I have had 4 pregnancy miscarriage (edit: now 6 in total ; now have decided to take no more health and emotional risk for this one thing) and still don’t have kids.. Today I want all the women having condition like me that “It’s completely OK”.. I went through so much mental trauma because of this and the pressure of society... But now i have realised it’s fine.. Living a happy life is the most important thing.. Women’s please don’t blame ur self for not being married, not being enough fair/tail/thin, And not having kids.. It’s all completely fine
Oh my! This is so terrible. My cousin mausi suffered something like that. She was pregnant for whole 9 months and we don't know what happened at the end, but at the time of delivery, it was a dead baby boy. The baby was fully grown but his heartbeat didn't start. He was dead. I could see how shattered my mausi and mausaji, she was crying holding him. Anyway she has now 2 children one boy and girl. But that situation was terrible. May god gave every woman strength. This is the most beautiful and difficult process. 🙏
I can understand ur pain, i've gone through this. I got pregnant after 5 months of marriage and had a natural miscarraige and suffered a lot and till now i can't concieve. I pray to Allah for every woman who have suffered, May u get a beautiful and healthy baby soon. Ameen sumameen. Pray for me also plz 😑
I hope you're doing well...same thing happend 2 me twice already and the pain is unbearabe especially when family members is putting pressure on you for a heir
I used to follow her channel when I was a teen. After that, i came across her today. It's heartbreaking. Pregnancy is difficult... Both for the husband and wife but a mom has to suffer much more.
My mom lost my sister when my mom was 9 months just couple of days before due date... I won't know what is that loss is like... But we still remember my sister
I am here after suffering my second miscarriage few days ago. Please keep us in your prayers and may each woman womb be blessed with a healthy baby in 2022 and beyond
Same thing happened to me in September this year. And this was my consecutive 3rd miscarriage. Before this i also had an ectopic pregnancy which could be fatal but thankfully my tubes were saved. Can totally relate how painful it is.
Sorry to hear this video . Same thing happened on my first pregnancy my doctors didn't tell me exactly what happened at that time. finally I got to know the reason because of this video thank u. Take care
I can feel you..word by word...I faced the same trauma...I had a missed miscarriage in my 1st pregnancy...in my 12th week scan I got to know..I went into depression..the worst part was, everyone moved on..except me...it's been 6 years now, and by God's grace I m blessed with a boy and a girl..
I lost my baby just last month and since then I've constantly searched for videos and information regarding miscarriage. I literally cried with you through the whole video.... it's really a tough journey....be it pregnancy or miscarriage. Fortunately I'd husband,my family,my friend and my doctor. But this loss stays with you for a really long time. I'm still on leave cuz I don't want to go outside my house and be around people other than my own. I think I should stop here, it's too much that I've written. You were brave to have come out in the open.
It happened to me very recently last year on my birthday couple of months ago. It was my first pregnancy and there was no heartbeat till 10th week. I can understand the pain and I am also still processing the pain. But congratulations to you on your healthy second baby. Baby girl is a blessing. God bless her.
Thankyou so much for sharing such a personal experience. I'm so sure it must have given so many women and people strength and spreading awareness is really important. That it could happen to anyone, the feeling that I'm not alone will really help along with the other tips to cope with it.
Don't cry ma'am...I am not a mother but as a lady I can feel it ...you are blessed with your loving husband and child ...bad things happen..but it will come over soon.. Good will be always there for you❤️
I am sorry but obviously she will cry....she lost a child. She is strong but don't force her to be that strong to not even cry. It's normal to cry if your heart is broken.
@@nittynatsha4346 I can understand your words and support you.. actually I am not saying it in that way to stop crying or something ...PPL who are able to shade tears are the strongest.. Those words actually I use to support her..(like you say someone "don't cry beta")
I hav recently gone through the same with my first pregnancy. It really takes a toll both emotionally and physically. Everyone says its very common and happens to many but somewhere being it common doesnt reduce my loss. I really hope every woman who is pregnant and looking forward to meet her child have a healthy baby ..
True, this being common, doesn't reduce my pain, very difficult to cope, specially when your body showed all the symptoms and suddenly in the scanned you realize it's a miss miscarriage.. 😢 I hope I am blessed again 🙏 ✨️
@@banorani9914 after marriage i conceived again after around 4 months and this time everything went well and by the grace of almighty now I am mother of my darling son.😍😍😍
My mother faced miscarriage too. She miscarriaged before my brother and before me too. My brother and I have a 7 years difference. I'm not a mother yet but I can totally feel the pain. Women goes through lot of trauma stress and depression. All my prayers and blessings are with you and your family.
This is so heart wrenching. My father's sister had 8 miscarriages. But she became pregnant from the 9th time and the child survived and he is 12 years old now. I still feel a shiver down my spine whenever I recall the incident.
This is my exact story. came to know day before yesterday about my baby not having a heartbeat, exactly 10th week ,yesterday morning natural bleeding started and I could do nothing.took tablets yesterday. Now am watching this video with very bad stomach cramps. don't know how I got recommended this video,this is exactly my situation.. but thank you for sharing this.
Happened with me .. It was a very tough time. :(. I can totally understand what you are going through.. dont worry. everything will be fine. I went through this trauma for 8 months.
My sister went through this and initially it was difficult to talk about but when we started... We realized everyone knew someone who had gone through the same... 😔
Aaj kal ectopic pregnancy bohot badh gai hai. Meri didi ko bhi hui thi last year. Late detect ho pai jiski wajah se fallopian tube burst ho gai ek. Is baar bhi ectopic hi lag raha hai.
I had lost my dd at 37 week...one routine check and they said there is no beat...the second time last year at 7 weeks...I don't know how I am moving on
I can't imagine the pain that you and all the other mothers are going thru! Am an aunt, and it my broke heart. When my sister lost her son, one day before he was due for a C-Section. He was full term, my nephew pass away due to the unbellical cord. It still hurts just thinking about it. I 🙏 for everyone that is going through this. You hear about it but when it hits home, it hurts 😢😢😢😢
This is a shattering experience for a woman.. I have experienced somewhat similar case quite later , in 5th month ... people say after 3 months it's safe but no that's not true for everyone.. 2020 took everything from me and it's heartbreaking
Same happened with me in may 2020. I got pregnant after 4 years of my marriage and I had a missed miscarrage after 14 weeks of pregnancy. Had a panic attack when doctor told that there is no heart beat. That was the most painful moment of my life. Not sure when will i be pregnant again, I just pray soon 🙏
I got pregnant after 3yrs of marriage and after 36thweeks still birth happened to me on oct 2020.i had lost my entire 9th months..still having heavy heart..and don't know when will be pregnant again..i m praying for you and sending you hope too..be positive
When i was hearing you.. i was resembling myself with your every single word and the moments when i was listening.. i went back again in that zone when it had happen to me.. this is so much disastrous moment for every mother… 😣
I was feeling bad for you and for every mother who has to go through this emotionally painful journey. But the last scene brought a big smile on my face that you were blessed with a healthy baby girl. Stay blessed🙏
My mom was 1.5-2 months pregnant 🤰 but then, she didn't know the fact ... Eventually it landed up in a miscarriage 😖... When I was still a kid, and I didn't even know anything about it...
It's completely okay with being unmarried..and not having kids.. Having kids ,being married is not for everyone..it's a choice to have children or not having children...living a happy life is most important..
My wife & I suffered found out about first our baby in the 5th week & 5th day of our pregnancy. We both were super excited as we could be. We only told our close ones about it! However one fine day, life took a dramatic turn on us, we were at home when she bled from her vagina profusely, and instantly I knew we lost our child. It was a missed miscarriage in the 11th week of our pregnancy! We were shocked and devasted when the doctor told us the reality of the situation, it took us days or maybe months to get normal, not just together, but also with ourselves! However I realized right now, I though am the husband, my wife is strong as stone while I’m shattered and broken from inside. I suffer from PTSD. My wife and I don’t speak much about it as she knows I’m broken, but she doesn’t know I’m suffering from PTSD, this happened to us in our bedroom, where she bled, and I still get anxiety when I look at that spot. I still think and talk to our unborn child (unborn son) as I consider him. I often tell him that mumma is strong and she could move away if not move on, but I’m not able to as I have this feeling where I feel I lost him. I feel so sad and empty and numb I’m unable to explain. I have an empty space in my heart, like a hole that no one can fill and no one can even touch it, not even my wife. It’s just our son & myself, and both of us reach there in that hole and meet each other away from this world, where it’s just me and him. I tell him quite often that I’m proud of his mom and how she has handled things while I’m still stuck in depression. He also tells me that he’s with me and her. He told me we are destined to be together, however he wants me to get fitter and healthier to play with him. He wants me to meet him soon, and I will. I’m unable to tell anyone how I miss him, how much I miss him, how I remember him. I talk to him and cry the most at night, every night, when I don’t have anyone around me, that is the time we meet each in that small hole in my heart, I could give my world to be with him, but I know I’m not with him now! I pray to meet him soon in person! Still waiting my first child! Hopefully this year! Amen!🧎
I lost my baby just a few days before the delivery, she was a fully grown healthy baby..I got covid and then 4 days after that she stopped responding, It happened in September’20 , I still have not been able to overcome it, I know how it feels and right after losing the baby I got detected with three rare diseases and I am still under treatment...I hope I get better and can bring the baby back to us again🙏
@@fourhappybirds Dearest Shruti, Thankyou so much for the kind words...I cant tell you how much it means to me❤️ May God bless you and your family with all the happiness on earth and just like you said I really hope I get better very soon and she choses me again🙏❤️❤️
@@sacredhealingartbykaveri461 for sure.. just faith in our godmother.. my mom told me.. unki favourite devi durga hai... unko meri mom apni mother bolti hai.. shadi ke baad vo first time unke mandir gyi.. aur emotionally unhone man hi man bol diya ki.. maa aap hi aana mere paas.. aur us time mumma 2 months pregnant thi.. after that in 5-6 days mom lost that baby and 1 month after vo second time pregnant huyi.. aur mumma bolti hai.. me huyi.. ghar pe hi normally.. and mumma vo time 18 years ki thi.. i know baby ka lost bahut hi jyada painful hota hai.. jaise heart nikal liya ho body se.... but ma’am uper jo hamare achche ke liye bethe hai... shayad unka faisla apke achche ke liye ho.. agar vo bachchi aa jati.. apke hatho me aur 2-3 saal baad agar usko kuch ho jata.. to aap bilkul sambhal nahi paati khud ko.. trust kro vo bahut jaldi aane vali hai... aapke paas ❤️🙏
I am going through the same and it was my first pregnancy after 6 years of marriage.I hope good things happen as it is shown in video. And thanks for sharing this which made me feel I am not alone.But I wish everyone has a healthy pregnancy.
I know her!! I used to watch her back in the day. My cousin had 9 miscarriages. And my aunt didn't really care like she was like "oh coz she's fat". When they had their first baby boy they were soooooo protective of him and didn't allow anyone to touch him. I understood it now. Coz they lost 9 children. I can only imagine the pain my cousin went through not just physical but mentally too. Now she has got another baby boy. And her first born son is sooo naughty haha.
Thank you so much to share your story my friend.. Mujhe isse bahot himmat mili.. Kiunke maine abhi abhi apna aphla baby khoya hai. Mujhe bhi missed miscarriage huwa hai.. Please pray for me ke god mujhe jaldi firse pregnency ki khusi de.
This year I too passed through a similar condition but mine was ectopic pregnancy. It was our first pregnancy and I was totally devastated. It is still difficult to sink in with the fact that I have lost it through an emergency c section surgery.
I can relate to your story I had two miscarriages 8 and 14 weeks, in first miscarriage I was spotting but in second one i got to know in 17 th week that baby stopped growing at 14 weeks. People ask you to stay calm and hope fr the best but it's a natural human tendency that you can't be normal again in any of your new pregnancies
I lost 2 pregnancies, I was alone this time, i travelled alone, stayed without husband, I can understand your pain very well.. i dont even have any baby
My God...it's the first time am hearing of this and honestly it's absolutely heartbreaking 💔...can't imagine the grief and mourning you went through... Much love and respect 🙏
Lost my 1st baby in 6th month n had to deliver her as abortion is not possible after 3rd month n lost my 2nd baby in 7th month but he couldn't survive after 3-4 days.....so, I think every woman have such experiences but m positive... everything will be fine...ladies..don't worry.. everything will be fine...have faith in God.
I lost my baby today at 11th week and 6 days. Life suddenly has come to an a standstill. Whatever u said is exactly my story. Doctor said the baby growth stopped near 8th week and there was no symptoms.
I am going through the same now😊. The pain I am having inside me is more when compared to my body. But this incident made me strong and transferred me from a girl to a strong women. My inlaws, my husband, my family, my colleagues, everyone is supporting me in this journey. I am not left alone and this is a natural things, time will pass❤
I am undergoing my miscarriage now as I am speaking. So much blood , pain and how it makes your body sore and tired... I knew about my pregnancy loss at my 9th week and the baby stopped growing at 7th. at my supposed 10th week, took the oral med (in SG) and still going through the process now. Just wanted to assure all mommies here that you are not alone. "Do you wanna get preggy soon? I will see once i get through the bleeding ....
I had never ever thought in my wildest dreams that someday i would be watching Miscarriage stories on TH-cam after having a Miscarriage 💔 same story as mine, i lost the baby at 7th week and got to know on 11th week, went through the D&C procedure, it's terrible 💔
So good of you to share ,it's a informative vdo.i hv 4 kids had ups n down in every pregnancy but never heard of missed miscarriage.Love n hope to u n ur family.
You know mujhy is waqt 3 week sy pehly pta chala baby have no heartbeat and ab 10 day sy bleeding ho rhi hy it's missed miscarriage waiting for natural procedure I want 1 more son AP 1 pr ro rhi ho mere 1 year me 3 baby gye 1 5month pregnancy boy and 2nd twins
I sorry about your lose. I am going through the same pain. Today i have done my ultrasound in 10 weeks of pregnancy but unfortunately no fetal pole identified after 2nd ultrasound. I don't know what to do. This is my first pregnancy in the age of 38 💔
Well, it's a natural thing, I didn't know so much is faced by girls in respect of miscarriage. Reading the comments on this video, I'm just shocked what ladies have faced. If one can't conceive, why can't others be supportive enough !? Afterall, it's not end of the world. Even if a couple can't have child, anytime they can adopt one. An orphan would get a family, and God will take care of the rest.
@severus Snape I guess I'm old enough. I don't know about social pressure and thing, but I've many friends who are in favour of adoption, even females for that matter. And I still stand by my statement, it's perfectly fine if you disagree.
@@shakshivyas8489 Wait! I think you misread my statement, or perhaps I couldn't put it in the right manner. I never said anything about the relationship a mother has with her foetus or biological baby. I know how attached a mother is to her child. "big deal" phrase was used for the society and patriarchy which demeans the lady who had had miscarriage. Obviously it's emotionally so painful that only the lady could understand, and I never meant to convey it the way you have taken it. As I said in my main comment, I was myself shocked to read the comments of ladies who had miscarriages, that how and what all they had to face from family and societal front, hence I wrote ONLY in that context. That "big deal" term was not used for the lady, but for the others around her. Meanwhile, you and this other person has accused me of anything and everything, and at the same time, you're talking about kindness? This selective kindness should be looked upon. Goodluck. I hope I could convey my message, if not, then I don't want to make a debate out of it. I'm sorry.
My cousin had miscarriage two years back, and her primitive in-laws made her life hell for quite many months. She had to go through counseling for 2 months to get out of that toxicity. I know how terrible she felt, what all she went through. We kinda faced it together. Everytime I offered her shoulder to cry. All this mess could've been avoided if her in-laws and their relatives had not made a big deal out of it. Inspite of giving her much needed care and love, they offered her slurs and insults. This world is full of sick people! I completely understand what you're saying but sometimes words are misunderstood on social media, just like people in the real world. lol so just keep calm
I have had 4 pregnancy miscarriage (edit: now 6 in total ; now have decided to take no more health and emotional risk for this one thing) and still don’t have kids.. Today I want all the women having condition like me that “It’s completely OK”.. I went through so much mental trauma because of this and the pressure of society... But now i have realised it’s fine.. Living a happy life is the most important thing.. Women’s please don’t blame ur self for not being married, not being enough fair/tail/thin, And not having kids.. It’s all completely fine
Thank u so mch.i so needed this.
You're so brave
You are so strong and beautiful ❤️❤️
Indeed. Thank you 🙏❤️
Sending you love and strength, lady.
And yet some people have the audacity to treat children like dirt.
Oh my! This is so terrible. My cousin mausi suffered something like that. She was pregnant for whole 9 months and we don't know what happened at the end, but at the time of delivery, it was a dead baby boy. The baby was fully grown but his heartbeat didn't start. He was dead. I could see how shattered my mausi and mausaji, she was crying holding him. Anyway she has now 2 children one boy and girl. But that situation was terrible. May god gave every woman strength. This is the most beautiful and difficult process. 🙏
Om Shanti 🙏
Tats horrible... It must ve been really hard for her.
Same situation mere saath v hua and it was fault of doctor but by God grace now I m mother of little tiny baby girl
😭❤️🙏🌼 Can't imagine how difficult it must be for her...
This trauma is really shattering. I'm a bachelor but i can understand how hard this pain is
Today she is having beautiful baby Girl ❤️❤️
Really congrats.
She has a ** not she’s having
I can understand ur pain, i've gone through this. I got pregnant after 5 months of marriage and had a natural miscarraige and suffered a lot and till now i can't concieve. I pray to Allah for every woman who have suffered, May u get a beautiful and healthy baby soon. Ameen sumameen. Pray for me also plz 😑
Ameen. Allah sbko baby ki khusi den
It takes courage to speak on such sensitive and avoided problem. I would like to appreciate for taking this courageous step.
Same happened to me..That too with my first pregnancy..No one can feel what a woman has to go through
Ya...
All is good now..Being mother to my boy 🤗..But can never ever forget my first unborn ❤️
@@kkaanchi God bless you :)
I hope you're doing well...same thing happend 2 me twice already and the pain is unbearabe especially when family members is putting pressure on you for a heir
@@cutiepie-vd1uz thats so bad that they dont understand your pain🥺 i am sorry
Thank you. Faced the same. Strength, light and hope for us. My baby is still waiting to come to me another time ❤
May we have it soon💓
I used to follow her channel when I was a teen. After that, i came across her today. It's heartbreaking. Pregnancy is difficult... Both for the husband and wife but a mom has to suffer much more.
What is her channel name?
Shi kha itz more difficult for women hope every men should understand this in my case not favorable
My mom lost my sister when my mom was 9 months just couple of days before due date... I won't know what is that loss is like... But we still remember my sister
Same
😔 I can relate I lost my brother soon after his birth.
She is so brave to do this. More power to her. ❤
😎
I had 3 missed miscarriages after 6 years now I have a son . And now with 5th month pregnant
May Almighty protect u n the baby. Ameen ♥️🤗
Congratulations dear
Stay happy and safe sissy
May u have strength to bear the loss and take care of your new child.
@@noreenkhan5412 congratulations
I had an exact situation in my first pregnancy....missed miscarriage...
But... after that I am a happy and proud mother of two wonderful kids...❤️❤️
apny apna treatment krwayaa tha
@@banorani9914ye reply koi nhi krta kisi ki help ho jati h
Natural hi concive hua tha sister ya fhir dr. Ko dikha k
Thank you for sharing. It’s helpful to educate and know this is normal
Women are such beautiful creation of God. She is equally brave and emotional. Equally strong and sensitive. ❤️
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I am here after suffering my second miscarriage few days ago. Please keep us in your prayers and may each woman womb be blessed with a healthy baby in 2022 and beyond
Same thing happened to me in September this year. And this was my consecutive 3rd miscarriage. Before this i also had an ectopic pregnancy which could be fatal but thankfully my tubes were saved. Can totally relate how painful it is.
Stay strong dear 🤗lots of hugs for you
Stay strong ma'am
Sorry to hear this video . Same thing happened on my first pregnancy my doctors didn't tell me exactly what happened at that time. finally I got to know the reason because of this video thank u. Take care
I can feel you..word by word...I faced the same trauma...I had a missed miscarriage in my 1st pregnancy...in my 12th week scan I got to know..I went into depression..the worst part was, everyone moved on..except me...it's been 6 years now, and by God's grace I m blessed with a boy and a girl..
Thank you
Aapke jo first abort hua wo girl thi ya boy
I lost my baby just last month and since then I've constantly searched for videos and information regarding miscarriage. I literally cried with you through the whole video.... it's really a tough journey....be it pregnancy or miscarriage. Fortunately I'd husband,my family,my friend and my doctor. But this loss stays with you for a really long time. I'm still on leave cuz I don't want to go outside my house and be around people other than my own. I think I should stop here, it's too much that I've written.
You were brave to have come out in the open.
It happened to me very recently last year on my birthday couple of months ago. It was my first pregnancy and there was no heartbeat till 10th week. I can understand the pain and I am also still processing the pain. But congratulations to you on your healthy second baby. Baby girl is a blessing. God bless her.
Thankyou so much for sharing such a personal experience. I'm so sure it must have given so many women and people strength and spreading awareness is really important. That it could happen to anyone, the feeling that I'm not alone will really help along with the other tips to cope with it.
Don't cry ma'am...I am not a mother but as a lady I can feel it ...you are blessed with your loving husband and child ...bad things happen..but it will come over soon..
Good will be always there for you❤️
I am sorry but obviously she will cry....she lost a child. She is strong but don't force her to be that strong to not even cry. It's normal to cry if your heart is broken.
@@nittynatsha4346 I can understand your words and support you.. actually I am not saying it in that way to stop crying or something ...PPL who are able to shade tears are the strongest..
Those words actually I use to support her..(like you say someone "don't cry beta")
@@atreyeebiswas9802 ohk... I misunderstood you.. Sorry!
I hav recently gone through the same with my first pregnancy.
It really takes a toll both emotionally and physically.
Everyone says its very common and happens to many but somewhere being it common doesnt reduce my loss.
I really hope every woman who is pregnant and looking forward to meet her child have a healthy baby ..
True, this being common, doesn't reduce my pain, very difficult to cope, specially when your body showed all the symptoms and suddenly in the scanned you realize it's a miss miscarriage.. 😢 I hope I am blessed again 🙏 ✨️
apny. phr kya kiya
@@banorani9914 after marriage i conceived again after around 4 months and this time everything went well and by the grace of almighty now I am mother of my darling son.😍😍😍
Madam you are great to share this video. Many people don't know what happens. It's very nice of you to inform everyone 👍
We had a similar case ! After 8.5 weeks miscarriage happened!My wife has suffered today missed miscarriage. We are in deep shock!Please pray for us !
Me, last night 🥺 both of us, My husband and I are so shoked all Day.. ❤️❤️❤️
@@slaanasurbat6634same happened with me. Did you conceived later?
My mother faced miscarriage too. She miscarriaged before my brother and before me too. My brother and I have a 7 years difference. I'm not a mother yet but I can totally feel the pain. Women goes through lot of trauma stress and depression. All my prayers and blessings are with you and your family.
This is so heart wrenching. My father's sister had 8 miscarriages. But she became pregnant from the 9th time and the child survived and he is 12 years old now. I still feel a shiver down my spine whenever I recall the incident.
🤯😬😲😢
Ab vo theek h
This is my exact story. came to know day before yesterday about my baby not having a heartbeat, exactly 10th week ,yesterday morning natural bleeding started and I could do nothing.took tablets yesterday. Now am watching this video with very bad stomach cramps. don't know how I got recommended this video,this is exactly my situation.. but thank you for sharing this.
Happened with me .. It was a very tough time. :(. I can totally understand what you are going through.. dont worry. everything will be fine. I went through this trauma for 8 months.
My sister went through this and initially it was difficult to talk about but when we started... We realized everyone knew someone who had gone through the same... 😔
I had a missed miscarriage in my 1st pregnancy..no one should suffer such pain..no words can explain such pain
Same here. 8th week miscarriage
@@aishahkhan7006 me too ,8 weeks missed miscarriage...
@@maricelamoy5803 May Almighty help us and grant us pious children too. Amen 😊🤲🏻
@@maricelamoy5803how soon after did you get pregnant
How soon after did you get pregnant
U r really brave to share this to the world. Be 💪
Recently mujy bhi pregnancy thi lekin wo ectopic pregnancy thi.. Sabse bura time tha wo meri life ka..same day mera operation hua..
😒😒😒😒
I can totally understand, we were also cluelessly running after doctors in lockdown phase.. 😔
I can understand the pain madam.
Aaj kal ectopic pregnancy bohot badh gai hai. Meri didi ko bhi hui thi last year. Late detect ho pai jiski wajah se fallopian tube burst ho gai ek.
Is baar bhi ectopic hi lag raha hai.
I had lost my dd at 37 week...one routine check and they said there is no beat...the second time last year at 7 weeks...I don't know how I am moving on
Superprincessjo ❤️ youtube sensation back in the day .. so sad to hear the story
To All those who went through this....May God give everyone enough Grace to go through all this...Prayers to All...
Thank you for sharing your story with us. ❤️
You are abundantly blessed!
I can't imagine the pain that you and all the other mothers are going thru! Am an aunt, and it my broke heart. When my sister lost her son, one day before he was due for a C-Section. He was full term, my nephew pass away due to the unbellical cord. It still hurts just thinking about it. I 🙏 for everyone that is going through this. You hear about it but when it hits home, it hurts 😢😢😢😢
Ek maa ki dhukh koi nai smjht skta.
Really womens are really strongest of all.
Mai dua krta hu asea kisi ke saath nhi ho !
This is a shattering experience for a woman.. I have experienced somewhat similar case quite later , in 5th month ... people say after 3 months it's safe but no that's not true for everyone..
2020 took everything from me and it's heartbreaking
Same case mere sath hua
Same happened with me in may 2020. I got pregnant after 4 years of my marriage and I had a missed miscarrage after 14 weeks of pregnancy. Had a panic attack when doctor told that there is no heart beat. That was the most painful moment of my life. Not sure when will i be pregnant again, I just pray soon 🙏
hope you get a healthy happy pregnancy
@@annjay1935 thanks for your support.
You are going to be mommy soon I pray for u ❤
@@bhavyaparashar7486 Thank you so much for showing the support.
I got pregnant after 3yrs of marriage and after 36thweeks still birth happened to me on oct 2020.i had lost my entire 9th months..still having heavy heart..and don't know when will be pregnant again..i m praying for you and sending you hope too..be positive
Yes, U have done so good to aware all women. 😍
Wrong place I know . But there's a Reason God/Allah/Bhagwaan placed Women on a Higher place than Men .
Only mother!!
@@amerahhamdi5232 yeah but overall women too
@@ClashwithImb lol
@@amerahhamdi5232 ?
@@amerahhamdi5232 i meant That Women are on a higher place than men in General but Mother's for their children have a different level of place
When i was hearing you.. i was resembling myself with your every single word and the moments when i was listening.. i went back again in that zone when it had happen to me.. this is so much disastrous moment for every mother… 😣
Feeling happy to see her second child in the end of the video.
I was feeling bad for you and for every mother who has to go through this emotionally painful journey. But the last scene brought a big smile on my face that you were blessed with a healthy baby girl.
Stay blessed🙏
My mom was 1.5-2 months pregnant 🤰 but then, she didn't know the fact ... Eventually it landed up in a miscarriage 😖... When I was still a kid, and I didn't even know anything about it...
My mother had three miscarriages
@@o_0264 OMG! More power to you, bro.... So you are the only child?
@@monynarayananunni7935 no I am the eldest and have 1 younger bro..
The age gap is huge it's 12 years
@@o_0264 Oh... It's almost the same with me and my cousins - I have twin bros.. hum donon ke beech toh 14 years ka difference hai...
@@monynarayananunni7935 itnaa bara age gap honay ki wajah say lagtah hay Kay koi behan bhai hay he nai koi hota he nai jisay baat ki jayay
It's completely okay with being unmarried..and not having kids..
Having kids ,being married is not for everyone..it's a choice to have children or not having children...living a happy life is most important..
@Amandeep Wahi it is not compulsory
True that !!! Couples can just go and adopt a child...This OUR OWN BLOOD has put so much of Women, their health, their mental peace in danger ..💔
@Amandeep Wahi no uterus,no opinion
I'm sorry for your loss...hope things work out for you.
My wife & I suffered found out about first our baby in the 5th week & 5th day of our pregnancy. We both were super excited as we could be. We only told our close ones about it!
However one fine day, life took a dramatic turn on us, we were at home when she bled from her vagina profusely, and instantly I knew we lost our child. It was a missed miscarriage in the 11th week of our pregnancy!
We were shocked and devasted when the doctor told us the reality of the situation, it took us days or maybe months to get normal, not just together, but also with ourselves!
However I realized right now, I though am the husband, my wife is strong as stone while I’m shattered and broken from inside.
I suffer from PTSD. My wife and I don’t speak much about it as she knows I’m broken, but she doesn’t know I’m suffering from PTSD, this happened to us in our bedroom, where she bled, and I still get anxiety when I look at that spot. I still think and talk to our unborn child (unborn son) as I consider him.
I often tell him that mumma is strong and she could move away if not move on, but I’m not able to as I have this feeling where I feel I lost him. I feel so sad and empty and numb I’m unable to explain.
I have an empty space in my heart, like a hole that no one can fill and no one can even touch it, not even my wife. It’s just our son & myself, and both of us reach there in that hole and meet each other away from this world, where it’s just me and him.
I tell him quite often that I’m proud of his mom and how she has handled things while I’m still stuck in depression. He also tells me that he’s with me and her. He told me we are destined to be together, however he wants me to get fitter and healthier to play with him.
He wants me to meet him soon, and I will. I’m unable to tell anyone how I miss him, how much I miss him, how I remember him. I talk to him and cry the most at night, every night, when I don’t have anyone around me, that is the time we meet each in that small hole in my heart, I could give my world to be with him, but I know I’m not with him now! I pray to meet him soon in person! Still waiting my first child! Hopefully this year! Amen!🧎
Jay shree Ram
I lost my baby just a few days before the delivery, she was a fully grown healthy baby..I got covid and then 4 days after that she stopped responding, It happened in September’20 , I still have not been able to overcome it, I know how it feels and right after losing the baby I got detected with three rare diseases and I am still under treatment...I hope I get better and can bring the baby back to us again🙏
She will return... very soon believe me 🙏 god bless you 😘❤️
@@fourhappybirds Dearest Shruti, Thankyou so much for the kind words...I cant tell you how much it means to me❤️ May God bless you and your family with all the happiness on earth and just like you said I really hope I get better very soon and she choses me again🙏❤️❤️
@@sacredhealingartbykaveri461 for sure.. just faith in our godmother.. my mom told me.. unki favourite devi durga hai... unko meri mom apni mother bolti hai.. shadi ke baad vo first time unke mandir gyi.. aur emotionally unhone man hi man bol diya ki.. maa aap hi aana mere paas.. aur us time mumma 2 months pregnant thi.. after that in 5-6 days mom lost that baby and 1 month after vo second time pregnant huyi.. aur mumma bolti hai.. me huyi.. ghar pe hi normally.. and mumma vo time 18 years ki thi.. i know baby ka lost bahut hi jyada painful hota hai.. jaise heart nikal liya ho body se.... but ma’am uper jo hamare achche ke liye bethe hai... shayad unka faisla apke achche ke liye ho.. agar vo bachchi aa jati.. apke hatho me aur 2-3 saal baad agar usko kuch ho jata.. to aap bilkul sambhal nahi paati khud ko.. trust kro vo bahut jaldi aane vali hai... aapke paas ❤️🙏
Also aap ne bohot he sach baat boli hain, may be this was God’s plan and he will send her back to me once I am better🙏😊😊
Be positive 🥰🥰😘 strongwoman
Salute to ur husband he supported u at each and every time 👍👍❤️
Husband should definitely
Ur very lucky some of us are not
she 's so strong❤
I am going through the same and it was my first pregnancy after 6 years of marriage.I hope good things happen as it is shown in video. And thanks for sharing this which made me feel I am not alone.But I wish everyone has a healthy pregnancy.
I know her!! I used to watch her back in the day. My cousin had 9 miscarriages. And my aunt didn't really care like she was like "oh coz she's fat". When they had their first baby boy they were soooooo protective of him and didn't allow anyone to touch him. I understood it now. Coz they lost 9 children. I can only imagine the pain my cousin went through not just physical but mentally too. Now she has got another baby boy. And her first born son is sooo naughty haha.
What is her channel name??
Very recognizable. I wish you all the strength. And hope you come out stronger! I went through this too. Lots of love from me♥️♥️
This is so hard to watch.....but the fact it ends on a positive note❤️
Thank you so much to share your story my friend.. Mujhe isse bahot himmat mili.. Kiunke maine abhi abhi apna aphla baby khoya hai. Mujhe bhi missed miscarriage huwa hai.. Please pray for me ke god mujhe jaldi firse pregnency ki khusi de.
This year I too passed through a similar condition but mine was ectopic pregnancy. It was our first pregnancy and I was totally devastated. It is still difficult to sink in with the fact that I have lost it through an emergency c section surgery.
Thanks for sharing your experience, recently we also faced this thing it’s very very sad moment of our life
Same in my case
Badly crying to see ur video 😭😭
But m very happy to see ur lil Princes ......God bless you
I can relate to your story
I had two miscarriages 8 and 14 weeks, in first miscarriage I was spotting but in second one i got to know in 17 th week that baby stopped growing at 14 weeks.
People ask you to stay calm and hope fr the best but it's a natural human tendency that you can't be normal again in any of your new pregnancies
Did you get pregnant after?
I lost 2 pregnancies, I was alone this time, i travelled alone, stayed without husband, I can understand your pain very well.. i dont even have any baby
💔
My God...it's the first time am hearing of this and honestly it's absolutely heartbreaking 💔...can't imagine the grief and mourning you went through... Much love and respect 🙏
Even my story is exactly the same , doctor said it's Missed abortion m in complete State of trauma 😭 ur video really helped me feel better.
Lost my 1st baby in 6th month n had to deliver her as abortion is not possible after 3rd month n lost my 2nd baby in 7th month but he couldn't survive after 3-4 days.....so, I think every woman have such experiences but m positive... everything will be fine...ladies..don't worry.. everything will be fine...have faith in God.
Have you baby now
I had a missed miscarriage in 7 week of pregnancy, same like you i didn't feel any symptoms of miscarriage.i also take care of myself very good
i also lost my 13 week old baby pray for him and I pray for you 😥
Thank you for sharing this important video
I lost my baby today at 11th week and 6 days. Life suddenly has come to an a standstill.
Whatever u said is exactly my story. Doctor said the baby growth stopped near 8th week and there was no symptoms.
Sending you love I’m going through the same right now
@@cadoolesbabyshop4917 take care. Best wishes for your next preganancy ❣️
I am going through the same now😊. The pain I am having inside me is more when compared to my body. But this incident made me strong and transferred me from a girl to a strong women. My inlaws, my husband, my family, my colleagues, everyone is supporting me in this journey. I am not left alone and this is a natural things, time will pass❤
Experienced that😭😭😭😭😭😭 soo sad ,depressing and helpless situation.... love to u❤
I am undergoing my miscarriage now as I am speaking.
So much blood , pain and how it makes your body sore and tired...
I knew about my pregnancy loss at my 9th week and the baby stopped growing at 7th.
at my supposed 10th week, took the oral med (in SG) and still going through the process now.
Just wanted to assure all mommies here that you are not alone.
"Do you wanna get preggy soon? I will see once i get through the bleeding ....
Did u concieve dear ❤?
I hope you overcome this ❤️ and may god bless your family 😘
I also go through this heartbreaking thing's in this month of starting I am go through this pain. it's not easy to just forgate everything
I can understand ur pain dear.same thing happen with my elder sis also ...she was also pregnant with second child after 4 years .
I had never ever thought in my wildest dreams that someday i would be watching Miscarriage stories on TH-cam after having a Miscarriage 💔 same story as mine, i lost the baby at 7th week and got to know on 11th week, went through the D&C procedure, it's terrible 💔
Thank you so much for sharing
I m going through this phase
Felling bad really .....but thank you for sharing it's very helpful video ....and congratulations for your baby girl ...
So good of you to share ,it's a informative vdo.i hv 4 kids had ups n down in every pregnancy but never heard of missed miscarriage.Love n hope to u n ur family.
4 kids even in this age
You made me cry
😭😭😭😭😭I had 2 miscarriages too it's so heartbreaking it's still in my heart
Kaise hua batao naa symptoms kya tha
God bless you.. it is important to come out and speak to reduce guilt and sorrow. Now that you have a girl child be very generous to your new born
Exactly the same story happened with me .I had a missed miscarriage in 2020 April and it was my first pregnancy.😌
How are you now??
Did you concieve now?
I have 2 misscarraige ..me buht dukhi hoi apki baat sun k ..meri koi bhi aulaad nahi hy apky pass tou apka beta h mashallah
U are very brave that u r sharing ur most lower phase in this platform..
So strong women .
I hope God give you strength .
You know mujhy is waqt 3 week sy pehly pta chala baby have no heartbeat and ab 10 day sy bleeding ho rhi hy it's missed miscarriage waiting for natural procedure I want 1 more son AP 1 pr ro rhi ho mere 1 year me 3 baby gye 1 5month pregnancy boy and 2nd twins
Homoeopathy medicine khao conceive hone se pahle miscarriage ni hoga.
Cant stop crying 😭 same situation faced 3 times😢😢😢
I can understand ur feelings.. I have also gone through the same.. it's called missed miscarriage or blighted ovum..
Same here @pooja Mathur
I sorry about your lose. I am going through the same pain. Today i have done my ultrasound in 10 weeks of pregnancy but unfortunately no fetal pole identified after 2nd ultrasound. I don't know what to do. This is my first pregnancy in the age of 38 💔
Now she is blessed with a baby girl
Why is India still so tabooed by such topics......We have to let go of these societal issues.....We are with u
😍😍thanq sister now I'm got miscarriage I don't know how it wil happened hmmm 😍😍but I'm waiting for again God's wonderful gift to me😊😊
I have lost my baby recently 😢..May Allah Pak grants every childless couple healthy children
Ahh dear 😢😢😢 GOD BLESS YOU going through same
I am so proud of you.
Well, it's a natural thing, I didn't know so much is faced by girls in respect of miscarriage.
Reading the comments on this video, I'm just shocked what ladies have faced.
If one can't conceive, why can't others be supportive enough !? Afterall, it's not end of the world. Even if a couple can't have child, anytime they can adopt one. An orphan would get a family, and God will take care of the rest.
@severus Snape I guess I'm old enough.
I don't know about social pressure and thing, but I've many friends who are in favour of adoption, even females for that matter.
And I still stand by my statement, it's perfectly fine if you disagree.
@severus Snape I feel no one's disrespecting anyone here.
@@shakshivyas8489 Wait! I think you misread my statement, or perhaps I couldn't put it in the right manner.
I never said anything about the relationship a mother has with her foetus or biological baby. I know how attached a mother is to her child.
"big deal" phrase was used for the society and patriarchy which demeans the lady who had had miscarriage. Obviously it's emotionally so painful that only the lady could understand, and I never meant to convey it the way you have taken it.
As I said in my main comment, I was myself shocked to read the comments of ladies who had miscarriages, that how and what all they had to face from family and societal front, hence I wrote ONLY in that context. That "big deal" term was not used for the lady, but for the others around her.
Meanwhile, you and this other person has accused me of anything and everything, and at the same time, you're talking about kindness? This selective kindness should be looked upon.
Goodluck.
I hope I could convey my message, if not, then I don't want to make a debate out of it. I'm sorry.
@severus Snape 👆 please read this.
And I admire the 'subtle' way you judge people.
My cousin had miscarriage two years back, and her primitive in-laws made her life hell for quite many months. She had to go through counseling for 2 months to get out of that toxicity.
I know how terrible she felt, what all she went through. We kinda faced it together. Everytime I offered her shoulder to cry.
All this mess could've been avoided if her in-laws and their relatives had not made a big deal out of it.
Inspite of giving her much needed care and love, they offered her slurs and insults.
This world is full of sick people!
I completely understand what you're saying but sometimes words are misunderstood on social media, just like people in the real world. lol so just keep calm