
      @lucyinneh 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

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  • @basicinfo2022
    @basicinfo2022 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    He reached out to me on day 40 apologizing and asking to see me, but i didnt take things slow and cautiously when we met because he lied that he was moving out of country soon. I guess this is a warning to others that some exes are selfish and will say anything to get you to break no contact and have the upper hand. Do your due diligence and be prepared with questions after no contact.

    • @lucyinneh
      @lucyinneh 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me how Dr Romeo help many people to bring there lover back

    • @lucyinneh
      @lucyinneh 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

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  • @hw934
    @hw934 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Great video, nice watch. You’ve been really helping me lately

    • @Happy63720
      @Happy63720 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me how Dr Romeo help many people to bring there lover back

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  • @jenniferh.994
    @jenniferh.994 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    #1 is so very important, thanks Coach! ❤

  • @64rustyjets
    @64rustyjets หลายเดือนก่อน

    Coach Blac is on trac.

  • @Izaiahdokpa
    @Izaiahdokpa 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My Nigerian brother, I'm Liberian and love the advice bro.

  • @cloverwalker3203
    @cloverwalker3203 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I just got back from a South African trip, my children are super proud of me.

    • @Happy63720
      @Happy63720 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me how Dr Romeo help many people to bring there lover back

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  • @JMarie0921
    @JMarie0921 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I absolutely love your videos. You have so much wisdom and you do an excellent job of explaining these concepts. Growing so much

  • @alijhill
    @alijhill 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thanks Coach love you as always the truth!

    • @Happy63720
      @Happy63720 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me how Dr Romeo help many people to bring there lover back

    • @Happy63720
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  • @noregrets5351
    @noregrets5351 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Coach Blac ❤ Your channel has helped so much. Appreciate you xx

  • @S.Randolph-hu5oh
    @S.Randolph-hu5oh 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Great video Coach! I enjoyed the focus being on us instead of our exes. It helped me to feel more empowered and be more at peace…

    • @Happy63720
      @Happy63720 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me how Dr Romeo help many people to bring there lover back

    • @Happy63720
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  • @amelioe4507
    @amelioe4507 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Coach!!!! 🙌🏽❤️

  • @angiep8217
    @angiep8217 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I like this kind of video

  • @monalewis7740
    @monalewis7740 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤❤ Thank you for the message, I would love more videos regarding self Love and Care.

  • @bipbop7231
    @bipbop7231 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi Hi Coach. When you’re the “dumpee”, all of these points are definitely experienced. Low self esteem, at least for me. You feel worthless. How can the “dumper” do this to me? I must have had an innate ability to help myself. I understood that I had to change in order to move myself forward. I’m stubborn, so I felt that gave me an advantage. Once you come from a dark place into light….you’ll never go back. You won’t ever allow someone to treat you less than. Thank you. Have a great weekend. Hope to see you back on the channel, soon.

    • @lucyinneh
      @lucyinneh 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me how Dr Romeo help many people to bring there lover back

    • @lucyinneh
      @lucyinneh 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

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  • @BestskaterMorris
    @BestskaterMorris 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Grt videos and you videos have helped me tremendously….

  • @leosrule5412
    @leosrule5412 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Coach, can you do videos on ex baby mama’s? Because having a child brings a whole different dynamic. They play games, won’t let you see the baby, yet want all your money. If you take em to court for visitation. The court sides with them and you gotta pay way more money. At least in California.

    • @Happy63720
      @Happy63720 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me how Dr Romeo help many people to bring there lover back

    • @Happy63720
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  • @scottdavies256
    @scottdavies256 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My self esteem has never been an issue. It can't get any higher tbh. Quite frankly, my self esteem is extremely intimidating to insecure people, including my ex... Who, well you guessed it, has an extremely insecure attachment style (shocker!!!)

  • @Themohankriz19
    @Themohankriz19 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Eagerly waiting for this video coach ❤

  • @darnellj.9812
    @darnellj.9812 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Upgrade your self for your better future ! Allow them to figure out who the new version is

    • @lucyinneh
      @lucyinneh 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me how Dr Romeo help many people to bring there lover back

    • @lucyinneh
      @lucyinneh 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

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  • @scorpiored3871
    @scorpiored3871 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    ❤Awesome advice, Thank you ❤

    • @lucyinneh
      @lucyinneh 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me how Dr Romeo help many people to bring there lover back

    • @lucyinneh
      @lucyinneh 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

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  • @prodbyjewls
    @prodbyjewls 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She left me over a month ago, i alreadry tried no contact but it only seems like she reached out to see how i was doing, i said i was doing good and we asked about how things are going in our lives, shes in college and i chose to stay and work, which seemed to be a big problem that broke us apart. I still dont know what i want to do in my life and lately it feels like I was only happy because i put her on that pedestal, and when she decicded she could find someone better, it broke me, I dont think i love myself, I always feel like theres so much to do to make others proud of me, i can never appreciate what I do for myself. I want to get over her but I know im not, i think about her constantly. Im just worried that if I have another shot with her, I dont make the changes i need to do to love myself and put myself on that pedestal.

    • @lucyinneh
      @lucyinneh 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me how Dr Romeo help many people to bring there lover back

    • @lucyinneh
      @lucyinneh 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

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  • @araceliscollazo5067
    @araceliscollazo5067 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great content as usual handsome!

    • @Happy63720
      @Happy63720 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me how Dr Romeo help many people to bring there lover back

    • @Happy63720
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  • @TheStaceyyang
    @TheStaceyyang 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Nice watch!!!

    • @lucyinneh
      @lucyinneh 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me how Dr Romeo help many people to bring there lover back

    • @lucyinneh
      @lucyinneh 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

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  • @garyjones2781
    @garyjones2781 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bro my struggle always is patience. I see bs and address it straight up. Which I know creates defensiveness. I get more bothered that when they come back I won’t take them even if I want them. Not to be vindictive but because you get one chance with me. Thoughts?

  • @NewyJon7787
    @NewyJon7787 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great video Man.

  • @Teegee1387
    @Teegee1387 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I won’t lie. I am truly struggling with this whole ordeal with my ex. It hurts very badly and I don’t know what else I’m to do. I wanted to marry this person and personally I feel like they may be talking to someone else or just acting like they don’t care. Idk. I just want this feeling to dissipate or something.

    • @CatwalkPurz
      @CatwalkPurz 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      When my break up happened four months ago, I felt exactly like you did… it’s so important to literally binge watch all of these videos, and you will be very clear and comforted and the healing process is so much faster
      ((((Hug))) I know it is so hard.

  • @chrisholmes5560
    @chrisholmes5560 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have a story I would love to share with you and it's something that know one on TH-cam talked about I would love for you to talk about my story it's the hardest thing I gone through you have helped me get through alot with your videos so thank you

  • @ucanhle7141
    @ucanhle7141 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i begged and chased her and tried to explain everything but in the end she said she wanted to be left alone to be free and get to know the new person and how she moved on so quickly just 2 weeks after breaking up while we were together for 6 years Then I watched videos about no contact and then I said yes to leaving her alone and then started no contact . whether everything I do is right ? How could she heal so quickly?

    • @jenniferh.994
      @jenniferh.994 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I was in the same boat, almost 12 years, the other person had "checked out" of the relationship for months before without talking about any issues, so my ex and yours had already been planning on moving on WHILE they were still in a relationship with us.... that's why she/he was able to move on so quickly while we thought everything was fine in the relationship. May God help you and I heal and find someone that will truly appreciate what we have to offer! Take care! ❤

    • @Erica-cf1xb
      @Erica-cf1xb 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      She never was hurt. It's a game to some people and alot of people are on a assigned job to play a role just to break the person down. When things get too hot...she is told she must exit. It's orders.

  • @akashgrewal7581
    @akashgrewal7581 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Amazing video

    • @lucyinneh
      @lucyinneh 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me how Dr Romeo help many people to bring there lover back

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      @lucyinneh 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

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  • @MiaNichole
    @MiaNichole 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    When you’re married…should you move out the house for no contact?

  • @roxyblahblahblog8016
    @roxyblahblahblog8016 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I like this video

    • @Happy63720
      @Happy63720 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me how Dr Romeo help many people to bring there lover back

    • @Happy63720
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  • @DemocracyFirst2025
    @DemocracyFirst2025 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Jordan Peterson? Cmon coach.

  • @MiguelMorales-cx9uj
    @MiguelMorales-cx9uj 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love your videos but you have to make a video with the no contact when you have children together

  • @karlisfilis1761
    @karlisfilis1761 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Its crazy how none of the break up coaches never mention drinking alcohol ,,, we all know thats the problem for lot of people

  • @annsumrall2593
    @annsumrall2593 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Its been 35 days with no contact. I have to see him at work and it is awful. I am falling apart. I have zero self esteem

    • @Happy63720
      @Happy63720 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me how Dr Romeo help many people to bring there lover back

    • @Happy63720
      @Happy63720 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

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  • @jibberjabber2
    @jibberjabber2 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Is it a good sign if my ex reaches out to ask how I’m doing every 1-2 weeks and then finally takes it a small step further and decides to share her life/career accomplishments with me? She broke up with me, I’ve been in no contact (even stayed silent on her birthday) and we’re separated but not officially divorced yet

    • @CatwalkPurz
      @CatwalkPurz 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How does it feel to you? Without knowing very many details, it sounds like she’s just keeping in touch to make sure you’re available if she still wants you. she’s still holding the power position going strong, no contact, put you in the power position, and it’s a real self-respect move as well as the new superpower.

    • @jibberjabber2
      @jibberjabber2 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@CatwalkPurz you mind explaining please? you said she still holding the power position but then went on to say “no contact puts you in the power position and is a self respect move” at what point do I make her feel she’s not in position of power if I’ve been the one in no contact (to include her birthday) and she still continues to hit me up? Ignore her?

    • @CatwalkPurz
      @CatwalkPurz 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jibberjabber2 you are entertaining conversations with her, and not advancing or escalating the conversation toward meeting up and dating again, she maintains the power position because she’s keeping you on a string/friend zoning you. You don’t ignore her, but if she does not accept your terms, which are to be in a romantic relationship when YOU want, then she is “running the show”. Right now she is bread crumbing or friend zoning you.

    • @jibberjabber2
      @jibberjabber2 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@CatwalkPurz not to mention, I’m not entirely sure if it’s a rebound relationship but I saw pics of her spending time with a guy on Christmas with his arms wrapped around her

    • @CatwalkPurz
      @CatwalkPurz 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jibberjabber2 so hard (((hug))). Now ask yourself what you want and move forward with what YOU want not what she is “offering”.

  • @IsmynameDotcom
    @IsmynameDotcom 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    One Question Coach, will no contact work, if she thinks Im cheating?

    • @Happy63720
      @Happy63720 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me how Dr Romeo help many people to bring there lover back

    • @Happy63720
      @Happy63720 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

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    • @CatwalkPurz
      @CatwalkPurz 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Really what is your other option? NoContact and indifference are the new SUPER POWER/a true self-respect-move. Period. And it is helpful in healing/moving forward, faster.😉 like ripping the bandaid off quick 💥. NoContact always works BECAUSE the sole intent is to get into the POWER POSITION. IF the ex comes back and you still want them, then that is the bonus only, not the purpose also, it allows you to DETACH which creates emotional disconnect and helps you to see “the ex” clearly, instead of through rose colored glasses. If they discarded you, THAT IS how you HAVE TO remember them…as someone who was cruel and threw you away, threw what you built together AWAY AS rotten trash. It requires rewiring the brain though. The brain wants to fix a problem. So it keeps you strategizing “the how” to fix it but THE ONLY way to truly disconnect and detach is by going no contact.

  • @benderrodriguez1525
    @benderrodriguez1525 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hello Coach, I've been going through a breakup and have started no contact but I have one question, should I wish them a happy birthday when it comes up?

    • @sunnydayz3577
      @sunnydayz3577 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      No

    • @hilkaahlers5855
      @hilkaahlers5855 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Absolutely NOT!!!!!!!

    • @TheMarkogg
      @TheMarkogg 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If some stranger on the street told you “You are ugly, go to hell”, would you wish them great day?
      There lies your answer.

    • @annsumrall2593
      @annsumrall2593 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Definitely dont wish him happy birthday they will know you still think about them

    • @benderrodriguez1525
      @benderrodriguez1525 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      well this is gonna be fun@@annsumrall2593

  • @evillution1209
    @evillution1209 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey coach! What does it mean when my ex says it takes time to heal and process? Is there change for them to stay away and think about reconsidering the relationship? Or can they heal and still move on ? Im on nc for over week now giving her space

    • @Happy63720
      @Happy63720 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me how Dr Romeo help many people to bring there lover back

    • @Happy63720
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  • @rosibellizardorosario
    @rosibellizardorosario 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

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  • @anthonythornton64
    @anthonythornton64 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    In my 34 years of my relationship and marriage, I have placed a significant amount of energy in the wrong places.
    From the start, my focus needed to be on improving myself so that I could be the Man I needed to be.
    However, I chose to focus my energy on her and in turn have lost out due to not being confident, controlling, and selfishness when I couldn't get my way.
    It's been a tough road and ai beat myself for not progressing with my life until she had left.
    I have been feeling anxious lately and today the podcast was right on time. I recognize that I still am on this journey to recovery and redefining my self esteem.
    I appreciate your passion for this line of work. It has truly been a blessing for me.

    • @lucyinneh
      @lucyinneh 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me how Dr Romeo help many people to bring there lover back

    • @lucyinneh
      @lucyinneh 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

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    • @Dreamsareareality
      @Dreamsareareality 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I really appreciated your comment and honesty. 🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @annsumrall2593
    @annsumrall2593 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Send

    • @Happy63720
      @Happy63720 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me how Dr Romeo help many people to bring there lover back

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  • @aruqyz
    @aruqyz 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🎉

  • @sagittariuswoman8766
    @sagittariuswoman8766 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    On your next video, can you please talk about one night stands. Why men hate the female after a one night stand. Especially when he pursued the act.

    • @Happy63720
      @Happy63720 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me how Dr Romeo help many people to bring there lover back

    • @Happy63720
      @Happy63720 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

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    • @CatwalkPurz
      @CatwalkPurz 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Because men don’t want someone they think think anybody can have.

  • @Beautifullysaid
    @Beautifullysaid 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😊

  • @SkylerVandenberg-h3b
    @SkylerVandenberg-h3b 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Need seriously advise..i was in no contact for 4 weeks. But my ex texted me just now saying her mom died. I send my condolences...what do i do now?

    • @AnilKumar-qq1yv
      @AnilKumar-qq1yv 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      do what is necessary- show up on funeral - say condolences in person - disappear

    • @SkylerVandenberg-h3b
      @SkylerVandenberg-h3b 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@AnilKumar-qq1yv my ex is ignoring me. I asked about the funeral..

    • @basicinfo2022
      @basicinfo2022 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@SkylerVandenberg-h3b watch his videos on polarity. The masculine pursues, the feminine chooses.

    • @CatwalkPurz
      @CatwalkPurz 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      You handle it as any other person you know. You sent condolences and nothing more is needed. Don’t pressure or go to funeral.

    • @SkylerVandenberg-h3b
      @SkylerVandenberg-h3b 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@CatwalkPurz thank you so much..even my mother said the exact same thing.

  • @SkylerVandenberg-h3b
    @SkylerVandenberg-h3b 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think i am a bad person

    • @lucyinneh
      @lucyinneh 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me how Dr Romeo help many people to bring there lover back

    • @lucyinneh
      @lucyinneh 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

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  • @Luvagirl1971
    @Luvagirl1971 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great Video And Great Advice. I Love This Video Coach 🔥🫶🏽🔥

    • @blacademic
      @blacademic  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks you! 🙏