The "Real Reason" Pretty Women Are Single?
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A surprising amount of ladies have the "I'm single because I'm too amazing" mentality. It's crazy
I don’t want to offend the first one and I don’t care if I do. However, she is a 4 with make up on my 1-10 scale.
It's cancerous.
Copium.
I'll never understand the whole "I'm so amazing" mentality. Even though I'm told by friends that I'm pretty, I honestly feel very average looking and I'm single. Sometimes I wonder if introverted women have it more difficult in dating. Being introverted, not in a shy way, but I wonder if being introverted and enjoying doing hobbies by myself threatens men who doesn't like a woman who is super independent? But, I don't seem to attract men who like independent women, either. I'm not trying these days though, either. I'm focused on my hobbies and my goals.
@@roberth4395 can’t even rate her because she’s slathered so much makeup on her face. I doubt most people would recognize her if she took it all off.
I think she's trying to say that arrogant women have a harder time getting men to be interested in them. And she'd be right about that.
Arrogant and delusional especially, is a bad combo to have for dating.
Not to mention she is plain boring and devoid of substance
Sighted on a Gent's lav wall: No matter how good she looks some guy is tired of her s***.
There's also the reality that a lot of guys are doing the math on what she looks like without the pound of make up, the fake hair, the fake eye lashes, the fake nails, the push up bra, and the Botox and realize she's not as good looking as she thinks she is.
It seems like she's blaming other people when she's the problem and won't admit it.
She is the only reason why she is single.
Some people confuse "being confident " with being insufferable.
It is trendy for men and women to say they don't need each other. I think it would be nice to face life with someone.
Never hear men saying this, even “scary manosphere alphas” have whole girlfriends and wives- its clear what gender is confused about who they want or need lol
I disagree. Parents and schools need to teach kids life skills, so they don’t ever need to rely on someone else.
Actually you both are right and wrong. Everyone needs to be taught life skills for when they actually want a relationship or marriage, they know how to conduct accordingly
i didn't see men claim "men don't need no women" the absolute worst argument i've seen is them claiming "there are no good women" which implies if there was they would want her very much so, obviously there are plenty good women but this is pretty much arguments on the internet
@@OneFreeMan17 Needing to rely on someone else isn't good. Being able to rely on another person like a wife or husband is the key to a successful, happy life. Women and men in the best case compliment each other.
Women, no matter how pretty they are, should not be put on a pedestal. We are all human.
Lol, now they all think that they are "smart" too. What a joke.
imagine her with runny bowels
@@JackofClovernot all. But it’s becoming too common, and probably why some complain online men like to “humble” them. It could be because they aren’t humble at all.
It's usually attractive women under 25ish who think they're hotter s**t than they are. Once you're a fully mature adult and you've gone through some trials and tribulations in life, the facade of being a "triple threat" tends to fade out.
As a guy in his 30s, I won't even think about considering you as a long term partner if you can't communicate to me in a meaningful and open way without showcasing your ego.
I want someone who's conscientious and thoughtful. Not a stuck up prude b***h who thinks people are less than because they make less $ or aren't a perfect physical human specimen.
I don't think most girls are like this, but there are some who are immature elitists.
The problem is that there are so many lonely guys out there throwing their money away at them on sites like onlyfans and stripper chat rooms that it empowers these nasty ego wicked women to be mean and conceited
A confident woman doesn't have to tell people she's a triple threat. A confident woman knows who she is, but leaves it to others to make their own assessment.
Guaranteed any group of men who actually talked to her would not rate her very high due to personality problems.
Kinda like LeBron calling himself the "GOAT". 😂😂🤣
"Any man who says 'I am the King,' is no true king." This goes for women as well.
@@user-yv4mm6bx3c no guy says this stop😂
@@JerseyBoy489 I've heard and seen it from both men and women.
So many women are incredibly arrogant and entitled now days. It's become my number one red flag. Women that are humble, thankful, grateful...total unicorns.
so right
You're absolutely right. Sad but true.
Yes!
I think being arrogant OR entitled is already bad enough. If you have both traits, there's your reason for being single.
Translation: insecure, will settle, low standards
There are plenty of pickme girls like that. You just don’t want them. 😂
She seems to ignore personality. Not all about looks. Not good to be shallow
She forgets the fact that a lot of pretty women have HIGH UNREALISTIC STANDARDS
@@jehu4067 And that's what makes them the epitome of stupidity!!!🙄
if she's above 7/10 she is a public property. her hypergamy is never satisfied bc men above 7/10 are either in relationships already or playing with lower chicks. so they have three options: lower their standards for men below them, go femcel or become a 304. and we they never lower their standards. I'll even go as far to say they would rather be a 304 than to lower their standards.
if she's above 7/10 she is a public property. her hyper, gamy is never satisfied bc men above 7/10 are either in relationships already or playing with lower chicks. so they have three options: lower their standards for men below them, go efmcel or become a 304. we know they never lower their standards. I'll even go as far to say they would rather be a 304 than to lower their standards.
if she's above 7/10 her hyper, gamy is never satisfied bc men above 7/10 are either in relationships already or playing with lower chicks. so they have three options: lower their standards for men below them, go efmcel or become a 304. we know they never lower their standards. I'll even go as far to say they would rather be a 304 than to lower their standards.
Single women keep women single. You can’t make this up.
Honestly this is a problem I see a lot. I might make a video about it!
@@CourtneyRyan that’s good to hear. If I can make another suggestion. I think if you do a video asking married men why did they marry their wives. They three things that tik toker mention some men do not care about. I’ve been with my wife for 10 years and married for 4 and we’re expecting our first child.
@@RicochetForce I know exact episode you’re referring to.
Exactly 💯. TikTok misinformation about relationships between Men and Women is crazy 😧🤣. Women need to understand Men first before trying to get Men to do what they want with their money and lives and vice versa for Men. Men can't read the minds of ladies and neither can anyone else. I understand that physical conditioning and fitness is crucial for healthy living and relationships but so is having reliable family, friends knowledge and awareness of reality. Congratulations on her 700k subscribers 👏🎉.
I really respect Courtney Ryan for at least trying to help Men and Women out in promoting healthy relationships, positive mindsets and growth in individuals 🙏 ❤️. I'm a 24 year old single Christian virgin guy working as a teacher and counselor seeing unhealthy relationships in people occasionally despite being single myself because no sex before marriage. I've been watching Courtney's videos since 2021 so this lady's channel is really helpful especially on TH-cam and social media. This has nothing to do with the video but please listen if you want to otherwise leave it alone and ignore it. Hello my name is Justin and I'm a Christian and Apologist but I'm also a college graduate. I'm not a closed minded Theist as I have nothing against Atheists or unbelievers as I speak to them often to understand their reasons for unbelief but we as Christians are convinced of God's Existence due to many real factors). I'm not trying to convert anyone or convince anyone to become Christians as that's The Holy Spirit's job to help people believe but only explain why I believe in Jesus Christ. There's actually evidence of God's Existence in Christianity. First of all there's proof that Jesus of Nazareth existed in history since the writings of Tacitus, Josephus Flavius, Pliny the younger and other historical documents prove that He was living two thousand years ago that even scholars both religious and Atheists agree with historically speaking but not that He's The Divine Son of God because obviously they don't.
I'm going to give you historical and archeological evidence for God's Existence as The Scriptures have prophecies that predate the events recorded in them by several millennia including Matthew, Hosea and Zechariah which prophesy accurately of the people of Israel becoming a nation again after over 1900 years of being scattered around the nations since the destruction of the Temple in Jerusalem in 70 A.D. spoken of by Christ in Matthew 23:29-24:3 and returning to their homeland after The Holocaust with Jerusalem as their capital in 1948 exactly as Jesus The Christ said. The prophets including Daniel spoke of the time where several world empires would arise and fall including the Babylonian kingdom, Medes and Persians, Roman Empire, and Saladin and the Muslims which went in consecutive order for the past few millennia. The people of Israel becoming a nation after The Holocaust in 1948 (ironically the melting point of gold as God compares Israel to gold that's tested in fire in Zechariah 13:8 and Jeremiah 16:15) exactly how Jesus The Christ said would happen since God us everything to come in The Scriptures and not just because people were working towards as Atheists claim which are impossible for any regular man to predict.
Just before anyone says Christianity is a white man's religion made to oppress blacks during slavery you obviously aren't aware that the first Christians were Jews in The Middle East and that Christianity just like any religion can be used by evil and corrupt people to oppress others but you forget that the first Abolitionists/Civil Rights activists were Christians who sought to abolish slavery, racism, segregation, injustice and prejudice throughout American history. Jesus The Christ loves you enough not to give you what we all deserve which is God's Wrath by His Own Blood. Charles Darwin didn't originally come up with The Theory of Evolution over 200 years ago as it is mentioned in the writings of Ancient Greeks who believed in Demons that gave knowledge to philosophers.
Evolution makes no sense when nothing has evolved after thousands of years of human history and supposedly the first creature came from primordial sludge several millions of years
ago funny how they won't believe that God an Eternal Almighty Spirit Being created us from the Earth) which came from a supermassive expansion of matter at high temperature that inexplicably created everything in the known universe that supposedly came from nothing billions of years ago. How did the organs evolve before there were bones, skin, substance and how did any creatures see before eyes evolved? I've studied evolution and abiogenesis in the past and read Darwin's " Origin of The Species" and I'm not convinced of macro Evolutionary biology whereas I accept micro Evolution like speciation and adaptation but not macro Evolution because there's no evidence of it nor clear observable examples of it where living creatures evolve into other kinds of species plus the fact that fossils don't show evidence of evolution and genetic entropy rules out evolution. The question begs how did two genders evolve from a common ancestor with a perfectly hospitable and sustainable environment with breathable oxygen and resources to survive on inexplicably? Atheists have the burden of proof to explain how everything came to be and why our existence is possible without the Existence of God from an godless perspective just as Christians have to provide evidence of God's Existence and the validity of His Word.
Evolution requires life to already exist in order to take any effect in living organisms so it doesn't account for the existence of Life and reality. Also evolution is impossible because it goes against The Law of entropy and the second Law of thermodynamics because evolution makes things better whereas nothing continues to get better but decays and turns to absolute destruction in the end. Mark Ridley an Evolutionist said "No evolutionist whether gradualist or punctuationist uses the fossil record as evidence in favor of The Theory of Darwinian Evolution as opposed to special Creation". God's Existence is made perfectly known and observable in the universe as demonstrated in His Handiwork in the intelligently designed manner that Creation was made, human consciences and consciousness historical and archaeological evidence of God's Word being valid history, fulfillment of Bible Prophecies God in His Holiness and Righteousness could give us what we deserve in Hell for our since but He's merciful to give us free will to choose to accept or reject His gift of salvation by grace through faith in His Son Jesus. I don't mean this is any condescending manner but if you'd like to discuss The Scriptures with me or have me listen to your view on anything my instagram account is Savage Christian Kombatant.
In other words, "misery loves company."
"I'm so pretty, but no men will even approach me! I have everything a man could want, they must be insecure if they don't approach me."
Maybe they don't approach you because of your ego.
It's like when you hear a really abrasive woman saying, "Men are just intimidated by me because I'm so strong and independent." It's like, no, there can be a million reasons why someone doesn't like you, and your attitude is a big factor.
Also, some women that are really conventionally attractive expect passenger princess treatment, and a lot of guys don't wanna deal with that.
Also my personal opinion is she isn't nearly as attractive as she thinks she is...
@@RicochetForce The true triple threat for women is hot (e.g. not overweight), young (under 30 or looks like so), and undamaged (few to no tats, low BC, etc.).
Not to be too nitpicky here, but you won't get a sense of someone's personality until after you approach them
@@neurathal0n534 Not necessarily. You can observe the way they treat others. In the case of women, you can observe the way they speak of men in general. In the case of this woman in Courtney's video, who the hell needs to "approach" her after watching that video?
@@neurathal0n534 You can hear words out of someone's mouth and decide not to approach them. You can see how someone acts and decide not to approach them. You can also just look at someone and decide, "that's just a person, not a woman that's waiting to be hit on."
There are many reasons not to approach someone other than "OMG, I'M SCARED TO TALK TO PRETTY GIRL."
You can get a sense of someone from listening to what they say, watching what they do, and how they interact with other people.
You ever see a hot person treat a service worker badly or acting a fool and you go from, "Hey, I wanna get that chick's number" to "Wow, she's a real jerk; I should avoid her." And you never approach that person.
If I see someone kick a dog, I don't need to approach them to see if we'll really "click," or if I would grow to like that person.
I'm sorry, but whenever I hear someone say, "It's not me, it's the rest of the world that's the problem," I assume that they are their own problem.
Every time I see an attractive woman in public I automatically assume 4 things. 1.She’s dating someone, 2. She currently has a boyfriend, 3. she’s married, 4. Even is I approached her, she will reject me in an extremely rude and aggressive way. So why waste my time and energy approaching. I understand I miss 100% shots I do not take but at some point I’m like “What the point?”
why do you assume information you cannot know?
Most attractive ladies I meet are married or in a relationship.. it's slim pickings out here in terms of high quality single women.
Get that last one out of your head. You’ve seen way too many TH-cam videos. I guarantee you don’t know anyone who’s gotten in trouble for asking a girl out. Ask woman out, who gives a shit. If you get rejected who cares. No one will ever care or know except yourself.
Same, I have the exact thoughts.
What's thing 3?
Insecurity in men?
Think about how men are so often dismissed by women and society.
It's frequent, often instant, and sometimes with malice. Not fully financially stable? Not generous or selfless enough, not entertaining enough, not strong enough, have modest social skills, not always kind or sensitive, not attractive enough, no confidence and not charismatic enough? You are disqualified! Surplus? You're gone. And by God don't ask, or expect anything, or have standards of your own. Never be a burden, just deliver. And if war breaks out? Your life belongs to the Government.
Women will complain about the insecurity in men, yet never give it any real thought.
Preach 💯👏🏻
Goddamn this comment should be pinned tbh
Like I always say, outside of boys who have never talked to women outside of their immediate family, there is no intimidation. We are either disgusted, we are annoyed, or we are not impressed. Just like the only time men would feel inadequate would be in the bedroom because they are with a girl that's been everywhere. If you are not the bowl like me, you aren't going to impress these women in that regard. Menards intimidated if she makes more income because men don't care about that. Men just don't want to be disrespected by women like that who have the inflated fragile egos that they claim men have
Exactly correct, not to mention the girls own insecurity (far more common tbh) which makes them hypocritical - only they're rarely called out for it.
Fact is, illustrated by your argument, men legitimately have more
to fear hourly than women do. Women fear rape and homelessness.
Everything else (while they're fertile) is deemed theirs until biology
says "NOPE. You didn't put up [children] so shut up." All the while
men pay into Social Security for _their_ future maintenance also.
Any woman that claims she’s the whole package or a 10/10 or anything that gases herself up is delusional and no man worth his salt is attracted any of those things.
I gave it a shot with one of these “whole package” women and all I heard about was how much she’s amazing at everything. She started at a 9/10 for me, the personality brought her to a 2/10.
I’ve had the exact same experience as you with these types of women! Haha
I’ve never heard a man or woman who is the “whole package” have to state it. Usually if they’re the whole package they are very kind, and humble as well. (To me, if you don’t have these traits it’s impossible to even be the whole package) I was not getting that vibe from this woman.
She's average looking at best for London, that's her problem. Men don't care much about her iq or confidence
there's almost nothing more repulsive than a gassed up mid who is feeling their oats.
@@Ray03595Absolutely can’t be the whole package if you’re not kind.
Just because a man does not find a woman attractive or undesirable… doesn’t mean he is insecure. I did not find that lady in the video attractive, her personality doesn’t attract me. I am the type that goes for it. Lots of rejection and it is emotionally draining. But I t forces me to work on myself, emotionally and physically. Thank you Courtney 😊
Exactly.
She wouldn’t even glance at you in public anyway lol
If modern women used the word "insecure" any more frequently, it would out pace their use of the word "like."
Yes, ebony babes can have thicker lips, but hers look blown up to 75 PSI. I don't think she was born with them.
@@irene4633 Does putting down random people on the internet make you feel better about yourself? That’s sad
An insanely pretty girl I approached agreed to go out with me. At one point she volunteered the reason she agreed, which caught me by surprise at the time, because I was the only one in over a year who had the confidence to walk up and talk to her like a normal human being.
I did approach a stunning woman back when I was young and dumb after being cajoled into it by the group I was with. I went over expecting to be crushed, and of course my expectations were met. I never made that mistake again, even with moderately attractive women.
@@neilt6480 Sounds like you surrendered your manhood right there. Rejection is a part of life, you don't just give up.
@@neilt6480A mistake? Dude you were just turned down by that one woman, chill. It’s dumb to assume that every woman you approach in life is going to be that way.
@@scottverge938 About 50 years ago, at the urging of those workmates I ran an experiment where I was to talk to ten women a week in various settings until I met someone who would date me. My coworkers (men and women both) gave me lots of advice and tips, but nothing worked. Despite avoiding overly beautiful women, after ten weeks and 100 straight rejections, I called it a day.
Things got better when I spent a few years backpacking through Europe and North America.
@@neilt6480
A few years? Wow.
But sounds like you discovered some truths there.
Such as certain situations can drastically alter results.
Looks and personality are important. Not just Looks
Totally!
@@CourtneyRyan Exactly TikTok misinformation about relationships between Men and Women is crazy 😧🤣.
Women need to understand Men first before trying to get Men to do what they want with their money and lives and vice versa for Men. Men can't read the minds of ladies and neither can anyone else. I understand that physical conditioning and fitness is crucial for healthy living and relationships but so is having reliable family, friends knowledge and awareness of reality. Congratulations on your 700k subscribers 👏🎉.
I really respect you Mrs Ryan for at least trying to help Men and Women out in promoting healthy relationships, positive mindsets and growth in individuals 🙏 ❤️. I'm a 24 year old single Christian virgin guy working as a teacher and counselor seeing unhealthy relationships in people occasionally despite being single myself because no sex before marriage. I've been watching your videos since 2021 so this channel is really helpful especially on TH-cam and social media. This has nothing to do with the video but please listen if you want to otherwise leave it alone and ignore it. Hello my name is Justin and I'm a Christian and Apologist but I'm also a college graduate. I'm not a closed minded Theist as I have nothing against Atheists or unbelievers as I speak to them often to understand their reasons for unbelief but we as Christians are convinced of God's Existence due to many real factors). I'm not trying to convert anyone or convince anyone to become Christians as that's The Holy Spirit's job to help people believe but only explain why I believe in Jesus Christ. There's actually evidence of God's Existence in Christianity. First of all there's proof that Jesus of Nazareth existed in history since the writings of Tacitus, Josephus Flavius, Pliny the younger and other historical documents prove that He was living two thousand years ago that even scholars both religious and Atheists agree with historically speaking but not that He's The Divine Son of God because obviously they don't.
I'm going to give you historical and archeological evidence for God's Existence as The Scriptures have prophecies that predate the events recorded in them by several millennia including Matthew, Hosea and Zechariah which prophesy accurately of the people of Israel becoming a nation again after over 1900 years of being scattered around the nations since the destruction of the Temple in Jerusalem in 70 A.D. spoken of by Christ in Matthew 23:29-24:3 and returning to their homeland after The Holocaust with Jerusalem as their capital in 1948 exactly as Jesus The Christ said. The prophets including Daniel spoke of the time where several world empires would arise and fall including the Babylonian kingdom, Medes and Persians, Roman Empire, and Saladin and the Muslims which went in consecutive order for the past few millennia. The people of Israel becoming a nation after The Holocaust in 1948 (ironically the melting point of gold as God compares Israel to gold that's tested in fire in Zechariah 13:8 and Jeremiah 16:15) exactly how Jesus The Christ said would happen since God us everything to come in The Scriptures and not just because people were working towards as Atheists claim which are impossible for any regular man to predict.
Just before anyone says Christianity is a white man's religion made to oppress blacks during slavery you obviously aren't aware that the first Christians were Jews in The Middle East and that Christianity just like any religion can be used by evil and corrupt people to oppress others but you forget that the first Abolitionists/Civil Rights activists were Christians who sought to abolish slavery, racism, segregation, injustice and prejudice throughout American history. Jesus The Christ loves you enough not to give you what we all deserve which is God's Wrath by His Own Blood. Charles Darwin didn't originally come up with The Theory of Evolution over 200 years ago as it is mentioned in the writings of Ancient Greeks who believed in Demons that gave knowledge to philosophers.
Evolution makes no sense when nothing has evolved after thousands of years of human history and supposedly the first creature came from primordial sludge several millions of years
ago funny how they won't believe that God an Eternal Almighty Spirit Being created us from the Earth) which came from a supermassive expansion of matter at high temperature that inexplicably created everything in the known universe that supposedly came from nothing billions of years ago. How did the organs evolve before there were bones, skin, substance and how did any creatures see before eyes evolved? I've studied evolution and abiogenesis in the past and read Darwin's " Origin of The Species" and I'm not convinced of macro Evolutionary biology whereas I accept micro Evolution like speciation and adaptation but not macro Evolution because there's no evidence of it nor clear observable examples of it where living creatures evolve into other kinds of species plus the fact that fossils don't show evidence of evolution and genetic entropy rules out evolution. The question begs how did two genders evolve from a common ancestor with a perfectly hospitable and sustainable environment with breathable oxygen and resources to survive on inexplicably? Atheists have the burden of proof to explain how everything came to be and why our existence is possible without the Existence of God from an godless perspective just as Christians have to provide evidence of God's Existence and the validity of His Word.
Evolution requires life to already exist in order to take any effect in living organisms so it doesn't account for the existence of Life and reality. Also evolution is impossible because it goes against The Law of entropy and the second Law of thermodynamics because evolution makes things better whereas nothing continues to get better but decays and turns to absolute destruction in the end. Mark Ridley an Evolutionist said "No evolutionist whether gradualist or punctuationist uses the fossil record as evidence in favor of The Theory of Darwinian Evolution as opposed to special Creation". God's Existence is made perfectly known and observable in the universe as demonstrated in His Handiwork in the intelligently designed manner that Creation was made, human consciences and consciousness historical and archaeological evidence of God's Word being valid history, fulfillment of Bible Prophecies God in His Holiness and Righteousness could give us what we deserve in Hell for our since but He's merciful to give us free will to choose to accept or reject His gift of salvation by grace through faith in His Son Jesus. I don't mean this is any condescending manner but if you'd like to discuss The Scriptures with me or have me listen to your view on anything my instagram account is Savage Christian Kombatant
Back In The Day™, my mom had a saying about women like this: "Looks can get the phone ringing off the hook, but personality keeps the conversation going."
Having dated several women in my life that were supposedly "out of my league," I came to my senses and married a smart and wonderful lady who isn't full of herself. 32 years and counting!
True beauty is found in their personality/character
TikTok has killed off a whole generation of people… we gotta do better
It’s rough out there
Its not just TikTok, its social media in general
@@CourtneyRyanwe still need a face counter in the corner… lol
@@CourtneyRyan You don't mention that women like her who are superficial, materialistic and vain are not able to have a genuine relationship. They will never love or be loved. They are INFERIOR women. They can only be bought or rented as trophies, by similarly vapid men.
I suspect you are similar to her, just not so extreme and obvious. You embrace that "high standards" fallacy. Confidence does not mean ultra ego.
She's not all that good looking either.
Exactly TikTok misinformation about relationships between Men and Women is crazy 😧🤣.
Women need to understand Men first before trying to get Men to do what they want with their money and lives and vice versa for Men. Men can't read minds ladies and neither can anyone else. I understand that physical conditioning and fitness is crucial for healthy living and relationships but so is having reliable family, friends knowledge and awareness of reality. Congratulations on her 700k subscribers 👏🎉.
I really respect Courtney Ryan for at least trying to help Men and Women out in promoting healthy relationships, positive mindsets and growth in individuals 🙏 ❤️. I'm a 24 year old single Christian virgin guy working as a teacher and counselor seeing unhealthy relationships in people occasionally despite being single myself because no sex before marriage. I've been watching Courtney's videos since 2021 so this lady's channel is really helpful especially on TH-cam and social media. This has nothing to do with the video but please listen if you want to otherwise leave it alone and ignore it. Hello my name is Justin and I'm a Christian and Apologist but I'm also a college graduate. I'm not a closed minded Theist as I have nothing against Atheists or unbelievers as I speak to them often to understand their reasons for unbelief but we as Christians are convinced of God's Existence due to many real factors). I'm not trying to convert anyone or convince anyone to become Christians as that's The Holy Spirit's job to help people believe but only explain why I believe in Jesus Christ. There's actually evidence of God's Existence in Christianity. First of all there's proof that Jesus of Nazareth existed in history since the writings of Tacitus, Josephus Flavius, Pliny the younger and other historical documents prove that He was living two thousand years ago that even scholars both religious and Atheists agree with historically speaking but not that He's The Divine Son of God because obviously they don't.
I'm going to give you historical and archeological evidence for God's Existence as The Scriptures have prophecies that predate the events recorded in them by several millennia including Matthew, Hosea and Zechariah which prophesy accurately of the people of Israel becoming a nation again after over 1900 years of being scattered around the nations since the destruction of the Temple in Jerusalem in 70 A.D. spoken of by Christ in Matthew 23:29-24:3 and returning to their homeland after The Holocaust with Jerusalem as their capital in 1948 exactly as Jesus The Christ said. The prophets including Daniel spoke of the time where several world empires would arise and fall including the Babylonian kingdom, Medes and Persians, Roman Empire, and Saladin and the Muslims which went in consecutive order for the past few millennia. The people of Israel becoming a nation after The Holocaust in 1948 (ironically the melting point of gold as God compares Israel to gold that's tested in fire in Zechariah 13:8 and Jeremiah 16:15) exactly how Jesus The Christ said would happen since God us everything to come in The Scriptures and not just because people were working towards as Atheists claim which are impossible for any regular man to predict.
Just before anyone says Christianity is a white man's religion made to oppress blacks during slavery you obviously aren't aware that the first Christians were Jews in The Middle East and that Christianity just like any religion can be used by evil and corrupt people to oppress others but you forget that the first Abolitionists/Civil Rights activists were Christians who sought to abolish slavery, racism, segregation, injustice and prejudice throughout American history. Jesus The Christ loves you enough not to give you what we all deserve which is God's Wrath by His Own Blood. Charles Darwin didn't originally come up with The Theory of Evolution over 200 years ago as it is mentioned in the writings of Ancient Greeks who believed in Demons that gave knowledge to philosophers.
Evolution makes no sense when nothing has evolved after thousands of years of human history and supposedly the first creature came from primordial sludge several millions of years
ago funny how they won't believe that God an Eternal Almighty Spirit Being created us from the Earth) which came from a supermassive expansion of matter at high temperature that inexplicably created everything in the known universe that supposedly came from nothing billions of years ago. How did the organs evolve before there were bones, skin, substance and how did any creatures see before eyes evolved? I've studied evolution and abiogenesis in the past and read Darwin's " Origin of The Species" and I'm not convinced of macro Evolutionary biology whereas I accept micro Evolution like speciation and adaptation but not macro Evolution because there's no evidence of it nor clear observable examples of it where living creatures evolve into other kinds of species plus the fact that fossils don't show evidence of evolution and genetic entropy rules out evolution. The question begs how did two genders evolve from a common ancestor with a perfectly hospitable and sustainable environment with breathable oxygen and resources to survive on inexplicably? Atheists have the burden of proof to explain how everything came to be and why our existence is possible without the Existence of God from an godless perspective just as Christians have to provide evidence of God's Existence and the validity of His Word.
Evolution requires life to already exist in order to take any effect in living organisms so it doesn't account for the existence of Life and reality. Also evolution is impossible because it goes against The Law of entropy and the second Law of thermodynamics because evolution makes things better whereas nothing continues to get better but decays and turns to absolute destruction in the end. Mark Ridley an Evolutionist said "No evolutionist whether gradualist or punctuationist uses the fossil record as evidence in favor of The Theory of Darwinian Evolution as opposed to special Creation". God's Existence is made perfectly known and observable in the universe as demonstrated in His Handiwork in the intelligently designed manner that Creation was made, human consciences and consciousness historical and archaeological evidence of God's Word being valid history, fulfillment of Bible Prophecies God in His Holiness and Righteousness could give us what we deserve in Hell for our since but He's merciful to give us free will to choose to accept or reject His gift of salvation by grace through faith in His Son Jesus. I don't mean this is any condescending manner but if you'd like to discuss The Scriptures with me or have me listen to your view on anything my instagram account is Savage Christian Kombatant
NEWS FLASH LADIES: YOUR YOUNG AND PRETTY LOOKS ARE TEMPORARY AND WILL FADE EXPONENTIALLY AS YOU AGE! Be a beautiful soul... that NEVER goes out of style
Amen!!! 🙏🏾
nope. why grow or improve as a person when you can just shame others into submission instead
“You have a beautiful soul” is THE best compliment anyone could ever get and if you ever hear it in a true sense you’ll never forget it.
I’m 29, 6’6, in shape? And make multiple six figures working fit myself in the trade industry. I can pick up almost any girl at bars but dating girls is a headache. They all talk down to me because I don’t gave a degree or assume I have no money because I work a trade they don’t shut up about their degree and job and look down on all non white collar jobs. I’ve lost count of the amount of times girls have straight up said negative things to me about my job
they are programmed to say these things, how sad -- you can't fix that either
Don't forget humility!
Most men know what comes with a triple threat .
PROBLEMS+++
a triple headache.
Bodies, bodies, bodies
That they could lose the title without being pinned? (:
They don’t need a man, they think their the men, and treat men like tools.
People who are perceived as being very attractive, intelligent, and/or confident also are pre-judged as being high maintenance and not worth approching. Unfortunately, we have all encountered people like this so many times, it is difficult to overcome that bias.
they usually are high maintenance and demanding because they can get away with it
That is absolutely true. You won’t find a 9 or 10 out there that won’t refrain from getting what she wants because she can and she will.
That would be more of a stereotype than a bias, but unfortunately more often than not it does prove to be true
Pretty women will say "men don't approach me because they're intimidated". It's not that. When you date an exceptionally attractive woman you have to deal with other guys constantly sniffing around. Cashiers in shops will chat her up right in front of you. If you're out at a bar and you go to the bathroom, when you come back some guy will be trying to talk to her. It's tiring. And they have infinite options so there's always the chance the right guy will come along and she'll leave you for him. Kinda like a Ferrari, I guess. Nice to look at and spend a day with but would you want the hassle of having one?
That's EXACTLY true. It's fukin annoying
There's also the fact that every woman today is a 10/10 queen who deserves only the best. Any man she's with, she's "settling" and a better deal is always around the corner. The grass is always greener elsewhere. I have no problem attracting women but they are so obnoxious today that I no longer have any interest in them. I don't look at them, I don't talk to them and I'm quite happy. Dating today is depressing.
Facts, well stated. Men will go out camping and boating as an
alternative to or escape from the condo or the property. The latter
being the "more work" some judge may hand over in divorce
settlement. TIME one can't have back. [Note: Ferrari tune-ups were
running $US 2K last time I looked. Pirelli tires for them also around 2K.
Then eventually it's sold to pay the lawyer. I've never had that "need for
speed" feeling.]
I agree 👍. TikTok misinformation about relationships between Men and Women is crazy 😧🤣. Women need to understand Men first before trying to get Men to do what they want with their money and lives and vice versa for Men. Men can't read the minds of ladies and neither can anyone else. I understand that physical conditioning and fitness is crucial for healthy living and relationships but so is having reliable family, friends knowledge and awareness of reality. Congratulations on her 700k subscribers 👏🎉.
I really respect Courtney Ryan for at least trying to help Men and Women out in promoting healthy relationships, positive mindsets and growth in individuals 🙏 ❤️. I'm a 24 year old single Christian virgin guy working as a teacher and counselor seeing unhealthy relationships in people occasionally despite being single myself because no sex before marriage. I've been watching Courtney's videos since 2021 so this lady's channel is really helpful especially on TH-cam and social media. This has nothing to do with the video but please listen if you want to otherwise leave it alone and ignore it. Hello my name is Justin and I'm a Christian and Apologist but I'm also a college graduate. I'm not a closed minded Theist as I have nothing against Atheists or unbelievers as I speak to them often to understand their reasons for unbelief but we as Christians are convinced of God's Existence due to many real factors). I'm not trying to convert anyone or convince anyone to become Christians as that's The Holy Spirit's job to help people believe but only explain why I believe in Jesus Christ. There's actually evidence of God's Existence in Christianity. First of all there's proof that Jesus of Nazareth existed in history since the writings of Tacitus, Josephus Flavius, Pliny the younger and other historical documents prove that He was living two thousand years ago that even scholars both religious and Atheists agree with historically speaking but not that He's The Divine Son of God because obviously they don't.
I'm going to give you historical and archeological evidence for God's Existence as The Scriptures have prophecies that predate the events recorded in them by several millennia including Matthew, Hosea and Zechariah which prophesy accurately of the people of Israel becoming a nation again after over 1900 years of being scattered around the nations since the destruction of the Temple in Jerusalem in 70 A.D. spoken of by Christ in Matthew 23:29-24:3 and returning to their homeland after The Holocaust with Jerusalem as their capital in 1948 exactly as Jesus The Christ said. The prophets including Daniel spoke of the time where several world empires would arise and fall including the Babylonian kingdom, Medes and Persians, Roman Empire, and Saladin and the Muslims which went in consecutive order for the past few millennia. The people of Israel becoming a nation after The Holocaust in 1948 (ironically the melting point of gold as God compares Israel to gold that's tested in fire in Zechariah 13:8 and Jeremiah 16:15) exactly how Jesus The Christ said would happen since God us everything to come in The Scriptures and not just because people were working towards as Atheists claim which are impossible for any regular man to predict.
Just before anyone says Christianity is a white man's religion made to oppress blacks during slavery you obviously aren't aware that the first Christians were Jews in The Middle East and that Christianity just like any religion can be used by evil and corrupt people to oppress others but you forget that the first Abolitionists/Civil Rights activists were Christians who sought to abolish slavery, racism, segregation, injustice and prejudice throughout American history. Jesus The Christ loves you enough not to give you what we all deserve which is God's Wrath by His Own Blood. Charles Darwin didn't originally come up with The Theory of Evolution over 200 years ago as it is mentioned in the writings of Ancient Greeks who believed in Demons that gave knowledge to philosophers.
Evolution makes no sense when nothing has evolved after thousands of years of human history and supposedly the first creature came from primordial sludge several millions of years
ago funny how they won't believe that God an Eternal Almighty Spirit Being created us from the Earth) which came from a supermassive expansion of matter at high temperature that inexplicably created everything in the known universe that supposedly came from nothing billions of years ago. How did the organs evolve before there were bones, skin, substance and how did any creatures see before eyes evolved? I've studied evolution and abiogenesis in the past and read Darwin's " Origin of The Species" and I'm not convinced of macro Evolutionary biology whereas I accept micro Evolution like speciation and adaptation but not macro Evolution because there's no evidence of it nor clear observable examples of it where living creatures evolve into other kinds of species plus the fact that fossils don't show evidence of evolution and genetic entropy rules out evolution. The question begs how did two genders evolve from a common ancestor with a perfectly hospitable and sustainable environment with breathable oxygen and resources to survive on inexplicably? Atheists have the burden of proof to explain how everything came to be and why our existence is possible without the Existence of God from an godless perspective just as Christians have to provide evidence of God's Existence and the validity of His Word.
Evolution requires life to already exist in order to take any effect in living organisms so it doesn't account for the existence of Life and reality. Also evolution is impossible because it goes against The Law of entropy and the second Law of thermodynamics because evolution makes things better whereas nothing continues to get better but decays and turns to absolute destruction in the end. Mark Ridley an Evolutionist said "No evolutionist whether gradualist or punctuationist uses the fossil record as evidence in favor of The Theory of Darwinian Evolution as opposed to special Creation". God's Existence is made perfectly known and observable in the universe as demonstrated in His Handiwork in the intelligently designed manner that Creation was made, human consciences and consciousness historical and archaeological evidence of God's Word being valid history, fulfillment of Bible Prophecies God in His Holiness and Righteousness could give us what we deserve in Hell for our since but He's merciful to give us free will to choose to accept or reject His gift of salvation by grace through faith in His Son Jesus. I don't mean this is any condescending manner but if you'd like to discuss The Scriptures with me or have me listen to your view on anything my instagram account is Savage Christian Kombatant
@@friendnamedfive4526 How's that goon cave life lookin? LOL
Solid L aura you got there.
When I was a young man I wouldn't approach VERY beautiful women for 3 reasons: 1. They already had a lot of guys chasing them. 2. They already had a boyfriend or husband. 3. They would consider me beneath them and reject me immediately. Of course all this was in my head and may not have necessarily been the truth. Because of these thoughts I wouldn't approach.
Reason 3b you’re a dork
I don’t know any very attractive, sweet, nurturing woman that is single that wants to be in a relationship. They have their pick of the litter in men and are always taken.
9s and 10s don’t belong to you they belong to the community.
I do. They don't leave the house often. That's it. That's why they're single
A major issue with today's dating is that several men and women choose not to put in the time to get to know someone; they just want instant results. Modern dating is a difficult, but not unbeatable, numbers game.
True! Instant results is so much pressure.
@@user-cz5lj2vx1f I don't know if I would use the word "pressure", but some people definitely try too hard to impress others; too many judgmental folks these days!
There are plenty of men willing to put in the legwork but they are often seen as "boring, safe, and/or a simp" so most of the time they will be overlooked in favor of someone that just goes for the coitus makes them feel terrible but excited (the butterflies) then leads them on indefinitely because he has a menagerie of options
Too many women chasing too few men
80% of men are invisible.
So I've actually learned through time that perhaps being single all my 49 years of life has been the greatest thing that's ever happened to me. Think about it, no nagging ex, no psycho ex, no alimony, no lost child custody battles, no financial loss and bankruptcy due to divorce, no crazy wife or girlfriend, no crazy in-laws, no girlfriends or wives potentially cheating on you, no kids disrespecting you as a father, and on and on and on.....
You’re assuming all women are crazy and psychos…
No need to work a job you hate.
Very first thing that came into my mind when I heard men being intimidated by her confidence, was that the man probably didn't see someone confident, but someone annoying.
😂
Ha, that's the first thing that popped into my head too, "She's effing annoying!"
Hell, if she was a guy with that kind of personality, I'd say he was a f*****g douchebag 😀
Confusing "confident" with insufferable... that's pretty much it.
I think most of us men also know our limitations. The prettier the woman can sometimes mean higher maintenance. And yes, men are worn down over being rejected or being labeled as "creeps" for simply showing interest in the opposite sex and also knowing that her standards are so high that very few men can meet them so why waste the time in trying?
When you describe yourself as a "triple threat, " you are describing yourself as a threat.
This got me laughing. It is reasonable to run from danger🤣
While I totally understand where she's coming from, what this woman is missing is the attitude that some of these women tend to have. When a woman that has the so-called "triple threat" is aware of it, she tends to be quite condescending and arrogant towards men and it only turns men off because it lacks any true confidence. While there are indeed weak men not secure enough in themselves to date a woman that is pretty, smart, and confident, there are also a lot of men who know that sometimes these types of women have a big head and brag about how great they are instead of just letting it show naturally.
Arrogance is NOT attractive in women--or men!!!
It’s not so much about being intimidated by smart, intelligent, beautiful women, it’s dealing with their condescending attitude.
You hit the nail on the head with rejection fatigue. I've been rejected/ghosted so many times I just feel ugly and I question if I am a creep for approaching.
Nowadays I'm just doing for me and every now and again I see a woman I find attractive, but I no longer take that plunge anymore.
Being in a relationship with a very beautiful attractive woman that men swarm around and constantly tempted and hit up, isn't fun. You gotta watch your back. Even from friends.
Not if she actually likes you you don't. You'll lose friends not her if she actually likes you. Remember, really attractive women who take relationships seriously are used to random ppl constantly trying to get with them & aren't phased by it. They're looking for real same as you
I just don’t want a woman make me feel disposable.
In other words, you want a woman who respects you.
Good luck with that.
I remember watching Katie Couric interviewing TV reality Host Patti Stanger aka The Millionaire Matchmaker. Katie asked her why is it so hard for men to find a woman. And Patti’s response was…”It’s the women that are the problem”. I’ll never forget it.
Love how sound and grounded your perspective is. Preciate you. Keep up the good work 👏🏿👏🏿🤙🏿🤙🏿🤙🏿
I’ve learned that when hearing ladies like that speak on social media, to take what they say with a grain of salt. Everytime the blame is placed on men, it should be understood as projection. Also, I did like what you said about how singleness isn’t a punishment. But sadly, what people don’t always willfully acknowledge is how much being single is seen as being a pariah. I’ve been in church long enough to notice how the older generations treat younger single people as weird for not having someone in their life. Some churches even see a single man who wants to take a position in leadership as a weirdo and single women as a problem. Then young people who are single tend to be quick to leave instead of encouraging their single friends. I think what’s missing is people actually trying to encourage people and be honest about what can be done.
Additionally, the church leaders don't use the networks and experience they have to help the problem. They just keep to their own small in-groups and complain about why butts in seats are declining year over year.
I've dated a super independent woman for 7 years .. she made more money had a higher education... I never cared for or put much thought into her being better than me... it was nice she had her shit together and was beautiful.. but it wasn't the driving force to why I was with her. But.. She had a whole slew of poor qualities that add up over time, the low self-esteem, the insecurities and the depression from her education, and the need to chase money.. and so on and so on.. I had to walk away from that relationship after success went to her head... I still see her every now and then.. and she's still miserable even after all her accomplishments.
Depression from education?
@@alexanderg5386 Modern university education is infused with Marxist ideology (feminism, atheism, trans-genderism, misandry, etc.). Stay in these academic circles long enough (which is what most of these "strong independent women who don't need a man" tend to do) and depression is more or less inevitable.
When a girl saids men are intimidated by her what she’s really saying is that I have a shit personality and even a shitter attitude, I refuse to work on myself because my looks should be all that it takes to attract a man (which is ironic since a man looks is never alone enough for women) but because a guy doesn’t wanna settle for a half relationship it just means he’s intimidated.
😩💯💯💯
I'd like to preface that this is not an attack towards women.
Moreso, it's advice that I genuinely hope is helpful to getting you that safe and loving relationship you dream of.
I think i speak for a majority of men when i say that those 3 traits aren't a deal breaker. (Pretty, Condident & Smart) And it's actually a plus.
What I think a lot of men find to be dealbreakers is:
When they have those 3 traits but they're also blind to the negative traits they have
-Combativeness
-Stubborn
-Vindictive
-Materialistic
-Emotionally immature
-Lack of Self Awareness
-Lack of/low empathy
-Refusal to follow the man or be a team player for fear of being called a "housewife" and shamed by single women
I'm sure there's more but remember women, if you're trying to get a man to love you and commit to you, you have to have the traits THEY are looking for, not the opposites.
Exactly on the money !
Guy here. I'm not sure "confidence" is anywhere in my top 10.
Beautiful. Smart. Humble. That's the triple threat for me. Am I weird?
No, no you are not. Excessive "confidence" is a big turn off. Humility is attractive.
You do want someone with confidence that can be a helpmate with whatever curveballs life throws at you. You probably don’t want someone who behaves like a child and can’t be relied on as a partner. That said, I don’t think that’s what these boss babe types are talking about when they claim to be ‘confident’.
@@theurbancamper5410 seems like a tortured definition of confidence to me, but per your definition, I certainly agree. I want a capable, mature partner for sure!
There may be a hint of truth in this - however, I think the primary reason this happens, is that a lot of men have had numerous bad experiences with "high value women" turning them down, so they feel their effort is way better spent on more average women, who may actually give them a chance. Imo it has very little to do with being intimidated, but way more with using your time on something that has a reasonable chance of actually leading to something.
Sorry that’s not a high value women for men. Men want feminine women. And that’s final. A woman with degrees for me is nice but it’s not what men want. The world has convinced us this is high value but in reality a good feminine and nurturing woman is the most valuable thing any man in the world can have. Men will die and move mountains for that.
I was successful and my ex was successful at her job and everything became a competition. I DONT WANT TO COMPETE. I will take a jobless, ugly feminine women over any beautiful, career driven independent women any day. Been there done that. Now I know.
As a woman who’s single and has a bunch of guys throwing themselves at them, I will say that lots of times guys get intimidated. Most people would say I’m kind and caring. I’m single because I’ve dealt with guys who were intimidated by me even when I accepted them for who they were. These guys were so insecure a relationship could not come out of it. I also dealt with jerks who gave me trust issues. Not only that having so many guys talking to me makes it hard for me to chose someone.
If you put yourself on a pedestal like this, then you're a turn off. What she's missing is what most men want most. Loyalty, kindness, empathy. You can be smart, confident, beautiful and be a complete sociopath. The qualities she mentions are the bare minimum, and she's treating them like they're the ultimate goal. Who wants to date an ugly, stupid, insecure person? No one. Being attractive, competent, and confident is the price of admission, not the trophy. She's gor herself muddled up a bit.
Congrats on 750k subs on youtube Courtney! Crazy how much the channel has grown and how many people you've helped.
Compared to your early videos its clear you've grown as a person as well. You are much better at communicating your thoughts and opinions in a healthy way. Saw your husband hit 1 mil somewhat recently too. Well deserved 👏
You’re so kind, thank you! 🥹
@@CourtneyRyan Love your content Mrs Ryan
From what I've seen in person, a lot of the very attractive women do not get approached in public, but they get a million messages online. The chance of picking up a very attractive women online is very low. Women get so many messages, they aren't going to read all of them.
It's also the high standards the women are looking for. I'm sorry that not all men are 6 feet and make six figures.
There's a difference between high standards and petty standards.
As you mentioned, we can not generalize, but there is a very common reason why this type of women are single, and it's basically this: THEY ARE VERY PROBLEMATIC. High value men will always prefer a more traditional woman who provides peace of mind, loyalty, kindness and love. But a woman who thinks that deserves the whole 🌎 it's a nightmare.
For sure, this sort of video reminds me of the quote "for every pretty single woman, there's a man out there tired of her crap".
@@Tim_G_Bennett same can be said for the 'pity queens'. Lowering your standards can be costly.😢
Subscribed to your channel! Love your wisdom
Good one, Courtenay! Diplomatic and balanced appraisal. Nice work 👍
Women who are never single: 1 Don't play games. 2 Able to regulate their emotions. 3 Enjoyable to be around.
Often time that's the case. TikTok misinformation about relationships between Men and Women is crazy 😧🤣. Women need to understand Men first before trying to get Men to do what they want with their money and lives and vice versa for Men. Men can't read the minds of ladies and neither can anyone else. I understand that physical conditioning and fitness is crucial for healthy living and relationships but so is having reliable family, friends knowledge and awareness of reality. Congratulations on her 700k subscribers 👏🎉.
I really respect Courtney Ryan for at least trying to help Men and Women out in promoting healthy relationships, positive mindsets and growth in individuals 🙏 ❤️. I'm a 24 year old single Christian virgin guy working as a teacher and counselor seeing unhealthy relationships in people occasionally despite being single myself because no sex before marriage. I've been watching Courtney's videos since 2021 so this lady's channel is really helpful especially on TH-cam and social media. This has nothing to do with the video but please listen if you want to otherwise leave it alone and ignore it. Hello my name is Justin and I'm a Christian and Apologist but I'm also a college graduate. I'm not a closed minded Theist as I have nothing against Atheists or unbelievers as I speak to them often to understand their reasons for unbelief but we as Christians are convinced of God's Existence due to many real factors). I'm not trying to convert anyone or convince anyone to become Christians as that's The Holy Spirit's job to help people believe but only explain why I believe in Jesus Christ. There's actually evidence of God's Existence in Christianity. First of all there's proof that Jesus of Nazareth existed in history since the writings of Tacitus, Josephus Flavius, Pliny the younger and other historical documents prove that He was living two thousand years ago that even scholars both religious and Atheists agree with historically speaking but not that He's The Divine Son of God because obviously they don't.
I'm going to give you historical and archeological evidence for God's Existence as The Scriptures have prophecies that predate the events recorded in them by several millennia including Matthew, Hosea and Zechariah which prophesy accurately of the people of Israel becoming a nation again after over 1900 years of being scattered around the nations since the destruction of the Temple in Jerusalem in 70 A.D. spoken of by Christ in Matthew 23:29-24:3 and returning to their homeland after The Holocaust with Jerusalem as their capital in 1948 exactly as Jesus The Christ said. The prophets including Daniel spoke of the time where several world empires would arise and fall including the Babylonian kingdom, Medes and Persians, Roman Empire, and Saladin and the Muslims which went in consecutive order for the past few millennia. The people of Israel becoming a nation after The Holocaust in 1948 (ironically the melting point of gold as God compares Israel to gold that's tested in fire in Zechariah 13:8 and Jeremiah 16:15) exactly how Jesus The Christ said would happen since God us everything to come in The Scriptures and not just because people were working towards as Atheists claim which are impossible for any regular man to predict.
Just before anyone says Christianity is a white man's religion made to oppress blacks during slavery you obviously aren't aware that the first Christians were Jews in The Middle East and that Christianity just like any religion can be used by evil and corrupt people to oppress others but you forget that the first Abolitionists/Civil Rights activists were Christians who sought to abolish slavery, racism, segregation, injustice and prejudice throughout American history. Jesus The Christ loves you enough not to give you what we all deserve which is God's Wrath by His Own Blood. Charles Darwin didn't originally come up with The Theory of Evolution over 200 years ago as it is mentioned in the writings of Ancient Greeks who believed in Demons that gave knowledge to philosophers.
Evolution makes no sense when nothing has evolved after thousands of years of human history and supposedly the first creature came from primordial sludge several millions of years
ago funny how they won't believe that God an Eternal Almighty Spirit Being created us from the Earth) which came from a supermassive expansion of matter at high temperature that inexplicably created everything in the known universe that supposedly came from nothing billions of years ago. How did the organs evolve before there were bones, skin, substance and how did any creatures see before eyes evolved? I've studied evolution and abiogenesis in the past and read Darwin's " Origin of The Species" and I'm not convinced of macro Evolutionary biology whereas I accept micro Evolution like speciation and adaptation but not macro Evolution because there's no evidence of it nor clear observable examples of it where living creatures evolve into other kinds of species plus the fact that fossils don't show evidence of evolution and genetic entropy rules out evolution. The question begs how did two genders evolve from a common ancestor with a perfectly hospitable and sustainable environment with breathable oxygen and resources to survive on inexplicably? Atheists have the burden of proof to explain how everything came to be and why our existence is possible without the Existence of God from an godless perspective just as Christians have to provide evidence of God's Existence and the validity of His Word.
Evolution requires life to already exist in order to take any effect in living organisms so it doesn't account for the existence of Life and reality. Also evolution is impossible because it goes against The Law of entropy and the second Law of thermodynamics because evolution makes things better whereas nothing continues to get better but decays and turns to absolute destruction in the end. Mark Ridley an Evolutionist said "No evolutionist whether gradualist or punctuationist uses the fossil record as evidence in favor of The Theory of Darwinian Evolution as opposed to special Creation". God's Existence is made perfectly known and observable in the universe as demonstrated in His Handiwork in the intelligently designed manner that Creation was made, human consciences and consciousness historical and archaeological evidence of God's Word being valid history, fulfillment of Bible Prophecies God in His Holiness and Righteousness could give us what we deserve in Hell for our since but He's merciful to give us free will to choose to accept or reject His gift of salvation by grace through faith in His Son Jesus. I don't mean this is any condescending manner but if you'd like to discuss The Scriptures with me or have me listen to your view on anything my instagram account is Savage Christian Kombatant
and don't post on tiktok
@@PatrickGsASMR I second this one! 😃😃🥰
Don't gaslight
Attractive women have the mentality of "if shit goes sideways in a relationship, i'll just pick another one of the 200+ guys in my DM"
That's the guys fault for not regulating her social media or telling her to shut them down.
Good insight, Courtney. Nuance is in extremely short supply with virtually any topic.
Courtney I don't even necessarily need most of your dating advice but I'm subscribed and keep up with your content just to hear some sort of sensibility on the internet. It's refreshing. Never change
A woman’s looks catches my attention. Her personality, character, and intelligence KEEPS my attention.
Men don’t find these women intimidating. The men just find them damned annoying.
Young men are avoiding college because it is expensive, no guarantee of finding a good job, and the environment there is extremely anti-male. DEI..
I have college degrees in 3 different fields.
It seems like she and so many others focus on the people they don’t want to date instead of look into why those who are confident and not intimidated don’t want to date you.
No such thing as “out of your league “ for a confident man. Also..you hit a great point about accountability. I erased what I typed before..you are correct let’s help not harm each other.
This is one of your best talks. All your words are thoughtful, but there are soooo many labels!
I believe one of the best ways to not be single, is to love marriage as much as a person loves their partner. And if someone does not want to get married, but be in a relationship, they should see a future with the person they are dating where their love can grow through compatibility.
If she'd said intelligent, healthy and happy or something similar I'd be all behind it. The confident portion carries far too many negative connotations these days.
Might be a problem with me though, I apparently make the more scarred women feel safe. That's good of course, but I've already tried several times with them and it doesn't turn out well.
Courtney is the big sister I never knew I needed, lol. Always look forward to the next video. Great insight, as always.
Accountability ftw!! 🙌🏽 ❤ I appreciate this msg, it's something I've been focused on a lot lately.... but what can someone do to become more self-aware to take more accountability without some external feedback? 🤔
Being single isn't a punishment, but long term singleness, or what I call "chronic singleness" really is or feels like it. Specially considering some of us have no desire to be single any longer.
Hi Courtney! Hitting 'like' right away was a no-brainer because your dedication to creating meaningful content is truly inspiring. Your videos have become a part of my weekly routine because they offer so much more than just information. Keep up the fantastic work, and know that your efforts are deeply appreciated!❤️
Oh my goodness you are so kind! Thanks for being here 🤍
Same here g 👊. TikTok misinformation about relationships between Men and Women is crazy 😧🤣. Women need to understand Men first before trying to get Men to do what they want with their money and lives and vice versa for Men. Men can't read the minds of ladies and neither can anyone else. I understand that physical conditioning and fitness is crucial for healthy living and relationships but so is having reliable family, friends knowledge and awareness of reality. Congratulations on her 700k subscribers 👏🎉.
I really respect Courtney Ryan for at least trying to help Men and Women out in promoting healthy relationships, positive mindsets and growth in individuals 🙏 ❤️. I'm a 24 year old single Christian virgin guy working as a teacher and counselor seeing unhealthy relationships in people occasionally despite being single myself because no sex before marriage. I've been watching Courtney's videos since 2021 so this lady's channel is really helpful especially on TH-cam and social media. This has nothing to do with the video but please listen if you want to otherwise leave it alone and ignore it. Hello my name is Justin and I'm a Christian and Apologist but I'm also a college graduate. I'm not a closed minded Theist as I have nothing against Atheists or unbelievers as I speak to them often to understand their reasons for unbelief but we as Christians are convinced of God's Existence due to many real factors). I'm not trying to convert anyone or convince anyone to become Christians as that's The Holy Spirit's job to help people believe but only explain why I believe in Jesus Christ. There's actually evidence of God's Existence in Christianity. First of all there's proof that Jesus of Nazareth existed in history since the writings of Tacitus, Josephus Flavius, Pliny the younger and other historical documents prove that He was living two thousand years ago that even scholars both religious and Atheists agree with historically speaking but not that He's The Divine Son of God because obviously they don't.
I'm going to give you historical and archeological evidence for God's Existence as The Scriptures have prophecies that predate the events recorded in them by several millennia including Matthew, Hosea and Zechariah which prophesy accurately of the people of Israel becoming a nation again after over 1900 years of being scattered around the nations since the destruction of the Temple in Jerusalem in 70 A.D. spoken of by Christ in Matthew 23:29-24:3 and returning to their homeland after The Holocaust with Jerusalem as their capital in 1948 exactly as Jesus The Christ said. The prophets including Daniel spoke of the time where several world empires would arise and fall including the Babylonian kingdom, Medes and Persians, Roman Empire, and Saladin and the Muslims which went in consecutive order for the past few millennia. The people of Israel becoming a nation after The Holocaust in 1948 (ironically the melting point of gold as God compares Israel to gold that's tested in fire in Zechariah 13:8 and Jeremiah 16:15) exactly how Jesus The Christ said would happen since God us everything to come in The Scriptures and not just because people were working towards as Atheists claim which are impossible for any regular man to predict.
Just before anyone says Christianity is a white man's religion made to oppress blacks during slavery you obviously aren't aware that the first Christians were Jews in The Middle East and that Christianity just like any religion can be used by evil and corrupt people to oppress others but you forget that the first Abolitionists/Civil Rights activists were Christians who sought to abolish slavery, racism, segregation, injustice and prejudice throughout American history. Jesus The Christ loves you enough not to give you what we all deserve which is God's Wrath by His Own Blood. Charles Darwin didn't originally come up with The Theory of Evolution over 200 years ago as it is mentioned in the writings of Ancient Greeks who believed in Demons that gave knowledge to philosophers.
Evolution makes no sense when nothing has evolved after thousands of years of human history and supposedly the first creature came from primordial sludge several millions of years
ago funny how they won't believe that God an Eternal Almighty Spirit Being created us from the Earth) which came from a supermassive expansion of matter at high temperature that inexplicably created everything in the known universe that supposedly came from nothing billions of years ago. How did the organs evolve before there were bones, skin, substance and how did any creatures see before eyes evolved? I've studied evolution and abiogenesis in the past and read Darwin's " Origin of The Species" and I'm not convinced of macro Evolutionary biology whereas I accept micro Evolution like speciation and adaptation but not macro Evolution because there's no evidence of it nor clear observable examples of it where living creatures evolve into other kinds of species plus the fact that fossils don't show evidence of evolution and genetic entropy rules out evolution. The question begs how did two genders evolve from a common ancestor with a perfectly hospitable and sustainable environment with breathable oxygen and resources to survive on inexplicably? Atheists have the burden of proof to explain how everything came to be and why our existence is possible without the Existence of God from an godless perspective just as Christians have to provide evidence of God's Existence and the validity of His Word.
Evolution requires life to already exist in order to take any effect in living organisms so it doesn't account for the existence of Life and reality. Also evolution is impossible because it goes against The Law of entropy and the second Law of thermodynamics because evolution makes things better whereas nothing continues to get better but decays and turns to absolute destruction in the end. Mark Ridley an Evolutionist said "No evolutionist whether gradualist or punctuationist uses the fossil record as evidence in favor of The Theory of Darwinian Evolution as opposed to special Creation". God's Existence is made perfectly known and observable in the universe as demonstrated in His Handiwork in the intelligently designed manner that Creation was made, human consciences and consciousness historical and archaeological evidence of God's Word being valid history, fulfillment of Bible Prophecies God in His Holiness and Righteousness could give us what we deserve in Hell for our since but He's merciful to give us free will to choose to accept or reject His gift of salvation by grace through faith in His Son Jesus. I don't mean this is any condescending manner but if you'd like to discuss The Scriptures with me or have me listen to your view on anything my instagram account is Savage Christian Kombatant
A person can count themselves lucky/blessed if love is given the chance to overcome all the “challenges” that relationships bring.
On paper my wife has Nooooooo business with me…luckily life isn’t simply a list of labels we and others put on us.
Really enjoying your content,you have a very real perspective.
I think some people view a relationship as some sort of reward, a prize they deserve because they put in effort to something to improve themselves. A relationship, just like life itself, isn't a goal, it's a journey. Even once you get into a relationship, there is a lot of work that goes into maintaining one especially a healthy one. Not to mention, like with most things, people always seem to discredit that there is a bit of luck involved and that includes finding that right person.
Arrogance is not a virtue.
A beautiful heart and a beautiful mind are absolute deal-breakers for me and it’s very rare to encounter those today. Personality, character and being a lady. Unfortunately, the majority of North American millennials and Gen Z women are bereft of these qualities and have absolutely no idea what being a lady means and they seem even less interested in becoming one.
their mothers failed them
When I first watched your videos in the past, I thought it was very nuanced to a female's perspective but over time I realised you gave a very unbiased explanation to the difficulties faced by both gender roles; be it a by-product of their circumstances or environment etc. Well said!
You are very wise and not alot of people are like that, i had a horrible experience approaching girls in the past because the problem i have is im autistic and so my communication and social ques are really poor and I don't make eye contact and I want to meet someone in school and Im not that picky when it comes to looks because i know if someone is average and there something about them that makes them super attractive they go up there around 8 or 9 and i had approach anxiety of the fear of Being creepy and stuff and don't take any risk and that is why im single but when i got tired of it i tried to approach girls in campus and i wasn't doing the best job at it and someone thought i was being weird and they called the cops and they hand cuffed me and i was humiliated in front of everyone and i was thinking about not approaching anymore but i dont want to be old and still be single so i know everyone is different and i will still try to get better and so listening to people like you gives me confidence that i could still find someone beautiful out there and take more risks.
What is called a man being "insecure" is really just the cost/benefit analysis coming out high cost, low benefit. Smart, beautiful and confident are excellent traits for a dinner party guest. And a fine escort for a social event. But really, what's she likely like at home?
Imagine having a mask made up of a ton of Make-up and thinking that mask makes you look pretty
Thank you for your insightful analysis.
Your content occasionally pops up in my recommended videos, and your opinions always come across well-thought-out.
I hope this random positive comment helps cancel out a negative comment.
You’re so kind, thank you 🥹
You are awesome, Courtney. In my opinion, you are 100% right about everything. Keep it up what you are talking about here. Your most greatest and deeply inspired fan, Jim Reeve. 😃🙏👍
In my opinion, the standards are often too high across the board between men and women, in part due to the influence of social media, porn, etc. there's a great book that Aziz Ansari did with a sociologist called Modern Romance, breaking down these issues, and in it they talk about how just a few decades ago the majority of marriages were people who lived within a few miles of each other, and Ansari's own parents were an arranged marriage, his dad has 3 women to choose from and talked to each of them for 15 minutes. Arranged marriages are obviously not ideal, but I think it illustrates the point of how high modern standards are and more so the wrong standards, men and women are dissecting every small detail of their partner down to their height, salary, physique, waist line, body count, social media presence and followers, and we flag every little thing each other says as green and red while wondering why there are more single men and women than ever recorded. we need to stop living in fairytales and ideas of finding "the one", as if on a planet of 8 billion theres only one person who could possibly meet your standards to be mr/mrs perfect. theres probably at least 100 million people that anyone of us could have a successful, happy long term relationship with if we would just open our eyes, but in stead we stare at our screens, all our lives. what a waste of eyes. we post tik toks about dating and gossip. what a waste of lips.
Congrats Courtney and Teddy on your upcoming 1st and thank you Courtney for all the helpful advice!
Thank you so so much 🥹🤍
Bravo Courtney 👏🏾👍🏾👏🏾👏🏾 . Well shared. Attraction is a choice and in the eye of the beholder.
Courtney you’ve hit the nail on the head!! I see a ton of reels where women want a man who is at least 5’10 or 6’ and makes X insane income.
I’m 5’6”, athletic (gym 5-6x per week), active lifestyle and work in medical sales making +150k on a bad year. I’m ruled out for my height by most of these “beautiful women” and know a lot of guys that are taller that want a woman 5’2” or shorter. I love a confident woman, but she needs to fit my active lifestyle and be career driven too. A lot of these girls aren’t getting up at 4am with me to fit my life.
Everyone needs to accept they’re going to have to give a little on their “demands” if they want to find someone. I dated a woman that was 6’2” briefly because she didn’t care about dating someone shorter, and she wore heels on dates. I am very happy to have found someone in the world of picky women out there, but the standards some of these women expect are drastically limiting their pool. They are leaving themselves with a small pool of men, who likely have ruled them out too because they can be picky too. I hate to say, the tall wealthy men in their 30s are picking up younger women in their 20s ladies! One of my coworkers in his mid 40s married a girl in her early 30s so he could have a family
I have never met a woman who says, "I'm single because men are intimidated by me" that I wanted to do anything with. No, dear, that is NOT the reason.
I threw in the towel a long time ago. I'm at the point in my life now where women are staring at me in public and I don't even give them a second look. The juice is not worth the squeeze.
Thank you for making this video. You already had my follow. This just confirmed I made the right decision 😄
I've been rejected online and in person many times. It can get tiring but never take it to heart. The harder part is when you've been rejected by a woman who you really liked and had something going with you. That's when it get fatiguing and you want to take some personal time off.
There is an old saying..."Sleep with 9s and 10s, marry 7s and 8s". While you shouldn't evaluate people based solely on looks, the reality is when you meet an extremely attractive woman who is single and in her 30s, there's a good chance that she's high-maintenance and not a great partner. Does that mean it's true of all very attractive women? Of course not...but it's something to keep in mind, that women who are very attractive and see themselves as very attractive, but who have problems finding a long-term relationship, are often in that situation because they believe they can always do better and will be more likely to move in if a relationship isn't perfect and something they think might be better comes along. Many men have the same problem, but men are also more likely to "marry down" than women are if they find a relationship that is comfortable for them rather than ideal.
The 9s & 10s with great personalities do tend to marry young, and stay married!
Well, describing themselves as a "triple threat" is a red flag. Because when a man have those 3 attributes (handsome, intelligent, confident) he is very good attracting partners and he can choose easily how to attract women, they don't consider themselves a "triple threat" or something similar.
The woman in the tiktok looks like she haven't considered that she has the freedom tho choose how to attract men, and that freedom includes being the active member in initiating the relationship, like she still thinks he needs to passively wait for a perfect man and because that men hasn't fall in front of her, she thinks is because of the "triple threat".
Hello again, Courtney.
One thing you said reverberated with me. You said something to the effect that some men avoid approaching women because they don’t want to be part of the problem. That’s exactly the way I feel about approaching women most of the time. I’m not approaching them for romance anymore, but trying to interact as a friend and colleague in my daily life. Sometimes, I just smile and greet them warmly.
Honestly, my circle of friends is tight anyway, and I think I prefer it that way. I’m an older man now, but I wish I had felt this way when I was younger. It would have saved me a lot of grief.
The truth is that our best prospects for meaningful relationships exist within a small circle of contacts. We should do everything we can to make them feel special, and avoid making them feel cheap. On the other hand, mutual love strikes when we least expect it. Just don’t expect it to come when you think it should. Let it surprise you.
Have you ever done a collaboration with Teddy? I’d love to hear his take on some of these subjects! When I started collecting watches, I subscribed to so many watch channels. Now I follow just a handful, but teddy’s is my favorite. Same goes for “men advice channels” and your channel stuck. Both of you offer the most honest perspective on each respectable subject, although their very different subjects. Awesome job 👌
Courtney is nailing this one. The issue is more so the women than the men, and I'm saying this as a woman, albeit a lesbian. My experience with dancing around/approaching women is they have gotten extremely picky and are having trouble finding people who meet all of their standards as women are excelling more with women's rights improvements. There will always be guys who are running after women who are "out of their league," and sometimes we see women with men whom we wonder how in the hell he got her.
Men can be attractive for a variety of reasons that include but are not limited to just looks. However looks is the primary reason men are attracted to women. Hence why so many men appear to be dating women "out of their league."
@@realistrick If men can be attractive for a variety of reasons, why do women only go after the top tier of men? I think what you mean is men need a variety of reasons to be attractive. If he doesn't meet a certain threshold from a variety of checkbox categories, he is invisible.
Most men are attracted to most women. Men try to get relationships from a wide spectrum of women: from those out of their league below themselves all the way to those out of their league above themselves. Women just see and remember the hits and don't register or flat out forget the misses. Confirmation bias is real!
@@pace1195 Richard Cooper's "435 Bullet Points" List.
@@pace1195 I'm not talking about tinder bro. Yes, on an app based solely on appearance, only the topmost guys get chosen. But in real world encounters which are still quite common, you see guys with a variety of phenotypes score hot girls.
@@troyberg6248 watch what women actually do, not what they say
If she’s pretty or average looking, a man can still get a yes or no when he ask her out. What does it matter if she’s pretty or not
Great job. I only know my experience. When I hear women I have dated about intimidating men about their career or looks it always has more to do with ‘em feeling superior and thinking the guy feels inferior. We don’t we figure them out and take what need and leave what we don’t
Excellent comments by Courtney, I agree 100%
This woman is single cuz she's on tiktok lol. Nuff said
My response to the woman in the video is that she is correct, but if a girl is unattractive, not smart and lacks confidence she will most definitely have difficulty with dating. People have to realize that dating is difficult for everyone..
Not true statistically. It has been shown even the worst women on dating apps will still get at least 5x the number of messages as the top men.
@@pace1195 "dating apps" are not for dating. It's a system designed to pander to women while the same system aims to take as much $ from the men as possible. How is it not bs that average guys on there literally have to pay for "premium" features to get "more" matches? Have you heard of the study that women find more than 80% of the men unattractive? They all go for the top 10% of men that are genetically gifted in areas they care about, even the very delusional ones that are not even qualified to be with those men.
Thanks again for always telling it like it is.
It’s true. You can be beautiful, smart, confident and hard to get along with. Great point.
She insults almost everyone except her circle of friends. She feels entitled. She insults the men, and then she insults the women who date these "high-value men" because her friends are unable to find one of their preferred preferences. She insults the men high value men themselves for being insecure because they are not dating her friends. She insults people who may disagree with her as "insecure" because she knows there is going to be a blowback from her comments. With this kind of entitlement, they deserve to be single!
The problems of the dating market always comes back to the same root cause: almost all of the single women want the same 10-20% of the men. The men at the top get all of the female attention, so where does that leave the top women? Ignored. Because the top men are too busy rotating. Once again, the solution would be for women to broaden their scope, and stop ignoring every man who doesn't look like a model.
I've been rejected long enough to the point where the last time I got rejected, I felt sad as usual yet numb at the same time and for the first time. If anything, I am proud of myself that I had the courage to ask her out in person.
It’s not often I comment on your videos Courtney as I’m an older dad (48). I have a younger son who is 26 and he’s been in a relationship for 6 years.
I think there are two issues here. One is timeless, girls will often go out in groups for safety and rightly so, the problem with this is it’s terrifying to approach a girl anyway but to add in a group immediately terrifies people and keeps anyone from approaching
Additionally a lot of people used to meet in work (it’s where you spend a lot of your life after all) but now HR and law have left this so nuanced it puts people of both sexes off asking colleagues out (especially if that person male or female is a senior).
This doesn’t leave them a lot of scope to actually meet people.
I met my wife at a social club 22 years ago where we had a shared interest so my advice for both sexes would be forget work, look at your hobbies and anything you may do fitness wise and see if you can join something. Additionally go to events that colleagues or family invite you to. You never know.