You're not beating these charges bro. I watched the whole video hoping to get an answer to the title of the video and I have to say, it's clear as a glass of mud. You could have simply said "i paint my nails because i like to keep them looking fabulous", that would have been just fine and the video would have been 20 seconds.
Thats why there is a societal collapse, there is no more shame for such behaviours, if we start living based on how we feel like it means no more rules that we should be following = Idioracy
His gay my brother 😂😂😂 no man claims to be a man however he embraces or emulates the traits of a woman. It’s a marketing strategy for his brand he wants to get traffic from liberals.
its not about being a keyboard warrior.. its simply about advicing each other when we are going astray .. there are things that men should not do..having nail paint simply implies you do not do activities befitting a man. i.e.. getting your nails dirty.. my father has the ruffest hands but put him in a suit and you will think thats his everyday.. we need to act like man even if our impulses tell us to put on a dress or apply lipstick for heavens sake
There’s a very thin line with the message of ‘do what serves you and don’t care what others say’. As men we need to provide value to people around us and it will always be like that. It’s not always financial, it’s also wisdom. Therefore we can’t move just however we want. A selfish society where people act however they want doesn’t get us anywhere. It breeds confusion which is something we need less of especially now more than ever
Its just a season it will die down. Maybe there is something he's mentally going through. No man in his rational mind will paint his nails, worse paint them yellow 😂
😂😂True man, we can’t act upon every thought that comes in our minds, only women and children do that. I fully disagree with this act and his explanation behind it.
Just last night I asked some guy why he had his nails painted Black, and he said "because im gay". This guy has YELLOW painted nails?? Talking about masculinity? Yeah right
FOR ME they are a huge distraction and they’re not attractive.Masculinity amongst other things can also be in how you present yourself. It’s not gospel, It’s just my opinion.
Feelings are a dangerous thing to follow. They are fickle and can sometimes lead you astray. Mina I think It's a slippery slope that you're on with your nails journey 😂😂 angilwi.
The older and more mature you are, the less these superficial things matter and there is no longer a desire to impress others or try to elevate your status.
I used to paint my nails black. I play guitar and I'm a coder. 90% of my day is spent looking at my hand I might as well enjoy the view. I eventually stopped I don't really know why. But as I type this comment I miss it. I am definitely doing it again.
With me it used to be Hip-Hop music around 2003-2007, everyone in my family listened to the more common genres (deep house & Gospel) so I used to be insecure wondering what my parents are gonna think when I listen to music like Eminem and 50 cent and I used to hide my CD's behind my dad's Cd's coz he had like a lot, only to find out that they always knew and didn't really care, I still love Hip-Hop and and only listen to that so these days im considered the unique one because of that and looking back im glad I stuck to the music I love😄
This is so true and deep, we get stuck in role-playing so much that we don't follow our hearts on what we actually want to do, be it with our lives or with our body. We stick to the roles we've created in our minds just to feel accepted by people around us and society. "I'm an alpha male, I'm a provider, this is not what a man is supposed to be doing". All role-playing and not being authentic to yourself💯
@@redeemablesoul that's wild bro, but I get you. You don't support his look, but he is not gay. Maybe he can be seen as a metrosexual, there are other men who paint their nails and are straight men. So Idk bro, in todays age things are different and it's not so easy to judge people based on what they choose to do/how to look.
I watched this video with a friend and his response was intresting and got me thinking on how in your videos you always share alot of value , So i should not listen to the person who is telling me the truth just because they dont look like me there are alot of broes who Fit the constract of what society defines what a man should look like but their values and actions are opposite of what a man is .....just a thought but i personally Dont care wether u paint ur nails green but what u stand for and your message.....
Bro check how dennis rodman, micheal jordans teammante on the bulls team was different bro he didnt fit societies constract of wht a man or even a basketball player was at the time but no one was better at the job he did on the court or played better on his position at the time .he did the job better then the ones who were normal
I have loved tattoos since I was a teenager and for the longest time I was scared to get one because I would hear how people talk about people with tattoos more especially women. I finally got a tattoo in 2020, actually got two and I noticed I stopped caring what people say because either way it's permanently etched on my skin and whatever they say it's not going away. Opinions of people sometimes hurt but they don't stop me from doing what resonates with me.
I hear you Penson but where do you draw the line of "over coming your fears"? So what's next, are you gonna wear skirt? Are you wearing Brazilian next? There are other ways to do it, just not these. I completely disagree with your analogy
"If it looks like a duck, swims like a duck, and quacks like a duck, then it probably is a duck"-suggests that something can be identified by its habitual characteristics.
Yeah I've been going through this with growing my hair and trying new styles that I've never done in my life and for the most part, the response has been positive or nobody cared. No one judges you more than yourself, so give yourself some grace and try new thing you'll be quite surprised!
I hear this a lot from people who are actually extremely good looking! I get the iPhone 16 and Blackberry Curve analogy.. Do you also get pretty privilege?
My brother I'm so glad you did this videos, to be honest I stopped watching your channel after seeing the nail polish, my brother I think you can see what is happening in this world especially with our kids, if man are painting nails, eish 😢 💔 hae its tuff.... Yahuah, our Elohim, may He have mercy on our boys.
@@beverlybentley8046 Hi brother. Thank you for your comment. I lose and gain subscribers everyday… some of my videos may speak to you, and some not… and that’s okay. Unfortunately I cannot change my life and views due to YT comments. I try life my honest truth regardless of how some may feel. And I use this channel to “journal” my journey.
@@pensonmlotshwa very true dog....and whats pisses ppl off, is when they cant understand you........#confuse the enemy!!!! vele the bastards will always talk vele ...so fuck them dog
Ya, its making sense what you saying about the MMA culture. Whats not making sense is about the yellow nails man to match with your GF. Like i don't understand it...but ey, do you guy
This is the first time I have seen Penson post a video and a LOT of men strongly disagree with the sentiments. Over nails bethuna? Is it really that deep? 😲
Exactly my husband has white nail polish on his and he is a man ,he is comfortable in his skin .Very successful businessman .He also doesnt care what insecure people think .
Just say you follow popular trends/fashion.sheepishly. You would not have painted nails decades ago on your own. So it's cool to be a trend follower not a trend setter.
@@pensonmlotshwa ya but those are cultural garments and i dont imagine you walking around the streets of Edinburgh and coming across a random dude in a kilt doing grocery shopping. time and place. the only time and place for your colourful nails is at an LGBTQ event
I think you are taking this challenging yourself part too far. The are certain things which we should allow for them to bother us because overcoming that so called challenge of "bathotsini" leads to something deeper than just you overcoming that but it breaks a fundamental rule which our society function on to keep everyone in check and these harmony, cause if everyone did what they wanted we would be in chaos.
8:13 so u got nail polish because your kid said you scared to dye your hair😮 abuti man dying their hair purple is okay, or you could have said your hair texture is different Nail polish for "man" is not okay. Its giving gay Some women dont do nails because their are not in their feminine energy.
@@Princess_Lehlohonolo I started attacking all the things I was “scared” to do because of “bazothini”… I know I was/am not the only one that experiences that. PS: If my nails give “gay” energy…cool! That would mean less women hitting on me & in my DMs ke 😅 …I’m sure my gf would love that! 🫶🏽
He always makes you understand its about his journey, views and personal opinions. He is not claiming to be a guru or expert on any subject, he is not an authority, hence he refers to "I". Sibonge
To be honest, I don't see the big deal. I think it's just creative expression. Toxic masculinity continues to want to define what "true" masculinity is. He's painting his nails so what? There are "ultra masculine" presenting "real" men who get their asses beat in, oAfter 9
Honestly I don't like them...coz I always feel like that if your father wouldn't approve then don't do it... But hey that's your nails so I have no say... You still yummy with or without them lol
I am really struck by the comments. Of course men shouldn't wear nail polish but at least he has short hair. What's up with all these men and their long hair, whether it's curly blonde locks or dreadlocks, your long hair makes you look like a girl. and don't even get me started on men wearing earrings. It all started when men wanted to wear jewelry. All these rings and chains and such. A wedding ring. That's all the adornment a real man should wear. But what about the women? They're no better. We all know women should only wear dresses and skirts, what's with the pants and work boots? They need to make sure they do their makeup and nails. And they're all cutting their hair short like a boy. And we all know what the tattoos on women signals. And while I'm at it, girls should not be involved in athletics. Sports are rugged and manly. Girls should learn how to cook and clean and sew, you know, feminine stuff. The world would be so much better off if everyone would just conform to what I know is the right way to do things. I'm so very glad that all of you here in the comments agree with me.
You're not beating these charges bro. I watched the whole video hoping to get an answer to the title of the video and I have to say, it's clear as a glass of mud. You could have simply said "i paint my nails because i like to keep them looking fabulous", that would have been just fine and the video would have been 20 seconds.
True 😂
Thats why there is a societal collapse, there is no more shame for such behaviours, if we start living based on how we feel like it means no more rules that we should be following = Idioracy
Danko
He's trying to reach certain base and he will get sponsorship for demeaning himself
😂😂😂this is actually true
if you wanna paint your nails.... paint them also mntase.
His gay my brother 😂😂😂 no man claims to be a man however he embraces or emulates the traits of a woman. It’s a marketing strategy for his brand he wants to get traffic from liberals.
its not about being a keyboard warrior.. its simply about advicing each other when we are going astray .. there are things that men should not do..having nail paint simply implies you do not do activities befitting a man. i.e.. getting your nails dirty.. my father has the ruffest hands but put him in a suit and you will think thats his everyday.. we need to act like man even if our impulses tell us to put on a dress or apply lipstick for heavens sake
Facts
There’s a very thin line with the message of ‘do what serves you and don’t care what others say’. As men we need to provide value to people around us and it will always be like that. It’s not always financial, it’s also wisdom. Therefore we can’t move just however we want. A selfish society where people act however they want doesn’t get us anywhere. It breeds confusion which is something we need less of especially now more than ever
Its just a season it will die down. Maybe there is something he's mentally going through. No man in his rational mind will paint his nails, worse paint them yellow 😂
Fr😂😂
😂😂True man, we can’t act upon every thought that comes in our minds, only women and children do that. I fully disagree with this act and his explanation behind it.
Soon we gonna sit through a video were he explains "why i wear lipstick" 😭
Guess you didn’t watch the entire video.
30 seconds in and the comments section has me in stitches … why ninje 🤣🤣🤣
Always on a comment 😂😂
🤣yep. It is the most stupid thing ever to do. Something is definitely not right noNomzam
Oh he will bro, they want us to Normalise this and also dating rude women they want to normalise it
Just last night I asked some guy why he had his nails painted Black, and he said "because im gay". This guy has YELLOW painted nails?? Talking about masculinity? Yeah right
So gay people only paint their nails ?Nail polish was actually for men by the way ,just like the heels
@@mizzop they want us to listen to weak Men who dates Older disrespectful women and normalise that it's ok
I think a bigger announcement is coming somewhere down the line. That's all imma say😆
😂😂😂😂
Coming out of the closet? 😂😂😂
FOR ME they are a huge distraction and they’re not attractive.Masculinity amongst other things can also be in how you present yourself.
It’s not gospel, It’s just my opinion.
If that feeling says you should wear a weave, you should wear it as well. We won't judge promise
@@manfromnowhere6836 If you watched the entire video you’d understand why I said/did the things I said.
@pensonmlotshwa If the feeling come to put on the weave he will nit judge don't worry
Feelings are a dangerous thing to follow. They are fickle and can sometimes lead you astray. Mina I think It's a slippery slope that you're on with your nails journey 😂😂 angilwi.
The older and more mature you are, the less these superficial things matter and there is no longer a desire to impress others or try to elevate your status.
When women agree with you then you know there is something wrong 😭😂
😂😂😂
I used to paint my nails black. I play guitar and I'm a coder. 90% of my day is spent looking at my hand I might as well enjoy the view.
I eventually stopped I don't really know why. But as I type this comment I miss it.
I am definitely doing it again.
@@rinathama Did people judge you??
Please do them again 😅
@@pensonmlotshwa soo much 😂😂they said I'm not a man. Real men have dirty fingers. Like wtf😂
With me it used to be Hip-Hop music around 2003-2007, everyone in my family listened to the more common genres (deep house & Gospel) so I used to be insecure wondering what my parents are gonna think when I listen to music like Eminem and 50 cent and I used to hide my CD's behind my dad's Cd's coz he had like a lot, only to find out that they always knew and didn't really care, I still love Hip-Hop and and only listen to that so these days im considered the unique one because of that and looking back im glad I stuck to the music I love😄
This is so true and deep, we get stuck in role-playing so much that we don't follow our hearts on what we actually want to do, be it with our lives or with our body. We stick to the roles we've created in our minds just to feel accepted by people around us and society. "I'm an alpha male, I'm a provider, this is not what a man is supposed to be doing". All role-playing and not being authentic to yourself💯
Authentically he should paint his nails,put on a dress and wear make up and a weave.
@@redeemablesoul that's wild bro, but I get you. You don't support his look, but he is not gay.
Maybe he can be seen as a metrosexual, there are other men who paint their nails and are straight men. So Idk bro, in todays age things are different and it's not so easy to judge people based on what they choose to do/how to look.
We politely and respectfully asked and here you are. Assssssbonge✌️
@@unitedcolorsofafrica2027 Thank you so much 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
It would be interesting to hear you speak about pretty privilege and how it benefits both men and women and what your personal experience with it is
"Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of ourselves” Carl Jung
Ujesu athi akafuni sipende amazipho
Never, give us chapter and voice
read this in brother Enigmas accent🤣
I don't want to laugh 😂please
😂😂😂 usho nini
Used to paint mine black. I was influnced by Itachi Uchiha and it was just so cool for me. I also got criticized a lot.
I watched this video with a friend and his response was intresting and got me thinking on how in your videos you always share alot of value , So i should not listen to the person who is telling me the truth just because they dont look like me there are alot of broes who
Fit the constract of what society defines what a man should look like but their values and actions are opposite of what a man is .....just a thought but i personally
Dont care wether u paint ur nails green but what u stand for and your message.....
Bro check how dennis rodman, micheal jordans teammante on the bulls team was different bro he didnt fit societies constract of wht a man or even a basketball player was at the time but no one was better at the job he did on the court or played better on his position at the time .he did the job better then the ones who were normal
You are officially banned from man's conference
cumon ...leave it.
😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂 ai
😂😂😂
You didn’t have to do him like this 😭
Bevause you are GHE!! 😂😂😂
we need Simon Kaggwa to ask him “why are you ghey”😂😂
I have loved tattoos since I was a teenager and for the longest time I was scared to get one because I would hear how people talk about people with tattoos more especially women. I finally got a tattoo in 2020, actually got two and I noticed I stopped caring what people say because either way it's permanently etched on my skin and whatever they say it's not going away. Opinions of people sometimes hurt but they don't stop me from doing what resonates with me.
You gotta do what makes you happy even if other people are bothered by it . Life's too short 💯
I hear you Penson but where do you draw the line of "over coming your fears"? So what's next, are you gonna wear skirt? Are you wearing Brazilian next? There are other ways to do it, just not these. I completely disagree with your analogy
And that's why your the GOAT. ❤💪
Please
@@Thato2448 Ngiyabonga Thato 🙏🏽🤍
@@Trevor24 Why you mad?
Am I your chick’s crush? 😅
If you don’t dig my channel, search for something else on TH-cam 😂
"If it looks like a duck, swims like a duck, and quacks like a duck, then it probably is a duck"-suggests that something can be identified by its habitual characteristics.
That is a duck 🌈
Yeah I've been going through this with growing my hair and trying new styles that I've never done in my life and for the most part, the response has been positive or nobody cared.
No one judges you more than yourself, so give yourself some grace and try new thing you'll be quite surprised!
@@damn7696 Powerful words!
I agree, we have to try new things… learn and grow!
I hear this a lot from people who are actually extremely good looking! I get the iPhone 16 and Blackberry Curve analogy..
Do you also get pretty privilege?
My brother I'm so glad you did this videos, to be honest I stopped watching your channel after seeing the nail polish, my brother I think you can see what is happening in this world especially with our kids, if man are painting nails, eish 😢 💔 hae its tuff.... Yahuah, our Elohim, may He have mercy on our boys.
@@beverlybentley8046 Hi brother.
Thank you for your comment.
I lose and gain subscribers everyday… some of my videos may speak to you, and some not… and that’s okay.
Unfortunately I cannot change my life and views due to YT comments. I try life my honest truth regardless of how some may feel. And I use this channel to “journal” my journey.
very dope bru, great confidence as a modern zulu man!!!
@@thabanimzizi6633 I’m trying…
It comes with a lot of judgement and criticism…
But thank you 🙏🏽
@@pensonmlotshwa very true dog....and whats pisses ppl off, is when they cant understand you........#confuse the enemy!!!! vele the bastards will always talk vele ...so fuck them dog
Hawu he has a nose ring and paints his nails and to top it all he is light skin weeeeee the internet won be on your side mos, kuningi esouth africa
I have watched the video for more than 5 minute still I have not heard the reason for you painting your nails
"Keyboard warriors"🤣
ALL DAY 😅😅😅
Wayibeka mfoka-Mlotshwa izwakale.
@@nkosi2828 Ngiyabonga 🙏🏽
I have my nail appointment tomorrow 🤗
Gae
How do I grow a beard
@@badge5575 Tough one… that’s mainly genetics hey
What's next? Why i wear pads ? Amadoda awasekho🚮 uyadunusa wena
Bese bayambambatha I find myself on the floor 🤣 Zulu language is so funny,
@@Nellytheunique You know exactly what I’m talking about!
@@pensonmlotshwa of course my Zulu 💜
4:39 I get him!
@@q.7628 TOUGH LIFE 😂😂😂
I think you still have trauma brother . Plz remove the nail polish. The rabbit hole can get deeper.
Very true.ge is opening a door and is not even realizing it
I believe this also has to do with our egos
Yeka lento oyenzayo u-Mdala ndoda futhi unezingane. Stop justifying nonsense
Thanks mello yellow 💛 😅
@@danisilemlotshwa4752 Hola Mamsie!
Ya, its making sense what you saying about the MMA culture. Whats not making sense is about the yellow nails man to match with your GF. Like i don't understand it...but ey, do you guy
This is the first time I have seen Penson post a video and a LOT of men strongly disagree with the sentiments. Over nails bethuna? Is it really that deep? 😲
Tomorrow it won't be just nails .....look at America
@@MrFranklin-02 and that should be okay too though, no?
For me, uyibeke kwacaca, thank you.
Please be the keynote speaker at the next men's conference please. Some people we know forgot ukuthi intombi ishelwa everyday. 😉
Ngheke, asimfuni 😂
Ngheke, asimfuni 😂
@@thembangwenya7563 khululeka, besinganalo ithikithi lakho
@@MissCombs1511 I speak at many conferences. Especially to older men…
I’m doing talks at High Schools now leading to the finals.
@@thembangwenya7563 I’ve spoken at many men’s conferences. Sorry mate.
I paint my nails 💅🏾 and im a man. If people have an issue it’s not me it’s them
i will check your channel just to c the nails😂😂😂😂
Exactly my husband has white nail polish on his and he is a man ,he is comfortable in his skin .Very successful businessman .He also doesnt care what insecure people think .
@@bigthangz5489 😂😂😂😂
@@TheHuny85 Is he a cuckold?
Hayi asingachazi ubutabane 😎
Just say you follow popular trends/fashion.sheepishly. You would not have painted nails decades ago on your own. So it's cool to be a trend follower not a trend setter.
Unapologetic. Save time as an influencer for more pressing issues than how you do your nails. Save that for the salon.
Mr Magic, so what’s your take on men wearing skirts?
@@nomiddlename-v7y My take is that everyone should wear whatever makes them happy.
Ibheshu is a dress, is it not?
Scottish men wear kilts…
@@pensonmlotshwa ya but those are cultural garments and i dont imagine you walking around the streets of Edinburgh and coming across a random dude in a kilt doing grocery shopping. time and place. the only time and place for your colourful nails is at an LGBTQ event
@pensonmlotshwa Don't became a slave to your feelings
Okay lady😂😂😂
love your brother 😂
@@nomiddlename-v7y I love my brother too 🤍
🌈
I think you are taking this challenging yourself part too far. The are certain things which we should allow for them to bother us because overcoming that so called challenge of "bathotsini" leads to something deeper than just you overcoming that but it breaks a fundamental rule which our society function on to keep everyone in check and these harmony, cause if everyone did what they wanted we would be in chaos.
Ewu nsizwa ICICI nje ekhaleni kodwa ke sothin bhuti ka Nkulunkulu (God pen) 😂😅singoban thina
lol bhuti ka nkulunkulu
Silokhu sibabazile nje
8:13 so u got nail polish because your kid said you scared to dye your hair😮 abuti man dying their hair purple is okay, or you could have said your hair texture is different
Nail polish for "man" is not okay. Its giving gay
Some women dont do nails because their are not in their feminine energy.
@@Princess_Lehlohonolo I started attacking all the things I was “scared” to do because of “bazothini”…
I know I was/am not the only one that experiences that.
PS: If my nails give “gay” energy…cool! That would mean less women hitting on me & in my DMs ke 😅 …I’m sure my gf would love that! 🫶🏽
Social currency 😅
Penda maPendane.
Ai nawe kodwa😂
Gray
Acetone, not terpantine bro 😂😂😂
Lemon zest😂💅
🌈 you are begging to come out.
Next time please refrain from "I" "I" we care more about the content not your personal feelings
@@Trevor24 On your channel, you can focus on whatever you want. This here. My channel.
Thus, my “personal feelings” & views. 👍🏽
He always makes you understand its about his journey, views and personal opinions. He is not claiming to be a guru or expert on any subject, he is not an authority, hence he refers to "I".
Sibonge
To be honest, I don't see the big deal. I think it's just creative expression. Toxic masculinity continues to want to define what "true" masculinity is. He's painting his nails so what?
There are "ultra masculine" presenting "real" men who get their asses beat in, oAfter 9
Nah you are toxic....you enjoy seeing blackmen being denied their masculinity and this is what he's promoting
I am sure he copied it from western Shit
Honestly I don't like them...coz I always feel like that if your father wouldn't approve then don't do it... But hey that's your nails so I have no say... You still yummy with or without them lol
@@pinkysmalest3233 There are many things we do that our fathers & mothers don’t approve of…
Uyaziphoxa
You are low key nton nton,now ways you got them nails like a sly queen .You talkin kak
@@brightonmukwindidza9627 Your mom loves my nails… and my nton nton 😏
@@pensonmlotshwa she probably does hey, you have a typo thing that only mothers like and will understand.You are special.
I am really struck by the comments. Of course men shouldn't wear nail polish but at least he has short hair. What's up with all these men and their long hair, whether it's curly blonde locks or dreadlocks, your long hair makes you look like a girl. and don't even get me started on men wearing earrings. It all started when men wanted to wear jewelry. All these rings and chains and such. A wedding ring. That's all the adornment a real man should wear. But what about the women? They're no better. We all know women should only wear dresses and skirts, what's with the pants and work boots? They need to make sure they do their makeup and nails. And they're all cutting their hair short like a boy. And we all know what the tattoos on women signals. And while I'm at it, girls should not be involved in athletics. Sports are rugged and manly. Girls should learn how to cook and clean and sew, you know, feminine stuff. The world would be so much better off if everyone would just conform to what I know is the right way to do things. I'm so very glad that all of you here in the comments agree with me.
Xava these 💅 and to hell what people say.
I wouldn't date a lad who paints nails 🤣 what next he's gonna do. Well, Just keep your nails cut and clean, that's all that matters
@@Nellytheunique Date whoever makes you happy Nelly.
Not like he will date you .Stick to your hood boyfriend.
@@TheHuny85 😅🙊
@@pensonmlotshwa 😂😂im talking for you mkhaya wam .Dont mind my white husband im still black .
@@pensonmlotshwa Im from Ladysmith though ,usase ngumkhaya wam lol