Every time I come on here to watch and learn, I notice a substantial growth in the number of subscribers, which then means you are doing something right!! Onwards and upwards!!!!!! 😊🎉
I don’t always agree with you, brother but if I don’t have a dignified way of getting my argument across then I say nothing. Everyone has an opinion on social media and majority of those opinions are nothing but ways to try and put another person down. If I criticise your point(s) it should always be coming from a constructive perspective, not just to prove how much to the contrary I happen to be well versed in.
I fully agree! We can’t agree with everyone… There are things people I love and respect say that I disagree with… and I make sure to tell them. But I don’t attack them. I explain why I disagree with their points. I always try to be as respectful as I can… 🙏🏽
@@pensonmlotshwa my brother, people are unable to communicate effectively nowadays…it’s like we’re blessed with brains and mouths yet we only choose to use the latter without using the mind to sift what comes through. It’s the same thing I have observed with relationships we have with our partners…majority of the times we are not fighting because there’s an obvious conflict but it’s more so as a result of misunderstandings and it’s very saddening.
"My dad emphasized that people typically judge and interact with you based on your presentation. Being nude is commonly associated with OnlyFans models. Therefore, if I choose to dress in this manner, I cannot reasonably protest if others mistake me for one of these models and label those who approach me as perverts. A predator requires no rationale to target you, and we must not provide them with any pretext to believe otherwise."
Lol you weren’t wrong with what you said. On the topic of people being rude this is what I told myself to gain a thick skin. Social media is a sad space because we get to see how unintelligent people are. If a person can not provide facts for their frustrations of coz they just gonna say uyadakwa. An emotionally intelligent person who challenge your thought processing and be able to go into a constructive debate with you where they disagree. An a lot of people get triggered and they Dont know what triggered them and they can’t even explain their frustration and they can’t self soothe themselves on their own so they they attack you and hurt you to get rid of the feeling of powerlessness. So they take their power back by dominating you and unfortunately the only way they know how to do that is by attacking your dignity and hurting your feelings wanting to make you feel little. Ever since I realised that I Dont let anyone take me off topic or make me fight with them online. I Dont fight with strangers online. Umuntu who would not even have the guts to speak to me if we were in the same room. That might be mean to say but these people Dont think that way when attacking you.
I saw you the other day somewhere but you were walking so fast I couldn't stop you to apologise for one of my posts.. I have a sick sense of humour, and I forgot that we don't know each other (and other commentors) to hear it as a joke. I'm sorry Boet, I wasn't thinking 🙏🏾
@@pensonmlotshwanaah man, I thought I'd catch you some other time, like I said you looked in a rush somewhere... plus you said you carry a gun. I'm not THAT sorry 😜
Every time I come on here to watch and learn, I notice a substantial growth in the number of subscribers, which then means you are doing something right!! Onwards and upwards!!!!!! 😊🎉
Thank you soooooo much Dineo!
WE ARE GROWING 😅🤍
@@pensonmlotshwa YAAAAAAAY!!!!!!!!!!!
Thank you for this video. You definitely hit the bull's-eye with this one.🎯
Thank you sooo much 🙏🏽
Personal attacks result when people who don't like your message have no rational argument against it😂
I don’t always agree with you, brother but if I don’t have a dignified way of getting my argument across then I say nothing. Everyone has an opinion on social media and majority of those opinions are nothing but ways to try and put another person down.
If I criticise your point(s) it should always be coming from a constructive perspective, not just to prove how much to the contrary I happen to be well versed in.
I fully agree!
We can’t agree with everyone…
There are things people I love and respect say that I disagree with… and I make sure to tell them.
But I don’t attack them. I explain why I disagree with their points. I always try to be as respectful as I can… 🙏🏽
@@pensonmlotshwa my brother, people are unable to communicate effectively nowadays…it’s like we’re blessed with brains and mouths yet we only choose to use the latter without using the mind to sift what comes through. It’s the same thing I have observed with relationships we have with our partners…majority of the times we are not fighting because there’s an obvious conflict but it’s more so as a result of misunderstandings and it’s very saddening.
@@trickerafrican2632 you are so right! Most of the conflicts are due to miscommunication and ego… we really need to do better 🙏🏽
"My dad emphasized that people typically judge and interact with you based on your presentation.
Being nude is commonly associated with OnlyFans models. Therefore, if I choose to dress in this manner, I cannot reasonably protest if others mistake me for one of these models and label those who approach me as perverts.
A predator requires no rationale to target you, and we must not provide them with any pretext to believe otherwise."
That’s deep!
If you dress like a “hoe”, people tend to treat you like one…
Your father is dropping facts!
All Fax
Thank you.
Lol you weren’t wrong with what you said. On the topic of people being rude this is what I told myself to gain a thick skin. Social media is a sad space because we get to see how unintelligent people are. If a person can not provide facts for their frustrations of coz they just gonna say uyadakwa. An emotionally intelligent person who challenge your thought processing and be able to go into a constructive debate with you where they disagree. An a lot of people get triggered and they Dont know what triggered them and they can’t even explain their frustration and they can’t self soothe themselves on their own so they they attack you and hurt you to get rid of the feeling of powerlessness.
So they take their power back by dominating you and unfortunately the only way they know how to do that is by attacking your dignity and hurting your feelings wanting to make you feel little. Ever since I realised that I Dont let anyone take me off topic or make me fight with them online. I Dont fight with strangers online. Umuntu who would not even have the guts to speak to me if we were in the same room. That might be mean to say but these people Dont think that way when attacking you.
I saw you the other day somewhere but you were walking so fast I couldn't stop you to apologise for one of my posts.. I have a sick sense of humour, and I forgot that we don't know each other (and other commentors) to hear it as a joke. I'm sorry Boet, I wasn't thinking 🙏🏾
❤❤❤I sense someone having a Crush😍😍😍
You should have shouted 😅
I like the jokes, keep em coming!
Don’t be scared to be honest with me!
Call BS if you see fit…
🤣🤣🤣Lwazi 🤣🤣🤣 I feel attacked right now. You're cyber bullying me 😜
@@pensonmlotshwanaah man, I thought I'd catch you some other time, like I said you looked in a rush somewhere... plus you said you carry a gun. I'm not THAT sorry 😜
I completely agree! People should wash their potty mouth out with soap considering the disgusting things they say to each other in the comments 😤
100%
You need to get a thicker skin my guy. You want the fame, you get the consequences of free speech.